I really feel so bad for this poor woman and she is on lockdown with this monster as he continues too be verbally/physically abusive. This is such a good short film because honestly a lot of women/men went through this on the covid lockdown what a shame.
Its eye opening film..once an abuser always an abuser..they never change..its just they pretend to be good just to control over you so that u don't leave them but as per their character they r not able to pretend for many days..their true nature comes out once they r triggered anyhow...they r more dangerous than corona virus i must say..they r absolutely like this untill they die...
I Live in Australia and I could see parts of myself as how it just gets worse. This clearly shows a case where violence dosn't win and an innocent unborn life never got to live. Last night my one just becomes more violent. Sometimes I wonder if I will survive. He blames it on lockdown. Even though it's over now it's impacted us all. But after being hurt again last night I felt angry , I mean more angry than usual saying in my mind " No More". I have fortunatly a apartment I am moving into and it's hard because I know when I'm in my new apartment , he will not be. This is so hard desicion to make but I'm so Physically and emotionally exhausted I just need to know what I want . Not what he wants. Thank you so much for bringing this to awareness in it's true form. xx
So much I want to say to you, but let's start with this; if you are wondering wether you'll survive you're in real danger. Leaving is the right decision. No excuse can justify verbal and/or physical abuse of your partner, I repeat, there's NO valid excuse. If you haven't already, talk to people close to you, family, friends, whoever you think will believe and support you. Tell them what's going on, ask for help. Seek help from professionals also, whatever help is available to you, health care professionals, social services, non profit organisations etc. I don't know how these things are organised in Australia so unfortunately I can't help you with that. You will need support to stand firm in your decision (because he will most likely try to get you back. He will make promises and probably threats if promises doesn't work and you need to resist, and that's hard on your own) and you need help to make sure you're safe when you're leaving. Please take care of yourself. Because things don't get better with time in abusive relatonships and more often they get worse.
A month has passed since you posted and I hope your life is going wonderful now, but if not, hang in there until you get out. While I was going through the process of planning to end my relationship I used to say that even my Soul is exhausted from the whole thing and it really was... the process of leaving is the hardest part of the entire relationship and for me it took multiple attempts, but once it's over Life can begin again so it's well worth it.. it's a true labor of self love. I pray for the Victims worldwide every single night and I will say an extra word for you tonight.
This deserves a standing ovation & I can see why it won all of those awards listed above. We know that there was a big increase in reported DV cases during lockdown but just think of the unreported incidents, there had to be a massive increase in attacks and I know it caused a an increase in incidents where there was loss of life. Thank you for making an impact.. this movie could likely inspire Victims to leave and therefore could potentially save lives.
I watched my mother and sister go through this for years. Whether you are male or female, once out...seek therapy. Focus on getting yourself well or you could end up like they did. Seemed destined to get in same situation time and again just with different names of the men. Something was broken in them. They never gave themselves the chance to heal from it all. You have to love, respect and have boundaries for yourself first. Great vid. I pray it helps someone to see before they have to go this far.
Getting pregnant wasn't my choice. During pregnancy I was terrified that he would do something and I would lose another baby. I had a lot of miscarriage's before... I gave birth about two months before Covid happened. I had SARS before that. Despite his warnings that I was not to go outside or that I wasn't allowed to visit friends for fear of getting sick and hurting the baby he would constantly have people over. I had complications giving birth and they wanted to keep me longer but it had been almost a week and he wanted me home. He threatened to take the baby home without me. My life was a horrid nightmare. I left with our child when she was a year old but the abuse didn't stop. I still deal with him pushed by a uncaring justice system that believes that two parents are better than one in any given situation. No, he doesn't pay child support and the last time he had visitation was Christmas, I only speak to him via written media. But this doesn't deter him. He still insults me, still screams at me that I "stole her," still calls me a terrible and pathetic person... People scream at you to leave and when you finally do you think you're free. You're not. Sure, it's better but it's not freedom. Thank you for this project.
@@_Peony24 of course it is. However, I think you missed my point a bit... I was mainly pointing out that it doesn't stop after you leave. In fact, in most cases it gets worse for a time. Right after you leave is the most dangerous time...
Congratulations, Mariana you are a very good teacher and a very good actress also. I would like to see more short movies forthcoming in your channel. Thank you very much for being so committed to teaching English with all your followers and everybody in general, making all this content so good. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Excellent video and very sad at the same time. I remember when my ex tried to kill me. It was so scary and very painful. I wasn't in a good place in my life & mind. My 14-year-old daughter had just been shot and I got with a bad abuser! At that point in my life I didn't even care. I'm happy that those times in my life are over.
Omg, I’m so sorry for what happened to you and your daughter. I hope your daughter and you are in a better place now. Sending you a big warm hug! Mariana
As you always say "Good job!". I didn't know that you were an actress too, congrats!!!!!! BTW check subtitles on minute 23:54, it reads "fifteen ears of my life" instead of "fifteen years...". More short movies will be welcome. Regards.
Civil rights aren't above our lives, lockdown saved lives but for many people their lives were bad and dangerous but as you see these people lived with them before lockdown,it was their choices to live in a toxic marriage and relationship. You can't help them because they're not ready to ask for help!!! In lockdown i had a wonderful time with my boyfriend and my adult son,i worked from my house and i enjoyed many things my free time in my house, music, books and plenty conversations with my family, good food and social media not at all. My life works for the better after lockdown and i follow my dreams after that,life is so short!!!
The amount of victim blaming in the comments is gross and very telling on the ppl making those statements. You wouldn't last a day in this woman's shoes.
Very sad and true story. For both of them. He was very sick and she thought that could be something they can work on. She loved him very much. And i think that he didnt wanted to hurt her. Anger issues are very complicated to heal without any kind of pschiquiatric and emotion work with doctors and of course, friends and family if they exist. I think i would left him the first time he beat me. But we are all different and we believe un different things.
What a tragedy she lost the baby . This will affect her in later in life. This man had a bad childhood that needed help. Women are not slaves or objects . They are stronger then men. Thry can live a happy life without them.
Que trabajo tan bien hecho , lamentablemente una realidad y laberinto para muchas personas con o sin lockdown muy duro pero realmente un trabajo excelente el que hicieron
Muchísimas gracias, Liliana! Sí, es un problema mundial del que no se habla suficiente. Muchas gracias por tomarte el tiempo de ver la película. I really appreciate it. 😊🙏
No excuses for him however at the point where he was drunk and angry I would have said nothing at all. I would have let him rant and backed off. He didn’t want to know how she was going to support them both.
@@dawncraig3340 It's not about victim blaming but self defense. If you have to protect yourself, you learn to know the triggers, so there's no point talking to an enraged man as he will beat her. Better to lock yourself in a room and wait until he calms down. Avoid contact as much as possible, until you get out of this situation. It's common sense really, nothing to do with blaming them.
@@gloriabartolome3123 it's totally victim blaming. Saying she should have done XY or Z is saying she did something wrong. She didn't. She tried to de-escalate the situation. She tried to calm him down. ALL of this is on him and there isn't a "should have" for her, full stop.
@@gloriabartolome3123 you're not wrong. After a period of time you learn the danger signals and when you have to sit quietly and let them vent versus staying the hell out of their line of sight until it's over. It sucks and we shouldn't have to live like that but it's self preservation.
@@marcellemccalla6325it more than sucks and yes I did this for 13 years. But saying she should have done this or that is in fact victim blaming. He should not be a monster. Period.
And honestly you hardly ever notice the first red flag when it happens. In hindsight you absolutely know when that first one happened but you're usually several flags in before you know something is very wrong.
I grew up in a domestic abuse situation with my older sister. Abuse knows no boundaries, it doesn't discrimate to gender, age or race....for many abuser it is a learned behavior from their parents. In my case it was rooted in jealousy and evil. My sister would humiliated, insult me physically, mentally, and emotionally. My father died when I was 5, my sister was 8, my mother was a very petite christian woman who really wasnt strong enough to deal properly with my sister, this was back in the 60-70's...there were not many options as there are today. Abuser/oppressers start their manipulation very early in a relationship to get their victims to conform. Its called grooming, gaslight. I am actually surprised that this man took his own life because many are not that self aware or care that they are at fault. I was trauma bonded to my sister and my own value system kept me tied to her for a very long time. I too am alot like this woman, believing there is good in people. That things no matter how dark there will be light.....the problem with that is we dont see reality or acceptance until its too late. I finally reach that point at 45 yrs old and my sister's husband sexually assaulted me right in front of her,, all while she knew he was about to do it and said nothing, afterwards telling me it was all my fault...I decided then I had enough....and NO MORE. I walked out and severed all relationship with them both. I am 65 yr old domestic abuse survivor Some ppl can be saved if they chose to, and accept their responsibility and get some help. Others are doomed to live their lives living with evil, and they will continue to find their victims in living caring individuals who truly should protect themselves....knowledge is power...
At least she didn’t have to look for a new place to live and run out of her home with nothing …if getting away from the abuser could be that easy for every victim.
He was a coward that is why he had to die because he did not want his power better than him. Work and look after both of them while he waits to find his right time to work
Because sometimes that makes them more angry. They feel like you should be there to listen to them vent and backup whatever their opinion is. Other times you absolutely stay tf out of their line of sight. Unfortunately you never know which one is the right one all the time. Even after decades you can get it wrong and pay the price
@@marcellemccalla6325 We are not responsible for other people's emotions.. Relationships supposed to be a loving and growth journey for the 2 lovers, NOT a hell and misery to live in.. It's crazy ! Always take responsibility of your own life!
Make sure then if you think its love (which it isn't) that you're not confusing that with lust . Do you want your partner to do a life sentence because he killed you ?. 2 women in UK murdered by abusive partners every week, Get out WITH HELP especially if you have children, If you had a daughter would you accept that this was a loving relationship for her ? I hope not,so why would it be a good relationship for you ? Some loneliness/boredom/less money is better than being dead and things change for the better if you take responsibility and do the right thingm Meant with love,experience and firmness Sinead Cornwall Learn to enjoy the small things in life LEAVE
Im upset about these stories, the real story should be about what the Laws are going to do for the one that leaves. How long it takes to get out, why so he/her files divorce papers on kidnapping, abandonment getting law on their side or having you locked up. Stay single or get a prenuptial agreement.
Exactly 💯.. No self respect! Can't stand up for themselves! I can't fathom why they would want a life full of misery and fear, prolonging their stay with the monsterrrr..?????
@@sexymaryit’s not all white and black. These kind of relationships don’t start with violence. The man (the abuser) is very charming and charismatic at first and when he sees he got the woman to fall for him that’s when he little by little gaslights her, separates her from her group of friends and family, basically brainwashes her but in a very subtle way. The woman doesn’t even realize it. And also the fear is a big factor. Many women are killed by those men after they leave them. There are MANY cases like these in Spain and, I’m sure around the world. So please, don’t blame those women or shame them, it’s the LAST thing they need.
1. You dont go into a room where the guy is panicking and raging, you stay out, he can handle himself and needs space. 2. When hes unemployed and panicking, he doesnt need to hear they can to spend more time together but he needs a job bc hes thinking about survival and their future, especially with the kid. Its like she cant read him at all, like she's socially incompetent.
Jesus christ!!!!.... cannot actually believe you've written this!! It's like saying that every victim of dv deserves. What an awful, disgraceful, belittling thing to say. Utterly vile person
@@wendyfaith1048 I am a survivor of abuse myself which is why I know what not to do since the abuse nearly cost me my life. I now live with concequences of the abuse everyday and wil never get well again.
@@Vixinaful I am also a survivor of abuse. Strangulation! It took decades before it bubbled to the surface and I had a breakdown that could not be avoided any longer. I reached out and got medical help, meds to help me sleep. I was sleep deprived for years and suffered nightmares and night terrors with caused sleep deprivation. I also found a great therapist who has infinite empathy and a quiver of treatment options. It is like peeling an onion and new information arises. Finally I can talk to my sons about the abuse. Their support is worth so much. Having said all of this I also know that the experiences have eroded trust in general, sometimes what I feel is not what is happening in reality and sometimes I just playing old tapes. It TAKES TIME,,, it took me 73 years to get here and will take time to work it out. Recently came across a documentary about strangulation abuse and found out how close death was in those moments. HOWEVER it moved me out of victim territory to survivor status. There is so much information from good credible sources,,, search it out. There are so many of us out here, unacknowledged, untreated and unsupported. DON'T BE ALONE!! You are not alone!!! Be patient and kind to yourself and have hope!!! You can get better.
Half way through I am not finding either party innocent in the dynamic. He is very bossy and possessive and she is overly irritating and patronising towards him and his job loss. Her experience is not his experience. Her issue with her parents was a good example. They did not need her. No man ever has an excuse to lay a finger on a woman or to lock her in the house. The real problem with the lock downs was it denied people their freedom and individual autonomy. Relationships aren’t perfect and people are not made to spend every minute of every day with one another. We are all fed nonsense about romance from the day we are born. Life isn’t all roses and singing angels. She keeps calling him honey. That itself is enough to make you want to @/!”* . Love is like families where arguments do take place and your brother or sister kicks or pinched you occasionally. True violence is another matter. Penned up rage comes from not expressing what is bothering you when you should. It comes from repression and lack of honesty.
That's what loving people do In a good stable relationship. Show concern. She was not irritating him. Stop using accuses for him. He plain and simple bully. Their always sorry . And they always hit you again and Again.
Dear Ulrike, my friend's husband lost his job. He was so angry. His wife was so supportive. She helped him rewrite his CV. She saw him to the door each time He went for a Job Interview, encouraged him when He got turned down. He finally got a better Position than before. She has a PhD. He has none. Two years later she got ill. He decided to Change jobs so that he could Work from Home. When He IS Frustrated He Talks to His wife or does some gardening.❤❤❤ I just left a two and a half abusive relationship. Hot and cold. Sometimes he literally begged for my advice and then it was None of my business. Loving people Just want to Help their loved ones. Even though HE treated me Like dirt , cheated on me and all. I almost went crazy. He backed Off therapy a day before WE we're due. It has been five months since I left. But He IS still the Love of my life. He had major anger issues but He blamed it all on me. She Made No mistake. She loved and knew No better
Hola María, Es una película sobre violencia de género, no la podemos hacer alegre porque no es la realidad. Muchas mujeres viven en un infierno en sus propias casas y eso es lo queríamos mostrar. But thank you for watching. 😊
@@dlanguages No te conocía como actriz , felicidades mil a ti , al elenco , y a todos los que hicieron posible esta producción . Muy grave el problema de violencia doméstica a nivel mundial en contra de mujeres , niños , hombres , ancianos . Saludos desde 🇺🇸y 🇲🇽 Love your play . Your work is excellent . XXXX
I really feel so bad for this poor woman and she is on lockdown with this monster as he continues too be verbally/physically abusive. This is such a good short film because honestly a lot of women/men went through this on the covid lockdown what a shame.
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It was a tough moment.
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@@shortfilms2916Really good but sad film ❤ love from Denmark
Its eye opening film..once an abuser always an abuser..they never change..its just they pretend to be good just to control over you so that u don't leave them but as per their character they r not able to pretend for many days..their true nature comes out once they r triggered anyhow...they r more dangerous than corona virus i must say..they r absolutely like this untill they die...
Yeah- and many abuse victims have been on lock down for years without an engineered global outbreak .
Those men always make the same excuses, promise a lot and keep none of it.
I Live in Australia and I could see parts of myself as how it just gets worse. This clearly shows a case where violence dosn't win and an innocent unborn life never got to live. Last night my one just becomes more violent. Sometimes I wonder if I will survive. He blames it on lockdown. Even though it's over now it's impacted us all. But after being hurt again last night I felt angry , I mean more angry than usual saying in my mind " No More". I have fortunatly a apartment I am moving into and it's hard because I know when I'm in my new apartment , he will not be. This is so hard desicion to make but I'm so Physically and emotionally exhausted I just need to know what I want . Not what he wants. Thank you so much for bringing this to awareness in it's true form. xx
So much I want to say to you, but let's start with this; if you are wondering wether you'll survive you're in real danger. Leaving is the right decision. No excuse can justify verbal and/or physical abuse of your partner, I repeat, there's NO valid excuse.
If you haven't already, talk to people close to you, family, friends, whoever you think will believe and support you. Tell them what's going on, ask for help. Seek help from professionals also, whatever help is available to you, health care professionals, social services, non profit organisations etc. I don't know how these things are organised in Australia so unfortunately I can't help you with that. You will need support to stand firm in your decision (because he will most likely try to get you back. He will make promises and probably threats if promises doesn't work and you need to resist, and that's hard on your own) and you need help to make sure you're safe when you're leaving.
Please take care of yourself. Because things don't get better with time in abusive relatonships and more often they get worse.
I left 32 years ago the best thing I ever did .burn your bridges and do not look back they never change
A month has passed since you posted and I hope your life is going wonderful now, but if not, hang in there until you get out. While I was going through the process of planning to end my relationship I used to say that even my Soul is exhausted from the whole thing and it really was... the process of leaving is the hardest part of the entire relationship and for me it took multiple attempts, but once it's over Life can begin again so it's well worth it.. it's a true labor of self love. I pray for the Victims worldwide every single night and I will say an extra word for you tonight.
Sending love to You*
I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I hope you did move out and moved on. Please update us! Tony (the writer/director/producer)
This deserves a standing ovation & I can see why it won all of those awards listed above. We know that there was a big increase in reported DV cases during lockdown but just think of the unreported incidents, there had to be a massive increase in attacks and I know it caused a an increase in incidents where there was loss of life. Thank you for making an impact.. this movie could likely inspire Victims to leave and therefore could potentially save lives.
Thank you for this comment! I wrote/directed/produced this film with the hope that it would be shared to inspire victims to seek help immediately.
Where to seek potential shelter during a situation like quarantine?!
Unless you’ve lived this you will never understand
Totally agree with you.
I’m so sorry you had to go through all this terror. I really hope you’re in a better place now.
Sending you a big hug!
Mariana (the actress)
100%.
You are right, other people will never understand us. Never. :/
I watched my mother and sister go through this for years. Whether you are male or female, once out...seek therapy.
Focus on getting yourself well or you could end up like they did. Seemed destined to get in same situation time and again just with different names of the men. Something was broken in them. They never gave themselves the chance to heal from it all. You have to love, respect and have boundaries for yourself first. Great vid. I pray it helps someone to see before they have to go this far.
Sad to hear that your mother and sister went through this. Please share this film and help it reach other victims! Tony (the writer/director/producer)
So true
After I saw this movie. I am so scared to date now
@@3hxiePS 37.. hold on...verse 11
Getting pregnant wasn't my choice. During pregnancy I was terrified that he would do something and I would lose another baby. I had a lot of miscarriage's before... I gave birth about two months before Covid happened. I had SARS before that. Despite his warnings that I was not to go outside or that I wasn't allowed to visit friends for fear of getting sick and hurting the baby he would constantly have people over. I had complications giving birth and they wanted to keep me longer but it had been almost a week and he wanted me home. He threatened to take the baby home without me. My life was a horrid nightmare. I left with our child when she was a year old but the abuse didn't stop. I still deal with him pushed by a uncaring justice system that believes that two parents are better than one in any given situation. No, he doesn't pay child support and the last time he had visitation was Christmas, I only speak to him via written media. But this doesn't deter him. He still insults me, still screams at me that I "stole her," still calls me a terrible and pathetic person... People scream at you to leave and when you finally do you think you're free. You're not. Sure, it's better but it's not freedom. Thank you for this project.
Thank you for watching our film and hope your situation improves. Tony (the writer/director/producer)
Beautifully stated! 🕊️💚🕊️
You and your child are better off without him.
I am very sorry for you. But it is better to be divorsed
@@_Peony24 of course it is. However, I think you missed my point a bit... I was mainly pointing out that it doesn't stop after you leave. In fact, in most cases it gets worse for a time. Right after you leave is the most dangerous time...
Congratulations, Mariana you are a very good teacher and a very good actress also.
I would like to see more short movies forthcoming in your channel.
Thank you very much for being so committed to teaching English with all your followers and everybody in general, making all this content so good.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you so much, Carlos! This means a lot. 🙏
It's NOT the WORLD it's the PEOPLE in it.
Daniel 2:44
The most insecure people are also the most violent.
Well done, very sad that people live like this, but your portrayal was well done and great acting too.
Thank you so much!
And yes, it’s a very sad reality that needs to change.
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Excellent video and very sad at the same time. I remember when my ex tried to kill me. It was so scary and very painful. I wasn't in a good place in my life & mind. My 14-year-old daughter had just been shot and I got with a bad abuser! At that point in my life I didn't even care. I'm happy that those times in my life are over.
Omg, I’m so sorry for what happened to you and your daughter. I hope your daughter and you are in a better place now.
Sending you a big warm hug!
Mariana
I wish you the best..❤.
Excellent video, make me very emotional to see the nightmare some women have to put up with
As you always say "Good job!". I didn't know that you were an actress too, congrats!!!!!!
BTW check subtitles on minute 23:54, it reads "fifteen ears of my life" instead of "fifteen years...".
More short movies will be welcome. Regards.
Hi Marta! Thank you so much!! 😊
Yes, acting is my other passion.
Oh, didn’t even see the typo, thank you for letting me know. 😊🫶
Her first mistake was coming back from the grocery store... Her second mistake was coming back with no gun or bat
Handling the virus by locking down was absolutely insane! Ignoring civil rights and not putting people first in spite of such was very wrong!
Totally agree with you! We were in Spain at that time and I can tell you it wasn’t fun.
Thank you for watching!
Mariana Plesco
Civil rights aren't above our lives, lockdown saved lives but for many people their lives were bad and dangerous but as you see these people lived with them before lockdown,it was their choices to live in a toxic marriage and relationship.
You can't help them because they're not ready to ask for help!!!
In lockdown i had a wonderful time with my boyfriend and my adult son,i worked from my house and i enjoyed many things my free time in my house, music, books and plenty conversations with my family, good food and social media not at all.
My life works for the better after lockdown and i follow my dreams after that,life is so short!!!
@@dlanguagesl
brilliant acting 😢
Thank you so much, Tina! 😊🙏
Even the dynamics of lockdown it self was psycopathic in nature. Poor people…❤
And based on a total lie 😾🇦🇺
The amount of victim blaming in the comments is gross and very telling on the ppl making those statements. You wouldn't last a day in this woman's shoes.
I do Not want to Last in her shoes
@@evapektas What an ignorant comment.
Excelente !! Me conmovió profundamente !!
Why do men or women keep believing in change when it comes to DV? Very tragic.
Great Job Teacher!!! 👌🏼😉💛👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Thank you very much! What did you think of the ending of the movie? 😊
@@dlanguages Final inesperado, hasta se me puso la piel chinita!! Super bueno el corto!! 👌🏼👏🏼💛 Thanks and Congrats!!! 🎉🎊🎉😉👍🏼
Muchísimas gracias!! Me alegro tanto saber que te gustó el corto!! 🥰🙏
Very sad and true story. For both of them. He was very sick and she thought that could be something they can work on. She loved him very much. And i think that he didnt wanted to hurt her. Anger issues are very complicated to heal without any kind of pschiquiatric and emotion work with doctors and of course, friends and family if they exist. I think i would left him the first time he beat me. But we are all different and we believe un different things.
By the way! Excellent short! Very well done. Realistic. Congratulations! Thank you for doing this!🙏💗
So true 😢
Sad all around
Thank you for watching and for your support, we really appreciate it! 😊🙏🫶
Awsome short movie
Thank you so much! 😊🙏
Magnífica actuación, felicidades maestra Mariana Plesco.
Muchísimas gracias, Martha! ❤
Thank you
What a tragedy she lost the baby . This will affect her in later in life. This man had a bad childhood that needed help. Women are not slaves or objects . They are stronger then men. Thry can live a happy life without them.
He stole her keys, no doubt.
Very good film
WOW GREAT JOB U DID THAT
Thanks for watching our film! Tony (the writer/director/producer)
This should be a movie
Thank you for watching our film! I really appreciate your feedback. Pease share the film with others. Tony (the writer/director/producer)
WOW, profe que talento!!!!👏👏👏
Muchísimas gracias!! 😊
Tengo curiosidad por saber qué te pareció el final de la película?
Que trabajo tan bien hecho , lamentablemente una realidad y laberinto para muchas personas con o sin lockdown muy duro pero realmente un trabajo excelente el que hicieron
Muchísimas gracias, Liliana! Sí, es un problema mundial del que no se habla suficiente. Muchas gracias por tomarte el tiempo de ver la película. I really appreciate it. 😊🙏
Nice going You're good a good actress. Nesecitamos videos asi para Aprender mas
Me alegro que te haya gustado el corto! 😊🫶
There was a lot of domestic abuse and alcohol sales increased during covid
No excuses for him however at the point where he was drunk and angry I would have said nothing at all. I would have let him rant and backed off. He didn’t want to know how she was going to support them both.
Backed off?!?! What are you talking about? She wasn't like in his face or anything. Stop victim blaming.
@@dawncraig3340 It's not about victim blaming but self defense. If you have to protect yourself, you learn to know the triggers, so there's no point talking to an enraged man as he will beat her. Better to lock yourself in a room and wait until he calms down. Avoid contact as much as possible, until you get out of this situation. It's common sense really, nothing to do with blaming them.
@@gloriabartolome3123 it's totally victim blaming. Saying she should have done XY or Z is saying she did something wrong. She didn't. She tried to de-escalate the situation. She tried to calm him down. ALL of this is on him and there isn't a "should have" for her, full stop.
@@gloriabartolome3123 you're not wrong. After a period of time you learn the danger signals and when you have to sit quietly and let them vent versus staying the hell out of their line of sight until it's over. It sucks and we shouldn't have to live like that but it's self preservation.
@@marcellemccalla6325it more than sucks and yes I did this for 13 years. But saying she should have done this or that is in fact victim blaming. He should not be a monster. Period.
Get out at the first sign of a red flag
Unfortunately, most don't or won't. Thanks for watching
And honestly you hardly ever notice the first red flag when it happens. In hindsight you absolutely know when that first one happened but you're usually several flags in before you know something is very wrong.
You are in the fog. You dont know whats going on.
santo Dios que bonita la maestra..gracias ..
He did the right thing in the end.
Yes he did indeed
Same old crap, sorry I won't do it again, and it keeps happening.
This sh1t happens all over the world
VERY TOXIC RELATIONSHIP THIS WOMAN HAD!!! 20:22
I grew up in a domestic abuse situation with my older sister. Abuse knows no boundaries, it doesn't discrimate to gender, age or race....for many abuser it is a learned behavior from their parents. In my case it was rooted in jealousy and evil. My sister would humiliated, insult me physically, mentally, and emotionally.
My father died when I was 5, my sister was 8, my mother was a very petite christian woman who really wasnt strong enough to deal properly with my sister, this was back in the 60-70's...there were not many options as there are today. Abuser/oppressers start their manipulation very early in a relationship to get their victims to conform. Its called grooming, gaslight. I am actually surprised that this man took his own life because many are not that self aware or care that they are at fault. I was trauma bonded to my sister and my own value system kept me tied to her for a very long time. I too am alot like this woman, believing there is good in people. That things no matter how dark there will be light.....the problem with that is we dont see reality or acceptance until its too late. I finally reach that point at 45 yrs old and my sister's husband sexually assaulted me right in front of her,, all while she knew he was about to do it and said nothing, afterwards telling me it was all my fault...I decided then I had enough....and NO MORE. I walked out and severed all relationship with them both. I am 65 yr old domestic abuse survivor
Some ppl can be saved if they chose to, and accept their responsibility and get some help. Others are doomed to live their lives living with evil, and they will continue to find their victims in living caring individuals who truly should protect themselves....knowledge is power...
A sad and unexpected ending. Mariana both worked very well. Congratulations.
I love a happy ending!
RUNNNNNN!
Grazie....😢
linda..Cristo la ama...el tiene cosas grandes para su vida.
Muchísimas gracias, Derlyn! 😊🫶🙏
This gal would need some serious therapy after all of this. This is Patrick's mom, by the way.
Yes, hopefully she went to a therapist after all that. Thanks for watching!
Th rose-coloured glasses that he cleans 😢
At least she didn’t have to look for a new place to live and run out of her home with nothing …if getting away from the abuser could be that easy for every victim.
It is all about terrorizing the person. It is sick.
He was a coward that is why he had to die because he did not want his power better than him. Work and look after both of them while he waits to find his right time to work
No toilet paper......!!!🥴
Napkins is better the nothing 😁👋🏼🇲🇽
Hahahaha true… good observation 😊👍🏻
What did you think of the movie?
@@dlanguages is an excelent film 🙂 i like it
Congratulations
Mariana Plesco
Thanks for watching our film! Tony (the writer/director/producer)
I think napkins clog the toilet lol
@@dlanguagesshe told him she was going to kill their baby, but we are supposed to feel sorry for her? Both of them are creepy.😢
Why didn’t she stay away from him when he was mad??
I know. What's up with that?!
Because sometimes that makes them more angry. They feel like you should be there to listen to them vent and backup whatever their opinion is. Other times you absolutely stay tf out of their line of sight. Unfortunately you never know which one is the right one all the time. Even after decades you can get it wrong and pay the price
@@marcellemccalla6325 We are not responsible for other people's emotions.. Relationships supposed to be a loving and growth journey for the 2 lovers, NOT a hell and misery to live in.. It's crazy ! Always take responsibility of your own life!
She's locked in anyway. No keys.
Glad he jumped
he did the only thng he had to.
Why did he kill himself? Was it because he was horrified at what he did?
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I can't leave him tho. I love him..
Spot on. And this is why many victims stay victims. Tony (the writer/director/producer)
Make sure then if you think its love (which it isn't) that you're not confusing that with lust . Do you want your partner to do a life sentence because he killed you ?. 2 women in UK murdered by abusive partners every week, Get out WITH HELP especially if you have children, If you had a daughter would you accept that this was a loving relationship for her ? I hope not,so why would it be a good relationship for you ? Some loneliness/boredom/less money is better than being dead and things change for the better if you take responsibility and do the right thingm Meant with love,experience and firmness Sinead Cornwall Learn to enjoy the small things in life LEAVE
But he doesn't love you back, people don't love those they abuse, they don't even respect them and that is the basic condition of love.
But he doesn't love you back, people don't love those they abuse, they don't even respect them and that is the basic condition of love.
Wayyy too many ads 😒
That's a youtube thing and out of our control. Thanks for watching our film!
23:52 But first, Hocus Pocus 👚🧙
Ohhh terrible 😮😮😮
Did he kill himself?
👍 Thanks for watching our film! Tony (the writer/director/producer)
Whats with the happy montage midway through? Seemed like filler
It's a dream sequence. Watch it again.
When this started I was driving on the highway all for miles and crying because it make me feel like a Martian from will smith movie 🤢
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Im upset about these stories, the real story should be about what the Laws are going to do for the one that leaves. How long it takes to get out, why so he/her files divorce papers on kidnapping, abandonment getting law on their side or having you locked up. Stay single or get a prenuptial agreement.
That's love and love hurts that's why I 34:09 make it a point to never fall in love myself!!!
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So intense!
Ladies like you encourage those type of husband . Because u never oppose your husband or leave your husband. U r encouraging those monster.
Exactly 💯.. No self respect! Can't stand up for themselves! I can't fathom why they would want a life full of misery and fear, prolonging their stay with the monsterrrr..?????
Yay for victim blaming.
@@sexymaryit’s not all white and black. These kind of relationships don’t start with violence. The man (the abuser) is very charming and charismatic at first and when he sees he got the woman to fall for him that’s when he little by little gaslights her, separates her from her group of friends and family, basically brainwashes her but in a very subtle way.
The woman doesn’t even realize it. And also the fear is a big factor. Many women are killed by those men after they leave them. There are MANY cases like these in Spain and, I’m sure around the world.
So please, don’t blame those women or shame them, it’s the LAST thing they need.
Their accent is odd neither English 🇺🇸 or 🇬🇧 🧐
Their accent got me off 💩
This woman is supposed to be AMERICAN??! LOL!!
What is that supposed to mean? Americans are all different ethnicities and accents and many don't speak English.
Very hard to watch. Trigger trigger trigger …..
Lockdown started today and your going to the store…the script could use a better editor
Around the world, during lockdown, you were still able to go to the store to buy groceries and supplies.
Shame she didn’t just call the police, she’ll probably spend time behind bars, so in death he still holds her captive
Why would she spend time behind bars? She didn't...
@@tonyp6420 she killed him didn’t she?
@@Trish-ql9kzHe killed himself by jumping.
1. You dont go into a room where the guy is panicking and raging, you stay out, he can handle himself and needs space. 2. When hes unemployed and panicking, he doesnt need to hear they can to spend more time together but he needs a job bc hes thinking about survival and their future, especially with the kid. Its like she cant read him at all, like she's socially incompetent.
Jesus christ!!!!.... cannot actually believe you've written this!! It's like saying that every victim of dv deserves. What an awful, disgraceful, belittling thing to say. Utterly vile person
@vixinaful Classic victim blaming. AND making excuses for this man's sickness. This is why domestic abuse continues. Have you discernment or empathy?
@@wendyfaith1048 I am a survivor of abuse myself which is why I know what not to do since the abuse nearly cost me my life. I now live with concequences of the abuse everyday and wil never get well again.
@@Vixinaful I am also a survivor of abuse. Strangulation! It took decades before it bubbled to the surface and I had a breakdown that could not be avoided any longer. I reached out and got medical help, meds to help me sleep. I was sleep deprived for years and suffered nightmares and night terrors with caused sleep deprivation. I also found a great therapist who has infinite empathy and a quiver of treatment options. It is like peeling an onion and new information arises. Finally I can talk to my sons about the abuse. Their support is worth so much. Having said all of this I also know that the experiences have eroded trust in general, sometimes what I feel is not what is happening in reality and sometimes I just playing old tapes. It TAKES TIME,,, it took me 73 years to get here and will take time to work it out. Recently came across a documentary about strangulation abuse and found out how close death was in those moments. HOWEVER it moved me out of victim territory to survivor status. There is so much information from good credible sources,,, search it out. There are so many of us out here, unacknowledged, untreated and unsupported. DON'T BE ALONE!! You are not alone!!! Be patient and kind to yourself and have hope!!! You can get better.
@@VixinafulYEEEAAHHHH... That's CAP.
Never heard a victim come out and say the things you've said. I call bullshit.
Half way through I am not finding either party innocent in the dynamic. He is very bossy and possessive and she is overly irritating and patronising towards him and his job loss. Her experience is not his experience. Her issue with her parents was a good example. They did not need her. No man ever has an excuse to lay a finger on a woman or to lock her in the house. The real problem with the lock downs was it denied people their freedom and individual autonomy. Relationships aren’t perfect and people are not made to spend every minute of every day with one another. We are all fed nonsense about romance from the day we are born. Life isn’t all roses and singing angels. She keeps calling him honey. That itself is enough to make you want to @/!”* . Love is like families where arguments do take place and your brother or sister kicks or pinched you occasionally. True violence is another matter. Penned up rage comes from not expressing what is bothering you when you should. It comes from repression and lack of honesty.
What's your point?
That's what loving people do
In a good stable relationship.
Show concern.
She was not irritating him.
Stop using accuses for him.
He plain and simple bully.
Their always sorry .
And they always hit you again and
Again.
Really 🤔
You sound like him. Good luck with that.
Dear Ulrike, my friend's husband lost his job. He was so angry. His wife was so supportive. She helped him rewrite his CV. She saw him to the door each time He went for a Job Interview, encouraged him when He got turned down. He finally got a better Position than before. She has a PhD. He has none. Two years later she got ill. He decided to Change jobs so that he could Work from Home. When He IS Frustrated He Talks to His wife or does some gardening.❤❤❤ I just left a two and a half abusive relationship. Hot and cold. Sometimes he literally begged for my advice and then it was None of my business. Loving people Just want to Help their loved ones. Even though HE treated me Like dirt , cheated on me and all. I almost went crazy. He backed Off therapy a day before WE we're due. It has been five months since I left. But He IS still the Love of my life. He had major anger issues but He blamed it all on me. She Made No mistake. She loved and knew No better
Me parece muy aburrido. Debería ser más alegre. No se no me gusto
Hola María,
Es una película sobre violencia de género, no la podemos hacer alegre porque no es la realidad. Muchas mujeres viven en un infierno en sus propias casas y eso es lo queríamos mostrar.
But thank you for watching. 😊
@@dlanguages No te conocía como actriz , felicidades mil a ti , al elenco , y a todos los que hicieron posible esta producción . Muy grave el problema de violencia doméstica a nivel mundial en contra de mujeres , niños , hombres , ancianos . Saludos desde 🇺🇸y 🇲🇽 Love your play . Your work is excellent . XXXX
GBV nòt cheerfull believe me!!
Thank you so much, Blanca!!
Ha sido una experiencia maravillosa y es muy importante hablar de este tema.
Te mando un fuerte abrazo! 🫶😊
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