A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
Yes, "better" as in smarter intellectually, wiser about life choices, more insightful about people, more knowledgeable about life's problems, at a relatively higher status in life than her, and yes, earning MORE than her. ALL women are programmed to admire the alpha male. Proverbs 31:23.
@@conqueror7723 and most woman maried beta male lol. Woman wants Sigma male, Sigma male is ultimate male. There no hiearchy for Sigma male. They are solo, not in pact like Alpha and Beta.
Just when someone might decide he’s heard enough and wants to quit the video then you throw in a personal story that just takes the person right to the end of the video. What a way to hold viewers attention!
I’m not a perfume wearing person, but very much agree with your cologne experience. I came to the office one day wearing an underarm Dove body spray for men. A female colleague of mine came towards me to say hello. She perceived the lovely smell, drew closer, sniffing me, & telling her other female colleagues “ He smells so good’ 😂
For me, life is not all about attracting women and pleasing them. But I can't and don't want to deny that these are really important tips that can help men who desperately want to be attractive.
I love this gal dread! She articulate her words precisely. She is dominant yet respectful of a man. Her lips, nose and eyes are a turn on. Intelligent brown skin empress.
@ Abigail you don't want a black man who don't look like money so shut up. No black woman who in top career want a trying black man. You don't know what skills and talent that black man got. Yes he may not got confidence because he is broke. You know how many white girls take up a black man and realise he is a graphic designer, chef, musician, artist 🎨??? Confidence come in many way and it not about having money. Smile is the main thing. A guy smile at you don't mean he want to get in your nickers.
I'm married and I have been appreciated for a few of those traits by several women (married ones included). The scent matters i agree. Get that cologne brothers.
I just love the way you repeat the beard gang men...and give it a chuckle shortly after.....i mean its 1 am watching this almost sleepy but the video takes it all away 😂😂😂😂
These traits are on point of course, they are physical traits. But, the things you say might be the biggest turn off the moment you open your mouth to speak. Whether you have beard, money, smell nice and look good what comes out of your mouth matters the most. The mouth speaks out of the abundance of the heart so make sure your heart is filled with good contents to stimulate her mind and soul.
Jessica you seem to have a mystical eye! You are able to see with ease what most people including men can't see. I personally have absolutely no problems attracting women. I am naturally intelligent and innovative (I've won a number of innovation awards and I hold a number of patents), I am a bit funny, and hardworking. I avoid speaking like this coz I really hate arrogance and boasting. A number of women have opened up to me and have mentioned exactly what you are saying. I am however just who I am and never even thought that my true self can be so attractive to women. Thank you Jessica, Keep up the good work.
I appreciate your work, and also yourself---- so sweet and eloquent. However there are guys who really don't care, we do what we have to do and live to please no one, living by the code of hurts no one but takes no shit.
Oh Jessica, a lot of the time I find myself clicking the right button before even listening to you cause I know the quality that will follow. Thank you for always presenting that quality. Much Love🙏🏽
I love most of your videos girl, great points...keep on glowing. While I am not a multimillionaire yet, I typically try to hide the fact that I have money. While this is a plus or turns a woman on, which man likes a woman with a materialistic mindset. I rather spend on a woman that deserves it; for some women if the money goes, she is gone.
Jessica you've did it again another great video. The reason I know this works is I'm 64 years old and I've seen it work. I'm married for 44 years 6 feet 4 inches tall and still attract women, because i possess most of these characteristics believe me or not no cheating on my wife.
The game has changed since you got married, today you will be hard pressed to find a man who has been totally faithful, we are all faithful until we get caught. Chris Rock says it best... "A man is only as faithful as his options"
@@nobs997 A real man is as faithful as he wants to be. That's one thing I learned real early in life. Don't live your life based on other people quotes and situations. Life is not a one size fits all. I was blessed to find a good woman early in life and I value her more than any of our possessions. I don't worry about getting caught, because I don't have to.
Thanks for this Jess. I'm a Cameroonian and have watched many of your videos and there's just something about the way you communicate. Your tone of voice,how articulate use of English, your feminity and humility with a mix of maturity and perception just blow me away. You're not like some of these our Nigerian UA-cam who come across as arrogant and wanting to show off (no offense to my Naija ladies but that's been my experience). Thanks for an insightful video Jess and maybe we should get together sometime when I'm in East Legon
Damn! I caught myself watching this video over and over and over again!. Jessy, you’re a bombshell baby girl! And it’s not just the exactness of the content. You have a way of putting it out there that just sweeps me off.🤞 It’s 2 days now and some 55k views but I’ll be coming back here to celebrate a million views shortly. I’ll sure do my best to push it through, cus anyone who watches you would take home more than one . Soar even higher baby. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@JessicaOS respected madam can you solve this mystery or puzzle . How come women dislike nice men. I read a lot and heard on this subject . What is the real truth .you can make a detailed video on subject. Humble request from India
So much appreciate your energy, that when you speak you awake the spirit of love and support for work on here. Keep up the positive energy. God bless you.🇳🇦❤
I have replayed this recording close to 5 to 8 times. Ok - 15 times. The sound, precise, neatly put traits of how a man can work on being attractive to women is sincerely so true. Thank you @Jessica
Great content Jessica! I’m a therapist and you are very articulate and no BS. I’m allergic to colognes lol. But I’m happy you are turned on by cologne…addiction issue lol
I had to finally subscribe today because you got me thinking while watching this video. The way made examples of your personal experience is so awesome Jess
Hey Jess, with this beautiful voice, you can do any types of topics. That's the reason your audience is growing exponentially. You will reach a million soon. Keep it up .
I'm dating a much younger woman and she makes your last tip about being a gentleman difficult. I don't mean I'm so overwhelmed with her looks that I can't keep my hands to myself, I mean that she opens doors before I can get to it first. I'm going to try harder and perhaps she'll catch on to how a gentleman acts and give me time to get the door and her chair for her.
The problem is that we men don't mind doing any and or all of these things for women but the modern woman especially feels entitled to all these things without reciprocation. Men has feelings too, we need and wants women that exercise, eat better, wear less makeups and also gives us little gifts as appreciation. Men will give you more if you appreciate our efforts and not feel like all that we need is just the a$$.
You're damn right. It's all about them in a relationship. They will push you to build your muscles for them and yet won't even break a sweat to shape up for you and when you talk they claim you are body shaming them. It takes two people to build a good relationship and gets boring when it's one sided.
@@MarkelBeverley in as much as you have yo make room for improvement, don't let it be to impress,do it for your own good.don't hit the gym because of a lady do it because you want to feel good yourself.
@@gorden_azikaI agree don't let her be the soul incentive, but she may be apart of the incentive to change and better yourself. Also if you want something, you may have to change things about yourself (compromise) in order to get it. That could apply to every area in life INCLUDING relationships. For example: you can meet a woman, want to pick her up in your car, and take her to an expensive elegant dinner. But, you can't do that if you work part time at McDonald's and ride the city bus. She may be a part of what inspires you to get a better job and work harder to reach certain goals. You feel me?
I jst hpnd to find u not long ago n i jst cnt stop listening n watchin ua beautiful videos. Your beauty n brains plus tht voice make me wanna listen even more. Much love frm South Africa Jess😍
Girl ,you are intelligent and full of confidence in everything you do.infact in me you have a firm and steadfast fan from Kenya 🇰🇪.you UA-cam channel is the first I have to visit.everytime I am online
You are so amazing .Every video opens my brains .Educative ,now what makes most fall into all things you allude ,no focus and not reading between then line
Jessica I'm not watching I've started applying it and guess what the very first one that i applied worked. You've taught me self control and that makes ladies wonder. Great work 😍
8:29 Confidence applies to me , at one point I won the heart of a very beautiful girl coz of that. She was a new shopkeeper at one of the local shops in my neighborhood & all the guys talked about her. I didn't know that's my confidence made her fall for me until she told me so a few months later in the relationship. She said a lot of guys were very nervous and jittery in her presence but from the time l approached her, she was attracted by how l was calm and showed composure.
Great advice when some of the people tell what men don’t like about women or what a women can do to keep men interested in them I would? Love for you to do one of these subjects
Yes of course. Boys will be boys and, acting is acting however, we also have to pay attention to time and, how we invest it in life because, it won't wait around for us.
I'm yet to see a woman/lady with such an endearing voice, not thin, not deep but the perfect voice for the perfect J.
wollah. i am senegalese and i am a man and i really like her voice. its perfect.
Jessica's and Anita Erskine's voice .... 😍
Perfect❤️
My queen has one i luv it
Speechless...💯
So classy and elegant yet humorous and mature at the same time. Love her
Exactly bro !
A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
Better at which aspects actually ??
@@ggcrank6264 in every aspect lol
Yes, I had the same question. Better in which way?
Yes, "better" as in smarter intellectually, wiser about life choices, more insightful about people, more knowledgeable about life's problems, at a relatively higher status in life than her, and yes, earning MORE than her. ALL women are programmed to admire the alpha male. Proverbs 31:23.
@@conqueror7723 and most woman maried beta male lol. Woman wants Sigma male, Sigma male is ultimate male. There no hiearchy for Sigma male. They are solo, not in pact like Alpha and Beta.
Just when someone might decide he’s heard enough and wants to quit the video then you throw in a personal story that just takes the person right to the end of the video. What a way to hold viewers attention!
🙄🙄🙄🙄
🙏🙏🙏
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I’m not a perfume wearing person, but very much agree with your cologne experience.
I came to the office one day wearing an underarm Dove body spray for men. A female colleague of mine came towards me to say hello. She perceived the lovely smell, drew closer, sniffing me, & telling her other female colleagues “ He smells so good’
😂
I had same experience too with a body spray. This girl gave me a tight hug lol saying I love your cologne
Deodorant?
Dove is one of the best 👌 thank you
😂
For me, life is not all about attracting women and pleasing them. But I can't and don't want to deny that these are really important tips that can help men who desperately want to be attractive.
You hit the nail right on the head. A man without confidence is like a child. We women want men we can look up to.
You want money
I love this gal dread! She articulate her words precisely. She is dominant yet respectful of a man. Her lips, nose and eyes are a turn on. Intelligent brown skin empress.
@ Abigail you don't want a black man who don't look like money so shut up. No black woman who in top career want a trying black man. You don't know what skills and talent that black man got. Yes he may not got confidence because he is broke. You know how many white girls take up a black man and realise he is a graphic designer, chef, musician, artist 🎨??? Confidence come in many way and it not about having money. Smile is the main thing. A guy smile at you don't mean he want to get in your nickers.
@@awadhimohammed5438 Bitter huh? 😀 Dont be, brother.
@@viktormathe8335 lol
I'm married and I have been appreciated for a few of those traits by several women (married ones included). The scent matters i agree. Get that cologne brothers.
End of the day respect and appreciation will make a man go against the world for you
This
This is so true 👍
I just love the way you repeat the beard gang men...and give it a chuckle shortly after.....i mean its 1 am watching this almost sleepy but the video takes it all away 😂😂😂😂
These traits are on point of course, they are physical traits. But, the things you say might be the biggest turn off the moment you open your mouth to speak. Whether you have beard, money, smell nice and look good what comes out of your mouth matters the most. The mouth speaks out of the abundance of the heart so make sure your heart is filled with good contents to stimulate her mind and soul.
Spot on
You are very wise
You are a wise man, chai
She mentioned intelligence and being a gentleman.
I rank this video 8 outta 10.I think confidence and dominance take 70% of attraction.
Jessica you seem to have a mystical eye! You are able to see with ease what most people including men can't see. I personally have absolutely no problems attracting women. I am naturally intelligent and innovative (I've won a number of innovation awards and I hold a number of patents), I am a bit funny, and hardworking. I avoid speaking like this coz I really hate arrogance and boasting. A number of women have opened up to me and have mentioned exactly what you are saying. I am however just who I am and never even thought that my true self can be so attractive to women. Thank you Jessica, Keep up the good work.
I always find myself smiling watching her videos. It's like a friendly conversation.
Love that you injected a personal story. No matter how small, it helped me ķnow you a bit more. Great content.
You speak english very well. The tone of your voice and your confidence. Respect
I appreciate your work, and also yourself---- so sweet and eloquent. However there are guys who really don't care, we do what we have to do and live to please no one, living by the code of hurts no one but takes no shit.
...at the same time increasing our value and bank. Not making anyone else our priority other than ourselves.
Thought i was alone ..hustlegang
Hustle gang... You feel me
Yes my bro
BOOM!
Oh Jessica, a lot of the time I find myself clicking the right button before even listening to you cause I know the quality that will follow. Thank you for always presenting that quality. Much Love🙏🏽
Anytime i watch your content i have to take a book and pen to write something down .Keep up the good work Sis .You educate us a lot.
I love most of your videos girl, great points...keep on glowing.
While I am not a multimillionaire yet, I typically try to hide the fact that I have money. While this is a plus or turns a woman on, which man likes a woman with a materialistic mindset. I rather spend on a woman that deserves it; for some women if the money goes, she is gone.
I hardly subscribe to channels on UA-cam but I couldn't resist subscribing to yours. You do what you do effortlessly and with Grace.
Thanks for the support Ezeh
Well kept beards,nice smile,smells good,great physic, intelligent, financially stable and humble
No bulging fupa, Slim, feminine, not argumentative, clean, knows how to cook, financially stable, not aggressive, low number of sex partners, Kind.
Lovely
Where did I go wrong???
I think you're absolutely gorgeous and very intelligent individual. Brains and Beauty. You have the perfect combination Jessica.
Beauty flees where there is no brains🤨🤪😁
Hello
Thank you for increasing my vocabulary 🙏🏿 you are so well spoken.
Danke ✌️🏾
No problem 😊
Jessica you've did it again another great video. The reason I know this works is I'm 64 years old and I've seen it work. I'm married for 44 years 6 feet 4 inches tall and still attract women, because i possess most of these characteristics believe me or not no cheating on my wife.
The game has changed since you got married, today you will be hard pressed to find a man who has been totally faithful, we are all faithful until we get caught. Chris Rock says it best... "A man is only as faithful as his options"
@@nobs997 A real man is as faithful as he wants to be. That's one thing I learned real early in life. Don't live your life based on other people quotes and situations. Life is not a one size fits all. I was blessed to find a good woman early in life and I value her more than any of our possessions. I don't worry about getting caught, because I don't have to.
@@bamawillie7989 I wish faithfulness is not overrated, I would have liked to have your discipline.
@@bamawillie7989 I like that. Faithfulness is doable!
Hi Jessica u jst got a new follower from me RSA
Thanks for this Jess. I'm a Cameroonian and have watched many of your videos and there's just something about the way you communicate. Your tone of voice,how articulate use of English, your feminity and humility with a mix of maturity and perception just blow me away. You're not like some of these our Nigerian UA-cam who come across as arrogant and wanting to show off (no offense to my Naija ladies but that's been my experience). Thanks for an insightful video Jess and maybe we should get together sometime when I'm in East Legon
I concur with you on persona trairs possess
I love the way you communicate. Your voice and looks. Kudos.
Jessica: when beauty meets passion
Damn! I caught myself watching this video over and over and over again!. Jessy, you’re a bombshell baby girl! And it’s not just the exactness of the content. You have a way of putting it out there that just sweeps me off.🤞
It’s 2 days now and some 55k views but I’ll be coming back here to celebrate a million views shortly. I’ll sure do my best to push it through, cus anyone who watches you would take home more than one . Soar even higher baby. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Thanks. You're far too generous with words
@@JessicaOS respected madam can you solve this mystery or puzzle . How come women dislike nice men. I read a lot and heard on this subject . What is the real truth .you can make a detailed video on subject. Humble request from India
Hey Jessy FYI you actually changing lives with your content ok. Keep soaring higher 👍💯😍
So much appreciate your energy, that when you speak you awake the spirit of love and support for work on here. Keep up the positive energy. God bless you.🇳🇦❤
I have replayed this recording close to 5 to 8 times. Ok - 15 times. The sound, precise, neatly put traits of how a man can work on being attractive to women is sincerely so true. Thank you @Jessica
You're welcome
Fellas, a signature cologne I would suggest is Rose and Vanilla the ladies love it!
Noted buddy.
What's the brand tho?
Great content Jessica! I’m a therapist and you are very articulate and no BS. I’m allergic to colognes lol. But I’m happy you are turned on by cologne…addiction issue lol
May all watching this video be liberated through the physical attractions 🙏🙏
- I recant
😂😂😂😂
Thank you.
Beeeeeeeard gang👊👊👊👊
This is good. Thanks nicely ma'am. Keep up the good work.
You once got me for one point of disagreement with you, and this is the cologne part, unless used with discretion
or on quite specific occasions.
Thank you Jessica. You are a great coach. I am learning a lot. Keep up the good life lessons.
Jess you are not alone 😍"I prosper" when my sense of "good" smell is excited.
Hello
I had to finally subscribe today because you got me thinking while watching this video. The way made examples of your personal experience is so awesome Jess
Thanks for the support
Wow... This is absolutely awesome... My favorite is Confidence
Hey Jess, with this beautiful voice, you can do any types of topics. That's the reason your audience is growing exponentially. You will reach a million soon. Keep it up .
A voice laden with testosterone!
@@collinsa8909 what is your point?
I love your decency and the way you speak. Highly educative.
Before I started the video I never expected I’d posses all.😊
You got a really good accent Jessi.❤️
I'm dating a much younger woman and she makes your last tip about being a gentleman difficult. I don't mean I'm so overwhelmed with her looks that I can't keep my hands to myself, I mean that she opens doors before I can get to it first. I'm going to try harder and perhaps she'll catch on to how a gentleman acts and give me time to get the door and her chair for her.
So why do some people dislike beautiful contents like this 👆? ❤️❤️
“Spray my pillows with it” bars 🔥
Holla- from New York City! Thanks once again Lady Cool 😎 Jessica 🙂 God bless 🙏
Ur teasing me J,the way I love my beards, ladies admire that shit so much
Thanks for the reminder
My Sunshine Babie ❤️ cruise on !
Jessica and the perfume. wow
The problem is that we men don't mind doing any and or all of these things for women but the modern woman especially feels entitled to all these things without reciprocation. Men has feelings too, we need and wants women that exercise, eat better, wear less makeups and also gives us little gifts as appreciation. Men will give you more if you appreciate our efforts and not feel like all that we need is just the a$$.
Thank you so much bro 🙏, tell them!
That’s it 😤💀👊🏾👍🏾🔥🔥📍
You're damn right. It's all about them in a relationship. They will push you to build your muscles for them and yet won't even break a sweat to shape up for you and when you talk they claim you are body shaming them. It takes two people to build a good relationship and gets boring when it's one sided.
Exactly
You are a sweetest woman I have ever listen. I can, t listen enough of your stories thank you sister
Always on point. Thank you Jessica.
Bonjour
@@rigobertmouzoun3514 Bonjour!
One thing i know for sure i love the way jessica talks.
Number 1 trait is be yourself,period.
Sometimes being yourself isn't good enough. Always leave room for improvement.
@@MarkelBeverley in as much as you have yo make room for improvement, don't let it be to impress,do it for your own good.don't hit the gym because of a lady do it because you want to feel good yourself.
@@gorden_azikaI agree don't let her be the soul incentive, but she may be apart of the incentive to change and better yourself. Also if you want something, you may have to change things about yourself (compromise) in order to get it. That could apply to every area in life INCLUDING relationships.
For example: you can meet a woman, want to pick her up in your car, and take her to an expensive elegant dinner. But, you can't do that if you work part time at McDonald's and ride the city bus.
She may be a part of what inspires you to get a better job and work harder to reach certain goals. You feel me?
Congratulations 🤩♥️ you’ve got another subscriber from The Gambia 🇬🇲
Self-Love, Confidence & a good Character to name a few does it for me. Lol! Yes the itchy beard is a turn off.
Brilliant just brilliant! Keep up the good work and may ur dreams come true!
Golden voice and insight and everything all round!
You are the best ,love your videos
The accuracy of this video 😎
I jst hpnd to find u not long ago n i jst cnt stop listening n watchin ua beautiful videos. Your beauty n brains plus tht voice make me wanna listen even more. Much love frm South Africa Jess😍
200K WOOP WOOP ! I can't wait to watch and react to this one 🔥🔥🔥
Taurus♉️ like me & you Jess will always appreciate our sense of smell. We’re nothing without it🤩🤪
Who else is feeling the rythme from the starting point
Dope intro 🔥
Feel like rhyming to the beat.
TOGO is a beautiful country
I love this place
I enjoy taking your videos.You are empowering men for relationships and marriage .And renewing the philosophy Of our perception.
Thank You Beautiful.
If only the 24 hours become 48 i would listen to You more.
God bless You.
Babe, you are simply awesome. Thank you from Mauritius.
I don't know why I love Jessica too much 🤗. You Soo amazing about the things you say . Keep on your good works
Girl ,you are intelligent and full of confidence in everything you do.infact in me you have a firm and steadfast fan from Kenya 🇰🇪.you UA-cam channel is the first I have to visit.everytime I am online
Always on point. This is very informative. I love it
I liked the advice behind being too confident I really learned there.
Am happy to become one of your students ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are so amazing .Every video opens my brains .Educative ,now what makes most fall into all things you allude ,no focus and not reading between then line
Thk you Queen for enhancing my game
I like your accent so much love you Jessica continue the good work
Jessica I'm not watching I've started applying it and guess what the very first one that i applied worked. You've taught me self control and that makes ladies wonder. Great work 😍
OMG 😳
JESS U TOO MUCH
You help me alot to understand these women
Thank you Jessica. You are doing great. I appreciate
Jessica, seriously, I never saw number 1 coming. My mind was totally on something else. You got me on that one.
8:29 Confidence applies to me , at one point I won the heart of a very beautiful girl coz of that. She was a new shopkeeper at one of the local shops in my neighborhood & all the guys talked about her. I didn't know that's my confidence made her fall for me until she told me so a few months later in the relationship. She said a lot of guys were very nervous and jittery in her presence but from the time l approached her, she was attracted by how l was calm and showed composure.
I’m going thru this now , we goats we don’t gotta go try hard
Jessica is the Real Deal; Big Up from Jamaica 🇯🇲
Thanks for the Beard update there Jess; I'll grow it back.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jessica, that's how you look when u want someone, Im melting
Chocolate drop 4 real
Always learning new stuff on this channel💥
Hiiiis Colooogneeeee😂😂😂😂😂that one made me laugh loud
Great advice when some of the people tell what men don’t like about women or what a women can do to keep men interested in them I would? Love for you to do one of these subjects
Love your videos. They really have upped my gameplay is a huge way and ladies going crazy 😧🙆🏽♂️🙆🏽♂️. You are so amazing
Well said! My husband is all of the above… but he shaves himself just to please me… because I don’t like beard.
Oh!
Jessi the way you talk, daaamn...
OS in love 😍 😍 beautiful feeling 🤩
Thanks for the video
Sista your look and knowledge is boss. 💜🧎🏿♂️
Jessica,we can have all that and be bad boys... guys are damn good actors..
Yes u r right but she dint say guys can't be bad if they have those qualities
Yes of course. Boys will be boys and, acting is acting however, we also have to pay attention to time and, how we invest it in life because, it won't wait around for us.
Jess always on point. As for the smell good? I have had that experience before 😍
Madam Jessica pls can you tell me the name of the cologne you bought to sprayed your pillows I will love to use it as my daily routine. Thank you