I agree, my best friend is always trying to drag me to the club with her and gets upset when I say hard no I never want to go again. If you want to go so badly just invite another friend or go alone 😭 literally zero about it sounds fun to me, and I want to be in bed by 9. I'm 27 but I've felt this way for yearsss, and I know I'm not alone in this, even if in my friend group it feels like I am!
lol as a closeted lesbian who just reached the legal drinking age I relate so hard to the desire to stay home rn while everyone is clubbing. All I hear is about the constant flirting and unwarranted groping from older men and people cannot comprehend that I’d rather watch a movie than club locally or think that I’m attacking their lifestyle bc I’d rather stay at home. Like girl being drunk and around sweaty men is living hell for me I wish I could just blurt it out😭😭
I'm starting to slowly distance myself from some friends because they associate with getting drunk and partying which is fine but not my vibe anymore. I would 100% rather go for a drive, listen to music or watch the stars with someone! love this video!
Honestly staying at home in comfy clothes with peace and quiet is the best! I always feel unsafe in downtown clubs for so many reasons and it's always expensive too.
In defense of people who wish their friends would go out with them, it’s really lonely being spontaneous and wanting to do things when all your friends would rather not. Not to associate being a homebody with putting in 0 effort but my last girlfriend literally refused to go out and would get upset if I chose to go out instead of stay home with her. I have frequently felt held back by my relationships platonic or not and wish less people would be so dismissive of my adventures that I’d love to take them on :(
i think it’s about finding the right excursions for people!! i’m a homebody but i’m also a big planner and love planning adventures and fun events for people but it’s def about curating so that people get invited to the events they would enjoy the most! my friends that don’t like theatre won’t get invited to the broadway show and dinner i’m planning for, the same way i don’t want to be invited to the club night hahaha
I can’t count how many times I’ve laughed in this video. Especially when she talks about a guy sleeping over and not wanting to wash his face/brush his teeth before bed… in HER bed. Maddie truly is humorous in her own way; I love it 😂
I was JUST thinking about this, the most I’ll do now is go to a bar with a friend or a concert but even then that takes a lot out of me… and I’m 24 😭 but there’s nothing I love more than staying home reading or listening to music
the way i keep coming back to this video at night while im doing my skincare routine so it feels like we are besties doing skincare together...iconic. i need more maddie skincare!!
My bones are literally fusing with the bed I've been rolling around in like a rotisserie chicken for the past 18 hours and I cannot relate more lol. Team homebodies till the day I die.
fellow homebody here, also you are the first person who has the same reaction as me to getting high. I must be in control at all times, so being high is not a good time. I never liked partying even as a teen, I swear sometimes my parents wanted me to sneak out and do something lol.
girl thank u for this i always feel like my friends find it sooo difficult to even try and understand that sometimes i don’t feel like going to parties and take it personally as if i don’t wanna hang out with them no matter how many times i tell them i’m just TIRED i don’t have the energy and social battery to go out
As someone who also cries when she has to take one of her cats to the vet, I feel so seen. It's just, I love them so much and to think they think I intentionally inflicted suffering on them (even if, in reality, a checkup and shot updates are a good thing) is too much for me 😢 Also, fuck yeah for Spironolactone. Literally a miracle pill. And thank you for being so transparent that it is the cause of your clear skin. One of my pet peaves is influencers who promote restrictive eating habits in the name of clear skin. Thank you for not doing that and keeping it real ❤
As a cat and dog mama and as a person who always had a cat and dog growing up I’m definitely an even split with love and affection. I love both pretty equally and make sure to show them enough love. But let’s face we can never love like animals do they are just so pure ❤
Exactly! What you said at the start 👍 it's the same when I tell people I don't want to be in a relationship and that I'm happy on my own. They say "you deserve someone that treats you right" or "you are worthy of love" etc. Like thinking it's an issue that I have or something. But like, I know I'm worthy 😅 I'm just happy on my own I'm sorry 🤷
Definitely one of ur best videos lately , I had so much fun , felt like we were talking the whole time and I couldn’t stop giggling all the way long U are amazing maddieeee lyyyy
I was so sure that you would be a secret swiftie.... my intuition has never been this wrong.. but I love this video and I would be honored to be in your sleepover
I love both staying in and the occasional night out! I don't drink much but I love dancing a lot, so I always require the company of people who are willing to spend the whole night on the dancefloor lmao I've always been fine with spending time with friends doing the kinds of activities that they prefer (unless it's something that I don't want to do at all of course) so pressuring my friends to go out is an insane idea to me
I remember the tampon girl but I didn’t remember her name omg that’s wild I completely forgot about the video until you said it. She must be happy some people forgot her name or don’t know haha 2012 was quite a year! Some of the strangest songs were popular that year too.
This video was a masterpiece and the perfect depiction of a fantastic sleepover, all the way to the end with the late night rambles of nonsensical wisdom. Cheers to riding the highway of life, y’all 🥂
Thank you so much for this!! You have saved my life with this video...now I can just share this video with anyone who gives me shit for not wanting to go out🙌🏾👏🏾😆 you are doing the Lords work girl! Much love💕
I’m a homebody who just turned 26 and I find it so hard to be at home & still enjoy my 20s…like my friends do like to just chill together but it’s rare. Usually they’ll only reach out or ask me to hang out if it’s “an event” which tend to be at clubs/concert venues/etc. 😞 it’s expensive and exhausting sometimes
I never went to the club, I’ｍ 23. And don't get me wrong, I don't want to. At the beginning, I thought something's wrong with me bc everyone's go to te club as a teen, not me. I prefer chilling at home, playing games, dancing on my music,... it's my kind of nights. I don't think I'm missing something but the perception from others made me think so at the time. Ty for sharing your thoughts on this topic ^^
Also, you're spot on about the cat thing. I once heard someone say that cats don't just show you love but also HOW to love, and I think that's beautiful
ACTUAL CANNIBAL SHIA LEBOUF!! such a pivotal part of my high school tumblr experience lmao. my personal favorite part is “wait! he isn’t dead - shia surprise!”
I absolutely love videos like this. You just get me so we'll, especially on the rant about anti-cat ppl. No joke, whenever I say I have cats or talk about cats in general there's always someone that has to shout at the top of their lungs that they hate cats 💀. Like that is so unnecessary pls. Ps: I 100% noticed the merch and I'll try to cop some when I get paid 👀
I feel this so much. I have ONE friend who, for 4 years, hasn't stopped asking me to go to parties with him. I'm a homebody and would rather be alone that with a bunch of people, especially party people who are getting drunk and mainly there to get drunk (these are all college parties btw). He is persistent to say the least. I laugh it off usually, but sometimes it's kinda much as I'm very clear with my no's.
I hate going out 90% of the times! First I'm excited to go out but then when I actually arrive, it's too loud and I can't hear what everybody's saying, I need to shout to have a conversation, and I am a singer so I am very cautious about my throat. Nobody can understand each other bc it's too loud so everyone keeps ordering more alcohol. It's just EXPENSIVE AND BORING OK! I love cozy hangouts at home 🐣🐣🐣🐣
I recently went to a club and hated my life the whole time. Clubbing really is not for me anymore, I enjoyed going out when I was 18 with my friends, but I am too old and tired for it now. Completely agree with this entire video
I feel seen because my favorite thing is to ask my husband “say a sentence you’ve never said before” and it’s so funny lmao shit like “once upon a time under the sun, there were two hotdogs and two buns” or “periwinkle sky with cotton candy clouds watch over the doggies in sleeping bags”
i was feeling so queasy when you were talking about the t*mpon s*cking and then you said it like 20 times back to back omg i was holding on for dear life
One thing I would say about tolerance is that hygiene is a privilege. Many people are disabled and can barely brush their teeth, let alone do a skincare routine. I'd reevaluate your perspective of judgement towards those who can't, due to fatigue or mobility issues. Also mental health can cause loss of motivation, and with that comes neglect towards self care. Just something to think about! Loved the sleepover vibes.
Yesss, I feel this way abt going out too! And also, v excited for your merch drop. I was eyeing your purple sweat set the whole video and, lo and behold, it’s your new merch!! ❤
My cooking for one solution: Just freeze it/save the leftovers. Especially with pasta I'll just cook intuitively, ill use all of the sauce and however much garlic i want because it's easier. Then throw it in some tupperware and into the freezer that way I have a homemade 'ready meal' thats super tasty fresh and delish. Its super good for me personally because I struggle a lot with executive function so when i have stuff already made that i just need to mic its one less thing i dont need to think about. My tip for pasta if youre gonna do this is take out the pasta before its all the way done cooking and leave the portion you want in until its cooked (cooking fully cooked pasta in the microwave makes it super mushy and gross)
I will never get over how much purple is Maddie's color, like she OWNS the color purple in my book
Even as an extrovert who loves going out, I think i think it’s weird when friends get mad at other friends for not coming out.
Same! You can do different things with different friends! Actually makes your live a lot richer, I feel like
People who don’t respect homebodies are people who have issues with respecting boundaries. 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Exactly!! Like, you can still go out and I wish you a lot of fun but why do you have to drag me, an unwilling participent - along 😭
truer words have never been spoken~~
Oh yea, and then try to make you jealous. Either way, it's a no
Or self esteem if they always need someone or validation of their life choices.
Cheers to that, girl. I love staying home
I agree, my best friend is always trying to drag me to the club with her and gets upset when I say hard no I never want to go again. If you want to go so badly just invite another friend or go alone 😭 literally zero about it sounds fun to me, and I want to be in bed by 9. I'm 27 but I've felt this way for yearsss, and I know I'm not alone in this, even if in my friend group it feels like I am!
seriously hahahaha like bestie i love u so much, i will hang out with you in any other location just please don't make me to go to club
ooooo that film degree is SHOWINGGG and I LOVE IT!!!!! your video crafting has been next freakin level lately 🎥✨💖
Girl I am WITH you on the whole cat hater conversation. I get fired up about it lmao
lol as a closeted lesbian who just reached the legal drinking age I relate so hard to the desire to stay home rn while everyone is clubbing. All I hear is about the constant flirting and unwarranted groping from older men and people cannot comprehend that I’d rather watch a movie than club locally or think that I’m attacking their lifestyle bc I’d rather stay at home. Like girl being drunk and around sweaty men is living hell for me I wish I could just blurt it out😭😭
I‘m so deep into the maddie-core that I went like "haha right" when you mentioned the french onion soup 😂
I'm starting to slowly distance myself from some friends because they associate with getting drunk and partying which is fine but not my vibe anymore. I would 100% rather go for a drive, listen to music or watch the stars with someone! love this video!
Honestly staying at home in comfy clothes with peace and quiet is the best! I always feel unsafe in downtown clubs for so many reasons and it's always expensive too.
In defense of people who wish their friends would go out with them, it’s really lonely being spontaneous and wanting to do things when all your friends would rather not. Not to associate being a homebody with putting in 0 effort but my last girlfriend literally refused to go out and would get upset if I chose to go out instead of stay home with her. I have frequently felt held back by my relationships platonic or not and wish less people would be so dismissive of my adventures that I’d love to take them on :(
i think it’s about finding the right excursions for people!! i’m a homebody but i’m also a big planner and love planning adventures and fun events for people but it’s def about curating so that people get invited to the events they would enjoy the most! my friends that don’t like theatre won’t get invited to the broadway show and dinner i’m planning for, the same way i don’t want to be invited to the club night hahaha
a piece of chocolate, a hot tea and a new maddie video ? THIS is a good night for my homebody soul.
I can’t count how many times I’ve laughed in this video. Especially when she talks about a guy sleeping over and not wanting to wash his face/brush his teeth before bed… in HER bed. Maddie truly is humorous in her own way; I love it 😂
Mango's eyes are so round and huge and shiny and precious and perfect!
as a fellow homebody, this speaks to my soulllll
As someone who is also apathetic to Taylor Swift and have gotten verbally accosted for it, I feel seen
I am 10000% in agreement with your opinion about how great cats are and how they deserve all the love in the universe
I was JUST thinking about this, the most I’ll do now is go to a bar with a friend or a concert but even then that takes a lot out of me… and I’m 24 😭 but there’s nothing I love more than staying home reading or listening to music
Your meniacle little giggle after saying “or am I just a genius??” 🥹♥️ so cute
My favorite UA-camr and podcaster. Beautiful, talented, hilarious, well spoken, cat lover…. 100% could be a real life bestie
Maddie Dragsbaek got us a treat tonight y'all! 'Today' became better instantly
the way i keep coming back to this video at night while im doing my skincare routine so it feels like we are besties doing skincare together...iconic. i need more maddie skincare!!
can we appreciate the effort/detail/attention that maddie puts into all of her work[s] pls!!!!
Watching this vid faded and loved every second of it! you are hilarious and made so many points in this vid, ESPECIALLY the raw dogging the night
My bones are literally fusing with the bed I've been rolling around in like a rotisserie chicken for the past 18 hours and I cannot relate more lol. Team homebodies till the day I die.
fellow homebody here, also you are the first person who has the same reaction as me to getting high. I must be in control at all times, so being high is not a good time. I never liked partying even as a teen, I swear sometimes my parents wanted me to sneak out and do something lol.
girl thank u for this i always feel like my friends find it sooo difficult to even try and understand that sometimes i don’t feel like going to parties and take it personally as if i don’t wanna hang out with them no matter how many times i tell them i’m just TIRED i don’t have the energy and social battery to go out
8:30 this whole conversation -- i feel represented because this is my brain 24/7.
Also the disgust with men being like "no need" to washing their face... Ur so right
Love this vibe! I’m saving up and working since forever to have my own space so I damn sure well want to stay home and enjoy my peaceful environment.
8:02 Yes! 8:09 Yes omg 😆 about being the first person having that conversation/ sentence / set of words
As someone who also cries when she has to take one of her cats to the vet, I feel so seen.
It's just, I love them so much and to think they think I intentionally inflicted suffering on them (even if, in reality, a checkup and shot updates are a good thing) is too much for me 😢
Also, fuck yeah for Spironolactone. Literally a miracle pill. And thank you for being so transparent that it is the cause of your clear skin. One of my pet peaves is influencers who promote restrictive eating habits in the name of clear skin. Thank you for not doing that and keeping it real ❤
As a cat and dog mama and as a person who always had a cat and dog growing up I’m definitely an even split with love and affection. I love both pretty equally and make sure to show them enough love. But let’s face we can never love like animals do they are just so pure ❤
Exactly! What you said at the start 👍 it's the same when I tell people I don't want to be in a relationship and that I'm happy on my own. They say "you deserve someone that treats you right" or "you are worthy of love" etc. Like thinking it's an issue that I have or something. But like, I know I'm worthy 😅 I'm just happy on my own I'm sorry 🤷
The editing and visuals are soooo good Maddie 🔥 I had to comment xxxxxx love u
I definitely forgot myself a little bit this year and it’s taken such a toll on me. This video felt like a hug
Definitely one of ur best videos lately , I had so much fun , felt like we were talking the whole time and I couldn’t stop giggling all the way long
U are amazing maddieeee lyyyy
I was so sure that you would be a secret swiftie.... my intuition has never been this wrong.. but I love this video and I would be honored to be in your sleepover
I love both staying in and the occasional night out! I don't drink much but I love dancing a lot, so I always require the company of people who are willing to spend the whole night on the dancefloor lmao
I've always been fine with spending time with friends doing the kinds of activities that they prefer (unless it's something that I don't want to do at all of course) so pressuring my friends to go out is an insane idea to me
never did i think this video would feature a conversation about giovanna plowman but i'm here for it
In highschool I was in choir with one of the kids who whispered "quiet, quiet" in the Shia LaBeouf video.
Your thoughts on cat haters were perfectly said - thank you for saying it!!
watching this video has been a damn JOYRIDE💖 thanks for inviting me to ur sleepover
I remember the tampon girl but I didn’t remember her name omg that’s wild I completely forgot about the video until you said it. She must be happy some people forgot her name or don’t know haha 2012 was quite a year! Some of the strangest songs were popular that year too.
This video was a masterpiece and the perfect depiction of a fantastic sleepover, all the way to the end with the late night rambles of nonsensical wisdom. Cheers to riding the highway of life, y’all 🥂
Thank you so much for this!! You have saved my life with this video...now I can just share this video with anyone who gives me shit for not wanting to go out🙌🏾👏🏾😆 you are doing the Lords work girl! Much love💕
I’m a homebody who just turned 26 and I find it so hard to be at home & still enjoy my 20s…like my friends do like to just chill together but it’s rare. Usually they’ll only reach out or ask me to hang out if it’s “an event” which tend to be at clubs/concert venues/etc. 😞 it’s expensive and exhausting sometimes
you look so gorg in this vid. the purple and pink complement you and your blue eyes perfectly
I never went to the club, I’ｍ 23. And don't get me wrong, I don't want to. At the beginning, I thought something's wrong with me bc everyone's go to te club as a teen, not me. I prefer chilling at home, playing games, dancing on my music,... it's my kind of nights. I don't think I'm missing something but the perception from others made me think so at the time. Ty for sharing your thoughts on this topic ^^
Had to pause the vid and say that purple + pink are absolutely your colors!! You're literally glowing 🫶🏼
Also, you're spot on about the cat thing. I once heard someone say that cats don't just show you love but also HOW to love, and I think that's beautiful
i looooooove maddie sm SHES SO COOL AND COMFORTING
You quoting the Shia song is the single greatest thing I’ve ever seen. Thank you and I love you ❤
Maddie: "When I smoke weed, all my thoughts go away." ☹
Me: "When I smoke weed, all my thoughts go away." 😀
homebody 4 life
I LOVED this video, i relate so much! Being in my apartment and chill with my cats is the best!
2 minutes in and I feel so seen lmao. Thank you again for blessing us with your presence via video today haha it’s always a good time.
ACTUAL CANNIBAL SHIA LEBOUF!! such a pivotal part of my high school tumblr experience lmao. my personal favorite part is “wait! he isn’t dead - shia surprise!”
You make the most aesthetically pleasing videos. You are appreciated. 💜
I love the amount of effort you put into the introduction of the video very calm to watch (sorry for english)
first, i love you. second , hand talking while holding a knife is relatable af
One minute into the video and I'm like: I want to look this good
I can't listen to 212 without thinking of Ms. Plowman and her contribution to the internet
It's the getting ready part for me. I struggle with choosing daily outfits so why would I purposefully create another occasion to stress about. 😢😂
I LOVE YOU MADDIE you’re the greatest UA-camr to bless this platform YOU DONT DESERVE ANY HARM OMG 😭💖
ILOVE that lil chain on the blue-skirt + all the details that you put into ur outfits
the shia labeouf song reference unlocked something I buried deep down in my brain
Today was extremely hard for me, thank you for the company ❤
Serving Giovanna the house down bestie
i have both a dog and 2 cats and I 100% give my cats more attention than my dog unintentionally and my dog always looks so jealous😭
I absolutely love videos like this. You just get me so we'll, especially on the rant about anti-cat ppl. No joke, whenever I say I have cats or talk about cats in general there's always someone that has to shout at the top of their lungs that they hate cats 💀. Like that is so unnecessary pls.
Ps: I 100% noticed the merch and I'll try to cop some when I get paid 👀
I was not expecting the Shia Leboeuf monologue and it absolutely sent me into a fit of laughter 😂😂😂😂
i didnt even notice the merchhh!!!!! lol. loved this vid
OBSESSED W/ EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS ❤️❤️❤️
I love the editing! It tells a story.
the perfect way to start off my Sunday evening 🫶🏻 love your videos!!
I feel this so much. I have ONE friend who, for 4 years, hasn't stopped asking me to go to parties with him. I'm a homebody and would rather be alone that with a bunch of people, especially party people who are getting drunk and mainly there to get drunk (these are all college parties btw). He is persistent to say the least. I laugh it off usually, but sometimes it's kinda much as I'm very clear with my no's.
i am so totally a homebody. im only 17, but i love staying home w my whole heart, i have such a low social battery. my friends don’t get it!!! 😭😭
I hate going out 90% of the times! First I'm excited to go out but then when I actually arrive, it's too loud and I can't hear what everybody's saying, I need to shout to have a conversation, and I am a singer so I am very cautious about my throat. Nobody can understand each other bc it's too loud so everyone keeps ordering more alcohol. It's just EXPENSIVE AND BORING OK! I love cozy hangouts at home 🐣🐣🐣🐣
i swear you are the funniest youtube person out here
I recently went to a club and hated my life the whole time. Clubbing really is not for me anymore, I enjoyed going out when I was 18 with my friends, but I am too old and tired for it now. Completely agree with this entire video
I feel seen because my favorite thing is to ask my husband “say a sentence you’ve never said before” and it’s so funny lmao shit like “once upon a time under the sun, there were two hotdogs and two buns” or “periwinkle sky with cotton candy clouds watch over the doggies in sleeping bags”
i was feeling so queasy when you were talking about the t*mpon s*cking and then you said it like 20 times back to back omg i was holding on for dear life
hahahaha i’m so sorry, blame giovanna
girlie i clocked the merch as soon as you put it on PLSSSS can't wait for the drop xoxoxo
I truly adore you and your genius brain. we are besties in my mind and you just get meee! maddie dragsbaek supremacy!
You’re so pretty girl! Love your vibe!
yoooo maddie this was one of your funniest/best vids yet! had me loling the whole time. love you queen
THAT TOP IS SO CUTE I NEED IT ❤❤❤
I love the extensive bit about period oral! I agree with many things you said there 😂
Maddie, i am totally honest with you right now. You look amazing. Like for real just glowing and being beautiful. 🥹
I replay your videos because it feels like hanging out with a good friend. You just fucking get me. FELLOW PISCES BABES!
One thing I would say about tolerance is that hygiene is a privilege. Many people are disabled and can barely brush their teeth, let alone do a skincare routine. I'd reevaluate your perspective of judgement towards those who can't, due to fatigue or mobility issues. Also mental health can cause loss of motivation, and with that comes neglect towards self care. Just something to think about! Loved the sleepover vibes.
DUDE I LOVE YOUR VIBES
Yesss, I feel this way abt going out too! And also, v excited for your merch drop. I was eyeing your purple sweat set the whole video and, lo and behold, it’s your new merch!! ❤
My cooking for one solution:
Just freeze it/save the leftovers. Especially with pasta I'll just cook intuitively, ill use all of the sauce and however much garlic i want because it's easier. Then throw it in some tupperware and into the freezer that way I have a homemade 'ready meal' thats super tasty fresh and delish. Its super good for me personally because I struggle a lot with executive function so when i have stuff already made that i just need to mic its one less thing i dont need to think about. My tip for pasta if youre gonna do this is take out the pasta before its all the way done cooking and leave the portion you want in until its cooked (cooking fully cooked pasta in the microwave makes it super mushy and gross)
I love staying in, pure goals
Loveeee how this was put together, classy
You're glowing Maddie! ✨ When you had your dinner you looked so cute and beautiful 😱😍🥺
oh my god I absolutely loooove watching you do your skincare. This video was just so lovely and calming over all