My grandma told me not to marry a Blackman as a Chinese.

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  • @KINGKWESI
    @KINGKWESI  Рік тому +21

    Please subscribe, like and share this video for me.
    I truly appreciate your time on my channel.

    • @INSTRUMENTAL541
      @INSTRUMENTAL541 Рік тому

      The name of the soup is achu soup very delicious am from Cameroon too

    • @blcheah2672
      @blcheah2672 Рік тому

      We didn't see the husband who was presumably at work? There is another video series, Rose and Anzai (Ugandan Luo married to a Chinese). I find Rose's marriage a lot more interesting
      Many mixed marriages including this one, can work simply because the husband is a prosperous businessman who can support his wife to home school 3 kids. Husband is a financial supporter, not always present. Like she praises Mr. Dadaliya for his 'patience', but it could also mean there are potential frictions smoothed over because he was patient.
      I find Rose's marriage a lot more interesting because of the way she has integrated into a rural Chinese village. Despite the huge physical difference between her and the community, Rose is literally just a Chinese with different physical features. The family is clearly below average income, peasants, but you can sense that everyone is happy - I mean not just Rose and her husband and child, but the entire community around them. The sense of integration is automatic and complete - husband, wife and people around them are mutually supportive and no sense of frictions requiring patience to overcome.
      King Kwesi I think there should not be an assumption that a remote village is less accepting than a city. In a remote village there might be less 'struggles' with acceptance once the newcomer shows willingness and ability to integrate.

    • @holybutterfly8495
      @holybutterfly8495 Рік тому

      Can you have a citizen if you live in China ?
      How about if your children was born in China can they get a citizen or not ?
      Can you please reply ?

  • @japeri171
    @japeri171 Рік тому +48

    This woman is the pillar of a happy and mentally healthy family.I think her relatives will realize that she made the right choice.

  • @peggystoutemorin4529
    @peggystoutemorin4529 2 роки тому +209

    He picked an amazing woman to be the mother of his children. The only barriers to love are the artificial ones that humans put in place. Enjoy your lives.

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 Рік тому +2

      The first one surely not his

    • @auntyp2980
      @auntyp2980 Рік тому +1

      Correct

    • @auntyp2980
      @auntyp2980 Рік тому +4

      ​@@sakurakou2009mind your beeswax it's not your life

  • @mmsmart1014
    @mmsmart1014 2 роки тому +53

    The mom is so intelligent, and humble person love this interview. Handsome boys wish them well in life.

  • @Didmasela
    @Didmasela 2 роки тому +314

    I really like when Dadaliya said "My Marriage is my personal life" and therefore she does not matter whether her parents and relatives disapprove it. I like Dadaliya very much, and wish her and my African brother from Cameroon all the best. Love has no colour, no race and no boundary because you cannot see love, but can only feel and experience love.

    • @octaviaproctor4839
      @octaviaproctor4839 2 роки тому +2

      Egusie

    • @yvonnesinclair5244
      @yvonnesinclair5244 2 роки тому +9

      A beautiful story. People are more alike than different. She has the right attitude.

    • @IwasUnknownUser
      @IwasUnknownUser 2 роки тому +7

      marriage is never your personal life
      why don't she move to her husband's country to live her personal life?

    • @治强
      @治强 2 роки тому +8

      when people say life is personal choice not families. most probably he or she has made the wrong choice, especially in China, where our families play a big part in ones life.
      this is not a hollywood love drama, happiness ever after wil never exist wihtout the bless of his or her family especially in China.

    • @theresakriz3290
      @theresakriz3290 2 роки тому +8

      When u marry someone,u marry their whole family too.

  • @good2freelance1
    @good2freelance1 2 роки тому +106

    This chinese lady's answers are very logical and level headed. Thumbs up :)

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +10

      That’s right

    • @paulinemuthena6545
      @paulinemuthena6545 Рік тому +6

      The first child looks like pure Chinese.Straight hair and fairer skin.

    • @Ruebz_f30
      @Ruebz_f30 2 місяці тому

      The interviewer was clearly fishing for certain answers. Glad she held her ground and told it like it is.

  • @rhonda5056
    @rhonda5056 2 роки тому +61

    Once again, I must say, you are an excellent interviewer. You ask so many thought-provoking questions and questions that allows us to get to know the guest. This was a beautiful interview. I wish Ms. Dadaliya and her family much blessings.She is a very intelligent and kind woman. She has a beautiful spirit. Much blessings to you as well.

  • @Binga7686
    @Binga7686 2 роки тому +114

    Best ignore the people that just don’t get it. You will never change bigots or racist. You are connecting with real people in a world where there are many many different cultures, ethnicity and beliefs. We are grateful to you for showing us love of people.

    • @dalealfred3877
      @dalealfred3877 2 роки тому +5

      I am proud of these mixtures, it's a love

  • @babyfaceifill2726
    @babyfaceifill2726 2 роки тому +45

    Wow she is so understanding and I hope the very best for her and her family. There is much to be learnt from her in accepting both cultures. She did the right thing in homes schooling them. Outsiders can be very brutal as I have seen from watching these UA-cam videos of multicultural children in China. People have to respect each other and get over their own prejudices and racist behaviour towards other.
    She is confident and her children will benefit from that. May God give you strength to deal with obstacles that come to you.

    • @ruthwalker6984
      @ruthwalker6984 2 роки тому +4

      I heartily commend her for having the courage to make her own decisions. Love and respect!

  • @Anonymous------
    @Anonymous------ Рік тому +9

    Who she marries is her own personal business, nothing to do with other people. As long as she is happy and her husband loves her, that's that. Many people married people of same race aren't happy and divorce soon after.

  • @eladiailes5289
    @eladiailes5289 2 роки тому +23

    There is only one, and that is the Human Race.
    One day we'll get right.

  • @chatwithtisa
    @chatwithtisa 2 роки тому +136

    This a beautiful story, I hope the children will one day watch this video and feel proud about the story of their lives.
    Mom: I want 10 or 20 children
    Husband: Take a break ☺️
    I like how the home has been set up so well for home schooling.
    The hair touching I can completely relate to ☺️
    Hahaha building a Zoo in Africa and living with all the animals 😊
    The emphasis of learning about traditional medicines 🙌🏾✨
    Awesome interview ❤️

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +14

      This clearly shows you’ve watched and enjoyed this video.
      Thanks for your support 🤩🤩🤩

  • @Tra338
    @Tra338 Рік тому +6

    Wonderful interview! You’re such a fantastic and forward thinking mom! God bless you and your children!!

  • @newtonojok9720
    @newtonojok9720 2 роки тому +76

    Wow, another great sharing. Mrs. Dadaliya looks like a very happy person who knows what she wants, and she has got a beautiful happy family. Being the only child in her family, it's even more difficult to marry outside the country but she still pushed on with her heart desires, and her family finally blessed it. Stay blessed!

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +4

      She’s very open minded person and a strong woman

  • @carettamyers13
    @carettamyers13 Рік тому +30

    Mom is so likeable even over the platform. 🙂 Responses are well-thought out. Kudos to you and your husband. Handsome boys! Love from Jamaica.🇯🇲

  • @babyfaceifill2726
    @babyfaceifill2726 Рік тому +21

    Love her she is so strong and her children will grow up to be representative of loving and nurturing parents.

  • @donnadean8879
    @donnadean8879 2 роки тому +59

    Thank you for sharing your story. What a beautiful set up for home schooling. You put a lot of heart and thoughts into it. Your kids are raised beautifully! I hope people will learn to embrace diversity and respect all races.

  • @samsamson9021
    @samsamson9021 Рік тому +18

    Give thanks to her Chinese family for being so supportive of their marriage. Always try and understand each other. Word

  • @TriniRoyQuiReyes
    @TriniRoyQuiReyes 2 роки тому +5

    So glad I find, and joined this awesome Family . They've got beautiful talented family ,and lovely kids.

  • @barbamansaray4328
    @barbamansaray4328 Рік тому +6

    She has a beautiful heart, and one day she will realize it because it will show in her kids

    • @HouseOod
      @HouseOod Рік тому

      I think her money and her sincerity make her boys comfortable in china.

  • @catherineewani5949
    @catherineewani5949 2 роки тому +38

    She's just soooo sweet & kind may God bless her and her family.

  • @jigger_________8304
    @jigger_________8304 2 роки тому +32

    My brother l give you a thumbs up 👍🏿 for enlightening us what the real world is about. It also signifies that your tongue is your greatest weapon , much respect on your content

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +2

      Respect bro
      I appreciate your kind words and support

  • @sylviawilson8769
    @sylviawilson8769 Рік тому +13

    I really like this woman. She is very humble, honest, wise. She speaks from her heart. Her husband and children are very blessed to have her.
    God Bless your family.

  • @liliankimani9524
    @liliankimani9524 2 роки тому +30

    Kudos to you both (host and guest). All people are the same. It depends on their soul not the colour. Congratulations to Dadalya. There are good and bad people in every race, tribe, community, family etc. So you make happiness from inside you. Happiness doesn't come from outside.

  • @omarroberts5519
    @omarroberts5519 2 роки тому +11

    She is a really lovely lady 🇯🇲

  • @KAPAK108
    @KAPAK108 2 роки тому +68

    She is a fantastic and amazing mother

  • @yunusaminbari3060
    @yunusaminbari3060 2 роки тому +49

    This beautiful queen tiger mom is incredible smart and lovely, am pretty sure all her kids will grow up to lead this world to better place. Am Ghanaian married to Japanese living in New York and my wife did a great job to send our girls to great IVY league Uni. Cornell, Princeton and one of them was accepted in all including Harvard which she turned down for Stanford law. Keep your head up and you will be proud of your household and the choices you made to prove to the world everything possible if you believe in yourself.

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +2

      That’s great to know your wife made a great impact in the lives of your girls.

    • @yvesderival634
      @yvesderival634 2 роки тому +5

      I was not so lucky as you to marry a Caribbean selfish woman. Trust me, it makes a big difference to marry a smart and intelligent woman like this Chinese lady. Those types of women like her and your wife deserve a lot of respect from society.

  • @jeromee.crawford6044
    @jeromee.crawford6044 2 роки тому +38

    I enjoyed the interview but from 19 minutes to 21 minutes, the dad needs to do some educating to his kids on Africa in 2022. It’s not a “ZOO” that you need to prepare for. It’s not a “disease-infested” place that they need to start looking for medicine 💊 for. The lady is awesome 👍. Got nothing against her. But the ‘Dad’ needs to teach the kids properly about where he comes from. Despite the challenges, we have there. My thoughts, with love ❤️.

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +8

      That’s a great observation. I didn’t want to interrupt her flow.
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts 😍

    • @yvesderival634
      @yvesderival634 2 роки тому +11

      You are one hundred per cent correct. It seems to me he doesn't tell her anything about our beloved continent. I was not comfortable too about the zoo comment. nevertheless greetings from Jmaicaa.

    • @rhonda5056
      @rhonda5056 2 роки тому +4

      @@KINGKWESI thank you for not interrupting.

    • @Time4Peace
      @Time4Peace 2 роки тому +13

      There's another interpretation, a kinder one highlighting one of Africa's treasures. Africa is known for its animals. She could be saying that when they move to Africa, they could start a mini zoo of their own to know these animals better. What I learn from the interview is that this lady is a master teacher, constantly on a lookout on how to teach her children.
      As for teaching African herbs, the Africans, like the Chinese, have been culturally herbalists over generations. She immerse in African rich herbal culture just as she has taught her children Chinese herbs.
      So it's not looking down on Africans as backward. This lady is better than that, given her perceptive and enquiring mind.
      Of course, the questions why she want to start a zoo and teach about African herbs could be posed to her. That will clear all doubts.
      But I don't need to have those questions asked to be sure that she is too intelligent and inter-culturally immerse to have a narrow mindset.

    • @childofGodsKingdom
      @childofGodsKingdom 2 роки тому +4

      Agreed. Their knowledge of their fathers land MUST be broader than that- animals /zoos/ safari. etc .

  • @pinlink3825
    @pinlink3825 2 роки тому +41

    Excellent Mom (and by extension Dad) with an amazing perspective on education and society.

  • @fayyaznoor1962
    @fayyaznoor1962 2 роки тому +18

    A very intelligent woman

  • @aluskysystems1129
    @aluskysystems1129 Рік тому +10

    I think their father need to let them know Africa is not wild! I think he has failed for not taking them to Africa till date. I bet you they would always love to visit, no elsewhere they would be welcomed and loved most even their mother. Much love ❤️ to your lovely family.

  • @joelpayne1193
    @joelpayne1193 2 роки тому +7

    I think that they are brave and hopeful to stay together ❤

  • @joselu9023
    @joselu9023 2 роки тому +119

    Since I just started to follow your channel, I don’t know much about yourself, the star and presenter of the show. You always put your guests up and foremost and rightly so. Would you please give us your new listeners an idea of who you are ? Thank you so much for giving us a well balanced and always keen and respectful viewpoints.

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +19

      Right I will make a video about myself very soon.
      Thanks for watching my videos

    • @sshong1553
      @sshong1553 2 роки тому +3

      这个黑人不是记者。 他只是在获取有关中国人如何看待黑人的信息。 他在一段视频中说,有一天他在他的中国女性朋友家,她的父亲不喜欢他。 我评论说没有中国父母想要看起来像他的女婿。 然后他对我说坏话并阻止我发表评论。 这种人没有礼貌,没有个性,可能没有教养,没有尊重。 中国人应该避免和他说话,给他任何关于中国人和中国的信息。

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +41

      I think you’re a bitter person, you insulted my personality in my previous video. And here you’re again writing in Chinese thinking in wouldn’t understand.
      Yes I’m a black man and very proud of myself and how I look. As I stated to you before I’m married and not in any way interested in any form of relationship with any other person. Why are you judging people’s personality based on how they’ve decided to grow their hair or beard? There are nice Chinese and welcoming Chinese people and I can clearly say you’re not one of them.
      Stop being a bitter person cos it’s not good for your health. Have a good day.

    • @sshong1553
      @sshong1553 2 роки тому +2

      @@KINGKWESI I am not a bitter person and I was not judging you by your looks. I was just giving you an honest opinion about what Chinese parents look for in a son-in-law and you took it miserably and insulted me with your nasty comment! You said to this lady from South Africa that Chinese parents took their kids away as soon as your daughter got on a slide and even she was surprised to hear as she probably never seen or came across such thing with chinese parents. Chinese parents generally do not do that but they must have been frightened by you and thought in case their kids accidentally hurt your daughter, you might get into some kind of altercation with them which they do not want and that's why they did that to avoid any incident while your daughter was there. You are not in my shoes that know Chinese people well. When you use nasty words in your comments, you are considered a very disrespectful person by Chinese people and we have no respect for such people!

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +24

      @@sshong1553 do you have an idea of certain things we go through in China as Black people?
      Go back to your first comment and double read and think about it again if it's fair to pass that judgement over my personality.
      Like i said you're judgemental and a bitter person but i'm sending you love and positive energy.

  • @treeeasywayne9383
    @treeeasywayne9383 2 роки тому +24

    The lady in this interview did this subject justice...she talked so honest about everything; glad I listened in.

  • @thebeautiful9301
    @thebeautiful9301 Рік тому +15

    The way she talked about her husband was just priceless her voice carried honesty and purity❤

  • @whitneyrful
    @whitneyrful 2 роки тому +68

    Wow! This is an awesome home school setup for her kids. I wish her family many blessings. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @asheirhoda8909
    @asheirhoda8909 2 роки тому +27

    I am a Cameroonian and I love the way she calls the fufu and eru. The yellow soup she spoke about is called Achu soup and pounded cocoyams.

    • @br4478
      @br4478 Рік тому +1

      Lmao she said when she made her husband he give her he's bank account ? And never looses temper ? 😮😮 Awesomeness cameroonians are better men to none cameroonians women i see

  • @DARLINGDOMPREH
    @DARLINGDOMPREH 2 роки тому +68

    She’s a very smart and adorable woman. I love that she knows so much even “bitter leaf”🤣 amazing! These interviews are great King Kwesi.

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +2

      she knows much, 10 years of marriage!!!! thanks for the support maame

    • @yvesderival634
      @yvesderival634 2 роки тому +5

      Let me tell you something, I'm an African descent from Jamaica.Since I was young and now I'm in the late fifties, I have always been fascinated by the Chinese people. After listening to her, I wish that I could go back on time and have her as my baby mother.The level of intelligence she displays in this interview is just incredible.

    • @doreeneb
      @doreeneb 2 роки тому +4

      @@yvesderival634 baby mama...never wife. We need to get rid of this backwards thinking 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @yvesderival634
      @yvesderival634 2 роки тому +2

      @@doreeneb only thing I can tell you is my former wife doesn't want my daughter to visit my business that provides an allowance every month for the child. I know that Chinese women will do the opposite. It is just a matter of tradition.

  • @BarbDesautelsCalgaryRealEstate
    @BarbDesautelsCalgaryRealEstate Рік тому +10

    She is beautiful, I love that her parents are so open.

  • @MegaRanjee
    @MegaRanjee 2 роки тому +30

    Such a beautiful family! ❤️

  • @kristinheartknaan
    @kristinheartknaan Рік тому +15

    ♥️this woman and her deep understanding from her own personal experience. Wonderful interview! I loved seeing the home school she has made for her children! Her sons faces are full of light! May it shine for future multicultural and international relations for generations to come! Didahlia will herself become a grandmother of many someday! A very wise and loving one. She is obviously already an inspiration to her community. She, her children, and their father-her husband, whom I would have loved to hear from as well! 😊👍

  • @phionakatz
    @phionakatz 2 роки тому +21

    Wow. Thanks for sharing this story. Very insightful. Love breaks every barrier.

  • @mohamedbahaoudinesom7734
    @mohamedbahaoudinesom7734 Рік тому +14

    Dadaliya is a very fine soul from a blessed family. Listening to her explaining how her mother is proud of her lovely three grandchildren.
    Stay blessed!

  • @samsamson9021
    @samsamson9021 Рік тому +10

    A truly trailblazer.
    She's breaking every barrier. Good woman to have as a wife.

  • @CarlyzClozet
    @CarlyzClozet 2 роки тому +16

    Amazing courage!!! Your beautiful children will have that same courage! And they will be able to show love to all because of it ❤

  • @johnsoon756
    @johnsoon756 2 роки тому +14

    What a wonderful love story so beautiful . I hope more people will be like her strong and peace to the world. Cheer!

  • @truejustice2075
    @truejustice2075 Рік тому +10

    I don't know how I ran into this channel but I'm glad I did because with everything that's going on in the world is good to see people doing positive and good things and sharing their love without looking for something to benefit, I hope that she gets nothing but love and happiness in her life keep up the good videos.
    ✌️&❤️

  • @jenipherbisikwa321
    @jenipherbisikwa321 Рік тому +6

    She is a beautiful human being.

  • @patrickchong6579
    @patrickchong6579 2 роки тому +5

    Very interesting interview. Actually, intermarriages between Chinese and black people are not uncommon especially in Africa and South America. It's much less in China because there are not many black people there, I assume.

  • @sophieakot346
    @sophieakot346 2 роки тому +9

    U are a perfect mum sister👍👍u beat all cultural odds. Wish u more babies--two daughters 👏👏👏

  • @lailafiola7728
    @lailafiola7728 2 роки тому +7

    Lovely lady, just curious is the 1st child also her husbands biological child? He looks 100% asian.

    • @nocturnally879
      @nocturnally879 2 роки тому

      Not surprising , thicker dna of the mother...

  • @salmarufaidimmua6023
    @salmarufaidimmua6023 2 роки тому +13

    Mom, grandma and Son's are very beautiful... Leave happy and that's what family is about..

    • @sophieoliphant8817
      @sophieoliphant8817 2 роки тому

      This woman is very intelligent. She married for love. And she is Always going to be blessed. They are going to overcome all the unnecessary obstacles and

  • @joseph3036
    @joseph3036 2 роки тому +11

    She married 10 years ago, nowadays it's even rarer to find a Chinese woman who has the courage to date a black man, the racism has only gotten worse, unfortunately.

    • @rhonda5056
      @rhonda5056 2 роки тому +8

      But we who are of a good heart have to take a stand against hate and racism.

    • @simplica1
      @simplica1 2 роки тому +3

      I really doubt that. If anything Chinese women enjoy even more freedom nowadays than ever from the views of society, from family traditions etc. Interracial marriage is no longer unusual.

    • @Time4Peace
      @Time4Peace 2 роки тому

      Not true. It's inevitable that the more interaction there is, the more intercultural marriages there will be. There's nothing to worry about. Let others live the lives they want.

    • @jacobi509
      @jacobi509 2 роки тому

      @@Time4Peace I agree to let people live the lives they want. Unfortunately, most Chinese don't agree with that. Chinese culture is community-oriented, individualism is discouraged, every Chinese person has a lot of pressure to conform to societal norms. There are a lot of campaigns on Chinese social media to stop 'the blackinization of Chinese genes' as they call it.

    • @Time4Peace
      @Time4Peace 2 роки тому +3

      @@jacobi509 Most Chinese don't agree to intercultural marriages? Well, as you said, some do. So are most Chinese going to tell some Chinese who to love or not to love? That is not only difficult, it's wrong and racist.
      The Chinese, Japanese. Koreans, blacks, Jews had (still do) faced so much discrimination in the West for centuries. Now China has a chance to show the world it can do better. It can be a global leader not only in trade and investment but also in giving mutual respects to others. Isn't that what Confucian ethics are about? Isn't that what China's leaders have been reminding the West?
      As China globalizes, more Chinese will marry Europeans, Africans, Americans and other Asians. That's inevitable. In fact, it's good for China to have true multicultural people who can build strong cultural and business bridges between China and the world.
      Let's do our part to do the right thing and respect every human being for what he or she is.

  • @afrikanheritage99
    @afrikanheritage99 Рік тому +4

    Nice story, cute boys but one doesn’t look biracial. Mom is brilliant and eloquent. She knew about Okazi in Nigeria , wow.

  • @maricle100
    @maricle100 2 роки тому +25

    Amazing interview! You let people talk, explain and enlighten your followers with their stories, their experiences and jow they see future! What a thoughtful and inteligent woman she is! The way she set up the classroom, the topics she teaches them to make them acknowledge their cultures and the inspiration she gives them is really remarkable! Many schools would fight to have a teacher like her! Her parents gave her a very good education preparing her for the future to come! May her whole family have a wonderful and blessed life!
    Thank you so much for sharing this interview!

  • @adekunleadesoye7882
    @adekunleadesoye7882 Рік тому +5

    This lady made me love China. She is extremely open minded. She imbibed openness like the Westerners or europeans

  • @lilywu6208
    @lilywu6208 Рік тому +3

    The first son was from Chinese husband?he looks a pure Chinese boy

    • @catalinarossi
      @catalinarossi Рік тому

      It says three mixed children in the title which means he is most likely also mixed.. but who knows maybe he has a different father who is Chinese but not involved in his life 😮

    • @monacoofthebluepacific2571
      @monacoofthebluepacific2571 Рік тому

      The oldest boy is half white. She mentioned she lived in Canada for 3 years.

  • @tudormiller887
    @tudormiller887 2 роки тому +3

    😍 Watching from London UK 🇬🇧

  • @cryptocurrencyangel1620
    @cryptocurrencyangel1620 Рік тому +2

    Kwesi, ur interview is superb...yu get 100% score from me. Chinese origins is African and carries Afrikan DNA, but the amazing thing is why this part of their history never is taught in tertiary institutions, as well as early childhood education. Top geneticists and scientists in their quest to prove the uniqueness of the Chinese unexpectedly ended with irrefutable scientific proof that they actually were Africans. There were and are still Africoid type Chinese in China... ua-cam.com/video/8oy_XT4JDLU/v-deo.html and also... ua-cam.com/video/Xhbrtc4Zf6o/v-deo.html

  • @jeandedieubangui2617
    @jeandedieubangui2617 Рік тому +8

    Very smart young woman and really open-minded. Tell your husband the break is over. Africa needs babies.

  • @anacarpenter9254
    @anacarpenter9254 Рік тому +5

    What a beautiful natured woman 👩 I've enjoyed this interview very much. Handsome husband healthy children.

  • @natashalawes6038
    @natashalawes6038 Рік тому +4

    Parents should allow their grown up children to decide who they want to spend their life with or not. You do not own your children. Be kind

  • @HouseOod
    @HouseOod Рік тому +3

    Guys. I dont think u realize that an heiress chose to marry an african just bcuz.

  • @level1selamat155
    @level1selamat155 2 роки тому +12

    Beautiful kids.. bless you

  • @brodwellington1626
    @brodwellington1626 2 роки тому +6

    Thanks bro this lady is very smart, one could tell that she has been exposed or she has international perspective on life. Lovely kids too.

  • @goddy2029
    @goddy2029 Рік тому +6

    What is clear is family support. When your parents love you genuinely, they will love your family of procreation.

  • @heidiw3615
    @heidiw3615 2 роки тому +43

    I can't imagine the experience of being Black in China. I am Chinese and I know how racist and xenophobic many Chinese are, it is truly horrifying! Not just being Black but also associating yourself (if you're Chinese) with Black people especially in dating or marriage sense. It is really brave for you guys!

    • @jacobi509
      @jacobi509 2 роки тому +4

      And they think they can become a world leader while being extremely racist and xenophobic? The irony.

    • @wgxt3798
      @wgxt3798 2 роки тому +5

      go visit Japan, HK or the west to experience being a Chinese Mainlander

    • @heidiw3615
      @heidiw3615 2 роки тому +3

      @@wgxt3798 I am in the west and I have been to Japan and HK. I love them all. What's your point?

    • @wgxt3798
      @wgxt3798 2 роки тому +5

      @@heidiw3615 I am Chinese and i know how racist and xenophobic many asian or westerners or arabic or black people are. You can feel their love and their centimetres. Some can encounter hostility’s. You cannot generalising

    • @heidiw3615
      @heidiw3615 2 роки тому +5

      @@wgxt3798 I am not generalizing. I am only comparing what I saw... Ask your family what if you marry a black person and see what they think. I know my parents would kill me if I do. Many westerns couldn't care less, because it's just a norm and generally accepted.

  • @simplica1
    @simplica1 2 роки тому +10

    Super interesting family. Beautiful kids!

  • @alonsobrazzel3011
    @alonsobrazzel3011 2 роки тому +5

    👍🇨🇳Good thing you went with your gut feelings. Sometimes it is hard when you have to go against your parents because some parents disown their Children for Marrying from another race. Look at you now with 3 Beautiful Children. I live in Canada from Kenya married to a white Canadian. 🇨🇦☻🇰🇪

  • @josephineoffeibea5259
    @josephineoffeibea5259 2 роки тому +12

    Wow 🤩I love her home schooling idea👍

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +1

      Let’s adopt it 😍

  • @Sabrina_inchina
    @Sabrina_inchina Рік тому +3

    What an amazing interview. I loved this interview.

  • @penangrubbish7450
    @penangrubbish7450 2 роки тому +8

    Dadaliya, you are a great and lovely mother and woman. May God Bless You and Your Family.

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +1

      She has done incredibly well for her kids

  • @francesgovens6262
    @francesgovens6262 2 роки тому +4

    Peace and blessings, thank you for sharing your beautiful family and life journey. Wishing you and your family continuous love, happiness, joy, and prosperity. Ase’ 👑🌍🎍🎋🌹🌻❤️🖤🤎🦋🌺

  • @sandracole9898
    @sandracole9898 2 роки тому +5

    So, her first son does't appear to be bi racial. It looks like she had him prior to marrying an African.

    • @davec5153
      @davec5153 2 роки тому

      Unless her husbands a mug and she's passing him off as his son when he's not.

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 Рік тому

      @@davec5153 damn we have same mind, those kids will grow up with lot of confusion, the first kid wouldnt feel like he black enough and the second and third children will never be accepted as chinese, they will be out casted in both sides 🤷

    • @catalinarossi
      @catalinarossi Рік тому +1

      Agreed!

  • @salmarufaidimmua6023
    @salmarufaidimmua6023 2 роки тому +5

    Mom, grandma and Son's are very beautiful... Leave happy and that's what family is about..

  • @joeawk
    @joeawk 2 роки тому +6

    All the children have Chinese look with only one being mother dominant.

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 Рік тому

      Only the chinese eyes are dominant, the skin color is more dominant in the second and third child the first one look full chinese

  • @silentnight9655
    @silentnight9655 2 роки тому +4

    Better to have raised mixed kids in Africa so they won't have such a rough time growing up.

  • @asheirhoda8909
    @asheirhoda8909 2 роки тому +6

    Oh waow, am so happy Dadaliya has really has really learned a lot about Cameroon. She shouldn't be worried to visit Cameroon, they are welcoming and she and her kids will love it when they visits.

  • @juliannakaberovsky4545
    @juliannakaberovsky4545 Рік тому +6

    What a beautiful mother with beautiful kids!

  • @renesbbwi
    @renesbbwi Місяць тому +1

    I really love this woman's character. Thank you for making us discover her, because she has and will continue to change a lot of people's perception on interracial marriage and Chinese/black in particular. I wish them all a long and happy life.

  • @catherineewani5949
    @catherineewani5949 2 роки тому +4

    Hi new sub here good job you're are doing go go guy the sky isn't your limit. The name of the Cameroonian soup, palm oil with lime stone and pounded cocoyams is known as ACHU SOUP. Soooooo delicious

  • @estherese7427
    @estherese7427 Рік тому +2

    This is a very smart lady 👏 love you, u are welcome to Africa and the world 🌎 ❤ 💙 ♥

  • @roythurston7799
    @roythurston7799 Рік тому +8

    This was a great interview with great questions & honest answers . Her & her husband will raise strong confident boys with good life values. They are smart enough to watch who the children comes in contact with & the reactions. She also gave good positive advice to people in situations similar to her.

    • @HouseOod
      @HouseOod Рік тому

      It depends on what her wealth is whether her boys can then continue that wealth.

  • @evens1262
    @evens1262 2 роки тому +7

    Nice video. Hopefully you will interview the husband and the children

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому +1

      Surely I will do that soon

  • @Mmch2112
    @Mmch2112 2 роки тому +2

    You are blessed with beautiful children.

  • @yliuos
    @yliuos 2 роки тому +10

    What a lovely story. Thank you so much. Ms. Dadaliya is such a brave and beautiful lady.

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому

      thanks for watching

    • @shirleytarrant8851
      @shirleytarrant8851 2 роки тому

      People are aware of their own love and high emotions and who makes them happy and alive even if they are not from the same race or culture it is about freedom

  • @amandamuhammad3467
    @amandamuhammad3467 Рік тому +4

    Nothing like Mother! She is amazing
    🎉🙌🏾🎉

  • @blossomflowers2743
    @blossomflowers2743 2 роки тому +5

    God bless ur marriage 💑 and keep you all safe amen 🙏 🙌 ❤️ keep communicating with each other God bless 🙌

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому

      Thanks for the best wishes

  • @ijebu-london
    @ijebu-london Рік тому +4

    Great show. Would have been nice to have heard from the husband.

  • @blesseddc5093
    @blesseddc5093 2 роки тому +3

    Sure it is a personal choice but the extended family and your kids who dont have a say in the decision will be affected

  • @twostime
    @twostime 2 роки тому +27

    Fantastic interview, thank you so much, both of you :)

  • @ZumaRoc
    @ZumaRoc Рік тому +3

    Thank you Dadaliya for sharing your story. I saw this video on the internet and I was delighted. I love that part, "If I could I will have ten babies." I love your interview, it is educating.

  • @lawsonlaws6065
    @lawsonlaws6065 2 місяці тому +2

    When you listen to motivational speaker

  • @rosahacketts1668
    @rosahacketts1668 2 роки тому +21

    Marrying someone from a different racial group is hard as one side will object to the other side and visa versa within the family and then the added pressure outside the family unit. If I was to marry a white man and have children I would want to raise my children in the Caribbean and not in Europe . Nevertheless, you marry who you want but people need to realise it won't be easy.

    • @justdeb8190
      @justdeb8190 2 роки тому +7

      Yes we Caribbean people are very very accepting of cultures

    • @mannjones6267
      @mannjones6267 2 роки тому

      Indeed indeed they will take advantage of you

    • @blesseddc5093
      @blesseddc5093 2 роки тому +1

      Not easy and the whole family is affected in Asia.

    • @celianeher7637
      @celianeher7637 Рік тому +3

      That is true. My family has married into different races and culture. My grandmother was Irish, she had sixteen children whom married to Chinese, Indian, Dutch, South-African and Syrian. I am married to a German. Talking about doing my country motto, " Out of many ,one nation ".

  • @bertaseyeview9422
    @bertaseyeview9422 2 роки тому +5

    What a lovely and forceful woman. Homeschooling and everything, nice.

  • @mimizondi4295
    @mimizondi4295 2 роки тому +12

    I love the shift in your work... keep up the great work.. love to see it

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому

      Thanks Mimi
      Hopefully I meet you one day to share your experiences with us

    • @mimizondi4295
      @mimizondi4295 2 роки тому

      BLESSY'S WORLD definitely! I will visit your city soon, you can show me around

  • @maestroacademyclass
    @maestroacademyclass Рік тому +2

    The eldest do not look mixed at all genetic is magic 🧬 😂

  • @rogerijani-presi587
    @rogerijani-presi587 Рік тому +3

    Orange colour soup made with lime stone and palm oil is called “Achu”. A delicacy from the North West Region of Cameroon.

  • @akwasiboateng
    @akwasiboateng Рік тому +3

    Hahaha I Like That To Having More Kids Is Biblical God Bless You Mummy.

  • @SimplyRodah
    @SimplyRodah 2 роки тому +19

    I just love Dadaliya, She's a strong woman.

    • @KINGKWESI
      @KINGKWESI  2 роки тому

      True definition of a strong woman

    • @asaasare220
      @asaasare220 2 роки тому

      u are strong too.. U introduced me to Dadaliya