Timestamps 1). Expressing gratitude 0:16 2). Start meaningful conversations 0:48 3). Respecting personal boundaries 1:43 4). Active listening 2:24 5). Be observant 3:02 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I realised I do a lot of these automatically due to how I was raised. To me saying "thank you" is something I'll say even to someone I don't like, simply because my mom taught me to thank for stuff, didn't even realise it attracts people
The saying "thank you" advice comes from a broader category: *_Acts of kindness given without any expectation of a reward in return._* These acts of kindness are always appreciated because they don't feel transactional. The recipient doesn't feel that they need to return that act of kindness ... ... but you will usually be rewarded with a sincere smile for your act of kindness. A common example is to smile and just say "thank you" to the serving staff when they hand you your coffee. These people work hard, and every tiny bit of kindness they get can help them through their day. And speaking for myself, *_seeing somebody else smile is all the reward that I need. It makes me feel very happy to see others are happy too!_* 😊❤
here r a few tips my friend gave me (if ur a girl) 1. smile when talking to him 2. have different facial expressions, dont keep the same face thru the whole lesson 3.turn ur body SLIGHTLYY towards him but dont make it too obvious 4. say some stuff in ur head outloud, eg. "bro i dont get taht whattt" or like comment on smthin and hes probs gonna say something back 5. if u got any jewelery, bracelets, rings etc, show them off, purposely put all ur best bracelets on the wrist that he can see 6. ask somethn like it could be anything like eg. "did u get a new cut" or like yh 7. when yall r talking or even if ur saying like a question, tURNNNN to him OKAY GIRLIE HES GONNS BE LOOKING AT UR GORGEOUS FACE WHEN HE TALKS TO U OK WE AINT GONNA GIVE HIM NO CHOICE 8. be urself, show him ur personality whilst talking, eg. if ur the funny type then slip in smthn goofy in ur questions or when u say smth, or like draw somethinf random in ur book and like he might say something 9. be chill with his friends i might tell yall how i do all this in my maths class, gl yall 😭✌🏽💗
Can you create a video that talks about emotional numbness (dullness of feelings) after a relationship that hurt the heart, or a vidio about losing enthusiasm and enjoying old or new things? And also loss of passion
Hi Brandon, I really like that short word that you shared. Thank you so much for presenting these tips in a conversational tone. I feel like we could have a really interesting vibe together if we were to meet and reflect on this video. Keep up the great work guys! Much respect 💪
I agree with the 5 things. I tend to do all of them (my introvert nature helps here). But not with everybody. I can say "thanks" to anyone. But I don't notice small details in anybody. So, for me, it's not only that doing these things make me likable. It's also that, if I can do these 5 things with somebody, it's that I like that somebody.
Yeah, I have a friend in the tech field that also has friendships within nerdy fandoms, and he seems quite adept as a conversationalist. Definitely good at pretty much all of the 5 points of the video. Personally though, I feel I am notoriously bad at active listening, am solid at showing gratitude and good at keeping boundaries almost to the point of never getting "close" to anyone 😅
Thanks for sharing! You mentioned you're bad at active listening. Do you know why you're bad at active listening? Were you feeling distracted all the time?
@@Psych2go Quite distractible within my own mind, yes. Preoccupied with other useless thoughts because my mind can't be still for .0000003 seconds or perhaps I'm not invested in whomever I'm talking to. I'm also not exceptional at connections, soooooo yeah, there's that.
I’m really good at observing because I like to look into more details about a person. I do respect other’s boundaries because they’re their own people and I commend them for that. With other behaviors, I struggle a bit with them, but I can do better.
A big one the video does not mention is: If you are out of your depth in a conversation or social interaction, tell the other person that. People will be a lot more forgiving if they know you are trying.
hey there pal. you are here agien. you are probably here becuase you want to attract someone. now listen, there is no 100% guaranteed sucsess with these things. if it dosnt work, let go. and im not saying give up from the start, you can try a little and if it wont work just let go. we cant control other peapole. and if we are able somehow to control someone, he is not controlled, he is just forced to do stuff. he still has different feelings no matter what you do. have a nice day.
I think people are only attracted to me because I'm very different And because I have the ability to show them what they will never be able to see And maybe also because I am very secretive
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY , I WAS TOLD BY MY PARENT, THAT KNOW BODY LIKES ME, WILL I BELIEVE THAT MY PARENT DON'T WANT ANYBODY TO LIKE ME, HAVE A BLESSED FRIDAY, 💯🙏💙💪🙊🙈🙉
I swear I already do this. I get bullied anyway at my job as an adult. Although no one can really tell me anything actually bad about me other than setting personal boundaries like "no I won't keep rotting corpses in my hotel room," or "no I won't touch the raw sewage dirt." I realize this is obviously over the top stuff, unrelated to the video. I'm clearly around mean people. I just don't know where else to vent it.
@@Psych2go it has been going really great actually, she started taking intrest into me even though at the beginning i was a nobody to her . Now i am an important part of her life . Thnx for this kind of videos 👍
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS,I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS MORNING, ( I HAVE TO SAY IF SOMEBODY DON'T LIKE ME KNOW DISRESPECT 🖕, I LOVE ME,💋, HAVE A BLESSED DAY 💯🙏💙💪🙉🙊🙈😮
Hey, I probably know how you are feeling, its because we are so nice to people, thinking it will atrack them, but we end up being "best friends" and your crush end up in a relationship with someone who is not nice in generall, especially to her, and you are thinking: Is this it? Am I really supposed to be like "bad boy" to atrack other people?
I try to do all of these things every day but still, it just doesn't work out for me. It seems like I'm putting so much effort to be attractive and nothing works. Others may give this look as if to say "Who do you think your fooling?"
I tried all of this I tried to make friends by being kind but they just betray me every single time making me feel left out. And they only come to me when they feel off or when the others are ignoring them.
Hey...psy2go... I have something that i want to ask... Actually there's someone that has a crush on me... And the last 5 month, we really get along well... But, i separate myself way to much because of academic stress... And now ... I find it hard to approach her... Then, today our lecturer ask us to write everything we thought on our friends... Yeah,she's my classmate.. And i think she just gave me a hint... I just want to get any advices on how should i gave her a chance without giving too much hint that i also want too?😅
psych2go videos are top tiers ever since I first starts to watch them on 2018. I love all the videos but here's one thing I wanna say, could ya'll speak a little bit more loudly? bcs sometimes in a few video, no matter how I turn up my device volume...ya'lls voices are still small. please speak louder. thank you
Is funny how I do all these things in a natural manners and trust me I don't attract anyone. But well, I don't ingite(?) passion on anyone si that's a big factor, if you have that doing these stuff are not that important, it does improve tho a lot.
Hey guys i need some advise! My bf and i are in doubting fase rn. He has some frustrations with quircks since we started living togheter a month ago. At this stage for us there is lack of physical contact but we do talk a lot and communicatie and say whats on our mind. Few months ago before we lived togheter. We were at my appartement he told me he wanned kids. But a few days ago he told me he doesnt know if he still wants kids, i told him we can wait a couple years and thats fine. I think he is struggling a lot. We told each other to rlly think hard about this and no we don't want to leave each other but how do we keep this standing if one has frustrations, do they pass? I don't have frustrations. I like him the way he is and i don't want to change him. (Ps: we don't fight, only lack of physical contact and he has doubts about us rn)
Well I'm no expert in any way, but if those quircks are at the opposite end of his personality, maybe you both can meet halfways. For example, if he is very orderly and you're not, that's hard to fix without meeting halfway. It's very hard for an orderly person to live in an unorderly environment (I'm very orderly, but have lowered my standards with practice since it takes up too much time otherwise and may get on other peoples nerves). With that said, if it's more of a trivial thing he's upset about, like for example you always forgetting to bring in the mail or something like that, then I think he should overcome that frustration and realise that nobody is perfect. A good relationship is to learn to live with the imperfections the other one has, as long as they are not too opposite of your "core being" so to speak. I read about a woman that lived with her husband for about 40 years, and it was a good relationship overall. But she was seriously frustrated that he always forgot to bring out the trash in the hallway. Her husband eventually passed away, and their son would always bring out the trash thereafter. She said she really misses that imperfect quirck now, looking down the hallway and not seeing the trash forgotten there by her husband.
ive been thru this and its not good, lemme tell u why: starving urself firstly feels horrible u feel restricted and like ur trapped its actualy rly bad for ur body and u wont be able to develop or like go thru puberty or grow ur hair longer or anything to do with ur body go grab something sweet and enjoy it girl, dont feel guilty cause whats like 4 cookies a week gonna do to u- nothing pls eat something ml ❤❤
Why exactly should I respect those "boundaries"? There are days, where I'm pulling myself by the bootstraps, when I could just be sitting home alone, drinking my face off...
What trait do you find the most attractive in people? Also, find out what body language kills attraction: ua-cam.com/video/Z2SoKY-ezFM/v-deo.html
Kindness
I think 🤔 kindness 😊.
Love it! Kindness is definitely an important trait!
By far, I think this is the best, most helpful video of the year. This gave me so much insight. I really hope you all make more videos like this!😊
Not kindness ig
Timestamps
1). Expressing gratitude 0:16
2). Start meaningful conversations 0:48
3). Respecting personal boundaries 1:43
4). Active listening 2:24
5). Be observant 3:02
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
you...are...fast.
So fast.. Too fast.. I accidentally saw vid too fast...
@@Psych2go yes I am speed
@@thirumaraiselvan7715 sorry to hear that
Not all heroes wear capes
The artsyle is too adorable😭
Thank you so much! Krisha worked very hard on this project!
@@Psych2goyou can certainly tell them they did an excellent job
I realised I do a lot of these automatically due to how I was raised. To me saying "thank you" is something I'll say even to someone I don't like, simply because my mom taught me to thank for stuff, didn't even realise it attracts people
Maybe you didn't realise that it attracts people because it actually doesn't?
“do you want others to like you?”
yes.
yes i do.
I’ll be there for you, even if you don’t know me ❤
I mean, I can like you. Would it matter if I'm half the world away tho?
I am now a certified rizzler.
LOL YES
I know for certain, to hear a honest - not a casual - thank you really leaves a good impression on me.
Nobody ever talks about how CUTE the animation always is!!!!!!
I love it when someone smiles at my eyes
The saying "thank you" advice comes from a broader category:
*_Acts of kindness given without any expectation of a reward in return._*
These acts of kindness are always appreciated because they don't feel transactional. The recipient doesn't feel that they need to return that act of kindness ...
... but you will usually be rewarded with a sincere smile for your act of kindness.
A common example is to smile and just say "thank you" to the serving staff when they hand you your coffee. These people work hard, and every tiny bit of kindness they get can help them through their day.
And speaking for myself, *_seeing somebody else smile is all the reward that I need. It makes me feel very happy to see others are happy too!_* 😊❤
here r a few tips my friend gave me (if ur a girl)
1. smile when talking to him
2. have different facial expressions, dont keep the same face thru the whole lesson
3.turn ur body SLIGHTLYY towards him but dont make it too obvious
4. say some stuff in ur head outloud, eg. "bro i dont get taht whattt" or like comment on smthin and hes probs gonna say something back
5. if u got any jewelery, bracelets, rings etc, show them off, purposely put all ur best bracelets on the wrist that he can see
6. ask somethn like it could be anything like eg. "did u get a new cut" or like yh
7. when yall r talking or even if ur saying like a question, tURNNNN to him OKAY GIRLIE HES GONNS BE LOOKING AT UR GORGEOUS FACE WHEN HE TALKS TO U OK WE AINT GONNA GIVE HIM NO CHOICE
8. be urself, show him ur personality whilst talking, eg. if ur the funny type then slip in smthn goofy in ur questions or when u say smth, or like draw somethinf random in ur book and like he might say something
9. be chill with his friends
i might tell yall how i do all this in my maths class, gl yall 😭✌🏽💗
Can you create a video that talks about emotional numbness (dullness of feelings) after a relationship that hurt the heart, or a vidio about losing enthusiasm and enjoying old or new things? And also loss of passion
I will confess to my crush at 50 or more likes
I feel like I have all of these behaviors except for #2. I could def get better at starting meaningful converations
Watching this to understand better of why people are attracted to me
Awww that's so amazing! What did you find out so far?
Hi Brandon,
I really like that short word that you shared.
Thank you so much for presenting these tips in a conversational tone. I feel like we could have a really interesting vibe together if we were to meet and reflect on this video.
Keep up the great work guys! Much respect 💪
I agree with the 5 things. I tend to do all of them (my introvert nature helps here). But not with everybody. I can say "thanks" to anyone. But I don't notice small details in anybody. So, for me, it's not only that doing these things make me likable. It's also that, if I can do these 5 things with somebody, it's that I like that somebody.
I’m not here to please people or attract people. I don’t care if you like me or not - it ain’t about me, but the objectives for which I move.
Yeah, I have a friend in the tech field that also has friendships within nerdy fandoms, and he seems quite adept as a conversationalist. Definitely good at pretty much all of the 5 points of the video.
Personally though, I feel I am notoriously bad at active listening, am solid at showing gratitude and good at keeping boundaries almost to the point of never getting "close" to anyone 😅
Thanks for sharing! You mentioned you're bad at active listening. Do you know why you're bad at active listening? Were you feeling distracted all the time?
@@Psych2go Quite distractible within my own mind, yes. Preoccupied with other useless thoughts because my mind can't be still for .0000003 seconds or perhaps I'm not invested in whomever I'm talking to.
I'm also not exceptional at connections, soooooo yeah, there's that.
I’m really good at observing because I like to look into more details about a person. I do respect other’s boundaries because they’re their own people and I commend them for that. With other behaviors, I struggle a bit with them, but I can do better.
Thank you for the tips!
Happy to help!
A big one the video does not mention is:
If you are out of your depth in a conversation or social interaction, tell the other person that. People will be a lot more forgiving if they know you are trying.
what do you mean by “out of your depth”?
@@cheesi4632 it is when you don't have enough knowledge or situational awareness to know what is going on...
Now was that a question or a troll? 🤣
@@hicknopunk oh it was a question, ive never heard that term before. thanks!
@@cheesi4632 no problem. I hope you have a nice weekend
@@hicknopunk you too!
Love your videos so much! 🥰
You're the best!
Thanks for useful and informative video as always ❤❤❤
Glad it was helpful!
You can’t make no one like you. The thing is be confident. If they like you for you they like you for you .
I would really love to learn how to do the last part better. Is there something I can do to improve that?
Now THAT'S a good question. Thank you for putting my thoughts into words.
These are 5 special points ^^
hey there pal. you are here agien. you are probably here becuase you want to attract someone. now listen, there is no 100% guaranteed sucsess with these things. if it dosnt work, let go. and im not saying give up from the start, you can try a little and if it wont work just let go. we cant control other peapole. and if we are able somehow to control someone, he is not controlled, he is just forced to do stuff. he still has different feelings no matter what you do. have a nice day.
Posting this near valentines day was a good idea 😅
this is all me. no wonder people tell me all their problems
I feel this lol
Another Great ,informative video ❤
I dream of finding my soulmate, getting married and becoming a mother. This will be very useful, thank you very much!❤
Yesss!! Hope this video helps you!
Thanks for ur tips
0:18 That quote is a saying by Maya Angelou
Tysm! This rilly helped :)
YAY! thanks for watching! Did you like this animation style?
Glad it helps :)
I will do 1 Pushup for every like i get on this comment 💪🏻
Stop this trend
Didint I just see you on a Warner bros video
I will do 2 pushups for every like on this one
@@Wii07ENTERTAINMENT didn't* No hate have a good day 😊
I'll do 10 push for every like i get... Snd no push up if i get a dislike
I think people are only attracted to me because I'm very different
And because I have the ability to show them what they will never be able to see
And maybe also because I am very secretive
me realizing i do this already, "huh damn guess im a bit more attractive than i thought".
Where’s the other woman narrator Amanda? I love that voice for your videos.
I already do all those things and im still single
Hi can you make a video about how to not take things personally? This will really help me 🫶
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY , I WAS TOLD BY MY PARENT, THAT KNOW BODY LIKES ME, WILL I BELIEVE THAT MY PARENT DON'T WANT ANYBODY TO LIKE ME, HAVE A BLESSED FRIDAY, 💯🙏💙💪🙊🙈🙉
I can't never forget how I felt... ❤️🩹🤕
Love you guys 🫶🏻 and your videos
Thank you for the love and support! What did you think about this video?
I swear I already do this. I get bullied anyway at my job as an adult.
Although no one can really tell me anything actually bad about me other than setting personal boundaries like "no I won't keep rotting corpses in my hotel room," or "no I won't touch the raw sewage dirt."
I realize this is obviously over the top stuff, unrelated to the video. I'm clearly around mean people.
I just don't know where else to vent it.
Is that why people ask if I'm okay when I'm zoned out?
Have been applying them unknowningly
How has it been going for you?
@@Psych2go it has been going really great actually, she started taking intrest into me even though at the beginning i was a nobody to her . Now i am an important part of her life . Thnx for this kind of videos 👍
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS,I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SEE HOW EVERYONE IS DOING THIS MORNING, ( I HAVE TO SAY IF SOMEBODY DON'T LIKE ME KNOW DISRESPECT 🖕, I LOVE ME,💋, HAVE A BLESSED DAY 💯🙏💙💪🙉🙊🙈😮
Did all that all my life and all I got have been friendzones at the best and manipulative cheaters at the most
Hey, I probably know how you are feeling, its because we are so nice to people, thinking it will atrack them, but we end up being "best friends" and your crush end up in a relationship with someone who is not nice in generall, especially to her, and you are thinking: Is this it? Am I really supposed to be like "bad boy" to atrack other people?
Yes. Treat women like trash, they’ll love you more.
I try to do all of these things every day but still, it just doesn't work out for me. It seems like I'm putting so much effort to be attractive and nothing works. Others may give this look as if to say "Who do you think your fooling?"
Thank you for sharing
Thanks for watching!
THANK YOU
You're very welcome!! :)
Not first i think but early
I tried all of this I tried to make friends by being kind but they just betray me every single time making me feel left out. And they only come to me when they feel off or when the others are ignoring them.
I have a question could you make Videos about fears again it's really interesting and I would Like to learn more if thats OK ofcourse
Hey...psy2go... I have something that i want to ask... Actually there's someone that has a crush on me... And the last 5 month, we really get along well... But, i separate myself way to much because of academic stress... And now ... I find it hard to approach her... Then, today our lecturer ask us to write everything we thought on our friends... Yeah,she's my classmate.. And i think she just gave me a hint... I just want to get any advices on how should i gave her a chance without giving too much hint that i also want too?😅
Where’s our favorite narrator Amanda Silvera 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
psych2go videos are top tiers ever since I first starts to watch them on 2018. I love all the videos but here's one thing I wanna say, could ya'll speak a little bit more loudly? bcs sometimes in a few video, no matter how I turn up my device volume...ya'lls voices are still small. please speak louder. thank you
Where’s narrator Amanda Silvera?☹️☹️
Is funny how I do all these things in a natural manners and trust me I don't attract anyone. But well, I don't ingite(?) passion on anyone si that's a big factor, if you have that doing these stuff are not that important, it does improve tho a lot.
Hey guys i need some advise!
My bf and i are in doubting fase rn.
He has some frustrations with quircks since we started living togheter a month ago.
At this stage for us there is lack of physical contact but we do talk a lot and communicatie and say whats on our mind.
Few months ago before we lived togheter. We were at my appartement he told me he wanned kids. But a few days ago he told me he doesnt know if he still wants kids, i told him we can wait a couple years and thats fine. I think he is struggling a lot.
We told each other to rlly think hard about this and no we don't want to leave each other but how do we keep this standing if one has frustrations, do they pass?
I don't have frustrations. I like him the way he is and i don't want to change him.
(Ps: we don't fight, only lack of physical contact and he has doubts about us rn)
Well I'm no expert in any way, but if those quircks are at the opposite end of his personality, maybe you both can meet halfways. For example, if he is very orderly and you're not, that's hard to fix without meeting halfway. It's very hard for an orderly person to live in an unorderly environment (I'm very orderly, but have lowered my standards with practice since it takes up too much time otherwise and may get on other peoples nerves). With that said, if it's more of a trivial thing he's upset about, like for example you always forgetting to bring in the mail or something like that, then I think he should overcome that frustration and realise that nobody is perfect. A good relationship is to learn to live with the imperfections the other one has, as long as they are not too opposite of your "core being" so to speak.
I read about a woman that lived with her husband for about 40 years, and it was a good relationship overall. But she was seriously frustrated that he always forgot to bring out the trash in the hallway. Her husband eventually passed away, and their son would always bring out the trash thereafter. She said she really misses that imperfect quirck now, looking down the hallway and not seeing the trash forgotten there by her husband.
Where’s the lady voice Amanda Silvera
Within 7 hours!
What do i do if im afraid my best freind is hanging oit with someone else and she doesnt like me anymore
no music next time Thanks!
17,586th viewer of this video!
Can you do a video on how to be cute for a boy
So that means many people are attracted to me..
I only watch and listen to your videos when it’s Amanda’s voice. Where is she?
Where’s the singer-narrator Amanda 😔😔
Too bad we can't instantly like one another due to personal reasons. Not everyone has the ability to click with people just like that.
It takes time to build the relationship with someone special. Hope it's ok to ask, why do you think you're prevented from being liked by others?
@@Psych2go because I believe I have things that I should work on to better myself up.
Cheat codes
Really 🤩
i'm so clingy I hate it so much this is painful I just make people uncomfortable 3:
Yes, teach us the skills for the sake of manipulation to get what we want out of somebody.
calm down, doomer
Hey Psych2Go is it ok that im starving myself?
That's not healthy, don't do that. Why are you starving yourself? Is everything ok? :(
ive been thru this and its not good, lemme tell u why:
starving urself firstly feels horrible
u feel restricted and like ur trapped
its actualy rly bad for ur body and u wont be able to develop or like go thru puberty or grow ur hair longer or anything to do with ur body
go grab something sweet and enjoy it girl, dont feel guilty cause whats like 4 cookies a week gonna do to u- nothing
pls eat something ml ❤❤
@@gjxnd03 i cant,my body is not letting me:-(
Ok
Hello
Only real fans can like this 😎
😎
Where’s the original voice. ? The lady’s voice 😢
Please put back narrator Amanda 😢😢😢
"Nobody loves Chow"
But where’s Amanda’s voice please don’t replace her 🥺
*attract
You're welcome, mmhmm😅
The question is, SHOULD you attract everyone?
these are just general things that help build strong friendships too and those are like pretty vital to getting thru life for most ppl
bruh
👍🙋
Why exactly should I respect those "boundaries"?
There are days, where I'm pulling myself by the bootstraps, when I could just be sitting home alone, drinking my face off...
I do all of this but everyone hates ugly people👎
i feel the umbrella trick only works in anime XD bc the girl can still call you a creep and soo you end up with a soaked person in both ways
makes perfect sense. but then somehow your interpreted as being a people pleaser. as if genuine people can’t simply exist anymore. Smh
I wish sluds wold like me.
This channel is so tumblr-coded and I mean that as an insult
Nah I'm ugly and clumsy and super weird , no one would be attracted to me :3 idk why am watchin' this hhhhhh
:p
I’m the one that ruined the 69 likes 😈😈😈
What's the likes count right now? Do you think we can reach for 6969?
@@Psych2go ye
@@Psych2go I mean ur channel is pretty good u can do it
@@Psych2goalso the likes count is 425 likes right now
Great message psych2go
Thank you for watching!