My two boys ages 7 and 9 died by a drunk driver 35 years ago. Still, now and then, I forget and reach for their favorite cereal thinking they'll want it for breakfast in the morning. After a third of a century later I forget at times like nothing has changed. Then reality sets in, I put the cereal back and go back to normal life. It became a part of my DNA, I never got over being a father.
@@deliabotha7187 I froze for a year, then had an amazing experience with my two boy returning a year after their deaths to tell me I needed to let them go so they could do the work they needed to do in Spirit. That gave me the freedom to move forward, also.
WHAT A GREAT MOVIE. AND THE TWO MEN WHO WATCHED OVER HER AND HELPING HER WAS OVER THE TOP BEAUTIFUL. THE HONORABLE ALPHA MALES. I WISH ONLY ONE DAYTO HAVE FRIENDS LIKE THIS.
Very creative approach to fight emotions like unbeareable grief, losses, guilt, shame, guiltripping or letting go of whatever can't serve or contribute to development, but, it is complecated, one always has to get creative in these cases but one must be ready if only others are of the opinion, to it be time, it won't be enough, some people need more help than others, some can't ever be cored, some are simply not yet or able at all, to move on. This is, of what this Film is able tell about in an extremely sensitive ways. Was fun to watch... ❤❤❤
This is a really good movie! And it was filmed in the neighborhood of my friend's music studio. And I lived down the street off Gessner in Houston. I have been to the places in this movie more times than I can count! Freaked me out! I wasnt expecting this. Still a good movie, not just for that reason. Thank you!
Thank you; this movie is brilliant 💜🤗 I am re-watching it again right now with the new perspective of knowing the characters better.. Really enjoying it… peace and hugs
What an incredible movie! I have seen only half of it so far. But I already feel so overwhelmed! It takes truly a genius to come up with such an awesome story telling!
Stopped watching after an hour. Creepy and unsettling. Also, devoid of links to reality unless these people are secret millionaires. I may finish watching later because I am curious. (And optimistic/hopeful.) But this is a creepy film. Dark. I grew up with illness and death and this has little to do with losing people. It's an artistic interpretation of how people can get stuck in a situation of loss and turn it into their crutch, their sole reason for living, and start doing really strange things as a result.
This was so good 💯 when he said "evil steals and it never wants to give back." So much unraveled which I've been working healing and it is an answer I have been looking for without knowing I was looking or waiting for. Thank you from the Healer in Soweto South Africa. ❤🎉🎉🎉
Qué hermosa película!, nunca estamos solos aunque a veces parezca que así es, todo sucede por algo, y ese algo es lo que nuestra Alma necesita para su evolución, infinitas gracias por tu trabajo y la excelente elección para compartir, un abrazo.
Hola, Jill termina aceptando la pérdida de su hijo y que su rabia no sólo la daña a ella sino a todos los que la rodean, Burton se da cuenta que necesita soltar y dejar ir su esposa, él había creído que ella le daba la fuerza para ayudar a los demás pero Jill al intervenir diciéndole a ella que puede partir le está ayudando a él , la frase decisiva es cuando él dice que no todos los dolores son iguales, al final Jill lo comprende al ir a ver a Heather a quien criticó por no superar su pérdida pero cuando la vé con su hija se da cuenta que es una madre muy amorosa y que las palabras ya no son necesarias, el amor real las sustituye. Una disculpa por la tardanza.@@SoyYoElMejorAmigo
Wow seems like a great movie, I have a glitch in me that causes me to watch a film from the beginning to the end so I hope you guys that shared are right... I'll comment again afterwards peace bras
I don't think Katie was ever gone, the mom had issues and was seeking attention, that is why the mom was so ready to let her go after 5 moms. She wasn't hurting, a mom who actually has lost a child would not move on after 5 months.
Couldn't relate.....I'm sure some ppl can but I got total peace from my Lord knowing He has my babes that passed in His loving arms and His plan is beyond me!! I will see them again for eternity But I do respect that others see it differently.....
The thought of life after death is the worst thing ever to convince a human being of, to tell them that their loved one's are lookin down protecting them...is just insane !!! It's so sad that people believe what they are told to believe in, it just makes me sick..🤮🙄😒
My two boys ages 7 and 9 died by a drunk driver 35 years ago. Still, now and then, I forget and reach for their favorite cereal thinking they'll want it for breakfast in the morning. After a third of a century later I forget at times like nothing has changed. Then reality sets in, I put the cereal back and go back to normal life. It became a part of my DNA, I never got over being a father.
May God give you patience 🤲
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I'm sorry for your loss. 🙏 ❤🙏 ❤
May I ask how you remained standing...😢
@@deliabotha7187 I froze for a year, then had an amazing experience with my two boy returning a year after their deaths to tell me I needed to let them go so they could do the work they needed to do in Spirit. That gave me the freedom to move forward, also.
Wow, I couldn't stop watching - such complex characters and so real! Very impressed with this movie! Thank you! ❤
WHAT A GREAT MOVIE. AND THE TWO MEN WHO WATCHED OVER HER AND HELPING HER WAS OVER THE TOP BEAUTIFUL. THE HONORABLE ALPHA MALES. I WISH ONLY ONE DAYTO HAVE FRIENDS LIKE THIS.
Wow, what a heavy movie with some of the best acting I've seen. Just heartwrenching to watch but worth every minute.
What a gem of a movie. We need more writing like this. Thank you for sharing.😊
why? what was the point of this movie?
that was a very special movie..thank you for uploading
Very creative approach to fight emotions like unbeareable grief, losses, guilt, shame, guiltripping or letting go of whatever can't serve or contribute to development, but, it is complecated, one always has to get creative in these cases but one must be ready if only others are of the opinion, to it be time, it won't be enough, some people need more help than others, some can't ever be cored, some are simply not yet or able at all, to move on.
This is, of what this Film is able tell about in an extremely sensitive ways. Was fun to watch... ❤❤❤
Not your average run of the mill film - thoroughly engaging throughout - thank you for sharing ♥️.
This is a really good movie! And it was filmed in the neighborhood of my friend's music studio. And I lived down the street off Gessner in Houston. I have been to the places in this movie more times than I can count! Freaked me out! I wasnt expecting this. Still a good movie, not just for that reason. Thank you!
Thank you; this movie is brilliant 💜🤗 I am re-watching it again right now with the new perspective of knowing the characters better.. Really enjoying it… peace and hugs
brilliant?? DO TELL HOW
Blur Circle Team: What a lovely, quirky, creative film. Please keep up this work.
💥 As strange as it might sound Earls talk with Jill helped me with my loss of my granddaughters death, Great powerful movie. 📖⚘️⚔️
I get what you mean
Love to you I couldn’t imagine ❤❤❤
I have lost 2 adult daughters and I some how understood with that conversation as well. I watched the movie because of your comment. Thank you
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You are so welcome, God Bless You... I know your pain and will keep you in my prayers .📖⚘️❤️
What an incredible movie! I have seen only half of it so far. But I already feel so overwhelmed! It takes truly a genius to come up with such an awesome story telling!
These unknowns did a convincing impressive job. I surprisingly enjoyed this movie. I appreciated the message ❤
Very special, thank you ❤
Watched Slipaway, then Not That Funny, then Blur Circle......all three have beauty and depth of emotion that make them must-sees.
Where are those two movies streaming?
@@kimboucher7466 Both movies on UA-cam.....The second movie is NOT THAT FUNNY....got the name wrong in my original post.
@@barbaramartinetti thanks!
This is a very good story. Loce all the characters and the realness of it all. Sometimess life is much stranger than fiction 😎👍
Watching this one again is a for sure! Thank you for moments of laughter and anger and high love 🎉❤❤❤
Bra filmen sådan film man glömmer inte över huvud taget.
Inte ofta att jag såg en film som
handla om sällskap äktheten och
medmänniskan . 🌸🙂
A million tears. Life shouldn’t be this hard but sometimes it is.
Without sorrow, how would we know JOY?
This was a really good film - excellent acting from the mother.
Brilliant movie. well worth the time to watch. Very thought provoking.
A very touching movie. Sometimes it's hard to let go. This movie will help a little.
I understan you...
Saddest, funniest, most real ever! Beautiful,
Wow this movie was kind of crazy and amazing at the same time.thanks ❤
This is a beautiful, touching, amazing film. ❤
Wonderful movie. Thank you all.
Simply beautiful human story…compassion often stems from hardships, hardship without compassionate hearts makes bitter hard hearts
So many triggers here. It was hard work but I made it through, thank you.
Me to ❤
😂 That scene right at the beginning with the swinging backpack was pretty hilarious. But the comments are highly encouraging. 🙏🏻👍🏻
Stopped watching after an hour. Creepy and unsettling. Also, devoid of links to reality unless these people are secret millionaires.
I may finish watching later because I am curious. (And optimistic/hopeful.)
But this is a creepy film. Dark. I grew up with illness and death and this has little to do with losing people. It's an artistic interpretation of how people can get stuck in a situation of loss and turn it into their crutch, their sole reason for living, and start doing really strange things as a result.
This was so good 💯 when he said "evil steals and it never wants to give back." So much unraveled which I've been working healing and it is an answer I have been looking for without knowing I was looking or waiting for. Thank you from the Healer in Soweto South Africa. ❤🎉🎉🎉
Qué hermosa película!, nunca estamos solos aunque a veces parezca que así es, todo sucede por algo, y ese algo es lo que nuestra Alma necesita para su evolución, infinitas gracias por tu trabajo y la excelente elección para compartir, un abrazo.
Hola. No entiendo inglés y no sé qué pasó al final. Me puede decir ?
Hola, Jill termina aceptando la pérdida de su hijo y que su rabia no sólo la daña a ella sino a todos los que la rodean, Burton se da cuenta que necesita soltar y dejar ir su esposa, él había creído que ella le daba la fuerza para ayudar a los demás pero Jill al intervenir diciéndole a ella que puede partir le está ayudando a él , la frase decisiva es cuando él dice que no todos los dolores son iguales, al final Jill lo comprende al ir a ver a Heather a quien criticó por no superar su pérdida pero cuando la vé con su hija se da cuenta que es una madre muy amorosa y que las palabras ya no son necesarias, el amor real las sustituye. Una disculpa por la tardanza.@@SoyYoElMejorAmigo
In Africa there is a saying that an elephant is never going to find its tusks heavy.
Really good movie - Thanks!
I love his movie and I actually think those quirky little ways of letting go are ingenious and would and could actually work for some. I love it. ❤❤❤
A very special movie, I highly recommend. Thank you.
The plot was over the top, only in America! The rest of the world is sane!
Should the mother have told the 13-year old (now 15-year old) girl it wasn't her fault?
Thank you. Love it. 😊❤
Loved it ❤
Huge surprise watching this gem. Great ensemble of actors.
Loved it. Food for thought. Gracias desde México.
Wow seems like a great movie, I have a glitch in me that causes me to watch a film from the beginning to the end so I hope you guys that shared are right... I'll comment again afterwards peace bras
Very good movie with many twist and turns
Watching for the 8th time since Saturday and I will say THE BEST!
Watching for the 5th time what a beautiful storyline. Just beautiful ❤️
We are all a bit screwed
BEAUTIFUL.
So Katie came back after 5 months without any explanation to us? 🤔
I don't think Katie was ever gone, the mom had issues and was seeking attention, that is why the mom was so ready to let her go after 5 moms. She wasn't hurting, a mom who actually has lost a child would not move on after 5 months.
I was lost. Thanks😮😊
@@olgasome2881 oh, thanks, I didn't pick that up
I think Katie coming back, is showing Jill that there IS hope.
This movie will always remain as a wound in my heart.
Blur Circle sure unblurred a lot in me. Provoked thought big time as well as onionized my ugly little pig's eyes. Huge thanx!
Now that's a good film. I recommend to everybody who reads the comments before deciding to watch.
What a beautiful human effort. THANKS.
Wow what a great movie I actually loved it ❤😊
Thanks ❤
Great movie, thank you ❤
I lost a 15yo child - tough, really hard but that doesn't give you a licence to hurt others. Xx
Beautiful
Well done.
Thank you🎉
Good storytelling.
Beautiful, movie 🎬 🎞 thanks ❤😢😢😢.
Excellent movie!!
Thank You ❤
My dog is my kid
Beautiful looking dog - if that's him/her in your profile picture.
Appreciate everyone’s comments You guys rock 🤘
Thanks!
Great movie very deep
A gem
Very moving
That was an interesting film for a change - they are kinda hard to find these days!
Thankyou
Movie is worth watching gave me alot to think about like letting go. It's my fault accept and move on
Couldn't relate.....I'm sure some ppl can but I got total peace from my Lord knowing He has my babes that passed in His loving arms and His plan is beyond me!! I will see them again for eternity
But I do respect that others see it differently.....
I lost my husband and only child 13 months later became forever 39, while it's devastating, I do know that they are in my future now. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss. ❤
Great film
Forthright, what an abstract, great extrapolation .
No entiendo mucho el inglés así que no sé qué pasó con el hijo de la mujer ? Por qué dejó de buscarlo ?
Magnifique!
awesome
Bellissima storia e bravissimi attori. ❤
Loved Earl❤🎉😊
This is a very strange movie.......
who is that boy with Heather?
Just, WOW!
Fantastic..
6 outta 10 stars...
Who was Heather? What did i miss??😮
Heather was the babysitter that lost track of her son at the park.......just older
Great movie.
I WANT FRIENDS OF THIS CALIBER. THESE MEN WERE HONORABLE. THE RAREST MAN OF ALL MEN. KIM LONGO.
The thought of life after death is the worst thing ever to convince a human being of, to tell them that their loved one's are lookin down protecting them...is just insane !!!
It's so sad that people believe what they are told to believe in, it just makes me sick..🤮🙄😒
Interestingly the Quran says in the last verse of Surah Al Bakr;”Thou shalt not be burdened more than you can bear! “
Sounds promising.
Excellent
Indescribably sad.
whaaat?? so wait, was Katie ever gone, or was that just a woman who needed tons of drama?? VERY UNSATISFYING END
Super!
Good movie 👍
trigger warning:
yes...complex character...a reality check type of movie...
Is this woman a dinga-bing????
Very strange film. Strange characters. Maybe I do not understand it.