Turning Childhood Loss & Trauma into a Superpower | Emma McSkelly | TEDxDoncaster

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  • @Kaveri-Valli2770
    @Kaveri-Valli2770 22 години тому +1

    Having the courage to meet and get to know her dad again after around 30 years shows real bravery.

  • @UğurGöktürk-l5g
    @UğurGöktürk-l5g 23 години тому +1

    Emma and her brother using that traumatic experience and using it as a driving force for a new and better life filled me with admiration.

  • @Kasi-Champabati43952
    @Kasi-Champabati43952 23 години тому +1

    Having the heart to forgive and see a side of her dad she never got to see shows the type of person Emma really is a kind caring and beautiful soul.

  • @Leelamayee-Nikita434
    @Leelamayee-Nikita434 23 години тому +1

    Very relatable when she talked about going to the priest and asking for food because they simply cant afford it.

  • @suebailey2117
    @suebailey2117 18 днів тому +9

    Empowering lady !

  • @jxblack34
    @jxblack34 Місяць тому +7

    Emma, i don’t know you but i love this talk !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you, I’m glad you like!

  • @RobinBrown-gq6ve
    @RobinBrown-gq6ve 18 днів тому +2

    One of the best ted talks i’ve heard in a while

  • @cooney-m3c
    @cooney-m3c 23 години тому +1

    Going to Norway on a whim must of been scary but getting the joy of helping them kids and finding a journey would of been a major relief.

  • @jaehyeonaebm
    @jaehyeonaebm 4 дні тому +2

    I cant fathom how you could see and experience such things and be the person you are today . Sharing this 💯

  • @baehuimyeong
    @baehuimyeong 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you , you have really have me hope Emma. I was homeless for along time and now i’m not and the future is brighter , thank God !

  • @nayeongbae40
    @nayeongbae40 4 дні тому +2

    Tremendous talk Emma, i’m sure you are a true inspiration to many and especially people in your circle . You’ve overcome a lot .

  • @KaileySingleton
    @KaileySingleton 2 місяці тому +3

    I use fear as fuel, as fuel for motivation to actually do something about it . make moves, take action, go for it !!

  • @DeopMyunyungsangahn
    @DeopMyunyungsangahn 15 днів тому +1

    Agree !!!!! Our past doesn’t have to define our future

  • @Mimi-zl7sm
    @Mimi-zl7sm 20 годин тому +1

    I think a lot of people can relate to Emma's fear as a child of grown ups and the world.

  • @RhaelynCharles
    @RhaelynCharles 2 місяці тому +2

    Fantastic talk. Emma you are such an inspiring lady and entrepreneur!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @สุประนอมดวงสุวรรณ

    Love female entrepreneurs who are so empowering Emma !

  • @IreneHouse-bg1we
    @IreneHouse-bg1we 14 днів тому +2

    One of the talks of the year 👏

  • @peodijeong
    @peodijeong 15 днів тому +2

    Confidence and belief can be developed over time with the right people and the right self talk but it’s a process . You are proof !

  • @bindaasnikhil334
    @bindaasnikhil334 Місяць тому +3

    I encourage anyone to speak to someone, there’s always help , always a way out, always light at the end of the tunnel. Emma is proof .

  • @kristineflorescunanan
    @kristineflorescunanan 2 місяці тому +3

    Emma’s talk makes you rethink fear as a powerful ally rather than an enemy, empowering us to turn our deepest challenges into catalysts for growth and success. Truly inspiring!😊

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      Love this!

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому +2

      You could feel the fear leaving Emma even as she delivered her talk - incredible

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      @@anthonyworth9292 💜

  • @shivram3848
    @shivram3848 Місяць тому +2

    You are an example to many Emma McSkelly !!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @Niyati-Shree975
    @Niyati-Shree975 23 години тому +1

    Emma truly is a really brave and strong girl this was beautiful to watch.

  • @baeksasing65
    @baeksasing65 15 днів тому +2

    I appreciate you taking the time to share this with us all Emma.

  • @praladpraladsingh1106
    @praladpraladsingh1106 Місяць тому +1

    Felt sadness thinking about you being homeless at one point. That’s another full talk on its own Emma ! Such an issue for many and you are a true inspiration!!!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you! You’re right, each minute is a whole separate talk on its own, but had to be brutal and cut it down / fit just the highlights and lowlights in.

  • @RajuPaw-rd7dj
    @RajuPaw-rd7dj Місяць тому +3

    I accepted a job i didn’t feel good enough to do Emma and overcame my fear. It was a life changing decision and i’ve went on to achieve so much since. GREAT SHARE !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Wonderful, Love this! Well done you 💪🏼

  • @Fabio-dp2ue
    @Fabio-dp2ue Місяць тому +5

    Amazing speaker Emma McSkelly !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you!! 🙏🏼

  • @sweetsquasher
    @sweetsquasher 3 місяці тому +12

    Never cried listening to a TED talk before but it was very moving, you spoke with such emotion. Thank you and you can tell you're a wonderful and inspiring mother to your daughter.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much, it’s lovely to get such touching comments from people you do not know.❤

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому +1

      I was in the room and saw how moved everyone was, and the standing ovation at the end was memorable

  • @DipenderJoiya
    @DipenderJoiya Місяць тому +1

    Life is one BIG journey and too many people don’t enjoy it enough, too many don’t be present and happy in the moment. 😊

  • @JORDANCullen-z9z
    @JORDANCullen-z9z 29 днів тому +4

    Excellent talk and we are all battling something aren’t we. No one is unscathed and it’s very inspiring to see you’ve used your adversity as a catalyst to success. Resilience. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 22 дні тому

      You are so right and Thank you ❤

  • @kiara9312
    @kiara9312 18 днів тому +4

    Love this , leading the way for us all !

  • @EstelleReyes-yg3qv
    @EstelleReyes-yg3qv 18 днів тому +2

    My father wasn’t perfect but i loved him x

  • @imminho32
    @imminho32 4 дні тому +2

    Really enjoyed your talk. It took me back to my childhood and made me emotional. But in a good way. Thanks Emma , great talk.

  • @raphaelskitchen
    @raphaelskitchen 3 місяці тому +9

    You’re a phenomenal force of nature Emma. People like you change the world and I think you’ve changed my world a little during the process of this talk. Thank you so much for being a local inspiration and making yourself available to the people of Doncaster who really need role models like yourself.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +2

      What an amazing comment to make ❤

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому +1

      What a lovely comment x

  • @DongGa-d3y
    @DongGa-d3y 15 днів тому +2

    Love the entrepreneurial part !! Worth waiting for and truly inspiring.

  • @DilwarSk-l5e
    @DilwarSk-l5e Місяць тому +2

    Inspirational talk , speaker, lady, entrepreneur, daughter, mum !!!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @oksazo6j79
    @oksazo6j79 14 днів тому +1

    Norway, Australia , Sweden, Thailand , so well travelled !!!!

  • @cjarvis0903
    @cjarvis0903 Місяць тому +2

    Emma - you’re a courageous and special soul. What a true 🦒 you are, sticking your neck out to inspire and help others.
    I appreciate your message and your willingness to be so open.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      This a lovely comment to read thank you @cjarvis0903 I appreciate you writing this!

  • @StanleyRichards-z5v
    @StanleyRichards-z5v 2 місяці тому +4

    The bit i loved most Emma was the bit you reconnected with your father in your 30’s plus who isn’t without fault eh. Beautiful ❤️

  • @thebrettdscott
    @thebrettdscott Місяць тому +2

    Embracing fear is important, great speech Emma 🎉

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @anthonyworth9292
    @anthonyworth9292 3 місяці тому +10

    I had the absolute privilege of attending this event and listening to Emma's story which was both heartbreaking and heartwarming in equal measure. It is a true story of how you can't change the cards that life has dealt you, but you can change your outlook and approach and face down your fears to turn them into your secret weapon. Amazing story Emma, wonderfully told. Thanks for sharing

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you❤

    • @JodieHide
      @JodieHide 2 місяці тому +1

      Beautiful words Ant - I also felt privileged to hear Emma’s story at this TedX event and feel incredibly inspired by her approach to facing fears.

  • @ChelseaTrinh-yh5cs
    @ChelseaTrinh-yh5cs 14 днів тому +2

    Love ambitious entrepreneurs like you !

  • @YeopMyung
    @YeopMyung 14 днів тому +1

    My childhood was AMAZING, my parents weren’t perfect but i had alot of joy and happiness and feel sad you went through this Emma.

  • @fatebeats203
    @fatebeats203 18 днів тому +6

    So good Emma, thank you 🙏

  • @BradleyLawson-f8r
    @BradleyLawson-f8r 2 місяці тому +2

    Emma McSkelly thank you for being you, a courageous , brave and resilient lady. Thank you

  • @chaqjbx
    @chaqjbx 14 днів тому +1

    You are resilience Emma !!! The ability to bounce back and keep going !! Love what you stand for !

  • @goyungi
    @goyungi 15 днів тому +2

    Super talk and you’ve overcome so much to be the success you are today. You deserve every accolade. Motivating beyond belief !

  • @MAKSI-z3g
    @MAKSI-z3g Місяць тому +2

    Fear can work one of two ways. It can paralyse us and hold us back from achieving our full potential or we can face it and overcome it and truly grow !!!

  • @MariaPointing-q1t
    @MariaPointing-q1t 3 місяці тому +8

    Incredible story . So proud of you Emma 🌸

  • @SudhakarSakala
    @SudhakarSakala Місяць тому +4

    Courage is a word that springs to mind about you Emma, jumping on a plane to Aus , surviving adversity , entrepreneurial journey etc . Hugely inspiring , love this so much. ❤️

  • @KiranDhule-tz3si
    @KiranDhule-tz3si Місяць тому +2

    Well done Emma McSkelly and all at TEDxDoncaster. ❤️

  • @hound-h7l
    @hound-h7l 23 години тому +1

    Emma really made me feel liken taking the time and considering my journey was one of the best choices you can make. Thanks Emma for this beautiful talk.

  • @KatherineHarper-v3v
    @KatherineHarper-v3v 2 місяці тому +3

    Emma , your story really resonates where me personally and is see alignment with the quote ‘ships are safe at harbour’ but that isn’t where they are supposed to be

  • @misocho04
    @misocho04 15 днів тому +1

    Took alot from this one , especially about our childhood trauma not defining us . Inspirational

  • @ketanparmar6064
    @ketanparmar6064 Місяць тому +2

    Had never thought about trauma in this way before !!! How it can be turned into a super power. Love it !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Love this ❤

  • @LorieMcCoy
    @LorieMcCoy 14 днів тому +2

    I agree it can be turned into a superpower!

  • @shyamgaming0011
    @shyamgaming0011 Місяць тому +2

    Who doesn’t have a hang up or hang ups or trauma that has followed them through life. Really inspiring how you have used it almost as fuel to be better and do more. Really loved your talk. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +2

      Love this ❤

  • @KathrynMoore890
    @KathrynMoore890 25 днів тому +3

    Certainly can be a super power , i agree

  • @JinSol-v4g
    @JinSol-v4g 15 днів тому +2

    Congrats you’ve done a great job here Emma and should be very proud of it . Well done to all concerned, great effort !

  • @ncmauctions3810
    @ncmauctions3810 3 місяці тому +7

    A phenomenal and though-provoking talk! You are an inspiration to us all. Thank you - The NCM Team

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Legend team.

  • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
    @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 18 днів тому +2

    Beautifully delivered, all the feels

  • @songpv26
    @songpv26 14 днів тому +1

    I am my passport to freedom , thanks for the reminder ! I appreciate you !

  • @SelmaBouley
    @SelmaBouley 14 днів тому +2

    I love inspiring speakers like you !

  • @amydoherty3682
    @amydoherty3682 29 днів тому +2

    Emma you are such an inspiration! My dad showed me this talk and it’s incredible what you’ve achieved. I loved it!😊

  • @ross.g1
    @ross.g1 3 місяці тому +7

    A captivating watch... well done, Emma!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @JohanScholl
    @JohanScholl 2 місяці тому +3

    Being vulnerable is ok isn’t it Emma as long as we rationalise it too, as you say not all fear is out to kill us !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      It is ok, scary at first but ok.

  • @BarbaraPerry-mu1qm
    @BarbaraPerry-mu1qm 18 днів тому +2

    One of the best talks i’ve heard. ❤

  • @JulieDaniel-yt1sl
    @JulieDaniel-yt1sl 18 днів тому +1

    Tough times never last. Inspirational !!!!

  • @MaryMurphyinp9oh
    @MaryMurphyinp9oh 14 днів тому +2

    Fascinating talk , well done all !

  • @yeeuntl82
    @yeeuntl82 14 днів тому +2

    Really enjoyed this Emma. Thank you 🙏

  • @scaredsowhat
    @scaredsowhat 19 днів тому +2

    Congratulations Emma. Such an empowering talk and message to share with the world. You should be very proud! Way to go! From Dr Grant and the Scared So What team.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 18 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your encouragement and kind words.

  • @MohdUmar-gd4gj
    @MohdUmar-gd4gj Місяць тому +2

    A tail of pure inspiration and how you turned your life around is remarkable. Hugely inspiring.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for your words!

  • @rannvijaysinghgamerrannvij6588
    @rannvijaysinghgamerrannvij6588 Місяць тому +2

    That photo of you in the thumbnail of the kid you was very effective and got me in the feels .: i’m a visual person and it made your talk even better if that makes any sense to anyone !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      That’s interesting to hear. The AV actually went awry on the day and it didn’t come on till way after it was meant too. But good to know it was still effective. Thanks for your comments❤

  • @piyushmathur1384
    @piyushmathur1384 Місяць тому +4

    Congratulations Emma. 🎉

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @changbeotda45
    @changbeotda45 14 днів тому +2

    A mixture of beautiful story telling and advice too .

  • @Cristiano_U-R001
    @Cristiano_U-R001 Місяць тому +1

    🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌💯 Agree totally. Fear kills more dreams than anything else!

  • @jang2y7h
    @jang2y7h 15 днів тому +2

    Loved this i watched it twice and shared it with my network Emma .

  • @sarabell5757
    @sarabell5757 2 місяці тому +2

    Emma I cried all the way through this ... I'm incredibly proud of you and the fire you have in that belly of yours. You are a true survivor and I will always have the highest regard for you as a truly beautiful human. Well done lass !!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +3

      Ahh thank you ❤

  • @aurora2928
    @aurora2928 18 днів тому +4

    Brilliant Emma !!

  • @gemmapeebles
    @gemmapeebles 3 місяці тому +6

    Incredible story and an inspiration to so many battling with their greatest fear!

  • @Jeevankala-Charuprabha6493
    @Jeevankala-Charuprabha6493 23 години тому +1

    Was very brave of Emma to turn herself in after overstaying her visa by 7 whole years.

  • @MurielKennedy-it6xy
    @MurielKennedy-it6xy 14 днів тому +2

    Great tedx talk ! Thank you

  • @MarinaCarita
    @MarinaCarita 2 місяці тому +2

    I always have let other peoples opinions hold me back Emma for years , trauma that i never set free , appreciate your talk very much !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you

  • @NovaGurrola
    @NovaGurrola 2 місяці тому +2

    Amazing talk, amazing woman, Doncaster should be very proud of you and i’m sure they all are !

  • @lim1mmv
    @lim1mmv 14 днів тому +1

    What a harrowing experience that must have been for you and your brother Emma. ❤️

  • @AngelCunningham-dv3eu
    @AngelCunningham-dv3eu 18 днів тому +2

    Wonderful talk , well articulated

  • @jeongami49
    @jeongami49 14 днів тому +2

    Congrats to all, fab ted talk.

  • @JaniceGoad
    @JaniceGoad 14 днів тому +2

    Appreciate the authenticity in this.

  • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
    @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 14 днів тому +2

    Amazing , all the feels !!!!!!!!!

  • @梶四郎
    @梶四郎 Місяць тому +1

    Absolutely brilliant talk Emma, very inspiring!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @Aniket.Gaming83
    @Aniket.Gaming83 Місяць тому +2

    Really enjoyed this speech Emma. Thank you for sharing so courageously i might add. Well done 👏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Ahh thank you

  • @thinknetwork3614
    @thinknetwork3614 18 днів тому +2

    I don’t know if i’ll ever feel good enough as parent Emma , i beat myself up when i fail or fall below standards i set for myself .

  • @MarilynMcNair-lp3so
    @MarilynMcNair-lp3so 14 днів тому +2

    Sharing this one with my network !

  • @linasmith2086
    @linasmith2086 29 днів тому +2

    Totally agree and isn’t it very sad that around 50 % of us don’t want to be like our parents .. maybe we should give them a break .. they are human too .. Mad world we live in & no one gets out alive

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 22 дні тому

      I think / hope as time moves on and the more we learn about parenting this percent will get less and less 🤞🏼

  • @CatherinerDoe
    @CatherinerDoe 14 днів тому +1

    Totally agree you can turn it into a superpower

  • @JazzraDixon
    @JazzraDixon 2 місяці тому +2

    I was in tears at one point in this Emma, thanks for sharing this and being so open .

  • @ShelleyRamos-nk9qm
    @ShelleyRamos-nk9qm 2 місяці тому +2

    Female empowerment at its finest Emma! I’d love to hear you speak live and in person.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +1

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 Місяць тому

      I was lucky enough to be there and it was incredible - what a woman!

  • @darveshranga9592
    @darveshranga9592 Місяць тому +1

    Hugely inspiring Emma !! The power of fear , so so true and a wonderful talk. 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @RhaelynCharles
    @RhaelynCharles 2 місяці тому +2

    Emma you are such a strong inspirational lady

  • @SallyRodriquez-ey5ov
    @SallyRodriquez-ey5ov 14 днів тому +2

    Keep shining !

  • @Mumbai_che_aaple_utsav_34vlog
    @Mumbai_che_aaple_utsav_34vlog Місяць тому +2

    Well done on a great talk Emma. Thoroughly enjoyed it. A mixture of story telling, real passion and useful advice. Thank you 🙏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue Місяць тому +1

      Thank you ❤