My Coming Out Story In The Middle East
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- Опубліковано 31 лип 2023
- Hey guys, today I'm Finally sharing my coming out story! Thank you for accepting me for who I am, and always supporting me and sending me lots of love. I love, and appreciate you guys so much!!
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F I N D M E H E R E !
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As a Pakistani American, I came out to my parents spring break sophomore year of college. It went horribly..haven’t spoken to them in over 20 years..I can’t believe how homophobic Muslims are..even the ones who are in America like my parents.
I’m so sorry to hear that! I hope you found yourself a chosen family within our community. You deserved to be loved and I hope you never ever forget that. 🩷
Where e u from in Pakistan im also here suffering same issues
Whats your age now?
hey Can you give me your WhatsApp to be in touche with you
Muslims are against everything….
I'm gay still in iran , and truly your story was in a way inspiring, im a highdchooler and i definitely understand what you went through, it's super hard to live here , especially when your friends call gay people disgusting to your face , so thank you for sharing your story cause by doing so , you give little gay Boys like me can feel semi represented, your awesome ❤❤
Merci❤
It's disheartening, but it also builds character in my experience.
I wish you all the best. As you grow up, things will be betrer, trust me.
good luck friend
Best of luck! Stay safe. Understand that you are important.
It gets better! It was hard for most of us but it only makes you stronger for the future! Stay safe
Hey, I cant imagine how stressful it is to live in the middleeast while being gay. I applaud your bravery and thank you for sharing your story.
The apostate West is becoming the Sodom. The nuclear bombings coming on the Sodom?
The same happened to my very close friend here in Malaysia, but he decided to married and now he have 3 kids but he still have sex with man 😅
Ok for your humble knowledge my friend in usa ( the country of freedom ) stabbed in the back for wearing a gay-ish cloths in the subway so it’s not about middle east homophobia is everywhere
As a Turkish, While watching the video, I thanked to Atatürk and secularism more.
Sadly as of late it seems that we may not keep his values alive and well for too long
Not Turkish but I’ve been to Istanbul. Atatürk was so great for Turkey… democracy and making the Haji Sofia a museum/landmark were awesome things he supported.
You seem like a really sweet and well adjusted person, despite your travails… I hope you find the happiness you deserve with the guy of your dreams. Cheers!
We are so jealous of you guys😂🤍
This is the absolute best come out video ive seen. Im a 22 closeted egyptian, and ive been seeing those kind of videos since forever. They were always sad and over dramatic , leaves me depressed and crowled on myself. But this video was full of fun and twists. Ive had similar experiences to yours but i was smart enough to keep everything private till this day lol, only caught very few times. I use double accounts for everything and that works well. Im planning to finish medical school and go to a country that accepts me the way iam, but its gonna take hella lot of time, maybe even in my 30s, and also i gotta prepare mentally for the people and things im gonna lose. If you can talk about your approach to mentally heal from those in future video that would be amazing. Thanks bee and much much love 😘🥰
بتوفيق يا حبيبي ❤
OMG! That's heartbreaking: "UNTIL 30"!!!
What's your parents and friend's opinion about those things?
But believe me, it’s possible and you can be very happy. Just don't wait too long. Planning doesn't always turn out the way you expect, and the simple act of planning means you're limiting your possibilities.
You can go to any country and make an application for political asylum. get informations about the countries and choose the best one for you.
Totally appreciate your story. You are a very special guy.
Thank you so much, I’m pretty sure you’re a very special, and amazing person yourself❤️
@@matraeisi u r brave nd a fighter bt i m bit confused when u said u r gay / bi..wt is tht means?
@@sauravbanerjee1159 I think he considers himself gay cuz he is homosexual. And he is also attracted to women therefore, bisexual.
Sometimes, people sort of have their own definitions and that's totally valid
You can identify however you wish to and be whoever you want to be x
@@sauravbanerjee1159i somehow I cannot edit my comment so here's another reply for you 😂
I just wanted to mention that, it was his answer to give and not mine.
But hopefully that helps you understand something. Thank you♡
@@i_took_a_chonce ok man no prb i believe that human sexuality is fluid in any term....bt i m just thinking tht a person is may be homosexual or bisexual ...bt both at same time, how? anyway let close tht discussion here ..peace
The "Gay Best Friend." YUP. I grew up in the US, so it isn't illegal, but my family is EXTREMELY religious and abusive. It's shocking how little people care. Always being reduced to, "you know, the gay one." Thanks for sharing your story! It's nice to see you laugh through it ❤
Thank you for sharing this story. My husband is from the Middle East and he is still not out to his family. He came to America to go to school as well and that's how we met. Live your best life and find a guy or girl, that treats you with respect and love and holds you number one in their heart.
Wow i really wanna know your story can u please tell?
Matin is so funny. He takes life with humor and giggling through all his experiences. 😂😅
Hey I'm a gay Iranian who was born and raised in America. I appreciate you sharing your perspective because culture and religion can translate to even another country. I can't begin to imagine how it would have been growing up with these difficulties with the added extremism and homophobia of Iranian culture. Lots of love
Do you have Instagram?
as an ex muslim gay man from syria i feel represented.. thank u.. xoxo 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈❤❤
I'm Muslim too but alhamdolillah I didn't find happiness of being gay, so I returned to the one who create me by repentance
@bailtv6923 wow mashallah
@@bailtv6923You are sadly brainwashed by that Islamic ideology to think this way, do you realise how many are desperate to leave Islam and be free because of the harm it does to people….it’s likely who had some same sex attraction but you maybe weren’t fully gay and either way this channel isn’t for you then.
@@bailtv6923 wtf are u doing here then?😂
@@that_boi5551😂😂
My situation wasn't life threatening, but my parents handled it horribly for YEARS. And I love this comment section, you are so sweet and deserve to be protected!
Matin...you're a very brave man. Welcome to Canada, my friend. We need more men like you to make out country even greater. A fan from Canada...
Oh God Matin is soooooooo irresistibly cute!!!!!!!! The smiles, the goofiness, the cuteness, everything about him is so amazing... I melted into water! Love you Matin! From New York!!! Raj
Hey gay person from india here
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You have an amazing story that needs to be shared with the Muslim, fundamentalist Christian, fundamentalist Jewish, and any other religious beliefs that condemn or deny us our God-given humanity. Kudos for making yourself a happy man. Be at peace.
God didn't made any one gay, if your parents are not gay how you can be.
It's environmental and learned behavior
@@infoentertainment5743 So ask yourself this, how did my environment make me straight? Oh right, my parents are, therefore I am too. Oh and by the way where did I “learn”to be heteronormative? Must have been in the classroom, gymnasium, soccer field or all my teachers? Nobody learns to be LGBTQ+, we are born by God’s creative talent. Thank you God, I love me!
@@gregmcfarland9303 ok, so tell me is dick created for anus? From where stool comes out.
Without intercourse what's relationship remains? Now don't say love is without intercourse, without intercourse there is no couple.
So nature also nullifies same sex relationship altogether, because children can't ever be produced
@@gregmcfarland9303 gay ppl can't have children naturally never ever without any external methods.
Dick going in anus only for pleasure nothing else and that's y god sent wrath on soddom and gomorah for this perversion.
Many ppl who have these feelings have repented and came to straight path.
@@infoentertainment5743 based on your comments, you sure think about gay sex a lot...
Hey I have a very similar experience as I also left my country (Saudi Arabia) and claimed asylum in the UK (finally got it after two years) during my asylum process I also came out to my family and put them in the same situation (you either accept me or I’m cutting ties) I understand how difficult it’s and you are very brave and I’m very proud that you’re finally able to be your authentic self and building your future while taking care of your mental health. Thank you for making this video and I hope it inspires others to do the same while also being safe. Best of luck to you and I wish you all the best ❤
i am saudi as well and i am going to do what you did
You are so adorable! I think middle eastern men are so handsome. Coming out is scary enough without worrying about being killed for it. Good for you and the best of luck to you in your freedom!
Saddam Hussein was from the Middle East. 😳
Handsome people exist around the world.
You said something that I paused to write down: "Nothing feels better than to express yourself freely and to be who you really are." Such beautiful words and phrasing. I came out 45 years ago and have never looked back. I was so so so so SO fortunate to have supportive parents who didn't bat an eye (and they were not religious either). I immediately moved from Atlanta Georgia to San Francisco where it was much easier to be gay when I was 22. 15 years later and two college degrees I moved to Hawaii, got married to a great guy scientist at age 55 - so it gets incredibly better, Matin! My very best to you on your Journey! Aloha!
You should read the bible.
Congratulations you are now Canadian, simply because you said "That being said". Heheheee. Really, don't stop encouraging others. You will help some persons that think they are the only one.
Being a sodomite is the mortal sin. The Christ can change.
If I use that phrase, may I please escape the US and move north?
Baby, can’t deny your cuteness of every giggle at the end of every sentence! 😍 Stay strong!
This popped up to me when i was really depressed thank u so much❤
Glad I was able to help you feel better❤️ wish everything gets better for you🫶🏻
@@matraeisiMatin literally cures depression ❤
So brave of you for coming out! you definitely inspire lots of other Persian queers to find them selves love you for that❤
Thanks bestie, I really wish things get better for those of them that are still in there🥲 thanks for always supporting me love u❤️🫶🏻
Heyy I’m not sure if you’re gonna see this but as a Pakistani guy who comes from a conservative Islamic background I related to this so much it was so heartwarming and made me feel like I’m not alone ❤ thank you for that. Stay blessed Matin edit: thank you sm for the beautiful replies I truly feel loved in this safe space
you know that being muslim and gay is haram rightt...
Sending you love and strength
You will never be alone! We will always be a community, even if some evil people try to tear us apart and scare us, we are beautiful no matter what they say. Love from Tel Aviv 🩷
You are NOT alone. I pray the day comes soon when you can be in community with other gay men, where you can just be you! ❤️
@@tommccomb4704 🙏
I am happy for you. Wish I could say the same for my friend who is also a Muslim here in the Philippines. When we were younger, he is only able to express who he really is when he was around us and when we were at another friend's house. It's where he was comfortable, no other people, just us his friends who knew about him. He was forced into marriage and had to stop seeing us. We all moved on with our lives as adults. He has 3 kids now but we know he isn't 100% happy. Since then, we can only get updates on social media. I miss him, I remember when he would transform himself into a diva using blankets and sing like a true diva. You are so right about how religions can brainwash people.
You're such a good storyteller! Your little reactions are so adorable. Got me cracking up over here 😂
Thank you Matin, for your courageous story. I am much older than you are and being American, although we had to stay 'hidden' when I was young, still the culture in USA is nothing like the Middle East. My husband is Canadian and you are so fortunate to have relocated there. We love the Canadians; if only other countries could be as affirming as they are. Loved your testimony!
That is an interesting and sad story. I spent time in the Middle East, and I know the dangers of being gay. You seem to be a lovely man in every way. I'm glad you've made it to Canada.
Congratulations on living in Canada. As someone who lives in the United States and is still in the closet, I hope watching your video gives me the courage to come out. Thanks for such an inspiring video.
Thank you so much for sharing your story, Matin. You come across as such a sweet soul and I hope the future remains bright for you.
Thank you so muchh, I wish you the same! Thanks for taking time to leave such a nice comment for me and giving me support🫶🏻❤️
Left islam and never have felt better in my life. I started to love myself again and threw away the rubbish islam installed upon me ❤❤❤
And liberal countries are letting Islam spread. :(
Darling Islam isn't the issue ur family was know the difference !
Do you hate Israelies ?
@@iMuaazislam is the reason
True islam isnt homophobic
Hugs! From Philippines 🇵🇭
Stay strong. 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
I think it is amazing how you still find humor in your story. I was scared for you just listening to all that you went through, but loved how you joked about it as well. Even in the darkest times, a positive attitude is key and humor can be our saviour.
I happen to have a friend from Iran, as taboo as gay sex is, it is happening in Iran all the time, he was very pretty, and probably the reason he was sexually abused at age 12 by his uncle and his teacher and when he tried to speak to his mum about it , she just slapped him, and told him not to lie and never ever speak of it again ... this abuse continued for years, at age 18 He left the country and now live in UK... and sadly he has no contact with his family anymore! He told me this happens all the time under the nose of many parents and it is very common and expected in a sexually repressed country as Iran!
It also happens a lot in the us so i kinda disagree with you.
@@cydelamacorra6677 I was not talking about USA or the rest of the world to start with, so you had nothing to disagree with me, your disagreement is with yourself in your head!!!! But if you already want to read between lines, then I will say this:
It is not about that it is not happening anywhere else, it is about how it is addressed ... unlike in the USA or the rest of the world, Islamic countries pretend it does happen or even does not exist!!!! in the USA an American woman would literally murder her partner or anyone who sexually abused her child, not ignore a such complain from her child out of some personal religious shame and disbelief! Once a workmate who was Indian told me that there is no such thing as a gay man in India and that only people in the West are as perverted! It is an attitude most Islamic people have!
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god, glad to hear he’s in the uk now
@@cydelamacorra6677 what's there to disagree with.
It's a fact that sexually repressed countries have more sexual abuse
I’m so sorry you had to go through all that 😢 I’m glad you are now here in Canada. 🇨🇦 🤗
Yes, hes really sweet! 🐰
Btw, your “SHY” smile is really cute and will melt someone’s heart :) really !!
So proud of you, It is hard enough to be your full self, it is far more difficult when how you are and what you feel is forbidden. You are a beautiful soul
Wow Im also living in iran right now but if your originaly from iran you speaking is really amazing ...sharing your personal story to the world is a bold move and your very brave man and cute at same time!
Go ahead bro we are Proud of you 🙌🏻
Thanks for your support, I really appreciate you❤️🥹
Us gays living and born in the West just don’t understand or realise just how easy we have it. It irks me all the time just how we take it for granted and your story is just one of millions. It must take huge courage to come out in a country like yours and I’m so glad you’re here at the other side and clearly happy, well done!! ❤
Sounds about white cis gay
@@shadetreader sounds like you play identity politics, which is funny since you're hating on white people and defending Islam in the comments. Don't forget that it's "white" countries that are the safe ones for gay people.
Amazing story! I'm so happy you were able to move to Canada and pursue your life without fear of violence! Congratulations! (You have an endearing UA-cam personality!)
You are a beautiful human being. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story!
Thank you so much for the message at the end. As someone living the a similar situation you got out of and actively working on leaving, I really needed to hear that.
Appreciate you and your channel and thank you so much for sharing and being a bright light.
Love you too Matin! ❤
Awesome for you to share this story. Even after six decades you brought some clarity to my own story.
You are a very smart and caring young man. What you are doing is helping others around the world to know they are not alone, and your advice will save lives. Thank you for being honest and sharing your story. By the way, I had to make the decision to cut some of my family members and friends out of my life when I came out, too. It seems harsh, and is by no means an easy decision, but it is ultimately the right decision. No person, even your father, should be allowed to cause you shame and misery. Be proud of who you are to everyone. I'll be proud of you, too.
I love that you were able to tell this story with a sense of humor. We need to keep it in mind that hating someone because of their sexuality, ethnicity, gender expression, etc. is a joke, and we should be able to laugh at it even though it's also simultaneously endangering us. To quote Seal " you're never gonna survive unless you get a little crazy" and you did gurl...you did. 🙏 🤲
Total respect to you, Matin. You’re an inspiration.
I am happy to hear young generation coming out being strong. Asia and Africa aren't easy societies because of religion. Keep up the spirit because God doesn't discriminate human beings do.
You sound like a really positive hearted person despite hardships or dangerous situations... wish you a wonderful and fulfilling life.
Matin, Thank You for sharing your story. Your expression will help so many in the coming out process. So glad you made it to Canada, a great country. Stay strong and well.
Wow, I'm so sorry that you had a challenging coming out experience. But it's so beautiful that you even have a bit of a sense of humor about some of those experiences. It shows that those experiences don't have control over you. I'm so happy that you're able to live openly and truthfully now. :) Best wishes.
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm loving the positive energy in the comment section as well.❤
Absolutely love and respect your content. I think you are truly an ambassador for all young people struggling with the same issues. A very true and candid story - thanks for sharing🙏
Wow! You’re story really touched me. I always have empathy for others plights in life. I had a very normal American upbringing. Being gay was still tough as a kid. But once I got to high school the US was changing and my parents and friends were accepting. I had a friend who came to live in the US from Jordan. He explained the taboos of homosexuality in Muslim countries. I am so glad you found your peace. You seem like a very genuine soul and I hope you continue to help others feel accepted in the world.
Thank you so much. I really appreciate you telling your story. I'm grateful that I never experienced worse traumas in my own coming out, but I still struggle with the internal shame to this day. Part of my journey to self acceptance is gaining strength from others through their stories. Thank you for being so open and willing to share. Your courage and encouragement will save someone's life some day.❤️🧡💛💚💙🩵💜🩷
My heart goes out to you. So many of us have stories similar to yours. You are an inspiration to others. Hugs.
Thanks for sharing your story. Coming out is rough but I didn't take into account it also being illegal for some. That is an extra level. I hope your story helps others find their way.
I so rarely watch coming out videos. Came out in 2003, so I've seen my fair share of them! But I stumbled across yours and gave it a chance. I'm so happy I did! Your sense of humor and gifted storytelling are top notch! Subscribed. 💖💖💖
you had a lot to overcome to get to where you are. I’m always proud of those who are as brave as you.🙌🏻
You're so inspiring! Thank you for sharing your story!
You tell your story so beautifully! With humour and lightness for a life growing up as a young man in Iran not always so easy!
Bravo! And enjoy your life in Canada.
We can't help but love you, too, with your infectious smile and laugh and your positive attitude. Thank you for being a voice for so many in countries that oppress the LGBTQ+ community.
Love your videos. It's nice that you feel safe and independent on your own now. Those are great advices. It's really hard to come out to your family especially if you're still dependent on them. I hope one day I can move abroad like you and find a place that feels safe.
Thank you, I’m really glad you love them🥹yes coming out to family was really hard, the fear makes your knees weak😂 I wish you the best really and hope you can move abroad in the near future, you literally deserve it🫶🏻 stay strong ❤️
I’m glad you’re finally in a different, safer and more respectful environment. You deserve to be happy and free. You’re so cute and a real jewel! 😉
Much love and support to you. Thanks so much for being brave enough to tell your story
Oh my gosh, your journey to express yourself is an inspiring one. I also can relate to you in some sense regarding family, I grew up in a islamic household and my parents thinks of gay people like we are some brainwashed community that is unethical, everytime they preach it I'm just like🧍🏻♀. Thankfully I go to a more international/english speaking school so people are more open minded to this. Videos like this would always make me feel like I'm not alone, there are millions out there like us that has an unfair disadvantage in life just because we're different than the majority :( . I would always try to be grateful because I know people out there don't have even 1 support system in their life when it comes to this. As of now, there ain't no way I'm coming out to my family as of now, maybe way later in the future when I'm older and more financially stable so that I'd have my own independence . SO glad that I got recommended this video of yours ahhh!! I've been following you since your first video. Can't wait to see your channel grow Matin! ❤😁 Love from Indonesia!! 🫶
Omg mine is exactly like yours as you said, my family also thinks it’s a disease (other than my sis). It’s so good that you had the option to go to an international school literally must’ve saved your life to some extent 💀
Literally idk what we did to deserve to be born into homophobic countries😂
Wish you the best with coming out whenever the time was and thank you so much for being there for me since day one you literally got me teary eyed as I was reading your message😭🥹 love you thanks for the support❤️
omggg hii aww of course!! all the best for youu ❤🌟@@matraeisi
You expressed yourself so clear. I'm so sorry about every bad moment that you have experienced. But as we can see it couldn't stop you to survive and take your life back. At the same time i am so happy to listen you again. You are inspiring people who want live his own journey. I feel your support and energy. You deserve the best! 💙
It’s okay life happens sometimes, as they say it is what it is😂 I hope someday I gain the kind of power that’ll let me help everybody else in the same situation that I used to be🤞🏼 Thank you for watching this video and giving me so much love and support🥰 I’m glad you came across my channel and are here again🥹❤️
All that love in you, shining past hard times. And to come up and out beyond it all with that sweet twinkle in your eye. What a beautiful (hunky!) gift! 😘
Thank you for sharing Your story ! I am Glad you are Still Here & Alive !
Wow! That was an extremely emotional story, but you seem to have great sense of humor about it! I’m happy to hear you’re doing well now and are comfortable with yourself. 👍🏼💜💜👍🏼
LOVE YOUR STORY MATIN...IM HAPPY YOU HAVE PROGRESSED AND IN A MUCH BETTER SITUATION❤❤❤❤❤❤
So happy you now live in a country where you do not need to hide who you love! Much love to you!
thank you for sharing your story! i'm glad you're safe now 💗
Aw wow I have no idea how I stumbled across this video, it just auto played after I finished watching another one, but I am so glad that happened! You are so funny and sweet, I think it’s beautiful how you have such a kind and gentle energy even after all that you have been through. I am so happy for you , and I think it’s so cool that you are studying animation, I am really interested in getting into that myself (or atleast knowing more about it, and more about your personal style! - I’ll look through your other videos to see if you have any videos about that)
I felt drawn to comment because it’s rare to stumble across someone so wholesome by pure accident 💛
Thanks for watching this video and thanks for your beautiful compliments🥹❤️ omg it’s actually so cool that you’re also interested in animation, I do 3D, I haven’t posted any of my work here yet but I will do it in the future since you asked🫶🏻
I’m so glad you came across my channel and liked my videos, your comment literally made my day, thank you🥰❤️
Aw yesss I would love to see some of your animation! I’m only just learning how to make silly little gifs on procreate to put over my music videos but gotta start somewhere hehe 😅
And thank you, you are so sweet! I’ll continue to watch your vids , you are awesome 🤍
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and your strength. You are an inspiration.
your story is so so important and i’m really happy you felt comfortable enough to share it! 🫶🏻 i’m a lesbian who’s currently in high school, and even though i grew up in a traditionally accepting state in the US, i’m from a small, conservative town. i’ve never been physically hurt for my sexuality, but i’ve been followed, verbally harassed, and called slurs a lot. one of my parents isn’t supportive but im still so greatful my coming out wasn’t that hard compared to others ❤💕🧡
Thanks for your story. I'm so glad you are safe and free. You are gorgeous!
Same here. Struggle between being a Muslim and being true to myself. Decided to become both and live happier.
I feel your struggle during the closeted phase. You said a few words about it but I know it was a constant struggle to pretend. Glad you came to terms with it. 🎉🎉🎉
Traditional plural marriage included husbands too also woman are to stop wearing head cover once widow or past child baring ..but as the trash trickled in the faith changed to lies..😮😊
I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
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Really agree with your idea....This comment includes everything what this nice community needs to be strengthened themselves.❤👊
@@sanjulasenanayaka1327 Never allow that straight men and women divide us 💥💥💥💥💥💥 Gay men together forever ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
❤ coming out is a personal business. No one has the right to out you and take that away from you. You come out when u are ready, its a process that not everyone understands. Keep shining and live your truth.
Thanks for sharing your story: I admire your courage and your articulateness.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s so good your family still support you and haven’t disowned you.
I’m a muslim gay guy but not out, i’m 35 and still in the closet! Wishing you all the best ❤
Lol "better repent"
Thank you soooo much for posting this video. I feel like there's hope for me now🤩
Thanks for speaking out. I am sorry you had such a tough journey, but I'm glad you found some support from friends and family eventually. You have a great smile, too. Very handsome.
I can related in so many different ways. You are an amazing person thank you for your wonderful story.
Thank you so much, I’m pretty sure you’re a really amazing person yourself! I wish you the best❤️
I really appreciate your ongoing courage. I came out at a time in Texas that was very dangerous to be gay. I’m shocked at how much change has happened here in my lifetime. Actually I’m more interested in your desire to be in animation. It was my work as an animator/ vfx artist that smoothed my coming out. I worked in television post production at first and it tends to be a very gay friendly environment. Animation has been my career and passion and I can honestly say I’ve barely worked a day in my life. I loved it that much. Sadly cancer took my right elbow and tremors finished the job. Even using a mouse is difficult but I’m finding new ways to scratch that artistic itch. I can’t wait to hear of your adventures in Canada and learn more about your passions. ❤
Matin… I stumbled across your video & I was so impressed by your coming out story. I live in the US and I cannot imagine how difficult it must’ve been for you to come out in your country. You should be very proud of yourself. I have so much admiration for you. Please post more videos. You are an inspiration.❤️
You really went through a process and presented yourself with honesty and care. I hope a lot of people who suffer with wrong understanding and non-acceptance of themselves can move forward ⏩ with your inspiring video
I am happy that you made it safely to Canada. You are mature and have a great sense of humor. Best wishes for much happiness and success in the next steps in your life.
Powerful story and journey. You have come a long way in a short time. I like the fact you shared about being gay in the Middle East and the impact it has on people. Your story is powerful. Thank you for sharing. I assume Canada is your new permanent home. I hope so...
I’m moved by your story and you are fortunate to have so much support. Stay happy!
thank you for your story & telling us how life is like in The Middle East. You have a great attitude & a positive message, Keep smiling!
So happy you are in a safe welcoming country. 🏳🌈(You have a great way of telling a story. I love the little crack-ups!)
Thank you for sharing your story ☺️ I hope your life in Canada is FABULOUS 😃
What an experience you had growing up. It sure makes any of the small difficulties I had growing up here in the USA is very insignificant compared to what you had to endure. You're a brave man and I'm sorry you had to deal with so many people in your life that seemed all too eager to betray you and thus putting your life at risk. I know how I would react to people like that whether a relative or not, and they would be all part of the past with absolutely no participation in the present or future. I am so happy to hear that you're in Canada where you can be yourself and not have to worry about your personal safety or care about what anyone else thinks of you. Btw, this was the first video of yours I've watched and I will certainly enjoy watching more. And the fact that you have an infectious personality and are a very handsome/cute guy doesn't hurt either! 🙂 I have always wanted to visit Iran, but as a U.S. citizen, I can't plan on that trip happening as I don't travel anywhere that the U.S. does not have reciprocal diplomatic relations with. Maybe someday, but maybe not. Anyway, my name is Jason and I live in Madison, Wisconsin, USA and have lived here my entire life and I'm thankful that when I came out in my early 20s, it was fairly easy and conflict free. And it goes without saying, but very nice personal video and thank you for sharing details about your experiences. Stay strong and be as gay (or whatever you prefer) as you want! 😉
It's always so moving when someone finally decides that they LOVE themselves and that that feeling and realization is more important than living in the box that your church or your family is projecting onto you. It took me until age 27 to finally realize my life was for ME to live (grew up in heavily Catholic family and also at the time when there were no gay role models and gay simply equaled dying of AIDS in most people's minds). I know 2-3 people now, TODAY, in American in 2023, in California, in their late 30s, still not comfortable coming out to and potentially losing family, all because of, you guessed it, Religion. It just hurts me and makes me almost cry - I just want to convince them life is soooooo much better on the other side once you claim your adulthood and create boundaries. Thanks for your beautiful words - so many gems in here. There's a lot of work to do, all over the world.
You sir have the most adorable giggles on all of youtube, may they never end, much love to you
I absolutely respect your story and you are an amazing person. Very cute too! X
Matin, you are making a difference for the community. I have been reading post after post of men who are looking for some kind of guidance and support and for now, you are that person. I love you to pieces. ♥️🌏🌍🌎♥️
Your advise on the last few minutes is totally valid !! Thank you for sharing.
I just would like to say you have an incredible personality,. Voices like yours are so important specially in the current climate in Easter nations, I really wish you well in you're new home and I home many find inspiration to see there's a good life ahead of them , cheers.