I think the last family deserves a lot more grace. They have adopted a lot of kids and took them from bad situations. And they are older kids that don’t normally get adopted. I would have done anything to find a family like that to take me out of foster care and adopt me. Once you turn 10 and up, nobody wants you. They make money on TikTok and it’s obviously spent on their kids… all of them. I don’t think they belong in a group of parents who sexually exploit babies and act like possessive psycho pedos. Idk, just my thoughts as a foster kid that nobody wanted and aged out of the system. These are kids that who are now going to live out their entire lives with a family unit. It makes all the difference in the world! What they ate growing up is not going to even matter to them.
If a dude got on TikTok and did half this crap with his daughter, and started talking about being her first kiss, people would freak out, it is not normal, it is weird.
There has been the odd one, not sure if Michelle showed it or someone else but I remember a Dad got down on one knee and extracted a promise from his daughter that she'd wear a 'purity ring' he gave her in a marriage proposal pose in her 20's and she agreed to keep her virginity. Then there's the Daddy daughter dates. I have no issues with a Dad taking daughter out for dinner or a school do but it's the use of the term 'daddy/daughter' I find icky for adults. Just as icky as the Mum straddling her teen boy in public.
Omg Ronni you nailed it, that really is the pipeline, the cause is probably not spending time in their own skin, self reflecting and finding ways to be whole, even though it can be uncomfortable at first, it's the right and healthy thing to do long term. They seem to take the easy way out that promises instant gratification and they make their own internal holes everyone else's problem...they can be such tiring people even if they aren't in your family but a coworker even, they're usually the covert (fake nice) narcissist bully...
I hate people that say, "Youre not a parent. Dont tell me how to raise my kid." As they are raising little gremlins that are insanely disrespectful and you can already tell will be in and out of jail.
Not meteioning abusing them or making them a movie stats at young age without thire will Many star show kids turned bad like jojo siwa and with hows Ryan's world is crumbling
Them not raising them right will cause issues (if they don't already) to others around them. So it definitely is other people's business if their child is disturbing theirs'. Like you're gonna tell me "don't tell me how to raise my child" as your child is kicking my backseat and you're doing nothing to stop them, like be fr
I know it makes me so sad! “Boymom” used to just mean a mom of boys who embraces the messy loud chaos of having boys and goes in and plays legos and wrestles with them. And now it’s some kind of weird overly emotionally emeshed with their kid creepy overbearing mom. So annoying, I want our word back!
i want boys because you can roughhouse with them and they are so fun my mom nannys a baby boy and hes so funny and is a sweet heart, i wouldn't love one child more then the other because i fell like im one of the children that isn't as loved its not fun and its unfair when they didn't ask o be thrown in with you they just are who they are
Same here 😂 three boys wouldn’t mind to have a girl but god gave me three little blessings who just so happen to be boys. The fact that they really took the words boy mom and turned them gross is unsettling to me
People kept telling me when I was pregnant with my third, 'Oh I hope you have a girl!' And I was like, why would you wish that on me? What would I do with a girl? I had two boys and I was an extreme tomboy as a kid, and I was so afraid if I ended up with a girl, she'd end up being super girly by nature. But I had a 3rd boy and all was well. lol
The only silver linining is when the daughters get older and say "Mom you treated me badly and favored my brother" the Moms can't say "Well I don't remember that."...cause they filmed all of it lol.
You, and every individual, have the absolute right to judge shit behavior exhibited by other people. You don't need to be a mother to know that starving, beating, and exploiting a child is bad.
Steve Hofstetter has a great joke to illustrate exactly that. That he doesn't need to be a parent to know someone's doing a bad job. He says he also doesn't know how to fly a helicopter, but if he sees one in a tree, he knows someone fucked up somewhere.
If I treated my ducks and chickens like these people treat their kids, the full force of the Internet would be upon me. They, on the other hand, are celebrated, or at least make money from the attention. Disgusting.
Peaked in high school, immediately got married and had kids, desperate for male validation because their husbands don’t value them lol 😂 it has a certain look
I feel sick knowing these mothers are out here exploiting children like this. The people commenting on the videos ans photos need to be investigated asap
Yeah she is easily the worst one and it's not even close. Her explanation only made me more disgusted. She is setting up her daughter to be stalked by an unhinged pdf file and she either doesn't care or is too stupid to process that. Her poor daughter deserves better
@@feitme me too it’s so unbelievable that any mother could do that to her own little baby and you’re right i wish i knew where they lived to report them to the police wherever they are for child images because i can bet they have them 🤢
same i couldn’t believe she said it so casually like it’s not a big deal to put your child in danger like that and try to cater to sick men just for money she does the poor girl i really don’t think she should be allowed to have any child
But if it was a dad doing that to his daughter he would’ve been thrown to the ground and carried away in cuffs (as he should be) but bc it’s mom it’s called a love embrace..yea ok
my mother was like this. Beside what this did to me psychologically as a daughter, it definitely hurt my brother. He turned out to be a good person, but he's in his mid 20s, has never dated a woman, and is very lonely. He fears she will scare away any woman he dates, and has given up.
I’m lowkey afraid for my brother. My mother couldn’t be a mother for me and now I live in an orphanage. My brother still lives with her. They have always had a different relationship than me and I fear that it is something similar to this.. He’s only fourteen.
How about just teaching our sons and daughters how to cook (and other important skills) simply so they may be self reliant and efficient in general? What the hell is wrong with these people??
Everything. Heck I've learned how to do laundry and load the dish washer over time. Started out with 4-7: Okay Sage, watch now. Now we're going to fold. 8-11: Help load. Stop. Now we're gonna put the cleaned dishes away. 12-14: How to measure the detergent. 15-present: Whip right through that without batting an eye.
For real. My husband didn’t know how to cook or do laundry. I had to teach him how to scramble eggs 😭 basic skills need to be taught regardless of gender.
Yes that's really important to me with my two boys because my bf/their dad didn't learn until his early 20s to do anything since his mom did everything for him. Granted they are barley 3 and 2 but they honestly help me around the house it takes twice as long but it makes them happy
@ToryAndKateLarsen That's what's up! My husband was a better cook AND more meticulous about laundry and dishes than I am! His mom's a total badass, so it's unsurprising that he could do all that AND fix a car, too! Lord, I miss that man ❤
I knew a girl I used to be friends with. She had two girls and one boy. She fell into hard times, and gave away her two girls to her mother, and kept the son. I was invited to thanksgiving one year at her moms, the girls were so sweet when I met them and the son was rotten to the core. And she was absolutely oblivious at how 👹 her son was. After finding out about everything and how she discarded her little girls and even went no contact, I couldn’t keep the friendship going. Not to mention I was willing to to help her with anything she needed so we could have the girl move back in. It still boils my blood.
Its bizarre to me to hear people describe children as "rotten to the core." Just criticize her parenting and the impact it has on her kids. To judge a child who is undeveloped and a product of their environment so harshly over something they can't control is gross.
Not surprised she kept the boy seeing how popular being a "boy mom" is, not to mention how disturbing, creating enmeshment and codependency with the poor kid because the mom doesn't have her stuff together...go get help, go to therapy, get a friend, make a stronger relationship with your significant other, any of those instead of taking a little boy emotionally hostage because it's trendy and you have emotional baggage...
Why is it "bizarre?" Some kids are unnecessarily bad af for absolutely no justifiable reason!! Even children know right from wrong so....@SpitFireDebates
Sure is. My friends fiancé is dealing with that with his elderly father and they’re waiting for the old jerk to die so they can get married. Super creepy
As a mom of 3 young kids, i kinda hate the "mom" scene altogether. It's like being back in high school where you're ostracized if you're not rich/pretty/religious/etc enough.
3:05 omg the specific 'from your vagina' is soo annoyingly accurate. Got an older coworker that insisted that c-section is not a real birth and those who went through it are not real mother. I was like sis, these women grow the baby in their womb just the same, the babies just got out using different methods and they will grow to be human adult just like the ones delivered vaginally. And she works in healthcare! How could she be so ignorant? Shuddered to think what kind of nonsense she will spout about parents of preemies and adopted kids
It makes me so upset when people say that because both me and my baby were in danger and I had to have an emergency C-section and we might not be here if I had tried to deliver vaginally.
I too work in Healthcare and think she's more WRONG than I can even say with words. In fact, I've been a pediatric nurse for 15 years and again she's WRONG 😊
I've heard this brought up before and I truly don't understand. Women who've had c-sections still had a child and the recovery for a c-section is much worse than a vaginal birth! Anyone who believes that is not very smart
I don't have kids yet, but I used to teach at a daycare. I've seen some moms who believe their little boy can do no wrong. It's like, ma'am, you're going to turn your son into a jerk 😒
This is called emotional incest. It's not just disturbing to see from an outside perspective, it's also very damaging to the kids. Please don't do it. And please call out people you know and notice that do it. 🙃 Also, as a birth mom who delivered by c-section and an adoptee who was delivered by c-section, the whole "you can't understand love without birthing a child out your hooha" is such a crock of dog shi...and I personally think people who think like that say stuff like that because they don't understand love themselves and/or understand how love can and should differ between separate people.
Yep. That's insecurity or that thing some mothers just have to do - compete with other women in some sort of personal olympics to prove their worth, to whom I don't know. I'm affectionate with my adult son and only child but no more than with my sister, brother and Mum (small family - siblings never had kids). Some of these examples are too over the top for my liking.
My kids and I were all born via cesarean. I also have a brother that was adopted. Never have I ever felt or experienced anything less than people with some obsession about vaginal birth being best. Its giving "I gotta be better than you" vibes 😂
I think it's a superiority complex. Like getting a c-section is "taking the easy way out," which is silly. Sure, if you have a planned c-section, you don't go through the labor process (though most c-sections happen after labor has been going on a while) but it's still not a walk in the park, and arguably has a longer healing time. My mom had 6 children, I was #2 and an emergency c-section, the rest of my siblings were delivered at home. During her 6th pregnancy, all of her muscles tore along the incision line 😳 she told me that healing from my birth was more physically painful than healing from a v-birth. But none of that matters. A parent is a parent, regardless of how they got their baby/child, and the measure of who a "good parent" is, is how they treat their child, not how they became a parent.
Men that had boy moms, are legitimately dangerous. If you want to get ditched in a dangerous situation or be violently taken advantage of, find yourself a dude with a boy mom
Yes. Absolutely this. These men and their mothers are EXTREMELY disturbed and evil. :) Some men manage to turn out fine regardless, but...... Most dont. And usually if they do, it ain't because of their mother's, it's inspite of them.
#notallmommasboys, apparently! I agree they might not *all* be literally dangerous, but also agree that it doesn't do emotionally healthy things for them and that can go all the way to the worst place for some.
I'm a victim of emotional incest from my dad and as a child you don't realize how abusive and insane it is until you're an adult, able to see how other people treat their children/parents, and in my case, going no contact. The whole "a partner would replace me", no boundaries, inappropriate comments and touching, constant gaslighting of "you can't trust anyone but me, you only need me, you should only want me in your life, no one else". I got my first boyfriend at 21, a very kind, stable guy, college educated with a good job, and my dad disowned me with the unhinged excuse of my boyfriend having "the wrong ethnic background", because my dad found it easier admitting to being a nazi than to admit his feelings for me were not the ones a father should have for his daughter. And thank God he disowned me. He did it hoping I would come running back to him but it massively backfired because for the first time I didn't have him hanging over me and it was WONDERFUL. TL;DR, I've been 10 years no contact with my nazi dad who wanted to sleep with me and emotional incest IS incest, and awful, period.
Calling your orn dad a Nazi is a clear sign he messed up, on top of all the other stuff. What a disrespectful disloyal little brat! Hopefully you're not expecting an inheritance.
The Boy Mom thing is so weird. I have a 4 year old son and literally my biggest fear for his future is that he ends up some kind of weird incel that doesn’t know how to relate to women as human beings. I can’t imagine putting that kind of energy on them on purpose 😳
Psychology says whatever ur big fear is makes u the problem, ... if ur kid doesn't come out the way u want them ,it might be because of u and if they do come out the way u want then they might end up 10 times worse then being wired, like a women beater instead of a sexual abuser...
The internet has given narcissists a bigger platform than ever before. Some of these people, unfortunately, have children. I can't imagine broadcasting my business for the world to see unless I was desperate for attention.
Well, yes! The desperation for attention is insufferable, and mostly they exhibit victim mindset mentality and want people to say “you work so hard you’re such a good mom” even though their kids are poster children of childhood neglect and abuse
Yeah they seem to be the new version of "I gave you a roof over your head and fed you!" from back in the day when loud obnoxious parents convinced the society that that was not just enough but a great sacrifice on their part and that children need to be grateful and not talk so much.
I got nauseated and almost cried when you talked about the mom who didn't take down the suggestive content of her own toddler. As a mom I just... that's... so vile...as a human I find that vile. Gross.
Wait until you see the new Tik Tok drama with that pregnant mom of 4 kids who makes them sleep on the floor while she and her husband take the only bedroom in their apartment
What!! That's awful. I truly can't stand these parents who don't even consider the development of their children. These are such crucial periods that shape our babies into the wonderful people they can be.
@guavanectarforever wait until you find out that daddy dearest is a deadbeat with a breeding kink who left his full time job to avoid paying child support to his previous partners and does Doordash part time
@whateveryouneed4858 oh for fk sakes, that is just vile. Guess I'm going down a rabbit hole 😑 there are so many of these types of people online (especially on TikTok), and they really shouldn't be around children. People like that is why I want to be a foster parent; I absolutely can't stand how these people fail to set their own babies up for success in the world and provide an abysmal environment for them. It is incredibly aggravating!
Yes, same with my older sister, she is the golden child, abused me, did things I would never dare to do and we always got different treatments. She basically ruined my life, my parents always let her do what ever she wants, now she is almost 40 and never lived by herself and now she gets my grandmas house because she has a boyfriend. 😂
@@anamosity_soso I was the scapegoat child too. I had different rules than both my older and younger sister. It’s like they got away with literally everything, and I got away with nothing, even frequently being Blämed for the stuff my sisters did. There were also differences in expectations. They would make messes but I wasn’t allowed to, even being made to clean up THEIR messes they left everywhere. I was also held to a higher standard. My older sister frequently failed classes and my mom didn’t care. My younger sister would be celebrated for receiving all C grades. I was expected to get straight As every year, no excuses. Even when my mom refused to help me with any homework (I stopped asking her for help when after I did once at 7 and she started chøkïng me just for asking for help.) And the only time I ever received a single C, the rest were straight As, she screamed in my face that it was unacceptable and I was a failure while she ripped up my report card while I cried. My younger sister is absolutely the golden child. My mom would always do stuff just with her all the time. But if she was going to take me to do something my younger sister would always come along, never it could be just me and her bc that was “unfair” to my sister. She never cared about leaving me out and treating me unfairly tho. To this day her and my younger sister go on multiple solo vacations a year. I don’t think I’ve been on vacation in years, I think what’s even worse is no one in the extended family cares either. No one cared about me for my entire life. My mom obviously hasn’t changed, you’d think my younger sister would do well. But coddling your children usually has the opposite affect. My older sister is a complete failure and my mom expects me to care for her LMAOO. Many people don’t deserve kids, speaking from experience my parents were two of them.
She’s going to have to sell the family house to pay his legal bills one day in an effort to prove he is innocent of some heinous crime, even though there’s video evidence and 30 eye witnesses.
So many are copy paste airheads whose priority is getting attention and not developing a thought of their own let alone their own personality and taste. It's like they're coming out of a factory line in an age where technically there are so many options to like so many different things and to be so many different things. Safety in numbers even if it's toxic...convenience over effort and so on.
Boy mom here. My son is an offensive lineman, he’s also an only child, we are super tight, he’s in 3 different sports, and won many a game/meets, and not once in all my excitement have I ever gotten so excited I strattled my son EVER!!! Have some self control gods sakes
My adult son's an only child too and we've always been very close. I knew he stopped needing me when after he married I stopped very regularly hearing from or seeing him. Now he calls every few weeks if he has something to say or he/they drop in. It says his wife has completely taken my place and that's as it should be. That Mum straddling her son may have trouble letting go.
@@tkps mom and wife have different roles....I'm definitely not taking mom's place. I'd also be put off by a man who doesn't care about his mom suddenly, in our culture she lives with us too. It's our turn to care for mom ya know? It's only fair (dad too)
Nothing infuriated me more than my ex bf's mom constant passive agressive behaviour towards me and my whole family. If there is one person who I am glad about not being part of my life anymore, it's her.
My sister dated someone and had the exact same experience. The mom wouldnt even allow her to sit next to him at the dinner table. The mom had some serious emotional incest issues. The stories my sister told me were disgusting
ngl, it feels like those boy mom's got some HEAVY deep-rooted issues with male validation and attention. Either not getting it from their partner or maybe having some daddy issues because I really can't explain that behavior to me in any other form 😭😭
Either that, or serious control issues. Some of the boy moms I hear about infantilize their sons, and make an effort to keep them as dependent as possible.
The mom of that three year old little girl should be in jail, period. There is not a chance in hell she doesn't know exactly what she's doing and making money off of exploiting her daughter, and if she's willing to do that in front of a camera God only knows what she might be willing to do off of a camera. Absolute sicko who doesn't deserve a child.
My brother was my mother’s favorite. He was the 5th and final child and only boy. He spit on her as a toddler and she laughed it off. He grew up to be a total narcissist and that started all back then.
I have a son and daughter. He is 3 years older. I do my best to treat them as equally as possible. He only gets additional privileges because of age and she had been promised the same milestones as she ages. I make them do the same chores on rotation. And I take turns with them in the kitchen learning to cook. As far as nutrition goes I was raised by gummy bear parents. Now I am fully addicted to sodas and they keep my weight up. In my adulthood I switched the way I was eating and tried to encourage my extended family to do the same. Nearly everyone in my family is overweight and eventually become diabetic. So I treat soda like beer in my house and it is off limits to my kids. They are a healthy weight and have pretty good eating habits.
Awesome that you recognize what sugar did you and you love your kids enough to realize they deserve better. Lots of good vibes and positivity to you and the kiddos!!
I grew up on only soda and it's SO HARD to break!! My son is not quite 2 yet but we only drink water and milk, I am trying to keep him on good food and liquids and make treats a very sometimes thing. I'm also definitely paying good attention to trying to raise my son to be a confident and kind person, and make sure all my children and up feeling cherished and valued. I've seen the monsters that happen when one is worshipped
Exs mom was one. He had 5 sisters they had careers and homes etc while he was a 32 year old unemployed manipulative drug addict who lived off of begging and manipulating mommy and used everyone around him while being convinced that he's awesome hes got it going on and hes entitled to everything from everyone...and the whole family hated each other. This is the future for your precious special amazing sons
You don’t need to be a mother to recognize narcissistic, exploitative, or predatory behavior. But, if you need a mother to validate you I can definitely say none of this behavior is normal. It’s disgusting.
I am so incredibly glad that my own abusive mother wasn't young enough to be in the digital age. She was obsessed like a bird with her own reflection and being popular more so than caring for her children properly. If she was also making money from clicks I would have never made it out of her house. I hope every kid "star" sues social media and this type of content is banned.
Nah cause some of these women really need to be investigated and looked at hard when it comes to their son's. Like, you shouldn't want a mommy's boy; the fact that you seem disappointed he's not one is creepy
YES!! I don't want either of my kids to rely on me and dote on me for everything, every day. My Autistic daughter will probably live with us, but she's independent already at 13 mostly lol😊
As a mother to a son..when you sang that song as a Halloween one…accurate. These ladies are not treated well by the man they made that boy with so they get the love from the son..as a daughter I know that too well.
Lol I appreciate that Michelle sings the songs. I don't really know songs, and when youtubers say they have to mute the audio to avoid getting copyrighted but the song is -whatever- I always feel like I'm missing context since I don't know the song. A+ for Michelle!
This is unrelated to the video, but as of today I am 170 pounds! My highest weight was 210 since June and I’m so proud of myself! I’ve been intermittent fasting, cutting out sugar, and doing 60 minutes of exercise daily! For the longest time I felt like I didn’t deserve to be happy within my own body, but since cutting off my abusive family and finding God, my eating patterns are much more healthier! For those who are in their 20s like me and are considering losing weight, do it! Don’t believe people who say, “Don’t lose weight, you look great the way you are!” Everyone deserves to be healthy regardless. As a black woman, I want to look like Anok Yai by 25, not Lizzo. Keep up the great work!
16:02 speaking as a bio mom and step mom of 4 kids total, children learn VERY YOUNG (2 or 3 years old) how to be manipulative. I've had other mothers get mad at me for saying this, but it's true. They think their perfect angel would never lie or manipulate a situation to their benefit... but they do. I've witnessed it with my kids and not my kids. Humans are flawed, that includes children.
But this doesn’t mean they are “flawed”. It’s natural for humans to manipulate and it has it’s upsides and meaning as well. It’s one of our strategies to fulfill our needs and it’s not necessarily a “dark” trait. It’s much more complex than that. You could look up dr. Becky Kennedy, she’s giving a very human and compassionate perspective on this topic.
I dislike the word “manipulative” though. It really implies an intent that kids don’t have. If their needs aren’t being met appropriately, they will change their behavior to get those needs met.
Oh manipulative is the correct word alright. Not to be malicious but just to get their way. At 3 my niece would ask mum for a biscuit and ask for an extra one for aunty, then eat them both. And I had no idea about any biscuits! It was purposeful, but not to hurt anyone, just to get something for herself.
6:39 cheating when you're MARRIED WITH CHILDREN is so immature and irresponsible OMG. This DESTROYS FAMILIES and usually affects the children involved in some way. You have to do what's best for a child at all times and part of being a parent is making sacrifices. If you don't think you can sacrifice your dating life and stay loyal to someone until all of your theoretical children become functional adults then you should absolutely not have children and never get married. Don't be the parent you wouldn't want to have.
I forgot about Wren. That poor little girl is going to have the worst time growing up. At least her older brother got the luxury of privacy; something she never got. I remember one TikTok where they found out the mom had her own information private, but not her daughter's.
My daughter recently started a YT channel, and 90% of my job as a mom of a young adult is helping her understand that not everything is meant to be shared... and that "authentic" is scripted. 😅
Yeah that video of that mom dancing as her infant is admitted for an RSV infection just makes me nauseous. People may deal in different ways but this feels borderline disrespectful. I work with these babies and their little bodies go through hell with RSV. They can be hospitalized for several days! Most of the parents are devastated and scared rather than filming a dance video for social media... next to their ailing infant
28:52 do you even know why did her son got "jumped"? It was because he allegedly SA's younger sister of one of the boys, and when they confronted him he threw the first punch. It was also (allegedly) not his first victim as also 3 other girls got traumatised the same way. Those moms are just raising narcisists and predators, as they enable every type of wrong behavior while also not letting them mature.
You forgot about the wine moms. Those are also strange. A lot of the videos basically say that if you're a mom, then you better be an alcoholic bc otherwise you can't survive.
And then the wine moms HATE the weed moms 🤣 the wine moms can't understand they're alcoholics and call the weed moms addicts. The weed moms point out they both have an addiction then or that weed isn't addicting and they alllll spiral 💀🤣 and I say this as a mom who smokes and drinks 🤣🤣🤣 I just love watching the chaos unfold in the mom groups.
These parents are no better than pimps, if you ask me. Obviously I don't think the ones who are just dancing or cooking are evil, but the ones like Wren's mom? Face the wall.
Nah, as a child who went thru something similar, just not online, im telling you when that little girl grows up she will see no difference between her mother and a pimp @@l0velyfl0wer
And they've been told so many times that pedos are a big part of their audience so they are knowingly serving them up on a platter. Hopefully their kids will sue them for the money they earned and then cut contact.
Im a 40 year old parent. This is bizarre behavior. And constantly posting your children on the internet for content is gross. You know they might not want their entire childhood on the internet for their highschool friends / or anyone else to see.
Also, the amount of creeps on the Internet too. Why would they endanger their children like that? I honestly will not feel bad if these kids resent and distance themselves from their parents when they're older.
Children below the age of 16 should not legally have access or be allowed on social media. Of course they would get around it, but it would make enforcement easier
I think 13 is a better age, but only if your child is mature enough ❤ my mom let me have like one social media app at 12-13, and I got to be a kid well(keep their accounts on private too!) but with other social media like tiktok, totally at least 16
@raccoon9496 13 is old enough to be curious about sex while being totally ignorant. At 13 i was watching live leak best gore and browsing snuff films on 4chan.. I have to disagree.
When I feel like a terrible mom for watching my tiny folk crumple cuz I said no, we have to wear uniform clothes to school. And I feel that twinge of guilt for them crying. But we can't get sent home from school.... But these online parents are just insane and then I look at them and think it's not so bad trying NOT to raise douchebags. We gotta say no sometimes.
Relatable 😂 I'm always thinking I'm too harsh, then I go out in public, I don't even have to go online, just hang out with some of my friends/families kids. Immediately I feel 100x better because atleast people can stand to be around my kids and they arnt absolute demons to everyone around them.... my kids can function in society and get along with all age groups of people...
@@daddysgirl102938yes! I will leave a park or situation when other kids mess with mine or if someone does something to threaten mine cuz mama bear don't play. But these others sometimes... They are crazy. And I keep in mind, I might be mean mommy for sometimes saying no, but it's for the best down the road.
This is so bizarre! I always wanted a little boy, and now I have two! I love them AND I am also excited at the idea of them one day having girlfriends and then wives. They go to school with the sweetest little girls, and I cannot imagine hating on young children who aren't even interested in dating yet.
Exactly. I have 3 boys and I can't wait to one day get daughters in law. I'll spoil them like my own kids because I have no girls 😂 I want to be their second mom. And I can't wait to be a grandma too! I won't be the most important person in their life anymore but they will always be mine. Having DILs would just mean more people to love in my life.
as a mom with ex-mom friends both outwardly like this, and subconsciously treating their boys like this. the common denominator? shitty husbands. well my husband clearly doesn't love me - but my son definitely will. and yes, the girls/or even other boys notice as this is basically specified golden child. my sister did* this through having more children because babies/toddlers simply love you easier because older kids start to see your bullshit. kid starts being an individual? time for a blank slate baby. and you can see resentment building in the other kid and* its like you try to help or give advice but that makes you the devil to people like this. i think only they can fix it by admitting it which is obviously hard asf. *typo
That mom that’s constantly making excuses for her sons bad behavior and disciplining her daughter(s) for the smallest offense towards him needs a reality check. If she doesn’t nip that behavior in the bud it’s not going to be long before he walking all over her, and his sisters won’t be the only girls he’s hitting on…
I would cut contact with my mom so fast if she documented my life for the internet. So thankful I grew up with a mom that hated social media like my dad
It seems that because moms like her are stuck in their high-school age mentally, she probably wishes that she was a cheerleader and in high-school all over again, so it's like very disturbingly immersive vicarious living through her son...yikes
Considering the fact that I’ve seen animals be pampered and taken far more care of than literal children, you don’t have to be a parent to be able to love and care for something well or even speak on the weirdo/bad parents out there lmao
Me too, fr, its very uncomfortable. I can't fathom being upset that my future child might find a healthy happy relationship due to my own jealousy, that's nuts.
This one had so many great inserts but that two seconds of: “The Husband” was *chef’s kiss* The call with your mom is absolutely rewatch-on-loop worthy. She had to stop and focus to WTF with you 🤣
I just scrolled through lives last night one UA-cam. It's DISGUSTING how many people we're just filming their innocent children and forcing them to perform. There HAS to be rules against this
Laws need to hurry up and get with the times. It should absolutely be illegal to exploit your children. These parents are disgusting. Also, you dont need to have children to see abuse, neglect, and exploitation. You just have to have a brain.
25:30 my mom always cooked and when she had to leave for a work trip and left 3 children with my dad, that’s when we found out that he only knew how to cook oatmeal on the stove and when she got back we told her what we ate every single day (it was oatmeal, morning/lunch/night 4 days straight), she from then on taught us how to cook, i’m so happy for their divorce, i’m in my 30s now and I swear I’m so thankful for him cooking oatmeal for us and I can cook any meal that anyone can ever think of now
I remember when my friend first told me about you & you were still called “my thoughts will probably offend you” & I was SURE my friend was sending rage bait but it turns out I agree with you 92% of the time & have now been following you for years. 😂 Thanks for always saying what I’m thinking!
As a boy mom and boy granny, this is so freaking toxic. Why are these women demeaning their daughter's like this. Perpetrating sexist crap. It's bad enough we have to deal with this with men. The internal misogyny is absolutely disgusting. I wouldn't blame their daughter's if they cut them off when they get older. They don't deserve their daughter's. That's my opinion and I stand on that!!!!
I had to live with the by-product of one of these boy moms. Merging my family and the stepfamily was a complete utter nightmare, and words cannot even describe how my stepmom's son ruined me and my dad's life. As a teenager, he would regularly assault us and tell me to unalive myself. But when I defended myself or told him to F off or F you, I was made to apologize while he got away with literally treating us like actual trash. Still, words cannot describe how bad it was living with a boy's mom and her son. She who was also a self-absorbed narcissist, created a narcissist who is a danger to society and will likely end up in prison because he has never had to take accountability for anything. He's already had multiple run ins with the law but has been let off because he's a minor (probably). My dad and I were finally able to move out a few years ago but it completely tore apart my family and the friends I still had left from high school. My dad and I finally know peace now living in Florida. These boy moms are not cute and not funny, and the consequences of this parenting and double standards are so real. If you know, you know. I think that's the only way to truly understand how bad these situations can be.
My sister married a guy who had a smother. His mom couldn’t handle the honeymoon and got his suitcase and refused to release his clothes. It resulted in him not going and coddling his mom.
I know it was such a small portion of the video, but I’ve never given dudes who are super close with their moms much of a chance. It’s fine to be close with your parents but the moment I notice a bit of weirdness I shut it down real quick. They can make some other woman miserable but it sure as hell won’t be me
I feel really sorry for the generations being raised in this era of social media madness. It really is the wild west of child rearing in the digital age. The repercussions could be catastrophic on a global scale.
Finally a new video from michelle I am in the hospital recovery from surgery but seeing your videos makes me smile❤ Seeing moms getting obsessed loving their sons on tik tok is creepy if I ever have a child (if it does happen) I refuse to expliot my children
I know you’re Beautiums but now you can have it on your chest so everyone can know! 😂 michellemcdaniel.junipercreates.com
Hey Michelle- in the part where you call your mom you forgot to bleep out your brother’s name a second time.
Don't forget the familys like ryans world. Those poor kids thats a whole other can of worms.
UA-camr named @SpillTea did a somewhat concerning vid on ozempic a few days ago. What are your thoughts?
I think the last family deserves a lot more grace. They have adopted a lot of kids and took them from bad situations. And they are older kids that don’t normally get adopted. I would have done anything to find a family like that to take me out of foster care and adopt me. Once you turn 10 and up, nobody wants you. They make money on TikTok and it’s obviously spent on their kids… all of them. I don’t think they belong in a group of parents who sexually exploit babies and act like possessive psycho pedos. Idk, just my thoughts as a foster kid that nobody wanted and aged out of the system. These are kids that who are now going to live out their entire lives with a family unit. It makes all the difference in the world! What they ate growing up is not going to even matter to them.
at 20.05 you forgot to censor the second time you said your brothers name :)
If a dude got on TikTok and did half this crap with his daughter, and started talking about being her first kiss, people would freak out, it is not normal, it is weird.
Excatly.
they freak out when dads are present for his kids and shows them all affection. there was a video of a dad holding his son hugging him.
There has been the odd one, not sure if Michelle showed it or someone else but I remember a Dad got down on one knee and extracted a promise from his daughter that she'd wear a 'purity ring' he gave her in a marriage proposal pose in her 20's and she agreed to keep her virginity. Then there's the Daddy daughter dates. I have no issues with a Dad taking daughter out for dinner or a school do but it's the use of the term 'daddy/daughter' I find icky for adults. Just as icky as the Mum straddling her teen boy in public.
Yes I've seen this too, so creepy. Tbf this is a video about how this boy mum thing is creepy and Michelle's not the first to talk about this.
There are videos and articles about creepy and toxic boy moms all over the place
These are the types of parents that wear wedding dresses to their sons’ weddings.
Because "it is their day TOO!"
AH such a good point
It's the "pick me" to "boy mom" to "monster in law" pipeline
That's so gross to me. It's like: go have your own wedding, you weirdo.
Omg Ronni you nailed it, that really is the pipeline, the cause is probably not spending time in their own skin, self reflecting and finding ways to be whole, even though it can be uncomfortable at first, it's the right and healthy thing to do long term. They seem to take the easy way out that promises instant gratification and they make their own internal holes everyone else's problem...they can be such tiring people even if they aren't in your family but a coworker even, they're usually the covert (fake nice) narcissist bully...
I hate people that say, "Youre not a parent. Dont tell me how to raise my kid." As they are raising little gremlins that are insanely disrespectful and you can already tell will be in and out of jail.
I may not be a parent, but I was a kid, and I can tell you right now that this stuff is actively destroying these children
Not meteioning abusing them or making them a movie stats at young age without thire will
Many star show kids turned bad like jojo siwa and with hows Ryan's world is crumbling
@@LowlyDegenerate 💯
Them not raising them right will cause issues (if they don't already) to others around them.
So it definitely is other people's business if their child is disturbing theirs'.
Like you're gonna tell me "don't tell me how to raise my child" as your child is kicking my backseat and you're doing nothing to stop them, like be fr
I'm a parent and I can say that is just a cheap tactic to shut you up and make themselves feel superior.
I used to call myself a boy mom because I have 3 boys and no girls. After hearing this definition I'm just a mom of boys 🤣. These people are crazy
I know it makes me so sad! “Boymom” used to just mean a mom of boys who embraces the messy loud chaos of having boys and goes in and plays legos and wrestles with them. And now it’s some kind of weird overly emotionally emeshed with their kid creepy overbearing mom. So annoying, I want our word back!
Yep. I say I'm a mom of two boys because I literally am. I'm not weird about it. These women must not have husband's.
i want boys because you can roughhouse with them and they are so fun my mom nannys a baby boy and hes so funny and is a sweet heart, i wouldn't love one child more then the other because i fell like im one of the children that isn't as loved its not fun and its unfair when they didn't ask o be thrown in with you they just are who they are
Same here 😂 three boys wouldn’t mind to have a girl but god gave me three little blessings who just so happen to be boys. The fact that they really took the words boy mom and turned them gross is unsettling to me
People kept telling me when I was pregnant with my third, 'Oh I hope you have a girl!' And I was like, why would you wish that on me? What would I do with a girl?
I had two boys and I was an extreme tomboy as a kid, and I was so afraid if I ended up with a girl, she'd end up being super girly by nature. But I had a 3rd boy and all was well. lol
The only silver linining is when the daughters get older and say "Mom you treated me badly and favored my brother" the Moms can't say "Well I don't remember that."...cause they filmed all of it lol.
omg YES!
You, and every individual, have the absolute right to judge shit behavior exhibited by other people. You don't need to be a mother to know that starving, beating, and exploiting a child is bad.
Steve Hofstetter has a great joke to illustrate exactly that. That he doesn't need to be a parent to know someone's doing a bad job. He says he also doesn't know how to fly a helicopter, but if he sees one in a tree, he knows someone fucked up somewhere.
If I treated my ducks and chickens like these people treat their kids, the full force of the Internet would be upon me. They, on the other hand, are celebrated, or at least make money from the attention. Disgusting.
@@danjo2080I LOVE that bit by Steve
Nailed it 🎉
Yeah, it’s pretty much common sense and having the ability to feel empathy.
Why do all those momtok moms look alike? That's so creepy...
Was just thinking the same thing.
The bloodline is pretty tight😅
Lol that's exactly what my husband said :D
was thinking the same thing
Peaked in high school, immediately got married and had kids, desperate for male validation because their husbands don’t value them lol 😂 it has a certain look
the woman using her daughter for pdo content does not deserve to have a child she’s so sick
I feel sick knowing these mothers are out here exploiting children like this. The people commenting on the videos ans photos need to be investigated asap
Yeah she is easily the worst one and it's not even close. Her explanation only made me more disgusted. She is setting up her daughter to be stalked by an unhinged pdf file and she either doesn't care or is too stupid to process that. Her poor daughter deserves better
@@feitme me too it’s so unbelievable that any mother could do that to her own little baby
and you’re right i wish i knew where they lived to report them to the police wherever they are for child images because i can bet they have them 🤢
same i couldn’t believe she said it so casually like it’s not a big deal to put your child in danger like that and try to cater to sick men just for money
she does the poor girl i really don’t think she should be allowed to have any child
I hope that woman is on a FBI watch list cause she's probably doing some thing worse in private
Omg I’m so,glad you addressed that creepy football mom climbing all over her son. That was so cringe, creepy and awful!
Gross !
Agree, completely disgusting
But if it was a dad doing that to his daughter he would’ve been thrown to the ground and carried away in cuffs (as he should be) but bc it’s mom it’s called a love embrace..yea ok
@@nininini2629yeah, just ick.
my mother was like this. Beside what this did to me psychologically as a daughter, it definitely hurt my brother. He turned out to be a good person, but he's in his mid 20s, has never dated a woman, and is very lonely. He fears she will scare away any woman he dates, and has given up.
I’m lowkey afraid for my brother. My mother couldn’t be a mother for me and now I live in an orphanage. My brother still lives with her. They have always had a different relationship than me and I fear that it is something similar to this.. He’s only fourteen.
How about just teaching our sons and daughters how to cook (and other important skills) simply so they may be self reliant and efficient in general? What the hell is wrong with these people??
Everything. Heck I've learned how to do laundry and load the dish washer over time. Started out with 4-7: Okay Sage, watch now. Now we're going to fold. 8-11: Help load. Stop. Now we're gonna put the cleaned dishes away. 12-14: How to measure the detergent. 15-present: Whip right through that without batting an eye.
For real. My husband didn’t know how to cook or do laundry. I had to teach him how to scramble eggs 😭 basic skills need to be taught regardless of gender.
Yes that's really important to me with my two boys because my bf/their dad didn't learn until his early 20s to do anything since his mom did everything for him. Granted they are barley 3 and 2 but they honestly help me around the house it takes twice as long but it makes them happy
My hubby cooks on his days off, I help him break colts. No gender roles, just hard work and lots of love!
@ToryAndKateLarsen That's what's up! My husband was a better cook AND more meticulous about laundry and dishes than I am! His mom's a total badass, so it's unsurprising that he could do all that AND fix a car, too! Lord, I miss that man ❤
I knew a girl I used to be friends with. She had two girls and one boy. She fell into hard times, and gave away her two girls to her mother, and kept the son. I was invited to thanksgiving one year at her moms, the girls were so sweet when I met them and the son was rotten to the core. And she was absolutely oblivious at how 👹 her son was. After finding out about everything and how she discarded her little girls and even went no contact, I couldn’t keep the friendship going. Not to mention I was willing to to help her with anything she needed so we could have the girl move back in. It still boils my blood.
:((
That's literally disgusting. That woman doesn't deserve any kids at all. I feel so bad for those girls! 😭
Its bizarre to me to hear people describe children as "rotten to the core." Just criticize her parenting and the impact it has on her kids. To judge a child who is undeveloped and a product of their environment so harshly over something they can't control is gross.
Not surprised she kept the boy seeing how popular being a "boy mom" is, not to mention how disturbing, creating enmeshment and codependency with the poor kid because the mom doesn't have her stuff together...go get help, go to therapy, get a friend, make a stronger relationship with your significant other, any of those instead of taking a little boy emotionally hostage because it's trendy and you have emotional baggage...
Why is it "bizarre?" Some kids are unnecessarily bad af for absolutely no justifiable reason!! Even children know right from wrong so....@SpitFireDebates
It's called emotional incest 🤮
And it’s incredibly damaging :/
Sure is. My friends fiancé is dealing with that with his elderly father and they’re waiting for the old jerk to die so they can get married. Super creepy
We all know that it isn't stopping at "emotional".
@@T1theinfamousLet's not go there... 🤮
It’s technically called enmeshment
As a mom of 3 young kids, i kinda hate the "mom" scene altogether. It's like being back in high school where you're ostracized if you're not rich/pretty/religious/etc enough.
Right. I don't have any "Mom " friends either.
Yes! Feels like high-school, and I hated high-school lol
Dude your Mom’s reaction “Why the F*** would I do that??” 😂😂😂
I know, that was hilarious 😂
I laughed so hard, it was so genuine 😂
3:05 omg the specific 'from your vagina' is soo annoyingly accurate. Got an older coworker that insisted that c-section is not a real birth and those who went through it are not real mother. I was like sis, these women grow the baby in their womb just the same, the babies just got out using different methods and they will grow to be human adult just like the ones delivered vaginally. And she works in healthcare! How could she be so ignorant? Shuddered to think what kind of nonsense she will spout about parents of preemies and adopted kids
It makes me so upset when people say that because both me and my baby were in danger and I had to have an emergency C-section and we might not be here if I had tried to deliver vaginally.
I too work in Healthcare and think she's more WRONG than I can even say with words. In fact, I've been a pediatric nurse for 15 years and again she's WRONG 😊
I've heard this brought up before and I truly don't understand. Women who've had c-sections still had a child and the recovery for a c-section is much worse than a vaginal birth! Anyone who believes that is not very smart
That's so weird.
Is this woman aware of how many "fake mothers" -her words - have died or would have died giving birth vaginally? What a damn ghoul.
I don't have kids yet, but I used to teach at a daycare. I've seen some moms who believe their little boy can do no wrong. It's like, ma'am, you're going to turn your son into a jerk 😒
That son will definitely grow up to abuse his girlfriends
@@teapartygotham boyfriends/coworkers, bare minimum abuses all retail workers...
This is called emotional incest. It's not just disturbing to see from an outside perspective, it's also very damaging to the kids. Please don't do it. And please call out people you know and notice that do it. 🙃
Also, as a birth mom who delivered by c-section and an adoptee who was delivered by c-section, the whole "you can't understand love without birthing a child out your hooha" is such a crock of dog shi...and I personally think people who think like that say stuff like that because they don't understand love themselves and/or understand how love can and should differ between separate people.
Yep. That's insecurity or that thing some mothers just have to do - compete with other women in some sort of personal olympics to prove their worth, to whom I don't know. I'm affectionate with my adult son and only child but no more than with my sister, brother and Mum (small family - siblings never had kids). Some of these examples are too over the top for my liking.
Agreeeeeeed!!!
@@tkpsexactly! 🗣️💁🏽♀️
My kids and I were all born via cesarean. I also have a brother that was adopted. Never have I ever felt or experienced anything less than people with some obsession about vaginal birth being best. Its giving "I gotta be better than you" vibes 😂
I think it's a superiority complex. Like getting a c-section is "taking the easy way out," which is silly. Sure, if you have a planned c-section, you don't go through the labor process (though most c-sections happen after labor has been going on a while) but it's still not a walk in the park, and arguably has a longer healing time. My mom had 6 children, I was #2 and an emergency c-section, the rest of my siblings were delivered at home. During her 6th pregnancy, all of her muscles tore along the incision line 😳 she told me that healing from my birth was more physically painful than healing from a v-birth. But none of that matters. A parent is a parent, regardless of how they got their baby/child, and the measure of who a "good parent" is, is how they treat their child, not how they became a parent.
Men that had boy moms, are legitimately dangerous.
If you want to get ditched in a dangerous situation or be violently taken advantage of, find yourself a dude with a boy mom
Yes. Absolutely this. These men and their mothers are EXTREMELY disturbed and evil. :)
Some men manage to turn out fine regardless, but...... Most dont. And usually if they do, it ain't because of their mother's, it's inspite of them.
Blanket statements to this degree show how dangerous and emotionally unhinged you are.
@ sure it does buddy
#notallmommasboys, apparently!
I agree they might not *all* be literally dangerous, but also agree that it doesn't do emotionally healthy things for them and that can go all the way to the worst place for some.
I'm happy I wasn't a boy mom's son.
Your mom's response had me spitting tea all over the place
I'm a victim of emotional incest from my dad and as a child you don't realize how abusive and insane it is until you're an adult, able to see how other people treat their children/parents, and in my case, going no contact. The whole "a partner would replace me", no boundaries, inappropriate comments and touching, constant gaslighting of "you can't trust anyone but me, you only need me, you should only want me in your life, no one else". I got my first boyfriend at 21, a very kind, stable guy, college educated with a good job, and my dad disowned me with the unhinged excuse of my boyfriend having "the wrong ethnic background", because my dad found it easier admitting to being a nazi than to admit his feelings for me were not the ones a father should have for his daughter. And thank God he disowned me. He did it hoping I would come running back to him but it massively backfired because for the first time I didn't have him hanging over me and it was WONDERFUL.
TL;DR, I've been 10 years no contact with my nazi dad who wanted to sleep with me and emotional incest IS incest, and awful, period.
I'm glad you got away. I saw a story from Utah of a woman that was murdered by her own obsessive and jealous father.
Calling your orn dad a Nazi is a clear sign he messed up, on top of all the other stuff. What a disrespectful disloyal little brat! Hopefully you're not expecting an inheritance.
@@mostHumblePersonAlive Whoa! I never heard of that!
The Boy Mom thing is so weird. I have a 4 year old son and literally my biggest fear for his future is that he ends up some kind of weird incel that doesn’t know how to relate to women as human beings. I can’t imagine putting that kind of energy on them on purpose 😳
RIGHT?
Having that fear about a 4 year old is just as psychotic.
@@ezebott1624it’s not psychotic. She’s saying that’s the worse possibly thing he could be so she’s preventing it.
Psychology says whatever ur big fear is makes u the problem, ... if ur kid doesn't come out the way u want them ,it might be because of u and if they do come out the way u want then they might end up 10 times worse then being wired, like a women beater instead of a sexual abuser...
@DiligentThroat Much more likely statistically to raise a son that kills himself vs one that never has sex.
The internet has given narcissists a bigger platform than ever before. Some of these people, unfortunately, have children. I can't imagine broadcasting my business for the world to see unless I was desperate for attention.
Well, yes! The desperation for attention is insufferable, and mostly they exhibit victim mindset mentality and want people to say “you work so hard you’re such a good mom” even though their kids are poster children of childhood neglect and abuse
@@meme-bu8qu 💯💯💯💯💯
Yeah they seem to be the new version of "I gave you a roof over your head and fed you!" from back in the day when loud obnoxious parents convinced the society that that was not just enough but a great sacrifice on their part and that children need to be grateful and not talk so much.
19:45 "Alright, let me concentrate"! Mom for WIN! She understands the assignment immediately 😮🎉😂
I got nauseated and almost cried when you talked about the mom who didn't take down the suggestive content of her own toddler. As a mom I just... that's... so vile...as a human I find that vile. Gross.
I love that Michelle is willing to sing the songs to avoid copyright. It actually makes watching the clips more enjoyable. 😂
Not really, rather cringe
@darlingnine8803 sucks when everyone is having a good time except for you 🤷🏼♀️
I loved her rendition in this episode 😂
@@darlingnine8803then why watch?
@@Hannahsunshine-so true 😂
Wait until you see the new Tik Tok drama with that pregnant mom of 4 kids who makes them sleep on the floor while she and her husband take the only bedroom in their apartment
What!! That's awful. I truly can't stand these parents who don't even consider the development of their children. These are such crucial periods that shape our babies into the wonderful people they can be.
@guavanectarforever wait until you find out that daddy dearest is a deadbeat with a breeding kink who left his full time job to avoid paying child support to his previous partners and does Doordash part time
I’ve been there and we slept on the floor and our daughters had the bed and room. They are awful
Yea that mom made me so upset I had to just stop watching all stuff about it. Just too upsetting
@whateveryouneed4858 oh for fk sakes, that is just vile. Guess I'm going down a rabbit hole 😑 there are so many of these types of people online (especially on TikTok), and they really shouldn't be around children. People like that is why I want to be a foster parent; I absolutely can't stand how these people fail to set their own babies up for success in the world and provide an abysmal environment for them. It is incredibly aggravating!
15:26 letting your son beat your daughters is gonna get worse and worse the older they get
Yes, same with my older sister, she is the golden child, abused me, did things I would never dare to do and we always got different treatments. She basically ruined my life, my parents always let her do what ever she wants, now she is almost 40 and never lived by herself and now she gets my grandmas house because she has a boyfriend. 😂
@@anamosity_sosowhen you don't discipline ur kid and you treat them like one of ur friends 🤦♀️
Yep. And imagine thinking teaching your son basic skills is abüsê. I don’t go online bc this cräp is atrocious.
@@anamosity_soso I was the scapegoat child too. I had different rules than both my older and younger sister. It’s like they got away with literally everything, and I got away with nothing, even frequently being Blämed for the stuff my sisters did. There were also differences in expectations. They would make messes but I wasn’t allowed to, even being made to clean up THEIR messes they left everywhere. I was also held to a higher standard. My older sister frequently failed classes and my mom didn’t care. My younger sister would be celebrated for receiving all C grades. I was expected to get straight As every year, no excuses. Even when my mom refused to help me with any homework (I stopped asking her for help when after I did once at 7 and she started chøkïng me just for asking for help.) And the only time I ever received a single C, the rest were straight As, she screamed in my face that it was unacceptable and I was a failure while she ripped up my report card while I cried. My younger sister is absolutely the golden child. My mom would always do stuff just with her all the time. But if she was going to take me to do something my younger sister would always come along, never it could be just me and her bc that was “unfair” to my sister. She never cared about leaving me out and treating me unfairly tho. To this day her and my younger sister go on multiple solo vacations a year. I don’t think I’ve been on vacation in years, I think what’s even worse is no one in the extended family cares either. No one cared about me for my entire life. My mom obviously hasn’t changed, you’d think my younger sister would do well. But coddling your children usually has the opposite affect. My older sister is a complete failure and my mom expects me to care for her LMAOO. Many people don’t deserve kids, speaking from experience my parents were two of them.
She’s going to have to sell the family house to pay his legal bills one day in an effort to prove he is innocent of some heinous crime, even though there’s video evidence and 30 eye witnesses.
The mom impression is SPOT ON. Down to the Stanley cup. From one childfree woman to another, thank youuuu!
So many are copy paste airheads whose priority is getting attention and not developing a thought of their own let alone their own personality and taste. It's like they're coming out of a factory line in an age where technically there are so many options to like so many different things and to be so many different things. Safety in numbers even if it's toxic...convenience over effort and so on.
I don’t even use tiktok. I get all my drama neatly summarized from you 😂
People are soo weird
Thanks Michelle you’re awesome
Boy mom here. My son is an offensive lineman, he’s also an only child, we are super tight, he’s in 3 different sports, and won many a game/meets, and not once in all my excitement have I ever gotten so excited I strattled my son EVER!!! Have some self control gods sakes
My adult son's an only child too and we've always been very close. I knew he stopped needing me when after he married I stopped very regularly hearing from or seeing him. Now he calls every few weeks if he has something to say or he/they drop in. It says his wife has completely taken my place and that's as it should be. That Mum straddling her son may have trouble letting go.
Personally, no self-control would be necessary to NOT straddle my son on a football field.
@@tkps mom and wife have different roles....I'm definitely not taking mom's place. I'd also be put off by a man who doesn't care about his mom suddenly, in our culture she lives with us too. It's our turn to care for mom ya know? It's only fair (dad too)
I feel bad for that boy. He looked embarrassed in the video and I'll bet he gets teased by the other players because of his mom's antics.
The thought of doing that is weird and vile. I have an adult son and a teen son. It has never crossed my mind. I'm disgusted by this sick behavior.
I dated a mommas boy…I was never good enough, she always shit talked me, hated me, made me feel like I was stealing her son from her
Yep. I also have dated one. Well was actually married to one. It was awful and been single ever since my eyes were opened😂🤷♀️
I been there I dated a guy for over 14 years a major momma's boy....god help me😅
Nothing infuriated me more than my ex bf's mom constant passive agressive behaviour towards me and my whole family.
If there is one person who I am glad about not being part of my life anymore, it's her.
@@kmetyek134 she annoyed you too my boyfriends mom was judgmental I hate that
My sister dated someone and had the exact same experience. The mom wouldnt even allow her to sit next to him at the dinner table. The mom had some serious emotional incest issues. The stories my sister told me were disgusting
ngl, it feels like those boy mom's got some HEAVY deep-rooted issues with male validation and attention. Either not getting it from their partner or maybe having some daddy issues because I really can't explain that behavior to me in any other form 😭😭
Either that, or serious control issues. Some of the boy moms I hear about infantilize their sons, and make an effort to keep them as dependent as possible.
The mom of that three year old little girl should be in jail, period. There is not a chance in hell she doesn't know exactly what she's doing and making money off of exploiting her daughter, and if she's willing to do that in front of a camera God only knows what she might be willing to do off of a camera. Absolute sicko who doesn't deserve a child.
Wow those poor kids seeing their moms choose the other kids over them. I can’t imagine what that does to the brain
My brother was my mother’s favorite. He was the 5th and final child and only boy. He spit on her as a toddler and she laughed it off. He grew up to be a total narcissist and that started all back then.
Aghhh that’s awful! 😫
My dad is the only surviving boy from my grandma’s kids (there’s a lot of illness in my family, inherited or otherwise). It shows.
I have a son and daughter. He is 3 years older. I do my best to treat them as equally as possible. He only gets additional privileges because of age and she had been promised the same milestones as she ages. I make them do the same chores on rotation. And I take turns with them in the kitchen learning to cook. As far as nutrition goes I was raised by gummy bear parents. Now I am fully addicted to sodas and they keep my weight up. In my adulthood I switched the way I was eating and tried to encourage my extended family to do the same. Nearly everyone in my family is overweight and eventually become diabetic. So I treat soda like beer in my house and it is off limits to my kids. They are a healthy weight and have pretty good eating habits.
Blessings to you and your family 💖
that's a great idea! also a good way to teach responsible drinking perhaps
Awesome that you recognize what sugar did you and you love your kids enough to realize they deserve better. Lots of good vibes and positivity to you and the kiddos!!
I grew up on only soda and it's SO HARD to break!! My son is not quite 2 yet but we only drink water and milk, I am trying to keep him on good food and liquids and make treats a very sometimes thing.
I'm also definitely paying good attention to trying to raise my son to be a confident and kind person, and make sure all my children and up feeling cherished and valued. I've seen the monsters that happen when one is worshipped
Michelle…”And I’ve been Sittin’ on his face ever since” 💀 😂 💯
Comments like this one is why I love her so much. 😁
This
i had to pause the video and scroll to see if anyone else heard that
I'm saying lol
This had me 🤣🤣🤣☺️
I so loveeeee your mom’s response!!!!! She said out loud what I was thinking 😂.
Exs mom was one. He had 5 sisters they had careers and homes etc while he was a 32 year old unemployed manipulative drug addict who lived off of begging and manipulating mommy and used everyone around him while being convinced that he's awesome hes got it going on and hes entitled to everything from everyone...and the whole family hated each other. This is the future for your precious special amazing sons
You don’t need to be a mother to recognize narcissistic, exploitative, or predatory behavior. But, if you need a mother to validate you I can definitely say none of this behavior is normal. It’s disgusting.
Michelle you need to include a little segment in more of your videos where you call your mom to ask silly questions 😂 she is so sweet and funny!
Yes but just the mom themed videos to keep it cohesive
I was dying 😂 yes we need more excuses to get mama Michele's takes
"What would I do that for?!" had me LOL'ing.
Some people absolutely shouldn’t have kids. These TikTok “moms” are everlasting proof of it…
*Most people
I don’t have children. I also don’t have a helicopter pilot license but if I see a helicopter in a tree I know something has gone wrong.
this is so funny
your phone call with your mom was the most mom response ever. when she went on about how not normal that was i was dying laughing haha
I am so incredibly glad that my own abusive mother wasn't young enough to be in the digital age. She was obsessed like a bird with her own reflection and being popular more so than caring for her children properly. If she was also making money from clicks I would have never made it out of her house.
I hope every kid "star" sues social media and this type of content is banned.
They should sue social media, not their parents? You know, who did the actual harm and possibly made money…
Nah cause some of these women really need to be investigated and looked at hard when it comes to their son's.
Like, you shouldn't want a mommy's boy; the fact that you seem disappointed he's not one is creepy
YES!! I don't want either of my kids to rely on me and dote on me for everything, every day. My Autistic daughter will probably live with us, but she's independent already at 13 mostly lol😊
As a mother to a son..when you sang that song as a Halloween one…accurate. These ladies are not treated well by the man they made that boy with so they get the love from the son..as a daughter I know that too well.
Lol I appreciate that Michelle sings the songs. I don't really know songs, and when youtubers say they have to mute the audio to avoid getting copyrighted but the song is -whatever- I always feel like I'm missing context since I don't know the song. A+ for Michelle!
That split screen of you stepping into the room as alternate universe Michelle with babies, I cannot. XD
This is unrelated to the video, but as of today I am 170 pounds! My highest weight was 210 since June and I’m so proud of myself! I’ve been intermittent fasting, cutting out sugar, and doing 60 minutes of exercise daily! For the longest time I felt like I didn’t deserve to be happy within my own body, but since cutting off my abusive family and finding God, my eating patterns are much more healthier!
For those who are in their 20s like me and are considering losing weight, do it! Don’t believe people who say, “Don’t lose weight, you look great the way you are!” Everyone deserves to be healthy regardless. As a black woman, I want to look like Anok Yai by 25, not Lizzo. Keep up the great work!
that's awesome! it feels amazing to see results of your hard work and you should absolutely feel so, so proud!
Much love! ❤️
Let's gooo! I'm proud of you.
Congratulations!!!!!
That’s amazing!!! You deserve to be proud of yourself! Wishing you all the best in your health journey❤
16:02 speaking as a bio mom and step mom of 4 kids total, children learn VERY YOUNG (2 or 3 years old) how to be manipulative. I've had other mothers get mad at me for saying this, but it's true. They think their perfect angel would never lie or manipulate a situation to their benefit... but they do. I've witnessed it with my kids and not my kids. Humans are flawed, that includes children.
PREACH!!!!
But this doesn’t mean they are “flawed”. It’s natural for humans to manipulate and it has it’s upsides and meaning as well. It’s one of our strategies to fulfill our needs and it’s not necessarily a “dark” trait. It’s much more complex than that. You could look up dr. Becky Kennedy, she’s giving a very human and compassionate perspective on this topic.
I dislike the word “manipulative” though. It really implies an intent that kids don’t have. If their needs aren’t being met appropriately, they will change their behavior to get those needs met.
Children tell the truth they see.
Oh manipulative is the correct word alright. Not to be malicious but just to get their way. At 3 my niece would ask mum for a biscuit and ask for an extra one for aunty, then eat them both. And I had no idea about any biscuits! It was purposeful, but not to hurt anyone, just to get something for herself.
25:00 when that mom is being an actual good mom teaching her son about food and meal planning and then people FIGHTING in the comments was wild smh
I told my son that my job as a mother is to make sure he can take care of himself.
People online are morons
@@aesinam agree
6:39 cheating when you're MARRIED WITH CHILDREN is so immature and irresponsible OMG. This DESTROYS FAMILIES and usually affects the children involved in some way. You have to do what's best for a child at all times and part of being a parent is making sacrifices. If you don't think you can sacrifice your dating life and stay loyal to someone until all of your theoretical children become functional adults then you should absolutely not have children and never get married. Don't be the parent you wouldn't want to have.
9/10 if a monogamous relationship turns into a polygamous relationship it’s also about to turn into a nonexistent relationship
I forgot about Wren. That poor little girl is going to have the worst time growing up. At least her older brother got the luxury of privacy; something she never got. I remember one TikTok where they found out the mom had her own information private, but not her daughter's.
My daughter recently started a YT channel, and 90% of my job as a mom of a young adult is helping her understand that not everything is meant to be shared... and that "authentic" is scripted. 😅
Yeah that video of that mom dancing as her infant is admitted for an RSV infection just makes me nauseous. People may deal in different ways but this feels borderline disrespectful. I work with these babies and their little bodies go through hell with RSV. They can be hospitalized for several days! Most of the parents are devastated and scared rather than filming a dance video for social media... next to their ailing infant
And that mom couldn't reallt understand why her unvaxinated child was so sick
Borderline? It is, no everything has to be on social media.
28:52 do you even know why did her son got "jumped"? It was because he allegedly SA's younger sister of one of the boys, and when they confronted him he threw the first punch. It was also (allegedly) not his first victim as also 3 other girls got traumatised the same way. Those moms are just raising narcisists and predators, as they enable every type of wrong behavior while also not letting them mature.
You forgot about the wine moms. Those are also strange. A lot of the videos basically say that if you're a mom, then you better be an alcoholic bc otherwise you can't survive.
And then the wine moms HATE the weed moms 🤣 the wine moms can't understand they're alcoholics and call the weed moms addicts. The weed moms point out they both have an addiction then or that weed isn't addicting and they alllll spiral 💀🤣 and I say this as a mom who smokes and drinks 🤣🤣🤣 I just love watching the chaos unfold in the mom groups.
These parents are no better than pimps, if you ask me. Obviously I don't think the ones who are just dancing or cooking are evil, but the ones like Wren's mom? Face the wall.
A bit extreme but i get what you mean, they’re exposing their children to any weird person out there
Nah, as a child who went thru something similar, just not online, im telling you when that little girl grows up she will see no difference between her mother and a pimp @@l0velyfl0wer
And they've been told so many times that pedos are a big part of their audience so they are knowingly serving them up on a platter. Hopefully their kids will sue them for the money they earned and then cut contact.
Im a 40 year old parent. This is bizarre behavior. And constantly posting your children on the internet for content is gross. You know they might not want their entire childhood on the internet for their highschool friends / or anyone else to see.
Also, the amount of creeps on the Internet too. Why would they endanger their children like that? I honestly will not feel bad if these kids resent and distance themselves from their parents when they're older.
Children below the age of 16 should not legally have access or be allowed on social media.
Of course they would get around it, but it would make enforcement easier
It definitely should no be allowed to MONETIZE content with minors under 16.
I think 13 is a better age, but only if your child is mature enough ❤ my mom let me have like one social media app at 12-13, and I got to be a kid well(keep their accounts on private too!) but with other social media like tiktok, totally at least 16
@raccoon9496 13 is old enough to be curious about sex while being totally ignorant.
At 13 i was watching live leak best gore and browsing snuff films on 4chan..
I have to disagree.
Love the mom call 😂
Great video as always 🫶
When I feel like a terrible mom for watching my tiny folk crumple cuz I said no, we have to wear uniform clothes to school. And I feel that twinge of guilt for them crying. But we can't get sent home from school.... But these online parents are just insane and then I look at them and think it's not so bad trying NOT to raise douchebags. We gotta say no sometimes.
‘Tiny folk’? Omg, that’s so cute. I’m gonna start saying that
Relatable 😂 I'm always thinking I'm too harsh, then I go out in public, I don't even have to go online, just hang out with some of my friends/families kids. Immediately I feel 100x better because atleast people can stand to be around my kids and they arnt absolute demons to everyone around them.... my kids can function in society and get along with all age groups of people...
100% on this.
@@b0nsaibabe mine aren't gonna be tiny for much longer tho. Both sides are over 6' and I know they will be taller than my 6'1 😅
@@daddysgirl102938yes! I will leave a park or situation when other kids mess with mine or if someone does something to threaten mine cuz mama bear don't play. But these others sometimes... They are crazy. And I keep in mind, I might be mean mommy for sometimes saying no, but it's for the best down the road.
This is so bizarre! I always wanted a little boy, and now I have two! I love them AND I am also excited at the idea of them one day having girlfriends and then wives. They go to school with the sweetest little girls, and I cannot imagine hating on young children who aren't even interested in dating yet.
Exactly. I have 3 boys and I can't wait to one day get daughters in law. I'll spoil them like my own kids because I have no girls 😂 I want to be their second mom. And I can't wait to be a grandma too! I won't be the most important person in their life anymore but they will always be mine. Having DILs would just mean more people to love in my life.
as a mom with ex-mom friends both outwardly like this, and subconsciously treating their boys like this. the common denominator? shitty husbands. well my husband clearly doesn't love me - but my son definitely will. and yes, the girls/or even other boys notice as this is basically specified golden child.
my sister did* this through having more children because babies/toddlers simply love you easier because older kids start to see your bullshit. kid starts being an individual? time for a blank slate baby.
and you can see resentment building in the other kid and* its like you try to help or give advice but that makes you the devil to people like this. i think only they can fix it by admitting it which is obviously hard asf.
*typo
That mom that’s constantly making excuses for her sons bad behavior and disciplining her daughter(s) for the smallest offense towards him needs a reality check. If she doesn’t nip that behavior in the bud it’s not going to be long before he walking all over her, and his sisters won’t be the only girls he’s hitting on…
The doll edits are EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!
When my son has his first kiss that will be his first kiss. Mommy and daddy kisses don’t count!
On that note, parents that kiss their kids on their lips are also gross. There is absolutely no need for that and no wonder it looks weird.
Michelle showing up to assure me that even on my worst days parenting 19, 17, and 15 yr old daughters, at least I'm not a tiktok mom. Thanks girl! 😘
All teenagers!! You’re superwoman!!
"ive been sitting on his face ever since" is a barrrrr 26:08 😂😂😂😂
Proof that the apple (Michelle) doesn’t fall far from the tree (her mum). 😂
I loved your mum’s response 😂
I would cut contact with my mom so fast if she documented my life for the internet. So thankful I grew up with a mom that hated social media like my dad
I was creeped by the strattle hug mom...
It seems that because moms like her are stuck in their high-school age mentally, she probably wishes that she was a cheerleader and in high-school all over again, so it's like very disturbingly immersive vicarious living through her son...yikes
Considering the fact that I’ve seen animals be pampered and taken far more care of than literal children, you don’t have to be a parent to be able to love and care for something well or even speak on the weirdo/bad parents out there lmao
This! ☝️
26:22 is she not pretty much her own boss? she has her own podcast show right? that she runs im pretty sure. sounds pretty independent to me
27:39 FILM COOPER MENTIONED!
I'm pregnant right now and this is making me feel very uncomfortable :D it's like a horror movie
Me too, fr, its very uncomfortable. I can't fathom being upset that my future child might find a healthy happy relationship due to my own jealousy, that's nuts.
Not just moms there are plenty of dads doing the same thing and I am tired of ALL of them
This one had so many great inserts but that two seconds of: “The Husband” was *chef’s kiss*
The call with your mom is absolutely rewatch-on-loop worthy. She had to stop and focus to WTF with you 🤣
Moral of the story....Michelle's mom should be featured on the channel more often. Love her energy.
"Oh OK, let me concentrate" 🤣😂🤣😂💖💖💖💖✨️✨️✨️✨️
Your mom is adorable!!!
Makes me sick. 😡 You however are hilarious 😂
I just scrolled through lives last night one UA-cam. It's DISGUSTING how many people we're just filming their innocent children and forcing them to perform. There HAS to be rules against this
Laws need to hurry up and get with the times. It should absolutely be illegal to exploit your children. These parents are disgusting.
Also, you dont need to have children to see abuse, neglect, and exploitation. You just have to have a brain.
25:30 my mom always cooked and when she had to leave for a work trip and left 3 children with my dad, that’s when we found out that he only knew how to cook oatmeal on the stove and when she got back we told her what we ate every single day (it was oatmeal, morning/lunch/night 4 days straight), she from then on taught us how to cook, i’m so happy for their divorce, i’m in my 30s now and I swear I’m so thankful for him cooking oatmeal for us and I can cook any meal that anyone can ever think of now
The stare down portion made me quite literally laugh out loud
The mom is creepy
I remember when my friend first told me about you & you were still called “my thoughts will probably offend you” & I was SURE my friend was sending rage bait but it turns out I agree with you 92% of the time & have now been following you for years. 😂 Thanks for always saying what I’m thinking!
As a boy mom and boy granny, this is so freaking toxic. Why are these women demeaning their daughter's like this. Perpetrating sexist crap. It's bad enough we have to deal with this with men. The internal misogyny is absolutely disgusting.
I wouldn't blame their daughter's if they cut them off when they get older. They don't deserve their daughter's. That's my opinion and I stand on that!!!!
Then the moms will proceed to blame the daughter and call her problematic
Reminds me of a headline from either The Onion or Reductress, "Mom taking it personally that you're in therapy"
@@teapartygotham that's on her then, not the daughter.
@@LowlyDegenerate oh well. Mom's like that will never take responsibility. All I can say is "Bless that Mom's heart" 🤷♀️
The misogyny and misandry with these parents is not going to lend to a better world is it.
Oh kids know. That's why he's smiling like he's gonna terrorize the house til kingdom come.
I had to live with the by-product of one of these boy moms. Merging my family and the stepfamily was a complete utter nightmare, and words cannot even describe how my stepmom's son ruined me and my dad's life. As a teenager, he would regularly assault us and tell me to unalive myself. But when I defended myself or told him to F off or F you, I was made to apologize while he got away with literally treating us like actual trash. Still, words cannot describe how bad it was living with a boy's mom and her son. She who was also a self-absorbed narcissist, created a narcissist who is a danger to society and will likely end up in prison because he has never had to take accountability for anything. He's already had multiple run ins with the law but has been let off because he's a minor (probably). My dad and I were finally able to move out a few years ago but it completely tore apart my family and the friends I still had left from high school. My dad and I finally know peace now living in Florida.
These boy moms are not cute and not funny, and the consequences of this parenting and double standards are so real. If you know, you know. I think that's the only way to truly understand how bad these situations can be.
My sister married a guy who had a smother. His mom couldn’t handle the honeymoon and got his suitcase and refused to release his clothes. It resulted in him not going and coddling his mom.
Thanks for addressing the "you can't say anything cause you DON'T HAVE CHILDREN" argument.
imagine their kids few years later watching vids in which their parents talk about they all were hooking up with each other
I see so much therapy in their future...
I also see so many paternity tests 😂😂😂
I know it was such a small portion of the video, but I’ve never given dudes who are super close with their moms much of a chance. It’s fine to be close with your parents but the moment I notice a bit of weirdness I shut it down real quick. They can make some other woman miserable but it sure as hell won’t be me
I feel really sorry for the generations being raised in this era of social media madness. It really is the wild west of child rearing in the digital age. The repercussions could be catastrophic on a global scale.
So true!! and it's incredibly threatening how many people don't realize this or talk about it
Finally a new video from michelle I am in the hospital recovery from surgery but seeing your videos makes me smile❤
Seeing moms getting obsessed loving their sons on tik tok is creepy if I ever have a child (if it does happen) I refuse to expliot my children
Bless their hearts. I know it’s got to be rough being so desperate for attention 😢
Exactly.