Actually her cousin brother was once falsely accused. Then she got the pain & started this campaign. For her surprise, she was also called in the police station as she was also got framed.
Completely true problem of today's society is super scarcity of femininity we have plentyfull women in our society, but many of them are lacking The femininity. The biggest role in destruction of femininity in female and present Society is our laws and legal systems. Women are trying to become men and the new social norms are trying to make men a woman. This is fundamentally and naturally wrong which is actually destroying the relations and misleading the society. Actually, for wellbeing of society masculinity and femininity both are required in equal proportion. In fact, we required femininity more than musculanity. But the new norms, legal systems and laws and limitation of our education system is destroying the femininity and only inducing masculinity in females. Please save the femininity in the society. Femininity means kindness, empathy, loving, caring, nurturing, helping, softness, adjustability, flexibility, honesty, forgiving etc and masculinity means, bravery, confidence, rationality, physical and mental power, leadership, decision-making, dependability, reliability, integrity etc. It is desirable to have some masculinity in female and some femininity in males. But total distortion of natural gender actually is destroying the society. Females are now increasingly becoming narcissistic, super selfish and self centric and saddest instead of kind and empathetic. Now they are naturally hypergamus owing to evolutionary history but at the same time the present values are not supporting the evolutionary history and making the females as males. Due to this irony and contradiction of past, and present societies, if she doesn’t find her partner as truly superior to her or others or as per her expectation, she would gradually or quickly lose interest in him and start misbehaving. That thing ultimately is escalated into divorce and all this false allegations to take advantage of legal system falsely inclined towards one physical gender which is called females. Our Scriptures like Ramayana are primarily intended to infuse the right values in the society. Today we are inaugurating Rama Temple and celebrating with great pomp and show. But are we ready to invite those values even 1% of those values gifted by our forfathers in our Scriptures.
Yes.. that's true But laws should also be amended that allegations like this are treated with legal proceedings and accused should not be treated guilty solely on the base of complaint.
The absence of feminists and those who lecture about equality of gender when Ukraine forced the men to stay back and die while allowing women to leave shows the fraudulent intentions of feminism
Women abstain from commenting on issues that are related to Men's welfare. If you want women to speak up, then simply put up a "Boss lady" type topic & see the horde return & stomp & shout & rejoice.
I cried after watching the documentary - Martyrs of Marriage, By Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj. That opened my eyes..this is so inhuman, men have no escape, absolutely no exit and they end up committing suicide unable to bear the torture. Disgusted with those women who are the perpetrators..they don't have the intellect to gauge the extent of damage done to the men.
We need laws, policies, commissions, ministries and men's cells to protect men from assault, abuse, atrocities and blackmail by women which is very common
@@Okayand_99 feminists are behind all the one sided unconstitutional, anti male laws. And they openly and brazenly, and shamelessly oppose gender neutral laws and yet claim to stand for gender equality
Yeah they will go rape women Kids and even old women They are child molesters They will kidnap people They ARE CHILD PREDATORS THANK GOD DR BR AMBEDKAR
*Nailed it!! Was jailed under 498A for 21 days. But I would say the main problem is corruption & incompetence in the judicial system. Also the other laws are far more dangerous. DV act 2005 & Crpc 125. The later is applicable even after divorce. The former will take your property. Lost access to my son 11 yrs ago. Should have gone to a prostitute instead of getting married.*
Some tips to save yourself as a man: 1. Observe people's behaviour and discussions they do, you'll get to know who's the toxic one's. Try staying away from them although keep info about them coz you never know they might be conspiring against you. Often the closest people do the worst with you. 2. Try to keep records of calls, chats and video recordings as well. Suppose you are driving your own car in a lonely place or wherever. Having a dashcam is a great power cause one wouldn't dare causing you any trouble. 3. Mind your tongue and imagine scenarios before you act 4. Don't marry stay single
HUGE RESPECT FOR HER🙏🏼 We, highly respected family, experienced the exact same scenario as her situation with adultery from my sister-in-law, got married, never even came to our house, put 498a in 4 days after marriage to getaway from it with a large payout. Shock and Humiliation of what we went through as family brings chills even now after 7 years. We only got to know about this law after we were accused of it & the only reason was to get money and get out of it. Have spoken to Ms. Deepika personally, and the strength to move on was only achieved by the support of brave warriors like her. “Gender neutral laws are the need of the hour” & thanks to you for bringing her on the show and having this discussion🙏🏼
AS long as Male chavunism is supported only because of PEOPLE WHO CALL THEMSELVES, Highly respected family in society, I see its impossible to get GENDER NEUTRAL LAWS, in India. There are much bigger issues in India that needs to get justice first. ADULTERY by woman and then GETTING FILED with 498 A by the womans family is DUE TO GENDER INEQUALITY a woman faces first, in India. Because most MEN DO ADULTERY and no woman wants to ditch husband so cheaply, unless IF INNER CHARACTER of a person is valued more than just Adultery. Just Indian mentality to scapegoat a woman for ADULTERY REASONS is enough proof, when Adultery is beng done more by MEN, that GENDER EQUAL LAWS are not going to happen as it is society that has to change, to stop scape goating woman TAKING DOWRY AND DOING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE on woman more.... Why doesnt Man not give Dowry and get domestic abuse by woman, in INDIA at all, and WHY then ADULTERY should become such a big issue in case of WOMAN, while a Man can conveniently escape??
@@drrameshshrink You are delusional. Recently the adultery law was scrapped. Before that, women were EXCLUDED from the law. Only a man could be prosecuted for adultery. So a wife could sleep around and if caught, she could escape by filing false rape cases against the men, send then to jail, and then file false dowry cases, domestic violence cases etc and seek a HUGE SETTLEMENT. So women have the power to destroy men's lives because there are people like you who support such women and their activities. You support adultery committed by women and say it is nothing but adultery committed by a man is a HUGE CRIME. DOUBLE STANDARDS OF SIMPS EXPOSED. Next is domestic violence. Who told you that women don't commit domestic violence against men? They do commit it every moment but the society consisting of simps like you and the laws that follow do not recognise violence by women as violence at all. The one sided laws add to the agony of male victims of domestic violence and instead of arresting the woman who committed the crime, they arrest men who are victims. And if people like you sit in judgement in courts, God save the men. You will reprimand the men, laugh at them, call them namard, and appreciate the women for their bravery of assaulting the man and using abusive words.
@@drrameshshrink with simps like you around, we need men's commissions and ministries to protect us from your abuse, assault and threats. Because so called men like you will try to become heroes in front of women who will falsely accuse men of rape, dowry etc. You will encourage women criminals to assault men and then you will take over from them by assaulting the man yourself with stones. I have seen enough so called men like you. Shame on you
How stupid are you? Do you know how biased the laws of Adultery itself are? If a person's wife commits adultery with another man, the wife doesn't get arrested, the man does. Adultery is a big thing, stop downplaying it. If a man commits Adultery, the wife is free to divorce him.
I am a victim of 498A and my family has already suffered a lot. My wife demanded money which I couldn't afford as a settlement and this is where she used this law as a weapon. I couldn't imagine something like this coming down to me and my family. I hope our judiciary starts looking at men and women with the same lens. There should be punitive provisions for false allegations irrespective of the gender. 😢
Jisne tume aur tumhare ma bap ko jail bheja beijjatinki usko jineka haq nahi hai bro khatm kro use...mai hota to thok deta ...bhagwan bhi ma bap ke apman ka bdla lene walonko swarg deta hai
Not only in India that men are suffering. So many countries there are ways women use the legal system to "overpower" men. This is a global issue that the legal system is aligned with women. It takes a man an enormous amount of financial resources to prove his innocence which many men end up in depression or become suicidal, and even that state of a man in depression is used against him.
Exactly that's the main issue here. I meam any law can be used falsely but these ones in particular only drains the finances of men that's why they are abused the most.
Ranveer, appreciate your work, thanks for interviewing her. I have personally fought & won IPC498 along with other multiple cases, sad part is our law doesn't punish women & their family who use this law has legal terrorism.
@@joeljack3059 Thank you 🙏 problem with our law system, when I approached a criminal lawyer regarding defamation, he informed me we can’t directly file defamation, instead a private complaint with Crpc 200 has been filed in the court, as usual these dirty cops don’t do their work honestly, I have been waiting from 2017, and off course lock down also delayed things
Well I know men want to avenge false 498a by putting defamation later, but honestly it's waste of time. I know women go Scott free... But who want to visit courts for more time
We lack gender neutral laws and i feel so much respect towards her.creating a safe space for men to be vulnerable is such amazing thing.I would like to see men create their spaces share their journeys also not being judged.Prayers to all men who were denied justice 🙏🙏🙏
Most countries have laws favouring women, even USA, UK, Canada etc. In US, the husband can be forced to give half his property to the wife. Much better to remain single.
It's sad how this 'fight for equality' has made men unequal and be at such an unfair position for anybody to be in. The society that promotes gender equality, judges, when a man is upset with their marriage, and consoles when a woman is. Truly depressing.
Feminism and the gender equality claim was never there in the first place. It was fraud from the beginning and it was always about changing the society into a totally female dominated one where men are just slaves to women.
We urgently need Police reforms: Stop violence/torture of the accused. More trained officers, forensic teams for a faster and fair preliminary investigation. Judicial reforms: faster disposal of cases/ speedy trial. Also easier access to courts. Prison reforms for separate prisons for undertrials with basic humans rights of clean toilets/bathrooms, decent food & safe & not overcrowded barracks.(Later for convicts too) These reforms must be our prime agenda for 2024 elections. West is much better in this area if not the best, so will aslo solve problems of people living India for a good life
Completely true problem of today's society is super scarcity of femininity we have plentyfull women in our society, but many of them are lacking The femininity. The biggest role in destruction of femininity in female and present Society is our laws and legal systems. Women are trying to become men and the new social norms are trying to make men a woman. This is fundamentally and naturally wrong which is actually destroying the relations and misleading the society. Actually, for wellbeing of society masculinity and femininity both are required in equal proportion. In fact, we required femininity more than musculanity. But the new norms, legal systems and laws and limitation of our education system is destroying the femininity and only inducing masculinity in females. Please save the femininity in the society. Femininity means kindness, empathy, loving, caring, nurturing, helping, softness, adjustability, flexibility, honesty, forgiving etc and masculinity means, bravery, confidence, rationality, physical and mental power, leadership, decision-making, dependability, reliability, integrity etc. It is desirable to have some masculinity in female and some femininity in males. But total distortion of natural gender actually is destroying the society. Females are now increasingly becoming narcissistic, super selfish and self centric and saddest instead of kind and empathetic. Now they are naturally hypergamus owing to evolutionary history but at the same time the present values are not supporting the evolutionary history and making the females as males. Due to this irony and contradiction of past, and present societies, if she doesn’t find her partner as truly superior to her or others or as per her expectation, she would gradually or quickly lose interest in him and start misbehaving. That thing ultimately is escalated into divorce and all this false allegations to take advantage of legal system falsely inclined towards one physical gender which is called females. Our Scriptures like Ramayana are primarily intended to infuse the right values in the society. Today we are inaugurating Rama Temple and celebrating with great pomp and show. But are we ready to invite those values even 1% of those values gifted by our forfathers in our Scriptures.
I am proud to be in a country which produces such sensitive,articulate and determined ladies like Ms Deepika Bhardwaj who deal with blots on our society, particularly on the misude of Article 498A which is a clear case of a misguided attempt to address a social problem.
I got married to a girl back in April 17 2022 . It was a mutual marriage both of us wanted to get married. After marriage the girl started second guessing the marriage and then she wanted to end the relation. She blocked me from all social media and WhatsApp, started talking to her ex, and then tried to put false case against me. She drafted nullity of marriage petition where she claimed the marriage was forced and they have been cooerced and she wanted me to be punished for it and also wanted money from me. I realised who she is and what she is really really quick.
@@rahulbhattacharjee6508 because then it will justify the crimes and the time and it may be then just made more serious as the system is no longer wrong human laws and punishment is skewed
@@baroncandy3939 so you mean, if somebody falsely accuse an innocent, that innocent should wait for a justice after 7 years, you think corrupt cops gonna do their jobs. Why not just become the monster she accused so that people who pass on this ridiculous laws can understand the implications. Why fear the physical beatings from corrupt, biased cops when even after you are proved innocent society will shame you. You will lose your money and respect to prove your innocent. Why not see shes the monster she created with her own eyes and tremble??
I feel we have reached a place in the society where we need more gender neutral laws. POCSO is one of the steps I this direction. It acknowledges children of both the genders being prone to sexual assault . Men being able to talk about abuse and assault will not just empower men but also women .
That's why marriage in current scenario is nothing less than a trauma, whether man or women. Better work on yourself and find a purpose for your life, marriage or being with a wrong women will ruin your life
@@Kathakathan11 A wrong men can't even touch her legally. ( 498a, DV and 30 others ) But a wrong woman has the power to r@pe the men legally in court and she will be rewarded by life time free maintainence, alimony child support no matter who is guilty.
My cousin sister filed a fake case of dowry and domestic violence after her husband found her cheating just after 15 days of marriage , she was still in contact with here ex . The matter was settled outside the court after he agreed to pay the sum of RS 20L
You should disown her and close off any contact of your family with hers tbh not doing so means you are just silently watch and supporting her unknowingly
If the case was false then her husband would have won it and set an example for society instead of satisfying her greed and extortion. Bcoz no one can prove a false criminal case in court without evidence.
@@KARANVANIYA no bro divorce in 15 days. No court is going to believe a man. The court gave the argument that maybe he wants more dowry . That is why he is behaving like this. Some how he settled the case outside the court.
The fact that the so called LAW of this country upholds the hypocrites and denies justice to the victims, Is astonishing. Society is changing , Laws should change too.
Even if the female itself is the cause of separation if she is a narcissistic personality it is in evitable to break up that relation. Why in such condition man should pay anything. such law is completely against the principles of natural justice and the spirit of Constitution and justfull society. Majority of young population now does not want to marry. The actual high-value males are now not marrying. These laws are not assuring justice but only giving weapon to narcissistic people to harass exploit and extract the male partners. Almost 50% of female population is narcissistic and tend to play falls victim card. So it’s very easy for them to weaponise such unjustfull laws for their inappropriate expectations and tendencies. Such laws are actually the destroyers of society and peace of mind of millions of people. Such law should be repealed with immediate effect. And it’s a big irony that we worshipping Ram and building temple with so big pomp and show. But do we adopt any high-value from Ram or Sita ?
my friend's brother is going through this hell , her family is shattered .A few days after marriage bhai came to know about his wife's pregnancy literally after few days and the child was her boyfriend's child , later she aborted that child , after few months of their marriage she accused him and his family of domestic violence , dowry and demanded 25 lakh as settlement but thankfully her family opposed her and told her that they will file case against her with the evidences they have , but still this incident has mentally shaken the family , my friend's brother is depressed her mother is not well , her father is a really nice man but his confidence has shattered after this incident .
The fact is even with all legal proceedings it's still hard to win and even if they win they'll still have to pay alimony and for sure with time as well. It may take few years for that to end
@@aspirant9845 no they won't pay her 25 lakhs, they have evidences against her even her parents are not supporting her with this cruelty, at the end she had to withdraw the case but still this incident gave a irremovable scar to the family.
@@kalashsharma4344 majority of the cases are genuine cases of violence against women, dowry and what not , but these wicked assholes are taking advantage of judicial system, and ironically our judicial system gives advantage to perpetrators only, be it man Or be it women.
I know a colleague of mine who confided in me who went through a similar experience. After paying close to 60 Lakhs, essentially his entire life's earnings to not make his family go through more suffering he left for US. He is highly educated and told his parents this country is bad, this society is bad and he is not going to return. I know another instance where the woman threw allegations of impotency putting the man's family at extreme society shame and pressure, took close to 1 Crore of valuables and cash and went on to marry and divorce 4 more men.
That's why I am moving to Europe which has gender neutral laws. I really don't feel safe here that any random women can file complaint of Eve teasing or violence and I would be in jail for no reason.
@@Ranjan_Mohanty Eastern Europe is best There aren't laws like this ya vai ko bolo MIDDLE EAST Chala jae 🤣🤣Rose In Muslim population ese nhi Ho rho bohot sare ladke Achi Biwi Dhundne ke lie Muslim bante ja rhe hai
This literally happened to my brother ,he had such high hopes for his marriage but she falsely accused him, Thankfully he got scot free just by paying 1lkh
It is not a personal problem anymore. It is a widespread legal and social problem affecting a mass. All though it is good to get out of it personally, it is a positive feedback to the wrongful activities and encourages such people to repeat the same. They themselves do it again and also encourage other people for the same behavior.
@@yashsingh3177 Exactly bro. I remember during the initial controversy between Turd and Jhonny media houses started publishing Jhonny as an abuser without any single evidence and everyone was against Jhonny and started supporting turd. It's even hard for multi millionaire men to prove their innocence. poor men must be tortured by law just like sarabjeet singh and Vishu Tiwari silently.
Really admire this woman.. She has sacrificed her promising career for her purpose!! A lot of people will never know what this purpose is, until it hits close to home
Just like in the case of Johnny depp where Camille Vasquez was the primary leading force it's important that Deepika a female is taking the lead. It might sound illogical but is a very key factor. Thank you so much Deepika Madam. Our family has indirectly be benefited by such work.
Many women say why men don't talk about women issues. Answer is this comment section...u hardly see any. And reason for this is "It doesn't matter to us since we r not the one who r suffering.." And some also r of view "Acha hua atleast now men r facing what we faced"
Someone I know was 24 and had a great life Parents forced him into an arranged marriage He was well off so he asked the girl for any reason there might be issues any relationship she has or anything But she kept quiet After marriage he caught her talking with her affair partner The guy did not say anything and just sent her home Ofcourse her parents knew that's why they also forced marriage. Made her go through shit and she committed suicide and now the guy is in trouble cause apparently it's his fault she died by suicide while she was in her family home.
@@princejangra1231 u know I have actually heard this from one of my acquaintance, also many times on social media ...I do understand where u are coming from and I totally respect that but at the same time I struggle to imagine a life without a partner ...let's be honest even with your whole family beside you u still can feel lonely...there is always a wall and gap that perhaps only your partner can fill ....I seriously want a open discussion or talk of some sort on this .... regarding your possible alternatives if you choose to go this path ....
@AK Indian courts will treat that sort of live in relationship as a marriage, especially if the girl demands compensation after a breakup and drags you to court because you refused. It has been said so explicitly and there is precedent for it.
Mam, the girls who say why you are doing this so much to men are the one's who thinks to misuse laws in future. they are afraid... you are doing a great job. salute.
Even if the female itself is the cause of separation if she is a narcissistic personality it is in evitable to break up that relation. Why in such condition man should pay anything. such law is completely against the principles of natural justice and the spirit of Constitution and justfull society. Majority of young population now does not want to marry. The actual high-value males are now not marrying. These laws are not assuring justice but only giving weapon to narcissistic people to harass exploit and extract the male partners. Almost 50% of female population is narcissistic and tend to play falls victim card. So it’s very easy for them to weaponise such unjustfull laws for their inappropriate expectations and tendencies. Such laws are actually the destroyers of society and peace of mind of millions of people. Such law should be repealed with immediate effect. And it’s a big irony that we worshipping Ram and building temple with so big pomp and show. But do we adopt any high-value from Ram or Sita ?
@@healingtogether1177 in all cases accused got acquitted shortly and the female complainant victims accepted that they filed rape case to settle down some dispute between the accused and complainant.
As a woman, i would say that this law is highly misused one and doesn’t show equality for men and women. Men are often the victim of this law and it should either have change or removed. As i have seen in my own family, there’s no consequence of fasle dowry claims and it also includes punishment of the innocent men even before the judgment is passed, infact even before the case reaches the court.
This is so true!! She has spoken absolute reality.. Every second house in the society is actually facing with this problem.. And even if the lady is at fault, the court awards her with alimony, which is even more saddening.. I am a women myself, but supporting wrongful acts is not something that fits in my ethics too..
My heart goes out to men who have gone through it. If as a woman you fall in love with someone outside your marriage, please peacefully leave the marriage and leave the husband and family alone. Don't Harrass the guy
Don't get sympathy. A major portion of women take advantage in all places like Law, public transport, school colleges, sports, government jobs etc .....
It’s not just in India, across the world the laws are having a misandrist bias, it’s how the laws are designed to be. Legal consultation is a business, feminism is its marketing strategy and the men’s money at stake in these legal hurdles is their revenue. There is no equality when it comes to laws regarding alimony, child support, adultery, paternity fraud or domestic violence in any country. Even if anyone can point it out otherwise, it’s only for namesake purposes. The legal assumptions of alimony and paternity fraud dates back to 1900s and 1870s. Alimony was introduced as a penalty for keeping a mistress, but feminism and legal system has turned it around as ‘entitlement cash chips’ for women. Even today, in any developed country, the husband is legally liable to pay 18 years of child’s support when the wife commits paternity fraud and even if she admits the same in the court. When it comes to pedophilic crimes, women get very feeble to no sentencing even if it is proved with all the evidence. Majority of baby killers are women in the modern civilized world and in even the olden times too. Now they use postpartum depression as an excuse to get leaner sentences. Men are legally liable for whatever he does, but women are legally protected, no matter what she does. However, there is a carbon chunk that can be turned into a diamond in this haystack of rabid feminist ideas: - the concept of ‘Men are guilty by default’. It means that all men are selfish, hypocritic, liars, rascals, cheaters and all sorts of vile things by default. We have to use this effectively against the system. Just like how the Icelandic women left the work early citing pay gap, we men should abstain from listening to / showing any sympathy or concern to the so called ‘female cause’ until the laws are made gender neutral. We should abandon chivalry, abstain from making donations to women and child welfare programs (bulk of the tax money is routed to write off loans and an array of welfare programs including woman and children), never pay of female centric movies, dramas/ corporate programs, shunt politeness and social responsibility from our minds. instead, we all men must focus on our own happiness, our own skill set development, finances and careers, selfishly (selfishness comes along with the package of guilty by default) and should not be prioritizing relationships (either friends with benefits or no simping policy) and family commitments in our lives. We should match the audacity, cheapness and entitlement of these rabid feminists in our attitude. If they cite pay-gap we must be cheap enough to point out the working hours gap, shopping break gaps and risk appetite gap. We should have zero tolerance to nagging and emotional blackmailing, even if it is done by our mother, sister or daughter. Shunt rabid feminists from our lives even if they are belonging to our own family or blood lines. Never help any stranger (man or woman, be very specific about rabid feminists) without sufficient due diligence checks from our side (if we men get into trouble, rarely we may be getting any help). Monetize our help and onus of taking responsibilities, eg :- If we had to stay back at our work for women to leave early or take additional responsibilities of women going on maternity leave, we must make sure that we get paid for it. There should not be any compromise on it, if we are not paid, we must plan our exit and search for another company at the earliest. Never work in an organization or place for more than 4-5 years, no matter how good that place is! Learn to argue like feminists, our selfish obsessions/targets should be our priority, even if they come with a valid argument, circumvent or ignore it as if we are deaf, just like how they do it against us. There may be good women, but majority of these women are not vocal or concerned about the parasites among them. If all men are responsible for the actions of a few scumbags in the male gender, then the same is applicable to women. Men’s rights organizations are helpless in all the countries, they can’t do much even with the help of women like Deepika. We all men must learn to adopt the skill and attitude of the lone wolf (a lone wolf must be successful like a wolf’s pack and daring like a kamakaze pilot, IF HE GOES DOWN, HE WILL MAKE SURE THAT ATTACKERS ARE ‘SCARRED’PRETTY BAD for life) and mask it under sheep’s wool. If we align with men’s rights organizations, or other welfare organizations, it will be easy for the rabid feminazis to spot, cancel and silence us using misandrist laws and HR rules. “Never fight the system like a gorilla, but always fight it like a guerilla”.
Due this inequality faced by men in our country, now it's very difficult to have trust in marriage. Whether it's a love or arrange, men will always lose, pay alimony.. ab toh shaadi hi nahi karna hai.. kya bharosa kaisi ladki mile. Single rahenge toh atleast jail nahi jana padega
498a serves no purpose..instead divorce should be made faster and easier for woman and the section 125 trial should be done fast so that financial dispute is resolved.
Today's girls hates you mam , but these girls only understand when something same thing happen with their brother ,father and family.otherwise they want to enjoy privilage.
Please talk about a social issue of......... If a man is not asking for anything (gift) not a forceful 💰💸 money and he is still in his struggling phase of his life! He will be tagged as... "Koi dega paisa tabb naa milega" A man's worth is decided by what his position is in the society! A minister/rich tycoon daughter or sister will be easily married to a IAS officer even if he demands 2-5 crores.. But if a struggler asks even for certain lifestyle goods(which will be used by his wife also) ... He will be tagged as dowry greedy person!
Exactly. This culture is tremendously popular in Bihar especially. They are literally going for govt jobs because the hype is so much that fuckers are marrying their daughter by giving dowry of 20-30 lakhs for a govt job that merely gives 35k/month salary. 🤦♂️ The problem is that these rich ass have ruined and rigged the entire system. Now even if a guy doesn't ask for anything they will literally force you mentally to take it. If you resist too much they will think there is something wrong with you 😑 and will start second guessing the marriage itself.
@@rapiddu6482 Exactly my point!! Yess!.. Not only Bihar .. (Entire north India).. UP MP Rajasthan Harayana & Punjab also And then the Guy has to demand something in order to protect his dignity as a person!! Dowry as a concept will only stop if both Girl's and Boy's family are not Greedy!
Dowry is the type of money which is taken by some poor husbands for sake of his wife ,his kids education, so basically dowry is enjoyed by both husband/wife n kids ... But alimony is only enjoyed by wives, alimony money is extorted by beggar wives even if she is capable of earning. Both dowry n alimony should be banned 🚫
I am going through divorce case. Married to mentally ill girl. We spent all our savings on marriage and never took a penny. Now we had to sale our house had to leave job. Still court dates are on us. My mum dad are soo depressed. Never ever rose a voice on her but she filed this complain. We are shattered by this and above the treatment of police is worse. It's soo Horefic that we can not even think of happy stable life anymore. Just getting divorce and clear in this case is moksha for us.
Thank brother for support. I've left job of IBM to stay with my parents now. Doing low scale job here. Money is less but me being my parents give them another level of mental stability. Tho police and so called mahila ayog dont miss chance to harrass. Even after having enough proof be it written, call records and eye witness all system put blindside. But i know we are sticking with truth. One day I'll be out of it. Then I won't be looking back. Worst patch of my life ever.
I hope one day law will be made for men. Society will change its mindset, socal media stop showing men as a animal, mam god bless you and those who support you but i will pray God that these will be done soon.
@@mrperfect3197 not everyone watches this podcast, and yes there are many women who have commented here, just read the name. Ask your mom or sister, if they will ever misuse any law against their husbands. You will get the answer. Keep hating women, that won’t change the larger reality that we all need to coexist and need mutual respect.
@@Kathakathan11 again victim card mode activated? What I said is absolutely true. If you don't believe me then you can check the comment of thappad film and section 375 film. majority of men support women but most women don't. whenever men say their problems to women they instantly compare men's problem with woman's problem in their subconscious mind and start to think that this is not a problem (until she saw the problem with her own eyes). Woman who actually supports men are in minority like Deepika, Jyoti Tiwari and others
@@Kathakathan11 you told me about my mom and sister but I completely feel safe with them even If no one is with us because they will never register false cases against me for money, revenge or whatever, but I feel totally unsafe with random women. her one false accusation and my reputation, career, life is finished.
Ranveer, This is such an important episode. Thank you for doing this. Dear Deepika, On behalf of all men who want a decent and simple life. Thank you 💙
Deepika is god. We men must preserve people like her. Women have used IBC 498 law as mental torture. If men is proved innocent still there is no punishment for women. In Indian society it is order for men to sacrifice everything.
It's very true, my own neighbour suffering from this, he is very good guy but his wife left him few months after marriage and now demanding huge amount of money if not given then threatened with 498a. I feel sorry for him so guys choose absolute carefully ur partner.
@@princejangra1231 if you have chats then screenshot and keep it. if you are going on date then just turn on voice recording all the way through the date... always check the background of your partner before going on a date
@@princejangra1231 Awareness brother that's a major issue go to lot of 20 year Olds and ask about 498a most men might not know what it is about and what's the current legal scenario. Secondly no mainstream exposure is a major issue for most not knowing the nature of laws
Laws should be strict and equal for everyone no matter what . In our country we fail to see and realize a problem as a problem until it happens to us or our own . We fail to see the big picture . I certainly hope it changes and we start thinking about us instead of me.
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Ppls idea of life can be different be friendly, humble and cultured with whatever you believe in
Its because of these stupid women who put false dowry accusations that the truly suffering women do not get justice...... Its because of degraded women who put false rape accusations on innocent men that Nirbhaya had to wait for 8 YEARS to get justice This is my India!!!!!!!!
Why talk only about women? What about justice for men? A man can be falsely accused. A man can be raped too. A man can be assaulted by a woman. Where is the justice for a man?
True even most feminists don't realize this fact that how much this affects genuine victims if we were able to curb down the cases which were 100% false nirbhaya case would have achieved justice sooner
Full respect to Deepika who actually care about men and men's problems. Men always support women but most women don't. When you tell your problems to a woman they will be like "Oh woman suffer more than men. I care about men but women suffer more. So...". They always give this kind of response. Just see the comment section. on woman related posts/videos there are no sortage of woman and men comments. but in this video, there are hardly any woman which shows their nature. I may sound sexist but that's the truth
@@journalingandstuffsofficial It's Just Like "All Guys Aren't The Same" Here Are 3.5 Billion Males Even then why do you use the word "all", say that some boys are wrong
Misuse of 498A is spoken as simple as "Misuse of 498A" or "wife settling personal scores against husband and his relatives" and not as serious as "Cruelty by wife upon husband and his relatives". Family is an integral part of this country, consequences should be analyzed and evaluated before the bubble bust.
@@dhruvbhatia5737 ya. but if your wife register a 498a case then bhoom. The court will order you to give lifetime maintenance to her on a monthly basis until you die + you have no access to you own children. now don't be that guy "Meri wali aisa nahi karegi". millions of men are getting trapped by law and they will have no support in their oldage
It happens in every family these days. My cousin brother, who was badly harassed and beaten by the girl's family, was accused of domestic violence and dowry himself and now struggling to get out of it
I am the victim of misuses of law by my wife since 2016. She has filed a case of domestic violence and put charges on me for rape extramarital affair dowry etc …Not just on me but on my entire family parents grandparents sister uncles aunts..
Laws, govt always favour women over men, throw men in jail for alimony. Women, lawyers, NGOs use laws to force men for settlement extracting huge money. This has weakened family system in India.
Deepika ma'am thank you for working for men to protect them too ❤️. Amount of fake sexual assault cases are increasing every year, we have to make it a point to create gender neutral laws for our own people.
The most saddening thing to know about is that there is still not a law which protects men against domestic violence and we talk about gender equality.
If women and their family found misusing the IPC 498A just to fulfill their agenda, then why not the same jail time and financial penalty for all those who are involved in doing that just like Men? cause at the end they perjured, tried to ruin someone's life for their gain and that's equally cruel. If we want equality then the laws must not be biased, the law shouldn't be giving them free hand just like that.
Mockery goes in Indian Law system...where laws are formed and framed which gives benefit to one section of society against the other section. Lawyers know abt this being in 21st century but unable to change it. Great Shining India!!!
i watched the documentary just now 1:07:30 :put behind bars to keep the criminal away ; so the guy instantly become a criminal , not accused , its not like he wont get bail , the court will eventually grant him, that woman is really something else, never felt so angry, disappointed and terrified by mere words of a person
Well what if we have a partner who truly loves us and we both are on a spiritual path? I live in a foreign country with my partner where the laws are equal and we both have known each other for 7 years and we both are spiritually inclined to advaita Vedanta our relationship isn't like others all this shona babu shit she has helped me alot when I was going through my hard times...
@@jdm_lover_fj_6793 If you are in a foreign country where feminism is rampant and where the laws are titled in favour of women especially in family courts, keep her as a fiancé. There is no need of marriage in this world of matriarchy. She might have helped you spiritually and if she has ever seen you in an emotional state such as crying, her subconscious mind thinks of you as weaker than other men. She will never admit this openly, but there is a rule in relationships, you do not show your weak side to women. They say they want to see it, but you should never ever do that.
My family is going through this ordeal right now. My sister in law and her mother had some disagreement with my brother and they filed an FIR under 498(a) against my whole family. Currently we are trying to get an anticipatory bail so police doesn't harass us. It's so disheartening how these things happen. My whole family is sad and scared. We are not rich enough to afford litigation expenses. My brother's life is probably ruined and i am rethinking if i should even get married.
Laws should be there to protect every innocent individual irrespective of gender. Thriving men are equally important for a thriving country. Sabotaging one gender is never equivalent to empowering other.
One suggestion to all men(Advice taken from lawyers): Please do take dowry in your marriage. If you are a middle class man take 10-20 lakhs in cash(of which the other party has no record) so neither will they be able to prove that you took the amount nor would they file case in the first place as they will want the marriage to sustain since they invested so much money.
Its high time women should also be held accountable, because today women are also highly empowered but misusing their power whereas the women who should really benefit do not even know about these laws. Mostly the abusers of law are educated, well-to-do women who want everything to happen their way, anything coming in their way of schemes ais dealt with emotionless directionless court cases. I am not against laws for protecting women but I want that misusers once proven should be dealt with severely.
If today as a whole India knows about the misuse of 498a then all credit goes to Deepika mam and her sincere effort for the last 10 years
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She is there. But long before her there are men who suffered and started the movement. But nobody will remember them.
Actually her cousin brother was once falsely accused. Then she got the pain & started this campaign. For her surprise, she was also called in the police station as she was also got framed.
Completely true problem of today's society is super scarcity of femininity we have plentyfull women in our society, but many of them are lacking The femininity. The biggest role in destruction of femininity in female and present Society is our laws and legal systems. Women are trying to become men and the new social norms are trying to make men a woman. This is fundamentally and naturally wrong which is actually destroying the relations and misleading the society. Actually, for wellbeing of society masculinity and femininity both are required in equal proportion. In fact, we required femininity more than musculanity. But the new norms, legal systems and laws and limitation of our education system is destroying the femininity and only inducing masculinity in females. Please save the femininity in the society. Femininity means kindness, empathy, loving, caring, nurturing, helping, softness, adjustability, flexibility, honesty, forgiving etc and masculinity means, bravery, confidence, rationality, physical and mental power, leadership, decision-making, dependability, reliability, integrity etc. It is desirable to have some masculinity in female and some femininity in males. But total distortion of natural gender actually is destroying the society. Females are now increasingly becoming narcissistic, super selfish and self centric and saddest instead of kind and empathetic. Now they are naturally hypergamus owing to evolutionary history but at the same time the present values are not supporting the evolutionary history and making the females as males. Due to this irony and contradiction of past, and present societies, if she doesn’t find her partner as truly superior to her or others or as per her expectation, she would gradually or quickly lose interest in him and start misbehaving. That thing ultimately is escalated into divorce and all this false allegations to take advantage of legal system falsely inclined towards one physical gender which is called females.
Our Scriptures like Ramayana are primarily intended to infuse the right values in the society. Today we are inaugurating Rama Temple and celebrating with great pomp and show. But are we ready to invite those values even 1% of those values gifted by our forfathers in our Scriptures.
*Equality can only be established when people who misuse laws are equally punished as a criminal is*
Kiya mast joke mara hai re.
Well think about cardi B admitted her crimes 10 years ago whereas guy was falsely accused 10 years ago was jailed so
Yes.. that's true
But laws should also be amended that allegations like this are treated with legal proceedings and accused should not be treated guilty solely on the base of complaint.
Exactly bro
Laws aren't being used to begin with lol, forget about its misuse.
The absence of women in the comment section is concerning and disheartening
The absence of feminists and those who lecture about equality of gender when Ukraine forced the men to stay back and die while allowing women to leave shows the fraudulent intentions of feminism
Might be busy studying or applying IPC 498A and other such articles
@wase women are hypocrites and have a double standard. They want gender equality as per their convenience and not real gender equality
thats because the audience of this channel is men and it wont be recommended much to the girls
Women abstain from commenting on issues that are related to Men's welfare. If you want women to speak up, then simply put up a "Boss lady" type topic & see the horde return & stomp & shout & rejoice.
Deepika Bhardwaj ❤️
She must be protected at any cost
~ *Indian Men's*
I cried after watching the documentary - Martyrs of Marriage,
By Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj.
That opened my eyes..this is so inhuman, men have no escape, absolutely no exit and they end up committing suicide unable to bear the torture.
Disgusted with those women who are the perpetrators..they don't have the intellect to gauge the extent of damage done to the men.
Thanks atleast you understand. Probably women like you r the only reason people still believe in feminity. I cant say thnks enough.
You are a gem
Atleast women's like u who understand this is better than most of them who don't and leave about those who does it
Thanks a lot for understanding
Leave india , that's the only way to save yourself
as a woman, i think we should also have laws to protect men or just turn al into a neutral law, laws shouldn't be misused like this.
You women say dhit like this to score brownie points online but won't do shit to help men.
We need laws, policies, commissions, ministries and men's cells to protect men from assault, abuse, atrocities and blackmail by women which is very common
Ya but feminists are opposing gender neutral laws
Research and see feminists handles if u don't believe me
@@Okayand_99 feminists are behind all the one sided unconstitutional, anti male laws. And they openly and brazenly, and shamelessly oppose gender neutral laws and yet claim to stand for gender equality
Yeah they will go rape women Kids and even old women
They are child molesters
They will kidnap people
They ARE CHILD PREDATORS THANK GOD DR BR AMBEDKAR
*Nailed it!! Was jailed under 498A for 21 days. But I would say the main problem is corruption & incompetence in the judicial system. Also the other laws are far more dangerous. DV act 2005 & Crpc 125. The later is applicable even after divorce. The former will take your property. Lost access to my son 11 yrs ago. Should have gone to a prostitute instead of getting married.*
Agreed 💯👍
True bro
More power to you bro. God bless. Hope you're doing good now
Why u even get married😂😂, it's like signing one sided contract where ur everything is on stake and if she breaks it she wins
Hope you're doing fine now. These laws are really against all men. We too should be protected!
Some tips to save yourself as a man:
1. Observe people's behaviour and discussions they do, you'll get to know who's the toxic one's. Try staying away from them although keep info about them coz you never know they might be conspiring against you. Often the closest people do the worst with you.
2. Try to keep records of calls, chats and video recordings as well. Suppose you are driving your own car in a lonely place or wherever. Having a dashcam is a great power cause one wouldn't dare causing you any trouble.
3. Mind your tongue and imagine scenarios before you act
4. Don't marry stay single
Point 4 😂
@@johannfernandes9659 actually based
3rd i what I suck at but I don't give threats
But I have made people cry with just words
Point 4 is based 😏.
It is the real essence of life.
Point 4 is ,,,,,,,, Reality....
HUGE RESPECT FOR HER🙏🏼 We, highly respected family, experienced the exact same scenario as her situation with adultery from my sister-in-law, got married, never even came to our house, put 498a in 4 days after marriage to getaway from it with a large payout.
Shock and Humiliation of what we went through as family brings chills even now after 7 years. We only got to know about this law after we were accused of it & the only reason was to get money and get out of it.
Have spoken to Ms. Deepika personally, and the strength to move on was only achieved by the support of brave warriors like her.
“Gender neutral laws are the need of the hour” & thanks to you for bringing her on the show and having this discussion🙏🏼
AS long as Male chavunism is supported only because of PEOPLE WHO CALL THEMSELVES, Highly respected family in society, I see its impossible to get GENDER NEUTRAL LAWS, in India.
There are much bigger issues in India that needs to get justice first. ADULTERY by woman and then GETTING FILED with 498 A by the womans family is DUE TO GENDER INEQUALITY a woman faces first, in India. Because most MEN DO ADULTERY and no woman wants to ditch husband so cheaply, unless IF INNER CHARACTER of a person is valued more than just Adultery.
Just Indian mentality to scapegoat a woman for ADULTERY REASONS is enough proof, when Adultery is beng done more by MEN, that GENDER EQUAL LAWS are not going to happen as it is society that has to change, to stop scape goating woman TAKING DOWRY AND DOING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE on woman more.... Why doesnt Man not give Dowry and get domestic abuse by woman, in INDIA at all, and WHY then ADULTERY should become such a big issue in case of WOMAN, while a Man can conveniently escape??
@@drrameshshrink You are delusional. Recently the adultery law was scrapped. Before that, women were EXCLUDED from the law. Only a man could be prosecuted for adultery. So a wife could sleep around and if caught, she could escape by filing false rape cases against the men, send then to jail, and then file false dowry cases, domestic violence cases etc and seek a HUGE SETTLEMENT. So women have the power to destroy men's lives because there are people like you who support such women and their activities. You support adultery committed by women and say it is nothing but adultery committed by a man is a HUGE CRIME. DOUBLE STANDARDS OF SIMPS EXPOSED.
Next is domestic violence. Who told you that women don't commit domestic violence against men? They do commit it every moment but the society consisting of simps like you and the laws that follow do not recognise violence by women as violence at all. The one sided laws add to the agony of male victims of domestic violence and instead of arresting the woman who committed the crime, they arrest men who are victims. And if people like you sit in judgement in courts, God save the men. You will reprimand the men, laugh at them, call them namard, and appreciate the women for their bravery of assaulting the man and using abusive words.
@@drrameshshrink with simps like you around, we need men's commissions and ministries to protect us from your abuse, assault and threats. Because so called men like you will try to become heroes in front of women who will falsely accuse men of rape, dowry etc. You will encourage women criminals to assault men and then you will take over from them by assaulting the man yourself with stones. I have seen enough so called men like you. Shame on you
How stupid are you? Do you know how biased the laws of Adultery itself are? If a person's wife commits adultery with another man, the wife doesn't get arrested, the man does. Adultery is a big thing, stop downplaying it. If a man commits Adultery, the wife is free to divorce him.
Can you pls help me with how to contact deepika mam.? Im gng thr same..as she explained in video. Pls help me
I am a victim of 498A and my family has already suffered a lot. My wife demanded money which I couldn't afford as a settlement and this is where she used this law as a weapon. I couldn't imagine something like this coming down to me and my family. I hope our judiciary starts looking at men and women with the same lens. There should be punitive provisions for false allegations irrespective of the gender. 😢
Jisne tume aur tumhare ma bap ko jail bheja beijjatinki usko jineka haq nahi hai bro khatm kro use...mai hota to thok deta ...bhagwan bhi ma bap ke apman ka bdla lene walonko swarg deta hai
@@VishnurajVBh God bless you, brother!
@@snbhosalebro, how much she asking money? Is she still with you? Is your wife having any affair? Please tell us.
Marriage has become a business for women these days
@@VishnurajVBh I 100 % agree .
This is a very burning Issue , I have seen plenty of cases where women are misusing this and looting their Husbands family after divorce !!
Its as if anti dowry law became a tool to loot the man's family.
Not only in India that men are suffering. So many countries there are ways women use the legal system to "overpower" men. This is a global issue that the legal system is aligned with women. It takes a man an enormous amount of financial resources to prove his innocence which many men end up in depression or become suicidal, and even that state of a man in depression is used against him.
Exactly that's the main issue here. I meam any law can be used falsely but these ones in particular only drains the finances of men that's why they are abused the most.
Men are second class citizen, men should stop marrying., they want freedom give them absolute freedom.
But in India condition of men is worst
Not in Islamic ones. Even in Bangladesh, a minimum 50k fine is imposed if false dowry case was lodged
No bro....all the European countries they already have gender neutral law ....but here in India situation is very bad 🙁.....
Ranveer, appreciate your work, thanks for interviewing her. I have personally fought & won IPC498 along with other multiple cases, sad part is our law doesn't punish women & their family who use this law has legal terrorism.
तो भाई उसपे मानहानि का केस करदो...
Congratulations brother. Did you put a defamation case on them?
@@joeljack3059 Thank you 🙏 problem with our law system, when I approached a criminal lawyer regarding defamation, he informed me we can’t directly file defamation, instead a private complaint with Crpc 200 has been filed in the court, as usual these dirty cops don’t do their work honestly, I have been waiting from 2017, and off course lock down also delayed things
@@SatCool at least a women give her time of the day by putting fake charges on you! Meanwhile I'm invisible to women 😭😭😭
Well I know men want to avenge false 498a by putting defamation later, but honestly it's waste of time. I know women go Scott free... But who want to visit courts for more time
We lack gender neutral laws and i feel so much respect towards her.creating a safe space for men to be vulnerable is such amazing thing.I would like to see men create their spaces share their journeys also not being judged.Prayers to all men who were denied justice 🙏🙏🙏
How great it would be if we don't need seperate space for men and women but a common space for humans including all gay lesbian etc
Most countries have laws favouring women, even USA, UK, Canada etc. In US, the husband can be forced to give half his property to the wife. Much better to remain single.
@@OmPrakash-ms5fr but in us there are nuptial agreements as well signing a prenup and your property is safe
@@thewhitewolf5645 Pre nup is not compulsory. Half of your property can be attached by the US court and given to wife.
@@thewhitewolf5645 Many women refuse to sign pre nups. Also a false allegation by a girl or woman can put a man behind bars.
It's sad how this 'fight for equality' has made men unequal and be at such an unfair position for anybody to be in.
The society that promotes gender equality, judges, when a man is upset with their marriage, and consoles when a woman is.
Truly depressing.
Feminism and the gender equality claim was never there in the first place. It was fraud from the beginning and it was always about changing the society into a totally female dominated one where men are just slaves to women.
We urgently need
Police reforms: Stop violence/torture of the accused.
More trained officers, forensic teams for a faster and fair preliminary investigation.
Judicial reforms: faster disposal of cases/ speedy trial. Also easier access to courts.
Prison reforms for separate prisons for undertrials with basic humans rights of clean toilets/bathrooms, decent food & safe & not overcrowded barracks.(Later for convicts too)
These reforms must be our prime agenda for 2024 elections. West is much better in this area if not the best, so will aslo solve problems of people living India for a good life
Completely true problem of today's society is super scarcity of femininity we have plentyfull women in our society, but many of them are lacking The femininity. The biggest role in destruction of femininity in female and present Society is our laws and legal systems. Women are trying to become men and the new social norms are trying to make men a woman. This is fundamentally and naturally wrong which is actually destroying the relations and misleading the society. Actually, for wellbeing of society masculinity and femininity both are required in equal proportion. In fact, we required femininity more than musculanity. But the new norms, legal systems and laws and limitation of our education system is destroying the femininity and only inducing masculinity in females. Please save the femininity in the society. Femininity means kindness, empathy, loving, caring, nurturing, helping, softness, adjustability, flexibility, honesty, forgiving etc and masculinity means, bravery, confidence, rationality, physical and mental power, leadership, decision-making, dependability, reliability, integrity etc. It is desirable to have some masculinity in female and some femininity in males. But total distortion of natural gender actually is destroying the society. Females are now increasingly becoming narcissistic, super selfish and self centric and saddest instead of kind and empathetic. Now they are naturally hypergamus owing to evolutionary history but at the same time the present values are not supporting the evolutionary history and making the females as males. Due to this irony and contradiction of past, and present societies, if she doesn’t find her partner as truly superior to her or others or as per her expectation, she would gradually or quickly lose interest in him and start misbehaving. That thing ultimately is escalated into divorce and all this false allegations to take advantage of legal system falsely inclined towards one physical gender which is called females.
Our Scriptures like Ramayana are primarily intended to infuse the right values in the society. Today we are inaugurating Rama Temple and celebrating with great pomp and show. But are we ready to invite those values even 1% of those values gifted by our forfathers in our Scriptures.
I am proud to be in a country which produces such sensitive,articulate and determined ladies like Ms Deepika Bhardwaj who deal with blots on our society, particularly on the misude of Article 498A which is a clear case of a misguided attempt to address a social problem.
I got married to a girl back in April 17 2022 . It was a mutual marriage both of us wanted to get married. After marriage the girl started second guessing the marriage and then she wanted to end the relation. She blocked me from all social media and WhatsApp, started talking to her ex, and then tried to put false case against me. She drafted nullity of marriage petition where she claimed the marriage was forced and they have been cooerced and she wanted me to be punished for it and also wanted money from me. I realised who she is and what she is really really quick.
Does marriage get nullified?.... Is everything okay now?
Are u ok now sir?
i fail to understand, if a person can be punished for the crimes he never committed, why does he not commit the crimes and then go to jail.
@@rahulbhattacharjee6508 because then it will justify the crimes and the time and it may be then just made more serious as the system is no longer wrong human laws and punishment is skewed
@@baroncandy3939 so you mean, if somebody falsely accuse an innocent, that innocent should wait for a justice after 7 years, you think corrupt cops gonna do their jobs.
Why not just become the monster she accused so that people who pass on this ridiculous laws can understand the implications.
Why fear the physical beatings from corrupt, biased cops when even after you are proved innocent society will shame you. You will lose your money and respect to prove your innocent.
Why not see shes the monster she created with her own eyes and tremble??
I feel we have reached a place in the society where we need more gender neutral laws. POCSO is one of the steps I this direction. It acknowledges children of both the genders being prone to sexual assault . Men being able to talk about abuse and assault will not just empower men but also women .
POCSO is also anti men. Women aggressors are protected
It doesn't matter where the society is. The laws must be Gender neutral on their face.
posco is gender neutral & most misused against innocent men.
a child can b tutored to say lie & a 14yr girl cannot be called a child 🙏
@@KARANVANIYA agreed
Mam is doing a very great job after she herself undergoing within her family ....want more people like her...
That's why marriage in current scenario is nothing less than a trauma, whether man or women. Better work on yourself and find a purpose for your life, marriage or being with a wrong women will ruin your life
Wrong woman can also ruin life 🤪
Wrong man is also a problem.
The only way to find right one, is to actually know the person you are with.
@@prachideshpande6652 that's what I said
@@Kathakathan11 A wrong men can't even touch her legally. ( 498a, DV and 30 others )
But a wrong woman has the power to r@pe the men legally in court and she will be rewarded by life time free maintainence, alimony child support no matter who is guilty.
@@mrperfect3197 really, so women aren’t touched in wrong way 😂 hope your sister will tell you the truth, or she is too privileged to be so protected
My cousin sister filed a fake case of dowry and domestic violence after her husband found her cheating just after 15 days of marriage , she was still in contact with here ex . The matter was settled outside the court after he agreed to pay the sum of RS 20L
Shame on her! This shows how society supports criminal women
You should disown her and close off any contact of your family with hers tbh not doing so means you are just silently watch and supporting her unknowingly
If the case was false then her husband would have won it and set an example for society instead of satisfying her greed and extortion.
Bcoz no one can prove a false criminal case in court without evidence.
@@KARANVANIYA no bro divorce in 15 days. No court is going to believe a man. The court gave the argument that maybe he wants more dowry . That is why he is behaving like this.
Some how he settled the case outside the court.
@@gigachad3861 yes bro I haven't talked to her since last 5 yrs. But I have seen society people supporting her.
The fact that the so called LAW of this country upholds the hypocrites and denies justice to the victims, Is astonishing. Society is changing , Laws should change too.
Even if the female itself is the cause of separation if she is a narcissistic personality it is in evitable to break up that relation. Why in such condition man should pay anything. such law is completely against the principles of natural justice and the spirit of Constitution and justfull society. Majority of young population now does not want to marry. The actual high-value males are now not marrying. These laws are not assuring justice but only giving weapon to narcissistic people to harass exploit and extract the male partners. Almost 50% of female population is narcissistic and tend to play falls victim card. So it’s very easy for them to weaponise such unjustfull laws for their inappropriate expectations and tendencies. Such laws are actually the destroyers of society and peace of mind of millions of people. Such law should be repealed with immediate effect. And it’s a big irony that we worshipping Ram and building temple with so big pomp and show. But do we adopt any high-value from Ram or Sita ?
my friend's brother is going through this hell , her family is shattered .A few days after marriage bhai came to know about his wife's pregnancy literally after few days and the child was her boyfriend's child , later she aborted that child , after few months of their marriage she accused him and his family of domestic violence , dowry and demanded 25 lakh as settlement but thankfully her family opposed her and told her that they will file case against her with the evidences they have , but still this incident has mentally shaken the family , my friend's brother is depressed her mother is not well , her father is a really nice man but his confidence has shattered after this incident .
hope everything will be fine soon.
@@19andshy after paying 25lakhs it will be settled
The fact is even with all legal proceedings it's still hard to win and even if they win they'll still have to pay alimony and for sure with time as well. It may take few years for that to end
@@aspirant9845 no they won't pay her 25 lakhs, they have evidences against her even her parents are not supporting her with this cruelty, at the end she had to withdraw the case but still this incident gave a irremovable scar to the family.
@@kalashsharma4344 majority of the cases are genuine cases of violence against women, dowry and what not , but these wicked assholes are taking advantage of judicial system, and ironically our judicial system gives advantage to perpetrators only, be it man Or be it women.
I know a colleague of mine who confided in me who went through a similar experience. After paying close to 60 Lakhs, essentially his entire life's earnings to not make his family go through more suffering he left for US. He is highly educated and told his parents this country is bad, this society is bad and he is not going to return. I know another instance where the woman threw allegations of impotency putting the man's family at extreme society shame and pressure, took close to 1 Crore of valuables and cash and went on to marry and divorce 4 more men.
Why did the man pay?
@@SwarneshMr Both men paid entire life earnings. Women went on to live con more men.
How can we identify these women ??
@@pranavjayaprakasanutwe can't
@@pranavjayaprakasanut you cant. thats alarmingly concerning after seeing this generation
She's so strong. She's doing GREAT WORK! i love her! 💜💜
She is working for men , it's really amazing.
I had never seen any women doing that ......
That's why I am moving to Europe which has gender neutral laws. I really don't feel safe here that any random women can file complaint of Eve teasing or violence and I would be in jail for no reason.
Are you kidding me ? European laws are also skewed towards women. I have been in NL for 10 years. Divorce is a bigger industry than marriage here.
I'm girl 2 to 3 times i harassed by men i told my family but these mens doesn't go in to the jail
@Animesh Rise Go to Eastern Europe or middle East behter hai
@@Ranjan_Mohanty Eastern Europe is best There aren't laws like this ya vai ko bolo MIDDLE EAST Chala jae 🤣🤣Rose In Muslim population ese nhi Ho rho bohot sare ladke Achi Biwi Dhundne ke lie Muslim bante ja rhe hai
@@abhachaurasiainnocents Always suffer
This literally happened to my brother ,he had such high hopes for his marriage but she falsely accused him, Thankfully he got scot free just by paying 1lkh
It is not a personal problem anymore. It is a widespread legal and social problem affecting a mass. All though it is good to get out of it personally, it is a positive feedback to the wrongful activities and encourages such people to repeat the same. They themselves do it again and also encourage other people for the same behavior.
@Yash Hengne it's very small when it comes to falsely accused cases of 498A. It's brutal bro. I won't wish this atrocity even on my worst enemies.
@@rapiddu6482 wait it's not a sarcastic statment?
@@baroncandy3939 i dont think its sarcastic...its a fact...there are people settling cases for 20 to 50 lakhs...5 to 10 lakh is the normal practice...
@@kissofmeditation8419 Yep, depends on the earning of the male as well, i have even heard 72 Lakh
When a case is filed against a man in India especially in these circumstances it's usually you are guilty until proven innocent.
this "guilty until proven innocent" thing is same for every man around the world , look at the fresh case of Jhonny Depp
It’s the same everywhere not just in India
But atleast other countries have gender neutral law, but in India we don't have gender neutral law!!!
@@yashsingh3177 Exactly bro. I remember during the initial controversy between Turd and Jhonny media houses started publishing Jhonny as an abuser without any single evidence and everyone was against Jhonny and started supporting turd.
It's even hard for multi millionaire men to prove their innocence. poor men must be tortured by law just like sarabjeet singh and Vishu Tiwari silently.
Women's Logic on 498a :
Ugly guy : Harassment
Handsome guy : 50 shades of grey Romance! 😂
Bruh
It's really like that💀
Cheap girls
One of my male friends has been suffering big time because of this law for years now.
Was that love marriage or arrange
@@dhruvbhatia5737 love
Really admire this woman.. She has sacrificed her promising career for her purpose!! A lot of people will never know what this purpose is, until it hits close to home
Those people who misuse the law when caught should suffer the same criminal charges and the punishment
Just like in the case of Johnny depp where Camille Vasquez was the primary leading force it's important that Deepika a female is taking the lead. It might sound illogical but is a very key factor. Thank you so much Deepika Madam. Our family has indirectly be benefited by such work.
Many women say why men don't talk about women issues.
Answer is this comment section...u hardly see any. And reason for this is "It doesn't matter to us since we r not the one who r suffering.."
And some also r of view
"Acha hua atleast now men r facing what we faced"
Completly true
Men are the reason you give right if tyrnt rule you don't speak against them
It is giving me chills.. We need immediate action about this law. Laws do not have to be for manipulators.
Someone I know was 24 and had a great life
Parents forced him into an arranged marriage
He was well off so he asked the girl for any reason there might be issues any relationship she has or anything
But she kept quiet
After marriage he caught her talking with her affair partner
The guy did not say anything and just sent her home
Ofcourse her parents knew that's why they also forced marriage.
Made her go through shit and she committed suicide and now the guy is in trouble cause apparently it's his fault she died by suicide while she was in her family home.
now if wife has affair the best thing for men is keep quiet & be happy wit her rather than complaining bcuz if he does then he invites 498A DV 125
For me best thing would be avoid marriage
Cause they want the cash not anything else
@@princejangra1231 u know I have actually heard this from one of my acquaintance, also many times on social media ...I do understand where u are coming from and I totally respect that but at the same time I struggle to imagine a life without a partner ...let's be honest even with your whole family beside you u still can feel lonely...there is always a wall and gap that perhaps only your partner can fill ....I seriously want a open discussion or talk of some sort on this .... regarding your possible alternatives if you choose to go this path ....
@@harry_0960 a valid point
@AK Indian courts will treat that sort of live in relationship as a marriage, especially if the girl demands compensation after a breakup and drags you to court because you refused. It has been said so explicitly and there is precedent for it.
Mam, the girls who say why you are doing this so much to men are the one's who thinks to misuse laws in future. they are afraid... you are doing a great job. salute.
Nothing will change because male members of the Parliament sit back and allow these kind of laws to be passed.
Even if the female itself is the cause of separation if she is a narcissistic personality it is in evitable to break up that relation. Why in such condition man should pay anything. such law is completely against the principles of natural justice and the spirit of Constitution and justfull society. Majority of young population now does not want to marry. The actual high-value males are now not marrying. These laws are not assuring justice but only giving weapon to narcissistic people to harass exploit and extract the male partners. Almost 50% of female population is narcissistic and tend to play falls victim card. So it’s very easy for them to weaponise such unjustfull laws for their inappropriate expectations and tendencies. Such laws are actually the destroyers of society and peace of mind of millions of people. Such law should be repealed with immediate effect. And it’s a big irony that we worshipping Ram and building temple with so big pomp and show. But do we adopt any high-value from Ram or Sita ?
Indian Law is always favorable to women. Period
We men need to unite and VIOLENTLY push the women hard until they are forced to amend the laws. It is our survival
Gynocentric society lol
@@gigachad1021 yes, female centric
@@gigachad1021 true
Only for Hindus lol for Muslims none of these cases exist feminism is mostly a non Muslim problem
I have never seen real rape case in real life, but 7 false rape cases around me.
Exactly
and how did you know which were real and which were false?
@@healingtogether1177 in all cases accused got acquitted shortly and the female complainant victims accepted that they filed rape case to settle down some dispute between the accused and complainant.
As a woman, i would say that this law is highly misused one and doesn’t show equality for men and women. Men are often the victim of this law and it should either have change or removed. As i have seen in my own family, there’s no consequence of fasle dowry claims and it also includes punishment of the innocent men even before the judgment is passed, infact even before the case reaches the court.
This is so true!! She has spoken absolute reality.. Every second house in the society is actually facing with this problem.. And even if the lady is at fault, the court awards her with alimony, which is even more saddening.. I am a women myself, but supporting wrongful acts is not something that fits in my ethics too..
Every woman who love men in their life should learn about this topic!!!!!
Here comes a Karen
But today's girls are woke, feminists, and greedy,,,😢
@@amaanullah13 why she is Aa karen she is saying women shouldn't support this
My heart goes out to men who have gone through it.
If as a woman you fall in love with someone outside your marriage, please peacefully leave the marriage and leave the husband and family alone. Don't Harrass the guy
What... leave the husband... pagal hai kya tu....tere jaise aurat...raaa.....nd se bhi bekar....chii....shame on u
So true...
sadly , everybody is not like u sister
Don't get sympathy. A major portion of women take advantage in all places like Law, public transport, school colleges, sports, government jobs etc
.....
I am 33 never married, life is chill, no tension of unnecessary stuff😁
It’s not just in India, across the world the laws are having a misandrist bias, it’s how the laws are designed to be. Legal consultation is a business, feminism is its marketing strategy and the men’s money at stake in these legal hurdles is their revenue. There is no equality when it comes to laws regarding alimony, child support, adultery, paternity fraud or domestic violence in any country. Even if anyone can point it out otherwise, it’s only for namesake purposes. The legal assumptions of alimony and paternity fraud dates back to 1900s and 1870s. Alimony was introduced as a penalty for keeping a mistress, but feminism and legal system has turned it around as ‘entitlement cash chips’ for women. Even today, in any developed country, the husband is legally liable to pay 18 years of child’s support when the wife commits paternity fraud and even if she admits the same in the court. When it comes to pedophilic crimes, women get very feeble to no sentencing even if it is proved with all the evidence. Majority of baby killers are women in the modern civilized world and in even the olden times too. Now they use postpartum depression as an excuse to get leaner sentences. Men are legally liable for whatever he does, but women are legally protected, no matter what she does.
However, there is a carbon chunk that can be turned into a diamond in this haystack of rabid feminist ideas: - the concept of ‘Men are guilty by default’. It means that all men are selfish, hypocritic, liars, rascals, cheaters and all sorts of vile things by default. We have to use this effectively against the system. Just like how the Icelandic women left the work early citing pay gap, we men should abstain from listening to / showing any sympathy or concern to the so called ‘female cause’ until the laws are made gender neutral. We should abandon chivalry, abstain from making donations to women and child welfare programs (bulk of the tax money is routed to write off loans and an array of welfare programs including woman and children), never pay of female centric movies, dramas/ corporate programs, shunt politeness and social responsibility from our minds. instead, we all men must focus on our own happiness, our own skill set development, finances and careers, selfishly (selfishness comes along with the package of guilty by default) and should not be prioritizing relationships (either friends with benefits or no simping policy) and family commitments in our lives. We should match the audacity, cheapness and entitlement of these rabid feminists in our attitude. If they cite pay-gap we must be cheap enough to point out the working hours gap, shopping break gaps and risk appetite gap. We should have zero tolerance to nagging and emotional blackmailing, even if it is done by our mother, sister or daughter. Shunt rabid feminists from our lives even if they are belonging to our own family or blood lines. Never help any stranger (man or woman, be very specific about rabid feminists) without sufficient due diligence checks from our side (if we men get into trouble, rarely we may be getting any help). Monetize our help and onus of taking responsibilities, eg :- If we had to stay back at our work for women to leave early or take additional responsibilities of women going on maternity leave, we must make sure that we get paid for it. There should not be any compromise on it, if we are not paid, we must plan our exit and search for another company at the earliest. Never work in an organization or place for more than 4-5 years, no matter how good that place is! Learn to argue like feminists, our selfish obsessions/targets should be our priority, even if they come with a valid argument, circumvent or ignore it as if we are deaf, just like how they do it against us. There may be good women, but majority of these women are not vocal or concerned about the parasites among them. If all men are responsible for the actions of a few scumbags in the male gender, then the same is applicable to women. Men’s rights organizations are helpless in all the countries, they can’t do much even with the help of women like Deepika. We all men must learn to adopt the skill and attitude of the lone wolf (a lone wolf must be successful like a wolf’s pack and daring like a kamakaze pilot, IF HE GOES DOWN, HE WILL MAKE SURE THAT ATTACKERS ARE ‘SCARRED’PRETTY BAD for life) and mask it under sheep’s wool. If we align with men’s rights organizations, or other welfare organizations, it will be easy for the rabid feminazis to spot, cancel and silence us using misandrist laws and HR rules. “Never fight the system like a gorilla, but always fight it like a guerilla”.
Amen!!!
Hats off to Ms Deepika. This is such an important and untouched topic for everyone. Thanks Ranveer for bringing this up with her !
Such a great woman she is. Great respect for you Real Woman 👏👏👏👏🙏. Thank you for standing with the victims of IPC 498A 🙏
Due this inequality faced by men in our country, now it's very difficult to have trust in marriage. Whether it's a love or arrange, men will always lose, pay alimony.. ab toh shaadi hi nahi karna hai.. kya bharosa kaisi ladki mile. Single rahenge toh atleast jail nahi jana padega
Good thoughts
498a serves no purpose..instead divorce should be made faster and easier for woman and the section 125 trial should be done fast so that financial dispute is resolved.
Scrap section 125. Men should avoid marriage because marriage is legalized prostitution
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 idk about prostitution but married is legally rigged in every possible way against men.
I am so happy to see someone is working on these issues. God bless you 🙏
Today's girls hates you mam , but these girls only understand when something same thing happen with their brother ,father and family.otherwise they want to enjoy privilage.
Well said
Please talk about a social issue of.........
If a man is not asking for anything (gift) not a forceful 💰💸 money and he is still in his struggling phase of his life!
He will be tagged as...
"Koi dega paisa tabb naa milega"
A man's worth is decided by what his position is in the society!
A minister/rich tycoon daughter or sister will be easily married to a IAS officer even if he demands 2-5 crores..
But if a struggler asks even for certain lifestyle goods(which will be used by his wife also) ... He will be tagged as dowry greedy person!
Exactly. This culture is tremendously popular in Bihar especially. They are literally going for govt jobs because the hype is so much that fuckers are marrying their daughter by giving dowry of 20-30 lakhs for a govt job that merely gives 35k/month salary. 🤦♂️
The problem is that these rich ass have ruined and rigged the entire system. Now even if a guy doesn't ask for anything they will literally force you mentally to take it. If you resist too much they will think there is something wrong with you 😑 and will start second guessing the marriage itself.
@@rapiddu6482 Exactly my point!! Yess!..
Not only Bihar .. (Entire north India)..
UP MP Rajasthan Harayana & Punjab also
And then the Guy has to demand something in order to protect his dignity as a person!!
Dowry as a concept will only stop if both Girl's and Boy's family are not Greedy!
Dowry is the type of money which is taken by some poor husbands for sake of his wife ,his kids education, so basically dowry is enjoyed by both husband/wife n kids ...
But alimony is only enjoyed by wives, alimony money is extorted by beggar wives even if she is capable of earning.
Both dowry n alimony should be banned 🚫
I am going through divorce case. Married to mentally ill girl. We spent all our savings on marriage and never took a penny. Now we had to sale our house had to leave job. Still court dates are on us. My mum dad are soo depressed. Never ever rose a voice on her but she filed this complain. We are shattered by this and above the treatment of police is worse. It's soo Horefic that we can not even think of happy stable life anymore. Just getting divorce and clear in this case is moksha for us.
Fight my brother fight. You are not the loser remember
More power to you, brother.
Thank brother for support. I've left job of IBM to stay with my parents now. Doing low scale job here. Money is less but me being my parents give them another level of mental stability. Tho police and so called mahila ayog dont miss chance to harrass. Even after having enough proof be it written, call records and eye witness all system put blindside. But i know we are sticking with truth. One day I'll be out of it. Then I won't be looking back. Worst patch of my life ever.
She doesn't deserve u ,
Fight back brother , we r with u , God Bless U bro ❤️
@@dilipjeevan9945 bhai mei bhi fuss gayaa hun..😪😔
I hope one day law will be made for men. Society will change its mindset, socal media stop showing men as a animal, mam god bless you and those who support you but i will pray God that these will be done soon.
Until then just RESORT TO MURDER and killing
The law shouldn't be made specifically for anyone,the law should be for everyone equally
@@aakashgarain Is it so right now
@@aakashgarain but there are laws that support only women, what do you say about it ?
No
Now that is a woman I can call a lady 👏🙌🙏
Many women I know, won’t support such misuse of any law.
@@Kathakathan11 that's why most woman are silent on this video.
@@mrperfect3197 not everyone watches this podcast, and yes there are many women who have commented here, just read the name. Ask your mom or sister, if they will ever misuse any law against their husbands. You will get the answer. Keep hating women, that won’t change the larger reality that we all need to coexist and need mutual respect.
@@Kathakathan11 again victim card mode activated? What I said is absolutely true. If you don't believe me then you can check the comment of thappad film and section 375 film. majority of men support women but most women don't. whenever men say their problems to women they instantly compare men's problem with woman's problem in their subconscious mind and start to think that this is not a problem (until she saw the problem with her own eyes). Woman who actually supports men are in minority like Deepika, Jyoti Tiwari and others
@@Kathakathan11 you told me about my mom and sister but I completely feel safe with them even If no one is with us because they will never register false cases against me for money, revenge or whatever,
but I feel totally unsafe with random women. her one false accusation and my reputation, career, life is finished.
even animals have some laws for them but men don't
That's is so depressing I can't even express. 😥
So so good of you to do this. We can only count on people like you to fight for us. Men need to stand up for men
Ranveer, This is such an important episode. Thank you for doing this.
Dear Deepika, On behalf of all men who want a decent and simple life. Thank you 💙
Thanks for her work. She is like a sister or someone who is chosen one to fight against the injustice on men.
Deepika is god. We men must preserve people like her. Women have used IBC 498 law as mental torture. If men is proved innocent still there is no punishment for women. In Indian society it is order for men to sacrifice everything.
A life lesson to learn - don't take dowry and don't do marriage
Maybe you said too much about marriage
Dowry....to dikhati bhi nahi kahi....lekin ALMINY her case me dikhti hai
It's very true, my own neighbour suffering from this, he is very good guy but his wife left him few months after marriage and now demanding huge amount of money if not given then threatened with 498a. I feel sorry for him so guys choose absolute carefully ur partner.
No need to marry. Marriage is an outdated conCept
He can do a hidden camera recording,when that bitch will ask him money for not regestaring fake cases
Why do people do not keep proofs I do not know
I am 19 and God knows how many times I avoid being alone with a girl
@@princejangra1231 if you have chats then screenshot and keep it. if you are going on date then just turn on voice recording all the way through the date... always check the background of your partner before going on a date
@@princejangra1231 Awareness brother that's a major issue go to lot of 20 year Olds and ask about 498a most men might not know what it is about and what's the current legal scenario.
Secondly no mainstream exposure is a major issue for most not knowing the nature of laws
According to this
Ugly men: harassing
Good looking men: Twilight
🤣🤣🤣
As an ugly guy I can confirm don't flirt because it's called harrasment
@@Final._.boss._.0 you aren't ugly just put your hair down(scissor 7 reference)
Laws should be strict and equal for everyone no matter what . In our country we fail to see and realize a problem as a problem until it happens to us or our own . We fail to see the big picture . I certainly hope it changes and we start thinking about us instead of me.
Ppls idea of life can be different be friendly, humble and cultured with whatever you believe in
There are many Misandrist in comments section who hate this lady.. And they ard against men and gender neutral law
First men have to change and support men, but most men support women, first as a men we should fight for men rights
Please convey my regards to Deepika Mam..every household is facing these issues now…please make more videos like these
Its because of these stupid women who put false dowry accusations that the truly suffering women do not get justice......
Its because of degraded women who put false rape accusations on innocent men that Nirbhaya had to wait for 8 YEARS to get justice
This is my India!!!!!!!!
Why talk only about women? What about justice for men? A man can be falsely accused. A man can be raped too. A man can be assaulted by a woman. Where is the justice for a man?
Cause courts are flooded with fake cases which are made by people who have high level of connections
Absolutely.
True even most feminists don't realize this fact that how much this affects genuine victims if we were able to curb down the cases which were 100% false nirbhaya case would have achieved justice sooner
Facts
Full respect to Deepika who actually care about men and men's problems.
Men always support women but most women don't. When you tell your problems to a woman they will be like "Oh woman suffer more than men. I care about men but women suffer more. So...". They always give this kind of response.
Just see the comment section. on woman related posts/videos there are no sortage of woman and men comments.
but in this video, there are hardly any woman which shows their nature. I may sound sexist but that's the truth
Agreed. Plus I do respect the fact that you mention the words "most women". And no you are not being sexist for bringing out the reality.
@@journalingandstuffsofficial It's Just Like "All Guys Aren't The Same" Here Are 3.5 Billion Males Even then why do you use the word "all", say that some boys are wrong
@@Timeisimportant99 this is an universal problem in each and every case.
@@journalingandstuffsofficial And we are the ones who create the problem.
@@Timeisimportant99 exactly
okay! there's someone with us supporting mens and not only feminism
Thank god TRS talked about this
Misuse of 498A is spoken as simple as "Misuse of 498A" or "wife settling personal scores against husband and his relatives"
and not as serious as "Cruelty by wife upon husband and his relatives".
Family is an integral part of this country, consequences should be analyzed and evaluated before the bubble bust.
Time will come when people's faith on marriage will end .
The time has already arrived and within the coming of the next decade marriage in India will be looked down much much more
But making family is also veri imp
@@dhruvbhatia5737 then you can make a family otherwise too, just live with them
@@dhruvbhatia5737 ya. but if your wife register a 498a case then bhoom. The court will order you to give lifetime maintenance to her on a monthly basis until you die + you have no access to you own children.
now don't be that guy "Meri wali aisa nahi karegi". millions of men are getting trapped by law and they will have no support in their oldage
USA me to aa chuka h
It happens in every family these days. My cousin brother, who was badly harassed and beaten by the girl's family, was accused of domestic violence and dowry himself and now struggling to get out of it
Jail hoti hai 498me? Please koi to batao
I am the victim of misuses of law by my wife since 2016. She has filed a case of domestic violence and put charges on me for rape extramarital affair dowry etc …Not just on me but on my entire family parents grandparents sister uncles aunts..
Will all of your family members get arrested?
Laws, govt always favour women over men, throw men in jail for alimony.
Women, lawyers, NGOs use laws to force men for settlement extracting huge money.
This has weakened family system in India.
Deepika ma'am thank you for working for men to protect them too ❤️. Amount of fake sexual assault cases are increasing every year, we have to make it a point to create gender neutral laws for our own people.
The most saddening thing to know about is that there is still not a law which protects men against domestic violence and we talk about gender equality.
If women and their family found misusing the IPC 498A just to fulfill their agenda, then why not the same jail time and financial penalty for all those who are involved in doing that just like Men? cause at the end they perjured, tried to ruin someone's life for their gain and that's equally cruel. If we want equality then the laws must not be biased, the law shouldn't be giving them free hand just like that.
Mockery goes in Indian Law system...where laws are formed and framed which gives benefit to one section of society against the other section. Lawyers know abt this being in 21st century but unable to change it. Great Shining India!!!
i watched the documentary just now
1:07:30 :put behind bars to keep the criminal away ; so the guy instantly become a criminal , not accused , its not like he wont get bail , the court will eventually grant him, that woman is really something else, never felt so angry, disappointed and terrified by mere words of a person
Please tell me where I can watch it🙏
@@piero17y65 Its in youtube. Martyrs of marriage or something like that.
Huge respect for ma'am
guy with avg money : crime petrol episode
guy with a lot of money: 50 shades of grey.
That's the reality. Get over it.
Bruh
She is doing such a great job..
We need National Men's Commission and gender neutral laws in India
Justice should be provided to both men and women. It is quite important to make amendments with law to protect victim.
Unfair situation for us guys. But it's also weird how even after laws supporting women, they have it more unsafe
this comment.
I'm 30 and I have decided that I'm going MGTOW. Men who get married in this day and age do not realise that it ain't worth the risk.
Do peg hi peena hai toh pura theka lene ki kya zaroorat hai?
@@chandrufry Hahaha bilkul sahi hai. Is baat pe do peg laga lete hai.
Well what if we have a partner who truly loves us and we both are on a spiritual path? I live in a foreign country with my partner where the laws are equal and we both have known each other for 7 years and we both are spiritually inclined to advaita Vedanta our relationship isn't like others all this shona babu shit she has helped me alot when I was going through my hard times...
@@jdm_lover_fj_6793 If you are in a foreign country where feminism is rampant and where the laws are titled in favour of women especially in family courts, keep her as a fiancé. There is no need of marriage in this world of matriarchy. She might have helped you spiritually and if she has ever seen you in an emotional state such as crying, her subconscious mind thinks of you as weaker than other men. She will never admit this openly, but there is a rule in relationships, you do not show your weak side to women. They say they want to see it, but you should never ever do that.
@@jdm_lover_fj_6793 Despite all this, if you have done the above and she has stuck with you during your financial crisis then she is truly a keeper.
My family is going through this ordeal right now.
My sister in law and her mother had some disagreement with my brother and they filed an FIR under 498(a) against my whole family.
Currently we are trying to get an anticipatory bail so police doesn't harass us. It's so disheartening how these things happen.
My whole family is sad and scared.
We are not rich enough to afford litigation expenses.
My brother's life is probably ruined and i am rethinking if i should even get married.
Don’t get married. Save yourself from all these problems.
"This random guy was harrassing me" - A girl
😊
1. Open your browser.
2. Type and search "My wife yells at me"
3. Type and search "My husband yells at me"
I guarantee you a 200% shock.
Did that, shocked 😓
Laws should be there to protect every innocent individual irrespective of gender. Thriving men are equally important for a thriving country. Sabotaging one gender is never equivalent to empowering other.
Ranbir
Please Please bring An Advocate on behalf of men on a deep discussion on 498A
One suggestion to all men(Advice taken from lawyers): Please do take dowry in your marriage. If you are a middle class man take 10-20 lakhs in cash(of which the other party has no record) so neither will they be able to prove that you took the amount nor would they file case in the first place as they will want the marriage to sustain since they invested so much money.
How can you take it without any record ?
@@biologytales5319toh tum jaise log bina dowry diye bhi kyun 498a file krte ho?
Deepika is the kind of a woman who other women should look upto. Utterly rational and unbiased
@@biologytales5319there was never a sati pratha you fool 😂
GOD will punish those who misused the law against men, this is cruel act and don't deserve mercy.
Now whenever I talk to a girl, I ask her about her favorite movie : if she replied martyrs of marriage
That's absolute Win for me 😊
Its high time women should also be held accountable, because today women are also highly empowered but misusing their power whereas the women who should really benefit do not even know about these laws. Mostly the abusers of law are educated, well-to-do women who want everything to happen their way, anything coming in their way of schemes ais dealt with emotionless directionless court cases. I am not against laws for protecting women but I want that misusers once proven should be dealt with severely.
Thank you mam for doing such a wonderful job. God bless you 🙏