If You do this He Will Regret Losing You - ft Stefan Speaks

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 110

  • @papersparrow
    @papersparrow Рік тому +59

    The best revenge is healing 💯 %

  • @ChelseaCamaro
    @ChelseaCamaro Рік тому +37

    If they lost me, I really don’t care. To me, I know I always try, and why waste my time even thinking about the lost relationship. And honestly,why would they either. I hope not!

  • @Mermaid03_03
    @Mermaid03_03 Рік тому +131

    Can you talk more about men going to other women after a breakup seeking validation?

  • @msgs6850
    @msgs6850 Рік тому +27

    If he's known to create 3rd parties
    Run , he just wants you , you and you ! Your not a hater if he jumps in to something and starts posting them together that's what boys do when they can't control you and if you don't like none of his stuff or even if he wants to be so called "friends" no it's to play w/you if it ain't adding up subtract yourself
    And your breaking away from chains and circles you keep going around and around and around

  • @user-yk9lu2bx8y
    @user-yk9lu2bx8y Рік тому +50

    You and Stefan are two of my favorite people to listen to. It's like a dream to listen to both of you. It's like you translated in the raw truth about what Stefan was saying. Oh I wish I could keep you guys together to help me 24/7😂

    • @exoticallovergirl
      @exoticallovergirl Рік тому +5

      ...and neither one of them have a committed relationship

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0  Рік тому +18

      u know i read comments lmao @@exoticallovergirl

    • @crys-anngayle2546
      @crys-anngayle2546 Рік тому +1

      ​@@MindfulAttraction2.0😂😂😂

    • @ecoker382
      @ecoker382 Рік тому

      ​@@MindfulAttraction2.0Good Respond🎉❤

    • @xtiebaby8312
      @xtiebaby8312 Рік тому +19

      Same, except I prefer Alex’s calmer tone over Stefan’s yelling 🤣

  • @terrylu1843
    @terrylu1843 Рік тому +48

    I think women want to see regret from a man the most because when you have sex you hand over your precious vital energy and now she’s forever feeling like something is missing because she gave something and didn’t get anything in return.

    • @rastamuff1
      @rastamuff1 Рік тому +3

      It’s a lot deeper than that

    • @terrylu1843
      @terrylu1843 Рік тому +2

      @@rastamuff1 ok then try to explain it

  • @TheNisiu
    @TheNisiu Рік тому +6

    Alex, I've realized listening to you talk this time, that you'd make a great dad to some little girl/girls. Listening to you talk to us in this video reminded me so much of my talks with my dad about relationships back when I was single. I think it's your brutal honesty (which friends don't have nowadays) & your tendency to drive us to face reality (avoiding wasting time being delusional about dating/relationships.

  • @user-bg9rv1yb9x
    @user-bg9rv1yb9x Рік тому +7

    Whoa! you are trippy and straight up. I like how you keep pausing it and chiming in and keeping us intrigued. Making us think..."Regret" were they truly for you in the first place? Maturity is the key- its not personal. Dont let the ego lead your life.

  • @jacobromero2634
    @jacobromero2634 Рік тому +11

    Healing leveling up forgiving is the best remedy bless them

  • @Natalie-td2mq
    @Natalie-td2mq Рік тому +9

    Peoples mental states change , i wouldnt go back to an ex but sometimes they take people for granted and regret it afterif theyre suffering with their own mental health issues ....

  • @yudythemodel2025
    @yudythemodel2025 Рік тому +10

    This is the perfect Mercury retrograde video. A lot of ex lovers come back during retrograde periods.

  • @candycamus
    @candycamus Рік тому +5

    Absolutely beautifully true, either way. Win or Lose. 💙❤

  • @hinroiasouth9481
    @hinroiasouth9481 Рік тому +3

    My two favorite UA-cam guys!!!!!

  • @file13whereareyou
    @file13whereareyou Рік тому +1

    Alexis, you're wise beyond your age. Thanks for your time and work on this channel.

  • @kwbaby4297
    @kwbaby4297 Рік тому +3

    Jesus all this work! I feel it’s easier to just be single nowadays 😢 sad but true

  • @jacobromero2634
    @jacobromero2634 Рік тому +3

    Congrats!!!! On ur classes n new apt blessings

  • @milakociecka6846
    @milakociecka6846 Рік тому +2

    When I saw the notification, I thought you were actually talking to Stephan. Either way, your comment adds an interesting new perspective to what he said. More videos like this! It is kind of like listening the advices of two wise buddies of mine only I don't have such wise buddies in real life :))

  • @ConsciousKim
    @ConsciousKim Рік тому +17

    I feel if that person was a terrible partner and you want them to regret how they treated you in the relationship and they person have character flaws. Even if they jump on another relationship it’s not gonna work out until they do the work on themselves. If they find a partner quickly after your relationship with you and their relationship is the bliss and they are both content then the way the person treated you in that relationship was definitely personal.

    • @purevenus6359
      @purevenus6359 Рік тому +6

      You can’t always go by that. As I always say, forever is a long time. Something might appear perfect on social media and in pictures but behind closed doors you have no idea what’s going on. And people past a certain point in their character development do not change 100%. So if he was a pos to you and you did nothing to deserve it… best believe he’s going to treat her that way aswell. It’s only a matter of time.
      A motto I live by, pay attention to the way he treats the women he’s not interested in because that’s a snapshot for how he will treat you when he loses interest in you. And it so far has remained true.

    • @purevenus6359
      @purevenus6359 Рік тому

      You can’t always go by that. As I always say, forever is a long time. Something might appear perfect on social media and in pictures but behind closed doors you have no idea what’s going on. And people past a certain point in their character development do not change 100%. So if he was a pos to you and you did nothing to deserve it… best believe he’s going to treat her that way aswell. It’s only a matter of time.
      A motto I live by, pay attention to the way he treats the women he’s not interested in because that’s a snapshot for how he will treat you when he loses interest in you. And it so far has remained true.

    • @purevenus6359
      @purevenus6359 Рік тому

      You can’t always go by that. As I always say, forever is a long time. Something might appear perfect on social media and in pictures but behind closed doors you have no idea what’s going on. And people past a certain point in their character development do not change 100%. So if he was a pos to you and you did nothing to deserve it… best believe he’s going to treat her that way aswell. It’s only a matter of time.
      A motto I live by, pay attention to the way he treats the women he’s not interested in because that’s a snapshot for how he will treat you when he loses interest in you. And it so far has remained true.

    • @purevenus6359
      @purevenus6359 Рік тому

      You can’t always go by that. As I always say, forever is a long time. Something might appear perfect on social media and in pictures but behind closed doors you have no idea what’s going on. And people past a certain point in their character development do not change 100%. So if he was a pos to you and you did nothing to deserve it… best believe he’s going to treat her that way aswell. It’s only a matter of time.
      A motto I live by, pay attention to the way he treats the women he’s not interested in because that’s a snapshot for how he will treat you when he loses interest in you. And it so far has remained true.

  • @ttara24
    @ttara24 Рік тому +1

    It's so neat to watch how you've grown and progressed over the years :)

  • @chitchatwithbritbrat8412
    @chitchatwithbritbrat8412 Рік тому +5

    I loveeeee both of you guys videos !!! All I watch ❤❤❤🎉

  • @r.e.t.8656
    @r.e.t.8656 Рік тому +2

    You look very healthy Alex. I’m happy for you.

  • @whyjustwhy2168
    @whyjustwhy2168 Рік тому +3

    Yes like the reaction videos. This one was talking to me thank you

  • @s.8955
    @s.8955 Рік тому +1

    Love the way you created a balance in this video Alex. Just perfect!!

  • @candycurlyable
    @candycurlyable Рік тому +8

    This comment section start to be feed by creepy men who are miserable and angry that that woman get away. Please, I’m ready to leave just because those men comment and we don’t care about those internet losers. They to remember that!

  • @ZebibT
    @ZebibT Рік тому +7

    You look beautiful in your thumbnail

  • @catcat9582
    @catcat9582 Рік тому +1

    Your energy is much nicer now

  • @Showinggracec
    @Showinggracec Рік тому +2

    Great job on the video Alex!

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 Рік тому +11

    Punishment it’s much more effective …..

  • @user-lb4nf9nx8w
    @user-lb4nf9nx8w 10 місяців тому

    Your voice is very peaceful Alex

  • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
    @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Рік тому +3

    12:20 He doesn't have to regret losing me you're right, I cannot control that, but I just WISH there was a GUARANTEE that the NEXT TIME I ALLOW A MAN into my world, my life, my body, my heart and my mind... that it finally DOES bring positive results! Because I'm not all about wasting my time like I said, with people! (I'm almost 40, not 20!) ..And yes, in death (literal death), people SHOULD remember the good things about their loved ones! It's a positive thing you want to do! To spread love! Yes, if you have BRAIN DAMAGE then, MAYBE that's an exception but I was under the impression that most people were good, NORMAL folks who just want to leave a legacy. Why do you think people have children?!

    • @meralEdwtDawlatly
      @meralEdwtDawlatly Рік тому

      And why should we see another next one ????
      Just because it's one that is bad then doesn't mean others aren't ...

  • @urbansurvivor360
    @urbansurvivor360 5 місяців тому

    You and stephan speaks what great you tubers 🎉🎉

  • @lelelovebug1317
    @lelelovebug1317 Рік тому +2

    What he’s got going on is none of our business

  • @indrishahdorval3094
    @indrishahdorval3094 11 місяців тому

    I love you so much father Alex. This video was our quality. Thank you very much 💎

  • @jeandoe4887
    @jeandoe4887 11 місяців тому

    Dayum, Im Crying so much over this video
    😢 So much pain.

  • @wasabicurated
    @wasabicurated Рік тому +1

    Not sure why this video is in my algorithm but I just started reading The Brothers Karamazov 1 week ago.

  • @bobbycolebrook9335
    @bobbycolebrook9335 Рік тому +2

    Love the reaction vids!

  • @amyrowe535
    @amyrowe535 10 місяців тому

    Your exactly right. I was mental punching bag. Yea 8yrs gone. Sad. I like you you are like jus chill.

  • @KatrinaMidgette
    @KatrinaMidgette Рік тому +5

    I've Maxed out of my "L's" this year. And it won't be refilled or refunded.

  • @massmediamanager9443
    @massmediamanager9443 Рік тому +2

    Fascinating: I'm from Russia and never read Brothers Karamazovy - Dalexis tells me know what it's about in his vlog😅

  • @inspiredchange5573
    @inspiredchange5573 Рік тому +2

    Very good video😇

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 Рік тому +1

    Watching this! ❤

  • @circle88
    @circle88 Рік тому +1

    It's deep!

  • @Hernameiskalis
    @Hernameiskalis Рік тому +2

    You should rest❤

  • @Bonzmae
    @Bonzmae Рік тому +1

    Shhhhiii im 3 days late 🤦🏻‍♀️ this would have been a big help 3 days ago

  • @MelanieMedina_x
    @MelanieMedina_x Рік тому

    I just love Alex !

  • @saaramohamed8921
    @saaramohamed8921 Рік тому +3

    so 22 minutes summarised don't give a F or they will win. IDK if that would make them regret losing me tho

  • @Dianne327
    @Dianne327 Рік тому +2

    Lmao you would do this after coming out of a meditation retreat. 😂👌

  • @Inayapapaya
    @Inayapapaya Рік тому

    Your amazing

  • @FourLeafClover888
    @FourLeafClover888 Рік тому +5

    Can you talk about age gap relationships?

  • @MichelleFaith-ez8br
    @MichelleFaith-ez8br Рік тому +5

    His crazy dysfunctional family involved me into some toxic messy ish after his father passed just recently. He believed them over me , I sung for his father’s funeral and my name will forever be on his father’s obituary. He will also see his ppl we’re lying and was wrong about me lol and even if he doesn’t idc I’m done with that guy…. 💯talk about regret 😂 smh

  • @CeciledeLuire
    @CeciledeLuire Рік тому +5

    Why do you claim it must be out of *ego* when we wish they regret losing us ?
    If i love/d the man, it's not ego, it's love.

    • @Terabyte1244
      @Terabyte1244 Рік тому +1

      I disagree, it is ego. It’s the ego regarding ownership. Yes you love/ed however if you hope that they feel regret then YOU have the problem and need healing

    • @CeciledeLuire
      @CeciledeLuire Рік тому

      @@Terabyte1244 i disagree. My intuition is excellent, so i might feel that we are a match but the man might feel it with a huge delay. I do only want things that other people want as well, but mostly they need more time to realize than i do.

  • @pizza8714
    @pizza8714 Рік тому +1

    Ok

  • @paolanamuncura8879
    @paolanamuncura8879 Рік тому +2

    16:44 true

  • @staytoxic6718
    @staytoxic6718 Рік тому

    I love you so much. you make me love myself 😢

  • @rawfit12424
    @rawfit12424 11 місяців тому

    Did u go to Vip? I just got back from there... U heard ME?

  • @PlaywithDaisy
    @PlaywithDaisy 11 місяців тому

    No more reviews😩 please just you in the video

  • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
    @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Рік тому

    Dude though, towards the end, you are saying it wasn't personal but then why did he attack my person?! Why did he list ALL the negative qualities really that I had??! He was such a douchebag, saying that he would accept me for who I am and then in the end, back out on his word! How low can someone go!

  • @lindalauraxoxo5771
    @lindalauraxoxo5771 Рік тому +1

    ✨✨🥰👸🏼

  • @amyrowe535
    @amyrowe535 10 місяців тому

    She talk so loud. After that paper. What can you do tor me. I’m w good women and it’s sad it’s like it is now a days. Hurt ppl HURT PPL sad I pray 🙏 for them. I’m an Empath.

  • @mary-louisetrinidad1850
    @mary-louisetrinidad1850 Рік тому +2

    Why u have the need 2 talk bad Bruhh ?

  • @Moon-vy2yd
    @Moon-vy2yd 11 місяців тому

    haha you did ayahuasca lol

  • @30minutesLess
    @30minutesLess Рік тому +2

    My revenge was purchasing a rental unit and naming it after her. Soon I'll have over 6 figures in my bank account. And I'm going to send it to her with a nice little voice message around New Year's. My only goal is for her to find someone better than me, and when she doesn't I'm gonna pop up again to only torment her some more. And all this will be better as she's creeping on 30.

    • @capacjon
      @capacjon Рік тому

      Savage

    • @candycurlyable
      @candycurlyable Рік тому +2

      Glad she’s away from you, you seem really childish and dangerous. You’re that hurt by her that you want to have that revenge to feel better? Guess what, she doesn’t care and as she is probably close to 30 or not, if she’s pretty, she will have men around while you have still that woman in mind, torturing yourself. Who won? Definitely not you. Deuces

    • @exoticallovergirl
      @exoticallovergirl Рік тому +20

      She will still not want you though. Trying to flaunt it will make her laugh at you. You will just seem obsessed. Move on.

    • @exoticallovergirl
      @exoticallovergirl Рік тому +13

      That only shows you still care about what she thinks.

    • @nessforbes7400
      @nessforbes7400 Рік тому +1

      Wait. Lol I had to reread this… creep. Wtf. Your gonna stalk her for months? You’re a creep dude. 🫢🤮
      Anybody who flaunts 6 figs in their account and that’s all they have to bring to the table? Lol yea. Plenty people better than you dude. 😂 all your worth is the $ in your account. I hope she spends it and still leaves you 😂

  • @mia_gets_it_done
    @mia_gets_it_done Рік тому +8

    your mindfulness makes your videos better. i’m very impressed w how you choose to invest in yourself. if no one ever told you, thank you for making yourself a better person, cause you were clearly toxic af before lol i see it, though. you are the real gem 🫂✨

    • @mia_gets_it_done
      @mia_gets_it_done Рік тому +1

      also, you’ll do great in class. the stress you have about it now makes it evident you care enough lol 😉 good luck on your apartment hunting 🤞✨

  • @magdalenawawrzecka2676
    @magdalenawawrzecka2676 Рік тому

    wooow

  • @user-sx5fn8yo5s
    @user-sx5fn8yo5s Рік тому

    You were the problem that's why he left.