As an Asian, I totally can related to what your are saying. Ya we kinda like blaming ourselves too hard, or pushing ourselves too hard. Thank you Coco for sharing. It helps me a lot.
Hi Coco, Thank you for this and your advice. I suffer from confidence because I've been bullied my whole life, even recently. I also have another side to me because of going through all the pain. In Art School people liked my work, I gave out smile bringers, hand made paper cut outs that acted like good luck charms and also flowers and filled up the school with them. I found I can make people happy with my art and words because I mean the things I say and do. I also respect women very much and so stand up for them. It's opposite of shyness or timidness, but it just comes out. I have seen a lot of cruelty in my life, but it hasn't stopped me from being myself. I don't have many friends but I do care about a lot of people. I care about you and your putting yourself out for all to see and hear. It is true that we all have confidence that will come forward and to believe in yourself is really the hardest thing. If you ask yourself what you are good at, you usually find an answer, the hard thing is not letting other people take it away. I have never had trouble telling someone I loved them, love is many things, kindness is love to me and when I receive it or see it, I bloom. I think you did a nice job with this Coco, and I'll look forward to your future efforts. Take Care. 🥰💐🥰
I totally get the under-qualified mindset! Problem is, I feel like I've always thought of it as something that I should remind myself of and something I should humble myself about. Recently, I've been thinking about getting into tutoring, and although I have almost a full score in a certain subject, I keep telling myself that I'm not qualified enough to teach anyone, even really young children. Watching and listening to you say that we don't need to worry so much about it really helped remind me that I should work on breaking that kind of cycle. Hope you continue on your journey to confidence!
thank you soso much coco! i feel like i'm pretty confident, i don't really care what others think about me, but sometimes a tiny gap appears in me that's scared of what others think of me. and that's only human, but I feel like i'll be 100% confident now :) you truly make a difference in others and I hope you know that! ly
I thought it was gonna be like any other boring self-help video out there, but wow your points were so great and helpful. Your stories also make your point uniquely inspiring! Thank you for making this video.
Thank you coco! currently im facing tons of worst things that happen in my life and it made me became a bit lost and a lot of unconfident 🥲and your video came up in a right time ! I will try my best to be disiplin and put effort on every task! (good job me! I just write a comment in english!)
yayy my fav channel uploads again! Recently I've felt unconfident because I did very poorly academically this past quarter. I'm not like a straight A student who just got their first B, but I did much worse than the standard I hold myself to, and I subconsciously attach my self worth to my grades in a way. Thanks for the heartwarming video :)
So I compliment myself now after watching the video? Ok... good job watching all 10 min of Coco without thinking "Chubby Bunny". Chubby. Bunny. with marshmellows Ang! 🐰
Respectfully, as a guy you need to go work out at a gym get a fit body, have decent income to spoil a girl you like and have mortals and manners. That’s it to get rid of all insecurities.
As an Asian, I totally can related to what your are saying. Ya we kinda like blaming ourselves too hard, or pushing ourselves too hard. Thank you Coco for sharing. It helps me a lot.
Coco gang we RISE
Hi Coco, Thank you for this and your advice. I suffer from confidence because I've been bullied my whole life, even recently. I also have another side to me because of going through all the pain. In Art School people liked my work, I gave out smile bringers, hand made paper cut outs that acted like good luck charms and also flowers and filled up the school with them. I found I can make people happy with my art and words because I mean the things I say and do. I also respect women very much and so stand up for them. It's opposite of shyness or timidness, but it just comes out. I have seen a lot of cruelty in my life, but it hasn't stopped me from being myself. I don't have many friends but I do care about a lot of people. I care about you and your putting yourself out for all to see and hear. It is true that we all have confidence that will come forward and to believe in yourself is really the hardest thing. If you ask yourself what you are good at, you usually find an answer, the hard thing is not letting other people take it away. I have never had trouble telling someone I loved them, love is many things, kindness is love to me and when I receive it or see it, I bloom. I think you did a nice job with this Coco, and I'll look forward to your future efforts. Take Care. 🥰💐🥰
I totally get the under-qualified mindset! Problem is, I feel like I've always thought of it as something that I should remind myself of and something I should humble myself about. Recently, I've been thinking about getting into tutoring, and although I have almost a full score in a certain subject, I keep telling myself that I'm not qualified enough to teach anyone, even really young children. Watching and listening to you say that we don't need to worry so much about it really helped remind me that I should work on breaking that kind of cycle. Hope you continue on your journey to confidence!
thank you soso much coco! i feel like i'm pretty confident, i don't really care what others think about me, but sometimes a tiny gap appears in me that's scared of what others think of me. and that's only human, but I feel like i'll be 100% confident now :) you truly make a difference in others and I hope you know that! ly
I thought it was gonna be like any other boring self-help video out there, but wow your points were so great and helpful. Your stories also make your point uniquely inspiring! Thank you for making this video.
I always find myself coming back to watch one of your videos, and I love it every single time. Keep up the good work.
Thank you coco for blessing us with this amazing video!! My confidence has gotten much better since I started watching your videos!! 🥰❤️❤️
thank you coco like i want u to know how helpful ur vids like these are even if it changes only 1 person, thts a lot
This means a lot 🥹
@@cocoxu sheesh did not expect u wud actually see it, god it made my day
i've been loving these more self help type videos!! thank you for posting them :)
I can tell a guy is definitely confident when they're talking with a smile
fan coco!!! luving u
Wow, what a valuable video for confidence building. Good for you.
Love that you wanted to make self help videos for a while; your videos are great, and I hope you get more reach to others!!
I love how you ended this video. It really shows that you love the topic of self help.
coco你一直都是闪闪放光有自信的女孩！
This video was done really well, the pacing was spot on. Good tips.
Thank you coco! currently im facing tons of worst things that happen in my life and it made me became a bit lost and a lot of unconfident 🥲and your video came up in a right time ! I will try my best to be disiplin and put effort on every task! (good job me! I just write a comment in english!)
Aww I’m glad this helped and you got this!
Your words never fail to amaze me, I can listen and watch you for hours…….
Ooh my good it's a great video thank you so much I really feel good
I think you are a very inspirational person! And being able to inspire others is a great talent
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@coco xu, I’ve just complimented my self after watching this video. Then I wanted to compliment you, you changed so much! Keep going levelling up! ❤
Coco you are qualified and truly confident and empowering to others.
Thank you😭
Thank you, Coco! Great video. I really dig it🥰. Hopefully there will be more of these from you. 😛
coco! I would love if you made a podcast, you give such great advice and have a beautiful voice to listen to❤
This!
It’s a dreammmm
@@cocoxu chase that dream!
This is useful, thank you Coco
When you don't give AF about other people's comments, you are free!
Hi Coco, I just start to follow Joma and your videos. May I ask why Joma doesn't post new videos? I really like the series you did together.
Good job Coco ❤
Thanks Coco!
i love this
awwww thanks heein
Coco’s editing!!
waa!! cameo hehe
a wonderful video as always coco ♡
Love you alli 🫶🏻
love this kinda chilling talk !!!!!
So good thx coco love ur vibe so much
That is amazing!!! Great tips Coco❤
life is worth living ❤
yessss, autosuggestion is powerful
Really good job, coco!❤
Coco is a grounded person and a positive influence to young adults!
Thank you 🥹
@@cocoxu Hope you inspire the people that deeply need it!
Great job with another great video as always Coco!
Great work, Coco! 👏 Thank you! 🙏
So inspiring
Yes do social anxiety one
8:31 “Wow… I can feed myself… good job 👍🏻 “ 🤣 I can relate to this when I can only make chicken, rice, broccoli
For the gainz
WMAF couple here - True Love is well worth the wait.
😭😭😭 thank you Coco
hi coco. i love youuuuu
Good job on the commitment uploading lovely content, keep it up coco
Damn, I feel inspired!
Im so glad that I click into this video ❤ 😊
Make more videos on this topic?
pls make this a series thx
Okie!
yayy my fav channel uploads again! Recently I've felt unconfident because I did very poorly academically this past quarter. I'm not like a straight A student who just got their first B, but I did much worse than the standard I hold myself to, and I subconsciously attach my self worth to my grades in a way. Thanks for the heartwarming video :)
I can definitely relate to thattt
Well done, Coco
what is ur MBTI? infj?
is chubby always mean "bad"?
So I compliment myself now after watching the video?
Ok... good job watching all 10 min of Coco without thinking "Chubby Bunny".
Chubby. Bunny. with marshmellows
Ang! 🐰
I never saw you so excited in any other video
Maybe its your niche ;)
I can relate every point you mentioned, dammit
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where did Joma go?
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Respectfully, as a guy
you need to go work out at a gym get a fit body, have decent income to spoil a girl you like and have mortals and manners.
That’s it to get rid of all insecurities.
OMG FIRST COMMENT! Slay coco~
Oii good job
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FIRST
Absolutely not
how to become condifent? lol 0:20
长的好看的小姐姐大多天生自信！ 所以我觉得你的自信之路大多数女孩学不来的😂
this rly resonated w me, ty 🥹
Loved this video :D Can we be friends hahah