I'm going on a limb by saying that this comes from lack of resources because I'm not fighting nobody in my own house, with a full refrigerator a car in a driveway. Struggling sisters always have beef because the husband is most often relying on the system to provide for his wives.
SubhanAllah! 💜 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Don't ever put your hands on/or fight anyone for no apparent reason, you don't know the incoming wife like that. She might come back at you with a vengeance. Be civil to one another for the sake of الله. Islam is not a violent religion. May الله bless all with the right mindset going into polygyny by HIS infinite mercy اللهم امين 🧕👳♂️🧕
So... forgive me for asking but I don't know and never in my life would I have thought I'd get the opportunity to ask so please forgive my not knowing, do co-wives sleep together? Or just with the husband? Do you get your specific days? How does that work? Edited to add: And aren't co-wives all supposed to have their own homes? I saw a documentary and the Qur'an said that they're all supposed to have their own space so they shouldn't be up under each other anyway. Which is why most men don't have more than one wife: they can't afford it. Edited again to add: Co wife not married to each other, I understand. I won't change my content just in case someone else is wondering too and won't ask. Edited one more time to add: I just checked to be sure and a husband providing one house for two women is Haram unless they agree. He is required to provide them with separate roughly equivalent shelter, clothing, and food and if he doesn't, he's in trouble with Allah. That's what is written and consistent with the content of that documentary. Having one wife is a big responsibility in Islam. Having more than one is a headache under most circumstances because of the duty to provide. Anyway, thank you for sharing.
Thank you for seeking clarification. No, co-wives do not sleep with each other. They are married to the same man and have their own marriages. Men are required to be fair with time and money with his wives and is responsible foe figuring that out. Of living arrangements are separate homes, however, it is up to the family to decide how they choose their housing. Best practices is separate housing as demonstrated by the Prophet sws. The Quran doesn't explicitly address this other than noting that the husband must be equitable and fair. Having a wife is indeed a heavy responsibility and more than one is even more responsibility and a mercy for society that is increasingly losing its moral fabric.
SubhanAllah sis you are beautiful inside and out (looking like a black Michelle Fifer Allahumabarik) May Allah reward you for your sabr cuz HE and SHE shoulda been checked for their messyness
The right women who can be in a polygamous marriage is one that accepts another woman can love her man just for the same reasons she loved him and they become friends. So it is the man's fault if he brings two indifferent women together or the second women involves herself knowing she is not happy with one of them.
I'm going on a limb by saying that this comes from lack of resources because I'm not fighting nobody in my own house, with a full refrigerator a car in a driveway. Struggling sisters always have beef because the husband is most often relying on the system to provide for his wives.
Not always we are definitely struggling and it's rooted in jealousy, comparison, manipulation, and pettiness. Resources are not an issue.
@shalawnmayfield1116 Sorry about that, but hopefully, adults will decide to grow up, be grateful, and mind their own business .
SubhanAllah! 💜 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Don't ever put your hands on/or fight anyone for no apparent reason, you don't know the incoming wife like that. She might come back at you with a vengeance. Be civil to one another for the sake of الله. Islam is not a violent religion. May الله bless all with the right mindset going into polygyny by HIS infinite mercy اللهم امين 🧕👳♂️🧕
So... forgive me for asking but I don't know and never in my life would I have thought I'd get the opportunity to ask so please forgive my not knowing, do co-wives sleep together? Or just with the husband? Do you get your specific days? How does that work?
Edited to add: And aren't co-wives all supposed to have their own homes? I saw a documentary and the Qur'an said that they're all supposed to have their own space so they shouldn't be up under each other anyway. Which is why most men don't have more than one wife: they can't afford it.
Edited again to add: Co wife not married to each other, I understand. I won't change my content just in case someone else is wondering too and won't ask.
Edited one more time to add: I just checked to be sure and a husband providing one house for two women is Haram unless they agree. He is required to provide them with separate roughly equivalent shelter, clothing, and food and if he doesn't, he's in trouble with Allah. That's what is written and consistent with the content of that documentary. Having one wife is a big responsibility in Islam. Having more than one is a headache under most circumstances because of the duty to provide. Anyway, thank you for sharing.
Thank you for seeking clarification.
No, co-wives do not sleep with each other. They are married to the same man and have their own marriages. Men are required to be fair with time and money with his wives and is responsible foe figuring that out.
Of living arrangements are separate homes, however, it is up to the family to decide how they choose their housing. Best practices is separate housing as demonstrated by the Prophet sws. The Quran doesn't explicitly address this other than noting that the husband must be equitable and fair.
Having a wife is indeed a heavy responsibility and more than one is even more responsibility and a mercy for society that is increasingly losing its moral fabric.
SubhanAllah sis you are beautiful inside and out (looking like a black Michelle Fifer Allahumabarik) May Allah reward you for your sabr cuz HE and SHE shoulda been checked for their messyness
You Are a very good sister! May Allah bless you always! Very special person yes you are.✌
The right women who can be in a polygamous marriage is one that accepts another woman can love her man just for the same reasons she loved him and they become friends. So it is the man's fault if he brings two indifferent women together or the second women involves herself knowing she is not happy with one of them.