I have observed something about helpers... The nicer you are to them, they tend to take advantage and abuse you. They seem to be more loyal to employers who treat them badly.
So true. Had the same experience with my helpers. My goodness that time you want to live in harmony with them because they spent most of their time with me and my family.
I never believed in helpers. Married 35 years and doing my own things, taught my kids to do own chores, now both married and left with my better half, still doing my laundry, cleaning etc.
My mother advised me that,the bedrooms are off limits.That includes the bedding,doing the bed,the underwear.Pack the clothes yourself, in that way you will see the clothes that are missing.We need to make time to take care of our own spaces.We should not be so trusting of strangers with our possessions.Sorry you went through that ordeal.
I never talk and complain when I see things are slacking I just find away to let the person go and move on to the next one… I just feel so vulnerable with someone in your personal space so once the vibe changes it’s chai…
But who wants 20 ppl to know their home & schedule when easy communication can solve most problems. The problem is some ppl especially foreigners hate the fact that they are cleaners & will take it out on you.
Not 😂20 ppl … the worse it’s been is 2 ppl per year but if I get someone that won’t change after a while I won’t have a problem but for now. It works for me
Eish this is so sad how ever I also did domestic work and I was using domestos when washing dishes and glasses, I was working for four different people during Covid and they still call me and tell me I have set the standard high but they don't find one to close the gap, so sorry about that Owamie
I also believe in Domestos 🤣🤣 I use it on EVERYTHING!! Dishes, floors, toilet and even to soak my water bottles!! I think her (helper) could've given Owami a heads up though after pouring it into her Stanley cup
I think she was just in a rush to finish. She probably used a Domestos mixture to clean the cup, maybe to remove lipstick stains or something, but didn’t rinse it properly before refilling it with water. It happen, even with Sunlight liquid, you can taste the residue if someone didn’t rinse properly, and Domestos is even worse since it’s not meant for dishes. She likely didn’t check on you because she was still focused on those high-paying clients she was rushing to, plus it was the festive season. If she wanted to poison you she would have used something else that you wouldn't have known about.
Even if she made a mistake and did not intend to harm anyone. Owamie said she was becoming negligent, and negligence can lead to someone being severely harmed or killed. Your life is more important than trying to make excuses for someone who does not care for your wellbeing.
Prayer 🙏🏾 We all should be praying about the people that come into our lives. Something seems off.. not sure exactly what..but that’s where prayer will reveal. Be blessed and get well.❤
@@behlumatheezaliThey normally have a supervisor & they are less likely to steal because the company does nit want bad reviews. I just dislike the fact that too many strangers know what goes on in your house, the layout, what you have etc which is not safe at all. These companies are notorious for shedding workers cause they are basic slavery!
For the future Ninja please no matter how hungry or thirsty you are , please never ever use use water from the previous night and that goes for your kettle as well, there could be a poisonous spider inside and you will be unlived ntombi, always just give your cups or kettle a quick rinse before use
Some helpers think that by hiring them, it is because we cannot clean our own houses. It is because we work all day and also, we are giving them jobs and as I always say, once they have graduated, they do not do the right thing. They forget that it is a give and take situation. We end up labelled as if black people are difficult to work for. Just do your job correctly.
I agree. My helper only do ironing .I wash my clothes. She only comes when iam home. I do😊 not trust them anything is possible with this young lady. My older helper I use to call her gogo she's the only one I trust. She was the one have my house keys
In the future, please do pray to God Owamie and ask Him to help you find the Good person to come in and work for you. Maids can sell you out for few coins, can get paid to harm you etc… that one is spiteful probably she was angry working on Christmas Eve! Sorry Ninja but Do pray about stuff like Maids - it’s not a small matter bringing a Stranger to your intimate space! Much love to you Owamie, take care!❤
A one sided story is not advisable to listen to, if the helper was given an opportunity to come and relate her side of her story it would be better bfo we start judging her helper. Some boss ladies can be too arrogant...
Serious hlm this one is full of herself, when she was hiring the lady didn't invite us. What piss me off ke hore that lady mind have children ND most times our parents show or takes us to our bosses most in that space of so called a helper. This one her day is coming
I've been a Domestic Placement Agent for the past 11 years and I must say ive seen different behaviours from both parties and some helpers take advantage of the employers kindness and some employers abuses their helpers and they retaliate in different ways even though the poisoning one is out of line. It could be she did that deliberately or She was trying very hard to impress since she saw that her job is on the line and forgot to rinse and put it back where it was supposed to be with your cold water....
The cleaning with domestos part, I do it too! I don’t know why I feel like it disinfect the dishes 😅 However, that experience is horrific. Letting her go was the right choice for your peace of mind
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 yes inside the cup mixed with water. I use my cup for coffee and other drinks so smells do stay so if I need the cup fresh again then one would pour dishwashing liquid with bicarbonate inside the cup and let it soak for a while to let the smell clear.
I gave up on helpers a long time ago and you will be in heaven sooner than necessary if you try to battle with those people. I do everything myself, focus on 1 or 2 rooms a day and just keep rotating coz I’m also a working professional.
I share your sentiments @lesley_lezley. I also have trust issues and have had bad experiences with almost 5 or 6 of them in a space of about 6 years. With each of them having a habit I got fed up with, from not adequately doing the work, to stealing, sleeping on the job, breaking things in the house, you name it ...I really got tired and I am someone who prefers doing housework for themselves as well. Things got a bit hectic after having a child & honestly time gets little as our kids & work/careers take up most of it... but I promise you, you can do 1 thing @ a time until you come right - I've never experienced something as extreme as getting my health affected but it's very scary indeed and while not all of them are like this, it's also probably a majority of helpers that are just doing the work for the money vs looking at it as "we're helping each other here "...hay shame I don't understand these people and how they reason Maybe you can get someone to do the things you can't get to...like windows, laundry, ironing vacuum & mopping floors, cleaning walls and maybe they don't need to tidy your bedroom or whatever; but maybe get them to do minimal work if you can
2024 is been hard😱 for those with beautiful hearts, they pinned us down jumped on us, but we still live and kicking,the most high is protecting, sorry about that ninja ❤. ✌️❤️💡
As a lady I know I need a helper and I need someone who will help me. However my instincts always tell me to learn how to clean up and buy appliances that will make my life easier without a helper. These people have proven to be very DANGEROUS! Spiritually and physically.
But least O gave us context as to what may have happened prior to the incident. Most helpers wants to chose where or how they clean your house, once you voice out concerns about her job, they get angry.
@acconaapryilll.7075 ME too am wondering , let's say she intended to kill her , do we think she'd admit that wow . Ours now is to sympathize with Owamie who nearly lost her life . If you feel different , itbwon't kill you just to keep your opinion to yourself , than being so bitter at someone's sad story . Let humanity not leave us
@@glamgodess9643 In this context, cleaner/housekeeper is just that, a cleaner. They don't tend to the needs of children/kids, that's the parents responsibility.
My mom uses Domestos to clean our cups. We drink a lot of tea & it stains our mugs. Sunlight & Handy-Andy don't do the job. Mara, if she accidentally did that, she would react very different.
Sorry about your horrible experience, and you had your loved ones there, I can imagine how scared they were. You hired a witch. It's as simple as that.
There is something called weaponized incompetence. Do I think she was trying to off you? No, because what kind of stupidity is that. Do I think she is so incompetent that its actually dangerous, absolutely. I am sorry this happened to you ninja
Can we please normalise taking workers to the police and creating a police record. So that this doesn’t happen again. I know of a story of a nanny that killed 5 years old toddler and put the toddler in the fridge and ran away. And also doing criminal check on all our workers. It’s not safe anymore even at home
Mina I prefer male helpers they are the best, especially when you nolonger raising children. I have my Sibusiso, he cleans the house, windows and the yard. Mina I just cook and wash dishes. He also doesn't do garden, I have a gardener who comes once a week. I'm happy with my 2 males. Try them guys you won't regret. Males are the best they don't even talk too much and never moody unlike females.
Thank goodness you are getting better. It is hard to find people you can trust. And, you never can be sure how people really feel about you even when they're smiling in your face.
My mom does the same even on dishes , i dont think she was trying to off her i mean no one can try to off you using domestos because its bitter and you will taste it sooner before you swallow 😅
To be honest us woman can be evil this is a two way situation some boss ladies are too much too bossy,too controlling,and following your workers while working and then also they are lady workers that take advantage alot,if you are a controller,or too bossy and mouthful do your house work yourself and don't hire anyone.
@@momomathebula8297 no one said it was okay dear,the bad treatment that some ladies get from these lady bosses leads to that rage not supporting it just saying where the problem comes from.
People are scary, 🤯 for those who are saying the story is one sided...Haibo so if someone disagrees with you its fine to poison them or harm them? No one deserves that, whether she felt otherwise about you or not...hope you are feeling better now Owami.
That is crazy work, some people are saying that she wasn’t trying to off you but the fact that she was not remorseful in any way? I say that she definitely tried to do soooomething. It’s tough being an employer especially as a black woman and especially if you have employed other black people, familiarity builds disrespect.
The only helper you should treat like family is a caregiver to your elderly family members or your children's nanny because they have direct contact to your loved ones, especially if they are live in. Helpers doing domestic work should be treated professionally, contract and all. Don't allow them to do extra favours like wash your shoes, cook once in a while, etc because that is when they win you over. Sooner than later they will shit on you.
I don’t know why ppl take jobs they are not happy with. Cleaners are those ppl. Like nurses. They go on as if they are doing a favour. Even some company cleaners. Cleaners nje are a problem everywhere
On thing I decided long ago to never stay with our helper in the house. Thank God when I bought my current house it came with an outside room though the toilet and bathroom are separate from the room but it’s there! Secondly, I don’t discuss personal stuff with her. I’d only ask her if she’s spoken to her mum and kids and if they’re fine.
This is me exactly. I have 2extra rooms but my helper lives in the cottage and i asked her to never gossip with me. We talk general stuff, the weather etc
@nandizwane9087 Cleaning companies that offer housekeeping as one if their services can make an arrangement to clean everyday but you bare I mind that they charge according to hours spent and size of your home. Better to have them deep clean once a month and come in once or twice a week for standard Cleaning. I hope I make sense
Definitely not a mistake If she struggled opening, she should have told you Also if she struggled opening, why did she force the chemicals in anyway?This was intentional
You guys making the "some bosses are too bossy, controlling and arrogant" argument are wild hey. Why not quit instead of poisoning someone? There are sooooo many people looking for helpers.
It’s like after a while they expect you to take them in and make them family. When they start slacking or intentionally being malicious and tearing you apart.
I have the best best helper who who has been 15 years with me. Not all helpers are bad cos even some madams are are evil taking advantage of their own helpers, treating them like slaves 😮😮😮😮
I'm a helper I have been working for my boss for 16 years there are are some things I don't understand but sunlight liquid and dettol....... I will wait for the helper's side of store. Get well Owamie
Please get yourself Aloe Vera Juice from Dischem. I once had an issue whereby after eating,my tummy would hurt. After taking the aloe vera juice,it healed completely
But then what l understand form her point of view is that if u have more people in the house that means more work for her.. were u paying extra or the same?but then she has no right to poison u..she should have just left.
But helpers charge by number of rooms. Not number of people in the house. In the Midrand area, they actually say they charge per number of bedrooms. And most people get visitors from time to time as well
I had a helper that I treated like a sister, I treated her like family her name was Delphin from Zim, that lady poisoned me because she wanted my husband, at the time I didn't know I was admitted in hospital and treated when I returned from hospital she was shocked and angry I thought I was over thinking and by then her dress code had changed and I remember she was wearing nice jeans and I commented that those Jeans are lovely and she said "bhuti bought it for me" stupid me I still didn't get it, until after some years my neighbors that I didn't even know came to me and told me that what happened was that Delphin poisoned me and she was angry when I was discharged and said to them I wonder why she didn't die. But unfortunately at this point Delphin was no longer with me and I didn't know where to find her.
The general rule is that, treat someone who cook and take care of your children well because your well-being is in their hands. I personally like to do everything by myself and I don’t like strangers in my home. My home is my safe nest away from the world. Treat your helpers well and never ever maltreat them. Some can even go to the extent of using muthi on you
May I say this and I hope I don’t catch strays 🙏🏽 SOME helpers (and babysitters) are envious and want your life, especially when you (or your partner) are in the same age group as them, or their child’s age group. They are very quiet but they study you and will find holes in how to fit into your life without over-extending themselves. They will find a way to benefit from you, or have what you have, over and above what you pay them. I use public transport quite often and nothing beats the taxi rides from Noord to Boulders listening to them openly talk about their work conditions, and how they get back at y’all. Yes some are treated badly but ke guys… 😢 majority want your life. I remember one crying to her friend saying her boss makes her handwash towels with 💦🍑🍆 on them. My heart was broken and I was so sympathetic to her UNTIL said she went to get muti to make the husband’s 🍆 not work. WHERE DO THEY DRAW THE LINE?????????
Taking from this conversation I u sweat and why Owamie is always in such “drama”… guys women feel very intimidated by strong black women who have strict boundaries and does well for themselves. Yoh ha a
OWAMI IT'S SO SAD THAT YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH THIS, However, I want to emphasise THAT YOU MUST STILL GO AND SEE A DOCTOR/HOSPITAL, Have all the necessary check-ups done, You cannot self-conclude that you are getting better, You don't know the extent of the internal harm done, Consult with the Dr please I'm praying for your full recovery
Yhoooo I thought I was the only one with helper issues! 2 weeks ago I decided that I won't have a fixed helper anymore. The lady dropped the standard after I increased her money without her even asking and even lied that she scrubbed the shower 😩 I'm never calling her back again shame.
It's bleach and dishwasher soap. Both highly concentrated, and who knows what else was added. Also, once you know you drank something wrong, it literally makes your body react. Also, whatever you drink or eat, even small quantity, if it's not meant for disgestion, it will affect the stomach. Just like one small pill can affect your whole body. Like, why are you even laughing, as if you said something smart??
@nontobekomdletshe6860 she gets a basic salary plus gets paid extra for piece jobs, free accommodation and food, plus access to Wi-Fi and I must not complain when she does something wrong. Work is work guys no maan.
I remember my granny always telling me, "Helpers are not your family, no matter how nice they are, they are not your family, and as long as they are paid, they are loyal to the money." These words hit home when I had a bad experience with a helper whom I trusted so much & literally thought of them as family then hyoooo the way this lady changed faces ayiii no never again. I remembered my granny's words, and I said nooo let them work for their money no more getting personal. Strictly Employer - Employee relationship with them helpers now.
Thank God you made it Owami Really all these comments are true. Never trust a helper!!even if she stays with you. One thing I ve learned is to pray for everything:including the water in my Stanley.Then no weapon formed against you shall prosper.
Owamie even if you not married do your own bedding please, the way I like doing things for myself I wouldn’t allow a helper to wash my bedding and putting it back. Lazy or not lazy, paying someone or not let’s normalise doing our own bed.
I think people pay for the convenience. Personally, I wouldn’t want anyone washing my sheets and clothes coz my mom drilled that in me. But other people prefer to pay for those services and that’s okay 😊
You are such an amazing story teller sis owami. But somehow you lost me too many times on this story from domestos to dettol🤔 then what public clinic did you go to that was closed.😮 coz they should be 24 hours. Thank God that you are ok . Stanley should endorse you 👊
This helper must sue you for defamation of character. Why did you not report this to the police? Your next version will be that all your property was stolen and suspect this helper because you gave her your exit code. You're toxic.
Yoh Owamie you making me realise how u all depend on your helpers, why u not washing your cup before drinking something or u thought u left something in?
The sad part is that we won't be able to hear the side of her story. And de fact that this is still so fresh and you just come here to till de world because you maybe covering that she won't expose you first . It takes two to tango. I wish we can hear her side.😅
She is not being unsymphathetic at all. Most people abuse other people under the narrative that they are needy and are at their mercy. Her side of the story is important because people like shifting the blame and treat other human beings like they are worthless, underpaying then and mistreat them.
You’re an enabler,you enable evil doings.No amount of treatment will warranty her trying to kill Owamie ,NOTHING! Even if she was to come and say Owamie maybe would mistreat her or was too needy or whatever it will still not warranty this ,you’ll like excusing evil deeds. You are part of the problem in society it’s like when we find out about the killing of someone and your first response will be “what did they do “.Just evil nje
You want to hear the side of the other side of the story so that the you can support the helper for putting domestos in the drink? Haibo sisi 😂😂you can’t be serious
Girrrrrl! I'm experiencing this with nannies... I am getting sooo frustrated... I got 2 coz I have twins.. And I have a hectic job, so does my husband... I am tired of holding meetings for mediocre cleaning and childcare. Like why do we have to pay for such poor behavior/actions. Yoh...bathong can someone do a business of people who are good with childcare and home chores 😢the stress and anxiety of having people in your home with just no intention of doing a job they signed up for right
Take them to daycare. I did that after my good nanny had to go back home. 2nd one that came, would sit watch TV as if, do the bear minimum. So I paid her at the end of that month & said I would call her if I needed her. Have been nanny free for 8 years.
I don’t have a live in maid because I don’t trust them fully. She cleans and does laundry and goes home. I don’t let her cook. I cook and we eat the same food. I dish the food myself. I rinse every dish before using it. And always pray over my things. I treat them how I would want someone close to me to be treated if they are in their position but I keep my distance. If i want to fire them I don’t tell them in advance. I just tell them I don’t have money and will call them back once I have money. Because people can be bitter. Your maid currently sounds like my new maid. One month in and she’s already slacking. I’m giving her 3 months to see how she does.
Mine once left saying that I'm a good person but she is scared of me for being serious. Adding that she longer know if she is doing the right thing I told her that I will tell her when necessary ended up leaving
My mom taught me to not have a helper in my home all week and to NEVER allow a helper to work in my home without my constant supervision. They should only come in about 2 times a week if you're a single person and you must supervise them in your home. Yoh.
Most of them don't have it shem.....gardeners, house helpers even nannies and tutors don't have contacts cos most of those jobs are friend family referral jobs or a friend's cousin's daughter.... They should have it but majority don't have and there is usually just verbal agreements
@mzansisoapiereviewroastand613 I think it should be mandatory, to protect both parties. Cause what if like in this case the helper feels unfairly dismissed or fired without proof of poisoning their boss. But that's just my opinion
My room is a no go area for helpers. From the onset of having helpers, I have never allowed them in my room. Many times, they will go into my room when I am not there, and I will find many things that are wrong after returning from work. I then decided to lock my room for peace of mind. Let us be careful. Many of these helpers do not mean well. We trust too easily. Scary stuff...
I also use domestos to wash my dishes. I don't like the smell of eggs or saliva on my glasses and spoons. I do not use a lot only enough to take away the smell I always smell it on the Tupperware tumblers. I do not think it was intentional. I used to use bleach but noted I had areas on my hands that seemed to be burning and se nothing with the domestos. Get well ngwana mme
I looooove Pedis pronounciation: they say khomfoth instead of khamfart (comfort) assalt instead of assolt (assault) the list is endless skhul instead of skul (school). I'm here for it I really love it hle!!! Lasaniya, dilipi (slip) khotho (court) Tepen (durban)
If somebody did that to me and I find out about it while she's still around trust and believe she wasn't gonna get paid. The damn to almost kill me and expect payment she must be CRAZY.
I am a helper am writing this on my tea break , l use jik to soak dishes when there is no jik l use domestos but that aunty was supposed to ask u to help open the cup then wash it throughly before leaving but yena she was in a Rush to leave now it costed her A job . I dont travel December holiday cause l know my employers will need help and l sat down with them and we agreed that l will take my leave during the year 24 December l was working l knocked off around 7 so and l dont mind doing extra hours for free my pay is paid on a monthly base its not a daily paid salary . I hope u find a good helper who will come and work for u with a pure heart and pure intentions❤
Thank God you're well Queen Ninja, things could've taken a huge tragic turn. As your people we're asking that she doesn't come back. To all the Ninjas, have boundaries when it comes to Helpers/Nannies, mabasebenze baphume bahambe. There's no need to build relations outside of the work they're being paid for. Don't be mean but have boundaries and limits. 🥺💕
One thing about nannies I picked up is once you start telling a person to do her work and she is giving an attitude I fire. Until I get the one willing to do the work and the respectful one than I keep. I dint compromise
Some people do use domestos. I once had to stop a friend from using domestos in the kitchen to clean the dishes . What is so dirty in the kitchen that normal dish wash can't clean?
Sometimes helpers need to be handled at the same standard of retail casual employees. When they spend half day at work they get half day's pay and get paid by the hour and by how many targets they reach.
Yazi as a maid ,it will seems like we are the same we are total different ,if your boss is nice don't take advantage nje but they are good maids out there sorry to find bad one
I have observed something about helpers... The nicer you are to them, they tend to take advantage and abuse you. They seem to be more loyal to employers who treat them badly.
I think you have to keep professional distance & not treat them like family cause otherwise they will use & abuse you.
True
Owamie, a year before last🤓🤓.
My sister spoke about this omly yesterday. When you treat them like family, they become entitled and forget why they are at your place.
So true. Had the same experience with my helpers. My goodness that time you want to live in harmony with them because they spent most of their time with me and my family.
I never believed in helpers. Married 35 years and doing my own things, taught my kids to do own chores, now both married and left with my better half, still doing my laundry, cleaning etc.
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👏👏👏Awesome
Not all of them are bad though
I am the same , if I really can’t cope I just have someone for a day. I have been traumatized by helpers
For us Kong distance traveling to work returning 6pm snd having small kids kind forced us.
My mother advised me that,the bedrooms are off limits.That includes the bedding,doing the bed,the underwear.Pack the clothes yourself, in that way you will see the clothes that are missing.We need to make time to take care of our own spaces.We should not be so trusting of strangers with our possessions.Sorry you went through that ordeal.
That's why I'm paranoid of helping a helper.The mental exhaustion of having to be hyper vigilant with your stuff.I rather do the cleaning myself😩
Main bedroom and the pots are a no go ,no matter how tired I am.Yey,they'll finish you😂😂😂😂.
Hmmm ! It is scary! Thank God you are still alive cc!
You must open a case cc because sometimes the poison can take a long time inside you!
If I'm going to pack the clothes and wash the pots,why do I have a Helper?😊
I never talk and complain when I see things are slacking I just find away to let the person go and move on to the next one… I just feel so vulnerable with someone in your personal space so once the vibe changes it’s chai…
But who wants 20 ppl to know their home & schedule when easy communication can solve most problems. The problem is some ppl especially foreigners hate the fact that they are cleaners & will take it out on you.
Not 😂20 ppl … the worse it’s been is 2 ppl per year but if I get someone that won’t change after a while I won’t have a problem but for now. It works for me
Me too, I don't wait until I have to tell them what to do. You don't do your job, I let you go and move on.
@@beewest5704 True and different energies they bring to the house...
You're right, because when you tell them they take offense and even go to an extent to provoke you. They are evil I wish I never needed them 😢😢😢
Eish this is so sad how ever I also did domestic work and I was using domestos when washing dishes and glasses, I was working for four different people during Covid and they still call me and tell me I have set the standard high but they don't find one to close the gap, so sorry about that Owamie
Same here
I also believe in Domestos 🤣🤣 I use it on EVERYTHING!! Dishes, floors, toilet and even to soak my water bottles!! I think her (helper) could've given Owami a heads up though after pouring it into her Stanley cup
I’ve learned the hard way too,being friendly with my workers.
@MaggieM2027 I've just learnt it this December
Definitely deliberate😏
Get well soon queen ninja💐
Thank God the worst didn’t happen🙏🏾
I think she was just in a rush to finish. She probably used a Domestos mixture to clean the cup, maybe to remove lipstick stains or something, but didn’t rinse it properly before refilling it with water. It happen, even with Sunlight liquid, you can taste the residue if someone didn’t rinse properly, and Domestos is even worse since it’s not meant for dishes. She likely didn’t check on you because she was still focused on those high-paying clients she was rushing to, plus it was the festive season. If she wanted to poison you she would have used something else that you wouldn't have known about.
Worst case scenario with the mixture would be a runny tummy I assume. I get what you are saying but get Owami's panick aswell.
LOL I don't think you were listening throughout the video. Listening is a skill, but a very simple one, guys.
Are you making excuses for the helper?
Even if she made a mistake and did not intend to harm anyone. Owamie said she was becoming negligent, and negligence can lead to someone being severely harmed or killed. Your life is more important than trying to make excuses for someone who does not care for your wellbeing.
Prayer 🙏🏾 We all should be praying about the people that come into our lives. Something seems off.. not sure exactly what..but that’s where prayer will reveal. Be blessed and get well.❤
Bathong, rather hire a company to come once a week or bi weekly to deep clean. Especially if living alone, you can do your dishes and laundry
Dnt they steal?
@@behlumatheezaliThey normally don't steal but you will never know.
@@behlumatheezaliThey normally have a supervisor & they are less likely to steal because the company does nit want bad reviews. I just dislike the fact that too many strangers know what goes on in your house, the layout, what you have etc which is not safe at all.
These companies are notorious for shedding workers cause they are basic slavery!
@@behlumatheezaliyou can report them to their agency unlike the ones whom you don’t even know where they stay
I keep preaching this to anyone who cares to listen. Cleaning companies are the way to go if you don't need a nanny.
For the future Ninja please no matter how hungry or thirsty you are , please never ever use use water from the previous night and that goes for your kettle as well, there could be a poisonous spider inside and you will be unlived ntombi, always just give your cups or kettle a quick rinse before use
So true, this has happened to me,
@@SthokoK😢 Yoh
Thanks for the heads up Yoh!
@ yooooo Im so sorry hey
😢what happened @@SthokoK
Some helpers think that by hiring them, it is because we cannot clean our own houses. It is because we work all day and also, we are giving them jobs and as I always say, once they have graduated, they do not do the right thing. They forget that it is a give and take situation. We end up labelled as if black people are difficult to work for. Just do your job correctly.
They don't see that we helping each other and many people need work so it is a benifit for both. Sad they don't always see it like that.
I agree. My helper only do ironing .I wash my clothes. She only comes when iam home. I do😊 not trust them anything is possible with this young lady. My older helper I use to call her gogo she's the only one I trust. She was the one have my house keys
In the future, please do pray to God Owamie and ask Him to help you find the Good person to come in and work for you. Maids can sell you out for few coins, can get paid to harm you etc… that one is spiteful probably she was angry working on Christmas Eve! Sorry Ninja but Do pray about stuff like Maids - it’s not a small matter bringing a Stranger to your intimate space! Much love to you Owamie, take care!❤
You are wise, my sister.
A one sided story is not advisable to listen to, if the helper was given an opportunity to come and relate her side of her story it would be better bfo we start judging her helper. Some boss ladies can be too arrogant...
😂😂😂so if the boss is arrogant simply QUIT! Why’re you putting dettol in a Stanley cup??
So having an arrogant boss makes attempted murder justifiable? Woah.
Serious hlm this one is full of herself, when she was hiring the lady didn't invite us. What piss me off ke hore that lady mind have children ND most times our parents show or takes us to our bosses most in that space of so called a helper. This one her day is coming
It might not be deliberately but it did happen why another side of story , Hayi you are dramatic
wena kancane kancane..
I've been a Domestic Placement Agent for the past 11 years and I must say ive seen different behaviours from both parties and some helpers take advantage of the employers kindness and some employers abuses their helpers and they retaliate in different ways even though the poisoning one is out of line.
It could be she did that deliberately or She was trying very hard to impress since she saw that her job is on the line and forgot to rinse and put it back where it was supposed to be with your cold water....
I also think that she just forgot to rinse it off and when asked about it she just gave an easy excuse to say she couldn’t open it 😢
The cleaning with domestos part, I do it too! I don’t know why I feel like it disinfect the dishes 😅
However, that experience is horrific. Letting her go was the right choice for your peace of mind
Same here
I have a helper and she sometimes uses Domestos or Jik to soak and disinfect my cup. I think she was just cleaning it shame.
Hai but her reaction is wild for someone who was innocently just soaking a cup.
By putting it into the cup? Maybe in water. Yes
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 yes inside the cup mixed with water. I use my cup for coffee and other drinks so smells do stay so if I need the cup fresh again then one would pour dishwashing liquid with bicarbonate inside the cup and let it soak for a while to let the smell clear.
@@LihleMatomaneOwami just told us that she uses her one for water only so there was no need for her to deep clean the cup with Domestos.
True
If it was not intentional,she should have put your Stanly in the sink to show she’s going to wash .
Exactly
I agree
I agree, sometimes we soak plates and cups with jik
I gave up on helpers a long time ago and you will be in heaven sooner than necessary if you try to battle with those people. I do everything myself, focus on 1 or 2 rooms a day and just keep rotating coz I’m also a working professional.
I share your sentiments @lesley_lezley. I also have trust issues and have had bad experiences with almost 5 or 6 of them in a space of about 6 years. With each of them having a habit I got fed up with, from not adequately doing the work, to stealing, sleeping on the job, breaking things in the house, you name it ...I really got tired and I am someone who prefers doing housework for themselves as well. Things got a bit hectic after having a child & honestly time gets little as our kids & work/careers take up most of it... but I promise you, you can do 1 thing @ a time until you come right - I've never experienced something as extreme as getting my health affected but it's very scary indeed and while not all of them are like this, it's also probably a majority of helpers that are just doing the work for the money vs looking at it as "we're helping each other here "...hay shame I don't understand these people and how they reason
Maybe you can get someone to do the things you can't get to...like windows, laundry, ironing vacuum & mopping floors, cleaning walls and maybe they don't need to tidy your bedroom or whatever; but maybe get them to do minimal work if you can
Smart❤❤❤
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2024 is been hard😱 for those with beautiful hearts, they pinned us down jumped on us, but we still live and kicking,the most high is protecting, sorry about that ninja ❤. ✌️❤️💡
Tjo! You can say that again hey. Being an empathy is hard guys. They use us and throw us away like rags.
As a lady I know I need a helper and I need someone who will help me.
However my instincts always tell me to learn how to clean up and buy appliances that will make my life easier without a helper.
These people have proven to be very DANGEROUS! Spiritually and physically.
This is where I'm at.
I’m also here right now…mine has left so many things I don’t understand in the house
@Mychanel23789 Get rid of her. Don't risk your life.
The lashes 😫😫😭😭😭 distraction shibubu
It was festive season shibubu 😅
😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 true
They are gorgeous though
Love em! 😂
Wish i can hear her side of the story
❤i like your comment
True, I hope she responds somehow
But least O gave us context as to what may have happened prior to the incident.
Most helpers wants to chose where or how they clean your house, once you voice out concerns about her job, they get angry.
Yhooo Hayi guys am side eyeing y’all why would you even think of that question like really
@acconaapryilll.7075 ME too am wondering , let's say she intended to kill her , do we think she'd admit that wow . Ours now is to sympathize with Owamie who nearly lost her life . If you feel different , itbwon't kill you just to keep your opinion to yourself , than being so bitter at someone's sad story . Let humanity not leave us
I guess this is why David Tlale said he prefers male cleaners/housekeepers, because they do a thorough job without involving their emotions.
But then if you kids, would you leave your kids with a man?
@@glamgodess9643 In this context, cleaner/housekeeper is just that, a cleaner. They don't tend to the needs of children/kids, that's the parents responsibility.
Huh what if they come with rapey intentions
@@glamgodess9643a housekeeper and a nanny are two completely different things ✨
@neosjournal_ I know, just don't want to have strange men in my house. Going back to work
My mom uses Domestos to clean our cups. We drink a lot of tea & it stains our mugs. Sunlight & Handy-Andy don't do the job. Mara, if she accidentally did that, she would react very different.
I also use domestos on dishes. But I put it in water and a very small amount
True, her reaction says a lot
My mum always uses jik and hot water also good for removing stains in tea cups.
Send her on her way!!!! You absolutely cannot trust her. She’s probably been doing other things that’s you’re not aware of.
Sorry about your horrible experience, and you had your loved ones there, I can imagine how scared they were.
You hired a witch. It's as simple as that.
There is something called weaponized incompetence. Do I think she was trying to off you? No, because what kind of stupidity is that. Do I think she is so incompetent that its actually dangerous, absolutely.
I am sorry this happened to you ninja
I agree that she was incompetent however what she did was deliberate. She didn't want to be corrected,got annoyed I guess
Can we please normalise taking workers to the police and creating a police record. So that this doesn’t happen again. I know of a story of a nanny that killed 5 years old toddler and put the toddler in the fridge and ran away. And also doing criminal check on all our workers. It’s not safe anymore even at home
Ey bandla 😢
Mina I prefer male helpers they are the best, especially when you nolonger raising children. I have my Sibusiso, he cleans the house, windows and the yard. Mina I just cook and wash dishes. He also doesn't do garden, I have a gardener who comes once a week. I'm happy with my 2 males. Try them guys you won't regret. Males are the best they don't even talk too much and never moody unlike females.
Thank goodness you are getting better. It is hard to find people you can trust. And, you never can be sure how people really feel about you even when they're smiling in your face.
I personally use domestos in my kitchen, sinks, dish clothes and I like it more than Jik🤷♀️
My mom does the same even on dishes , i dont think she was trying to off her i mean no one can try to off you using domestos because its bitter and you will taste it sooner before you swallow 😅
@@ScissorN I’m trying to figure out why she put the cup back in Owamie’s room if she was just trying to clean it or soak it.
To be honest us woman can be evil this is a two way situation some boss ladies are too much too bossy,too controlling,and following your workers while working and then also they are lady workers that take advantage alot,if you are a controller,or too bossy and mouthful do your house work yourself and don't hire anyone.
I agree, I hate people that boss and control helpers. It's sad to watch
So being bossy and controlling makes attempted murder okay? Interesting.
@@momomathebula8297 no one said it was okay dear,the bad treatment that some ladies get from these lady bosses leads to that rage not supporting it just saying where the problem comes from.
Why would you stay in an environment that is toxic?
I don’t think you have had a helper mama you only hear the stories, they are horror
People are scary,
🤯 for those who are saying the story is one sided...Haibo so if someone disagrees with you its fine to poison them or harm them?
No one deserves that, whether she felt otherwise about you or not...hope you are feeling better now Owami.
@@SiphokaziKaJesu Our helper once put Listerine in a half empty hand wash bottle saying she thought it’s a refill since it was running low😂😂
That is crazy work, some people are saying that she wasn’t trying to off you but the fact that she was not remorseful in any way? I say that she definitely tried to do soooomething. It’s tough being an employer especially as a black woman and especially if you have employed other black people, familiarity builds disrespect.
I flew here via Flysafair for this shende.
Yooooo indoda ethanda izindaba
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@@thobekiledlaminiUA-cam is an American company, Owamie is my favourite UA-camr and I watch all the ad's till the end. Have a great day ☺.️
Stop it right now😂😂😂
🤣💦🤣💦🤣💦 we definitely know who your dad is 🤣💦🤣💦🤣💦
The only helper you should treat like family is a caregiver to your elderly family members or your children's nanny because they have direct contact to your loved ones, especially if they are live in. Helpers doing domestic work should be treated professionally, contract and all. Don't allow them to do extra favours like wash your shoes, cook once in a while, etc because that is when they win you over. Sooner than later they will shit on you.
You definitely need to fire her, what an uncaring and negligent employee.
Those eyelashes are gorgeous Ninja. Wishing you a speedy recovery❤
No, Sana be honest with Ninja the eyelashes are not even, some are protruding hence they are disturbing her.
@@thandimasilela8947 it's by design. I'm not into lashes but I like Owami's. She gets them right and fashionably artistic.
@@thandimasilela8947she needs to be honest hawu
Okay I understand you, maybe it's because I'm a bit old fashioned and conservative 😜🙏
I don’t know why ppl take jobs they are not happy with. Cleaners are those ppl. Like nurses. They go on as if they are doing a favour. Even some company cleaners. Cleaners nje are a problem everywhere
Some nurses
It’s a sad reality
With helpers you need to be cold, like super cold. I even ghost my helper but I will always over pay her.
Best advice. Unfortunately.
This is why I don't like helpers. They know all your business and vulnerability. You're right. You have to be stern with them.
On thing I decided long ago to never stay with our helper in the house. Thank God when I bought my current house it came with an outside room though the toilet and bathroom are separate from the room but it’s there!
Secondly, I don’t discuss personal stuff with her. I’d only ask her if she’s spoken to her mum and kids and if they’re fine.
This is me exactly. I have 2extra rooms but my helper lives in the cottage and i asked her to never gossip with me. We talk general stuff, the weather etc
Sorry my Sis. Hire us cleaning companies, coming once in a week and stuff. No quarrels ❤❤❤
This is exactly what I trust.
Best thing ever… no drama, once a week.
Can they work everyday or you only do once a week?
@@nandizwane9087 it can be arranged
@nandizwane9087 Cleaning companies that offer housekeeping as one if their services can make an arrangement to clean everyday but you bare I mind that they charge according to hours spent and size of your home. Better to have them deep clean once a month and come in once or twice a week for standard Cleaning. I hope I make sense
I'm in the car with my man,we connected to the car speaker for this shende
Definitely not a mistake
If she struggled opening, she should have told you
Also if she struggled opening, why did she force the chemicals in anyway?This was intentional
Listening to you relating, she was intentional to end life and very dangerous. Wishing you speedy recovery.
You guys making the "some bosses are too bossy, controlling and arrogant" argument are wild hey. Why not quit instead of poisoning someone?
There are sooooo many people looking for helpers.
Exactly just condoning and enabling evilness
It’s like after a while they expect you to take them in and make them family. When they start slacking or intentionally being malicious and tearing you apart.
I have the best best helper who who has been 15 years with me. Not all helpers are bad cos even some madams are are evil taking advantage of their own helpers, treating them like slaves 😮😮😮😮
I'm a helper I have been working for my boss for 16 years there are are some things I don't understand but sunlight liquid and dettol....... I will wait for the helper's side of store. Get well Owamie
Please get yourself Aloe Vera Juice from Dischem. I once had an issue whereby after eating,my tummy would hurt. After taking the aloe vera juice,it healed completely
I want to say what is in my spirit n i am convinced,
This lady's personal stories are always true, she is dignified like that.
I'm so glad you let her go❤
I'm sure someone out there is busy looking for that helper just to interview and ask her about our ninja😂
Yeey 😂😂probably wanting to get the helpers “own narrative “
But then what l understand form her point of view is that if u have more people in the house that means more work for her.. were u paying extra or the same?but then she has no right to poison u..she should have just left.
But helpers charge by number of rooms. Not number of people in the house. In the Midrand area, they actually say they charge per number of bedrooms. And most people get visitors from time to time as well
I had a helper that I treated like a sister, I treated her like family her name was Delphin from Zim, that lady poisoned me because she wanted my husband, at the time I didn't know I was admitted in hospital and treated when I returned from hospital she was shocked and angry I thought I was over thinking and by then her dress code had changed and I remember she was wearing nice jeans and I commented that those Jeans are lovely and she said "bhuti bought it for me" stupid me I still didn't get it, until after some years my neighbors that I didn't even know came to me and told me that what happened was that Delphin poisoned me and she was angry when I was discharged and said to them I wonder why she didn't die. But unfortunately at this point Delphin was no longer with me and I didn't know where to find her.
I'm telling you these helpers are evil. I dont even want to write my disturbing experience. I'd rather allow a helper when I'm few days to dying.
As I wait for Promise to interview the helper 😂
😂😂Stop it
😂😂😂😂😂
Yooo
I didn't c this coming 😂😂😂
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The general rule is that, treat someone who cook and take care of your children well because your well-being is in their hands. I personally like to do everything by myself and I don’t like strangers in my home. My home is my safe nest away from the world. Treat your helpers well and never ever maltreat them. Some can even go to the extent of using muthi on you
@@kwindat.i.3560 this is so true. Most employers have ended up 👉🪦⚰️, because of their helper.
You can be nice and they still do this
True@@LumkaJwara
Believe me no matter how nice you are to someone who is evil, it doesn't matter they will still do evil
If you are being paid by someone to do a job. Please do your job..don't be a nasty person.
May I say this and I hope I don’t catch strays 🙏🏽
SOME helpers (and babysitters) are envious and want your life, especially when you (or your partner) are in the same age group as them, or their child’s age group.
They are very quiet but they study you and will find holes in how to fit into your life without over-extending themselves. They will find a way to benefit from you, or have what you have, over and above what you pay them.
I use public transport quite often and nothing beats the taxi rides from Noord to Boulders listening to them openly talk about their work conditions, and how they get back at y’all.
Yes some are treated badly but ke guys… 😢 majority want your life.
I remember one crying to her friend saying her boss makes her handwash towels with 💦🍑🍆 on them. My heart was broken and I was so sympathetic to her UNTIL said she went to get muti to make the husband’s 🍆 not work. WHERE DO THEY DRAW THE LINE?????????
Thus rough
Oboletje nnete samma😢.. Some want our lives.. Envy and Jelousy is a problem with them..
Yoh 💔
Taking from this conversation I u sweat and why Owamie is always in such “drama”… guys women feel very intimidated by strong black women who have strict boundaries and does well for themselves. Yoh ha a
OWAMI IT'S SO SAD THAT YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH THIS,
However, I want to emphasise THAT YOU MUST STILL GO AND SEE A DOCTOR/HOSPITAL,
Have all the necessary check-ups done,
You cannot self-conclude that you are getting better,
You don't know the extent of the internal harm done,
Consult with the Dr please
I'm praying for your full recovery
Yhoooo I thought I was the only one with helper issues!
2 weeks ago I decided that I won't have a fixed helper anymore. The lady dropped the standard after I increased her money without her even asking and even lied that she scrubbed the shower 😩 I'm never calling her back again shame.
One sip Owami??? 😂😂😂😂
It's bleach and dishwasher soap. Both highly concentrated, and who knows what else was added. Also, once you know you drank something wrong, it literally makes your body react. Also, whatever you drink or eat, even small quantity, if it's not meant for disgestion, it will affect the stomach. Just like one small pill can affect your whole body. Like, why are you even laughing, as if you said something smart??
One gulp, lol
I'm settling boundaries right now...and she is choosing to starve herself as she works. Treating someone good is sometimes to our own detriment.
Wow the starving part and I'll feel so horrible I guess that's what she wanted
@nontobekomdletshe6860 she gets a basic salary plus gets paid extra for piece jobs, free accommodation and food, plus access to Wi-Fi and I must not complain when she does something wrong. Work is work guys no maan.
@@KefilweKeineetsehow much..for how many rooms? N what is she doing on the daily basis
A bitter maid isn’t someone to keep in your home. Let her go.
@@KefilweKeineetseexactly, work is work.
I was on my way to watch the 1st video, then saw this one, lemme start here
i also started here
Sorry to hear Darling pls go to Good Churches there's many to look for some1 the are many ppl on their knees praying for work pls ma'am
I remember my granny always telling me, "Helpers are not your family, no matter how nice they are, they are not your family, and as long as they are paid, they are loyal to the money." These words hit home when I had a bad experience with a helper whom I trusted so much & literally thought of them as family then hyoooo the way this lady changed faces ayiii no never again. I remembered my granny's words, and I said nooo let them work for their money no more getting personal. Strictly Employer - Employee relationship with them helpers now.
what happened between you?
Thank God you made it Owami
Really all these comments are true.
Never trust a helper!!even if she stays with you.
One thing I ve learned is to pray for everything:including the water in my Stanley.Then no weapon formed against you shall prosper.
Owamie even if you not married do your own bedding please, the way I like doing things for myself I wouldn’t allow a helper to wash my bedding and putting it back. Lazy or not lazy, paying someone or not let’s normalise doing our own bed.
The point of having a cleaner is for them everything not for us to be scared of them doing their job
@ for them everything what?
I think people pay for the convenience. Personally, I wouldn’t want anyone washing my sheets and clothes coz my mom drilled that in me. But other people prefer to pay for those services and that’s okay 😊
We thank God for your life Owamie. I have never really liked to have a helper. I thank my grandmother for grooming me up well. I do my everything
You should have taken that to get it tested to know what exactly was in there people can be evil .....glad you are ok.
You are such an amazing story teller sis owami. But somehow you lost me too many times on this story from domestos to dettol🤔 then what public clinic did you go to that was closed.😮 coz they should be 24 hours. Thank God that you are ok .
Stanley should endorse you 👊
This helper must sue you for defamation of character.
Why did you not report this to the police?
Your next version will be that all your property was stolen and suspect this helper because you gave her your exit code.
You're toxic.
What if she has 10 helpers. She didn't mention any names
Very toxic lo aunty sana in her big age
Lol.
😂😂😂you’re crazy
Yoh Owamie you making me realise how u all depend on your helpers, why u not washing your cup before drinking something or u thought u left something in?
Yoh!!! I'm so sorry owamie 😢
ACTIVATED CHARCOAL was a great choice, Good job.
She's working with the tokoloshe gang😂😂😂😂😂
The sad part is that we won't be able to hear the side of her story. And de fact that this is still so fresh and you just come here to till de world because you maybe covering that she won't expose you first . It takes two to tango. I wish we can hear her side.😅
You sound so un empathetic! She was poisoned and all you can think of saying is she would be exposed!!! Get a grip woman.
She is not being unsymphathetic at all. Most people abuse other people under the narrative that they are needy and are at their mercy. Her side of the story is important because people like shifting the blame and treat other human beings like they are worthless, underpaying then and mistreat them.
@@nhlanhlanhlapo-ug5otWhatever her side of the story there is no reason to poison someone. If she didn’t want the job anymore she should have left.
You’re an enabler,you enable evil doings.No amount of treatment will warranty her trying to kill Owamie ,NOTHING! Even if she was to come and say Owamie maybe would mistreat her or was too needy or whatever it will still not warranty this ,you’ll like excusing evil deeds. You are part of the problem in society it’s like when we find out about the killing of someone and your first response will be “what did they do “.Just evil nje
You want to hear the side of the other side of the story so that the you can support the helper for putting domestos in the drink?
Haibo sisi 😂😂you can’t be serious
Girrrrrl! I'm experiencing this with nannies... I am getting sooo frustrated... I got 2 coz I have twins.. And I have a hectic job, so does my husband... I am tired of holding meetings for mediocre cleaning and childcare. Like why do we have to pay for such poor behavior/actions. Yoh...bathong can someone do a business of people who are good with childcare and home chores 😢the stress and anxiety of having people in your home with just no intention of doing a job they signed up for right
I'm here and experienced
Take them to daycare. I did that after my good nanny had to go back home. 2nd one that came, would sit watch TV as if, do the bear minimum. So I paid her at the end of that month & said I would call her if I needed her. Have been nanny free for 8 years.
Yoooooh owamie,askies 😮
Your story is ' not make sure'
I don’t have a live in maid because I don’t trust them fully. She cleans and does laundry and goes home. I don’t let her cook. I cook and we eat the same food. I dish the food myself.
I rinse every dish before using it. And always pray over my things. I treat them how I would want someone close to me to be treated if they are in their position but I keep my distance.
If i want to fire them I don’t tell them in advance. I just tell them I don’t have money and will call them back once I have money. Because people can be bitter.
Your maid currently sounds like my new maid. One month in and she’s already slacking. I’m giving her 3 months to see how she does.
Mine once left saying that I'm a good person but she is scared of me for being serious. Adding that she longer know if she is doing the right thing I told her that I will tell her when necessary ended up leaving
I wish we can do a live Owami, I have been in the for more than 10yeears running a training and Placement agency for domestic workers.
Please come in for an educational interview with Owamie. I think we can learn a lot from you.
My mom taught me to not have a helper in my home all week and to NEVER allow a helper to work in my home without my constant supervision. They should only come in about 2 times a week if you're a single person and you must supervise them in your home. Yoh.
And I was just catching up on a show called Abo Auntie (problematic domestic workers).
Kanti Are there no contracts in place guys for helpers?
Most of them don't have it shem.....gardeners, house helpers even nannies and tutors don't have contacts cos most of those jobs are friend family referral jobs or a friend's cousin's daughter.... They should have it but majority don't have and there is usually just verbal agreements
@mzansisoapiereviewroastand613 I think it should be mandatory, to protect both parties. Cause what if like in this case the helper feels unfairly dismissed or fired without proof of poisoning their boss. But that's just my opinion
My room is a no go area for helpers. From the onset of having helpers, I have never allowed them in my room. Many times, they will go into my room when I am not there, and I will find many things that are wrong after returning from work. I then decided to lock my room for peace of mind. Let us be careful. Many of these helpers do not mean well. We trust too easily. Scary stuff...
All I can say is yoh !!! Let me watch 😳
Mam i think you are overthinking.I use DOMESTOS full time for.my dishes because it works wanders on dish cloths,tea cups etc.
Did you listen to the whole video?
@@lethabodlamini3838 listening to a clown 🤡 😂 a narcissist … haibo wena !
I also use domestos to wash my dishes. I don't like the smell of eggs or saliva on my glasses and spoons. I do not use a lot only enough to take away the smell I always smell it on the Tupperware tumblers. I do not think it was intentional. I used to use bleach but noted I had areas on my hands that seemed to be burning and se nothing with the domestos. Get well ngwana mme
I looooove Pedis pronounciation: they say khomfoth instead of khamfart (comfort) assalt instead of assolt (assault) the list is endless skhul instead of skul (school). I'm here for it I really love it hle!!! Lasaniya, dilipi (slip) khotho (court) Tepen (durban)
Ware Thoma 😅😅😅😅😅pekos😅😅😅😅
Wa phapha wena
We are here🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤
"we know how these people steal." What do you mean by these people?
Helpers can be really evil xeim am so sorry u had to go through that ❤
If somebody did that to me and I find out about it while she's still around trust and believe she wasn't gonna get paid. The damn to almost kill me and expect payment she must be CRAZY.
I am a helper am writing this on my tea break , l use jik to soak dishes when there is no jik l use domestos but that aunty was supposed to ask u to help open the cup then wash it throughly before leaving but yena she was in a Rush to leave now it costed her A job . I dont travel December holiday cause l know my employers will need help and l sat down with them and we agreed that l will take my leave during the year 24 December l was working l knocked off around 7 so and l dont mind doing extra hours for free my pay is paid on a monthly base its not a daily paid salary . I hope u find a good helper who will come and work for u with a pure heart and pure intentions❤
Thank God you're well Queen Ninja, things could've taken a huge tragic turn. As your people we're asking that she doesn't come back. To all the Ninjas, have boundaries when it comes to Helpers/Nannies, mabasebenze baphume bahambe. There's no need to build relations outside of the work they're being paid for. Don't be mean but have boundaries and limits. 🥺💕
One thing about nannies I picked up is once you start telling a person to do her work and she is giving an attitude I fire. Until I get the one willing to do the work and the respectful one than I keep. I dint compromise
Some people do use domestos. I once had to stop a friend from using domestos in the kitchen to clean the dishes . What is so dirty in the kitchen that normal dish wash can't clean?
Sometimes helpers need to be handled at the same standard of retail casual employees. When they spend half day at work they get half day's pay and get paid by the hour and by how many targets they reach.
I'm glad you are well Miss fear Vokol. ❤ I have never been the one to trust helpers. Take care
Yazi as a maid ,it will seems like we are the same we are total different ,if your boss is nice don't take advantage nje but they are good maids out there sorry to find bad one
She probably just moved the straw holder and took the straw out, there’s a bigger hole where she could easily have poured sunlight.
Working for content creators haaa😂you become the content