“Why are people so nasty?” - Cognitive Distortions Analysis

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 36

  • @matc6221
    @matc6221 Місяць тому +7

    I always appreciate Francescas valuable advice. Although I worked with some truly horrible toxic people and also out of work.

  • @maaziswatching
    @maaziswatching Місяць тому +1

    thank you ❤ your content must be appreciated very great work keep on going ❤

  • @chukwumagrantis1655
    @chukwumagrantis1655 Місяць тому +1

    Great video, I learned a lot ❤️

  • @K432k
    @K432k 20 днів тому

    Thanks!

  • @bola_geo
    @bola_geo Місяць тому

    Totally right

  • @dontwitty1656
    @dontwitty1656 Місяць тому +2

    We've evolved past the social animal phase. Currently very few, I feel, don't know, how to start a conversation, let alone be present in it. The modern day minstrel Michael David Rosenberg, (Passenger) seems to sum it up nicely -- we've all have new Iphones, but no one to call

  • @rafatjaved5126
    @rafatjaved5126 Місяць тому

    You are wonderful. How to ask a question from you?

  • @shawscovel8800
    @shawscovel8800 Місяць тому +1

    Hi Francesca. Thank you for the interpretation. I think you are wonderful. Do you think Astrology will help me?

    • @MermanManly
      @MermanManly Місяць тому +1

      No. Astrology is not science, and the movements of the stars & planets have absolutely nothing to do with your life, unless you're talking about the gravitational effect of the moon on water in the ocean (i.e. tides). Do not look to fairies in the sky to solve your emotional problems. Read books, watch videos, get therapy. Practical solutions.

  • @thilinasampath705
    @thilinasampath705 Місяць тому

    love you too

  • @K432k
    @K432k 20 днів тому

    4:38 , Abuja, Nigeria

  • @qu3enk187
    @qu3enk187 Місяць тому +1

    How do you address this with a client who may be resistant to you telling them this? How can you motivate them to do as you said?

    • @krystle8534
      @krystle8534 Місяць тому

      If someone is in enough pain, they will not listen to "logic" until the pain is resolved.

  • @YoucefYoucef-kd8om
    @YoucefYoucef-kd8om Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @EXOistheStandard
    @EXOistheStandard Місяць тому

    Obviously not every human is bad. Most of the teachers and people in authority are bad. Today my teacher called me an idiot for really nothing. I am someone who behaves very nicely, i talked to him so politely and he called me idiot. And i have cried so much. I just want god to punish him on my behalf. I don't deserve it. I just wanna die.

  • @djkadlubek-sp2lq
    @djkadlubek-sp2lq Місяць тому

    What country is Francesca from?

    • @djkadlubek-sp2lq
      @djkadlubek-sp2lq Місяць тому +1

      She has interesting accent...

    • @user-qo3mk1ck7h
      @user-qo3mk1ck7h Місяць тому

      Sounds Russian.

    • @djkadlubek-sp2lq
      @djkadlubek-sp2lq Місяць тому +1

      @@user-qo3mk1ck7h do You think so? I wouldnt say she is from Russia

    • @user-qo3mk1ck7h
      @user-qo3mk1ck7h Місяць тому

      @@djkadlubek-sp2lq My other thought was Romanian. 🤷🏼‍♀

    • @andreag.6839
      @andreag.6839 Місяць тому

      She is Romanian 🇷🇴

  • @user-pe4gm5yf3p
    @user-pe4gm5yf3p Місяць тому +1

    I thought you were so real and amazing till I saw this video..I'm not sure where your from nor really care to look it up any more, but if you lived where I live you would be saying completely different things then the bullshit I just heard from you. It makes me question whether you travel a lot or if when your out or on trips you truly open your eyes and see what's been going on or maybe you just don't see much because your to busy looking at your phone or pics and videos of yourself cause let's face it you spend a good amount of time doing theses videos so your always looking at your self or at least the version of you that gets all ready to show the world..is that the real you we see or just another fake person. It almost is funny the whole evidence thing ..... I have plenty that makes me understand so much except for the horrible comments I just said about you which I have no clue is true and don't even want to be saying but yet here this post is ....hummm ...I'm sure your an amazing person and help others and do good things for many people and there are parts in this video I agree upon with how we're just wired to help I hope that's stays stronger in days to come

  • @notarandomperson778
    @notarandomperson778 4 дні тому

    "most peoples' intentions aren't malicious and they come from a good place" i'm sorry but fuck this mindset. try going through bullying, rejection and ostracization your entire life. try sticking out like a sore thumb from other people and see if humans are truly so inherently good. yes, i am generalizing and i don't give a shit. my life has given me enough experience and evidence over and over for me to see for myself, this doesn't need to come from some unresolved childhood trauma.
    people don't realize how unreliable empathy is. it's something that you're not inherently born with, but what's instilled in you from a young age, and the truth is, while most people aren't sociopaths, they just weren't taught proper empathy. i am so sorry but fuck this.

  • @yazandepp
    @yazandepp Місяць тому +4

    The purpose of existence is to worship the all mighty ALLAH. May ALLAH guide you all to the right path.

    • @y.a.4464
      @y.a.4464 Місяць тому +4

      Why would god have such a big ego that he needs to be praised? Wouldn’t it be messed up to create someone just to have them worship you?

    • @kevinortiz2097
      @kevinortiz2097 Місяць тому +1

      ​@@y.a.4464God didn't create us to worship him, but we have the beed to be grateful. The majesty of God would be the same even if we didn't worship him. We worship god because is good to us, not to Him. Praise be the Lord!

    • @yazandepp
      @yazandepp Місяць тому

      @@y.a.4464 this is not about ego not even close. To worship a God is a choice, you are absolutely have the free will either to worship God or not. And you will have to deal with consequence of your choices. When ever you get the message. And once again it's not about ego which can be too, but we need to worship God. Like you need to drink water.

    • @yazandepp
      @yazandepp Місяць тому +1

      @@kevinortiz2097 basically you said the same thing here.

    • @yazandepp
      @yazandepp Місяць тому

      @@kevinortiz2097 but if you didn't worship him you are not grateful like you said, so you need a reality check.

  • @MermanManly
    @MermanManly Місяць тому +2

    Please, please, get a better microphone 🙏🏻 The sss sss is killing my ears.