1. Communicate in terms of their values 2. Create dialogue 3. Convey congruence 4. Consider your Lexicon - Do your words accurately convey the dynsmicity of your ideas - Do your words accurately convey how you feel about certain things -Do your words accurately convey the seriousness or the profundity of a situation How do you build that lexicon? Read great literature from individuals who have great lexicon 5. Command Phoenetics
Great video!!! Several additional points during conversations. 1. Find common ground and try to agree with some of the comments of the person you are speaking with. 2. Summarize the points of person you are speaking with you to make them feel they are being heard. 3. Give the person you are speaking with your full attention and concentration. 4. Be warm and smile. If the person makes a joke, do your best to laugh. Compliment something about them. 5. Speak favorable about other people rather than negatively. 6. Don't attack/challenge the persons credibility. Make people feel good about themselves.
I have been struggling with being articulate for many years as English is my second language. This is a perfect example of how the UA-cam algorithm does present relevant content as needed.
I'm grateful to see my subscribers improve in their communication skills, especially when I hear that they are overcoming challenges like language barriers. Keep up the good work!
I’m always fascinated by the way ppl speak and have quick comebacks , I’m horrible at that and it stresses me out when I have to talk , it’s truly an art to have good banter .
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I understand how you feel. Thinking fast and on the spot can be challenging for many people. But don’t worry, it’s not something you’re born with. It’s something you can learn and improve with practice and feedback. You will find my video on "Think Fast Talk Smart" useful and actionable. You can watch it here: ua-cam.com/video/W0PLr1bOrec/v-deo.html
Dr. Lee is absolutely spot on! I can’t be the only one that misses a minute or two because in my mind, I’m aligning my experience with her words. I often have to go back a couple of minutes because of this. This is the best advice on business mindset I’ve ever heard!
I always in a F1 race like mood to sum up my conversation.And i think many can relate to this.that's the main hindrance in professional growth as we cannot say what we actually want to say and regret it later.
New Subbie here😁 I have struggled with social anxiety, lack of confidence, and self esteem. I have been doing the work to overcome anxiety, but I still have difficulty with the other 2. This channel/content will be very helpful with the direction I am going in. Personal growth is lifelong for me💗
For anxiety in my opinion you first need to feel your own emotions. For example try to be like a mirror and reflect people’s energy around you. Don’t absorb people’s energy that much. Be comfortable with your thoughts and feelings first. Then it will be easy to bring it up. Just block the noise
I know her channel by UA-cam popup, and I am surprised at how excellent she is in helping the young as we ascend in the workplace from those videos like this. She deserves to be known widely.
I really love your English. I can hear your words clearly and your speaking is always so organised and mesningful. U are just the presenter I want to learn from.
Great video Dr. Lee! I'm in technology and media and through my work with voice in radio, film, tv, music and podcasting over many years, I've found that effective communication is a mix of all of these concepts. Not just confidence or "knowing what you're talking about", its really quite fascinating. Great presentation!
I appreciate your kind words and your insight, Mike. You have a lot of experience in different fields of communication and I agree that it’s a complex and fascinating skill.
I appreciate your feedback. It’s great that you are working on your accent and finding my videos useful. You are doing a wonderful job and I’m sure you’ll achieve your goals soon.
Ooooooweeee! Dr Lee you truly explain this effective comprehensive communication outline in such a way is very eloquently delivered. Much gratitude for your expertise and delivery. Peace to all
Hi Dr.Grace, Here I similar context may share real world scenario and expect answer to tackle those critical scenario. While communicating with A on any relevant context.X drag themselves in communication cycle with there own thought in relevant context.Which is definitely unnecessary and without any need. How to handle such personality without being spoiling professional relationship of each other's.
I wish you been my language teacher, or for that matter, my teacher.... Anyways, i am to learn and earn the light of knowledge from wherever you would be.... Many thanks on sharing your knowledge
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad that my content has been helpful to you in your learning journey. Remember, knowledge can be found anywhere, so keep exploring and learning from various sources.
Sometimes it's smarter to avoid those $5 words, as demonstrated by our former commander in chief. But it's very very helpful to have command of these big words so that you can identified those who constantly try to snow thw snowman!
ar·tic·u·la·tion /ärˌtikyəˈlāSH(ə)n/ See definitions noun 1. the formation of clear and distinct sounds in speech. "the articulation of vowels and consonants" 2. MUSIC clarity in the production of successive notes. "beautifully polished articulation from the violins"
I am enjoying the lessons I am learning. When in a group one does not feel comfortable with a group decision, how long will you wait for that one to feel comfortable?
Thank you for your comment, Diann. I’m glad you are enjoying the lessons. That’s a good question. There is no definitive answer to how long you should wait for someone to feel comfortable with a group decision. It depends on the situation, the urgency of the decision, and the level of disagreement.
I don't know if I can't talk with people because in 2019 - pandemic - baby brain and isolation - a mental break down/ PTSD Which one is the reason I can't hold a conversation? :(
Congruency is not always good. For example my neighbors would feel so comfortable and try to pass their limit when I talk to them like open heart. Some people may also think what does she want? Why is she so nice?
I appreciate your comment, Jason. Being articulate is more than just using trendy words and phrases. It’s also about being clear, confident, and persuasive in your communication. The secrets I shared in my video will help you unpack your ideas, lean into your strengths, pivot when necessary, circle back to your main points, and embrace the new normal of effective communication. And yes, DEI is important too! I hope you enjoyed my video and learned something new and helpful. Thank you for watching and sharing your tips. 😊
As a nonnative speaker, I tend to be very uncomfortable to make presentations in english. also as a glossophobia, i feel uncomfortable to make public speeches.
I want you to know that you are not alone in feeling insecure about your speaking skills. Many people struggle with expressing themselves clearly and confidently, especially in public or professional settings. But don't let it hold you back from achieving your goals and dreams. Speaking is a skill that can be learned and improved with practice and guidance. I hope you'll find my videos helpful and informative!
@@DrGraceLee yeah I don’t let it stop me, I have a success small plumbing business and I’m able to speak well enough to keep my customers happy and keep my company moving forward.
1. Communicate in terms of their values
2. Create dialogue
3. Convey congruence
4. Consider your Lexicon
- Do your words accurately convey the dynsmicity of your ideas
- Do your words accurately convey how you feel about certain things
-Do your words accurately convey the seriousness or the profundity of a situation
How do you build that lexicon?
Read great literature from individuals who have great lexicon
5. Command Phoenetics
Love the summary points!
Thanks for the summary she wasn't very articulate 😅
Thank you 🙏
Thanks for the summary. Listening to her was starting to hurt.🤷🏾
Thanks for the summary
Self-development is the path to unlocking your potential.
That's a great takeaway! Thanks for sharing.
How has the flame to be kindled and flared?
🙌🏽🙌🏽
Great video!!!
Several additional points during conversations.
1. Find common ground and try to agree with some of the comments of the person you are speaking with.
2. Summarize the points of person you are speaking with you to make them feel they are being heard.
3. Give the person you are speaking with your full attention and concentration.
4. Be warm and smile. If the person makes a joke, do your best to laugh. Compliment something about them.
5. Speak favorable about other people rather than negatively.
6. Don't attack/challenge the persons credibility. Make people feel good about themselves.
Thanks for sharing this, David.
This was better than the original video..lol 👍
I have been struggling with being articulate for many years as English is my second language. This is a perfect example of how the UA-cam algorithm does present relevant content as needed.
I'm grateful to see my subscribers improve in their communication skills, especially when I hear that they are overcoming challenges like language barriers. Keep up the good work!
I’m always fascinated by the way ppl speak and have quick comebacks , I’m horrible at that and it stresses me out when I have to talk , it’s truly an art to have good banter .
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. I understand how you feel. Thinking fast and on the spot can be challenging for many people. But don’t worry, it’s not something you’re born with. It’s something you can learn and improve with practice and feedback. You will find my video on "Think Fast Talk Smart" useful and actionable. You can watch it here: ua-cam.com/video/W0PLr1bOrec/v-deo.html
"Your word is your flesh" Dr. Lee
Powerful!!
Dr. Lee is absolutely spot on! I can’t be the only one that misses a minute or two because in my mind, I’m aligning my experience with her words. I often have to go back a couple of minutes because of this. This is the best advice on business mindset I’ve ever heard!
Ensure your well of knowledge is never empty. Thats powerful
I always in a F1 race like mood to sum up my conversation.And i think many can relate to this.that's the main hindrance in professional growth as we cannot say what we actually want to say and regret it later.
New Subbie here😁 I have struggled with social anxiety, lack of confidence, and self esteem. I have been doing the work to overcome anxiety, but I still have difficulty with the other 2. This channel/content will be very helpful with the direction I am going in. Personal growth is lifelong for me💗
For anxiety in my opinion you first need to feel your own emotions. For example try to be like a mirror and reflect people’s energy around you. Don’t absorb people’s energy that much. Be comfortable with your thoughts and feelings first. Then it will be easy to bring it up. Just block the noise
hope youre doing well!!
Me too!!! I’m finding it difficult to articulate myself and know how to respond to people which keeps me isolating even more..
Still struggling
I know her channel by UA-cam popup, and I am surprised at how excellent she is in helping the young as we ascend in the workplace from those videos like this. She deserves to be known widely.
I appreciate the support!
The one who can explain extremely complicated topics in simple ways and words have mastered communication.
I wish i knew you twelve years ago, you are an exceptional teacher
That 1st one comes naturally...thanks for all the points
While we have life we should look for improving everything in our life if we want to find the best version ourselves.
I really love your English. I can hear your words clearly and your speaking is always so organised and mesningful. U are just the presenter I want to learn from.
Thank you for the kind words! Glad to have you here on my channel.
I like your point about organizing our speech. This draws me in and I would love to see a video on this concept!
Clear illustration of incongruence❤
Dr Lee, your articulation is exemplary!
Thank you for the kind words. Welcome to my channel!
Anyone can benefit from this information! Good stuff.. thanks for sharing 🙏😌
Great video Dr. Lee! I'm in technology and media and through my work with voice in radio, film, tv, music and podcasting over many years, I've found that effective communication is a mix of all of these concepts. Not just confidence or "knowing what you're talking about", its really quite fascinating. Great presentation!
I appreciate your kind words and your insight, Mike. You have a lot of experience in different fields of communication and I agree that it’s a complex and fascinating skill.
Another video with great content. Thanks a million.
The pleasure is all mine! Glad to have you here, Joyce.
I have something to say. Well done!
Wow. Thank you so much for putting that together for us. Your presentation and articulation is very inspiring. You are a force to be reckoned with.
In order to ensure knowledge bank is always filled with good contents, i need to come out of my comfort zone and read good quality literature
Thanks for tuning in! I admire your willingness to come out of your comfort zone and challenge yourself to learn new things.
You are a good teacher ❤❤
Salamat po!
Great video Dr. Lee ! I am looking forward to applying these secrets!
Looking forward to hear about your progress, Jared!
More videos to come Dr. Grace Lee.🙌❤️
Always happy to see you here, Joshua!
This lady is the epitome of smart
I appreciate you, Donald.
@@DrGraceLee Welldone Doc
Hopefully my accent will improve soon it's just like you because the sounds is very clear.❤
I appreciate your feedback. It’s great that you are working on your accent and finding my videos useful. You are doing a wonderful job and I’m sure you’ll achieve your goals soon.
Well done. Excellent presentation.
Ooooooweeee! Dr Lee you truly explain this effective comprehensive communication outline in such a way is very eloquently delivered. Much gratitude for your expertise and delivery. Peace to all
I appreciate your wonderful feedback! I’m happy you enjoyed my communication outline and its delivery. I thank you for your generosity.😊
Great advice! Thank you so much Dr. Grace Lee for the amazing video!
You are an articulate and gorgeous lady. Looking forward to your new videos.
I appreciate the support!
I love this topic☺️
Hi Dr.Grace,
Here I similar context may share real world scenario and expect answer to tackle those critical scenario.
While communicating with A on any relevant context.X drag themselves in communication cycle with there own thought in relevant context.Which is definitely unnecessary and without any need.
How to handle such personality without being spoiling professional relationship of each other's.
I wish you been my language teacher, or for that matter, my teacher....
Anyways, i am to learn and earn the light of knowledge from wherever you would be....
Many thanks on sharing your knowledge
Thank you for your kind words! I'm glad that my content has been helpful to you in your learning journey. Remember, knowledge can be found anywhere, so keep exploring and learning from various sources.
Could you do a video on being articulate with the cold email introduction?
Sometimes it's smarter to avoid those $5 words, as demonstrated by our former commander in chief. But it's very very helpful to have command of these big words so that you can identified those who constantly try to snow thw snowman!
1.2k+...Thanks Dr. Grace Lee
This is awesome!
I love this.
ar·tic·u·la·tion
/ärˌtikyəˈlāSH(ə)n/
See definitions
noun
1.
the formation of clear and distinct sounds in speech.
"the articulation of vowels and consonants"
2.
MUSIC
clarity in the production of successive notes.
"beautifully polished articulation from the violins"
GooDay, Thank You,
I understand everything that was said however i struggle a bit with implementing. An example of each one would have been helpful.
I appreciate the feedback, Zane!
Excellent. Thank you
You're welcome, Jerin!
excellent. Thanks a lot
You're welcome, Janessa!
Do you help those with ADHD? I love your videos!
Thanks
You're welcome!
Thank you👍
Welcome to my channel!
I am enjoying the lessons I am learning. When in a group one does not feel comfortable with a group decision, how long will you wait for that one to feel comfortable?
Thank you for your comment, Diann. I’m glad you are enjoying the lessons. That’s a good question. There is no definitive answer to how long you should wait for someone to feel comfortable with a group decision. It depends on the situation, the urgency of the decision, and the level of disagreement.
I don't know if I can't talk with people because in 2019
- pandemic
- baby brain and isolation
- a mental break down/ PTSD
Which one is the reason I can't hold a conversation? :(
Try find something that interests you and speak passionately about your speasilised subject.
Hi Dr Lee I ve been watching your videos on the you tube and I would like to know what dictionary you recommend for me? Gulshan
Congruency is not always good. For example my neighbors would feel so comfortable and try to pass their limit when I talk to them like open heart. Some people may also think what does she want? Why is she so nice?
You can show them that you do not want anything from them. You know and I know that, action speak louder than words.💯
Nah just learn important words like, unpack, lean into, pivot, circle back, new normal and just keep repeating DEI and you’ll be ok 😊🤗🙌
I appreciate your comment, Jason. Being articulate is more than just using trendy words and phrases. It’s also about being clear, confident, and persuasive in your communication. The secrets I shared in my video will help you unpack your ideas, lean into your strengths, pivot when necessary, circle back to your main points, and embrace the new normal of effective communication. And yes, DEI is important too!
I hope you enjoyed my video and learned something new and helpful. Thank you for watching and sharing your tips. 😊
Nice🤙
I would like to join your on teaching
As a nonnative speaker, I tend to be very uncomfortable to make presentations in english. also as a glossophobia, i feel uncomfortable to make public speeches.
3:14 of video reciprocity is key as well. don't we think?
Thank you for your comment. I appreciate your input and observation.😊
I suck as speaking. I feel like I am pretty intelligent but my speaking skills just don’t help. Sad😢
I want you to know that you are not alone in feeling insecure about your speaking skills. Many people struggle with expressing themselves clearly and confidently, especially in public or professional settings. But don't let it hold you back from achieving your goals and dreams. Speaking is a skill that can be learned and improved with practice and guidance. I hope you'll find my videos helpful and informative!
@@DrGraceLee yeah I don’t let it stop me, I have a success small plumbing business and I’m able to speak well enough to keep my customers happy and keep my company moving forward.
Do you have a book?
❤
Lexicon and phonetics are the ones that need diligence and discipline!
Thanks for tuning in and sharing your opinion. 😊
Use of some of those SAT/GRE words will cause you to be “lugubrious.” 😅
+100 Lexicon points lol
To be honest, I know a lot of articulate people and I doubt they know any of this.
You adapt to us; we don’t adapt to you…
You look like อิงฟ้า
Articulate me this...what is a woman?
She's carbon based. Wonder how AI would advise human for the same a year from now.
很喜歡你的教學內容，可惜...你說話太快了。請你說慢點，我們好聽的更清楚，更好地吸收。謝謝你。
I can’t read
Mirama. Listen
Thank you😊
Thanks