Make anyone OBSESSED with you in these 5 STEPS
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- Опубліковано 16 лип 2024
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Make anyone obsessed with you in these 5 steps - a masterclass on being HER ✨. In this video, I go over 5 very essential steps to making someone instantly drawn to you aka the Serena van der Woodsen effect. The first step is to be soft and playful, an obvious yet more intricate embodiment to master. Being soft and playful is inherently vulnerable which means you must let go of your insecurities and build your confidence! The 2nd step is to take up space!!! Look good, give into the attention you get, and be comfortable with being perceived (HERES AN INDEPTH VIDEO: • how to get over your f... ) The third step is to build your own brand of femininity to STAND OUT - this is truly the key to being magnetic and making people obsessed with you. The 4th step is asserting your boundaries and standards in a soft and gentle way while embodying them firmly. THIS is how you get people to take you seriously and elevate your energy to a place where only people that meet them will approach you. Finally, the fifth step is: emotional prediction. Such a masterful skill that when executed properly, can make people fall in love with you and your energy instantly. Anchor yourself in pleasure NOT pain. Sub for more free level up game 🚀
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Keywords: feminine energy, strong boundaries, financial security, dating, detachment, magnetic energy, well-being, peace, empowerment, personal growth, how to be magnetic, self-interest, dream self, emotional regulation, self-worth, that girl,seeking validation,how to validate yourself,external validation,male validation,stop people pleasing,chasing others,chasing validation,grow your self worth,how to improve self worth,validate yourself sis,insecure,self doubt,people pleaser,chasing men,emotional validation,how to be more secure in yourself,be more independent,level up,self development,stop waiting for people,self love,how to be a confident woman,confident women Why is Serena van der Woodsen so charming?
What personality type is Serena van der Woodsen?
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Who is richer Blair or Serena?
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1 Be soft vulnerable
2 Exercise
3 Let your feminine energy linger
4 Set boundaries/standards in a gentle way
5 emotional awareness/prediction
But watch this video in full to give her a view/like because she’s amazing & her info is great!
You’re a queen! 😉
Yes I wrote but definitely watching ❤
Honestly these videos are meant to be seen mutiple times with a pen and a notebook just to make sure You got all the important info 👌🏻
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i always listen to them 2 times when i’m listening to a new video
Yeaah I always do that with her videos
Definitely, and actually the speed can be a little more slow...Just ti have time to understand well the introduced ideas...
@@louvea3582 Cant go any slower lol just take more time to absorb the info
Omg what you explained at the 8:00 minute mark is so true. I get treated so well when I put effort into my appearance, even if it's just wearing a cute headband or colourful jewelry, it's like people subconsciously want to impress me because I impressed them.
This!!! It’s literally a universal law haha
@@VickitaTrivedi Reality is a mirror! 💞
Yes, I experience the same thing!
The pretty privilege phenomenon is the goal!
@@emilyellemagicit includes romanticizing your life and therefore creating romantic experiences for those you interact with.
That’s me when you said “if you find yourself always having to speak you boundaries, that means, you’re not living them.” 🙏🏽 thank you sis. I needed to hear that so much.
Something that strucked me in the books is that Serena was wearing her own signature fragrance, a blend of essential oils (patchouli and Ylang Ylang? I read the books more than 15 years ago so...), and as it's so unique to her, people recognize it instantly. Maybe my 2024 goal should be to find my signature fragrance?
oh ya you need a sig fragrance and gatekeep the heck outta that 🤫
She also wore Chanel Cristal in the book! I tried it out because of that but it’s kind of intense lol
1) Soft girl energy: bring some light heartedness to the environment , don’t feel defensive. Dont be ready for combat at all times. No one wants to go to war when they try to have fun. Be present in the moment. Don’t wait for the shoe to drop. Be light and playful. Let go of your insecurities. Be vulnerable to yourself and other ppl.
Close your eyes. Take 3 deep breaths. Visualize a lift as you are breathing out. Imagine a green lift is going through your head and passing your throat and going into your heart. ♥️
5:43 take up space
"Take up space" I love that❤
you give such good advice i'm always super defensive because of being bullied when i was younger so i treat everyone like they're going to pounce at any second because i get scared to show people who i really am
The looks thing is SO TRUE, even with women, lol. I was out to brunch and looking great and another woman gave me a mini bundt 🎂 cause she said I was sitting there looking so pretty! Lol... got a free drink that brunch too lol. Sprinkle sprinkle ✨️
Ah my sprinkle sprinkle fam. Shera is love💋
@@Jiggy_Z yes! Love her!
I decided to work on my feminine energy mostly because my therapist advised me to try to feel my feminine archetype more than masculine one. I'm actually trying to understand the differences between both energies. I decided to open this video randomly, I'm not the type of person that tries to get validation from others. And in the first part "be soft and playful" where you talk about living in the moment and try not to be always in the fight mode I almost got cry. Because I spent my entire life living in that mode because of the problems I had to fight for and the support I never got from anybody. I feel like I need to be more carefree and cheerful first for my psychological health. I just don't know how to do that, but thanks to this tip I understood what my therapist meant. So I guess I know what to work for my next encounter with her. Thank you❤️
Okay, but we're still waiting for a video about how you get your hair cut in those lovely layers and do your makeup. 🤩
Great video!
Notes for myself🥰🥰
from head to heart
define your own brand of femininity (what do you want to be known for? What are you known for?)
don't be defensive
take care care of your looks and take space just by knowing you got it
make your energy linger
soft delivery in boundaries but committing to them
The way you have summarised the energy that ones in themselves and it balances out in the universe is so apt and mind blowing. The entire video was really informative 🫂💗
Emotional prediction is amazing. Your perception and awareness are everything 💯
Ever since I started embodying my authentic feminine self and being in the present moment around people I keep hearing it’s so refreshing to see
Absolutely blowing my mind with this content. Thank you for the tips on not being so defensive, probably my biggest flaw
Thx so much. Great to see you back. Hope vacay was good 💯😊
You make feminine energy such an approachable concept ❤ im living in my soft girl era thanks to you which is a huge change from the girl who used to pop off or fight everyone who looked at her wrong. I have you to thank for that transformation 😊
Loving your videos and how clear and concise you go about these topics. No time wasted on fluff, straight to the good stuff! Stay blessed 💖
I’m so glad to hear that! Always my intention to be straightforward and valuable 💞
Yass so happy you're back!!
Back baby!!! 🪄🎀
You're heaven sent✨ I've been binge watching your videos and they are fully packed 😊❤
This video was just for me..thank youu Vickita💝
Yay good timing Queen x Thank You!
Hope you enjoyed it!
Thank u so much for the subtitles ❤
Wow so much to take away from this amazing video! You killed it again gf! My main takeaway was to be playful and be centered in pleasure rather than pain. Amen! Yay!
thank you friend ❤
love your videos! actually feel smth changing within me by just listening to you. Thank you for sharing
Would love to see your insights on blair’s personality too cuz she was a force to be reckoned with in the series.
I watch your videos a lot but aways get mesmerized by how pretty you are
You are generous and brilliant. Thank you.✨
Perfect timing 2024 my goal is my hair!!!!
I am doing that and indeed people love being in my presence and obsessed with me
queeeeen energy
Thanks for some gr8 advice ❤
I love you vickita proud to have you❤
Proud to have you back! 💞
Please could you also do a video on what cosmetic procedures you’ve had done? It’s always great to hear influencers being honest and open on those things too 🫶Thanks! x
Only thing I’ve had done is 1/4 syringe lip filler 3 years ago! 😊 when or if I get more things done I’ll update!
Que buena info, tienes mucho nivel tu información es mil veces mejor que la de otras youtubers latinas que he visto gracias!
She isn't Latin.
So elegant, eloquent, poised and sophisticated. Vikita, you are the epitome of THAT girl, and your content is so helpful and valuable. You summed it up perfectly- Serena's character embodies light feminine energy while Blair represents the dark feminine. I actually loved Blair's character on the show more, with her quick wit, confidence, high standards/boundaries and masterful leadership (no matter how twisted 😂) but I think a happy balance between the 2 types of energies is the perfect place to be. ❤ this video!
Wow! how kind are you!! thank you for feeling my energy ❤i like blairs energy too hehe
Anyone else with body dysmorphia also finds these videos really helpful? ❤
Great and smart video🤩😘
Your eyes alone ik they’re obsessed with you 😍
I love that thanks❤
oh wow! another STUNNING video!! Thank you Vickita! Especially the point regarding emotions. Small superficial question: where is your neclace from? what brand is this? i keep seeing it but cannot recall the brand. Thank you!
The background music is really nice
Mother posted 💅
Hiiiiii ❤️❤️❤️❤️
1) bring some light heartedness to the environment , don’t feel defensive. Don’t wait for the shoe to drop. Be light and playful.
Thank you I do these things great confirmation now I know
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I have that person😅😅thought of her as soon as you said it
would you consider giving irl examples of how we do these things? for example could you "act out" a way to set a boundary clearly but softly, like here's what I would say... i have trouble with putting these things into practice because i don't know how to do what you're saying!
Sure I’ll do more real life examples 😊 I’m pretty sure my previous video tip number 12 I give an example of softly saying no (don’t quote me on that lol)
example of ‘brand of femininity’ pls
I’ve been using the same kitsch bars
They’re great!
I am also trying to grow my hair. I love longer hair. would be visiting a hair stylist after six months of this really well known salon. I wanna know what style suits best on me.
So basically being a normal person? 😂
This is most women.
*What sucks is at the end of the day, your worth isn’t who is obsessed with you*
These “techniques” can attract loons, narcissists and creeps too. So it really isn’t a big deal.
BE YOURSELF LADIES. If it’s goofy, go for it. Your person, who is meant for you, will LOVE you for it.
How would I know my brand of femininity?
I love your name
You are my favourite ❤Love you so much ❤
Can it work when you’re « mid » ? Cause I am
Looking gorgeous❤
Thank you 😊
Yeah, a bit hard not to be uptight when you are tired and stressed out. I don’t think it’s about insecurities. I feel like we all just need less work, more money and softness relaxed mind and playfulness will follow.
Can you make a video on masculine energy and how to be a high value man? For the men watching.
Because I enjoy some parts of feminine energy like manifesting enormous amounts of money easily (I mean why grind, take hardcore action just because I'm a man? It's illogical at this point). And yet I want to still be masculine. My father was not a strong, masculine man so I feel I need some ideas on what to model.
Sorry I only make content for women but some masculine creators I like are hamza, Jack Hopkins, iman :)
Hi
What is the feminine protocol membership and where can I find out more about it
It’s in the description box of this video!
How to be the source of pleasure for others?
I order the soap a $60 order.
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Hello. I love watching your videos. But can I ask something/gently correct you regarding something? I do not wish to be rude, and I'm not even sure that what I'm about to say is actually the correct phrase, but i noticed that you used the same phrase before in some other video as well.
Is it not "contrary to popular belief", rather than "popular to contrary belief"? English is not my mother tongue, nor my native language so i could be wrong. But I just wanted you to notice this in case it helps you ahead in life. Much love to you!
Hahahhaa you’re absolutely right, it is “contrary to popular belief” - im really bad at sayings and mix them up all the time 😂 (it’s even worse when im on my period and my brain is mush)!
you look like a supermodel haha :)
Oh thank you beautiful 🤩❤️
Your makeup look please....😢
really? The hair pitch?!?! 🙄
Are you Indian? I mean your name😅
Those ceilings look high. Did you ever think of using that space up there? Nice Volume, your hair has lots of oomph here. Oh I didn't mean that in any other way than sincerely...i just saw the piece on top now so I edited this again. Awkward 😬
You give thee best advice!! ❤