Gurl I'm 12 , and I am all healed from my trauma already and I have amazing self confidence and at the same time very humble because of you, I also have a specific routine and I'm getting my dream body, ,ast year I was so fat but now I'm almost in my dream body because of my consistency and love for my body, I'm so mentally stable because of u gurl, I love you
@@seyedrabiya935 hey while I'm so so happy for you and proud, but as someone who also started this journey at a young age just make sure you do not burn out or lose the thrill
MOST PRODUCTIVE WINTER ARC Step 1: Define who you want to be -you need to be specific version of yourself that you want to be -shadow work or creating a alter ego Step 2: Organization is everything -Write down every specific events in Calendar -Write To Do list (Habit and Structured) -List all of your goals (Be specific) -Try to experiment with routines -List social events -Goal for your ideal self (meal plan, ingredients and many more) Step 3: Stop waiting until you feel like it -Doing the task even when you don't feel like it -You do not need to meet the timeframe. But you still need to start -You need to seek challenges Step 4: You need to create the right belief system -Stop thinking negative things, because it will be manifested in your mind -Don't focus on negative things -Let the negative thought pass by Step 5: Shift your mindset to "i have to" to "i get to" -do the thing you say you gonna do when you say you're going to do it -stop thinking negative things first thing in the morning, try to shift the mindset as much as possible -"I get to" instead of thinking you have to do something, think the advantage that you will get doing the thing.
Step Number 3 reminds me of the saying: "Follow the Plan, Not Your Mood" because if you wait to be in the mood to achieve your goals, you will end up being inconsistent and maybe not even achieving the goals. This in turn will result in a cycle of having the same goal every year and wondering why you're struggling to achieve it
Girl I just wanted to say that 2024 WAS MY YEARRRR and I’m so glad I discovered ur channel last December!!! U really helped me and I’m do grateful! Lots of love ❤
OMG whattt sameee girlyyy😭 i literally discovered her last November/December and it has changed my entire life i became such a new person this year and became so much better!!
Damn! A new subscriber! You are the therapist I never knew I required! Thank you for these life saving amazing tips! And btw you are gorgeous affffffff! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤! Thank you soooo muchhhh
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
SHES BACK!!! I STARETED THE WINTER ARC IN THE BEGINNING OF OCTOBER AND IT GOT INTERRUPTED DUE TO FESTIVALS AND I RESTARTED IT, LIKE, LITERALLY, YESTERDAY AND THE QUEEN POSTED ABOUT IT !!!!
i had a really toxic and dominate situationship, heartbreaks, attachment issues and what not made me feel attracted to boys but well the moment i started watching this lady she radiated all her energy into me and building up my mindset at a level that no guy could win me easily. LOVE YA! 💗
5:19 -> define who you want to be 8:19 -> organisation is the key 13:05 -> stop waiting untill you feel like it, speed is everything 16:13 -> you need to create the right belief system 19:35 -> shift your mindset from "i have to do" to "i get to do" have a nice time watching🩷
I just realized how I needed this video right now 😭😭 I was actually viewing my best version but yeah everyday were looking the same so I realized that I was trapped in my daily routine with all the bad habits I'm aware of but never try to change them😔 THANK YOU TAM KAUR😭❤️❤️
QUESTIONSSS -WHY R U DOING THIS -WHO WILL BENIFIT IT -WHAT HABITS DO U WANNA CUT OFF -WHAT HABITS DO U WANT -WHAT WILL U BE IN THE END OF THE YEAR -WHAT WILL UR DIET BE] -HOW WILL PEOPLE SEE YOU -HOW WILL UR GRADES BE -WHAT R U GONNA GIVE UP TO HELP UR SELF OR TO MAKE THIS EAISEAR
Today is my birthday. I was expecting some of my special friends to wish me. Well. They didn’t. It was really hurtfull. But It'll be great when i treat myself tomorrow first thing in the morning. And this video is a gift for me. For me a sign. To get ahed before 2025. Be the best version of me Thank you tam. I love you ❤
im 15 start of the year I was very much ashamed on my appearance, and I would let other people's opinions get ahead of me and i had a friend group that didnt align to me and i was always chasing their validation as well as male until i met this girl 2 days before my gcse and she literally has radiating positive energy and she literally changed my view of the world from a negative to a positive perspective and i still remember it to this day i ran 400m for sports day for the very first time and i wanted to step out of my comfort zone even though i came last i had a massive smile on my face because i did it when i wanted to give up and im currently on my healing journey and wow its really beautiful just knowing so much about myself and my traits and what makes me. me. and now in the quarter of 2024 im going to do an assembly in front of my whole entire school about how they can stop chasing validation and how they can overcome these victim mindsets and tam kaur if you are reading this thank you so much for just existing because you are inspiring so many young people and others and i just wanted to say thank you and i hope we all make 2024 our bitch
Next year I am reaching my childhood dream goal of going to the biggest industry trade show of my industry and have an internship interview sometime next year. I am so excited for 2025. Funnily enough I was looking for NYC blogs to plan my trade show trip and found her channel. God works in mysterious ways.
the one point that genuinely changed my whole life this year THE MOST was the 4th one (16:16) cause she has a video about limiting beliefs I HIGHLY RECOMMEND YOU WATCH THAT ONE and its mainly about shifting mindsets that im always up for!
Girl, I found your podcast a couple of months ago, I listened to an episode and I loved it but I didn't go back to it again. My boyfriend and I broke up recently and I've been in a slump, I've been trying to improve myself but I've had no idea how or where to start but today a reel of one of your UA-cam videos literally came across my feed and then more and more came as well, then I found your podcast AGAIN. It's safe to say I think God guided me to you. I'm so glad
I'm 18 and I recently discovered this channel, maybe a week ago. I have been going through a lot of problems recently (mostly family issues) and I broke up with my first love two months ago. Everything is still a mess, and I am desperately trying to take control of it all. Among all this chaos, finding your videos is the one good thing the algorithm did to me. Now, it's a challenge I've given myself to get me out of this misery ASAP rather than wait for some 'guy' or other 'adult' to come and save me 😅
@DhairyaShah-k5m I am not sure, I am not much of a social media person. I currently have a few exams coming up too so I have deactivated my instagram account as well. And talking to people online isn't an easy task for me either. Sorry! I hope you understand. 😭
Last year i was in the worst state of my life, and from april this year, i levelled up thanks to u Tam. I've gained so much confidence, i have many friends, im popular, im happy and my skin is in good condition. I want to level up even more next year, and i cant wait to start another crucial year in my life with you. (I'll be ending schl next yr so idk wht will be ahead of me) Love you tamm
3 stop waiting until you feel like it, because speed is everything 4 u need to create the right belief system 5 shift your mindset from "i have to do" to "to get to"
You dont Know how bad I cried at the end part . The amount of friendships I found out were backstabbing this year was heart breaking and pulled me down so bad for the first time in 3 yrs of Btech I got an F grade in a course, I was sick , I was hard on myself , I was sad and broken . I was drifting away from all the progress I madelast 4 months I was so lost and just could'nt gather back who I was.Slowly I worked out of it, comforted myself through journalling and stayin close with the kins men in my life. Tam you have do so much I hope you know of all the advice I get out there Your the best ! Girlie you are so good it's inspiring. Thanks Tam once again for helping me catch myself before I fell.💕💕💕💕
Its fascinating that hardly anyone has heard of the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential. I believe it was banned but I recently saw that it has been returned
I had tears in my eyes when you said - " Inconsistency happens when we lose gratitude for what we do." Thank you so much for saying that, i recently have been a bit disconnected from my art but after hearing that I'm excited to wake up tmrw and paint! sending you so much love 💜
"Your videos always seems to come at just the perfect time-I swear it’s like you know exactly what I need to hear! Thank you for being such a positive force in my life."❤️
My mom wrote her own grocery list template back in the 00's, and it was organized by area of the store. She was a pretty kickass SAHM, increasing efficiency everywhere. She made self care to-do lists for my brother and I as children as well, so we could see the whole list of stuff we were supposed to do ourselves each day.
Days like these i am Just on my bed watching your videos on loop, i can easily be sad about something bad that happened but at this point when i am just tired of being sad you are the ultimate switch to that feeling who gives me strength and makes me believe in myself
I know this is out of topic but .... I did it .. I finished reading buying yourself the damn flowers and I feel so happy ❤❤I feel so much confident and so neeww.... It's a journey but I'm glad I did it.... Thanks so much Tam ❤
I’ve been trying to be there for me this whole year. I started to work out mid year lost the weight and felt better but stopped. Now I’m back to square one, 13:30 that part had me GAGGED. It hit me and I am taking this in as a huge sign to start AGAIN
I really needed this right now. I am trying to level up before 2025 since I have been overthinking things instead of taking action. Therefore, I will begin to take action right now because I don't want to waste the rest of my mid 20s without achieving anything. Best of luck to everyone on this journey to recovery.
Honestly thank you for making me realise that it's my job to take that step forward and if I keep staying lazy and reacting based on my mood I'm not going anywhere and that Im in charge of how my brain works and what thoughts passes through it and that its okay to feel down sometimes
I literally thought about watching tam’s last year guide for prepping for the new year yesterday, and she came through with an updated version today😮💨
Bought myself flowers today for the first time ever !>> I broke up month ago after a 1,5 year relationship, and suddenly found myself not even loving, but hating myself for no reason... and I still feel kinda awkward being myself (emotional, weak at some point, overthinking etc). So, now I'm on my self love journey ..) I was shocked after watching your video about narcissists, cause now it looks like he was a CO narcissist (100% bingo😢) I'm a big fan of yours, you help me so much, thank you for your advice and this constant feeling, that I'm not alone on this way..)
Oh my god... This gurll is amazing... I mean I saw her on pinterest and instantly i was like, who is this girl? The kind of energy she possess and her aura is very powerful and indeed she gave me some real good advices today. Thank you so much for this and yes! You got a new subscriber.
Found your vid since my first break up, and here I am building myself up to the best version of myself. Thank you Tam, you're such an inspiring person!
If possible make video on 1.Growth journey in all areas n how to go ahead with each experiences 2.Types of mindsets..eg (i get to , what about me )u talked about in ur videos...try giving more so to expand our mindsets
the best thing about tam is she legit highlight the basic things and how we can achieve the best vision from that , every single of your video brings different knowledge and the thing a person really needs. I was worried that oh i have to do alot of stuff to level up but after watching this video i feel like its easy and i can do it, so good THANKYOU !!!❤❤❤👍👍👍
the thing i loved the most was - how to fill that gap between my desired self and my current self , and fs i am going to do a 50 day hard challenge to bridge that gap 😄 thanks tam 💝🎀
I’m starting my career as a musician by releasing my next song in less than a month which means that I have a ton of promotional content to film every day and I won’t lie sometimes I get overwhelmed by it, but this video has reminded me how lucky I am to get to do this as a career. Since I was a little girl I would go around and tell people I’m a singer and now I actually get to make that a reality :)
You know what I used to struggle in my academics social life and even in my own sports I discovered your channel in I think October 2024 and let me tell you what now I am the top of our school the captain of my school soccer team and i played the national level soccer and now i also got many new friends especially REAL ONES. Tysm for being in my life or else i would have been so much more depressed I am so grateful. LOVE YOU
In summary: To transform yourself, start by defining the specific version of yourself you aspire to be, perhaps through shadow work or crafting an alter ego. Organisation is crucial: keep track of events, tasks, goals, routines, and social plans in a structured way that aligns with your ideal self, including meal plans and habits. Stop waiting for motivation; tackle tasks even when you don’t feel like it and embrace challenges. Develop a positive belief system, letting negative thoughts pass without dwelling on them. Finally, reframe your mindset from "I have to" to "I get to," focusing on the benefits and growth from each task to cultivate a proactive, positive approach. Let's go
I get to influence other people in a positive way. I get to share the lessons that i wish i knew in earlier age. I get to fulfill my creative hobbies and pursuits and passions. I get to get one step closer to my goals by putting action to the work today, I am so excited. I get to develop my discipline and my consistency and my mindset in showing up today. What a privilege ❤
Girlie I finally saw your channel today, properly, I mean. Look, hear me out first, I'm not saying anything negative. When I first saw your videos, it was long ago, and trust me I couldn't go through even 3 mins of it. That was because I was vibrationally so low, that your energy was too much for me to tolerate. But slowly, I tried to get better and now I've really reduced pessimistic thought flow, and replaced it with words of affirmation. You're a queen. Today, I could finally see a whole video of yours and I felt prepared for what was to come. All the jittery feeling is just a reminder of how far I have come. I'm a little late but I'm ready to upskill, because I'll still be ahead of everyone who's slowing down. This is a piece of affirmation for me, I'm my best self, and where I'm not, I will do the right things to get there. Love you Tam❤
16:13 I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. I can do better than yesterday but i always have this 'not enough yet' mindset. I always think like "im not a disciplined, consistent and a productive person. I always procrastinate" and that has become my self perception. Ive been struggling to change it lately. I have self-trust issues. I get trapped into the guilt cycle of wasting time and then wasting even more time to suppress the guilt coz i have this fear of failure and perfectionism that holds me back. I always end up associating guilt with sleeping more than usual thinking my classmates mustve woken up early and started studying way before while i was dozing. Its the advice online that makes me shame myself sm. Ive been having sleepless nights lately coz of that. I literally had to put on this part on repeat and hear it coz i couldn't sleep due to too much shame and guilt at literally 4.30am. Thanks Tam for saying exactly what i needed to hear since days. 🙏 I love you sm💗 youre literally my alter ego. Im finally getting into the mindset n getting locked in🙏
By watching your video and making many mistakes i realized I'm so proud of my journey especially since i realized the things that were holding me back (me) and i thank you for posting your videos that spoke to the hearts of many young girls like me ! 😊
Thankyou for sharing such knowledge! Much in need right now.. i have the self confidence in me gradually i will create my routine and system that get me closer to my goals☺️
Hm favorite part of the video would be about us not fixating on negative thoughts and shifting energy, mindset & the way we speak to ourselves. Its a heck of a thing to tackle and actually succeed. Thanks for your energy, its highly refreshing 💗
I love tam. She genuinely got me out of a rut So many times...like seriously. Currently in one and my gosh she's amazing. Now I want to study. I love tam .! ❤️ Shes the big sister who I look up to .!
Omgggg TAMMMMM what is thissssss? I swear really all your videos these days are getting sooo sooo much better and the way you share all your steps in a realistic way I truly just love it. This video was sooo much needed right now. I started my self development cuz of you seriously last december made a lot of progress and right now totally aligned with my higher self and taking steps and this was soo needed to move to the next step thank you sooo soo sooo much. We all really appreciate your time and efforts for all the videos you make and bring the bestest advice all new and helpful everytime. God bless you 🥰
I loved all your tips, but my favorite was your examples and information about mindset shifts. I'm so grateful you made this Tam, it helps me so much 💓💓💓💓💓
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3 things that worked for me:
1. I blocked out all distractions.
2. I read books on Femilys.
3. I stayed consistent no matter what.
5:15
The video starts.
Thanks ❤
Thank you 😂
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Merci
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Gurl I'm 12 , and I am all healed from my trauma already and I have amazing self confidence and at the same time very humble because of you, I also have a specific routine and I'm getting my dream body, ,ast year I was so fat but now I'm almost in my dream body because of my consistency and love for my body, I'm so mentally stable because of u gurl, I love you
Congrats gurl!!!❤❤
@@seyedrabiya935 hey while I'm so so happy for you and proud, but as someone who also started this journey at a young age just make sure you do not burn out or lose the thrill
Congratulations 🎉
I'm proud of you girlll
I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU GURL KEEP IT UP !!!
MOST PRODUCTIVE WINTER ARC
Step 1: Define who you want to be
-you need to be specific version of yourself that you want to be
-shadow work or creating a alter ego
Step 2: Organization is everything
-Write down every specific events in Calendar
-Write To Do list (Habit and Structured)
-List all of your goals (Be specific)
-Try to experiment with routines
-List social events
-Goal for your ideal self (meal plan, ingredients and many more)
Step 3: Stop waiting until you feel like it
-Doing the task even when you don't feel like it
-You do not need to meet the timeframe. But you still need to start
-You need to seek challenges
Step 4: You need to create the right belief system
-Stop thinking negative things, because it will be manifested in your mind
-Don't focus on negative things
-Let the negative thought pass by
Step 5: Shift your mindset to "i have to" to "i get to"
-do the thing you say you gonna do when you say you're going to do it
-stop thinking negative things first thing in the morning, try to shift the mindset as much as possible
-"I get to" instead of thinking you have to do something, think the advantage that you will get doing the thing.
Thank you.💛
5:15 step 1
8:20 step 2
15:16 step 3
19:36 step 5
THANK YOU SOO MUCH-- I LOVE U MANN
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Thank you so muchh❤❤❤
Step Number 3 reminds me of the saying: "Follow the Plan, Not Your Mood" because if you wait to be in the mood to achieve your goals, you will end up being inconsistent and maybe not even achieving the goals. This in turn will result in a cycle of having the same goal every year and wondering why you're struggling to achieve it
I don't why but I feel like We both same mind set
Girl I just wanted to say that 2024 WAS MY YEARRRR and I’m so glad I discovered ur channel last December!!! U really helped me and I’m do grateful! Lots of love ❤
I'm so glad!
OMG whattt sameee girlyyy😭
i literally discovered her last November/December and it has changed my entire life i became such a new person this year and became so much better!!
@@fairuzadriti what have yall done, help your girl out 😭😭
Glad to hear it! I hope 2025 is just as good for you :)
Damn! A new subscriber! You are the therapist I never knew I required! Thank you for these life saving amazing tips! And btw you are gorgeous affffffff! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤! Thank you soooo muchhhh
DO YOU GUYS NOTICE HOW HER STYLE IS EVOLVING?? MORE COLOR, SHAPE, AUTHENTICITY LIKE THIS IS BY FAR MY FAVORITEEEE
16:12 is My Reminder to not Think im Lazy and not enough so Like to Remind me when u see it guyss plss
Sure
Reminder! :)
Reminder
im a simple girl, i see tam’s new video i click. thank you so much girlie, this is what i needed 🤍
Jesus christ the lowercase i's in your comment are icking me outtt
@daniklore same girl same!!
@stvrfire505 , I extremely agree with you
@stvrfire505 Oops I didn’t know it’s cuz they popped up at the same time but we love Tam thanks for letting me now
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
She has perfect timing.💯 I was literally telling someone ' having a plan and goals for 2025 is important ' then boom this notification came through
book Unveiling Your Hidden Pontential can change your life. Habit must be not outcome based but rather identity based. Stay blessed.
SHES BACK!!! I STARETED THE WINTER ARC IN THE BEGINNING OF OCTOBER AND IT GOT INTERRUPTED DUE TO FESTIVALS AND I RESTARTED IT, LIKE, LITERALLY, YESTERDAY AND THE QUEEN POSTED ABOUT IT !!!!
Ikr❤
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i had a really toxic and dominate situationship, heartbreaks, attachment issues and what not made me feel attracted to boys but well the moment i started watching this lady she radiated all her energy into me and building up my mindset at a level that no guy could win me easily. LOVE YA! 💗
You should read Tam’s book
5:19 -> define who you want to be
8:19 -> organisation is the key
13:05 -> stop waiting untill you feel like it, speed is everything
16:13 -> you need to create the right belief system
19:35 -> shift your mindset from "i have to do" to "i get to do"
have a nice time watching🩷
Tyyy lysmm bbg
@Tasmia-v1n xoxo💋
If you’re into financial growth, The Elite Society's Money Manifestation is honestly a good read
"I GET TO" is about to change the game. Thank you as always Tam. 🥰
I just realized how I needed this video right now 😭😭 I was actually viewing my best version but yeah everyday were looking the same so I realized that I was trapped in my daily routine with all the bad habits I'm aware of but never try to change them😔
THANK YOU TAM KAUR😭❤️❤️
QUESTIONSSS
-WHY R U DOING THIS
-WHO WILL BENIFIT IT
-WHAT HABITS DO U WANNA CUT OFF
-WHAT HABITS DO U WANT
-WHAT WILL U BE IN THE END OF THE YEAR
-WHAT WILL UR DIET BE]
-HOW WILL PEOPLE SEE YOU
-HOW WILL UR GRADES BE
-WHAT R U GONNA GIVE UP TO HELP UR SELF OR TO MAKE THIS EAISEAR
Today is my birthday. I was expecting some of my special friends to wish me. Well. They didn’t. It was really hurtfull. But It'll be great when i treat myself tomorrow first thing in the morning. And this video is a gift for me. For me a sign. To get ahed before 2025. Be the best version of me
Thank you tam. I love you ❤
You go treat yourself and Happy Birthday 😊🎉🎉
@KIYARIST thank you dear🥰🫂
OMG same!!!
@@Maricis2007 happy birthday 🥰🥰🫂
@ thank you ☺️ happy birthday to you ❤️
13:24 YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOWWWW MUCHHH I NEEDED THISSSSSS 😭😭😭😭😭😭🎈
im 15 start of the year I was very much ashamed on my appearance, and I would let other people's opinions get ahead of me and i had a friend group that didnt align to me and i was always chasing their validation as well as male until i met this girl 2 days before my gcse and she literally has radiating positive energy and she literally changed my view of the world from a negative to a positive perspective and i still remember it to this day i ran 400m for sports day for the very first time and i wanted to step out of my comfort zone even though i came last i had a massive smile on my face because i did it when i wanted to give up and im currently on my healing journey and wow its really beautiful just knowing so much about myself and my traits and what makes me. me. and now in the quarter of 2024 im going to do an assembly in front of my whole entire school about how they can stop chasing validation and how they can overcome these victim mindsets and tam kaur if you are reading this thank you so much for just existing because you are inspiring so many young people and others and i just wanted to say thank you and i hope we all make 2024 our bitch
MOTHER OF THIS GENERATION.
WAKE UPP!!! QUEEN POSTED!!!!!🗣️
My favorite part of the day not kidding you guys 🤭🤭
True
Next year I am reaching my childhood dream goal of going to the biggest industry trade show of my industry and have an internship interview sometime next year. I am so excited for 2025.
Funnily enough I was looking for NYC blogs to plan my trade show trip and found her channel. God works in mysterious ways.
the one point that genuinely changed my whole life this year THE MOST was the 4th one (16:16) cause she has a video about limiting beliefs
I HIGHLY RECOMMEND YOU WATCH THAT ONE and its mainly about shifting mindsets that im always up for!
“I get to” instead of “I have to” is so powerful. Incredible.
Girl, I found your podcast a couple of months ago, I listened to an episode and I loved it but I didn't go back to it again. My boyfriend and I broke up recently and I've been in a slump, I've been trying to improve myself but I've had no idea how or where to start but today a reel of one of your UA-cam videos literally came across my feed and then more and more came as well, then I found your podcast AGAIN. It's safe to say I think God guided me to you. I'm so glad
all of your videos click with the things I've been reading in the book 'Magnetic Aura', warm recommendation to everyone
I'm 18 and I recently discovered this channel, maybe a week ago. I have been going through a lot of problems recently (mostly family issues) and I broke up with my first love two months ago. Everything is still a mess, and I am desperately trying to take control of it all. Among all this chaos, finding your videos is the one good thing the algorithm did to me. Now, it's a challenge I've given myself to get me out of this misery ASAP rather than wait for some 'guy' or other 'adult' to come and save me 😅
Hey wanna connect ? Because I am going through the same
@DhairyaShah-k5m I am not sure, I am not much of a social media person. I currently have a few exams coming up too so I have deactivated my instagram account as well. And talking to people online isn't an easy task for me either. Sorry! I hope you understand. 😭
2:22 girl I finished the book 2days ago watching you since last 2 year currently 18 the oldest sister but you're my digital sister ❤
Last year i was in the worst state of my life, and from april this year, i levelled up thanks to u Tam. I've gained so much confidence, i have many friends, im popular, im happy and my skin is in good condition. I want to level up even more next year, and i cant wait to start another crucial year in my life with you. (I'll be ending schl next yr so idk wht will be ahead of me) Love you tamm
That “I get to” mindset tip is EVERYTHING!!!!!
3 stop waiting until you feel like it, because speed is everything
4 u need to create the right belief system
5 shift your mindset from "i have to do" to "to get to"
Ask q/n, put deadlines, do to list, clear vision of ideal self, be consistent, body clock, schedule, speed is everything,
I love the part where you said that you can choose which challenge you wanna do. That REALLY changed my mind. Thank you!
You dont Know how bad I cried at the end part . The amount of friendships I found out were backstabbing this year was heart breaking and pulled me down so bad for the first time in 3 yrs of Btech I got an F grade in a course, I was sick , I was hard on myself , I was sad and broken . I was drifting away from all the progress I madelast 4 months I was so lost and just could'nt gather back who I was.Slowly I worked out of it, comforted myself through journalling and stayin close with the kins men in my life. Tam you have do so much I hope you know of all the advice I get out there Your the best ! Girlie you are so good it's inspiring. Thanks Tam once again for helping me catch myself before I fell.💕💕💕💕
Wow! The makeup and nails is absolutely flawless. You look extra charming. You have beautiful hair
Its fascinating that hardly anyone has heard of the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential. I believe it was banned but I recently saw that it has been returned
This is basically spam dont trust this person @@bella3_4
Bot
Not me waiting for Tam's advice for these upcoming months after seeing soo many ppl post on this topic and knowing that I follow only Tam's advice😅🖤
I had tears in my eyes when you said - " Inconsistency happens when we lose gratitude for what we do." Thank you so much for saying that, i recently have been a bit disconnected from my art but after hearing that I'm excited to wake up tmrw and paint! sending you so much love 💜
Funny thing is I already have one of my vision board goals completed and that too a WHOLE MONTH before 2025! The universe is spoiling meee😭
WAKE UP, OUR QUEEN POSTED!!!
its hard to put into words, but the book Feminine Ancient Blessings completely changed my life and it's not new age bs
Omg shut up
is that from Lentlish? I think I’ve read that one…
This is a scam, girlies. Don’t fall for it ❤️
@@coconutmilkhoney I don’t think so, it helped me a lot, btw there are free books you dont have to pay for
@@emilie33333 sometimes, they are a scam 🎀 But if it didn’t scammed , it’s so cool ! Just be careful 🎀
"Your videos always seems to come at just the perfect time-I swear it’s like you know exactly what I need to hear! Thank you for being such a positive force in my life."❤️
My mom wrote her own grocery list template back in the 00's, and it was organized by area of the store. She was a pretty kickass SAHM, increasing efficiency everywhere. She made self care to-do lists for my brother and I as children as well, so we could see the whole list of stuff we were supposed to do ourselves each day.
That cashback was a lifesaver last week. It’s comforting to know you get something back after a rough day
Days like these i am
Just on my bed watching your videos on loop, i can easily be sad about something bad that happened but at this point when i am just tired of being sad you are the ultimate switch to that feeling who gives me strength and makes me believe in myself
I know this is out of topic but .... I did it .. I finished reading buying yourself the damn flowers and I feel so happy ❤❤I feel so much confident and so neeww.... It's a journey but I'm glad I did it.... Thanks so much Tam ❤
I’ve been trying to be there for me this whole year. I started to work out mid year lost the weight and felt better but stopped. Now I’m back to square one, 13:30 that part had me GAGGED. It hit me and I am taking this in as a huge sign to start AGAIN
I really needed this right now. I am trying to level up before 2025 since I have been overthinking things instead of taking action. Therefore, I will begin to take action right now because I don't want to waste the rest of my mid 20s without achieving anything. Best of luck to everyone on this journey to recovery.
Tam Kaur is the IT girl💕
No one can change my mind!
Honestly thank you for making me realise that it's my job to take that step forward and if I keep staying lazy and reacting based on my mood I'm not going anywhere and that Im in charge of how my brain works and what thoughts passes through it and that its okay to feel down sometimes
13:05 I agree. Queen is speaking facts, I remind myself the same thing everyday
I literally thought about watching tam’s last year guide for prepping for the new year yesterday, and she came through with an updated version today😮💨
I will definitely be implementing the "I get to" mindset. Thanks, Tam
Bought myself flowers today for the first time ever !>>
I broke up month ago after a 1,5 year relationship, and suddenly found myself not even loving, but hating myself for no reason... and I still feel kinda awkward being myself (emotional, weak at some point, overthinking etc). So, now I'm on my self love journey ..)
I was shocked after watching your video about narcissists, cause now it looks like he was a CO narcissist (100% bingo😢)
I'm a big fan of yours, you help me so much, thank you for your advice and this constant feeling, that I'm not alone on this way..)
Read Tam’s book
Yes, those reload bonuses can be a lifesaver, especially when you hit a rough patch. Helps to keep playing without breaking the bank
Let's get it !! Ending 2024 as my dream self ❤
Oh my god... This gurll is amazing... I mean I saw her on pinterest and instantly i was like, who is this girl? The kind of energy she possess and her aura is very powerful and indeed she gave me some real good advices today. Thank you so much for this and yes! You got a new subscriber.
You have such an upbeat, energetic way of speaking girl, you were definitely meant to be a public speaker!
Found your vid since my first break up, and here I am building myself up to the best version of myself. Thank you Tam, you're such an inspiring person!
I love how she wants to really interact with her fans
If possible make video on
1.Growth journey in all areas n how to go ahead with each experiences
2.Types of mindsets..eg (i get to , what about me )u talked about in ur videos...try giving more so to expand our mindsets
Thank you girl I was dealing with the same thing yesterday I couldn’t stop with the limiting beliefs 😭😭💞💞💞💗
This girl always post the video when I need it, is she pyschic or what thank you Tam 🤗
I feel your energy is great, like, great. No words. Just would love to be friends, I feel you’re such a strong and brave woman, someone to look up to.
SHE ALWAYS KNOWS WHEN TO POST ❤
the best thing about tam is she legit highlight the basic things and how we can achieve the best vision from that , every single of your video brings different knowledge and the thing a person really needs. I was worried that oh i have to do alot of stuff to level up but after watching this video i feel like its easy and i can do it, so good THANKYOU !!!❤❤❤👍👍👍
the thing i loved the most was - how to fill that gap between my desired self and my current self , and fs i am going to do a 50 day hard challenge to bridge that gap 😄
thanks tam 💝🎀
I’m starting my career as a musician by releasing my next song in less than a month which means that I have a ton of promotional content to film every day and I won’t lie sometimes I get overwhelmed by it, but this video has reminded me how lucky I am to get to do this as a career. Since I was a little girl I would go around and tell people I’m a singer and now I actually get to make that a reality :)
Finally mother is herereeeeeee❤
Tam youre such an angel🎀
You dont realize the HUGE impact u have on soooo many ppl's lives. Forever grateful to have found u 💓
God bless you❤️🩹
You know what I used to struggle in my academics social life and even in my own sports I discovered your channel in I think October 2024 and let me tell you what now I am the top of our school the captain of my school soccer team and i played the national level soccer and now i also got many new friends especially REAL ONES. Tysm for being in my life or else i would have been so much more depressed I am so grateful. LOVE YOU
In summary: To transform yourself, start by defining the specific version of yourself you aspire to be, perhaps through shadow work or crafting an alter ego. Organisation is crucial: keep track of events, tasks, goals, routines, and social plans in a structured way that aligns with your ideal self, including meal plans and habits. Stop waiting for motivation; tackle tasks even when you don’t feel like it and embrace challenges. Develop a positive belief system, letting negative thoughts pass without dwelling on them. Finally, reframe your mindset from "I have to" to "I get to," focusing on the benefits and growth from each task to cultivate a proactive, positive approach. Let's go
I love how, in your old videos, you gave us homework that motivated me more, so I request you to please bring back that homework thing for us.
Absolutely, the cashback saved me last week. It’s a good feeling to get something back after a loss
I get to influence other people in a positive way. I get to share the lessons that i wish i knew in earlier age. I get to fulfill my creative hobbies and pursuits and passions. I get to get one step closer to my goals by putting action to the work today, I am so excited. I get to develop my discipline and my consistency and my mindset in showing up today. What a privilege ❤
2024 and 2025 are my years of complete new me. I'm so glad I found you, Tam.. through this era!!!! ❤
ok so i had my breakup and since then life's been so so so idek what to say but god i love her im so so grateful for you tam thank you
Girlie I finally saw your channel today, properly, I mean. Look, hear me out first, I'm not saying anything negative. When I first saw your videos, it was long ago, and trust me I couldn't go through even 3 mins of it. That was because I was vibrationally so low, that your energy was too much for me to tolerate. But slowly, I tried to get better and now I've really reduced pessimistic thought flow, and replaced it with words of affirmation. You're a queen. Today, I could finally see a whole video of yours and I felt prepared for what was to come. All the jittery feeling is just a reminder of how far I have come. I'm a little late but I'm ready to upskill, because I'll still be ahead of everyone who's slowing down. This is a piece of affirmation for me, I'm my best self, and where I'm not, I will do the right things to get there. Love you Tam❤
16:13 I REALLY NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. I can do better than yesterday but i always have this 'not enough yet' mindset. I always think like "im not a disciplined, consistent and a productive person. I always procrastinate" and that has become my self perception. Ive been struggling to change it lately. I have self-trust issues. I get trapped into the guilt cycle of wasting time and then wasting even more time to suppress the guilt coz i have this fear of failure and perfectionism that holds me back. I always end up associating guilt with sleeping more than usual thinking my classmates mustve woken up early and started studying way before while i was dozing. Its the advice online that makes me shame myself sm. Ive been having sleepless nights lately coz of that.
I literally had to put on this part on repeat and hear it coz i couldn't sleep due to too much shame and guilt at literally 4.30am.
Thanks Tam for saying exactly what i needed to hear since days. 🙏 I love you sm💗 youre literally my alter ego. Im finally getting into the mindset n getting locked in🙏
By watching your video and making many mistakes i realized I'm so proud of my journey especially since i realized the things that were holding me back (me) and i thank you for posting your videos that spoke to the hearts of many young girls like me ! 😊
I honestly think you are the best self development UA-camr I’ve ever seen, can’t believe you are only 24. What a queen ❤
Thankyou for sharing such knowledge! Much in need right now.. i have the self confidence in me gradually i will create my routine and system that get me closer to my goals☺️
Hm favorite part of the video would be about us not fixating on negative thoughts and shifting energy, mindset & the way we speak to ourselves. Its a heck of a thing to tackle and actually succeed. Thanks for your energy, its highly refreshing 💗
Not just an elder sister for sister but for bros too, thanks tam ❤
please do a video on personal branding and how to manage time with friends, school, family, etc while building it on various platforms!
So random but I love your outro so much, I always dance when your video ends 😂
Love that!
I’m reading your book right now and I’m loving it. ❤
I'm here creating my first vision board seeing ur level up vid. Is just amazing like ❤️
I love tam. She genuinely got me out of a rut So many times...like seriously. Currently in one and my gosh she's amazing. Now I want to study. I love tam .! ❤️ Shes the big sister who I look up to .!
Our queen posted 😊😊guys wake up 😙😙
THE TIMING IS PERFECT ‼️
Omgggg TAMMMMM what is thissssss? I swear really all your videos these days are getting sooo sooo much better and the way you share all your steps in a realistic way I truly just love it. This video was sooo much needed right now.
I started my self development cuz of you seriously last december made a lot of progress and right now totally aligned with my higher self and taking steps and this was soo needed to move to the next step thank you sooo soo sooo much. We all really appreciate your time and efforts for all the videos you make and bring the bestest advice all new and helpful everytime. God bless you 🥰
I loved all your tips, but my favorite was your examples and information about mindset shifts. I'm so grateful you made this Tam, it helps me so much 💓💓💓💓💓
I've seen all your videos ,podcast ... You're my inspiration,and i hope some day i will be like you, thank you ❤
the only creator than understands what we need
I really appreciate and admire you miss kaur