This may cause some sort of disturbance to you and i apologize prior to what i shall say. I’d like to say that the actual word needed to use in sayings such as, ‘you’re welcome’ is you’re. this just means it’s the two words, you and are together! I hope this helps with your learning and I helped more people!
howtofuckamockinbird people hate that video... they find it and thing they are going to learn some incredible finishing move and instead I am basically saying to "hug it out".
alpha m. That is the point! I thought the same thing until i watched the whole video. I think it really does give people something to think about and say 'oh wait, he is actually right maybe i ll try that out next time'. I remember you saying there is no winner in physical confrontation so, you pretty much win everytime if you can avoid it. That is what i do. So, thanks for showing me the right way.
***** If what you mean by "bitch" is a woman who doesn't let any man dominate them, well too bad for you. This is the 21st century, get used to it. Of course, there are the ones that are mean jackasses for the sake of being mean jackasses, but hey that kind of people exist among men as well.
Adna Ali Hersi Ryan Ali Hersi just ignore the hate and carry on doing whatever brings you closer to the Almighty Allah. May Allah bless you for your patience in both this life and the hereafter.
Learned something useful today. Swear this guy's channel is like the best part of youtube. Even the comments section is filled with polite and somewhat sophisticated (I hope) people lol.
* responding to quite old video * I've noticed your channel a few months ago, maybe even less, but I'd like to thank you at this point because now I started to actually binge it in order to motivate me to make. a. change. There's been some crap in my life over the last one-and-a-half year and you sir are actually helping me to cope. Because if everything else goes totally rubbish, at least I am not. And now I get a feeling that I'm probably going to get out of this crap situation with more strength than I ever had before I'm a 16 year old German dude that's been through enough shit to be 25 by the way. I don't know if you're ever gonna read this, but if you got to this point, I just want to thank you. Isn't it funny that a style grooming and fitness channel gets me back on track?
I really got to thank this guy... just when I wasn't far from reaching my lowest in motivation, school, happiness,etc, I feel on his UA-cam channel...Got so hyped up real quick! It helps me stay happy and as motivated as I have never been!
I am in a position where I know I'll never earn respect. I know it seems like the solution is to change my attitude toward the situation. But I think it is just realistic that in some situations it is silly to think you will be respected. Any tips or videos on how to successfully deal with DISrespect and remain positive and happy? Thanks.
A Keeper Of Odd Knowledge I've been working on the indifference thing. It's coming along okay. Unfortunately, the fear thing doesn't always work, especially at work lol.
Yeah, I totally see where you're coming from. I get that feeling a lot as well, but not from everywhere. In my situation, I go to university and I work at a supermarket. At the supermarket, I seldom get any kind of respect from either customers or colleagues (apart from a few of the people that I closely work with - a lot of other people, mostly those who work in different areas as me, are often quite strange, disrespectful, or completely inappropriate or even rude to me). Out in public places, I rarely come across truly nice or great people (might just be the customer service in New Zealand though, as well as general attitudes over here). At university, I find that respect is actually earned from most people and scenarios, but admittedly, not always - and that's always going to be the case wherever you go (respect is far from being absolutely everywhere you go, unfortunately). I also admit that I need to keep improving at this particular solution, but for me, I heavily believe in just respecting people all the time, everywhere I go. It may seem like a really ignorant and stupid thing to do, but it doesn't really cost me anything if I do it, so why not? It makes me happy, if I get it right, and that's because, even if you're running into people who just don't respect you, they're still human. They have or had their own lives and aspirations, loved ones, fears, hobbies, reasons, ups, downs, and everything in between. When someone shows a lack of respect, or even full-on disrespect to you, and you don't know the first thing about them, the natural and most common thing to do is to imagine them as being just the worst kind. You end up thinking that there's nothing about them that you could possibly respect, admire or find cool in some way - that there's absolutely nothing to understand about them, other than the worst, and that there's nothing that either of you have in common. All from one particular bad moment or timing, or maybe from several. Heck, during different timings, or from different angles, you could of really hit it out of the park with them. Who knows? Who is anyone to say otherwise if you don't know the first thing about them, or if you don't know that much about them? You could be just experiencing their 'bad side', which is the worst side to experience when you're first meeting them. What's their 'good side' like? The key is to set examples. If people just respected each other, no matter how shitty their attitudes may come across to each other, it sets positive examples. You may end up inspiring someone else to take on that kind of attitude, and to make a change. Maybe the person who was such an ass to you will come to realise, in light of you being so much more respectful, regardless of what he/she threw at you, that he/she was a bit of a dick, and circumstances might end up changing. Maybe if they see you again, they'll act differently because they see that they're being treated in a more forgiving way, or something. Maybe you won't see them again, but your positive attitude may have just caused a small, but crucial chain-reaction of awesomeness, where that person is being more respectful to others, causing even more chain-reactions and awesomeness. Maybe you'll never know the impact of respecting others more, but if you do it enough - I'm talking, like, all the time, it will absolutely have some effect; that, I guarantee you. Some things turn out like the Butterfly Effect; small causes that, over time, have bigger impacts and effects. Sorry for the long-ass comment. Enjoy the rest of your day, and I hope this helps.
The part about giving it your all no matter how small or insignificant task it may be reminds me of what my university lector once told us: "Let everything you do reflect your excellence"... True words and I follow it till this day!
that's never worked out for me. I'm done treating people nicely. if anyone disrespects me anymore i just become their worst nightmare. my highschool bully can't even look me in the eyes anymore. and all what I did to be bullied was being nice to him. but now he left me alone and I've never felt better.
Then those people don't deserve your respect, time or attention. Ignore them, don't talk to them, they're ignorant 'cause what you say it will go out the ear and out the other. Hope this helps!
Hi Victoria , i understand where you coming from it hard to beleive but its true because the state of mind is expectation to get respect. just try to change position and best thing you can do is brief somebody like and dislike in a notepad as i know human always remember everything in picture and you can remember easily. a) write down their interest like and dislike. b) Second, Try to focus on yourself rather than them. c) a little surprise gift "such as a meal that you can bring while you enter "to one of the your group member you want. it will be matter a lot for every one and dont forget to distribute to all as other may feel bad as our intension is to feel confident not to make other jeleous. d) don't fall on them. always try to react positive on every situation ,i would say donnt suggest your openion in conversation if you dont feel comfortable. e)try to be busy in productive things. f)wear what ever you feel comfortable and also it suits you. g) practice to smile . h)never loose your temper. I hope it will help you . But this is my experience and if you feel still confused my whats app no is 00447850557723.
I really hope this video can help me. All of my friends are older than me and sometimes I feel like I'm invisible. They all play different games than I do and since they are the majority, they always play the games that they want. Never the games that I play. On top of that, they discriminate against the games that I play which I find very annoying and rude. I never tried stand up for myself because for one, I was the youngest and two, it was 1 against 4. I also never tried because it would either result in me loosing the argument or them disliking the game even more. I can never voice my opinion, I am always ignored when I politely ask them to do something, I am ashamed for playing the games that I enjoy the most, and I am always looked down upon in competition. Again, I will try to apply as much as possible to my life and see how it goes. None of this was exaggerated and I am still friends with them but we all deserve respect.
Liked video right when I got to step 3, made my day. It’s really unnecessary when people curse a lot in conversations, they think they are cool doing that in their own way, but it’s not even necessary like Alpha said it himself. Thank you @alpha m. for bringing that up.
Because not everyone shares the same personality attributes, the platinum rule is even better than the golden rule: Treat others the way they would like to be treated.
Alpha I know u might not read this but I never had a father figure to teach me anything matter of fact he taught me the opposite. Thank u for helping men who need this to reach there full potential I’ve been studying and learning from u and other alpha males for a while now your my main go to one . You’ve helped me reach levels I never thought would’ve been possible . Thank u for teaching me to be the best version of myself and this is stuff I can pass down to my sons as well . Again thank u so much
I've been disrespected so many times. i walk away. But i Don't forget. i forgive But i Don't forget. Yo Alpha M ( Can you Do a video on Old school Italian Family traditions ) ,I'll highly appreciate it, .
Growing up without a father, and not being very close to my step-father I've never really had a good male role model in my life to show me whats expected of me as a man. These video's are great. I hope you keep them coming man.
self-improvement starts with knowing and being yourself, not with aiming to be the best in all areas of life. because at some point, you're going to drop the ball, and when you do, all you will have is yourself, not the illusion of the "perfect" person you've built for others to see.
Sometimes ignorance is also important for earning respect. If you keep on taking everyone seriously , You keep on thinking about others , caring too much about what they feel , clarifying yourself for everything , going out of your way to help others , always agree with others even if leads to your loss. By this you're sending a message like anybody can come and treat me how they want and I'm fine with it. They will start taking you for granted and treat you low. They would start believing that your opinion doesn't matters that much and you're not the one to be taken seriously.( I'm saying all this from my personal experience). The best you can do in such cases is learn to say NO , if someone is taking you for granted , start showing them your ignorance. Change your body language. Make it more dominant and show them who's the boss. I might sound a bit of an asshole , but believe me guys people don't take you seriously until you show your existence and fight for it.
Great! And alpha marino, can you answer me or make a video about what makes you guys(gentlemen) respect we(ladies)? And how We(ladies) can show respect to gentlemen?
I try and treat everyone with exactly as much respect as I expect to be treated with, I will either continue to maintain the same level of respect with them if treated the same or treat them with as much respect as they treat me with if the do not reciprocate in kind. This is what my Popop taught me, and he was the man most worthy of respect I ever knew. Maybe it's an Italian thing, but this is who I am.
Random Person Because not everyone who is nice is important. You can hold the door open, say bless you, buy someone flowers. But what really matters is entitlement and the effects you make on everyone.
Respect is GIVEN, to everyone. People are supposed to GIVE respect to all people as part of human dignity, no matter the circumstances. TRUST is earned.
Two things I've learned about the world: presentation counts and no one sees inner beauty (we are judged and we judge others on what is on the outside).
GalvatronTypeR it's because the way you present yourself shows a bit of what kind of person you are, but not always though. I'm sorry buddy the world is a disappointing place
The question is are they your friends? You should talk about it with them. If they don't respect you then they are not your friends. If they refuse to stop swearing in public, then you need to ask yourself, do you still accept them as who they are? or is there a problem? But first thing is first talk about it... if you can't talk about it, then they never really were your friend
It's kind of hard because you can't expect your friends to change. There comes a point where you need to be accepting of them. Maybe they don't need to change as much as you don't need to. If they disrespect you and others, then that's a different story.
Another great tip, especially for people who work in a corporate environment is to always make sure that you're 100% correct (not 95% or 99.99%) when stating a fact. It's worth it to take a few minutes to confirm than to have someone catch your mistake and look incompetent in front of your co-workers.
Sigh. You just nitpicked a single word on a 4 minute video. He basically says that don't let profanity make up for half your conversation or else you'll sound like a jackass. It's okay to use adjectives as such every once in a while to reinforce your thoughts, so as to not sound like a stuck up, extra polite, believer.
Damn I needed that. I was bullyed at school, and I did not have the warm blood in me to talk back. Now I feel a little courage in my bones. Thanks to you. No one would come up a chat like this. And if I didn't get the idea for searching one of these vids, I would propably stay sad and eat Nutella with apple.
People who expect their beliefs to be respected just because they hold them is absurd imo. It's arrogant and entitled. It, to me, throws away the intellectual honesty and the critical analysis that is, and should be, given to every set of ideas. I think a lot of this has to do with political correctness, we're so afraid of violating a person's personal sensitivities or that we might offend them that, in the process, we start choosing to conform to feelings and sensitivities than honesty, truth, and facts, because we don't want to deal with the intense negative emotions from that opposite individual that will spew out if you decide to be honest and truthful to yourself. To me, that's a big problem. That's my take on it.
Well, the way I see it, is if you have a different opinion than me, I'll respect that. I may not like your opinion, but you're entitled to it, just like I am to mine.
I'm trying so hard to clean up my act, all through high school I was a common gamer slob. But I want to change that, thanks Aaron (I believe that's how it is spelled, if not, I apologize), you're just the help I needed.
Another aspect of earning respect is to always get better. Never say "this is just how I am." If I said that January 1st 2013, I would still be 225 pounds and struggling to do a single push up. But I didn't! I am now 192 and when I do push ups I have to add weight. Don't destroy yourself by saying "this flaw is just who I am." Especially if it stands in the way of you getting the respect you deserve, and you being the best you you can be.
Money is just a tool. And also, Miles of money cant buy one centimeter of respect. You cant gain respect for just having money, You have to do something with it.
stephencolbert5 they have no respect cause they suck eitherwise.... But Jobs and Onasis and other cool millionaires are pretty much respected...being rich does not mean that you suck...in fact the people who envy them they really suck!
Sir alpha...you are such an inspiration man! I wonder how a man can get the viewers watch the entire video without getting us bored at any part of the video. Its such a treat to watch ur videos. when I get low I pay a visit to Ur videos. It kinda gives me the boost to freakin groom my life! After all a 19year old kid!
I respect everyone, I speak respectfully, I stand up to what I believe is right, and I respect myself, but every single person in my school believes that the only way to be “popular” or “respected” is to put everyone else down. I regularly get tormented and picked on, and whenever I try to have a respectful and serious conversation with someone, they find a way to take advantage of me and use me or belittle me. This has made me depressed, and at some point, suicidal. I don’t know what to do anymore.
Great video!! As you said, this society needs a serious attitude adjustment. We need more people who send this message for all people, specially for young.
Alpha honestly I believe you are one of very few inspirational people that I know, you have helped me become a better person for myself and the others around me. Thank you Alpha
He's like the dad everyone needs.
Lemon Lover he doesn't look like someone's dead
Siddhant Dogra 😂 bruh
what dads should be
Ask your mom maybe she can help you with that 😅😂
Fr I watched this after getting my ass kicked by my dad 7 years ago
"Try your best at everything."
Blue film
By
.....and the rest will follow.....
this guy changed me so much
September 10, 2016
Broken Basketz lol what
TG Sceptical Facts
Same here
TG Sceptical facts
Be prideful
Stand up
Speak respectfully
Do not
Think before you speak
Respect others
Don’t backstab
Keep promises
Do your best
Your welcome 😊
Do not what?
Thank you😊
But do not what? 😶
Dio Brando LoL it is do not think before you speak:)
This may cause some sort of disturbance to you and i apologize prior to what i shall say. I’d like to say that the actual word needed to use in sayings such as, ‘you’re welcome’ is you’re. this just means it’s the two words, you and are together! I hope this helps with your learning and I helped more people!
Thanks ...thumbs up
I am a girl but I find alpha male's' videos really helpful.
What he says applies to everybody.
I was thinking about videos about socializing actually....
I'm cool don't worry
+Siu Wan
that's cool, sometimes I watch one direction as a guy, lol xD
liking something knows no gender boundary !:)
I think your name suits you : Old school ...
I don't watch or follow these things but if people want to I'll let them
One of your best videos.
Best was how to WIN fights! everytime!
howtofuckamockinbird people hate that video... they find it and thing they are going to learn some incredible finishing move and instead I am basically saying to "hug it out".
I really liked this video too! People now often forget that is not bad if man is a gentleman or a woman is a damsel. Very good video.
alpha m.
That is the point! I thought the same thing until i watched the whole video. I think it really does give people something to think about and say 'oh wait, he is actually right maybe i ll try that out next time'. I remember you saying there is no winner in physical confrontation so, you pretty much win everytime if you can avoid it. That is what i do. So, thanks for showing me the right way.
***** If what you mean by "bitch" is a woman who doesn't let any man dominate them, well too bad for you. This is the 21st century, get used to it. Of course, there are the ones that are mean jackasses for the sake of being mean jackasses, but hey that kind of people exist among men as well.
How to get Respect:
Step 1. Do some mission
Step 2. Mission Passed, Respect+
END VIDEO
Fast short cut
follow the damn train
doggone gamer. LOL
Ahhh GTA SA
Welcome to San Andreas!
Another thing that I think falls in line with earning and giving respect is taking responsibility for your actions whether they be good or bad
agree!
that makes sense, Ryan Nonsense
Adna Ali Hersi Ryan Ali Hersi just ignore the hate and carry on doing whatever brings you closer to the Almighty Allah. May Allah bless you for your patience in both this life and the hereafter.
"And remember... respect is everything"
And remember if you got any car qustions just visit scotty kilmer channel xD thats what your comment reminded me of haha
I thought its a quote from GTA2.
No our values are first so what we are wanna be is everything not respect cuz people never gonna respect you for what you r
every word is true as hell.
Sure is
+Saral Thakur Haha
#respect
it is 💯
I recently discovered your video's, they are very usefull and inspiring. Thanks for your efforts man.
Damn... Subbing here was a really good decision.
I here you bro
I would agree with that my friend!
I know right..
+Rinn Skayf hear* idiot
Same :D
respect is the key to a better world.
Learned something useful today. Swear this guy's channel is like the best part of youtube. Even the comments section is filled with polite and somewhat sophisticated (I hope) people lol.
* responding to quite old video *
I've noticed your channel a few months ago, maybe even less, but I'd like to thank you at this point because now I started to actually binge it in order to motivate me to make. a. change.
There's been some crap in my life over the last one-and-a-half year and you sir are actually helping me to cope. Because if everything else goes totally rubbish, at least I am not. And now I get a feeling that I'm probably going to get out of this crap situation with more strength than I ever had before
I'm a 16 year old German dude that's been through enough shit to be 25 by the way.
I don't know if you're ever gonna read this, but if you got to this point, I just want to thank you.
Isn't it funny that a style grooming and fitness channel gets me back on track?
If it works,it's alright.
I really got to thank this guy... just when I wasn't far from reaching my lowest in motivation, school, happiness,etc, I feel on his UA-cam channel...Got so hyped up real quick! It helps me stay happy and as motivated as I have never been!
I am in a position where I know I'll never earn respect. I know it seems like the solution is to change my attitude toward the situation. But I think it is just realistic that in some situations it is silly to think you will be respected. Any tips or videos on how to successfully deal with DISrespect and remain positive and happy? Thanks.
If you can't get their respect, either make them fear you or move on.
A Keeper Of Odd Knowledge I've been working on the indifference thing. It's coming along okay. Unfortunately, the fear thing doesn't always work, especially at work lol.
Yeah, I totally see where you're coming from. I get that feeling a lot as well, but not from everywhere. In my situation, I go to university and I work at a supermarket. At the supermarket, I seldom get any kind of respect from either customers or colleagues (apart from a few of the people that I closely work with - a lot of other people, mostly those who work in different areas as me, are often quite strange, disrespectful, or completely inappropriate or even rude to me). Out in public places, I rarely come across truly nice or great people (might just be the customer service in New Zealand though, as well as general attitudes over here). At university, I find that respect is actually earned from most people and scenarios, but admittedly, not always - and that's always going to be the case wherever you go (respect is far from being absolutely everywhere you go, unfortunately). I also admit that I need to keep improving at this particular solution, but for me, I heavily believe in just respecting people all the time, everywhere I go. It may seem like a really ignorant and stupid thing to do, but it doesn't really cost me anything if I do it, so why not? It makes me happy, if I get it right, and that's because, even if you're running into people who just don't respect you, they're still human. They have or had their own lives and aspirations, loved ones, fears, hobbies, reasons, ups, downs, and everything in between.
When someone shows a lack of respect, or even full-on disrespect to you, and you don't know the first thing about them, the natural and most common thing to do is to imagine them as being just the worst kind. You end up thinking that there's nothing about them that you could possibly respect, admire or find cool in some way - that there's absolutely nothing to understand about them, other than the worst, and that there's nothing that either of you have in common. All from one particular bad moment or timing, or maybe from several. Heck, during different timings, or from different angles, you could of really hit it out of the park with them. Who knows? Who is anyone to say otherwise if you don't know the first thing about them, or if you don't know that much about them? You could be just experiencing their 'bad side', which is the worst side to experience when you're first meeting them. What's their 'good side' like?
The key is to set examples. If people just respected each other, no matter how shitty their attitudes may come across to each other, it sets positive examples. You may end up inspiring someone else to take on that kind of attitude, and to make a change. Maybe the person who was such an ass to you will come to realise, in light of you being so much more respectful, regardless of what he/she threw at you, that he/she was a bit of a dick, and circumstances might end up changing. Maybe if they see you again, they'll act differently because they see that they're being treated in a more forgiving way, or something. Maybe you won't see them again, but your positive attitude may have just caused a small, but crucial chain-reaction of awesomeness, where that person is being more respectful to others, causing even more chain-reactions and awesomeness.
Maybe you'll never know the impact of respecting others more, but if you do it enough - I'm talking, like, all the time, it will absolutely have some effect; that, I guarantee you. Some things turn out like the Butterfly Effect; small causes that, over time, have bigger impacts and effects. Sorry for the long-ass comment. Enjoy the rest of your day, and I hope this helps.
crocodiles abound
The part about giving it your all no matter how small or insignificant task it may be reminds me of what my university lector once told us: "Let everything you do reflect your excellence"... True words and I follow it till this day!
that's never worked out for me.
I'm done treating people nicely. if anyone disrespects me anymore i just become their worst nightmare. my highschool bully can't even look me in the eyes anymore. and all what I did to be bullied was being nice to him. but now he left me alone and I've never felt better.
Khalid Alamer yo what up cj?!
Khalid Alamer wtf
well done man. at least you what you want to be. :)
don't worry. Respecr yourself and that is the best thing u want to do. don't worry if others don't respect you ;)
don't worry. Respecr yourself and that is the best thing u want to do. don't worry if others don't respect you ;)
Says "gentlemen" a lot, but this applies to us ladies as well. I love it . Thanks.
I think because it’s meant for men it’s like a men’s channel more than a woman’s
What if I respect them, but they don't respect me?
Then those people don't deserve your respect, time or attention. Ignore them, don't talk to them, they're ignorant 'cause what you say it will go out the ear and out the other. Hope this helps!
You haven't followed every tip he gave maybe. Brush your teeth?
Whales123
Sometimes it is impossible to ignore them because they work with you.
Hi Victoria , i understand where you coming from it hard to beleive but its true because the state of mind is expectation to get respect. just try to change position and best thing you can do is brief somebody like and dislike in a notepad as i know human always remember everything in picture and you can remember easily.
a) write down their interest like and dislike.
b) Second, Try to focus on yourself rather than them.
c) a little surprise gift "such as a meal that you can bring while you enter "to one of the your group member you want. it will be matter a lot for every one and dont forget to distribute to all as other may feel bad as our intension is to feel confident not to make other jeleous.
d) don't fall on them. always try to react positive on every situation ,i would say donnt suggest your openion in conversation if you dont feel comfortable.
e)try to be busy in productive things.
f)wear what ever you feel comfortable and also it suits you.
g) practice to smile .
h)never loose your temper.
I hope it will help you . But this is my experience and if you feel still confused my whats app no is 00447850557723.
insult those mothefuckers do the same they do with u and fight them if they want that but not let them treat u like shit
I really hope this video can help me. All of my friends are older than me and sometimes I feel like I'm invisible. They all play different games than I do and since they are the majority, they always play the games that they want. Never the games that I play. On top of that, they discriminate against the games that I play which I find very annoying and rude. I never tried stand up for myself because for one, I was the youngest and two, it was 1 against 4. I also never tried because it would either result in me loosing the argument or them disliking the game even more. I can never voice my opinion, I am always ignored when I politely ask them to do something, I am ashamed for playing the games that I enjoy the most, and I am always looked down upon in competition. Again, I will try to apply as much as possible to my life and see how it goes. None of this was exaggerated and I am still friends with them but we all deserve respect.
anyone watching this in 2016 ? just bcoz you love alpha m. videos ?
Yeah 3 years subbed and I am just rewatching to see what my new self thinks.
oh
Yeah man
no expiration date on this)
Mohit Mahmadwal 2017
Liked video right when I got to step 3, made my day. It’s really unnecessary when people curse a lot in conversations, they think they are cool doing that in their own way, but it’s not even necessary like Alpha said it himself. Thank you @alpha m. for bringing that up.
Because not everyone shares the same personality attributes, the platinum rule is even better than the golden rule: Treat others the way they would like to be treated.
Jon-Michael DeBona amen
Alpha I know u might not read this but I never had a father figure to teach me anything matter of fact he taught me the opposite. Thank u for helping men who need this to reach there full potential I’ve been studying and learning from u and other alpha males for a while now your my main go to one . You’ve helped me reach levels I never thought would’ve been possible . Thank u for teaching me to be the best version of myself and this is stuff I can pass down to my sons as well . Again thank u so much
I've been disrespected so many times. i walk away. But i Don't forget.
i forgive But i Don't forget.
Yo Alpha M ( Can you Do a video on Old school Italian Family traditions )
,I'll highly appreciate it,
.
Allen Tapanes you can also watch the godfather
Growing up without a father, and not being very close to my step-father I've never really had a good male role model in my life to show me whats expected of me as a man. These video's are great. I hope you keep them coming man.
This was a great video Aaron! Will try some of this.
Feeling relax after watching it.
You're awesome man. Keep it up!
self-improvement starts with knowing and being yourself, not with aiming to be the best in all areas of life. because at some point, you're going to drop the ball, and when you do, all you will have is yourself, not the illusion of the "perfect" person you've built for others to see.
Awesome advice!
The Punchline that tied in this video and made it a classic is posing the question " Are you a role model?" Excellent video.
I watched this when it came out, I came back to remind myself of what I can be.
Just like "Fit Gent", this page is one of my favorites. Get your point across (somewhat quick) and the points you try to cover are all so clever
Good advice. Even biblical. As Jesus said "You are not far from the Kingdom of God."
Respect yourself first !
I agree.
After seeing ur videos for a few weeks, i feel better, and some people start to call me boss lool, alpha you are a great mind.
2pac Shakour you Are not boss you Are king
This fellows hand gestures are on point. Manly.
crap, your a dad for generations
nihl hinz
*you're
+Tim no, now is not the time for grammar checks.
Now is the best time for grammar checks.
nihl hinz you're*
nihl hinz lol
wow good talk
Put some respek when you mention my name
yah man ya
May 15, 2016
Sometimes ignorance is also important for earning respect. If you keep on taking everyone seriously , You keep on thinking about others , caring too much about what they feel , clarifying yourself for everything , going out of your way to help others , always agree with others even if leads to your loss. By this you're sending a message like anybody can come and treat me how they want and I'm fine with it. They will start taking you for granted and treat you low. They would start believing that your opinion doesn't matters that much and you're not the one to be taken seriously.( I'm saying all this from my personal experience). The best you can do in such cases is learn to say NO , if someone is taking you for granted , start showing them your ignorance. Change your body language. Make it more dominant and show them who's the boss. I might sound a bit of an asshole , but believe me guys people don't take you seriously until you show your existence and fight for it.
wow! I like this dud! we will have great man with your help : D
Hello hope to be fine please send me your email address thank you .
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Those things i have forgotten said by my parents and teachers .... thanks for reminding me those again...!! that was so inspiring ..!!
Great!
And alpha marino, can you answer me or make a video about what makes you guys(gentlemen) respect we(ladies)?
And how We(ladies) can show respect to gentlemen?
Alpha, Can you please do it?
And I really hate it when people just don't reply me
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I try and treat everyone with exactly as much respect as I expect to be treated with, I will either continue to maintain the same level of respect with them if treated the same or treat them with as much respect as they treat me with if the do not reciprocate in kind. This is what my Popop taught me, and he was the man most worthy of respect I ever knew. Maybe it's an Italian thing, but this is who I am.
Why is it that nice people don't get much respect...
Random Person Because not everyone who is nice is important. You can hold the door open, say bless you, buy someone flowers. But what really matters is entitlement and the effects you make on everyone.
Coz nice people just like laughing with some random guys... How about yo stay stoned face and see
Alot of "nice" are insecure within and that's the energy they give off. People can sense it and therefore goes the lack of respect.
That's a problem...
pls people don't respect me what can I do
So true. That is what every body should do. Men or women. Thanks for posting.
one of your best video bro 🤗
You are a true mentor.respect is everything
Our society needs an "Attitude Adjustment". Hey another fan of John Cena.
Respect is GIVEN, to everyone. People are supposed to GIVE respect to all people as part of human dignity, no matter the circumstances. TRUST is earned.
Good shit
glad theres someone like this guy
Wisdom yo daddy shoulda taught you son! lol
Two things I've learned about the world: presentation counts and no one sees inner beauty (we are judged and we judge others on what is on the outside).
GalvatronTypeR it's because the way you present yourself shows a bit of what kind of person you are, but not always though. I'm sorry buddy the world is a disappointing place
GalvatronTypeR amen
My friends dont sag but they swear in public which I dont like, maybe I should hang out with more respectable people.
Just ignore those guys , by the time they will stop doing it ,
The question is are they your friends? You should talk about it with them. If they don't respect you then they are not your friends. If they refuse to stop swearing in public, then you need to ask yourself, do you still accept them as who they are? or is there a problem?
But first thing is first talk about it... if you can't talk about it, then they never really were your friend
Can i be your friends.People nowadays don't have their respect and always making fun of us.
It's kind of hard because you can't expect your friends to change. There comes a point where you need to be accepting of them. Maybe they don't need to change as much as you don't need to. If they disrespect you and others, then that's a different story.
There is power in what has been said and i saw the change.Thanks
Anyone is seeing this on 2021? 🤔
Another great tip, especially for people who work in a corporate environment is to always make sure that you're 100% correct (not 95% or 99.99%) when stating a fact. It's worth it to take a few minutes to confirm than to have someone catch your mistake and look incompetent in front of your co-workers.
You say theres no need to curse to get your points across yet... 2:50
Other than that interesting points brought across, nice vid
Sigh. You just nitpicked a single word on a 4 minute video. He basically says that don't let profanity make up for half your conversation or else you'll sound like a jackass. It's okay to use adjectives as such every once in a while to reinforce your thoughts, so as to not sound like a stuck up, extra polite, believer.
Lev Thank you, couldn't have said it better
Damn I needed that. I was bullyed at school, and I did not have the warm blood in me to talk back. Now I feel a little courage in my bones. Thanks to you. No one would come up a chat like this. And if I didn't get the idea for searching one of these vids, I would propably stay sad and eat Nutella with apple.
People who expect their beliefs to be respected just because they hold them is absurd imo. It's arrogant and entitled. It, to me, throws away the intellectual honesty and the critical analysis that is, and should be, given to every set of ideas. I think a lot of this has to do with political correctness, we're so afraid of violating a person's personal sensitivities or that we might offend them that, in the process, we start choosing to conform to feelings and sensitivities than honesty, truth, and facts, because we don't want to deal with the intense negative emotions from that opposite individual that will spew out if you decide to be honest and truthful to yourself. To me, that's a big problem. That's my take on it.
Read "Crucial Conversations" and you'll realize why you can't have dialogue without respect.
Well, the way I see it, is if you have a different opinion than me, I'll respect that. I may not like your opinion, but you're entitled to it, just like I am to mine.
I'm trying so hard to clean up my act, all through high school I was a common gamer slob. But I want to change that, thanks Aaron (I believe that's how it is spelled, if not, I apologize), you're just the help I needed.
I THINK I FOUND MY FATHER
Valery De Saint Ambroise WTF.. I am your father...
@Abdullah Khan i made this family tree who you?
Very powerful messages - especially at the end about being a roll model.
screw the 66 people aho disliked this ...i guess they couldnt handle the truth
Another aspect of earning respect is to always get better. Never say "this is just how I am." If I said that January 1st 2013, I would still be 225 pounds and struggling to do a single push up. But I didn't! I am now 192 and when I do push ups I have to add weight. Don't destroy yourself by saying "this flaw is just who I am." Especially if it stands in the way of you getting the respect you deserve, and you being the best you you can be.
How to gain Respect in 1 single way: get super money
Money is just a tool. And also, Miles of money cant buy one centimeter of respect. You cant gain respect for just having money, You have to do something with it.
Call Me Mike well...everyone who owns super money does something with it :P
stephencolbert5 they have no respect cause they suck eitherwise....
But Jobs and Onasis and other cool millionaires are pretty much respected...being rich does not mean that you suck...in fact the people who envy them they really suck!
3 years ago. I wish I did invest in crypto back then
poko piko ....true
It's never late. Glad I found this Channel.
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Sir alpha...you are such an inspiration man! I wonder how a man can get the viewers watch the entire video without getting us bored at any part of the video. Its such a treat to watch ur videos. when I get low I pay a visit to Ur videos. It kinda gives me the boost to freakin groom my life! After all a 19year old kid!
With all due Respect I would like to let you know that you talk too fast. Please keep it slow.
Ooops farhan just think faster cuz
youtube have slow down motion, you can use
Completely agree with you. I'm glad you talk about these things!
From the bottom of my heart,Thank You. I finally have the outline for a world I'd want to put the work into that gives me purpose and drive.
You Sir, have my respect.
This is an extremely underrated channel. Good stuff man.
I love this guy's channel. I haven't found one video that I disagree with.
got so confident after hearing it... thx so much bro.
I respect everyone, I speak respectfully, I stand up to what I believe is right, and I respect myself, but every single person in my school believes that the only way to be “popular” or “respected” is to put everyone else down. I regularly get tormented and picked on, and whenever I try to have a respectful and serious conversation with someone, they find a way to take advantage of me and use me or belittle me. This has made me depressed, and at some point, suicidal. I don’t know what to do anymore.
❤️ you are truly a gentleman and a role model. Men really should learn good sporting spirit from you. 🙏👍
Great video. You got my respect, dude.
I'm glad and impressed that you have expanded style to more than just looks and cloths.
I see you recognize that it is someones' character also.
Great video!! As you said, this society needs a serious attitude adjustment. We need more people who send this message for all people, specially for young.
I'm usually lazy to log in to comment, but I just wanted to say that this is one of the most important videos on youtube.
Gold..pure gold!
Most people miss number 6!!! for some reason this sucks!! thanks for pointing these out.
THANK YOU!!!
Alpha honestly I believe you are one of very few inspirational people that I know, you have helped me become a better person for myself and the others around me.
Thank you Alpha
Woman here and definitely following these tips!
This is probably one of my favorite videos by Alpha M
Thank you. You've changed my life
very well said. VERY WELL SAID!!!!!!!!! ....AND YOUR LAST STATEMENT, I AGREE WITH 100%. I couldnt have said this better myself. Hat off to you.
Also I think the most important part of respect is putting others before yourself. You'd be amazed how much people will respect that
i just dont understand why people are disrespectful because i respect everybody
It's been 2 years but hell yeah, you are doing a great job Alpha.
This is the second video of yours that I've watched and I'm already compelled to subscribe - keep it up!
if people only had one chance to have a friend and only one friend in your life. I would pick this dude