I agree, I feel like Bailey is one of my bffs 😆 I'm obviously delusional! And I think it's Sanasa.. at least that's the original Paris and Nicole way lol. Maybe Bailey turned it into Shanasa?
I hate that she has to feel guilty about missing an upload literally for her health.. like babe the whole point of doing this rather than a normal job is so you can have more control of your life. We love you and never want you to feel overwhelmed or burnt out, we will always be here when you come back. I know this is an older video but still.
You can call the skipped Mondays “self care Mondays” so your intro can be “I’m here for you every Monday EXCEPT on Self Care Mondays”. I appreciate what you do and understand how it can take a toll overtime. Take care of you.
My 3rd grade teacher was named Mrs. Doctor. Her husband was indeed a doctor. So he was Dr. Doctor. I think that's the best doctor name I've ever heard.
Bailey, please take as many breaks as you need! Take care of yourself. We understand that the more you take care of yourself and make yourself happy, the better your videos will be. Never feel bad skipping a Monday.
I prefer u over documentaries, because u don’t put creepy music, don’t put victims body pics or any real creepy pics. So I don’t get scared at all. Also I like the way u talk about those stuffs.
i really hate that she feel she has to apologize for every uncomfortable laugh or or explain every laugh to her viewers because people are ready and willing to cancel and drag her and any others who dont apologize for literally everything wrong they do or may have done.
When someone buries a body I automatically think they are guilty. It shows a certain kind of cruelty. In that they are not considering the grief the victim’s love one might feel from not knowing what happened to their sister, daughter, etc…..
Well, what were his options if you presume he killed her by accident, by taking the choking a little too far? They should have allowed a third person in the room.
He did though. He was actually quite popular in high school. He was known as a class clown and he had said once that high school was one of the best times in his life. There’s a movie called my friend dahmer staring Ross Lynch and was released back in 2017. It’s based off the graphic novel written by Derf Backderf which was one of Jeffreys friends he had from high school
I like to think that she researches it SO well, so that she can sit down and literally tell us a story.. as if it's a dialogue and she can hear our responses lol She's so awesome
Can't you tell how edited this is? Edited videos have become so common people don't even notice the constant cuts anymore, it's crazy. She can read a few lines about the story then talk about what she read, then stop to read another few lines, etc...
Bailey: "This video is for mature ppl" **Later in the video** Also Bailey: "Mr. Butts, **Laughs** Edit: This is the most likes I've ever gotten, Lol, Thank you!❤️
I am 56 yrs old and as a teen learned makeup reading Elle magazine. I was widowed and had health issues (also recovery alcohol) and lost interest in my appearance most of the time. I really have had fun watching your videos and renewed my desire to discover the Beautiful me for this time in my life! 💗 Ty Bailey it has become a snowballeffectt of positive changes!
Considering how her family reacted to her death, I wouldn't be surprised she had some type of childhood family related trauma. Doesn't sound like a family that loves her when they prioritize what others think more than anything else
@@lauravampire1276 I was saying in my comment before, I can't remember what I was talking about, but I was explaining something to my Mum, and it was kind of a serious story, and I laughed at one point, and I was like 👁👄👁... 😂😂😂😂
@@imabot2117 I was wondering that, too. Maybe it's like what Bailey said about how the cops doubted a woman would do something like this. This guy knows his wife, he knows the woman he married, and then there's a note saying something like that? Can you actually believe that? Though if that were me I'd immediately assume she had been forced against her will to write it or was being blackmailed or something. But yeah, all I can really think is denial and disbelief.
As a therapist it makes me so happy that you model self-care! You gotta take care of yourself when dealing with some sick stories of humanity. Thanks Bailey!
We, I mean everyone in generally, naturally wants to defend themselves. If they don’t they get asked about it. Might as well beat everyone to the punch
The key thing here is consent. Consent is a flexible thing, and even with both of them exchanging the hundreds of emails stating that they want this to happen, if, during the act itself, either of them withdrew consent, then it should have stopped. We have no idea if Sharon continued to consent during the act itself or not.
Absolutely. Whether it was "consensual" or not homicide, taking the life of another person, is illegal. And since they have evidence that strangulation was not only intentional but planned well in advance I think voluntary manslaughter is the appropriate charge. Either one of them could have changed their minds last minute but it doesn't matter because either way she died.
Exactly by the time she reached a certain thresh hold it was kinda too late for both parties but my thing is the old judge judy saying “if you go looking for trouble….. you’re gonna find it!”
I was thinking that too. Easy to say all that stuff when it’s not actually happening. Easy to be like whoa whoa I actually don’t like this how I thought I would.
Even if it was 100% consensual I still don't like the fact that he was capable/okay with taking someones life. If someone came to me and said they wanted to be tortured to death, I couldn't do it. The fact that this guy was able to makes me think he (and her honestly) has serious psychological problems.
Late to this particular party, but I had to share this with ya (seems like we all giggled a little at poor Dr Butts). My grandfather slipped and fell on a sidewalk several years back. As he was in critical condition, the doctors wanted to get the family together to decide what to do next. The doctor in charge of this was named Dr. Dilda. I had to bury my head in my jacket and pretend I was crying...
It's pretty much the tune Robin Williams sings in Mrs Doubtfire during the dinosaur scene. Not sure if he got it from some other song, but he probably did.
Thanks for addressing certain kinks with respect and giving safety precautions. I don't participate myself and I know this is a safe channel, but it's just nice to hear safe talk about these things.
But it also comes down to the idea that a person can only consent when they are in their right mind, and no person in their right mind would consent to that.
there is also consensual non-consent. even if we knew that she was telling him to stop its important to know that if she was using her safe words which would make him immediately stop orrr if she was just saying stop etc which wouldn't make him stop. but after all i guess we'll never know what happened in this scenario
@@caglegit5339 here's the thing. When in comes down to it, no one in their right mind would consent to that. I have no problem with fantasy, that's valid, but no one would actually allow that if they were completely mentally sound.
I’ll just play her videos and go about whatever I’m doing if I don’t feel like watching makeup lol I listen to her & the Already Gone podcast in the shower 🤣
@@sarvolkskaya I listen to her while I'm cooking a lot so most of the time I'm not even watching the video as much. I love her makeup looks, but I'd be busy sometimes
PLEASE do one over Suzanne Capper. Her story is so sad. She was kidnapped by a group of 6, tortured for a week, set on fire, and managed to survive to get help until she passed away 4 days later.
Can we just take a minute to thank Bailey for all she does!! Investigates all these mysteries! That takes tons of hours..then brings us these awesome videos while doing her make up and linking everything in the description!!! I see you Bailey...and appreciate all your hard work..I know it's not easy!!
Thank you Bailey for everything you're doing helping people find and give closure and trying to figure out Mysteries that cops can't even figure out you make more sense to me than any law enforcement has ever made any sense so thank you so much for everything you've done and help of searching for lost children or unsolved cases thank you
I learned Freud at college, I kind of understand some of the principles of his theories but the way he explains them is incredibly disgusting and disturbing.
I wouldn’t say THAT. He was the father of psychology for a reason. Many of his ideas were foundational, and a lot of his theories were modified and tweaked by Erikson and Jung, for example, who are also pioneers in psychology. Ironic that a former psych major readily engaged in splitting when it comes to Freud😂
I’ve been in my house sheltering in place alone since March. I got to the point that I had to force myself just to take a shower in the morning. Bailey’s got me putting make-up on in the morning again and showing up to work (my living room) showered, dressed, with make-up and my hair done nicely. Thank you for reminding me that I’m still a human being.
It's great how you say "I appreciate you guys" rather than the classic UA-cam "I love you guys so much". It's so much healthier, sets a boundary and it's much more realistic because you don't know us to love us
I feel like she's depressed and wanted to die but couldn't do it herself hence why she got fascinated in strangulation. The note to her husband is clue .
@@Glossgirlssubliminals - And you know that depression is the key mindset of suicidal people... How? Or are you just guessing? Further, I don't understand your point. I was pointing out that not all suicidal people feel depressed. I am just tired of everyone assuming the baseline is depression.
I just the same thing yesterday. Well, about how she looks like Mila Kunis. She looked a bit like Gwen Stefani in one video, when she still had blonde hair.
How did people not see him burry a body in his FRONT YARD. You would think he would go to the back so no one would see, but he went into the front to bury her in front of everyone.
Can confirm that it is indeed a pretty desolate place and small, run down town. I am from NC and have been all around the state unfortunately 🤣 He more than likely just lived in a patch of cleared woods off of a gravel "road" or something. It's definitely not uncommon in the rural parts of NC.
This is what I was thinking to... I’m now thinking it was agreed upon between them before if she left that letter and then they decided or he decided to say it was an accident if the police came around and buried her
Invisible Pink who said she couldn’t afford it? she obviously can, she just said she has an uncomfortable chair. she never even asked for ppl to pitch in.
I would chip in after she post her earnings from UA-cam, couple weeks w no make up and she could afford a chair personally made by NASA. Yup. I said it, and?
This hits really REALLY *REALLY* close to home. Not only did I grow up in Baltimore, but Sharon's father was actually the cantor of the Pikesville Baltimore Synagogue that my mother & her family attended when my mom was growing up. A sad cultural context comment about Sharon's parents' reaction, speaking from first-hand experience with what happened to my *own* mother having also been cut off by both the family & that *same* Orthodox congratulation (also for marrying a Catholic): The Jewish Orthodox ostracizing of those who marry gentiles outside the Jewish religion is still *far* more common than people realize & it's often a *total* disavowal/disowning of the individual. If it's an Ultra-Orthodox or even particularly rigid Conservative Orthodox community, the family will not only cut off all contact but literally declare the individual who married outside if the region to be "dead" to the family & to the faith community. My mother's Conservative Jewish Orthodox family full-fledged sat Shiva (week long mourning period for deceased loved ones) for my mother & didn't speak to her for more than a decade when she married a Catholic. Part of Sharon's parents' statements that she wasn't their daughter may have been much more complicated than "shame" or embarrassment over the scandal, rooted in the Jewish Orthodox cultural tradition that they'd professed the mindset that *their* daughter had already been "dead to them" from the moment she'd married a Christian 😪
Thank you for the insight! That definitely makes sense of how her parents reacted to the situation. It’s interesting how intense some parts of religion can be. I hope you and your family are doing well now though.
Thank you Bailey for all the work that you do on these stories! I am so glad that you are taking time to take care of yourself. Keep up the wonderful work!
The amount of nuance and humanity you apply to these stories is unreal. I used to listen to a lot of true crime until I had kids, and then I just felt so wrong and even paying attention to this stuff - I think mostly because most stories felt so sterile and detached. You explore darkness with such a tender and sympathetic viewpoint. I also appreciate you taking the time to stop generalizations and encouraging safety. You seem like a really beautiful person, and deserve all the success with the platform that has come your way ❤️
I think my favorite part about Bailey is that she acts like she talking to us all in person.
Oh yes so true!!
I know and I love it !! Feels like I have known her for years love love love her videos!!! I can watch them about all day lol 😂😂😂
Agreed. It's like hearing an interesting story from a best friend
Wholly agree. I like that it's not overly formal or sombre, that always feels kind of forced. Definitely just feels like having a chat with a friend!
That's so true I love that, it feels like ur best friend is telling a story while u are with a banch of people listening that have same interest as u
Bailey: *laughs*
Me: *laughs along*
Bailey: it’s not funny
Me: oh ok.
😂😂😂😂 me too!
😂😂😂😂 yup
Honestly every time I swear
🤣🤣🤣😐
Same......
Bailey: “This is for mature audiences”
Also Bailey *laughs hysterically at “Dr.Butts”*
😂😂😂
It’s a mood 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Every time we drove past “Butts’ Realty” in my neighborhood... my kids: “Mommy, you’re such a kid!”
Haha when she laughs mostly I have to aswel 😅
I would like to thank Dr. Butts for his part in this story...giving us a touch of comic relief in a tragic situation.
Listening at work and almost laughed out loud! Yikes! hahahhaha
Butts is a common sir name in the Carolinas
@@amandalang6926 i had a German math teacher called rottbut, hehe
Mt husband had a teacher named Mr. Sourbutts lol
Butts is my Step Dads last name. Still giggle after 13 years...
I’m invested in the stories but I’m more invested in if Bailey will ever get a new comfortable chair
YES
RIGHT? I was sitting at my desk and thinking “wow, I should appreciate my chair more” 😂 girl get the swivel chair with no arms from Ikea! 🤣❤️
There is a great office chair I use to have, hang on I'll get the link
I was surprised it didn't disappear when she moved!
That's the real mystery
True crime can make people feel overwhelmed and saddened, please take the breaks you need we shall Shanasha with you when you get back
The way I heard the "Shanasha~♪" play in my mind
I love this comment
I agree, I feel like Bailey is one of my bffs 😆 I'm obviously delusional! And I think it's Sanasa.. at least that's the original Paris and Nicole way lol. Maybe Bailey turned it into Shanasa?
I totally agree, I always end up singing shanasha with her and using the word noggin. Love you Bailey
the best comment
Bailey: This video is intended for a mature audience.
Also Bailey: Mr. Butts *laughs uncontrollably*
💀
She is a woman of culture
@@kevitamaster-brewkombucha5472 I feel this so much
megan monkey14 as you should 😌
she said a mature audience no one said the host had to be mature 🤣
Hey he didn't spend 10 years in school for you to call him MR Butts
“So. He dies…I don’t know if I like this lip, you guys.”
That’s the same energy we should always bring when child predators die. 💅🏽 👍🏽
Agreed
This
Yesssss! She's just like meh moving on. 😂😂😂
1000000000000% this
🙄
Her voice and personality is just perfect for story telling.
Same thought!
Yes. I m here just for stories I listen b4 sleep and in between I peek at her makeup progress. lol
Completely agree! I love her story telling and style!
Shhhhhh
I agree 💖
I hate that she has to feel guilty about missing an upload literally for her health.. like babe the whole point of doing this rather than a normal job is so you can have more control of your life. We love you and never want you to feel overwhelmed or burnt out, we will always be here when you come back. I know this is an older video but still.
So true
Bro...that was beautiful. Your words looked so carefully selected and idk I really like your comment
@@strawberrymilk1563 aww thank you ☺️ I just don’t think it’s fair for her to feel pressure from us as fans, just support 😊
Calling someone you don’t know “Babe” 🤢
@@idahomountainlover754 ....leaving a useless comment for someone who's being kind hearted. 👆🤬👎😡
You can call the skipped Mondays “self care Mondays” so your intro can be “I’m here for you every Monday EXCEPT on Self Care Mondays”. I appreciate what you do and understand how it can take a toll overtime. Take care of you.
I second this!!
Love this idea!!!!
@@ohitsmegiovanna I third this 😼
Yes!
YASSSS!💕
My 3rd grade teacher was named Mrs. Doctor. Her husband was indeed a doctor. So he was Dr. Doctor. I think that's the best doctor name I've ever heard.
And now I hear Doctor Doctor give me the news I got a bad case of loving you in my head. 🤣🤣🤣
Okay that sounds like a leslie nielson character omfg
This makes me think of the “Mister Doctor” scene in Dr. Strange 😂 Mads Mikkelsen was great in that scene.
I had ear issues as a young child and my specialist was Dr. Doctor 🤣 And to top it off he looked and acted just like Steve Martin
@@michaelgoodman9945 are you sure it wasn't Steve Martin? 🤣🤣🤣
“i’m not laughing because…” this is always my favourite part.
🤣🤣🤣
People who have been here a while know this is just her nervous laughter lol
Cindy Xin same 😂😂
Bailey, please take as many breaks as you need! Take care of yourself. We understand that the more you take care of yourself and make yourself happy, the better your videos will be. Never feel bad skipping a Monday.
I prefer u over documentaries, because u don’t put creepy music, don’t put victims body pics or any real creepy pics. So I don’t get scared at all. Also I like the way u talk about those stuffs.
She doesn’t talk about the cases in a slow dragging it along voice, and the creepy music!
Exactly, want to hear the story of a tragedy but also sleep tonight.
Alyssa Rizzo say thattt again d:
yeah she’s one of the only youtubers that covers this topic that doesn’t give me anxiety while watching
The creepy music isnt even creepy, its just annoying. I hate when steph xoes it
“And then he had a heart attack,”
Thank you Light Yagami.
i laughed a little too hard at this comment
@@jenni3548 glad I could be of service.
Hahaha best comment for sure
LOL
Lol
Me watched 10 of her videos straight:
My brain when I’m trying to sleep: shana sha shana sha shana sha sha shana shaaaaaaaa!
Yesss ME yes this is soo me I can't stop laughing
Yeeeeeeeeeees!
Me too...thanks to my gf. Been stuck in my head for the last two days. Can you guess why I'm replying? My TV has been hijacked.
I’m currently binging 😂
Me actually singing along as im reading this :|
i really hate that she feel she has to apologize for every uncomfortable laugh or or explain every laugh to her viewers because people are ready and willing to cancel and drag her and any others who dont apologize for literally everything wrong they do or may have done.
Cancel culture is depressing.
Cancel culture is heavy af.
I hate that she has to do constant disclaimers. Can’t imagine getting triggered over every little thing.
I feel like a collab with you telling Mykie one of these stories while she does SFX makeup on you would be absolutely BOMB!
Yesssssss 🖤🖤🖤
And Spencer Henry commenting behind the camera 😂
Y e s .
Yassssssas
Yesssss
When someone buries a body I automatically think they are guilty.
It shows a certain kind of cruelty. In that they are not considering the grief the victim’s love one might feel from not knowing what happened to their sister, daughter, etc…..
Well said.
Agreed
Well, what were his options if you presume he killed her by accident, by taking the choking a little too far?
They should have allowed a third person in the room.
@@ouwebrood497 maybe take her to the hospital or turn himself in
Why do I imagine Bailey's Google search to be like "Did Jeffrey Dahmer have friends?"
I laughed so hard. i’ve never thought about thattt
Lol
I would LOVE to see her search history for sure!! LOL
He did though. He was actually quite popular in high school. He was known as a class clown and he had said once that high school was one of the best times in his life.
There’s a movie called my friend dahmer staring Ross Lynch and was released back in 2017. It’s based off the graphic novel written by Derf Backderf which was one of Jeffreys friends he had from high school
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sounds like home girl was just suicidal, but in a spicy way.
this made laugh way more than it should've.💀
AHAHAHAHA!! That would be GOLDEN! 👌🏻😂
Oh my gosh 🤭😂
By any chance are you a fan of Brittney Vaughn... The home girl comment 😂
I really bust out laughing
I don't know how she talks about all of it without sounding scripted, it is as if she remembers it all by heart.
The human mind, eh? ;)
Also her script may just be notes to help her remember without writing down every word
I like to think that she researches it SO well, so that she can sit down and literally tell us a story.. as if it's a dialogue and she can hear our responses lol
She's so awesome
Can't you tell how edited this is? Edited videos have become so common people don't even notice the constant cuts anymore, it's crazy. She can read a few lines about the story then talk about what she read, then stop to read another few lines, etc...
She needs to do voice over for books!!
23:11 Watching her struggle to not laugh at “Dr. Butts” is the best thing I’ve seen all day!! 🤣😂
I kept replaying that! HILARIOUS!! And then she said "Ok, I'm 5" 😂😂😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@angelmardi4335 Haha some here too!! 🤣😂
She is SOO comical!!
Thank you my hero! Was looking for someone to time stamp it so I could show someone! 😅😅😅
The only reason I'm aware of weeks passing during this quarantine is Bailey's Monday videos.
ahaha whenever she uploads i’m like “it’s monday again?!”
Honestly same 😂
Same
SAME
@@jacobae you know what? You right 😂
Bailey: "This video is for mature ppl"
**Later in the video**
Also Bailey: "Mr. Butts, **Laughs**
Edit: This is the most likes I've ever gotten, Lol, Thank you!❤️
Hey that's Dr Butts he didn't spend all that time and money on medical school to be disrespected like this
First name: Seymour.
@@rhiannon3168 underrated comment
Haha, love inappropriate names! My Mum had a dietician once whose surname was Bacon. 😂
Katie M their name was bacon but they were a dietitian 😂🤣
Dr Butts sounds like a character out of Tina Belcher’s fanfic
THIS COMMENT WINS 🤣
Yes hahahahahahaha!
YES!!!!
My highschool friend's last name was Butts ;)
yass queen
Bailey encouraging everyone to educate themselves on whatever they think might floatie their boatie without judgment? It's everything. Love it ✨
Bailey is giving me Amy Lee “Call Me When You’re Sober” vibes in this video and I’m HERE. FOR. IT.
Same here
Love Amy Lee!
YES!
YEEEES
They look exactly alike
I am 56 yrs old and as a teen learned makeup reading Elle magazine. I was widowed and had health issues (also recovery alcohol) and lost interest in my appearance most of the time. I really have had fun watching your videos and renewed my desire to discover the Beautiful me for this time in my life! 💗 Ty Bailey it has become a snowballeffectt of positive changes!
I love this for you!
I so so hope that Bailey reads this ♥️ @Sherry Perkins 🏆💯 positive affirmations 👌🏾
Awwww! I love thisssss
@@Hayhayitsmaay You know...right ✅ 🥰😍🥰
i can relate
Considering how her family reacted to her death, I wouldn't be surprised she had some type of childhood family related trauma. Doesn't sound like a family that loves her when they prioritize what others think more than anything else
Bailey, don’t apologize for looking out for yourself. There is nothing wrong with self love. We love you. Take care of yourself always. ❤️
Right We want Bailey Healthy and Happy..so go relax girl we got you
@@camillasmith6010 ll
Nobody, not a single person:
Bailey: "I'm not laughing because..." 😂😂😂😂
i let out the ugliest wheeze every time she says that
@@elbie7112 Same! I said it the other day and I was like "oh no" 😂😂😂😂. I think we all need shirts with this printed on it 😂
She’s the type to laugh when she’s uncomfy which I love cuz I’m the same 😂
@@lauravampire1276 I was saying in my comment before, I can't remember what I was talking about, but I was explaining something to my Mum, and it was kind of a serious story, and I laughed at one point, and I was like 👁👄👁... 😂😂😂😂
QueenRugBee I surprise myself when I giggle at a gruesome or sad story 💀
I feel really bad for Sharon's husband. He must've been devastated.
Yes, he’s the true victim.
But why didn't he report her missing until after a week?even after he found the letter?
Honestly first you find out your wife is cheating on you and then boom she’s also dead
@@imabot2117 I was wondering that, too. Maybe it's like what Bailey said about how the cops doubted a woman would do something like this. This guy knows his wife, he knows the woman he married, and then there's a note saying something like that? Can you actually believe that? Though if that were me I'd immediately assume she had been forced against her will to write it or was being blackmailed or something. But yeah, all I can really think is denial and disbelief.
why's this not a highlighted comment!?
Can you do a story on “Dennis DePue” apparently he inspired the movie “Jeepers Creepers” I think it would be an interesting story!
This has my vote👍
Yes!
Yesssss
Yesss
Plus someone having to do with the Movie was arrested for some sketchy stuff too
As a therapist it makes me so happy that you model self-care! You gotta take care of yourself when dealing with some sick stories of humanity. Thanks Bailey!
“Dr. Butts determin-“ * childish giggles * I love Bailey. 😂
She’s adorable lol
She is so funny, Lol
I went to school with a guy who's last name was Butts. His dad was a doctor, a proctologist to be exact. LOL. I'm not kidding.
These are the most organized and effective cops in any story you've done thus far
Competent cops in a story told to us by Bailey? Way less likely than you think. But hey! It's possible!
For real! Lol
I mean they did have a ton of evidence up front but I know what you mean!
@@lucasgarcia8285 there’s so many cases where legit evidence is ignored by incompetent detectives lol it’s refreshing to see them doing their job
Girl, you need merch that says
“ *giggle* .... it’s not funny.” I’d definitely buy 😭❤️❤️❤️
I would buy it too
Yes asap
that would b perfect lol
Yes!
I'm in....
In regards to charges, a person cannot legally give permission to be killed. So that's probably why the prosecutors went with the charge they did.
You kinda can, though. In Oregon (US). And in certain other pockets of countries around the world.
He didn't even say he killed her because she asked. He said it was an accident. So manslaughter regardless of her twisted intent
Just modify your intro to say “I’m here for you MOST Mondays.” We’ll be fine!!!
“Rest in peace to Sharon. Whatever she was going through, I do hope she’s at peace now. Robert, you know, mehhhh” I laughed so hard
I hate that youtubers have to explain themselves why they need breaks. Take a break mamas
Amen!
We, I mean everyone in generally, naturally wants to defend themselves. If they don’t they get asked about it. Might as well beat everyone to the punch
Yeah but now she takes breaks like every week.. Which is fine but then just do it every 2 wks or something instead of not at all.
The key thing here is consent. Consent is a flexible thing, and even with both of them exchanging the hundreds of emails stating that they want this to happen, if, during the act itself, either of them withdrew consent, then it should have stopped. We have no idea if Sharon continued to consent during the act itself or not.
Absolutely. Whether it was "consensual" or not homicide, taking the life of another person, is illegal. And since they have evidence that strangulation was not only intentional but planned well in advance I think voluntary manslaughter is the appropriate charge. Either one of them could have changed their minds last minute but it doesn't matter because either way she died.
Exactly by the time she reached a certain thresh hold it was kinda too late for both parties but my thing is the old judge judy saying “if you go looking for trouble….. you’re gonna find it!”
I was thinking that too. Easy to say all that stuff when it’s not actually happening. Easy to be like whoa whoa I actually don’t like this how I thought I would.
Even if it was 100% consensual I still don't like the fact that he was capable/okay with taking someones life. If someone came to me and said they wanted to be tortured to death, I couldn't do it. The fact that this guy was able to makes me think he (and her honestly) has serious psychological problems.
Monday has arrived !!!!! This page is less morbid than the actual beauty community 😂 ..love it ❤️
😂
😂 sad but true
A truer story has never been told 🤣👌
MANNNNNN🤣🤣
😂😂
Nobody:
Bailey: "Dr.butts" *giggles* * evil laugh*
that laugh after "Dr. Butts" is the most wholesome thing honestly
Love her laugh!
Late to this particular party, but I had to share this with ya (seems like we all giggled a little at poor Dr Butts). My grandfather slipped and fell on a sidewalk several years back. As he was in critical condition, the doctors wanted to get the family together to decide what to do next. The doctor in charge of this was named Dr. Dilda. I had to bury my head in my jacket and pretend I was crying...
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💀😭😭😭😭🤭🤭🤭😂😂
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I work in a pharmacy and one of the doctors at the facilities we ship to is named Dr. Sack
@@ViciousVelociraptor - That is freaking beautiful, man. 🤣🤣🤣
Actually checked iTunes to see if her “theme song” was a ring tone. You can’t deny that would be a fun ringtone
Wait can we do that?
I have noticed that I am often doing her theme song subconsciously.
Dana Walker Absolutely
So if you download her video as an MP3 and then download a ringtone maker app, you could totally make it into a ringtone.
It's pretty much the tune Robin Williams sings in Mrs Doubtfire during the dinosaur scene. Not sure if he got it from some other song, but he probably did.
If Bailey says ‘and that’s the end of the story’ and her lipstick isn’t done. She lying
So true
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@@flbphotography2239 no
@@jenniferposey1582?
“It’s still me so don’t get scared” same girl same
DUH
What I try to tell myself everyday I look into the mirror
Thanks for addressing certain kinks with respect and giving safety precautions. I don't participate myself and I know this is a safe channel, but it's just nice to hear safe talk about these things.
My concern with this situation is whether or not she revoked her consent at any point in time that’s why these cases are so tricky in my opinion
Exactly like what if she was trying to tell him to stop while being strangled, he might not have even known or just assumed it was part of it.
Safe words are so important, but if the other party doesn't acknowledge it...😔
But it also comes down to the idea that a person can only consent when they are in their right mind, and no person in their right mind would consent to that.
there is also consensual non-consent. even if we knew that she was telling him to stop its important to know that if she was using her safe words which would make him immediately stop orrr if she was just saying stop etc which wouldn't make him stop. but after all i guess we'll never know what happened in this scenario
@@caglegit5339 here's the thing. When in comes down to it, no one in their right mind would consent to that. I have no problem with fantasy, that's valid, but no one would actually allow that if they were completely mentally sound.
bailey: which is c-
me: CASETIFY !
bailey: care of
me : *suprised Pikachu face*
the fact that i’ve been here since her channel was small and now she has million of supporters so proud of you bby🥺❤️
Eileen J literally 🥺
I came around when it was small too. It really does make my heart feel full seeing how big the channel has gotten.
There's only 1 million 😆 plus some but not 2+ million 😂
SAME I was literally just thinking this
Shes been growing like crazy!!! Cuz who doesnt love bailey
Let's all just appreciate that she *always* gets permission to use photos, and makes sure she's allowed to.
is it just me or does anyone else love how real, beautiful, and open-minded this human being (Bailey Sarian) is?
It’s okay to take breaks and don’t feel bad for looking out for well-being, your supporters will be here for you
“Dr butts” *bailey trying to hold back but smiles slightly anyways”
Lol
One should never take advantage of someone else's desire to die.
She needs a podcast! 😫 I can’t listen to any other ones because I can’t stand their voices because I’m so used to hers 🤣
I see a different one I'm just like she's copying Bailey lol
I’ll just play her videos and go about whatever I’m doing if I don’t feel like watching makeup lol I listen to her & the Already Gone podcast in the shower 🤣
same😂
@@sarvolkskaya I listen to her while I'm cooking a lot so most of the time I'm not even watching the video as much. I love her makeup looks, but I'd be busy sometimes
Agree!!! I've been thinking about this since the first time I watched her videos.
PLEASE do one over Suzanne Capper. Her story is so sad. She was kidnapped by a group of 6, tortured for a week, set on fire, and managed to survive to get help until she passed away 4 days later.
Aww sad :( btw you look like me lol
Y’all must be twins Cause this mad trippy
TamaraR Brown oooh yeah kind of!! This photo of me though is from when I was 15 😂😂
@@tamararbrown6352 lol
Shut up Carol. Lol
Can we just take a minute to thank Bailey for all she does!!
Investigates all these mysteries! That takes tons of hours..then brings us these awesome videos while doing her make up and linking everything in the description!!!
I see you Bailey...and appreciate all your hard work..I know it's not easy!!
Thank You Bailey 🤩 we love you.
Thank you Bailey for everything you're doing helping people find and give closure and trying to figure out Mysteries that cops can't even figure out you make more sense to me than any law enforcement has ever made any sense so thank you so much for everything you've done and help of searching for lost children or unsolved cases thank you
Yes Giiiirrrllll!!!!
Apologies for ruining the perfect 880 likes, but you're right.
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As someone who has majored in Psychology, I would say, anything Freud said, should NEVER be repeated or taught! He was sick.
Freud/his students get referenced all the time in philosophy (Zizek, Fanon, Deleuze) and I don’t really know what to make of it.
I learned Freud at college, I kind of understand some of the principles of his theories but the way he explains them is incredibly disgusting and disturbing.
I wouldn’t say THAT. He was the father of psychology for a reason. Many of his ideas were foundational, and a lot of his theories were modified and tweaked by Erikson and Jung, for example, who are also pioneers in psychology. Ironic that a former psych major readily engaged in splitting when it comes to Freud😂
YES
Hear, hear!
I’ve been in my house sheltering in place alone since March. I got to the point that I had to force myself just to take a shower in the morning. Bailey’s got me putting make-up on in the morning again and showing up to work (my living room) showered, dressed, with make-up and my hair done nicely. Thank you for reminding me that I’m still a human being.
I love reading these💓💓 so glad to hear, i hope you continue to do well 😇
I’m happy that you are feeling better!
Hope it continues this way for you ! Hope one day for me too lol .
Pumpkin Spice Depression Session.
Krysten Ridgeway Yum!
It's great how you say "I appreciate you guys" rather than the classic UA-cam "I love you guys so much". It's so much healthier, sets a boundary and it's much more realistic because you don't know us to love us
Thank you saying this. “I love you” have got to be the three most overused words in our vocabulary.
So true!!!!
Bailey: laughs out loud
Also Bailey: "No... It's not funny...."
I just wait for this moment 😂😂😂❤️...
23:13 ... Just for the record...😂
hahaha same.
I love when she does that
I love when she does that. lol
All the time 😂😂
I feel like she's depressed and wanted to die but couldn't do it herself hence why she got fascinated in strangulation. The note to her husband is clue .
100%
Not everyone who wants to die is depressed.
@@waynefeller8824 but, most do, she could’ve been in that majority.
@@Glossgirlssubliminals - And you know that depression is the key mindset of suicidal people... How? Or are you just guessing?
Further, I don't understand your point. I was pointing out that not all suicidal people feel depressed. I am just tired of everyone assuming the baseline is depression.
@@waynefeller8824 because over 60% (75%if you include alcoholics) of suicidal people, are depressed.
She looks like a mix of Jessie j and mila kunis
Mila Kunis 100%
Yesss i totally see jessie
I WAS THINKING LITERALLY THE EXACT SAME THING
I just the same thing yesterday. Well, about how she looks like Mila Kunis. She looked a bit like Gwen Stefani in one video, when she still had blonde hair.
Sometimes angelina jolie too depends on her eye make up though
Earlier I was like “hmm i miss bailey” then realized today is MONDAYYYY 😆 shattashaaaa
Ikr right before I clicked on yt I was wondering if she uploaded today
Me too x
Umm excuse me!! It’s shunahshashunashasha 😂
Same here!
Literally me too
How did people not see him burry a body in his FRONT YARD. You would think he would go to the back so no one would see, but he went into the front to bury her in front of everyone.
Everything about this was whack!
If you guys ever saw lenoir NC you’d know how it’s possible. I was there in 2012 and it’s the middle of nowhere.
Can confirm that it is indeed a pretty desolate place and small, run down town. I am from NC and have been all around the state unfortunately 🤣 He more than likely just lived in a patch of cleared woods off of a gravel "road" or something. It's definitely not uncommon in the rural parts of NC.
Love that she explained the importance of breath play.
3:31 “I need to sit up straight” cuts to next scene hunched over 😂
“They found a knee, a knee, the found a knee!” *serious face* Bailey.
I can't believe people actually DISLIKE any of her videos. 😳🙄
It might be accidental but other than that, I don't know why someone would dislike
Kit Kitten I know right
I no right
theyre bots thats why almost every video on yt has dislikes 😻
They're just weirdos!... 😎🖤
Don’t ever apologize for taking breaks we love you
If this is an accident why not call the cops instead of burying her
Fear? Then again sharon made the letter that she didnt want Robert to get caught
This is exactly what I was coming to say
Its what she wanted
This is what I was thinking to... I’m now thinking it was agreed upon between them before if she left that letter and then they decided or he decided to say it was an accident if the police came around and buried her
Late 90s could have been dear of judgement
Your “scary” look is otherworldly beautiful Bailey Girl. 😘
So true😍
Are you able to read my comment?
@J RENN.... I see your comment
She’s always just so beautiful and has the attitude, humor and sarcasm to match.... Love Bailey and M.M.M.M. so much 🥰
Petition idea: crowd funding to get Bailey a comfy chair finally!
Not a lie! We’ve heard about this chair for manyyyy videos
2 MILLION subscribers, a monetized channel, and can't afford a new chair? 🧐
Invisible Pink
who said she couldn’t afford it? she obviously can, she just said she has an uncomfortable chair. she never even asked for ppl to pitch in.
I would chip in after she post her earnings from UA-cam, couple weeks w no make up and she could afford a chair personally made by NASA.
Yup. I said it, and?
Off topic but I laughed so hard when she messed up her eyeshadow and said “mayday”
The world is ending but I'm here.
Me too 🙋🏻♀️
So am I 🙋♀️
Her laugh after saying “Dr. Butts” 🤣🤣 she’s so cute!
Every Monday my family yells “cousin Bailey with the tea is on” 😂she family now😂
I LOVE this!!
This is great
thats so cuteee
Our queen is almost at 5 million subs!!!! I love how quickly she has grown. And she is still the same as she was when I found her at 50,000 subs!!!
I have NEVER had such spot on timing! Opens UA-cam, “posted 1 minute ago”.
it’s no longer “no no” to my two year old, it’s “nay nay” 😭
Tell me why I find myself saying nay nay now😂
This weekend when my kids and I was going through things to keep or through out. I asked nay or yay lol sooo yeah 🤣 I mean yay
Saaame for my dogs.
Bailey, definitely dont feel bad about needing to take breaks--these are some heavy topics we're dealing with here! Take care of yourself!
This hits really REALLY *REALLY* close to home. Not only did I grow up in Baltimore, but Sharon's father was actually the cantor of the Pikesville Baltimore Synagogue that my mother & her family attended when my mom was growing up.
A sad cultural context comment about Sharon's parents' reaction, speaking from first-hand experience with what happened to my *own* mother having also been cut off by both the family & that *same* Orthodox congratulation (also for marrying a Catholic):
The Jewish Orthodox ostracizing of those who marry gentiles outside the Jewish religion is still *far* more common than people realize & it's often a *total* disavowal/disowning of the individual. If it's an Ultra-Orthodox or even particularly rigid Conservative Orthodox community, the family will not only cut off all contact but literally declare the individual who married outside if the region to be "dead" to the family & to the faith community. My mother's Conservative Jewish Orthodox family full-fledged sat Shiva (week long mourning period for deceased loved ones) for my mother & didn't speak to her for more than a decade when she married a Catholic.
Part of Sharon's parents' statements that she wasn't their daughter may have been much more complicated than "shame" or embarrassment over the scandal, rooted in the Jewish Orthodox cultural tradition that they'd professed the mindset that *their* daughter had already been "dead to them" from the moment she'd married a Christian 😪
That is very sad. I can't imagine.
That's crazy. So sad to treat your babies that way, over who they marry when they grow up.
Thank you for the insight! That definitely makes sense of how her parents reacted to the situation. It’s interesting how intense some parts of religion can be. I hope you and your family are doing well now though.
This whole comment section is just hyping up Bailey and I’m honestly here for it.
As it should.😌💅
The world is falling apart and you’re still here for us so you deserve as many breaks as you need
YEP!
Totally agree 👍 Thanks for helping us all get through these dark times Bailey...you are awesome ❤
Dr. Butts, lol. At least he wasn't a proctologist.
Cynthia Wilson That’s a missed career opportunity right there
I went to a Hematologist named Dr Needles. Can't get more appropriate than that 😂
My daughters allergy doctor was Dr. Fears. He was amazing! So funny
I've been enjoying everyone's comments on this, lol
lol
Love how you add in the extra information and advice along with the story. You really do your homework and we all get the benefit. Thank you x 💕
This really work out for me,the Great powerful lady madamogaga helped me to bring back my ex,I got my ex back now;she can also help you out!!!!
Text him on what'sApp now
W,h,a,t,'s,a,p,p
+2_3_4_7_0_8_4_6_4_8_54_7
I love how she says “Right?” And every time I reply with “Right”
I just pictured a person watching very very closely and replying to her and its so funny to me😂
Saaaameee! I talk to her riiight back. Lol she helps my anxiety sooo much.
I think its funny when she says, "remember?" 🤣😂
Does Noggin still exist.? Well they should be paying bailey for advertising
@iknodewaemybruddas👁👄👁 but so is your name
Those candles at the back are really making the right type of atmosphere for this story.
HEYYY OMF I NEVER THOUGHT ID SEE A FELLOW JIKOOKIST HERE!! LOVE UR VIDEOS
She kills it with setting the background!! That looks like hair on the left side on the bottom of the candles. I wonder if that’s a wig haha
They are all facing the same direction
Says a lot for those who decorate their bathrooms and bedrooms like this. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Iiterally they’re fake spiders I think
Thank you Bailey for all the work that you do on these stories! I am so glad that you are taking time to take care of yourself. Keep up the wonderful work!
The amount of nuance and humanity you apply to these stories is unreal. I used to listen to a lot of true crime until I had kids, and then I just felt so wrong and even paying attention to this stuff - I think mostly because most stories felt so sterile and detached. You explore darkness with such a tender and sympathetic viewpoint. I also appreciate you taking the time to stop generalizations and encouraging safety. You seem like a really beautiful person, and deserve all the success with the platform that has come your way ❤️
Does anyone else sing along to the theme song and then do the clicky sound and “noggin” bit with Bailey while watching these videos? 😂
🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
Yep I do!!!!😂😂😂😂😂
Every time 😅❤️
Every week 😂
Yasss
your literally the only one who’s sponsors i dont skip over lol .. it doesn’t matter hm i love the youtuber either ! lol your #1 youtuber !