There are so many stories like this where an older guy brings a much younger foreigner to the West and they leave within a couple years. Its not just the Philippines but name your country. Basically in their home country you are the exotic guy with money but back in the west you're just an average old dude and she's the young exotic hottie. It won't take her long to figure that out.
I know of a case of a Chinese American man, about 53, brought a lady, about 23, from China. As soon as she cleared customs in the airport in the US, she ran. A young Chinese man was waiting for her in the airport.
I don’t understand why these old fools continue to make the same mistake 🤦♂️🤦♂️ havent they heard about these horror stories for a long time? If you know anything at all about large age gap relationships , you NEVER bring a young Filipina to the states.. hard to feel sorry for guys like this, it happens almost 100 percent of the time..
Been happening since the US Navy and US Air Force days. Imagine if a young sailor, marine, or airman can lose their wives once they become westernized what more if you are older?
It's every young woman's dream to marry a grandpa 40 years older than her. From the age of 12 they have posters of old,pot bellied, bald grandpa's on their bedroom walls. When handsome young men their own age ask them out they sternly refuse as they patiently hold out for their dream grandpa to arrive.
Very very very few young women are actually attracted to a much older man. It’s foolish to think otherwise. They are in it for stability & security in their life. They can grow fond of you overtime for improving their life and possibly their kids life but mutual physical “lust” the odds are against you. The older guys are always thinking they are the exception to the rule. My observation from a guy in his 50’s…. I’m a realist not a wishful thinking guy…. Also from all the videos I’ve seen stay in the Philippians
That was his mistake, you need to spend at the bare minimum of two years in the relationship to properly vet her. So many guys ONLY think with their little heads and then jump into the volcano to get burnt. I've spent three years with mine and have zero problems. We have a 24 year age gap, I'm 67 she's 43. We have a lot in common one being a love of cooking. I've taught her how to garden, raise fruit trees, she loves to go fishing with me and even sat in my deer blind but didn't like when I shot my buck. She liked the meat though. Maybe with her being a little older and more mature gave me a better chance at a successful relationship. I've noticed the younger Filipinas are adopting American culture and similar attitudes as the American modern women. I agree your best chance at having a successful marriage with a large age gap is to stay in the Philippines. The temptation is too great for a young Filipina to stay with an OLDER GUY when she's getting so much attention from younger men.
For the most part I highly agree. At first I was very skeptical about our age gap, but I couldn't have been more wrong. Perhaps I was just lucky enough to find a very wonderful woman who was very sincere about having a relationship with me.
This is it right here. It takes about 2-3 years to figure out if you want to spend your life with someone you live in the same country with. Long distance can help you sort compatible values and hobbies, but you can learn more about a person in 6 months than 5 years of long distance dating.
I been married here in the Philippines for 5 years , and guess what ? I haven’t took her to the US , never . I prefer to do forth and back 2 or 3 times a years , safety measures .
Poor old men, first message is would you like to come to America?!? Is he trying to get swindled? What's the mental process of someone who approaches women like that?
I know 2 guys that had the same experience with younger Filipina girls that they brought to the USA and married them using the fiance visa to bring them to the USand then married them. After a year both of them told me that they were getting divorcedbecause their wife had met a younger guy and they wanted to get a divorce. It seems to be better if you keep them in the Phillipines and then things might go much better.
I'm fine with that. Girl changes her mind. But now if the girl goes after any financial support! That's very different!! She left for greener pastures. she shouldn't be allowed to take grass with her from her old pasture.
Ya think?😆😆 years ago my friend showed me a Filipina dating site where all the Filipinas were in the 25 to 35 age range living in the states.. ALL of them were either divorced or widowed, obviously grandpa was stupid to bring them back to the US and they either left gramps for the young stud or died, they become the sought after prize once they hit American soil 😂😂
I've been to Manila twice last year and went out with a lot of women. I can honestly say that I don't trust any of them. Red flags were subtle but there. Are there "Good" women there? Maybe but I think in the end, even the so call "Good" women will do what's best for them and their family. In my opinion, don't look for love...just have fun and be BF/GF as long as it lasts....don't marry them. If the relationship lasts 10 years, then maybe marry.
Been coming to Philippines since 84'-had numerous flippina gf's-most under 26yrs from varying backgrounds eg.wealthy families,bargirls,poor province women and freelancers-all used me for money. Never wanted old bags so, it's short time with out-of-hours bargirls for 1500php now on. Life is good now.
Maybe its the luck of the draw, I have a 34 year age gap, and spent 10 years in the USA, before moving back to Cebu area. All is great, BUT, when we met, she was 29 years old, mature, never had a date or a boyfriend, and I realized that I needed to spend the year over here in Bohol, (away from her family) and get to know her for sure! And after a year we went to the USA, married and have been happy! Lots of American women tried to influence her!!! They were upset about the age gap, and thought for sure she should leave me and find a younger guy! So it was the American women the tried to wreak our marriage! Some guys tried to hit on her, but she was not interested, just loved me! I lucked out. Anyway some Filipino’s do great in the USA, but some do not and leave the guy the brought them to the USA! I really think the secret is to spend at least a year in the Philippines with her to get to know her, and you will know before you go to the USA, if it will work or not.
@@PapaD104it’s not unlike these poor ghetto kids who get that large pro contract, for the first time in their life their eyes are opened and they are exposed to the riches that are now within their grasp.. there’s really no sure fire way of knowing how a woman is going to change 10,15 years down the road. I have had more than a few of my friends who were married to women at a young age that I thought would last forever, guess what? women bailed on them..
It was especially sad to hear about the situation with the stepdaughter. My ex wife, who is not Filipina, has a daughter, she’s an adult now but we got together when her daughter was 5 or 6. My ex wife and I have a daughter together and I was able to maintain a friendly relationship with my stepdaughter. It’s tough to marry someone with a kid. I’m happily married now to a Filipina from the province in Luzon, no kids. We are trying to have our own kids. I would not recommend dating young women who have kids. I would also recommend dating young women who are very family oriented and attend church.
having biological children with the local changes things though... wouldn't you want to leave something for the kid(s)? put in measures to ensure as slim a chance as possible of it being sold off from under them though.
@@wl88168 I think it’s more likely if u buy a house there with ur partner kids or not she will leave u with her parents blessing and u will loose it all … then u de divorced single and dead broke… unless ur a multi millionaire.. there are other ways to make sure ur kids are looked after..
In the USA, she has to stay married for at least 5 years before she can apply for US citizenship. Unless it has changed, but she can file for divorce and claim domestic abuse and still stay in the country. But, even if u are divorced you are still liable for her for 10 years, if she files for any kind of govt assistance u have to pay it back. Like, food stamps, operation or medical emergency. Even if she remarries you are liable up to 10 years of working quarters i think. The only way you get off the hook, u make sure she gets her citizenship before the 10 years is up.
Or marries another man. I had this happen to me with a beautiful young lady from NE India. We split up shortly after marrying here. She went with another man and I divorced her after about two years. My aunt told me about this rule and said just let her marry the new guy because it will get me off the hook. She tried to claim I was abusive and everything, tried to threaten me to stay married to her untill she got her citizenship even when she was with the new guy. I said go ahead you have nothing on me. I divorced her and then she got married to the new guy who had more money than me , it also didn't last long. She tried playing him also... Married another man in India while on vacation while still married to the guy in US and tried to hide it from him. He found out through Instagram. She just lied through her teeth about it... Meanwhile before he found out, she was telling him all these lies about loosing her money and needing money while she was there and all... Meanwhile she was with that guy... Be careful out there .. charm is deceitful.. If I had stayed in India would have been the only way and kept her around her family. When we started having trouble, my own sisters betrayed me and took her out dancing... That's where she met the other guy... I was only 30 when we met, she was 19.. prettiest thing you've ever seen.. but the most manipulative woman I've ever encountered... Young Women need checks and balances like every one else. You take them away from their traditional environment and family..it's like letting the cat out of the bag.. hard to get it back in
yep. not mentioned enough is you are financially responsible for her once you hit American soil REGARDLESS if she runs off and shacks up with CHAD , medical emergencies, legal matters, while CHAD is getting the milk for free without marrying the cow , YOU are paying thru the nose , basically still legally liable for any financial damage she has caused you 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
As soon as she gets her green card, she can stay (2 years). Another way is to claim to the police that she is being beaten by her husband/benefactor then she can stay.
For a person born in a deep poverty shanty situation: They are born into survival mindset from birth for themselves and their family. Give them stability, they will not adapt, they are stuck in the day-to-day life survival/ improvement mindset. Goes with mates too. You aren't "saving" anyone, old men dont be white nights. Filipinas are great, but date close to your own age. I married one, together almost 10 years.
that’s a good observation, you can’t change the stripes on a zebras back, we are who we are, once we hit a certain age, most psychologists say by the time a person is 6 years old or so they have developed about 90 percent of their mental make up I might be off on the exact specifics , it’s hard for us to judge or understand a person’s struggle growing up in poverty,
_IM 81 AND MY FILIPINA GIRLFRIEND IS JUST 27. WE HAVE BEEN LIVING TOGETHER NOW FOR 6 YEARS HERE IN MANILA. WE ARE NOT MARRIED YET. I ALSO HAVE TWO YOUNG FILIPINA MAID THAT LIVE WITH ME HERE IN PHILIPPINES. ABOUT MY INCOME, I GOT AROUND $1MILLION DOLLARS IN MY SAVINGS. I RECEIVE MILITARY PENSION, 100% DISABILITY VA PENSION, AND SOCIAL SECURITY PENSION. TOTAL PENSION OF AROUND $7,000 DOLLARS A MONTH. MY LIFE HERE IN PHILIPPINES IS JUST SO GOOD. IM LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST_
That’s what I’m talking about! I knew there’s people like you here in the Philippines. And no matter what people say, it’s their lost if they don’t get it.
SORRY TO HEAR YOUR FILIPINA WIFE LEFT YOU FOR A YOUNGER MAN. THANKS FOR EXPRESSING YOUR SAD PREDICAMENTS. GOOD LUCK AND HOPING YOU'LL FIND A BETTER ONE. AS THE SAYING GOES, "THERE,S A MILLION FISHES OUT THERE, SO CATCH A GOOD ONE, A KEEPER. GOD BLESS
THE YOUNGER MAN WHO TOOK HER IN MY EXPERIENCE WAS AN IDIOT. IT IS LIKE BUYING A SECOND HAND USED CAR!! IF HE WAS GERMAN BAD LUCK FOR HER BECAUSE THEY ARE ALCOHOLICS.
Pick the right one and treat them and I wouldn't be looking around Clark or Manila just my opinion great and you won't have a problem 17 years married with a pinay 13 years in the US
In a marriage between a US citizen and a Filipina, either spouse can initiate a divorce in the United States. However, the validity of this divorce in the Philippines depends on several factors: 1. US Citizen Initiating Divorce: - The US citizen can file for divorce in the US. - This divorce is generally recognized in the Philippines for the US citizen[1]. - The US citizen would be free to remarry in the Philippines after obtaining a Certificate of Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage from the US Embassy[1]. 2. Filipina Initiating Divorce: - The Filipina spouse can file for divorce in the US if she resides there[4]. - However, this divorce is not automatically recognized in the Philippines for the Filipina[2]. 3. Validity in the Philippines: - For the Filipina spouse, the foreign divorce is not automatically valid in the Philippines[2]. - The Filipina must file a petition for judicial recognition of the foreign divorce decree in a Philippine court for it to be legally recognized[2][3]. - Only after this recognition can the Filipina be considered legally divorced in the Philippines and free to remarry[3]. It's important to note that if both spouses were Filipino citizens at the time of divorce, even if obtained abroad, it cannot be recognized in the Philippines[4]. The divorce's validity in the Philippines primarily depends on at least one spouse being a non-Filipino at the time of the divorce[4]. Citations: [1] www.lawyer-philippines.com/articles/requirements-for-us-citizen-remarrying-a-filipina-after-divorce-legal-considerations-in-the-philippines [2] www.respicio.ph/dear-attorney/property-division-in-a-divorce-between-a-us-citizen-and-a-filipino-citizen [3] www.reddit.com/r/Philippines_Expats/comments/1bqqlh1/married_in_the_philippines_divorced_in_united/ [4] lawyerphilippines.org/faq-guide-recognition-of-foreign-divorce/ [5] ua-cam.com/video/-YR0mAqYQ88/v-deo.html
@@SamLamb2.0 the purpose of it is legitimizing children. For any other purpose it's a charade, a game. Taking a wife from a third world country to a first world country is a mugs gamble, but if you have children it's the right thing to do for them regardless. When "never take a fish out of water" is applied to an adult relationship, that's fair play as long as it's made clear from the get go. But making children, we have to do our best for them.
@@SamLamb2.0 it's the same everywhere that's why it is just so intimately and crucially important in these modern times that if and when the time comes, it had better be with the right, suitable, compatible and correct life-partner.
@@Ghekko-kw3zz apparently there's a clarification in the PH law recently that if it can be proven that the foreign partner got a divorce outside the PH and she can prove this then the divorce can and will be recognized as a matter of fairness to both parties BUT if she has trouble proving that the foreigner had initiated the divorce and the foreigner refuses to provide cooperation, then you are most likely correct that she is indeed then up the creek and stuck especially if and when she does not possess the finances to pursue and clear the matter up..
You know when a "good woman" wants to stay with you when your flat broke and she still hangs around as long as you believe in yourself you know what her intentions are .
I married my filipina on my second visit to the Philippines, she is 14 years younger, i am 62, her 2 sisters are married to foreigners, she is from a good family, i took a risk and it paid off, my wife and her family have never asked me for anything.
@@recardobrown because you give them without them asking cause you want to “help” them out. But they still disrespect you by speaking Filipino in front of you.
It took her 3 months to believe that someone could be so out of touch with reality. Then a male lover told her that this guy just fell off a turnip truck.
There are significant differences in divorce procedures, outcomes, and consequences for a foreigner and a Filipina couple, depending on whether the marriage was conducted in the US or in the Philippines: 1. Divorce Procedures: - US Marriage: The couple can obtain a divorce in the US, following US state laws. - Philippine Marriage: Divorce is not legally available in the Philippines. The couple would need to pursue alternatives like annulment or legal separation in Philippine courts, which are more complex and limited in scope. 2. Recognition of Foreign Divorce: - US Marriage: A US divorce would be recognized in the US and can be recognized in the Philippines through a judicial process. - Philippine Marriage: A foreign divorce obtained by either spouse can be recognized in the Philippines, but requires a separate court case for judicial recognition. 3. Outcomes: - US Marriage: Both spouses can legally end the marriage and remarry. - Philippine Marriage: The foreign spouse can remarry based on the foreign divorce, but the Filipino spouse must obtain judicial recognition of the foreign divorce in the Philippines before being able to remarry. 4. Consequences: - US Marriage: Asset division, alimony, and child custody are typically addressed in the US divorce proceedings. - Philippine Marriage: These issues may need to be addressed separately in Philippine courts, as the country's laws do not provide for divorce-related settlements. 5. Legal Process: - US Marriage: Relatively straightforward divorce process in the US. - Philippine Marriage: Complex legal process involving annulment or separation in the Philippines, or seeking recognition of a foreign divorce. In both cases, the Filipino spouse must file for judicial recognition of the foreign divorce in a Philippine court to ensure it is legally recognized in the Philippines, regardless of where the marriage took place. Citations: [1] lawyerphilippines.org/recognition-of-foreign-divorce-in-the-philippines-process/ [2] www.philstar.com/headlines/2024/09/22/2387014/foreign-divorce-now-recognized-philippine-courts [3] www.lawyer-philippines.com/articles/recognition-of-foreign-divorce-under-philippine-law [4] www.lawyer-philippines.com/articles/recognition-of-foreign-divorce-in-the-philippines-for-filipino-citizens [5] www.reddit.com/r/Philippines_Expats/comments/1bqqlh1/married_in_the_philippines_divorced_in_united/ [6] www.brookman.co.uk/family-solicitors/international-divorce/china-japan-and-south-east-asia-law/philippines-divorce-family-law
It's really important to think carefully before bringing a young foreign spouse to the USA. Sometimes, they might be more interested in obtaining a green card and citizenship rather than building a genuine relationship. Rushing into things can jeopardize the connection you have; take your time to develop that sentimental bond, or you might face some tough consequences!! 🤓 🤣 🤣
I agree but I met my wife on Facebook and was a good choice had another girl i knew on Facebook was surprised and even said to me I thought you was like all other guy's. I told her you thought wrong its your loss. Waiting on my spousal approval in the USA 14 months now it's a long wait.
do men really know a good women vs a bad women? ... a bad women can pretend to be a good women and no red flag can prevent you from knowing the truth ... that is a wolf in sheep clothing ... you will never know and if you find out that she was bad only pretending to be good then it will be too late because you have already involve with that person ... the same thing does happen when a bad man pretend to be a good man ... and every person happiness is different ... what make a person happy might be different on what make you happy ... costumes and poverty is the biggest problem in interracial relationship ... it is not that it can not work but the way they think, the way that they was raised up , money is always an influence, ect ... you first need to know what each other want before you can commit into a relationship ... look and security is the first thing that attract a person to the other but it is not what keep them together ... loyalty , respect, and love will keep them together
The only way you know is when you break up with her and see what she does after. I was in a short term relationship with someone and what I thought was red flags, wasn’t. But me I dump them right away if any problems. She is now married and very successful, and I know she still thinks about me and values our friendship.
@@morlandoemtp we can only assume but we really don't know ... we can not read their minds and their action determine who they are ... but a wolf in sheep clothing is very hard to notice unless you catch them in their deception ... btw everyone has a red flag ... no of us are perfect ... if everything was about red flags then society would had ended a long time ago
You don't have to marry a girl to have a committed relationship. Just move to the Philippines and declare your never ending love and commitment to her, her sister, her cousin, and her neighbor then live happily ever after.
So these unfortunate circumstances still happening huh. These women there in the Philippines must stop doing this. I’m also from the Philippines and every time I hear this it’s disgusting and shameful. Older men from US my suggestion to you is do not rush get to know them well, do not bring them to US until you are sure if this person is morally right for you and make sure she’s not way too young than you. That is my advice as a sister to you. People like that are ungrateful and evil. I’m sorry. But just be careful next time.
Like I said before Sam, I would not take my Filipina to the USA. Maybe after a few years married and a few kids, I might consider it. And what I would consider would just be a tourist visa, for a couple of weeks and then back to the Philippines.
A young Filipina doesn't want to be with a grandpa when you take her to your own country, she'll meet other Girls her age start socializing meeting young men, having affairs whilst her older husband is at home often with the kids, taking a young Filipina to your own country is like taking a child to a candy store!! Keep her in the Philippines period.
We are married here in Cebu since November 1st. We talked online for 1 year before I travelled to the Philippines. Our age gap is 4 years, 9 months and 9 days. I am 63 and she is 58. WISH US LUCK !!!
Well I'm married to a woman 26 years younger. We have two beautiful children boy girl. We have been together 5.5 years and never been to America. Let's hope that our relationship doesn't change if I bring her to America for a couple years
Agreed. My ex wasn't the right one, but I loved her family. Next to finding the right person to be with, I think it's just as hard to find a good family, and they were mostly good people. I don't talk to my ex, but I do talk to her family every so often. I don't think I'll ever do LDR again, though
Guys, stay single. Enjoy your peace.🎉 Just be careful and don't rush things. Don't send money. Don't be an ATM. Don't be a Bank. She will abuse you financially. Do not take her to the states. She will get spoiled and will find someone her age.
Well hopefully Paul can have a darn good retirement- BY THE WAY during the entire video Paul’s voice seemed so familiar??? Couldn’t think of it? Then BAMB! To me he sounds like the late great ROY ROGERS! Good luck Paul!
You know what, I just went back and listened closely…you are correct…I’ll be spending 3weeks traveling with him and few other friend in the Philippines next week ..I’ll have some new videos with him in it hehehe
Alot of us moved too qwik and got burned , Just get another one . They keep making them! . You must be living with them sharing an apartment minimum 2 years to know her enough before commiting.
Keep in mind that for a surviving spouse to qualify for her husband's Social Security survivors benefits, she must have five years of US residency or be a US citizen. Too many times via social media forums I have read American dies, leaving Filipina wife with nothing, sad situation. It happens all the time.
Find a descent honest good woman and not very young and serious about the two of you and life. I think you will only find that person if she has a good moral background with a combination of practicing her faith seriously as well. You look like a good and descent man so you deserve to find one there but it might not be easy just take your time until you find a really good person. I think you will find her just take it easy and be safe. Good luck.
A lot of these men go to these countries and date long distance. There are a lot of things that can be hidden that the woman doesn’t find out about until they get the context of the person in the US and see how they behave with their peers and in the same environment. It takes about 3 years to settle into a marriage and it takes about 3 years to formalize the citizenship process. Most marriages in general fall apart by year 2 or year 7. Yes there are some that cheat the marriage process, but more likely it is the character flaws of the person seeking outside their culture. Many of them are not properly socialized within their own peer group and must seek outside.
Husband speaking age 82. Married to my Filipino lady 48 years. Any OLD man who married a Hot way to young lady wants a trophy wife AND a “ care giver “. enough said. ( I wrote to my future wife 5 years as a pen pal ). She was a teacher , Masters Degree in elementary Ed. she also is only 6 years younger than me. My only opinion is divorce her, hope you did not buy her a house.
Write her into your will if you want to show a commitment to take care of her "until death do you part". Re-writing your will if she runs off with the milkman is one hellofa lot easier and cheaper than getting married or divorced. And tell me again what is the benefit above and beyond what you already have after marrying a Filipina?? Maybe yes, if you plan on having kids.
You talk about the age gap. However, not all 60 year olds are equal. Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp are 60, but don’t look 60. Regardless of fame (i.e. If they were not famous), they would still be able to attract and keep younger women, because they are good looking, in reasonable shape, and have some charisma. So, if you get a confident, successful ,attractive 60 year old man, he is more likely to have his pick of women, then be fearful of losing his women (the tables would be turned). One other thing you may not know. The famous Filipina Pea prefers men over 50 and she is 32. She stated it in one of her recent videos.
In some cases it is a young woman's dream. Not all women think the same especially when it comes to western woman. Frank Sinatra married a 19 year old when he was 55. They were married 40 years. I've seen couple's in the United States that baffled me. Huge fat guys with beautiful woman. And the other way around. There are always exceptions to the rules. In most cases if you have a Filipina regardless of age she will be with you until the End.
The U.S. has 10 times more guys looking for young pretty w-m-n, than there are pretty w-m-n. Not sure why but the quality of w-m-n in the U.S. has never been good and seems even worse today.
😂 Dubai is not a Christian place, but the Philippines is…. Predominantly Catholic…. You can keep the shopping mall in the desert and it’s draconian laws / religion 👌
@ the laws in places like Dubai are based on religion, the laws in USA are based on feminism. The rates of infidelity are usually often highest in places with feminist laws. You may think feminism trumps traditional religious doctrine but many including myself would disagree. I enjoy life here in this desert called Phoenix Arizona, but wish we had laws that truly protected families along with significant legal ramifications for interference
You can pay for happy ending and end the transaction, verses the one on the installment plan....don`t burn the house to make toast. I would say at the end of the day they both got their moneys worth.😀
Obviously if there’s a 40 year age gap you are a fool to bring her to America. You should probably stay within 20 years. But that’s not good enough for some of these guys. Be reasonable and you might not get burned.
If u think u going to bring a Filipina to the USA with a 30 or 40 yr age gap. I would advise strongly against it. Similar age? Maybe it works. If u got a big age gap stay in the Philippines
Do men really expect that they marry for love - it is business. There cannot be chemistry with large age gaps. If you want to play with a young girl go for it, but do not buy.
"You're generalizing." The only position a delusional person can take. People who buy lottery tickets never win millions. "You're generalizing." Correct.
Many countries in Asia have girl friends you can get and keep a few months,,then move to another country and get another girlfriend etc,etc,,😊not necessary to get married,,pop needs to head for Thailand,,😊
@ My wife and I goto Thailand every three months except when it’s rainy season there,,love the food, hotels and traveling,,lots of shopping also,,we live in Clark area..enjoy your trip,,so many places to visit..
Did you have to pay child support? Alimony? Did she get half the assets? I would not sell house in USA for a few years. Once you do and if things do not work out you will never be able to afford to move back.
The fact is older man going to the Philippines to find a young Filipina. You guys are exposing yourself to failed marriage, some women knows you have lots of money with visa to other countries with good opportunities. It is a gamble situation not all are successful that women will stay with you forever, especially if you don't give her money to support the family in the Philippines. Some reason, that younger women need younger partner and get bored to be with old man in bed. But not all, some have diffirent reasons why they separated from older men, maybe karma from some men playing with women in their life.
what did she get when she divorced him? Did she make him still support her? did she take 1/2 of his assets? This is the real difference between a good and Evil woman. Just because the present law says she can doesn't make it right!
Hate to be hersh, and he seems like a nice guy, but he ain't the sharpest knife in the drawer. Guess he never heard that old saying, *Whu buy the cow if you can get the milk for free."
@SamLamb2.0 I sent you that question right now and I'm just at the beginning of the video. I think that's a big thing also, once you have kids with a woman that kind of changes everything most likely they'll stay with you.
There are so many stories like this where an older guy brings a much younger foreigner to the West and they leave within a couple years. Its not just the Philippines but name your country. Basically in their home country you are the exotic guy with money but back in the west you're just an average old dude and she's the young exotic hottie. It won't take her long to figure that out.
You are right, Fran
happened to one of my former landlords
I know of a case of a Chinese American man, about 53, brought a lady, about 23, from China. As soon as she cleared customs in the airport in the US, she ran. A young Chinese man was waiting for her in the airport.
I don’t understand why these old fools continue to make the same mistake 🤦♂️🤦♂️ havent they heard about these horror stories for a long time? If you know anything at all about large age gap relationships , you NEVER bring a young Filipina to the states.. hard to feel sorry for guys like this, it happens almost 100 percent of the time..
Been happening since the US Navy and US Air Force days. Imagine if a young sailor, marine, or airman can lose their wives once they become westernized what more if you are older?
Confucius say when an old man marries a young woman it’s like buying books for other people to read.
Can't get on my livestream. Wifi is very weak at camaya coast
It's every young woman's dream to marry a grandpa 40 years older than her. From the age of 12 they have posters of old,pot bellied, bald grandpa's on their bedroom walls. When handsome young men their own age ask them out they sternly refuse as they patiently hold out for their dream grandpa to arrive.
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Tigerbeat (Hots for Gramps Edition) is all the rage in the Philippines. lol
Yep a don't think it's physical it's the green dollars
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ive know a dozen men that brought home women from phils since 2009, all of the women took off within months and got new younger men
This happened to my friend in thThailand. He is not old. Soon as she landed in Canada and got married to him, she left.
Oh my my. No mercy here
Very very very few young women are actually attracted to a much older man. It’s foolish to think otherwise. They are in it for stability & security in their life. They can grow fond of you overtime for improving their life and possibly their kids life but mutual physical “lust” the odds are against you. The older guys are always thinking they are the exception to the rule. My observation from a guy in his 50’s…. I’m a realist not a wishful thinking guy…. Also from all the videos I’ve seen stay in the Philippians
That was his mistake, you need to spend at the bare minimum of two years in the relationship to properly vet her. So many guys ONLY think with their little heads and then jump into the volcano to get burnt. I've spent three years with mine and have zero problems. We have a 24 year age gap, I'm 67 she's 43. We have a lot in common one being a love of cooking. I've taught her how to garden, raise fruit trees, she loves to go fishing with me and even sat in my deer blind but didn't like when I shot my buck. She liked the meat though. Maybe with her being a little older and more mature gave me a better chance at a successful relationship. I've noticed the younger Filipinas are adopting American culture and similar attitudes as the American modern women. I agree your best chance at having a successful marriage with a large age gap is to stay in the Philippines. The temptation is too great for a young Filipina to stay with an OLDER GUY when she's getting so much attention from younger men.
Great advice.
From my observation, a 10-15 year age gap is no problem, 20-25 is pushing the limit, 30-35 and above is high risk.
For the most part I highly agree. At first I was very skeptical about our age gap, but I couldn't have been more wrong. Perhaps I was just lucky enough to find a very wonderful woman who was very sincere about having a relationship with me.
This is it right here. It takes about 2-3 years to figure out if you want to spend your life with someone you live in the same country with. Long distance can help you sort compatible values and hobbies, but you can learn more about a person in 6 months than 5 years of long distance dating.
I been married here in the Philippines for 5 years , and guess what ? I haven’t took her to the US , never . I prefer to do forth and back 2 or 3 times a years , safety measures .
Smart
@@SamLamb2.0ya, it keeps her under control. Don’t give them a chance. Sort of like a dog.
@@SamLamb2.0 SMART BUT HOW LONG CAN YOU DO THAT? DO YOU KNOW WHAT SHE DOES DURING YOUR ABSENCE? I WOULD NOT TRUST HER.
Squirt and go runs . I hear yah .
Don't take her home she'll dump you for a younger Turk.
Poor old men, first message is would you like to come to America?!? Is he trying to get swindled? What's the mental process of someone who approaches women like that?
might as well sign all your assets over to her and get it over with 🤗🤗🤗 this is the young Filipinas version of winning the lottery 😆😆
I know 2 guys that had the same experience with younger Filipina girls that they brought to the USA and married them using the fiance visa to bring them to the USand then married them. After a year both of them told me that they were getting divorcedbecause their wife had met a younger guy and they wanted to get a divorce. It seems to be better if you keep them in the Phillipines and then things might go much better.
100%
I'm fine with that. Girl changes her mind. But now if the girl goes after any financial support! That's very different!! She left for greener pastures. she shouldn't be allowed to take grass with her from her old pasture.
Ya think?😆😆 years ago my friend showed me a Filipina dating site where all the Filipinas were in the 25 to 35 age range living in the states.. ALL of them were either divorced or widowed, obviously grandpa was stupid to bring them back to the US and they either left gramps for the young stud or died, they become the sought after prize once they hit American soil 😂😂
When you sponsor someone- you're financially liable and responsible for them. Even divorced, he has to pay for the woman he brought over. @51dbail
So is that some sort of anecdotal evidence that the majority would not choose an older gentleman with all things being equal? Say it ain't so.
Dude these Filipinos don't want you to expose the secret 😅
@@quentinwillis7695 😂
I've been to Manila twice last year and went out with a lot of women. I can honestly say that I don't trust any of them. Red flags were subtle but there. Are there "Good" women there? Maybe but I think in the end, even the so call "Good" women will do what's best for them and their family. In my opinion, don't look for love...just have fun and be BF/GF as long as it lasts....don't marry them. If the relationship lasts 10 years, then maybe marry.
10yr ok I’ll take your advice
What subtle red flags
Been coming to Philippines since 84'-had numerous flippina gf's-most under 26yrs from varying backgrounds eg.wealthy families,bargirls,poor province women and freelancers-all used me for money.
Never wanted old bags so, it's short time with out-of-hours bargirls for 1500php now on.
Life is good now.
@@pandemicoftheunvaccinated5367if you been going since 84' why didn't ever choose to settle down before
Maybe its the luck of the draw, I have a 34 year age gap, and spent 10 years in the USA, before moving back to Cebu area. All is great, BUT, when we met, she was 29 years old, mature, never had a date or a boyfriend, and I realized that I needed to spend the year over here in Bohol, (away from her family) and get to know her for sure! And after a year we went to the USA, married and have been happy! Lots of American women tried to influence her!!! They were upset about the age gap, and thought for sure she should leave me and find a younger guy! So it was the American women the tried to wreak our marriage! Some guys tried to hit on her, but she was not interested, just loved me! I lucked out. Anyway some Filipino’s do great in the USA, but some do not and leave the guy the brought them to the USA! I really think the secret is to spend at least a year in the Philippines with her to get to know her, and you will know before you go to the USA, if it will work or not.
That’s the same advice I gave Paul 5months ago. He’s listening and we are hanging out together now
You are very lucky!
Your wife is a smart girl..those young men are broke 😂
Very inspiring
Paul should a marry a woman older and closer to his age.
That's a reality of a grandpa marrying a young woman. It happens around the world.
You are correct
You can’t blame him for trying.
@@SamLamb2.0 yet he seems to think the mistake was bringing her to the US. That was not the root cause. Choosing a LIFE PARTNER poorly was.
@@PapaD104it’s not unlike these poor ghetto kids who get that large pro contract, for the first time in their life their eyes are opened and they are exposed to the riches that are now within their grasp.. there’s really no sure fire way of knowing how a woman is going to change 10,15 years down the road. I have had more than a few of my friends who were married to women at a young age that I thought would last forever, guess what? women bailed on them..
It was especially sad to hear about the situation with the stepdaughter. My ex wife, who is not Filipina, has a daughter, she’s an adult now but we got together when her daughter was 5 or 6. My ex wife and I have a daughter together and I was able to maintain a friendly relationship with my stepdaughter. It’s tough to marry someone with a kid. I’m happily married now to a Filipina from the province in Luzon, no kids. We are trying to have our own kids. I would not recommend dating young women who have kids. I would also recommend dating young women who are very family oriented and attend church.
@@anthonynales4910 thanks for the advice.
Sorry do not raise someone else's kids.
I bet he doesn't get a invitation to the wedding of the Philippines girl that left him in the USA, no fool like old fool
Don’t buy a house either there only rent
exactly dont build dont buy rent only
Agree
Agree again
having biological children with the local changes things though... wouldn't you want to leave something for the kid(s)? put in measures to ensure as slim a chance as possible of it being sold off from under them though.
@@wl88168 I think it’s more likely if u buy a house there with ur partner kids or not she will leave u with her parents blessing and u will loose it all … then u de divorced single and dead broke… unless ur a multi millionaire.. there are other ways to make sure ur kids are looked after..
In the USA, she has to stay married for at least 5 years before she can apply for US citizenship. Unless it has changed, but she can file for divorce and claim domestic abuse and still stay in the country. But, even if u are divorced you are still liable for her for 10 years, if she files for any kind of govt assistance u have to pay it back. Like, food stamps, operation or medical emergency. Even if she remarries you are liable up to 10 years of working quarters i think. The only way you get off the hook, u make sure she gets her citizenship before the 10 years is up.
Or marries another man.
I had this happen to me with a beautiful young lady from NE India.
We split up shortly after marrying here. She went with another man and I divorced her after about two years.
My aunt told me about this rule and said just let her marry the new guy because it will get me off the hook.
She tried to claim I was abusive and everything, tried to threaten me to stay married to her untill she got her citizenship even when she was with the new guy.
I said go ahead you have nothing on me. I divorced her and then she got married to the new guy who had more money than me , it also didn't last long. She tried playing him also...
Married another man in India while on vacation while still married to the guy in US and tried to hide it from him. He found out through Instagram.
She just lied through her teeth about it... Meanwhile before he found out, she was telling him all these lies about loosing her money and needing money while she was there and all... Meanwhile she was with that guy...
Be careful out there .. charm is deceitful..
If I had stayed in India would have been the only way and kept her around her family.
When we started having trouble, my own sisters betrayed me and took her out dancing... That's where she met the other guy...
I was only 30 when we met, she was 19.. prettiest thing you've ever seen.. but the most manipulative woman I've ever encountered...
Young Women need checks and balances like every one else. You take them away from their traditional environment and family..it's like letting the cat out of the bag.. hard to get it back in
yep. not mentioned enough is you are financially responsible for her once you hit American soil REGARDLESS if she runs off and shacks up with CHAD , medical emergencies, legal matters, while CHAD is getting the milk for free without marrying the cow , YOU are paying thru the nose , basically still legally liable for any financial damage she has caused you 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
As soon as she gets her green card, she can stay (2 years). Another way is to claim to the police that she is being beaten by her husband/benefactor then she can stay.
@@johnnypastrana6727they have to do a course in how to do this. No jokes.
Wrong. Very likely they can stay after a year, especially if abuse is claimed.
It's only ever just your turn. Your turn can end for any number of reasons, so be prepared for your turn to end by protecting your wealth.
Yep
If she truly love him, she wouldn't of left him.
I can agree with that.
Women don't marry for love.
Right he look good compared to the others
@ universal?
@@woodspirit98 Absolutely they marry for security, money, house and lot, and his social security.
For a person born in a deep poverty shanty situation: They are born into survival mindset from birth for themselves and their family. Give them stability, they will not adapt, they are stuck in the day-to-day life survival/ improvement mindset. Goes with mates too. You aren't "saving" anyone, old men dont be white nights.
Filipinas are great, but date close to your own age. I married one, together almost 10 years.
that’s a good observation, you can’t change the stripes on a zebras back, we are who we are, once we hit a certain age, most psychologists say by the time a person is 6 years old or so they have developed about 90 percent of their mental make up I might be off on the exact specifics , it’s hard for us to judge or understand a person’s struggle growing up in poverty,
_IM 81 AND MY FILIPINA GIRLFRIEND IS JUST 27. WE HAVE BEEN LIVING TOGETHER NOW FOR 6 YEARS HERE IN MANILA. WE ARE NOT MARRIED YET. I ALSO HAVE TWO YOUNG FILIPINA MAID THAT LIVE WITH ME HERE IN PHILIPPINES. ABOUT MY INCOME, I GOT AROUND $1MILLION DOLLARS IN MY SAVINGS. I RECEIVE MILITARY PENSION, 100% DISABILITY VA PENSION, AND SOCIAL SECURITY PENSION. TOTAL PENSION OF AROUND $7,000 DOLLARS A MONTH. MY LIFE HERE IN PHILIPPINES IS JUST SO GOOD. IM LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST_
That’s what I’m talking about! I knew there’s people like you here in the Philippines. And no matter what people say, it’s their lost if they don’t get it.
SORRY TO HEAR YOUR FILIPINA WIFE LEFT YOU FOR A YOUNGER MAN. THANKS FOR EXPRESSING YOUR SAD PREDICAMENTS. GOOD LUCK AND HOPING YOU'LL FIND A BETTER ONE. AS THE SAYING GOES, "THERE,S A MILLION FISHES OUT THERE, SO CATCH A GOOD ONE, A KEEPER. GOD BLESS
He’s out looking, Gabriel. We will be in Bohol around January
THE YOUNGER MAN WHO TOOK HER IN MY EXPERIENCE WAS AN IDIOT. IT IS LIKE BUYING A SECOND HAND USED CAR!! IF HE WAS GERMAN BAD LUCK FOR HER BECAUSE THEY ARE ALCOHOLICS.
Why. It’s not a shock to most of us.
Pick the right one and treat them and I wouldn't be looking around Clark or Manila just my opinion great and you won't have a problem 17 years married with a pinay 13 years in the US
Wow, love it
Old folks have to think that everybody wants to take advantage of them, is the case 90% of the time 😢
In a marriage between a US citizen and a Filipina, either spouse can initiate a divorce in the United States. However, the validity of this divorce in the Philippines depends on several factors:
1. US Citizen Initiating Divorce:
- The US citizen can file for divorce in the US.
- This divorce is generally recognized in the Philippines for the US citizen[1].
- The US citizen would be free to remarry in the Philippines after obtaining a Certificate of Legal Capacity to Contract Marriage from the US Embassy[1].
2. Filipina Initiating Divorce:
- The Filipina spouse can file for divorce in the US if she resides there[4].
- However, this divorce is not automatically recognized in the Philippines for the Filipina[2].
3. Validity in the Philippines:
- For the Filipina spouse, the foreign divorce is not automatically valid in the Philippines[2].
- The Filipina must file a petition for judicial recognition of the foreign divorce decree in a Philippine court for it to be legally recognized[2][3].
- Only after this recognition can the Filipina be considered legally divorced in the Philippines and free to remarry[3].
It's important to note that if both spouses were Filipino citizens at the time of divorce, even if obtained abroad, it cannot be recognized in the Philippines[4]. The divorce's validity in the Philippines primarily depends on at least one spouse being a non-Filipino at the time of the divorce[4].
Citations:
[1] www.lawyer-philippines.com/articles/requirements-for-us-citizen-remarrying-a-filipina-after-divorce-legal-considerations-in-the-philippines
[2] www.respicio.ph/dear-attorney/property-division-in-a-divorce-between-a-us-citizen-and-a-filipino-citizen
[3] www.reddit.com/r/Philippines_Expats/comments/1bqqlh1/married_in_the_philippines_divorced_in_united/
[4] lawyerphilippines.org/faq-guide-recognition-of-foreign-divorce/
[5] ua-cam.com/video/-YR0mAqYQ88/v-deo.html
If the Filipino citizen initiates the divorce, it won't be recognized in her favor, she's stuck with the annulment process.
Yikes it’s better to not get married. Too much legal stuff
@@SamLamb2.0 the purpose of it is legitimizing children. For any other purpose it's a charade, a game. Taking a wife from a third world country to a first world country is a mugs gamble, but if you have children it's the right thing to do for them regardless. When "never take a fish out of water" is applied to an adult relationship, that's fair play as long as it's made clear from the get go. But making children, we have to do our best for them.
@@SamLamb2.0 it's the same everywhere that's why it is just so intimately and crucially important in these modern times that if and when the time comes, it had better be with the right, suitable, compatible and correct life-partner.
@@Ghekko-kw3zz apparently there's a clarification in the PH law recently that if it can be proven that the foreign partner got a divorce outside the PH and she can prove this then the divorce can and will be recognized as a matter of fairness to both parties BUT if she has trouble proving that the foreigner had initiated the divorce and the foreigner refuses to provide cooperation, then you are most likely correct that she is indeed then up the creek and stuck especially if and when she does not possess the finances to pursue and clear the matter up..
You know when a "good woman" wants to stay with you when your flat broke and she still hangs around as long as you believe in yourself you know what her intentions are .
I like that analogy.
It’s part of it.
No fool like an old fool
Easy come easy go.
Hire a wife, fire the wife if trouble, but no legal marriages with these post facebook girls.
#Wisdom
In the purported words of PT Barnum…. “There’s a sucker born every minute” 🤔
Come on Nancy. Too harsh.
Wow, if you think your relationship can not survive a visit to the states, that relationship is built on rickety foundation. lol
You do have a point
Your UGA hat convinced me to subscribe, 😁. GO DAWGS!
I wish it will convince all dog fans to subscribe lol
HAPPY NEW YEAR SAMMY LAMBIE
I married my filipina on my second visit to the Philippines, she is 14 years younger, i am 62, her 2 sisters are married to foreigners, she is from a good family, i took a risk and it paid off, my wife and her family have never asked me for anything.
Because she's late 40s. You have no competition, bro.
The problem is when us guys over 50, 60 go after girls under 25, 30.
@jamesrecknor6752 I agree and I decided not to go down that road.
@@recardobrown because you give them without them asking cause you want to “help” them out. But they still disrespect you by speaking Filipino in front of you.
@billestep6804 I don't give they are doing ok, and they speak English so for me that's good 👍
"how would you like to come to the US?" - my God man... You're just asking to be played...
Right???!!😂
It took her 3 months to believe that someone could be so out of touch with reality. Then a male lover told her that this guy just fell off a turnip truck.
There are significant differences in divorce procedures, outcomes, and consequences for a foreigner and a Filipina couple, depending on whether the marriage was conducted in the US or in the Philippines:
1. Divorce Procedures:
- US Marriage: The couple can obtain a divorce in the US, following US state laws.
- Philippine Marriage: Divorce is not legally available in the Philippines. The couple would need to pursue alternatives like annulment or legal separation in Philippine courts, which are more complex and limited in scope.
2. Recognition of Foreign Divorce:
- US Marriage: A US divorce would be recognized in the US and can be recognized in the Philippines through a judicial process.
- Philippine Marriage: A foreign divorce obtained by either spouse can be recognized in the Philippines, but requires a separate court case for judicial recognition.
3. Outcomes:
- US Marriage: Both spouses can legally end the marriage and remarry.
- Philippine Marriage: The foreign spouse can remarry based on the foreign divorce, but the Filipino spouse must obtain judicial recognition of the foreign divorce in the Philippines before being able to remarry.
4. Consequences:
- US Marriage: Asset division, alimony, and child custody are typically addressed in the US divorce proceedings.
- Philippine Marriage: These issues may need to be addressed separately in Philippine courts, as the country's laws do not provide for divorce-related settlements.
5. Legal Process:
- US Marriage: Relatively straightforward divorce process in the US.
- Philippine Marriage: Complex legal process involving annulment or separation in the Philippines, or seeking recognition of a foreign divorce.
In both cases, the Filipino spouse must file for judicial recognition of the foreign divorce in a Philippine court to ensure it is legally recognized in the Philippines, regardless of where the marriage took place.
Citations:
[1] lawyerphilippines.org/recognition-of-foreign-divorce-in-the-philippines-process/
[2] www.philstar.com/headlines/2024/09/22/2387014/foreign-divorce-now-recognized-philippine-courts
[3] www.lawyer-philippines.com/articles/recognition-of-foreign-divorce-under-philippine-law
[4] www.lawyer-philippines.com/articles/recognition-of-foreign-divorce-in-the-philippines-for-filipino-citizens
[5] www.reddit.com/r/Philippines_Expats/comments/1bqqlh1/married_in_the_philippines_divorced_in_united/
[6] www.brookman.co.uk/family-solicitors/international-divorce/china-japan-and-south-east-asia-law/philippines-divorce-family-law
The interview was too painful to watch and listen to. Same old story.,., just different dude.
It's really important to think carefully before bringing a young foreign spouse to the USA. Sometimes, they might be more interested in obtaining a green card and citizenship rather than building a genuine relationship. Rushing into things can jeopardize the connection you have; take your time to develop that sentimental bond, or you might face some tough consequences!! 🤓 🤣 🤣
Isn’t this the same interview you already posted, Sam?
The ex is from Moalboal, Cebu right?
Way too much background and traffic noise. You should try to find a quieter place when doing interview.
I just bought a DJI mic
Quiet place does not exist!!!
Facebook is not the best place to meet wiman
I agree. In person the best
They will play you on Facebook
I agree but I met my wife on Facebook and was a good choice had another girl i knew on Facebook was surprised and even said to me I thought you was like all other guy's. I told her you thought wrong its your loss. Waiting on my spousal approval in the USA 14 months now it's a long wait.
That is just so sad. He even treated her daughter like his own. The woman just stuck in the marriage until she got that citizenship.
Tragic story 😥
He’s doing well now. We’ve brought him under our wings and we are traveling the Philippines together.
do men really know a good women vs a bad women? ... a bad women can pretend to be a good women and no red flag can prevent you from knowing the truth ... that is a wolf in sheep clothing ... you will never know and if you find out that she was bad only pretending to be good then it will be too late because you have already involve with that person ... the same thing does happen when a bad man pretend to be a good man ... and every person happiness is different ... what make a person happy might be different on what make you happy ... costumes and poverty is the biggest problem in interracial relationship ... it is not that it can not work but the way they think, the way that they was raised up , money is always an influence, ect ... you first need to know what each other want before you can commit into a relationship ... look and security is the first thing that attract a person to the other but it is not what keep them together ... loyalty , respect, and love will keep them together
The only way you know is when you break up with her and see what she does after. I was in a short term relationship with someone and what I thought was red flags, wasn’t. But me I dump them right away if any problems. She is now married and very successful, and I know she still thinks about me and values our friendship.
@@morlandoemtp we can only assume but we really don't know ... we can not read their minds and their action determine who they are ... but a wolf in sheep clothing is very hard to notice unless you catch them in their deception ... btw everyone has a red flag ... no of us are perfect ... if everything was about red flags then society would had ended a long time ago
You don't have to marry a girl to have a committed relationship. Just move to the Philippines and declare your never ending love and commitment to her, her sister, her cousin, and her neighbor then live happily ever after.
So what happens after a few years when she wants to have your children? Most young Filipinas want children.
If they are religious (Catholic country) , they will have to marry.
So these unfortunate circumstances still happening huh. These women there in the Philippines must stop doing this. I’m also from the Philippines and every time I hear this it’s disgusting and shameful. Older men from US my suggestion to you is do not rush get to know them well, do not bring them to US until you are sure if this person is morally right for you and make sure she’s not way too young than you. That is my advice as a sister to you. People like that are ungrateful and evil. I’m sorry. But just be careful next time.
Like I said before Sam, I would not take my Filipina to the USA. Maybe after a few years married and a few kids, I might consider it. And what I would consider would just be a tourist visa, for a couple of weeks and then back to the Philippines.
We have to be cautious. But you'll know when you have a good one
A young Filipina doesn't want to be with a grandpa when you take her to your own country, she'll meet other Girls her age start socializing meeting young men, having affairs whilst her older husband is at home often with the kids, taking a young Filipina to your own country is like taking a child to a candy store!!
Keep her in the Philippines period.
I agree
DID HE HAVE A PRENUP
We are married here in Cebu since November 1st. We talked online for 1 year before I travelled to the Philippines. Our age gap is 4 years, 9 months and 9 days. I am 63 and she is 58. WISH US LUCK !!!
Dude, you are insane. You are headed toward a train wreck.
Well I'm married to a woman 26 years younger. We have two beautiful children boy girl. We have been together 5.5 years and never been to America. Let's hope that our relationship doesn't change if I bring her to America for a couple years
You have a solid relationship with. Don’t worry
Good people find it difficult to find the right one. That's a sad reality. It happens to me with my ex bf, and he's a foreigner.
Agreed. My ex wasn't the right one, but I loved her family. Next to finding the right person to be with, I think it's just as hard to find a good family, and they were mostly good people. I don't talk to my ex, but I do talk to her family every so often. I don't think I'll ever do LDR again, though
You can’t be desperate to give a woman a better life in American until it has been earned . This dudes wife was for the streets he was clueless.
I don’t know her personally
Guys, stay single. Enjoy your peace.🎉
Just be careful and don't rush things. Don't send money. Don't be an ATM. Don't be a Bank. She will abuse you financially.
Do not take her to the states. She will get spoiled and will find someone her age.
My husband is 15yrs gap but we are 5yrs and 9 months now.We live in US.
Congrats!!
Well hopefully Paul can have a darn good retirement- BY THE WAY during the entire video Paul’s voice seemed so familiar??? Couldn’t think of it? Then BAMB! To me he sounds like the late great ROY ROGERS! Good luck Paul!
You know what, I just went back and listened closely…you are correct…I’ll be spending 3weeks traveling with him and few other friend in the Philippines next week ..I’ll have some new videos with him in it hehehe
Alot of us moved too qwik and got burned , Just get another one . They keep making them! . You must be living with them sharing an apartment minimum 2 years to know her enough before commiting.
That is what I’m planning to do.
Great idea , Charles
They all leave eventually.. it’s very transactional in the Philippines. It’s not only what you can do for them , it’s you and a few others.
I'm in my early '40s, good looking, and have a pretty decent income, and I still wouldn't bring anyone to America.
I will only bring my money back to the USA.
Keep in mind that for a surviving spouse to qualify for her husband's Social Security survivors benefits, she must have five years of US residency or be a US citizen. Too many times via social media forums I have read American dies, leaving Filipina wife with nothing, sad situation. It happens all the time.
Find a descent honest good woman and not very young and serious about the two of you and life. I think you will only find that person if she has a good moral background with a combination of practicing her faith seriously as well. You look like a good and descent man so you deserve to find one there but it might not be easy just take your time until you find a really good person. I think you will find her just take it easy and be safe. Good luck.
A lot of these men go to these countries and date long distance. There are a lot of things that can be hidden that the woman doesn’t find out about until they get the context of the person in the US and see how they behave with their peers and in the same environment.
It takes about 3 years to settle into a marriage and it takes about 3 years to formalize the citizenship process. Most marriages in general fall apart by year 2 or year 7.
Yes there are some that cheat the marriage process, but more likely it is the character flaws of the person seeking outside their culture. Many of them are not properly socialized within their own peer group and must seek outside.
I agree , I’m a flawed person…
Why not marry a younger one next time? Or marry one close to your age. Oh no, that's right..can't do that.
My wife and I have a six-year age gap and have been married for more than 20 years.
Your case is rare
TYPICAL STORY. OLD MAN YOUNG GIRL. OLD MAN THINKS WITH HIS TINY HEAD AND NOT HIS BIG HEAD
Husband speaking age 82. Married to my Filipino lady 48 years. Any OLD man who married a Hot way to young lady wants a trophy wife AND a “ care giver “. enough said. ( I wrote to my future wife 5 years as a pen pal ). She was a teacher , Masters Degree in elementary Ed. she also is only 6 years younger than me. My only opinion is divorce her, hope you did not buy her a house.
He bought a house in the USA. But kept it
Paul is a good man. Just looking for love in all the wrong places the song once went…
I’ll see him, this week in Bataan. I think he’s taking his time now
Write her into your will if you want to show a commitment to take care of her "until death do you part". Re-writing your will if she runs off with the milkman is one hellofa lot easier and cheaper than getting married or divorced. And tell me again what is the benefit above and beyond what you already have after marrying a Filipina?? Maybe yes, if you plan on having kids.
100%
And Garentee 30 years down the the track those woman will be alone
The slap in his face , he took care of another man's child...
Ouch
You talk about the age gap. However, not all 60 year olds are equal. Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp are 60, but don’t look 60. Regardless of fame (i.e. If they were not famous), they would still be able to attract and keep younger women, because they are good looking, in reasonable shape, and have some charisma. So, if you get a confident, successful ,attractive 60 year old man, he is more likely to have his pick of women, then be fearful of losing his women (the tables would be turned). One other thing you may not know. The famous Filipina Pea prefers men over 50 and she is 32. She stated it in one of her recent videos.
Human Beings are like cars. Always trading in for a newer model.
In some cases it is a young woman's dream. Not all women think the same especially when it comes to western woman. Frank Sinatra married a 19 year old when he was 55. They were married 40 years. I've seen couple's in the United States that baffled me. Huge fat guys with beautiful woman. And the other way around. There are always exceptions to the rules. In most cases if you have a Filipina regardless of age she will be with you until the End.
Thank you Pete. I agree with you. Your odds are good.
@@SamLamb2.0lol😂 really
The U.S. has 10 times more guys looking for young pretty w-m-n, than there are pretty w-m-n. Not sure why but the quality of w-m-n in the U.S. has never been good and seems even worse today.
Feminism, that's why.
Marriages i.e. families are continuously attacked in USA, I am sure his experience would not be the same in more religious places like Dubai
😂 Dubai is not a Christian place, but the Philippines is…. Predominantly Catholic…. You can keep the shopping mall in the desert and it’s draconian laws / religion 👌
@ the laws in places like Dubai are based on religion, the laws in USA are based on feminism. The rates of infidelity are usually often highest in places with feminist laws.
You may think feminism trumps traditional religious doctrine but many including myself would disagree. I enjoy life here in this desert called Phoenix Arizona, but wish we had laws that truly protected families along with significant legal ramifications for interference
You can pay for happy ending and end the transaction, verses the one on the installment plan....don`t burn the house to make toast. I would say at the end of the day they both got their moneys worth.😀
Same thing happens to young men every day. I guess there not mature enough to figure it out.
Hope you learn the lesson that they play .
Paul is an old fool......lol...
Hmmm we all become a bit fooling when we fall in love
Lol she seen him coming 🤣 he set himself up for failure essentially
Obviously if there’s a 40 year age gap you are a fool to bring her to America. You should probably stay within 20 years. But that’s not good enough for some of these guys. Be reasonable and you might not get burned.
are we surprised?????
I'm not an expert, I do believe marriage is the biggest reason for divorce. 😊
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What to do ??? CELEBRATE 🥳 🎉 🎊
You can’t hide the truth. It’s in the evidence. It happened to me also
its pay to play ,all these men who think there players are clowns
If u think u going to bring a Filipina to the USA with a 30 or 40 yr age gap. I would advise strongly against it.
Similar age? Maybe it works. If u got a big age gap stay in the Philippines
Do men really expect that they marry for love - it is business. There cannot be chemistry with large age gaps. If you want to play with a young girl go for it, but do not buy.
"You're generalizing." The only position a delusional person can take.
People who buy lottery tickets never win millions. "You're generalizing." Correct.
Always, unless it’s a personal experience.
Bringing a Filipina to the USA is like smoking cigarettes... You know it's not going to end well.... But you do it anyway.....
Nice analygy
I would have a GF that does not live with me or just rent when needed. Getting married does not benefit the man.
Many countries in Asia have girl friends you can get and keep a few months,,then move to another country and get another girlfriend etc,etc,,😊not necessary to get married,,pop needs to head for Thailand,,😊
Thailand here we come. 😀
@ My wife and I goto Thailand every three months except when it’s rainy season there,,love the food, hotels and traveling,,lots of shopping also,,we live in Clark area..enjoy your trip,,so many places to visit..
Theory thing worse than a young fool , is an old fool ? Exchange rate equals one day millionaire...
Dang this guy is 60 years old. He looks more like 70 sorry, my gosh.
Who, Paul or me. Either one you are correct 😅
Did you have to pay child support? Alimony? Did she get half the assets?
I would not sell house in USA for a few years. Once you do and if things do not work out you will never be able to afford to move back.
no brainer Sam game over when they come to America they can do it again
100%
@@SamLamb2.0 No, it is not. My goodness over an 80 percent success rate in marriages. Just marry the right lady.
The fact is older man going to the Philippines to find a young Filipina. You guys are exposing yourself to failed marriage, some women knows you have lots of money with visa to other countries with good opportunities. It is a gamble situation not all are successful that women will stay with you forever, especially if you don't give her money to support the family in the Philippines. Some reason, that younger women need younger partner and get bored to be with old man in bed. But not all, some have diffirent reasons why they separated from older men, maybe karma from some men playing with women in their life.
what did she get when she divorced him? Did she make him still support her? did she take 1/2 of his assets? This is the real difference between a good and Evil woman. Just because the present law says she can doesn't make it right!
Hate to be hersh, and he seems like a nice guy, but he ain't the sharpest knife in the drawer. Guess he never heard that old saying, *Whu buy the cow if you can get the milk for free."
He’s looking for another cow, or should I say calf…lol
Did any of your friends that went through a divorce with their wives have any kids, with their Filipino waves
No , the ones that have kids are still married
@SamLamb2.0 I sent you that question right now and I'm just at the beginning of the video. I think that's a big thing also, once you have kids with a woman that kind of changes everything most likely they'll stay with you.
You never had them! It was just your turn.