This song is for those longing to find love, for those who have never experienced relationships, those who fill the void by reading romance books and watching movies and series just to feel something. Hopefully one day we'll experience love instead of daydreaming about it.
This song feels like having a crush, and feeling all romantic, then remembering that they will probably never love you because no one ever does and fearing how long it might take to get your movie scene.
I felt this way for a long time… and now every time I listen to this song, my heart starts racing as I picture his smile… Married. Divorced. And now finally brave enough to take a chance at true happiness and real love…
The first time I heard this song I immediately teared up, it felt like my heart felt lonely and lost, wondering why I did...I looked up the lyrics of it, and now it just makes sense and it hits hard when she sings "and you don't exist". I always had this guy in my dreams ever since I was a little girl, it is as if I am living a life in my dream world with this guy that grew up along as I grew up, we have spent lots of memories together and I love him so much, it's been 3-4 years now that I haven't seen him (I can't recall how long now) I just want to keep sleeping, hoping I'd dream of him again and spend time with him. It is unsure that he exists but I feel that somewhere somehow he does, I'll forever long to belong with him. He'll always be a piece of me that I hold dearly. He'll always have my heart and I hope someday we'll find each other. No one will ever replace him...
You're not alone. I daydream someone like that and hoping I will meet her. One day. So my heart can settle in calm and real love. So hopefully, we'll get what we want one day. All we need is patience.
Awe you just made me cry even more then this song does. Your explanation feels so relatable… yearning to be loved by someone who isn’t real… an image you made of the perfect someone.. 🥺
Hes the one who showed me how to love. Who actually wanted me. He tells me everyday how much I mean to him. He will hug me and tell me "I can't believe just a few months ago I didn't know you existed. Then you showed up and your the love of my life and everything I wanted"
Yes the song is for those longing to find love and maybe those who have never been in real relationships but it's also here for those have been in fake relationships.. for those that have given their all to someone just for them to turn around and spit in your face and act like you are nothing all along.. whoever you are, I hope you heal one day and find someone that treats you the way you deserve.. I hope for myself as well
There are still times when I just imagine someone there, but I still carry on with life. I don't know if the emptiness I feel would ever be filled, but maybe if that illusion became real, then I'd be fine. For now, I'm doing okay, thanks for asking😊
This song is literally the feeling of loving someone you can no longer have but you can never unlove them and they will always be the start of your movie
I know everyone has their own take on this song like being written for people who long for this feeling but it resonates with me in a way of loving someone you used to know but grew apart from. When you have to grieve the person you fell in love with in the beginning but they changed. Loving the person they pretended to be…
I did think the same thing.. that it is also for when you had a relationship that was so "perfect" like the song, that ended up so toxic and painful and you realize it never existed for real.. with this song you really feel the grief of it
It definitely smacks of loss to me. Maybe even literal death if not metaphorical from the change in the relationship/realizing you've been fooled or manipulated.
Damn why'd you have to go there lol. JK. Went though this; sucks. Never going back to the way things were and have to move forward, but what once brought unbridled joy and happiness now, I'm haunted by my dreams when it's of them. Kinda funny how that works right? 😅 Like to sometimes think, that's the remnants of them still with me before we grew apart. Like a secret place that we visit every now and then, where we only matter. Such a bittersweet something that took place once upon a time.
Before I read any comments, I thought it described a journey of a relationship when they were together and then in the end the relationship it’s over, they drive you home, can’t recall the last time you were kissed and it hits you in the car the end of the movie
I love this, it makes me feel all soft and I know it sounds weird, but this is the perfect song for my current season as a happy single person who knows when it happens, I will love being in love with someone again someday. All these bittersweet songs hold a special place in my heart and this is a new favorite for me. Thank you so much!
Also works for when you thought someone was someone they’re not. Then they prove it to you and the betrayal hits like a truck, bc it was so unexpected. Sigh
I just heard it yesterday, and it made me cry. Now trying to learn how to sing it. It's like the perfect marriage of being sad and happy at the same time, so surreal this song
Music truly is for translation. This song makes me think about how beautiful the beginning of a relationship feels until it later progresses then you later realized you just made somone out to be better than they really ever were.
I love hearing her sing over the phone when we’re both not talking at the moment and this song reminds me of her so much. She’s the sun that rises and makes the flowers bloom.
i’m absolutely in love with this song. it is so bittersweet and fragile. and it definitely has the power to break my heart longing for this. but God has a plan for every one of us. and if it is His Will for us to find that special someone one day, we will, we just have to wait for and trust in His timing. but if it is not, we’ll be more than okay. He will take care of us. He will prepare us for that life, and we have to pray for contentment in being single. it may hurt, but God has His reasons, and they are good. He never withholds one good thing. if He withholds this, it’s because He is protecting us from something, or has something so much better in store. whether you’re waiting for love or not, try to appreciate all the blessings God has put in your life. it is not wrong to daydream about love. but don’t let it overtake your life, to where you’re at the point of depression or you miss all the other beautiful people and blessings around you. i love you, and am holding your hand through whatever you’re going through. but most importantly, Jesus loves you, and HE IS FOR YOU.
Played this song for my friend at his grave he passed in 2020 we were friends for 7 years we had a child together few months before he passed .. after all this time I still feel the same .. couldn’t stop crying hearing this and I hope he liked this song I played for him … connection was out of this world see u next lifetime babe
@@THEARTISTWITHAMASK he passed march 18 I forgot I wrote this comment … it was the last time I visited him that was my closure I don’t think I’ll ever visit his grave again
@_SOLOKE I understand sorry if I made you uncomfortable I didn't meant to, I admired you because I kinda was in such situation before and I still can't find the courage to go on.
The first time i heard this song and define the lyrics i cried because it is about relationship that you just imagine and it is not real. But hopefully Lizzy will create this kind of song vibe again i will hear it over and over again.
I heard this in the car several times while trying not to cry, I love this song so much and I can't explain it It's like trying to achieve a dream you know you'll never be able to yet you still try
Yesterday I saw a guy I used to have a HUGE crush on who I haven't seen in months, and I felt absolutely nothing. And then I went to hang out with my current crush. And this song just kind of feels like how that felt. Feeling nothing for someone I used to be nearly in love with and then feeling so much for someone I only saw as a friend back then.
I never would have expected to find this song on TikTok of all places… I never knew I could relate to such a popular song… and just reading these comments, it makes me feel so less alone ❤
God this song hits so hard. It reminds me of my personal experiences. When it rains and I look out into the distance longing for someone to take me away. When I fall asleep at night and dream of love and genuinely feels so real only to wake up and realize it's not, for it to seem like I can't feel that in real life. When I think about it and tell myself not to be si caught up over a dream because it seems almost ridiculous and no one would understand. But I see now people do understand. I used to think that even if other people did share my struggles it wouldn't matter because it wouldn't solve my problems snd it doesn't but it makes my emotions feel more valid so it definitely does matter. I'm glad that modern day we can just look up songs on UA-cam and relate to them to make us feel better about ourselves or to read the comments and see people go through almost the exact same thing.
I deeply miss someone, I miss the touch, the voice, the kisses, and good mornings....but no one is here, I never have anyone to miss. Am I just missing the soulmate I haven't found or am I just lonely?
Well I was just like you but one day I found love....but then I realized I was lonely. And he is a good guy but we are just not a match for each other and it hurts, we are still together because we love each other. But it's not worth it to me tbh. I just wish I hadn't let those feelings take over me So all I can say is it could be both or just one ...idk anything about you otherwise I could tell more specifically . But whatever that might be don't let it take over you. Learn to love yourself. Find things you love and your passion, make friends, appreciate good people around you. Make healthy standard for yourself learn to live without a partner , learn to stay happy and confident most importantly. Don't try to find love If you're a teenager, let yourself mature .
I thought I'm the only one who felt like this. but dw I'm sure there's someone out there for you who's feeling same as you, just wait for that perfect timing till then don't forget to give all the love to yourself. ❤
This song showed me that it's okay to fantasize about love and a happy ending, but eventually we all need to wake up. It hurts, but it is also very sweet. I love this song so much.
I’m best friends with this girl and we hangout often, just today we were sitting in her car in a Taco Bell parking lot, we were listening to random ass stations on the radio and we stopped at one playing this song, it was the first time I had heard this song. I sat there and it was as if everything connected, she was on her phone talking about her friend, I was too busy staring at her to pay attention, I like her, I was on edge about it before but I know for sure now, I can’t stop listening to this song and remembering every detail of that moment, her hair, her eyes, her jawline, everything, I want her so badly. But I know it won’t work out. I know she won’t feel the same. But it’s fine, I’ll watch from afar as she falls in love with someone else, and I won’t regret it one bit knowing she’s happy
This song actually makes me cry, I’ve never experienced being loved or being in a relationship. Any time I have a crush it’s amazing I feel good when I think of them, but it only hurts in the end when I realize they don’t and never will like me. I always feel so lonely and lost inside, like I’m just an empty void waiting for affection and love. It also hurts worse that I’m “in love” with a fictional character.
@@rachelmaposah3286 there isn't a lover as in the real world she created him in her head that's why the line goes "but it's not real and you don't exist"
as a selfshipper this song actually makes me feel so sad and i relate so much. i've felt genuine romantic love only once and it's toward someone who will never be there to return it because he isn't even real. i've dedicated my life to someone who can never love me.
And off I go to add this to my hopeless romantic playlist so I can daydream about some guy who will sweep me off my feet who I can fulfill my cliche movie moments with so when I’m in the car driving or staring out a window or something it feels like I’m actually there only to be brought back and realize I’m just fooling myself
my heart has created its own meaning of this song and its helping me a lot rn... context i dropped my partner off at the airport last night because we are long distance and watching him walk away was the hardest thing ive ever done
reminds me of my first real time i fell in love. we never started dating, but talked for a couple months, then he randomly stopped talking to me. broke my heart, plus seeing him everyday at school breaks me even more everyday. i feel like something could of came, but i guess i’ll never know. i miss you❤
Girl, I dont know you but I totaly feel you. I had experience like you. We were just friends at university btw I am in tears while writing this to you anyway backing to the story. Like I said we were just friends at the beginning, but at the same time he like me and i ignore his feelings and kept beeing friends cause he wasnt my type (shame on me ) and after year I started to like him but I was afraid to tell how i feel to him. And then some situations occured we lost the connection. These happened five years ago . Now unfortunately he is engaged to someone else. All i can say is I lost my chance but you still have . So please talk to him
For me I feel like this song is about being in love with a fictional character, or somebody in a tv show or movie, I have a huge crush on both Draco from Harry Potter and Dan Gheesling from Big Brother S10, I sometimes pretend I am with them or we’re doing cute things together, but in reality I’m just alone, and they don’t exist, neither do my comfort characters, and I am left in a world where I may never truly experience how it feels to have that kind of love that I want more than anything.😢
This song reminds me of the boy i used to see in my dreams. He was sauce a pure soul.I would recognize him in my dream like l've known him forever. We would hold hands and go on dates to places I've never been in life. But when i awake up I would forget his face. It's been two years i haven't seen him. I really miss him 😢
This song absolutely suits the theme of the book "The time traveler's wife" by Audrey Niffenegger. The main character's love was deeply but it was fragile, i would really recommend to read this then listen to the song Makes me sad for a whole week.
I know you commented this 5 months ago but I was looking at the comments and saw this one and was actually shocked cuz I'm in the middle of reading this book right now😅
This takes me back to the beginning of my relationship with my soon to be husband (it didn't feel real for the longest time)we been together for 4 years now and I wouldn't trade my love for him for anything ❤
This reminds me of my escapism, I have two shows I watch that I desperately wish where real. I have dreams about them sometimes, and I think I, wake up and everything is how I want it to be, but I realize that nothing changed.
I remember listening to this, whilst longing for my past love. It makes me emotional. In the best way. I feel empathy and tenderness for my loving parts, the suffering parts, the caring parts, the dissapointed parts, the confused parts, the hurting parts, the longing parts, the parts searching for the meaning in the midst of it all, the part that remember everything, burns from the memories of the past lover. The way I screamed, in the middle of the night, in a dark wintery frozen lake, I scream so hard, so painstakingly, hurtingly, desperately, hopelessly, lost, stuck in forever limbo of the bleeding heart and longing. Oh, dear me. I suffered. I suffered, so deeply, profoundly, in a way that I did not even know existed. It was my first real heartbreak. Pure heartbreak. Not the first breakup, but the first time feeling the cutting of the attachement to someone I held dear to my heart. Every day was a fight. I used to wake up feeling terrified of the day ahead, stopping to cry and scream and just break down countless times a day. So much toiler paper was used haha. I was crazy. It did not make any sense. I remember spending night in the bathroom floor, just because it felt more something, more suiting, more comforting than the bed. I don't know. Walking for hours, to exhaust my body, to allow myself to sleep; the only way to spend time was to cry or walk. Nothing made any sense. Heartbreak is a scary place to be at. I really thought I wouldn't survive it. That it would never end. That I would never find anyone again, that made my heart skip a beat. Then, here I am now. Writing this and remembering it fondly: "One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." Listening to the Tommy Lefroy. The memories of her don't make me breakdown anymore. However, I don't remember her scent, voice, how her body felt, how we laughed, any of these things, not as vividly as I used. I am not sad anymore that our season will never come again, but I can look with fondness, smile and inner embrace. Whilst also feeling the regret of hurting her, the chaos, the psychological violenc, everything that was wrong, manipulative, overreacting, fights, jealousy, all of it, the nights spent sleeping embracing you. I've never slept that well, than when I held you in my arms. It felt so safe, like home, like everything was good in the world. Then I also fell in love with someone else. Not completly, but atleast partially. Now she is also gone. I almost went crazy for her, well, to be honest, I think I did go crazy for her, but we burnt quickly, and then flame just died. Now I feel this emptiness, which is not really sorrow, sadness, or hurt, but just something missing. Life is weird. I can say that I am not the same person I was two years ago. I have completely changed. I've grown less emotional, more mature, more calm, more realistic, even pessimistic, more aware, I've had glimpses of loving myself, I take more responsibility, I want good for myself, I've learned so much, I think more broadly and seriously about my role in the human race, I don't want to have short term chaotic in my life anymore (alcohol, jealous fits of rage with alcohol, weird situationships ruining everything, being restless and calling it being alive). I am so tired nowdays from everything I've been through. I've started to value becoming an adult, real adult, with the most utmost respect. Adoring teenagers and their culture, their small games, being cool, those are things I don't have energy to cary anymore. I still have the teenager inside of myself, but not in the leading role. Because I wan't minimize my suffering from stupid sources. Still learning. Now I know how damn much I still have growing up to do. Life is weird. So weird. Fleeting. Now are the days that I will miss with passion, years to come. Thank you blessing me with this life. It is all a mystery. Weirdest mystery. Glad to be alive. Glad to be alive. Let's see what more life has to offer.
It’s not real coz you don’t exist anymore my Kedvesem. I’m all that remains of us- and I can’t believe it’s been 7 years you’ve been gone. To me that last smile is behind the closing of my eyelids and your love is in smiles I give! You made me battle through storms but I wouldn’t change a moment of the US that existed for a time on this earth! Wherever your soul is now- know I will one day find you and we will be whole again! 💛
I've realized up until recently as I matured, relationships do take a huge toll on your life. It's sad really. I have no other words, I'm sure yall understand. Relationships make it harder to get through life and the important things. And then having kids together on top of it? I don't understand why we csnr just all love and get along.
I hear this song totally different than many others based on comments, but that’s what is beautiful about music. We can all take our own experiences to pull meaning from this song that gives us some sense of release/relief. 😊❤️
I cry hearing this song. I love a fictional character that alot of people probably knows(catnoir/adrien) I imagine fake scenarios with him everyday. Eventualy it became an everyday thing. Most of the time i imagine taht he is with me and he comforts me everytime im sad or hurt by my friends, family, or random starngers. Knowing he is not real hurts me so badly. I wish everyday so deeply that why couldnt i just be borned in a universe where miraculous was our world but i knew what happens next so i change everything and me and catnoir/adrien get to have a great dream life. This song exprecess everything im feeling all at once. Why did they have to make catnoir/adrien so cute. It just makes my life harder knowing someone i deeply love is not real💔💔
This makes me cry because it reminds me of sad things and my grandma was really sick and stopped breathing and I didn’t know until my mom Told me and I was was crying nonstop 😢😢😢
Hopefully one day i will have a place to call my home where my heart will belong and it will feel safe , nurtured and fulfilled where I don't have to show anything to anyone to prove my worth ,where I would be loved unconditionally without conditions ,where my soul would actually feel loved ,cared and valued for ,one day hopefully I'll have a place to call my own home .
@@fqv. aww thank you for your sweet comment , whatever you are going thru hope you make past it and trust in god and believe in yourself and remember you are amazing ❤️❤️.
I have a man in my dreams whos been there since childhood. I used to be very in love w him, and a part of my heart still loves this not- real person. But Ive moved on, with my husband. This song made my chest ache in memory.
When you're young and you innocently experience your very first love. The truest, sweetest love. I miss those days. As you get older love has different expectations. Kinda ruins it
God thanks for making me realize I'm personally so fine and feel complete by being single now because my first take on this song is that it's about side person breaking up with somebody's significant other because that somebody choose their SO and not the side person 😅
This is to all of you single people out there, from a taken girl who was once fantasizing just like you for the perfect person. They will come. Trust me. They will come. You may find someone and they end up not being the one. That happens, and that may discourage you into think that they will never come. Oh but they will, when you least expect it. You could meet someone new, or they could be someone that you've known for years. And it was only then that they came into your life as a, lover. It's different for everyone. The thing you need to remember though, is that there is no such thing as, "perfect love". For the longest of time, I had a crush on this boy who I met a while back. We were close, and we always shared PE class for every year that we attended school together. We both were amazing at sports and naturally, I thought it was perfect. When a dance was coming up, (I forgot the year haha) a little bit before I was getting my guts to finally tell him, I told my other friend. She ended up going to the dance with him. Was I sad though? Not at all😂 Because I met my current boyfriend at the dance❤ That's the thing about love. There is no perfect love because every relationship has its bumps and mountains. Perfect love is not a thing. But, love can be perfect. Perfect love is the "dream relationship" where you never have arguments and you always go on dates and just love one another. That isn't a thing😭The sooner you realize this is when you will probably find the one. However, love can feel perfect. "But what's the difference between perfect love, and having love that feels perfect?" Having love that feels perfect, is love that isn't perfect, but working through the inperfections with one another and accepting eachother for all the flaws that they have, large and little. And that is when you are able to go on cute dates all the time and always be inlove. When you accept this, and you prepare yourself to experience even the downs of love, is when you will find the one. ❤❤❤❤
thank you so much for this comment. It's good to know people like you are here on this world x idk u but I wish you the best in life ❤️ From someone stranger on the Internet
This song is for those longing to find love, for those who have never experienced relationships, those who fill the void by reading romance books and watching movies and series just to feel something. Hopefully one day we'll experience love instead of daydreaming about it.
Sure
One day 😘😊
No need to call me out lol 😅
One day 🥲
I'm 30 and I've never been in a relationship 😔 Maybe one day ay ?
Why did you call me out like this?!
This song feels like having a crush, and feeling all romantic, then remembering that they will probably never love you because no one ever does and fearing how long it might take to get your movie scene.
exactly what I was thinking. Love this song 😊
pain. agony, even.
Wow best comment
Help me fr 💀
I danced with my crush in his apartment. He kissed me and it hurt even more to leave. Crushes still hurt when you’re in your 40s, sadly.
This song makes me feel like I'm reaching for something I can't obtain.
😢
Wow
I felt this way for a long time… and now every time I listen to this song, my heart starts racing as I picture his smile… Married. Divorced. And now finally brave enough to take a chance at true happiness and real love…
I fell in love with people who don't love me,people who loves me I don't have dat love for them
Love I can't obtain...
The first time I heard this song I immediately teared up, it felt like my heart felt lonely and lost, wondering why I did...I looked up the lyrics of it, and now it just makes sense and it hits hard when she sings "and you don't exist". I always had this guy in my dreams ever since I was a little girl, it is as if I am living a life in my dream world with this guy that grew up along as I grew up, we have spent lots of memories together and I love him so much, it's been 3-4 years now that I haven't seen him (I can't recall how long now) I just want to keep sleeping, hoping I'd dream of him again and spend time with him. It is unsure that he exists but I feel that somewhere somehow he does, I'll forever long to belong with him. He'll always be a piece of me that I hold dearly. He'll always have my heart and I hope someday we'll find each other. No one will ever replace him...
🤔
This is so innocent 😭
Dont make me cryy 😭😭love will find u. Promise ❤
You're not alone.
I daydream someone like that and hoping I will meet her.
One day.
So my heart can settle in calm and real love.
So hopefully, we'll get what we want one day.
All we need is patience.
Awe you just made me cry even more then this song does. Your explanation feels so relatable… yearning to be loved by someone who isn’t real… an image you made of the perfect someone.. 🥺
This is about that pure love that you feel only once in your entire lifetime
A year ago I was so hurt. Now, I’ve found the love I’ve looked for my entire life. He’s my entire life. God brought me him. Don’t give up.
Hes the one who showed me how to love. Who actually wanted me. He tells me everyday how much I mean to him. He will hug me and tell me "I can't believe just a few months ago I didn't know you existed. Then you showed up and your the love of my life and everything I wanted"
That love you'll feel once in a lifetime
That you'll never compare to anyone else
~song dandelions
in a dream
aw man.
Yes the song is for those longing to find love and maybe those who have never been in real relationships but it's also here for those have been in fake relationships.. for those that have given their all to someone just for them to turn around and spit in your face and act like you are nothing all along.. whoever you are, I hope you heal one day and find someone that treats you the way you deserve.. I hope for myself as well
I can’t stop listening to this
DUDE SAMEEEE
Same here cant get enough 😍 🤍🖤
This song perfectly describes me. And so I've been crying for the past 15 or so minutes while listening to this in repeat.
You doing okay now, bud?
There are still times when I just imagine someone there, but I still carry on with life. I don't know if the emptiness I feel would ever be filled, but maybe if that illusion became real, then I'd be fine. For now, I'm doing okay, thanks for asking😊
Hi i hope you are ok
ah.. i feel the same. i never had any friends or anything, so i relate to this so much because.. i have imaginary friends and gf.. so lonely..
Finally a good song on the radio. Brings me back to high school Colbie Caillat times.
Aww I loved her music 😭
“Can you count me in?”
🙌🏾
Ahh I miss her music so much
That’s why i love it so much!!!!
This song is literally the feeling of loving someone you can no longer have but you can never unlove them and they will always be the start of your movie
I know everyone has their own take on this song like being written for people who long for this feeling but it resonates with me in a way of loving someone you used to know but grew apart from. When you have to grieve the person you fell in love with in the beginning but they changed. Loving the person they pretended to be…
I did think the same thing.. that it is also for when you had a relationship that was so "perfect" like the song, that ended up so toxic and painful and you realize it never existed for real.. with this song you really feel the grief of it
It definitely smacks of loss to me. Maybe even literal death if not metaphorical from the change in the relationship/realizing you've been fooled or manipulated.
Damn why'd you have to go there lol. JK. Went though this; sucks. Never going back to the way things were and have to move forward, but what once brought unbridled joy and happiness now, I'm haunted by my dreams when it's of them. Kinda funny how that works right? 😅 Like to sometimes think, that's the remnants of them still with me before we grew apart. Like a secret place that we visit every now and then, where we only matter. Such a bittersweet something that took place once upon a time.
Before I read any comments, I thought it described a journey of a relationship when they were together and then in the end the relationship it’s over, they drive you home, can’t recall the last time you were kissed and it hits you in the car the end of the movie
That hits home
I love this, it makes me feel all soft and I know it sounds weird, but this is the perfect song for my current season as a happy single person who knows when it happens, I will love being in love with someone again someday. All these bittersweet songs hold a special place in my heart and this is a new favorite for me. Thank you so much!
this is the first song i’ve ever listened to that made the back of my head tingle and my goosebumps pop, this song is so good
"but you don't exist"
Me crushing on movie characters be like 😭😭😭
😭
Also works for when you thought someone was someone they’re not. Then they prove it to you and the betrayal hits like a truck, bc it was so unexpected. Sigh
REAL
Anyone who has ever watched an anime
The lyrics is amazing but the melody and instruments really caught me off guard. I felt like I was melting. So so good
I just heard it yesterday, and it made me cry. Now trying to learn how to sing it. It's like the perfect marriage of being sad and happy at the same time, so surreal this song
Music truly is for translation. This song makes me think about how beautiful the beginning of a relationship feels until it later progresses then you later realized you just made somone out to be better than they really ever were.
I love hearing her sing over the phone when we’re both not talking at the moment and this song reminds me of her so much. She’s the sun that rises and makes the flowers bloom.
Way to make us cry 🥹
Aw that's so sweet
This makes me want to cry than i already do, but this is good, a girl would like to hear this, it's so touching
An extremely beautiful and yet melancholic song...
i’m absolutely in love with this song. it is so bittersweet and fragile. and it definitely has the power to break my heart longing for this. but God has a plan for every one of us. and if it is His Will for us to find that special someone one day, we will, we just have to wait for and trust in His timing. but if it is not, we’ll be more than okay. He will take care of us. He will prepare us for that life, and we have to pray for contentment in being single. it may hurt, but God has His reasons, and they are good. He never withholds one good thing. if He withholds this, it’s because He is protecting us from something, or has something so much better in store. whether you’re waiting for love or not, try to appreciate all the blessings God has put in your life. it is not wrong to daydream about love. but don’t let it overtake your life, to where you’re at the point of depression or you miss all the other beautiful people and blessings around you. i love you, and am holding your hand through whatever you’re going through. but most importantly, Jesus loves you, and HE IS FOR YOU.
Amen
I love this.
You worded this so perfectly
You have no idea how much I needed to be reminded of this
It was part of his plan to kill my mother ?
Played this song for my friend at his grave he passed in 2020 we were friends for 7 years we had a child together few months before he passed .. after all this time I still feel the same .. couldn’t stop crying hearing this and I hope he liked this song I played for him … connection was out of this world see u next lifetime babe
I don't know you but I want to give you a big warm hug. I wish you and your child the best 💗💗🫂
@@THEARTISTWITHAMASK thank you ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
@@THEARTISTWITHAMASK he passed march 18 I forgot I wrote this comment … it was the last time I visited him that was my closure I don’t think I’ll ever visit his grave again
@_SOLOKE I understand sorry if I made you uncomfortable I didn't meant to, I admired you because I kinda was in such situation before and I still can't find the courage to go on.
Shout out to all my homies that are in love with fictional characters 😭
it hurts when u realize the character isn't real
😭
True!😢😅😂
thanks bestie🥲
It doesn't get easier.
Loving a fictional character
that would be me.
Fr
it hurts the most when u realize that character isn't real
The first time i heard this song and define the lyrics i cried because it is about relationship that you just imagine and it is not real. But hopefully Lizzy will create this kind of song vibe again i will hear it over and over again.
Brilliant beautiful song. Absolute masterpiece
I heard this in the car several times while trying not to cry, I love this song so much and I can't explain it
It's like trying to achieve a dream you know you'll never be able to yet you still try
Yesterday I saw a guy I used to have a HUGE crush on who I haven't seen in months, and I felt absolutely nothing. And then I went to hang out with my current crush. And this song just kind of feels like how that felt. Feeling nothing for someone I used to be nearly in love with and then feeling so much for someone I only saw as a friend back then.
Its crazy how theres no reconciliation, its like we’re robots
Yknow what's the saddest part is? That i (we) relate to this song
I never would have expected to find this song on TikTok of all places… I never knew I could relate to such a popular song… and just reading these comments, it makes me feel so less alone ❤
I'm addicted to this song. This lyrics, music just telling me and feels me it's me.. who you are talking to..
God this song hits so hard. It reminds me of my personal experiences. When it rains and I look out into the distance longing for someone to take me away. When I fall asleep at night and dream of love and genuinely feels so real only to wake up and realize it's not, for it to seem like I can't feel that in real life. When I think about it and tell myself not to be si caught up over a dream because it seems almost ridiculous and no one would understand. But I see now people do understand. I used to think that even if other people did share my struggles it wouldn't matter because it wouldn't solve my problems snd it doesn't but it makes my emotions feel more valid so it definitely does matter. I'm glad that modern day we can just look up songs on UA-cam and relate to them to make us feel better about ourselves or to read the comments and see people go through almost the exact same thing.
This song makes me happy and sad at the same time😂😭
Same bruh
I deeply miss someone, I miss the touch, the voice, the kisses, and good mornings....but no one is here, I never have anyone to miss. Am I just missing the soulmate I haven't found or am I just lonely?
Well I was just like you but one day I found love....but then I realized I was lonely.
And he is a good guy but we are just not a match for each other and it hurts, we are still together because we love each other. But it's not worth it to me tbh. I just wish I hadn't let those feelings take over me
So all I can say is it could be both or just one ...idk anything about you otherwise I could tell more specifically .
But whatever that might be don't let it take over you. Learn to love yourself. Find things you love and your passion, make friends, appreciate good people around you. Make healthy standard for yourself learn to live without a partner , learn to stay happy and confident most importantly.
Don't try to find love If you're a teenager, let yourself mature .
I thought I'm the only one who felt like this. but dw I'm sure there's someone out there for you who's feeling same as you, just wait for that perfect timing till then don't forget to give all the love to yourself. ❤
For me, that beautiful feeling of love is absolution perfection... and are both unattainable.
This song showed me that it's okay to fantasize about love and a happy ending, but eventually we all need to wake up. It hurts, but it is also very sweet. I love this song so much.
I’m best friends with this girl and we hangout often, just today we were sitting in her car in a Taco Bell parking lot, we were listening to random ass stations on the radio and we stopped at one playing this song, it was the first time I had heard this song. I sat there and it was as if everything connected, she was on her phone talking about her friend, I was too busy staring at her to pay attention, I like her, I was on edge about it before but I know for sure now, I can’t stop listening to this song and remembering every detail of that moment, her hair, her eyes, her jawline, everything, I want her so badly. But I know it won’t work out. I know she won’t feel the same. But it’s fine, I’ll watch from afar as she falls in love with someone else, and I won’t regret it one bit knowing she’s happy
Beautiful lyrics thank you for this masterpiece.❤
This song actually makes me cry, I’ve never experienced being loved or being in a relationship. Any time I have a crush it’s amazing I feel good when I think of them, but it only hurts in the end when I realize they don’t and never will like me. I always feel so lonely and lost inside, like I’m just an empty void waiting for affection and love. It also hurts worse that I’m “in love” with a fictional character.
Best plot twist I've heard in a song
What is the plot twist
@@rachelmaposah3286 there isn't a lover as in the real world she created him in her head that's why the line goes "but it's not real and you don't exist"
Loving a fictional character is painful and that line "that you don't exist I don't recall the last time I was kissed ".
as a selfshipper this song actually makes me feel so sad and i relate so much. i've felt genuine romantic love only once and it's toward someone who will never be there to return it because he isn't even real. i've dedicated my life to someone who can never love me.
And off I go to add this to my hopeless romantic playlist so I can daydream about some guy who will sweep me off my feet who I can fulfill my cliche movie moments with so when I’m in the car driving or staring out a window or something it feels like I’m actually there only to be brought back and realize I’m just fooling myself
I need a hopeless romantic playlist now❤ 😅, would love to hear examples of what's on yours for inspo 😊
Same 😂❤
my heart has created its own meaning of this song and its helping me a lot rn...
context i dropped my partner off at the airport last night because we are long distance and watching him walk away was the hardest thing ive ever done
0:10 is where I would start a contemporary dance
0:18 -> 0:39 - 0:59
Fictional husbandos be like
Lol, so real
Absolutely ❤
This is real 😭😭
This hits different when you’ve never been loved
No it doesn’t, because the song is about not being loved.
@@Screechsmom I don’t think you understood my comment
Probably not
@Screechsmom it may not be it feels like it is and that is enough for me.
reminds me of my first real time i fell in love. we never started dating, but talked for a couple months, then he randomly stopped talking to me. broke my heart, plus seeing him everyday at school breaks me even more everyday. i feel like something could of came, but i guess i’ll never know.
i miss you❤
Girl, I dont know you but I totaly feel you. I had experience like you. We were just friends at university btw I am in tears while writing this to you anyway backing to the story. Like I said we were just friends at the beginning, but at the same time he like me and i ignore his feelings and kept beeing friends cause he wasnt my type (shame on me ) and after year I started to like him but I was afraid to tell how i feel to him. And then some situations occured we lost the connection. These happened five years ago . Now unfortunately he is engaged to someone else. All i can say is I lost my chance but you still have . So please talk to him
@@bellablackwood6038 i’m so sorry, i hate that for you. i’ll try my best to get close to him again. again, so sorry you had that happen.❤️
@@iixoemmq I am sending best wishes and prays for you 🥰 I hope you can be with him please let me know . Good luck 😇
@@bellablackwood6038 i will, thank you😊
@@bellablackwood6038 hey, i know it’s been a while, i just came back to this comment. me and him began talking again but decided to be just friends. ❤
this is givin fictional characters in my dreams😂😂.
"but it's not real and you don't exist."
My grandma just passed away and this song brings me comfort but also makes me cry
For me I feel like this song is about being in love with a fictional character, or somebody in a tv show or movie, I have a huge crush on both Draco from Harry Potter and Dan Gheesling from Big Brother S10, I sometimes pretend I am with them or we’re doing cute things together, but in reality I’m just alone, and they don’t exist, neither do my comfort characters, and I am left in a world where I may never truly experience how it feels to have that kind of love that I want more than anything.😢
"But it's not real and you don't exist" damn it really hit me hard, as being obsessed with fictional character I really feel it.. 💔
same
This and Taylor Swift's "Gold Rush" are giving the same whimsy feel for mee~ ehehe
OMG I love gold rush!!!
To my fictional man.. I love you..
Maybe you have more than just that fictional man, they're out there somewhere.
@@jeremiahpohl3596 thank you so much. This comment made my day
So short like a dream, unfulfilling yet beautiful
THANK YOUUU
2024 anyone?
Heyu 😊
This song reminds me of the boy i used to see in my dreams. He was sauce a pure soul.I would recognize him in my dream like l've known him forever. We would hold hands and go on dates to places I've never been in life. But when i awake up I would forget his face. It's been two years i haven't seen him. I really miss him 😢
I remember I was kissed in my dreams several times, I remember them all but I wish I could recall how it felt
This song absolutely suits the theme of the book "The time traveler's wife" by Audrey Niffenegger. The main character's love was deeply but it was fragile, i would really recommend to read this then listen to the song
Makes me sad for a whole week.
I know you commented this 5 months ago but I was looking at the comments and saw this one and was actually shocked cuz I'm in the middle of reading this book right now😅
@@animenerd4220aw man that was the best book I ever read hope you enjoyed it
@@rohini8882 it was so good!!! I literally cried at the end😭
@@animenerd4220 ahha yeah glad you liked it ✨
Love this ❤️😭😭😭
This song brings me so much emotion and it hits me really hard😭
This takes me back to the beginning of my relationship with my soon to be husband (it didn't feel real for the longest time)we been together for 4 years now and I wouldn't trade my love for him for anything ❤
"and I don't want to leave but I have to go" ❤️🥰🎉
Not this song making me remember a person from a movie that was my comfort character....
This reminds me of my escapism, I have two shows I watch that I desperately wish where real. I have dreams about them sometimes, and I think I, wake up and everything is how I want it to be, but I realize that nothing changed.
That last chorus is a gut punch.
I remember listening to this, whilst longing for my past love. It makes me emotional. In the best way. I feel empathy and tenderness for my loving parts, the suffering parts, the caring parts, the dissapointed parts, the confused parts, the hurting parts, the longing parts, the parts searching for the meaning in the midst of it all, the part that remember everything, burns from the memories of the past lover. The way I screamed, in the middle of the night, in a dark wintery frozen lake, I scream so hard, so painstakingly, hurtingly, desperately, hopelessly, lost, stuck in forever limbo of the bleeding heart and longing. Oh, dear me. I suffered. I suffered, so deeply, profoundly, in a way that I did not even know existed. It was my first real heartbreak. Pure heartbreak. Not the first breakup, but the first time feeling the cutting of the attachement to someone I held dear to my heart. Every day was a fight. I used to wake up feeling terrified of the day ahead, stopping to cry and scream and just break down countless times a day. So much toiler paper was used haha. I was crazy. It did not make any sense. I remember spending night in the bathroom floor, just because it felt more something, more suiting, more comforting than the bed. I don't know. Walking for hours, to exhaust my body, to allow myself to sleep; the only way to spend time was to cry or walk. Nothing made any sense. Heartbreak is a scary place to be at. I really thought I wouldn't survive it. That it would never end. That I would never find anyone again, that made my heart skip a beat. Then, here I am now. Writing this and remembering it fondly: "One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful." Listening to the Tommy Lefroy. The memories of her don't make me breakdown anymore. However, I don't remember her scent, voice, how her body felt, how we laughed, any of these things, not as vividly as I used. I am not sad anymore that our season will never come again, but I can look with fondness, smile and inner embrace. Whilst also feeling the regret of hurting her, the chaos, the psychological violenc, everything that was wrong, manipulative, overreacting, fights, jealousy, all of it, the nights spent sleeping embracing you. I've never slept that well, than when I held you in my arms. It felt so safe, like home, like everything was good in the world. Then I also fell in love with someone else. Not completly, but atleast partially. Now she is also gone. I almost went crazy for her, well, to be honest, I think I did go crazy for her, but we burnt quickly, and then flame just died. Now I feel this emptiness, which is not really sorrow, sadness, or hurt, but just something missing. Life is weird. I can say that I am not the same person I was two years ago. I have completely changed. I've grown less emotional, more mature, more calm, more realistic, even pessimistic, more aware, I've had glimpses of loving myself, I take more responsibility, I want good for myself, I've learned so much, I think more broadly and seriously about my role in the human race, I don't want to have short term chaotic in my life anymore (alcohol, jealous fits of rage with alcohol, weird situationships ruining everything, being restless and calling it being alive). I am so tired nowdays from everything I've been through. I've started to value becoming an adult, real adult, with the most utmost respect. Adoring teenagers and their culture, their small games, being cool, those are things I don't have energy to cary anymore. I still have the teenager inside of myself, but not in the leading role. Because I wan't minimize my suffering from stupid sources. Still learning. Now I know how damn much I still have growing up to do. Life is weird. So weird. Fleeting. Now are the days that I will miss with passion, years to come. Thank you blessing me with this life. It is all a mystery. Weirdest mystery. Glad to be alive. Glad to be alive. Let's see what more life has to offer.
Omg i love this song it really is a vibe even when your not sad and crying over your ex or loved ones
Came here after Haerin's cover💚🐱
Me too. Did some haerin skip some lyrics?
Why nobody mixes this up with the song "a thousand years"????
This song has a 2000’s vibe
When I first heard this song, it made me cry, as it reminded me that all that I've ever wanted is a lover.
This song feels like writing a story about a love that you’re I’ll never get to experience
It’s not real coz you don’t exist anymore my Kedvesem. I’m all that remains of us- and I can’t believe it’s been 7 years you’ve been gone. To me that last smile is behind the closing of my eyelids and your love is in smiles I give! You made me battle through storms but I wouldn’t change a moment of the US that existed for a time on this earth! Wherever your soul is now- know I will one day find you and we will be whole again! 💛
This song is making me live through memories I've never even had.
I'm not crying you are *visibly sobbing*
I love it sm
Such a pretty song
I've realized up until recently as I matured, relationships do take a huge toll on your life. It's sad really. I have no other words, I'm sure yall understand. Relationships make it harder to get through life and the important things. And then having kids together on top of it? I don't understand why we csnr just all love and get along.
Me too
I’m not crying
I hear this song totally different than many others based on comments, but that’s what is beautiful about music. We can all take our own experiences to pull meaning from this song that gives us some sense of release/relief. 😊❤️
Same here
I really love this song it makes me feel better and relaxed ❤
Pov: You were having a dream about a happy life but then you die and wake up and realize it was just a dream so you have to go back to sad reality.
Well said @MoonShadowxPanda
Me and my fictional husband 😔👍
I want more songs like thissss 😩🤍
I cry hearing this song. I love a fictional character that alot of people probably knows(catnoir/adrien)
I imagine fake scenarios with him everyday. Eventualy it became an everyday thing. Most of the time i imagine taht he is with me and he comforts me everytime im sad or hurt by my friends, family, or random starngers.
Knowing he is not real hurts me so badly. I wish everyday so deeply that why couldnt i just be borned in a universe where miraculous was our world but i knew what happens next so i change everything and me and catnoir/adrien get to have a great dream life.
This song exprecess everything im feeling all at once. Why did they have to make catnoir/adrien so cute. It just makes my life harder knowing someone i deeply love is not real💔💔
This makes me cry because it reminds me of sad things and my grandma
was really sick and stopped breathing and I didn’t know until my mom
Told me and I was was crying nonstop
😢😢😢
Hopefully one day i will have a place to call my home where my heart will belong and it will feel safe , nurtured and fulfilled where I don't have to show anything to anyone to prove my worth ,where I would be loved unconditionally without conditions ,where my soul would actually feel loved ,cared and valued for ,one day hopefully I'll have a place to call my own home .
thank you so much. i really needed this right now and you made my day
@@fqv. aww thank you for your sweet comment , whatever you are going thru hope you make past it and trust in god and believe in yourself and remember you are amazing ❤️❤️.
I have a man in my dreams whos been there since childhood. I used to be very in love w him, and a part of my heart still loves this not- real person. But Ive moved on, with my husband. This song made my chest ache in memory.
When you're young and you innocently experience your very first love. The truest, sweetest love. I miss those days. As you get older love has different expectations. Kinda ruins it
Well I'm happy that I will get to experience that soon
When you fall in love with a fictional character
I think it's a sad one , where you create memories inside your head , when your heart has almost accepted that your crush would reject you 🦋🍂
This is how real melody feels like....
Who else is listening this in 2024
For some reason, this song makes me so emotional
God thanks for making me realize I'm personally so fine and feel complete by being single now because my first take on this song is that it's about side person breaking up with somebody's significant other because that somebody choose their SO and not the side person 😅
This is to all of you single people out there, from a taken girl who was once fantasizing just like you for the perfect person.
They will come. Trust me. They will come. You may find someone and they end up not being the one. That happens, and that may discourage you into think that they will never come. Oh but they will, when you least expect it. You could meet someone new, or they could be someone that you've known for years. And it was only then that they came into your life as a, lover. It's different for everyone. The thing you need to remember though, is that there is no such thing as, "perfect love".
For the longest of time, I had a crush on this boy who I met a while back. We were close, and we always shared PE class for every year that we attended school together. We both were amazing at sports and naturally, I thought it was perfect. When a dance was coming up, (I forgot the year haha) a little bit before I was getting my guts to finally tell him, I told my other friend. She ended up going to the dance with him. Was I sad though? Not at all😂 Because I met my current boyfriend at the dance❤
That's the thing about love. There is no perfect love because every relationship has its bumps and mountains. Perfect love is not a thing. But, love can be perfect.
Perfect love is the "dream relationship" where you never have arguments and you always go on dates and just love one another. That isn't a thing😭The sooner you realize this is when you will probably find the one. However, love can feel perfect. "But what's the difference between perfect love, and having love that feels perfect?"
Having love that feels perfect, is love that isn't perfect, but working through the inperfections with one another and accepting eachother for all the flaws that they have, large and little. And that is when you are able to go on cute dates all the time and always be inlove.
When you accept this, and you prepare yourself to experience even the downs of love, is when you will find the one. ❤❤❤❤
thank you so much for this comment. It's good to know people like you are here on this world x idk u but I wish you the best in life ❤️
From someone stranger on the Internet
This song makes me feel like I have so much love to give romantically but no one to give it to!!
You know when A song is good when you never been in A relationship and you get emotional... Im crying so hard..
And now I'm crying again
The one thing I never have. Love.