My Family Rejected Me Because I Married An African Man|| Black in China || Part 1

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  • @Yuppers20
    @Yuppers20 Рік тому +119

    I pray that there’s no more discrimination, racism & hate whatever nationality we are into. Respect & love for each other!🙏🏻❤️

    • @winson-vu8kz
      @winson-vu8kz Рік тому

      This is not about racism. This is about "genetic continuity" in China. Even if he is a rich white guy, her parents will still not accept him.

    • @afrkleaks4991
      @afrkleaks4991 Рік тому +1

      Jeppe love has no borders line that being said african making politic with china or west i am opposed to that because nothing good will come out there for African but about love if chinese woman love African 100% that you are more than welcome , love is love, i am black African European i saw chinese in Europe i always look at them not with hate but love not all Chinese i love but i have not hate like racism in my mind and black people don't just hate people like that.

    • @JoseGarcia-qb1qu
      @JoseGarcia-qb1qu Рік тому

      Only under God's kingdom.

    • @jamesmathebula2323
      @jamesmathebula2323 Рік тому

      Not in real world
      Racism will not end anytime soon for as long as parents continue to brainwash their children

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 Рік тому

      To be fair, there are more men in China than women. The gender imbalance is not helping either. Funny no one talk about this and immediatly assumed it's racism, smh.

  • @KINGKWESI
    @KINGKWESI 2 роки тому +34

    I love people who are persistent and chose to be with the love of their life.
    Great story

    • @kingasare3137
      @kingasare3137  2 роки тому

      Yes Persistence is the key ! That’s the power of love . You would have to be persistent to make it successful. Thanks for watching bro

  • @betrihaki3884
    @betrihaki3884 Рік тому +5

    5:49 we need more people like you, people with good heart.
    You are an African sister and Chinese, no doubt about that.
    God bless you because you are a pure hearted human.
    SELAM to you from ERITREA ASMARA

  • @patriciajohnson4393
    @patriciajohnson4393 Рік тому +12

    Thank you for sharing this. So proud of this woman for being true to her self and living bravely.
    What a beautiful child and faithful husband. ❤

  • @kojofilms
    @kojofilms 2 роки тому +91

    Wow.. this is a beautiful story. It’s good to know how interracial marriage looks like. I like the fact that she was persistent to be with him considering him being a good man and not where he comes from. May God bless them with happiness 🙏🏿

    • @kingasare3137
      @kingasare3137  2 роки тому +14

      Where there is true love, racism can’t survive . She’s got a very beautiful story with her African husband

  • @felnluvwithyou505
    @felnluvwithyou505 Рік тому +22

    He has a great character and it earn him the respect he deserved.

  • @shereem3291
    @shereem3291 Рік тому +7

    You must tell your daughter to ignore people telling her about color because people are ignorant ,continue spreading LOVE

  • @nsambastevennickel6186
    @nsambastevennickel6186 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for not discriminating dear I also wanted to marry a foreigner, I'm black African from uganda single and searching for a serious woman.

  • @dorcielngonda4537
    @dorcielngonda4537 Рік тому +3

    Great video. I hope that couple stays together for many more years. Big challenges will bring them together as a family.

  • @timfoinc.6879
    @timfoinc.6879 Рік тому +3

    This lady is strong as rock mountain Buddha statue. I respect her deeply. Her daughter looks cute & smart to overcome any obstacles!!

  • @vidaessel1534
    @vidaessel1534 2 роки тому +10

    Such a beautiful love story... Great job done .

  • @patrickjensen5602
    @patrickjensen5602 Рік тому +18

    Let me say this here and now: being rejected by your family is one of the greatest blessings ever, only if you're independent and strong enough to live without them, you'll be so happy they rejected you.

    • @sharoneastwood.1025
      @sharoneastwood.1025 Рік тому +2

      💯🙏🤗 YESSSS ITS THEIR LOSS.

    • @balnac
      @balnac Рік тому

      Bullshut i would never leave my 2 brothers and parents for anyone. How you cucks think otherwise I don't understand.

  • @annejecop2892
    @annejecop2892 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful story ❤️ blessings to you and your family.

  • @Toneclark-kk6kt
    @Toneclark-kk6kt Рік тому +1

    its sad in 2023 we are still having these conversation seems a bit old school lol good for them moving on

  • @techwork...
    @techwork... Рік тому +12

    Love conquers all things....
    One love keep us together 💝💝💝...

  • @Adm9464
    @Adm9464 Рік тому +47

    No one cares what your parents think. You are an adult who can make his/her decisions. It’s always great to do what’s right for you not what others think . One thing I am requesting from the brother who married this woman please respect and support her to the best till death. It’s not right someone to lose the support of their family and not get the support of their spouse. So cherish, love and give all you have to this courageous woman who sacrificed for you.

    • @slashsaussier
      @slashsaussier Рік тому +1

      U don’t know what ur talking abt , in china family means everything,and parents means a lot for the kids, that’s the culture there ,so don’t come here and try to give lecons. She did chose her man and that’s all matter for her I guess.

    • @Adm9464
      @Adm9464 Рік тому

      @@slashsaussier keep your racist culture to your self , if you guys are that biased , others will do the same friend

    • @bjmt1585
      @bjmt1585 Рік тому

      Easy said than done. Culture plays a huge part in most Chinese families where most females don't have a voice of themselves. It's sad in many ways, and it's a living proof that some families and cultures will never consider women's feelings, opinions, and own choices. They don't realize and refuse to accept how their ways of life can impact women. Lack of education and upstanding is the problem here. But I'm clad this woman stood tall for herself and strong enough to think of herself first than anything or anyone else. Good on her

    • @yvonneachieng6742
      @yvonneachieng6742 Рік тому +1

      Very true. She has created a family with her husband and children. This is her new nuclear family. She deserves all the support from him and his wider family. It is such a pity that her parents are losing the relationship with her nuclear family.

    • @slashsaussier
      @slashsaussier Рік тому

      @@yvonneachieng6742 what u mean by Nuclear family? Stop saying non sens sh…..t

  • @larissastalczynski7813
    @larissastalczynski7813 Рік тому +2

    Great conversation King Asare.
    First time on your channel and I love it!!❤

  • @babyghost78
    @babyghost78 Рік тому +70

    I don't care who you married to your kid is freaking beautiful

  • @taff_2024
    @taff_2024 Рік тому +5

    What a great love story. I appreaciate the commitment level from both of them. If you are commited enough for your love, you will have a successful and nice marriage. May God bless this family.

  • @teresajorge5533
    @teresajorge5533 Рік тому +6

    You have proved your parents that you married a good man. You have a beautiful family so you should cherish your husband and children ❤

  • @margaretimukuka3326
    @margaretimukuka3326 Рік тому +11

    Indeed true love matters. After all God created us as one despite race. We all one in God's sight

  • @everyonesview
    @everyonesview Рік тому +7

    Such a beautiful love story. Love conquers all, indeed.

  • @joelpayne1193
    @joelpayne1193 2 роки тому +20

    Man, this china lady is nice and makes interesting chat about love and family 👪 I can't understand why her parents were against her married. I believe love can overcome racism ✨❤

    • @celianeher7637
      @celianeher7637 Рік тому

      As someone in the very same situation I can understand it but done condone it. For some parents it is the fear that their children would suffer and that their children in turn.

    • @nmg1909
      @nmg1909 Рік тому

      The problem is the father is too tight on his custom and not willing to have a transracial family. It could also be the racist sentiment.

  • @jabaltariq4606
    @jabaltariq4606 Рік тому +1

    I would love to see the day when a Black family kicks out a member for marrying someone of a different race

  • @wahiawabound808
    @wahiawabound808 Рік тому +61

    I really love this story im filipino black and yes older generation usually prefer marriage within the same race especially Chinese, Japanese, Korean, but that's why it's really important for more Africans go to Asian countries and mingle and gain their trust most of the older generations look at blacks bad because of the movies they see on television and myths. I really appreciate all my African brothers for going to those countries and treating them with love and respect I want to marry an Asian woman one day.

    • @jlau979
      @jlau979 Рік тому +1

      People are so dam dumb to judge a whole race of people by watching some stupid movie. They just hate Black people because of the color of their skin. I don't know why they think their skin looks any better.

    • @wahiawabound808
      @wahiawabound808 Рік тому

      @@jlau979 yeah true that I guess another thing that plays an important role is the history with the whole blacks are only good for being slaves so older generation tend to follow the trend then comes gangs sex and drugs which they see on television so automatically it puts a mark on blacks it's a sad sight but that's what was fed to the world.

    • @wahiawabound808
      @wahiawabound808 Рік тому +2

      Yes true I appreciate & respect your comment🙏🏽

    • @Flower-ck2bs
      @Flower-ck2bs Рік тому +8

      Why asian? This about a true love. It is not for sale. You can find a sincere woman in all races. Anyway still to see mixed couples is something still so different in many people eyes. For me both the mixtures accross races are beautiful and the mixture within the same race too.

    • @wahiawabound808
      @wahiawabound808 Рік тому +5

      @@Flower-ck2bs if you read my comment again it states why. It's about Asians trusting blacks and that we're not bad like how media and television puts us out to be. It's really not about love It's about trust.

  • @yohaneaboagye8986
    @yohaneaboagye8986 Рік тому +1

    A must watch interview. Great work brother

  • @paulinbill1568
    @paulinbill1568 Рік тому +2

    A great experience, wow they made a beautiful family: What a cute daughter…..!!

  • @MyConfession__
    @MyConfession__ Рік тому +14

    Gracious words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.
    Proverbs 16:24 ESV

  • @akuaserwaa2526
    @akuaserwaa2526 2 роки тому +5

    Absolutely amazing!!!!👐🏻🙌🏻..keep up the good work dear

  • @ackack9419
    @ackack9419 Рік тому +7

    What a lucky couple 😊. May our Creator and ancestors bless you.

  • @imjunyd686
    @imjunyd686 Рік тому +6

    Your daughter is beautiful!

  • @jklmnoqr
    @jklmnoqr Рік тому +1

    🌺💐Their daughter is beautiful! What a beautiful love story. It definitely was meant to be. #1. They already had a lot in common.#2. They both are serious people. #3.They dated for 3 years, a very decent amount of time. I pray for the best for them.💝🌞🌺

  • @niiadjeteyedmundadjei5095
    @niiadjeteyedmundadjei5095 2 роки тому +3

    Welcome back Bro. Beautiful interview

    • @kingasare3137
      @kingasare3137  2 роки тому

      Thanks so so much for watching Mr.Adjei

  • @nafisaramjee403
    @nafisaramjee403 2 роки тому +12

    Wow it’s amazing how the Chinese culture works ..very educative video .. thank you for sharing this video !!! Thumbs up !!!

    • @kingasare3137
      @kingasare3137  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for watching this episode. Remember to each the next episode next week Saturday

  • @royal1tv464
    @royal1tv464 2 роки тому +8

    This is a very good enlightenment video King Asare . But next time , try to make the video longer enough . I like the fact she’s helping Chinese people to change the negative narratives Chinese people have about Black people. Well done King

    • @kingasare3137
      @kingasare3137  2 роки тому +1

      Ok , I will make it longer in the next episode. Thanks for watching

  • @comfortosunsami7780
    @comfortosunsami7780 Рік тому +2

    People should be able to marry whoever they love. She is a lovely, strong and determined woman. Their daughter is Beautiful and I wish her and her husband the best in life. ❤

  • @palokeyz2987
    @palokeyz2987 2 роки тому +4

    Very Educative.. Enjoyed everybit of it

  • @tochika3598
    @tochika3598 Рік тому +3

    This is a real mature Chinese woman very sincere lady

  • @willielee5253
    @willielee5253 Рік тому +1

    ❤God bless and be more blessed ❤

  • @citizenm9590
    @citizenm9590 Рік тому +7

    I'm Chinese and my dad said same thing to me aftrr he found out i was pregnant he came to apologize to me he said it was nothing but his insecurity. My kids are mixed look so beautiful and exotic my kids are tall and my son got my dad frames not skinny.

  • @margieescarsega2842
    @margieescarsega2842 Рік тому +11

    Love knows no color ❤

  • @KIRSTYVALENTYN
    @KIRSTYVALENTYN Рік тому +1

    Gd bless your family and may your love last so long for life

  • @eugenefreeman5590
    @eugenefreeman5590 2 роки тому +2

    That's nice ..I love watching you

  • @beatriceowusuachaw6210
    @beatriceowusuachaw6210 Рік тому +1

    Wonderful story

  • @ramishrambarran3998
    @ramishrambarran3998 Рік тому +2

    That is a wonderful, sensible woman !

  • @castrolee8189
    @castrolee8189 Рік тому +2

    Nice one there

  • @susankoroma3870
    @susankoroma3870 Рік тому +1

    Amazing I really love this story

  • @sikazwejerry4620
    @sikazwejerry4620 Рік тому +2

    Forgive them and move on. Making decisions in family settings is always difficult.

  • @DoreenNitusiima
    @DoreenNitusiima Рік тому +3

    Esther is beautiful. Lovely

  • @citizentvgh4935
    @citizentvgh4935 2 роки тому +34

    Love overrides everything.

  • @akumawuena1409
    @akumawuena1409 2 роки тому +3

    Awwww very touching story.

  • @lawsonlaws6065
    @lawsonlaws6065 5 місяців тому +1

    When you listen to motivational speaker

  • @jimcarroll7829
    @jimcarroll7829 Рік тому

    A man who loves you and a beautiful daughter......thats your family right there.please have a wonderful life.your previous family are the ones who are losing our if they never meet your child!!!!!

  • @jeanvillefittness1763
    @jeanvillefittness1763 Рік тому +3

    Beautiful story ❤

  • @thetruth8280
    @thetruth8280 Рік тому +2

    God Bless this Family

  • @Flower-ck2bs
    @Flower-ck2bs Рік тому +4

    Their daughter is beautiful🥰

  • @李珊-f2r
    @李珊-f2r 2 роки тому +6

    That’s a smart Chinese woman

  • @obiyaabridget3723
    @obiyaabridget3723 2 роки тому +4

    Waoow🤭😍Interesting

  • @ebenezerenyimbir1196
    @ebenezerenyimbir1196 2 роки тому +3

    Insightful Blood 😘😘

  • @kingtiger3058
    @kingtiger3058 Рік тому +3

    I'm Brazilian married to a Japanes, I have four beautiful, smart engineers girls. I had great in laws in Tokyo that I missed a lot because now they are with the Lord in heaven.

    • @kingasare3137
      @kingasare3137  Рік тому

      That’s a beautiful Story sir . However I’m very sorry for the demise of your in-laws . Indeed , they are resting with the Lord

  • @nsambastevennickel6186
    @nsambastevennickel6186 Рік тому

    Sounds good dear

  • @bellohadiza9414
    @bellohadiza9414 2 роки тому +3

    What a beautiful couple love is very good for everybody period.

  • @Roq-stone
    @Roq-stone Рік тому +3

    Grandchildren always kill the grandparents. Who can relate? If they have any hint of love in their hearts, the grandchildren will just melt them.

  • @loideblessing
    @loideblessing Рік тому

    Eish look to the very very beautiful daughter for them..is good blessings from above .

  • @TheRJRabbit23
    @TheRJRabbit23 Рік тому +1

    This is beautiful

  • @Cleobonny6
    @Cleobonny6 2 роки тому +2

    Man I got to know your Channel through Kojo King

  • @blacksinthephilippines9476
    @blacksinthephilippines9476 Рік тому

    What a beautiful story..
    That's why I also love sharing black experience in the Philippines.

  • @joethakidddhk83
    @joethakidddhk83 2 роки тому +1

    new subscriber...salute the brother for these videos

  • @laguerremanoucheca3911
    @laguerremanoucheca3911 Рік тому +1

    Wow!!!

  • @tellmeastory2323
    @tellmeastory2323 Рік тому +1

    It's good you followed your heart

  • @timfoinc.6879
    @timfoinc.6879 Рік тому +1

    I did not miss hearing he gave her his bank account. It is important raising family.

  • @Aunt-z8b
    @Aunt-z8b Рік тому +2

    God will
    Bless you

  • @RishiSingh-cf9iv
    @RishiSingh-cf9iv Рік тому +2

    Marry your own god create different races and man and woman. That’s why we have so much problem in the world today

  • @vonversace
    @vonversace Рік тому +1

    Idk how many times I hear this. It’s like they would prefer their love ones miserable with one of their own, instead of being genuinely happy with with another race, sad a lot of us do this.

  • @nsambastevennickel6186
    @nsambastevennickel6186 Рік тому

    Am happy for that dear 🙏

  • @jeandedieubangui2617
    @jeandedieubangui2617 Рік тому +9

    Respecting older people is the root of African Culture. What you husband is doing to his stepfamily is just natural to him. When you can understand African culture, you can love Africans.

    • @Flower-ck2bs
      @Flower-ck2bs Рік тому +1

      Not all africans. It is more common in Africa but it depends from person to person. Her husband is doing it because he loves his wife and respect her family.

  • @vvvccc8820
    @vvvccc8820 2 роки тому +1

    WOW!! .GOD BLESS YOU 🙌 🙌 🙌
    THE LOVE ❤️ IT'S VERY VERY IMPORTANT......
    NOT COLOR!!! LOVE ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @gideonlord-adem
    @gideonlord-adem Рік тому +33

    YES BLACK COLOUR IS NOT THE PROBLEM. IT IS THE MINDSETS

  • @tsegaberhane8690
    @tsegaberhane8690 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful family God bless you 🙏 ❤ 💖 ♥

  • @yvettebrown9126
    @yvettebrown9126 Рік тому +3

    Lovely woman.

  • @Lighted_Path
    @Lighted_Path Рік тому +5

    She was thinking he is responsible, good man/great with kids and she can make a life with him. Those were her first reason for dating and considering marriage. The basics

  • @conzellaamanda
    @conzellaamanda Рік тому +3

    I just wish I understood why people from other cultures from around the world look at us like we're less than dirt. If you aren't black plz don't come over here being dismissive & saying I'm playing the race card because I'm not. It's very painful. I'm a very proud black woman. Wouldn't want it any other way.

  • @Kof_Believer
    @Kof_Believer Рік тому +1

    Just subscribed

  • @ycamara9034
    @ycamara9034 Рік тому +2

    Bless

  • @李珊-f2r
    @李珊-f2r 2 роки тому +3

    I had a similar story with a Cameroonian man

  • @ghanankomotv8172
    @ghanankomotv8172 2 роки тому +4

    Welcome back King Asare ! I haven’t finished watching the video but I’m already enjoying it . She says she married her husband because he gave his bank account to her ! Is that the case in China ?

    • @kingasare3137
      @kingasare3137  2 роки тому +2

      I think each person has got his or her reason for marrying a partner. That’s probably hers. Lol 😂

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 2 роки тому

      in china women dont have rights , chinese men are bussiness minded they would never trust their women with their bank account

    • @Flower-ck2bs
      @Flower-ck2bs Рік тому

      It is about the trust. So did my father too. We are not chinese and we are from other part of this world. He gave the whole salary to my mother so she took care about bills, food costs, and other bacis costs for the family from a day they married until the old age. They lived a good life.

  • @jofreysinchenje1995
    @jofreysinchenje1995 Рік тому +2

    Great

  • @cedrickana9311
    @cedrickana9311 Рік тому

    Cameroon 🇨🇲 is number 1 🎉 welcome to Cameroon 🇨🇲

  • @martinkibet4074
    @martinkibet4074 2 роки тому +1

    I'm your new sub from Uganda, and you

  • @beatricemensah1817
    @beatricemensah1817 Рік тому

    Well come home my beautiful daughter in-law I'm a 73yrs old ghanaian and by the traditional you are my daughter in-law and I love you (RESPECT ALWAYS)AKWABA ❤❤❤❤

  • @ileenehewitt7132
    @ileenehewitt7132 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤ love comes from the heart

  • @agmcroom2374
    @agmcroom2374 Рік тому

    She has very beautiful personality

  • @piokasekende9214
    @piokasekende9214 Рік тому

    He is cute. Great choice🎉🎉🎉

  • @hasigh
    @hasigh 2 роки тому +2

    Interesting

  • @TheCritic101
    @TheCritic101 Рік тому

    Beautiful couple

  • @newtonpeart8573
    @newtonpeart8573 Рік тому

    What a sweet little girl

  • @lutigardfwamba8166
    @lutigardfwamba8166 Рік тому +1

    Lovely

  • @TheMightyKingzuru
    @TheMightyKingzuru Рік тому +1

    What a beautiful baby!!

  • @Roq-stone
    @Roq-stone Рік тому +5

    Respect was one of the African traits in history. We, as African descendants need to bring it back to the forefront of our lives and culture. I am not telling anyone to let themselves be trampled by anyone, use the intelligence with the respect. That was how the Africans traversed the world without sparking genocide and extending diplomatic relationships all over the globe. We need to get back there.

  • @itiamekimbui722
    @itiamekimbui722 Рік тому

    Wooow it's nice and exciting to see a black Chinese with camera eyes😂❤