Beauty | Documentary on Societal Beauty Standards

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  • Опубліковано 1 чер 2017
  • A documentary that examines at what is truly "beauty" in the society we live today. Made by Naliyah Martinez-Truso. Winner of Best 12th Grade Video in the BADA Spring Film Festival 2017.
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  • @eira72
    @eira72 4 роки тому +854

    As a wise man once said:
    “I love myself, even though I look like a burnt chicken nugget, I still love myself.”

    • @rosiebowers1671
      @rosiebowers1671 3 роки тому +9

      No wonder it was a wise *man*; contrarily to women, men are allowed to love themselves.

    • @eira72
      @eira72 3 роки тому +23

      @Marie what???? Plz tell me you’re joking

    • @2oo8mehta70
      @2oo8mehta70 3 роки тому +9

      @@rosiebowers1671 I hope you’re joking. 🙃

    • @samuelsvrcek4547
      @samuelsvrcek4547 3 роки тому +2

      I think Marie wanted to say that man are not forced to wear makeup and to all that ,,you must because you're woman" shits

    • @tatatae1645
      @tatatae1645 3 роки тому

      @@samuelsvrcek4547 hmm maybe but it’s usually men who are made fun of when wearing makeup so ig it can be the other way around too

  • @nilleyi2231
    @nilleyi2231 6 років тому +711

    My heart broke when that girl said she did not feel beautiful at all , cuz she is so beautiful and they all have some great unique features

    • @jesusisthetruth4497
      @jesusisthetruth4497 4 роки тому +6

      seeker of peace yesss

    • @s.a.8106
      @s.a.8106 3 роки тому +9

      That girl is me. I look like her I and struggle with my appearance since a long time. When she said that she doesnt consider herself beautiful I had to cry so hard because she is soooo beautiful but then I look into the mirror and I only see my "flaws". Damn society, media and advertisment to manipulate us to an extent that we look into the mirror and instead of seeing our beauty we wanna undergo every plastic surgery which is offered on this planet. I hate the human species so much sometimes. But girl in 3.41 min you are a diamond.😢

    • @nilleyi2231
      @nilleyi2231 3 роки тому +7

      @@s.a.8106 Girl don't follow what the social media define beautiful because what they defining beautiful now they considered it ugly 10 years ago. Look at your smile, or the way you laugh and it reaches other rooms, or how your eyes reflect the light, how your body protects you from anything that harms you through literally thick and thin, how you are able to see many different colors and landscapes or hear so many different sounds and birds chirping. Trust me I never met you but you are beautiful and the more you take care of your soul, mind and heart the more you get beautiful outside too, it like shines. As someone who struggled with this and it's overcoming it I wanted to push you to go beyond what few people think about you

    • @s.a.8106
      @s.a.8106 3 роки тому +2

      @@nilleyi2231 thank u so much for ur message❤️ it's just really hard u know I grew up in a society where there is an immense pressure on women to look beautiful. Unfortunately it shape my perspective in a negative way. It's really hard to accept yourself the way u are when there is this luring promise of plastic surgery around the corner...

    • @nilleyi2231
      @nilleyi2231 3 роки тому +1

      @@s.a.8106 Anybody does what they want with their body, but if you start changing it you will just find more flaws, loving yourself is a whole journey, it may even take all your life but it feels so good because you are accepting genuinely who you are, your body after you woke up, your face with or without makeup, your eyes after crying, everything . It takes small steps but worth it. You may do a nose job for example and in a few years there will be a new trend or you won't like it anymore or worse it could have health damage on you. Changing what you consume is the biggest tip I have, instead of making it about influencers crazy lifestyles what about art or poetry or travelling stuff.

  • @nigivlog3775
    @nigivlog3775 5 років тому +367

    This is society not just the media. It didn't start with the media.

    • @elo5324
      @elo5324 5 років тому +45

      True... Social media just intensified it...

    • @waffles2317
      @waffles2317 4 роки тому +12

      media can never be started without society, it can never be famous without the help of society and it can never exist without society creating it

    • @lwanda5526
      @lwanda5526 3 роки тому

      @@waffles2317 we live in a society

    • @prettypuffprincess
      @prettypuffprincess 3 роки тому +1

      Natural selection

    • @martinatscherner6861
      @martinatscherner6861 2 роки тому

      Thank you

  • @jadenmarquez8217
    @jadenmarquez8217 4 роки тому +174

    Good thing i learned that i am fearfully and wonderfully made by my Creator..

    • @nishatnafa988
      @nishatnafa988 3 роки тому +8

      Exactly...

    • @mrgiraffelover7388
      @mrgiraffelover7388 3 роки тому +16

      You're absolutely right. For me, the beauty standards began with the Devil.

  • @franciscasfunspace3985
    @franciscasfunspace3985 3 роки тому +101

    Let's face it, all these standards of beauty are unrealistic.Majority of the people who are considered beautiful by the media and society attained that beauty through unnatural means.

    • @sheluvssmokedupeyes1
      @sheluvssmokedupeyes1 Місяць тому

      They’re not unrealistic you’re just told her unrealistic that was a word that was created by the body acceptance and the fat acceptance movement to negate skinny people and also to negate people who are naturally attractive to make people who don’t feel attractive, feel better about themselves. Beauty is what you make it can let other people tell you would beauteous, or you can be the standard.

  • @samerarachyal5894
    @samerarachyal5894 5 років тому +624

    This is so sad. Being white isn't the definition of beauty. True beauty is being yourself and accepting who you are. Don't believe the media. Everyone has beauty in them.

    • @jesusisthetruth4497
      @jesusisthetruth4497 4 роки тому +3

      Samera Rachyal aw

    • @marianafrancisco7551
      @marianafrancisco7551 3 роки тому +8

      Im white and i dont feel beautiful !!!!!

    • @grammyawardwinner6458
      @grammyawardwinner6458 3 роки тому +17

      @@marianafrancisco7551 you are beautiful... Just the way u are...

    • @angelsaju1634
      @angelsaju1634 3 роки тому +6

      Always society accept beauty as white why I don't know

    • @cantoprak7428
      @cantoprak7428 3 роки тому +8

      @@angelsaju1634 It is because this society was built by whites. No suprise lmao

  • @wanderingunicorn6529
    @wanderingunicorn6529 6 років тому +214

    Just want to let everyone know that you are beautiful in your own way. We all have different skin tones, hair, eyes, bodies, etc. It would be boring if it wasn't that way. Just take care of your body and stay healthy. Be kind to others. Shine from the inside

  • @thaismacedo8124
    @thaismacedo8124 4 роки тому +82

    They're ALL beautiful

    • @SL-my4fg
      @SL-my4fg 3 роки тому +3

      We're all beautiful

  • @hii2773
    @hii2773 4 роки тому +117

    If society didn't have an image of what the "perfect" person looked like would we still look in the mirror and not like what we see?

    • @Ellenchattergirl
      @Ellenchattergirl 3 роки тому +12

      Probably not tbh

    • @janvi7588
      @janvi7588 3 роки тому +4

      This 'perfect' body image that society creates is actually fake. VERY FAKE. We're smart enough to understand that we humans we all have different body sizes/shapes and it's impossible for us to achive a specific one. It's normal for some people to feel insecure because it's natural and it's okay if someone wants to work out to achieve the body type that they are aiming at. What is not okay is when people start being obsessed over physique, when they obsess over having the perfect body type and that's when they become depressed and take huge risks(tons of surgeries,starving) etc to get what they desperately want. If you'd like to change your physique, then do so without considering the wants of society. Do it for yourself and don't obsess over it.

  • @gul7675
    @gul7675 4 роки тому +120

    OK, is it only me that doesn't find kylie beautiful? When I think of kylie I think of an hourglass body (a bit un proportional) , big lips, small nose, long hair, tan, and all the wowowos but I never think of the word beautiful for kylie. Don't get me wrong everyone is beautiful but if you observe in the video that's how everyone sees her, (slim waist, big boobs, perfect thighs etc) on the other hand most people will think of Emma Watson, zendaya, naomi scott and Ashley Graham as beautiful even though they don't have all the perfect kylie features and come from different races. This is because the human mind finds beauty in others who have confidence in their imperfections. When we think of kylie we think of the desired body or perfect insta girls or even hot (like coffee lol) but not the word beautiful. These girls don't know how beautiful they are because they are not confident . My dad always tells us that nobody is ugly but as long as they groom themselves. All those insta girls take hours to prepare and edit their photos and thats okay, we are blood and bone be confident and don't stress about the little things in life

    • @Anonymous-nv4ie
      @Anonymous-nv4ie 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly❤Well said👏🏻

    • @vishakha6894
      @vishakha6894 3 роки тому +1

      The perfect advice which I need in my life 🙂🙏👏

    • @MrALenCar321
      @MrALenCar321 3 роки тому +5

      Kylie isn't beautiful at least she used to be. Natural= beautiful.

    • @juicebox.319
      @juicebox.319 3 роки тому +4

      exactly omg. kylie isn’t the word “beautiful” she’s more something else, she just looks so fake looking

    • @dess7301
      @dess7301 3 роки тому +20

      not yall plastic surgery shaming. U realize ur preaching girls uplifting girls but at the same time shaming someone who modified their body or looks naturally that way.

  • @deec3561
    @deec3561 3 роки тому +40

    The girl with the long dark hair and pink shirt is my definition of beautiful and she doesn’t even see it! Wow!

  • @lhamchime5860
    @lhamchime5860 4 роки тому +121

    "What is the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word... Beauty?"
    Slave.
    Our present-day beauty standards are enslaving.
    Women don't have equal rights.
    In some social circles, men lack natural rights, too.
    We have natural rights for things like not shaving, not wearing clothes, wearing clothes, shaving, etc. It should be our own personal decision.

    • @sukisuniverse2257
      @sukisuniverse2257 4 роки тому +2

      Paulo Chan yea well not every country is first world

    • @sukisuniverse2257
      @sukisuniverse2257 4 роки тому

      Paulo Chan yea I see where your coming from. Though I think most of them aren’t necessarily talking about rights just how they get treated by society

    • @sukisuniverse2257
      @sukisuniverse2257 4 роки тому

      Paulo Chan yes I know. I’m just talking about rights. Not the beauty standards thing. Ik I’m bad at explaining things

    • @lg7855
      @lg7855 3 роки тому +5

      Paulo Chan women are always in danger of losing some of their rights (eg abortion). just because women don’t want to sleep with you doesn’t mean they have more rights than you but i doubt you were born with enough human empathy to understand that

    • @MrALenCar321
      @MrALenCar321 3 роки тому

      @@lg7855 lol!! this is not even related to the argument. First world woman complain about trivial things. They should come to Indian village or live in middle East.

  • @user-nz5tj8qm7g
    @user-nz5tj8qm7g Рік тому +9

    In my opinion, beauty is a difficult thing, because for other people 'beauty' can be different. There's a big problem in modern society because a lot of people try to live up to other people expectations and now we can see a big gap between the beauty standards and the real people

  • @driamhane
    @driamhane 3 роки тому +23

    I am proud to say I am that 4%.
    We just need to increase that by 96% and its perfect

  • @linareese7841
    @linareese7841 3 роки тому +25

    We need to stop society

  • @kcollivierre5303
    @kcollivierre5303 4 роки тому +30

    This is a really powerful video that states a serious topic but while listening it sounded like most of you were insecure about yourself and took it out on the famous people who are/and models. Everyone has a different view of what beauty is, you just have to be yourself and embrace your inner beauty. Blaming the internet for praising other people that are beautiful especially celebs like Kylie Jenner is not the right way to make yourself feel better. Ripping images of models who may or may not be insecure as well won't be a good impression from this video. Everyone is beautiful in their own way and there is no reason to be judging each other if you feel differently about certain beauty standards.

  • @rubegoldbergproject7178
    @rubegoldbergproject7178 3 роки тому +26

    Beauty standards society upholds are illusions. Cherish yourself because no matter what you do, those desirable features and images are always going to be out of reach.

  • @mrsmagic1491
    @mrsmagic1491 2 роки тому +5

    Brought me to tears to see how many suffer from this but it made me realize a lot

  • @ang5119
    @ang5119 2 роки тому +4

    Social media has warped our ideas of beauty. I don't do twitter/snapchat/facebook or anything else. UA-cam is my version of social media LOL. I see beauty in individuals, people who are compassionate and caring and funny. I see beauty in every dimple and line and age because that shows we are alive and real and living through everything both past and present. When I see models and images from twitter here on youtube, I see fakeness and masks and nothing appealing. I am me and I am unique, no one else is me and can never be me. Be proud to be YOU. When I saw these people on this documentary, I found them all beautiful, unique and interesting. The fake people are...dull...the same...

  • @moniraakter1419
    @moniraakter1419 3 роки тому +13

    I know what beauty means but people around me don't know the real meaning of BEAUTY

    • @taesrose9028
      @taesrose9028 2 роки тому

      What’s the real meaning of beauty??

  • @reemsuekar8112
    @reemsuekar8112 3 роки тому +21

    Every human being is Beautiful.

  • @kylacomoso9595
    @kylacomoso9595 2 роки тому +4

    Always remember that YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. Don't let other people's opinions define who you are. Be confident😘

  • @chinimini19
    @chinimini19 3 роки тому +18

    No one is born ugly, we are just born in a judgemental society
    -Kim Namjoon BTS

  • @alexgulbakhor5543
    @alexgulbakhor5543 3 роки тому +14

    Why I wanna hug them?

  • @sonubudania7009
    @sonubudania7009 4 роки тому +55

    .Media is gettin disguisting more than ever before it make us feel depressed. Objectification of human being seem to have become their business,they 've forgotten the real value of a person.

  • @snehashissinha900
    @snehashissinha900 4 роки тому +54

    It felt more like an " I'm insecure because I don't look like models" video.

    • @agentsquid9079
      @agentsquid9079 3 роки тому +2

      I agree with you.
      Personally, I learned to stop comparing myself to instagram models. We can’t control how our faces look, our skin color, how big our boobs are, acne, hair, ect. I just let myself be me. That doesn’t mean I don’t take care of myself or letting myself look like the grinch all the time.

    • @mimivan6596
      @mimivan6596 3 роки тому +5

      What sets beauty standards? Models and media 🙄

  • @horchata_demon5766
    @horchata_demon5766 5 років тому +53

    The definition of beauty to me: *not me*

    • @33debbie52
      @33debbie52 4 роки тому +6

      Trash Teen no you’re beautiful, 💕

    • @horchata_demon5766
      @horchata_demon5766 4 роки тому

      @@33debbie52 naw bro I look like a troll--

    • @33debbie52
      @33debbie52 4 роки тому +3

      i still think you’re pretty though sis 😽

    • @horchata_demon5766
      @horchata_demon5766 4 роки тому +1

      @@33debbie52 you're probably more beautiful than me sis 😓

    • @2oo8mehta70
      @2oo8mehta70 3 роки тому +2

      @Trash Teen • You’re beautiful because you have a great sense of humor❣️

  • @lielyzettesamortin9099
    @lielyzettesamortin9099 3 роки тому +6

    Up to this day beauty standards have its own visual,beauty allows us to be ruled,but i really believe that the real essence of beauty is just accepting your flaws and imperfections,at the moment we learn how to accept those problems,we began to be who we are,you i always lost self confident,but when i think and saw the bright said of i said,oh you know beauty is not all about face and body it should be the total package beauty in the.outside and the inside.Remember you are beautiful,just the way you see your self!

  • @viabrus8609
    @viabrus8609 5 років тому +10

    This is really powerful, thank you for sharing this.

  • @MyFreshUse
    @MyFreshUse 2 роки тому +1

    Don't you dare doubt your worth or the beauty of your truth. Just keep on shining like you do because beauty starts within you. 😚❤️

  • @franciscasfunspace3985
    @franciscasfunspace3985 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for this video.

  • @nooo006
    @nooo006 3 роки тому +1

    wow! True beauty is just is. everyone is beautiful. will definitly share in my facebook group!!!

  • @coolstoolgames8374
    @coolstoolgames8374 5 років тому +29

    physical beauty standards are ok but charisma is more beautiful

  • @ni3070
    @ni3070 4 роки тому

    Beautiful is anything that pleases the heart

  • @ntv8979
    @ntv8979 2 роки тому +1

    "Once day you realize all your insecurities are your greatest strenght"

  • @dalhaimer2133
    @dalhaimer2133 3 роки тому +3

    None of this will ever change so long as these industries need their money. They don't care how their standards affect anyone's self-image. 😒

  • @Amysmith29
    @Amysmith29 Рік тому

    So sad , so beautiful ❤💔

  • @JesseAnnan
    @JesseAnnan Рік тому

    wow. just wow.

  • @frankiekibodeaux5696
    @frankiekibodeaux5696 Рік тому

    I love beauty! Big gorgeous hair..full facial features..beautiful color! People in wheelchairs with head tilted and giving a big smile.. glasses with a big smile and scrunched up nose. All so Beautiful! Omg. We are all so beautiful! ❤❤❤

  • @charlottefeltham5377
    @charlottefeltham5377 3 роки тому +2

    i want to give the person with pink hair and black glasses (3:51) a hug

  • @CalopsitaVanderbilt1911
    @CalopsitaVanderbilt1911 3 роки тому +3

    Pretty depressing music, but the docu is interesting and thought provoking.

  • @AfrinsLifestyleStudio
    @AfrinsLifestyleStudio 5 років тому

    Amazing 👌😍🙌

  • @fatihahh8228
    @fatihahh8228 4 роки тому

    I love thiss

  • @FraBra88
    @FraBra88 4 роки тому +8

    The first girl could be a model, with that face and that eyes (almond in form but so big) could be high fashion model for editorials. And her skin💕 And her profile it's do clean, witch is rare.

    • @franciscasfunspace3985
      @franciscasfunspace3985 3 роки тому +1

      Yeah, she's gorgeous but you know what they're going to do to her after a photoshoot, even though she'll have tons of make up and good lighting to make her look (PERFECT), they'll Photoshop her image because what is considered beautiful today, is unrealistic.

  • @PoisonelleMisty4311
    @PoisonelleMisty4311 Рік тому +1

    However, it is important to note that beauty standards should not be limited to one particular race or ethnicity. Embracing diversity and promoting inclusivity in beauty standards can help individuals feel more confident and comfortable in their own skin, regardless of their physical appearance.

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry21924 6 місяців тому

    This content is rife with innovative ideas. I encountered a book with like themes that altered my thinking. "Your Body Your Temple" by Various Authors

  • @rolakeomi6888
    @rolakeomi6888 5 років тому +9

    They all look beautiful 💯

  • @jeremyli3495
    @jeremyli3495 3 роки тому

    same man
    man she is so beautiful

  • @davidhill8565
    @davidhill8565 4 роки тому +10

    “Love the blonde look” is like saying “love the whitewashed look”, especially if the subject identifies as Asian or Latino.

    • @davidhill8565
      @davidhill8565 3 роки тому +3

      Alison Chung It has to do with what the complimenter was really saying. It’s because Caucasian looks are being idealized. They’re saying something like “To be beautiful means to look Caucasian.” That’s referred to on Wikipedia as Eurocentrism.

    • @theonef570
      @theonef570 3 роки тому +3

      @@davidhill8565 I am not attracted to blondes but if someone has a preference for blonde women they should have the right to be attracted to that. You cannot force someone what they can find or not find attractive.

  • @paraspathania564
    @paraspathania564 3 роки тому +6

    No one in India is concerned about beauty , it is a topic of fashion and film industry because general people have very less time on improvising their beauty. A lot of time is given for work job and daily activities. It is a topic of discussion only during marriage. I like the fact that here in indian subcontinent people are not so much connected "emotionally " on beauty subject. Have a life your looks are not gonna run the world and not your life either. Work on greening the grass of your soul.

    • @hinafathimafazalkhan3520
      @hinafathimafazalkhan3520 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/k47Hj994xN4/v-deo.html

    • @paraspathania564
      @paraspathania564 3 роки тому

      @@hinafathimafazalkhan3520 where I come from more emphasis is given on productivity of your work even at home or between my friend circle . Tastes vary from metropolises to towns. I have already seen this vedio. I am telling people not to take it seriously.

    • @gayvodka1849
      @gayvodka1849 3 роки тому +6

      Well im indian and i dont think so at all

    • @paraspathania564
      @paraspathania564 3 роки тому

      @@gayvodka1849 I can't say the same about everyone.

    • @SixHundredAndSixtySix
      @SixHundredAndSixtySix 3 роки тому +12

      @Paras Pathania I'm Indian and you're 100% wrong. By the way you talk, you must be a light skinned Indian, because light-skinned Indians don't have to deal with beauty. They already have it all. If you're dark skinned, your lack of beauty consumes and destroys your whole world.

  • @NoaElliott
    @NoaElliott 3 роки тому

    how do you use songs like this without getting copyrighted? I really want to use a song but I don't know how to avoid copyright?

  • @flowerblossome-7029
    @flowerblossome-7029 4 роки тому +14

    First word that comes to mind: Impossible

  • @manaswinimishra8607
    @manaswinimishra8607 3 роки тому +3

    It's been three years still underrated

  • @dragonballsuper9312
    @dragonballsuper9312 3 роки тому

    She is so pretty & she said she not 😠 made me mad she is gorgeous

  • @Ellenchattergirl
    @Ellenchattergirl 3 роки тому +2

    I just said happy...

  • @akankshagaur5499
    @akankshagaur5499 2 роки тому +1

    These so called beauty standards killing our self confidence
    I have all the ugly things
    1dark skin tone
    2- acne
    3- scars
    All these things makes me uncomfortable and restless in every face of my life . Nobody is there to support me and say something good to me .They all always see my face . It's very hard for me to maintain my self-esteem .

  • @sarah-qv9xh
    @sarah-qv9xh 2 роки тому +2

    (Who will marry you like this) that’s what my family relatives say to me intent of joking and this destroyed me mentally I hated myself and realized that no one would really love me if I didn’t follow their damned standards Although I am skinny, they criticize me even girls with overweight are criticized, whether you are skinny or fat, they will criticize everything about you so don’t care what they say and love yourself as you are. you will find the person who loves you unconditionally.

  • @spurthichadharam9144
    @spurthichadharam9144 3 роки тому +1

    Society views on issues can be confusing and misleading..we can standardise them with few known examples and cost benefit analysis and then come to conclusions

  • @charmcharm9308
    @charmcharm9308 Рік тому +1

    Kudos to these young people for sharing their stories. However, I find it hypocritical that Teen Vogue and Marc Jacobs are listed in the credits when they help to perpetuate these "societal beauty standards." They have given the Kardashians a platform to redefine beauty through filters and plastic surgeries (ALLEGEDLY), which has left many young men and women insecure and hopeless.

  • @loonyy1653
    @loonyy1653 2 роки тому +1

    I think the one that breathes is beautiful.

  • @jaybird7740
    @jaybird7740 Рік тому +1

    "True beauty?, What is this true beauty??"

    • @jaybird7740
      @jaybird7740 Рік тому +1

      So are all the women in the video.
      All the men and women in this video.

  • @KIARALOVES
    @KIARALOVES 4 роки тому +14

    *we are all beautiful I no these few words are hard to go by but try to be kind and spread and bloom motivation everyday love u humans stay strong stay u* 💖

  • @ayrtonlook4268
    @ayrtonlook4268 3 місяці тому

    Alguém sabe onde achar esse vídeo dublado?

  • @Veronicaann8
    @Veronicaann8 10 місяців тому

    Being beautiful is being Rare

  • @sonjalalelu3667
    @sonjalalelu3667 4 місяці тому

    Confidence and character is what makes people attractive, regardless of the visual appearance and vice versa. You can be pretty and still be unattractive.

  • @NeoChiDita
    @NeoChiDita 5 років тому +1

    Hi. I'd like to use this in my class with year 12's. Where is a copy available? Cheers.

    • @Jahmariduncan557
      @Jahmariduncan557 4 роки тому

      Vox Magna yes I did it last year this is very inspiring

    • @Jahmariduncan557
      @Jahmariduncan557 4 роки тому +2

      It’s perfect to show in class

    • @NeoChiDita
      @NeoChiDita 4 роки тому

      Where did you find a copy? Ty

    • @Jahmariduncan557
      @Jahmariduncan557 4 роки тому

      Vox Magna I actually pulled it up here on UA-cam and showed it

  • @cheyennesaige4776
    @cheyennesaige4776 3 роки тому

    Here after looking through the amiugly sub on reddit...

  • @AnushkaBhattacharya710
    @AnushkaBhattacharya710 3 роки тому +4

    i think society has made us so much fixated on trying to meet unreal standards, especially for women, always made women caged in a bunch of definitions. That too since a long long time. Only recently has it escalated so much due to the media and every product around you shoving it in your face.

  • @richardclock71
    @richardclock71 4 роки тому +27

    Kate Beckinsale, Cate Blanchett, Heather Graham, Daryl Hannah, Angelina Jolie, Salma Hayek, Gwyneth Paltrow, Uma Thurman... These are not the standards of beauty upheld by all men, or even the majority of men...
    These are the standards of Harvey Weinstein.

    • @MrALenCar321
      @MrALenCar321 3 роки тому +1

      Only woman that is good looking in that list is Salma Hayek. Rest of them look plastic. Gywneth looks like a man.

    • @uni-cc7hd
      @uni-cc7hd 3 роки тому

      What’s that supposed to mean?

    • @franciscor390
      @franciscor390 3 роки тому

      @@uni-cc7hd Because Harvey Weinstein was the one who got to pick out which actresses that were going to appear in Hollywood movies, it is a standard set by a Jewish man follow by others in Hollywood who are also largely of Jewish heritage.

  • @sajalkim3160
    @sajalkim3160 Рік тому

    the korean scenerio is just like me because i am doing the same with myself. Whwnever i look myself in the mirror ifeel disgusting and most of all, my teeth are crooked so i want to punch myself really hard. it is becoming very difficult for me to accept myself because it hurts when i see other beautiful but i myself looks ugly

  • @plantinhamemes7137
    @plantinhamemes7137 3 місяці тому

    Oha sora teve de passar o Baguio sem traducion

  • @liamclancy9955
    @liamclancy9955 4 роки тому +9

    That 5 percent and 45 percent figure is honestly just stupid, feeling that you are not beautiful and being unhappy are completely different

  • @lancemichaelordonez3549
    @lancemichaelordonez3549 2 роки тому

    NL 1 gingawa nyo naba 'ung activity nyo ??? 🥺

  • @123seza
    @123seza 4 місяці тому

    It's true that white people and white features can be pedestaled in the media and I support this vid, however the existence of beautiful white models doesn't detract from the fact that many POC are beautiful. That isn't an either or thing. I think sometimes insecure POC people play into that wider system themselves by perpetuating that "white is better" narrative, even via talking about beauty standards. It is even condescending sometimes. It's also silly to follow the media so much, especially celebs that were popular 10 years ago instead of focusing more on the future. And celeb worship and social media obsession has always been toxic. Representation and more inclusion and praising of POC features/colours is important for sure but so is general mindset and the way we talk about a lot of these topics. Sometimes I see a lot of projection from POC / minorities onto others.

  • @alicia-hd2cs
    @alicia-hd2cs 3 роки тому

    The people they showed aren't even remotely ugly. I feel like I have zero representation. Being young, white and skinny doesn't make you even average, I am so goddamn ugly

    • @I_Think_You_Should_Leave
      @I_Think_You_Should_Leave 3 роки тому

      Representation should come from the mind and the heart. So, you do have representation. ❤️❤️

  • @EllyKusumastutiDamayanti
    @EllyKusumastutiDamayanti Рік тому

    This is really sad... I feel sad about this, the girls in the video are actually beautiful, they are beautiful in their own way, in their own characteristic, everyone is beautiful.... look at their gorgeous skin too ❤ Being beautiful is not just having pretty trait on face or perfect body (by standard), it’s a one package, it comes as a whole with the vibrant aura from each person.

  • @frand_9248
    @frand_9248 4 роки тому +1

    Anyone is here because of Mr. Steve 🤣

  • @arandomuselessaccount9624
    @arandomuselessaccount9624 5 років тому +8

    Those 26 dislikes are fake Barbie dolls

  • @mr.nyeeter4546
    @mr.nyeeter4546 4 роки тому +5

    Loud ass piano at the beginning could not hear what the first 2 persons were saying

  • @minyoongi2662
    @minyoongi2662 2 роки тому +8

    These beauty standards are so stupid in my opinion. Back in the day there were models of all kinds showing that it’s okay to be yourself no matter how you look now it’s just different.
    Girls:
    -Wide Hips
    -Fuller Breast
    -Bigger Butt
    -Thin Legs
    -High levels of Symmetry
    -High pitched Voice
    -High Cheek Bones
    -Act “Lady” Like
    -Dress “Lady” Like
    -Etc.
    Guys:
    -Skinned toned
    -Abs
    -“Strong” in physical appearance
    -Sharp Jawline
    -Tall
    -Muscular
    -Dress like a “man”
    -Behave like a “Man
    -Etc.
    These lead to starvation, eating disorders, low self esteem, suicide, anxiety, depression, etc. This society is messed up ruining how other people see themselves. We shouldn’t be afraid to stand up to toxic beauty standards.

  • @arlyn7124
    @arlyn7124 2 роки тому

    We're taught to "never judge a book by its cover" but we Literally do the opposite

  • @jaytakajeremiahtisdale2042
    @jaytakajeremiahtisdale2042 2 роки тому +1

    Beauty standards are standards for a reason

    • @mermaidcharlise4908
      @mermaidcharlise4908 Рік тому

      There should be NO beauty standards at all because everyone is beautiful in their OWN way!!

    • @watching7721
      @watching7721 Рік тому

      Most societal beauty standards are related to being wealthy in some way, which a mark of success in a society.

  • @mrslias11
    @mrslias11 4 роки тому +7

    Okay not gonna lie I laughed really hard at that white people response in the beginning

  • @whypopmusicsucks0977
    @whypopmusicsucks0977 3 роки тому

    It sucks, but I kinda feel guilty for having certain preferences. I like women who is just skinny with their hair body (legs and armpits) shaved, i don’t wanna torture them I just find them pretty. I really don’t care nor am I interested in big booty and plastic face. I don’t want nicki minaj or Kim kardashian wannabes. Do you think I should change the way how I look about women or should I just abolish my preference?
    And who wouldnt want these women presented in the video. The beauty industry has really Takin it too far.

    • @akanehertzvogt1980
      @akanehertzvogt1980 3 роки тому

      Hey, it's totally normal to have preferences as long as you value and respect others regardless of what type of beauty they possess 😊

    • @aelinorholloway3669
      @aelinorholloway3669 2 роки тому

      It's not about abolishing your preferences, it's about not pressuring women to fit those preferences too many men seem to find themselves attracted to a woman only to critique every part of her body and your actually emotionally hurting the woman you do that to.

  • @jordanbernal7961
    @jordanbernal7961 Рік тому

    Hi beed1a hhahaa pangatsura yo hahaha

  • @user-ym6gw1ld1w
    @user-ym6gw1ld1w 11 місяців тому

    Idc what no one says stretch marks are beautiful ❤

  • @noahmorin3562
    @noahmorin3562 3 роки тому +1

    bonjour a la classe 31

  • @BriannaKrystal
    @BriannaKrystal 5 років тому

    Everyone in this video is pretty, then there's my ugly ass.

  • @kingcreeper2882
    @kingcreeper2882 2 роки тому

    0:09 homework

  • @davidhill8565
    @davidhill8565 4 роки тому +5

    I use “the whitewashed” as a title before a name to refer to a woman who identifies as a person of color but tries to look White (e.g. the whitewashed Lil Kim).

  • @IntisarKoudi345
    @IntisarKoudi345 Місяць тому

    5:27-5:31🙁🫶🏽🥺

  • @elroyemmanueld7
    @elroyemmanueld7 4 роки тому +1

    Multi Ethnic Destruction In America - Professor Griff

    • @MrALenCar321
      @MrALenCar321 3 роки тому

      I don't get it? Are you saying multiculturalism is wrong ?

    • @elroyemmanueld7
      @elroyemmanueld7 3 роки тому +1

      @@MrALenCar321 That sentence is an acronym for the word M.E.D.I.A. The patrons of commercials advertising goods and services (in the media) sold and provided by multi-million dollar businesses are funding widespread perpetuation of insidious ideologies to impressionable people ACROSS ALL CULTURES AND RACES who also happen to be helpless and susceptible to the absorption of such messages because somehow a huge chunk of this new generation is a demographic of people who don't have real and wise mentors and role models who help develop their characters; they have Google, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tik Tok which inaccurately redefine beauty, wisdom and what it takes to be happy and successful. This is basically what I meant. I never said multiculturalism is wrong - if anything I encourage it😉

  • @ni3070
    @ni3070 4 роки тому +9

    But why does everyone care about the media so much?

    • @RS-ti7bz
      @RS-ti7bz 3 роки тому

      The media influences a lot of things including what types of people are seen as beautiful

    • @ni3070
      @ni3070 3 роки тому

      @@RS-ti7bz but if we don't get influenced and just follow our heart, it would be good

    • @priyamoerlie4614
      @priyamoerlie4614 Місяць тому

      It's not only the media but most of all the sick society.

  • @rubychavez9913
    @rubychavez9913 2 роки тому

    3:51

  • @zoiejohnson5677
    @zoiejohnson5677 4 роки тому +4

    3:41....ARE YOU KIDDING ME....WHEN I FIRST SAW HER I WAS LIKE WOW...LOOK AT HER. SHES FREAKING GORGEOUS. HER LIPS HER EYES HER HAIR HER CHIN...LIKE WTF!!!! KIM KARDASHIAN SHOULD NOT BE A STANDARD OF BEAUTY. THEY'RE FAKE AND THEY TRY TO OWN BLACK FEATURES.....THAT IS WHATS UGLY...NOT THE BEAUTIFUL GIRL AT 3:41

  • @moniraakter1419
    @moniraakter1419 3 роки тому +2

    I'm beautiful.
    Why don't you all say the same?

  • @ginanovo6285
    @ginanovo6285 Рік тому

    lol kylie jenner is the beauty ideal even though everything about her look is fake. how is that for irony hehe

  • @christdiedforoursins5756
    @christdiedforoursins5756 5 років тому +20

    Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures was buried and rose again on the third day according to the scriptures 1 Corinthians 15:3

  • @oleeb
    @oleeb Місяць тому

    Is this supposed to revelatory? Advertising exists. Advertising executives and their corporate overlords choose the standards for everything in the modern world. Your petty personal resentment misses the stark reality of the problem. If you are oppressed by advertising standards you are choosing to give the corporate powers that be power over your self image. Who is really to blame for that? Whatever you do though stop whining and take back the power from the corporate masters and plutocrats.

  • @omaravelar3271
    @omaravelar3271 5 років тому +1

    Just workout tho

    • @pcmsvlogs7112
      @pcmsvlogs7112 4 роки тому +7

      Omar Avelar it’s not that easy 🖕🏿

    • @thepatbackexperience4573
      @thepatbackexperience4573 3 роки тому

      @@pcmsvlogs7112
      Is accepting yourself and loving yourself for who you are easy?
      No. In fact it is a long and demanding process
      Is deciding to start working out easy?
      Yes