Turning Childhood Loss & Trauma into a Superpower | Emma McSkelly | TEDxDoncaster

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  • @jxblack34
    @jxblack34 3 місяці тому +7

    Emma, i don’t know you but i love this talk !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, I’m glad you like!

  • @SherrisChainey
    @SherrisChainey Місяць тому +2

    Such a brave talk Emma having the courage to speak out about your story and trauma was amazing.

  • @fatebeats203
    @fatebeats203 3 місяці тому +8

    So good Emma, thank you 🙏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you dude! ❤

    • @fatebeats203
      @fatebeats203 2 місяці тому +2

      @@emalarue Welcome!

  • @하은마-b8haunnop9
    @하은마-b8haunnop9 Місяць тому +3

    One of the best talks i’ve heard in a long time Emma.

  • @anthonyworth9292
    @anthonyworth9292 5 місяців тому +10

    I had the absolute privilege of attending this event and listening to Emma's story which was both heartbreaking and heartwarming in equal measure. It is a true story of how you can't change the cards that life has dealt you, but you can change your outlook and approach and face down your fears to turn them into your secret weapon. Amazing story Emma, wonderfully told. Thanks for sharing

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you❤

    • @JodieHide
      @JodieHide 4 місяці тому +1

      Beautiful words Ant - I also felt privileged to hear Emma’s story at this TedX event and feel incredibly inspired by her approach to facing fears.

  • @raphaelskitchen
    @raphaelskitchen 5 місяців тому +10

    You’re a phenomenal force of nature Emma. People like you change the world and I think you’ve changed my world a little during the process of this talk. Thank you so much for being a local inspiration and making yourself available to the people of Doncaster who really need role models like yourself.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 5 місяців тому +2

      What an amazing comment to make ❤

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 4 місяці тому +1

      What a lovely comment x

  • @nayeongbae40
    @nayeongbae40 2 місяці тому +2

    Tremendous talk Emma, i’m sure you are a true inspiration to many and especially people in your circle . You’ve overcome a lot .

  • @JaniceGoad
    @JaniceGoad 2 місяці тому +2

    Appreciate the authenticity in this.

  • @kiara9312
    @kiara9312 3 місяці тому +4

    Love this , leading the way for us all !

  • @IreneHouse-bg1we
    @IreneHouse-bg1we 2 місяці тому +2

    One of the talks of the year 👏

  • @KatherineHarper-v3v
    @KatherineHarper-v3v 4 місяці тому +3

    Emma , your story really resonates where me personally and is see alignment with the quote ‘ships are safe at harbour’ but that isn’t where they are supposed to be

  • @SelmaBouley
    @SelmaBouley 2 місяці тому +2

    I love inspiring speakers like you !

  • @ingght
    @ingght Місяць тому +2

    Got me in the feels , especially finding your mum part. Thanks for sharing this. x

  • @StanleyRichards-z5v
    @StanleyRichards-z5v 4 місяці тому +4

    The bit i loved most Emma was the bit you reconnected with your father in your 30’s plus who isn’t without fault eh. Beautiful ❤️

  • @peodijeong
    @peodijeong 2 місяці тому +2

    Confidence and belief can be developed over time with the right people and the right self talk but it’s a process . You are proof !

  • @ketanparmar6064
    @ketanparmar6064 3 місяці тому +2

    Had never thought about trauma in this way before !!! How it can be turned into a super power. Love it !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Love this ❤

  • @SudhakarSakala
    @SudhakarSakala 4 місяці тому +4

    Courage is a word that springs to mind about you Emma, jumping on a plane to Aus , surviving adversity , entrepreneurial journey etc . Hugely inspiring , love this so much. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +2

      🫶🏼

  • @LaraePrater
    @LaraePrater 27 днів тому +1

    Emmas story is nothing short of a rollercoaster.

  • @DenveraMurrill
    @DenveraMurrill Місяць тому +1

    Love this talk because of how easy i feel it is to relate to Emma.

  • @BradleyLawson-f8r
    @BradleyLawson-f8r 4 місяці тому +3

    Emma McSkelly thank you for being you, a courageous , brave and resilient lady. Thank you

  • @RajuPaw-rd7dj
    @RajuPaw-rd7dj 3 місяці тому +3

    I accepted a job i didn’t feel good enough to do Emma and overcame my fear. It was a life changing decision and i’ve went on to achieve so much since. GREAT SHARE !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Wonderful, Love this! Well done you 💪🏼

  • @RobinBrown-gq6ve
    @RobinBrown-gq6ve 3 місяці тому +1

    One of the best ted talks i’ve heard in a while

  • @kristineflorescunanan
    @kristineflorescunanan 4 місяці тому +3

    Emma’s talk makes you rethink fear as a powerful ally rather than an enemy, empowering us to turn our deepest challenges into catalysts for growth and success. Truly inspiring!😊

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +1

      Love this!

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 4 місяці тому +2

      You could feel the fear leaving Emma even as she delivered her talk - incredible

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +1

      @@anthonyworth9292 💜

  • @YeopMyung
    @YeopMyung 2 місяці тому +1

    My childhood was AMAZING, my parents weren’t perfect but i had alot of joy and happiness and feel sad you went through this Emma.

  • @bindaasnikhil334
    @bindaasnikhil334 4 місяці тому +3

    I encourage anyone to speak to someone, there’s always help , always a way out, always light at the end of the tunnel. Emma is proof .

  • @LorieMcCoy
    @LorieMcCoy 2 місяці тому +2

    I agree it can be turned into a superpower!

  • @imminho32
    @imminho32 2 місяці тому +2

    Really enjoyed your talk. It took me back to my childhood and made me emotional. But in a good way. Thanks Emma , great talk.

  • @shyamgaming0011
    @shyamgaming0011 4 місяці тому +2

    Who doesn’t have a hang up or hang ups or trauma that has followed them through life. Really inspiring how you have used it almost as fuel to be better and do more. Really loved your talk. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +2

      Love this ❤

  • @CarolynLozano-g2o
    @CarolynLozano-g2o Місяць тому +1

    Watched Emmas talk a few times and its still one of my favs.

  • @MohdUmar-gd4gj
    @MohdUmar-gd4gj 3 місяці тому +2

    A tail of pure inspiration and how you turned your life around is remarkable. Hugely inspiring.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your words!

  • @HardikRathvaRathva
    @HardikRathvaRathva 4 місяці тому +2

    Emma I found this very relatable , my family has had its fair share of problems and some of us have decided to go one way and others another way. Inspirational work. Appreciate the share

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +1

      I agree with this wholeheartedly it’s either one extreme or the other. I often find in families plagued by addiction there is no invetween. It’s either use it as fuel for growth or go the other way as you say.

  • @praladpraladsingh1106
    @praladpraladsingh1106 3 місяці тому +1

    Felt sadness thinking about you being homeless at one point. That’s another full talk on its own Emma ! Such an issue for many and you are a true inspiration!!!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you! You’re right, each minute is a whole separate talk on its own, but had to be brutal and cut it down / fit just the highlights and lowlights in.

  • @NoachaGorusso
    @NoachaGorusso Місяць тому +2

    Emma really turned her life around.

  • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
    @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 2 місяці тому +2

    Amazing , all the feels !!!!!!!!!

  • @cjarvis0903
    @cjarvis0903 3 місяці тому +2

    Emma - you’re a courageous and special soul. What a true 🦒 you are, sticking your neck out to inspire and help others.
    I appreciate your message and your willingness to be so open.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      This a lovely comment to read thank you @cjarvis0903 I appreciate you writing this!

  • @DipenderJoiya
    @DipenderJoiya 4 місяці тому +1

    Life is one BIG journey and too many people don’t enjoy it enough, too many don’t be present and happy in the moment. 😊

  • @samuvelsam455
    @samuvelsam455 3 місяці тому +2

    Congratulations, great and love what you’ve overcome to go onto be the successful genuine and authentic person you are now! Congratulations again. 🙌🙌

  • @Aniket.Gaming83
    @Aniket.Gaming83 3 місяці тому +2

    Really enjoyed this speech Emma. Thank you for sharing so courageously i might add. Well done 👏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Ahh thank you

  • @ncmauctions3810
    @ncmauctions3810 5 місяців тому +7

    A phenomenal and though-provoking talk! You are an inspiration to us all. Thank you - The NCM Team

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 5 місяців тому +2

      Legend team.

  • @gemmapeebles
    @gemmapeebles 5 місяців тому +6

    Incredible story and an inspiration to so many battling with their greatest fear!

  • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
    @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 3 місяці тому +2

    Beautifully delivered, all the feels

  • @Pavan_Waghotkar_vlogs
    @Pavan_Waghotkar_vlogs 4 місяці тому +2

    Well done on a great talk Emma. Thoroughly enjoyed it. A mixture of story telling, real passion and useful advice. Thank you 🙏

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @ihsanEsen-r5e
    @ihsanEsen-r5e 27 днів тому +1

    One of my friends had a similar experience with one of his parents and he really appreciated your talk.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 23 дні тому

      Great, thank you

  • @BarbaraPerry-mu1qm
    @BarbaraPerry-mu1qm 3 місяці тому +2

    One of the best talks i’ve heard. ❤

  • @MarinaCarita
    @MarinaCarita 4 місяці тому +2

    I always have let other peoples opinions hold me back Emma for years , trauma that i never set free , appreciate your talk very much !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you

  • @scaredsowhat
    @scaredsowhat 3 місяці тому +2

    Congratulations Emma. Such an empowering talk and message to share with the world. You should be very proud! Way to go! From Dr Grant and the Scared So What team.

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your encouragement and kind words.

  • @darveshranga9592
    @darveshranga9592 4 місяці тому +1

    Hugely inspiring Emma !! The power of fear , so so true and a wonderful talk. 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @KaileySingleton
    @KaileySingleton 4 місяці тому +3

    I use fear as fuel, as fuel for motivation to actually do something about it . make moves, take action, go for it !!

  • @jeongami49
    @jeongami49 2 місяці тому +2

    Congrats to all, fab ted talk.

  • @ChelseaTrinh-yh5cs
    @ChelseaTrinh-yh5cs 2 місяці тому +2

    Love ambitious entrepreneurs like you !

  • @PyeongSin
    @PyeongSin Місяць тому +2

    Congrats on a great speech, beautifully told Emma.

  • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
    @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 2 місяці тому +2

    Grateful for this one !

  • @JORDANCullen-z9z
    @JORDANCullen-z9z 3 місяці тому +3

    Excellent talk and we are all battling something aren’t we. No one is unscathed and it’s very inspiring to see you’ve used your adversity as a catalyst to success. Resilience. ❤️

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому

      You are so right and Thank you ❤

  • @ทวีธรรมเชียงมัง

    I can hear the emotion in your voice in parts , very authentic!

  • @gai1pmt
    @gai1pmt Місяць тому +2

    Inspirational talk and presentation and i could really feel the emotion in it. Well done

  • @DonnaBell-uf8te
    @DonnaBell-uf8te 2 місяці тому +1

    Serving your community, amazing 👏

  • @amydoherty3682
    @amydoherty3682 3 місяці тому +2

    Emma you are such an inspiration! My dad showed me this talk and it’s incredible what you’ve achieved. I loved it!😊

  • @MR_GAMER-1k-9
    @MR_GAMER-1k-9 4 місяці тому +2

    Love how you turned your childhood experiences around . Truly amazing and one many many many people need to hear. Shared it to my mailing list for you. 10k +

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for this ❤

  • @GopalGopalnishad
    @GopalGopalnishad 4 місяці тому +1

    Sorry to hear the bit about the environments that let you down so badly . You are a very strong lady Emma. ❤️

  • @KathySmith-fh2gr
    @KathySmith-fh2gr 2 місяці тому +2

    One of the best i’ve heard !!

  • @MAKSI-z3g
    @MAKSI-z3g 3 місяці тому +2

    Fear can work one of two ways. It can paralyse us and hold us back from achieving our full potential or we can face it and overcome it and truly grow !!!

  • @CatherinerDoe
    @CatherinerDoe 2 місяці тому +1

    Totally agree you can turn it into a superpower

  • @SpaSparkles
    @SpaSparkles 5 місяців тому +3

    Emma, a good friend of yours recommended your Tedtalk and all I can say is, I find your journey truly motivating.
    You are so influential and I admire you.Thanks❤

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 5 місяців тому +2

      Thank you ❤

  • @JulieDaniel-yt1sl
    @JulieDaniel-yt1sl 3 місяці тому +1

    Tough times never last. Inspirational !!!!

  • @AngelCunningham-dv3eu
    @AngelCunningham-dv3eu 2 місяці тому +2

    Super confident speaker

  • @magdalenagocyla7688
    @magdalenagocyla7688 5 місяців тому +4

    You are so inspiring Emma. You left me in tears. Thank you for sharing your story🎉❤this was such a brave thing to do. 🎉

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you!

    • @anthonyworth9292
      @anthonyworth9292 4 місяці тому

      The fear of public speaking has now also been overcome!

  • @suebailey2117
    @suebailey2117 3 місяці тому +8

    Empowering lady !

  • @baehuimyeong
    @baehuimyeong 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you , you have really have me hope Emma. I was homeless for along time and now i’m not and the future is brighter , thank God !

  • @WandaHatch
    @WandaHatch 2 місяці тому +2

    Love the story telling and tips Emma. Great!

  • @sarabell5757
    @sarabell5757 5 місяців тому +2

    Emma I cried all the way through this ... I'm incredibly proud of you and the fire you have in that belly of yours. You are a true survivor and I will always have the highest regard for you as a truly beautiful human. Well done lass !!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 5 місяців тому +3

      Ahh thank you ❤

  • @สุประนอมดวงสุวรรณ

    Love female entrepreneurs who are so empowering Emma !

  • @SallyRodriquez-ey5ov
    @SallyRodriquez-ey5ov 2 місяці тому +2

    Keep shining !

  • @selvamass6994
    @selvamass6994 4 місяці тому +2

    I think it was really great how you leaned into really feeling the fear , understanding your emotions and i suppose in a way getting comfortable in that situation.. maybe im wrong 😑 Congrats !!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      💯 leaning into fear and then getting comfortable with it

  • @thebrettdscott
    @thebrettdscott 3 місяці тому +2

    Embracing fear is important, great speech Emma 🎉

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @MurielKennedy-it6xy
    @MurielKennedy-it6xy 2 місяці тому +2

    Great tedx talk ! Thank you

  • @JazzraDixon
    @JazzraDixon 4 місяці тому +2

    I was in tears at one point in this Emma, thanks for sharing this and being so open .

  • @yeeuntl82
    @yeeuntl82 2 місяці тому +2

    Really enjoyed this Emma. Thank you 🙏

  • @AngelCunningham-dv3eu
    @AngelCunningham-dv3eu 3 місяці тому +2

    Wonderful talk , well articulated

  • @MaryMurphyinp9oh
    @MaryMurphyinp9oh 2 місяці тому +2

    Fascinating talk , well done all !

  • @ross.g1
    @ross.g1 5 місяців тому +7

    A captivating watch... well done, Emma!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @aurora2928
    @aurora2928 3 місяці тому +4

    Brilliant Emma !!

  • @MariaPointing-q1t
    @MariaPointing-q1t 5 місяців тому +8

    Incredible story . So proud of you Emma 🌸

  • @rannvijaysinghgamerrannvij6588
    @rannvijaysinghgamerrannvij6588 4 місяці тому +2

    That photo of you in the thumbnail of the kid you was very effective and got me in the feels .: i’m a visual person and it made your talk even better if that makes any sense to anyone !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +1

      That’s interesting to hear. The AV actually went awry on the day and it didn’t come on till way after it was meant too. But good to know it was still effective. Thanks for your comments❤

  • @Fabio-dp2ue
    @Fabio-dp2ue 3 місяці тому +5

    Amazing speaker Emma McSkelly !

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!! 🙏🏼

  • @SusanRuffin
    @SusanRuffin 3 місяці тому +1

    We can overcome most things i feel Emma.

  • @KiranDhule-tz3si
    @KiranDhule-tz3si 3 місяці тому +2

    Well done Emma McSkelly and all at TEDxDoncaster. ❤️

  • @MaryBrown-tn4to
    @MaryBrown-tn4to 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you 🙏

  • @NovaGurrola
    @NovaGurrola 4 місяці тому +2

    Amazing talk, amazing woman, Doncaster should be very proud of you and i’m sure they all are !

  • @RebeccaLowe-ci6bs
    @RebeccaLowe-ci6bs 2 місяці тому +2

    Love your message Emma !!!!!!

  • @DilwarSk-l5e
    @DilwarSk-l5e 3 місяці тому +2

    Inspirational talk , speaker, lady, entrepreneur, daughter, mum !!!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!

  • @ArnuaCardenosa
    @ArnuaCardenosa Місяць тому +1

    Heartbreaking to hear Emmas traumatic childhood.

  • @linasmith2086
    @linasmith2086 3 місяці тому +2

    Totally agree and isn’t it very sad that around 50 % of us don’t want to be like our parents .. maybe we should give them a break .. they are human too .. Mad world we live in & no one gets out alive

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 3 місяці тому

      I think / hope as time moves on and the more we learn about parenting this percent will get less and less 🤞🏼

  • @MarilynMcNair-lp3so
    @MarilynMcNair-lp3so 2 місяці тому +2

    Bravo Emma !

  • @tnetwork1
    @tnetwork1 3 місяці тому +2

    I don’t know if i’ll ever feel good enough as parent Emma , i beat myself up when i fail or fall below standards i set for myself .

  • @MarilynMcNair-lp3so
    @MarilynMcNair-lp3so 2 місяці тому +2

    Sharing this one with my network !

  • @shivram3848
    @shivram3848 4 місяці тому +1

    You are an example to many Emma McSkelly !!!

    • @emalarue
      @emalarue 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you ❤

  • @StacyAcker
    @StacyAcker 2 місяці тому +2

    Took notes right thought out !

  • @yoojinda
    @yoojinda 2 місяці тому +2

    Such an empowering speaker :)

  • @SheilaBradberiry
    @SheilaBradberiry 2 місяці тому +1

    Fabulous presentation Emma !

  • @NovaGurrola
    @NovaGurrola 4 місяці тому +2

    I truly believe we can overcome anything and thanks for this timely reminder Emma.