Y’all have to put your headphones in and listen in a quiet environment today. I don’t have my office, lights, or microphone. So this is the best I could do today!
You are so right. My ex husband gave me the silent treatment all the time. It is very damaging to the mind, spirit, and soul. I will never endure that again.
Sometimes the silent treatment is done for absolutely no reason. Its done to "get attention" or to make the other person "chase them". And its very feminine.
When they go silent means that they don't value you enough to listen and hear what you got on your mind. You not important enough to respond respectfully. They don't care about your feelings. You are not important enough in there life. Leave them silent people alone they don't care if they lose you.
Silent treatment has become the most used form of mental abuse/punishment. I've been given the silent treatment from just voicing my concerns. This is what the self proclaimed "good guy" does. They ghost for days, go entertain other women, then come back with hopes you don't bring the issue back up! They don't want accountability! They know what it means and it's intentional because they don't see no harm if they not physically abusing you.
Whats funny believe it or not I am a man that just left a relationship with a woman that was doing this. From when trying to communicate about an issue or simply voicing how I feel. She would get irritated then want to get off the phone or talk later.
Silent treatment is painful especially when you create a safe place for a man to communicate about whatever it is he’s going through or the issue at hand. I was dating a guy for like 6 months and he randomly just went silent.There was no issue between us but I asked just to see. He said nothing was wrong but he just needed time to figure things out. He didn’t call or text for a month. I went about my business and started dating. Not wasting my time or youth.Point Blank Periodtttt 💅🏾💅🏾
This type of mind game is terrible and it's so frustrating. Makes me not want to deal with men at all. But I'm the type of woman similar to your wife. I don't beg or plead or text paragraphs or call over and over, I go on about my life and my business while he stays in his feelings and when he pops back up acting like nothing happened and not address the issue, I cut IT. Right then and there. We are beyond the age of stonewalling and it's extremely unattractive.
If a man wants me to loose respect for him, just give me a silent treatment. I'm a full grown woman and I need a full grown man who can communicate his feelings in a respectful way regardless of emotions. A grown man giving a silent treatment is the same as a little boy holding his breath until he gets what he wants. I got zero seconds for that!!!
Before marriage, a woman’s silent treatment means she’s half way out the door or already gone and is for real time for you to put in work and SHOW & PROVE to change her mind. If she hasn’t left, you still have a chance but is slim.
That confused place is real! I got that silent treatment last week! He keeps playing with me! I done been on 2 dates since! I’m bout to leave that grown boy alone! I have options!
I was in it for a couple weeks then decided I’d just move on. Literally days later met a great man who has been showing up consistently every day since. Complete opposite. When you’re ready for a real man, you let go of the grown boys and a real man will step in- but it takes letting go of the boys first!!
Unless you have God's discernment and wisdom, it takes about 2-4 wks to notice a man's patterns, and that is when you walk away. It seems everyone has the formula for when you will meet someone special, but what works for me is letting go. Having zero desire to be with a single sole. Not looking forward to dates, text, calls, nothing. Just at peace with myself. That might not be the mindset for most women but I usually see action when I am not attached to an outcome.
The silent treatment it's a very deceptive and manipulive move to make on someone, the person who's giving the silent treatment think that they have the upper hand and they expect you to beg and plead for them to respond to them it's very cold and calculating, it's the sign of a narcissist. If someone gives you the silent treatment back away from them right away. Because that's a toxic person you're dealing with.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m not interested in any man that can’t lead. The sooner he shows this behavior and I see that there is how he handles things...I’m out I’m sorry Tony that people don’t have the emotional intelligence to support. I don’t care what you’re talking about I’m always grateful for the message. I’m so appreciative of how you love your wife. That provides hope for me one day. Much success to you and your brand...I’m a fan for life
I just went through this with my Tony. He gave me the silent treatment after a disagreement. I reached out & than gave it back to him. Just when I was letting it go HE reached out. I am let him KNOW that is NOT acceptable to ghost/ silent treatment. This was the 1st time in 5 months. He did this. Exactly & IT'S RUDE. It only takes a minute to text someone & tell them your busy & will get BACK to them.
If a man doesn't show respect in anyway. Remove your energy from him. He doesn't deserve it. Let him get his energy from a low vibration female. 💅🏾bye 👋🏾👋🏾
Another version of the silent treatment is when a man goes “missing”. I’m not talking about ghosting. I’m talking about when a man plays “hide and seek“ with a woman. It’s an invitation for you to chase him. That’d be a good video Tony: When a Man Plays Hide and Seek.
This is very immature, childish, unattractive. Then you’re called crazy or doing too much for trying to address what the issue is. I honestly do not have the time or emotional mental capacity for such games
I swear people have an issue with every dam thing. If you don’t agree with the man’s message, find someone else to follow. Change your heart. Tony telling the truth. I stopped hating and focused on me and now I’m blessed beyond words. Check your hearts posture.
Tony is awesome! I listen Every Single Day! I am a 54 Year old divorced woman who just wants a selfless, kind, compassionate Man. I can’t take another grown boy who refuses to make a lifelong commitment. I feel hopeless at times.
Why is it that Tony have to always come on behind his videos to explain why he's explained to us about grown boys cause they feel some type way about it🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ keep giving knowledge TG your'e reaching us and changing lives!
It's a lack of respect. They know their fellow men's expectations and don't think twice about meeting those bc that's his own test for being on level with the men. Now when it's a woman they ignore it bc they lack respect and see men as superior. Trash the whole dude and let him keep his weird loyalty to men. A real straight man favors women and women's opinion.
Tony you are absolutely right. You don't need human validation because God's got your back. I'm rooting for you and your wife. I pray you stay happily married. I need you to, it gives me so much hope. So keep up the good work. Love her to the best of your ability. She deserves every bit of it. Every woman wants it therefore every woman must learn to be happy for those with it. We want it replicated and multiplied, not divided. Stay humble and blessed. Much respect.
I went through this for almost 25 years. It is a mind game. I got tired of it. I put him out, divorced him and the rest is history 😁Who has time for that nonsense?
Tony, this is the best information.. I am married and my husband has habitually used the silent treatment to "Tame" me. I am currently experiencing the silent treatment because my husband is in his feelings... I have endured long enough, this has gone on for months and this will be our end. Not fair to me, he is unreasonable.
" TAKE THE SILENT TREATMENT TO ANOTHER LEVEL: " IT'S CALLED NO CONTACT"! " NO SEEING"! AND NO PHONE CALLS! NO TEXTIN! NO GOING OUT! ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AT ALL! SIMPLY SAID NO! " NOT PLAYING GAMES NO MORE"! A GROWN REAL MAN IS ON HIS WAY SOON!
Thank you for calling these boys out and also for sharing the knowledge. I spent time in the past relationships dealing with silent treatment, thinking it was my fault... now I KNOW BETTER.
Narcissistic behavior! Juvenile and unbecoming. Recently dated a 50+ year old man who does this. It’s so unattractive and exhausting. No thank you. ✌🏽 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Tony, you are like the brother I wish I had. You keep real and 💯 at the same time you make me laugh when you imitate our foolishness. You're showing us what we sound like and look like on certain topics. Thank you lil brother. 😁😊
TONY !!! THIS NEEDS TO GO VIRAL! YOU SPEAKING TRUTH 💯! I had two grown boys over 60 with the foolishness! BOI BYE! It's sad to get to this age and this is all thats available 🤦🏽♀️....BIG GROWN BOYS😡
Tony.. You become contagious to those of us who are meant to be here I could listen to you for hours because im lead to you from a spiritual perspective ✨ God bless you and those that get in where they fit.
Tony, NOT all people that CAN'T afford to join your blessed tribe but watch YOU are against YOU & a spectator. I went into a financial hole bring my brother back to health. So right now every penny counts GETTING back on my feet. Same as there are people that give MONEY to YOU that DON'T support YOU. Like God SAYS YOU WILL KNOW what is of God by the fruit they bare.
Hey Tony I love your long videos. I listen going to work, it’s good therapy for me. Keep it up some of us do appreciate it. Don’t stop u r getting through to ppl. Stay blessed🙋🏽♀️🙌🏾🙌🏾
My ex narc during our almost 1y distance relationship done it many times. Starts with 3days always was ill or has broken phone. I started wondering after 4th time but acting like I dont care. During pandemic he told me hes doing it (silent treatment) because hes hurt and was angry on me because he cannot see me. But last time he was gone for 3 weeks and texted me that he tried to commit suicide and was in jail. It was over for me. Another supply was the answer. I was scared he is in hospital or killed himself because I loved him. Now Im free person. It was a good lesson. Girls dont let them play on you and be strong!
Thank you Tony, I took your advice and approached my silent treatment man about his silence and how our communication sucks. After two days of silence my husband of 40 years he came to me, apologized for his silence and promised to do better. He has never done this before. Tony when I approached him, I didn't curse, yell or scream at him. What a difference.
Wow..Tony..my Son is 37..he married at 23..I advised him against it but he is striving as a husband and father and financially successful with his own buisness he started at 19 years old...the age I knew I had did all I could as a single parent for him..I put him out of the home it was tough love with a whole lot of critics but it is what made him the man he is today along with much much prayer and guidance 🙏 ✨ Thanks for this reminder today...
Lol every woman should pay attention when the silent treatment happens. Your Tee Shirt should be. He is having a moment. So that's why I'm on vacation.
I love the videos you produce. I'm learning so much. Don't change how you are doing them please . I'm not looking for a quick fix. I need the extra time you put into your videos. Because I've been doing the wrong things in relationships so long. That's it takes longer to penetrate to change my way of thinking. Was married over 21 years and now divorced 5yrs to a man that didn't love himself and tore everyone he was supposed to love down. Learning to love myself again thanks to your teachings
Love the hour long videos! Also to Tony yall doing the right thing by keeping yalls life private, people are so jealous and can't handle people's blessings. I'm private too and don't show my blessings, if they see it they see it and if they don't know about it then thats good too.
You are the most honest genuine person I have ever listened to on UA-cam You are the real deal and don't have anything to hide Thank you for helping me through some rough patches with my boyfriend I have purchased both your books Make it Work and A Woman's Influence and I'm enjoying both of them immensely right along with you videos thank you thank you thank you Tony Gaskins🙏🎈
Tony. I really appreciate you for being so humble and honest. I love the part when you said you would rebuttal to others knowing it was out of jealousy. It takes a real person to say this from the heart saying they were hating on other people. GOD has is still working on you. GOD bless you my brother.
I love listening to Tony while I’m at work , gets me through my shift and his messages always have something I can relate to dealing with grown boys in my past & the “followers VS real support message” & not being able to post your achievements or success because so much hate ...that was deep... Really appreciate you!!! 💯
So happy that your video was an HOUR today! I truly look forward to your videos daily because you’re such a wealth of knowledge and have helped me tremendously! You’re delivery of the powerful messages that we women like myself need to hear is everything! I was finally able to let go of an 11 year TOXIC relationship with the father of my 3 children! Words cannot express my gratitude 🙏🏼 You’re truly a God send! Thank you for sharing your gems 💎
This is why you are the best, Tony and this is why I love your talks!! Thank you for exposing these ‘men’ who have no business being in serious relationships! Thank you!!!
Tony you are truly a blessing.. The wisdom you offer is Priceless. Growing up I witnessed my mom using the silent treatment in her relationships, and initially mirrored that behaviour. Around early 20's I realized the silent treatment is a dysfunctional & toxic form of communication (always made matters worse). It's ashame fully grown men & women refuse to consider or take heed to info. that will contribute to their personal development and a healthier lifestyle_ blinded by their own dyfuntion. Peace & Blessings to you & your family
I appreciate you,no matter how long your videos. 30-40 mins videos do get more attention or encourage new views to get a feel. Keep up the great work Mr.Gaskins 💯♥️👑
But you are right a man that ain't a man will make his wife feel insecure and have a low self worth while that man, so called, flirts with other women making the woman they are with feel pain and insecure in their relationship.
Exactly, that's exactly what my husband did and then when confronted, he tried to justify and got mad and silent. Now, I'm queen of silent treatment in response so if we never spoke again, I'm good. Moving day will be here soon enough.
Yes and just because someone has been married a long time doesn't mean they are happy or that it's a good marriage. So having a faithful/happy relationship that's great. That's what's up♥️
I am Soo very prouda you Tony for not only sharing your faith, but for also speaking truth and truly making an impact to those who are seeking your experience and support!!! Thank you so very much for caring about your brothers and sisters. We are so very blessed!!!
I used to get the silent treatment back in the 80's so it ain't new. I'm so glad got this resolved in my life because I could not figure it out for decades. Thank You Tony
Silent treatment used regularly is a form of emotional abuse. I have been silent guided by Christ in a particular situation where it was the wise thing to do..in a few cases a matter of life or death. Silence is healthy if you are genuinely listening to someone while having a heart to heart conversation or in a learning environment 😌
Love this video TG, it felt like a 1/1 communication. The msg was a great mix especially the part about your jealousy and how u had to move on from that to get your full blessings. Pls continue to please your tribe with the small sneak peaks of your happiness and Gods Blessings. That includes Sheri when shes in proximity. Thank u so much for filling me with your caring energy. 🇯🇲🇨🇦✊🏾
Y’all have to put your headphones in and listen in a quiet environment today. I don’t have my office, lights, or microphone. So this is the best I could do today!
It's ok, my volume button works well. God bless you for coming through after the dental procedure yesterday. $Tonygaskins is his cash app
Thanks 😊 🙏
I use my Bluetooth speaker throughout my apartment all I need is your voice I appreciate you so much.
Tony Gaskins it’s just fine to me thank u
Tony. I am needing to know how can I ask my guy friend could we start doing counseling with you without offending him as a man?
@@elainecrutcher674 mymentor.life/tonygaskinsjr
A lot of men miss out on great desirable relationships because of lack of communication and silent treatment and failure to initiate
You are so right! I have lived it 🙌🏾
Chocolate Coated Life Me Too smh I been through it. And have nerves when we move on because they give silent treatment.
M Robin It’s very annoying and disrespectful Right to me
Yes
Yes
Silent treatment is emotional abuse.
Point blank period!
Yes it is
You are so right. My ex husband gave me the silent treatment all the time. It is very damaging to the mind, spirit, and soul. I will never endure that again.
One thousand percent emotional abuse.
Yes!!💯 silent treatment is horrible abuse!! Life is too short for games!!
It’s also disrespectful!!
Sometimes the silent treatment is done for absolutely no reason. Its done to "get attention" or to make the other person "chase them". And its very feminine.
VERY
say that again, feminine as hell. I felt like I was the man in the relationship.
!!!!!
“If you got to be giving a silent treatment every week, every month, you’re with the wrong person.” TG
Absolutely right... Rollercoaster
@@zamamaduma7424
That’s what Tony’s quote means. Invert, please. You both are with the wrong person.
I take the silent treatment to the next level. It's called NO CONTACT. Not playing that game with these grown boys anymore.
I know that’s right
Exactly. They can taste their own medicine
Eternity With Christ high value woman 👍
That's right. No grown women has time to play these games. It is emotional abuse on the low.
😂😂😂💕💕💕
They're upset because it's hitting home and the truth hurts! Period.
100
Yup!
Facts 💯
Say it girl they mad they are really mad
Nothing but the truth
When they go silent means that they don't value you enough to listen and hear what you got on your mind. You not important enough to respond respectfully. They don't care about your feelings. You are not important enough in there life. Leave them silent people alone they don't care if they lose you.
Silent treatment has become the most used form of mental abuse/punishment. I've been given the silent treatment from just voicing my concerns. This is what the self proclaimed "good guy" does. They ghost for days, go entertain other women, then come back with hopes you don't bring the issue back up! They don't want accountability! They know what it means and it's intentional because they don't see no harm if they not physically abusing you.
You are so on point!
EXACTLY!
Absolutely right
Whats funny believe it or not I am a man that just left a relationship with a woman that was doing this. From when trying to communicate about an issue or simply voicing how I feel. She would get irritated then want to get off the phone or talk later.
Boo bie it definitely goes both ways!
Silent treatment is painful especially when you create a safe place for a man to communicate about whatever it is he’s going through or the issue at hand. I was dating a guy for like 6 months and he randomly just went silent.There was no issue between us but I asked just to see. He said nothing was wrong but he just needed time to figure things out. He didn’t call or text for a month. I went about my business and started dating. Not wasting my time or youth.Point Blank Periodtttt 💅🏾💅🏾
This type of mind game is terrible and it's so frustrating. Makes me not want to deal with men at all. But I'm the type of woman similar to your wife. I don't beg or plead or text paragraphs or call over and over, I go on about my life and my business while he stays in his feelings and when he pops back up acting like nothing happened and not address the issue, I cut IT. Right then and there. We are beyond the age of stonewalling and it's extremely unattractive.
Real Facts!!!!
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@Jerseygirl8999 m Yep I just learned my lesson. I just had my "ah ha" moment earlier today. I text a whole paragraph and you ignore it 🙄.
Well Said!
Ew chile great minds think alike!
If a man wants me to loose respect for him, just give me a silent treatment. I'm a full grown woman and I need a full grown man who can communicate his feelings in a respectful way regardless of emotions. A grown man giving a silent treatment is the same as a little boy holding his breath until he gets what he wants. I got zero seconds for that!!!
As they say “No Answer Is An Answer”...
@Lauren S Great point!!💯
Silent treatment is very painful and emotional abuse .You can really destroy a person on the inside with that selfish act .
Facts
Before marriage, a woman’s silent treatment means she’s half way out the door or already gone and is for real time for you to put in work and SHOW & PROVE to change her mind. If she hasn’t left, you still have a chance but is slim.
That's the truth
Facts! We're usually have made up our minds. We're out!
YESSSS IT IS she's at her wits End
That confused place is real! I got that silent treatment last week! He keeps playing with me! I done been on 2 dates since! I’m bout to leave that grown boy alone! I have options!
When he comes back don’t ever reply him. He will go crazy and blow up ur phone but be silent forever
Getting the silent treatment at the moment but I met someone new and we had a great date last night. If first gut comes back ima be so unbothered.
I was in it for a couple weeks then decided I’d just move on. Literally days later met a great man who has been showing up consistently every day since. Complete opposite. When you’re ready for a real man, you let go of the grown boys and a real man will step in- but it takes letting go of the boys first!!
Unless you have God's discernment and wisdom, it takes about 2-4 wks to notice a man's patterns, and that is when you walk away. It seems everyone has the formula for when you will meet someone special, but what works for me is letting go. Having zero desire to be with a single sole. Not looking forward to dates, text, calls, nothing. Just at peace with myself. That might not be the mindset for most women but I usually see action when I am not attached to an outcome.
Good girl i 💘 that one.
Tony, silent treatment is considered by experts as a form of abuse in domestic violence cases.
That's is exactly what it is. Recognize it for what it is!!
Yep emotional and emotional abuse. I've been there and done that
@@PhileceaCerise Emotional abuse that's right! One of the red flags in domestic violence cases. A "insignificant" silent treatment for many.
The silent treatment it's a very deceptive and manipulive move to make on someone, the person who's giving the silent treatment think that they have the upper hand and they expect you to beg and plead for them to respond to them it's very cold and calculating, it's the sign of a narcissist. If someone gives you the silent treatment back away from them right away. Because that's a toxic person you're dealing with.
Exactly it's a sign of narcissistic personality.
Run away as soon as possible.
I couldn’t agree more. I’m not interested in any man that can’t lead. The sooner he shows this behavior and I see that there is how he handles things...I’m out I’m sorry Tony that people don’t have the emotional intelligence to support. I don’t care what you’re talking about I’m always grateful for the message. I’m so appreciative of how you love your wife. That provides hope for me one day. Much success to you and your brand...I’m a fan for life
Goddess Rulz shalom sis,HalleluYAH,for that
Right!!
I just went through this with my Tony. He gave me the silent treatment after a disagreement. I reached out & than gave it back to him. Just when I was letting it go HE reached out. I am let him KNOW that is NOT acceptable to ghost/ silent treatment. This was the 1st time in 5 months. He did this.
Exactly & IT'S RUDE. It only takes a minute to text someone & tell them your busy & will get BACK to them.
THANK YOU AND BLESSING TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ALWAYS ❤️.
If a man doesn't show respect in anyway. Remove your energy from him. He doesn't deserve it. Let him get his energy from a low vibration female. 💅🏾bye 👋🏾👋🏾
After about 3 missed texts a couple days apart, we a wrap. Life is too short for so so people. I aint got time.
When their mad or angry, they don't silent treatment when it comes to their paycheck $$ (i.e., employer, supervisor, business transactions)...🤔🤔
@Eternity With Christ Exactly!! So, that goes to show it's no mistake. It's all done on purpose, intentional...
Lol😂
This should be a thousand likes,so true
They're mad because you're exposing their true nature while living your truth, being obedient to God, & perfecting your craft.
I told this guy if he wanted to give me the silent treatment he better make it permanent because I don’t have time for his games.
U go girl👍
Using that if that ever happens 💛
I love that repy!
Gigi go ahead and use it so they know not to play games with you.
I know that's right.
Another version of the silent treatment is when a man goes “missing”. I’m not talking about ghosting. I’m talking about when a man plays “hide and seek“ with a woman. It’s an invitation for you to chase him. That’d be a good video Tony: When a Man Plays Hide and Seek.
This is very immature, childish, unattractive. Then you’re called crazy or doing too much for trying to address what the issue is. I honestly do not have the time or emotional mental capacity for such games
Elle E. Facts 💯
Exactly!!. Thank you!.
Yeah my head starts hurting, blood pressure act like it wants to go up.. BLOCKED.
I swear people have an issue with every dam thing. If you don’t agree with the man’s message, find someone else to follow. Change your heart. Tony telling the truth. I stopped hating and focused on me and now I’m blessed beyond words. Check your hearts posture.
Tony is awesome! I listen Every Single Day! I am a 54 Year old divorced woman who just wants a selfless, kind, compassionate Man. I can’t take another grown boy who refuses to make a lifelong commitment. I feel hopeless at times.
Why is it that Tony have to always come on behind his videos to explain why he's explained to us about grown boys cause they feel some type way about it🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ keep giving knowledge TG your'e reaching us and changing lives!
Honestlyyyyyy
YES!
Why is it that men can communicate with their guy friends but don’t know how to do it with their girlfriends or women they are seeing?
It's a lack of respect. They know their fellow men's expectations and don't think twice about meeting those bc that's his own test for being on level with the men. Now when it's a woman they ignore it bc they lack respect and see men as superior. Trash the whole dude and let him keep his weird loyalty to men. A real straight man favors women and women's opinion.
Eternity With Christ some do. True
With boys it’s not emotional chat. Maybe that’s why. Some can’t hack emotions.
@PrettyQueen Naturally Beautified 👀 That part.....
They know how to communicate, they choose not to with most women. Smh 👎
Silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse.
Its so immature and a deal breaking behavior in my book.
Tony you are absolutely right. You don't need human validation because God's got your back.
I'm rooting for you and your wife. I pray you stay happily married. I need you to, it gives me so much hope. So keep up the good work. Love her to the best of your ability. She deserves every bit of it. Every woman wants it therefore every woman must learn to be happy for those with it.
We want it replicated and multiplied, not divided.
Stay humble and blessed.
Much respect.
Happy friyaay luvs!!! Remember to let go and let God. God didn't give you a spirit of fear.
@@raspberrykisses7174 have a blessed weekend too! God bless you🙏🏽💕
Happy Friday boo! Have a wonderful weekend!
@@ericabostwick4033 you too luv🤗💕
I went through this for almost 25 years. It is a mind game. I got tired of it. I put him out, divorced him and the rest is history 😁Who has time for that nonsense?
A guy I was dating for 4/5 months has given me silent treatmwnt for 5 days now...thats closure enuf am.movin on
Tony, this is the best information.. I am married and my husband has habitually used the silent treatment to "Tame" me. I am currently experiencing the silent treatment because my husband is in his feelings... I have endured long enough, this has gone on for months and this will be our end. Not fair to me, he is unreasonable.
Right on time. Done dealing with a grown boy
Man smh it’s hard
@@Queengemi5 you can do it!!!
Caramel Kissez -COACH thank u i am trying Everyday
@@Queengemi5 I believe in you. If you need a life coach. I got you. Speak it into existence what you want.
Jealousy and envy are two dangerous combination.
Change the mindset / heart.
Life is too short!
Stay safe and healthy out here.
" TAKE THE SILENT TREATMENT TO ANOTHER LEVEL: " IT'S CALLED NO CONTACT"! " NO SEEING"! AND NO PHONE CALLS! NO TEXTIN! NO GOING OUT! ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AT ALL! SIMPLY SAID NO! " NOT PLAYING GAMES NO MORE"! A GROWN REAL MAN IS ON HIS WAY SOON!
Tony " the weed man ain't answering your calls " 😂😂😂😂 dead
Thank you for calling these boys out and also for sharing the knowledge. I spent time in the past relationships dealing with silent treatment, thinking it was my fault... now I KNOW BETTER.
I shared "A Man and His Silent Treatment " with my 2 cousins via email. Excellent video.
Absolutely immature & game playing!! My ex did this ALL the time. He was also super controlling & exc... BIG RED FLAGS, EVERY LAST ONE OF THEM!
Narcissistic behavior! Juvenile and unbecoming. Recently dated a 50+ year old man who does this. It’s so unattractive and exhausting. No thank you. ✌🏽 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
@@totf6359 amen to that!! I'm sorry you had to deal with this..
@@totf6359 I'm dealing with that now with a 50+ year old man and you said it well for me: it's exhausting!
@@dantoinettetaylor1663 it really is exhausting!!
My ex used to give me silent treatments to my face, in person and completely ignore me when he got upset. I couldn’t take it! Gat ta go.
Tony, you are like the brother I wish I had. You keep real and 💯 at the same time you make me laugh when you imitate our foolishness. You're showing us what we sound like and look like on certain topics. Thank you lil brother. 😁😊
TONY !!! THIS NEEDS TO GO VIRAL! YOU SPEAKING TRUTH 💯! I had two grown boys over 60 with the foolishness! BOI BYE! It's sad to get to this age and this is all thats available 🤦🏽♀️....BIG GROWN BOYS😡
Tony..
You become contagious to those of us who are meant to be here I could listen to you for hours because im lead to you from a spiritual perspective ✨
God bless you and those that get in where they fit.
Me too!
@@patricemurray6412
Amen 🙏
Same!
Tony, NOT all people that CAN'T afford to join your blessed tribe but watch YOU are against YOU & a spectator. I went into a financial hole bring my brother back to health. So right now every penny counts GETTING back on my feet. Same as there are people that give MONEY to YOU that DON'T support YOU. Like God SAYS YOU WILL KNOW what is of God by the fruit they bare.
Blessings and peace to you and yours 💕
@@reinaquisha9418 thank you sweetheart the same to you as well....
I’m guilty of the silent treatment but its me shutting down basically.... because I don’t want to fight.
38k viewers people are watching Tony and only 2.5k likes. People are something else. God bless you keep doing the work! Thank you ☺️
Hey Tony I love your long videos. I listen going to work, it’s good therapy for me. Keep it up some of us do appreciate it. Don’t stop u r getting through to ppl. Stay blessed🙋🏽♀️🙌🏾🙌🏾
God bless you
Right. Put it on the Bluetooth and let it play.
My ex narc during our almost 1y distance relationship done it many times. Starts with 3days always was ill or has broken phone. I started wondering after 4th time but acting like I dont care. During pandemic he told me hes doing it (silent treatment) because hes hurt and was angry on me because he cannot see me. But last time he was gone for 3 weeks and texted me that he tried to commit suicide and was in jail. It was over for me. Another supply was the answer. I was scared he is in hospital or killed himself because I loved him. Now Im free person. It was a good lesson. Girls dont let them play on you and be strong!
Reporting for class!
Thank you Tony, I took your advice and approached my silent treatment man about his silence and how our communication sucks. After two days of silence my husband of 40 years he came to me, apologized for his silence and promised to do better. He has never done this before. Tony when I approached him, I didn't curse, yell or scream at him. What a difference.
I think I have a grown man in the makings. Tony, please respond!!
"You seeking attention...You want her to be yo' Momma..."
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All of that!! And it don’t make no sense.
Wow..Tony..my Son is 37..he married at 23..I advised him against it but he is striving as a husband and father and financially successful with his own buisness he started at 19 years old...the age I knew I had did all I could as a single parent for him..I put him out of the home it was tough love with a whole lot of critics but it is what made him the man he is today
along with much much prayer and guidance 🙏 ✨
Thanks for this reminder today...
I agree, I cant deal with a man that don't communicate. I find it to be ridiculous.
You are rare Tony Gaskins.
It’s commendable!
Lol every woman should pay attention when the silent treatment happens. Your Tee Shirt should be. He is having a moment. So that's why I'm on vacation.
ophelia kimble 🖐 Hands down!!! The best comment thus far!!
🤣🤣🤣girl do the same with myn boyfriend.i have gym day and dont Care 💯💃
Selfless man out here mind games to do what they already doing being deceitful 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I love the videos you produce. I'm learning so much. Don't change how you are doing them please . I'm not looking for a quick fix. I need the extra time you put into your videos. Because I've been doing the wrong things in relationships so long. That's it takes longer to penetrate to change my way of thinking. Was married over 21 years and now divorced 5yrs to a man that didn't love himself and tore everyone he was supposed to love down. Learning to love myself again thanks to your teachings
God bless you sis 🙏🏾
Greetings from The Netherlands The Hague. I'm enjoying your topics!
Right on time
I miss The Netherlands!
Congratulations to you and Ms. Sheri for your recent home projects/improvements. Thanks again for your insight. You’re appreciated.
Love the hour long videos! Also to Tony yall doing the right thing by keeping yalls life private, people are so jealous and can't handle people's blessings. I'm private too and don't show my blessings, if they see it they see it and if they don't know about it then thats good too.
"...show them love before the sun goes down for this will glorify the Father." NIV
You are the most honest genuine person I have ever listened to on UA-cam
You are the real deal and don't have anything to hide
Thank you for helping me through some rough patches with my boyfriend
I have purchased both your books Make it Work and A Woman's Influence and I'm enjoying both of them immensely right along with you videos thank you thank you thank you Tony Gaskins🙏🎈
Tony. I really appreciate you for being so humble and honest. I love the part when you said you would rebuttal to others knowing it was out of jealousy. It takes a real person to say this from the heart saying they were hating on other people. GOD has is still working on you. GOD bless you my brother.
You better preach Tony! I thank God for you and the ministry of love that you shower over your family 💖
Love you Tony!.....Thankyou for all the great advice you give us ladies and caring for us!🤗
I love listening to Tony while I’m at work , gets me through my shift and his messages always have something I can relate to dealing with grown boys in my past & the “followers VS real support message” & not being able to post your achievements or success because so much hate ...that was deep... Really appreciate you!!! 💯
This guy is so transparent. No dumb vagueness that's hard to follow.
He lost an Empress who brought lite into life but he runs with the wolves! I need to keep my lite and away from Vampires.
Great Video empowering!
So happy that your video was an HOUR today! I truly look forward to your videos daily because you’re such a wealth of knowledge and have helped me tremendously! You’re delivery of the powerful messages that we women like myself need to hear is everything! I was finally able to let go of an 11 year TOXIC relationship with the father of my 3 children! Words cannot express my gratitude 🙏🏼 You’re truly a God send! Thank you for sharing your gems 💎
God Bless you and your calling..you are helping to heal broken hearts
This is why you are the best, Tony and this is why I love your talks!! Thank you for exposing these ‘men’ who have no business being in serious relationships! Thank you!!!
Take as long as you need.
Because it's always worth my time.
Stay blessed
Tony you are truly a blessing.. The wisdom you offer is Priceless. Growing up I witnessed my mom using the silent treatment in her relationships, and initially mirrored that behaviour. Around early 20's I realized the silent treatment is a dysfunctional & toxic form of communication (always made matters worse). It's ashame fully grown men & women refuse to consider or take heed to info. that will contribute to their personal development and a healthier lifestyle_ blinded by their own dyfuntion. Peace & Blessings to you & your family
OMG!! this is exactly what is happening in my life!!! Thank you
Really appreciate brothers like you stepping up to offer fatherly advice to us fatherless women. Blessings to you, Tony.
Great video Tony! Keep letting the game be known. We appreciate it! Signed a true SUPPORTER
Preach, preacherrr!! Be Blessed. Gaskins family. Be Blessed.
This was such a powerful video Tony! Thanks for this! Great content!
Ready for the word! 🙏🏽
Be Blessed, Blessed tribe.
Thank you for your time, Tony.
I appreciate you,no matter how long your videos. 30-40 mins videos do get more attention or encourage new views to get a feel. Keep up the great work Mr.Gaskins 💯♥️👑
But you are right a man that ain't a man will make his wife feel insecure and have a low self worth while that man, so called, flirts with other women making the woman they are with feel pain and insecure in their relationship.
Exactly, that's exactly what my husband did and then when confronted, he tried to justify and got mad and silent. Now, I'm queen of silent treatment in response so if we never spoke again, I'm good. Moving day will be here soon enough.
Yes and just because someone has been married a long time doesn't mean they are happy or that it's a good marriage. So having a faithful/happy relationship that's great. That's what's up♥️
As always, very appreciative of your knowledge and your insights on the mind of a grown boy. Be blessed.
I am Soo very prouda you Tony for not only sharing your faith, but for also speaking truth and truly making an impact to those who are seeking your experience and support!!!
Thank you so very much for caring about your brothers and sisters. We are so very blessed!!!
Your knowledge and insight holds my attention for the full video! God Bless🙏
Be Blessed I appreciate that you teaching this even without any lights or microphone I am all ears. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽 Thank you
I used to get the silent treatment back in the 80's so it ain't new. I'm so glad got this resolved in my life because I could not figure it out for decades. Thank You Tony
“Lynn-Ger-Ree” 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Silent treatment used regularly is a form of emotional abuse.
I have been silent guided by Christ in a particular situation where it was the wise thing to do..in a few cases a matter of life or death.
Silence is healthy if you are genuinely listening to someone while having a heart to heart conversation or in a learning environment 😌
Great birthday gift to me!!! 🎉🎊♌️ I’m ready for a word!
Happy birthday!!!
@@CaramelKissez Thank you!!!
Happy Birthday, Coach Chris🎉
May The Lord bless you on your special day and all days🕊
629 thank you so so much! It’s greatly appreciated 🥰
Martina thank you 😊
I love this message!
Yes thank you Tony for revealing so many golden nuggets my God bless you ! 😊
Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation - Thank you Mr. Tony Gaskins!!!! 🙏🏼
Your videos are always on point!
Love this video TG, it felt like a 1/1 communication. The msg was a great mix especially the part about your jealousy and how u had to move on from that to get your full blessings. Pls continue to please your tribe with the small sneak peaks of your happiness and Gods Blessings. That includes Sheri when shes in proximity. Thank u so much for filling me with your caring energy. 🇯🇲🇨🇦✊🏾