Girls ! We need to talk ! I joined a new school n I have this friends of mine who routinely body shames me about being flat. I am not flat but my school uniform makes me look like that. I feel really hard to break ties with her cuz I worry about her feelings and all the drama it can create in the class. Ik this is way too toxic but plz help me.... I'm really confused and have been depressed about that matter. Help !
Girl I got you. I have a very similar scenario. I had a friend who always took advantage of me and didn't care to hurt my feelings. But I never fought back because I was worried about hurting her feelings, like you. I was the one to apologize to her even though I've realized in hindsight, I have nothing to be sorry for. She commented on my body often, and I've been called flat by 2 other people, which made me believe she was right. This made me very insecure, because I'm also on the flatter side. I opened up to my REAL friends and they told me there's nothing wrong with my body, and I was letting her get to my head, and letting her take advantage of my feelings. The problem was how poor I was handling it. I was letting her say hurtful things to me, which made her feel more in power, and she didn't realize how discomforting it is. It gave me a poor perception of body image. Unfortunately, I don't have the magic formula to make your friend leave you alone. I still struggle with speaking up as I am a people pleaser. But remember the way you handle the comments it a major part. Letting them undermine you and keep digging in, they'll only keep poking at you. I think you should formally open up about this and tell them in a mellow manner that it's been hurting your feelings. If they get defensive, girl you can comeback to me and we can gossip haha. Hope you're doing well ❤❤
@@fionanolastname3771 the last line *if they get defensive, girl u can comeback to me and we can gossip haha* legit made me smile😭😭❤️❤️ Another girl has started speaking shit and i hv decided to stand tf up for myself now no matter what...i hv even prepared a script and memorized it ...filling it with savage lines. I feel like I am loosing friends and sometimes I feel lonely and it's difficult for me to control my tears but now I hv u n we can gossip.❤️❤️ Love u
I'm a pre teen, ty sm
Thank you for the tips! I feel like alot of teenagers these days r wasting time with social media and have became really toxic..
hi lovely, i’m a teen and thank you for this ❤❤❤❤
I remembered watching your videos during the first lockdowns.
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Girls ! We need to talk !
I joined a new school n I have this friends of mine who routinely body shames me about being flat. I am not flat but my school uniform makes me look like that. I feel really hard to break ties with her cuz I worry about her feelings and all the drama it can create in the class. Ik this is way too toxic but plz help me.... I'm really confused and have been depressed about that matter. Help !
Girl I got you.
I have a very similar scenario. I had a friend who always took advantage of me and didn't care to hurt my feelings. But I never fought back because I was worried about hurting her feelings, like you. I was the one to apologize to her even though I've realized in hindsight, I have nothing to be sorry for.
She commented on my body often, and I've been called flat by 2 other people, which made me believe she was right. This made me very insecure, because I'm also on the flatter side. I opened up to my REAL friends and they told me there's nothing wrong with my body, and I was letting her get to my head, and letting her take advantage of my feelings. The problem was how poor I was handling it. I was letting her say hurtful things to me, which made her feel more in power, and she didn't realize how discomforting it is.
It gave me a poor perception of body image.
Unfortunately, I don't have the magic formula to make your friend leave you alone. I still struggle with speaking up as I am a people pleaser. But remember the way you handle the comments it a major part. Letting them undermine you and keep digging in, they'll only keep poking at you. I think you should formally open up about this and tell them in a mellow manner that it's been hurting your feelings. If they get defensive, girl you can comeback to me and we can gossip haha.
Hope you're doing well ❤❤
@@fionanolastname3771 the last line *if they get defensive, girl u can comeback to me and we can gossip haha* legit made me smile😭😭❤️❤️
Another girl has started speaking shit and i hv decided to stand tf up for myself now no matter what...i hv even prepared a script and memorized it ...filling it with savage lines. I feel like I am loosing friends and sometimes I feel lonely and it's difficult for me to control my tears but now I hv u n we can gossip.❤️❤️ Love u
making friends and build a supportive network are easier said than done even being the extrovert i am
great tips ☁️✨️🫶🏻
Great tips ❤