Depression and spiritual awakening -- two sides of one door | Lisa Miller | TEDxTeachersCollege

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  • @jonnyw82
    @jonnyw82 7 років тому +3644

    My experience thus far in life tells me this is a universal truth. Suffering, I believe, is the primary mechanism of spiritual growth.

    • @zaclee5221
      @zaclee5221 5 років тому +6

      Junto so yuck

    • @nennyferfer2385
      @nennyferfer2385 4 роки тому +30

      Truly my own opinion has concluded the same 😞

    • @nick23900
      @nick23900 4 роки тому +51

      Well my spirit is about to get huge!

    • @jfraatz1
      @jfraatz1 4 роки тому +9

      Exactly, which is why we need "spiritual growth" about as much as we need cancer growth.

    • @Kireniimran
      @Kireniimran 4 роки тому +19

      It's true! Growth never comes easy

  • @suzannah5141
    @suzannah5141 9 років тому +3396

    My depression has also been a portal to spiritual awakening!!! No suffering is wasted. I've come to realize that the presence was always there, waiting for me to come home.

    • @jimbeam4140
      @jimbeam4140 8 років тому +7

      +Suzannah Lathrop You sound like a kook. No wonder you're depressed.

    • @Keksdich
      @Keksdich 7 років тому +20

      Suzannah - same here :D

    • @olixz
      @olixz 7 років тому +106

      Suzannah wonderful way of putting it. I was looking for the light at the end of the tunnel but I didn't realise I was the light.

    • @mysticoversoul
      @mysticoversoul 7 років тому +15

      ------> Oliver McLeod
      Indeed you are.

    • @priyankatare1870
      @priyankatare1870 6 років тому +3

      Oliver McLeod hi can u explain me abt light u r talking so after death we hv to go to light or r we enlightened so we won’t get light

  • @yeshonestly4268
    @yeshonestly4268 3 роки тому +815

    Quote by Rumi: "The wound is the place where the light enters you".

  • @piscesqueen9517
    @piscesqueen9517 5 років тому +1733

    My depression awakened me to the presence of angels and ancestors. They were always there. We are never alone

    • @Nancy-pv7wk
      @Nancy-pv7wk 4 роки тому +5

      Same!

    • @kraftdinner34
      @kraftdinner34 4 роки тому +1

      Cant argue that. She does NOT deserve this platform.

    • @cynic150
      @cynic150 4 роки тому +15

      Being depressed, you are probably more susceptible to hallucinations and suggestion.

    • @maxjulien7353
      @maxjulien7353 4 роки тому +1

      I know that this is true but yet i dont want anymore

    • @suwesenoj3792
      @suwesenoj3792 4 роки тому

      True

  • @luckyleo88
    @luckyleo88 4 роки тому +1889

    Depression led me to the Dark Night of the Soul and now I'm here watching this video.
    Everyone who is suffering, it will be okay. Just hang in there. I promise it will be better.
    Good vibrations and blessings.

    • @montesa9136
      @montesa9136 3 роки тому +24

      LOL! I"ve been suffering now for over 63 years! How much longer do I have to wait?
      Do you guarantee your promises?

    • @Suckafreevibes
      @Suckafreevibes 3 роки тому +38

      @montesa shift your perspective and you will stop suffering...

    • @montesa9136
      @montesa9136 3 роки тому +8

      @@Suckafreevibes how do I do that?

    • @emmybob2972
      @emmybob2972 3 роки тому +26

      @@montesa9136 seek connection with nature. Seek the wonder and beauty in the cycle of the seasons. Xx

    • @bratbarbie444
      @bratbarbie444 3 роки тому +9

      i reallyyyyy needed to hear this

  • @bcvc3365
    @bcvc3365 5 років тому +631

    So glad a psychologist is saying this. Depression is a normal reaction to life and all it’s curve balls and challenges. Namaste 🙏

    • @billyjean2666
      @billyjean2666 2 роки тому +2

      a psychologist is the last person to be inspired from about this subject. She doesnt not know wtf she is talking about, a mythomaniac

    • @amandaadams1451
      @amandaadams1451 2 роки тому +1

      Namaste

    • @45tibi
      @45tibi Рік тому +1

      Namaste means hi. It’s not some word of great wisdom😅 You’re better off saying ‘bless you’

    • @blessed6477
      @blessed6477 Рік тому +6

      depression isn't a normal reaction, sadness is , if depression was normal people wouldn't suicide , it's like saying cancer is a normal reaction to life .

    • @blessed6477
      @blessed6477 Рік тому +4

      @@45tibi namaste is used both ways when saying goodbye , bye or hi , its like when you bow down after an performance to the audience it's an almost practice to start and end an act with namaste

  • @bobeden5027
    @bobeden5027 4 роки тому +1428

    My depression was a gift. Depression is not an illness but a wound of the soul.

    • @bratbarbie444
      @bratbarbie444 3 роки тому +40

      omgg you saying this is making me feel better :)

    • @yvasquez2449
      @yvasquez2449 3 роки тому +90

      I agree...is our soul telling us we are in the wrong path or we are disconnected from our true self

    • @ciaran6309
      @ciaran6309 3 роки тому +9

      What gift

    • @robertdabob8939
      @robertdabob8939 3 роки тому +34

      @@ciaran6309 if you don't understand gift then maybe guide is a better word. It's showing you you're disconnected from parts of yourself, and pushing you get it touch with yourself, your emotions, and that we have an innate instinctual drive toward wholeness.
      If you feel lost consider looking in to Carl Jung and depth psychology so that you might understand the disconnected parts of yourself, and also, kundalini yoga and the energies at play in those practices so that you might directly experience those disconnected parts of yourself.

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      @adamsroberto3109 3 роки тому

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  • @leonardascorpius5304
    @leonardascorpius5304 5 років тому +863

    Essentially, when you stop trying so damn hard, think and work too much at it, and instead, just let it go, let it flow with NO ego or expectations, that's when the Universe steps in and helps you along your Path. Still may not be the exact outcome you wished for, but more than likely, even better.

    • @carlzingale220
      @carlzingale220 3 роки тому +49

      “More than likely even better.” This is so true. I’ve noticed when our egos take control we get disappointed. Versus our soul. Our soul always leads us to what’s best for us and most importantly the most influential. 💯❤️

    • @mommajeanne
      @mommajeanne 2 роки тому +5

      Thank you

    • @sacred_alchemy
      @sacred_alchemy 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤

    • @ariels.3378
      @ariels.3378 Рік тому +15

      Perfectionism will destroy you from the inside and simultaneously make you feel like you're doing something good for yourself. At this point I'd rather fail

    • @SRtruth
      @SRtruth Рік тому +2

      @@ariels.3378 I hear u there

  • @meherbabaisgodinhumanform3090
    @meherbabaisgodinhumanform3090 3 роки тому +369

    "Terrible suffering is a sign of happiness and peace to come". Meher Baba

    • @beaucephus6295
      @beaucephus6295 3 роки тому +2

      So when happiness and peace finally comes does the spiritual path stop?

    • @yeshonestly4268
      @yeshonestly4268 3 роки тому +2

      True, just like rain after intense heat.

    • @absolutelyamboona8862
      @absolutelyamboona8862 3 роки тому +2

      @@beaucephus6295 nope

    • @janetownley
      @janetownley Місяць тому +1

      @@beaucephus6295My understanding is that it is usually gradual, and the path goes higher up the mountain

  • @ammu9295
    @ammu9295 3 роки тому +254

    I have been battling depression since last 7 years.. I literally gave up on everything.. lost relationships , friend career studies everything.. I thought it won't end ever.. now suddenly when I look back I realize that it all happened for a reason .. suddenly I'm looking for spiritual videos doing meditations .. and realise it was spiritual awakening process.. what I've been looking outside is inside me.. still in the process of spiritual awakening 🙏 don't give up guys .. ❤️

    • @IAMinfiniteandfree.
      @IAMinfiniteandfree. Рік тому +20

      WOW, I recognise this so much. It is a global awakening. Many people around the world are experiencing very similar dark nights of the soul, for almost 10 years already, some call it spiritual "awakenings " but severe depression seems to be the cocoon time before the "butterfly " time can begin. A blessing in diguise, but my goodness, why does it need to be so painful and hard?! It seems to be an initiation, to make us humble, less influence off our ego and in the end the feeling of oneness, love and respect for life and others, innerstanding yourself and why we are here, selflove etc.
      Keep going beautiful, you are doing great. Much love from me to you, greetings from the Netherlands ❤️

    • @kimporty6575
      @kimporty6575 Рік тому +3

      Oh mine has been this long too. Thanks for reminding me to go inwards again.

    • @lo_ttie
      @lo_ttie Рік тому +1

      ​@@IAMinfiniteandfree. i love this. it was so peaceful to read it.

    • @IAMinfiniteandfree.
      @IAMinfiniteandfree. Рік тому +3

      @@lo_ttie I am so glad my words helped you to feel peaceful, even if it just was for a little while. That peaceful feeling is our birthright and should be our normal state. Keep that feeling alive inside of you. Bless you ❤️🙏

    • @tygerharrison2647
      @tygerharrison2647 Рік тому

      How’s that going for you?

  • @sherrimandel6983
    @sherrimandel6983 Рік тому +329

    Psychedelics saved me from years of uncontrollable depression, anxiety and illicit pill addiction.imagine carrving heavy chains for over a decade and then all of a sudden that burden is gone.Believe it or not in a couple years they'll be all over for treatment of mental health related issues

    • @tessymitch
      @tessymitch Рік тому +4

      I made researches and found out that shrooms are very helpful , it has really helped to reduce anxiety and depression and some other mental health issues..i would love to try magic mushrooms but they are hard to source!

    • @hazeemakhan5301
      @hazeemakhan5301 Рік тому +2

      Please does anyone know where I can get them? I put so much on my plate and it really affects my stress and anxiety level .I would love to try to shrooms.

    • @ChloeNguyen-gs5hz
      @ChloeNguyen-gs5hz Рік тому +2

      I live in Michigan….suffering for awhile now but didnt realize how serious I may have it until recently - probably bc of @self medicating” with alcohol

    • @thomasmaxime2340
      @thomasmaxime2340 Рік тому

      Saw some reviews about Myco_louiis checked him out and I must recommend he is good at what he does

    • @thomasmaxime2340
      @thomasmaxime2340 Рік тому

      He's on Insta*

  • @nicoledavis9550
    @nicoledavis9550 8 років тому +643

    4 years ago I woke up on Mothers day and immediately thought of my beautiful children, who I miss terribly and began to cry. Just then I heard a duck right outside my window and when I looked I saw her and her 8 little ducklings following behind. I've always thought of them as my Mother's Day gift from the Universe. After hearing your story about a Mother Duck, I'm sure of that now.

    • @ms.lisamarie2245
      @ms.lisamarie2245 7 років тому +61

      Animals,insects and nature signs are often used as messengers,confirmations and answers!

    • @leighknight2476
      @leighknight2476 7 років тому +9

      Ms. Lisa Marie, YES!! 🦅🐢🦃🦋🦊

    • @Thortchello
      @Thortchello 6 років тому +6

      wow!!!!! not a coincidence!!!!

    • @terri4353
      @terri4353 5 років тому +3

      Nicole Davis was it that your children are just not near you because they’ve grown and live other places now?

    • @frost1183
      @frost1183 5 років тому

      Your profile picture made me start crying I haven’t cried in a very long time

  • @kyracurry1910
    @kyracurry1910 3 роки тому +155

    A lifetime of trauma, tragedy, depression, hurt and pain led me to my awakening. Most of my life I thought God just didn’t like me and that’s why my life was so sad. It was just preparing me for the greatest gift of all, Spiritual Awakening. Hang in there my dear friends, it will happen. Sending love & light to you all. 💜

  • @allisonblaustein7898
    @allisonblaustein7898 2 роки тому +151

    So glad to see Psychologist and other western / educated healers sharing about & incorporating Spiritual practices as valid modalities of healing

    • @vela-rn2jz
      @vela-rn2jz 2 роки тому +7

      Indeed! 60% of psychologists do not believe in GOD… once we turn that percentage in the other direction.. we will see a shift in consciousness.

    • @tammyfitzgerald5336
      @tammyfitzgerald5336 Рік тому

      Phycologist lost half of them mental patients themselves 😂🎉😂🎉

  • @nikstar1313
    @nikstar1313 5 років тому +769

    Been a very high achieving and positive person all of my life however have been suffering from depression as long as I can remember. A break up 2 months ago coupled with a hellish level of trauma attachment and depression as a result of my life situation put me on the path to spiritual enlightenment.. I read the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle which changed everything...it took me to be 43 to start to awaken.. Sending everyone lots of positive vibes from Australia! 🇦🇺☀️🌈

    • @soulmateseverywhere6309
      @soulmateseverywhere6309 5 років тому +16

      May you try his other book a new earth. Its very nice too :)

    • @fayevibar7560
      @fayevibar7560 5 років тому +13

      That book turned my life around too. I still get cycles of depression every now and then but I feel more in control because of that book.

    • @mariamalhotra8228
      @mariamalhotra8228 4 роки тому +11

      The 2 best books ever

    • @elissarenae5616
      @elissarenae5616 4 роки тому +15

      This comment resonates with me so much. So depressed for about 9 years. Had The Power of Now on my bookshelf for months. I wish I’d read it so much sooner. Literally changed my outlook on life overnight. Was a prisoner of fear, now full of faith 🙏🏼. Almost done with A New Earth now. Everyone should read these IMO. The lessons from The Power of Now are what’s enabling me to taper off my anxiety meds. Truly incredible ❤️

    • @valerievick9343
      @valerievick9343 4 роки тому +8

      @@elissarenae5616 I'd love to be free of the anxiety. Will try reading The Power of Now.

  • @realtalkswitharedhead
    @realtalkswitharedhead 8 років тому +1125

    "The spiritually engaged brain vibrates at the frequency of the Earths crust."
    whhhew so good.

    • @MrPositive99
      @MrPositive99 8 років тому +51

      my brain feels like the earth's crust.

    • @daephx
      @daephx 7 років тому +4

      what? leave, pseudoscientific Wretch

    • @tansey123
      @tansey123 7 років тому +60

      demonphoenix42 i bet the statement isn't completely untrue. careful what you call bullshit. even mainstream science recognizes everything is fundamentally connected.

    • @XaticBeats
      @XaticBeats 7 років тому +8

      get out of here. There is no place for your negativity here.

    • @daephx
      @daephx 7 років тому +6

      @XaticBeatssure
      stay in this echo chamber where people only reinforce your beliefs rather then challenge them.
      @W Tansey
      its skepticism, but look more into what you just said because its extremely vague "even mainstream science recognizes everything is fundamentally connected" in what way are they connected, this is most likely due to us as humans being the only way the universe knows itself. we are born from the materials of stars. that does not equate to spiritualism let alone "Vibrations" having a negative or positive effect in terms of cognitive processes (this "good vibes" thing is a form of social mirroring and practice in empathy to not desire to harsh another persons mood). its just new age bullshit that pisses me off and makes claims with only a rudimentary understanding of the fundamentals you claim to tackle. there is evidence that dictates logical reasoning behind why we were born from stars. but there is no evidence that leads to logical conclusion regarding the existence of a soul.

  • @LaneySweet
    @LaneySweet 3 роки тому +521

    My husband was shot and killed by a police officer almost five years ago. I’m a few weeks away from the 5 year anniversary and struggling pretty hard with depression over the last month. It comes in waves. Anyways- the loss of him absolutely lead to my spiritual awakening. I’ve been doing intense healing work for years with much progress. The immense suffering laid my soul bare and through that, I learned to recognize and heal my shadows and trauma. I’m obviously still learning and it’s that information that keeps me going on low days like today. I do know it’s all divine even when I don’t understand it.

    • @SparkingLife111
      @SparkingLife111 3 роки тому +25

      Sorry for your loss. He must be so incredibly proud of you for all your healing. Watching from above. Thats the greatest gift u can give him and yourself.
      Sending love to your heart and soul. May u get through it all with ease and grace

    • @yvasquez2449
      @yvasquez2449 3 роки тому +10

      I am very sorry to hear about your husband. Same here...lost my husband to illness 4 years ago and since then I feel like I have been waking up from a long dream.... before he passed away I feel like I was sleep walking through my life, unaware of myself or who I am. It has been painful and difficult but I feel very strongly this is a one way journey.

    • @wordsleuth992
      @wordsleuth992 3 роки тому +4

      Where did you get help to start to heal?

    • @onisolb
      @onisolb 3 роки тому +5

      Sorry for your loss but if you believe in spirituality you'll know he's not gone. He's not far from your reach. As everything else in this world, he's within you.

    • @reflectionOfLyf
      @reflectionOfLyf 3 роки тому +2

      We are listening you. Keep going. Be strong!! Also, belive that in this world there are people who doesn't know you but care about you.

  • @rareperson7186
    @rareperson7186 7 років тому +421

    she is very good at speech, the technique of pausing in between - to get the deeper meaning - behind what she speaks about. I've never seen anyone do it so well actually, something to learn frm.

  • @lindab9274
    @lindab9274 3 роки тому +100

    That’s why many African Americans are so spiritual. They had to overcome the loss of being taken from the motherland of humanity and go through a lot of suffering until even today. Those people are so humanly evolved for that.

  • @bluewings8789
    @bluewings8789 4 роки тому +165

    Depression can be paralyzing. But powerful transformation happens when we begin to face difficult emotions and listen to what they have to teach us. They are messengers that let you know when you are out of alignment. Transcending them is the key.

  • @robsailor8891
    @robsailor8891 7 років тому +75

    She made me cry. Depression is call to a spiritual path. Yes.

  • @katslondon1
    @katslondon1 4 роки тому +88

    when I was deeply depressed and desperately lonely, one night during my sleep a hand placed a sheet of paper right in front of my eyes written on it were the words 'you are not alone, I communicate with you' Another time just before major surgery I was dozing on my sofa full of anxiety and was woken by the distinct feeling of someone kissing my forehead. These signs are always so uplifting.

    • @suavehit
      @suavehit 3 роки тому +9

      I believe that is God at work, the God of love. Reaching out when we most need Him, and also there if we truly seek Him. May God continue to bless you.

    • @miltonantonio1740
      @miltonantonio1740 3 роки тому

      Hello how are you doing?

    • @valerieoconnor4462
      @valerieoconnor4462 Рік тому

      Oh wow ❤

  • @infiniterippleshypnosismed2817
    @infiniterippleshypnosismed2817 5 років тому +179

    This had me absolutely bawling my eyes out! Starting from the little boy on the documentary 😭 Depression was absolutely my portal into spirituality, I started to really wake up after a long period of being suicidal, being afraid to pick up a knife when putting away dishes or to drive in case I might do something that a small part of me that was still holding on didn't want to do! My life has shifted exponentially over the past 5 or so years in ways I never would have imagined possible back then. Now I have a beautiful boy and another baby on the way with an amazing partner, and I use my experiences to follow my passion of helping people find their way through depression and anxiety. 💖
    Thank you for this beautifully delivered speech 🙏

    • @5tendo
      @5tendo 2 роки тому

      Hi how did you get to this stage. What steps did you take
      I'm quite desperate

    • @infiniterippleshypnosismed2817
      @infiniterippleshypnosismed2817 2 роки тому +9

      @@5tendo For me I was in a toxic relationship that needed to end but I was giving chances over and over while being verbally and emotionally abused. So when I finally got out and it became more clear to me how wrong the situation was, I got angry. Anger isn't usually great but it is a step up from depression and numbness. It pushed me. But the anger isn't always necessary either. The biggest things for me were:
      1. Reading(/listening to audiobooks) material around self development, especially mindfulness based and CBT. The actual book that was the original catalyst for me was "A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle. But there are many people out there who are incredible. I am actually doing a challenge right now by Tony Robbins that is free! It started on the 25th but when you join you can join the Facebook group and watch the replays of the days you've missed and will DEFINITELY still get a lot out of it!!! I started today and that's what I'm doing and it is incredible! Along with the reading was just researching to find as much info as I could on the internet and I started to find I had a drive towards learning more the more I realized how potent some of the information out there was, that I never realized was there in the first place.
      2. Listening to positive meditations and hypnosis as I fell asleep (reprogramming my subconscious mind without any effort besides pressing play! 👍) I actually create videos now on my channel that I want to use and share them with others, so feel free to check those out but I also have loved listening to UA-cam meditation or hypnosis videos by Michael sealey, Brian Scott, and Jason Stephenson, those are probably 3 of the people I listen to most frequently.
      3. Finding a purpose bigger than myself. When I learned certain things about how our brains work and what was really going on to make me feel this way and that there was a plethora of info out there to help me understand myself AND heal, I was shocked that I never knew about it, and that I almost ended my life without knowing what could have potentially brought me out of it at that stage. I started to look around more because I wasn't so consumed by my own grief and misery anymore and I noticed how many people didn't know this stuff, and how much it could help them too! And I thought especially of kids and if I had learned it all when I was a kid it could have completely turned the trajectory of my life around. So I felt this fire light in me to share what I had learned with other people so they could have the chances to turn themselves around if they were in a similar place, or even just minor suffering! I have so much information on the details of this but this is already going to be a long enough comment so I won't flood too much on here lol. But I can definitely elaborate! I am actually working on a series of videos teaching some of what I've learned but I don't have it ready yet.
      One of the biggest shifts for me though was the realization:
      If you think a thought or do something and it feels bad in your body, it is NOT you. You do not have to make negative thoughts or actions that happened through you, MEAN something about WHO YOU ARE! Intrusive thoughts are thoughts that spontaneously jump into your brain and usually are triggered by something you saw on TV or heard someone say at some point throughout your life. Not necessarily something you would agree with according to your values. I feel like there are so many people walking around believing that they are secretly bad inside and afraid to let anyone too close because they "might find out and abandon me".
      You are perfect. Exactly as you are. Depression is not who you are. Negative thoughts are not who you are. Negative actions are not who you are. Depression comes from the fire of passion not being stoked, and nothing stokes it more than passion for something where you are having a positive impact on others.
      That being said I 1000% recognize that helping others when you're depressed might feel like you're struggling to stay afloat and invite a bunch of other people to pile on top of you. It definitely doesn't have to be a first step. But even a small act of kindness can be enough to create a 1% change in your overall mood. And if you even just maintain one 1% change, think of an airplane in flight. If it maintains a course that is 1% different over a long flight, it is going to end up in a completely different place! And if you keep adding more 1% changes on there with more random acts of kindness or anything that just feels good in a really pure kind of way that service to others does, then think of the impact of that!
      Now also when I say maintaining the 1% shift I don't mean not course-correcting back to the original path at all, because you WILL! Autopilot will pull you back and you will have to keep switching to manual override by doing more small manageable things that help you feel that 1% better. It is simply how our brains are wired. But the cool thing is, eventually you will train your autopilot to course correct back to your NEW flight path without the effort of manual override! Our brains are so amazing and there are so many ways to hack and program them just like a computer!
      I seriously recommend checking out any of Tony Robbins interviews, especially recent ones with Lewis Howes, and also Andrew Huberman (he's one of my new favorite people to listen to he blows my mind every time I hear him talk), and Wim Hof!!! All three of those people have amazing interviews by Lewis Howes! But even better would be Tony Robbins Breakthrough Challenge 2022. If you google those words you will find how to sign up for it 😄
      This is super loaded lol but I am happy to go more into things if you (or anyone reading this) has any questions!🙏🏼💖💖💖💖

    • @infiniterippleshypnosismed2817
      @infiniterippleshypnosismed2817 2 роки тому +8

      @@5tendo Also, I believe it was Jim Carrey who said this (but he might have gotten it from someone else so forgive me if I am wrong)
      When you feel depressed, your body is asking for deep-rest.
      But depending on circumstances it may be from burnout where you legitimately need to show down and relax. But if it is chronic depression I feel like it is more deep rest from the mental baggage, like maybe from berating yourself about things you have said/ done/ not done/ thought etc, or "shoulding" on yourself and so on.
      A basic practice to start right away is to feel your breath as often as you are able, whenever you think of it, even if you have to set alarms for reminders throughout the day, and just notice the sensations as it enters your body (you can choose a specific point or follow it all the way through as it goes in and out), and even focus on making the next breath even more enjoyable, thinking about what type of breath would feel best next, and noticing how it feels when you try it.
      This is a foundational Buddhist practice and it is incredibly popular as it is simple yet powerful. I actually just recently uploaded a guided meditation using this technique on my channel as well but there are lots out there I'm sure too 😊
      And just remember to be so so gentle with yourself. There is nothing "wrong" with you. This feeling will not last forever. Your life CAN be better than you ever imagined it.
      Sending you so much love 😊💖🙏🏼

    • @ashleyriosrizo
      @ashleyriosrizo 2 роки тому +1

      Did you feel like you couldn't recognize yourself when the depression started?

    • @infiniterippleshypnosismed2817
      @infiniterippleshypnosismed2817 2 роки тому +1

      @@ashleyriosrizo yes, when it worsened.
      Realistically I have been in some level of depression on and off since I was a child. But it does feel like there are very different people inside of me at times. Like at some times my ego is in control and is stuck in fear (fight/flight/survival mode) or depression and feeling hopeless about everything and can only see negative, and other times my true deeper self is in control and I feel empowered and joyful and see possibility and positive angles more easily.
      Cold showers have been a godsend, and I find exercise and meditation to be necessities to keep me balanced. Along with what I have written in my previous comments and replies on this thread. 😊
      But yes when it worsened I was also in an abusive relationship (as mentioned above) and I found myself drinking quite a bit to be able to tolerate the relationship, and he was always trying to make me more "girly" so I did change the way I dressed a fair bit as well. So those aspects were definitely factors but I did notice myself slipping into the more un-empowered and "negative" aspects of myself and losing sight of any dreams and hopes I previously held for the future, as I believed they were silly and impossible for me. I still definitely have times where I think "what was I thinking? Who do I think I am to try something like this? Someone like ME could never do this!" But those are old limiting beliefs that come up when I'm pushing up against an edge I haven't fully crossed before, so I know how to recognize them more easily and am better at not being held back by them for as long, giving myself some time to be afraid if I need to, regrouping and getting back to it. 😊
      And everything I said in my previous comments applies to you as well! You are perfect. Exactly as you are!!! 😊🥰💖 and there is good waiting in your future for you, if you are open to clearing away the blocks that are keeping it at a distance. 💖

  • @BlackFlagHeathen
    @BlackFlagHeathen 2 роки тому +40

    I am also on a spiritual journey. I’m currently practicing sewing on random pieces of cloth, because I want to be able to sew patches onto my backpack and jackets, and it’s a relaxing and satisfying hobby for me, while listening to this.
    I sewed a heart pattern without even trying or noticing until I was done. Synchronicities are real. ❤️

  • @rebecca9949
    @rebecca9949 3 роки тому +102

    I'm 6 years late to this video but it found me at the exact point in time when it most resonates with me. I went through a heavy depression this year but it was also the most transformative year of my life and I will be forever grateful for it.

    • @Borboleta1212
      @Borboleta1212 2 роки тому +5

      Oh my gosh do I relate to this comment! It’s been one of the most emotional turbulent years of my life, but unlike the time before, this time I knew the cause: I was living extremely inauthentically.
      I now feel more myself than ever 💓 I’m still feeling strong emotions but the past week since I finally stopped trying to force things to happen and surrendered to the Universe, I feel somehow calmer.
      I appreciated this talk a lot 💚💚

    • @salvatoregior9997
      @salvatoregior9997 2 роки тому +1

      I heard this talk when it first came out but It’s finally making sense to me now that I feel isolated and alone there seems to be a time for everything and once we take the focus off ourselves we are left with the truth that life is not about us and our pursuit of happiness as Hollywood would like us to believe, the truth is something we are constantly searching for, I say this because I had everything and I lost everything not once not twice but multiple times as thought a deep voice is trying to tell me “let it all go” and when you do you feel this sense of peace

  • @TheRattlebit
    @TheRattlebit Рік тому +36

    This is the video of the day for me. Very inspiring. Just wanted to add from myself, that depression comes with dissatisfactions and illusional expectations, and it takes away the gratitude from us. Like a thief. Until we completely forget how to be grateful. And so the first step out of it is to realise that and start counting your blessings and be greatful for those.

    • @xiaonicong8037
      @xiaonicong8037 Рік тому +6

      Just want to say, it’s a really brilliant insight, depression makes us focus on what we’re lacking which you term them as dissatisfaction and illusional expectations and gratitude helps us to cherish what is in the present moment, and they are real for us. It’s easy to say but it takes time to make the shift, it’s a process

    • @melsinTN
      @melsinTN Рік тому +2

      I discovered this very thing this year. When I am depressed, or feel the darkness coming down, I focus on mentally listing all that I'm grateful for... when you live in a state of gratefulness, it is very difficult for the darkness to swallow you.

    • @Valeriact9nf
      @Valeriact9nf Місяць тому

      Thank you for this comment and the responses. I've created the list to help me remember this when light has shadowed. Thank you!

  • @Tabaitha_Elle
    @Tabaitha_Elle 9 років тому +323

    Wow this was just the most beautiful spiritual awakening story I've heard to date. I favored it and I will listen to it again & again. I feel a new door is opening for me!

  • @summerlopez4176
    @summerlopez4176 7 років тому +83

    I’ve watched a ton of TED talks on depression looking for help and understanding of depression. I’ve never felt more whole after a talk the way I have after this talk. Thank You so much for this video it has shifted a part of my heart.

  • @justagirl1798
    @justagirl1798 2 роки тому +26

    I've been struggling with depression for so long with no way out which just seems to be getting worse until a few weeks ago where I finally connected to my spiritually calling/path and now there is so much hope. I can never be enough grateful for the universe for sending me all these signs and finally finding my place in the world.

    • @ozi1578
      @ozi1578 Рік тому

      Hi how are you doing now?

  • @vcooner
    @vcooner 5 років тому +79

    Currently going through dark night of soul, I m 26 now and years of depression has paved the way for my spiritual awakening!! Luved the way u explained it mam!!

    • @staciissmith
      @staciissmith 3 роки тому

      28 in a few days and I was diagnosed in 2017..I feel you. Sending a big hug ❤️

    • @knp4356
      @knp4356 2 роки тому

      Stay strong. You are young and so get yourself after a big purpose and change the world

  • @elizabeths7700
    @elizabeths7700 8 років тому +1223

    Some of the comments here are stupendously lacking in compassion, empathy and intricate understanding about what it means to be a multi-faceted individual. No wonder the world is in the pitiful state that it is in.
    Walk a mile in the shoes of someone who has been hospitalised with clinical depression. Only then will some of you truly understand what it means to live life in a soulless, black abyss.
    Humans are not one dimensional. There are many facets to people including the spiritual. A facet that unfortunately is being ignored more and more.
    I acknowledge other peoples' opinions. Opinions that are based on their truth through lived experience. Having said that, failing to see the personal integrity with which this woman undeniably speaks - and the message that she is sharing - will continue to render some respondents one dimensional.
    I loved this talk, but that's me. Others clearly didn't. That's them. Peace ✌

    • @alleyj826
      @alleyj826 8 років тому +104

      +Elizabeth S once i went through my spiritual awakening I instinctively stopped reading UA-cam comments. They are always filled with such closed mindedness, and hatred. How anyone can watch inspiring videos and hear such beautiful words and respond with hate, is beyond me

    • @elizabeths7700
      @elizabeths7700 8 років тому +41

      alexandra s I agree. Reading negative comments sucks the pleasure out of watching a video that can be potentially life-changing. These days I'm very selective in what I read. It really is a shame that so many people continue to be so closed-minded.

    • @nyariarnold504
      @nyariarnold504 8 років тому +13

      +Elizabeth S Agree Elizabeth, it was a very special video for those in need. XX

    • @MsAngelicdemoness
      @MsAngelicdemoness 8 років тому +5

      +Elizabeth S Well said, Elizabeth

    • @disiluzhund
      @disiluzhund 8 років тому +6

      I agree wholeheartedly.

  • @erinbehr8127
    @erinbehr8127 6 місяців тому +5

    My jaw actually dropped at the end, what an amazing life this is!

  • @theincompleteskeptic8079
    @theincompleteskeptic8079 10 років тому +41

    I am 57 years old, and have listened to MANY speakers and beautiful messages in my life. This was one of the best. Having traversed the Dark Night, I know your song of surrender.

  • @Jesuswalks7475
    @Jesuswalks7475 4 роки тому +75

    Iv had depression and suicidal thoughts since I was 13, I'm 26 now, I know in the future I will come to the end of it, it just takes time, depression can last for a day or it can last for a lifetime. I love that she opened the door out of her depression, and experienced freedom in the light.

    • @paxtonvalerio5181
      @paxtonvalerio5181 4 роки тому +3

      I am so thankful that you’re here

    • @tommore3263
      @tommore3263 4 роки тому +5

      Your presence is a grace to us. Decades of life and philosophy and religion (I am a Catholic) have gifted me with great confidence in our loving God who is closer to us than we are to ourselves. You were known and loved before the stars were formed whose dust has formed your body. Your free will and mind that can do non material things like work with numbers and logic and value, prove you are a spiritual being as are we all, with a material side, not a material being with a spiritual side as some sage once said. May God bless you.

    • @Theholyspirit777.
      @Theholyspirit777. 3 роки тому +1

      Love and light

    • @marika3011
      @marika3011 2 роки тому +1

      hi, idk why but i felt the urge to write to you, are u okay? i hope you are founding the key to free yourself, im 18 and in suffering since 11, now my emotions are taking so much power on me and i finally start a professional journey with a therapist, i advise you to do the same, trust me do it even if i know we never want to try this, idk if this resonate to u but my words comes naturally ❤️

  • @anaespinosa205
    @anaespinosa205 3 роки тому +93

    I am still struggling with depression, off and on my entire life, tons of trauma, this talk is so beautiful and helps. I am so isolated and alone during this pandemic and it hurts emotionally. Good luck to all and God bless. Merry Christmas.

  • @JanaiaC
    @JanaiaC Рік тому +3

    Seeing depression as a symptom of isolation from one’s soul connection is an important and alternate view. The magic of connection, interpersonal as well as environmental and cosmic is so fundamental to our existence. To live without it is to live as the walking dead.

  • @samanthatatman6297
    @samanthatatman6297 5 років тому +151

    It was because of my depression, anxiety, and suffering that I went to find answers. I went into spirituality. And eventually, I went to Source (Creator, God, whatever you want to call it). My depression and anxiety come back from time to time, but now I feel like I'm not alone. That whatever happens, I can get through it.

    • @Nay89R
      @Nay89R 3 роки тому +4

      As well for me. Sometimes things get so hard when anxiety tries to take over. Ive been trying my best to beat this. Meditating everyday has helped.

    • @yvasquez2449
      @yvasquez2449 3 роки тому +8

      Once when I was feeling very low a person told me “you don’t pray enough, pray and and God will listen”. At the time I thought that was some kind of religious babbling....I’m not a religious person myself but now I know it was true. The spiritual world is there to help us, but we have to ask! If we don’t ask it doesn’t happen because we have free will, they need to know what we want in order to help. Ask and it will come and yes, that person was right, I wasn’t praying enough. I wasn’t asking so how they could possibly help me?

    • @suhasinidevi6295
      @suhasinidevi6295 3 роки тому +3

      My anxiety leads to depression cause very hard pain..I'm going through this phase...trying to overcome with the help meditation.

    • @Renae12234
      @Renae12234 3 роки тому +1

      For me too

    • @abeadfan3885
      @abeadfan3885 2 роки тому

      Interesting and comforting comment. So do you feel you received help after praying, and in what ways (if you don't mind elaborating)? 👍

  • @alperaka3847
    @alperaka3847 7 років тому +31

    OMG I cried my eyes out! The Universe has its own language to talk to us. Very inspiring.

  • @giselsotopy
    @giselsotopy 2 роки тому +12

    According to my spiritual beliefs, the moment you went to bed as parents, it manifested, and also when you adopted, you let go. This is a message for me to let go too. Wonderful story.

  • @juliechen8710
    @juliechen8710 3 роки тому +15

    Came back a year after I watched this. Half a year after watching this, I had my spiritual awakening. Been through ups and downs, healing cycles and traumas, finding myself in my own shadow. I am on my way back to myself, my truest, purest, most authentic self. The dark night of depression was my gateway here. Thank you, Dr. Miller

    • @MeganS1995
      @MeganS1995 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your story... I also in my shadow recently and I feel less alone reading this. It's tough but we're getting through!

  • @lmsandy9154
    @lmsandy9154 9 років тому +207

    The duck with the worm? Love comes in many physical forms. Sitting on my front step one day was a rather bedraggled looking little cat. Half her tail was missing. But she had the most beautiful amber eyes you've ever seen. Next to her was a dead mole she had hunted. It was a gift to me, an invitation to friendship. This happened on one of the hardest days of my life. My only daughter was moving three thousand miles away that day, to attend a school. It was a profound message from the Universe. Yes, beautiful daughter no longer needs you. I miss her terribly. But there are others who do need you. Peace, and thanks Lisa for sharing your experiences.

    • @upstatenewyork
      @upstatenewyork 6 років тому +3

      lm sandy beautifully said ..thank you

    • @tokyomillan5105
      @tokyomillan5105 5 років тому +2

      She will always need you...just in a different way. Just as we grow and evolve as humans, it is the same for nurturing.

    • @msims1081
      @msims1081 4 роки тому +1

      Wow, I will soon be in the same position. My daughter is in her senior year of high school and can’t wait to move away to college. She’s more and more distant towards me, and often says how much she can’t wait to leave. It hurts, but I am learning how to get ready for the next phase of my own life.

    • @fasyazainal2154
      @fasyazainal2154 4 роки тому

      @@msims1081 no matter how much they hate you, they still need you. you need to be strong spiritually for them and love unconditionally.

  • @steviecallaghan8350
    @steviecallaghan8350 7 років тому +83

    That duck really caught my feels man.

  • @BoredGirl11
    @BoredGirl11 10 років тому +56

    I have lived on the lip of insanity,
    wanting to know reasons,
    knocking on a door. It opens.
    I have been knocking from the inside.
    - Rumi

  • @iEMMANU3L
    @iEMMANU3L 2 роки тому +2

    This story is an “Angel guide” towards my journey to that door made of light.
    One step at a time.

  • @Jxminim
    @Jxminim Рік тому +5

    WOW. I am so moved. loved the part where she said “spiritually awakened brains have the same wavelengths as the earth’s crust” that is so beautiful. That is no coincidence. Just that whole talk was gorgeous. What a beautiful being❤

  • @mollyhogle2930
    @mollyhogle2930 2 роки тому +14

    Not one of the most “professional” talks I’ve heard…, but honestly, from me, one of the most inspired and human and meaningful and raw and personal and intelligent and experienced and LOVING sentiments/“talks” I remember hearing. Thank you

  • @drakekay6577
    @drakekay6577 8 років тому +154

    The mother duck felt Resonance with her pain.

  • @algie-t2w
    @algie-t2w 3 роки тому +14

    Such a pleasant change from bible-thumpers blethering on and loving the sound of their own voices. This lady tells a beautiful inspiring story of coming through seemingly desolate depression to something life-affirming and she does so with integrity, sensitivity and love. Wouldn't we all want such a mum. Love, Allan x

  • @abeykollakkaranalex
    @abeykollakkaranalex 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤ believe me Lisa you are promoting your studies in a true level and decree no other psychiatrist I've heard in my 30 years of sad life ❤ l love you asy my mother ❤

  • @joezagame5598
    @joezagame5598 2 роки тому +1

    Wow. This is one of the most powerful, authentic, and inspiring Ted Talks that I’ve ever heard. The speaker, in an understated yet compelling manner, shares a fundamental truth in life: depression and hope are two sides of the same door. The possibility of redemption exists in tribulation.

    • @joezagame5598
      @joezagame5598 2 роки тому

      I wish she would have shown us a photo of her son and daughter!

  • @lisapittaro729
    @lisapittaro729 Рік тому +5

    What a beautiful share! Thank you. I was adopted as a toddler. I was blessed with a good family. When you said the hand in the darkness is the hand that brings you to other side of ligh was awesome. I'm bi polar so depression is a frequent reality for me.loved the story of your spiritual journey. I'm going through a journey now. People like you make hope an actual possibilty. Thanks again!!!

  • @HarmonyLotus
    @HarmonyLotus 5 років тому +27

    This was so beautiful and had me in tears by the end. Bless you and everyone else who has gone through depression- I pray you all find Light, transformation, your path and your true selves.

  • @quntmphscs
    @quntmphscs 5 років тому +23

    I also found my spiritual path through my suffering. What an amazing presentation!

  • @tashabrown8301
    @tashabrown8301 2 роки тому +9

    8 yrs later, this just changed my life!! “Depression does not have to be an illness”!!! Mercy🙏

  • @Cheese-is-its-own-food-group
    @Cheese-is-its-own-food-group 6 місяців тому +3

    I decided to watch because I’m going through a spiritual awakening. As I was listening to the part where she talks about how she and her husband conceived their biological child naturally, I burst into tears. It was automatic and I didn’t see it coming. How extraordinarily beautiful and powerful. I lost my 28 year old son almost 2 years ago and before he ever came along I’d lost a child due to an ectopic pregnancy as well as a string of miscarriages. I realized while crying that I’d never grieved the babies fully. I thought I had grieved my son and accepted his loss. I’m still sitting here, feeling these things fully. It’s painful but therein lies grace.

    • @nature.earth.wisdom.
      @nature.earth.wisdom. 6 місяців тому +1

      Beautiful. I wish for you healing and clarity in gratitude. 🫶

  • @thegreatduchess
    @thegreatduchess 10 років тому +20

    I needed to hear all that! We are going though the same thing! 4 years of pills, one surgery, tons of money .. we are wrecked! "Would you adopt if you are pregnant?" - I thought "No." I asked myself whether I could love an adopted child as my own... I started to question the importance of having a child but this only brought more emptiness. Thank you, Lisa! Now I know - one should find one's spiritual path firs. What make us human, our connection to all living things and our planet. God, Mother Earth, Nature. Whatever the name of that great force is, the first step towards the light behind the door is being in peace with the great spirit.

  • @mojekino2
    @mojekino2 8 років тому +67

    Please, always listen to the guidance of your inner voice.

  • @pelaito2
    @pelaito2 5 років тому +7

    As someone who has suffered from depression twice, this deeply sincere and emotional talk truly resonated with me. The one thing that helped me trudge through those swampy waters was love -the unconditional love I received from my family and my friends, the love I had to give back to them and to others. For me that was the light on the other side of the door, that light on the edge of the swamp. I can't say now I'm spiritually elevated. What I can say is I've been there, I know how much it hurts, and I don't wanna go back.
    Be there for those you love when they most need you.

  • @fafiti
    @fafiti 2 роки тому +2

    My perspective is that our life on Earth is about stripping ourselves from expectations, attachments, fears and ultimately resistance. It's about learning to forgive, let go, love unconditionally and trusting we're always divinely guided.

  • @katherinewong2901
    @katherinewong2901 5 років тому +5

    She was so raw and vulnerable with her heart wide open while she shared and educated us. Amazing! 🥰

  • @m_c_d
    @m_c_d 8 років тому +37

    Truly beautiful. Possibly my favourite TED talk to date. As if a message in itself to those of us watching it who need to hear the knock. Thank you

    • @janeofallinterests
      @janeofallinterests 3 роки тому +1

      Absolutely my favorite too...
      I never been moved to tears from a Ted Talk until now.

    • @FancyNoises
      @FancyNoises 2 роки тому +1

      Your page background speaks.

  • @Montseroset
    @Montseroset 7 років тому +8

    "Depression is core to our developement". Interesting and optimistic way to look at those hollow moments.

  • @magicbutterfly5065
    @magicbutterfly5065 2 роки тому +25

    I've spent much of my 39 years dealing with depression and little bit anxiety. I've always felt like I was born in the wrong time and was a little different. I question a lot and have a certain intuition about things.
    I've recently had another shift in my spiritual awakening. It feels incredible. It's a bit scary to think about tho cuz every single time in my life I've ever felt even half this good it was quickly taken from me. I don't want to let go

  • @kateashby3066
    @kateashby3066 Рік тому +1

    I hit bottom on the weekend before Jan 9th 2012. I was either going to end it all or get help and find healing. My puppy walked in on me as I was holding a full bottle of Vicodin and his presence and the way he looked at me made me put the bottle down and I surrendered. I wept for a while in my bathroom floor and held him. Then I took 2 Vicodin to make myself go to sleep with the intention of tomorrow being the first day of my new life, and it was. I’ve been sober for 11 years (since), and my entire life has changed as I worked hard Uber the first few years to heal. I’ve had so many spiritual awakenings and experiences since then- incredible stuff that most won’t even believe. It never would have happened if not for the difficulties I had to face. So grateful today ❤

  • @umaad
    @umaad 2 роки тому +6

    Wow, this had me in tears🥺🥺 So heartfelt and magical. Darkness is the biggest teacher in life, I am forever grateful for it all. You shall pass this too, don’t give up yet. I know you are hurt, trust me I know how it feels. The rabbit hole goes deep. Regardless, wouldn’t be without it. Remember that everything happens for a reason. This is all preparing you for a bigger purpose, brighter days are coming. Stay grateful and positive, you attract what you send out. Love, light and peace to you reading this. You are never truly alone. I love you, and please drink some water. So important to hydrate and rest 🙏🏽🌹 Amen 🕊

  • @carolpridgeon8200
    @carolpridgeon8200 4 роки тому +17

    OMG, your talk produced such a yearning inside of me to experience those wondrous moments. I have a friend who lives in that space...knowing that everything is sacred. Whenever we meet and she speaks her language my heart opens and I want to learn it and use it too. Thanks so much for your talk. It was indeed inspirational. Namaste'

  • @turquoise-flower
    @turquoise-flower Рік тому +7

    Adoption is the most lovable way to give love to a child. It’s a beautiful way to balance things in this world 🌎 So many children abandoned and so many parents that can’t be parents. Bless you and your family ❤ always. I have a child, that was announced in a dream of mine, but I didn’t think I could have a biological child because of medical conditions and I could! And everything went fine! She’s an angel and my blessing. And that’s the reason I always saw adoption as a way to offer love and caring to a child. All of us parents (biological or not biological) are blessed. Parenting is a duty that makes us better beings. I personally went through depression before my personal awakening. It was on solitude. I experimented so many things, dark times, and then….I bloomed 🌹 💫 New me. Now I see everything as a gift, as a miracle, as what it really is 💕God bless you all and your families 🙏🏻

  • @den8584
    @den8584 2 роки тому +5

    the breaks in her speech when tears are coming are so emotionally beautiful. this discourse came at the perfect time in my life, where i started doubting that my depression is anything beyond an illness. thank you for sharing your story 🤍

    • @darshanjain5431
      @darshanjain5431 6 місяців тому

      So what spiritual practices are you doing ?

  • @abeykollakkaranalex
    @abeykollakkaranalex 7 місяців тому +1

    ❤ perhaps I can't give you a Nobel but my prayers and love for your ministry will surpass all those.god bless you ❤

  • @corinne4548
    @corinne4548 3 роки тому +8

    "It hurts so much to not be loved." A very profound feeling.

    • @munecahermosaddios1286
      @munecahermosaddios1286 3 роки тому +1

      God Loves You that’s all it matters Bless you 💕

    • @Niecy1001
      @Niecy1001 3 роки тому +2

      Agreed! I’ve been feeling that for a very long time. But I think that’s what my brain is TELLING me...and I have been taking it as truth. It’s not. I am love itself. Tough to shut that brain up, though!

    • @corinne4548
      @corinne4548 3 роки тому

      It feels, to me, as though God is on vacation.

    • @miltonantonio1740
      @miltonantonio1740 3 роки тому

      @@Niecy1001 Hello how are you doing?

    • @miltonantonio1740
      @miltonantonio1740 3 роки тому

      @@munecahermosaddios1286 Hello how are you doing?

  • @antisocialite6043
    @antisocialite6043 6 років тому +12

    I love this. My depression was at its worst march '17..it had me literally on the floor because my mind was so in agony my entire body hurt. I had this unexplainable irrational rage inside me despite having 4 beautiful healthy kids and the best husband and as perfect a life i could have. I was in the deepest pit I've ever been in. By july,i woke up one morning and literally felt like a different person. I started to feel God more n more and i started experiencing .so many synchronicities and positive feelings, feeling braver, more confident, and my body literally tingles now. The funny part is when i feel especially"tingly", my kids tell me my skin feels like the softest baby skin , softer than my little 5 yr old, i don't kniw what that meand but its very strange. i may sound crazy to some but now i know God is speaking to all of us a bit louder it seems. There's an urgency and we need to listen

  • @terrysmith6817
    @terrysmith6817 7 років тому +169

    I went through a period of time where I thought I was in hell. I found my dad blue on his bed and performed CPR but he passed; I graduated college high honors no one would hire me; my ex left for a married woman at his job; my dog died 3 months after dad; mom used me as a crutch to do everything and began early stages of Alzheimer's. I went to the doctor and he wanted to give me depression meds. I told him I am depressed because any sane person should be depressed bearing what I am bearing right now. I said if I came to you happy go lucky and thought life was swell with the nonstop tragedy it is then I hope you would medicate me. I was depressed because I darn well should have been!

    • @Svjx
      @Svjx 5 років тому +12

      I love this!
      Its almost like if a person is feeling down or is thinking negative then its "bad" ..."we need meds"... without these "bad" times we would never know our "good" times. Why do we want or need everything to be perfect??? Can you imagine how boring that would be!

    • @28951SBDMDK
      @28951SBDMDK 5 років тому +6

      Power comment! Especially the last line! I respect & honor you. I am grateful you expressed yourself here! Thank you! I can now see that being depressed in the face of grief and tumultuous change indicates that I am alive and filled with power, love and caring... If my heart & mind were closed, I'd be numb & 'happy', but no! I am open to life! There is nothing wrong with me being in depression right now!

    • @spiritualguidance4u493
      @spiritualguidance4u493 4 роки тому

      Check me out 🥺 I’d love to help you on your journey. I’m really reaching out. I love you stay safe and positive 🔮 Terry Smith

    • @Sg4809
      @Sg4809 4 роки тому +4

      But what if the depression never wants to let up?

    • @divenursok
      @divenursok 4 роки тому +1

      With all you had going on, you were called to remind him that not all is meant to be "cured" with pills or potions or procedures. Peace

  • @wakeup_withAshley
    @wakeup_withAshley 6 років тому +22

    So beautiful. Through depression I have also opened the door to a spiritual journey. Thank you for sharing❤️🍃

  • @sukran96
    @sukran96 3 роки тому +2

    This is a stimulation we live in. Detachment is the #1 advise for spiritual awakening which is the main goal of any religion, belief system or existential philosophy. And, agony is the only way to reach detachment, especially the detachment from perfectionism. The purpose of this game is to find the beauty in broken, to love the defective, see the virtue in vicious, pull out transcendence in pharisaic, etc.

  • @mariebrunger6111
    @mariebrunger6111 5 років тому +27

    I agree with Suzannah - the presence is always there - Faith is what got me through those darkest times and each time I came back into the light something changed. I learned to see both depression and anxiety as transitions.

    • @miltonantonio1740
      @miltonantonio1740 3 роки тому

      Hello beautiful friend how are you doing?

    • @carlzingale220
      @carlzingale220 3 роки тому

      True. Makes a lot of sense. It’s hard when you’re in that state though especially. Once I was free of the torment I saw that it happened for such deepened reasons. Sure was beautiful ❤️

  • @sweetpeajunglebean
    @sweetpeajunglebean 9 років тому +28

    as soon as this speech started, i just knew that the story was going to end with a MIRACLE BABY. is there anyone who watched this who didn't see that coming a mile away?
    it's so easy to say how great the spiritual life is when you get what you want. that's using a child's mindset.

    • @Zania16ify
      @Zania16ify 9 років тому

      lol uhhhm..

    • @RobertHouse101
      @RobertHouse101 7 років тому +12

      No it means you are clarvoyent and have wasted your gift secondary to jealousies. Let others have thier happiness and one day others will let you have yours.

    • @Keev12661
      @Keev12661 5 років тому

      woooooooosh

  • @bethbartlett5692
    @bethbartlett5692 7 років тому +147

    Empathy (a magnet for Narcissists)
    When they are in your life, at any level, you absorb their evil and exhaust yourself in the efforts to please the taunting bait requests - to feed their sadist feeding on ALL THE ENERGY YOU EXPEL TO SATISFY THEIR DEMANDS "."
    Sound familiar!?!
    It is not you -
    BOUNDARIES - and enforce them.

    • @1244CC
      @1244CC 4 роки тому +6

      💚💚 Felt this one on a deep level 💚.

    • @Joy-ci2js
      @Joy-ci2js 3 роки тому +1

      Yes! Same! And uk wt I did it! ✨❤️
      I hope everybody can find the strength!

  • @bluerayfrequency7335
    @bluerayfrequency7335 2 роки тому +3

    The blending of spiritual awakening and science as miraculous tools from a loving Source. Beautiful sharing.

  • @valerieoconnor4462
    @valerieoconnor4462 Рік тому +4

    Reading all the kind loving comments here, I feel so comfortable and able to trust. People who've been through or going through depression have a special quiet understanding connection. Love and light to you all. I'm going to pray in bed now that we will all use our spirituality. All will be ok all will get better. Sending you all hugs and love ❤ ❤

  • @chicksue7030
    @chicksue7030 5 років тому +6

    I have never, in all the years on this platform called UA-cam, seen a video so powerful and so beautiful. This fed my soul in ways I couldn't have predicted. Just incredible.

  • @missmaynard6956
    @missmaynard6956 5 років тому +26

    This was so beautiful. It reminds me a little of my pregnancy journey but my guides and messengers came in the form of white butterflies.

  • @eternal712004
    @eternal712004 7 років тому +13

    I can totally relate to this speaker's experience. Spirituality, as elusive as it may appear to people, is the real force in human life. Without this awakening, people are living corpse. Interestingly, just like this speaker, the awakening often comes from sufferings and adversity.

  • @Juliamh2222
    @Juliamh2222 3 роки тому +3

    I’m bawling my eyes out. I needed this. I’ve been going through a very long and dark night of the soul… I’ve been hearing “the knock”…. I’m getting to the other side of the door soon, I promise. I think I’m very close.

  • @tessmiles4034
    @tessmiles4034 2 місяці тому

    I couldn't stop crying listening to your story. You are an amazing soul. Thank you for your research. I'm sure it's a catalyst for so many people feeling bound and hopeless by chronic depression. I have been healed of CPTSD. My spiritual awakening began at the time of my deepest despair. A series of synchronicities guiding me to new possibilities and the eternal answer which is LOVE.
    Thank you for sharing your story and your love 🙏❤️

  • @sanchi7410
    @sanchi7410 2 роки тому +2

    To everyone spiritual out there and believes that there is more to us than this physical body i wanna give you a hug because YOU DESERVE IT BABY

  • @wellbeingwithtish9683
    @wellbeingwithtish9683 2 роки тому +3

    Can deeply resonate with this. My journey to enlightenment (spiritual awakening) began with my cancer diagnosis. The intense mental suffering (mainly fear and anxiety) that followed pushed me to go beyond the mind and listen to the soul (intuition). It led me to surrender (after trying so hard to heal) and trust ‘whatever is happening’ and devine timing. These days when I start to struggle (fear mind triggered), a voice deep within says ‘TRUST’.
    Trust your struggles and know it is happening for a reason - your highest good.

  • @waow4444
    @waow4444 9 років тому +13

    This gave me hope, for what, I don't know. But I feel so much hope. I love this. Thanks Dr. Lisa Miller

  • @Dabbu
    @Dabbu 8 років тому +458

    The research she mentions at 12:18 regarding certain people being in tune with the Schumann frequency is very interesting. It makes me wonder if the pineal gland is related to this effect. A friend of mine studied Neuroscience and did his final paper on the pineal gland which I was fortunate to learn from. Besides this organ being anatomically a 3rd eye ball, another interesting quality is that is has a layer of piezoelectric crystal. This would in theory allow it to resonate with electromagnetic energy. So perhaps it's not just a 3rd eye but also a 3rd ear?

    • @JewelofAquarius
      @JewelofAquarius 7 років тому +53

      lol I know a song that says " you damn near need a 3rd ear to get to the truth" you're the only other person I've heard use that term. lol love it.

    • @JewelofAquarius
      @JewelofAquarius 7 років тому +27

      and I like to call it the first eye😉
      the other 2 are secondary😃

    • @Dabbu
      @Dabbu 7 років тому +3

      :-)

    • @Dabbu
      @Dabbu 7 років тому +3

      What's the song??
      It's kinda true...

    • @JewelofAquarius
      @JewelofAquarius 7 років тому +5

      😁 I have a few faves of his.
      Have a good one!
      soundcloud.com - Wake Up by DT Lamont

  • @TravisSimmons
    @TravisSimmons 2 роки тому +1

    I am battling with depression. I feel like I'm working through it. I have happier days, more joy than I did, and interest in things I once didn't. I stood out on my porch the other day and asked for Universe to come back into my life and heard: "You're not ready yet." I shall wait and watch for my spiritual awakening.

  • @julieking5151
    @julieking5151 6 місяців тому +1

    Divine synchronicity, the mother duck was such a touching part. We also suffered similarly, but instead of going for the IVF we invested in adopting two beautiful girls.

  • @mikebasil4832
    @mikebasil4832 Рік тому +2

    Decades of depression have certainly led me to my spiritual awakening.
    Thank you so much, Lisa, for sharing your very inspirational story.

  • @AuthenticSelfGrowth
    @AuthenticSelfGrowth 5 років тому +3

    Suffering is the highest blessing. The door way to greatness!

  • @nellyk.5155
    @nellyk.5155 4 роки тому +19

    Phenomenal talk. So uplifting and encouraging. I'm so happy she finally found her spiritual children. I'm sure that she and her husband are such loving parents. I'm so appreciative that she shared this incredible story of self discovery. That's the message that I'm walking away with after having watched this presentation.

  • @joycemansfield1108
    @joycemansfield1108 Рік тому +3

    Through Buddhism I learned to go through life trying to embrace people with kindness and understanding so looking at others like they've all had suffered made me feel differently when someone was difficult like I've never walked in their shoes I only know happiness because I've suffered but now I try to tame my own thoughts change my own channel and nobody can take my happiness away .

  • @jacklangley861
    @jacklangley861 8 місяців тому

    "Parenting is love" this hit home hugely for me! I feel my parents were so deficient in love they could only take love. This is my trauma and my path to overcome.
    That being said, I want to say I am immensely grateful to all these strong and brave people in this comment section. You have sparked some answers in me. 🙏 God bless you all!

  • @jess376
    @jess376 6 років тому +4

    Hitting the like button on this talk does not even begin to communicate how awe inspiring this story is

  • @AzMovieMom
    @AzMovieMom 8 років тому +15

    What an amazing story! Thank you Lisa for sharing your heart...that was so beautiful. I have had depression many times and it's always led to a spiritual growing event. I never really connected the two until now. It's a relief to realize that my depressions are not to be feared, but welcomed and accepted. Thank you

  • @maxwellbernstein9235
    @maxwellbernstein9235 9 років тому +47

    Wow. I'm totally speechless. Deeply moving and inspirational. Awesome!

  • @aakashailajan
    @aakashailajan 2 роки тому +1

    Suffering will really transform you into an unstoppable force, that can be held back by nothing to reach its goal. I learnt to use suffering and failures to my advantage to connect with my inner soul and now I have attained 100 percent clarity of purpose. To help and serve using the knowledge I have. It was possible only by daily prayer, meditation, and introspection. Now I thank the bad times for transforming me into this new person.

  • @carolegoodwin7287
    @carolegoodwin7287 2 роки тому +2

    Oh wow thats so powerful.
    Having been through the traumatic journey of IVF, I could so related to her pain and depression.
    But I was blessed, it worked for me, however, I have long wanted to adopt a child who needed love, a child, similar to the little boy she described, but it never happened that way.
    I was able to have my children finally, and now, I"m a bit past that stage of my life, but in my heart, the desire still remains, because being a parent, a Mother, is the most beautiful thing in the world.
    Lisa is a true blessing that has opened my eyes to the other side of the depression that inevitably comes with the spiritual awakening, and is so often very isolating from the others not yet awakened.
    Bless her and her family