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  • @JohnCoons-d1u
    @JohnCoons-d1u Місяць тому +23

    This is the kind of stuff that literally makes me nauseous when I think about dating again.
    Thanks for another uplifting video

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist 2 місяці тому +265

    Treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan. Dont pedestalise no broad lol

    • @eduardocaballero7434
      @eduardocaballero7434 2 місяці тому +8

      Become the celebrity ✨

    • @modickens1272
      @modickens1272 2 місяці тому +1

      What if I treat her like a sperm dumpster

    • @mrheck5311
      @mrheck5311 Місяць тому +4

      Attraction can be summed up in your first sentence. Once guys get that, they're on the way to success with women.

    • @sfrealestatedealmaker6001
      @sfrealestatedealmaker6001 29 днів тому +1

      @@eduardocaballero7434 Yes, become the prize and you’ll be treated like one 🏆

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 місяці тому +164

    *Women appreciate men who know their worth but don’t feel the need to prove it.*

    • @apontutul
      @apontutul Місяць тому +2

      True. Good one

    • @BC-wj8fx
      @BC-wj8fx 21 день тому

      They only value men who they perceive as having greater worth. So men on average actually need to over-estimate their worth. Easiest way to project more worth than her is to be less interested in her than she is in him.

    • @kennethlukasik2041
      @kennethlukasik2041 19 днів тому +1

      About cats. My cat likes to be petted and lay down beside me

  • @waflu773
    @waflu773 2 місяці тому +104

    As a cat person (they adore me), you always need to show availability, but never chase them. Cat notices you, you are calm and relaxed, come down and call on them nicely. If they come to you, great, if not, try again later and they will slowly love you. Never chase them and never try to pick them up and cuddle them too soon. You have to show healthy amounts of interest. Unlike dogs, who come immediately and lick your face.

    • @deathvalleybro9320
      @deathvalleybro9320 2 місяці тому +5

      cats hate being mithered or forced in to something.

    • @reallifecampaignmode
      @reallifecampaignmode 2 місяці тому +2

      Gotta have them cat biscuits to throw at the woman

    • @Home-o2v4h
      @Home-o2v4h Місяць тому +3

      ​@@deathvalleybro9320 but cats also exist in male-female pair...so male cats acts like female cats...neither do men like being forced

    • @thereszahealed
      @thereszahealed Місяць тому +2

      the key word is "healthy" amounts. Needy fearful controlling or desperate pleasers leak weakness❤

  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 2 місяці тому +118

    not getting attached and being Emotionally unavailable is key, plain and simple

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq 2 місяці тому +12

      isn't it more accurate to use the word "emotionally INDEPENDENT" (instead of the callous "emot. unavailable) ?
      I 'd think so.

    • @jamesmiranda1449
      @jamesmiranda1449 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@mtlicqagreed.

  • @rowlandortiz1621
    @rowlandortiz1621 2 місяці тому +324

    Attraction grows in space. If she goes mysteriously quiet, become an invincible ghost. Stay focused my brothers.

    • @gwhite7136
      @gwhite7136 2 місяці тому +33

      This is very true. What she is doing is testing to see if you will come after her, text her , call her. The minute you allow a woman to out-wait men, men lose. What they are trying to find out is if a man, "needs her", as opposed to want her in some way. If you need someone, your less in her eyes.

    • @brysonfarrington7338
      @brysonfarrington7338 2 місяці тому +8

      Ngl i might need to read this everyday cause man my mind is all over the place about her and i said some mean things just trying to be strong man😔

    • @teezo2917
      @teezo2917 Місяць тому

      @@brysonfarrington7338every day is a new day

    • @gwhite7136
      @gwhite7136 Місяць тому +2

      Absolute facts!

    • @casiofx-100ms3
      @casiofx-100ms3 29 днів тому +3

      Don't take her back. Space= other man. Her legs were in the air meanwhile which she won't ever admit.

  • @mystykalmn4434
    @mystykalmn4434 2 місяці тому +176

    If she's not your wife don't invest anything in her and detach from anything especially women and 80% of your problem will be over.

    • @justinc2625
      @justinc2625 2 місяці тому

      Wife? have you seen the divorce courts and how men are treated and how these so called 'wives' take them for all they have? He is talking about women overall . Over 80% of divorces are filed by women, they collect alimony and child support and go on vacations with their bfs

    • @OGTrollTroll8
      @OGTrollTroll8 2 місяці тому +20

      Detach from your wife too and you'll have a happy marriage.

    • @supremeleader5516
      @supremeleader5516 Місяць тому +2

      Is it okay to treat wife like that? What if she gets spoiled?

    • @sfrealestatedealmaker6001
      @sfrealestatedealmaker6001 29 днів тому

      @@supremeleader5516Never treat them differently no matter what. Long term marriage here 👋🏼

    • @darrenleejones3516
      @darrenleejones3516 26 днів тому

      @@supremeleader5516anyone

  • @JohnBoulding
    @JohnBoulding 2 місяці тому +40

    He speakes the truth. Note importantly here is to always put your mission first, then her

  • @Matt.J.B
    @Matt.J.B 2 місяці тому +15

    Chris, you are the best advisor on UA-cam, thank you brother!! Gents, if you haven’t got the book & audiobook - then get it now - you will NEVER EVER be manipulated or disrespected by a woman ever again.

  • @dano7739
    @dano7739 2 місяці тому +69

    Cultivating your own confidence makes much more sense than chasing women.

    • @blue-phoenix115
      @blue-phoenix115 Місяць тому

      Problem is: For some men, cultivating their own confidence involves interacting with women.
      You need to get better at interacting with women, understanding women. That's how you gain true confidence.

    • @skc0s
      @skc0s Місяць тому

      THIS is the way, my brothas

  • @pvillarreal8512
    @pvillarreal8512 2 місяці тому +73

    This is the best content on the internet regarding Attraction

    • @johnmessick9946
      @johnmessick9946 2 місяці тому +1

      💯 spot on!!!

    • @kylez5921
      @kylez5921 2 місяці тому +2

      Chris is great. Dan Bacon is amazing too.

    • @rajatgupta9571
      @rajatgupta9571 2 місяці тому +3

      Bobby rio as well. Good content

    • @KidBuu-mk9gu
      @KidBuu-mk9gu 2 місяці тому +2

      Psyhacks allso

    • @johnqdoe
      @johnqdoe 2 місяці тому +2

      1) Chris Canwell 2) Orion Taraban 3) Rollo Tomassi 4) Myron Gaines 5) Tate 6) Eveybody else…

  • @We_Must_Resist
    @We_Must_Resist 2 місяці тому +18

    Fascinating paradox. Essential knowledge.

  • @trigoviii1518
    @trigoviii1518 2 місяці тому +10

    Hi Sir Chris, I don't know how to say thanks to you, so I've just subscribed and liking your vids.

  • @henryulasi8994
    @henryulasi8994 2 місяці тому +5

    Mr Chris always drops salient points when it comes to relationship & attraction.

  • @L6FT
    @L6FT Місяць тому +9

    Yeah the dilemma is the reason why I'm not giving her my attention is because I'm not that interested in her :-/
    The moment you do develop feelings and need her, is the moment she dismisses you on the grounds that you were taking her granted for so long.
    Uncertainty seems to be her attraction mechanism.

  • @MiltonPowell-g3p
    @MiltonPowell-g3p 2 місяці тому +8

    Great video Chris, keep dem coming.

  • @srinivasannatarajan6589
    @srinivasannatarajan6589 Місяць тому +5

    simply in 2 word "NO SIMPING"

  • @deathvalleybro9320
    @deathvalleybro9320 2 місяці тому +5

    great channel. subbed. will be watching more.

  • @Kaambonnaimur
    @Kaambonnaimur Місяць тому +6

    I had a question, you say not to give too much value to a woman, one thing i know for sure is that being needy and desperate kills attraction, does that mean i should keep ignoring her and dont give her any value? , isn't that going to make her think that i have taken her for granted, why would someone want to be in a relationship where they aren't valued and loved enough? Also in your book it is mentioned that a men should not follow a women's lead but what if what my partner knows more about a particular thing and I'm naieve in that, should i still ignore her advices?why would a woman want to be in a relationship where she is never heard and taken seriously

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  Місяць тому

      Email me

    • @Kaambonnaimur
      @Kaambonnaimur Місяць тому

      @DevelopAttraction too expensive when converted to INR, can't afford now, will try in the future, I do appreciate your work but I was confused regarding this topic, nvm

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  Місяць тому

      @@Kaambonnaimur no need to pay, just use the contact form

    • @Orxbane
      @Orxbane 29 днів тому

      Why did you just give this grifter $40?

    • @Bronx_Bombers
      @Bronx_Bombers 24 дні тому

      Men need to stop using common sense when dealing with these modern hyenas. They are not interested in what’s right..only in what makes them feel good emotionally!!They need chaos and drama to feed their emotional monster.

  • @xesmanmarkx
    @xesmanmarkx 2 місяці тому +5

    Thank you, needed this

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 2 місяці тому +14

    You have to reel then in so they know you exist and then detach. If she is the one who attracts the man she thinks she's the boss of the relationship. One thing I've done is ask her out early on after you talk to her. If she says no then detach and she'll be surprised and start wondering why you're not upset and she might start getting interested. If you wait too long to ask her out the man gets too emotionally invested because then she starts to become better than she is in your mind.

    • @tapatapaz
      @tapatapaz Місяць тому

      Good stuff

    • @Bronx_Bombers
      @Bronx_Bombers 24 дні тому +1

      I make the pot t to men that this is too much effort and energy. To have a meaningful relationship today..is to have chaos and emotional drama? And what do men get for all this foolishness?

    • @NoName-zb1gm
      @NoName-zb1gm 24 дні тому

      @@Bronx_Bombers The alternative is she chooses the man and then she doesn't respect him because she has to do the work to get him interested.

  • @FrankM
    @FrankM Місяць тому +13

    4:21 "The less kind you are to women... the more interested in you they become."
    These type of women are toxic and have unhealed trauma. You don't want to get involved with such a woman anyway, unless you yourself have unhealed trauma, toxic, and like emotional instability.

    • @cleightorres3841
      @cleightorres3841 Місяць тому +5

      yup
      this guy gives great advice on how to deal with toxic women
      INSTEAD I SAY
      avoid toxic women in the first place, not all women are toxic

    • @luckyjayakody
      @luckyjayakody 24 дні тому

      True. No sane and emotionally stable man or woman will attract the opposite sex who treats them badly. Only people with psychological issues do.

    • @BC-wj8fx
      @BC-wj8fx 21 день тому

      Normal women respond this way too. He's not saying be unkind, he's saying be less kind. It is well known that women are programmed to "marry upwards" in social heirarchy. When a man is too much of a simp it comes across as desperate, and a doormat, trying to win his way into favour. Men with higher perceived value don't need to win favour, they make their own favour, and people need to come to them.

    • @cleightorres3841
      @cleightorres3841 21 день тому

      @@BC-wj8fx "programmed" is why many American men avoid American women altogether
      You are correct, this is the culture today in America
      And never forget that CULT is part of CULTure
      As a guy you dont get to win in this cult, even conservative women act like nut jobs
      Maybe Trump will change this, maybe not
      This crazy feminized progressive society is a demographic dead end

  • @choppergirlfpv
    @choppergirlfpv 25 днів тому +3

    Women adore men that don't bother them.
    If you're leaving me alone, you're golden.

    • @emmanuelo1998
      @emmanuelo1998 24 дні тому

      It's simple. I continue when I see she is doing what I want, or I move on to another. My time won't be wasted as I am. Other than that, even if she is down to do what I want, I won't get back to her unless she lets me know she is down to do whatever it is I want to do with me.

  • @Oneconfidentman
    @Oneconfidentman 2 місяці тому +6

    Awesome! I didn’t know you had a UA-cam channel. I’ve read your book Atomic Attractions multiple times!. I appreciate your work and all that you do. 😎

  • @sheelakumar3794
    @sheelakumar3794 29 днів тому +1

    Dear Chris, plz write an updated version of your Book🙏🙏I have read your Book & it needs to be updated🙏🙏

  • @mvphung007
    @mvphung007 2 місяці тому +7

    Pre Selection is powerful my brothers. It works for me

  • @jayarajjohnson2476
    @jayarajjohnson2476 Місяць тому +1

    All the video says is true, and that is the reason why a lot of women end up with that particular type of guy (who doesn't seem to care much) and begin to regret after it's too late when he treats her like shit. Seen a lot of it happen, don't know whether to sympathize with the woman or to feel that she deserves it...

  • @cewemahbebaschannelindones1624
    @cewemahbebaschannelindones1624 2 місяці тому +28

    I have 3 girlfriends
    2, i treat them not important and 1 i treat her like queen
    The results is that 2 treat me so good, and that 1 treat me like a doormat..
    Just focus on ur self, stop caring woman and relationships, never change for her... Never give ur power to ur girlfriend..

    • @nayrbgee6906
      @nayrbgee6906 2 місяці тому +5

      I'm in this situation rn that I treat my girlfriend like a queen. And I feel that she started being cold with me. I'm too attached to her. What should I do?

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 2 місяці тому +7

      Detach from her,,Give her space to breath, find something productive to do outside of her,, you're smothering her, bruh

    • @Jungle_boy123
      @Jungle_boy123 2 місяці тому +1

      U are banging three😂😂

    • @RahulShinde-wk2yv
      @RahulShinde-wk2yv 24 дні тому

      ​​@@nayrbgee6906become passport bro go to south arabia convert to muslim and marry muslim women😊

  • @Guitarcope
    @Guitarcope Місяць тому +4

    I always ignore my cat, she loves me.

  • @Tutterzoid
    @Tutterzoid 2 дні тому +1

    I'm a cat person and you have cats wrong .. Cats love attention .. It's the approach that is important .. Giving it space to approach at it's comfort level is key and a gentle approach is also needed for most cats to let you pet them .. then they will let you pet them plenty, and even will let you belly rub them eventually, if they feel they can trust you enough. Women are far more complex than cats and are an entire different breed of their own :)

  • @Fielion
    @Fielion Місяць тому +6

    I understand... but what about the things i want? I want a woman that i can adore, that is worth it being put on that pedastel and that can deal with me being like that toward her in a grown up way, in a way that servs the both of us, that she like me being like that. A woman that accepts me the way i am, that wont use my weakness towards her against me, or feels bad about me because of it.

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 29 днів тому +4

    You honestly have to just not care about women at all. And when you do that you won't care what "attracts" them. You'll see them for what they are. A risk and a liability. You gotta examine them for their soul. But they're always putting up a facade. They are very phase oriented. They discard you easily. So just detach and forget them. Just be a genuine good man. And only keep the one who actually cares about you. And make her prove it over years of vetting. But still always remain in power over yourself. And don't let the time you spent with her make you feel guilty for ditching her if she shows you a pattern of abuse or disrespect. A vvoman can only actually "love" if she's moral. But that's impossible since our soceity rewards them for being immoral.

  • @OneEyedLion
    @OneEyedLion Місяць тому +3

    This is very good information. I hope all men watch this video.

  • @borisnegrarosa9113
    @borisnegrarosa9113 Місяць тому +1

    Been there, done that.

  • @shashigautam3696
    @shashigautam3696 11 днів тому

    atomic attraction is the best book... to learn more about dating

  • @joeprimal2044
    @joeprimal2044 29 днів тому +3

    What women want changes from minute to minute and that’s the problem.

  • @michaellakey3565
    @michaellakey3565 Місяць тому +3

    For as long as there are low self esteem simps, there will be entitled princesses using them.
    And there are plenty of both knocking around.

  • @Noor_BM
    @Noor_BM 29 днів тому +1

    So Chris it's all boil down to " If you treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan " 😊😊😊

  • @NOPE71511
    @NOPE71511 Місяць тому +2

    Yes, as a cat I demand your attention on MY terms

  • @pauljackson2409
    @pauljackson2409 Місяць тому

    treat them mean, keep them keen

  • @WorftheFighter
    @WorftheFighter 2 місяці тому +13

    But if you are distant and unavailable with an attractive woman she will simply forget about you so what's the point?

    • @waflu773
      @waflu773 2 місяці тому +5

      You need to simply balance it. See if she is into you and match that. Tease her about it. If she is not into you, don't let your feelings fool you and step away.

    • @kaberigomes2117
      @kaberigomes2117 Місяць тому +11

      She is either attracted to you or not. There's no two way about it.
      What Chris is saying is, you should also behave attractively or else a chick who was attracted to you, will lose attraction.
      You can very rarely make a girl who was not attracted to you, get attracted. That's a CAT analogy.
      You can only allow a Cat to come to you, there's no cat in the world, you can convince to like you by doing things.
      Try it. You'll understand. That's why the Universe truth about Love is.
      Only Men can truly Love. Women just selects their mate.
      However there are exceptions for some women , but that's like winning the lottery. 😅

    • @neonix01
      @neonix01 Місяць тому +5

      @@kaberigomes2117 This is nonsense. The closer I get to animals, the closer they become to me. That's always been that way since I was a kid and had cats and dogs. Other family members that didn't try to get close to the animals, the animals never were close with either. Women also love, and if you think they only choose a mate, I feel sorry for the state of mind you are in, or where you live, or what girls you choose to surround yourself with. The number one thing with relationships, friendships, family, work, and everything in life, is to be genuine and be yourself. People can easily notice when you start being a chameleon that tries to adapt to who you are around... Nobody trusts a chameleon, as they always try to blend in and never truly have any strong opinion of personality of their own. Be genuine!

    • @Bronx_Bombers
      @Bronx_Bombers 24 дні тому

      Using logic and common sense will not help..Women require chaos and drama, men do not..that’s why it’s difficult for us to understand a woman..don’t invest in a woman unless she has invested in you…

  • @smokingcrab2290
    @smokingcrab2290 29 днів тому +1

    It's actually not about any of this although you're on the right track..
    It's about safety.. And women find safety in a man who ultimately does not care what he loses. He onky cares about giving and being loving because that's who he is. Through giving we are free. But as a giver we must respect ourselves and not give to those who don't give it back.

  • @cliffchampion5501
    @cliffchampion5501 2 місяці тому +5

    Imagine the powers this dude has in social settings.

  • @drummerundercover6299
    @drummerundercover6299 2 місяці тому +3

    Helpful thank you❤ Godbless

  • @alanh7247
    @alanh7247 2 місяці тому +3

    dig that shirt. really cool.

  • @kunallokhande6534
    @kunallokhande6534 2 місяці тому +1

    I loves your book.

  • @mahtabhashemi-s3b
    @mahtabhashemi-s3b 2 місяці тому +2

    Very much true!

  • @organicenergy5124
    @organicenergy5124 2 місяці тому +5

    Interesting I agree for women, the cat thing though hard to believe, my cat is very close to me more than others and I know it’s because I’m more interested in her and attentive to her. Maybe it’s different if you live with the cat vs just one out on the street

    • @waflu773
      @waflu773 2 місяці тому +1

      That is actually exactly how cats and women are. Things will be different when you are together. But in the beginning, most cats will be careful about you.

    • @pabloramos369
      @pabloramos369 2 місяці тому

      I also agree regarding XXs, not so much regarding cats. I got cats all my life, when I entered my home just newborn there where already a kitty that was adopted by my parents few days before I was born, and that Kitty inmediatly became attached to me and was pretty much my brother as we grow up together. I couldn't tell how many cats I rescued, adopted, raised ... And there Is no pattern with them. Each one has it's own personality and preferences.

  • @GUITARTIME2024
    @GUITARTIME2024 Місяць тому +5

    Ive been married 30 years. Find a woman who likes being around you most of her non-working hours (butstill do your own hobbies, of course).. Anything less is crap.

  • @QuiDocetDiscit
    @QuiDocetDiscit 2 місяці тому +4

    What I'm realising is that excessive attention puts them under some kind of pressure to reciprocate and they resent this emotional obligation. Women like being around a man who makes no implied expectation of her through excessive attention. She relaxes and develops curiosity instead.

    • @utkarshjha171
      @utkarshjha171 2 місяці тому

      True. Even if one knows astrology saturn exalt in the libra the cosmic female saturn is slowest moving planet suggesting that female in general have a slower dynamic.. slow to build attention, attraction, even maturity so you have to be patient and unemotional with woman just like saturn the cold and dark planet.

    • @Home-o2v4h
      @Home-o2v4h Місяць тому

      Isn't that how men are ?

    • @fibonaccisrazor
      @fibonaccisrazor Місяць тому

      Good point - their emotions/moods come and go arbitrarily - so it's best to stay neutral and observe. Nymphomaniacs are another matter.

  • @MusicLegendIX
    @MusicLegendIX 2 місяці тому +3

    Chris, what would you do if a woman is perfect in all areas except she abandons you at times for her family? She puts her family first. We all want a family oriented girl but is it worth always coming 2nd to her family?

    • @bobertjones2300
      @bobertjones2300 2 місяці тому +2

      Guess it means she's not ready to start her own family with you and/or she is always going to put her family first.

  • @omegaredteam2516
    @omegaredteam2516 2 місяці тому +1

    Helpful information.❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊👏👏👏💯💯💯👍😎🙂

  • @GD-tn3ez
    @GD-tn3ez Місяць тому +2

    Oh, this is simple. A woman desires luxury, money, power and status. All on the sweat of a man’s hard work.

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  Місяць тому

      @@GD-tn3ez It’s true they desire that from low value men

    • @Crymeareva
      @Crymeareva Місяць тому

      ​@@DevelopAttraction yea sure bezos is low value sure

  • @MiltonPowell-g3p
    @MiltonPowell-g3p 2 місяці тому +2

    Yes

  • @Abhishek-fw7oo
    @Abhishek-fw7oo 2 місяці тому +4

    so intially also we have to not chase them? like ask them for date have conversation etc

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 2 місяці тому +1

      You could ask her out on dates and spend minimal time with her, nothing wrong with that, just have a life outside her, you don't need make her the center of your universe, bruh

    • @Jungle_boy123
      @Jungle_boy123 2 місяці тому

      ​@@oscargonza2748right 👍

  • @Monty_2112
    @Monty_2112 2 місяці тому

    My cat is an acceptation to this study. She can’t get enough affection.

  • @SpecialAgent666
    @SpecialAgent666 23 дні тому +1

    Not exactly true. It depends on each person's expertise through life and who they find attractive and what the situation is.

  • @GeorgiosStarakis
    @GeorgiosStarakis Місяць тому

    And how to get them to invest in us more ? Examples ?

  • @ssazerac
    @ssazerac 29 днів тому +2

    The person in a relationship who cares the least, holds the most power.

    • @jesse3733
      @jesse3733 27 днів тому

      I would sub the word need for cares

  • @KidBuu-mk9gu
    @KidBuu-mk9gu 2 місяці тому

    Thank you boss 🫡

  • @PantsofVance
    @PantsofVance Місяць тому

    This is generally true but only if she's interested in you will this work, if she isn't and you emotionally detach she won't even know you exist - but she's not interested in you anyway.

    • @emmanuelo1998
      @emmanuelo1998 Місяць тому

      Its only about you so you aren't trying to make someone want you who doesn't. You don't leave her to make her want you. You forget her and leave to not have your time wasted because its about finding the one who will cooperate with you from the jump.

  • @Jungle_boy123
    @Jungle_boy123 2 місяці тому

    Great advice 👍

  • @alexpetrov7588
    @alexpetrov7588 2 місяці тому

    Exactly 👏👏👏👏👏

  • @Armored_Saint
    @Armored_Saint Місяць тому

    my eyes adored you. - frankie valli (1974)

  • @themerkstandard4831
    @themerkstandard4831 Місяць тому +1

    Just find out what show or movie she loves to watch and you will immediately figure out the kind of guy she likes when she tells you of her favourite male actor in it 😎

    • @fibonaccisrazor
      @fibonaccisrazor Місяць тому +1

      Good tip - my wife's favourite is Kevin Costner, haven't a clue what this means😅

  • @pAuL-nb2ud
    @pAuL-nb2ud Місяць тому +2

    Sooooooooo be an A$$hoLe cat 😂❤ 🐈 hah love it

  • @walkerb392
    @walkerb392 Місяць тому

    Im married for 20 years. Me & wife are almost 50.
    She currently shows no interest for sex with me. Its been absent for almost 2 years now. Even though we still have healthy form of communication n commitment, she is so occupied by her phone in most of her leisure time.
    Im perplexed.... 😞

    • @marcocannon87
      @marcocannon87 Місяць тому +1

      Thats why you dont get married. You are still young, divorce her , the initial pain will hurt but the long term gains will be heavenly.

  • @LouisPassau
    @LouisPassau 7 днів тому

    Women adore the men they select, as long as it works for them. If she picks you, you needn't work at the relationship at all. If not, nothing, absolutely nothing you do will help.

  • @Noname-u5h9e
    @Noname-u5h9e 2 місяці тому +4

    How do you make her to invest in you tho?

    • @TazzMania985
      @TazzMania985 2 місяці тому

      By "NOT" Giving A F@ck!!!!!

    • @mystykalmn4434
      @mystykalmn4434 2 місяці тому +5

      By doing everything less, talk to her less, text her less, everything less etc

    • @kikimbrown
      @kikimbrown 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@@mystykalmn4434 What does a woman do when they invest on a man though?

    • @johnqdoe
      @johnqdoe 2 місяці тому +7

      @@kikimbrown Female tasks without request (cook, clean, serve, sex). Submission and compliance (arguments, annoyances, passive aggression, follow, listen). You’re welcome.

    • @TazzMania985
      @TazzMania985 2 місяці тому

      @@Noname-u5h9e Don't Give A Flying "F"! She will automatically submit!!!! Once she sees you're comfortable, in her mind, she has conquered you!!!! It's just nature!!!!!

  • @vincenttacraebnam8379
    @vincenttacraebnam8379 Місяць тому +1

    Get 2 cats - make sure one is an orange one…

  • @gary6514
    @gary6514 2 місяці тому +3

    Be the man who gives very little to get what you want.....don't be the guy who gives too much only to find out she has given it to some other guy for free.

  • @revvthemetal
    @revvthemetal Місяць тому

    Telling the lion you are a vegetarian doesn’t help.

  • @Pixelpanscher
    @Pixelpanscher Місяць тому

    OK, but what's with women who like dogs? Are they different than those who like cats?

  • @bonjovi1612
    @bonjovi1612 29 днів тому

    Cats love me. I hate them. No, really I do. Our family has two and if they want anything they come to me because I won’t blank them and they know it.

  • @brugaldr809
    @brugaldr809 2 місяці тому

    "Less is Always more.......

  • @asofotida443
    @asofotida443 Місяць тому +1

    Seriously dont care what they adore

  • @Apeiron242
    @Apeiron242 Місяць тому

    4:24 extra comma.
    So how long have you been married?

  • @Attiladahun
    @Attiladahun 2 місяці тому

    👏👏👏

  • @kelvinoke6414
    @kelvinoke6414 2 місяці тому

    There was a time i didn't listen to this guy....as a result faced the consequences😢😢

  • @x_MrYAYA_x
    @x_MrYAYA_x 2 місяці тому +1

  • @eliseuhackbarth7003
    @eliseuhackbarth7003 Місяць тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 well, those PhD, doctors don't understand cats, for sure. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lionmane888
    @lionmane888 2 місяці тому

    So she must pay for stuff aswell?

    • @Jungle_boy123
      @Jungle_boy123 2 місяці тому

      Yes that we she thinks she is invested in you

  • @Bronx_Bombers
    @Bronx_Bombers 24 дні тому

    This is why men need to run from modern women. It’s too much work and emotional drama for the normal guy. Women feed off their drama and chaos they create. No drama or chaos no relationship with her.

  • @Apeiron242
    @Apeiron242 Місяць тому

    I need my wife to take me to the cleaners.
    I have several shirts ready for pickup.

  • @sivispacemparabellum5476
    @sivispacemparabellum5476 26 днів тому

    Woman rely on bluffing and creating illusions cuz they know most of the time they come with nothing to the relationship if not a bunch of trauma and bagage u HAVE TO! be focused and know that u actually are the valuable side not her so don't be that fool spending money on chicks u just met or acting like a monkey to please woman ur already in a relationship with if she want to stay she will even if u don't try and if she doesn't then she will leave even if u give her the world so please be a man and don't make a fool out of yourself!

  • @tptendani
    @tptendani 2 місяці тому +2

    Hmm, women behave like cat, that's very interesting

  • @CA1567-v8p
    @CA1567-v8p 2 місяці тому +3

    Women are cats wow

  • @MadawaskaObservatory
    @MadawaskaObservatory Місяць тому

    Ah, women don't invest much in relationships.

  • @genesisdeguzman9074
    @genesisdeguzman9074 2 місяці тому +2

    Dog reveals a man to

    • @Jungle_boy123
      @Jungle_boy123 2 місяці тому +1

      Women are cats men are wolf😂😂

    • @genesisdeguzman9074
      @genesisdeguzman9074 2 місяці тому

      @Jungle_boy123 men turned into wolf when he improves himself or life realization

    • @Home-o2v4h
      @Home-o2v4h Місяць тому

      Nope

  • @alanhollands8901
    @alanhollands8901 2 місяці тому

    Not laughing on farting.

  • @donnchadhenglish2414
    @donnchadhenglish2414 17 днів тому

    invest in her too much, get dumped, invest in her too little, get dumped.

  • @Ambinel
    @Ambinel Місяць тому +1

    Womem are attracted to money...period

    • @Crymeareva
      @Crymeareva Місяць тому

      The ultimate redpill! Eventually money matters

  • @taamcyat
    @taamcyat 2 місяці тому

    Yep cats don't like children

  • @ix-Xafra
    @ix-Xafra Місяць тому +1

    Women want what they can't have
    Other women's men are prized for that reason
    I used to wear a wedding ring when I was single and drink at the bar ignoring women at COB in the city in corporate attire when I was broke, lol

    • @supremeleader5516
      @supremeleader5516 Місяць тому +1

      And what was result?

    • @ix-Xafra
      @ix-Xafra Місяць тому

      @supremeleader5516 the women make the approach. Being unavailable and looking high status attracts the competitive ones.

  • @Nevergiveup-jt1tb
    @Nevergiveup-jt1tb Місяць тому +1

    You're talking about 'How to be adored by her' but 'how about man's desire of adoring her?' I'm sure feminists can never think about that.

  • @paulmcallister8948
    @paulmcallister8948 Місяць тому +4

    You're right! Women are just like cats! That's why I stear clear from both of them! 🫣🤒