The problem is that most of us don't know the steps. We have a vague idea of what we want to do and step 1 is figure it out. Step 2 is to just research it, but there is so much information out there it's almost impossible to find a starting point.
pw709 there are a few thnngs óhat you can do while you are çrying to figure out what to do. Number one is to create options for yourself while you're finding yourself. How do you do that? Stay out of debt or get out of debt, and then start saving money. Once you hav a chunk saved acquire resources. For health, start with small baby steps of eating better and exercising some if you're not. The number one thing I think is to get your mind right. People have so much junk and crap in their heads holding themselves back. Something like A Course in Miracles is really good for that.
I want you understand that you might not feel the effect you have on your viewers life and they might not expressed it enough through their words but you are guiding crowds to the safe place everyone looking for.
'Dreams are goals without steps.' To paraphrase, 'write down goals and the area t get there, do 1-3 steps a day.' You are really awesome and helpful. You are truly motivating.
I am a Glob and I thank you for your videos I am trying to change and some of the things you say truly resonate with me. Please keep up the content I will be listening. Thank you sir
I stopped by your vid to try get some ideas. I am a 63 yr old woman, retired and looking forward to all the activities I never had time for. A doctor recently told me , we wear many "hats" during our life.....employer/ee, wife, mother, grandmother etc. My problem is, I no longer wear any hats ! I was surprised at how depressed one can become. Saddly, I would be happy to pass naturally. Yet I'm too young and not suicidal. I dont have any goals at the moment, BUT, I do like to listen to QUEEN music first thing in the morning.....it gets me out of bed.
I LOVE your "hats" analogy. We all need to find our hats. I have someone who needs to hear this message, so i'm going to pass it on, thank you. Maybe your new "hat" could be The coolest 63 yr old in existence, who listens to QUEEN in the mornings :) Good luck you, keep the faith. Malan
Coming from someone who has been struggling with this the past two years, I think its very important to note that even with parents, you dont always get the life lessons and skills you need. Im 20 living with my family and still dont know about stock markets or much about credit or financials. Even now, asking for help from them is hard because i can never get it. Its very easy to make your kids feel alone in their own house if you constantly have them in a negative environment and never take the time out to teach them things that help them succeed in life as a person, as an adult.
Here's what I don't like about society. You can hit the gym, eat right, go to college, run marathons and travel the world all you want. But the one who's uneducated and works a dead end job that they hate and has no ambition to be better, society will say that person is more ambitious because at the end of the day he or she made money.
'Lazy' is a myth - since we are always motivated. We all use the same energy - always. It is awareness that is the deciding factor of real change. Let's dispense with the anger/fear.
This Is me 😫😭 although I don’t drink or use drugs. I’m clinically depressed and have extreme anxiety and OCD. I don’t see how my life can get better when I can’t go anywhere and socialise with people without panicking and being nervous
He mentioned mind maps. Freemind is open source and free. But freeplane is ALSO open source and free...is a later, slicker version of freemind. More features, including being able to embed it on a website (and a bunch more I don't recall atm). Both available at sourceforge.net I'm pretty sure that's the right URL. If not, just google it. There. That's MY good deed for the day.
Malan Darras hahaha it's getting hot in these regular tees and want to make sure if I rip up some of my favorite ones then I'll get that same look you've perfected!
Malan Darras btw, your musical taste is killer. Check out this instrumental band called Chon. Excellent work music. If looking for something heavier, yet still instrumental, then try Animals as Leaders. Look up the videos of Animals as Leaders after listening and prepare to be blown away!
so you're from the south? i'm wondering all the time if you sound like it a little or if it's just me by the way, you're right, it's a game changer to actually list the things you wanna do. i found myself suddenly doing the shit i listed, especially when i also added the steps needed. it's just not so easy when you have no idea how to get somewhere.
I saw Pearl Jam and Nirvana open for the RHCP back in the fall of '91 at the LA Colosseum where the LA Clippers used to play. Great show!!! I had bought 4tickets and took my friends. We didn't know that these two fairly new two bands were going open for them. It was the RHCP Blood Sugar Sex Magic tour. I had already seen them twice before. Fist time in Austin Tx the next day in Dallas at the Bronco Bowl, which by the way was a great place to see bands. That was the Chilli's Mothers Milk tour. Anyway back to their LA gig. Man they picked the wrong two bands to open for them. First PJ who rocked then it was Nirvana. It was Nirvana Man!!!! The Blew the crowd away!!! No encore and smashed al their gear, fuck it. Generation X at it's finest. No way could the RHCP's compete. They picked the wrong two bands to open for them. Right after that's when for the Seattle scene broke into the main stream. Alice in Chains Dirt was released a year latter Sound Gardens Super Unknown. Both classic albums. By the way I had a close friend that was the stage soundman for Sound Garden. Stewart Bennett who operates a big concert sound company in Dallas now. I was VIP at some of Sound Gardens gigs. Anyway, for me that was the height of the last big rock and roll movement in history. It was great being part of it. Thanks for letting me share this story, Peace Brotha
I know its a old video but i have a question i think lot of people will ask you the same. I foound your channel and i love the way you talk because you don't seems to be a scam like many people on youtube you seem to past throught this period of life. I'm exactly like you describe in this video right know at 22. I want a change!! But i don't know the step, so here is my question: HOW TO DO IT? HOW TO DO AFFILIATE MAKETING or other buisness like that. I don't have money to buy your program or anything i just have money to survive like many people so want can i do?? On youtube lot of people who wants to help like you have a "coaching program" but its not free, how did you do to get there without money? Thanks man if you replie
👍 On point, as usual! Thank you! What are your thoughts about Ralph at Infinite Waters ua-cam.com/video/Cg12DihCvks/v-deo.html. - you both are in LA, it would be great to see you guys do a collaboration from different perspectives. You guys are so different, yet evolving & so similar in some ways IMO. 🤗
I always revisit these classic vids
The problem is that most of us don't know the steps. We have a vague idea of what we want to do and step 1 is figure it out. Step 2 is to just research it, but there is so much information out there it's almost impossible to find a starting point.
pw709 there are a few thnngs óhat you can do while you are çrying to figure out what to do. Number one is to create options for yourself while you're finding yourself. How do you do that? Stay out of debt or get out of debt, and then start saving money. Once you hav a chunk saved acquire resources. For health, start with small baby steps of eating better and exercising some if you're not. The number one thing I think is to get your mind right. People have so much junk and crap in their heads holding themselves back. Something like A Course in Miracles is really good for that.
Sorry for the typeos
I want you understand that you might not feel the effect you have on your viewers life and they might not expressed it enough through their words but you are guiding crowds to the safe place everyone looking for.
damn, thanks!
Awesome, getting organized is the key. I like your advices.
'Dreams are goals without steps.' To paraphrase, 'write down goals and the area t get there, do 1-3 steps a day.' You are really awesome and helpful. You are truly motivating.
I am a Glob and I thank you for your videos I am trying to change and some of the things you say truly resonate with me. Please keep up the content I will be listening. Thank you sir
this is the second video of this man I have watched and he is good and probably one of the most practical
Thank-you Malan for this useful information and personal story.
I stopped by your vid to try get some ideas. I am a 63 yr old woman, retired and looking forward to all the activities I never had time for. A doctor recently told me , we wear many "hats" during our life.....employer/ee, wife, mother, grandmother etc. My problem is, I no longer wear any hats !
I was surprised at how depressed one can become. Saddly, I would be happy to pass naturally. Yet I'm too young and not suicidal.
I dont have any goals at the moment, BUT, I do like to listen to QUEEN music first thing in the morning.....it gets me out of bed.
I LOVE your "hats" analogy. We all need to find our hats. I have someone who needs to hear this message, so i'm going to pass it on, thank you.
Maybe your new "hat" could be The coolest 63 yr old in existence, who listens to QUEEN in the mornings :) Good luck you, keep the faith. Malan
lorrane I hope things have gotten better for you. I Don't know you but I was touched by your comment. I wish you blessings and the best!
Lorrane. what's good? How has everything been since you made this comment?
I would suggest a week or two on a cruise for starters. Or travel somewhere new.
Coming from someone who has been struggling with this the past two years, I think its very important to note that even with parents, you dont always get the life lessons and skills you need. Im 20 living with my family and still dont know about stock markets or much about credit or financials. Even now, asking for help from them is hard because i can never get it. Its very easy to make your kids feel alone in their own house if you constantly have them in a negative environment and never take the time out to teach them things that help them succeed in life as a person, as an adult.
Shequeria Hall you're on the right track, listening to videos like this. You will go far with a willingness to improve.
This video is really good ! You're a good man Malan !
thanks man
Here's what I don't like about society. You can hit the gym, eat right, go to college, run marathons and travel the world all you want. But the one who's uneducated and works a dead end job that they hate and has no ambition to be better, society will say that person is more ambitious because at the end of the day he or she made money.
6:38 inspiring; heck the whole video! (I have the same quote in my kitchen as your cup🤓)
I have to stop smoking too much weed bro. I hate the one I became.
I feel ya pain bro lol
unfortunately, it kills motivation.
'Lazy' is a myth - since we are always motivated. We all use the same energy - always. It is awareness that is the deciding factor of real change. Let's dispense with the anger/fear.
Great video. Just the motivation I needed. Wow.
thank you man for planting all those seeds in my head!
happy growing
Wow Wow. Thanks! I feel you are really different. I feel that if I follow you, maybe I can get where I want.
This Is me 😫😭 although I don’t drink or use drugs. I’m clinically depressed and have extreme anxiety and OCD. I don’t see how my life can get better when I can’t go anywhere and socialise with people without panicking and being nervous
He mentioned mind maps. Freemind is open source and free. But freeplane is ALSO open source and free...is a later, slicker version of freemind. More features, including being able to embed it on a website (and a bunch more I don't recall atm). Both available at sourceforge.net
I'm pretty sure that's the right URL. If not, just google it.
There. That's MY good deed for the day.
"Have a great fucking day" ..... love this man!!
Ashraf Vania keeping it real ;) that's how I talk with friends.
3:35 so true !! Nailed it
Globs are ppl with major depression
@malan "we're ready for you now here's a ten million dollar check"
great video once again! thx man
Great video, very inspirational.
You are the best,
Thank you!
welcome!
Another awesome video! When's the DIY sleeveless shirt tutorial video coming out?
Ruben Resendez damn - i need to do that one. how about "Coming Soon?" haha
Malan Darras hahaha it's getting hot in these regular tees and want to make sure if I rip up some of my favorite ones then I'll get that same look you've perfected!
Malan Darras btw, your musical taste is killer. Check out this instrumental band called Chon. Excellent work music. If looking for something heavier, yet still instrumental, then try Animals as Leaders. Look up the videos of Animals as Leaders after listening and prepare to be blown away!
Thank you. Your video helped me a lot
cool
How do you deal with attachment problem with relationship? I love your talk.
Sweet awesome drop!
Tommy Williams thanks man
Pearl Jam are my favourite band! Great video man :)
+Chris Nichols yeah man, great band
how old were you when you stopped drinking? You should make a video on how you quit drinking or what made you stop drinking.
34, went to AA every day for 90 days, then 4-5 days a week for 3 years. Did everything they said to do. Worked. :)
Malan Darras awsome.
+Malan Darras Success but took too long
How can you accomplish goals when the littlest things in life are challenging?
so you're from the south? i'm wondering all the time if you sound like it a little or if it's just me
by the way, you're right, it's a game changer to actually list the things you wanna do. i found myself suddenly doing the shit i listed, especially when i also added the steps needed. it's just not so easy when you have no idea how to get somewhere.
wow pearl jam, even flow, good taste my friend
thanks
good stuff bro
great advice
Thank You
man I don't know why but you are truly intersting
I knew you from the minimalism video then I went to AM, the way you approach things in life is like you truly see things the way they really are
I saw Pearl Jam and Nirvana open for the RHCP back in the fall of '91 at the LA Colosseum where the LA Clippers used to play. Great show!!! I had bought 4tickets and took my friends. We didn't know that these two fairly new two bands were going open for them. It was the RHCP Blood Sugar Sex Magic tour. I had already seen them twice before. Fist time in Austin Tx the next day in Dallas at the Bronco Bowl, which by the way was a great place to see bands. That was the Chilli's Mothers Milk tour. Anyway back to their LA gig. Man they picked the wrong two bands to open for them. First PJ who rocked then it was Nirvana. It was Nirvana Man!!!! The Blew the crowd away!!! No encore and smashed al their gear, fuck it. Generation X at it's finest. No way could the RHCP's compete. They picked the wrong two bands to open for them. Right after that's when for the Seattle scene broke into the main stream. Alice in Chains Dirt was released a year latter Sound Gardens Super Unknown. Both classic albums. By the way I had a close friend that was the stage soundman for Sound Garden. Stewart Bennett who operates a big concert sound company in Dallas now. I was VIP at some of Sound Gardens gigs. Anyway, for me that was the height of the last big rock and roll movement in history. It was great being part of it. Thanks for letting me share this story, Peace Brotha
Nice dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
why these kind of videos does't get more views and likes?
these are more helpful than those vlogs.
+DIMPU PAVAN KUMAR thanks
How old are you Malan?
I know its a old video but i have a question i think lot of people will ask you the same. I foound your channel and i love the way you talk because you don't seems to be a scam like many people on youtube you seem to past throught this period of life. I'm exactly like you describe in this video right know at 22. I want a change!! But i don't know the step, so here is my question: HOW TO DO IT? HOW TO DO AFFILIATE MAKETING or other buisness like that. I don't have money to buy your program or anything i just have money to survive like many people so want can i do?? On youtube lot of people who wants to help like you have a "coaching program" but its not free, how did you do to get there without money? Thanks man if you replie
Sorry for long question, and for bad english (im french).
I just found you and I am loving your channel! Thanks! New sub here. :)
I can't image you as a glob. Your arms are lovely.
+crikeymos22 i don't wanna be a glob!
Haha. No neither do I. I think I'll start listening to loud music in the morning to get me motivated.
👍 On point, as usual! Thank you! What are your thoughts about Ralph at Infinite Waters ua-cam.com/video/Cg12DihCvks/v-deo.html. - you both are in LA, it would be great to see you guys do a collaboration from different perspectives. You guys are so different, yet evolving & so similar in some ways IMO. 🤗
why go - pearl jam
dude...i thought u were 32 tops...nice
+Dr3amLooper Yeah me too. He is talking about "35" as it was many years ago. I hope I look as good by then :)
IM FAT OK
I love you! Brilliant mind! Xo