Boy Erased (2018) - I'm Not Going to Change Scene (10/10) | Movieclips
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- Опубліковано 10 кві 2019
- Boy Erased - I'm Not Going to Change: Jared (Lucas Hedges) confronts his father (Russell Crowe).
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Jared Eamons, the son of a small-town Baptist pastor, must overcome the fallout after being outed as gay to his parents. His father and mother struggle to reconcile their love for their son with their beliefs. Fearing a loss of family, friends and community, Jared is pressured into attending a conversion therapy program. While there, Jared comes into conflict with its leader and begins his journey to finding his own voice and accepting his true self.
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Cast: Lucas Hedges, Russell Crowe
Director: Joel Edgerton
Screenwriter: Joel Edgerton
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Having a gay son or daughter doesn't mean you failed as a parent. It's disowning them or making change because the parents' are more concerned for their own self-image, that's when they fail.
Tell that to parents like this.
Sooo true! Many parents, especially mine, think they have failed because I am the way I am, but if they’re not going to treat me like their daughter then that’s when they fail as parents. ❤️
Exactly!!!!
These parents deserve to be told that they are failures and treated as such.
@@luxitos2867 Agreed!
"I'm not changing, there's no changing me. God knows I tried." I see the comments from people who don't have a religion that talk about people who are gay and religious, and here's the thing: you've never lived with a God that you consider your friend and protector. You don't know how hard it is to leave everything you love, your homophobic parents and family, your life falls to pieces around you. You can call religion the problem all you want, but you've never lived under that continual fear that you'll fall into a life of sin. I still have PTSD from the late nights of crying and reading scriptures that tell me I'm a sinner, but I also have good memories and testimonies of my church. It's hard to walk away from, impossibly so.
Same and I'm bi and still believe in God. Took a long time to accept those things and to deal with homophobic relatives but luckily I've accepted me for me. And that's all that matters.
I’m a pansexual atheist and I don’t care if your religious, you can believe in whatever you want if it makes you happy, it’s when you try to discredit and hurt people because of your beliefs is when I have a problem
Hi, Natalie. Attacking one's beliefs, whether once held or they are in the miasma of reconciliation, often springs from a sense of betrayal. You seem to have a wherewithal and conscience rooted in the best intentions of Christ. His grace and compassion exist within you. Because of these qualities, you have the capacity for love as friendship and companionship. The negative ideas and projections of God were thrust upon you by company who fundamentally misunderstood Christ's gospel. Cherish the memories wherein the Gospel illuminated your soul. As for those dark, lonely, sorrowful nights... Imagine them as stones in a luggage. A luggage you have been carrying all these years. Who is saying you have to continue carrying that luggage? Not Christ. Not me. And, now, not you. Find a natural ditch along the next grass path you cross and drop that bag of stones. Say good-bye, and, when walking away sing your favorite hymn :)
“You never asked if I was okay.” This is what SO many survivors say. What happened here isn’t okay and what we are doing to women in Texas isn’t okay. These are often the hardest things to speak about because they are so traumatizing - which is why you need to ask.
"I may never be a grandparent" It's called adoption. But if you're held up on the whole archaic extending your bloodline thing then there's also surrogacy
Unfortunately, surrogacy is forbidden in some countries, like in mine for exaple, where also 85% of population are so homophobic.
Lucas Hedges' best performance yet, in his most challenging role thus far, where he gives a moving and authentic portrayal of a young man trying to form his identity against his environment. Russell Crowe, as well, is in particularly fine form, here, delivering nuanced work that never turns his part into a one note caricature. Shame on the academy for overlooking these two very strong turns.
U can still be a grandparent it is called adoption!
Cuz I want too Deal with it Its also called in vitro fertilization
Adoption, IVF, surrogacy… there are so many possibilities. Just because it’s not the traditional way doesn’t mean it’s not their kid
@@Isak-H But the traditional way is how it all began no other way but that something you can't ignore or deny
Can even have a bio kid if he gets with a trans guy/nonbinary person and they'd like to have bio kids
But the grandkid won't have your features.
I will never understand the "I won't be a grandparent" argument. Like, us gays can easily have kids too
I had the same conversation with my mother.
My parents have nieces and nephews whose children act as their proxy grandkids. I'm not having kids because I don't want them. I am their only child. My mother probably doesn't care either way but I know my father likes to dote on little kids so he likely feels he's missing out but that's entirely his own issue.
Oh i agree. I hate when you mention adoption and the argument is “well not biological grandchildren” as if heterosexual couples can all have natural children. Heterosexual couples adopt all the time or use surrogates.
His son can either adopt a child or find a surrogate mother to have his child. Either way, his dad will still be a grandpa.
@@lolaminer5 And we can still have biological children too. Nothing wrong with that
This was the a really powerful conversation, including the ending scene of him driving away with the song, I cried, pretty sure my roommate cried
"I'm not changing. God knows I tried" WOW!
My dad had the “no grandchildren fear” with me and I would go through adoption, which was so insane because I was adopted lol.
"There are some things I disagree with."
you DISAGREE with a SEXUALITY?
Gay Person: I'm gay
Dad: I disagree
WHa t ?
cosmolar That’s exactly how my grandmother reacted.
Yes, because God disagrees with it.
@@j-mshistorycorner6932 it's like
"Hey dad i'm a male"
Dad: "i disagree"
@@tech4682 Gender is biological and can not change.
Sexuality is not.
@@j-mshistorycorner6932 you think sexuality is not biological??
Such a powerful scene! I used to be just like his father too but after watching this movie, it's changed me so much! You don't have to agree with someone's choice, but it is our responsibility to love that person no matter what. It's about unconditional love! The abuse that Jared went through at that horrible place is unbelievable!
There are camps like this that entrap your children for their sexual preference!! These nimrods will tear apart the heart of your child!! UGH As long as they are not abusing young children you should really back off its none of your business what their sexual preference is or their religion!! We really need to stop the hate !! ugh
False.
John-Michael Mustchin not at all your an idiot
Has sexuality ever become a preference?
"I may never be a grandparent."
YOU may never be a grandparent? There is adoption, vitro fertilization and surrogacy. Blood doesn't need to make a family, but only love can make a family
Try telling that to someone with beliefs like his
Your very wrong fuckstick
@@joewhitehead3 Beliefs or not, you don't live for the sole purpose to give your parents grandchildren.
Your beliefs are not worth wrecking, ruining, or losing people's lives.
I'm a parent to a 5 year old. I would never want my child to feel this way about me. It would shatter me to pieces. I don't understand how a parent can't just accept their child for something like this. As long as they aren't hurting themselves or others and they have a happy life, how could a parent not want their child to be happy? Stories like this break my heart. How can we be mad at our child for falling in love?
Some people just cannot let go of their strong, personal beliefs. No matter how wrong they are
I feel like his father being concerned about having grandchildren shows where his priorities lied.
Okay but adoption and surrogacy exist...?
Surrogacy is forbidden is some countries.
This scene is so powerful.
He says “you make things about you” then proceeds to talk about himself more. This father is the problem not the child
That’s the guy from “Lady Bird” !!, good for him he’s playing such great and In depth characters
Russell Crowe was the perfect actor to play this part. Great acting by all. great movie great writing
Well the actor that played Russrl wrote the screenplay for this.
@@miloseviczarko45 no, that was Joel Edgerton
@@Unqualifiedmedicalperson My bad, I mixed them.
I was just waiting for Jared to turn the tables. After a long wait, he finally did it and I celebrated.
Lucas has come such a long way as an actor. His small role in Waves was absolutely lovely, and this I think was one of his best. He (and Nicole and Russell) did so good in this film. I also loved Troy Sivan's music in the soundtrack.
Curious why he hasn't been acting in 2 years
@@sunnygolightly9996covid?
Very good performance from Crowe. He's not a one note "homophobic dad" villain. He DOES love his son and at the end I feel his "I will try" was genuine. I'm not religious in the truest sense but I can imagine going against a lifetime of following one in your head is hard for a person. And that's what he has to do for his son.
the part about I won't be a grandparent I find funny, because i met a guy in college who was happily married but him in his wife don't want kids and of course theres always cases where a person is unable to produce children so it's sort of a stupid argument to say gays can't have kids when just as straight people either can't or don't want to have kids
I met a married guy too who doesn’t want to have kids. Just enjoy life with hervwife
@@erwincagampan5777 exactly just because your kid is straight doesn't mean he or she is going to give you grandkids
Incredibly powerful, and unsettlingly moving. What amazing performances.
Some people shouldn't be parents at all.
How does one "disagree" with something that is not made out of choice? The word is "disapprove." It is disgusting that people place their beliefs of the supernatural above people that are right in front of them in real life, in the natural universe we live in. You only live once. Are you really going to give up your relationship with your family members or friends? Simply because they are gay? In closing, i think the quote, "one page of the Bible isn't worth a life" should be said.
Wrong - especially since the Bible is true and God is real.
@@j-mshistorycorner6932 How is the bible true? How does it make god real? Your vague comment (compared to mine) says a lot. Also, not showing direct relevance.
It's quite sad actually
Re:comment: 1st of all it’s not religious people who you’re talking about in reality; although you’ve said that. It’s really a personal relationship with the Creator; Jesus Christ Himself that maybe you’re having the real problem with. Re: SIN? Every human being has sinned > there’s no way around that fact rt now. The Bible has a lot more interesting things to say than the negative stuff you’ve come across. I can sorta say I get it. But there’s a very powerful reason behind all this. So don’t attack the Bible unless you’ve read the whole thing & 💯% have a crystal clear picture of it all, I’ve been told that it’s similar to a huge puzzle that you have to find the pieces & precisely where they all belong & then eventually you’ll see the much bigger fuller puzzle.
It's sad that this preacher father is 10x more mature than my own dad.
I will never understand why so many religious people are judge mental about others. Really a profound scene of a son telling his father this is me and I’m not going to change because you want me to. That scene where they are beating a kid with a bible was horrific.
True. But also, is there anything that's happened in the last three years that you were judgemental about i.e. vaccines or mask wearing or mandates or anything else?
We may find we all have judgements, just on different things
Me neither. Personal I won't enrolled him in that group. It seem to cause more problems and would cause more harm then good. I could imagine the trauma those boys would be suffering. The instructors should have realised the harm they were causing them.
Just watched this. I wept. It’s a great movie. Let’s you see every perspective. Made my eyes open. Well made. ❤
Powerful film and story
What I like about this movie is none of the family are “bad” people. Yes terrible things were done and it’s important to know that it’s not always just bad parents/kids when bad circumstances happened. I’m glad the parents despite taking their time learnt and listened and accepted their unintentional harm and he accepted they thought they were doing the best for him but still put up boundaries to protect. For such a sad story the ending was good. This is what I consider that most people are doing the best they can with what they have. What people have/know might not be right but most people aren’t heartless just uneducated or unaware. Yes some bad people out there but I give people initially the benefit of the doubt they were doing that they thought was the best with what they had. It’s how they react after they are given the correct information that is more important in the long run for me.
I don't want to pretend anymore we don't need to spend time together we don't need to speak unless we're gonna talk to each other properly like you've done something's that have really hurt me like u never asked if there was more to my story at my college you never asked if i was okay. You were too focused on how it affected you and i don't know if we ever will
„And I have had to ask my self and god“ meaning „I have asked myself and the ego I created as a justification for the way I live“ - not bashing faith but that is what that is
Ironically, it seems Sykes was actually right about something the whole time
That I thought too I can’t change who I am this movie is amazing
No puede terminar asi 😢 hermosa película
Pride goethe before the fall. Love is the test. If you arrive in front of God's judgment having turned away from what you were taught was his "word", for love, then He would smile and say "you got it!" Love IS "the word". Love your Son.
I wonder if Christopher Leonard feels this way about his father, Bruce
I am watching this movie on MAX CHANNEL
What a fine actor Crowe has become.
He's always been good
Bro crowes been a great actor since the early 90s
Every person on this planet should watch this movie. It is better than Titanic!!
Different genres. Different messages. Don't bring this movie into this, or try to compare.
LMMFGDAO Why not?
Así termina no puede ser
Talk before you act.
The father? Definitely. He's the bad guy.
@@luxitos2867 he’s not a bad guy, people aren’t that black and white.
@Unqualifiedmedicalperson Fine. He's a person who committed a horrific act.
Is this Happy Ending
The “I won’t be a grandparent” is absurd to me. Adoption, surrogacy, etc. I know I plan on never having biological children because my genetics are not too great. Whether or not the child is your’s by blood does not make you anymore of a parent then if they aren’t genetically related.
Did his mother divorce the father?
Nope, they’re still married
"The fact that I may never be a grand parent now!" What a terrible father.
Afraid of "not being a grandparent"? Must your grandchildren come from your own son/daughter? In an America of 2021? U cannot adopt?
I don’t understand something did Jared go on to date his rapist? Who was that man at the ending he was kissing all up on? His boyfriend who looks exactly like his College dorm mate?
02:16 I wish it could be so easy to tell this to my homophobic parents...
Stay strong ! And don't come out until you feel ready, and possibly until you are independent.
In a historical and inter-cultural perspective the rejection and condemnation of homosexuals is not the exception but the rule. That's the problem. Those religious groups are only extreme examples of a common attitude.
I watched this on Netflix last night....couldn't stand Crowe's character and I never once saw his POV. He was a world class creep - more interested in his son's sexuality than he was his character as a young man. These bible thumpers truly turn my stomach.
Well I am asexual so
I can't believe this boy erased himself and tried to blame others. 🤪
he could have stepped up to the plate, but he erased himself. 😲
Hum... what ? He erased himself out of religious pressure. When you're a kid and your whole world is your parents, you can't blame the kid for going along and then blaming them when it didn't work.
As a Christian I would naturally think that other sexualities aren't right.
But I respect that and wouldn't hate those sexualities through actions nor words.
I'd do nothing to show my respect.
I'd just focus on following what god has for me instead of focusing on others.
But by posting this comment you are already disrespecting other sexualities.
And you're not right.
Adum was right. Lucas is honestly not a very good actor. I think yall are a bit washed because of what's he acting, not how he acts lol
luke hedges is absolutely terrible. he took a great ending seen like this and completely drove it into the ground with his awful acting
Ok
Do you mean “scene”
Tyler Ngo r.i.p. yeah i did
Stfu this is such a cliche method to hate on someone. *logs onto two different accounts to comment on the same video* bruh u stupid af
I've seen far worse acting than this.
"My beliefs." What astonishing vanity. What remarkable self-pity.