Turning Childhood Loss & Trauma into a Superpower | Emma McSkelly | TEDxDoncaster

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  • @สุประนอมดวงสุวรรณ

    Love female entrepreneurs who are so empowering Emma !

  • @DesireMoll
    @DesireMoll 3 дні тому +2

    Excellent talk and we are all battling something aren’t we. No one is unscathed and it’s very inspiring to see you’ve used your adversity as a catalyst to success. Resilience. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 дні тому +1

      I wholeheartedly agree and thank you❤

  • @raphaelskitchen
    @raphaelskitchen 2 місяці тому +4

    You’re a phenomenal force of nature Emma. People like you change the world and I think you’ve changed my world a little during the process of this talk. Thank you so much for being a local inspiration and making yourself available to the people of Doncaster who really need role models like yourself.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      What an amazing comment to make ❤

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому

      What a lovely comment x

  • @thebrettdscott
    @thebrettdscott 7 днів тому +2

    Embracing fear is important, great speech Emma 🎉

  • @ketanparmar6064
    @ketanparmar6064 6 днів тому +2

    Had never thought about trauma in this way before !!! How it can be turned into a super power. Love it !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 6 днів тому +1

      Love this ❤

  • @jxblack34
    @jxblack34 16 днів тому +6

    Emma, i don’t know you but i love this talk !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 16 днів тому +1

      Thank you, I’m glad you like!

  • @SudhakarSakala
    @SudhakarSakala 22 дні тому +4

    Courage is a word that springs to mind about you Emma, jumping on a plane to Aus , surviving adversity , entrepreneurial journey etc . Hugely inspiring , love this so much. ❤️

  • @StanleyRichards-z5v
    @StanleyRichards-z5v Місяць тому +4

    The bit i loved most Emma was the bit you reconnected with your father in your 30’s plus who isn’t without fault eh. Beautiful ❤️

  • @KiranDhule-tz3si
    @KiranDhule-tz3si 8 днів тому +2

    Well done Emma McSkelly and all at TEDxDoncaster. ❤️

  • @Fabio-dp2ue
    @Fabio-dp2ue 15 днів тому +5

    Amazing speaker Emma McSkelly !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 15 днів тому +1

      Thank you!! 🙏🏼

  • @cjarvis0903
    @cjarvis0903 5 днів тому +2

    Emma - you’re a courageous and special soul. What a true 🦒 you are, sticking your neck out to inspire and help others.
    I appreciate your message and your willingness to be so open.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 5 днів тому +1

      This a lovely comment to read thank you @cjarvis0903 I appreciate you writing this!

  • @KatherineHarper-v3v
    @KatherineHarper-v3v Місяць тому +3

    Emma , your story really resonates where me personally and is see alignment with the quote ‘ships are safe at harbour’ but that isn’t where they are supposed to be

  • @kristineflorescunanan
    @kristineflorescunanan Місяць тому +3

    Emma’s talk makes you rethink fear as a powerful ally rather than an enemy, empowering us to turn our deepest challenges into catalysts for growth and success. Truly inspiring!😊

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Love this!

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому +2

      You could feel the fear leaving Emma even as she delivered her talk - incredible

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      @@anthonyworth9292 💜

  • @DilwarSk-l5e
    @DilwarSk-l5e 8 днів тому +2

    Inspirational talk , speaker, lady, entrepreneur, daughter, mum !!!!

  • @MohdUmar-gd4gj
    @MohdUmar-gd4gj 6 днів тому +2

    A tail of pure inspiration and how you turned your life around is remarkable. Hugely inspiring.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 6 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your words!

  • @sweetsquasher
    @sweetsquasher 2 місяці тому +11

    Never cried listening to a TED talk before but it was very moving, you spoke with such emotion. Thank you and you can tell you're a wonderful and inspiring mother to your daughter.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much, it’s lovely to get such touching comments from people you do not know.❤

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому +1

      I was in the room and saw how moved everyone was, and the standing ovation at the end was memorable

  • @bindaasnikhil334
    @bindaasnikhil334 Місяць тому +3

    I encourage anyone to speak to someone, there’s always help , always a way out, always light at the end of the tunnel. Emma is proof .

  • @CoreenAbel
    @CoreenAbel 3 дні тому +2

    Beautiful speech Emma.

  • @anthonyworth9292
    @anthonyworth9292 2 місяці тому +9

    I had the absolute privilege of attending this event and listening to Emma's story which was both heartbreaking and heartwarming in equal measure. It is a true story of how you can't change the cards that life has dealt you, but you can change your outlook and approach and face down your fears to turn them into your secret weapon. Amazing story Emma, wonderfully told. Thanks for sharing

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you❤

    • @JodieHide
      @JodieHide Місяць тому +1

      Beautiful words Ant - I also felt privileged to hear Emma’s story at this TedX event and feel incredibly inspired by her approach to facing fears.

  • @amydoherty3682
    @amydoherty3682 3 дні тому +2

    Emma you are such an inspiration! My dad showed me this talk and it’s incredible what you’ve achieved. I loved it!😊

  • @ทวีธรรมเชียงมัง

    I can hear the emotion in your voice in parts , very authentic!

  • @ncmauctions3810
    @ncmauctions3810 2 місяці тому +7

    A phenomenal and though-provoking talk! You are an inspiration to us all. Thank you - The NCM Team

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      Legend team.

  • @RajuPaw-rd7dj
    @RajuPaw-rd7dj 6 днів тому +2

    I accepted a job i didn’t feel good enough to do Emma and overcame my fear. It was a life changing decision and i’ve went on to achieve so much since. GREAT SHARE !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 6 днів тому +1

      Wonderful, Love this! Well done you 💪🏼

  • @praladpraladsingh1106
    @praladpraladsingh1106 8 днів тому +1

    Felt sadness thinking about you being homeless at one point. That’s another full talk on its own Emma ! Such an issue for many and you are a true inspiration!!!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 8 днів тому +1

      Thank you! You’re right, each minute is a whole separate talk on its own, but had to be brutal and cut it down / fit just the highlights and lowlights in.

  • @梶四郎
    @梶四郎 8 днів тому +1

    Absolutely brilliant talk Emma, very inspiring!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 7 днів тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @DipenderJoiya
    @DipenderJoiya 26 днів тому +1

    Life is one BIG journey and too many people don’t enjoy it enough, too many don’t be present and happy in the moment. 😊

  • @samuvelsam455
    @samuvelsam455 8 днів тому +2

    Congratulations, great and love what you’ve overcome to go onto be the successful genuine and authentic person you are now! Congratulations again. 🙌🙌

  • @Aniket.Gaming83
    @Aniket.Gaming83 6 днів тому +2

    Really enjoyed this speech Emma. Thank you for sharing so courageously i might add. Well done 👏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 6 днів тому +1

      Ahh thank you

  • @shyamgaming0011
    @shyamgaming0011 Місяць тому +2

    Who doesn’t have a hang up or hang ups or trauma that has followed them through life. Really inspiring how you have used it almost as fuel to be better and do more. Really loved your talk. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +2

      Love this ❤

  • @MariaPointing-q1t
    @MariaPointing-q1t 2 місяці тому +8

    Incredible story . So proud of you Emma 🌸

  • @Mumbai_che_aaple_utsav_34vlog
    @Mumbai_che_aaple_utsav_34vlog 22 дні тому +2

    Well done on a great talk Emma. Thoroughly enjoyed it. A mixture of story telling, real passion and useful advice. Thank you 🙏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 21 день тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @KaileySingleton
    @KaileySingleton Місяць тому +3

    I use fear as fuel, as fuel for motivation to actually do something about it . make moves, take action, go for it !!

  • @ross.g1
    @ross.g1 2 місяці тому +7

    A captivating watch... well done, Emma!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @piyushmathur1384
    @piyushmathur1384 22 дні тому +4

    Congratulations Emma. 🎉

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 21 день тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @shivram3848
    @shivram3848 26 днів тому +1

    You are an example to many Emma McSkelly !!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 25 днів тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @gemmapeebles
    @gemmapeebles 2 місяці тому +6

    Incredible story and an inspiration to so many battling with their greatest fear!

  • @darveshranga9592
    @darveshranga9592 26 днів тому +1

    Hugely inspiring Emma !! The power of fear , so so true and a wonderful talk. 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @Cristiano_U-R001
    @Cristiano_U-R001 6 днів тому +1

    🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌💯 Agree totally. Fear kills more dreams than anything else!

  • @BradleyLawson-f8r
    @BradleyLawson-f8r Місяць тому +2

    Emma McSkelly thank you for being you, a courageous , brave and resilient lady. Thank you

  • @JazzraDixon
    @JazzraDixon Місяць тому +2

    I was in tears at one point in this Emma, thanks for sharing this and being so open .

  • @GopalGopalnishad
    @GopalGopalnishad 26 днів тому +1

    Sorry to hear the bit about the environments that let you down so badly . You are a very strong lady Emma. ❤️

  • @SpaSparkles
    @SpaSparkles 2 місяці тому +3

    Emma, a good friend of yours recommended your Tedtalk and all I can say is, I find your journey truly motivating.
    You are so influential and I admire you.Thanks❤

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +2

      Thank you ❤

  • @HardikRathvaRathva
    @HardikRathvaRathva Місяць тому +2

    Emma I found this very relatable , my family has had its fair share of problems and some of us have decided to go one way and others another way. Inspirational work. Appreciate the share

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      I agree with this wholeheartedly it’s either one extreme or the other. I often find in families plagued by addiction there is no invetween. It’s either use it as fuel for growth or go the other way as you say.

  • @anshu-ko8ju
    @anshu-ko8ju 6 днів тому +2

    Bravo Emma. 💯

  • @linasmith2086
    @linasmith2086 3 дні тому +2

    Totally agree and isn’t it very sad that around 50 % of us don’t want to be like our parents .. maybe we should give them a break .. they are human too .. Mad world we live in & no one gets out alive

  • @MarinaCarita
    @MarinaCarita Місяць тому +2

    I always have let other peoples opinions hold me back Emma for years , trauma that i never set free , appreciate your talk very much !

  • @RhaelynCharles
    @RhaelynCharles Місяць тому +2

    Fantastic talk. Emma you are such an inspiring lady and entrepreneur!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @magdalenagocyla7688
    @magdalenagocyla7688 2 місяці тому +4

    You are so inspiring Emma. You left me in tears. Thank you for sharing your story🎉❤this was such a brave thing to do. 🎉

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому

      The fear of public speaking has now also been overcome!

  • @NovaGurrola
    @NovaGurrola Місяць тому +2

    Amazing talk, amazing woman, Doncaster should be very proud of you and i’m sure they all are !

  • @AdrianeBurk
    @AdrianeBurk 9 годин тому +2

    Fantastic speech Emma

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 9 годин тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @MR_GAMER-1k-9
    @MR_GAMER-1k-9 Місяць тому +2

    Love how you turned your childhood experiences around . Truly amazing and one many many many people need to hear. Shared it to my mailing list for you. 10k +

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for this ❤

  • @光宗正
    @光宗正 9 днів тому +2

    Congratulations, great talk !

  • @MARLINMauro
    @MARLINMauro 9 годин тому +2

    Congrats , really enjoyed this !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 9 годин тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @DandriaPerkins
    @DandriaPerkins Місяць тому +2

    Loved the story telling in this Emma, you are a great speaker also. Very confident. Well done.

  • @sarabell5757
    @sarabell5757 Місяць тому +2

    Emma I cried all the way through this ... I'm incredibly proud of you and the fire you have in that belly of yours. You are a true survivor and I will always have the highest regard for you as a truly beautiful human. Well done lass !!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +3

      Ahh thank you ❤

  • @selvamass6994
    @selvamass6994 22 дні тому +2

    I think it was really great how you leaned into really feeling the fear , understanding your emotions and i suppose in a way getting comfortable in that situation.. maybe im wrong 😑 Congrats !!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 21 день тому +1

      💯 leaning into fear and then getting comfortable with it

  • @SanjoyBarman-yx1eu
    @SanjoyBarman-yx1eu Місяць тому +2

    Congratulations on a fantastic talk Emma.

  • @RhaelynCharles
    @RhaelynCharles Місяць тому +2

    Emma you are such a strong inspirational lady

  • @PatriciaBroom
    @PatriciaBroom Місяць тому +2

    Emma you are a real thought leader and it’s amazing to see someone from the UK do this

  • @smith4235
    @smith4235 3 дні тому +2

    Very enjoyable speech , i don’t see enough speakers use the screen behind ! Always works for me seeing some visuals too. Well wishes from afar ! 🇮🇳

  • @thinknetwork3614
    @thinknetwork3614 9 днів тому +1

    One of the talks of the year for me. Parts of this i personally resonated with Emma. Thanks for being the inspiration you are to many. Keep shining ! 🙌

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 8 днів тому +1

      Ahhh this is brilliant thank you ❤

  • @DalianaClay
    @DalianaClay Місяць тому +2

    I agree channelling them the right way can be transformative

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Equally can so easily go the other way too. So being mindful of it is so important

  • @NovaGurrola
    @NovaGurrola Місяць тому +2

    I truly believe we can overcome anything and thanks for this timely reminder Emma.

  • @rannvijaysinghgamerrannvij6588
    @rannvijaysinghgamerrannvij6588 Місяць тому +2

    That photo of you in the thumbnail of the kid you was very effective and got me in the feels .: i’m a visual person and it made your talk even better if that makes any sense to anyone !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      That’s interesting to hear. The AV actually went awry on the day and it didn’t come on till way after it was meant too. But good to know it was still effective. Thanks for your comments❤

  • @KarrieWomack-m1o
    @KarrieWomack-m1o 3 дні тому +2

    Super talk Emma !

  • @AmberleGlenn
    @AmberleGlenn Місяць тому +2

    We’ve got to get to grips with our fear and really understand it i feel

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      We absolutely do!

  • @SanakoIrie
    @SanakoIrie 9 днів тому +1

    Fantastic talk Emma.

  • @RhaelynCharles
    @RhaelynCharles Місяць тому +2

    Excellent talk Emma , really enjoyed this !

  • @JohanScholl
    @JohanScholl Місяць тому +3

    Being vulnerable is ok isn’t it Emma as long as we rationalise it too, as you say not all fear is out to kill us !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      It is ok, scary at first but ok.

  • @johntarantino5258
    @johntarantino5258 7 днів тому +2

    This is a courageous and inspiring talk.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 7 днів тому +1

      Mr Tarantino, from a man with 23 million views and one of the most watched talks of all time and one of THE most powerful I have ever seen. Your comment makes me immensely proud. Just like Pat is of you. ❤ Thank you. @johntarantino5258

  • @MAKSI-z3g
    @MAKSI-z3g 7 днів тому +2

    Fear can work one of two ways. It can paralyse us and hold us back from achieving our full potential or we can face it and overcome it and truly grow !!!

  • @lordsofpower7559
    @lordsofpower7559 2 місяці тому +2

    Incredibly humbling, given our history. I'm sorry. For all of us.

  • @ShelleyRamos-nk9qm
    @ShelleyRamos-nk9qm Місяць тому +2

    Female empowerment at its finest Emma! I’d love to hear you speak live and in person.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому

      I was lucky enough to be there and it was incredible - what a woman!

  • @Fred_Jackson23
    @Fred_Jackson23 2 місяці тому +4

    You have definitely re-took control of the fear you previously experienced Emma! Proud of you for sharing your vulnerable story at TEDx Doncaster :)

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому

      Emma shows how you can take any setback and use it to your advantage

  • @asrafulkhan9659
    @asrafulkhan9659 26 днів тому +1

    I think we all have choices in life, we can choose one way or the other. Life is all about choices. x

  • @HARVEYMoser-e8j
    @HARVEYMoser-e8j 9 годин тому +2

    Very good talk !

  • @ShelleyRamos-nk9qm
    @ShelleyRamos-nk9qm Місяць тому +2

    Emma you are a true inspiration. I had a look at your work and such a empowering inspiration

  • @MdKamalHuqen
    @MdKamalHuqen Місяць тому +1

    Very very good talk Emma and i’m glad you are at the place in your life you are assured enough to share it. Many people i know have experienced similar and will be inspired by this . Thank you 🙏.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @AyushTrikay
    @AyushTrikay 8 днів тому +2

    Love this talk Emma!

  • @Natalia-c6q
    @Natalia-c6q 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you! Emma, I so much respect you for sharing your story with us, as all you said - I feel it, I have been there, I saw it. Thank you Emma, you helped me to relieve the inner pain. Now I understand where my bravery came from and that there is nothing wrong with that, as I always thought.

  • @SujeetKumar-qx8sq
    @SujeetKumar-qx8sq 6 днів тому +2

    Fantastic talk….

  • @elizalopez5080
    @elizalopez5080 16 днів тому +5

    Congratulations

  • @KennethHowells-r1k
    @KennethHowells-r1k 2 місяці тому +4

    You are an amazing person Emma 👍

  • @rachelbrown3962
    @rachelbrown3962 2 місяці тому +2

    Incredible, you should be immensely proud on such a journey 🩷xx

  • @lols101
    @lols101 2 місяці тому +3

    Incredible Ted Talk! 👏👏👏👏

  • @Ngamer173
    @Ngamer173 2 місяці тому +3

    How fabulous that you’ve shared your inspirational journey xx
    (Claire Beegan)

  • @Mimi-zl7sm
    @Mimi-zl7sm Місяць тому +2

    Excellent talk. 🙌🙌🙌

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @沼沢愛美
    @沼沢愛美 8 днів тому +1

    Love this lady !

  • @janed9001
    @janed9001 2 місяці тому +1

    Amazing speech Emma, such a brave and wonderful way to tell your story and help others. So proud of you and how you've turned all adversity into your superpower. x

  • @LelahBaldwin-s1i
    @LelahBaldwin-s1i 3 дні тому +1

    Totally agree and isn’t it very sad that around 50 % of us don’t want to be like our parents .. maybe we should give them a break .. they are human too .. Mad world we live in & no one gets out alive

  • @ashokkumarnayak4009
    @ashokkumarnayak4009 Місяць тому +1

    I was in tears listening to this Emma. Honestly i don’t know how you got through that and finding your mum etc. Really broke my heart hearing that: x

  • @marcusisman-egal4986
    @marcusisman-egal4986 2 місяці тому +2

    Love this thank you for sharing at TEDx Doncaster 2024

  • @GERRYCUNNINGHAM-b2r
    @GERRYCUNNINGHAM-b2r 2 місяці тому +4

    You Got the FEAR !! Smashed it . X

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому

      💪🏼💪🏼

  • @IreenaGlover
    @IreenaGlover Місяць тому +2

    Followed you on LinkedIn Emma ! Sharing this too for you :-)

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you!! ❤

  • @carolinewolf565
    @carolinewolf565 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому

      Thank you Caroline❤

  • @maximilianRodriguez7917
    @maximilianRodriguez7917 13 днів тому +5

    You’ve come so far Emma !

  • @janed9001
    @janed9001 2 місяці тому +2

    love this inspiring talk so much ❤

  • @amydoherty3682
    @amydoherty3682 Місяць тому +2

    Amazing!

  • @Jderr3
    @Jderr3 2 місяці тому +2

    love the story! can't wait for the day when I do my first TEDx talk! ;)

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому

      Thank you and Go for it! 💪🏼

  • @JoynishaMoore
    @JoynishaMoore Місяць тому +2

    Congratulations tedx doncaster fab share

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you, I shall let Marcus and the team know