I recall one single situation when I think I gained like +100 respect from a woman. It was when I invited her over to my house for a date, and she, within an hour, checked her phone and replied to someone very quickly for like 3 times. When she reached for her phone for a fourth time I said "well if it is a 'I am alive' message you're sending to a friend, that is fine, but if you are busy with something else, then you know, you're free to go, I don't wanna keep you busy if you've got other stuff going on". At first I was kinda scared, because it was the first time I called someone up like this but she was like "oh, right, no, it's fine" and she put away her phone. The next day she was the first one to reach out and asked if she could come over again. Please do not take offense by this but if a man can't put a woman in her place if she acts off, she will never respect him. But what I mean by this is not that man should tell a woman what she has to do, but rather if he doesn't set up boundaries, she will never respect him.
You have nailed the high-value men's mind while teaching guys about women's psyche. Straight to the point, NO cheesy charms or makeup, NO short skirts or clevage to lure people to watch your videos like other gurus. I adore you sista ! Keep it up !.
I love this...I don't know who is gonna read this, but this is what am telling you; don't expect respect and people will always find reasons to respect you.♥️
Everything she said here is what I already know and do naturally. I very much recommend this for those guys who have low self esteem and can’t figure out how to attract respect. 💯 💯 💯
Anyone can learn a language. If you really think about it, praising her for the command of the English language is actually flattering..... As if she's not capable of learning a foreign language like me and you. African people need to have more pride . I speak English very well myself, that's not a super power 😅. what I admire about this lady is her mentation and how she's very rational and able to put her point across. Not the English. We're all very capable of being fluent in foreign languages
How to get a woman to respect you: Just be yourself, if she doesn't respect you, she is the problem bro, not you. Just move on. Everyone and everything deserves respect as long as they are respecting you too.
Guys, regardless of your age or experience, Jessica is dropping gold nuggets here……….and from a woman’s POV as well. Kudos Jessica. And for those guys that rely on their womanising pals for advice?……..ditch them and subscribe to this 👍🏾
This reminds me of the song, "no romance without finance" by Gwen Guthrie. The sad part some guys settle for women that bring little to nothing to the table based her looks, and they are shocked when things go sideways.
I love this. Some partners can be so clingy and do not understand that you need be given space and to focus on your goals and aspirations. They want you to be their everything.
I’ve seen a couple of these videos now…and It’s Crazy how while the message is always very enlightening….sometimes I find myself just drawn to the art of the delivery itself 😍😍…just wow!
Great content you putting out there. This just saves my 1 month old relationship. Bcoz it's better to have this thought at the beginning of the relationship than in the middle of it when habit is formed.
Jessica, not only your content helped me a lot, you are talented, and you speak well, so good articulated and refined. I also think you are incredibly beautiful. You embody femininity, you come over as intelligent and amusing, well educated. African Queen 👑
Thank you so much! Especially your perspective on choosing respect over fear! You really educate! You really do! Would be great to have a whole video on emotional issues in relationships and its management. I believe it really is a major issues in most human relationships! You are awesome!
Happily, I am this kind of person. Sadly, it took me 80 years to perfect these qualities. Kudos to a fella who can achieve this in their 20’s. It took loads of life experience to perfect these qualities.
Thank you Jessica, your advice is definitely helping. Some of what I'm doing is purposely some I think is subconscious but I laugh to myself when I see her insecure texts. I'm not even really being distant,just not staying by my phone every second. Thanks again. I love & appreciate you Jessica.❤️
This was really one of your insightful and empowering content for me as a men .Thanx for the value you give to us Everytime ,it's highly appreciated since no one actually helps men to become better men ,Well done and Keep it Up Woman!!!!!!
I used to think I knew everything about women and how to win over them every time until I came across Jessica. This sister is a Pro. If there is a PhD for this kinds of topic, she deserves it.
This was on point. I mean I've learned this from the brother Jason Black via UA-cam The Business ,already and I made some changes with myself. But I'll have to agree with this because it doesn't contradict what he has been informing us brothers on. This subject matter you wasn't being dishonest at all , you was just simply explaining female nature. Salute to that!
The world is run by the "beta" just think about it. The top dog alpha in the land, no longer a king etc. its a person culpable and answering to and choosen by democratic elections. the leader is the alpha. everyone else by defination must be beta. and thus the majority is the beta. and the alpha is whole culpable to the beta. the power and decision makinmg and everything that the group alpha does. are merely an extension on the collective beta. the world belongs to the beta collective, is it controlled by the betta collective. food for thought. trulyrs truely Delta male of Tertiary adjunct of unimatrix Terra
Since the day I started following Jessica I have been a better boyfriend...she respect me...she trust me...and she has changed towards me...thank you so much 😘😘 jess
God bless you sis 🥰, I’ve recently noticed some positive changes in my relationship through watching your channel, please 🙏 keep up with the good work, boys nowadays don’t know nothing about dating ,have a nice day sis
Very good advice. Albeit, what i've observed is that, despite all said and done, a woman can still be unhappy and go astray by following the crowd, due to applause or validity she will get on social media, despite wrong doing.
Nice one Jessica I really look forward to your content every time, you tell it like it should be from the mind and heart, and best believe you have the respect of genuinely loving men and woman all over.
Due to societal hierarchy, women should respect men, men should love their women. An elder can't "respect" a child but must love and support the child, but the child must respect elders.
I don't watch your videos as much for the tips you give as most of them just confirm my conclusions, but I'm more fascinated by the kind of woman you are. I wish more women or at least a third of the ones I meet had your perspective and reasoning. You sure have my respect. Much love from Kenya.
I’m particularly appreciative of the fun bit that comes with the wisdom you share on here, is, and will always be a blessing. There is never a dull moment on here 🙌 👍
Jessica are you sure you of these world. I'm from nigeria and to be sincere you are damn good when it comes to relationship advice...i have being using some of your work and everyday i keep learning new things... thanks aunty jessica
There are people who are naturally disrespectful, Irrespective of what you give. I have come across a couple of women like that in relationships and let go. Some guys do that too.
I have been following you since sister-sister on city fm (2000’s) till now and you never been wrong when it comes to relationship advice. Thank you for being you.
This is the video I needed to see! I follow Anthonyspade also and Jessica is a great balance from a womans perspective! You are def helping to bring out the best in my self and be better self aware! Toodles
My sister the Gods of relationships directed me to your videos I've been watching for about 4 days now . RSA ladies I give up for lack of a better phrase. I've learnt a lot from you . Thank you
Jessica, I ever new you're such a woman of wisdom, u gonna go far...I remember and spotted u at viasat 1 and is it the late night entertainment show at then with that fair lady Asante... I listens to u at Citi and you're doing a wonderful work with your speeches ...God continue to bless u Jessica for the wonderful work 🙏
You welcome Jesse and keep the advise and beautiful content on different life issues coming. I took long to follow you and subscribe to your channel but from the time I did my thinking,action and course of thinking has in a way changed. All thanks and credit goes back to you and the almighty who gives the wisdom and knowledge to put out what you share with the world constantly and tirelessly everyday.
Am proud of Jessica. Found your channel not so long. You are genuine and fresh, keep it. I honestly loved this video. I also love how you engage yourself in your video. I lack almost everything in this video, but I am willing to change and improve as a person Great channel, hope to see you in South Africa
Everytime I see your video, I do really love it. The teachings are so simple and clear, very informative and practical. The sound and video quality is highly commendable. Jessica you are really doing well. Keep it up dear!
Thank you so much, Jessica. I needed these. Turns out I'd been doing many things wrong in my relationship. Now I know how to flip things around. I will get her to respect me :)
Thought inspiring as always…… Some of us, had to learn some of these things when we were in possession of power evoking women. That being said, we pray to be guided by the next best round. And, to you @JessicaOS, i grew up to your voice on radio early in the morning to school, the evenings back home, and all i would say is; i would love to work with you one day, in any befitting capacity, for the experience, and it’s many unsung riches. Lol….. If, you’ve read this far, i am flattered. Still graced by your audience, I am grateful. A biG Fan!
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
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a church pastor told me something very wise. he said , if a woman ever frowns on you because you don't have money , she doesn't love you. So true
I recall one single situation when I think I gained like +100 respect from a woman. It was when I invited her over to my house for a date, and she, within an hour, checked her phone and replied to someone very quickly for like 3 times. When she reached for her phone for a fourth time I said "well if it is a 'I am alive' message you're sending to a friend, that is fine, but if you are busy with something else, then you know, you're free to go, I don't wanna keep you busy if you've got other stuff going on". At first I was kinda scared, because it was the first time I called someone up like this but she was like "oh, right, no, it's fine" and she put away her phone. The next day she was the first one to reach out and asked if she could come over again.
Please do not take offense by this but if a man can't put a woman in her place if she acts off, she will never respect him. But what I mean by this is not that man should tell a woman what she has to do, but rather if he doesn't set up boundaries, she will never respect him.
Thanks
Thanks brother, good tip here
Thanks Breda.. an amazing tip.
Wisdom
Wisdom
"I don't wanna be everything to you, I just wanna be compliment to your life not to take over it" Jessica
You have nailed the high-value men's mind while teaching guys about women's psyche. Straight to the point, NO cheesy charms or makeup, NO short skirts or clevage to lure people to watch your videos like other gurus. I adore you sista ! Keep it up !.
I love this...I don't know who is gonna read this, but this is what am telling you; don't expect respect and people will always find reasons to respect you.♥️
💯
@@realtalkwithphil 🔌
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I love your speech
That's powerful!
"Don't be clingy" that's the point!! You're very right.
I'm 50 years old and just ran across your channel today. I really like the way you explain things, so I'm subscribing. Keep them coming.
Everything she said here is what I already know and do naturally. I very much recommend this for those guys who have low self esteem and can’t figure out how to attract respect. 💯 💯 💯
Jessica i don't want to let you go. I can watch talk for an entire day and would never get tired of watch. Your topics are absolutely phenomenal.
Thank you so much
Don't be clingy!!
@@emmanueltsikata1949 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
This woman's use of the English language is flawless
Man, she always gets me wanting to list to her more and more.
Her voice is also dope. I don't usually watch such videos in full but I always watch her videos in full.
Anyone can learn a language. If you really think about it, praising her for the command of the English language is actually flattering..... As if she's not capable of learning a foreign language like me and you. African people need to have more pride . I speak English very well myself, that's not a super power 😅. what I admire about this lady is her mentation and how she's very rational and able to put her point across. Not the English. We're all very capable of being fluent in foreign languages
For me it is charisma and expression but I really want to know the kind of man that won her heart
I had high temper issues and am healed after listening to this, Thank you Jessica 😊
Just like that?
Come let me test u and see
@@richworldba Dr tester 😂
I think he is saying he figured out the anger issue and he is managing or handling it better. Being healed, means something different to me.
How to get a woman to respect you:
Just be yourself, if she doesn't respect you, she is the problem bro, not you. Just move on. Everyone and everything deserves respect as long as they are respecting you too.
exactly
Nope. You are the only one responsible if she and other women don’t respect you
@@MsZzz9 Man gone somewhere with that bs.
💯 % correct ✅ 👍
Agreed! These only apply to women that are also high value.
Honestly, we need to respect ourselves enough to not ever look down on others, regardless of how they are. If they aren't someone we admire, move on
The most sober and wise woman I know on the internet. I love u so much Jess. Such wise counsel
Thanks ken
Guys, regardless of your age or experience, Jessica is dropping gold nuggets here……….and from a woman’s POV as well. Kudos Jessica. And for those guys that rely on their womanising pals for advice?……..ditch them and subscribe to this 👍🏾
Jess almost turning into a Psychic!!! The topics have just been something I've been contemplating on and Here she is with the Content.
Thank You Jess
your tone and facial expressions makes me know that these points are not joke...lol. I love every bit of your contents, they are balance diet to me.
You have too much wisdom.... I admire your commitment to teaching us what we seem overlook
Jamaican connection. Words sounds is power Jessica 🇯🇲. Respect!
This reminds me of the song, "no romance without finance" by Gwen Guthrie.
The sad part some guys settle for women that bring little to nothing to the table based her looks, and they are shocked when things go sideways.
10x10
My brother.
I love this.
Some partners can be so clingy and do not understand that you need be given space and to focus on your goals and aspirations. They want you to be their everything.
It's called being selfish
I’ve seen a couple of these videos now…and It’s Crazy how while the message is always very enlightening….sometimes I find myself just drawn to the art of the delivery itself 😍😍…just wow!
Thank you Jess for a positive channel among a sea of toxicity in dating youtube.
I have been in dire need of such video.This will help me balance my future plans and be kind to my woman. Blessing to you Jessica.
This was really helpful Jessica. I cherish your sober views on progressive romantic relationships. Your advice is solid👌🏾
I love the fact that you telling the truth straight not beating around
I really love this Jessica. You re too much and may the lord continue to grant you more knowledge and wisdom than ever before. Bless you dear
Great content you putting out there. This just saves my 1 month old relationship. Bcoz it's better to have this thought at the beginning of the relationship than in the middle of it when habit is formed.
Very true
Also I like how you put that out there about us men and our RESPECT!
Jessica, not only your content helped me a lot, you are talented, and you speak well, so good articulated and refined. I also think you are incredibly beautiful. You embody femininity, you come over as intelligent and amusing, well educated. African Queen 👑
Timeless. Beautifully presented. My take is 'if you love, love with the totality of your being without shame, but don't cling'.
Her and Melli Monacco have tapped into selling female secrets to the men. Use it wisely
Well said.
This video is so helpful to men because you give a Awesome balance on how a man should be in a relationship. Thanks!!!
Thank you so much! Especially your perspective on choosing respect over fear! You really educate! You really do! Would be great to have a whole video on emotional issues in relationships and its management. I believe it really is a major issues in most human relationships! You are awesome!
Happily, I am this kind of person. Sadly, it took me 80 years to perfect these qualities. Kudos to a fella who can achieve this in their 20’s. It took loads of life experience to perfect these qualities.
Mutual respect is the backbone of every relationship. J'aime ça. Merci Jess.
Your UA-cam channel is the first thing i must visit before any other channel.keep up the spirit,your steadfast fan from Kenya🇰🇪
Thanks for the support
Thank you Jessica, your advice is definitely helping. Some of what I'm doing is purposely some I think is subconscious but I laugh to myself when I see her insecure texts. I'm not even really being distant,just not staying by my phone every second. Thanks again. I love & appreciate you Jessica.❤️
Don't be clingy... Totally agree. I suffered go this.
This was really one of your insightful and empowering content for me as a men .Thanx for the value you give to us Everytime ,it's highly appreciated since no one actually helps men to become better men ,Well done and Keep it Up Woman!!!!!!
This is a strong message and very, very important for all real men to follow.
True facts. Respect is a King aspects of real man. Thanks Jessica and your french accent is good !!
Why I like your talks. Your words are real life philosophy Irrespective of any situation.
Where do I donate? You deserve the support for providing meaningful information in a world of disinformation.
Awww. You can support my channel by joining my Patreon community. Www.Patreon.Com/jessicaos
I used to think I knew everything about women and how to win over them every time until I came across Jessica. This sister is a Pro. If there is a PhD for this kinds of topic, she deserves it.
Jess, this is spot on! This video is reinforcing what I started doing in my new relationship. The tips are timeless!
Jess I really enjoy watching your video and they are helpful.stay blessed
Your videos are so good I can’t enough of them. Keep doing you. Lots of love 💕
Thank You Jessica , my mentality is improving with your life Lessons 🙏
This was on point. I mean I've learned this from the brother Jason Black via UA-cam The Business ,already and I made some changes with myself. But I'll have to agree with this because it doesn't contradict what he has been informing us brothers on.
This subject matter you wasn't being dishonest at all , you was just simply explaining female nature.
Salute to that!
Thanks a lot. I have way too many issues. Don’t even know where to start. Will keep walking regardless.
Controlling Emotions 🔥🔥
Public comment. Ms Jessica you are amazing person who understands the principles of life and its journey. God bless you..thank you so much.
Hmm Control your Emotions is a great eye opener, especially with this misconceptions around being an alpha Male
The world is run by the "beta" just think about it. The top dog alpha in the land, no longer a king etc. its a person culpable and answering to and choosen by democratic elections. the leader is the alpha. everyone else by defination must be beta. and thus the majority is the beta. and the alpha is whole culpable to the beta. the power and decision makinmg and everything that the group alpha does. are merely an extension on the collective beta.
the world belongs to the beta collective, is it controlled by the betta collective.
food for thought.
trulyrs truely
Delta male of Tertiary adjunct of unimatrix Terra
Since the day I started following Jessica I have been a better boyfriend...she respect me...she trust me...and she has changed towards me...thank you so much 😘😘 jess
Great to know
God bless you sis 🥰, I’ve recently noticed some positive changes in my relationship through watching your channel, please 🙏 keep up with the good work, boys nowadays don’t know nothing about dating ,have a nice day sis
Thank you, I will
I meet all these qualities now I just need to find a woman that understand this. These were good points. I love it!!!!
Thank you 🙏🏿 for the naked truth.
Really needed to hear 👂🏿 that
And lest i forget, YOUR CONFIDENCE IS SECOND TO NONE! You are just simply awesome pls keep it up.
Respect is given,
Trust is earned.
Very good advice. Albeit, what i've observed is that, despite all said and done, a woman can still be unhappy and go astray by following the crowd, due to applause or validity she will get on social media, despite wrong doing.
Great content. You've definitely "stepped up" in the quality of your videos in recent months.
Trying my best
@@JessicaOS 🔥 sis 🔥💌
You ate 💯 percent on point...
Nice one Jessica I really look forward to your content every time, you tell it like it should be from the mind and heart, and best believe you have the respect of genuinely loving men and woman all over.
Mosadi yo, wa di opa
Powerful life changing point... You're so real Jessica
I always love watching your video Jessica. Very inspiring. You are an amazing and wise woman. Thank you so much.
I like your video, a woman who tell how to make a woman respect her man more power to your show from phillipines thanks it's very informative.
Respect is reciprocal. You give, You get.
👍agreed
Yh. Respect is earned, not demanded. Some ladies demand respect when they're vulgar
Due to societal hierarchy, women should respect men, men should love their women. An elder can't "respect" a child but must love and support the child, but the child must respect elders.
@@collinsnchabeleng1405 it seems you were not listening.
That's nonsense, you're disrespectful. fix it!!
I don't watch your videos as much for the tips you give as most of them just confirm my conclusions, but I'm more fascinated by the kind of woman you are. I wish more women or at least a third of the ones I meet had your perspective and reasoning. You sure have my respect. Much love from Kenya.
I’m particularly appreciative of the fun bit that comes with the wisdom you share on here, is, and will always be a blessing.
There is never a dull moment on here 🙌 👍
Jessica are you sure you of these world. I'm from nigeria and to be sincere you are damn good when it comes to relationship advice...i have being using some of your work and everyday i keep learning new things... thanks aunty jessica
There are people who are naturally disrespectful, Irrespective of what you give. I have come across a couple of women like that in relationships and let go. Some guys do that too.
exactly. very disrespectful, rude and arrogant.
Like my ex 😬😬 she was disrespectful please
I have been following you since sister-sister on city fm (2000’s) till now and you never been wrong when it comes to relationship advice. Thank you for being you.
🤗
My goodness! You are so good!! I love your programs!!!
I am South Africa can been following you . Trust me you're the BEST
This is the video I needed to see! I follow Anthonyspade also and Jessica is a great balance from a womans perspective! You are def helping to bring out the best in my self and be better self aware! Toodles
i appreciate the production value. The B roll stock footage is hyper generic but the lighting, sound and BOKEH!!! are on point!
Hello Jessica, your tipps are very helpful indeed. There is always space in us for improvement, please move on with your great work👍
the nice guys thing ends today this minute. thumbs up to your teachings. loved that
The CONFIDENCE in JeSsiCa👌🏽⭐❣️🔥
😎😎😎😎😎
My sister the Gods of relationships directed me to your videos I've been watching for about 4 days now . RSA ladies I give up for lack of a better phrase. I've learnt a lot from you . Thank you
You're welcome. Thanks for stopping by
I love these sites down videos. Respext is truly earned. Treat others how you would want to be treated, with respect.
The content in each of your video is so unique, timeless and sincerely speaking,I love hearing secrets of women just from women.....I celebrate u
Why do I feel like this one is about me 😂. This one hits home Jess. Points well taken sis🙏🏽🙏🏽👏👏👏
This is so meanful … i really love the message here 🎺🙏🙏🎺🎺🎺🎺
Wow sis you just keep getting better and better keep up the good work I enjoy listening to you stay blessed 🙏🏾
Jessica, I ever new you're such a woman of wisdom, u gonna go far...I remember and spotted u at viasat 1 and is it the late night entertainment show at then with that fair lady Asante... I listens to u at Citi and you're doing a wonderful work with your speeches ...God continue to bless u Jessica for the wonderful work 🙏
It is the French phrases for me🥰🥰🥰 With love from a francophone brother ✊🏾✊🏾
Thank you . I needed this
This was a great video as well you hit every point you put out direct and clear . Much love Jesse all the way from Uganda
thanks
You welcome Jesse and keep the advise and beautiful content on different life issues coming. I took long to follow you and subscribe to your channel but from the time I did my thinking,action and course of thinking has in a way changed. All thanks and credit goes back to you and the almighty who gives the wisdom and knowledge to put out what you share with the world constantly and tirelessly everyday.
I like that control your emotions.
Am proud of Jessica. Found your channel not so long.
You are genuine and fresh, keep it. I honestly loved this video.
I also love how you engage yourself in your video.
I lack almost everything in this video, but I am willing to change and improve as a person
Great channel, hope to see you in South Africa
Appreciate the feedback
Everytime I see your video, I do really love it. The teachings are so simple and clear, very informative and practical. The sound and video quality is highly commendable. Jessica you are really doing well.
Keep it up dear!
Jess, Great video there 🌻
I would like to ask, how can men avoid being friends zoned by women they like. Keep up the good work
Look through the past videos. She has one on that subject..
If a woman does not respect you,she will friendzone you.Do you get it?
AND be authentically humble and charitable.
The moment you demand respect is the moment you lose it.
These things you just listed are true facts. And they'll work 💯 if applied properly. I really want to speak with you about something.
Thank you so much, Jessica. I needed these.
Turns out I'd been doing many things wrong in my relationship.
Now I know how to flip things around.
I will get her to respect me :)
I can’t wait to watch your content. Kudos.
Thought inspiring as always……
Some of us, had to learn some of these things when we were in possession of power evoking women. That being said, we pray to be guided by the next best round. And, to you @JessicaOS, i grew up to your voice on radio early in the morning to school, the evenings back home, and all i would say is; i would love to work with you one day, in any befitting capacity, for the experience, and it’s many unsung riches. Lol…..
If, you’ve read this far, i am flattered. Still graced by your audience, I am grateful. A biG Fan!
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf.............
Thanks bro. 👍That's just the way.
Well articulated.