They’ve been homeless for 5 years. He lies, steals, disappears, does drugs, yet “ he saved” her. From what ma’am? I can’t imagine what he saved her from that’s worse than what he’s putting her through. Why are you trying to have a baby when you’re homeless? What’s going on here?
I totally agree with this… but I’m a social worker for single homeless women and when I tell you I have stories that would shake you to your core from these women who do the same exact thing as this young lady… I have stories. Very very sad ones. So many thing happen to the women I work for to assist them to keep stabile housing. I can truly understand why she choose this… I pray that everyone gets the help they need in this situation. I pray people give her grace
Let's keep going... red flags keep flowing. Dating at the resource🚩 making babies but can't make it to the altar🚩 Kept them homeless most of the relationship🚩
They're also missing a mark with Ms. Casanova. This woman isn't all there. She's traumatized. Look at her eyes. She's definitely broken. He's a 60 year old druggie? I would leave this man. She's in her thirties, but then again she's so co dependent on him, she can't leave. Talking about he's on cocaine..... no, you're cracked out. The poor person's drug.
If she stays with him her life is over... he is drowning and.will take her down if she stays . They need to go their separate ways and heal and become whole healthy and self-sufficient ON THEIR OWN
Thank you....I knew I wasn't trippin. There is a 28-year age gap and you can obviously tell that she is delayed and probably didn't have any other support. Now she is stuck dealing with a drug addicted senior citizen because she probably doesn't have any other options. That poor girl😢
Years ago I was working as a social worker. I was at domestic relations (think child support agency). I was there supporting a client. I was hit on by two different men that had thrown adult tantrums about what they owed! I'm not surprised she thought it was ok to date someone she met at the welfare office! People can be EXTREMELY blind to their situations! It's SAD!
60.. You have more excuses then someone that has to go to jail😜. Man ....please, woman he is not for you, he does not have any respect for you and how dare he steal your 💰 for his benefit🤦🏽🤬!
She trying to get her life together and having to take care of a 60yr old man is crazy. She need to set boundaries he can’t be in her life until he gets help.
Shout out to the therapist lady! She did such an excellent job answering direct questions. She didn’t vaguely fly over advice and she gave excellent parting words 💯
Cases like this is sad very sad.. hes taken advantage of her for so long now and she's out up with it.. he doesn't care how she feels or how she's hurting.. how dare he leave her at the car wash to get home somehow.. she deserves alot better
Sounds like 2 people that both shouldn’t be working on a relationship with each other, but need to work on the relationship with themselves. I’m genuinely sad for them both, but at some point, you have to take a stand to save yourself before you can save anyone else.
The Doctor should have never increased his medication, they should have taken him to a chiropractor and warm water therapy find any method other than increasing pain medication that stuff is addictive. Shame on the Dr for not being more careful. Mr Reynolds already was going through mental issues from the loss of his son and being hit by a bus he wasn’t thinking straight he was weak and when drugs were offered he ran to it.
Drug seekers lie. If they cannot get drugs they seek doctors that can get them pills. If we were to look around at the people that we work with in the workplace we would see that a lot of them are on drugs. I realized that I work with a lot of drug addicts. They have Doctor's appointments every week for a back, a hip, a leg and these peoplee in their early thirties. They can't go to traditional doctors like primary care because they probably have something on the computer making it aware these people are drug seekers so they reach out to chiropractor doctors or weight loss doctors so they can get some pills. Just listen to the people in your workplace and you'll find out who the addicts are. This is american problem.
This is all kinds of crazy. She seems a little off, clingy and codependent and he took advantage of that. I hope he gets help and she runs as fast as she can. She seems to need some type of therapy also because she’s not all there
The specialist said she focused on substance abuse and mental health issues. He has drug problems but the young lady has mental health issues I think. That’s why she tolerates this behaviour
*Judge Toler* would have told her to leave and if he actually gets himself right then and only then should she try again if she so chooses... I just don't trust him at all. If she doesn't leave he will only continue to use her.
Low self esteem is real. You and he both in the same office for assistance. First red flag… second disappearing… third… steals and she sees what in this dude. She needs to find her worth and it’s not in him. Dude is 60 years old and still don’t have it together. Ru !
Everyone keep saying he took advantage of someone that’s not all there. He not all there either. He’s just an addict doing addict things and I hope he gets the help he needs
🙂 Addiction can take MANY forms but drugs seem to be the most common... Unfortunately addictions can be stronger than necessities or priorities...I'm glad they didn't try to beat him up and wanted to get him help... Sometimes tough love is okay, sometimes it isn't... It takes ALOT to admit something so shameful to the world... I wish him success... I REALLY hope she is able to heal and get therapy for any issues she may have as well... She seems like a sweetie and wish her the very best as well... 😉Good job on this one Judge Starr...💯
I really HATE the fact that he stole her money, If I were the judge I would have awarded miss Casanova the $600.00 that he stole plus I would have added on an extra $200.00 totaling = $800.00.
Sad case. Ppl can be traumatized at any age and find it hard to get through. Unfortunately if u were unstable before, anything that happens will push ppl over the edge. I Hope they both get the mental help needed to deal with their loss as best as a person can.
Brother is definitely," onstage", he is minimizing his addiction. I have seen people get on with living addiction,and get everything back on track. He's acting!!
This is exactly what happened to my ex boyfriend he was on drugs had open heart surgery and did not take care of himself he kept getting high after the surgery and around the wrong people places and things now he is dead. He was a good person a musical genius and treated me well but he was killing himself after his mother died. In our last conversation he said to me I am knocking on death's door.
Drug addiction!! I knew Thats why she can’t get pregnant and needs to find strength to remove herself from this old mess of a man. Go get your life together girl and NEVER look back. Excuses and lies on top of lies. Homeless together??? No!!
She’s clearly is or was on drugs herself bc that is the only way she would be willing to accept him. It’s also obvious she had a tortured life before meeting him as well. So sad. Twenty-five years her senior is insane!
I sincerely wish them both the best going forward. Glad support was offered to them and there is space for healing. These are two broken people but there is God.
Having a baby with no roof is real wild !! Where is this innocent little human going to sleep, how will his/her laundry get washed , bath & story time , and the list goes on …. Is it me or
I never understood the leaving for days and come back if my lady does that to me she can't come back I'm done because I'm like wtf you did for those days you was gone nah stay away if you leave for days
“I met him while applying for welfare” is all you need to know for how this would go..
Right! Cause I wanna know what HE was doing g at the resource office? 🫡
@@TheeMichellesMindexactly my question. 🤔
😀
I don't want to laugh but have mercy 😂
😮😮😮😂😅
Im 5 minutes in and this guy is definitely an addict.
They’ve been homeless for 5 years. He lies, steals, disappears, does drugs, yet “ he saved” her. From what ma’am? I can’t imagine what he saved her from that’s worse than what he’s putting her through. Why are you trying to have a baby when you’re homeless? What’s going on here?
Benefits? 🤷🏽♀️
I hate to say it, but that’s all I got frfr
Lmaoooo no fr! Like there are just too many damn questions that need answering
I totally agree with this… but I’m a social worker for single homeless women and when I tell you I have stories that would shake you to your core from these women who do the same exact thing as this young lady… I have stories. Very very sad ones. So many thing happen to the women I work for to assist them to keep stabile housing. I can truly understand why she choose this… I pray that everyone gets the help they need in this situation. I pray people give her grace
You don't love her!
@@rhodamontgomery7450 ?
25 yr age difference 🚩 drugs 🚩 disappearing acts🚩 stealing 🚩 excuses, excuses, excuses 🚩 LEAVE THIS OLD MESS OF A MAN NEEEOOOOOOW!
Let's keep going... red flags keep flowing. Dating at the resource🚩 making babies but can't make it to the altar🚩 Kept them homeless most of the relationship🚩
Yes, let's keep it going 🚩. He is dealing with unhealed trauma, he's taking advantage of a mentally challenged woman and he is financially unstable.
Red flag alert. RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK
Leave, girl! Do not pass go. Do not collect $200.00. Leave.
As sad as losing that poor baby was, she has nothing to tie her to this loser
If ending a relationship had me so down bad that I was applying for welfare the last thing i would want would be a date or relationship.
plus they were trying to have a baby. Why????
@@LaverneMerrick-nc9nmmore government assistance
Lmfao frfr!
Because they are crazy. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@@LaverneMerrick-nc9nm
I don't feel sorry for her
Trying to have a baby while homeless? How is your thought process “I’m struggling, so I’m going to bring a child in to struggle with me”
My immediate thought!!! Like yea they both throwed off. He drugging and cheating while she being codependent, homeless and lost
smh it’s sounds like some pple that ain’t on drugs .. who ain’t stable still be doing this 😂😂😂😭☠️✋🏾
Baby immediately qualifies for assistance
No thought process other than wanting a kid to get more welfare
😘🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Crocodile tears from him..hes a con
And he's a faker too
Glad someone else saw through him.
They're also missing a mark with Ms. Casanova. This woman isn't all there. She's traumatized. Look at her eyes. She's definitely broken. He's a 60 year old druggie? I would leave this man. She's in her thirties, but then again she's so co dependent on him, she can't leave. Talking about he's on cocaine..... no, you're cracked out. The poor person's drug.
Judge Mathis would’ve called him a crackhead😂
😂 for the record
😂😂😂😂
crack head vibes 😅
😂😂😂😂
My first thought 😅😂😂😂😂
Umm is it me? Something is off with the both of them.
Exactly. She seems a little slow unfortunately
Forgive me but their intellectual abilities may be a factor in the long term homelessness. Prayers for the child
If she stays with him her life is over... he is drowning and.will take her down if she stays . They need to go their separate ways and heal and become whole healthy and self-sufficient ON THEIR OWN
He's old enough to be her father. This is so sad. Nothing from nothing leaves nothing!
He took advantage of someone who is clearly not all there! Shameful!
How? when she said he rescued her
@@justhereyeah1112 clearly you’re just as slow. Lol.
@@bria7379 clearly you’re just as bitter but go off
@bria7379
It's rude to call her slow. You could have said, Mentally challenged instead.
Thank you....I knew I wasn't trippin. There is a 28-year age gap and you can obviously tell that she is delayed and probably didn't have any other support. Now she is stuck dealing with a drug addicted senior citizen because she probably doesn't have any other options. That poor girl😢
He is a drug addict and I wouldn’t be homeless with no one. She needs to leave him right now
She looks like she’s a little off unfortunately
Junkie shenanigans
Did she say they met at the resource office🤦🏾♀️ THAT’S A MAJOR RED FLAG 🚩 TURN OFF JUST A BIG NO NO!!!
Red flag alert. Run , don't walk and never look back. Life is way too short
This man is trifling…..disappearing acts is definitely a red flag.
This a very sad and real case😢
Exactly
I agree, I hope he got help.
Years ago I was working as a social worker. I was at domestic relations (think child support agency). I was there supporting a client. I was hit on by two different men that had thrown adult tantrums about what they owed! I'm not surprised she thought it was ok to date someone she met at the welfare office! People can be EXTREMELY blind to their situations! It's SAD!
Judge Mathis should've been on this case 😂😅
He's a rude, unfunny bastard
60.. You have more excuses then someone that has to go to jail😜. Man ....please, woman he is not for you, he does not have any respect for you and how dare he steal your 💰 for his benefit🤦🏽🤬!
He’s full of it. Lady leave that man. Judge stop making excuses. He’s a con artist.
A must joke this. This man have no remorse no feelings towards her. Lady please 🙏 please run. Bless your heart n may u develop strength n courage
She trying to get her life together and having to take care of a 60yr old man is crazy. She need to set boundaries he can’t be in her life until he gets help.
This is so sad. I feel bad for both of them. I hope he gets the help he needs.
Junkie shenanigans....#judgemathis
#crackhead 😅😅
I think he said crackhead ways !
@@Killercakes24crackish 🤣🤣🤣
Please love your daughters because what the heck is this mess
I cannot get into a relationship, with someone who's on drugs. I do not have the wherewithal to go through rehab with him
She needs someone to help her. Lord I hope she gets the HELP THAT SHE NEEDS
Shout out to the therapist lady! She did such an excellent job answering direct questions. She didn’t vaguely fly over advice and she gave excellent parting words 💯
Such a lovely tale of "struggle love", met in the DES office & all
Once he stole my $600.00 check ✅ I would've been done with him , kick him out of the house 🏠🏡 done with the relationship move on with my life
She needs to leave him and work on her own issues and let him work on his; separately.
Cases like this is sad very sad.. hes taken advantage of her for so long now and she's out up with it.. he doesn't care how she feels or how she's hurting.. how dare he leave her at the car wash to get home somehow.. she deserves alot better
I hope he accepts the help and sticks with it
I hope he gets the help he needs. 🙏🏾addiction can happen at any age.
Save yourself!! Take care of yourself, young lady you can’t save him. Only God can.
He is liar run away from him if counciling cannot help.man like him will drain all your energy
This man is a whole mess. Just leave him behind. I knew from his first statement that he was on drugs. Judge Mathis taught me the signs.
Doctor Collins was beautiful.She gave it to him straight no chaser.
Sounds like 2 people that both shouldn’t be working on a relationship with each other, but need to work on the relationship with themselves. I’m genuinely sad for them both, but at some point, you have to take a stand to save yourself before you can save anyone else.
The Doctor should have never increased his medication, they should have taken him to a chiropractor and warm water therapy find any method other than increasing pain medication that stuff is addictive. Shame on the Dr for not being more careful. Mr Reynolds already was going through mental issues from the loss of his son and being hit by a bus he wasn’t thinking straight he was weak and when drugs were offered he ran to it.
Drug seekers lie. If they cannot get drugs they seek doctors that can get them pills. If we were to look around at the people that we work with in the workplace we would see that a lot of them are on drugs. I realized that I work with a lot of drug addicts. They have Doctor's appointments every week for a back, a hip, a leg and these peoplee in their early thirties. They can't go to traditional doctors like primary care because they probably have something on the computer making it aware these people are drug seekers so they reach out to chiropractor doctors or weight loss doctors so they can get some pills. Just listen to the people in your workplace and you'll find out who the addicts are. This is american problem.
He takes advantage of her. She enable him to do that to her.
This is all kinds of crazy. She seems a little off, clingy and codependent and he took advantage of that. I hope he gets help and she runs as fast as she can. She seems to need some type of therapy also because she’s not all there
I think 🤔 she is mentally delayed. The sad part is she doesn’t have family or a social worker
The specialist said she focused on substance abuse and mental health issues. He has drug problems but the young lady has mental health issues I think. That’s why she tolerates this behaviour
*Judge Toler* would have told her to leave and if he actually gets himself right then and only then should she try again if she so chooses... I just don't trust him at all. If she doesn't leave he will only continue to use her.
Low self esteem is real. You and he both in the same office for assistance. First red flag… second disappearing… third… steals and she sees what in this dude. She needs to find her worth and it’s not in him. Dude is 60 years old and still don’t have it together. Ru !
Everyone keep saying he took advantage of someone that’s not all there. He not all there either. He’s just an addict doing addict things and I hope he gets the help he needs
People, places, and things, keep coming back, it works, if, you work it😅
🙂 Addiction can take MANY forms but drugs seem to be the most common... Unfortunately addictions can be stronger than necessities or priorities...I'm glad they didn't try to beat him up and wanted to get him help... Sometimes tough love is okay, sometimes it isn't... It takes ALOT to admit something so shameful to the world... I wish him success...
I REALLY hope she is able to heal and get therapy for any issues she may have as well... She seems like a sweetie and wish her the very best as well...
😉Good job on this one Judge Starr...💯
This woman is slow where is her family he is taking advantage of her so sad 🤦🏽♀️!!!
She definitely has some intellectual delays and cannot and should not walk this path with him
Naw he's a user & for the streets. He's wicked & stole her money? Naw he needs to go.
Unfortunate union. In my opinion not only should she move on, but get therapy to ensure not to repeat this cycle again! Shes a walking target 🎯
He's pitiful and now he has FAKE tears 😭, she better RUNNNNNN and don't look back..
Ohhhhh girl, all I can say just run 🏃 run 🏃♀️
terrible situation
Y Starr always winking
I really HATE the fact that he stole her money, If I were the judge I would have awarded miss Casanova the $600.00 that he stole plus I would have added on an extra $200.00 totaling = $800.00.
This is pitiful. 😮😮
Wow smh sad story, leave HIM alone
Sad case. Ppl can be traumatized at any age and find it hard to get through. Unfortunately if u were unstable before, anything that happens will push ppl over the edge. I Hope they both get the mental help needed to deal with their loss as best as a person can.
She's very pretty,poor thing
He doesn't look like he wants to stop,old behind 😮😮
This man is such a liar!
Bingo
Addicts usually are. It doesn’t mean we don’t love them
@@emilyfeagin2673
How is your comment related to the OC?
He looks good for his age ....
It’s always about him what he think she deals with young n trying to take care of a grown man
This is dumb and dumber. Welfare, drugs, homeless and want to bring a baby in this mess. Chile pleeze!!!
She’s a little touched
I really hope things work out for him
Brother is definitely," onstage", he is minimizing his addiction. I have seen people get on with living addiction,and get everything back on track. He's acting!!
This is exactly what happened to my ex boyfriend he was on drugs had open heart surgery and did not take care of himself he kept getting high after the surgery and around the wrong people places and things now he is dead. He was a good person a musical genius and treated me well but he was killing himself after his mother died. In our last conversation he said to me I am knocking on death's door.
In the words of Judge Mathis…I KNOW a crackhead when I see one!
He’s going on drug binges, while on his disappearing acts.,Junkie shenanigans for sure. Cocaine, yes, you need help right away sir.
Madam Starr is such a blessing to this court and world. Classy Smart Blessed tells you what you need too hear.
She seems a little slow
He's not a bad person but definitely needs intense therapy. The wife too. She ain't blink not once.
🚩#1 Meeting a dude at the welfare office 🤦🏽♀️
Drug addiction!! I knew Thats why she can’t get pregnant and needs to find strength to remove herself from this old mess of a man. Go get your life together girl and NEVER look back. Excuses and lies on top of lies. Homeless together??? No!!
"I don't want to see him....die" and the look on his face when she said that.
They're both jacked up af
Somebody needs to help her.
I understand….. you can’t be in a relationship right now, you need to get clean first and foremost. It’s not fair to anyone.
The best thing she can do is let him get help. She can never be in a healthy relationship with this man as long as he’s doing drugs. Period
She’s clearly is or was on drugs herself bc that is the only way she would be willing to accept him. It’s also obvious she had a tortured life before meeting him as well. So sad. Twenty-five years her senior is insane!
When she stated I love him, he saved me and rescued me. The way he lookat her side ways. Chileeeeeeeeeeeeeee run
5:46 Dude, you're not making her feel secure!!! That's why she's accusing you. You disappear and lie to her. Why WOULDN'T she accuse you???
As judge Mathis would say he got crackhead tendencies
With his daughter/granddaughter...smh
60 yrs old he has NO LIFE.what the fxxk can he do at 60.if his life is not together at 60 its over.
I sincerely wish them both the best going forward. Glad support was offered to them and there is space for healing. These are two broken people but there is God.
Everything was going so fast i couldnt keep up with myself let alone my phone type nonsense. Thats called crack. Maybe meth.
A 60 year old man taking drugs 😂
This hit home 😢
What happened to the baby because not to be funny but he act like he don't want a baby at all by her and don't want be with her
He wants a baby, so he can trap her. He’ll always have shelter with her.
The baby passed at 6 weeks.
both them slow 😭☠️🚩✋🏾
Having a baby with no roof is real wild !! Where is this innocent little human going to sleep, how will his/her laundry get washed , bath & story time , and the list goes on …. Is it me or
Yes, he has a problem, however, he clearly and knowingly took advantage of that girl. He knows the game and she’s nieve to it and he played her.
This is sad
Family emergency 👀👀
Judge Star, we need update on this case
I never understood the leaving for days and come back if my lady does that to me she can't come back I'm done because I'm like wtf you did for those days you was gone nah stay away if you leave for days