I HOPE you see this. We first refer to the Quran. I am new to LEARNING this religion i was born into. The word by word translation says cover our adronments and to distingsh ourselves from the non believing women. When i wear my hijab it will be for God and i want to wear it PROUDLY showing my religion and my faith in the way i carry myself while i am surrounded by women wearing bikinis and mini skirts or whatever that our pious muslim his and may or may not end up cheating ul with. So shush you have no uterus. No opinion. And you are using a quote that christians use to show that women are oppressed in Islam! I wanted to like your Channal but i am out. You should Also be VERY careful with what you say BECAUSE a woman on the journey to discovering Islam might stop because of YOU. Let women deal with women. Trust me, didnt the prophet say you can not straighter the rib ? It enrages me when men say anything because you all will be the first to stare at the pretty girl with the earrings while you still have a spouse next to you and try dresscoding her while drooling over your female collegues of whatever religion. Khalid ditched Salama for some Hindu girl. Just puting it out there. And be very scared and think TH rice before saying anything because if someone watched your video and thinks Islam is opressing , you would answer to God on the day of judgment. That quote you just showed me has been used by christians to make me think Islam is oppressing. Our brain shrink after we give birth, we take a break on periods to self reflect and our husbands should be spoiling us because we are in pain and even God gave us a break from praying and fasting !! Men are to protect the women according to the surah i read. I havent read hadhis yet but i know not to listen to slander and please BE careful. There are instances of so much love between prophet and his wives. That is what i focus on. Ooooh Also men will be the first to say I CAN HAVE FOUR WIVES. the prophet has 12 or something. Instead of focusing on the story of Fathima and Ali ra. Muslim women need to have a backbone in todays society or we will not survival. Edit : Muslim men went to war because a j.w played a prank on her that exposed her. Muslim men of today are the first to watch leaked photos of their Muslim sister exposed on the internet and what not. You should focus on educating the men. You really do not want to mistakenly push someone away from Islam.
The bare minimum is having the humbleness to accept that you are wrong and admit it’s out of your weakness you don’t wear hijab properly. Such sisters have our respect and may Allah make it easy for them.
Everytime you don't wear the hijab correctly you disrespecting not only your Self for everyone to see but also ALLAH subhanallah wa ta3allah@@Kroepoek97
The hijab isn’t a journey, because it isn’t between you and Allah only, because the whole point of the hijab isn’t to cover yourself from Allah, but from non mehrem men
I don’t understand why people call it a hijab journey id call it actually the journey to hijab instead, if we only paid 1.5% of our money to zakah that’s not zakat or journey to zakat it’s not completing zakat and just doing a disservice if we act like it is zakat or hijab both which are fardh
@@englishblade O you who have believed, enter into Islam completely and do not follow the footsteps of Shaitan. Indeed, he is to you a clear enemy. Qur'an 2:208
When the ayah of hijab came down the women covered themselves immediately, using whatever they had ie curtains etc, they was described as looking like black crows. Thats how seriously they took the commands of Allah that were revealed in the Quran. May Allah make us amongst them
@@anjalisartistry870 for Muslim women who care about their Akhirah, their role models are the mothers of the believers and the sahabiyat. So that being said we look up to them not random influencers of ‘modest fashion’. We follow the Quran and sunnah. The description of modesty and hijaab is very clear.
Hijab is not a joke, and as a hijabi, you should try at least to wear it properly, with modesty and with purety. Yes, it's between you and Allah, but muslims have the rights to remind you that this is not how you should wear certain hijabs. (As long as their teaching is not aggressive nor mean) Its sad to see that we muslims can't give advices anymore. YES WE ARE NOT PERFECT but that doesn't mean we can't help you becoming a better person for the sake of Allah. Don't forget that wearing a hijab means that you totally submit yourself to Allah. May Allah guides us all, Amin💚✨️🤲
No, you dont have a right to BULLY anyone …stop pretending she was beingbloving and kind…she was yelling and being a bully…THIS is why younge vulnerable girls are leaving the hijab, because of aggressive behavior DEMANDING them to wear the hijab
@scarletlady3727 bully ≠ advice aren't the same thing scarlet. Hope this helps♡ She did nothing wrong except telling facts. Just cope with it and move on.🤷♀️
@@scarletlady3727lol 😂 go see the same "hijabi" on theirs socials media’s , I can guarantee you that there had minimum 3 messages saying that their attitude are not correct Your nasiha are weird
As a hijabi I agree with my sister. I'm tired of it also. All these sisters trying to look cute, they criticize sisters who wear loose abayas and loose hijab, making sure their hairs and skin does NOT show. But if you point out what they're doing wrong, they want to have an outrage. Subhan'Allah Alhamdulillah I'm glad this sister is pointing it out. May Allah protect my sister from any harm by anybody or anything. Aameen
Do you pay our bills to tell us how we must wear our hijabs? This is a religion and you don't have no right at all to criticize us. Just stay in your lane !!
@@monicalabelle953 Sister, she is not the one who tell you how to wear your hijab, it is Allah swt who had told us how to wear it. Go and research in the Quran or in the Sunnah how we should wear our hijab, you need to understand why ALLAH told us to wear it (For our own protection!)
@monicalabelle953 That's isn't from Islam. Allah SWT commands both Muslim men and women to enjoin the good and forbid evil. As I'd speak out about Muslim proudly drinking alcohol, committing zina and committing other sins in public (and social media is more public than the regular street), I'd speak out about Muslim sisters not adhering to the command of Allah SWT regarding hijab. Perhaps the way the sister said it was too direct for some, but that doesn't give the right for other sisters to attack her and defend their sins. We live in a generation that gets offended when they are reminded to be conscious of Allah SWT. May Allah SWT guide us all
@@tempacct5812Especially the butthurt one who said: tHiS is nOt fRoM AmAzOnE hOnEy, iT's FrOm tHe 3arab StOre🤡. As if every arab shop out there only sells luxury products and no garbage ever😂. Her local arab store is laughing their butt off all the way to the bank for selling a shein/aliexpress product for $200 instead of $5. And the sis only gave advice, the amount of times disbelieving men and women especially men who are confused and carefully try to ask me why I and other women are covered. But other hijabis are not always covered especially during summer on zoom meetings neck showing etc. How to respond to that? They always ask are they following a different denominatiom then you and others? Why are there so many differences? It is embaressing!
As a woman,I wanted to wear many trends such as showing the neck or wearing earrings...but at the end I feel incapable of getting out the house like that. Allah wants to protect us. Hijab is simple and a blessing, dear sisters, let's not play with it. ❤️
Her tone is a bit scoldy but she's not wrong. We don't like to be told what to do. One of the reasons why I don't post on social media is because I don't wear the hijab properly and I know it. I want to do better but it's not easy. I show my neck often (not just for fun, I have a long term concussion so one side of my head hurts too much at times, and I can't even comb my hair so my head hurts if the scarf is tight) The other sisters are annoying though. Super annoying. Can we listen??? Can we be teachable? Some of us are screaming hijabi representation but we can't even be good Muslims, we just want the look. The other thing is this concept of personal God a lot of us have. God has to agree with us and always be sweet, so do his messengers. Some of this stuff is supposed to be hard. We will go through pain, we have to suffer to get places. And to those who say, only Allah can judge... hm. I prefer Bint Fulan's judgement to Allah's judgement. Some of us don't read quran enough because if we did we wouldn't play with the day of judgement like that. It's embarrassing. On this note I'll make an effort with my hijab, if anyone has a tip for headaches I'll take it.
There are different style of hijabs that are not tight on the head My daughter who is 8 wears a style that isn't popular. She likes it because it isn't tight on her sides
@@FatimaSima-v4n you're not wrong. She should take her own advice... but I don't know that sisters would listen if she was gentle and soft spoken either. We make too many excuses for our bad behaviour
She is right but there is a way to advise sisters. What happened to telling the benefits of correct hijab, how you can become closer to Allah swt etc. shouting and saying you are sick and tired with no solutions isn’t going to help change the situation. And as someone else pointed out, she doesn’t appear to be observing correct hijab as her chest is not covered by the hijab. Nor is she being modest by being loud on TikTok. Time to start with ourselves FIRST and then those around us.
I agree with what you said but subhan’Allah imagine even being nice to sisters and advising them in a soft and gentle manner you will get sisters pouncing on you with their emotional and feminist perspectives on why you should mind your business and not advise even though advise is a part of the deen.
The response they gave shows exactly that their hearts are clinging towards deviance. The Naseeha is VALID, period. Someone from the Salaf stated: "Even if a jahil speaks the truth, it is incumbent upon you to accept it".
@@spawnnpwn4166 so many ahadith Abu Mas’ud reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, among the words people obtained from the Prophets are this: If you feel no shame, do as you wish.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3483 On the authority of Abu Sa`eed al-Khudree (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say, “Whosoever of you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; and if he is not able to do so, then [let him change it] with his tongue; and if he is not able to do so, then with his heart - and that is the weakest of faith.” [Muslim] Also countless ayah’s in the quran about enjoining in good and forbidding evil.
Sorry, but your outlook is wrong! She was absolutely correct in how she said it and it needed to be said. And her chest is covered! Hijab isn’t just a “headscarf.” And Hijab is NOT a journey! It’s a COMMANDMENT from Allah SWT!
Like how gentle do you have to be to preach logic? it's one thing when you struggle to put on a hijab but another when you refuse to put it properly like what's the struggle with covering your hair and neck? 😅😅 Edit:there is a comment above mine which says the sister struggles to put the hijab properly because of neck concussion she gets a lot of pain if the scarf wraps around her neck tightly but she is trying and looking for ways which is completely fine but these women that are mad at the sister preaching isn't because they have some health conditions they're simply mad that she doesn't't think wearing it properly is a struggle
1. You cover everything when you pray this should make you feel that something is wrong when you don’t cover up in hijab 2. It is so easy to wear the proper hijab.. but when all you think is how to impress (men) and yes, men.. You come and wear strange things calling it hijab 3. If a hijab is making you more beautiful then it is not hijab Finally.. nobody needs your hijab neither Islam needs you.. you need hijab for yourself to purify your heart and obey Allah
@Kepler10b If you aren't wearing loose clothing that cover you all the way down to your (and including) ankles, then your salah won't be accepted. Who told you that you didn't have to cover your legs and just covering your waist is enough?
@Kepler10b ok suppose you wear that cloth outside, would you find it to be attractive? No. That is the point. You don’t wear attractive clothe unless you go outside.. i mean those girls. They will never wear the way they wear aside from the makeup and all that when they pray. This should make a girl feel something is wrong when she wear ridiculous hijab showing this and that with makeup heels etc
@@alphauno6614Its not about disobeying god, i think most non hijabi's know that they should be wearing a hijab but the point is that you are saying the prayer wont be accepted, 1. You can politlely advise and not judge, you could say "sister, maybe you should consider covering up more cuz this hadid said that and the quran says this..." Instead of saying "if you don't cover up more your prayer won't be accepted" After all it's not YOUR relationship with God and it's not your judgement, and above all none of anyone's buisness 2. Who are you to say a prayer is not going to be accepteren?! Ofcourse there are guidelines like make wudu and wear a hijab. But saying "your prayer won't be accepted" id the same as saying " you are going to hell fire because because because." Etc. (Not saying you said this it's an example) when you in fact don't have the ability to judge this. Know God is most forgiving and he alone is the judge. I advice you to be softer in your words and keep in mind that you don't know this person!
@Kepler10b Sister awrah includes your ankles so if they are exposed then Salah is void. Being 99% of the way there doesn’t mean anything. It’s the same for guys who say they have mostly covered their thighs - it doesn’t matter because it’s not all the way. Hijab has 3 conditions: 1. Cover everything except for your hands and feet (and face according to most lenient ruling) 2. Loose enough that you can’t make out the shape of the body part it is covering 3. Non transparent so nothing can be seen through the fabric. May Allah guide us all to the righteous path.
“i’m so sick and tired of it” are we wearing the hijab for this sister or for Allah SWT? this is not the tone of advising especially if one is not observing hijab completely so, it’s one thing to be respectful and considerate and honest simultaneously about this topic but this was just really upsetting to hear especially as a sister that does her best to wear hijab the way we are advised, and I pray Allah SWT makes such modesty easy for us and that we do it sincerely for Him. That sister was right, her tone is just way too off, imagine a young easily influenced muslim girl not wearing hijab hearing this? It’s an instant turn away from the hijab for them if this is how our fellow sisters advise us.
Hijab is mandatory, my dear sister. We should not, CANNOT water it down. One could learn. On their own pace. But the sister in the video has all the right to state the truth just as honestly. Just as much I understand her "sick and tired" tone. It IS sickening to flaunt. AT ALL. It is sickening that girls/women are on PUBLIC platforms, NOT fulfiling the BASIC criteria of Hijab. The worst part is, even those who ARE covered were also "opposing" her. How can you say the "tone" if this one sister is not respectable enough, when the responses are plain unethucal, rude & literal trash talking. I did not expect myself to get a deja vu of all the most elderly and not so educated aunts with foul kouths to make a reappearence in the YOUTH of TODAY?!?!?! And to put it simply, one can & will make mistakes. And mistakes will/should be corrected. That is the bond of ONE Ummah. You can be salty, hold a lil grudge but take the advice! But! When somebody CHANGES Allah's Law to suit themselves, THAT is dangerous territory. We DO NOT wanna even go nowhere near that. Say I'm working on it. Say I'm still weak in faith. Say I'm going to. Say I'm still learning. Is that a lot? Offensive? Discouraging? Well, Islam is not for those who seek just the Dunya... Right? You can have your fun fully covered & WITHOUT exposing what Allah Commands NOT TO for the public.. These "trends" are BAD to begin with. We don't follow trends, sister! We don't need to fit in a un-Islamic society or keep up with un-Islamic trends. They are takung themseces outside of the faith themselves by denying the basic Word Of Allah. They weren't complaining about a tone. They were literally disfiguring the meaning of Hijab. By SAYING "it is a journey", "I can wear it however I please". Liberal, much? We please Allah, not ourselves. We are grateful Of Him cuz HE Made it easy for us. NOT take it for granted. We must strive to improve ourselves. We don't judge what is exposed unintentiinally. But selective ignorance is NOT tolerated. These kinda girls NEEDED a sister who was as firm resolute as her, if not harsher. I would've been a bad sister, compared to her. Not because they were not aware of their Dheen, (cuz that would have been my job to educate them) but, because of their blatant LIBERAL belief and bad attitude. A Muslimah is more influencial than ANY man in this planet. They need to know their value & worth which is way beyond some validation from strangers on the internet. And there is no compromising in the Dheen. We don't adjust the Faith to our needs. We adjust ourselves, we sacrifice our desires, so we can be better Muslimah. If it is not for you, learn! Pray to Allah so you can be better, not agaist the only sister who cared enough to warn you to quit. The one strand of hair comment is very profound too. I remember its inspiration on me as a child. You should read on the brave Muslim Sahaba Women of the time. THEY are our role models. Not whatever trendy modernised carricature/clownery we see today. Unfortunately. But they can learn. Do they want to, though, is the question.
@@RoyaleRosemaryRH Isn't the 5 daily prayers also a choice? You can choose to follow or not, right? That is your will to choose to obey or disobey. But Hijab is Fardh obligation. Fullstop. For both men & women, if you don't understand what Hijab means... Refer to كتاب اللباس in Hadith books. All the rulings are there. If you want a brief, I'd tag another reply that I had to explain to some of our not very eager to learn Ummah.
@@RoyaleRosemaryRH Hijab is 3 layers: (for both men & women): 1. The mind - free of haram thoughts 2. The eyes - lowering the gaze; free of haram sights 3. The body - Aw'ra (this prescription is mainly for Sala') Men can't wear silk, gold, silver. They are forbidden. No luxurious clothing; No feminine clothings; Modest, and unextravegent clothes. Their Aw'ra is from the belly button up until the ankles. No transparent see through clothes. They should preserve Thahara' as well. It is Sunnah for them to wear perfume. For women, their Aw'ra is they must cover all except the face and up to the wrists. They should maintain modest, clean, unextravegent clothes as well. In addition, they must use loose fits, neutral, less clashing colors. Women can wear all jwelleries & silk but must not wear them in a way that attracts attention. Eg: anklets & bangles that make a lot of noises can be avoided. Flaunting and showcasing are not allowed. They should wear clothes that cover their curves, except for that is exposed naturally. Transparent clothes are not allowed. It is forbidden for women to wear perfume when going out; they can use it indoors. Both should dress modestly. Refer to the Hadith of Fitrah regarding what can be trimmed. The rest become unoptional. Hair attachments are forbidden. Refer to Ahadheeth on this subject. You'll discover more on what is forbidden. Eg: the obvious - top buns that resemble camel humps are forbidden Selling one's own cut hair is forbidden; buying& reattaching anothers' hair (wig) is forbidden. In case of make up, the intent itself can make it entirely haram. Eg: bright lipsticks Deception is obviously entirely prohibited. One can't imitate the opposite gender. One can't change their natural form - no enhancements/surgeries/etc. ALL MEDICAL EXCEPTIONS are all permitted. (The rulings don't change; these special circumstances are privileges. Declaring not to use them in times of need could be going against Allah's Permissibility as well. As we are not supposes to not bring harm to ourselves. And because Allah Knows Best.) The walking must be not arrogant, not pompous, in a way we call it هونا, must not draw attention, and not aggressive. To put in words must seem too much for some but this is the BARE MINIMUM that most Muslim men & women are already aware of (whether they succeed on following or not). But all is easier when you purify your intent & do it for Allah & Allah alone. To get to that point in Akh'laq could be a journey for some. But the rulings, my brother, NEVER changes. I hope you did not assume that the الصحاح الستة are just empty books, eh? Refer to كتاب اللباس for all the Authentification & more golden advices. I KNOW I've missed plenty. All are easy when you practice. May Allah Make it easy for us! ✊
@@JustrmlaI think our sister is trying to point out that the sister calling everyone out, is also wearing makeup and jewelry, which is a way to beautify yourself
@@DontDoDunya in the video, she claims that for now she’s was talking about the hijab, then the beautification came after, she was calling out the Muslimas that wear the hijab wrong, and in the video we can see she’s wearing it properly, that’s the point that people were calling her out for
I will add that struggling through the hijab is different than just saying its a journey and accepting your current form of it as acceptable. There are also people who say if you dont do it right then dont do it all which is worse because its better to have some modesty than none
@@infinitebeast5517 you know subhan’Allah when one is struggling they say yes i know im sinning and i Ask Allah to give me tawfiq to be obedient to him and to adhere to his commands i know im not doing it right but i intend to and i hope Allah helps me. But no when you advise someone your met with so much backlash and ad hominem attacks that have not evidence or proof from the deen just a bunch of emotional responses.
The difference between Muslims and Christians is our view on sin. Christians see everyone as sinners, but we are saved and announce their sins all the time to try to be humble. In Islam though, we are discouraged from revealing sins. We are not supposed to normalize sinning and instead , keep our sins between us and Allah. We are supposed to outwardly try to promote good, even if in private we do bad.
As a sister from India 🇮🇳, I am really impressed by your video because all the things and views you represent is happening from wearing to talking everything and everytime they find the concept of feminism May Allah bless you with lots of happiness and prosperity and grant you the highest level of Jannatul Firdaus 🩵
It is what it is. Straight facts 🤷🏽♀️ We know what the command is why should it be watered down to appease feelings over facts. I feel those that are triggered are the ones that are not adhering to the etiquette of hijab. If people have issue with the delivery then focus on someone delivering the same message in a softer way for yourselves. Haq is haq, may Allah help us all find ease in our jihad of our hijabs. The understanding and journey of our nafs.
I mean you’re man you don’t have to wear it I wonder why there is so many men in the comments do you wanna wear the hijab if so wear it and just shut up
Iam a victim of that,, i live in india the home of liberal hijabi feminist bread winners and one children policy and no love for husbands ( its true that most indian and Bangladeshi wives don't even love their husbands 😢 even she is religious its don't matter) i wish to marry four wives but not a single women in india will allow me but she will never question her own verginity
Heres my perspective as a hijabi since age 12 (24 now). The thing that rubbed me the wrong way is that theres a severe lack of empathy. Yes, hijab trends have been out of the islamic folds and they need to be addressed with a strictness (with CARE). However, comments like “its not that hard”, “youre embarrassing us”, and the similar remarks are not helpful . Ive been through the phases of neck or hair pieces out. I know what it feels like to be disconnected from faith yet needing to represent it as a fard. Its difficult. And shaming would have made it worse me. Well known women islamic scholars and teachers have talked abt hijab extensively because it can be difficult (esp. in the West). If Allah has made it easy for her then that is a blessing! suggesting a proper roadmap or tips on the “journey” would have been abundantly more helpful. Learn about hijab, connect your self with deen (esp with Prayer), set benchmarks and the ends goals, etc. If prophet Musa was told to advise the Pharoah with leniency/gentleness (Quran, Taha 43-44) then advising our own sisters with gentleness is the bare minimum.
Salam, sister! I think many brothers and even some sisters do not know how hard it is to wear a hijab. It is our nature to want to be beautiful. The test is on covering it. For men, it's to lowering our gaze.
Assalamu alaykum, The hadith is mis-translated as it can be difficult to translate Arabic into English. The word used in the hadith actually translates to "firm(ness)" or "resolution" (i.e. decisiveness) rather than "intelligence". Women are less resolute/more swayed in their opinions and therefore a man's testimony is equal to 2 women's. Resolution is one of the qualities of a man and this is why he has the duty of being a leader. In contrast, softness including in terms of being swayed is a quality of a woman, it lends itself to being more sympathetic, empathetic and nurturing, esp for the needs of infants and children.
Omg thank you for this post I absolutely needed to hear that as there are many times when I see translations and in the process of learning Arabi, questioning the accuracy of the translation as English truly lacks words for the nuance included in a single word in arabi (I hope I'm making sense)
@@TheeAmbientUnfazed you are (making sense) Yes, I've been hearing this hadith being quoted by the mistranslation and it's been causing me cognitive dissonance - like the Rasool ﷺ would not put women down like this but if this is what he has said then I have to just accept it. That didn't sit right with me and getting me down, so I did further research and everything I was finding was saying that it's an incorrect interpretation/translation and not giving the nuance as you were saying. I really hope people will realise the error of this and the effect it is having - we shouldn't be misrepresenting what our beloved Prophet ﷺ has said anyway, especially if we know better.
@coolerthetyrant7923 excuse me, 1. I am not going to bother reading your message in it's entirity because I can already tell what you are trying to insinuate without having even comprehended what I have written - it's not a matter of my own personal opinion. 2. it's actual scholars that have made this correction. Please look it up for yourself! 3. Subhanallaah, your name says it all. Wa salaam.
Thank you for the clarification. So many people misrepresent this Hadith and many men unfortunately abuse this Hadith to oppress women. The part of more women in Hell is also nuanced and misunderstood. This topic is too long to discuss on this platform and needs further discussion and analysis. The trouble with the ummah especially since the advent of social media is that everyone is a mufti. Everyone is a scholar without any credentials. This is very dangerous and leads to much fitna. I’m truly distressed by the state of this Ummah.
This is the full hadith: Abu Sa’id al-Khudri reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: يَا مَعْشَرَ النِّسَاءِ تَصَدَّقْنَ فَإِنِّي أُرِيتُكُنَّ أَكْثَرَ أَهْلِ النَّارِ O gathering of women! Give in charity, for I have seen you as a majority of people in Hellfire. They said, “Why is that, O Messenger of Allah?” The Prophet said: تُكْثِرْنَ اللَّعْنَ وَتَكْفُرْنَ الْعَشِيرَ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْ نَاقِصَاتِ عَقْلٍ وَدِينٍ أَذْهَبَ لِلُبِّ الرَّجُلِ الْحَازِمِ مِنْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ You curse others often and you are ungrateful for your livelihood. I have not seen anyone with reductions in mind and religion more capable of removing reason from a resolute man than you. They said, “What are our reductions in mind?” The Prophet said: أَلَيْسَ شَهَادَةُ الْمَرْأَةِ مِثْلَ نِصْفِ شَهَادَةِ الرَّجُلِ Is not the testimony of a woman like half of a man? They said, “Of course.” The Prophet said: فَذَلِكِ مِنْ نُقْصَانِ عَقْلِهَا أَلَيْسَ إِذَا حَاضَتْ لَمْ تُصَلِّ وَلَمْ تَصُمْ That is the reduction in your mind. Is it not that when you menstruate you do not pray, nor fast? They said, “Of course.” The Prophet said: فَذَلِكِ مِنْ نُقْصَانِ دِينِهَا That is the reduction in your religion. Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 298, Grade: Sahih
It’s so sad how misguided this ummah is. I’m sure we have all read the Hadith where the women heard the verses of al-hijab and covered properly right away, out of obedience and love&fear of Allah. If they’re really struggling with hijab, they wouldn’t be posting their sin all over social media. May Allah help the sisters that are ACTUALLY struggling and ACTIVELY trying harder. They’re not JUSTIFYING their sin. But these sisters getting angry are addicted to attention. They’re sinning and justifying it. These women need to re-learn what hijab means, to cover our beauty! And they need to learn tawheed, who Allah is. I am certain that if they learned this and were actually stable in their religion, they wouldn’t be acting like this - they would let go of their egos, be ashamed and obeying Allah. And all these influencers should fear the day where they will be held accountable. Showing themselves off to weak men. And to a person that doesn’t know the religion, these influencers make them think it’s halal to do hijab like this - so they are inspiring other impressionable girls to wear the hijab wrong. They will be held accountable for all of that.
Yeah hijab is a journey, but when you show your neck your earrings and so forth, it's a journey closer to taking it off, not wearing it more modestly. So many girls have gone down that pipeline, at least when you're in the wromg, admit it. They all feel attacked, myself included because sometimes I might slip, but their response is arrogant, when you see the video, you're supposed to agree and reflect, not double down. A-targhib wa tarhib, this is totally a valid method of preaching, you're not supposed to feel comfortable, you're supposed to feel guilty if you're doing something that goes against your religion, that's how you know the heart isn't dead.
I am a male and i want to first say i do not appreciate the way the muslimah was attacked. However, i think she was too harsh and if her goal was to correct people she lost that goal. For men we can hardly understand how difficult it is to wear hijab especially in the west where everyone is showing much more. We should continually gently encoursge our sisters and not use that kind of tome. May Allah untite this ummah. Ameen. Tired of all the online wars
She has makeup on telling others about the hijab while also struggling to wear the hijab isn’t that hypocrisy? and she could’ve preached in a nicer way not in a harsh way what happened to spreading dawah kindly?
we have plenty of preachers who give them dawah but “don’t judge” Finally, it’s even when it’s a sister who she give you nassiha , it’s bad , when it’s brother , it’s also bad Nosense
we have plenty of preachers who give them dawah but “don’t judge” Finally, it’s even when it’s a sister who she give you nassiha , it’s bad , when it’s brother , it’s also bad Nosense
The salaf said even when a jahil gives you correct advise based on the Quran and sunnah you accept it. What she is saying is completely true the message isnt ruined by the speaker. Even if she said the same advise "less harshly" the feminist will still jump at her for being "judgemental" when when Allah himself said judge by what he has revealed. Harsh advise is completely acceptable and was done by the salaf and prophet Muhammed now will you reject them?
It seems to me that the first women is just jealous of seeing other women practicing religion differently than how she was thaught and she now feels the need to bring them down. She probably want to be able to show earrings and those stuff but she think she can't so she is frustrated . She also being up her confidence in question showing that she is not confident otherwise she wouldn't have to mention it , it's the other women making her insecure. I think anyone should be free to practice their religion how they want it's not up to others to judge wether and how someone will wear hijab or do whatever, God will be the one judging in the end
They say "it's a journey" but when the Quran verse about the hijab was revealed, women did NOT hesitate to rush to their homes and cover themselves immediately, and western women in these times are even questioning Allah why hijab is mandatory, astaghfirullah may Allah give them understanding and knowledge
I totally agree with this sister. She was not addressing a specific individual but speaking to a larger issue. A lot of sisters don’t want to admit there is an inferiority complex we struggle with when trying to wear hijab in the West, and even in majority Muslim countries that are hostile towards hijab. Also, hijab is t just about what we wear, it also includes how we behave and carry ourselves. I commend sisters for at least trying to eat hijab but there are definitions for qualifies as proper hijab and getting upset at a sister pointing out the obvious lack of meeting those guidelines just reveals issues with our iman and ability to accept being corrected for the Sake of Allah. May Allah reward this sister for her efforts and guide us to have taqwa and submit completely to Him. Ameen! And Allah Knows Best!
I think it's better to let people make their own decisions. Tell your daughter or close family, but don't judge or correct others without permission. You have to ask others if they want to hear advice
Vraiment ? Toutes ces sœurs qui s'affichent sur les réseaux sociaux, nous demandent elles si on a envie d'entendre leur conseil de look et de façon de porter le hijab et les boucles d'oreilles et le make up ? nous demande telle si nous sommes OK pour être associé à leur représentation erronée de la femme musulmane ? Nous demandent t'elles l'autorisation pour propager la fitna au sein de notre oumma en s'exposent devant nos maris telles des poupées qui sentent la vanille à des kilomètres à la ronde !??? Nous demandent telles l'autorisation de semer le doute dans le cœur de nos petites filles en s'affichant comme des modèles à suivre ? Par contre , il faudrait leur donner des conseils uniquement si elle nous donne l'autorisation !? Quel genre d'islam est ce là ? Entraidons nous dans le bien Ne nous entraidons pas dans le mal Vous vous souvenez ?
What about the Ummah??? I thought we were supposed to be one family and we are all followers of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) so do not try to liberalise the religion.
@@Arkus123 The problem now is that they want to correct others to feel better, many women are making every effort to comply but we don't have to be radical either, why do I see her hair a little? come on men 😂, we have to focus on more serious problems
@@princelobo46 radical??? How is it radical to tell a woman to wear her hijab properly??? Do you think that the Prophet Muhammad SAW wouldn't have corrected a woman if she was in front of him without fully covering???
I started wearing the hijab two years ago.I was so scared to wear it that I started to wear it like how the people around me wore it at that time.Obviously I started with pants and the way I was doing my hijab was not correct.After a while,I realised that what I was wearing was not a hijab.I was wearing those clothes not because I wanted it but because of the people.That's what I saw from the hijabi sisters.Then I started changing my clothing and now I am a niqabi Alhamdulillah.Women have that natural instinct to show themselves and they like to beautify themselves.That's why Allah told us to cover ourselves because he knows his creation. So my beautiful sisters know that Allah is the one who created you and me and he knows the struggles that you are going through but when it comes to hijab,we should do it correctly and obey Allah.We are representing Islam as muslimahs and if we are weak when it comes to our desires then our future will be weak too.May Allah forgive all of us ameen
Genuine question- If women are expected to be home-makers or work from home, how are the men who are supposed to be the breadwinners observing modesty themselves? Sad to say, but too often, we have some men with double standards who watch p0rn, don't lower their gaze, don't behave appropriately when speaking with non mahram women and yet demand a traditional woman. To add insult to injury, such controlling, narcissistic, abusive "men" also want their women to only see female doctors, be taught by female teachers, etc, etc. In what way, is that logical?
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Hello, there seems to be a misunderstanding, in Islam women are allowed to work, even our Prophet (asm) wife was a big business owner in what is today called Syria (not sure abt the location accuracy), hope it helps 👍
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Indeed men also have modesty rules such that covering from their belly buttons to their knees I think it was and lowering their gaze from women (like when they see them and stuff), and p0rn is Zina a big sin in Islam, just wanted to inform, bye
What does that have to do with the issue of women's hijab addressed here? I don't know what's with men and women these days. You can't address one with the other saying what about the other
This problem of Western Muslims is the symptom of the ongoing problem of avoiding the 1,400 years of scholarly judgments locked up inside the four Orthodox Sunni schools of Islam. The only way to have a "journey" where you look at the source material and interpret it any way you want is if you deny the authority of the scholars who have consistently given the same rulings on these matters for over 1000 years. If you're looking into the Quran and Hadeeth and understanding it in whatever way you like, don't get mad at your sister or daughter for doing the same in a way that you don't like.
As for the JOURNEY aspect for being a Muslim. I disagree. As a revert it was difficult for me to give up those things that after 45 years I was accustomed to. I did not give up pork right away, I did not wear the hijab right away, I did not pray 5 ti.es a day right away. Yes it was a journey for me. And if everyone came down on me because I didn't do all that at once and spoke to me as this hijab did to her sisters, DONT KNOW IF THAT WOULD HAVE PUSHED ME TO DO IT. Instead it would have had to do the opposite. Yes we are all Muslims, but we are human too. Tell me why is it not Haram for men to be on the internet putting himself out there for all women to see and interact with? How do you know who your sending heart emoji to? NOT EVERYONE COMES TO ISLAM IN THE SAME WAY
I’m torn on the concept of “hijabi representation” in the media. Especially as a revert, trying to find information and guidance on what to do and what was acceptable was difficult. And not just the written decree because that’s clear - but finding places to purchase, and candidly tips for things like keeping your hijab secure. For those of us without mothers to teach us, the trap of social media influencers is real.
It doesn't help with the fact that no Shuyūkh are willing to address and talk about this problem in the community because they are afraid of getting cancelled. What's worse is that there are barely if any Sheikha out there to talk female to female about this. No leadership at all.
@@BasimKor there are lot of videos available on UA-cam talking about wearing the proper hijab commanded by Allah by both men and women daee'. Whenever I see these videos the views are usually very low people these days don't really watch videos like that most us watch entertainment videos so we can't fault people in the dawah field
That what happens when you live in a non-muslim country and I'm happy someone finally said that. As someone who lives in muslim country I even cover my face and puh-lease if you want to show skin take off your hijab at once don't tell me 'showing a bit of hair is fine' it's NOT fine, like when did you get this new update of Islam, tell me. When I don't wear niqab I fell like I'm running out of oxygen and the idea of showing my face to men eats me alive, I can't even think how they show hair and skin.
Like omg… she’s warning u to do what Allah said to do…if someone come to me and say ur hijab is better in this way or u have to do this…I’ll appreciate them cuz is it bad to tell someone to do smth better that Allah said to do?..
As a revert I am trying to understand the hijab and take it step by step I do want to wear it but I want to understand it before I wear it so that I am not following Islam blindly and with pure intentions Thank you for explaining the history behind it I feel like in western culture hijab is seen as a fashion staple more so than a protected covering. Inshallah this will change so that we may all understand
Idk what y’all on but first women was really wrong , like she’s basically judging your relationship w allah , who is she to judge? Or who are you guys to judge? Only Allah can judge .
Well, in my opinion and experience as a Muslim woman, in all aspects of life, we don’t always follow logic. Logic is usually a very small part in the many factors that decide our actions. I know it’s going to be way harder for men to understand this, but suddenly covering up all your hair and every inch of your body with very loose and modest clothing everytime you step outside and changing your whole image all at once isn’t so easy, especially when it is not mandated on us when we are young, and suddenly in our pre-teens/teens, it just hits us. That’s why it is no way to advise someone to stop doing something, especially when it becomes a big change in their life and hard to adjust to, to simply just scold them for all the imperfections that they can see in it. The headscarf is just one of may things that fall into the category of “hijab”, and when you just shame someone for it, you kinda just make them feel bad, but it’s not enough to make them want to change and increase their modesty, THAT comes from having better faith in ALLAH, not any societal pressures, be it from other Muslim women who wear it better than them, or any man on the street. I know a lot of hijabs who wear abaya everywhere they go, and people will praise them a lot for that, and because they have done it without a strong faith in Allah, all their other actions will be haram, and they brag about it too. This is the same with Hafizes and guys that are perceived very well, who secretly do major sins like zinna and brag to their friends about it. I think what the women in the first video did was wrong, the WAY she said it, but I get her point, that fashion trends sometimes diminish the message of Islam, but it wasn’t her place to shame Muslim women for small things in their appearance, which aren’t perfect at first, but our faith is a work in progress, Trust me!! I think it would have been better if she was more empathetic and used sunnah to support her point, bc that would be a way that the Prophet (S) advised people, as he did it in a way that made people WANT to be more religious. If you don’t have the same struggle as other Muslim women in this aspect of Hijab, don’t come at it with Pride, just bc ur better in those aspects, it’s just simply not fair, and makes everyone want to be defensive in return, This is my opinion.
This farse that the prophet صل. ى الله عليه وسلم was alway soft spoken and never got passionately upset amd angry is an injustice. He said to the mushrikeen of makkah in sahih hadith following an incident لقد جئتكم بالذبح
As'salamu Aleykum, I know women who wear the hijab as well as they can. Some have trauma and can't wear anything on their necks. Others don't know some things yet and are improving. But without sounding judgmental, I don't see any intention to improve in these women. They buy earrings and tops that make it impossible to cover themselves properly. When exactly will their journal start? I started wearing it when I was 16 and you could see my hair and neck, but I didn't have a proper headscarf or long tops, so I improvised. I tried not to be in pictures and deleted all pictures and videos where you could see me uncovered. I saved up my money and bought decent clothes, even though I had to wear the same thing for a long time, it was worth it. And now I wear it properly in sha Allah. And even back then, when I didn't have it on properly, I always told the people who asked that you should wear it like this and that, but I didn't have the clothes or fabrics to go with it. So yea basicly in my opinion as a hijabi girl, i don't see a journal betweem them and Allah, especially not because they post themselves like that and try to defend this behaivor.
I never understand people who say "dont judge me, its my journey between me and Allah swt". If its just between you and Alah swt, then why bring other people in this matter by posting yourself clearly being a bad influence to people who is new to the hijab, on social media?
Well, you could argue that women just should go out then. They have a purpose of being there, whether out to buy groceries, or sharing their own opinion online. We cannot live in a society where everyone hides bc they are not perfect in some way.
There is no doubt why wommen will be majority of people of hell x fire and why the majority of dajjal will wommen and it is not because of number of women.
True Sahih Muslim 2737a: Based on my reasoning and experiences i have for 30 years, the reason would be that sisters often justify practices that are considered severely haram.
@@englishbladeIt is not only about number but their attitude as well , not all women are same but some characteristics can be found in majority of women
@@englishblade That's not what the hadith says. It describes the nature of a person destined for heaven. The hadith literally begins with: "I had a chance to look into Paradise and found that the majority of the people there were poor," implying that poorer people are often more grateful and closer to God. Only then does the hadith continue about sisters, suggesting that many will be there because of being ungrateful. This stance is fortified in another famous hadith about sisters being deficient in their religion, found in Sahih Bukhari 304.
In these times, the open sinners don't want anyone to say anything to them. But in Islam, enjoining the good and forbidding evil is an obligation. 3:110 "You are the best community ever raised for humanity-you encourage good, forbid evil, and believe in Allah..." May Allah reward the sister for loving Allah, and His Messenger (Salalah alayhi was salam), and Islam enough to say something.
وَلاَ تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ الْجَـهِلِيَّةِ الاٍّولَى (and do not Tabarruj yourselves like the Tabarruj of the times of ignorance,) "Tabarruj is when a woman puts a Khimar on her head but does not tie it properly." So her necklaces, earrings and neck, and all of that can be seen. This is Tabarruj, and Allah addresses all the women of the believers with regard to Tabarruj. -Tafsir Ibn Kathir
She’s not wrong, I find when women wear the hijab with tight ah abayas so cringe but at the same time there are reverts doing their best. Also a lil bit hypocritical when you’re wearing a full face of makeup 🫢
That's why there's no such thing as a sister code only men have bro codes because only men respect other men. Stop bashing this sister for speaking the truth that's slander and backbiting. 😡
@@FaiyadFityou need to talk abt Palestine and the genocide going on I think you forget what the sahaba did go to war (jihad) and you’re talking abt girls hijab which is clearly not your business what happen to men go to war suddenly all men become religious when it comes to a women
@FaiyadFit let's go through the garbage in your video in detail since you want to be an ignorant fool. First off: why are you, as a man, looking at women that hard. Avert your gaze, brother. 2: your video title itself is already wrong. That sister is not defending Islam, she is shaming other Muslim women with a shallow understanding of the hijab. She's doing it for rage bait I fear. You also fully ignored the fact that hijab is more than what you wear, it's the way you act and live, and the sister who was complaining about "necks showing" does everything she complains about and more. 3: you also went out of your way to demonize the women replying to her when 90% of them were very polite about it and simply explained why they disagreed and what their experience with hijab is. Saying the hijab isn't a journey is just plain ignorant and isn't considering how everyone has different circumstances. Everyone can't just "power through" and wear the hijab in a suffocating way like she does, it could be medical issues, safety issues, maybe they're new to the hijab, you never know and you're the last person who should be talking about what women should or shouldn't do anyway. Hijab is also not exclusive to women and addresses the behavior of men as well, clearly something you need to be working on since you make your living judging muslim women online. 4. The hadith you used was interpreted completely wrong. It did not literally mean women were less intelligent and I urge you to do your research before you yap on the internet and make yourself look stupid. Men have no authority over women in Islam, you are misinterpreting the message of caring for women and treating them with dignity as controlling them, and that's just wrong. Men are obliged to care for women because they have an advantage in how the world functions. If you look at the prophet himself, he never controlled his wives in the way you are implying. Do better and stop looking like a clown on the internet for everyone to see. Digital footprint is real. Get off the mic and get in the masjid ‼️
The problem is not the criticism. The problem is that the person it’s coming from can be subject to criticism themselves. The kind of tone she uses is not befitting for someone who hasn’t covered her chest and has makeup and done eyebrows. If this was a Shaykh using the same tone, I would not be offended at all.
I stand with the sister, she is right. Wearing a hijab doesnt mean only covering your hair, but also you are covering your chest, your body line, and keep it simple. That is modesty.
As a muslim women I agree it is a journey, leave our sisters alone and let them be, they will wear in their own way. Stop judging you have no idea how difficult it is for some sisters
@@bikeboi821 there is not journey in adhering to the command of Allah. Haram is haram and halal is halal, the problem is often one doesn’t say im sinning may Allah give me tawfeeq and grant me ease in obedience rather its met with ‘who do you think you are’ ‘ you think your better’ ‘ im on my own journey’ we are all on a journey and the end of that journey is with Allah! And that the day we stand before him we will have not friends nor family to back us and thats a scary thing and what is more scary is you dont when your journey in the dunya will end but one thing is certainly for sure and that is the fact you will die and you will be alone in the matter then. As for advising our brothers and sisters so long as we are Muslims it will never stop because our beloved messenger salallahu Alayhi wa sallam said I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say, “Whosoever of you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; and if he is not able to do so, then [let him change it] with his tongue; and if he is not able to do so, then with his heart - and that is the weakest of faith.” [Muslim]
Qur’an 33:36 “It is not for a believing man or woman-when Allah and His Messenger decree a matter-to have any other choice in that matter.1 Indeed, whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has clearly gone ˹far˺ astray.”
I opened my insta id month ago. I rendomly started following muslim sisters..like their Id, to have an idea how they live as muslim, like to be aesthetic yk.. Wallahi, trust me I had to delete my ID..I was so ashamed seeing them wearing tight cloths.showing their carves,putting music..like many more..Nawujubillah..and then they say its MODESTY..may Allah forgive us.
Brothers, please let us normalize the niqab. If you can't find a niqabi sister in the USA then marry overseas. Egypt, morocco, Indonesia etc. . Enough is enough with these sisters making us believe that if they don't follow the minimum they are still high prizes to be sought after. We have to be firm. Yes it costs more and it takes longer but this is about the akhira and passing down basic Islamic common sense to our children. These sisters are all showing off themselves for the world to see. They are not worth a maher of a price of one dollar in my opinion. Wallahi.
why do european think that wearing short cloths are bravery or confidence?.Meanwhile,being an actress, winning Miss universe,Miss world are nothing but selling or representing your bodyby force,but women have to accept this force just because of fame,money.Also feminism forces women to beat men.That’s why,women has to do 24/7 job,even if she doesn't like it to do.why we don't understand that,physically a man and a woman are not equal.In Islam,there is a beautiful rule that Husband will earn but wife will take care of her children,but feminist hate this rule. Anyway,Hijab is not forced in Islam,Its the girls choice to Follow it to make the creator happy."Get out of your misconceptions about Muslim
Personally I haven’t heard of that from our reverted brothers and sisters, but in any case, please try to not speak of all reverts the same. I am one too, but I do not halal-ify or partake in tabarruj. Even born Muslims have to actually learn their religion, and the way that those sisters cling to deviance is simply because they are ignorant and have to properly learn their religion. Ignorance is how people lead themselves astray, revert or not. And if someone is new to Islam like in the case of reverts, we simply advise them in the -> correct manner
@@yourfellowsister it's a general statement based on online trend. I will call out what's wrong. There are even reverts calling out those reverts. It's even happened from that Megan girl that's propal that did a Quran study group. My comment helps in it identifies who I'd the prob, why n the failure of born Muslims to help guide their new siblings. Stop trying to police other ppls speech. Unless ppl incorrectly speak for Allah or error about Islamic facts then you n I have rights to speak as we see fit.
Finding the faith - journey Learning the truth - journey Practicing the reality - journey Practicing Islam step by step - journey For a revert: Islam is a journey... Even that is only until they change their condition, going through the massive transformation that they do, from newborn to taking steps. After, they are as accountable as others, after learning to walk, think & act on their own. But... Representing Islam WRONGLY - ........ (Reflect!) Changing definitions & criteria of Fardh Obligations: ........ (Reflect!) Taking Islamic Teachings as a subjective preference: ....... (Reflect!) Shrinking the BASIC Mandatory Practices of Islam to one's selfish narratives, AFTER knowing what is Fardh, Sunnah, Makrooh & Haram: ....... (Reflect!) It's no longer just between Allah Ajja Va Jal & you, when you present it to the world. A Muslimah does not represent herself. We are خليفة الله !!!! Fear our actions! Always seek improvement! Embrace the struggle! Look UP to those who are better than you. Don't look down on those who are less fortunate. Don't take ANYTHING for granted, leave alone Islam. Remember, the cons of ignorance: it exposes one's inner intention easily Struggling is reality. Not embracing a weakness or defeat. Your self can become a lesson to others. It is up to you to choose whether it is a positive one or negative. One could choose to make mistakes. Your mistakes shouldn't define your capacity. One could take Islam as a journey. But the same you will not come out the dressing room in the middle of changing. You could be struggling to change until you pass (pass the test/pass away). THAT is the journey of living. Or you fixed as destination in the middle & refused to grow more. But you'd KNOW that it is not the full outfit just cuz you are content with half of it. You could have your preference WITHIN the very criteria of Hijab Hijab itself is at least 3 layers: 1. The mind 2. The eyes 3. The Aw'ra Remember the Akhira - true reality If measely small Dunya is so important to you, how big should the Akhira be in your Qal'b? Give Akhira the importance it deserves. Make the size of it your persepective. Make the eternity of it your worth.
As a teen hijabi (for almost 2 years now alhamdulillah) I also went through of the phase of just covering my head with a thin cloth (not included in those 2 years) as most would do in my culture...but after a few months I thought that I am literally showing my hair so whats the point of covering it in the first place? after listening to some lectures and giving it alot of thought i started practicing the full hijab...it was scary because of all the looks i would get...it was hard at first because covering your hair and neck is a huge sacrifice especially in today's age because of social media and all that stuff but i liked the fact that when people whould look at me they would know that i am a Muslim, in school people would respect my boundaries. so, the only thing i told my self to overcome this insecurity was by saying that this sacrifice will be rewarded by allah as i have sacrificed something in his name....you know? even now i dont think I look good in pictures with my hijab and when i feel sad I always quote the words of the Quran: "indeed, with every hardship there is ease" controling my urge to look "nice" is quite hard but what is the sacrifice of my beauty compared to jannah? not even worth a grain of sand...trust me ❤️
bro we are living in the ends of time and nows the time we all should be really focusing on our religion so many signs of the day of judgement has happened and so little are left and yall still debating wether hijab is mandatory or not were cooked fr.....
Those with iman on this Journey, adhere to Allah SWT and his messenger's guidance! It is not a journey where you develop your own version of the instructions. Those who conclude that in their journey to god they can do it how they want to do it, may find Allah rejecting that if not them.
@@autisticwoman665 that's your opinion sister. I am talking about actual Islamic rulings. She is not just existing, she is actively loading up her face online.
I’ve been wanting to try to start wearing hijab (as a new revert) but I’m being honest, seeing this video and the original video just adds to my anxiety about it. I thought that wearing it at all would be more modest than not wearing it at all…but it feels like what we do will never be enough for some people 😢
Do your best for the sake of Allah SWT even if you fall short and don't sin publicly. It's that simple sis. You won't expect to drink alcohol as a Muslim and for no one to tell you that act is a sin, it's the same with the hijab. Your hijab is not for others, it's for Allah SWT- however as Muslims, we must enjoin the good and forbid the evil amongst ourselves. Keep your sin private.
First of all hijab IS a journey you start covering your body then you start covering your hair then you start hijab or in some cases even start wearing a niqab and also makeup isn't Haram no one said that if you like wearing makeup you can but your intentions should be clean and you're literally telling them "either do it perfectly or you're not doing it correct" what the hell!? And you can show your abaya online hijab and abaya is not covering beauty it's what beautiful to Allah and this is wrong this is a private journey with Allah and Allah only and you can't just jump in and go "you're not doing it perfectly you're not a good Muslim" WHAT THE HELL!?
This is so true. My close relatives say I am being so serious and taking Islam to seriously. Islam is not a game that you just choose what you want to take and leave. OFC it’s gonna be hard especially when you parents are kinda westernised and want you to commit haram, knowingly and unknowingly. And say that I should not be listening to sheikh on UA-cam… sorry but these people have studied Islam and scarified time to the ummah. We shouldn’t take all trends that we see out there and try ‘islamify it’. Many fashion trends are just not suitable for the modesty that Islam requires. Idk if this makes sense
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I HOPE you see this. We first refer to the Quran. I am new to LEARNING this religion i was born into. The word by word translation says cover our adronments and to distingsh ourselves from the non believing women. When i wear my hijab it will be for God and i want to wear it PROUDLY showing my religion and my faith in the way i carry myself while i am surrounded by women wearing bikinis and mini skirts or whatever that our pious muslim his and may or may not end up cheating ul with. So shush you have no uterus. No opinion. And you are using a quote that christians use to show that women are oppressed in Islam! I wanted to like your Channal but i am out. You should Also be VERY careful with what you say BECAUSE a woman on the journey to discovering Islam might stop because of YOU. Let women deal with women. Trust me, didnt the prophet say you can not straighter the rib ? It enrages me when men say anything because you all will be the first to stare at the pretty girl with the earrings while you still have a spouse next to you and try dresscoding her while drooling over your female collegues of whatever religion. Khalid ditched Salama for some Hindu girl. Just puting it out there. And be very scared and think TH rice before saying anything because if someone watched your video and thinks Islam is opressing , you would answer to God on the day of judgment. That quote you just showed me has been used by christians to make me think Islam is oppressing. Our brain shrink after we give birth, we take a break on periods to self reflect and our husbands should be spoiling us because we are in pain and even God gave us a break from praying and fasting !! Men are to protect the women according to the surah i read. I havent read hadhis yet but i know not to listen to slander and please BE careful. There are instances of so much love between prophet and his wives. That is what i focus on. Ooooh Also men will be the first to say I CAN HAVE FOUR WIVES. the prophet has 12 or something. Instead of focusing on the story of Fathima and Ali ra. Muslim women need to have a backbone in todays society or we will not survival.
Edit : Muslim men went to war because a j.w played a prank on her that exposed her. Muslim men of today are the first to watch leaked photos of their Muslim sister exposed on the internet and what not. You should focus on educating the men. You really do not want to mistakenly push someone away from Islam.
The bare minimum is having the humbleness to accept that you are wrong and admit it’s out of your weakness you don’t wear hijab properly. Such sisters have our respect and may Allah make it easy for them.
Exactly, i'm a hijabi for almost 14 years and i still don't wear it in the correct way but she spoke the truth
@@Kroepoek97 jeezus sister 14 years?? that's honestly crazy to knowingly do something purposely wrong
@@heybudstfunow oh don't get me wrong i don't show my hair and neck and never will but atleast i'm not denying that she's right
Everytime you don't wear the hijab correctly you disrespecting not only your Self for everyone to see but also ALLAH subhanallah wa ta3allah@@Kroepoek97
@@araoto9240 i'm still stuggling and i improved alot alhamdulilah over the past years
If the Hijab journey is a private matter between them and Allah, why are they so keen on showing it to us and every person on the web!?
Ikr
The hijab isn’t a journey, because it isn’t between you and Allah only, because the whole point of the hijab isn’t to cover yourself from Allah, but from non mehrem men
@@cyberyousef7519 You're absolutely right, and i don't believe it's a journey, i was only showing the inconsistency in the logic of some sisters.
Fr!! 💯
That is like dressing half-naked or nearly naked or naked and saying hijab is between a woman and Allah (SWT).
Hijaab - Journey ❌
Hijaab - Fardh ✅
Real 😎
I don’t understand why people call it a hijab journey id call it actually the journey to hijab instead, if we only paid 1.5% of our money to zakah that’s not zakat or journey to zakat it’s not completing zakat and just doing a disservice if we act like it is zakat or hijab both which are fardh
@@englishblade O you who have believed, enter into Islam completely and do not follow the footsteps of Shaitan. Indeed, he is to you a clear enemy.
Qur'an 2:208
Extremist
@@SithZealot *Muslim
This generation of Muslim men & women would call the Sahabah & our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH extreme or radical if they were alive today
Yup just like how the west twist the piety Islam provides
Yeah your right about that
Facts 😊they will fight you till demise
They would call the Imam Mahdi and Jesus (AS) an extremist.
@@Arkus123 - 100%
When the ayah of hijab came down the women covered themselves immediately, using whatever they had ie curtains etc, they was described as looking like black crows. Thats how seriously they took the commands of Allah that were revealed in the Quran. May Allah make us amongst them
"The ayah of hijab?" You sad little person.
You don't need to look like a black crow to be modest.
@@anjalisartistry870 for Muslim women who care about their Akhirah, their role models are the mothers of the believers and the sahabiyat. So that being said we look up to them not random influencers of ‘modest fashion’. We follow the Quran and sunnah. The description of modesty and hijaab is very clear.
Hate this "yOu cAn'T jUdGe" culture
You're put on this planet to be judged!!
Be responsible, take accountability! This goes for anyone!
fr bro, how about you let people judge you before Allah judges you 💯
Literally
judged by allah, ignore all the other insignificant judgements. the true judge is allah
The only thing we can do is advise our sisters, and Allah can do the judging
@@NOORZAI2011 yes, but if we advise them, they STILL think its judging
Someone had to say it. May Allah reward this sister for speaking up. She’s not the only one who sees this is getting out of hand. 👏🏼
Hijab is not a joke, and as a hijabi, you should try at least to wear it properly, with modesty and with purety. Yes, it's between you and Allah, but muslims have the rights to remind you that this is not how you should wear certain hijabs. (As long as their teaching is not aggressive nor mean) Its sad to see that we muslims can't give advices anymore. YES WE ARE NOT PERFECT but that doesn't mean we can't help you becoming a better person for the sake of Allah. Don't forget that wearing a hijab means that you totally submit yourself to Allah. May Allah guides us all, Amin💚✨️🤲
No, you dont have a right to BULLY anyone …stop pretending she was beingbloving and kind…she was yelling and being a bully…THIS is why younge vulnerable girls are leaving the hijab, because of aggressive behavior DEMANDING them to wear the hijab
@scarletlady3727 bully ≠ advice aren't the same thing scarlet. Hope this helps♡ She did nothing wrong except telling facts. Just cope with it and move on.🤷♀️
@@scarletlady3727you must be slow
@@scarletlady3727lol 😂 go see the same "hijabi" on theirs socials media’s , I can guarantee you that there had minimum 3 messages saying that their attitude are not correct
Your nasiha are weird
@@scarletlady3727 and you are the reason they think hijab is “easy”
As a hijabi I agree with my sister. I'm tired of it also.
All these sisters trying to look cute, they criticize sisters who wear loose abayas and loose hijab, making sure their hairs and skin does NOT show. But if you point out what they're doing wrong, they want to have an outrage. Subhan'Allah Alhamdulillah I'm glad this sister is pointing it out.
May Allah protect my sister from any harm by anybody or anything. Aameen
Ameen
Do you pay our bills to tell us how we must wear our hijabs? This is a religion and you don't have no right at all to criticize us. Just stay in your lane !!
@@monicalabelle953 Sister, she is not the one who tell you how to wear your hijab, it is Allah swt who had told us how to wear it. Go and research in the Quran or in the Sunnah how we should wear our hijab, you need to understand why ALLAH told us to wear it (For our own protection!)
@monicalabelle953
That's isn't from Islam. Allah SWT commands both Muslim men and women to enjoin the good and forbid evil. As I'd speak out about Muslim proudly drinking alcohol, committing zina and committing other sins in public (and social media is more public than the regular street), I'd speak out about Muslim sisters not adhering to the command of Allah SWT regarding hijab. Perhaps the way the sister said it was too direct for some, but that doesn't give the right for other sisters to attack her and defend their sins. We live in a generation that gets offended when they are reminded to be conscious of Allah SWT. May Allah SWT guide us all
If you call yourself a Muslim and you get offended when someone tries to correct about Islam, reevaluate your iman.
Well she being rude. Having manners isnt haram
The sister spoke haqq😂
Yes
She’s an extremist
@@SithZealot - take the L
@@SithZealot get a life.
@@SithZealot You are an extremist in the eyes of Allah SWT. She is a Muslim enjoining good and forbidding evil.
You can’t cancel someone who’s Allah and his angels are in their corner.
cringe brother
@@heybudstfunow you?
@@autisticwoman665 no you
Honestly if it weren't for women like this sister, I would not be wearing hijab correctly. May Allah bless her for speaking the truth. 🤲🏽💯
Ameen
This is just women taking it personal and getting emotional. Then totally start ignoring the main message of the video, instead of thinking about it.
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Because if we start check pointing she herself doesn’t wear it properly. Make up? And chest is snot covered with hijab.
@@FatimaSima-v4nshe us covered.
@@FatimaSima-v4n call her out then, instead of the huffy puffy these women doing in the comments
Life is easy, isn't it?
@@tempacct5812Especially the butthurt one who said: tHiS is nOt fRoM AmAzOnE hOnEy, iT's FrOm tHe 3arab StOre🤡. As if every arab shop out there only sells luxury products and no garbage ever😂.
Her local arab store is laughing their butt off all the way to the bank for selling a shein/aliexpress product for $200 instead of $5.
And the sis only gave advice, the amount of times disbelieving men and women especially men who are confused and carefully try to ask me why I and other women are covered.
But other hijabis are not always covered especially during summer on zoom meetings neck showing etc. How to respond to that?
They always ask are they following a different denominatiom then you and others? Why are there so many differences? It is embaressing!
As a woman,I wanted to wear many trends such as showing the neck or wearing earrings...but at the end I feel incapable of getting out the house like that. Allah wants to protect us. Hijab is simple and a blessing, dear sisters, let's not play with it. ❤️
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@@autisticwoman665your username is actually very offensive sister please change
I had the same experience, except I tried it for one day and absolutely hated it
@@feyishayo sister it will make you prettier trust me just do it
@@feyishayo fr seriously i felt so stupid after 💀
I am no muslim, but I have begun reading the quaran very recently. The integrity of the Islamic peoples inspire me. Blessings to others.
Absolutely. Feel free to dm me on Instagram any questions you have
I’m catholic idk how I came across this but I’m glad I did it’s nice learning about other religions
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Ur welcome sis or bro ? Anyway ur welcome
@@missinginactionmiaa ty :)
@@the_troll309 I’m a female
Her tone is a bit scoldy but she's not wrong.
We don't like to be told what to do. One of the reasons why I don't post on social media is because I don't wear the hijab properly and I know it. I want to do better but it's not easy. I show my neck often (not just for fun, I have a long term concussion so one side of my head hurts too much at times, and I can't even comb my hair so my head hurts if the scarf is tight)
The other sisters are annoying though. Super annoying. Can we listen??? Can we be teachable? Some of us are screaming hijabi representation but we can't even be good Muslims, we just want the look.
The other thing is this concept of personal God a lot of us have. God has to agree with us and always be sweet, so do his messengers. Some of this stuff is supposed to be hard. We will go through pain, we have to suffer to get places.
And to those who say, only Allah can judge... hm. I prefer Bint Fulan's judgement to Allah's judgement. Some of us don't read quran enough because if we did we wouldn't play with the day of judgement like that. It's embarrassing.
On this note I'll make an effort with my hijab, if anyone has a tip for headaches I'll take it.
There are different style of hijabs that are not tight on the head
My daughter who is 8 wears a style that isn't popular. She likes it because it isn't tight on her sides
Because if we start check pointing she herself doesn’t wear it properly. Make up? And chest is snot covered with hijab.
yeah I think the reason people got triggered was because of her holier than thou attitude
@@FatimaSima-v4n noticed that too, and posting herself online for a 3rd
@@FatimaSima-v4n you're not wrong. She should take her own advice... but I don't know that sisters would listen if she was gentle and soft spoken either. We make too many excuses for our bad behaviour
She is right but there is a way to advise sisters. What happened to telling the benefits of correct hijab, how you can become closer to Allah swt etc. shouting and saying you are sick and tired with no solutions isn’t going to help change the situation.
And as someone else pointed out, she doesn’t appear to be observing correct hijab as her chest is not covered by the hijab. Nor is she being modest by being loud on TikTok. Time to start with ourselves FIRST and then those around us.
I agree with what you said but subhan’Allah imagine even being nice to sisters and advising them in a soft and gentle manner you will get sisters pouncing on you with their emotional and feminist perspectives on why you should mind your business and not advise even though advise is a part of the deen.
The response they gave shows exactly that their hearts are clinging towards deviance. The Naseeha is VALID, period.
Someone from the Salaf stated: "Even if a jahil speaks the truth, it is incumbent upon you to accept it".
@@spawnnpwn4166 so many ahadith
Abu Mas’ud reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Verily, among the words people obtained from the Prophets are this: If you feel no shame, do as you wish.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 3483
On the authority of Abu Sa`eed al-Khudree (may Allah be pleased with him) who said:
I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say, “Whosoever of you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; and if he is not able to do so, then [let him change it] with his tongue; and if he is not able to do so, then with his heart - and that is the weakest of faith.” [Muslim]
Also countless ayah’s in the quran about enjoining in good and forbidding evil.
Sorry, but your outlook is wrong! She was absolutely correct in how she said it and it needed to be said. And her chest is covered! Hijab isn’t just a “headscarf.” And Hijab is NOT a journey! It’s a COMMANDMENT from Allah SWT!
Like how gentle do you have to be to preach logic? it's one thing when you struggle to put on a hijab but another when you refuse to put it properly like what's the struggle with covering your hair and neck? 😅😅
Edit:there is a comment above mine which says the sister struggles to put the hijab properly because of neck concussion she gets a lot of pain if the scarf wraps around her neck tightly but she is trying and looking for ways which is completely fine but these women that are mad at the sister preaching isn't because they have some health conditions they're simply mad that she doesn't't think wearing it properly is a struggle
1. You cover everything when you pray this should make you feel that something is wrong when you don’t cover up in hijab
2. It is so easy to wear the proper hijab.. but when all you think is how to impress (men) and yes, men.. You come and wear strange things calling it hijab
3. If a hijab is making you more beautiful then it is not hijab
Finally.. nobody needs your hijab neither Islam needs you.. you need hijab for yourself to purify your heart and obey Allah
Agreed ❤
@Kepler10b If you aren't wearing loose clothing that cover you all the way down to your (and including) ankles, then your salah won't be accepted. Who told you that you didn't have to cover your legs and just covering your waist is enough?
@Kepler10b ok
suppose you wear that cloth outside, would you find it to be attractive? No. That is the point. You don’t wear attractive clothe unless you go outside.. i mean those girls. They will never wear the way they wear aside from the makeup and all that when they pray. This should make a girl feel something is wrong when she wear ridiculous hijab showing this and that with makeup heels etc
@@alphauno6614Its not about disobeying god, i think most non hijabi's know that they should be wearing a hijab but the point is that you are saying the prayer wont be accepted,
1. You can politlely advise and not judge, you could say "sister, maybe you should consider covering up more cuz this hadid said that and the quran says this..."
Instead of saying "if you don't cover up more your prayer won't be accepted"
After all it's not YOUR relationship with God and it's not your judgement, and above all none of anyone's buisness
2. Who are you to say a prayer is not going to be accepteren?! Ofcourse there are guidelines like make wudu and wear a hijab. But saying "your prayer won't be accepted" id the same as saying " you are going to hell fire because because because." Etc. (Not saying you said this it's an example) when you in fact don't have the ability to judge this. Know God is most forgiving and he alone is the judge.
I advice you to be softer in your words and keep in mind that you don't know this person!
@Kepler10b Sister awrah includes your ankles so if they are exposed then Salah is void. Being 99% of the way there doesn’t mean anything. It’s the same for guys who say they have mostly covered their thighs - it doesn’t matter because it’s not all the way.
Hijab has 3 conditions:
1. Cover everything except for your hands and feet (and face according to most lenient ruling)
2. Loose enough that you can’t make out the shape of the body part it is covering
3. Non transparent so nothing can be seen through the fabric.
May Allah guide us all to the righteous path.
“i’m so sick and tired of it” are we wearing the hijab for this sister or for Allah SWT? this is not the tone of advising especially if one is not observing hijab completely so, it’s one thing to be respectful and considerate and honest simultaneously about this topic but this was just really upsetting to hear especially as a sister that does her best to wear hijab the way we are advised, and I pray Allah SWT makes such modesty easy for us and that we do it sincerely for Him. That sister was right, her tone is just way too off, imagine a young easily influenced muslim girl not wearing hijab hearing this? It’s an instant turn away from the hijab for them if this is how our fellow sisters advise us.
Hijab is mandatory, my dear sister. We should not, CANNOT water it down. One could learn. On their own pace. But the sister in the video has all the right to state the truth just as honestly. Just as much I understand her "sick and tired" tone.
It IS sickening to flaunt. AT ALL.
It is sickening that girls/women are on PUBLIC platforms, NOT fulfiling the BASIC criteria of Hijab.
The worst part is, even those who ARE covered were also "opposing" her.
How can you say the "tone" if this one sister is not respectable enough, when the responses are plain unethucal, rude & literal trash talking.
I did not expect myself to get a deja vu of all the most elderly and not so educated aunts with foul kouths to make a reappearence in the YOUTH of TODAY?!?!?!
And to put it simply, one can & will make mistakes. And mistakes will/should be corrected. That is the bond of ONE Ummah. You can be salty, hold a lil grudge but take the advice!
But! When somebody CHANGES Allah's Law to suit themselves, THAT is dangerous territory. We DO NOT wanna even go nowhere near that.
Say I'm working on it. Say I'm still weak in faith. Say I'm going to. Say I'm still learning. Is that a lot? Offensive? Discouraging?
Well, Islam is not for those who seek just the Dunya... Right?
You can have your fun fully covered & WITHOUT exposing what Allah Commands NOT TO for the public..
These "trends" are BAD to begin with. We don't follow trends, sister! We don't need to fit in a un-Islamic society or keep up with un-Islamic trends. They are takung themseces outside of the faith themselves by denying the basic Word Of Allah.
They weren't complaining about a tone. They were literally disfiguring the meaning of Hijab. By SAYING "it is a journey", "I can wear it however I please". Liberal, much? We please Allah, not ourselves. We are grateful Of Him cuz HE Made it easy for us. NOT take it for granted.
We must strive to improve ourselves.
We don't judge what is exposed unintentiinally. But selective ignorance is NOT tolerated. These kinda girls NEEDED a sister who was as firm resolute as her, if not harsher. I would've been a bad sister, compared to her. Not because they were not aware of their Dheen, (cuz that would have been my job to educate them) but, because of their blatant LIBERAL belief and bad attitude.
A Muslimah is more influencial than ANY man in this planet. They need to know their value & worth which is way beyond some validation from strangers on the internet. And there is no compromising in the Dheen. We don't adjust the Faith to our needs. We adjust ourselves, we sacrifice our desires, so we can be better Muslimah.
If it is not for you, learn! Pray to Allah so you can be better, not agaist the only sister who cared enough to warn you to quit.
The one strand of hair comment is very profound too. I remember its inspiration on me as a child.
You should read on the brave Muslim Sahaba Women of the time. THEY are our role models. Not whatever trendy modernised carricature/clownery we see today. Unfortunately. But they can learn. Do they want to, though, is the question.
@@faseehaariff8594It is not mandatory; it's an obligation you can decide to follow or not.
@@RoyaleRosemaryRH Denial is a bad drug. Don't do drugs, kids!
@@RoyaleRosemaryRH Isn't the 5 daily prayers also a choice? You can choose to follow or not, right?
That is your will to choose to obey or disobey.
But Hijab is Fardh obligation.
Fullstop.
For both men & women, if you don't understand what Hijab means...
Refer to كتاب اللباس in Hadith books. All the rulings are there.
If you want a brief, I'd tag another reply that I had to explain to some of our not very eager to learn Ummah.
@@RoyaleRosemaryRH
Hijab is 3 layers: (for both men & women):
1. The mind - free of haram thoughts
2. The eyes - lowering the gaze; free of haram sights
3. The body - Aw'ra (this prescription is mainly for Sala')
Men can't wear silk, gold, silver. They are forbidden.
No luxurious clothing;
No feminine clothings;
Modest, and unextravegent clothes.
Their Aw'ra is from the belly button up until the ankles.
No transparent see through clothes.
They should preserve Thahara' as well.
It is Sunnah for them to wear perfume.
For women, their Aw'ra is they must cover all except the face and up to the wrists.
They should maintain modest, clean, unextravegent clothes as well.
In addition, they must use loose fits, neutral, less clashing colors.
Women can wear all jwelleries & silk but must not wear them in a way that attracts attention.
Eg: anklets & bangles that make a lot of noises can be avoided.
Flaunting and showcasing are not allowed.
They should wear clothes that cover their curves, except for that is exposed naturally. Transparent clothes are not allowed.
It is forbidden for women to wear perfume when going out; they can use it indoors.
Both should dress modestly.
Refer to the Hadith of Fitrah regarding what can be trimmed. The rest become unoptional.
Hair attachments are forbidden. Refer to Ahadheeth on this subject.
You'll discover more on what is forbidden.
Eg: the obvious - top buns that resemble camel humps are forbidden
Selling one's own cut hair is forbidden; buying& reattaching anothers' hair (wig) is forbidden.
In case of make up, the intent itself can make it entirely haram.
Eg: bright lipsticks
Deception is obviously entirely prohibited.
One can't imitate the opposite gender.
One can't change their natural form - no enhancements/surgeries/etc.
ALL MEDICAL EXCEPTIONS are all permitted. (The rulings don't change; these special circumstances are privileges. Declaring not to use them in times of need could be going against Allah's Permissibility as well. As we are not supposes to not bring harm to ourselves. And because Allah Knows Best.)
The walking must be not arrogant, not pompous, in a way we call it هونا, must not draw attention, and not aggressive.
To put in words must seem too much for some but this is the BARE MINIMUM that most Muslim men & women are already aware of (whether they succeed on following or not).
But all is easier when you purify your intent & do it for Allah & Allah alone. To get to that point in Akh'laq could be a journey for some. But the rulings, my brother, NEVER changes.
I hope you did not assume that the الصحاح الستة are just empty books, eh? Refer to كتاب اللباس for all the Authentification & more golden advices. I KNOW I've missed plenty.
All are easy when you practice. May Allah Make it easy for us!
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As a hijabi I want to say that the sister from Arizona herself is doing tabarruj. May Allah guide us all. Ameen ya Rabb!
How so, she was literally calling them out
@@JustrmlaI think our sister is trying to point out that the sister calling everyone out, is also wearing makeup and jewelry, which is a way to beautify yourself
@@DontDoDunya in the video, she claims that for now she’s was talking about the hijab, then the beautification came after, she was calling out the Muslimas that wear the hijab wrong, and in the video we can see she’s wearing it properly, that’s the point that people were calling her out for
@Justrmla she wore makeup and exposed her chest
@@luvumai I’m not gonna repeat myself cause it’s a waste of time, read my other comment throughly
And I will never understand how these women's Mahrams allow them to appear on camera for the world to see.
Most of them are from the West + most of them doesn't have a strong father to lead the family
Bingo @@champmunawar6982
@champmunawar6982 we have
them here in the middle east also.
@@shahenazkassem2859westernization
A lot of ‘men’ have lack of gheerah nowadays.
I will add that struggling through the hijab is different than just saying its a journey and accepting your current form of it as acceptable. There are also people who say if you dont do it right then dont do it all which is worse because its better to have some modesty than none
@@infinitebeast5517 you know subhan’Allah when one is struggling they say yes i know im sinning and i Ask Allah to give me tawfiq to be obedient to him and to adhere to his commands i know im not doing it right but i intend to and i hope Allah helps me. But no when you advise someone your met with so much backlash and ad hominem attacks that have not evidence or proof from the deen just a bunch of emotional responses.
@@bintf4345 definitely
I couldn’t agree with you more brother! I was like those sisters in my 20’s only in my mid 30’s I changed my ways! May Allah guide us 🤲🏼
The difference between Muslims and Christians is our view on sin. Christians see everyone as sinners, but we are saved and announce their sins all the time to try to be humble. In Islam though, we are discouraged from revealing sins. We are not supposed to normalize sinning and instead , keep our sins between us and Allah. We are supposed to outwardly try to promote good, even if in private we do bad.
That's an insight not spoken about often enough especially for reverts. Jazak Allah khair for this insight akhi
So you dont know nothing about Christians
As a sister from India 🇮🇳, I am really impressed by your video because all the things and views you represent is happening from wearing to talking everything and everytime they find the concept of feminism
May Allah bless you with lots of happiness and prosperity and grant you the highest level of Jannatul Firdaus 🩵
It is what it is.
Straight facts 🤷🏽♀️
We know what the command is why should it be watered down to appease feelings over facts. I feel those that are triggered are the ones that are not adhering to the etiquette of hijab.
If people have issue with the delivery then focus on someone delivering the same message in a softer way for yourselves.
Haq is haq, may Allah help us all find ease in our jihad of our hijabs.
The understanding and journey of our nafs.
I bet I can become a millionare before these women are done with their "hijab journey"im not joking i will update in a few years😂
😂😂😂
I mean you’re man you don’t have to wear it I wonder why there is so many men in the comments do you wanna wear the hijab if so wear it and just shut up
incel vibes
Then you will see them as a ex-muslimahs😂 soon they will leave this cult.
@@shivi__7788 who hurt you
Bro this needs so much more attention man. This is a topic that talks about a fitnah that genuinely hurts not only women, but righteous men.
Iam a victim of that,, i live in india the home of liberal hijabi feminist bread winners and one children policy and no love for husbands ( its true that most indian and Bangladeshi wives don't even love their husbands 😢 even she is religious its don't matter) i wish to marry four wives but not a single women in india will allow me but she will never question her own verginity
Heres my perspective as a hijabi since age 12 (24 now). The thing that rubbed me the wrong way is that theres a severe lack of empathy. Yes, hijab trends have been out of the islamic folds and they need to be addressed with a strictness (with CARE).
However, comments like “its not that hard”, “youre embarrassing us”, and the similar remarks are not helpful . Ive been through the phases of neck or hair pieces out. I know what it feels like to be disconnected from faith yet needing to represent it as a fard. Its difficult. And shaming would have made it worse me. Well known women islamic scholars and teachers have talked abt hijab extensively because it can be difficult (esp. in the West). If Allah has made it easy for her then that is a blessing! suggesting a proper roadmap or tips on the “journey” would have been abundantly more helpful. Learn about hijab, connect your self with deen (esp with Prayer), set benchmarks and the ends goals, etc.
If prophet Musa was told to advise the Pharoah with leniency/gentleness (Quran, Taha 43-44) then advising our own sisters with gentleness is the bare minimum.
Salam, sister! I think many brothers and even some sisters do not know how hard it is to wear a hijab. It is our nature to want to be beautiful. The test is on covering it. For men, it's to lowering our gaze.
Assalamu alaykum,
The hadith is mis-translated as it can be difficult to translate Arabic into English. The word used in the hadith actually translates to "firm(ness)" or "resolution" (i.e. decisiveness) rather than "intelligence". Women are less resolute/more swayed in their opinions and therefore a man's testimony is equal to 2 women's.
Resolution is one of the qualities of a man and this is why he has the duty of being a leader.
In contrast, softness including in terms of being swayed is a quality of a woman, it lends itself to being more sympathetic, empathetic and nurturing, esp for the needs of infants and children.
Omg thank you for this post I absolutely needed to hear that as there are many times when I see translations and in the process of learning Arabi, questioning the accuracy of the translation as English truly lacks words for the nuance included in a single word in arabi (I hope I'm making sense)
@@TheeAmbientUnfazed you are (making sense)
Yes, I've been hearing this hadith being quoted by the mistranslation and it's been causing me cognitive dissonance - like the Rasool ﷺ would not put women down like this but if this is what he has said then I have to just accept it. That didn't sit right with me and getting me down, so I did further research and everything I was finding was saying that it's an incorrect interpretation/translation and not giving the nuance as you were saying.
I really hope people will realise the error of this and the effect it is having - we shouldn't be misrepresenting what our beloved Prophet ﷺ has said anyway, especially if we know better.
@coolerthetyrant7923 excuse me, 1. I am not going to bother reading your message in it's entirity because I can already tell what you are trying to insinuate without having even comprehended what I have written - it's not a matter of my own personal opinion.
2. it's actual scholars that have made this correction. Please look it up for yourself!
3. Subhanallaah, your name says it all.
Wa salaam.
Thank you for the clarification. So many people misrepresent this Hadith and many men unfortunately abuse this Hadith to oppress women. The part of more women in Hell is also nuanced and misunderstood. This topic is too long to discuss on this platform and needs further discussion and analysis. The trouble with the ummah especially since the advent of social media is that everyone is a mufti. Everyone is a scholar without any credentials. This is very dangerous and leads to much fitna. I’m truly distressed by the state of this Ummah.
This is the full hadith:
Abu Sa’id al-Khudri reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
يَا مَعْشَرَ النِّسَاءِ تَصَدَّقْنَ فَإِنِّي أُرِيتُكُنَّ أَكْثَرَ أَهْلِ النَّارِ
O gathering of women! Give in charity, for I have seen you as a majority of people in Hellfire.
They said, “Why is that, O Messenger of Allah?” The Prophet said:
تُكْثِرْنَ اللَّعْنَ وَتَكْفُرْنَ الْعَشِيرَ مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْ نَاقِصَاتِ عَقْلٍ وَدِينٍ أَذْهَبَ لِلُبِّ الرَّجُلِ الْحَازِمِ مِنْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ
You curse others often and you are ungrateful for your livelihood. I have not seen anyone with reductions in mind and religion more capable of removing reason from a resolute man than you.
They said, “What are our reductions in mind?” The Prophet said:
أَلَيْسَ شَهَادَةُ الْمَرْأَةِ مِثْلَ نِصْفِ شَهَادَةِ الرَّجُلِ
Is not the testimony of a woman like half of a man?
They said, “Of course.” The Prophet said:
فَذَلِكِ مِنْ نُقْصَانِ عَقْلِهَا أَلَيْسَ إِذَا حَاضَتْ لَمْ تُصَلِّ وَلَمْ تَصُمْ
That is the reduction in your mind. Is it not that when you menstruate you do not pray, nor fast?
They said, “Of course.” The Prophet said:
فَذَلِكِ مِنْ نُقْصَانِ دِينِهَا
That is the reduction in your religion.
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 298, Grade: Sahih
It’s so sad how misguided this ummah is. I’m sure we have all read the Hadith where the women heard the verses of al-hijab and covered properly right away, out of obedience and love&fear of Allah. If they’re really struggling with hijab, they wouldn’t be posting their sin all over social media. May Allah help the sisters that are ACTUALLY struggling and ACTIVELY trying harder. They’re not JUSTIFYING their sin. But these sisters getting angry are addicted to attention. They’re sinning and justifying it. These women need to re-learn what hijab means, to cover our beauty! And they need to learn tawheed, who Allah is. I am certain that if they learned this and were actually stable in their religion, they wouldn’t be acting like this - they would let go of their egos, be ashamed and obeying Allah.
And all these influencers should fear the day where they will be held accountable. Showing themselves off to weak men. And to a person that doesn’t know the religion, these influencers make them think it’s halal to do hijab like this - so they are inspiring other impressionable girls to wear the hijab wrong. They will be held accountable for all of that.
Yeah hijab is a journey, but when you show your neck your earrings and so forth, it's a journey closer to taking it off, not wearing it more modestly.
So many girls have gone down that pipeline, at least when you're in the wromg, admit it.
They all feel attacked, myself included because sometimes I might slip, but their response is arrogant, when you see the video, you're supposed to agree and reflect, not double down.
A-targhib wa tarhib, this is totally a valid method of preaching, you're not supposed to feel comfortable, you're supposed to feel guilty if you're doing something that goes against your religion, that's how you know the heart isn't dead.
as a brother i'm currently struggling with hijab p*rn
@@heybudstfunowwhat… may allah guide you, astaghfiruallah
@@mercedeslover907 thank you sister
@@heybudstfunow bruh. You're a clown. Leave.
@@heybudstfunow dude. Stop trolling. it's cringe.
I am a male and i want to first say i do not appreciate the way the muslimah was attacked. However, i think she was too harsh and if her goal was to correct people she lost that goal.
For men we can hardly understand how difficult it is to wear hijab especially in the west where everyone is showing much more. We should continually gently encoursge our sisters and not use that kind of tome. May Allah untite this ummah. Ameen. Tired of all the online wars
She has makeup on telling others about the hijab while also struggling to wear the hijab isn’t that hypocrisy? and she could’ve preached in a nicer way not in a harsh way what happened to spreading dawah kindly?
we have plenty of preachers who give them dawah but “don’t judge”
Finally, it’s even when it’s a sister who she give you nassiha , it’s bad , when it’s brother , it’s also bad
Nosense
we have plenty of preachers who give them dawah but “don’t judge”
Finally, it’s even when it’s a sister who she give you nassiha , it’s bad , when it’s brother , it’s also bad
Nosense
@@7lyramoon exactly what I’m saying , these people are hypocrites..
The salaf said even when a jahil gives you correct advise based on the Quran and sunnah you accept it. What she is saying is completely true the message isnt ruined by the speaker. Even if she said the same advise "less harshly" the feminist will still jump at her for being "judgemental" when when Allah himself said judge by what he has revealed. Harsh advise is completely acceptable and was done by the salaf and prophet Muhammed now will you reject them?
@7laymoon_ she has minimal make up. NOT full on like women do these and fake lashes.
It seems to me that the first women is just jealous of seeing other women practicing religion differently than how she was thaught and she now feels the need to bring them down. She probably want to be able to show earrings and those stuff but she think she can't so she is frustrated . She also being up her confidence in question showing that she is not confident otherwise she wouldn't have to mention it , it's the other women making her insecure. I think anyone should be free to practice their religion how they want it's not up to others to judge wether and how someone will wear hijab or do whatever, God will be the one judging in the end
praying 4 times a day is better than praying 0 times a day but 4 times a day does NOT fulfil the fardh
They say "it's a journey" but when the Quran verse about the hijab was revealed, women did NOT hesitate to rush to their homes and cover themselves immediately, and western women in these times are even questioning Allah why hijab is mandatory, astaghfirullah may Allah give them understanding and knowledge
Not all of us.
@@shimmer4771 i never said "all western women" read again
Customer service ? It's the difference between heaven and hell 💀
Blind faith is too dangerous. There's no hell or heaven. Wake up you pdf mo-mad's followers😂
Blind faith is too dangerous. There's no hell or heaven. Wake up you pdf mo-mad's followers😂
@@shivi__7788 Wake up before your heart becomes blind
I totally agree with this sister. She was not addressing a specific individual but speaking to a larger issue. A lot of sisters don’t want to admit there is an inferiority complex we struggle with when trying to wear hijab in the West, and even in majority Muslim countries that are hostile towards hijab. Also, hijab is t just about what we wear, it also includes how we behave and carry ourselves. I commend sisters for at least trying to eat hijab but there are definitions for qualifies as proper hijab and getting upset at a sister pointing out the obvious lack of meeting those guidelines just reveals issues with our iman and ability to accept being corrected for the Sake of Allah. May Allah reward this sister for her efforts and guide us to have taqwa and submit completely to Him. Ameen! And Allah Knows Best!
I think it's better to let people make their own decisions. Tell your daughter or close family, but don't judge or correct others without permission. You have to ask others if they want to hear advice
Thank you !
Vraiment ?
Toutes ces sœurs qui s'affichent sur les réseaux sociaux, nous demandent elles si on a envie d'entendre leur conseil de look et de façon de porter le hijab et les boucles d'oreilles et le make up ?
nous demande telle si nous sommes OK pour être associé à leur représentation erronée de la femme musulmane ?
Nous demandent t'elles l'autorisation pour propager la fitna au sein de notre oumma en s'exposent devant nos maris telles des poupées qui sentent la vanille à des kilomètres à la ronde !???
Nous demandent telles l'autorisation de semer le doute dans le cœur de nos petites filles en s'affichant comme des modèles à suivre ?
Par contre , il faudrait leur donner des conseils uniquement si elle nous donne l'autorisation !?
Quel genre d'islam est ce là ?
Entraidons nous dans le bien
Ne nous entraidons pas dans le mal
Vous vous souvenez ?
What about the Ummah??? I thought we were supposed to be one family and we are all followers of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) so do not try to liberalise the religion.
@@Arkus123 The problem now is that they want to correct others to feel better, many women are making every effort to comply but we don't have to be radical either, why do I see her hair a little? come on men 😂, we have to focus on more serious problems
@@princelobo46 radical??? How is it radical to tell a woman to wear her hijab properly??? Do you think that the Prophet Muhammad SAW wouldn't have corrected a woman if she was in front of him without fully covering???
I started wearing the hijab two years ago.I was so scared to wear it that I started to wear it like how the people around me wore it at that time.Obviously I started with pants and the way I was doing my hijab was not correct.After a while,I realised that what I was wearing was not a hijab.I was wearing those clothes not because I wanted it but because of the people.That's what I saw from the hijabi sisters.Then I started changing my clothing and now I am a niqabi Alhamdulillah.Women have that natural instinct to show themselves and they like to beautify themselves.That's why Allah told us to cover ourselves because he knows his creation. So my beautiful sisters know that Allah is the one who created you and me and he knows the struggles that you are going through but when it comes to hijab,we should do it correctly and obey Allah.We are representing Islam as muslimahs and if we are weak when it comes to our desires then our future will be weak too.May Allah forgive all of us ameen
Sister kept it 💯
Genuine question- If women are expected to be home-makers or work from home, how are the men who are supposed to be the breadwinners observing modesty themselves?
Sad to say, but too often, we have some men with double standards who watch p0rn, don't lower their gaze, don't behave appropriately when speaking with non mahram women and yet demand a traditional woman. To add insult to injury, such controlling, narcissistic, abusive "men" also want their women to only see female doctors, be taught by female teachers, etc, etc.
In what way, is that logical?
Hello, there seems to be a misunderstanding, in Islam women are allowed to work, even our Prophet (asm) wife was a big business owner in what is today called Syria (not sure abt the location accuracy), hope it helps 👍
Indeed men also have modesty rules such that covering from their belly buttons to their knees I think it was and lowering their gaze from women (like when they see them and stuff), and p0rn is Zina a big sin in Islam, just wanted to inform, bye
What does that have to do with the issue of women's hijab addressed here? I don't know what's with men and women these days. You can't address one with the other saying what about the other
@@user-et2ng1qb2m Maybe watch the whole video before making comments next time?
This problem of Western Muslims is the symptom of the ongoing problem of avoiding the 1,400 years of scholarly judgments locked up inside the four Orthodox Sunni schools of Islam. The only way to have a "journey" where you look at the source material and interpret it any way you want is if you deny the authority of the scholars who have consistently given the same rulings on these matters for over 1000 years. If you're looking into the Quran and Hadeeth and understanding it in whatever way you like, don't get mad at your sister or daughter for doing the same in a way that you don't like.
Instead of acknowleding their sin, they're trying to justify it💀
As for the JOURNEY aspect for being a Muslim. I disagree. As a revert it was difficult for me to give up those things that after 45 years I was accustomed to. I did not give up pork right away, I did not wear the hijab right away, I did not pray 5 ti.es a day right away. Yes it was a journey for me. And if everyone came down on me because I didn't do all that at once and spoke to me as this hijab did to her sisters, DONT KNOW IF THAT WOULD HAVE PUSHED ME TO DO IT. Instead it would have had to do the opposite. Yes we are all Muslims, but we are human too. Tell me why is it not Haram for men to be on the internet putting himself out there for all women to see and interact with? How do you know who your sending heart emoji to? NOT EVERYONE COMES TO ISLAM IN THE SAME WAY
Exactly.
I’m torn on the concept of “hijabi representation” in the media. Especially as a revert, trying to find information and guidance on what to do and what was acceptable was difficult. And not just the written decree because that’s clear - but finding places to purchase, and candidly tips for things like keeping your hijab secure. For those of us without mothers to teach us, the trap of social media influencers is real.
It doesn't help with the fact that no Shuyūkh are willing to address and talk about this problem in the community because they are afraid of getting cancelled. What's worse is that there are barely if any Sheikha out there to talk female to female about this. No leadership at all.
if they do their considered isis, so can you blame them ???
@@heybudstfunow Yes I can. As Muslims we shouldn't be scared to talk about the truth. We should fear Allah the most.
@@BasimKor there are lot of videos available on UA-cam talking about wearing the proper hijab commanded by Allah by both men and women daee'. Whenever I see these videos the views are usually very low people these days don't really watch videos like that most us watch entertainment videos so we can't fault people in the dawah field
@@heybudstfunow isn't it better to be considered an extremist rather than Kuffar???
@@Arkus123 yes perhaps but extremists get drone striked dude
That what happens when you live in a non-muslim country and I'm happy someone finally said that.
As someone who lives in muslim country I even cover my face and puh-lease if you want to show skin take off your hijab at once don't tell me 'showing a bit of hair is fine' it's NOT fine, like when did you get this new update of Islam, tell me.
When I don't wear niqab I fell like I'm running out of oxygen and the idea of showing my face to men eats me alive, I can't even think how they show hair and skin.
This sister is right but the way she has scolded has offended some people .
Like omg… she’s warning u to do what Allah said to do…if someone come to me and say ur hijab is better in this way or u have to do this…I’ll appreciate them cuz is it bad to tell someone to do smth better that Allah said to do?..
She’s not wrong but it’s a dangerous thing to focus on other people and leave yourself.
As a revert I am trying to understand the hijab and take it step by step I do want to wear it but I want to understand it before I wear it so that I am not following Islam blindly and with pure intentions Thank you for explaining the history behind it I feel like in western culture hijab is seen as a fashion staple more so than a protected covering. Inshallah this will change so that we may all understand
Idk what y’all on but first women was really wrong , like she’s basically judging your relationship w allah , who is she to judge? Or who are you guys to judge? Only Allah can judge .
Disagree. And whoever does not judge by what Allāh has revealed - then it is those who are the disbelievers. (Quran 5:44)
Where's your proof that only Allaah can judge?
الله send to the humankind’s his law for the humans , men’s and WOMENS. ,
Conclusion : we judge according to the sharia
الله send to the humankind’s his law for the humans , men’s and WOMENS. ,
Conclusion : we judge according to the sharia
@@Mastenbrille so we can all judge each other?
Well, in my opinion and experience as a Muslim woman, in all aspects of life, we don’t always follow logic. Logic is usually a very small part in the many factors that decide our actions. I know it’s going to be way harder for men to understand this, but suddenly covering up all your hair and every inch of your body with very loose and modest clothing everytime you step outside and changing your whole image all at once isn’t so easy, especially when it is not mandated on us when we are young, and suddenly in our pre-teens/teens, it just hits us. That’s why it is no way to advise someone to stop doing something, especially when it becomes a big change in their life and hard to adjust to, to simply just scold them for all the imperfections that they can see in it. The headscarf is just one of may things that fall into the category of “hijab”, and when you just shame someone for it, you kinda just make them feel bad, but it’s not enough to make them want to change and increase their modesty, THAT comes from having better faith in ALLAH, not any societal pressures, be it from other Muslim women who wear it better than them, or any man on the street. I know a lot of hijabs who wear abaya everywhere they go, and people will praise them a lot for that, and because they have done it without a strong faith in Allah, all their other actions will be haram, and they brag about it too. This is the same with Hafizes and guys that are perceived very well, who secretly do major sins like zinna and brag to their friends about it. I think what the women in the first video did was wrong, the WAY she said it, but I get her point, that fashion trends sometimes diminish the message of Islam, but it wasn’t her place to shame Muslim women for small things in their appearance, which aren’t perfect at first, but our faith is a work in progress, Trust me!! I think it would have been better if she was more empathetic and used sunnah to support her point, bc that would be a way that the Prophet (S) advised people, as he did it in a way that made people WANT to be more religious. If you don’t have the same struggle as other Muslim women in this aspect of Hijab, don’t come at it with Pride, just bc ur better in those aspects, it’s just simply not fair, and makes everyone want to be defensive in return, This is my opinion.
This farse that the prophet صل.
ى الله عليه وسلم was alway soft spoken and never got passionately upset amd angry is an injustice. He said to the mushrikeen of makkah in sahih hadith following an incident لقد جئتكم بالذبح
As'salamu Aleykum,
I know women who wear the hijab as well as they can. Some have trauma and can't wear anything on their necks. Others don't know some things yet and are improving. But without sounding judgmental, I don't see any intention to improve in these women. They buy earrings and tops that make it impossible to cover themselves properly. When exactly will their journal start? I started wearing it when I was 16 and you could see my hair and neck, but I didn't have a proper headscarf or long tops, so I improvised. I tried not to be in pictures and deleted all pictures and videos where you could see me uncovered. I saved up my money and bought decent clothes, even though I had to wear the same thing for a long time, it was worth it. And now I wear it properly in sha Allah. And even back then, when I didn't have it on properly, I always told the people who asked that you should wear it like this and that, but I didn't have the clothes or fabrics to go with it. So yea basicly in my opinion as a hijabi girl, i don't see a journal betweem them and Allah, especially not because they post themselves like that and try to defend this behaivor.
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I never understand people who say "dont judge me, its my journey between me and Allah swt". If its just between you and Alah swt, then why bring other people in this matter by posting yourself clearly being a bad influence to people who is new to the hijab, on social media?
Well, you could argue that women just should go out then. They have a purpose of being there, whether out to buy groceries, or sharing their own opinion online. We cannot live in a society where everyone hides bc they are not perfect in some way.
There is no doubt why wommen will be majority of people of hell x fire and why the majority of dajjal will wommen and it is not because of number of women.
True Sahih Muslim 2737a: Based on my reasoning and experiences i have for 30 years, the reason would be that sisters often justify practices that are considered severely haram.
It is because of the number of women who will be on earth, stop misusing this Hadith for your own agenda fear Allah
@@englishbladeIt is not only about number but their attitude as well , not all women are same but some characteristics can be found in majority of women
That’s not true!!
@@englishblade That's not what the hadith says. It describes the nature of a person destined for heaven. The hadith literally begins with: "I had a chance to look into Paradise and found that the majority of the people there were poor," implying that poorer people are often more grateful and closer to God. Only then does the hadith continue about sisters, suggesting that many will be there because of being ungrateful. This stance is fortified in another famous hadith about sisters being deficient in their religion, found in Sahih Bukhari 304.
In these times, the open sinners don't want anyone to say anything to them. But in Islam, enjoining the good and forbidding evil is an obligation.
3:110 "You are the best community ever raised for humanity-you encourage good, forbid evil, and believe in Allah..."
May Allah reward the sister for loving Allah, and His Messenger (Salalah alayhi was salam), and Islam enough to say something.
وَلاَ تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ الْجَـهِلِيَّةِ الاٍّولَى
(and do not Tabarruj yourselves like the Tabarruj of the times of ignorance,) "Tabarruj is when a woman puts a Khimar on her head but does not tie it properly." So her necklaces, earrings and neck, and all of that can be seen. This is Tabarruj, and Allah addresses all the women of the believers with regard to Tabarruj.
-Tafsir Ibn Kathir
If you fail to use the hijab the way it is meant to be used, it fails to serve the purpose it is meant to serve(a form of worship and as protection)
She’s not wrong, I find when women wear the hijab with tight ah abayas so cringe but at the same time there are reverts doing their best.
Also a lil bit hypocritical when you’re wearing a full face of makeup 🫢
True, but some people have been Muslim all their life and still call a turban style a “hijab”
@@servantofAllah108nah this is so true 😭
That's why there's no such thing as a sister code only men have bro codes because only men respect other men. Stop bashing this sister for speaking the truth that's slander and backbiting. 😡
Why men talking about Hijab
We’re following the example of our prophets. We believe that Allah sent men to be leaders and examples for the Believers :)
@@FaiyadFityou need to talk abt Palestine and the genocide going on I think you forget what the sahaba did go to war (jihad) and you’re talking abt girls hijab which is clearly not your business what happen to men go to war suddenly all men become religious when it comes to a women
@FaiyadFit let's go through the garbage in your video in detail since you want to be an ignorant fool. First off: why are you, as a man, looking at women that hard. Avert your gaze, brother. 2: your video title itself is already wrong. That sister is not defending Islam, she is shaming other Muslim women with a shallow understanding of the hijab. She's doing it for rage bait I fear. You also fully ignored the fact that hijab is more than what you wear, it's the way you act and live, and the sister who was complaining about "necks showing" does everything she complains about and more. 3: you also went out of your way to demonize the women replying to her when 90% of them were very polite about it and simply explained why they disagreed and what their experience with hijab is. Saying the hijab isn't a journey is just plain ignorant and isn't considering how everyone has different circumstances. Everyone can't just "power through" and wear the hijab in a suffocating way like she does, it could be medical issues, safety issues, maybe they're new to the hijab, you never know and you're the last person who should be talking about what women should or shouldn't do anyway. Hijab is also not exclusive to women and addresses the behavior of men as well, clearly something you need to be working on since you make your living judging muslim women online. 4. The hadith you used was interpreted completely wrong. It did not literally mean women were less intelligent and I urge you to do your research before you yap on the internet and make yourself look stupid. Men have no authority over women in Islam, you are misinterpreting the message of caring for women and treating them with dignity as controlling them, and that's just wrong. Men are obliged to care for women because they have an advantage in how the world functions. If you look at the prophet himself, he never controlled his wives in the way you are implying. Do better and stop looking like a clown on the internet for everyone to see. Digital footprint is real. Get off the mic and get in the masjid ‼️
Why did you delete my comment, coward !!@@FaiyadFit
@@MarwaAhmed-ni3twShould he join isis to wage jihad? There’s no Muslim ruler or Army now, so no military jihad can take place.
May Allah bless that sister and keep her firm and sincere.
Shameful blur. You did not cover anything. Careful of العوالق do not share women’s faces
He wouldn't get views if he blurred them properly.
It is more harem to judge people about anything compared to not wearing a hijab as only allah knows best.
I'm sorry but commanding people to wear hijab is not judging and Hijab is not optional in Islam.
@@Arkus123 advise but don't judge.... if u js MAKE people wear hijab then they are more likely just wearing it to please you not god
Are you good in the head?
The problem is not the criticism. The problem is that the person it’s coming from can be subject to criticism themselves. The kind of tone she uses is not befitting for someone who hasn’t covered her chest and has makeup and done eyebrows. If this was a Shaykh using the same tone, I would not be offended at all.
the thing is she didn't mentioned any particular women....so if the shoe fits,wear it...
Well done sister
I stand with the sister, she is right. Wearing a hijab doesnt mean only covering your hair, but also you are covering your chest, your body line, and keep it simple. That is modesty.
As a muslim women I agree it is a journey, leave our sisters alone and let them be, they will wear in their own way. Stop judging you have no idea how difficult it is for some sisters
@@bikeboi821 there is not journey in adhering to the command of Allah. Haram is haram and halal is halal, the problem is often one doesn’t say im sinning may Allah give me tawfeeq and grant me ease in obedience rather its met with ‘who do you think you are’ ‘ you think your better’ ‘ im on my own journey’ we are all on a journey and the end of that journey is with Allah! And that the day we stand before him we will have not friends nor family to back us and thats a scary thing and what is more scary is you dont when your journey in the dunya will end but one thing is certainly for sure and that is the fact you will die and you will be alone in the matter then. As for advising our brothers and sisters so long as we are Muslims it will never stop because our beloved messenger salallahu Alayhi wa sallam said
I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say, “Whosoever of you sees an evil, let him change it with his hand; and if he is not able to do so, then [let him change it] with his tongue; and if he is not able to do so, then with his heart - and that is the weakest of faith.” [Muslim]
Did you miss the whole video? It is not a journey
Why didn’t you watch the video?
Qur’an 33:36
“It is not for a believing man or woman-when Allah and His Messenger decree a matter-to have any other choice in that matter.1 Indeed, whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has clearly gone ˹far˺ astray.”
This
I opened my insta id month ago. I rendomly started following muslim sisters..like their Id, to have an idea how they live as muslim, like to be aesthetic yk.. Wallahi, trust me I had to delete my ID..I was so ashamed seeing them wearing tight cloths.showing their carves,putting music..like many more..Nawujubillah..and then they say its MODESTY..may Allah forgive us.
Not all of us are like that.
My muslim sisters..Hijab is not Journey.. Hijab is mandatory for all muslim women 😅 once you muslim women you wear it properly...
incel vibes😊
I’m a Muslim women and 100% agree with the lady! Great job sister
Brothers, please let us normalize the niqab. If you can't find a niqabi sister in the USA then marry overseas. Egypt, morocco, Indonesia etc. . Enough is enough with these sisters making us believe that if they don't follow the minimum they are still high prizes to be sought after. We have to be firm. Yes it costs more and it takes longer but this is about the akhira and passing down basic Islamic common sense to our children. These sisters are all showing off themselves for the world to see. They are not worth a maher of a price of one dollar in my opinion. Wallahi.
why do european think that wearing short cloths are bravery or confidence?.Meanwhile,being an actress, winning Miss universe,Miss world are nothing but selling or representing your bodyby force,but women have to accept this force just because of fame,money.Also feminism forces women to beat men.That’s why,women has to do 24/7 job,even if she doesn't like it to do.why we don't understand that,physically a man and a woman are not equal.In Islam,there is a beautiful rule that Husband will earn but wife will take care of her children,but feminist hate this rule.
Anyway,Hijab is not forced in Islam,Its the girls choice to Follow it to make the creator happy."Get out of your misconceptions about Muslim
the mind ur business infection is a trend from reverts
Personally I haven’t heard of that from our reverted brothers and sisters, but in any case, please try to not speak of all reverts the same. I am one too, but I do not halal-ify or partake in tabarruj. Even born Muslims have to actually learn their religion, and the way that those sisters cling to deviance is simply because they are ignorant and have to properly learn their religion. Ignorance is how people lead themselves astray, revert or not. And if someone is new to Islam like in the case of reverts, we simply advise them in the -> correct manner
Sadly not true it’s from liberal Muslims not revert
@@yourfellowsister it's a general statement based on online trend. I will call out what's wrong. There are even reverts calling out those reverts. It's even happened from that Megan girl that's propal that did a Quran study group. My comment helps in it identifies who I'd the prob, why n the failure of born Muslims to help guide their new siblings. Stop trying to police other ppls speech. Unless ppl incorrectly speak for Allah or error about Islamic facts then you n I have rights to speak as we see fit.
Mind your own business still
@@SithZealot mind your own.
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Finding the faith - journey
Learning the truth - journey
Practicing the reality - journey
Practicing Islam step by step - journey
For a revert: Islam is a journey...
Even that is only until they change their condition, going through the massive transformation that they do, from newborn to taking steps.
After, they are as accountable as others, after learning to walk, think & act on their own.
But...
Representing Islam WRONGLY - ........ (Reflect!)
Changing definitions & criteria of Fardh Obligations: ........ (Reflect!)
Taking Islamic Teachings as a subjective preference: ....... (Reflect!)
Shrinking the BASIC Mandatory Practices of Islam to one's selfish narratives, AFTER knowing what is Fardh, Sunnah, Makrooh & Haram: ....... (Reflect!)
It's no longer just between Allah Ajja Va Jal & you, when you present it to the world.
A Muslimah does not represent herself.
We are خليفة الله !!!!
Fear our actions!
Always seek improvement!
Embrace the struggle!
Look UP to those who are better than you.
Don't look down on those who are less fortunate.
Don't take ANYTHING for granted, leave alone Islam.
Remember, the cons of ignorance: it exposes one's inner intention easily
Struggling is reality.
Not embracing a weakness or defeat.
Your self can become a lesson to others.
It is up to you to choose whether it is a positive one or negative.
One could choose to make mistakes. Your mistakes shouldn't define your capacity.
One could take Islam as a journey.
But the same you will not come out the dressing room in the middle of changing.
You could be struggling to change until you pass (pass the test/pass away). THAT is the journey of living.
Or you fixed as destination in the middle & refused to grow more.
But you'd KNOW that it is not the full outfit just cuz you are content with half of it.
You could have your preference WITHIN the very criteria of Hijab
Hijab itself is at least 3 layers:
1. The mind
2. The eyes
3. The Aw'ra
Remember the Akhira - true reality
If measely small Dunya is so important to you, how big should the Akhira be in your Qal'b?
Give Akhira the importance it deserves.
Make the size of it your persepective.
Make the eternity of it your worth.
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As a teen hijabi (for almost 2 years now alhamdulillah) I also went through of the phase of just covering my head with a thin cloth (not included in those 2 years) as most would do in my culture...but after a few months I thought that I am literally showing my hair so whats the point of covering it in the first place? after listening to some lectures and giving it alot of thought i started practicing the full hijab...it was scary because of all the looks i would get...it was hard at first because covering your hair and neck is a huge sacrifice especially in today's age because of social media and all that stuff but i liked the fact that when people whould look at me they would know that i am a Muslim, in school people would respect my boundaries. so, the only thing i told my self to overcome this insecurity was by saying that this sacrifice will be rewarded by allah as i have sacrificed something in his name....you know? even now i dont think I look good in pictures with my hijab and when i feel sad I always quote the words of the Quran: "indeed, with every hardship there is ease" controling my urge to look "nice" is quite hard but what is the sacrifice of my beauty compared to jannah? not even worth a grain of sand...trust me ❤️
bro we are living in the ends of time and nows the time we all should be really focusing on our religion so many signs of the day of judgement has happened and so little are left and yall still debating wether hijab is mandatory or not were cooked fr.....
Bruh 🤦 this is the religion
@@champmunawar6982 i dont get what your trying to say
@@Blossom_irlwhy we should not debate about something when people are doing it wrong and it's a part of the religion
@@Blossom_irlyes its end of time, but Islam has quran and hadith. Also we have scholar who has both sources to advice ummah to be real muslim.
@@fariszakwan4433 yeah i know but like every iman or scholar will tell you the same the hijab is mandatory its not a debate
Those with iman on this Journey, adhere to Allah SWT and his messenger's guidance! It is not a journey where you develop your own version of the instructions. Those who conclude that in their journey to god they can do it how they want to do it, may find Allah rejecting that if not them.
Fix your Hijab ❤
Alhamdulillah. This goes straight to my "da'wah" playlist. Alhamdulillah. May Allah guide us all and make us residents of Paradise. Ameen 🤲
She's right, but she is wrong for being on social media herself
There is nothing wrong on being in social media if you use it properly
@@autisticwoman665 yes sister, but showing your face for thousands of men to see is not considered proper usage
@Safia91 that's their own desire, they should've known better, the sister did nothing wrong here, she just exist.
@@autisticwoman665 that's your opinion sister. I am talking about actual Islamic rulings. She is not just existing, she is actively loading up her face online.
@@Safia91 but that doesn't mean that's her fault. She is just doing stuffs and doesn't seduce nor anything. It's just some guys
I’ve been wanting to try to start wearing hijab (as a new revert) but I’m being honest, seeing this video and the original video just adds to my anxiety about it. I thought that wearing it at all would be more modest than not wearing it at all…but it feels like what we do will never be enough for some people 😢
That's why you listen to the muslimahs that say it is a journey, because it is.
You will gain your confidence slowly ❣️
Sure wearing any kind of covering is more modest than not however you should still wear hijab correctly according to the Quran and Sunnah.
Do your best for the sake of Allah SWT even if you fall short and don't sin publicly. It's that simple sis. You won't expect to drink alcohol as a Muslim and for no one to tell you that act is a sin, it's the same with the hijab. Your hijab is not for others, it's for Allah SWT- however as Muslims, we must enjoin the good and forbid the evil amongst ourselves. Keep your sin private.
The presenter is wearing a tight top????
If hijab is a "journey" then why do some hijabis get offended when given the correct "directions" 🤔
She showing her necklace, and chest.... i am sick of her too
First of all hijab IS a journey you start covering your body then you start covering your hair then you start hijab or in some cases even start wearing a niqab and also makeup isn't Haram no one said that if you like wearing makeup you can but your intentions should be clean and you're literally telling them "either do it perfectly or you're not doing it correct" what the hell!? And you can show your abaya online hijab and abaya is not covering beauty it's what beautiful to Allah and this is wrong this is a private journey with Allah and Allah only and you can't just jump in and go "you're not doing it perfectly you're not a good Muslim" WHAT THE HELL!?
Stop gossiping. It's not allowed.
A public sin should be corrected publicly
@@Avicenna58 by gossiping and backbiting?
This isn’t gossiping and backbiting because she is saying it publicly on the internet
@@GreenLifeNurserywhere is backbiting? Did he personally contacted and told you something that we didn't see in this video? 🤔
Found the insta "Hijabi"
This is so true. My close relatives say I am being so serious and taking Islam to seriously. Islam is not a game that you just choose what you want to take and leave. OFC it’s gonna be hard especially when you parents are kinda westernised and want you to commit haram, knowingly and unknowingly. And say that I should not be listening to sheikh on UA-cam… sorry but these people have studied Islam and scarified time to the ummah.
We shouldn’t take all trends that we see out there and try ‘islamify it’. Many fashion trends are just not suitable for the modesty that Islam requires.
Idk if this makes sense
Thank you brother for telling them to delete their hijabi fashion accounts.