At the age of 23, I started my own business. I was fresh out of college and got the job I thought I always wanted...then realized I hated the job. I worked my own business from 9am-6pm and my job from 7pm-2am. I got used to my hectic schedule and after working like this for 5 years and being frugal...I was debt free. During that 5 yr period I lived on a tight budget, I bought my clothing second hand, I made my own laundry soap, I did anything and everything to help me reach my goal. I'm now 40 years old, and because of my sacrifices I built my home and paid for it in cash, I bought my escalade and was able to write the check for it right out of my account. You CAN do it! But you have to have discipline and make sacrifices.
I just quit my job.couldn't take it any more.so im making sure I grind day in day out doing what I love.referring clients to a dealer and getting paid a 200 fee for each one.
+Monicasdestiny Yes well done, I still work a regular job. But Im a chef and love what I do, and its close to my home so I have no travel expense. The words of wisdom I got from my father 32 years ago when I started working have served me well. He said before you do ANYTHING, try to save at least 6 months living money. So that if the rug is pulled from under you. You dont have to go into immediate panic mode. And you have that cushion. 32 years later I have enough money in the bank to live for more than 7 years without a job. And my house is almost payed for. The main problem with especially Americans right now is they dont save enough. A recent survey showed that around 62% of Americans dont even have $1000 in savings to fall back on. Thats truly disturbing. I know someone my age 52. Who doesnt even have $1000 saved. And still rents. And they have no other assets or investments. This is not good at all. Alot of people dont think about the future. They live above their means paycheck to paycheck. This thinking needs to change badly.
Thanx Malan for uploading this video again, I had been thinking about it for a couple years when it was gone and finally it's baaaack! So glad you rock bro!
i stopped at 2:20, i just quit my job today as a truck driver at 44 years old and a mortgage payer. I Have so many visions as how to make money while having fun at the same time. If people think they need to be stuck in the same boring ass routine 5 days a week and hate Mondays then follow me and lets give this a go! Love to all...
Actually share yo idea with me plz, I check my government contributions the last time and I HV something like 500k. I need some ideas as to how to quit. And some business ideas you might have
It's common sense. Have a backup plan or you'll be screwed. You can't just quit and THEN come up with your plan. Who knows when your plan will start making money
Yeah, it is. It's just...the title of the video had me thinking this guy had some unique method for quitting your job...like no one has ever quit a job to move into a better one or simply take a hiatus from work for a few months and live off savings.
+Christopher Moore seriously. That's what I was thinking. But also, some people also have help. I left my teaching job. My husband said don't go back. We are on one income and doing fine. Also, I still don't have a solid plan yet. Working on something.
OMG the screwing around thing at work is so true. My current coworkers do that a lot. I do what he says, just work on business stuff since nobody else wants to work anyways.
I see some people on here don't appreciate your advice but honestly as simple as your advice might sound, it's just pure wisdom. I quit my job and really tried to figure something out quickly and even got a course etc trying to figure out how to make money online but the truth is by the time you even come close to scratching the surface if how it is possible your bills start to pile up and you have no choice but return to a 9-5 IG your a responsible person and trust me I wanted to be reckless and pray for a miracle but I have a wife and daughter so I can't take that risk unlike a single person, for now it's just back to the drawing board and hopefully while I'm working I can figure something to quit for good and live on my own terms.
Dario , you missed the point at the start , 1/ what would your dream job think hard and write it down 2/ plan and save carefully and work hard to reach that goal . To reach that goal you have to have faith in yourself and courage to see it through . Research what you want to do , read as much as you can and hang with people who do your dream job , they will rub off on you . Reduce your living costs , go vegan , shop second hand , ride a bicycle , home cook ect. There is always help for those who genuinely need it and in turn you help others . The worm will turn , trust me . Good luck !
Fear kills. Save some money, grab your nuts and get out there an make yourself someone you'd subscribe to. That's what life is about. Trust in God and anything is possible.
One of the best and most sensible videos out there about how to get out of the rat race. I am playing and listening to this every single day. Already got my goals down on tablet and getting to work. Thanks for breaking it down.
I work 8-5. Weekends included. I have no time to do anything that I want to do. I'm too tired when I get home. My boss doesn't like me. So I want to quit. I get yelled at all the time, sometimes for stupid things like talking to my co workers while we work.
I had a boss the exact same way. She got away with that type of behavior at the company I work for, for decades before I was hired & during my time. She was audited & got fired. Guess she didnt get away with it after all.
Thanks for the sound advice: " don't quit your job that you hate until you have other sources of income". Because nobody thought of that...people are afraid to quit *BECAUSE* they have no other sources of income!
I literally stumbled upon this video and I gotta tell you...THIS is exactly what I NEEDED to hear. I've hated my job for the last 10yrs and could not figure out an exit strategy. Thank you!
I had my screen off just listening to him talk, i thought the video was over at 5 minutes, boy he was just getting started! Amazing video! Thank you so much !
I fully agree about saving all you can from your current job. Kick all expensive habits. I would suggest saving up 3 years worth of income before quitting. 6-12 months is simply not enough in this economy.
+Ken Pan, That would be ideal, but as 62% of Americans dont even have $1000 in savings. Its not likely many could do that. One solid years worth of income would be more realistic and achievable. Depending on your personal requirements. You have to remember some people need as much as $5000 to get through a month. While others can get by with $2000 or less...
Agreed...even 3 yrs IMO is the bare minimum. Over the period of 3 yrs, you're 3 yrs older and life changes fast - things you never thought would happen can happen
lol you guys are too cautious, I had about 3 months buffer when i quit, If you can make enough to cover rent and a bit of food in your side business its enough to quit and double down.
dux mea lux 3 months isnt sufficient. That time can whizz by. 12 months is the minimum. It gives you alot of breathing space. Instead of being in a panic. 12 to 18 months is the ideal cushion. 3 years is nice but it would take some people 6 years to save 3 years living money. Thats what people arent considering.
I did what this bloke did and he's pretty much right on the money , couldn't imagine going back to working to make someone else rich . I did that for 35 years but better late than never , wish I'd broken free sooner and did it as soon as I left school , boy is it liberating ! The only thing I'd add to this journey would be to give back to society eg volunteering , give blood , helping someone less fortunate ect .I liken this step going from employee to owner of your own business like walking against the flow of a stream then slowly turning around and without much effort the flow takes you in its current and you float along easily enjoying the ride .
This is really hard to do when you’re a single parent ,dread your job, work insane hours that make you so burned out that you don’t have time to exit correctly nor save bc you don’t have outside help ie child support, a growing kid that needs things to live like clothes, food, a roof over our heads, etc...time is so precious and I’m literally mentally and physically exhausted that when I do have a day off all I can do is 😴 instead of manifesting the desires I want for us. It’s exhausting! I wish I could work a normal 9 to 5 job instead of one day I’m working till midnight and the next have to be there at 5 am in the morning. Also, when it’s manual labor work makes it that much more strenuous on my body and mind.😥😴
thank you for the responsible answer of how much hard work is needed to reach your dreams... too many people want the get rich quick. everything takes time.
Where were you when I "randomly" quit my job a month ago??? I did not have a strategy, however it was literally killing me, I was being overworked, the job I had was very disorganized starting from my boss, and everyone took advantage of that. Even though I regret it, after watching your video it was for my best. I really appreciate your tips and will use them on my next job...that I hope I don't hate hehe. Thank YOU!!!!! :)
Great advice. I went crazy in my job, got so miserable. Wish I had a plan and didn't freak out. Can't go back but wish I could have watched a lot of these videos earlier.
thanks for the advice!!! i went through the quit your job, try the yoga business, fail and go back to job search already :) so i think your plan sounds much better. i joined your army as well :)
you should always try to leave a job on good terms because it's the right thing to do. But don't expect to ever be welcome back. companies are really petty about that. once your gone, you are gone for good as far as their concerned.
My job is sucking the life out of me and I have health problems that prevent me from being able to work a second job. I am 52 and have worked over 36 yrs.
Absolutely true man. Im 20 turning 21 this year, and when you said dont quit your job until you have something that will replace your job income, i made that mistake last year. I quit my job prematurely because of my emotions and not logic.
This video is the first one I have seen in so long... that is simple (don't get that confused with easy), doable and best of all... MAKES SENSE. As much as I am a sensible and reasonable person when it comes to working/making a living... every time I began with this type of journey, something came along and stole my heart/soul/passion... whatever, my wheels began to spin, I lost traction/direction and there I was... up to my axles in defeat. I am ready to do this again and the path to this day was filled with signposts and hints as to what was to come. I will be damned if I let these cowards and naysayers and all the rest of the wannabes call the shots. Most of their shots are directed toward their own feet and they aim well! Doing it and starting now. Thats all.
I didn't quit my job but ended a work contract 6 months ago. Instead of going to the next employment opportunity, I decided to rest for a few months until I figured out what I'm gonna next with my life. Which is unlike me because I usually have another job in line. I travel a bit, spend my time in my hometown and going back to the life that I left when I went overseas for a few years (the job contracts). The best immediate advice I can give to people who wanna quit a job is first: HAVING AN AMPLE SUPPLY OF MONEY and sorting out their finances first hand. I am single with no commitments. I paid all my debts and have no monthly payments other than my phone and internet (and the money I used to go out). Financial wise, I did not touch my investment savings because I have set aside money specifically for my 'usual' expenses. No big purchases such as new mobile phones - which I will only dabble in when I got back into employment. I am not strapped for cash, but I am not leading a life of luxury either. It really helps during the months when the usual steady monthly income came to a stop. You need money to function, but it can be controlled. Having no commitments helps a lot. The second advice I can offer is that: sometimes ONE NEED TO STEP AWAY AND RETHINK ABOUT WHAT MATTERS IN LIFE and how work gonna fit in. If you have the money, I don't say it is a bad thing not to have another job in line immediately. Take a few months to rest and explore new social activities that one did not get to do before. Sometimes going straight ahead to a new job that is awaiting can be a bad thing because you may see it as an EXCUSE to leave the current job. What ever issues you have with your job may as well manifest with your next one (or even got worse).
Really good video. Jist of what I got: Don't quit your job blindly. Have a plan and have already a source of good source of steady income before you quit. Save up a good amount as emergency rations in case something goes wrong. Work hard for each source of income every day. One job ends another begins. Only use your money for necessities. As much as you want to tell those above you at your job of what you really think of them, don't. Don't burn bridges and instead, quit with class when you're ready to. If you unfortunately have to go back to that job they might consider rehiring you if it came down to that.
I can confirm that thing about the 9-5 people spending lots of time 'not working', I did so myself for a long time, like being on UA-cam whenever the boss was not around. I just worked with a team where the most experienced girl would spend most of her day on either social media or talking to other friends (also at work themselves) on the phone. She was even running her side business from the office as well.
Ive been in the cycle of quitting a job and then scrambling to get another job for about two years now, my problem is that i didnt have a plan before quitting because i didnt know what i wanted to do...i was unsure about my purpose. now i have a job that im fighting the urge to quit, at least until i know what i want. its hard, not quitting...but when i figure out what goal i want to manifest iill be sure to say "bye bye falicia" to my current job
I'll share my own experience, I started working in a bank while I was studying the university ( Age 20 ), I was always very dedicated and something in my personality helped me a lot with sales and started I growing in the company, leaving late made me stop going to university, but I kept growing until in 5 years I was a Bank director ( Branch manager ) in one of the biggest banks in Mexico... but I was unhappy, feelling like a slave and like wasting my existance just living for work, at that point I tried to quit several times, to start several bussines on my own but faild all of them, then I started investing in bulls for meat ( My father has a farm and we lived from it always ) I had 30 of them when I decided to quit but the reality is that they were not giving me any money and I quit my job after 8 years and a new morgage... just to crash and learn like wise man in just one year and the half, tried several other things and started making creams and soaps, had to search for a job in a hurry with enough money to survive till the first payment.... This video is so true to life, I've worked 8 months as Bank director in another bank and I had something just clear in my mind "I didn't want to grow old in an office" I came back to work knowing that if I wanted to leave this I had to do it in a smart way, invest in me ( learning ) and saving all the possible money, during this time my wife and I started not going anywhere, not buying clothes, not buying furniture for the house and investing all the money we had in growing our small soap and creams bussines... I was pushed from my family saying you need to go out somewhere, buy clothes for your wife, buy a new car... I just have it clear is a time of invesstment and later our bussines will give us more without any problem, this last friday I did quit my job again, but not in the same way before, I'll still work a month and the half, in the first job I just didnt show up anymore... I have savings for 6 months and my bussines grew during this year of existance giving more money than my actual job monthly, now the bussines needs me and I have a base to keep growing it together with other 2 incomes that I've created during this time, life is uncertain and maybe Im wrong again but I wont allow myself to even doubt it for a second I will succed! My advice; follow this tips couse they're the total true and search for your dreams as if there is no other way if you really follow this tips I'd add one more ¨Burn all the fkn bridges and quit with no posibility to go back, it will give you an extra push¨ Buena suerte amigos!
I am really sick to work at any company my town here. Their expectation very high, and harassed by some brainless customers, my heart tell me just quit and make money online, no need to work to any company again. Because they never recognize my work performance, be complain almost everydays, really annoying.
I will be quitting my job next month and I have saved up money which can make me survive for more than 1 year but still, I'm on the fine line between feeling adventurous and feeling anxious.
This is what I am doing now. Took a while to get all the steps going and having problems saving money but working every free second on my art. I simply dont want to do anything else and a lot of people are going to hate me for this. I just cant help it I need to get out of the corporate office job. I love my job but it takes up far too much time on stuff I dont care about and its gone beyond needing money at this stage. I need to do my own thing. This is a great vid by the way. your logic is very sound.
I started watching this video every couple days, in December. Every day that I go sit down in the office, I'm dying a little more, there is no choice about this. I need to escape. I now have enough money saved to survive 6 months, but the "goal" part, I'm struggling with. When you go for "art", it can be a rough gig because it's a somewhat nondescript goal. Make videos? Sell stuff on Etsy? Make an online store? Live off Patreon? You will be encouraged by some art sales, but it's tough to make that consistent, sustainable. Art can be rough, as opposed to, for instance the Affiliate Marketing Escape Hatch that Malan found. Today, I called in sick. I started with Malan coffee cheers, and I'm taking all my different artistic half-done's, and trying to form a clear goal. Good luck, I hope that I eventually see you on here with a success story
You make really good points, but I think one of the biggest issues a lot of people have is that they can't create a successful side-hustle while working in their full-time position because that job sucks up just about all the time and completely kills any momentum you would need to create something profitable. In Corporate America especially, a lot of jobs will suck your energy dry by making you work late throughout the night and even over the weekend, so flat out quitting is the only option unless you're willing to give up any free time you have AND not sleep for days on end. I do agree you need savings, and cashing out your 401k is your best bet even if you do take a tax penalty. It will be well worth it in the long run.
Forget having a plan first before quitting a job. That's bull. Just do it. Just quit. The peace of mind that comes one second after quitting is supreme. Things will work out. Just have faith in oneself. And the sooner, the better. Why waste time? We only have so much of it in life.
What you said about quitting your job and trying to get one after is true. I made that mistake twice. After I made my 260day plan I actually ended quitting the corporate world for good doing affiliate marketing aswell. I'm only 20 turning 21 this year. During that time of struggle I wanted to join the military because I felt like I had know where to go. Good luck to everyone .
I so appreciated this. I am working on my own exit strategy and you really nailed some key points here. Especially about not throwing the computer off the desk when you quit. I was really dreaming about the day I would quit, and what fun it would've been to send that 'mass email', but you re-enforced the importance of not burning your bridges. Thanks, again for sharing. By the way, what did you do when you were in the rat race? (smiles)
I believe a better plan is make sure every day you're improving yourself as a human being, reading, learning everything you can to become someone with skills and abilities that the average person doesnt have and then from there networking and connecting with likeminded people which are called " joint ventures " and create something people will pay you for either a product or service and SELL, SELL, SELL like you never have before. The thing is people quit and lay in bed on UA-cam all day STOP and go get out and talk to people and give MASSIVE VALUE and help people solve their problems in return for big money!
The methods before quitting your job is to have a master plan; that plan is diary writing, lists, action plans and budget for materials for your business. Be prepared for a desolate lifestyle whist you put every once of energy into your business. When you have your own business, you are going to need a lot of solitude. I
Here in India m a back office banker...I ve to leave home at 8:30 am and reach home at 9:30 or 10:00 pm ...Reach office at 9:45 am and leave at 8:00 pm or 9:00 pm just to earn 50k Rs. Per month.....it sucks.....M just too tired and lazy to do anything now...pls advise what do I do
I live very cheap $700 all utilities apartment and no car. I do grocery delivery. I walk or ride my bike to the gym. I am not successful but I make money online and can do what ever I want to do. Googles panda/penguin really hit me over the head and to be honest I am over it. I never messed with ppc because I always figured if the traffic was so good why would people sell it. Well I was wrong and wished I jumped on when Facebook just came out. Thanks for your videos.
Tony Roberts if you can do whatever you want to do, you are successful. people dream of making millions of dollars so they can do whatever they want to do... you're already doing it. #congrats
at 6:55 "dont buy new"...i'm buying 2nd hand clothes, shoes A-brands (Tommy, Hugo Boss etc) at fleamarkets which still looks great for 10% of shop price. Me and my girlfriend eat cheap, but delicous once per month.. for like €15. I cut down on quantity, without sacrificing QUALITY. Also, i learnt to cook. Delcious healthy fitness food for €2 per dinner. Its a balance of.. living cheap, and generous to ppl around you.
I liked the part you said about working on your plan while you are at the job you hate! I've done it from time to time and sometimes felt guilty about it but, I think this has motivated me to re-evaluate where I can put in more time on my plan while at my sucky job. How did you make time at your sucky job to do this? More importantly how did you not get caught?
I stopped showing to my job i felt it deteriorating my own mind my self and my life, I’ve been going to other job interviews though that would make me decent money but it’s about being free from this thing. i eventually want to have my own UA-cam channel encouraging men to break away from shy behaviors to eat right and stay active and get anything you want. Or open my own gym with correct influentials on life. At the same time that’s not much of a backbone of a business. I want the women man more than anything I never really spoiled myself with them as much as I should of. I have high above average looks from experience (girls circle my car asking for a kiss or random girls come up to me and kiss me on the cheek) and it drives me crazy not getting what I want and have to continue to go to work everyday. I can’t quite figure how to free myself from this thing I feel I hold way more power than tucked away at a job. But the journey starts over again ONE more time I will get a 9-5 luckily I’m a truck driver so it’s quite easy to pick up a job and I will get a weekend job at a restaurant making tips and I will follow this plan and look forward to joining you on the other side. I wish I can contact you more man is there any way you have an email or something or we can talk through videos. What kept you sane when you were working all that time were you working out? Women in your life? Let me know I’m interested
How can you quit your job the right way when you are constantly sexually harassed? Or when you have filed an EEO case, and reached out to every source there is but your a government worker and nobody wants to help you? Or finding out an employee was brutally physically attacked for reporting an incident? so...can you tell me the RIGHT way to quit your job?
Number one do what this bloke advocates then flick your middle finger at the boss and yell ... See ya suckers ! That what I did . 16 years ago , I was forty , four children at high school wife not working and I threw my $55000 job in to do a Airconditioning apprenticeship with half the wage . It was a struggle for first 3 years Eventually went on my own and haven't looked back . Anyone can do it , just have to have the vision and courage ( hard work at first ) but boy is it worth the freedom . You keep all the money , pick which days and hours you want to work .
Id love a 9-5 job tbh. Atm i work 12-13 hour shifts. Days and nights in the same week and they're unsociable hours aswell. Same boat as a lot of people really but 9-5 mon - fri isn't bad at all. Great vid though, thanks for the tips.
lol, hysterical. I tell people I sleep at work and they hate it but getting side projects done is tiresome. Not a shopper but a sleeper.lol, and saving like mad
Some good advice. THE PROBLEM for most will be THE SAVING 6 TO 12 MONTHS EMERGENCY FUNDS, and working ALL THOSE EXTRA HOURS. Americans in general are terrible savers. And dont like working too hard.
I dunno How I ended up watching ur vid...but m very glad that I did... I have decided something that m planning, can u help me out in that? 1. I want to start my own business ( real estate broking). It may be on solo basis or in a casual partnership with a person I know. 1. Planning to quit my current job (builder line)as its mentally n physically stressful n draining me, plus the work hours r horrible and is completely field work- weekly off only on Wednesday- good pay 2. Would be joining another job into same field - real estate industry with some job security and weekly off on sat n Sunday so that I would be able to focus better on my side business- decent pay 3. Would be implementing all your strategies from there on
At the age of 23, I started my own business. I was fresh out of college and got the job I thought I always wanted...then realized I hated the job. I worked my own business from 9am-6pm and my job from 7pm-2am. I got used to my hectic schedule and after working like this for 5 years and being frugal...I was debt free. During that 5 yr period I lived on a tight budget, I bought my clothing second hand, I made my own laundry soap, I did anything and everything to help me reach my goal. I'm now 40 years old, and because of my sacrifices I built my home and paid for it in cash, I bought my escalade and was able to write the check for it right out of my account. You CAN do it! But you have to have discipline and make sacrifices.
Can you help me start a business?
I just quit my job.couldn't take it any more.so im making sure I grind day in day out doing what I love.referring clients to a dealer and getting paid a 200 fee for each one.
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Yes well done, I still work a regular job. But Im a chef and love what I do, and its close to my home so I have no travel expense. The words of wisdom I got from my father 32 years ago when I started working have served me well. He said before you do ANYTHING, try to save at least 6 months living money. So that if the rug is pulled from under you. You dont have to go into immediate panic mode. And you have that cushion.
32 years later I have enough money in the bank to live for more than 7 years without a job. And my house is almost payed for. The main problem with especially Americans right now is they dont save enough. A recent survey showed that around 62% of Americans dont even have $1000 in savings to fall back on. Thats truly disturbing. I know someone my age 52. Who doesnt even have $1000 saved. And still rents. And they have no other assets or investments. This is not good at all. Alot of people dont think about the future. They live above their means paycheck to paycheck. This thinking needs to change badly.
Didnt go to college but making soap and secondhand everything! soon debt free!
My goal is to quit one time and never have to look for another one ever.
This video was excellent. It was not full of fluff. It was straight to the point, clear and concise and realistic. Quitting your job can be done.
Thanx Malan for uploading this video again, I had been thinking about it for a couple years when it was gone and finally it's baaaack! So glad you rock bro!
i stopped at 2:20, i just quit my job today as a truck driver at 44 years old and a mortgage payer. I Have so many visions as how to make money while having fun at the same time. If people think they need to be stuck in the same boring ass routine 5 days a week and hate Mondays then follow me and lets give this a go! Love to all...
Man plz give some tips on how to go abt leaving my dreadful job. I'm 37 and I envision myself a millionaire.
Actually share yo idea with me plz, I check my government contributions the last time and I HV something like 500k. I need some ideas as to how to quit. And some business ideas you might have
I really needed to hear this especially the keep your butt in your cubicle part and earn a check. I've been so stressed but thank you.
Seriously? Don't quit your job unless you have another job or already have savings? I really thought I was going to hear something profound.
It's common sense. Have a backup plan or you'll be screwed. You can't just quit and THEN come up with your plan. Who knows when your plan will start making money
Yeah, it is. It's just...the title of the video had me thinking this guy had some unique method for quitting your job...like no one has ever quit a job to move into a better one or simply take a hiatus from work for a few months and live off savings.
+Christopher Moore i think there is no such a revolutionary way to quit jour income source and expect to make it. It can't be solved with magic.
make your own video about that!!!
+Christopher Moore seriously. That's what I was thinking. But also, some people also have help. I left my teaching job. My husband said don't go back. We are on one income and doing fine. Also, I still don't have a solid plan yet. Working on something.
Buy a van and live in it. This way you can travel, find work, save money, no bills and its probably one way of getting on your feet early.
lmao you really think someone will do that I mean i will but
I definitely would if I didn't have a kid. That's what I wish I could do honestly.
OMG the screwing around thing at work is so true. My current coworkers do that a lot. I do what he says, just work on business stuff since nobody else wants to work anyways.
It's back!!!! Thank you.
Freaking BRILLIANT ADVICE! Great start to a book Malan. Wish I had seen this several years ago! Thanks man, it's very helpful.
+Darren Starr hope it helped, good luck
This man is telling the truth
I see some people on here don't appreciate your advice but honestly as simple as your advice might sound, it's just pure wisdom. I quit my job and really tried to figure something out quickly and even got a course etc trying to figure out how to make money online but the truth is by the time you even come close to scratching the surface if how it is possible your bills start to pile up and you have no choice but return to a 9-5 IG your a responsible person and trust me I wanted to be reckless and pray for a miracle but I have a wife and daughter so I can't take that risk unlike a single person, for now it's just back to the drawing board and hopefully while I'm working I can figure something to quit for good and live on my own terms.
Dario , you missed the point at the start , 1/ what would your dream job think hard and write it down 2/ plan and save carefully and work hard to reach that goal . To reach that goal you have to have faith in yourself and courage to see it through . Research what you want to do , read as much as you can and hang with people who do your dream job , they will rub off on you . Reduce your living costs , go vegan , shop second hand , ride a bicycle , home cook ect. There is always help for those who genuinely need it and in turn you help others . The worm will turn , trust me . Good luck !
This is some amazing pointers! Thanks for sharing!!
I have no idea how I found you but I'm glad I did!!!!thank you!!!!
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+Malan Darras thank you for your advice step #1 completed.
Fear kills. Save some money, grab your nuts and get out there an make yourself someone you'd subscribe to. That's what life is about. Trust in God and anything is possible.
Thanks makes a lot of sense. So hard to stay when you hate your job but as you say you kind of have to stick it out until you have a concrete plan
This video was amazing and very clear and straight forward. YOU ARE THE MAN!!! i hope many good things happen to you!
One of the best and most sensible videos out there about how to get out of the rat race. I am playing and listening to this every single day. Already got my goals down on tablet and getting to work. Thanks for breaking it down.
+Lady Neptune thanks Neptune
I watched this video a few months ago and has been a great inspiration. Now I'm close to the last step (resignation). Great Video! (y)
+Sarah Lambatin good luck!
I work 8-5. Weekends included. I have no time to do anything that I want to do. I'm too tired when I get home. My boss doesn't like me. So I want to quit. I get yelled at all the time, sometimes for stupid things like talking to my co workers while we work.
Ryuk the shinigami .
fuck yo boss
your boss is an absolute piece of shit.
Don’t work for a shitty boss.
I had a boss the exact same way. She got away with that type of behavior at the company I work for, for decades before I was hired & during my time. She was audited & got fired. Guess she didnt get away with it after all.
Thanks for the sound advice: " don't quit your job that you hate until you have other sources of income". Because nobody thought of that...people are afraid to quit *BECAUSE* they have no other sources of income!
I literally stumbled upon this video and I gotta tell you...THIS is exactly what I NEEDED to hear. I've hated my job for the last 10yrs and could not figure out an exit strategy. Thank you!
I had my screen off just listening to him talk, i thought the video was over at 5 minutes, boy he was just getting started! Amazing video! Thank you so much !
Wow Eminem is really motivating!!
+Nikola Nebulus #necklaceinspiration ;)
***** Cause I'm slim shady yes I'm the real shady lol
I fully agree about saving all you can from your current job. Kick all expensive habits. I would suggest saving up 3 years worth of income before quitting. 6-12 months is simply not enough in this economy.
+Ken Pan,
That would be ideal, but as 62% of Americans dont even have $1000 in savings. Its not likely many could do that. One solid years worth of income would be more realistic and achievable. Depending on your personal requirements. You have to remember some people need as much as $5000 to get through a month. While others can get by with $2000 or less...
Agreed...even 3 yrs IMO is the bare minimum. Over the period of 3 yrs, you're 3 yrs older and life changes fast - things you never thought would happen can happen
lol you guys are too cautious, I had about 3 months buffer when i quit, If you can make enough to cover rent and a bit of food in your side business its enough to quit and double down.
dux mea lux
3 months isnt sufficient. That time can whizz by. 12 months is the minimum. It gives you alot of breathing space. Instead of being in a panic.
12 to 18 months is the ideal cushion. 3 years is nice but it would take some people 6 years to save 3 years living money. Thats what people arent considering.
Why stop there? Better make it 8-10 years just to be sure.
smdh
I did what this bloke did and he's pretty much right on the money , couldn't imagine going back to working to make someone else rich . I did that for 35 years but better late than never , wish I'd broken free sooner and did it as soon as I left school , boy is it liberating ! The only thing I'd add to this journey would be to give back to society eg volunteering , give blood , helping someone less fortunate ect .I liken this step going from employee to owner of your own business like walking against the flow of a stream then slowly turning around and without much effort the flow takes you in its current and you float along easily enjoying the ride .
good man, this just reinforces the fact that I'm not crazy Ive been thinking exactly what you said
+dacreator1000 you're not crazy - they're crazy :)
yes bro YES!
This is really hard to do when you’re a single parent ,dread your job, work insane hours that make you so burned out that you don’t have time to exit correctly nor save bc you don’t have outside help ie child support, a growing kid that needs things to live like clothes, food, a roof over our heads, etc...time is so precious and I’m literally mentally and physically exhausted that when I do have a day off all I can do is 😴 instead of manifesting the desires I want for us. It’s exhausting! I wish I could work a normal 9 to 5 job instead of one day I’m working till midnight and the next have to be there at 5 am in the morning. Also, when it’s manual labor work makes it that much more strenuous on my body and mind.😥😴
thank you for the responsible answer of how much hard work is needed to reach your dreams... too many people want the get rich quick. everything takes time.
Being patient and prepared - exactly my plan.
+plantifulalexandra boom
Where were you when I "randomly" quit my job a month ago??? I did not have a strategy, however it was literally killing me, I was being overworked, the job I had was very disorganized starting from my boss, and everyone took advantage of that.
Even though I regret it, after watching your video it was for my best. I really appreciate your tips and will use them on my next job...that I hope I don't hate hehe.
Thank YOU!!!!! :)
This was a surprisingly good video, subscribing
Great advice. I went crazy in my job, got so miserable. Wish I had a plan and didn't freak out. Can't go back but wish I could have watched a lot of these videos earlier.
thanks for the advice!!! i went through the quit your job, try the yoga business, fail and go back to job search already :) so i think your plan sounds much better. i joined your army as well :)
its helping me, I rationalize better after watching this, thank you
bro, this is the most realistic approach I've heard by far
Logical advice, thank you.
Excellent vid, love the simple advice and the fact your honest about it taking effort and work. Thanks, keep up the good work.
you should always try to leave a job on good terms because it's the right thing to do. But don't expect to ever be welcome back. companies are really petty about that. once your gone, you are gone for good as far as their concerned.
My job is sucking the life out of me and I have health problems that prevent me from being able to work a second job. I am 52 and have worked over 36 yrs.
TheKerryzzz Reducing your expenses is probably the easiest thing you can do.
TheKerryzzz right there with ya.....with my 2 jobs
You are the man! Thanks again, I really like your perspective, and your ability to share your experience.
thanku
Absolutely true man. Im 20 turning 21 this year, and when you said dont quit your job until you have something that will replace your job income, i made that mistake last year. I quit my job prematurely because of my emotions and not logic.
+shaq santiago yeah emotions are never a trustworthy guide
this is a good video mate. I am writing the plan out now!
This video is the first one I have seen in so long... that is simple (don't get that confused with easy), doable and best of all... MAKES SENSE. As much as I am a sensible and reasonable person when it comes to working/making a living... every time I began with this type of journey, something came along and stole my heart/soul/passion... whatever, my wheels began to spin, I lost traction/direction and there I was... up to my axles in defeat. I am ready to do this again and the path to this day was filled with signposts and hints as to what was to come. I will be damned if I let these cowards and naysayers and all the rest of the wannabes call the shots. Most of their shots are directed toward their own feet and they aim well! Doing it and starting now. Thats all.
I didn't quit my job but ended a work contract 6 months ago. Instead of going to the next employment opportunity, I decided to rest for a few months until I figured out what I'm gonna next with my life. Which is unlike me because I usually have another job in line. I travel a bit, spend my time in my hometown and going back to the life that I left when I went overseas for a few years (the job contracts).
The best immediate advice I can give to people who wanna quit a job is first: HAVING AN AMPLE SUPPLY OF MONEY and sorting out their finances first hand. I am single with no commitments. I paid all my debts and have no monthly payments other than my phone and internet (and the money I used to go out). Financial wise, I did not touch my investment savings because I have set aside money specifically for my 'usual' expenses. No big purchases such as new mobile phones - which I will only dabble in when I got back into employment. I am not strapped for cash, but I am not leading a life of luxury either. It really helps during the months when the usual steady monthly income came to a stop. You need money to function, but it can be controlled. Having no commitments helps a lot.
The second advice I can offer is that: sometimes ONE NEED TO STEP AWAY AND RETHINK ABOUT WHAT MATTERS IN LIFE and how work gonna fit in. If you have the money, I don't say it is a bad thing not to have another job in line immediately. Take a few months to rest and explore new social activities that one did not get to do before. Sometimes going straight ahead to a new job that is awaiting can be a bad thing because you may see it as an EXCUSE to leave the current job. What ever issues you have with your job may as well manifest with your next one (or even got worse).
Really good video. Jist of what I got:
Don't quit your job blindly. Have a plan and have already a source of good source of steady income before you quit. Save up a good amount as emergency rations in case something goes wrong. Work hard for each source of income every day. One job ends another begins. Only use your money for necessities.
As much as you want to tell those above you at your job of what you really think of them, don't. Don't burn bridges and instead, quit with class when you're ready to. If you unfortunately have to go back to that job they might consider rehiring you if it came down to that.
"there's something magical in writing down your goals", I also believe on that unknown thing
I can confirm that thing about the 9-5 people spending lots of time 'not working', I did so myself for a long time, like being on UA-cam whenever the boss was not around. I just worked with a team where the most experienced girl would spend most of her day on either social media or talking to other friends (also at work themselves) on the phone. She was even running her side business from the office as well.
Nice talk. Thanks for sharing!
Am transitioning to a part-time position as of now till I find the next plan also am going minimalist
Ive been in the cycle of quitting a job and then scrambling to get another job for about two years now, my problem is that i didnt have a plan before quitting because i didnt know what i wanted to do...i was unsure about my purpose. now i have a job that im fighting the urge to quit, at least until i know what i want. its hard, not quitting...but when i figure out what goal i want to manifest iill be sure to say "bye bye falicia" to my current job
I'll share my own experience, I started working in a bank while I was studying the university ( Age 20 ), I was always very dedicated and something in my personality helped me a lot with sales and started I growing in the company, leaving late made me stop going to university, but I kept growing until in 5 years I was a Bank director ( Branch manager ) in one of the biggest banks in Mexico... but I was unhappy, feelling like a slave and like wasting my existance just living for work, at that point I tried to quit several times, to start several bussines on my own but faild all of them, then I started investing in bulls for meat ( My father has a farm and we lived from it always ) I had 30 of them when I decided to quit but the reality is that they were not giving me any money and I quit my job after 8 years and a new morgage... just to crash and learn like wise man in just one year and the half, tried several other things and started making creams and soaps, had to search for a job in a hurry with enough money to survive till the first payment.... This video is so true to life, I've worked 8 months as Bank director in another bank and I had something just clear in my mind "I didn't want to grow old in an office" I came back to work knowing that if I wanted to leave this I had to do it in a smart way, invest in me ( learning ) and saving all the possible money, during this time my wife and I started not going anywhere, not buying clothes, not buying furniture for the house and investing all the money we had in growing our small soap and creams bussines... I was pushed from my family saying you need to go out somewhere, buy clothes for your wife, buy a new car... I just have it clear is a time of invesstment and later our bussines will give us more without any problem, this last friday I did quit my job again, but not in the same way before, I'll still work a month and the half, in the first job I just didnt show up anymore... I have savings for 6 months and my bussines grew during this year of existance giving more money than my actual job monthly, now the bussines needs me and I have a base to keep growing it together with other 2 incomes that I've created during this time, life is uncertain and maybe Im wrong again but I wont allow myself to even doubt it for a second I will succed! My advice; follow this tips couse they're the total true and search for your dreams as if there is no other way if you really follow this tips I'd add one more ¨Burn all the fkn bridges and quit with no posibility to go back, it will give you an extra push¨
Buena suerte amigos!
Lol! In my job it would be throwing the croissants out the window lol!
This guy tells it very simple, the truth and giving the bottom line.
I am really sick to work at any company my town here. Their expectation very high, and harassed by some brainless customers, my heart tell me just quit and make money online, no need to work to any company again. Because they never recognize my work performance, be complain almost everydays, really annoying.
Great advise! This really speaks to me cause I didn't quit correctly!
I will be quitting my job next month and I have saved up money which can make me survive for more than 1 year but still, I'm on the fine line between feeling adventurous and feeling anxious.
This is what I am doing now. Took a while to get all the steps going and having problems saving money but working every free second on my art. I simply dont want to do anything else and a lot of people are going to hate me for this. I just cant help it I need to get out of the corporate office job. I love my job but it takes up far too much time on stuff I dont care about and its gone beyond needing money at this stage. I need to do my own thing. This is a great vid by the way. your logic is very sound.
I started watching this video every couple days, in December. Every day that I go sit down in the office, I'm dying a little more, there is no choice about this. I need to escape. I now have enough money saved to survive 6 months, but the "goal" part, I'm struggling with. When you go for "art", it can be a rough gig because it's a somewhat nondescript goal. Make videos? Sell stuff on Etsy? Make an online store? Live off Patreon? You will be encouraged by some art sales, but it's tough to make that consistent, sustainable. Art can be rough, as opposed to, for instance the Affiliate Marketing Escape Hatch that Malan found. Today, I called in sick. I started with Malan coffee cheers, and I'm taking all my different artistic half-done's, and trying to form a clear goal. Good luck, I hope that I eventually see you on here with a success story
You make really good points, but I think one of the biggest issues a lot of people have is that they can't create a successful side-hustle while working in their full-time position because that job sucks up just about all the time and completely kills any momentum you would need to create something profitable. In Corporate America especially, a lot of jobs will suck your energy dry by making you work late throughout the night and even over the weekend, so flat out quitting is the only option unless you're willing to give up any free time you have AND not sleep for days on end. I do agree you need savings, and cashing out your 401k is your best bet even if you do take a tax penalty. It will be well worth it in the long run.
Forget having a plan first before quitting a job. That's bull. Just do it. Just quit. The peace of mind that comes one second after quitting is supreme. Things will work out. Just have faith in oneself. And the sooner, the better. Why waste time? We only have so much of it in life.
What you said about quitting your job and trying to get one after is true. I made that mistake twice. After I made my 260day plan I actually ended quitting the corporate world for good doing affiliate marketing aswell. I'm only 20 turning 21 this year. During that time of struggle I wanted to join the military because I felt like I had know where to go. Good luck to everyone .
+Sam Jhetsign Good luck Sam
Another good suggestion may be to try and go from full time to part time while doing your trial run.
Good idea. Like shifting gears
I watch this daily. This is my mantra, until i finally break free
What is your advise to someone who strugle to survive with less than one dollar a day in developing countries?
Great from a Muslim I like your speech
Great video, I am doing exactly what you revered here!
+Harry McRae get it done
I so appreciated this. I am working on my own exit strategy and you really nailed some key points here. Especially about not throwing the computer off the desk when you quit. I was really dreaming about the day I would quit, and what fun it would've been to send that 'mass email', but you re-enforced the importance of not burning your bridges. Thanks, again for sharing. By the way, what did you do when you were in the rat race? (smiles)
+Beatrice Hobson creative director and designer / marketing agencies. sounds great, but drove me nuts.
wow
Good approach..
I had a back injury left work and never got back, then I lost my house due to unscrupulous contractor
I believe a better plan is make sure every day you're improving yourself as a human being, reading, learning everything you can to become someone with skills and abilities that the average person doesnt have and then from there networking and connecting with likeminded people which are called " joint ventures " and create something people will pay you for either a product or service and SELL, SELL, SELL like you never have before. The thing is people quit and lay in bed on UA-cam all day STOP and go get out and talk to people and give MASSIVE VALUE and help people solve their problems in return for big money!
Malan. Go back ans watch this and see your hand gestures. I giggles after this weekend video. Take car man
what a great message to me..thank you sir..
+Jun Jun Billote welcome!
thanks Malan :)
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The methods before quitting your job is to have a master plan; that plan is diary writing, lists, action plans and budget for materials for your business. Be prepared for a desolate lifestyle whist you put every once of energy into your business. When you have your own business, you are going to need a lot of solitude. I
Here in India m a back office banker...I ve to leave home at 8:30 am and reach home at 9:30 or 10:00 pm ...Reach office at 9:45 am and leave at 8:00 pm or 9:00 pm just to earn 50k Rs. Per month.....it sucks.....M just too tired and lazy to do anything now...pls advise what do I do
People don’t quit jobs, they quit bosses.
not true
ummm... people quit both. It's really more a matter of which they hate worse at the moment.
U lie. Jobs are just fucking useless..
great video, I have the same mind set. thanks for your video.
your just motivation bro thanks I hate my job lol
jobs suck
I live very cheap $700 all utilities apartment and no car. I do grocery delivery. I walk or ride my bike to the gym. I am not successful but I make money online and can do what ever I want to do. Googles panda/penguin really hit me over the head and to be honest I am over it. I never messed with ppc because I always figured if the traffic was so good why would people sell it. Well I was wrong and wished I jumped on when Facebook just came out. Thanks for your videos.
Tony Roberts if you can do whatever you want to do, you are successful. people dream of making millions of dollars so they can do whatever they want to do... you're already doing it. #congrats
What if your work life is like 9- 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5AM????????
Great piece of advice
at 6:55 "dont buy new"...i'm buying 2nd hand clothes, shoes A-brands (Tommy, Hugo Boss etc) at fleamarkets which still looks great for 10% of shop price. Me and my girlfriend eat cheap, but delicous once per month.. for like €15. I cut down on quantity, without sacrificing QUALITY. Also, i learnt to cook. Delcious healthy fitness food for €2 per dinner.
Its a balance of.. living cheap, and generous to ppl around you.
I liked the part you said about working on your plan while you are at the job you hate! I've done it from time to time and sometimes felt guilty about it but, I think this has motivated me to re-evaluate where I can put in more time on my plan while at my sucky job. How did you make time at your sucky job to do this? More importantly how did you not get caught?
It sure takes sacrifice but its harder to do when you have a family, especially when spouses are not on the same page in sacrificing and saving.
I stopped showing to my job i felt it deteriorating my own mind my self and my life, I’ve been going to other job interviews though that would make me decent money but it’s about being free from this thing. i eventually want to have my own UA-cam channel encouraging men to break away from shy behaviors to eat right and stay active and get anything you want. Or open my own gym with correct influentials on life. At the same time that’s not much of a backbone of a business. I want the women man more than anything I never really spoiled myself with them as much as I should of. I have high above average looks from experience (girls circle my car asking for a kiss or random girls come up to me and kiss me on the cheek) and it drives me crazy not getting what I want and have to continue to go to work everyday. I can’t quite figure how to free myself from this thing I feel I hold way more power than tucked away at a job. But the journey starts over again ONE more time I will get a 9-5 luckily I’m a truck driver so it’s quite easy to pick up a job and I will get a weekend job at a restaurant making tips and I will follow this plan and look forward to joining you on the other side. I wish I can contact you more man is there any way you have an email or something or we can talk through videos. What kept you sane when you were working all that time were you working out? Women in your life? Let me know I’m interested
How can you quit your job the right way when you are constantly sexually harassed? Or when you have filed an EEO case, and reached out to every source there is but your a government worker and nobody wants to help you? Or finding out an employee was brutally physically attacked for reporting an incident? so...can you tell me the RIGHT way to quit your job?
Number one do what this bloke advocates then flick your middle finger at the boss and yell ... See ya suckers ! That what I did . 16 years ago , I was forty , four children at high school wife not working and I threw my $55000 job in to do a Airconditioning apprenticeship with half the wage . It was a struggle for first 3 years Eventually went on my own and haven't looked back . Anyone can do it , just have to have the vision and courage ( hard work at first ) but boy is it worth the freedom . You keep all the money , pick which days and hours you want to work .
Thanks for helping me.out Malan
+Raviraj Hegde no problemo
Love this...good stuff
Id love a 9-5 job tbh. Atm i work 12-13 hour shifts. Days and nights in the same week and they're unsociable hours aswell. Same boat as a lot of people really but 9-5 mon - fri isn't bad at all. Great vid though, thanks for the tips.
Awesome information!
Malan, who is that portrait of Marilyn from? Looks dope.
CanalOtro Brett Livingston Strong (google it, pretty cool story in fact)
Sick, thanks.
I have watched this video so many times that I am starting to repeat the words before you say them 😂
lol, hysterical. I tell people I sleep at work and they hate it but getting side projects done is tiresome. Not a shopper but a sleeper.lol, and saving like mad
Some good advice. THE PROBLEM for most will be THE SAVING 6 TO 12 MONTHS EMERGENCY FUNDS, and working ALL THOSE EXTRA HOURS. Americans in general are terrible savers. And dont like working too hard.
I dunno How I ended up watching ur vid...but m very glad that I did... I have decided something that m planning, can u help me out in that?
1. I want to start my own business ( real estate broking). It may be on solo basis or in a casual partnership with a person I know.
1. Planning to quit my current job (builder line)as its mentally n physically stressful n draining me, plus the work hours r horrible and is completely field work- weekly off only on Wednesday- good pay
2. Would be joining another job into same field - real estate industry with some job security and weekly off on sat n Sunday so that I would be able to focus better on my side business- decent pay
3. Would be implementing all your strategies from there on
pssssh i wish i did work in a cubical. I work HVAC and electrical for a piece of shit company that threatens to fire me every year.
Thanks Malan :)
***** no problem man!
What do you do about insurance issues? That's my concern is having the same type of insurance that I had with a full-time job.
That is where I am currently at.
Once you become financially independent, that will no longer be an issue.