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  • @Saramesmerise
    @Saramesmerise 9 місяців тому +1737

    I think the most hurtful thing anyone has ever called me was “an inevitable suicide” when I was going through a depression. Also being called a liar when you absolutely aren’t lying.

    • @katxxjane
      @katxxjane 9 місяців тому +91

      I HATE being called a liar. It’s so so so invalidating. I’m sorry you went through that. I also have depression and I can kind of understand what you mean. Having people say you’re inevitable to something like that makes it feel like they’ve given up on you and you absolutely did not deserve to hear that and they should not have said it. You’re life is worth fighting for. ❤

    • @TheMrCC21
      @TheMrCC21 9 місяців тому +4

      If you have a history of lying, some will not believe what you say. It's shitty, but that's how it is.

    • @Saramesmerise
      @Saramesmerise 9 місяців тому +9

      @@TheMrCC21 no I’m one of those people that’s too honest, it frequently gets me in trouble lol.

    • @catinabox3048
      @catinabox3048 9 місяців тому +15

      I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you're in a better place. Everyone deserves to be listened to. If they don't believe you and you've always told the truth, it shows more about their own dishonesty or their lack of faith in humanity, sometimes both.

    • @catinabox3048
      @catinabox3048 9 місяців тому +7

      @@TheMrCC21 Why would you assume that someone is lying or has a history of lying? Without any proof?

  • @amandalisa708
    @amandalisa708 9 місяців тому +729

    I was called “a burden” once, and that still fucks with my mind from time to time.

    • @doodooman2957
      @doodooman2957 8 місяців тому +12

      reading this was a burden

    • @lemonz0880
      @lemonz0880 8 місяців тому +18

      ur not a burden. ur amazing ❤️❤️❤️

    • @calic0g1rl
      @calic0g1rl 8 місяців тому +5

      My mom called me that it is rly hurtful :(

  • @ameliavillamarin2929
    @ameliavillamarin2929 9 місяців тому +675

    Sometimes it's not even the word that hurts but the mouth that it comes from.

    • @odeszaa
      @odeszaa 9 місяців тому +6

      No shit. That’s what damn near everyone in the video is saying. lol

    • @dudley8671
      @dudley8671 9 місяців тому +4

      The person (mouth) who said the most hateful thing to you would make a GREAT Follow Up Post!

    • @EternalGalaxies
      @EternalGalaxies 9 місяців тому +7

      Yeah, also the tone something is said in lol like I was trying to think of what my answer would be and while yes, there are certain words that are upsetting, the times when I’ve been most upset were more when something negative was implied about me in a subtle way with either a passive aggressive, snarky, or condescending tone so to me it’s more the vibe of the person saying it than a specific word or phrase

  • @FinalCutPlay123
    @FinalCutPlay123 9 місяців тому +304

    Not an offensive word, but one that has really stuck with me is being called ‘quiet’. I try so hard to act more confident and outspoken than I feel, so when people tell me I’m quiet, I feel like I’ve failed.

    • @EternalGalaxies
      @EternalGalaxies 9 місяців тому +13

      Oh yeah I didn’t even think of “quiet” but I feel this hard

    • @tib8072
      @tib8072 8 місяців тому +13

      A girl I went to college with once confided in me that she felt upset when other classmates had called her “as quiet as a mouse”.
      Admittedly, even to this day, I never really understood how or why this affected her (but I did my best not to invalidate how she felt at the time).
      I realise now, that’s probably because I don’t like being called “loud” because I can be more outgoing.

    • @charmainephasoana6850
      @charmainephasoana6850 8 місяців тому +8

      Same. This days I don't try anymore. I feel awfully terrible already

    • @masterflips1958
      @masterflips1958 8 місяців тому +4

      I relate to this so much. It always hurts being described as the quiet one.

    • @naija._scorps
      @naija._scorps 8 місяців тому +5

      I was just thinking this!! I was the quiet kid and was called this a lot. Sometimes even mute. Hurts more when you're trying to be more outspoken yet people still don't see the effort.

  • @smallshrimp3897
    @smallshrimp3897 9 місяців тому +688

    Hope the guy who was assaulted is okay

    • @FabulousIcky
      @FabulousIcky 9 місяців тому +43

      I want to give them a hug so badly :(

    • @portereternal4256
      @portereternal4256 9 місяців тому +4

      Nuh uh

    • @Caitkn
      @Caitkn 9 місяців тому +20

      I know made my heart sink

  • @kitty69420
    @kitty69420 9 місяців тому +120

    context, tone, and intentions always matters more than the word itself for me.

    • @EternalGalaxies
      @EternalGalaxies 9 місяців тому +5

      Yesss 100% I just said this exact same thing in another comment so I’m all the way with you there lol

  • @salamm8910
    @salamm8910 9 місяців тому +1049

    I feel for the women who said that her mom called her a b*tch. Im so sorry :(

    • @RoxxyFly
      @RoxxyFly 9 місяців тому +51

      These words are soooo much when it comes from a parent. My mother called me a fuck uo and said id never amount to anything so i ended moving far away when i turned 18 😂

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 9 місяців тому +21

      @@RoxxyFly my mom called me a disappointment two months it was very hurtful i can remember a couple of other things she said over the years that still hurt. With parents it hits differently 😓😞

    • @RoxxyFly
      @RoxxyFly 9 місяців тому +4

      @@csv_mycent thanks for the vote of confidence homie 🙄 also i no longer do that, its been years. Now im a contractor. I paint do drywall and go home to do my wifely duties and care for my kid.

    • @schoko.
      @schoko. 9 місяців тому +2

      @@csv_mycentdon’t say things like that, man

    • @erinwhipple4666
      @erinwhipple4666 9 місяців тому +3

      My mom called me a bitch when I was like 10, but then she died when I was 12. I would rather have here here calling me a bitch than her be gone 🤷‍♀️

  • @verityharris8551
    @verityharris8551 9 місяців тому +125

    My dad compared me to my abuser. He didn’t realise how much it affected me (he said it jokingly, referring to her military background), but months later I still think about it. As someone who has spent years trying to better myself, to be compared to such a despicable person left me absolutely devastated. It’s the worst thing someone has ever said to me, even though there was no ill intent behind it.

    • @Mucasae
      @Mucasae 7 місяців тому +1

      Im sorry to hear about that , that is very sad and sickening to hear. I just want you to know that Jesus does not blame the victim and he loves you💕more than any father or mother can.

  • @Worminthedirt
    @Worminthedirt 9 місяців тому +177

    Unloveable. That one stuck with me for many years, I believed it.
    Glad to now be in a loving marriage and I do feel loved finally 💜

  • @TheKathleenShow10
    @TheKathleenShow10 9 місяців тому +127

    being called annoying is too real ☹️

  • @peachnecctar1658
    @peachnecctar1658 9 місяців тому +36

    "if it hasnt been used against you, you have no right to claim it." THIS!!!

  • @cupidox
    @cupidox 9 місяців тому +541

    Title caught me off guard 💀

    • @ChildlikeSay
      @ChildlikeSay 9 місяців тому +27

      No actually😭 I was like “shiiiit they got hacked” 🤣

    • @elliotdinero612
      @elliotdinero612 9 місяців тому +6

      I read the title and immediately went into “By the powers combined, I am Captain Planet!”

    • @chchchcherrybomb37
      @chchchcherrybomb37 9 місяців тому +5

      Why? Idgi

    • @ChildlikeSay
      @ChildlikeSay 9 місяців тому

      @@chchchcherrybomb37 it was titled “BITCH. WHORE. SLUT. IDIOT.” Like a bunch of offensive words w no explanation lol

    • @nanaman27wu
      @nanaman27wu 9 місяців тому

      The title was change. Before it was something like "ugly. Bitch. Wh@re"

  • @jazzyc1783
    @jazzyc1783 8 місяців тому +19

    this opened a memory in me, i was having an argument with my mother and she told me that sometimes i was hard to love. i think that’s the most hurtful thing i’ve ever been told

  • @caspercomments
    @caspercomments 8 місяців тому +52

    lazy. as someone with severe depression, ocd, and ad(h)d, to be called something so broad and hurtful as “lazy” is not only incredibly offensive, but also annoying. although my disorders are not an excuse for my “lack of action” or overall behavior, being called something that completely dials down everything I work towards but also makes the person saying it to me sound like they’re so ignorant and absent minded that they can’t even try and see through another perspective. I work as hard as I know how to in order to keep up with neurotypical people and the world around me so I literally want to take a gun to the head whenever someone calls me lazy
    edit: sorry for the grammatical mistakes I wrote this super late at night

  • @saraquel
    @saraquel 9 місяців тому +104

    I’m surprised no women said crazy. Especially when you’re struggling with mental health, that’s such an awful word to use

    • @dontpanic5278
      @dontpanic5278 9 місяців тому +3

      Why women specifically?

    • @Mh-xe1zh
      @Mh-xe1zh 9 місяців тому

      @@dontpanic5278because men always call women crazy obviously

    • @lemonz0880
      @lemonz0880 8 місяців тому +2

      wait, yes!!!

    • @lemonz0880
      @lemonz0880 8 місяців тому +34

      ​@@dontpanic5278often discarded concerns(seen as nagging) and the whole history w woman hysteria (idk if i spelt that correctly sorry)

  • @beardedrogue4282
    @beardedrogue4282 9 місяців тому +82

    I've been called pretty much everything, but the only phrase that will ever get me is "Bad Dad/Father". Literally all I do in this life is give my girls what I wasn't given.

    • @AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp
      @AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp 9 місяців тому +5

      Whoever told you that must've don't know you that well, I think your a very good dad and honestly you're trying your best to make your daughters happy; Don't ever let anyone ever judge your good parenting, but I hope you and your daughters stay safe and had a good life.

    • @user-kq7rf6uq4m
      @user-kq7rf6uq4m 9 місяців тому +4

      Sending you love and empowerment.
      We need every good father we can have.

    • @AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp
      @AmeliaBerdel-xv3wp 9 місяців тому

      @@user-kq7rf6uq4m that's true,every child needs a good father or mother(or both)

    • @jbean9021
      @jbean9021 8 місяців тому +1

      I didn’t think about this. Depending on who said it, we’re either fighting or I need to take a deep look at myself.

    • @tshiamomogale207
      @tshiamomogale207 3 місяці тому

      I know what you mean hey

  • @erica_dandrea
    @erica_dandrea 9 місяців тому +460

    Found it interesting how most of the answers seemed to have come from either a place of discrimination or insecurity

    • @YouLookinForMeBabygirl
      @YouLookinForMeBabygirl 9 місяців тому +79

      Please tell me where else these things would come from, because this seems very obvious

    • @aromlaa7066
      @aromlaa7066 9 місяців тому +33

      Obviously?

    • @suivatra123
      @suivatra123 8 місяців тому +15

      I mean.... it's supposed to be offensive.

    • @JSTAWGNfan
      @JSTAWGNfan 6 місяців тому

      i would say there least favorite swear or whatever matches there personality lmao

  • @BroccoliAndCheese01
    @BroccoliAndCheese01 9 місяців тому +44

    Lazy. I’ve struggled with my mental health my whole life, and my biggest fear is being called lazy. I used to get it all the time from my in laws because I was struggling to keep up with everything. Now I’m really sensitive about it.

  • @Greatgodofcows1111
    @Greatgodofcows1111 9 місяців тому +55

    3:27 "I have been my biggest bully." I felt that, and it sucks, but I hope whoever reads this that you understand that you are enough.

  • @nerficles2665
    @nerficles2665 9 місяців тому +65

    I had a "friend" say "not everything is about you"...legit all I was doing was trying to say hi because I missed them, but the intent behind their words hurt so bad coming from a friend

    • @schoko.
      @schoko. 9 місяців тому +6

      it’s hard when you think you can trust someone because you’ve known them for a while, but they don’t see it the same way, even if you were just trying to be a good friend for them

    • @lemonz0880
      @lemonz0880 8 місяців тому +1

      their jealous. they think its all abt u. and bc ur worthy of it being abt u! THEY JELLLYYYY

  • @ava1772
    @ava1772 9 місяців тому +79

    wow I feel really bad for the guy at 7:25 ...nobody deserves to go through that traumatic experience just because you have a different sexual orientation from someone else

  • @juanmacias5922
    @juanmacias5922 9 місяців тому +425

    I think this video shows how varied the human experience is. And the levels of bigotry some face.

  • @goldengilmaky6788
    @goldengilmaky6788 9 місяців тому +20

    This was a reverse psychology experience. You could get how people see themselves through the words they find offensive.

  • @ChicSabrina
    @ChicSabrina 9 місяців тому +65

    It was my first day of middle school and I was scared because it was a really big/new school and someone's dad screamed at me that I "should've been aborted" in the school drop off line because I took too long getting out of the car for his liking. Absolutely humiliating and degrading.

    • @waldo12ify
      @waldo12ify 9 місяців тому +31

      That's absolutely horrible and inexcusable for grown adult to say to a child

    • @annatati
      @annatati 8 місяців тому +8

      I’m so sorry that happened to you. That man’s actions is unacceptable

    • @r_h__
      @r_h__ 8 місяців тому +1

      What an immature child and pos that “man” was

    • @MiddleBroski
      @MiddleBroski 8 місяців тому

      lmao

    • @ChicSabrina
      @ChicSabrina 8 місяців тому

      @@MiddleBroski lmao

  • @i.am.boredxx2000
    @i.am.boredxx2000 7 місяців тому +16

    For me personally the word "annoying" sticks to me. I was part of a friend group and they talked shit about me and called me annoying then dropped me. THEN i was being bullied. THEN after that was done, I entered a new friend group where this kid i liked had called me annoying and accused me of bullying him so that really hurt. Turns out almost nobody in that other friend group liked me either and they constantly kept secrets from me on PURPOSE so i had to switch friend groups again😁 good times...

  • @kay-kd9vc
    @kay-kd9vc 9 місяців тому +52

    it’s the nword for me. there is no reason for anyone to be calling me or any black person that word.

    • @zachmondial2172
      @zachmondial2172 9 місяців тому

      There a reason to call anybody it? Because the way you worded that implies you think there is.

    • @sahilkumar3866
      @sahilkumar3866 9 місяців тому +10

      But black people call everyone 'their nigga'
      I don't understand 🤷

    • @chchchcherrybomb37
      @chchchcherrybomb37 9 місяців тому +11

      @@zachmondial2172 what’s the point of your comment? You’re being extremely pedantic.

    • @Solidude4
      @Solidude4 9 місяців тому +8

      ​@@sahilkumar3866And you'll never understand because you have no intention of understanding. Also most Black people don't call each other that word.

  • @mividasandoval2413
    @mividasandoval2413 8 місяців тому +10

    I got called the "N" word one time.. I'm not even black lol. It didn't hurt my feelings but definitely surprised me... Because I'm Native American lol. The most "hurtful" is being called dramatic when I'm emotional when I'm simply trying to communicate w someone. I'm a cryer, sue me.

  • @roseprescott1476
    @roseprescott1476 8 місяців тому +13

    Selfish. Manipulative. Mean...
    I have constantly faced bullying from peers, coworkers, managers, friends, and partners. I struggled immensely with my confidence for most of my life and often prioritized as many people as possible before myself. This led to a very rough road of depression and self hatred, and just believing everything that those who bullied me told me I was. I was mischaracterized, othered, had lies spread about me, and was labeled the above words falsely in order to project behavior onto me. I was incredibly passive, quiet, but I was always "the weird kid" so it was easy to make up a personality for me as I was too lenient and not aware often that it was bullying until it was too late in most cases.
    Abusers and Bullies will always label you cruel words in order to justify their behavior. Sending my thoughts to other victims of bullying and abuse, you are absolutely worth the energy you constantly have to give others and deserve to use it for yourself. Please be kind and patient to yourself.

    • @r_h__
      @r_h__ 8 місяців тому +3

      Wow are you me? I went through the same exact thing including being bullied by peers, coworkers, managers, parents, siblings, customers, strangers, etc. Being quiet makes it easy for others to put labels on you since others will just believe it. It sucks and as much as I hate to say it I hate people now and am very closed off from everyone.
      Sending you hugs

  • @necrogenesis1981
    @necrogenesis1981 9 місяців тому +22

    Words don't hurt, intent does.

    • @Solidude4
      @Solidude4 9 місяців тому +2

      Both hurt.

    • @necrogenesis1981
      @necrogenesis1981 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Solidude4 nah, if an “offensive” word isn’t intended for you, why be offended?

    • @Solidude4
      @Solidude4 9 місяців тому +1

      @@necrogenesis1981 Because if the word is offensive, it's offensive

    • @necrogenesis1981
      @necrogenesis1981 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Solidude4 Context matters, controlling speech too much leads to things like book bans you know.

    • @Solidude4
      @Solidude4 9 місяців тому +1

      @@necrogenesis1981 Ok and? Some books should be banned in certain contexts. Hateful ideology shouldn't be respected

  • @tvbnine793
    @tvbnine793 8 місяців тому +5

    3:25 - 3:30 THIS RIGHT HERE I've been prioritizing anger management a lot within the past 10 months, and I resonate with this lady when she says she's her "own worst bully" because nobody insults or berates me as hard as me and I fight it everyday.

  • @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
    @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat 9 місяців тому +61

    This title totally cracked me up before knowing what this was about! 😹

  • @peanutbutterolivia7864
    @peanutbutterolivia7864 9 місяців тому +19

    idk how I feel about the folks who think that words don't hurt them because they are so self assured, or confident. If I was alone without someone cursing at me, I would feel like myself, my confident self. And while many of us face low-esteemed people that cuss-- they are the problem, not us. And Its okay to feel hurt. At the end of the day these scenarios says more about the one cussing than the one being cussed at.

    • @Ryan11-pd8zm
      @Ryan11-pd8zm 9 місяців тому +2

      Some people aren't as sensitive as others, that's why it doesn't really bother them.

    • @bilawl9359
      @bilawl9359 8 місяців тому +1

      See, your problem is that you are thinking of it as -okay/ not okay- that’s like saying it’s “okay” to get knocked out big a big man lol. It doesn’t make sense. is it normal/expected to feel hurt from someone’s insults? Yes. But that doesn’t mean the hurt is inevitable. You can be strong enough to not feel hurt by someone else’s words

  • @bibble1023
    @bibble1023 9 місяців тому +78

    Obese is an outdated medical term?🤨

    • @roran8455
      @roran8455 8 місяців тому +3

      it should be considered one

    • @bibble1023
      @bibble1023 8 місяців тому +5

      @@roran8455 it is but people who are obese take offense and want it to not be anymore

    • @roran8455
      @roran8455 8 місяців тому +4

      @@bibble1023 thats what im saying its degrading

    • @lemonz0880
      @lemonz0880 8 місяців тому +9

      j respect her wish to be called fat bro

    • @ivexoxo
      @ivexoxo 8 місяців тому

      @@roran8455how lol

  • @halfpine9952
    @halfpine9952 8 місяців тому +5

    “If someone called me a rapist”
    I- how would- what?

    • @mmarriott5818
      @mmarriott5818 8 місяців тому

      There used to be a radical feminist theory that "all sex is rape" so maybe that's where it came from.

  • @erica_dandrea
    @erica_dandrea 9 місяців тому +11

    I can’t stand being called stupid or dumb

  • @sydneylarson8326
    @sydneylarson8326 9 місяців тому +21

    when my mom and i were arguing (i was 15) she screamed “you think you’re hot shit don’t you?? well you’re not” and ever since then i’ve been very shy and not confident in myself. then when my dad asked why i was being so distant i told him, she denied it, and he believed her. i’ve always been isolated

    • @doodooman2957
      @doodooman2957 8 місяців тому

      just respect your parents you arent hot shit at 15

  • @yoselincardona9332
    @yoselincardona9332 8 місяців тому +5

    The biggest insult to me was being called a mistake. Whenever I was labeled a 'mistake', I immediately questioned 'why?' And often, it made me think that something was actually wrong with me and that I was truly a mistake. Maybe it was also the fact that just “yesterday” I was their sister, lover… Someone who they have said the words 'I love you' to before.

  • @coolkelpie
    @coolkelpie 9 місяців тому +5

    Omgggg, the person at 5:58 is so STUNNING! My jaw dropped 😮

  • @blessedbe2222
    @blessedbe2222 9 місяців тому +9

    Whore is mine. It was so normalized in my house when I was a kid I dont remeber a time where my abusive dad wasnt calling my mom it. My dad is the one that cheated on her so it really made no sense but hurt all the same. It was an assassination of her character.

  • @elvenspeed7954
    @elvenspeed7954 8 місяців тому +8

    My dad used to either call me my moms name or my aunts name, both people he absolutely hated so it was degrading. Or would scream at me, calling me the R word and it always hit so hard. Nothing makes me hurt more

  • @lilo19951995
    @lilo19951995 9 місяців тому +21

    for me it’d be fa**ot. my lgbt friends and i say it to each other in fun, but one time my brother called me it to hurt me and it was horrible

  • @saniee9900
    @saniee9900 8 місяців тому +3

    I just sometimes wish people would think twice before insulting one another cause you really don't know if the word you say can hurt the person in front of you

  • @bugsbunny6755
    @bugsbunny6755 9 місяців тому +5

    honestly words don't hurt me, its the feeling behind it that gets me mad. like you can call me fat or ugly or a bitch, but without like passion behind the word it wont affect me, genuinley being disgusted by me based off my appearence makes me so frustrated and sad

  • @Whotfismax
    @Whotfismax 9 місяців тому +2

    I loved the last guy's shirt

  • @shainamckenzie1278
    @shainamckenzie1278 9 місяців тому +21

    My mom used to get mad at me over pretty much everything as a youth. (Like getting a C on a test, even). Any time i would say "im sorry".... she'd respond "yeah, you ARE sorry." That was a deep hurt.
    We're okay now. I still say im sorry too much, though. Just not to her.

    • @TheMrCC21
      @TheMrCC21 9 місяців тому +11

      One time I read an article on sorry. One thing that resonated was to never say sorry unless you did something wrong. You should stop saying sorry too much. It might seem harmless or overly polite, but habit comes with consequence. Mental health professionals say over-apologizing can lead to resentment towards others, shame around one's identity, and a constant struggle to stand up for oneself. Hopefully you work on not saying sorry a lot and saying it only when you should say it and actually mean it.

  • @jaelova5303
    @jaelova5303 9 місяців тому +9

    The title caught me off guard😂😂

  • @johnshepard1427
    @johnshepard1427 9 місяців тому +10

    Armchair diagnoses from non-mental health professionals. e.g. calling someone bipolar because they’re upset or calling someone a narcissist because they don’t behave the way you want them to. Levying these terms maligns people who actually suffer from these conditions and it can make the recipient question their reality.

  • @christinadeibel4937
    @christinadeibel4937 9 місяців тому +10

    I thought this was a video of people just saying those words in the title while scrolling past it😂

  • @tigerlily0988
    @tigerlily0988 9 місяців тому +6

    There are words my friends and I use in jest with each other that would never, ever be okay for anyone to call me outside of that. It really is all about the tone and the context.

  • @panktimodi1023
    @panktimodi1023 9 місяців тому +7

    I am honestly shocked no one said "slut".

  • @nohandle935
    @nohandle935 9 місяців тому +14

    0:52 This is known as the "euphemism treadmill:" the process where words that are introduced as new, polite terms for sensitive or uncomfortable topics eventually become seen as pejorative or offensive themselves. Obese replaced an earlier more 'offensive' word but now itself is seen as 'offensive'. Also what should we call people who are obese then?

    • @michete
      @michete 9 місяців тому +1

      overweight maybe

    • @crabz4732
      @crabz4732 9 місяців тому +7

      @@michete that's the level below obese. I support just calling us fatasses.

    • @nohandle935
      @nohandle935 9 місяців тому +8

      @@michete Yeah but overweight has a specific definition in medicine, it's like the old all squares are rectangles, not all rectangles are squares argument right

    • @michete
      @michete 9 місяців тому

      @@nohandle935 I think people only get offended by the word when it's used incorrectly, it's become an insult nowadays

    • @beantown702
      @beantown702 9 місяців тому +2

      It hurts her more cause it actually applies the most.

  • @shivani_with_an_i6713
    @shivani_with_an_i6713 9 місяців тому +2

    Looking at the title. I was like - You take that back!

  • @shaych69
    @shaych69 8 місяців тому +1

    6:35 I love this person's vibe. They are so cool looking, I just had to say something

  • @metalhead98j
    @metalhead98j 8 місяців тому +2

    7:56 off topic but those eyes are lovely

  • @jrmac7
    @jrmac7 9 місяців тому

    'everthing just like means nothing to me, actually"

  • @jamieomr
    @jamieomr 2 місяці тому

    2:56 So relatable. I’m 23 and I often get asked the same or similar questions.

  • @John-thinks
    @John-thinks 7 місяців тому +2

    There's a Turkish slur for Armenians where they call us "remnants of the sword" which is referring to the genocide they committed against us that they're salty some people survived. That's a pretty rough one.

  • @ravenstars3458
    @ravenstars3458 9 місяців тому +4

    i understand what that woman had to have felt when her mother called her a B.. I have been called it quite a few tines and i am only 15, being called any "harsh" words nowadays don't tend to bother me, however I understand feeling hurt when someone you love, care for, or just know in general, call you a name like a disappointment, unlovable, annoying, retarded, idiot, it does hurt... Its sad, my mom has called me a bitch in a hateful manner on multiple occasions, not often and not recently but on different occasions, I think once when i was 9-10 because i was fighting with my brother, once when i was 12, an once when i was 13, and another time when I was 13, so not super often but she has called me names like that before, other names as well. (I am 15 now

  • @eyespliced
    @eyespliced 9 місяців тому +32

    One that still really bothers me is "Ginger." Growing up, I heard a lot of "fat ginger" and "you have no soul because you're ginger," which hit especially hard given I was at the time catholic and going to catholic school and actually believed in that bs. Even other people questioning if my parents were _actually_ my parents because I was pale, covered in freckles with bright red hair, and neither them, nor any of my siblings except for one of my older sisters look anything like me.

    • @catinabox3048
      @catinabox3048 9 місяців тому +4

      I don't have red hair myself, but I think it looks amazing! Also, those people questioning your parentage may want a lesson in genetics...

    • @itsmj3103
      @itsmj3103 9 місяців тому

      Tf is carholic americans' deal with gingers for fucks sake 😂 ive never heard anything negative in my life about them ever, only from americans. The sheer amount of propaganda against them and for what lol

    • @user-kq7rf6uq4m
      @user-kq7rf6uq4m 9 місяців тому +1

      If it makes any difference I have a thing for redheads and think they're gorgeous.

  • @_lvxo9
    @_lvxo9 6 місяців тому +1

    For me being called loud or “too much” hurts for me because it was said to me a lot growing up that I was to loud when I talk but I was just happy and excited about something so it really shut me down as I grew up but I’ve gotten back to loud and proud myself

  • @keemstubbs4638
    @keemstubbs4638 8 місяців тому +2

    Lazy or crazy...
    Well I've worked all my life from I was a teenager and lost my job 6 months ago, I also was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in my early 20s. I'm 28 now and this has been the hardest year of My life and I'm severely depressed because I haven't gotten any call backs and I've always been an independent person. My parents lost their home during the pandemic (2021). my mom is really sick so they moved in with me. I never asked them for anything for staying with me but since I lost my job my dad had to help with some bills (he still works full-time and receives money from our government monthly) my dad doesn't understand depression... So this morning I overheard him and some family members talking about me in my own home he said "he's not depressed he's just lazy" and I heard my siblings call me crazy after my failed su*cide attempt. I cried so much today I'm in that dark spot again and I can't control it it's frustrating.

  • @monicaaamoo
    @monicaaamoo 9 місяців тому +6

    I was rollerblading once in the rain (wearing baggy clothing and a ball cap) and a guy shouted the f slur at me. I HATE that word.

  • @shinamonbutter
    @shinamonbutter 8 місяців тому

    “people have called me a terrorist” starts laughing💀😭

  • @odeszaa
    @odeszaa 9 місяців тому +6

    2:53 pretty damn sus that that’s what he goes too. Nobody just randomly calls someone a “rapist”. lol wtf

  • @lizziepols4057
    @lizziepols4057 8 місяців тому +4

    I’m overweight but a stranger calling me fat doesn’t hurt my feelings. Like.. I have a mirror. So congrats on being observant? 😂 I think the only words that would hurt my feelings would be if they came from someone I cared about.

  • @roxylalondes
    @roxylalondes 3 місяці тому

    I think the worst thing I could be called would be "ignorant" or "immature".

  • @liamur
    @liamur 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for the content warning

    • @dontpanic5278
      @dontpanic5278 9 місяців тому

      Well... what did you expect when you clicked on the video? Text saying "contains explicit and/or offensive language"?

  • @Olivia-hq4zj
    @Olivia-hq4zj 9 місяців тому +2

    i'm surprised no one said ugly, that's the one for me

  • @elenaoakes8494
    @elenaoakes8494 8 місяців тому +1

    A burden. I have multiple chronic illnesses and have to rely on those around me but i try my hardest to give back in whatever way i can weather that be through love or time or acts of service. Deep down the fear of being a burden is strong.

  • @charlietelfer5979
    @charlietelfer5979 8 місяців тому

    That's like me saying I don't like the word asthma when I am asthmatic 😂

  • @JvNelsonn
    @JvNelsonn 8 місяців тому +1

    I pride myself on learning and knowing what I'm talking about.
    I have no shame in admitting when i don't so i feel like being called stupid would bother me.

  • @casym5921
    @casym5921 8 місяців тому +2

    Omg did anyone else just become aware of Brook's existence and thought his voice was Blaine this whole time?

  • @tnoko4421
    @tnoko4421 8 місяців тому +1

    saving all these for later 😈

  • @haleygravitt6812
    @haleygravitt6812 8 місяців тому

    i cannot with people. 🤣

  • @ragnarox16
    @ragnarox16 9 місяців тому +1

    Annoying is legit a weird one, but really irks me too... I'm so curious now that it's not just me

  • @brianna834
    @brianna834 Місяць тому

    I couldn’t think of what mine would be until the first person who said annoying said it and I had an immediate visceral response

  • @Kirbster-D-Shroom
    @Kirbster-D-Shroom 9 місяців тому

    THE DUDE AT 6:35 AHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

  • @Fashion_With_Tamyia
    @Fashion_With_Tamyia 9 місяців тому +1

    It’s the title for me 👀😭

  • @spencerbox6705
    @spencerbox6705 9 місяців тому

    shout out to the gent with the Kekumbas Jersey, You the real G-Baby

  • @timpeters9616
    @timpeters9616 8 місяців тому

    I'd probably be most hurt if someone called me a "failure."

  • @Thehealthycreative_
    @Thehealthycreative_ 8 місяців тому +1

    "are you a liar?" / "do you lie?" "last lie you told?" lineup please n thanks

  • @purplevudu
    @purplevudu 8 місяців тому +1

    Worthless would be the worst for me

  • @offed_
    @offed_ 7 місяців тому

    2:03 TRUE that shit is SUPER funny hahaha

  • @melodyandrews3106
    @melodyandrews3106 9 місяців тому

    Words are vessel's for intention.

  • @Wici
    @Wici 9 місяців тому +4

    4:59 😂 yeah I'm this guy. laugh then ask if that really happened

  • @Thecurlynative
    @Thecurlynative 9 місяців тому +2

    I have really tough skin but when people refer to me as “sick” they’re begging to be seriously hurt. I have sickle cell anemia, anytime anyone tries to hurt me they go low and bring up my illness. Say I’m sick. Gonna die young. It’s just so disgusting you can’t get any lower. It doesn’t necessarily hurt me but Ik for sure if you bring that up there’s no going back from that. How gross and disgusting of a person you have to be to do so.

  • @Atmwavy
    @Atmwavy 9 місяців тому

    Being called dark hearted by someone leaching off of you

  • @BirdeePlays
    @BirdeePlays 9 місяців тому +7

    when i was younger if someone called me insecure especially toward my man i would cry

  • @julesg301
    @julesg301 4 місяці тому

    This guy recently told me i “look defeated” when I was at work. I was really tired and my moms health has been rocky lately so I was stressed and worried about her. And he just said it with a laugh and didn’t even say anything afterwards. I ran into him at the corner store during my break, And he tried to say hi to me as if nothing happened. So I took the time to tell him that what he said was really rude. And that if he sees me again not to say that to me. I told him I was already having a hard day and after hearing him say that to me it made it worse. He said he didn’t mean anything by it. But he didn’t fully apologize. Idk. I hope it stops him from saying something stupid to so the next person.

  • @augjake
    @augjake 9 місяців тому +1

    I don’t think I’ve ever seen Brooke’s face until today

  • @punkinn5610
    @punkinn5610 4 місяці тому

    for me its things like "youre just like your father" or "youre always in the way" "lazy"

  • @sugarrush336
    @sugarrush336 7 місяців тому +1

    My mother once said she wishes I was a stillborn. She lost what would have been my older brother and she said she wishes I was hung on my umbilical cord instead of him.

  • @katiescarboro248
    @katiescarboro248 9 місяців тому +44

    Obese isn't an outdated term💀

  • @o.o8
    @o.o8 8 місяців тому +1

    3:42 is fluttershy as a human you cannot prove me wrong

  • @Koudey
    @Koudey 9 місяців тому

    One of the most hurtful things Ive ever been called was uninhibited

  • @Betherick1985
    @Betherick1985 9 місяців тому +17

    The r-word is a big one- my sister was called that in school (even by a teacher once!). But, guess who graduated high school AND college?!?! My awesome sister!
    Anyway, even if I hear someone using it jokingly, I would politely ask them to refrain from doing so. It’s SUCH a nasty word.

    • @Ediebitty
      @Ediebitty 8 місяців тому

      My father called me that word once when I was still in elementary school, just because I kept dropping my pencil while doing homework...Will never forget how hurt I felt.

  • @AlexandraAnnette
    @AlexandraAnnette 9 місяців тому

    1:56 😂

  • @jessiemacdonald3436
    @jessiemacdonald3436 9 місяців тому +3

    Someone once said “At least your half normal” when I said I was bi.

    • @tib8072
      @tib8072 8 місяців тому +2

      Ooft that stings. Sorry you experienced that.

  • @cherise5185
    @cherise5185 9 місяців тому

    did u guys repost this video bc of the old title?

  • @kennethngulungu1912
    @kennethngulungu1912 9 місяців тому

    Calling me mid would fuck me up