Simon Sinek: The Most Incredible Thing You Can Do For A Loved One
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- Опубліковано 16 бер 2023
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📖 Simon Sinek is a British-born American author and inspirational speaker, his most recent book is “The Infinite Game”.
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Fastest way to build friends is to listen reflectively…. Because most people don’t listen. They are too busy with the clouds passing in their own inner sky. Invite someone to be in your presence and joyfully accept them for who they are the way they are. (It sounds easy, but it’s an incredibly difficult behavior to demonstrate. Because it’s the behavior of unconditional love).
In my humble opinion, I would offer to Simon that he could call his friends, and instead of asking them to listen, offer an ear. Then, he find they will do the same.
Simon Sinek is 49, he looks so youthful and full of vitality. Great guy, great insight and knowledge.
Wow i just loved this honesty and vulnerability.... I have friends that are single and i admire their strength for knowing what they want and not settling for 2nd best... When i was young i got myself into damaging relationships i settled as was told the opposite. So i see you as strong and loving to yourself for not being in relationships that are not the one and dont work for you or someone who doesnt love and admire the way you are and someone you have truely not fallen in love with ... ... I now admire people who have not been in long term relationship as majority of people are not happy in their relationships and dont have the guts to get out for fear of being alone.. They stay for security and money or being judged... Not for love..... Thank you. 💙💕💙💕
I admire people who are able to make long term relationships work. Not being able to sustain even a shorter term relationship is something that needs to be acknowledged and addressed
It takes courage and strength to show such vulnerability publicly
This describes exactly how I feel!!
I knew I was not alone in feeling this way. However, hearing my exact thoughts & feelings from someone I don't know means so much to me.
Simon Sinek you don’t know how much this has impacted my life. Thank YOU for sharing. Truly THANK YOU!
I wish I could have this conversation with you because for once I’d feel like someone knows exactly how I feel. Having someone not just hear you but understand you and simply be there is so meaningful. I honestly feel like I’m stuck && it’s so hard knowing which step to take or which way to go. && it’s extremely hard for me to reach out to someone because I use to so much my family & friends got tired of it. Or maybe tired of me.
Either way, I’m so thankful for coming across this video today. I really needed to hear this. 🖤
Totally agree. People don't allow space to grieve period. Or acceptance of who you are embrace you for you. They prefer to change you or fix you just because you are expressing yourself
So very true. Amazing how he actually feels exactly like I do. It shuts me down when I am reaching out, and immediately they either try to fix or stop me by telling me I bring everything on myself and I am to too much drama to listen to. But I have now found that some of you that I listen to help me more than people I know who simply dismiss me. I am grateful for many of you that I listen to on UA-cam because you relate the same things I am without making me feel like a complete mental case with nothing to offer anyone. Thank you & God bless you for all of your support. ❤️
I think a lot of people actually find it easier to be there for a friend who's struggling rather than succeeding. Always assumed Simon was neurodiverse from his presentations and it's good to see him being so open now
His vulnerability was truly most beautiful thing..thank you
I was flabbergasted to hear you have ADHD, Simon. Utterly. Have it myself and it’s rather reassuring to know that a man I respect has been able to move through a career with it as you have. Loneliness? It can be so hard. I find it comes from a place of focusing on lack. Trying to embrace the alone part, but as a positive. Wishing you joy
I have my best friend , we became friends in university and since then even if there are 15k miles between us we call eachother often and we talk exactly like Simon with his bro. And we have our own famillies and we cannot share with our spouses what we share between us. And man i can tell you it feels amazingly good. 45 years ald crying when they say I love you to eachother feels like heaven
Simon is so sincere and honest
"Allow me to mourn the past". This is really relatable
Attachment theory is wonderful. As one fearful avoidant to a probable other, love and peace Brother.
Simon is really one of a kind. Authentic, brilliant mind. Thank you for sharing ❤️
21st century is when beautiful souls bleed and die, it is also when evil is coveted. Bygone the peace, the love, the kindness, the truth.
One of the best interviews I’ve seen ❤
This is absolutely wonderful.
Love this conversation ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Wow, I love his honesty and vulnerability. Thanks for sharing
Very relatable message from SS. Listening to how his brain functions is facinating to me. Carry on Simon, enjoy the journey.
I completely understand him. I relate to this so much. Thank you ❣️ I'm struggling in the same way.
Wow amazing man ! Such courage to own it and share it with such vulnerability 🤗
Be there for your people 💯
Blown away!
I'm experiencing friendships that are fading and I don't want to. The last 60 seconds are all's that's needed.
I believe friendships do pass but this is a healthy way to care, love and set the next steps
Thank you
There’s quite a few employers on a good news diet who do not appreciate direct questions. How dare you question them! Thank you Simon. I’ve raised my children alone and have been struggling with neurodivergence my entire life. Only learned this a couple years ago. I really wish I was aware many years ago. I had been in a deep depression right after my children went off to college. Have always been alone.
A wonder talk…both of you’re so Inspirational And filled with great Insight I liked this , to have a friend that can give you an ear to be what you need, that friend….honest emotion and a warrior…sometimes we do need that friend that just sits in the mud with us…you can be going through tuff times and still be an optimistic person that can be sad too, this was very very Profound - I’m so Grateful that you shared this talk, Thank you , Grateful…have a wonderful wknd
Simon, this fucking lands right now. thank you for this
It seems like people are very uncomfortable being alone with themselves. Which I don’t understand why?? I like My company and so do others. But You should be comfortable being still and time with ones-self.
I think if you're alone by choice it's fine but if you want to find someone and still haven't it can be incredibly difficult as you just reinforce all your insecurities about yourself.
That's not the type of loniless he's talking about. He knows many people so he's not alone.
The woman he ll choose to be with will have a rich and relationship and life !
Wow what an incredible man, so open and brilliant, simon i can so understand u with loneliness, its extremely hard at times, but my god u have an incredible attitude, im 57 years old and after failed marriage, and failed relationships, have only just found my soul mate, of course having ADHD would not have helped, but u will find that soul mate, it just seems to take time, and will happen when u least expect it , u are a charming and brilliant man ❤😊❤❤😊
Understand! I suffer from the same thing diagnosed with bipolar disorder and not diagnosed with ADD until I was 42. I was married years ago when I was in college but now at midlife I see myself battling the same things. Society is ill-equipped at work with people who struggle particularly in friendships and relationships
I've been thinking all say what to say. Really, there's not much I can say. He sums it up just about perfectly. Only just in my case, living in another country, trying to fit in, it's hard, and mostly, I feel out of place. With that, come more feeling lonely and more depression. I can say I'm not happy, on a daily basis, and I think daily of going to sleep and not waking up. But my kids need a father, and that's what I do. I'm here for them even when feelings are strong, not to be. Maybe one day I'll be fully happy and not lonely
Wow, we are lonely people, the older I get the harder it seems to be to hold a relationship because there are still too many men wanting just the easy going relationship and not a soul connection.
I definitely have mental ADHD 😉 and I would go straight to saying why do you charge that too… it’s just simple, normal approach to me too, all the best Simon ❤
Holy cow on the reaction point.
Wow 😲
My dearest Simon Sinek, You are Not Lonely. It just happens that you haven't just yet bumped onto a mutual and matured individual who can get your point without feeling offended. Keep being you. Everything is as it should be. Remember these words till the day you'll be looking at your life's partner in their eyes and feeling the magic of still pushing forward till you get what you are wiishing for. It is an infinite game remember ? Sending so much gratitude and love to keep you in power and in peace with Who You Truly Are .
You're one of those fixers he talked about who rush in to explain, fix, solve rather than simply listen and respect where others are and respect with what they're going through without the persistent need to change, fix, or explain their own situation to them as if they don't have a right or the wisdom to experience it in their own personal way. He's lonely (or was so at the time of this podcast being filmed); he doesn't need anyone to tell him about his own personal experience, twisting it into something else in order to soothe or fix him. Wouldn't you find it irritating if you were mourning something in your life that was an important contemplative moment and someone came along with unsolicited insights, telling you you're wrong, you're not mourning, you're just seeing things with the wrong perspective and that they can fix your perspective by telling you how you should actually see things? That's not only invasive it's also a tactic used to try to control someone else's experience because you think your perspective is smarter.
@@MyrnaDeJesus Probably the fact that I train people get out of depression ( the feeling of Lonelyness is one of its signs) for many years makes me see things from a different perspective for sure. ❤️
@@emilianicolaidou321 That type of coaching is valid when it's requested but even that has its boundaries. You can't really "train" someone to reverse their depression. That is a purely organic, personal process that can be respectfully supported but there's such a thin line to tread so as to not meddle or taint their experience in such a way that positions it as something bad that needs fixing, amending, and curing. There's something profoundly sacred, important, natural and even healthy about depression and also loneliness (of course within limit). I think that perhaps the extent that each of us are able to embrace those difficult experiences within ourselves without diminishing, rushing past, moving in a panic to heal or to deny, is to the same extent that we can honor it all in another. Loneliness is a beautiful, pure, natural, even IMPORTANT human experience and so is depression. We gain such enriching wisdom from it all when we move through it gently and take time to listen keenly to its teachings.
@@MyrnaDeJesus I respect your perspective and I respect mine ❤
@@emilianicolaidou321 Thank you for sharing your perspective and taking time to read mine. I appreciate your insights and your dedication to helping others through the dark periods of their lives. May you have a wonderful, fulfilling 2023. It's been a rough few years, wishing you oceans of peace.
so helpful and an amazing human
Wow
Feeling of disconnected from ...
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He literally describes my thoughts and process to a “T”.
You most likely have a dismissive avoidant attachment style - that apparent 'lack of interest' isn't related to ADHD.
Stonewalling is more about being toxic and giving the 'silent treatment'. What you describe is more along the lines of 'blunted affect'.
Simon looks so tired and worn down. Hopefully he's on top soon. I like listening and learning from him.
I think it's absolutely part of the reality of being a human being, of living in this world: the hardships and intensity of it all will eventually be emulated on your face. It's inevitable.
That's not what stonewalling is bro
He should get together with Florence Welch 😅
There’s nothing wrong with that question… 🤷♀️
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Can someone just tell him he's an INFJ?
Can he just be a regular ol' complex, multifaceted human without the acronym labels?
@@MyrnaDeJesus Yes, definitely.
But this type of psychology was made to tell us how we are like all other people, some other people, and no other person.
Him knowing those things and realizing those patterns can help him to:
1. Step over them.
2. Be less lonely, as he will know he is not alone.
3. Channel and communicate his thoughts better.
@@sarmadisafieh5665 Sure, I get that, but so what? Why do you assume he doesn't know or that he'd even care if he didn't know? It's important to you, doesn't mean it's necessary to go around touting philosophies and psychological evaluations based on arbitrary findings. Grand explanations for why we behave or emote is insignificant. It comes across as intellectual psychobabble rather than respecting another human being for simply being. In this video clip, Simon Sinek is simply sharing his personal experience, why not listen and appreciate instead of hammering in with something that has absolutely no relevance.
I learned nothing out of this clip
ENTP- like?!? 🤩😉😁 or ESTP 🤭😏
Or simply just HUMAN. Humans are complex by nature, no need to pigeonhole with acronyms and labels.
Wholly unlikeable guy. He deserves the best in life. But I don’t know why Sinek resonates with so many.
Emotional validation is the most underappreciated skill, and it is a skill! Here is a nice introduction to it, ua-cam.com/video/l2JNTkVR668/v-deo.html. Best thing you can do for yourself and people around you 😊
(btw. I know this sounds crazy and out of place, but if Simon Sinek would ever consider having a girlfriend / wife, I'm applying (not kidding) - 33, blonde, smart, aware, cute, supporting, kind, curious, funny, like learning and making progress, speak 4 languages fluently, don't have Instagram or Netflix)
That sounds pretty good. Makes me wonder why you aren't married already.
@@ErikLiberty Hahaha, me too 😄 it seems like marriage has become a bit of a tabu for guys here in Europe. And also I have an INFJ personality, that might not make it easier.