My two boys ages 7 and 9 died by a drunk driver 35 years ago. Still, now and then, I forget and reach for their favorite cereal thinking they'll want it for breakfast in the morning. After a third of a century later I forget at times like nothing has changed. Then reality sets in, I put the cereal back and go back to normal life. It became a part of my DNA, I never got over being a father.
@@deliabotha7187 I froze for a year, then had an amazing experience with my two boy returning a year after their deaths to tell me I needed to let them go so they could do the work they needed to do in Spirit. That gave me the freedom to move forward, also.
I was a police officer for almost 20 years and this brought back so many memories of all the wisdom I found in the most unexpected places and from the most beautiful human beings that most of us walk past in our daily lives......this movie reminds all of us that we are all on a journey of healing and that we should treat everyone with kindness because we never know what battles they are fighting......and that forgiveness, redemption and healing can be found when you least expect it and in the most unexpected places....and faces...... I would love to know the name of the song and the artist that was played at the end during the credit role.......thank you for this gift! I will be sharing it......
WHAT A GREAT MOVIE. AND THE TWO MEN WHO WATCHED OVER HER AND HELPING HER WAS OVER THE TOP BEAUTIFUL. THE HONORABLE ALPHA MALES. I WISH ONLY ONE DAYTO HAVE FRIENDS LIKE THIS.
@@kristinmccloy it also teaches that the best present you can do to the lost loved ones is to carry on living and embracing life because you do not want evil to be able to claim more lives than the lobes it already took.
@@HumbleMuslima you need for your mind to not be soooooooo BOXED IN ... dear HUMBLE???Muslima. maybe travel a bit more. Talk, intermingle and learn with or from others then you can see a wider perspective on real life.
@@diddlydooha-fp3no I do not understand your message. You are the one putting me in a box. I lived in your country and in several countries in the world and I speak several languages. Really, I do not understand what you mean and what your intention is. Do you have an issue with my username?
This is a really good movie! And it was filmed in the neighborhood of my friend's music studio. And I lived down the street off Gessner in Houston. I have been to the places in this movie more times than I can count! Freaked me out! I wasnt expecting this. Still a good movie, not just for that reason. Thank you!
What an incredible movie! I have seen only half of it so far. But I already feel so overwhelmed! It takes truly a genius to come up with such an awesome story telling!
Very creative approach to fight emotions like unbeareable grief, losses, guilt, shame, guiltripping or letting go of whatever can't serve or contribute to development, but, it is complecated, one always has to get creative in these cases but one must be ready if only others are of the opinion, to it be time, it won't be enough, some people need more help than others, some can't ever be cored, some are simply not yet or able at all, to move on. This is, of what this Film is able tell about in an extremely sensitive ways. Was fun to watch... ❤❤❤
Thank you; this movie is brilliant 💜🤗 I am re-watching it again right now with the new perspective of knowing the characters better.. Really enjoying it… peace and hugs
This was so good 💯 when he said "evil steals and it never wants to give back." So much unraveled which I've been working healing and it is an answer I have been looking for without knowing I was looking or waiting for. Thank you from the Healer in Soweto South Africa. ❤🎉🎉🎉
That was a beautiful film and very thought provoking. I have to say the part that got me the most was the bit about the weight that you can carry is the weight that you can manage, as this has always been a belief of mine. I have been tested on this in the last few years as my partner and the love of my life died suddenly, late 2021. Although I miss him every day, I'm still here and trying to make the most of life as best I can and will be forever grateful for the time we had .
Qué hermosa película!, nunca estamos solos aunque a veces parezca que así es, todo sucede por algo, y ese algo es lo que nuestra Alma necesita para su evolución, infinitas gracias por tu trabajo y la excelente elección para compartir, un abrazo.
Hola, Jill termina aceptando la pérdida de su hijo y que su rabia no sólo la daña a ella sino a todos los que la rodean, Burton se da cuenta que necesita soltar y dejar ir su esposa, él había creído que ella le daba la fuerza para ayudar a los demás pero Jill al intervenir diciéndole a ella que puede partir le está ayudando a él , la frase decisiva es cuando él dice que no todos los dolores son iguales, al final Jill lo comprende al ir a ver a Heather a quien criticó por no superar su pérdida pero cuando la vé con su hija se da cuenta que es una madre muy amorosa y que las palabras ya no son necesarias, el amor real las sustituye. Una disculpa por la tardanza.@@SoyYoElMejorAmigo
Wow seems like a great movie, I have a glitch in me that causes me to watch a film from the beginning to the end so I hope you guys that shared are right... I'll comment again afterwards peace bras
I know i am going to get blasted for this but this movie is a no-go for me. There was a point I started to like. But then it took a turn a turn for me again. So many things.
I just started the movie and after two years she is still very crazy, it is strange that she can't go on with her life normally instead of being insane with grief, in my opinion. Even her counselor thought she should go to a therapist because she thinks she thinks the lady is nuts also. The guy is really cool though and made the movie worthwhile watching.
Remember in group session Jill told Heather not to give up hope that Katie would return. She was right cause Katie was found. It was all over Jill's face when she saw Katie with Heather that she was experiencing so many mixed emotions because you could tell by her expression that she felt like why couldn't it be me why couldn't I have Holden back but at the same time she shifted to choosing to be happy that Heather got Katie back. Through the help of Jill's newfound friends she is now able to move on and now so is Heather because her daughter was found.... That is what I gleaned from the end. Jill was such a good actress that you could almost tell what she was thinking without even having to speak.
Wow.. The end blew me away.. Nice movie.. Everyone deals with their life's hurts differently, but the thing is to find a way to deal. Look up. Help is a whisper away. ❤💞
Couldn't relate.....I'm sure some ppl can but I got total peace from my Lord knowing He has my babes that passed in His loving arms and His plan is beyond me!! I will see them again for eternity But I do respect that others see it differently.....
I don't think Katie was ever gone, the mom had issues and was seeking attention, that is why the mom was so ready to let her go after 5 moms. She wasn't hurting, a mom who actually has lost a child would not move on after 5 months.
@@olgasome2881I also had the feeling Katie was probably never gone. Maybe the mother was writing a book about this issue and pretended to be one of the group. Who knows?
My two boys ages 7 and 9 died by a drunk driver 35 years ago. Still, now and then, I forget and reach for their favorite cereal thinking they'll want it for breakfast in the morning. After a third of a century later I forget at times like nothing has changed. Then reality sets in, I put the cereal back and go back to normal life. It became a part of my DNA, I never got over being a father.
May God give you patience 🤲
❤
I'm sorry for your loss. 🙏 ❤🙏 ❤
May I ask how you remained standing...😢
@@deliabotha7187 I froze for a year, then had an amazing experience with my two boy returning a year after their deaths to tell me I needed to let them go so they could do the work they needed to do in Spirit. That gave me the freedom to move forward, also.
I was a police officer for almost 20 years and this brought back so many memories of all the wisdom I found in the most unexpected places and from the most beautiful human beings that most of us walk past in our daily lives......this movie reminds all of us that we are all on a journey of healing and that we should treat everyone with kindness because we never know what battles they are fighting......and that forgiveness, redemption and healing can be found when you least expect it and in the most unexpected places....and faces...... I would love to know the name of the song and the artist that was played at the end during the credit role.......thank you for this gift! I will be sharing it......
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Absolutely ❤ The song was 'Israel' by Leigh Lawson
I have found the same in my life too. You sound to have been an excellent police officer with your kindness.
Thank you for your comment, it will help people especially from a cop, it means a lot.
@@heidistanton4583 Thank you!
WHAT A GREAT MOVIE. AND THE TWO MEN WHO WATCHED OVER HER AND HELPING HER WAS OVER THE TOP BEAUTIFUL. THE HONORABLE ALPHA MALES. I WISH ONLY ONE DAYTO HAVE FRIENDS LIKE THIS.
Not your average run of the mill film - thoroughly engaging throughout - thank you for sharing ♥️.
What a gem of a movie. We need more writing like this. Thank you for sharing.😊
why? what was the point of this movie?
@@kristinmccloy The point is to be alive in your own life, and discover what you can do with what you've been given. 💕
@@kristinmccloy it also teaches that the best present you can do to the lost loved ones is to carry on living and embracing life because you do not want evil to be able to claim more lives than the lobes it already took.
@@HumbleMuslima you need for your mind to not be soooooooo BOXED IN ... dear HUMBLE???Muslima. maybe travel a bit more. Talk, intermingle and learn with or from others then you can see a wider perspective on real life.
@@diddlydooha-fp3no I do not understand your message. You are the one putting me in a box. I lived in your country and in several countries in the world and I speak several languages. Really, I do not understand what you mean and what your intention is. Do you have an issue with my username?
Wow, I couldn't stop watching - such complex characters and so real! Very impressed with this movie! Thank you! ❤
that was a very special movie..thank you for uploading
This is a really good movie! And it was filmed in the neighborhood of my friend's music studio. And I lived down the street off Gessner in Houston. I have been to the places in this movie more times than I can count! Freaked me out! I wasnt expecting this. Still a good movie, not just for that reason. Thank you!
What an incredible movie! I have seen only half of it so far. But I already feel so overwhelmed! It takes truly a genius to come up with such an awesome story telling!
Very creative approach to fight emotions like unbeareable grief, losses, guilt, shame, guiltripping or letting go of whatever can't serve or contribute to development, but, it is complecated, one always has to get creative in these cases but one must be ready if only others are of the opinion, to it be time, it won't be enough, some people need more help than others, some can't ever be cored, some are simply not yet or able at all, to move on.
This is, of what this Film is able tell about in an extremely sensitive ways. Was fun to watch... ❤❤❤
Blur Circle Team: What a lovely, quirky, creative film. Please keep up this work.
what????
Thank you; this movie is brilliant 💜🤗 I am re-watching it again right now with the new perspective of knowing the characters better.. Really enjoying it… peace and hugs
brilliant?? DO TELL HOW
Thank you😊
These unknowns did a convincing impressive job. I surprisingly enjoyed this movie. I appreciated the message ❤
paying attention makes seeing the whole puzzle fit together .... without seeking pieces that don't...Top shelf screen
play.....
This was so good 💯 when he said "evil steals and it never wants to give back." So much unraveled which I've been working healing and it is an answer I have been looking for without knowing I was looking or waiting for. Thank you from the Healer in Soweto South Africa. ❤🎉🎉🎉
Wow, what a heavy movie with some of the best acting I've seen. Just heartwrenching to watch but worth every minute.
Watched Slipaway, then Not That Funny, then Blur Circle......all three have beauty and depth of emotion that make them must-sees.
Where are those two movies streaming?
@@kimboucher7466 Both movies on UA-cam.....The second movie is NOT THAT FUNNY....got the name wrong in my original post.
@@barbaramartinetti thanks!
This is a very good story. Loce all the characters and the realness of it all. Sometimess life is much stranger than fiction 😎👍
That was a beautiful film and very thought provoking. I have to say the part that got me the most was the bit about the weight that you can carry is the weight that you can manage, as this has always been a belief of mine. I have been tested on this in the last few years as my partner and the love of my life died suddenly, late 2021. Although I miss him every day, I'm still here and trying to make the most of life as best I can and will be forever grateful for the time we had .
May God bless you Julie ❤
💥 As strange as it might sound Earls talk with Jill helped me with my loss of my granddaughters death, Great powerful movie. 📖⚘️⚔️
I get what you mean
Love to you I couldn’t imagine ❤❤❤
I have lost 2 adult daughters and I some how understood with that conversation as well. I watched the movie because of your comment. Thank you
@@theresawilde5780
You are so welcome, God Bless You... I know your pain and will keep you in my prayers .📖⚘️❤️
Simply beautiful human story…compassion often stems from hardships, hardship without compassionate hearts makes bitter hard hearts
Watching this one again is a for sure! Thank you for moments of laughter and anger and high love 🎉❤❤❤
Thank you for this beautiful film, so moving and well acted by beautiful people.
Huge surprise watching this gem. Great ensemble of actors.
In Africa there is a saying that an elephant is never going to find its tusks heavy.
The reviews were right really good movie. Thanks for posting ❤
Bra filmen sådan film man glömmer inte över huvud taget.
Inte ofta att jag såg en film som
handla om sällskap äktheten och
medmänniskan . 🌸🙂
This was a really good film - excellent acting from the mother.
I lost a 15yo child - tough, really hard but that doesn't give you a licence to hurt others. Xx
I agree. The woman was annoying. I didn't like her character. Actress did a good job.
A very touching movie. Sometimes it's hard to let go. This movie will help a little.
I understan you...
I thought it was a beautiful movie with very touching lessons in it. Thank you 💚
Phenomenal film!!! VERY VERY good key points, and highlighted in a very wholesome manner! Well done.
Now that's a good film. I recommend to everybody who reads the comments before deciding to watch.
So many triggers here. It was hard work but I made it through, thank you.
Me to ❤
This is a beautiful, touching, amazing film. ❤
Wow this movie was kind of crazy and amazing at the same time.thanks ❤
My god .SOMETIMES I FORGET THAT THERE'S PEOPLE DOING SUCH BEAUTIFUL MOVIES 😢❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks!
Very special, thank you ❤
Thank you for this film. There’s so much to understand in this lifetime.
Namaste ❤
BIGTIME Thank-you for this wonderful movie! 📽
Thank you! for this wonderful movie/story/acting ... everything about it is top notch. I'm showing this one at the next family movie night.
What a incredible story line about lost, accepting, recovering, forgiveness and leaning to move on but not forget.
Excellent movie... grief is so hard.
A very special movie, I highly recommend. Thank you.
A million tears. Life shouldn’t be this hard but sometimes it is.
Without sorrow, how would we know JOY?
And some of us get one tragedy after another, so it's impossible to make even a slight recovery.
😭
Wonderful movie. Thank you all.
That was an interesting film for a change - they are kinda hard to find these days!
Brilliant movie. well worth the time to watch. Very thought provoking.
Thank you. Love it. 😊❤
WOW. What a great actress Cora Vander Brock is.
Qué hermosa película!, nunca estamos solos aunque a veces parezca que así es, todo sucede por algo, y ese algo es lo que nuestra Alma necesita para su evolución, infinitas gracias por tu trabajo y la excelente elección para compartir, un abrazo.
Hola. No entiendo inglés y no sé qué pasó al final. Me puede decir ?
Hola, Jill termina aceptando la pérdida de su hijo y que su rabia no sólo la daña a ella sino a todos los que la rodean, Burton se da cuenta que necesita soltar y dejar ir su esposa, él había creído que ella le daba la fuerza para ayudar a los demás pero Jill al intervenir diciéndole a ella que puede partir le está ayudando a él , la frase decisiva es cuando él dice que no todos los dolores son iguales, al final Jill lo comprende al ir a ver a Heather a quien criticó por no superar su pérdida pero cuando la vé con su hija se da cuenta que es una madre muy amorosa y que las palabras ya no son necesarias, el amor real las sustituye. Una disculpa por la tardanza.@@SoyYoElMejorAmigo
@@SoyYoElMejorAmigono pasó nada en realidad. La vida continuó y hubo tal vez algo de curación? En los tres personajes. Nada de final feliz.
@@vilmaoliverarosas1658 Ok. Y nunca se supo nada de qué había pasado con el niño ?
@@SoyYoElMejorAmigo nada! 🥺 horror no?
Aunque el punto de la película era otro.
Watching for the 8th time since Saturday and I will say THE BEST!
This movie should be in every Theater biograf in the world.
Watching for the 5th time what a beautiful storyline. Just beautiful ❤️
This is an incredible movie although a little dark.
Cora Vander broek is doing an excellent job. She has put up the finest performance in this movie.
Appreciate everyone’s comments You guys rock 🤘
We are all a bit screwed
Really good movie - Thanks!
I love his movie and I actually think those quirky little ways of letting go are ingenious and would and could actually work for some. I love it. ❤❤❤
WOW. Just WOW. What a deeply moving story. The characters were superb, the acting FANTASTIC and the pain threaded throughout it was palpable.
BEAUTIFUL.
Saddest, funniest, most real ever! Beautiful,
What a beautiful human effort. THANKS.
One of those movies you can rewatch, getting a deeper message each time. It was beautiful ❤
WOW! The woman who played "Jill" is a fabulous actress !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow, superb script and acting. I just may need t watch this again. Deep!!!
Loved it ❤
A wonderful sad and happy movie. So different from the norm. Loved it.
Someone commented best, …”what a lovely, quirky, creative movie…”
Wow seems like a great movie, I have a glitch in me that causes me to watch a film from the beginning to the end so I hope you guys that shared are right... I'll comment again afterwards peace bras
So powerful. I cried through most of it.
Loved it. Food for thought. Gracias desde México.
I know i am going to get blasted for this but this movie is a no-go for me. There was a point I started to like. But then it took a turn a turn for me again. So many things.
who is that boy with Heather?
I loved this great movie. A movie with substance ❤❤❤
I just started the movie and after two years she is still very crazy, it is strange that she can't go on with her life normally instead of being insane with grief, in my opinion. Even her counselor thought she should go to a therapist because she thinks she thinks the lady is nuts also. The guy is really cool though and made the movie worthwhile watching.
Well done✨✨✨
If you are a parent apart from their child this movie WILL help you❤
whaaat?? so wait, was Katie ever gone, or was that just a woman who needed tons of drama?? VERY UNSATISFYING END
Yes im glad someone else was confused about the ending, i didnt get that at all😮
Remember in group session Jill told Heather not to give up hope that Katie would return. She was right cause Katie was found. It was all over Jill's face when she saw Katie with Heather that she was experiencing so many mixed emotions because you could tell by her expression that she felt like why couldn't it be me why couldn't I have Holden back but at the same time she shifted to choosing to be happy that Heather got Katie back. Through the help of Jill's newfound friends she is now able to move on and now so is Heather because her daughter was found.... That is what I gleaned from the end. Jill was such a good actress that you could almost tell what she was thinking without even having to speak.
@@trioray9090 Thanks for clearing that up for me, I got a little confused myself . . . now it makes sense!
Interestingly the Quran says in the last verse of Surah Al Bakr;”Thou shalt not be burdened more than you can bear! “
Wow.. The end blew me away.. Nice movie.. Everyone deals with their life's hurts differently, but the thing is to find a way to deal. Look up. Help is a whisper away. ❤💞
The plot was over the top, only in America! The rest of the world is sane!
This is a very strange movie.......
Couldn't relate.....I'm sure some ppl can but I got total peace from my Lord knowing He has my babes that passed in His loving arms and His plan is beyond me!! I will see them again for eternity
But I do respect that others see it differently.....
I lost my husband and only child 13 months later became forever 39, while it's devastating, I do know that they are in my future now. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss. ❤
This movie will always remain as a wound in my heart.
Very good movie with many twist and turns
Thanks ❤
May even more love come into your life and surround you with its healing glow.
So Katie came back after 5 months without any explanation to us? 🤔
I don't think Katie was ever gone, the mom had issues and was seeking attention, that is why the mom was so ready to let her go after 5 moms. She wasn't hurting, a mom who actually has lost a child would not move on after 5 months.
I was lost. Thanks😮😊
@@olgasome2881 oh, thanks, I didn't pick that up
I think Katie coming back, is showing Jill that there IS hope.
@@olgasome2881I also had the feeling Katie was probably never gone.
Maybe the mother was writing a book about this issue and pretended to be one of the group.
Who knows?
Thank you🎉
So sorry just can’t imagine, I’m sure almost all that read your message will say a prayer for you. With all my heart always try and be strong.
Loved the characters❤
Beautiful, movie 🎬 🎞 thanks ❤😢😢😢.
Thankyou
Very strange. But had to watch to the end..???
Beautiful
Good storytelling.
Very deep! All the masks have fallen down! How hard it is to look deep inside our hearts! It is much easier to always blame someone else for our pain.
Well done.