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  • @EnimsLifeinJapan
    @EnimsLifeinJapan  9 місяців тому +180

    🥳NEW HEARTWARMING VIDEO...with my mom in Japan!
    👉 I made my mom speak Japanese to Japanese People: ua-cam.com/video/hvGRuNJF-dE/v-deo.htmlsi=i0G-HtS0UPk_Q8YH

    • @su2426
      @su2426 7 місяців тому +2

      貴女には明るい色の着物が良く似合います😊

    • @Butterballdoll
      @Butterballdoll 7 місяців тому +2

      You are soooo humble…. It sounds amazing and I love how sweet you are! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Raderade1-pt3om
      @Raderade1-pt3om 5 місяців тому +8

      Cultural appropriation is western concept that hardly anyone cares about in Asia at least in my country, people rather feel proud when others participate in our culture. We appropriate whatever we want here and not care about appropriation as it causes divisions and double standards. Western countries are so diverse yet people there tends to rather restrict esvhother from cultural exchange then what's the point of multiculturalism if u can't participate, embrace n enjoy eachother culture..

    • @autisticusmaximus9562
      @autisticusmaximus9562 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Raderade1-pt3omit’s mainly black Americans who cry cultural appropriation.
      We wuz kangz n sheeit

    • @platynowa
      @platynowa 4 місяці тому

      Cultural appropriation is leftist BS. Wear what you want.

  • @masudashizue777
    @masudashizue777 7 місяців тому +646

    As a 70-year-old Japanese person, I must say I have never thought of this topic before and have never seen a black person wearing a kimono or yukata before. I am all for it. Absolutely nothing wrong with keeping this worthy tradition alive.

    • @--99
      @--99 2 місяці тому +31

      I have never seen this as well but if they do it's because they admire the culture.

    • @deevinityplayfairpremium
      @deevinityplayfairpremium Місяць тому +10

      I do have seen a Japanese person with an Afro though. Keep the tradition alive!

    • @derricktalbot8846
      @derricktalbot8846 Місяць тому +2

      My first thought when I seen the inside of that kimono shop?
      "Can you use that to make a kilt?"
      I am positive creating a "cultural abomination" is much worse than appropriation :)
      but now the idea wont leave my head... which means the next Highland Games here will be much more colourful!

  • @GizmoDeTrini
    @GizmoDeTrini Рік тому +21622

    I find it so interesting that it’s always people who AREN’T from that country, that want to scream appropriation on their behalf. But then the locals are all like “oh we don’t mind! We love you experiencing our culture!” 😂😂

    • @EnimsLifeinJapan
      @EnimsLifeinJapan  Рік тому +3178

      Yup! I think people are just trying to find new ways on hating on other people by calling them appropriators, racist, sexist, etc., not realizing these words have completely different meanings. 🫠

    • @rubyrose7858
      @rubyrose7858 Рік тому +1052

      So true! When I put a photo of me wearing a furisode for my coming of age ceremony on the internet long ago, people who were hating on it were all non Japanese people 😂. and the ones who knew I was half Japanese also added that even if I'm half Japanese, I am still not allowed to wear one since I look full white 😂
      really sad how people have to hate and make every positive thing into a negative one. 😒

    • @_momosumomo
      @_momosumomo Рік тому +356

      It's even better than "we don't mind," it's "this is great!"

    • @day-goneknights4464
      @day-goneknights4464 Рік тому +247

      Sadghuru is right, problems originate from taking an identity. If everyone just identified as a child of the cosmos then we are all the same.

    • @makesmewannadie647
      @makesmewannadie647 Рік тому +255

      Just like avril lavignes music video for hello Kitty. Everyone was yelling at her saying shes racsist and the japanese LOVED it and absolutely adore her

  • @JapaneseBrit101
    @JapaneseBrit101 Рік тому +3447

    As a Japanese woman. I LOVE SEEING OTHER PEOPLE WEAR the KIMONO.
    She looks beautiful in her kimono!!!
    We encourage other people to visit Japan and experience our culture. Including Clothing, food and other tradition. ❤

    • @jpm83
      @jpm83 Рік тому +18

      How about nothern European man wearing fundoshi?😜

    • @mo5zy
      @mo5zy Рік тому +166

      ​@@jpm83We Japanese would be happy to see northern Western men wearing fundoshi.
      In Japan, we see white men wearing fundoshi and participating in traditional Japanese festivals. We Japanese are very happy to see them participating in Japanese festivals.

    • @gakidomo9561
      @gakidomo9561 Рік тому +24

      @@mo5zy How about Koreans wearing them? We don't mind as well! Hello comrade!

    • @Certified_Potat0
      @Certified_Potat0 Рік тому +17

      A kimono/ yukata are probably one of the best traditional clothing especially with the artwork

    • @mo5zy
      @mo5zy Рік тому +91

      @@gakidomo9561 We Japanese are happy to see Koreans wearing kimonos and fundoshi. The only thing we Japanese do not like is when foreigners make fun of traditional Japanese costumes or wear them in a disheveled manner, which makes us very uncomfortable.

  • @わんだふる-t7m
    @わんだふる-t7m 7 місяців тому +759

    Hello, I am Japanese. I am sorry if I have offended you unintentionally because I am using the translation function. I wanted to comment on your kimono because you look so nice in it. It suits you very well! It is like a kimono made for you.🥰
    We are happy that our country's culture is shared and enjoyed.
    Thank you for experiencing Japanese culture!❤

    • @Mynessly
      @Mynessly 4 місяці тому +44

      Hi I am turkish who's born and live In France. I love Japan and your beautiful culture. I would love to speak japanese.❤

    • @Sophie-vw5ol
      @Sophie-vw5ol 2 місяці тому +10

      It's a really good translation and appreciated comment. Have a nice day 🙏🏻

    • @GUERRILLAMANGAMUSICTV
      @GUERRILLAMANGAMUSICTV 2 місяці тому

      😊❤Domo arigato gozaimas Hanna no nippon. Aishiteru.

  • @ChitChatPattyCake
    @ChitChatPattyCake Рік тому +3894

    I am a woman of colour and I wore a kimono while in Japan for my friends wedding. I was plus sized at the time and got so many compliments! Everyone was thanking me for being respectful and loving their culture.

    • @shyviking
      @shyviking Рік тому +133

      As humans should act towards each other.
      I go to karate 2-3 a week.
      Do I approrpriate karate from the japanese?
      Did the japanese appropriate karate from the koreans and the chinese?
      "Cultural appropration" is a deeply divisive term, that should be - well - cancelled.

    • @BonkersClipsBlips
      @BonkersClipsBlips Рік тому

      Again Japanese people will always compliment you . Does not mean they mean it. They are not as direct as foreigners.

    • @moseslenana65
      @moseslenana65 Рік тому +4

      Aww

    • @gagaxueguzheng
      @gagaxueguzheng Рік тому +44

      ​@@shyviking True, it's such a bullshit term. Most things were developed on the basis of something that existed before. Building cars isn't cultural appropriation of German culture. And if a fashion brand uses a certain pattern that has been used before, then this is just normal.

    • @fantasywizard4831
      @fantasywizard4831 Рік тому

      Too bad black ppl don’t feel the same way about braids. It’s funny how they like to gatekeep stuff from their culture but then go to somewhere like Japan an dress in their cultural clothes. Bunch of hypocrites 😂

  • @BrettCaton
    @BrettCaton 9 місяців тому +2132

    Most people are happy when you share their culture, because it means you appreciate and respect it. Nobody wants their culture to be forgotten.

    • @Nothereforit174
      @Nothereforit174 9 місяців тому

      I was gonna insult you but I’ll try to be decent. We don’t need your whiteness to carry traditions and culture. People of color exist without or with you. If you stopped existing tomorrow, I wouldn’t go “damn who is gonna remember my culture?!”. You’re allowed to participate when it’s normalized and invited. Don’t create generalizations for your selfishness knowing you come from people who have in fact erased entire cultures with their insistence on being admitted and included, before then taking over and capitalizing off non western people including the Japanese who never recovered from forced cultural re education programs. We’d all like to be forgotten more by you if it means avoiding that

    • @Nothereforit174
      @Nothereforit174 9 місяців тому +5

      I’m just being honest, not mean, white insistence of participation can only be addressed so kindly though when you make habit of speaking over and for others

    • @theldun1
      @theldun1 8 місяців тому

      White people in the states get slammed for Appropriation constantly.

    • @hvyarms4496
      @hvyarms4496 8 місяців тому +23

      ​@Nothereforit174 I'm not white, dudes right. We like seeing our cultures around the US. That's what America is all about at least

    • @dazocat5566
      @dazocat5566 8 місяців тому +4

      This 💯🙏

  • @iyoihinma
    @iyoihinma Рік тому +2225

    I am Japanese.
    When I see people from other countries wearing kimono, I am happy.
    Since you have come all the way to Japan, I hope you will wear a kimono and experience its culture, no matter where you are from!
    Ignore silly opinions such as cultural theft, and just walk around proudly and happily!

    • @biale8719
      @biale8719 Рік тому +50

      That's right, I also think kimono is beautiful in any person💕🌸

    • @ZonnexNecton
      @ZonnexNecton Рік тому +40

      THANK YOU! As long as folks are cool with it and respecting culture, then that’s amazing.

    • @torahibiki
      @torahibiki Рік тому +3

      Know that you're a minority and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

    • @notmything6629
      @notmything6629 Рік тому

      Thank you for clarifying that. It's appreciation and appropriation. Americans just want to put the white guilt everywhere and now it spills over across over ethnicities and cultures..I am sick of this

    • @soniachristian3874
      @soniachristian3874 Рік тому +13

      Excatly 🔥🇳🇬🇬🇧I’m British Nigerian and lived in The Netherlands 🇳🇱 I identify more with the Dutch culture and Nigerian than British.

  • @MiciousDawn
    @MiciousDawn 8 місяців тому +162

    You live in Japan for years, speak the language, understand Japanese nonverbal communication, understand the culture.... I would say you're assimilating, not appropriating.

  • @EddVCR
    @EddVCR Рік тому +3258

    As a Japanese person, let me tell you and everybody that wearing kimonos isn’t cultural appropriation. Kimono literally translates to “something you wear,” and they’re just that; just clothes. There’s nothing sacred attached to them, so anyone who wants to should wear them freely!
    Wearing kimonos isn’t cultural appropriation, but rather cultural appreciation; it brings a smile to my face to see people from overseas appreciate my culture.
    You look so elegant and beautiful in kimono 😊🇺🇸🇯🇵

    • @zendraw3468
      @zendraw3468 Рік тому +9

      afaik kimonos are worn on specific festivals or celebrations or whatever and are not a typical wear. and the design of the kimono is unique and specific to the japanese culture. so tell me more how wearing a kimono is not a cultural apropriation, japanese person.
      and this video means nothing, people will aways be nice to hur simply becouse manners and japanese are famous for being nice no matter what. if she wants accurate resaults then she shuld make a poll availible to lets say 100k japanese at least, and lets see the resaults then.

    • @EddVCR
      @EddVCR Рік тому +439

      @@zendraw3468 Well, thanks for sharing things as far as you know. But I may know a wee bit more, seeing as how I’m … Japanese?
      Kimonos aren’t just worn for special occasions; there are plenty of people who wear kimono casually on a daily basis, and there are no rules that say you are only allowed to wear them for special occasions, though there are occasion-specific kimonos (kind of like how people wear all sort of dresses for daily use (summer dress, casual dress, etc.) but not wedding dresses.)
      Are you Japanese? I don’t know why you’re so angry about something that Japanese people are assuring isn’t offensive at all. If you’re suggesting that the voices of the Japanese people don’t matter because “we’re nice” and aren’t as important as yours, well that’s something I _do_ find offensive.

    • @zendraw3468
      @zendraw3468 Рік тому

      @@EddVCR you are not the japanese voice, same way im not my country`s voice, like i said, atleast 100k poll with japanese peple for a somewhat accurate statistic. and again, the kimono is not just a random made up dress. it has history and culture. same as an indian garb.
      maybe appreciate your culture more and dont be so accepting of western perversion. western people trying to act like japanese is cringe. and no im not japanese nor angry.

    • @simonebaker4915
      @simonebaker4915 Рік тому +115

      I truly appreciate your comments. I was born and raised in Brazil, and have been living in Canada for 10 years now. When I finally had the chance to visit Japan, I was so excited to wear a yukata! I felt so beautiful, and felt nothing less than pure joy and appreciation for Japan. For me, all this discussion about culture appropriation is ridiculous, especially when the person is motivated by such positive feelings towards another culture. ❤ Thank you for understanding!

    • @melissas4874
      @melissas4874 Рік тому

      @@zendraw3468 There is a UA-camr named Sora The Troll - he also confirms that the Japanese like it when people wear Kimono, talk about Manga, Anime etc since they are showing an effort to understand and enjoy Japanese culture. Everyone should be this way honestly, but in the U.S. we don't really have any one culture. You just sound like you hate Japanese people honestly.

  • @thebakagirl5293
    @thebakagirl5293 Рік тому +1032

    I actually appreciate the hairstylist for trying to do her hair. She could have just said “no I can’t”, but she tried it confidently and slayed.

    • @wednesday1899
      @wednesday1899 Рік тому +54

      Seriously her hair looks so good! I love the result 🌺

    • @kellharris2491
      @kellharris2491 Рік тому +27

      It looks so cool.

    • @SkyeAten
      @SkyeAten Рік тому +13

      Interesting because recently there was a vid on tik tok of a white hairdresser braiding a black girls hair and she did it so beautifully but she received SO much hate. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. This side of YT seems to be safe, but some areas of the internet are filled with very angry gate keepers...

    • @sansuusilly
      @sansuusilly 2 місяці тому

      @@SkyeAten "anti racist" racist white people on youtube shorts when a black woman isnt treated like stepped-on dog sh*t:

  • @dees21984
    @dees21984 Рік тому +2147

    If Japanese people don't think it's appropriation, then it's not appropriation. It's their culture so theirs is the only opinion that matters. People on the Internet love to be offended on behalf of others without actually knowing what those people think. And you are correct that most people do not understand the correct definition of cultural appropriation.

    • @fritziearago9518
      @fritziearago9518 Рік тому +20

      Logic left

    • @iikii5903
      @iikii5903 Рік тому

      Honestly the only people who are offended are those who even created the ideology that wearing other cultures are offensive. When in reality it’s not racism at all

    • @everythingisfine9988
      @everythingisfine9988 Рік тому

      I think cultural appropriation is total b******* therefore it is.

    • @nomorepancake88
      @nomorepancake88 Рік тому +71

      She did it right with respect. That is what matters. There are some young Japanese girls who doesn't seem to have any respect towards our own culture and they wear kimono in more exposed way (oiran) for a formal occasion such as seijin-shiki ceremony, we see that as a disgrace.

    • @thisisnotausernameXD
      @thisisnotausernameXD Рік тому +45

      I think there is a difference in the perceptions of people in their homeland and diaspora. I am Indian and I absolutely have nothing against people from other cultures wearing a bindi, even as a fashion statement. But my second generation Indian-American friend considers it appropriation because if she wore it in her small American town, she would not be treated well. So who knows how the Japanese diaspora may feel about the kimono being worn by a non-japanese person?

  • @liccalocca4172
    @liccalocca4172 5 місяців тому +109

    ほんとにほんとによくお似合いです!
    着物の柄と色があなたの肌や髪に合っていてとってもきれい!!
    道行く皆さんが思わず声を掛けちゃうのも頷けます🥰

  • @MsBrooklyn11232
    @MsBrooklyn11232 Рік тому +43833

    A lot of people are confused with the the words Cultural Appropriation. Cultural Appropriation is when a person who is from different culture takes from a specific culture such as traditional hairstyles, foods, traditional dances, traditional clothing etc and then renames it and says that they are the ones who invented and came up with it when they didn’t. A black woman wearing a Kimono is not cultural appropriation it is cultural appreciation. Please know the difference between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation!

  • @CathyGoesTo
    @CathyGoesTo Рік тому +2228

    As a Filipino, I feel honored when foreigners wear our traditional Barong Tagalog and appreciate its beauty. It a cultural pride we proudly share with the world.

    • @jadedseer
      @jadedseer Рік тому +29

      I just googled that after seeing your comment, and I have to say, it surprises me how similar the Barong is to our romanian "ie". At least for the male ones, the form and the embroidery is visually similar. Very nice!

    • @WalanGasigijtamrong
      @WalanGasigijtamrong Рік тому +18

      As a Thai, I, and most of my people, share your sentiments.

    • @jakeykun808
      @jakeykun808 Рік тому

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @whole_milkk
      @whole_milkk Рік тому +21

      Same for my country. As a Puerto Rican, I love seeing people dress up in the traditional Jíbaro attire. It’s gorgeous and should be appreciated by anyone (as long as it’s done respectfully ofc)

    • @matthewosterman9030
      @matthewosterman9030 Рік тому +7

      Cultural appropriations of clothing is a sham

  • @polka3310
    @polka3310 Рік тому +2058

    As a Japanese, I can only be happy to see such proper knowledge and respect for Japanese culture. If you ever come to Japan, do some research on various cultures and customs. I don't think it is plagiarism to touch the culture with respect in that way.Also, Kamakura is a nice place. Come and visit if you like.😊

    • @Alex-xb5hf
      @Alex-xb5hf Рік тому +24

      Thank you for your words.😊 Its good to know the opinion of a native person.

    • @malimania1615
      @malimania1615 Рік тому

      A lot of people don't know that Black people we're already in these countries ua-cam.com/video/rYcEC23tlPg/v-deo.html ⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️👀👀👀👁️👄👁️

    • @jakecowsert6185
      @jakecowsert6185 Рік тому

      I think most Americans want to go to Japan for the women lol

    • @jakecowsert6185
      @jakecowsert6185 Рік тому

      Specially I love Asian culture beautiful ppl

    • @TheArtDump
      @TheArtDump Рік тому +5

      ​@@jakecowsert6185 I think most americans want to go to Japan cuz they watch too much anime

  • @Mochi餅Mochi
    @Mochi餅Mochi 8 місяців тому +51

    日本人の私から見ても、着物も髪型も全て似合ってるし可愛い!🥰
    最近着物(浴衣)着てなかったから、久々に着たくなったな…😌👘

  • @Sha-Ne-Ru
    @Sha-Ne-Ru Рік тому +2286

    People learnt the word appropriation and ran with it, many don't know what it actually means.
    wearing traditional clothing in the country itself, where the money has gone directly to locals, is probably the top form of appreciation.

    • @cinnamonstar808
      @cinnamonstar808 Рік тому

      ALL HISTORY IS BLACK. Black people cant appropriate any culture they abandon.
      ok give them the Kimono ( which is EDO) not edo Japan Edo the real on in Nigeria. TAKE THE DRUMS BACK AND THEIR NIGERIA NAMES... because the real japan moved out when they moved in.

    • @markmower1746
      @markmower1746 Рік тому +128

      The real facts are,twenty years ago people didn't even care about this
      cultural appropriation crap.

    • @i-3137
      @i-3137 Рік тому +9

      so can we werar braids since you wear our dresses?

    • @CYBER_N0T
      @CYBER_N0T Рік тому +134

      @@i-3137 Yes. Wearing braids isn't cultural appropriation. It's only if you pretend you came up with the idea of braids or something

    • @firstofall21
      @firstofall21 Рік тому +38

      @@CYBER_N0T you mean came up with the idea of braid box and those specific kind of style right? Cos braids also used in many countries and ethnicity or race, some even look almost similar with corn row too.

  • @hkoizumi3134
    @hkoizumi3134 Рік тому +1691

    As a Japanese myself, when I see Gaijin try out our tradition, I feel nothing but joy and excitement. If they are willing to learn, I'd love to teach them. Afterall, sharing ideas is fundamentally a human thing.

    • @oogabooga5510
      @oogabooga5510 Рік тому +112

      True! Same here with Mexican culture. It only becomes a problem when others take from our cultures, and claim it as their own. Or use it to discriminate. But, it’s such a wonderful thing to share cultures! :)

    • @The_Gallowglass
      @The_Gallowglass Рік тому +16

      who you callin gaijin >:O

    • @The_Gallowglass
      @The_Gallowglass Рік тому +5

      @@user-zp3pt9zt6t Yeah the 99% of people who don't give a f@ck, because life is too short

    • @inatm7862
      @inatm7862 Рік тому +62

      @@The_Gallowglass
      Many old Japanese people think gaijin is just short version for “gaikokujin ・外国人 ・foreigner”.
      They never knew it's bad means.

    • @lamaisontokyo4696
      @lamaisontokyo4696 Рік тому +71

      @@inatm7862 Japanese language shortens everything. I’ve never felt any discomfort when designated as « Gaijin ». Pretending this word is meant to be offensive is Holywood made BS…

  • @mrsaagar7
    @mrsaagar7 Рік тому +1026

    Actually felt my eyes get a bit teary when so many people complimented you in under a minute. I'm Dutch but with Indian ethnicity and just thinking about how happy that must've made you feel makes me so happy. Great video, hair stylist did an incredible job too!

    • @robina.1456
      @robina.1456 Рік тому +11

      ME TOO IM HOLDING BACK TEARS LMAO

    • @newjnsbby
      @newjnsbby Рік тому +9

      felt the same way!! Was so nice to see such great reactions, warmed up my heart 🥰🥰🥰

    • @spacemanjaxen543
      @spacemanjaxen543 Рік тому

      woon je in nederland

  • @Madamoizillion
    @Madamoizillion Місяць тому +9

    3:44 That hairstyle is INCREDIBLE. The loc and braid combo is just absolutely stunning.

  • @Sourcreammm-q6s
    @Sourcreammm-q6s Рік тому +1383

    Here in Singapore, there's a day called racial harmony day where we are allowed to wear any traditional costumes to school to celebrate. My friend who was born in the UK but brought up in SG wore a kimono over (her mum's japanese) and she won best outfit. She looks Soo stunning in the kimono

    • @The_Truth-
      @The_Truth- Рік тому +19

      That’s beautiful.

    • @keribere244
      @keribere244 Рік тому +17

      I wish I could partake in those things but I basically have no culture 😅

    • @angynotangie6335
      @angynotangie6335 Рік тому +4

      Omg u from Singapore I'm from USA sadly but I LOVE Singapore so much y'all are the best I wanna retire there ヽ( ᐖゞ)

    • @allisonguthrie8257
      @allisonguthrie8257 Рік тому +29

      @@keribere244 every person, every country has culture. You might just not recognize yours because it’s hard to recognize culture from the inside. To you, your food, clothing, celebrations just seem like the normal way to do things, but they are your culture.

    • @mypreciousprincess88
      @mypreciousprincess88 Рік тому +2

      nice to see a fellow sgrean!! i agree that racial harmony day is really nice to be able to embrace one another’s cultures and wear our friend’s traditional costumes! tho there was an incident in my sec sch where the teachers banned a kimono for one of the classes when they wanted to present it for the fashion show competition for whatever reason idk (i think its cos its not one of the main races in sg) :(

  • @makotohosoi
    @makotohosoi Рік тому +975

    I'm hafu, born in Japan but lived the majority of my life in America. My looks favor my Italian half. Back home in Japan, no one bats an eye, but in America, people get up in arms about it. A lot of people that will call out "appropriation" are people not of that culture

    • @kingwolf9447
      @kingwolf9447 Рік тому +94

      The way the term is used seems to be a uniquely American or Western usage
      An incorrect usage for sure.

    • @tuseroni6085
      @tuseroni6085 Рік тому +1

      get up in arms about what? being mixed race?

    • @RobotTechHead
      @RobotTechHead Рік тому

      they don’t know that they’re mixed and they look more non-japanese than japanese.

    • @McDuck94
      @McDuck94 Рік тому +33

      Not western, just American really

    • @ambi3nttech
      @ambi3nttech Рік тому

      @@McDuck94 Bullshit. Most western countries are way more woke than America is.

  • @bianca8822
    @bianca8822 Місяць тому +2

    And JUST like that I am healed in 11 minutes. Thank you for that perspective. It’s easy to be defensive when you don’t speak the language. You are beautiful.

  • @overthecounterbeanie
    @overthecounterbeanie Рік тому +596

    It's really disgusting how some people take pleasure in insulting and demeaning others, because they think the internet affords anonymity. I'm so glad you are clapping back at your haters in the classiest way possible.

    • @rootedpen2
      @rootedpen2 Рік тому +9

      couldn't disagree more. I couldnt care less what loophole she's making with definitions and usages etc. By what appropriation means by majority of media users and "cancellers" she is indeed appropriating the culture by simply using it. just like many many others who simply just dress in styles of black or asian cultures harmlessly and are harassed for it. she should not be exempt just bcz she's not white. (im a brown middle eastern btw so no this is not a white rage vomit, im just not a fan of hypocrisy)
      the good reception and reaction she got doesnt show anything but the fact that the japanese people are more well-mannered and cultured than americans who shout and argue over everything (digitally or in person). if she'd done the same in her own country she would not have gotten a good reaction there.
      conclusion; as long as the silly appropriation fiasco exists she should expect those comments. if she has a problem with the term then she should stop using it for her own culture as well, and call out the ridiculousness of it altogether, not just separating herself from the notion just bcz she "knows better" than to call the clothes anything else but their names (like she said other do with other cultures).

    • @Saralightff
      @Saralightff Рік тому

      @@rootedpen2 Of course you are. Your not Japanese so shhhh. Don’t speak for us . This does come as white girl cries of Internet. You can rent them just like you rent movies. If she was white there will be nothing but silence. Since she black you quick to point out. Why do you insist in pointing fingers then actually learning?

    • @rootedpen2
      @rootedpen2 Рік тому +2

      @@Saralightff im referencing the Japanese people shown in this video so idk why ur getting heated, im not speaking for anyone im just stating their reaction shown here (AS IT WAS THE CREATOR'S INTENTION) so if u feel like someone is speaking for u u should actually call her out.
      im not caring about her being black and wearing kimono/yukata, I'm "pointing fingers" as u wrongly put, bcz she's being a hypocrite when she was faced with cultural appropriation comments. She stated her displease of others using her (black culture) other than back people themselves, but when she's wearing another's culture's traditional features it's studently okay?
      " If she was white there will be nothing but silence", no there wont be. many get harassed on internet for wearing anything but their own cultural attires.
      I'm against the use of term "cultural appropriation" altogether, as long as anyone is respectful toward the origin of that dress/hairstyle and loves it where is the harm in trying it. so im happy that she wore the kimono and liked it, but then she went on about others wearing black hairstyle and that's still appropriation and she doesnt like it. that's hypocrisy. if she has a problem with being called out, then she should stop calling others out too. regardless if she's black or not idc. i hope u get my point instead of being rude and jumpy.

    • @Johnithinuioian
      @Johnithinuioian Рік тому +2

      @@rootedpen2 Actually good argument

    • @shadowgl9
      @shadowgl9 Рік тому

      @@rootedpen2 her hypocrisy is out in the Open and it's only reinforcing her high demand for attention and arrogance. The Japanese hates the kind of behavior she demonstrates with vanity being in the forefront, because they are a respectable culture who hold manners and dignity above all else, of which she has none but pretends to be classy, honest and humble. She personifies the exact opposite of the positive cultural character traits that the Japanese cherish.

  • @ArnicaMachado
    @ArnicaMachado Рік тому +1011

    As an Indian, this makes me so happy. I also love to see foreigners wearing out traditional clothing. I don't think it's appropriation at all, but I just see it as them wanting to take part in the culture and be a part of the country they're visiting or living in. I remember a Dutch family visited my church and they wore Indian clothes and they looked really nice wearing them. My mum has friends from Tanzania and they gave her their traditional dress. It's not appropriation at all! It's appreciation and sharing 💖

    • @gonebynow5612
      @gonebynow5612 Рік тому +23

      In a similar vein I got a qipao from my mom's boss, who is Taiwanese. One of my sister's coworkers (not Taiwanese) told me I would be racist if I didn't get rid of it because I'm White.
      I did eventually donate it because I never wore it and had no room for it, but like... who am I going to listen to in that situation? The _not_ Taiwanese person calling me racist or the person who gave me a dress from _their own culture_ and _specifically wants me_ to have it?
      I'm not saying bad cultural appropriation doesn't exist but it's so much more nuanced than people make it out to be.

    • @ArnicaMachado
      @ArnicaMachado Рік тому +9

      @@gonebynow5612 That's true. But it's really sad that you didn't get to wear the qipao :(

    • @gonebynow5612
      @gonebynow5612 Рік тому +12

      @@ArnicaMachado If it means anything my mom's boss had me try it on to see if it would fit, and it was very pretty. :) Black with silver accents and flower print on it.

    • @ArnicaMachado
      @ArnicaMachado Рік тому +5

      @@gonebynow5612 That's great! It does seem very pretty ^^

    • @LottyDotty05
      @LottyDotty05 Рік тому +14

      I'm going to a traditional Indian wedding in May. My fiancé is the best man and we are excited to wear traditional clothes. I'm going as full at as I am allowed. I'm giving my all to embrace those 3 days of celebration because it will be a very rare event for me to attend, so I want to experience every bit! 😊

  • @thomaschristopherwhite9043
    @thomaschristopherwhite9043 10 місяців тому +1218

    Cultural Appropriation is such an alien concept to other countries. I'm from the Philippines and nothing makes me happier than other cultures wearing out clothes, singing our songs, cooking our food etc. Cultural Appropriation is the silliest thing I've ever heard of especially when it's almost 2024 and the entire world is connected to an insane degree.

    • @sollerona
      @sollerona 9 місяців тому +48

      cultural appropriation is essentially taking a part of someone's culture without acknowledging said culture

    • @YSD99999
      @YSD99999 9 місяців тому +49

      Cultural Appropriation is an alien concept to Russians too. I love seeing people enjoying our culture, clothes, food, etc…

    • @LegitimateW
      @LegitimateW 8 місяців тому +62

      @@sollerona it only applies in western countries because they make things more complicated 🙄🤣

    • @sollerona
      @sollerona 8 місяців тому +4

      @@LegitimateW eastern countries appropriate too

    • @Goochen
      @Goochen 8 місяців тому +50

      Agreed its a bizarre and ridiculous American twitter creation.

  • @joanna7573
    @joanna7573 5 місяців тому +13

    I would say you got those positive comments because you do actually look good in the kimono! and the women at the store put it on you properly!That was the vibe I got from the older ladies. And I can't believe how well the lady did your hair - beautiful.

  • @KateKohai
    @KateKohai Рік тому +842

    People really get appreciation mixed with appropriation & oftentimes shout appropriation in utter ignorance. She looks stunning and lives, works, speaks and very obviously appreciates the Japanese culture ❣️

    • @RecoveringChristian
      @RecoveringChristian Рік тому

      Lindsey Ellis explains it perfectly. This is ALL cultural appropriation. It's only a problem when it becomes cultural MISappropriation. I'm tired of this gen z appreciation bandwagon narrative.

    • @malimania1615
      @malimania1615 Рік тому

      A lot of people don't know that Black people we're already in these countries ua-cam.com/video/rYcEC23tlPg/v-deo.html ⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️👀👀👀👁️👄👁️

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 Рік тому

      Yep, like how some Asian countries make fake western products and brands to sell by the millions in markets across Asia. No culture is more appropriated than western culture. China is the biggest appropriator of the world.

    • @Ahrone1586
      @Ahrone1586 Рік тому +36

      The concept of culture appropriation is just stupid.

    • @superfreakmusic7681
      @superfreakmusic7681 Рік тому +6

      Yeah my bestie and I used to go to Southall in the UK which is a big area of Indian and Pakistani culture with a long high street lined with shops full of gorgeous clothes and jewellery. We would buy fabric, Indian skirts and and bindi's and wear them, and buy incense for our homes and ate lunch in the local hole in the wall place. We did this because we appreciated the culture and we treated everyone with respect. I never dreamed that one day I would be accused and judged for wearing an item of clothing from another culture because I thought it was beautiful. We should be able to share and appreciate each others cultures-if we hold on too tightly then it just created barriers. Shall we stop tourists from buying Scottish kilts for example?!

  • @oldgrannystan
    @oldgrannystan Рік тому +989

    I wore a kimono with a hijab while i was in Japan for my honeymoon. I could hear an excited couple talking about how interesting it was for them to see kimono being worn that way (i could understand japanese a little bit). It was honestly a wholesome experience

    • @pedrovieira8363
      @pedrovieira8363 Рік тому +54

      Woah, you got me curious about how it would look, so i googled it, it's gorgeous!

    • @juneseghni
      @juneseghni 8 місяців тому

      how does kimono fit with hijab thiough as it is so fitted to the body?

    • @bruhmoment-ov4sr
      @bruhmoment-ov4sr 8 місяців тому +4

      well kimono aren't really "fitted" they're supposed to be straight and flat, no they're not supposed to be a very curvy garment. Kimono usually cover most of the body and if worn properly, won't show curves of the body. Even a yukata, thin summer kimono, shouldn't be a curvy garment.@@juneseghni

  • @maiasm
    @maiasm Рік тому +611

    I’m a Black American, too, and visited Japan. In my experience, Japanese people were very excited when I was excited to learn about their culture and were very eager to show me different things.
    I think it’s all about respecting a culture and wanting engage with the people rather than just doing it for an aesthetic without care to learn.

    • @kirakishoushirobara2898
      @kirakishoushirobara2898 Рік тому +5

      Why is it cultural appropriation for a japanese person to wear locks but not for a black american to wear kimono tho? Both are using them just as an aesthetic at the end of the day.

    • @muava1487
      @muava1487 Рік тому +7

      @@kirakishoushirobara2898 How are they using them as an aesthetic?

    • @kirakishoushirobara2898
      @kirakishoushirobara2898 Рік тому +3

      @@muava1487 wdym? Why would a japanese person wear locks? Because they like how they look. And a black person may use a kimono because she likes how it looks. Nobody is concerned with the history and practical uses of them, its all because of how it impacts their physical appearance.

    • @aino-kaisav5504
      @aino-kaisav5504 Рік тому +4

      @@kirakishoushirobara2898 Do you know what is the historical use of kimono? To be worn. As an outfit. The word "kimono" literally means "a thing to wear", if you look at the kanjis the word is written with.

    • @kirakishoushirobara2898
      @kirakishoushirobara2898 Рік тому +1

      @@aino-kaisav5504 bro I study japanese as a third language. Of course I know what it means. So what is your point? Just because it serves the same use as a t shirt then you are saying is completely devoid of history and cultural ties to japan? Sorry, but no. Say that to a Japanese American if you want to hurt their feelings. It still doesnt matter. Its beautiful designs make it part of an aesthetic too even when religious patterns are used. Locks and braids which have been used by many cultures around the world also form part of an aesthetic regardless of their history and practical uses. The African immigrants in my country who make a living out of braiding non black people with straight hair obviously couldn't care less about non blacks using braids/locks. They just want to put food on the table while giving people nice looks. Let them be.

  • @mia4635
    @mia4635 7 місяців тому +7

    外国人が着物を着てると、日本の文化を愛してくれてる様で嬉しく思います。☺️日本人は、成人式には着物を着るのが一般的です。自分の結婚式に着る人も居るし、親族の結婚式にも着物です。人生に関わる一大イベントには着物で、お祭り等は気軽に着れる浴衣を着たりします。☺️男性は、祭りでもあまり浴衣は着ませんが、旅館に泊まった時に寝巻きで浴衣を着たりするぐらいですかね…。
    着物がとても似合ってて可愛かったです!。☺️❤

    • @EnimsLifeinJapan
      @EnimsLifeinJapan  7 місяців тому

      よかったです。ありがとうございます。😊

  • @kali18
    @kali18 Рік тому +1141

    I just want to say thank you so much for being a beautiful figure in Japan for black women. As a black woman myself I appreciate other cultures seeing our femininity because so many are fed lies about us (stereotypes) that is only a minority and not the majority of us. ❤ I am going to Japan 🇯🇵 this October because I have had a love for both Japanese traditional and pop culture since I was like 8. 🎉

    • @EnimsLifeinJapan
      @EnimsLifeinJapan  Рік тому +60

      Thank you so much! I appreciate your comment! I wish you safe travels on your way here!

    • @starloved6824
      @starloved6824 Рік тому +8

      That’s so cool! Have you been learning Japanese so that when you go you’re able to understand them more clearly?

    • @sleeperboi8701
      @sleeperboi8701 Рік тому

      @@starloved6824 Most likely not. These PoS Americans can't be bothered to study the country's language before going. Also funny how they said black women and not black people solely on excluding their men. Excellent display of American behaviour.

    • @Maria-oh1nq
      @Maria-oh1nq Рік тому

      Let me guess youre a black american woman, the insecurity is oosing right out of you

    • @generalnguyenngocloan1700
      @generalnguyenngocloan1700 Рік тому +3

      She would have looked more pretty in a solid baby blue or even a white kimono. I didn’t think the kimono she wore was nice for any woman. She’s so sweet anyway. 👘👀👍🏻

  • @matoto243
    @matoto243 Рік тому +568

    I am Japanese. It really suits you. Some people say that wearing a kimono abroad is cultural appropriation, but that is not true. If you don't claim kimono as your country's culture, it won't be cultural appropriation. Thank you for wearing the kimono❤❤

    • @thenonexistinghero
      @thenonexistinghero Рік тому

      The people using the word to insult generally don't even know what it means. It's just that one day a progressive decided to look in a dictionary for once and instead of looking for actual definitions, he found a new word to misuse and now all the progressive woke racists constantly use it.

    • @seranes_silence
      @seranes_silence Рік тому +10

      Especially if you’re wearing it correctly aka with the help of a professional! 💯

    • @armanithequeen25
      @armanithequeen25 Рік тому +4

      Right! And adding on to that, there’s African print kimonos. I’m a woman of African descent and I have a Japanese kimono and an African one.

    • @HomeTravelGardenInspo
      @HomeTravelGardenInspo Рік тому +1

      Minus the makeup that goes with it.

    • @zendraw3468
      @zendraw3468 Рік тому

      unless its cosplay or have some official function, like in martial arts, i dont see how is it not cultural apropriation.

  • @peyplay1636
    @peyplay1636 Рік тому +507

    I am very self-conscious and have really bad social anxiety, but this video just made me want to go out and wear clothing that I like and not care what others in my own area think

    • @sheilag.834
      @sheilag.834 Рік тому +30

      I was that way when I was young. Now that I am almost 60, I don't care anymore. They can not walk in your skin and breathe your breath. Find some time to enjoy your life. People who actually care about you will understand. Those who don't care about you, well, their opinion is bad gas.

    • @peyplay1636
      @peyplay1636 Рік тому +10

      @@sheilag.834 thank you, you are so sweet

    • @jd_jd_jd
      @jd_jd_jd Рік тому +8

      I agree with Sheila G... live your life for YOU. Be your own Super-Hero

    • @raphaellouisreyes6069
      @raphaellouisreyes6069 Рік тому +4

      Yes. Go out and celebrate whatever culture you desired to celebrate!

    • @Soravia
      @Soravia Рік тому

      Try wearing clothes, hair and accessories that black people do, and see what happens then.

  • @christinefraher
    @christinefraher Рік тому +1305

    I teared up seeing so many Japanese people praise and encourage you!! This is the Japan I grew up with and love. When I visited Tokyo this past winter (2022), it felt so much colder. Im going back for my cousin’s wedding in Meijijingumae in a few weeks and will be wearing a kimono then and was a little nervous as I know I dont look fully Japanese (im half). This was very encouraging and hopeful to watch. Thank you for making this video!

    • @cynbrown4349
      @cynbrown4349 Рік тому +23

      I think it's safe to say that any large city will be colder. NYC is going to be colder than Yonkers, Paris colder than Aubervilliers, etc.

    • @jama211
      @jama211 Рік тому +8

      @JannRozmanowski Why are you not?

    • @twxnk.5667
      @twxnk.5667 Рік тому

      @JannRozmanowskibro stfu let them cry

    • @Ash.3s
      @Ash.3s Рік тому +9

      ⁠​⁠@JanekRozmanowski Nostalgia? The op did say they grew up there and most likely moved away for whatever reason, so if anything, why *wouldn't* they cry over the memories they've made there?

    • @wither5673
      @wither5673 11 місяців тому +2

      big city's tend to be that way no matter the country.

  • @xXBAMitZJiLLXx
    @xXBAMitZJiLLXx Рік тому +622

    I was smiling ear-to-ear when all those people were complimenting you throughout, it was so refreshing and moving to see people love other peoples appreciation of their culture

    • @malimania1615
      @malimania1615 Рік тому

      A lot of people don't know that Black people we're already in these countries ua-cam.com/video/rYcEC23tlPg/v-deo.html ⬅️⬅️⬅️⬅️👀👀👀👁️👄👁️

    • @xFNikki
      @xFNikki Рік тому +8

      It was adorable they complimented one after another!!

    • @TexasCat99
      @TexasCat99 Рік тому

      Same here.

    • @MuSicBlock5774
      @MuSicBlock5774 Рік тому

      Yeah, me too, it was heartwarming

    • @markanthonywilliams4976
      @markanthonywilliams4976 Рік тому +1

      agree

  • @lisavan3595
    @lisavan3595 Рік тому +743

    As someone who’s Japanese and American, I can’t explain how important this video is!!! I get asked the same question (like “Is wearing Kimono appropriating the Japanese culture?”) so many times and was always so sad that someone felt the need to ask that question. Like, YES!! OF COURSE!!! The Japanese people absolutely LOVE foreigners having interest and appreciating our culture 🥰 🇯🇵
    Honestly, some people (especially Americans😅) are sometimes wayyyy too sensitive about cultural appropriation that many people can’t even tell the difference between cultural appreciation 😢

    • @hothotpot8596
      @hothotpot8596 Рік тому +30

      True true, it's sad people have to ask for something harmless
      like I once saw someone on youtube ask "is it appropriation if i use pencil/chopstick to make a hairbun"
      I was like, that's being practical when there is no hair tie, nothing about appropriating any culture

    • @arcueid980able
      @arcueid980able Рік тому +9

      Unnecessarily white Knighting things they have no business in, nor affecting them in any shape or form.

    • @tfyk5623
      @tfyk5623 Рік тому

      Japanese are arguable more racists than Americans

    • @jess.hawkins
      @jess.hawkins Рік тому +6

      It's a very annoying phenomenon for sure because sincerely partaking in some cultural practices of others can be a good way to be more connected with people of different backgrounds around you, and God knows we need more sharing and connectedness in our fractured societies right now, not some odd game of "am I allowed to do this if x"

    • @shandya
      @shandya Рік тому +5

      Asians who live in their origin country tend to have no problem with foreigners wearing their culture. Because we practice our culture in daily basis. We see our own people wearing our traditional clothes, speaks our own native language, etc.
      Meanwhile that does not happened to Asian (or any other PoC) in US, they have to stripped their identity to assimilate & living the (white) American way. That’s why they’re easier to be offended seeing foreigners wearing their culture, because they themselves doesn’t have much chance to do the same.

  • @scubathehun
    @scubathehun Місяць тому +2

    Been to Japan for the first time last year, all I had to do is try and be respectful, was treated so good it left a lasting impression. Not an expert but you wear that well , and look awesome.

  • @Thieves_woodchuck
    @Thieves_woodchuck Рік тому +179

    私は日本人です。他国の人が着物を着る事を日本人は誰も盗用だなんて思いません。むしろ日本の文化を楽しんでくれていると、みんな嬉しく感じてる筈です。
    日本人は気にしないのに、他国の人が文化盗用だと気にするのがすごく不思議😅

    • @jennifermorrey7378
      @jennifermorrey7378 10 місяців тому +19

      Wise words from a wise person. I wish westerners would understand that cultural appropriation is wrong and is just another way to say "I am a racist that doesn't want to be called a racist. We need more people like you.

    • @illegalxxx
      @illegalxxx 5 місяців тому

      ホントこれ、何着てもいいし楽しんでくれれば俺らも嬉しい
      外野が「日本人の怒り」のフリをして自分の意見を押し付ける方に怒ってるのに。

    • @the.stone__295
      @the.stone__295 5 місяців тому +25

      文化の盗用って言ってる人の感覚が全く理解できないよね、意味分かってその言葉を使ってるのかなって不思議に思う。
      起源主張してるわけでもないのに笑
      これが文化の盗用なら日本人は洋服着れないよ😂

    • @taktktk5240
      @taktktk5240 4 місяці тому +1

      自分等は真似されてもいいが、
      真似するのは盗用とは上からの奢り傲慢。もしくは日本文化が気に入らない勢力と結論が出ている。

  • @mojocakie
    @mojocakie 7 днів тому +1

    Watching everyone’s happy reactions as well as your happy reactions were so heartwarming and adorable 😭💖💖💖

  • @monicasmm
    @monicasmm Рік тому +311

    Wow she did such a great job with your hair and so carefully! Like you said, she didn’t even hesitate, she just jumped right in and killed it with confidence!

  • @Juliana-ye4xh
    @Juliana-ye4xh 4 місяці тому +4

    Wow! I find it amazing how she stepped up and did your hair! Sooo cute! You look stunning by the way!

  • @crimeco1
    @crimeco1 Рік тому +346

    As a black girl living in Asia I always do my braids in various colors (bc I did same back home) and I always get long looks which always made me uncomfortable and I kept my guard up. But after living here for 4 years and understanding some of the language all I hear is "wow your hair is beautiful " in thier language and I'm able to let my gaurd down bc I know what they are saying and I often respond in the language too...the little I know.

    • @sammierose1150
      @sammierose1150 Рік тому +3

      Where do you get your hair done, if you don’t mind me asking? Like do you go to a black salon in the country in Asia that you are living in, or one than specializes in locs and braids? Or do you have to do it yourself at home?

    • @Tierone1337
      @Tierone1337 Рік тому +15

      That’s the problem with black Americans, they think staring mean disrespect or racism but in fact it’s just curiosity and wanting to know more, but people can’t communicate due to language barriers and Asians are very shy.

    • @gltme2403
      @gltme2403 Рік тому +2

      Tairone Wassup, I agree with you and that’s because they actually don’t have a “culture” culture means an appropriate unique way of manner, appearance and the way they live their life and work, all I see is some people going to work getting drunk and cussing at each other and 24/7 on concerts and clubs which is literally opposite of “living” it’s just trash, unhealthy and problematic and sad also the diet is so poor, fast foods 💀 literally most of those self-made unique issues are caused by peoples’s idiotic illiterate opinions for example the cancelling and slurs or cultural appropriation, you can’t see those stuff in other places or countries cause they don’t exist, they don’t create words that have such a bad influence on others or they tend not to use it therefore it doesn’t exist cause of their behavior

    • @StoryCrimeWithG
      @StoryCrimeWithG Рік тому +1

      @@sammierose1150 I have other black friends who know what they are doing with hair so I call and make an appointment. In a country you might only find 1 or 2 black salons which means we often have to travel to get your hair done . People like me who can't do it make the trip. But others learn how to do thier own hair ...my sister does her own hair but she's in the US and I honestly don't know a thing with hair....I can bake n make fun stuff but hair and makeup I am just stupid at those.

    • @Tierone1337
      @Tierone1337 Рік тому

      @@gltme2403 I agree, only in America is where opinions without facts actually do hold water which is bs. No other countries let’s you work or attend Ivy League school based on color of skin. They wonder why failure rate is so high. I believe it’s part of black culture to rob, be disrespectful , and hurt people. When a black man goes to jail and returns home, they get heroes welcome like they served in a war . How can black folks say black excellence. Making money from robbing people, cheating the system, riots (teens in Chicago), beating people up for fun ( sf stonestown mall) . I mean 12 year olds are committing adult crimes and carrying guns in school! All black folks can really do is bring up mass shootings but that doesn’t even compare to the daily murders. Black folks claim they built America, if so, they would be doing well in society. To be fair this is regarding most black population in America.

  • @akari5113
    @akari5113 Рік тому +235

    Im Japanese, but a lot of people who aren't even Japanese try to say its cututal appropriatian wich i think its so dumb! Its not! shes such a beautiful woman 🥰❤️❤️ i feel appreciated when she wears my cultures clothing. its so beautiful!

    • @melissacourchesne2121
      @melissacourchesne2121 Рік тому

      Today Japaneses wear more western clothes than traditional japanese clothes. So it is cultural appropriation? NO! The Woke propaganda is so dumb!

    • @Sunny10tv
      @Sunny10tv Рік тому +12

      I totally agree~ 👍 She looks stunning in the kimono~ 👍 I wish they would have kimonos over here in America. I've wanted to wear one since younger but not sure where to get one~ I am curious though & I hope this doesn't sound rude but very curious is a kimono considered sort of as a dress in Japan? I love the outfit~ 💖👍

  • @foreverkei-chan
    @foreverkei-chan Рік тому +539

    I have NEVER heard Japanese people openly compliment someone so much in public…you are honored!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @jan_phd
      @jan_phd Рік тому +9

      You know nothing.

    • @Tierone1337
      @Tierone1337 Рік тому

      Wow are you serious? Are you around or talk about Japanese enough to even say that? Wow an idiotic comment .

    • @kitakou
      @kitakou Рік тому +19

      same here even though I'm Japanese born and raised in Japan lmao

    • @Damianskull
      @Damianskull Рік тому +15

      ​@@jan_phd what do you mean?😊

    • @mrfivehead258
      @mrfivehead258 Рік тому +6

      @@jan_phd You're weird

  • @jasonanno3881
    @jasonanno3881 Рік тому +603

    I don’t know how many of you remember this but Katy Perry wore a kimono a during a performance and a lot of Americans screamed about appropriation. I saw a lot of man of the street interviews with Japanese people about it and the question asked wasn’t “do you think this is cultural appropriation?” it was “do you know why people might be upset at her for this?” And none of the people asked had any idea - this concept doesn’t really exist in Japan. I asked my relatives in Japan as well and they weren’t familiar with the idea. It’s honestly ridiculous to be offended on behalf of another culture, or worse, tell people of that culture that they should be offended. This mindset is poisonous and is the opposite of “progressive” thinking. The end goal should a world where everyone is able to enjoy whatever part of other cultures they want. The modern day “progressive” thinking in America is so inclusive they’ve become exclusive, so far left they’ve fallen off the edge.

    • @djsapien3448
      @djsapien3448 Рік тому +34

      This doesn't take into account the opinions and rightful questioning of Katy Perry by Americans of Japanese descent whose perspectives are different from continental Japanese people.

    • @myjams7180
      @myjams7180 Рік тому +45

      @@djsapien3448 Exactly. People born and raised in Japan might not know about the underlying racism the West has in regards to Kimonos and Japanese culture.

    • @gyounce1
      @gyounce1 Рік тому +33

      I remember that people were also angry with her for blending Chinese and Japanese clothing, but I don't see the issue. What's wrong with blending cultures? Have you ever heard of "Wafrica"? It's Japanese traditional clothing with African inspired patterns and colors and it's dreamy.

    • @marytapioca
      @marytapioca Рік тому +20

      I'm a white, American woman married to a Japanese man. We have three grown daughters. If we all wear kimono's for a photo, who is appropriating?

    • @sometime.somewhere
      @sometime.somewhere Рік тому +1

      I think it is fine to share cultural things, in fact it is normal. Perhaps the root of it here regarding peiple calling her out who are not japanese is because japanese culture appears, from the outside at least, to be well preserved. No one would ever mistake it for a modern invention. Whereas things in USA (where I assume the comments may have come from) seem to be, viewed as an outsider, more mixed, so if you come across a way to dress or do your hair that appears modern and it is in the media, you may not know where it comes from or to show appreciation. I wouldn't expect someone to research everything they might do, so mistakes might be made. I also think unless it is a sacred thing, it might not garner any feedback from the culture it belongs to regarding it being appropriate (unless in this case, you do it on social media!). I am not protective of hairstyles that are from my culture, I don't really care and think it's not important to me, but can see why for others if they have no sense of their culture being highly regarded or if beyond their country of birth they have no other country they might be connected to, i.e. descendants of enslaved people, I haveas my culture the country of my birth and a caribbean country as heritage for many generations before that. But there is nothing in my heritage that is particularly specific that isn't just associated with most people who are black, and/or who have my texture of hair, and/or are from that climate/area of the world. Additionally being born to a different country to that of my parents there is another layer of a different culture and being removed from my parents one, so perhaps I am less anchored to a culture than I could be.

  • @Ms.Janell6669
    @Ms.Janell6669 Рік тому +168

    How about Cultural Appreciation. How about we learn to share and appreciate the uniqueness of one another? We're different, and that's beautiful. ❤️

    • @violetagonzalezsalazar9985
      @violetagonzalezsalazar9985 Рік тому

      Only if you are white and wear black hair style is cultural appropriation

    • @lovisadreyer9653
      @lovisadreyer9653 Рік тому +1

      Yeeeeessssss so much to appreciate in this world, let's enjoy it and each other to the fullest!

  • @xm2895
    @xm2895 4 місяці тому +2

    Woooowwwwww I honestly expected people them to have said not nice things, but I was blown away. That’s the other part that you mentioned that is important, language!!! Not knowing the language can make you make assumptions about what others are saying. This video was very insightful and you looked lovely in that kimono❤

  • @kimmichi9535
    @kimmichi9535 Рік тому +121

    I wore Kimono here in the US for a Japanese festival. I learned how to properly put it on with all the parts. At the festival an older Japanese woman saw me and asked if I dressed myself I said yes and she was so surprised and excited. She also offered to retie my obi since I didn't tie it tight enough. That obi was secure for the next 10 hours lol. We roamed the city after and I got so many compliments. We went to a Ramen restaurant for dinner and the waitress was so excited and asked me so much questions and told me she never wore one before. She even brought out the cheif to see my Kimono 😅
    Short ver: I am American and wore a Kimono in the US no negativity from anyone Japanese just 1 bad comment from a fellow American 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @poypoyh4413
      @poypoyh4413 Рік тому +2

      As a Japanese, I’m happy to hear that you enjoyed Japan. And I had a similar experience, since fastening the obi is sometimes a little difficult. An older lady came and told me that my obi was untied and she would fix it. I think especially older people are happy to see younger people(no matter what nationalities they have) enjoying kimono. Thank you for sharing your story😊

  • @flyingsolo242
    @flyingsolo242 Рік тому +286

    I see this as accepting the local culture, showing your love and respect of the Japanese people. You took the time to get informed, respect all the involvements... You should be proud of that day 🙂.

    • @sdb1082
      @sdb1082 Рік тому

      Yep, looks like the locals did too 🥰

  • @adork2dacore
    @adork2dacore Рік тому +207

    I seriously think its just America that have this entitlement of my culture is only for me and my people. In my country, we welcome foreigner to enjoy our foods, our old garments, and so on. I was able to go to Jamaica a few years back and my light skinned cousin got braids and the locals were happy with the hairstyle. I'm going to S. Korea and you best believe I will be renting a hanbok while I'm there

    • @liastorm795
      @liastorm795 Рік тому +1

      Is your cousin biracial or just a light skinned black woman?

    • @adork2dacore
      @adork2dacore Рік тому +13

      @@liastorm795 European looking hispanic

    • @LuisGustavoSO
      @LuisGustavoSO Рік тому +25

      Lol, why would it matter? I don't think they get offended with white people appreciating they're culture either.

    • @rachelguerrine6423
      @rachelguerrine6423 Рік тому +18

      @@liastorm795 There you go, you just proved their remark about it being pretty much an American obsession.

    • @iamsherlocked875
      @iamsherlocked875 Рік тому +13

      @@liastorm795 directly showing why an american USA is such shallowminded

  • @shephardfamily
    @shephardfamily Місяць тому +3

    I was stationed at Camp Kinser on Okinawa in 1983 and at Marine Corps Air Station Iwakuni, Japam in 1989 -1992. During my tour I developed a moderate level of speaking the Japanese language. I really loved people within the different Prefectures.Going out meeting different types of Japanese socialites gave me a different perspective of the Japanese people as a whole... most are very welcomlng outside of those close minded communities....

  • @moniquekyahlovewilson2374
    @moniquekyahlovewilson2374 11 місяців тому +401

    As a Jamaican I also want to add that there are cultures where if you wear their traditional garbs or colours, speak their dialect, use slang words or phrases from their lingua, eat their food or act in ways stereotypical to that culture it is seen as flattery!!! I am a Jamaican and I can tell you that there is nothing more flattering to us than see other nationalities and ethnicities embrace the elements of our culture that make us uniquely Jamaican! So when Volkswagen had a Superbowl ad where a white guy spoke 'Jamaican' or when Adele attended a Caribbean festival wearing a Jamaican colour bikini we absolutely loved it!!! Meanwhile Americans were yelling cultural appropriation and ready to cancel Volkswagen and Adele. As you said in this video the problem is when something that is culturally specific is rebranded and claimed by another ethnicity or race (primarily a more dominant race or ethnicity)...that is when it becomes cultural appropriation. Que Jamie Oliver's 'Jerk' rice!!! 🙄
    In my opinion Americans (of course there are always exceptions) would do well to learn about other cultures. The world isn't America and we don't all live in a space where racial sensitivities and divisiveness prevails so stop forcing your perspectives on the world and perhaps instead try to learn and value those other perspectives!
    Lovely video!

    • @fayseverin2305
      @fayseverin2305 10 місяців тому +15

      Thank you.

    • @abstract5249
      @abstract5249 9 місяців тому +6

      What do you call bacon from Jamaica? Jabacon.

    • @forest_hobo
      @forest_hobo 9 місяців тому

      Fine said!

    • @andrearace1168
      @andrearace1168 8 місяців тому +8

      It's sad, America hasn't always been like this. I'm so happy that other countries embrace people appreciating their cultures.

    • @ryanmullett8832
      @ryanmullett8832 8 місяців тому

      say beer can in a jamaican accent@@abstract5249

  • @Mamasparky86
    @Mamasparky86 Рік тому +248

    My husband and I visited Japan in April 2019. When we were in Kyoto, we did a photo shoot with kimonos. For roughly an hour our photographer took photos and then we had a few hours to spare before the kimono shop closed for the day. So we mostly walked around and took pictures of our own. We got a lot of compliments, but what shocked us more was locals asking if they could take our picture. The best was a group of school children (I think they were middle school, but I could be wrong), asked if they could take a group photo with us while we were along the Kama River. I wish we could have gotten a photo with them too, but we were so taken back, that after they left and started walking away my husband suddenly said “Shoot! We didn’t get a picture with them with our phone!!”
    Later on when we returned to our Airbnb, our host was outside and we showed him pictures of our day in kimonos. When I asked him what he thought, or if it was culturally appropriate since we are pale white Canadians wearing kimonos. He looked at me as if I had grown a second head, laughed and then said “We love it when tourists come here and try on kimonos. It shows us that they love our culture. If you think about it, technically we are wearing western clothes all of Japan now right? Technically speaking we are also culturally appropriate for that aren’t we?”
    Putting that aside, you look so gorgeous and elegant in your kimono!
    Can’t wait to check out more of your videos!

    • @VanquishR
      @VanquishR Рік тому +5

      That is an awesome story. It’s always nice to see people appreciating each other and sharing positivity. As an Indian, the thing most people know us for is our food. I know lots of people who would like to try our food, and some of them have even taken it upon themselves to learn to cook it as well.

    • @Afmedic85
      @Afmedic85 Рік тому +5

      I spent 3 years in Okinawa , since there's a dozen or so US military bases, photo studios that so shoots in kimonos are a dime a dozen. There was a store in the mall that I think rented kimonos for 20th birthday celebrations (there were no prices on them as opposed to the other store that had prices and they were NOT cheap) where I was browsing one day and one of the employees came up and said "try ok" and motioned for me to follow her. She let me pick one out and dressed me than took photos, it was fun playing dress up. I used my translator app to tell her she was very kind for it

  • @MissJenniJinx
    @MissJenniJinx Рік тому +299

    That stylist did a phenomenal job!! As a stylist in the US I’m honestly amazed she not only stepped up with 0 hesitation, but absolutely blew that style away, it was beautiful. I wouldn’t know a lot of white stylists here that would do the same thing. That was awesome to see.
    In terms of people stopping you, I could also see it happening just because kimonos formally dawned are often just admired in general, especially when you’re out in the rural areas. It would be like if someone in the US was wondering around in an incredibly elegant ball gown-people would look/compliment them. If it’s not a specific holiday or event you will get attention just because the dress itself is appreciated & seen as beautiful, people really appreciate not just the dress but how it is worn.

    • @MrCrapDude
      @MrCrapDude Рік тому +19

      I feel like she was ready for the challenge. I’m not a stylist and don’t know anything about it (I get shitty military haircuts) but I’d imagine it was a once in a lifetime opportunity for her to see if she can do it. Wonder if she took a picture for her portfolio too lol.

  • @alxskellington
    @alxskellington Місяць тому +1

    Wholesome content I needed in my life!!!

  • @shaniece6569
    @shaniece6569 Рік тому +317

    As a black woman, I really liked watching this video. It was nice seeing you wear a Kimono while respecting and getting to learn more about their culture! It looked so good on you!!

    • @annadamico1685
      @annadamico1685 Рік тому +5

      So, if this isn't cultural appropriation, can non black people wear braids/cornrows?

    • @MysteriousRed23
      @MysteriousRed23 Рік тому +15

      @@annadamico1685 I mean as long as they’re not claiming to invent the styles and changing the names of them (which I’ve seen people do already). Only thing is these styles were meant to protect coarser hair textures so it can be damaging to straight hair…

    • @ningsquaredddd
      @ningsquaredddd Рік тому +10

      @@annadamico1685 Most black people don't wear if non-black people wear braids or cornrows. The entire black population doesn't consist solely of a small subsection of sensitive Western black people.

    • @annadamico1685
      @annadamico1685 Рік тому +6

      @@MysteriousRed23 The thing is, no culture can really claim to ownership to braids, since there are a number of independent traditions of braiding in many cultures through out history. Ancient Mesopotamian and Egyptians had both braids and dreadlocks. Ancient Greeks are portrayed with this hairstyles too, probably influenced by the Egyptians. Minoans had dreadlocks and Vikings had braids. The point is, americans who are obsessed with cultural appropriation fail to understand that in human history cultures have always influenced one another, and people had no problem having the same hairstyles or clothes. So it makes no sense to restrict braids to only a group of people, or for that matter anything that doesn't have sacred/religious meanings.

    • @annadamico1685
      @annadamico1685 Рік тому +7

      @@ningsquaredddd You're right, it's mostly people in the US who obsess over cultural appropriation. Here in Europe people share cultures without any problem.

  • @R1ley.0_0
    @R1ley.0_0 Рік тому +265

    I've always wanted to do this even as a kid because I've always loved the Japanese culture, but as a black girl growing up in America I always was told or heard that it was Culture Appropriation and would offend the people that are Japanese. This video really helped me see that it didn't offend them or it wasn't wrong. Now I would definitely love to do this in the future.

    • @kamicop1234
      @kamicop1234 Рік тому +45

      全然問題ないよ、日本人は洋服着てるし

    • @chrisbirch2002
      @chrisbirch2002 11 місяців тому +17

      I believe it would be more offensive to Japanese people to have virtue signaling college students from another culture trying to dictate what is okay in their culture.

    • @R1ley.0_0
      @R1ley.0_0 10 місяців тому

      Yes that makes sense@@chrisbirch2002

    • @thegoodnessness
      @thegoodnessness 10 місяців тому +14

      What I've noticed is most cultures will embrace outsiders who want to dress and learn their culture. One thing is to make sure your normal clothes are appropriate for the country you are going to. Not many countries like to show bare shoulders or cleavage but are happy to assist with traditional attire.

    • @aoiahiru670
      @aoiahiru670 9 місяців тому +5

      Do what you want as long as it's with respect. Haters gonna hate, as they say. ドンマイ、ドンマイ!

  • @TalykStudios
    @TalykStudios Рік тому +562

    I did a paper back in university on exactly this topic - "Is foreigners wearing kimono cultural appropriation?"
    We didn't find a single Japanese person in our interviews that said it was. The only remark was maintaining an air of respect for the garment and culture.
    I've seen the exact same dynamic, for example, where African-American and African people completely disagree on a topic. A channel called Jubilee does group discussions and interviews just like this and its really opened my eyes to the true dynamism of human opinion.
    Segragating all of us - "White people wear this, black people wear that, Asian people wear that" is quite literally the definition of racism and an over generalization of opinion.

    • @divx1001
      @divx1001 Рік тому +49

      It's sad that you even have to conduct such interviews. Ever since the topic of cultural appropriation came up, it was clear as day that people that contribute directly to the culture in question are not appropriating anything.... How the hell did this stuff get so convoluted that Americans feel the need to harass other people for a concept that is strictly American and applicable only to the US?

    • @i-3137
      @i-3137 Рік тому +2

      so can we wear braids?

    • @Mcwsmurf1
      @Mcwsmurf1 Рік тому +33

      @@i-3137 yes.

    • @monicacreator3168
      @monicacreator3168 Рік тому

      @@i-3137 Go ahead, but remember it's not for non white people hair and that you may lose damage your hair

    • @akiarasenpai8978
      @akiarasenpai8978 Рік тому +2

      Well said. You summed it up perfectly

  • @CGstudy1
    @CGstudy1 Місяць тому +1

    This was a beautiful video. You wore the kimono and accessories very well and very respectfully. The Japanese people were very sweet, kind and very complimentary. I see why so many of our people have moved there over the years.❤❤ Thanks for the video. It was a joy to watch.

  • @maggievitality9627
    @maggievitality9627 Рік тому +301

    As a person of African heritage, I love when I see other cultures APPRECIATE black culture. I think it's great, and this is what the world should be like. As for those that complain about appropriation, I truly believe that are a small - albeit very loud - group. I hope they get a grip soon, so we can all go back to being happy and appreciating each other.

    • @mitacestalia7532
      @mitacestalia7532 Рік тому +1

      Do you know where to find more information regardless African myth and folktales? I want to write story about Mami Wata but the information on internet is pretty limited about it 🥲

    • @sashav.3189
      @sashav.3189 Рік тому

      You as an African person have a very different experience with appropriation than a black American so you should speak for you and only you. Being through centuries of discrimination, at one point black women were forced to shave their heads bc whites women didn’t like their husbands admiring black womens hair. Kids getting suspended from school or black hairstyles being deemed ghetto just to have white models celebrated when they do it is very different than someone simply wearing a dashiki. Pls.

    • @gethina-come7885
      @gethina-come7885 Рік тому +2

      Hi, i was wondering, as a black person, do you get offended by people from outside your race (asian, white, etc) wear box braids ? i see that alot of american get offended :/ so i was wondering as a person (i assume, you are from Africa) would get offended over box braids ? Thanks

    • @digitalpimp-
      @digitalpimp- Рік тому

      ♥️

    • @maggievitality9627
      @maggievitality9627 Рік тому +14

      @@gethina-come7885 Not at all. People wear wigs to resemble Caucasian hair. Perfectly fine for people to APPRECIATE box braids. I think it’s great and we are moving in the right direction. A whole lot of loving is better than a whole lot of hating.

  • @Lcsmu
    @Lcsmu Рік тому +97

    Japnese descendant here.
    There is nothing wrong with foreigner wearing kimono. It is even positively moving. The problem is when it is done in a caricature fashion, a sex fantasy approach or without the proper wearing (there are a lot of rules for everything you do in Japan).
    Since you wore it beatifully, beatiful it will be.

    • @DarkAngel2512
      @DarkAngel2512 Рік тому

      There is nothing wrong with wearing it in a sexual way or charicature They can be worn however. Who suddenly came up with these rules. These didnt exist before.

    • @nowayhome20878
      @nowayhome20878 Рік тому

      ​@@DarkAngel2512 I think they mean sexualizing it...and that's quiet disrespectful

    • @DarkAngel2512
      @DarkAngel2512 Рік тому +2

      @@nowayhome20878 it isnt disrespectful to sexualise it. Woke bs

    • @nowayhome20878
      @nowayhome20878 Рік тому

      @@DarkAngel2512 when someone sexualises your mom then you'll know

  • @sazi
    @sazi Рік тому +111

    I'm a white guy and living in Japan I was asked several times to dress in kimono. Like you I was complimented on how it looks and how I carried myself/respected the culture. My best friend even gave me his as a parting gift.
    A great vid and you bring up important issues to consider when we partake in other people's cultures.

  • @alishacee865
    @alishacee865 8 днів тому

    I really loved this video! Thank you so much for sharing!
    Side note: I also appreciate you including Japanese subtitles and translations in your videos. It has been helping me learn

  • @Dontjudgeme420
    @Dontjudgeme420 9 місяців тому +181

    How dare anyone accuse you of appropriating Japanese culture when you are literally in Japan, and went to a Japanese store run by Japanese folks, AND DID IT ALL IN FLUENT JAPANESE!! Like the balls and brainworming of some people. Not even finished but fantastic video. Your hair did turn out so good. She really went in there and did the thing. Flawless.

    • @autisticusmaximus9562
      @autisticusmaximus9562 4 місяці тому

      It should be noted that black Americans culturally appropriate almost everything
      Even goes as far to steal other cultures and identities to make themselves feel better

    • @atomicsamurai8967
      @atomicsamurai8967 3 місяці тому +2

      That's the infuriating part about the woke crowd. They're causing problems where there are none.

    • @berrylly
      @berrylly Місяць тому

      ​@@atomicsamurai8967 There is a problem, it just doesn't happen in Japan. People aren't bullied for practising their own culture in their own country. Cultural appropriation happens in America where White Americans bully people for practising their culture, but when that part of their culture becomes "cool", those same white Americans hop on the trend of doing it.

    • @earlyriser03
      @earlyriser03 Місяць тому

      @@autisticusmaximus9562 got a real edgelord schmuck over here…

    • @earlyriser03
      @earlyriser03 Місяць тому

      @@atomicsamurai8967anybody who uses “woke” in their argument shouldn’t be taken seriously. Like, at all…

  • @linalenachan2189
    @linalenachan2189 Рік тому +196

    I remember when I booking my Maiko transformation I was so nervous of taking pictures outside thinking people would think I'm silly or stupid, but the clerks in the store were very emphatic about other people loving it. I accepted, but still thought they might be pushing it just because it was more expensive to shoot outside....
    In reality, I was stopped by so many groups of japanese girls who wanted to take pictures of me, surprised that I knew how to speak in Japanese, asking me were I was from and being super curious. I ended up crying back in the store because I had never been complimented on looks before.

    • @yo..9584
      @yo..9584 Рік тому

      See japan isn't that bad
      Why do people make these videos like the japanese are racist

    • @OoiYunKai
      @OoiYunKai Рік тому +1

      wow where did u book it and how much was it??

  • @missmrocks
    @missmrocks Рік тому +364

    Cultural appreciation exists. Intentions and respect goes a long way. The world needs more love and less hate. Thank you for this video 💖

    • @timothykarlsson3126
      @timothykarlsson3126 Рік тому +10

      Intention is everything

    • @cryptocaesar8972
      @cryptocaesar8972 Рік тому

      You guys keep saying this like people weren’t being canceled for literally what she’s doing. Katy Perry got hella backlash for wearing a kimono, and she wasn’t wearing it pretending she invented it or being disrespectful. Cultural appropriation as critique has mostly been a tactic to be racist and attack people.

    • @alexfrost4909
      @alexfrost4909 Рік тому

      Cultural appropriation is made up bs for weak minds. Choose what you like on a personal level and dont bow to the clown world. Imagine a world where only the race that created something was allowed to use it. So idiotic.

    • @hcbs1986
      @hcbs1986 Рік тому +2

      yeah

    • @SharonVeeLee
      @SharonVeeLee Рік тому

      The problem a lot of the time is that intention is never expressed unless asked giving free rein to attack someone for "appropriating."

  • @TeaWithHobbits
    @TeaWithHobbits 7 місяців тому +1

    Goes to show that there's so many more kind people in the world than we first think! Love how supportive people were. You look gorgeous

  • @enkarion01
    @enkarion01 Рік тому +87

    As a Japanese person, I'm really happy and proud when non-Japanese people wear kimono and yukata. I can't wait to see my fiance wear his traditional wedding kimono (紋付羽織袴), he's Mexican but more knowledgable/passionate about certain Japanese topics than me! 😂
    Also, the "似合ってるよ!" from the ladies are just so genuine and you can tell they were all in awe of your beauty 💖💖💖

    • @andrearace1168
      @andrearace1168 8 місяців тому +4

      As an American, I think you have every right to be proud! Kimonos are so beautiful, and I have had such an admiration for Japanese art and architecture for such a long time. Everything is so elegant and calm. I think many Americans admire Japan so much they wish they were Japanese.

  • @Binni2923
    @Binni2923 Рік тому +169

    Enim with dreads and a kimono bright,
    Walks through the streets of Japan's delight,
    Bringing joy to all who cross her way,
    Her presence brightens up their day.
    The people stop and stare in awe,
    Mesmerized by her beauty and all,
    Her smile, her grace, and her style,
    Makes everyone around her smile.
    She moves with a gentle breeze,
    And sways with every step with ease,
    Enim's aura is a sight to behold,
    Her charm and charisma never grow old.

  • @Emshii_
    @Emshii_ Рік тому +320

    My family is Ukrainian and I’d be honoured to see someone of another culture wearing our traditional clothing. Appropriation and appreciation are different!

    • @MissSladousek
      @MissSladousek Рік тому +7

      Exactly! I'm not Ukrainian but I feel the same way! I honestly believe that there is more into it... maybe some lobby to stop the foreign influence and make people buy only clothes styled by their country of origin. I think there might be money involved. There is a loooooot of money in fashion

    • @neffyg35
      @neffyg35 11 місяців тому +5

      I just Googled traditional Ukrainian clothing and I'm in love with the hair flowers. Not sure what it's called but it's very pretty

    • @Emshii_
      @Emshii_ 11 місяців тому +4

      @@neffyg35 Yesssss, I also don’t know the name but the flowers are huge part of it. Personally I like the white blouses with red flower embroidery on them. I wish my family had more of our traditional clothing because I’d love to wear my cultures clothes more often.

    • @neffyg35
      @neffyg35 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Emshii_ they look comfy. Like loose in the right places but still fitted in the waist.

    • @mayanevergaf
      @mayanevergaf 10 місяців тому

      Ukrainians are horrible racist people. Why you'd tell a lie like that when you know this black woman would be filleted alive if she did that in that wartorn hellhole.

  • @farnortheastmovement1127
    @farnortheastmovement1127 Місяць тому +1

    As an Asian person, this is a sign of respect. The difference between both terms is respect is honoring a culture whereas appropriation is making fun of that culture for giggles or financial gain.

  • @katheryns1219
    @katheryns1219 Рік тому +360

    Of course, it's not cultural appropriation. You weren't wearing it and saying it was from your background. I'm sure the people were honored to see you in it. When you spoke and when you laughed (with your hand over your mouth) it felt like you were Japanese. You captured the energy - perhaps subconsciously. Perhaps because you've lived there long enough. And it is obvious to anyone that you are very kind. Kindness is the universal language. I speak several languages and have lived and travelled many places in the world. Most people I've met have been flattered when I pick up things from their culture. When I was in college, my Japanese roommate dressed me up in her kimono. When I worked with refugees, Somali Bantu women dressed me in their veils and screamed with laughter when I spoke a phrase in their language. I've worn traditional Russian skirts and scarves and have been wrapped in a sari. Every time was an honor for me. When meeting people from different cultures it's best to shed your expectations and eagerness to be offended.

    • @RecoveringChristian
      @RecoveringChristian Рік тому +1

      No. It's appropriation. It's all appropriation. It's not misappropriation. I reject the appreciation narrative.

    • @MissPinkElf13
      @MissPinkElf13 Рік тому +18

      @@RecoveringChristian this is wrong

    • @RecoveringChristian
      @RecoveringChristian Рік тому +1

      @@MissPinkElf13 appreciate however much you want, it's still appropriation. You have to appropriate something to appreciate it in this context. It's just facts.

    • @MissPinkElf13
      @MissPinkElf13 Рік тому +15

      @@RecoveringChristian that doesn't make sense. The definition is literally on google

    • @4647Mo
      @4647Mo Рік тому +16

      @@RecoveringChristian ”noooo it’s appropriation because i said so and won’t present any argument to back up my claims !!!”

  • @amandamartinez8884
    @amandamartinez8884 Рік тому +164

    I love this! An example of Cultural appropriation is when that one white lady on tiktok that took an already existing traditional Mexican food and renamed it “Flat Tacos” she said it was her new invention (it’s originally called a tostada)💀 that’s actual cultural appropriation.

    • @goviralgo6418
      @goviralgo6418 Рік тому

      Who’s that rachael ray 😂

    • @La-meiga-celtibera
      @La-meiga-celtibera Рік тому +9

      Well there was a white girl a few years ago who wore a Chinese dress and everyone called her out for cultural appropriation. It’s not like she said she invented it or anything. Maybe because she wasn’t black she got a lot of hate for it.

    • @jamingaming9251
      @jamingaming9251 Рік тому +8

      She was probably ignorant of all the different ways you put meat in a tortilla.

    • @TheGreatman12
      @TheGreatman12 Рік тому +5

      It could just be ignorance

    • @ForestSen
      @ForestSen Рік тому

      @@goviralgo6418it was some random woman on tiktok not anyone the general public would know by name. I saw it and I was like whaaaa? It was ridiculous.

  • @1jamaican
    @1jamaican 2 місяці тому +1

    I’ve never read so many kind hearted responses to a video. And I watch a lot of UA-cam. This is awesome. You seem like such a sweetheart of a girl. I love this video and I’m going to watch more of your content!❤

  • @blackferryman
    @blackferryman Рік тому +105

    When I was a Teenager my Kendo club went to Tokyo for an exchange. The japanese People were so nice to us and asked everyone if we would like to wear Yukata for an evening. Of course we all agreed. They showed and helped us to dress correctly. It was such a special feeling to wear these clothes as a sign of friendship between germany and japan.

  • @fishkutterman
    @fishkutterman 2 місяці тому +5

    Oh wow i just found you on yt. Your amazing. I feel inspired. Fantastic Video. Great message. Thank you.

  • @annabellethedoll3764
    @annabellethedoll3764 Рік тому +77

    I am a Vietnamese person who went to the US for medical treatment. my cousin was married to a Mexican husband, whom, after hearing me, speaking Spanish, and loving the Mexican culture, gave me a sombrero. I was proud and wore the sombrero whenever I traveled in Los Angeles Sts and I got stared at by Caucasians and Latinos alike. when I met with my other cousin, at his university, his friend, who was a Mexican-American: said that I shouldn’t stereotype all Mexicans by wearing a sombrero. despite how many times I explained to him that I love the culture and especially the sombrero, he wouldn’t except it. After that, I just gave up wearing a sombrero, pretty sad.

    • @bartfart3847
      @bartfart3847 Рік тому +24

      the Mexican American friend probably grew up experiencing a lot of Racism from White People (that can be straight up Traumatic) and he is twisting it around and being a jerk to you. That is Sad.

    • @Leathal
      @Leathal Рік тому

      More likely: the Mexican-American was taught to act that way thanks to our ridiculous media and school system designed to pit everyone against each other so we don’t threaten the elites. Mexicans geek out over gringos showing any interest in their culture, just like basically everyone else in the world not indoctrinated into toxic identity politics

    • @linkholder
      @linkholder Рік тому +4

      @@bartfart3847 and as such he is continuing the cycle of hatred, and is lost.

    • @LA-cl4cc
      @LA-cl4cc Рік тому +8

      It depends on what kind of sombrero if it’s the huge one sold to tourists and you wear it as everyday clothes in LA it will seem like you’re mocking the culture not appreciating it. You can wear what you want and say what you want but what people don’t understand is that not everyone is going to know whether your intentions are good or bad.

    • @bartfart3847
      @bartfart3847 Рік тому +3

      @@linkholder that is very condescending. As if you were any better than any of us. lol

  • @GuyWithAnAmazingHat
    @GuyWithAnAmazingHat Рік тому +248

    Generally here in East Asia our traditional costumes are welcome for anyone to wear, just don't wear them wrongly, even we would criticise ourselves for wearing them wrongly lol
    Also I just want to talk about gyoza because it's a very unusual case that you brought up. Gyoza is originally a Chinese dish, and is still considered Chinese even with a Japanese name, gyoza is actually the Japanese pronounciation of 餃子/Jiaozi. This is pretty straight forward, but then there exist another name called 锅贴/guotie, which actually means pot sticker in Chinese.
    Which means gyoza/jiaozhi/guotie/pot sticker are all the same things, at least in general. Because there's another twist, jiaozi and guotie are extremely similar dishes, but they have slightly different ingredients, probably because they were the same dish made in different regions of China, but they are so similar that most people including myself can't really tell them apart.
    I suspect that in the West, it was originally the Chinese themselves who translated guotie into pot sticker, but then Japanese gyoza arrived and people couldn't tell them apart, so they became interchangeable.

    • @HomuresuBijuarukei
      @HomuresuBijuarukei Рік тому +12

      Potsticker/guotie usually denotes the type of dumpling that is pan-fried, while jiaozi are the boiled or steamed variety. Technically, Gyoza are potstickers.

    • @GuyWithAnAmazingHat
      @GuyWithAnAmazingHat Рік тому +7

      @@HomuresuBijuarukei Makes sense and adds another twist to it lol
      Sounds like Japanese gyoza are named after jiaozi but is actually made with the guotie/pot sticker method

    • @lisaxing2675
      @lisaxing2675 Рік тому +4

      Agreed, as a Chinese, seeing on twitter that a white girl got flamed because she wore qipao (a traditional chinese dress) to prom for 'cultural appropriation' is so weird! I only saw appreciation and love for our culture there, and everyone attacking her was not Chinese anyway, they've offended me more than the girl. I think as long as you show respect to the culture you're wearing/enjoying, that's good enough for me.

    • @yukko_parra
      @yukko_parra Рік тому +1

      I've only seen Chinese culture from my Western home and I'm concerned at how limited is my knowledge of my own culture.
      I would love for more recognition of Chinese clothing, I've only seen it once in my life despite living in a multicultural city (or once I could remember)
      also on the topic of dumpling-type foods, apparently they are all turkic in origin.

    • @ytplol8446
      @ytplol8446 Рік тому

      Ultimately I do whatever I want unless they call goofers on me, but unlike many other modern people I am good at adapting and integrating when want..
      Part of growing up in shiddy conditions among and move to different places and institutions staying alive..
      I watched this movie when an Arab line came up very fast and I just copied it the guy next was quite surprised at that little fest and could see a smile..

  • @codesymbi
    @codesymbi 9 місяців тому +83

    I'm mexican, and we don't really care if people use the stereotypical stuff seeing in movies
    (Ponchos, tequila, cactus, deserts)
    It's more a meme nowdays
    We only rage when people call us *_Latinx_*
    But overall you can *_BE_* funny with our stuff, just not make fun of it
    Also, i'd love to use and do some traditional things from japan, i love their culture so much

    • @birdhousewatch3322
      @birdhousewatch3322 2 місяці тому +4

      I'm kind of a white washed Hispanic and I don't speak Spanish, so I apologize for not knowing exactly. But I swear, I feel as if though I've only seen white people use "Latinx" Before. Never an Hispanic person. And isn't Spanish a gendered language anyways? So does the gender neutral "Latinx" even make much sense at all? Again just a genuine question, it never made much sense to me, but I don't know the full context because I live in my own little bubble☹

    • @sansuusilly
      @sansuusilly 2 місяці тому +7

      @@birdhousewatch3322 most spanish people use "latine" to refer to enby latins, and the they/them pronouns in spanish are just ellos.

    • @birdhousewatch3322
      @birdhousewatch3322 2 місяці тому +1

      @@sansuusilly Alr I see! I appreciate the response

    • @wintergrox205
      @wintergrox205 2 місяці тому

      @@birdhousewatch3322 The Spanish language has no neutral things, they/them would translate to ''ellos'' which is equivalent to plural only. Recently, some insane liberals from Spain and certain countries like Argentina or Mexico have invented the ''elle'' and ''ellx'' pronouns, which is supposed to be equivalent to the neutral use of they/them.
      The RAE (Real Academia de la lengua Española) doesn't recognize these pronouns and fortunately many people have a brain and know that those liberal construct are BS.

    • @JMBBrasil
      @JMBBrasil 2 місяці тому

      Yes! As a fellow latin American I also can’t stand the latinx. It’s absolutely ridiculous!

  • @doglapping707
    @doglapping707 3 місяці тому +2

    If an American saw me walking around with a gun in my hand, they would say, “You look good!

  • @VictorTangLA
    @VictorTangLA Рік тому +101

    It's cultural APPRECIATION... which is intrinsically different from appropriation. She understands the culture and respects it. I LOVE THAT SO MUCH!!!!

    • @gregorygan2077
      @gregorygan2077 11 місяців тому

      It's totally racial violence and colonization

  • @LauraTeAhoWhite
    @LauraTeAhoWhite Рік тому +237

    This isn't appropriation, its appreciation.

    • @AnimeArtest1
      @AnimeArtest1 Рік тому +1

      This deserves more likes

    • @mereen750
      @mereen750 Рік тому

      Except if it were whites doing right? If a white petson wears an Indian constume for example

    • @AnimeArtest1
      @AnimeArtest1 Рік тому +5

      @@mereen750 if you were pretending to be Indian that's a whole other subject but just wearing clothes is fine

    • @mereen750
      @mereen750 Рік тому

      @@AnimeArtest1 Is the black woman in this video also "pretending to be a Japanese"?

    • @AnimeArtest1
      @AnimeArtest1 Рік тому +1

      @@mereen750 no..? shes wearing a kimono/yukata

  • @weekdaycycling
    @weekdaycycling Рік тому +82

    I'm Thai, and I admire how the Japanese incorporate traditional costumes into their modern lifestyle. It is peculiar in Thailand if someone appears in public dressed in traditional attire. They will not do it in their daily lives. They'll mostly wear it for special occasions like weddings and festivals. On the contrary, I've noticed that tourists, particularly Chinese tourists, are increasingly wearing traditional Thai attire at some tourist attractions.

    • @vladjuryrigging
      @vladjuryrigging Рік тому +5

      I agree with you. It’s impressive blend of old and new. I wish we could do it in my country too. I love our traditional Slavic folk clothes but unless it’s for a folk groups dance or traditional fair, it would be unusual. We do try to incorporate designs into mode more clothing. But not definitely as normal as it appears in Japan. So I hope one day you can wear your traditional dress in Thailand too.

    • @pauloazuela8488
      @pauloazuela8488 Рік тому

      My country's traditional clothing would be a bit uncomfortable for some during hot humid weathers. But it's typically for events or just famous people like government members on occasions

    • @keetard
      @keetard Рік тому

      เอาจริง ๆ ชุดไทยมันค่อนข้างแต่งนาน + ไม่เหมาะกับอากาศปัจจุบันเท่าไหร่อะครับ555 อีกเหตุผลก็เรื่องการปฏิวัติวัฒนธรรมของแปลก พิบูลสงคราม ที่ทำให้คนไทยเลิกใส่ชุดไทยกันไป แล้วไหนจะเรื่องรูปแบบชุดไทยแบบลำลองที่โชว์ผิวค่อนข้างเยอะ ตรงข้ามกับชุดไทยพระราชนิยมที่เป็นทางการเกินไปสำหรับใส่ไปทำธุระนอกบ้านเฉย ๆ ด้วย

    • @strahnbrad3979
      @strahnbrad3979 Рік тому

      ฉัน/ผมเห็นด้วยกับคุณ
      africans are strange

  • @lotusdevi
    @lotusdevi 23 дні тому

    I got tears towards the end...such lovely reactions from people

  • @Sheik-yo9fj
    @Sheik-yo9fj Рік тому +68

    The moment where the Japanese were complimenting how you looked in the kimonos/furisodes, made me feel happy. It was very moving and I could feel your happiness! You are amazing and people can see that

  • @octo448
    @octo448 Рік тому +167

    1. The woman who confidently styled your hair is so talented, she must have been doing that for a long time to do such a good job in such new circumstances. So professional!
    2. Every single Japanese person you asked to interview seemed much more uncomfortable with being randomly addressed on the street than they did about anything you were wearing. This is not an accusation, just an observation. Privacy and keeping to one's self seem to be valuable things in Japanese culture.
    3. The way I laughed when they said they were Korean! XDDD Oops, sorry guys!
    4. The way both men and women of various ages complimented you in that short segment on the street was truly magical. I think that speaks louder than any explanation could about what Japanese people usually think about foreigners wearing traditional dress. There will always be some people who disagree, but at the end of the day you could not have been more respectful with how you went about enjoying traditional Japanese style and culture, and I believe this is why so many spoke up to compliment you.
    5. I know this isn't the point but I need so much more context on those pigeons! XDDDDD

    • @astrayblackcat
      @astrayblackcat 11 місяців тому +4

      That's quite accurate all my family members would prefer to be swallowed by the earth to have to speak aloud with someone stopping them on the streets
      But they are just too shy
      Happens to a lot of japonese, especially young ones

    • @MadTeaMarie
      @MadTeaMarie 9 місяців тому +2

      I totally thought I was the only one in the comments entranced and deeply curious about the pigeons!

  • @sebastianmontesinos9362
    @sebastianmontesinos9362 Рік тому +234

    This is so wholesome. Im sharing this all over! I hate how the term appropriation is abused by certain groups here in America...

    • @naaa358
      @naaa358 Рік тому +13

      日本人は「文化の盗用」の意味がわからないほど気にしていないから。
      むしろ嬉しく思っているのに真逆の議論が出てくるのは悲しい😢

    • @Zoubidou_
      @Zoubidou_ Рік тому +3

      Trust me, not only in America, sadly, in France it's the same

  • @WAHHHHHGHHH
    @WAHHHHHGHHH 3 місяці тому +4

    Istg the people that talk so much about culture appropriation aren’t even apart of the culture 😭

  • @anastasia7013
    @anastasia7013 Рік тому +63

    Suddenly I got really teary while watching the part when everybody compliments her. It's so touching when people just can't not to say compliment because of how beautiful you are.

    • @kark2036
      @kark2036 Рік тому +6

      Glad I’m not the only one who got teary. It made me so happy when everyone was complementing her.

  • @bellaloves2815
    @bellaloves2815 Рік тому +69

    I wore a yukata while in Japan when my host family and I went to a festival. My sisters grandmother was the one who assisted us in getting ready and even though my Japanese was limited, she kept petting my hair and telling me how pretty I looked as she helped me get dressed, and told my sister how happy she was that we were both wearing yukata. She even gave a hair piece meant for yukata for me to wear as well as the shoes. Japanese people are so excited to share their culture and for others to take interest and appreciate it. Learning about each other, and understanding, loving, respecting and uplifting one another’s traditions and cultures is one of the ways we can preserve the older traditions and truly work together. Appropriation is terrible but we need to actually understand what appropriation looks like and is, rather than blindly saying something is what it is not.

    • @Fumi007
      @Fumi007 Рік тому +1

      My sister studied in Japan as a teen and had the same experience at a festival! 20 years later, she still has the yukata and the pictures. Her host family loved dressing her up.

  • @oliviaetsesparfums3603
    @oliviaetsesparfums3603 Рік тому +76

    I was in Japan last week and I spoke with a kimono vendor about how kimono are beautiful but hard to wear. When I said to her I have my yukata and wear it time to time she was so happy and thanked me for appreciating their culture 😊

  • @heat420_7
    @heat420_7 2 місяці тому +1

    I bought a Chinese style silky dress in Malaysia (I'm a white American), and when I went to a Chinese New year celebration, people treated me like a celebrity. Going from being a mousy haired wallflower to instant celebrity was quite a shock. I miss my time there.

  • @ItsMickey
    @ItsMickey Рік тому +214

    this made me cry. I've always wanted to visit Japan and wanted to wear a kimono. I love the culture. I get excited when other cultures appreciate my culture as a Jamaican. Thank you for reminding me to go for my dreams in this short life

    • @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..
      @aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. Рік тому +13

      AAAAA A FELLOW JAMAICAN!! Same throughout this video i was jus thinking about how excited i get when ppl loc their hair (especially when go "bobodread" style cuz i dnt even like tht style... But this foreigner appreciates it that much??!) And when they attenpt to learn patois (so cute) among other things. Im also in love with japanese culture even the language is so poetic and beautiful. Anyway srry i got excited seeing a mirror of myself here 💀💀

    • @Cheryliiina
      @Cheryliiina Рік тому +1

      Do it! 😊

    • @Cheryliiina
      @Cheryliiina Рік тому +1

      ​@@aaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. ❤

    • @PavethaWay
      @PavethaWay Рік тому

      You do realize blacks came out of Africa and populated Asia. Learn your history sis

    • @tab5470
      @tab5470 Рік тому

      You should, you will love it!!

  • @seamonkey02
    @seamonkey02 Рік тому +202

    As a Thai American, I love seeing foreigners appreciating our culture like trying out our food and learning about our tradition. We don't get offended if non-Thai wear Thai clothings. We actually love seeing our culture spread to other nationalities.
    So far I've seen the people who get angry are those not from our culture. Even when we tell these people that we are not offended and we actually love it, they would get angry at us and spew racial slurs instead.

    • @TheOne-wo4cm
      @TheOne-wo4cm Рік тому

      I agree its usally the ones that get offended are white liberals. My friend loves latin foods and only eat latin food, loves salsa and learn to speak spanish even better spanish than me. This white chick started to screaming at him one day cursing at him telling him this is not his culture and he should respect it and stop acting latino. I laughed at her and told her to fuck off. Its the fake outrage that gets me. I think Cultural Appropriation are for weak people and is only put in order to divide people more which makes people hate more each other.

    • @Miggy19779
      @Miggy19779 Рік тому

      It's mostly morally corrupt Americans that come out with this bullshit. We need to ignore these people, bullies who demand and expect us to take on their monstrously immoral views.

    • @MuSicBlock5774
      @MuSicBlock5774 Рік тому +9

      This is true, the only people who get offended are the people who are not from that culture. I'm not asian but mexican, but I can say that I would be excited to see someone from another culture being interested in my culture, not offended

    • @mariahiller
      @mariahiller Рік тому +2

      Agreed. For instance, I am Swedish and my favorite food is Thai. In fact, l am getting hungry just thinking about it. I also have a neck problem and have been getting Thai massage for almost 20 years (got one today). It is better than any Western massage for pain. When l see my massage therapist l say "sawadee ka." It's out of respect and appreciation. Similarly, l get happy when someone appreciates my own culture.

    • @pariespain
      @pariespain Рік тому +8

      @@MuSicBlock5774 Many times if I see people get mad, most of them are from the US somehow. It's like they getting mad, but forget that not all people think a like. Like the black people in US don't think or sees things the same, as a black person from the Carribean of Africa. So if a white person got something on native in the Caribbean or Africa, over there it will be celebrated, but that person can wear the same thing fly back and get backlash in the US. It's like Some people in US, think everybody think like they do, while that's not the case, to me they act like Karen's and they don't even know it.

  • @aj61539
    @aj61539 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm Japanese and I feel so sweet to see foreigners wearing kimono 😊
    There's absolutely no way that we feel offended by this.
    On the contrary, what makes me angry is foreigners criticizing other foreigners for wearing kimono and calling it cultural appropriation . I can't understand for whom they are raising their voices😅

  • @shomarigwad2151
    @shomarigwad2151 Рік тому +134

    people are never happy! I am French and I find you beautiful in the kimono. several youtube videos exist where Japanese people say themselves that they are proud that other cultures wear the kimono. continue to make us discover this wonderful country.

    • @pedrojulio1960
      @pedrojulio1960 Рік тому

      Not so beautiful!

    • @shomarigwad2151
      @shomarigwad2151 Рік тому +3

      for me she is beautiful and that is the most important. the question you should ask yourself is why you come to his youtube account and come and chat with me? don't lie, are you interested too?😂

    • @pedrojulio1960
      @pedrojulio1960 Рік тому

      @@shomarigwad2151 what's next? Miss Vietnam with African skin 😂, Thor as Chinese and black? 😂

  • @amandaschmitz2003
    @amandaschmitz2003 Рік тому +47

    I had a coworker who travelled to Korea and took picutres using hanbok (tradicional korean chlothes). She was amazing on the photos, but she didn't posted on social media because she thought she made "cultural apropriation". I felt bad for her, because she was just respectfully appreciating the culture and should not feel guilty about it...

  • @Enoxix.
    @Enoxix. Рік тому +126

    When I was in Japan for vacation few years ago, the people were so friendly! Most of the times they wouldn’t leave before they knew you were helped if you asked something. Even though there was a big language barrier, they still tried to help!