Dude. I listened to your videos all week at work and went out for maybe three hours and the three or four things that I learned this week I was able to plant to seed with one girl, I got another girls phone number without asking for it, and I had Like five positive walk up interactions with strangers. You have no idea how much you helped me in such a short amount of time you are fucking awesome.
is this tips good for ukraine ? usualy different positions and different locations are dictated by air strike allert so we can be on knees under cover How to not be a creepy when aproaching girl in bombshelter What if our date is going well but its aristrike nearby and she runs away, is it counts as 1 date and we can rescedule another so it will be second date ? What to do if you are close to low on budget like 20$ in pocket and anyday you can be conscripted :DDDD
There's no such thing as "Alpha Bro" in dating. It's masculine or feminine energy. Vibe is everything. Being calm, confident, and leading is masculine which puts her in her feminine. Women are not attracted to feminine men.
@Yammie_Moto671 There is most definitely Alpha Bros in dating. As you said, masculine energy with a calm and confident demeanor are very important, but I've seen many of my friends burn themselves overdoing it with one or more of the following: Too dominant, to big of an ego, over-exaggerating their traits, focusing too much on assertion, trying to force social influence, etc. You want to be masculine, but you also shouldn't overly flaunt it or make it your entire personality, which some do. Be humble and let them see your masculine traits naturally so they can naturally display their femininity. No need to try and force an image, which is what a lot of these types of videos try to do.
@UndeadShadowHunter That has nothing to do with masculinity and more so insecurity. Over-pursuing and validation seeking is a feminine trait. Like I said it's masculinity or femininity.
Hahaha. Yeah. Like they're not watching these vids to get ahead of the game as well. Then, new rules and new tactics have to be implemented again. It's a lifetime learning curve!
@@armaanchowdhury1690 Why do you want a cute, feminine woman and then don't want to lead her? If you want feminine girl, you need to be masculine and lead her. There is no bond between feminine man and woman
Yes, it's very important to make physical contact asap, particularly if you have met via a dating app. A simple hug and kiss on the cheek when you first meet breaks the tension and tends to make things more relaxed.
Totally true. I worked a hot woman at a coffee shop for 20 mins once a table over from two younger guys, which would normally make me avoid it cuz I hate other people hearing me do it, but I did it anyway cuz. And then gave me props for having the balls. That made my week.
I rarely watch this kind of videos and when I do is to laugh at the bad or confusing advice, but this dude gives really good advice. I'm 40, average looking but tall enough at least and had to learn by myself the hard way, but those are basically the steps I used through trial and error. AND THOSE WORK! It's all about the vibe, the confidence and showing intent in a subtle way. All this is learnable! You won't get every girl (no one can) but you'll get enough ;)
I just realised how my job as a physician have made this effortless for me, the daily training of meeting ppl and be the authority, lead naturally and easy.
As a female, please watch your "authority" that you think you have. I feel I can say this as a female that has a doctor (a surgeon) as my fiancé and we got to this point because he was not conceited!
I like your videos because you break down WHY you do things. Not just “do this…”. I have a very analytical mind so I wanna know why for everything I do. It makes sense to me if I know.
This all takes time and experience but is 100a% spot on. Confidence will make it organically evolve. Thanks for the content, keep up the great work man!
When there’s a natural chemistry and attraction between both people, I find that these pieces fall into place. I’ve met women before that I really wasn’t that interested in but didn’t want to be rude and I purposely didn’t escalate during the date. I think his tips are handy, but when two people feel a natural attraction, things tend to click.
This is absolutely hilarious. I am a woman in 50ss and watching this step 1 how he repeats it over and over with emphasis that “dudes manage to fuck it up” is absolutely hilarious. Video is sent to my 20 year old son to learn ! Good stuff!
@@rambcio4199first off, I am not teaching , this guy is teaching , I am sending his video . And if you would be ashamed of your parents teaching you, here is news for you! Your parents thought you how to walk, talk, go to potty , wipe your butt and everything else in life
Summary at 16:30 Start With a Hug Give a genuine compliment Change locations throughout the date Escalate in all ways. [Location wise, Physically, verbally (teasing, compliments etc) etc.]
Something i want to add that i think is useful is just the concept of being brave / confident for a short time. Thats all it takes for something that seems scary to not be anymore. Build up the courage to hug when you meet (and say the line), and that sets the mood for the rest of the date. Its same with cold approaching. If it scares you, just be brave for 10 seconds to introduce yourself and if shes willing to entertain the conversation, then there you go, you'll be talking like its nothing. Same thing with a test or overcoming any fear. I think a lot of guys are afraid of being labelled a creep, but in reality they won't be thinking this. And if they're not comfortable and express that, apologise and move on. It really all boils down to confidence. 10 seconds of confidence.
Foundational requirements to make this work are seen in you. As I see it They are 1- self love or self confidence. 2 - mentally sharp 3 - got your shit together and be "not needy", 4 - ability to listen...great eye contact, 5- sense of awareness of her perceptions to gage how to pace. 6- its got to be f u n. All in all your advice is really smart. Will make this work for me. Thanks
I think the overall point behind all his videos is don't struggle in the first place. You make it a struggle, no one else. Be ok fucking up with women and talk to them everywhere with no intentions for practice.
yes, thats what i needed. last 3 first dates ive been to were okay but i didnt iniciate anything sexual, so it was like 2 guys hanging out... so all 3 girls said that date was okay but there was no spark. all 3 girls were very nice :( no more of this mistake, thank you for video.
I’m not really a hand holder in dates, but linking arms I absolutely enjoy. You also get closer physically with the person and can feel the warmth of attraction…and if you are there can even speak in husher tones and whispers if you really want to dial in the “sexy romantic date” factor ;)
I've been doing this for years (hug and playful flirt from the start). If you set the tone that you can handle tension with ease you will already be way above average.
Out of all the dating vids I’ve seen on UA-cam this one actually gives you clear ideas how to be on a first date and for that I subscribe to you. Keep up the good content bro!
If anyone wants a woman’s opinion on this, here it is. Totally agree on the physical aspect, to not be afraid to touch her as you need to assume the attraction is there if it’s not a blind date. And to change locations etc, that’s a great idea too to get a flow. As for the rest of it, a smile goes a long way and to give one comment like “you look stunning” while daring to actually check her out first. I mean it doesn’t need to be a hug at first, but yes on something other than a handshake.
If not a handshake and not a hug what would you do? I dont want to handshake a woman but if theyre uncomfortable hugging or whatever what should i go for?
Not gonna lie, I did this shit last night and it actually worked. We made out before parting ways, and she already texted me for a second date! Thanks for the tips 🙏🙏
Had a date yesterday too bad I didn't see this video but the date went well with a lot of touching so I assume it was good and we also both wanted a second date
Never been a fan of moving to different bars at a night out but it's a good idea to pick her up in your car, that naturally involves different locations, her home, walking from the parking lot to the restaurant and eventually driving her home. Though one girl I dated said she had a "no rides with strangers" policy (or maybe she just didn't want to ride with me 😄).
Wish you would have same topic but for women . Seriously …. Men are not to entertain and do all this while she just „is there”… both people should contribute. And sometimes when a guy is to shy I think it’s good to give him a gentle hint it’s ok to let’s say hug or touch lightly and then when he is encouraged he can lead better form there 😅
This is best advice you can get out here. This is extremely natural and it just works. This is first time me seeing something like this, but analyzing my first date with my current girlfriend (we are 3 years together now) i did all of this, just as if i was watching this video 15 minutes ago back in the days. Moreover, my GF had lots of dates before me and guess what? I am her first partner ever. So making conclusion all other (handsome and/or reach, btw) guys didn't had those 'instructions' in their head or DNA or wherever. I have this by the age of 27, but i could never decompose it like this and understand how and why this works. So i just want to say this is a great video, Kyle! Just as your ability to understand and 'deconstruct' whole date thing on such pieces, just remarkable.
Thank you sir. I just subscribed and going on my first date this Saturday after 3 yr relationship that didn't work out. We've been chatting for about a month now and really enjoy talking with her so hopefully goes well
I love how you got this down to a science. But admittedly I enjoy dating because I can flex my flirting muscles and be a conversation wizard for a while. So while I agree that moving is more optimal I think it depends on how much of a "boost" do you really need.
Good video. I find the stuff you mention in the video happen naturally when there is attraction and chemistry between two people. The touching, the compliments, the building up, the flirting. This is what i look for in a date. When I really like someone I don't like the date to end after one activity, it naturally flows into something else and before you know it you've done two or three different things in the night, I guess that's the location change. I said when I really like someone, if not I end it short 😂
Fuck maths, fuck English, fuck all of school...THIS should be taught in all schools around the world, I wish I saw this video when I was 18, now I'm 43. better late than never.
There’s a line in a song by That’s Outrageous where he’s referring to pulling girls and says “it’s all in the way you place each phase. Do it delicately and watch the pace” and that line has stuck with me for years because it’s really that simple 😂 I’ve seen it time and time again where I’m on a date and I’m actually implementing everything I’ve learned and it literally works like magic. Then the next day you’re like holy shit I didn’t think it’d be that easy
If you're not super confident either it actually really helps to fake it, you can almost act confident and it'll come across the same, idk it's kinda hard to explain but this worked perfectly for me, I was nervous as hell but I thought to myself "right I'm gonna be chill" it works because you manifest it
60 year old man here. The kid is right. Been doing this for 43 years with little variation. Establish the physical touch. Eye contact. Avoid cross table positioning. Lots of light physical touch, and guide the woman with your intention.
I T O T A L L Y Relate. Got a date for the first time in 20+ years, with a young beauty noticeably younger than me...!!!! See what happens with this method..!!🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
The psychology behind each of these is why the work-if you doubt yourself you already threw in the towel. Be confident but in a fun and engaging way, not a cocky egotistical way.
Thanks Kyle for this. Could you perhaps expand on how to physically escalate in a car in a smooth, organic way in a separate video please? Struggling a bit on this. Thanks man.
Bro, I got you. This is regarding the first kiss. What i do is as we are walking to our cars after the 2nd date, I say "I'm curious to know what kind of music you like. Think of a song and I will too and we'll play them in my car real quick before we leave". So then we go in my car. I play my song. After it ends, I go in for the first kiss. After, I ask her about what song she thought about and play it.
Don't get me wrong, that is a great video, but at min 20 i started laughing. It perfectly shows, how much men have to do on a date, vs how much woman has to do. There is like 1 BILION things that a guy has to do.... often it goes easy, other times even when he does everything good, it still isn't enough. So much training, stress, little details to remeber during the date, all the planning... versus simply beeing there with somewhat pretty face. That's ridiculous, although all men can agree that succes in this scenario is so so so much rewarding for us. Not only the sex but self validation from putting the work, and succeding.
I agree with you but, at the end of the day you don’t know if she's the one or the girl you want to date for a long time. Basically is just “shoot your shot” and maybe it will work. Just like her, she accepted the date hoping to find someone to date for a while or maybe just for fun, we never know until we are there. Just try to enjoy the date and if it’s not meant to be don't get too attached or take it personal.
Went on a date and she'll let me touch her but she won't touch me. We know each other prior to the date dancing together and touching her at the nightclub. She looked great for this first date and again touch is communication and we are sitting next to each other and she'll let me touch her but she after being in two bars sitting next to each other it got to me that she never initiates touching me the way a woman let's a man know that she respects him. And by the end of the night I was really uncomfortable.
I know the other video that covered this prior is more work, but the visual illustrations you did are much better. I saw the prior video, but your in depth personal experiences on this one is prob the only value add!
Great advice about the warm hug at the beginning. But I would not perceive the specific compliment you're recommending as necessarily sincere. "Cute" sounds nonspecific, generic, and like someone is trying to charm me, especially with the "by the way" (afterthought? is he uncomfortable?). I wouldn't expect any compliments until my date had something sincere and specific to compliment. Nothing would be better than a line I'm sus about.
It's a low-key way to assure the lady that you find her attractive and that she has dressed appropriately. The idea is to immediately make her comfortable and glad that she agreed to the date.
I would prefer it without the "by the way". I would also prefer pretty to cute. Cute seems like he doesn't like me that much or is trying to slightly neg. The slower delivery with eye contact is spot on tho.
@sparklyunicorn5431 No! You look GREAT!! can't beat great. It describes basically anything and everything. Cute is for teenagers. And if she's not pretty and she knows it or is insecure, you basically just threw her under the bus. 😅
Step the step and stress on vibe check is super. I never escalated like this ever before. I will try next time. Please advise on how to escalate during movie watching in cinema theater ?
that first point was very interesting to me and definitely something i will try! for point number 2: isnt 4 hours a bit much for a first date? It sounds like great advice for a second or third date
Absolutely. You have to make room for a 2nd and 3rd date. Value your time and yourself. Don't make it to important, leave her something to want, and look forward to. Hour n half limit works.
As a woman, yep, I love the idea of moving around. Creates more excitement. If a guy doesn't touch me at all, I feel like I'm alpha and I don't like that. Be brave guys! Doesn't mean we think you expect us to sleep with you. But it definitely makes us think about it.
Should I write that down in a piece of paper? I'm afraid to write in the palm of my hand and it smudges cause of the excessive of sweat caused by these strategies.
step 1, hug the girl..... I failed. I can say the lines, I've never had a problem talking to girls and flirting around, but I'm really not very touchy. It's always been my issue on dates, trying to break the touch barrier makes me uncomfortable so I can only imagine how it would make her feel. I've actually jumped when a girl touched my leg. She was flirting with me and I still messed it up. I'll keep working on it but it made me laugh that your very first step is the one thing I have the most trouble with.
Honestly I have that problem too. I’d say if you happen to still be around your mom, go to church with her and hold her hand or hold her close lovingly. Do things that are more touchy with other people to get used touch stuff.
Having a game of pool even if they have never played is a good thing as that breaks the touch barrier also don’t tell her what to do but just adjust certain things weather it’s the cues to far back or forward or put your hand flat on the table while in good humour she will appreciate the experience even if it’s not her thing
Confidence and leadership? Big yes! Manipulation? No. The power is in sincerity actually. You can practice a line, its delivery, and the smirks all you want. If I see a hint of "said it because he thought that's what I want to hear", in my head, I'm already going "Jesus...".
Watched this video and implemented the steps. Worked like a dream. A technique to use when changing locations to change positions is when walking always walk on the road-side of your date. Depending on how far you walk, it gives many opportunities to change position in relation to your date when moving locations. Thanks, Kyle
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Dude. I listened to your videos all week at work and went out for maybe three hours and the three or four things that I learned this week I was able to plant to seed with one girl, I got another girls phone number without asking for it, and I had Like five positive walk up interactions with strangers. You have no idea how much you helped me in such a short amount of time you are fucking awesome.
Yo where did get this v neck tshirt from don't know the brand?
is this tips good for ukraine ?
usualy different positions and different locations are dictated by air strike allert so we can be on knees under cover
How to not be a creepy when aproaching girl in bombshelter
What if our date is going well but its aristrike nearby and she runs away, is it counts as 1 date and we can rescedule another so it will be second date ?
What to do if you are close to low on budget like 20$ in pocket and anyday you can be conscripted
:DDDD
Makes sense to me. Thanks for teaching.
Thank you so much bro for the tips
Instructions unclear, I told her she looks really cute tonight while we were getting brunch and now she thinks I'm stupid
Usually I avoid these types of videos because they come off too "Alpha Bro", but this actually seemed much more legitimate, natural, and realistic
So do I , especially when they have 400k subs and no check mark ...
As a woman I support 1st and 3rd tip
There's no such thing as "Alpha Bro" in dating. It's masculine or feminine energy. Vibe is everything. Being calm, confident, and leading is masculine which puts her in her feminine. Women are not attracted to feminine men.
@Yammie_Moto671 There is most definitely Alpha Bros in dating. As you said, masculine energy with a calm and confident demeanor are very important, but I've seen many of my friends burn themselves overdoing it with one or more of the following: Too dominant, to big of an ego, over-exaggerating their traits, focusing too much on assertion, trying to force social influence, etc. You want to be masculine, but you also shouldn't overly flaunt it or make it your entire personality, which some do. Be humble and let them see your masculine traits naturally so they can naturally display their femininity. No need to try and force an image, which is what a lot of these types of videos try to do.
@UndeadShadowHunter That has nothing to do with masculinity and more so insecurity. Over-pursuing and validation seeking is a feminine trait. Like I said it's masculinity or femininity.
Date:
Him: hey, you look cute tonight, by the way.
She: Coach Kyle?
Him: Coach Kyle...
Hahaha. Yeah. Like they're not watching these vids to get ahead of the game as well. Then, new rules and new tactics have to be implemented again. It's a lifetime learning curve!
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Disagree. You're making it too easy for her...no mystery bro if u compliment based off her looks right off the rip.
U already failed bro. Why’s u include “by the way”
Date: You look cute tonight, by the way...
She checking the clock: It's 3PM
This guy is spot on (I'm a woman). Be warm from the start and lead us and you'll be successful.
How about you lead us and make it easy for both?
@@armaanchowdhury1690 Why do you want a cute, feminine woman and then don't want to lead her? If you want feminine girl, you need to be masculine and lead her. There is no bond between feminine man and woman
@@armaanchowdhury1690 lmao
Why you even watching this? 😂
Yes, it's very important to make physical contact asap, particularly if you have met via a dating app. A simple hug and kiss on the cheek when you first meet breaks the tension and tends to make things more relaxed.
I find that creepy. I hate physical contact with strangers.
@@The09la09If you're out on a date with a guy, he's not a stranger. If you're on a date with the guy, you've vetted him to some degree.
Talk to everyone you see... When it's a gorgeous woman it will be natural AF
fr bro its js social anxiety when u talk with others u get used to it
Totally true. I worked a hot woman at a coffee shop for 20 mins once a table over from two younger guys, which would normally make me avoid it cuz I hate other people hearing me do it, but I did it anyway cuz. And then gave me props for having the balls. That made my week.
Not when you know this gorgeous person like the look of you, it changes everything lol
Dude, you are so more reasonable than some of the other channels. 😂 Some of these channels had me thinking, you trying to get me slapped?
Disagreed. I can talk to damn near anyone. I’m very outgoing. I still have an irrational fear of cold approaching women.
The point of the first date is to see if theres potential. If so, you need to build attraction.
You can't build attraction, you can only amplify if it's already there in the first place.
If she agrees to the date, there's already attraction there...
@@robzilla730 not really lmao? most girls will accept out of pity or generosity or for a free meal, attention etc, theres so many reasons dawg
@@Daemon1995_and without attraction this is not possible.
@@snuzario attraction is subjective and not always phyisical
I rarely watch this kind of videos and when I do is to laugh at the bad or confusing advice, but this dude gives really good advice.
I'm 40, average looking but tall enough at least and had to learn by myself the hard way, but those are basically the steps I used through trial and error.
AND THOSE WORK! It's all about the vibe, the confidence and showing intent in a subtle way. All this is learnable!
You won't get every girl (no one can) but you'll get enough ;)
I just realised how my job as a physician have made this effortless for me, the daily training of meeting ppl and be the authority, lead naturally and easy.
Arrogance is separate though
As a female, please watch your "authority" that you think you have. I feel I can say this as a female that has a doctor (a surgeon) as my fiancé and we got to this point because he was not conceited!
why do I feel that you do this job mostly just to touch womens?
I like your videos because you break down WHY you do things. Not just “do this…”. I have a very analytical mind so I wanna know why for everything I do. It makes sense to me if I know.
This all takes time and experience but is 100a% spot on. Confidence will make it organically evolve. Thanks for the content, keep up the great work man!
yes! these are the basics ONLY when the feeling is genuine. Dudes have to learn to express feelings with sincerity
When there’s a natural chemistry and attraction between both people, I find that these pieces fall into place. I’ve met women before that I really wasn’t that interested in but didn’t want to be rude and I purposely didn’t escalate during the date. I think his tips are handy, but when two people feel a natural attraction, things tend to click.
This is absolutely hilarious. I am a woman in 50ss and watching this step 1 how he repeats it over and over with emphasis that “dudes manage to fuck it up” is absolutely hilarious. Video is sent to my 20 year old son to learn ! Good stuff!
He should be listening to advice from a man anyway.
@@shrapnel77sexist spotted, maybe you should take notes buddy.
Thats weird u teach your old son how to date girls I would be ashamed if my parent were watching stuff like this. But thats just me highschool kid
@@shrapnel77stupid comment. You should be learning from girls because only girls know what they like in a man and how they should act
@@rambcio4199first off, I am not teaching , this guy is teaching , I am sending his video . And if you would be ashamed of your parents teaching you, here is news for you! Your parents thought you how to walk, talk, go to potty , wipe your butt and everything else in life
Summary at 16:30
Start With a Hug
Give a genuine compliment
Change locations throughout the date
Escalate in all ways. [Location wise, Physically, verbally (teasing, compliments etc) etc.]
You look her dead in the eye and ask, “Does the carpet match the drapes?”
😂🤣😂
And she says “What carpet? “
I have wood floors.😂@@Wellwhatevernevermind
😂😂
😭😂😭😂
I am a woman. What he is saying works. I’ve been in dates that were like interviews.
You prob didn’t help the dude out in making it not feel like one bih
😂😂😂😂@@Papichuloprice
Something i want to add that i think is useful is just the concept of being brave / confident for a short time. Thats all it takes for something that seems scary to not be anymore. Build up the courage to hug when you meet (and say the line), and that sets the mood for the rest of the date. Its same with cold approaching. If it scares you, just be brave for 10 seconds to introduce yourself and if shes willing to entertain the conversation, then there you go, you'll be talking like its nothing. Same thing with a test or overcoming any fear. I think a lot of guys are afraid of being labelled a creep, but in reality they won't be thinking this. And if they're not comfortable and express that, apologise and move on. It really all boils down to confidence. 10 seconds of confidence.
I followed all your advice and it worked. It was probly one of my best dates ever. Thankyou. ❤
Foundational requirements to make this work are seen in you. As I see it They are 1- self love or self confidence. 2 - mentally sharp 3 - got your shit together and be "not needy", 4 - ability to listen...great eye contact, 5- sense of awareness of her perceptions to gage how to pace. 6- its got to be f u n. All in all your advice is really smart. Will make this work for me. Thanks
Man, you are god sent at. the moment.
Struggling with this stuff for a while now.
Slowly getting better.
I think the overall point behind all his videos is don't struggle in the first place. You make it a struggle, no one else. Be ok fucking up with women and talk to them everywhere with no intentions for practice.
yes, thats what i needed. last 3 first dates ive been to were okay but i didnt iniciate anything sexual, so it was like 2 guys hanging out... so all 3 girls said that date was okay but there was no spark. all 3 girls were very nice :( no more of this mistake, thank you for video.
Go get em tiger
Instructions unclear, I practiced the line over and over and ended up saying "You look really cute tonight btw" but it was morning 🥲
Lmao
I’m not really a hand holder in dates, but linking arms I absolutely enjoy. You also get closer physically with the person and can feel the warmth of attraction…and if you are there can even speak in husher tones and whispers if you really want to dial in the “sexy romantic date” factor ;)
King is back with more advice🙏🏼
don't simp yo, you're the king, I'm the king - that's the goal; I respect his advice, it's solid, but I'm not calling him king lol
@@dustinwatkins7843 fair enough man🤝
I've been doing this for years (hug and playful flirt from the start). If you set the tone that you can handle tension with ease you will already be way above average.
IT F'IN WORKS!!!! IN FUKINGCREDIBLE!!! THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE I HAVE EVER HEARD... I DID IT. Plus we had "the talk" within 30 minutes.
Congrats. Idk what the talk is. They told you where babies come from? lol
@@Mowingthefrontlawn she done talked to bro about the birds and the bees 💀
It’s always the good looking guys that seem to know it all!!!!
Out of all the dating vids I’ve seen on UA-cam this one actually gives you clear ideas how to be on a first date and for that I subscribe to you. Keep up the good content bro!
If anyone wants a woman’s opinion on this, here it is. Totally agree on the physical aspect, to not be afraid to touch her as you need to assume the attraction is there if it’s not a blind date. And to change locations etc, that’s a great idea too to get a flow. As for the rest of it, a smile goes a long way and to give one comment like “you look stunning” while daring to actually check her out first. I mean it doesn’t need to be a hug at first, but yes on something other than a handshake.
If not a handshake and not a hug what would you do? I dont want to handshake a woman but if theyre uncomfortable hugging or whatever what should i go for?
@@Caesar--I just did a hug idc lol
Sandral can I kiss her ?
@@Caesar-- a tap on the shoulder? Or like the arm. 🤷♀️😅 but like I can’t answer for all lol.
@@romannavarro1178 well that depends on the country lol some countries you could kiss on the cheek. 🤷♀️😅
You’re starting the date with so much validation
Number 1, win the powerball
Not gonna lie, I did this shit last night and it actually worked. We made out before parting ways, and she already texted me for a second date! Thanks for the tips 🙏🙏
Had a date yesterday too bad I didn't see this video but the date went well with a lot of touching so I assume it was good and we also both wanted a second date
i can dig it. i just relax and put too much pressure on my self taking that leap of faith as they say. and allow nature to take it’s course
I typically don’t give to much heed to these dating videos, but honestly this guy is different
Revandles forbidden books (thank me later)
I checked this site because of this comment and bought a book, so far it's great thank you very much, I hope I will overcome my fear of women
I need to perfect this myself cause this week Im going for it. Im nervous ngl but we aint kids anymore so wish me luck
Got a date tonight I’m ready let’s goo
How did it go?
Boy is dead bruh
Bro you dead fr?? Say something @brokeboijd6983
well?
How did it go? I supposed to have date today as well but she flaked :D She asked to reschedule for next day but I cant :)
Step 1 find a date............
😂😂
Never been a fan of moving to different bars at a night out but it's a good idea to pick her up in your car, that naturally involves different locations, her home, walking from the parking lot to the restaurant and eventually driving her home. Though one girl I dated said she had a "no rides with strangers" policy (or maybe she just didn't want to ride with me 😄).
Wish you would have same topic but for women . Seriously …. Men are not to entertain and do all this while she just „is there”… both people should contribute. And sometimes when a guy is to shy I think it’s good to give him a gentle hint it’s ok to let’s say hug or touch lightly and then when he is encouraged he can lead better form there 😅
Thank you! ☺️
This is best advice you can get out here. This is extremely natural and it just works. This is first time me seeing something like this, but analyzing my first date with my current girlfriend (we are 3 years together now) i did all of this, just as if i was watching this video 15 minutes ago back in the days. Moreover, my GF had lots of dates before me and guess what? I am her first partner ever. So making conclusion all other (handsome and/or reach, btw) guys didn't had those 'instructions' in their head or DNA or wherever. I have this by the age of 27, but i could never decompose it like this and understand how and why this works. So i just want to say this is a great video, Kyle! Just as your ability to understand and 'deconstruct' whole date thing on such pieces, just remarkable.
Thank you sir. I just subscribed and going on my first date this Saturday after 3 yr relationship that didn't work out. We've been chatting for about a month now and really enjoy talking with her so hopefully goes well
No no no never compliment her looks on the first date! Instead you can compliment her fashion, her personality or an achievement!
I love how you got this down to a science.
But admittedly I enjoy dating because I can flex my flirting muscles and be a conversation wizard for a while. So while I agree that moving is more optimal I think it depends on how much of a "boost" do you really need.
Good video. I find the stuff you mention in the video happen naturally when there is attraction and chemistry between two people. The touching, the compliments, the building up, the flirting. This is what i look for in a date. When I really like someone I don't like the date to end after one activity, it naturally flows into something else and before you know it you've done two or three different things in the night, I guess that's the location change. I said when I really like someone, if not I end it short 😂
Fuck maths, fuck English, fuck all of school...THIS should be taught in all schools around the world, I wish I saw this video when I was 18, now I'm 43. better late than never.
I'm 43 as well and recently separated. Scary how much I don't know 😂 This guy will help me out big time!
There’s a line in a song by That’s Outrageous where he’s referring to pulling girls and says “it’s all in the way you place each phase. Do it delicately and watch the pace” and that line has stuck with me for years because it’s really that simple 😂 I’ve seen it time and time again where I’m on a date and I’m actually implementing everything I’ve learned and it literally works like magic. Then the next day you’re like holy shit I didn’t think it’d be that easy
If you're not super confident either it actually really helps to fake it, you can almost act confident and it'll come across the same, idk it's kinda hard to explain but this worked perfectly for me, I was nervous as hell but I thought to myself "right I'm gonna be chill" it works because you manifest it
Solid Gold. I've seen where I made mistakes and where I did things right. Thanks Kyle
I always do 95% of the stuff you share. Its a great content bro your a good person and you share legit thinks
This one's a banger Kyle!
Bro reinvented the mystery method
bold of you to assume she was excited to meet me
60 year old man here. The kid is right. Been doing this for 43 years with little variation. Establish the physical touch. Eye contact. Avoid cross table positioning. Lots of light physical touch, and guide the woman with your intention.
You just made me more anxious. Thank you.
💯 🤣🤣🤣 be yourself - first date is a first date - pretending to be someone your not is completely unattractive
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I T O T A L L Y Relate. Got a date for the first time in 20+ years, with a young beauty noticeably younger than me...!!!! See what happens with this method..!!🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
The psychology behind each of these is why the work-if you doubt yourself you already threw in the towel. Be confident but in a fun and engaging way, not a cocky egotistical way.
I love it when he remembers the irritations with duded whio did wrong 😂
You are intuitive, primal ina good way, and natural.great reasoning in these tips. Thanks
Thanks Kyle for this. Could you perhaps expand on how to physically escalate in a car in a smooth, organic way in a separate video please? Struggling a bit on this. Thanks man.
Bro, I got you. This is regarding the first kiss. What i do is as we are walking to our cars after the 2nd date, I say "I'm curious to know what kind of music you like. Think of a song and I will too and we'll play them in my car real quick before we leave". So then we go in my car. I play my song. After it ends, I go in for the first kiss. After, I ask her about what song she thought about and play it.
Not all women enjoy being called cute, so I assume the key word can be interchangably applied.
Don't get me wrong, that is a great video, but at min 20 i started laughing. It perfectly shows, how much men have to do on a date, vs how much woman has to do. There is like 1 BILION things that a guy has to do.... often it goes easy, other times even when he does everything good, it still isn't enough.
So much training, stress, little details to remeber during the date, all the planning... versus simply beeing there with somewhat pretty face.
That's ridiculous, although all men can agree that succes in this scenario is so so so much rewarding for us. Not only the sex but self validation from putting the work, and succeding.
I agree with you but, at the end of the day you don’t know if she's the one or the girl you want to date for a long time. Basically is just “shoot your shot” and maybe it will work. Just like her, she accepted the date hoping to find someone to date for a while or maybe just for fun, we never know until we are there.
Just try to enjoy the date and if it’s not meant to be don't get too attached or take it personal.
So what are you then, a girl or a man?
Bro immediately brought the same energy to the video that I have when I'm with my best friends. I'd kick it hard as fuck with bro 😂
very nice video and good advice. ❤
but im german and the compliments just sound so wierd in my language 😂
I do the hug, then look in her eyes and say "You look nice". That's it.
I need the first date to start.
Went on a date and she'll let me touch her but she won't touch me. We know each other prior to the date dancing together and touching her at the nightclub.
She looked great for this first date and again touch is communication and we are sitting next to each other and she'll let me touch her but she after being in two bars sitting next to each other it got to me that she never initiates touching me the way a woman let's a man know that she respects him.
And by the end of the night I was really uncomfortable.
Did you go on a second date?
Am I watching the same thing 3 times 🤔
3:22 If it's still afternoon, what should I say?
I realized I’ve been doing pretty well without even watching this
I know the other video that covered this prior is more work, but the visual illustrations you did are much better. I saw the prior video, but your in depth personal experiences on this one is prob the only value add!
Great advice about the warm hug at the beginning. But I would not perceive the specific compliment you're recommending as necessarily sincere. "Cute" sounds nonspecific, generic, and like someone is trying to charm me, especially with the "by the way" (afterthought? is he uncomfortable?). I wouldn't expect any compliments until my date had something sincere and specific to compliment. Nothing would be better than a line I'm sus about.
It's a low-key way to assure the lady that you find her attractive and that she has dressed appropriately. The idea is to immediately make her comfortable and glad that she agreed to the date.
I would prefer it without the "by the way". I would also prefer pretty to cute. Cute seems like he doesn't like me that much or is trying to slightly neg. The slower delivery with eye contact is spot on tho.
He should say you look really beautiful. Period. Y’all are pathetic 🙄
@@sparklyunicorn5431good on you !! I’m glad a woman said this 👌😊
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No! You look GREAT!! can't beat great. It describes basically anything and everything. Cute is for teenagers.
And if she's not pretty and she knows it or is insecure, you basically just threw her under the bus. 😅
Step the step and stress on vibe check is super. I never escalated like this ever before. I will try next time. Please advise on how to escalate during movie watching in cinema theater ?
that first point was very interesting to me and definitely something i will try!
for point number 2: isnt 4 hours a bit much for a first date? It sounds like great advice for a second or third date
Absolutely. You have to make room for a 2nd and 3rd date. Value your time and yourself. Don't make it to important, leave her something to want, and look forward to. Hour n half limit works.
How to greet on 2nd date if I did that on the 1st date? So not to make it exact the same
Broooooo wait BROOOOOOOOO I haven’t followed yet but after this video you are a proooo that’s what I was looking foooor 👊🏼
As a woman, yep, I love the idea of moving around. Creates more excitement. If a guy doesn't touch me at all, I feel like I'm alpha and I don't like that. Be brave guys! Doesn't mean we think you expect us to sleep with you. But it definitely makes us think about it.
Haha love this
Very good points.
This is legitimate help.
Should I write that down in a piece of paper? I'm afraid to write in the palm of my hand and it smudges cause of the excessive of sweat caused by these strategies.
Bro made dating into a science, fo shizzle.
Dating tips unmatched! 🔥
Guys if we accept a date already, you can assume attraction as said in the video. So go for all of these tips !
Kyle thank you, your videos helped me a lot!
Always ask for a square table, so you can sit next to her. Sitting across the table is too formal and makes contact impossible.
step 1, hug the girl..... I failed.
I can say the lines, I've never had a problem talking to girls and flirting around, but I'm really not very touchy. It's always been my issue on dates, trying to break the touch barrier makes me uncomfortable so I can only imagine how it would make her feel. I've actually jumped when a girl touched my leg. She was flirting with me and I still messed it up.
I'll keep working on it but it made me laugh that your very first step is the one thing I have the most trouble with.
Honestly I have that problem too. I’d say if you happen to still be around your mom, go to church with her and hold her hand or hold her close lovingly. Do things that are more touchy with other people to get used touch stuff.
Solid advice my man. Appreciate the video.
Bro this is some great advice
Having a game of pool even if they have never played is a good thing as that breaks the touch barrier also don’t tell her what to do but just adjust certain things weather it’s the cues to far back or forward or put your hand flat on the table while in good humour she will appreciate the experience even if it’s not her thing
LETS GO COACH KYLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey Kyle, this stuff is really helping me out. Thanks man.
Your very legit, you earned my subscribe bro
But, what if she doesn't look really cute tonight?
Thanks a million for the tips ❤
Smooth ideas glad I found your videos!
Confidence and leadership? Big yes! Manipulation? No.
The power is in sincerity actually. You can practice a line, its delivery, and the smirks all you want. If I see a hint of "said it because he thought that's what I want to hear", in my head, I'm already going "Jesus...".
Pure gold here!
Watched this video and implemented the steps. Worked like a dream. A technique to use when changing locations to change positions is when walking always walk on the road-side of your date. Depending on how far you walk, it gives many opportunities to change position in relation to your date when moving locations. Thanks, Kyle
This is awesome and I crack up at the line Dude that’s not what F-in line was.