Dan it was a year ago when my 91 year old Dad passed away. Your description of panic mode is real. It happened many times before finally last year the worst happened to me. I ran through it in my head so many times because I was closest to Dad and I had to somehow try to prepare for what could possibly happen. Dan please know that opening your life to me has helped me with the loss of my father. My fathers name was Myron he to was born in 1932. God Bless your family ❤
Sending hugs. I'm sorry. 😔My Dad is 90 with dementia. I'm dreading that day. Dan is helping me too and My Mom watches them at times. My Mom is his main caretaker and she is 88. Fortunately, she has a helper in the mornings and my brother moved them like 5 minutes away from them. My niece is a main caregiver too. The rest of the family all pitches in as well. I'm so thankful for them because my husband is an older disabled veteran and needs more care by the day as he ages. 🙏
My mom was born in June 1932. She had Alzheimer’s too and there were many scary moments. She died in 2017. I was her caregiver as well although I wish I could have been as patient as you. I love watching your dad.
You’re a great son Dan!! Get you a nanny cam (Amazon has some reasonably priced) so you can keep your eye on him where ever you are. Sorry for your scare. I can imagine how your heart was racing!! So happy all was well!! Love your Dad!!! ❤
We had a nanny cam for my mother and father. It was the only thing that would let me go outside without them. They both have passed since then. I will always miss them. Two with alzheimers was really hard.
As a Former Caregiver with Dementia Clients, you did very well and kept your search going without falling to pieces. You are doing GREAT, GOD BLESS YOU❤
Bless you Dan “ l can feel your heart beating ‘ slow down “ pops is fine 😂at this rate ‘ dad will outlive you 😮I am glad your dad is okay! thank you for being such a great son and a wonderful human being and thank you for sharing your family experiences with us 🙏💜🙏❤️🙏🩵🙏💙
I totally understand this panic. My mother-in-law with Dementia was staying with us a couple of years ago, and she started wandering off in the middle of the night. On one occasion we struggled to find her and we were in fear she had gone outside in the snow since it was the middle of January in the Midwest. Thankfully, we ended up finding her in the unfished storage area of our basement. I know some people may not agree with us, but this was the point where we knew she needed to move into a Memory Care facility. Although we feel she is more safe now, she still managed to wander off for a bit at the facility when she followed some other resident's family out the door and circumvented the door alarms. So, no matter if they are in your home or at a facility, it can happen. Thinking of you and your family as you deal with these situations.
I feel you on that because my mom wandered off from the house one day and it scared the ever-living out of me. I found her halfway down in the neighborhood in her nightgown in the pouring rain hanging on a for sale sign in somebody's front yard. And it happened so fast. It was like one minute she was there, the next minute she was gone. It is impossible to keep your eyes on them all the time 24-7. You know, you have to do things, but it's just crazy how quickly that situation deteriorated like that. Thankfully though all was okay just like in your situation. All in all the panic you get from this type of situation is not enjoyable at all.
Bless your heart. Showing people the love of you taking care of your Dad. I can only imagine what every moment yall go through. I have lost 2 aunts and 1 uncle and I didn't see every day of them going on. Thanks for showing the good and rough days.
Dan you are an absolute amazing son!!! Some older people that don’t have dementia would love to have a son or daughter that would give them just a small portion of attention and love you give to Mr Ed. To get a blessing you have to be a blessing. God is definitely going to bless you! Thanks for sharing your life story with us ❤
I love hearing what Ed is up to every day ! I love to see his concern/love for Joanne. He never forgets her does he? Thanks for letting us be a part of your life! Sending your family ( especially Ed) love from Canada 🇨🇦 (Alberta)
The work you do is amazing Dan. I have so much respect for you. I know the worry you have as a care giver. Once spend 1 1/2 hour at 4 o’clock in the night at freezing temperatures searching the streets for my dad. Never been so scared before. Finally found him in just his pyjamas and a pair of slippers and brought him back to the nursing home. The staff there didn’t even know he was missing. If it weren’t for the gps tracker I had installed on him, I wouldn’t had known he had left the nursing home at night or been able to find him. He probably wouldn’t have survived then. Luckily it went all good.
@ I live in Denmark and there is a company here, that make customized Samsung Galaxy 2 watches. The watch then submits the gps position whenever there is movement. I have setup a geofence zone around the retirement home where my father lives, so it send an alarm to my phone, if he crosses that zone. This is how I am alerted if he wonders off in the night. As a secondary safety measure I also use the small Apple AirTag trackers. I have sewn them into his jackets. They only submit location if an iphone is nearby, but it is better than nothing and it also helps me find his jackets when he misplaces them. :-) If you are wondering about privacy, I can tell that my dad did give his consent to these types of tracking back when his mind was fresh.
Dan, my husband is 82 and im 56. He has dementia and parkinson's, he has nearly constant hallucinations and delusions daily. He also has both ttpes of incontinence. I am his only caregiver, his daughter comes to visit and will stay with him if I have to go somewhere but other than that i do it on my own. He has 3 sons who never visit, help or even call. I feel your pain. God bless you, your Dad and your whole family.
For better or for worse, through sickness and in health. We made vows to our spouses, you’re young and able to care for your husband. I’m sure that Your step children would have stepped in if you weren’t around to care for their dad. Ed doesn’t have a spouse hence his children stepping in.
@@thecatlady2710 you are doing Gods work for your husband and it’s not easy I’m sure. I hope there’s a way you can find time for yourself it’s important that you do. I hope someone can help you with that. 🙏
@@LinneaSanchez it just makes me sad that his sons don't even call to check on him, they act like he doeant exist. His daughter is a gem. I tell my husband all the time that our marriage vows included in sickness and health. I feel it's my job to take care of him because we had 30 years of health and now the sickness part is here and I'll always be there for him.
@ I understand that you feel bad that they don’t call, but maybe they’re scared or upset. Pray about it. I remember being very frustrated caring for both my dad and grandma whilst still tending to my husband, children, home and having lupus and practically begging my sisters to help. I’m praying for your strength🩷
I’m so glad he’s okay! I popped in to tell you that my mom loved watching these videos. She passed away on Wednesday. I was her caretaker so this channel meant so much to both of us. She felt seen and heard whenever she heard your dad talk about his daily struggles. She would look at me and tell me the things that he said were exactly how she felt 😢
God Bless you both. So sorry Christina for your loss. My family went through the SAME thing regarding dementia with my Dad. He passed away 2 years ago. Only special people can be care givers. ❤❤
My dad recently passed away at 87. FIRST thing he did every single day was to MAKE HIS BED. I'm pretty certain it is the 'greatest generation' thing. Really sorry you had to go through that. For me, I'd definitely get a 'baby-sitter' type small cameras now. That way, you'll ALWAYS know exactly where he is. Yep. That 15 seconds along with up to 5 minutes seems like an hour. Have a wonderful weekend. ❤
It really shows how much you love your father through your videos, and especially in this one. I’m so glad he was okay🌹 The way you mentioned him searching for you was incredibly touching ❤🥹
I can see and feel the genuine panic you must have had, through this video. Given it had only happened about 30 minutes beforehand, I can hear that you are still getting over the panic you felt. Thank God, he didn't wander too far and all was well. I think it's nice that you make your videos to share the reality of life with dementia in the family. Stay safe. Take care. Ericka. Ireland.
Oh my goodness, Bless you 🙏. My momma got really bad about sneaking off. The can be gone fast. Bless you. You do a wonderful job taking care of your dad ❤🙏
Awwee Dan! You spoke so true! Those are such scary moments, we resorted on putting the chain locks up top on the doors due to the escapes, they don't know any better but it sure makes are heart race. Your doing a great job. Just think your dad wants to keep you on your toes till Danielle gets home, *wink* I wonder if he will remember her? I hope she enjoyed her time away.
Dan, this video is so heartwarming, it reminds me of when our family looked after Mom, while she had dementia. My family is like yours. Our thoughts and coping methods are like yours. We even had cats and dogs with us, too, on the journey. The feeding the dog scenario reminds me of the sense of humour my Dad had! Hey Thanks, Dan and Ed!
The story about your dog served as a reminder to me that I have a small 16-year-old senior dog and a pool in the backyard. He is hard of hearing and partially blind. He can swim (or could) but never liked going in the pool. He is not often outside alone but I have on occasion let him out to potty for several minutes. If he were to fall in I don’t know if he is strong enough to make it to the edge. I don’t think I’ll be doing that anymore. I’ve been following you and dad for some time and live in your neck of the woods. Glad he’s okay.
time to add some safety features...locks alarms etc...pool alarm,,maybe some fencing around the pool..many things at this point need to be done...house has a lot of clutter decor that could be removed..trip hazards...things you dont think about are hazards...
Pretty scary Dan, I know you guys are always with him however, you should place an AirTag on him so you could know where grandpa is if it happens again. RIP 🐶🙏🏼 love you guys!
I was feeling your anxiety and fear. It brought tears to my eyes. May Jehovah bless you and your family and keep you all safe. So nice to know your father still cares about keeping his living space tidy. ❤
Thank you so so much for sharing your family’s most personal moments! Dan, you will never regret doing all that you have done for your Dad everyday! We are called to honor our parents. That’s an us decision- has nothing to do with weather they deserve it or not. God Bless You and Yours! ❤
Glad to hear your Pop was safe and just looking for you. I can imagine how scary that could be. Also, sorry to hear about a dog of yours that passed in such a tragic way. Dogs are family. It’s hard to lose them. Off topic, but how do you think my Packers will fare against Detroit Sunday? Take care man, and I notice you’ve lost some weight. Your face looks thinner. Keep it going man. Take care
Unfortunately I've had some scary situations too . I leaves you shaking and SUPER AWARE from then on , even more than you already are if you can believe it . Thank you Dad ( and family ) for taking such GREAT care of your Dad !!! Tfs , take care and God bless
Aww bless Dan I'm so glad your dad was okay and you look so relieved at the end and happy with the small things in life that are precious to us. Take good care of you all, have a lovely day from Scotland ✌️🫶xx
Glad your Dad is good Dan...Yes that was a tough one...your heart in your mouth for fear of what might have been....Now you can rest easy knowing the situation is under control ❤
I completely understand everything that you are going through because I do it myself day in and day out. My mother is 92 years old. She has dementia. She is always on my mind. She is my first priority to check on the minute my eyes wake up I check the cameras, I have one set up in her room. Throughout my day I need to go into her room quite frequently to make sure she has everything she needs. I keep her near me always, remind her that she is safe , and lunch or dinner is on the way . Pictures help, movies she loves is always on . I will be honest, I sometimes need family members help to get a little me time !! lol
These are great, and I can relate to these challenges/scares. I went through similar w my mom who had dementia end of life. She had a lot of episodes waking up from naps or sleep confused and maybe dreams felt real to her. Your dad always seems so respectful and considerate while you reassure him that he is where he should be and is safe. It’s all so real to them, regardless of how out of sorts it appears to us.
Hi Dan, you did amazing, truly. I too have had that scared to death feeling. You are really doing the best job that anyone could under the circumstances and you really give you Dad dignity.
Have you considered more ring cameras, bells on the doors, or locks that are harder to unlock? We had a lot tricks when I was a foster parent. I even had a motion detector at night that would go off if they headed for the kitchen.
I looked after my mum who had dementia and i know how you feel. It’s such a shock to the system because your brain gives you the worst case scenario. You and your wife and family do a great job. Respect to all caregivers. ❤ 🇬🇧
That so scary and panic immediately sets in until you find them. Thank God he was ok but I'm sure it took you quite awhile to calm down. My grandmother did the same thing to me but when I found her she had fallen and was laying on the kitchen floor. Caretaking is not and easy job and you take such good care of him every day.
Cover the pool, put bells on his shoe strings, put un reachable lock on front and back door and any gates you have. Or put alarms on all doors. Not a good idea for you to wear head phones, you won't be able to hear him or any alarms that you install.
I "lost" our oldest child, who is now 35, as a toddler in our trailer house. I was calling his name but he's not talking yet, certainly not answering. I knew he couldn't open the door to outside but briefly looked out the door. I found him in the second bathroom under the vanity, which didn't have a door. I was so happy. Nothing in their could harm him and he was happy so I let him stay. I know it's 10 x worse with a silver alert. You just have no idea where they could have gone. Don't be too hard on Andrew😊
When dad goes one day, as much as you may think you're prepared for it you won't be as prepared as you may think. Me to my mom is in her 90's too. I tell myself it's fine but deep down I know I'm not prepared like I think I am. You're a wonderful caregiver Dan! Bless you my dear man!❤
😧 I'm so sorry Dan. I know how that heart sinking moment feels. I went through a few of those moments with my Dad. I'm so happy that all turned out okay.🙏❤❤❤
So glad he's OK. And hope you're OK too. It's those scary moments while being a caregiver for a family member that defines what people really mean to us. ❤ that you're both being Dad's for each other with you as his caregiver. You and you're family are doing a wonderful job being there for him. Thank you for sharing your Dad with us.
I can imagine the feeling. Things can turn drastically. Good to know that nothing bad happened to your Dad.. ❤ Been watching your videos even before and always been touched with how you are looking after him. Well done!
Oh Dan! What a scare. Thank God everything turned out okay with Ed but I’m sure it was so frightening for you. I went through that with my mother and we had four generations in the house watching out for her. It is a 24/7 job. Now, get that bed cleaned up or Danielle will kill you 😮😅!
I can see your love for your Dad, and he loves you too. As you said, he was just looking fod you. Your smile as you talked about your Dad overfeeding the dog, there’s pride and love within your words. God always bless your whole family.
OH Dan,,,, This brings back so many memories of things happening with my Dad who had Alzheimers. After my Mom passed, we moved him into out home on 5 acres, with a small pond with fish and 2 geese. He was 80 at that time. (Hey I live in Elk Grove also!) anyway,,, so many of these episodes have happened with us also. Dad lived with us for almost 15 years, the last 5 wee the Alzheimers times. You are doing such a wonderful caregiving for your Dad. As sad as it can be,,, you will always have NO regrets and so thankful to be able to help your Pop. Stay strong, Thanks for sharing these times. You dad is such a sweet man! He loves and respects you so much. You and the family. ❤
Sir, you don't get enough rest as a care giver I know I was one for my husband of 42 years ,but I would not change it it's called love ,I lost my husband in 2019 due to m.s.and heart failure just keep up the best you can and give them all the love and hugs you can, May The Lord keep Blessing
Maybe an apple airtag GPS tracker type of device mounted in a bracelet or necklace would be helpful as well as setting up several inside and outside video cameras that you can access from your phone. You and your family are awesome for taking care of your Dad!
The minute you showed your bed I felt like I was on The Price is Right with the TV in the background. Come on down? Except the excitement was focused towards the messy bed. Funny 😅. Grandpa's room looks superb! I'm so glad he was found safe. Always enjoy the daily videos, Ed is such a blessing to watch. Thank you for sharing!
So frightening When you can’t find a vulnerable person.
Glad he is ok🩷
It was truly terrifying for a few seconds.
@@dsalnorcal1434 You for sure need another beer now!!!!
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@dsalnorcal1434 can you give him a watch or a phone or something that has tracking. It's so frighting. ♥️
Dan it was a year ago when my 91 year old Dad passed away. Your description of panic mode is real. It happened many times before finally last year the worst happened to me. I ran through it in my head so many times because I was closest to Dad and I had to somehow try to prepare for what could possibly happen. Dan please know that opening your life to me has helped me with the loss of my father. My fathers name was Myron he to was born in 1932. God Bless your family ❤
Sending hugs. I'm sorry. 😔My Dad is 90 with dementia. I'm dreading that day. Dan is helping me too and My Mom watches them at times. My Mom is his main caretaker and she is 88. Fortunately, she has a helper in the mornings and my brother moved them like 5 minutes away from them. My niece is a main caregiver too. The rest of the family all pitches in as well. I'm so thankful for them because my husband is an older disabled veteran and needs more care by the day as he ages. 🙏
I am so sorry for your loss
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My mom was born in June 1932. She had Alzheimer’s too and there were many scary moments. She died in 2017. I was her caregiver as well although I wish I could have been as patient as you. I love watching your dad.
So sorry for your loss
I can feel the anxiety of the situation in your voice Dan. Glad to hear your Dad is safe. ❤
Sorry Dan.. he was out looking for you. He thought you were lost.😔
Glad he is ok just like my dad feeding animals like dogs and squirrels it must be the dementia unfortunately Covid got him
RIP to your poor dog Dan. It really scars you losing your dog in a horrific and tragic way. RIP to all our lost pups
Amen. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This is why I'm so glad we don't have pools here in the UK in our gardens,I would be a nervous wreck! 😢
I work at an animal hospital in Florida!! Happens all the time.
AWW That is so sad 😢@@traceycole3314
Amen ❤🙏🏼🕊️
You’re a great son Dan!! Get you a nanny cam (Amazon has some reasonably priced) so you can keep your eye on him where ever you are. Sorry for your scare. I can imagine how your heart was racing!! So happy all was well!! Love your Dad!!! ❤
That is a very good idea!
We had a nanny cam for my mother and father. It was the only thing that would let me go outside without them. They both have passed since then. I will always miss them. Two with alzheimers was really hard.
As a Former Caregiver with Dementia Clients, you did very well and kept your search going without falling to pieces. You are doing GREAT, GOD BLESS YOU❤
Never stops being a Dad. He was looking for you. I'm glad he is okay ♥️♥️
Bless you Dan “ l can feel your heart beating ‘ slow down “ pops is fine 😂at this rate ‘ dad will outlive you 😮I am glad your dad is okay! thank you for being such a great son and a wonderful human being and thank you for sharing your family experiences with us 🙏💜🙏❤️🙏🩵🙏💙
I feel you, sorry you had to go thru that, my husband has early dementia and so far he is not there yet . Thank you for taking care of your dad
Sorry Dan. I know that was scary.
Oh my goodness how scary Dan, like losing a child!!!!❤❤
I fear that happening to me. Happy he wasn’t lost. Sorry that you had to go through that Dan.
Sorry to hear about your dog and I am glad your dad is doing okay and safe. I can feel how scared you might have felt. Take care Dan!
Can see the relief all over your face. So thankful dads okay❤
I totally understand this panic. My mother-in-law with Dementia was staying with us a couple of years ago, and she started wandering off in the middle of the night. On one occasion we struggled to find her and we were in fear she had gone outside in the snow since it was the middle of January in the Midwest. Thankfully, we ended up finding her in the unfished storage area of our basement. I know some people may not agree with us, but this was the point where we knew she needed to move into a Memory Care facility. Although we feel she is more safe now, she still managed to wander off for a bit at the facility when she followed some other resident's family out the door and circumvented the door alarms. So, no matter if they are in your home or at a facility, it can happen. Thinking of you and your family as you deal with these situations.
I feel you on that because my mom wandered off from the house one day and it scared the ever-living out of me. I found her halfway down in the neighborhood in her nightgown in the pouring rain hanging on a for sale sign in somebody's front yard. And it happened so fast. It was like one minute she was there, the next minute she was gone. It is impossible to keep your eyes on them all the time 24-7. You know, you have to do things, but it's just crazy how quickly that situation deteriorated like that. Thankfully though all was okay just like in your situation. All in all the panic you get from this type of situation is not enjoyable at all.
Bless you, Dan.
Your Dad is awesome, so empathetic, intelligent and genuine. Great Son and Dad. ❤
You're such a caring son. Thank you for sharing. 💖
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Dan God Bless You Sir.
May the good Lord keep your Great Father Safe with ❤ always
I cannot imagine how scared you were!!! Praise God you found him safe. You're a wonderful son. ❤️🙏❤️
Dan know that you are doing the very best you can in a tough situation! God bless you and your family!
Bless your heart. Showing people the love of you taking care of your Dad. I can only imagine what every moment yall go through. I have lost 2 aunts and 1 uncle and I didn't see every day of them going on. Thanks for showing the good and rough days.
Bless. 🙏🏻 I know you must be shaking still. I’m glad that you both are okay. ❤
Dan you are an absolute amazing son!!! Some older people that don’t have dementia would love to have a son or daughter that would give them just a small portion of attention and love you give to Mr Ed. To get a blessing you have to be a blessing. God is definitely going to bless you! Thanks for sharing your life story with us ❤
Thanks for giving your dad so much love Dan. That must have been so scary I'm sooo glad Ed was ok ❤
Dan, I'm thankful Dr Ed was safe. You and Danielle do an awesome job as caretakers for your Dad. ❤🙏🏻
Thankful your pops is okay. I know its a worry. It is amazing that he makes his bed its great. You are a good son. God bless yall
I love hearing what Ed is up to every day ! I love to see his concern/love for Joanne. He never forgets her does he? Thanks for letting us be a part of your life!
Sending your family ( especially Ed) love from Canada 🇨🇦 (Alberta)
As an older person being cared for by my daughter this moves me but in a lovely way. Well done Dan.
The work you do is amazing Dan. I have so much respect for you. I know the worry you have as a care giver. Once spend 1 1/2 hour at 4 o’clock in the night at freezing temperatures searching the streets for my dad. Never been so scared before. Finally found him in just his pyjamas and a pair of slippers and brought him back to the nursing home. The staff there didn’t even know he was missing. If it weren’t for the gps tracker I had installed on him, I wouldn’t had known he had left the nursing home at night or been able to find him. He probably wouldn’t have survived then. Luckily it went all good.
How do you install a gps tracker on someone?
@ I live in Denmark and there is a company here, that make customized Samsung Galaxy 2 watches. The watch then submits the gps position whenever there is movement. I have setup a geofence zone around the retirement home where my father lives, so it send an alarm to my phone, if he crosses that zone. This is how I am alerted if he wonders off in the night. As a secondary safety measure I also use the small Apple AirTag trackers. I have sewn them into his jackets. They only submit location if an iphone is nearby, but it is better than nothing and it also helps me find his jackets when he misplaces them. :-) If you are wondering about privacy, I can tell that my dad did give his consent to these types of tracking back when his mind was fresh.
Dan, my husband is 82 and im 56. He has dementia and parkinson's, he has nearly constant hallucinations and delusions daily. He also has both ttpes of incontinence. I am his only caregiver, his daughter comes to visit and will stay with him if I have to go somewhere but other than that i do it on my own. He has 3 sons who never visit, help or even call.
I feel your pain. God bless you, your Dad and your whole family.
For better or for worse, through sickness and in health. We made vows to our spouses, you’re young and able to care for your husband. I’m sure that Your step children would have stepped in if you weren’t around to care for their dad. Ed doesn’t have a spouse hence his children stepping in.
@@thecatlady2710 you are doing Gods work for your husband and it’s not easy I’m sure. I hope there’s a way you can find time for yourself it’s important that you do. I hope someone can help you with that. 🙏
@@LinneaSanchez it just makes me sad that his sons don't even call to check on him, they act like he doeant exist. His daughter is a gem. I tell my husband all the time that our marriage vows included in sickness and health. I feel it's my job to take care of him because we had 30 years of health and now the sickness part is here and I'll always be there for him.
@@scottmarek1391 Thank you Scott, that was very sweet.
@ I understand that you feel bad that they don’t call, but maybe they’re scared or upset. Pray about it. I remember being very frustrated caring for both my dad and grandma whilst still tending to my husband, children, home and having lupus and practically begging my sisters to help. I’m praying for your strength🩷
I’m so glad he’s okay! I popped in to tell you that my mom loved watching these videos. She passed away on Wednesday. I was her caretaker so this channel meant so much to both of us. She felt seen and heard whenever she heard your dad talk about his daily struggles. She would look at me and tell me the things that he said were exactly how she felt 😢
God Bless you both. So sorry Christina for your loss. My family went through the SAME thing regarding dementia with my Dad. He passed away 2 years ago. Only special people can be care givers. ❤❤
Sorry about your mom. Be strong.
I’m so sorry for your loss! 😢
prayers to you!
Prayers chrlstina
My dad recently passed away at 87.
FIRST thing he did every single day was to MAKE HIS BED.
I'm pretty certain it is the 'greatest generation' thing.
Really sorry you had to go through that.
For me, I'd definitely get a 'baby-sitter' type small cameras now.
That way, you'll ALWAYS know exactly where he is. Yep.
That 15 seconds along with up to 5 minutes seems like an hour.
Have a wonderful weekend.
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Thanks for sharing that scary moment; meaningful in many ways. I’m so sorry about the way your dog passed and the painful way that you found pup.
2:35 I love this moment just because it's so genuine.
It really shows how much you love your father through your videos, and especially in this one. I’m so glad he was okay🌹
The way you mentioned him searching for you was incredibly touching ❤🥹
Dan, you are a beauty...love your family. Get that bed sorted before the missus gets home mate. Greetings again from Australia..
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I fucking have anxiety attacks all the time. It literally is raising a kid all over. God Bless you man.
Love you and your sweet heart full of love for your dad! Your family shows love without ceasing! God bless each one of you!🙏❤️
I can see and feel the genuine panic you must have had, through this video. Given it had only happened about 30 minutes beforehand, I can hear that you are still getting over the panic you felt. Thank God, he didn't wander too far and all was well. I think it's nice that you make your videos to share the reality of life with dementia in the family. Stay safe. Take care. Ericka. Ireland.
Im glad hes safe! It would scare the heck out of me too, if it happens to me. Take care, everyone 🙏
Watching your repartee with your pop has been truly priceless.....it's like we're a part of the family, so sweet and cozy. Thank you, Dan.
That’s incredibly scary! Glad he’s okay.
I’m exactly like Grandpa, I always make the bed first thing in the morning.
Oh my goodness, Bless you 🙏. My momma got really bad about sneaking off. The can be gone fast. Bless you. You do a wonderful job taking care of your dad ❤🙏
Awwee Dan! You spoke so true! Those are such scary moments, we resorted on putting the chain locks up top on the doors due to the escapes, they don't know any better but it sure makes are heart race. Your doing a great job.
Just think your dad wants to keep you on your toes till Danielle gets home, *wink* I wonder if he will remember her? I hope she enjoyed her time away.
Dan, this video is so heartwarming, it reminds me of when our family looked after Mom, while she had dementia. My family is like yours. Our thoughts and coping methods are like yours. We even had cats and dogs with us, too, on the journey. The feeding the dog scenario reminds me of the sense of humour my Dad had! Hey Thanks, Dan and Ed!
I am happy that Dr. Ed is doing well. Dan, you are so amazing.👏👏🏿👏🏻👏🏾👏🏼👏🏼💙
The story about your dog served as a reminder to me that I have a small 16-year-old senior dog and a pool in the backyard. He is hard of hearing and partially blind. He can swim (or could) but never liked going in the pool. He is not often outside alone but I have on occasion let him out to potty for several minutes. If he were to fall in I don’t know if he is strong enough to make it to the edge. I don’t think I’ll be doing that anymore. I’ve been following you and dad for some time and live in your neck of the woods. Glad he’s okay.
time to add some safety features...locks alarms etc...pool alarm,,maybe some fencing around the pool..many things at this point need to be done...house has a lot of clutter decor that could be removed..trip hazards...things you dont think about are hazards...
I was a caregiver for my mom and dad. ❤ It was a mighty journey.
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Pretty scary Dan, I know you guys are always with him however, you should place an AirTag on him so you could know where grandpa is if it happens again. RIP 🐶🙏🏼 love you guys!
Blessings ❤️💛💚 to Sr. ED & You as well Dan
Awww Pop!!! ❤❤ Keep one ear pod out! I know it's hard. Gotta watch Pop!! ❤❤❤
I was feeling your anxiety and fear. It brought tears to my eyes. May Jehovah bless you and your family and keep you all safe. So nice to know your father still cares about keeping his living space tidy. ❤
Oh, Dan , how awful😢. BUT , thankfully he's okay 😊😊😊😊
Thank you so so much for sharing your family’s most personal moments! Dan, you will never regret doing all that you have done for your Dad everyday! We are called to honor our parents. That’s an us decision- has nothing to do with weather they deserve it or not. God Bless You and Yours! ❤
Glad to hear your Pop was safe and just looking for you. I can imagine how scary that could be. Also, sorry to hear about a dog of yours that passed in such a tragic way. Dogs are family. It’s hard to lose them. Off topic, but how do you think my Packers will fare against Detroit Sunday? Take care man, and I notice you’ve lost some weight. Your face looks thinner. Keep it going man. Take care
Unfortunately I've had some scary situations too . I leaves you shaking and SUPER AWARE from then on , even more than you already are if you can believe it . Thank you Dad ( and family ) for taking such GREAT care of your Dad !!! Tfs , take care and God bless
Block that pool off.
Lord, thank you for watching over Ed 🙏🏾 glad Ed's safe and relaxing.
Aww bless Dan I'm so glad your dad was okay and you look so relieved at the end and happy with the small things in life that are precious to us. Take good care of you all, have a lovely day from Scotland ✌️🫶xx
The dog story got me, I would just fall apart (after jumping in too). Im so sorry. Im also glad your father is okay.
Wow, Dan. Thank God he is safe. Yours isn't an easy task. God bless you and your family for the love you have for your Dad. ❤
I’m very grateful you’re Dad was okay, I know that had to be scary for you Dan you are both good men ❤
Glad your Dad is good Dan...Yes that was a tough one...your heart in your mouth for fear of what might have been....Now you can rest easy knowing the situation is under control ❤
God bless 🙌 you Dan and your dad love from Jamaica 🇯🇲 ❤
I completely understand everything that you are going through because I do it myself day in and day out. My mother is 92 years old. She has dementia. She is always on my mind. She is my first priority to check on the minute my eyes wake up I check the cameras, I have one set up in her room. Throughout my day I need to go into her room quite frequently to make sure she has everything she needs. I keep her near me always, remind her that she is safe , and lunch or dinner is on the way . Pictures help, movies she loves is always on . I will be honest, I sometimes need family members help to get a little me time !! lol
Sorry, you were frightened. Dan! So, thankful that Grandpa Ed is okay!🙏🙌🥰🥰 1:47
These are great, and I can relate to these challenges/scares. I went through similar w my mom who had dementia end of life. She had a lot of episodes waking up from naps or sleep confused and maybe dreams felt real to her. Your dad always seems so respectful and considerate while you reassure him that he is where he should be and is safe. It’s all so real to them, regardless of how out of sorts it appears to us.
Dan, this is unfathomable!!! I can’t imagine, my heart aches you had that scare bro!
Hi Dan, you did amazing, truly. I too have had that scared to death feeling. You are really doing the best job that anyone could under the circumstances and you really give you Dad dignity.
Have you considered more ring cameras, bells on the doors, or locks that are harder to unlock? We had a lot tricks when I was a foster parent. I even had a motion detector at night that would go off if they headed for the kitchen.
Worrying never ends. God bless you Dan, for taking care of your dad with love.
"Mash" in the background got me😂....I'm so thankful dad's ok...I'm a caregiver to my 93 year old papa....ik how you feel.
I looked after my mum who had dementia and i know how you feel. It’s such a shock to the system because your brain gives you the worst case scenario. You and your wife and family do a great job. Respect to all caregivers. ❤ 🇬🇧
That so scary and panic immediately sets in until you find them. Thank God he was ok but I'm sure it took you quite awhile to calm down. My grandmother did the same thing to me but when I found her she had fallen and was laying on the kitchen floor. Caretaking is not and easy job and you take such good care of him every day.
Thank heavens u found dad safe !... Having had a mother-in-law who had Alzheimer's for 7 years I completely understand your terror thoughts Dan. ❤
Cover the pool, put bells on his shoe strings, put un reachable lock on front and back door and any gates you have. Or put alarms on all doors. Not a good idea for you to wear head phones, you won't be able to hear him or any alarms that you install.
Good advice
I'm glad your Dad was found safe and sound! How sweet of him to always feed the dogs. We all love Dr. Ed ❤❤❤
Ed is so lucky to have Dan Danielle and Mark and grandkids wishing you all every happiness
I "lost" our oldest child, who is now 35, as a toddler in our trailer house. I was calling his name but he's not talking yet, certainly not answering. I knew he couldn't open the door to outside but briefly looked out the door. I found him in the second bathroom under the vanity, which didn't have a door. I was so happy. Nothing in their could harm him and he was happy so I let him stay. I know it's 10 x worse with a silver alert. You just have no idea where they could have gone. Don't be too hard on Andrew😊
So scary 😱 I have been there Dan. I’m so thankful that all is well. 🙏
When dad goes one day, as much as you may think you're prepared for it you won't be as prepared as you may think. Me to my mom is in her 90's too. I tell myself it's fine but deep down I know I'm not prepared like I think I am. You're a wonderful caregiver Dan! Bless you my dear man!❤
😧 I'm so sorry Dan. I know how that heart sinking moment feels. I went through a few of those moments with my Dad. I'm so happy that all turned out okay.🙏❤❤❤
Take this to heart Dan. Have yourself a good old fashion cry. You'll feel better! 🥺❤️
So glad he's OK. And hope you're OK too. It's those scary moments while being a caregiver for a family member that defines what people really mean to us. ❤ that you're both being Dad's for each other with you as his caregiver. You and you're family are doing a wonderful job being there for him. Thank you for sharing your Dad with us.
That would be a great job for him,,feeding the animals,he’d love it 🥰
Those moments sound Traumatic. I Can’t imagine. Praying for your continued success in caring for your dad and may God give you added strength. 🙏🏻☮️
I'm glad he's ok
I can imagine the feeling. Things can turn drastically. Good to know that nothing bad happened to your Dad.. ❤ Been watching your videos even before and always been touched with how you are looking after him. Well done!
That would have scared me too! I'm glad it all turned out ok though!😊
Sorry you went through that scare with your Dad. Thank you for sharing all the different situations you go through with Dad.
Oh Dan! What a scare. Thank God everything turned out okay with Ed but I’m sure it was so frightening for you. I went through that with my mother and we had four generations in the house watching out for her. It is a 24/7 job. Now, get that bed cleaned up or Danielle will kill you 😮😅!
I can see your love for your Dad, and he loves you too. As you said, he was just looking fod you. Your smile as you talked about your Dad overfeeding the dog, there’s pride and love within your words. God always bless your whole family.
Thank God Ed was alright dan 🙏 😊😊😊😊❤❤
OH Dan,,,, This brings back so many memories of things happening with my Dad who had Alzheimers. After my Mom passed, we moved him into out home on 5 acres, with a small pond with fish and 2 geese. He was 80 at that time. (Hey I live in Elk Grove also!) anyway,,, so many of these episodes have happened with us also. Dad lived with us for almost 15 years, the last 5 wee the Alzheimers times. You are doing such a wonderful caregiving for your Dad. As sad as it can be,,, you will always have NO regrets and so thankful to be able to help your Pop. Stay strong, Thanks for sharing these times. You dad is such a sweet man! He loves and respects you so much. You and the family. ❤
Glad all is well. ❤❤❤
Sir, you don't get enough rest as a care giver I know I was one for my husband of 42 years ,but I would not change it it's called love ,I lost my husband in 2019 due to m.s.and heart failure just keep up the best you can and give them all the love and hugs you can, May The Lord keep Blessing
Sorry that happened but your right your mind always goes to the worst things...scary 😮❤
Maybe an apple airtag GPS tracker type of device mounted in a bracelet or necklace would be helpful as well as setting up several inside and outside video cameras that you can access from your phone. You and your family are awesome for taking care of your Dad!
God bless you Dan.
Bless your heart, Dan.♥️🙏🏼♥️ I can imagine your anxiety, being in a similar situation with my Mom. The anxiety is real.
The minute you showed your bed I felt like I was on The Price is Right with the TV in the background. Come on down? Except the excitement was focused towards the messy bed. Funny 😅. Grandpa's room looks superb! I'm so glad he was found safe. Always enjoy the daily videos, Ed is such a blessing to watch. Thank you for sharing!
I want to know what the kitchen looks like without Danielle to clean up after you for 4 days lololol