its what leads the world in general. whether small talk between like minded people or opposites. simply because of the action there will be a form of reaction
Exposing yourself to society is key to improving your communication skills. People would be surprised of how far you can get when you're charming and confident.
Also. The only thing that’s hard about talking to people is the initiation/approach. 90% of the time the conversation goes well after the initiation. Once you get past it you can build someone solid relationships. You’d be surprised by the amount of people who wanted to talk to you but didn’t have the courage to approach which could’ve flourished to something special and vice versa Have open body language, smile at strangers & try to give out at least 3 compliments to people a day & watch your life change We’re all human, laugh at the same stuff, go through the same problems etc. nothing to be afraid of. It’s all in your head More people are closed off after isolation is covid but that does not mean people don’t want to talk to people. People are craving friendship / intimacy now more than ever.
Yup. It's how you become a part of society. How else are others going to see the real you. Be yourself and those who respond well matter and those who don't. Let em go.
Uncle Rom is at 101K let’s go! His ability to tackle multiple aspects of life to make you a better man and person overall really is crucial to men like us🙏🏾 We thank and appreciate you Uncle Rom fr fr
I try to tease as much as I can. I do say hello now, or good morning, or how you doing, but most girls are very shy because of my aura or on guard. Honestly the next step, I don't know what to say. But I have realized this is an entirely new person in front of me, I can just ask "So what's your story?". Next step is now stopping them to have a convo. My favorite towards cashier is "So any crazy people today?" either they say no, or yes. Either way I go "uhhh so your problem(or not the problem.)" they start smiling or laughing.
If you don't practice, you will get rusty. Greetings are great to get you warmed up. There have been times when cashiers would have RBF and I would tell them they look like they're ready to leave. Then ask them if they're starting their day or "almost that time to leave". I would tell them to have a good day after the interaction. The next time I saw those cashiers they would sometimes smile when they saw me. Sometimes RBF is more about the job or situation than a woman having a funky attitude
As I've Said Before Unc... After I Got shut Down By Women Coming up As A Buck..I jus Kept On Practicing..And Hey..Now On Some Real.. I still Get Cold Feet Sometimes.. But hey I Make.It Happen🤷🏾♂️💪🏾😎💯
I read, listen and watch a lot about 🌎 world events.I always use this to strike a convo no matter where you are coming from and people stay hooked when they realised I know much about their state or country😅 because I never run out of words.
I’ve been practicing saying, “How you doin”?” and it works very well. Also learned a lot from a previous video called, “Conversation Skills Can Be Developed” and also lots of archived videos. It really is simple. I don’t do those cheesy pickup lines because they’re unnatural. Great message, Uncle Rom! Peace and blessings!
I was in a sandwich shop the other day when this fine counterterrorism tactical officer came in with her partner. I thought about you Rom and after she ordered and turned to sit down and wait with her partner, I told her she was beautiful. She looked and then she smiled and said Thank You. As I got my food and left she was standing by the door with her partner. Before I left I turned to her and told her that if she wanted to practice with her handcuffs I was available. She grinned from ear to ear. I said goodbye and left. I only did this because she was a tactical cop in full gear. I bet she thought that most men would not approach her because she was armed to the teeth and with a real fit male partner. I did it for practice. I had never done that before, and I am a very confident man.
Beloved young brothers. One of The best ways to improve your social skills is to get out there every day and risk making the mistakes, then learn and grow from each mistake. The initial short term embarrassment of the mistake will greatly reward you in the long term.
Talking to women in person will always be better than talking to women online. You could chat up women on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, tiktok ,dating apps ,you name it. That woman can use you for attention. Approach that same woman in person and as long as you have a certain amount of game , you will know whether a woman likes you or not.
Rom you want to make that cashier remember you give them a chocolate. Around Christmas is the best time. Just say Merry Christmas and give them a chocolate you just bought When you take a lady there with you that cashier will remember you and you often get that social acceptance from the cashier. Your lady friend you brought will see that as well. I like to give chocolates to doormen, hotel clerks and room cleaners when on vacation. The staff will remember you more than a guest who gave them a cash tip. Maybe you will hear "Hey mister candy man I got the best taxi for you coming right up".
Being present in the moment making an observation about something is key. Unless y'all be talking for a bit already the whole "hey how are you, how was your weekend" is a bit repetitive. Imo and experience usually things develop after just noticing details about her . And commenting when i want
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People Downplay small talk but it’s what leads to deeper convo
its what leads the world in general. whether small talk between like minded people or opposites. simply because of the action there will be a form of reaction
Exposing yourself to society is key to improving your communication skills. People would be surprised of how far you can get when you're charming and confident.
Also. The only thing that’s hard about talking to people is the initiation/approach.
90% of the time the conversation goes well after the initiation. Once you get past it you can build someone solid relationships.
You’d be surprised by the amount of people who wanted to talk to you but didn’t have the courage to approach which could’ve flourished to something special and vice versa
Have open body language, smile at strangers & try to give out at least 3 compliments to people a day & watch your life change
We’re all human, laugh at the same stuff, go through the same problems etc. nothing to be afraid of. It’s all in your head
More people are closed off after isolation is covid but that does not mean people don’t want to talk to people. People are craving friendship / intimacy now more than ever.
Yup. It's how you become a part of society. How else are others going to see the real you. Be yourself and those who respond well matter and those who don't. Let em go.
Yep ain't no way around this one either
Repetition is the conviction of a positive outcome, so the more women you talk to, the more comfortable you'll be talking to different women.
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I noticed if you say hi to
A woman in a loud strong
Voice, they say hi back😂
Fr fr I’ve been watching Rom’s Channel for maybe 5 or 6 months, Unc be giving out Jewels. Some of yall just gotta get out there and put them to use ✅
Uncle Rom is at 101K let’s go! His ability to tackle multiple aspects of life to make you a better man and person overall really is crucial to men like us🙏🏾 We thank and appreciate you Uncle Rom fr fr
🙏🏾
I try to tease as much as I can. I do say hello now, or good morning, or how you doing, but most girls are very shy because of my aura or on guard. Honestly the next step, I don't know what to say. But I have realized this is an entirely new person in front of me, I can just ask "So what's your story?". Next step is now stopping them to have a convo.
My favorite towards cashier is "So any crazy people today?" either they say no, or yes. Either way I go "uhhh so your problem(or not the problem.)" they start smiling or laughing.
If you don't practice, you will get rusty. Greetings are great to get you warmed up.
There have been times when cashiers would have RBF and I would tell them they look like they're ready to leave. Then ask them if they're starting their day or "almost that time to leave". I would tell them to have a good day after the interaction. The next time I saw those cashiers they would sometimes smile when they saw me. Sometimes RBF is more about the job or situation than a woman having a funky attitude
As I've Said Before Unc... After I Got shut Down By Women Coming up As A Buck..I jus Kept On Practicing..And Hey..Now On Some Real.. I still Get Cold Feet Sometimes.. But hey I Make.It Happen🤷🏾♂️💪🏾😎💯
I have to be creative working on that. My job is almost 95% men. I try whenever the opportunity pops up
I read, listen and watch a lot about 🌎 world events.I always use this to strike a convo no matter where you are coming from and people stay hooked when they realised I know much about their state or country😅 because I never run out of words.
I realized that's what's missing. Conversation can only go so far for me without that. Time to expand my horizons and learn/read up other stuff
I’ve been practicing saying, “How you doin”?” and it works very well. Also learned a lot from a previous video called, “Conversation Skills Can Be Developed” and also lots of archived videos. It really is simple. I don’t do those cheesy pickup lines because they’re unnatural. Great message, Uncle Rom! Peace and blessings!
I was in a sandwich shop the other day when this fine counterterrorism tactical officer came in with her partner. I thought about you Rom and after she ordered and turned to sit down and wait with her partner, I told her she was beautiful. She looked and then she smiled and said Thank You. As I got my food and left she was standing by the door with her partner. Before I left I turned to her and told her that if she wanted to practice with her handcuffs I was available. She grinned from ear to ear. I said goodbye and left.
I only did this because she was a tactical cop in full gear. I bet she thought that most men would not approach her because she was armed to the teeth and with a real fit male partner. I did it for practice. I had never done that before, and I am a very confident man.
@@sevenstarsofthedipper1047 huge W💯
Very player!
Beloved young brothers.
One of The best ways to improve your social skills is to get out there every day
and risk making the mistakes, then learn and grow from each mistake.
The initial
short term embarrassment of the mistake will greatly reward you in the long term.
Thanks, Unc. I actually needed this today. I forget to be so social sometimes.
💯💯💯social skills are very important.
What you are saying is true. If you speak to several women a day you will discover that a few of them will be receptive to you
thanks for confirming this rom, this isn’t “chasing women” just being cool 🤷🏽♂️
I hope you’re doing well OG. Being Socially adept can take you many places in life. I try to consciously practice it everyday myself.
Talking to people sharpens your gift of gab
Talking to women in person will always be better than talking to women online. You could chat up women on Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, tiktok ,dating apps ,you name it. That woman can use you for attention. Approach that same woman in person and as long as you have a certain amount of game , you will know whether a woman likes you or not.
Good morning Mr wills, from Louisiana to you, salute 💯💯
Build that convo muscle. Good looking out fam.
If ur young get a retail job in the mall or somethin talk to the public everytime you clock in
Rom you want to make that cashier remember you give them a chocolate. Around Christmas is the best time. Just say Merry Christmas and give them a chocolate you just bought
When you take a lady there with you that cashier will remember you and you often get that social acceptance from the cashier. Your lady friend you brought will see that as well.
I like to give chocolates to doormen, hotel clerks and room cleaners when on vacation. The staff will remember you more than a guest who gave them a cash tip. Maybe you will hear "Hey mister candy man I got the best taxi for you coming right up".
Being present in the moment making an observation about something is key. Unless y'all be talking for a bit already the whole "hey how are you, how was your weekend" is a bit repetitive. Imo and experience usually things develop after just noticing details about her . And commenting when i want
Real talk 💪
just say good morning and let the conversation flow that what i do ask what you make for dinner or favorite music you listen to .
He who can think,
but cannot communicate what he thinks
is at the same level of he who cannot think.
-Demosthenes
This is gold information guys
I don't understand why some women always want a man to smile. I had a woman that said that to me while i was in line. You don't even know me woman.
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