I Almost Didn't See 2025, My Helper Poured Poisonous Liquid In My Stanly Guys Be Careful
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I have observed something about helpers... The nicer you are to them, they tend to take advantage and abuse you. They seem to be more loyal to employers who treat them badly.
I think you have to keep professional distance & not treat them like family cause otherwise they will use & abuse you.
True
Owamie, a year before last🤓🤓.
My sister spoke about this omly yesterday. When you treat them like family, they become entitled and forget why they are at your place.
So true. Had the same experience with my helpers. My goodness that time you want to live in harmony with them because they spent most of their time with me and my family.
I'm also a helper who is in this family for 14 years, they treat me like family and i also do that, they even know where i live ,i do my job wholeheartedly nothing changed,i value my job and i always teach my children about that ,i will never degrade myself like that, years back i was only a cleaner gradually i cooked, wash and iron,and now im looking after my boss like a care giver ,my secret is i always talk when I'm not happy then we talk simple as that i don't bear grudges
My mother advised me that,the bedrooms are off limits.That includes the bedding,doing the bed,the underwear.Pack the clothes yourself, in that way you will see the clothes that are missing.We need to make time to take care of our own spaces.We should not be so trusting of strangers with our possessions.Sorry you went through that ordeal.
That's why I'm paranoid of helping a helper.The mental exhaustion of having to be hyper vigilant with your stuff.I rather do the cleaning myself😩
Main bedroom and the pots are a no go ,no matter how tired I am.Yey,they'll finish you😂😂😂😂.
Hmmm ! It is scary! Thank God you are still alive cc!
You must open a case cc because sometimes the poison can take a long time inside you!
If I'm going to pack the clothes and wash the pots,why do I have a Helper?😊
I never believed in helpers. Married 35 years and doing my own things, taught my kids to do own chores, now both married and left with my better half, still doing my laundry, cleaning etc.
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👏👏👏Awesome
Not all of them are bad though
I am the same , if I really can’t cope I just have someone for a day. I have been traumatized by helpers
For us Kong distance traveling to work returning 6pm snd having small kids kind forced us.
I think she was just in a rush to finish. She probably used a Domestos mixture to clean the cup, maybe to remove lipstick stains or something, but didn’t rinse it properly before refilling it with water. It happen, even with Sunlight liquid, you can taste the residue if someone didn’t rinse properly, and Domestos is even worse since it’s not meant for dishes. She likely didn’t check on you because she was still focused on those high-paying clients she was rushing to, plus it was the festive season. If she wanted to poison you she would have used something else that you wouldn't have known about.
Worst case scenario with the mixture would be a runny tummy I assume. I get what you are saying but get Owami's panick aswell.
LOL I don't think you were listening throughout the video. Listening is a skill, but a very simple one, guys.
Are you making excuses for the helper?
Even if she made a mistake and did not intend to harm anyone. Owamie said she was becoming negligent, and negligence can lead to someone being severely harmed or killed. Your life is more important than trying to make excuses for someone who does not care for your wellbeing.
Prayer 🙏🏾 We all should be praying about the people that come into our lives. Something seems off.. not sure exactly what..but that’s where prayer will reveal. Be blessed and get well.❤
I never talk and complain when I see things are slacking I just find away to let the person go and move on to the next one… I just feel so vulnerable with someone in your personal space so once the vibe changes it’s chai…
But who wants 20 ppl to know their home & schedule when easy communication can solve most problems. The problem is some ppl especially foreigners hate the fact that they are cleaners & will take it out on you.
Not 😂20 ppl … the worse it’s been is 2 ppl per year but if I get someone that won’t change after a while I won’t have a problem but for now. It works for me
Me too, I don't wait until I have to tell them what to do. You don't do your job, I let you go and move on.
@@beewest5704 True and different energies they bring to the house...
You're right, because when you tell them they take offense and even go to an extent to provoke you. They are evil I wish I never needed them 😢😢😢
I’ve learned the hard way too,being friendly with my workers.
@MaggieM2027 I've just learnt it this December
In the future, please do pray to God Owamie and ask Him to help you find the Good person to come in and work for you. Maids can sell you out for few coins, can get paid to harm you etc… that one is spiteful probably she was angry working on Christmas Eve! Sorry Ninja but Do pray about stuff like Maids - it’s not a small matter bringing a Stranger to your intimate space! Much love to you Owamie, take care!❤
You are wise, my sister.
Great points,however "maid" is a derogatory term..it's "helpers" .
I remember my granny always telling me, "Helpers are not your family, no matter how nice they are, they are not your family, and as long as they are paid, they are loyal to the money." These words hit home when I had a bad experience with a helper whom I trusted so much & literally thought of them as family then hyoooo the way this lady changed faces ayiii no never again. I remembered my granny's words, and I said nooo let them work for their money no more getting personal. Strictly Employer - Employee relationship with them helpers now.
Eish this is so sad how ever I also did domestic work and I was using domestos when washing dishes and glasses, I was working for four different people during Covid and they still call me and tell me I have set the standard high but they don't find one to close the gap, so sorry about that Owamie
Same here
I also believe in Domestos 🤣🤣 I use it on EVERYTHING!! Dishes, floors, toilet and even to soak my water bottles!! I think her (helper) could've given Owami a heads up though after pouring it into her Stanley cup
❤same here
I live by myself, but also use Jik or Domestos to clean my water bottles. In as much as I only use them for water - I just feel like it cleans it better.
I've been a Domestic Placement Agent for the past 11 years and I must say ive seen different behaviours from both parties and some helpers take advantage of the employers kindness and some employers abuses their helpers and they retaliate in different ways even though the poisoning one is out of line.
It could be she did that deliberately or She was trying very hard to impress since she saw that her job is on the line and forgot to rinse and put it back where it was supposed to be with your cold water....
I also think that she just forgot to rinse it off and when asked about it she just gave an easy excuse to say she couldn’t open it 😢
I had a Zimbabwean domestic that I called aunty. My kids did as well. We treated her like family. Her name is Irene Bingandadi dating a Burundian old man by the name of Jean Paul Ferdinand. Together they scammed me over R50k this festive season. I'm still in shock. She has since disappeared. They introduced me to a Kenyan guy called Benjamin Kariuki who claimed he was a UNHCR officer who needed "colddrink" to assist us with the refugee relocation program. It was a believable story as Jean Paul was now in france. I had chosen Canada. Once the "official" had collected his full fee, he disappeared without a trace. A life has been lost due to this scam. A friend that was supposed to travel with me lost a pregnancy due to the disappointment. I trusted Irene. I treated her like family for over 10 years. But obviously that was never enough. The shocking thing is that Mr Ferdinand is an old man who should be a respected elder. To say I'm shocked is an understatement and now I have to pay all that money back
Definitely deliberate😏
Get well soon queen ninja💐
Thank God the worst didn’t happen🙏🏾
For the future Ninja please no matter how hungry or thirsty you are , please never ever use use water from the previous night and that goes for your kettle as well, there could be a poisonous spider inside and you will be unlived ntombi, always just give your cups or kettle a quick rinse before use
So true, this has happened to me,
@@SthokoK😢 Yoh
Thanks for the heads up Yoh!
@ yooooo Im so sorry hey
😢what happened @@SthokoK
Don’t make helpers cook & don’t allow them in the main bedroom, especially if you are married!
Bathong, rather hire a company to come once a week or bi weekly to deep clean. Especially if living alone, you can do your dishes and laundry
Dnt they steal?
@@behlumatheezaliThey normally don't steal but you will never know.
@@behlumatheezaliThey normally have a supervisor & they are less likely to steal because the company does nit want bad reviews. I just dislike the fact that too many strangers know what goes on in your house, the layout, what you have etc which is not safe at all.
These companies are notorious for shedding workers cause they are basic slavery!
@@behlumatheezaliyou can report them to their agency unlike the ones whom you don’t even know where they stay
I keep preaching this to anyone who cares to listen. Cleaning companies are the way to go if you don't need a nanny.
Owamie I am 59yrs . I was domestic worker since I was22.
I'm telling you she's a day light which.
I use to be abused by my 2 previous employers.
I never ever even think of heating or hurming my Bos.
If she didn't like your way of leaving.she should stop and leave. But poisoning you is another thing. And the name of that is killing.
That was her plan. I'm so sorry for that Owamie.
I gave up on helpers a long time ago and you will be in heaven sooner than necessary if you try to battle with those people. I do everything myself, focus on 1 or 2 rooms a day and just keep rotating coz I’m also a working professional.
I share your sentiments @lesley_lezley. I also have trust issues and have had bad experiences with almost 5 or 6 of them in a space of about 6 years. With each of them having a habit I got fed up with, from not adequately doing the work, to stealing, sleeping on the job, breaking things in the house, you name it ...I really got tired and I am someone who prefers doing housework for themselves as well. Things got a bit hectic after having a child & honestly time gets little as our kids & work/careers take up most of it... but I promise you, you can do 1 thing @ a time until you come right - I've never experienced something as extreme as getting my health affected but it's very scary indeed and while not all of them are like this, it's also probably a majority of helpers that are just doing the work for the money vs looking at it as "we're helping each other here "...hay shame I don't understand these people and how they reason
Maybe you can get someone to do the things you can't get to...like windows, laundry, ironing vacuum & mopping floors, cleaning walls and maybe they don't need to tidy your bedroom or whatever; but maybe get them to do minimal work if you can
Smart❤❤❤
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The cleaning with domestos part, I do it too! I don’t know why I feel like it disinfect the dishes 😅
However, that experience is horrific. Letting her go was the right choice for your peace of mind
Same here
Me too
I have a helper and she sometimes uses Domestos or Jik to soak and disinfect my cup. I think she was just cleaning it shame.
Hai but her reaction is wild for someone who was innocently just soaking a cup.
By putting it into the cup? Maybe in water. Yes
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 yes inside the cup mixed with water. I use my cup for coffee and other drinks so smells do stay so if I need the cup fresh again then one would pour dishwashing liquid with bicarbonate inside the cup and let it soak for a while to let the smell clear.
@@LihleMatomaneOwami just told us that she uses her one for water only so there was no need for her to deep clean the cup with Domestos.
True
Thank goodness you are getting better. It is hard to find people you can trust. And, you never can be sure how people really feel about you even when they're smiling in your face.
I guess this is why David Tlale said he prefers male cleaners/housekeepers, because they do a thorough job without involving their emotions.
But then if you kids, would you leave your kids with a man?
@@glamgodess9643 In this context, cleaner/housekeeper is just that, a cleaner. They don't tend to the needs of children/kids, that's the parents responsibility.
Huh what if they come with rapey intentions
@@glamgodess9643a housekeeper and a nanny are two completely different things ✨
@neosjournal_ I know, just don't want to have strange men in my house. Going back to work
The fact that you still say "she was working with me" shows how much respect you had for her.
I kept it professional. We had a contract, I paid waaay above the minimum wage, she worked hours stipulated in the contract, she had leave, didn't cook for us etc. She showed us flames! Organised a whole house robbery. A local South African lady!!!
However, there are still good domestic workers out there. I guess it's a roll of the dice. If you have a good one, be thankful and keep it professional. Period!
Sorry to hear, I feel for you 😢. The painful is you extended utmost humanity and that is how you would be thanked. God will see you through.
@williamphetoe408 Thank you my brother. Unfortunately it was a horrible house robbery that left my family traumatised. The police re-traumatised us by not doing their job to ensure we got justice. We had to lick our wounds and move on with life. We have since found life in another country.
If it was not intentional,she should have put your Stanly in the sink to show she’s going to wash .
Exactly
I agree
I agree, sometimes we soak plates and cups with jik
EXACTLY!!!!! Why leave it on the counter? It was definitely intentional
Some helpers think that by hiring them, it is because we cannot clean our own houses. It is because we work all day and also, we are giving them jobs and as I always say, once they have graduated, they do not do the right thing. They forget that it is a give and take situation. We end up labelled as if black people are difficult to work for. Just do your job correctly.
They don't see that we helping each other and many people need work so it is a benifit for both. Sad they don't always see it like that.
I agree. My helper only do ironing .I wash my clothes. She only comes when iam home. I do😊 not trust them anything is possible with this young lady. My older helper I use to call her gogo she's the only one I trust. She was the one have my house keys
2024 is been hard😱 for those with beautiful hearts, they pinned us down jumped on us, but we still live and kicking,the most high is protecting, sorry about that ninja ❤. ✌️❤️💡
Tjo! You can say that again hey. Being an empathy is hard guys. They use us and throw us away like rags.
Yeyyyi! I've decided that from this year forward I'm the vilian😂😂
Can we please normalise taking workers to the police and creating a police record. So that this doesn’t happen again. I know of a story of a nanny that killed 5 years old toddler and put the toddler in the fridge and ran away. And also doing criminal check on all our workers. It’s not safe anymore even at home
Ey bandla 😢
Mina I prefer male helpers they are the best, especially when you nolonger raising children. I have my Sibusiso, he cleans the house, windows and the yard. Mina I just cook and wash dishes. He also doesn't do garden, I have a gardener who comes once a week. I'm happy with my 2 males. Try them guys you won't regret. Males are the best they don't even talk too much and never moody unlike females.
@@thandimasilela8947Eish but if you have girl children…. Unless you’re ALWAYS there
Yes, my dear hence I said if you no longer raising children, you obviously can't hire males when you still raising girl children, you'll be inviting trouble.
As a lady I know I need a helper and I need someone who will help me.
However my instincts always tell me to learn how to clean up and buy appliances that will make my life easier without a helper.
These people have proven to be very DANGEROUS! Spiritually and physically.
This is where I'm at.
I’m also here right now…mine has left so many things I don’t understand in the house
@Mychanel23789 Get rid of her. Don't risk your life.
My mom taught me to not have a helper in my home all week and to NEVER allow a helper to work in my home without my constant supervision. They should only come in about 2 times a week if you're a single person and you must supervise them in your home. Yoh.
The fact that she put cleaning products through the straw and not informed you that she struggled to open the lid is madness, she should have came to you and asked you to open it for her. I don't understand how she put it back where she got it from, why not leave it in the sink, her story is not adding up. Maybe she thought your sister was there to spy on her or maybe she became hard to continue helping herself with things in the house since your sister moved in. I understand that people don't have time and sometimes they might be tired but bedding {or let me just say your bedroom} and underwear are a no go for someone to do it for you unless you are really sick. I hope people learn from this not to get too comfortable with their helper, some are God sent but some can be mean and evil. Next time try go through agency, someone who is going to do things your way and they will be trained to clean and respect your home so is your property. Wishing you speed recovery!
Sorry about your horrible experience, and you had your loved ones there, I can imagine how scared they were.
You hired a witch. It's as simple as that.
These helper issues are common in Africa. I moved to the West and my life has changed for the better. I don’t think I’ll ever need a maid in my life. I realized I was lazy in Africa, I have two children under 5, I work like 12 hour shifts, hubby the same but we still clean the house, take care of the children and will rest. I used to rest all day everyday back home🤣🤣 and that’s why I needed a maid. If you want anything done, just do it yourself and that way it’s always perfect!!
That is crazy work, some people are saying that she wasn’t trying to off you but the fact that she was not remorseful in any way? I say that she definitely tried to do soooomething. It’s tough being an employer especially as a black woman and especially if you have employed other black people, familiarity builds disrespect.
There is something called weaponized incompetence. Do I think she was trying to off you? No, because what kind of stupidity is that. Do I think she is so incompetent that its actually dangerous, absolutely.
I am sorry this happened to you ninja
I agree that she was incompetent however what she did was deliberate. She didn't want to be corrected,got annoyed I guess
My mom uses Domestos to clean our cups. We drink a lot of tea & it stains our mugs. Sunlight & Handy-Andy don't do the job. Mara, if she accidentally did that, she would react very different.
I also use domestos on dishes. But I put it in water and a very small amount
True, her reaction says a lot
My mum always uses jik and hot water also good for removing stains in tea cups.
Send her on her way!!!! You absolutely cannot trust her. She’s probably been doing other things that’s you’re not aware of.
I am a helper am writing this on my tea break , l use jik to soak dishes when there is no jik l use domestos but that aunty was supposed to ask u to help open the cup then wash it throughly before leaving but yena she was in a Rush to leave now it costed her A job . I dont travel December holiday cause l know my employers will need help and l sat down with them and we agreed that l will take my leave during the year 24 December l was working l knocked off around 7 so and l dont mind doing extra hours for free my pay is paid on a monthly base its not a daily paid salary . I hope u find a good helper who will come and work for u with a pure heart and pure intentions❤
You are a good person.. your employer is blessed to have you..
You don’t travel during December because your employers will need help,also you don’t mind working extra hours for free?No ways your employers are using you if they were such good people they will pay you for the extra hours time is money if they can’t do the job themselves they better be prepared to compensate you for your hard work.
@LangelihleNgema l get 1 month paid leave every year l also get a 13th salary in December l close around 13 and go to work two days on around 20 and 24 to tidy up then go again Clean up around 27 December then l resume my work 6 January so me not going away for December holidays is just a decision l made for my self l tend to spend a lot in December traveling than during the year and also the lines at the are not for me am from Zim l do have papers also and a valid work permit , also wen am available I December l get called for extra jobs elsewhere that is one of the main reasons l choose not to go away in December and my employers are so scared to hire anyone even if we have extra job that requires another person they will ask me to bring someone but that person should work downstairs l should focus with upstairs cause they once hired a helper while l was on 6 months maternity leave but the girl was stealing so that is the other reason
I'm a helper too,so you not spending festive holidays with your family and also why are you working extra hours for free? No ma'am don't do that to yourself 😢
@ Exactly.
The only helper you should treat like family is a caregiver to your elderly family members or your children's nanny because they have direct contact to your loved ones, especially if they are live in. Helpers doing domestic work should be treated professionally, contract and all. Don't allow them to do extra favours like wash your shoes, cook once in a while, etc because that is when they win you over. Sooner than later they will shit on you.
my advise is once you see them dropping the standard fire and get someone else, because once you raise issues they resent you and you and your kids 's life will be in danger, my last one was here 6months and she got so comfortable and i made a big mistake by giving her access to the WIFI, She would rush to finish her chores and sit on her phone the whole day.
My helper bleached my formal wear, ironed the clothes and packed them in my closet without saying a word I only saw it yesterday 😮💨😫paid her last salary today.
Yhooooo 😢😩😩
Definitely not a mistake
If she struggled opening, she should have told you
Also if she struggled opening, why did she force the chemicals in anyway?This was intentional
A one sided story is not advisable to listen to, if the helper was given an opportunity to come and relate her side of her story it would be better bfo we start judging her helper. Some boss ladies can be too arrogant...
😂😂😂so if the boss is arrogant simply QUIT! Why’re you putting dettol in a Stanley cup??
So having an arrogant boss makes attempted murder justifiable? Woah.
Serious hlm this one is full of herself, when she was hiring the lady didn't invite us. What piss me off ke hore that lady mind have children ND most times our parents show or takes us to our bosses most in that space of so called a helper. This one her day is coming
It might not be deliberately but it did happen why another side of story , Hayi you are dramatic
wena kancane kancane..
You definitely need to fire her, what an uncaring and negligent employee.
I'm so glad you let her go❤
I'm sure someone out there is busy looking for that helper just to interview and ask her about our ninja😂
Yeey 😂😂probably wanting to get the helpers “own narrative “
I flew here via Flysafair for this shende.
Yooooo indoda ethanda izindaba
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@@thobekiledlaminiUA-cam is an American company, Owamie is my favourite UA-camr and I watch all the ad's till the end. Have a great day ☺.️
Stop it right now😂😂😂
🤣💦🤣💦🤣💦 we definitely know who your dad is 🤣💦🤣💦🤣💦
Those eyelashes are gorgeous Ninja. Wishing you a speedy recovery❤
No, Sana be honest with Ninja the eyelashes are not even, some are protruding hence they are disturbing her.
@@thandimasilela8947she needs to be honest hawu
Okay I understand you, maybe it's because I'm a bit old fashioned and conservative 😜🙏
@@thandimasilela8947I love them too🥹😍😍😍🥰
OWAMI IT'S SO SAD THAT YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH THIS,
However, I want to emphasise THAT YOU MUST STILL GO AND SEE A DOCTOR/HOSPITAL,
Have all the necessary check-ups done,
You cannot self-conclude that you are getting better,
You don't know the extent of the internal harm done,
Consult with the Dr please
I'm praying for your full recovery
So true
On thing I decided long ago to never stay with our helper in the house. Thank God when I bought my current house it came with an outside room though the toilet and bathroom are separate from the room but it’s there!
Secondly, I don’t discuss personal stuff with her. I’d only ask her if she’s spoken to her mum and kids and if they’re fine.
This is me exactly. I have 2extra rooms but my helper lives in the cottage and i asked her to never gossip with me. We talk general stuff, the weather etc
I don’t have a live in maid because I don’t trust them fully. She cleans and does laundry and goes home. I don’t let her cook. I cook and we eat the same food. I dish the food myself.
I rinse every dish before using it. And always pray over my things. I treat them how I would want someone close to me to be treated if they are in their position but I keep my distance.
I made a copy of her ID and know where she stays.
If i want to fire them I don’t tell them in advance. I just tell them I don’t have money and will call them back once I have money. Because people can be bitter.
Your maid currently sounds like my new maid. One month in and she’s already slacking. I’m giving her 3 months to see how she does.
I personally use domestos in my kitchen, sinks, dish clothes and I like it more than Jik🤷♀️
My mom does the same even on dishes , i dont think she was trying to off her i mean no one can try to off you using domestos because its bitter and you will taste it sooner before you swallow 😅
@@SA_CrimeWatch I’m trying to figure out why she put the cup back in Owamie’s room if she was just trying to clean it or soak it.
I'm in the car with my man,we connected to the car speaker for this shende
Listening to you relating, she was intentional to end life and very dangerous. Wishing you speedy recovery.
People are scary,
🤯 for those who are saying the story is one sided...Haibo so if someone disagrees with you its fine to poison them or harm them?
No one deserves that, whether she felt otherwise about you or not...hope you are feeling better now Owami.
@@SiphokaziKaJesu Our helper once put Listerine in a half empty hand wash bottle saying she thought it’s a refill since it was running low😂😂
The reason for hearing the other side is to find out if the act was deliberate or not. We are not disputing that she poured the chemical in the cup- Domestos, but was it done with the intention to poison her.
I also use domestos to wash my dishes. I don't like the smell of eggs or saliva on my glasses and spoons. I do not use a lot only enough to take away the smell I always smell it on the Tupperware tumblers. I do not think it was intentional. I used to use bleach but noted I had areas on my hands that seemed to be burning and se nothing with the domestos. Get well ngwana mme
I have the best best helper who who has been 15 years with me. Not all helpers are bad cos even some madams are are evil taking advantage of their own helpers, treating them like slaves 😮😮😮😮
I'm a helper I have been working for my boss for 16 years there are are some things I don't understand but sunlight liquid and dettol....... I will wait for the helper's side of store. Get well Owamie
It’s like after a while they expect you to take them in and make them family. When they start slacking or intentionally being malicious and tearing you apart.
I've tried helpers for so long but I was never happy, The last one took a bath and used the same dirty water to wash my newborn's clothes, That was my final straw 😂 I use private companies now.
To be honest us woman can be evil this is a two way situation some boss ladies are too much too bossy,too controlling,and following your workers while working and then also they are lady workers that take advantage alot,if you are a controller,or too bossy and mouthful do your house work yourself and don't hire anyone.
I agree, I hate people that boss and control helpers. It's sad to watch
So being bossy and controlling makes attempted murder okay? Interesting.
@@momomathebula8297 no one said it was okay dear,the bad treatment that some ladies get from these lady bosses leads to that rage not supporting it just saying where the problem comes from.
Why would you stay in an environment that is toxic?
I don’t think you have had a helper mama you only hear the stories, they are horror
You guys making the "some bosses are too bossy, controlling and arrogant" argument are wild hey. Why not quit instead of poisoning someone?
There are sooooo many people looking for helpers.
Exactly just condoning and enabling evilness
I think we need 📸 cameras in the house if we are having helpers at home.. We can use it as evidence to get them arrested or take legal action
The lashes 😫😫😭😭😭 distraction shibubu
It was festive season shibubu 😅
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😂😂😂😂😂😂 true
They are gorgeous though
Love em! 😂
From a Clinical Psychologist, the Psychology behind you not using your Stanley for a week is called “avoidance” one of the symptoms of Acute Stress Reaction or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I am sorry to learn that you were “poisoned” by your Helper, most of us have experienced that. Wishing you complete recovery ❤️🩹 Owamie.
I don’t know why ppl take jobs they are not happy with. Cleaners are those ppl. Like nurses. They go on as if they are doing a favour. Even some company cleaners. Cleaners nje are a problem everywhere
Some nurses
It’s a sad reality
I want to say what is in my spirit n i am convinced,
This lady's personal stories are always true, she is dignified like that.
With helpers you need to be cold, like super cold. I even ghost my helper but I will always over pay her.
Best advice. Unfortunately.
This is why I don't like helpers. They know all your business and vulnerability. You're right. You have to be stern with them.
@@Thecutest_GiraffeI’m Stern but very nice at the same time 😢. I don’t know how to ghost them
Yoh guys I almost died before time in 2021 when my helper had an affair with my bf. At that time, I had jusy been diagnosed with breast cancer, having started with my chemo treatment. Yey I respect helpers from Mozambique guys. I treated that girl as my younger sister. She had ordered muti from bach home to put on my food. The instructions were that she should put it on my avo,they even mentioned that it's gonna be easy and quicker coz everyone would think I died from cancer. Women are evil shame coz m a young mom of 2 and at the time my kids were 7&3 years of age. She hadn't even spent 3 months in my house. Worse, my ex wasn't even staying with us, he was frequenting there coz I needed support.
I’m so sorry you went through that ❤
Sorry my Sis. Hire us cleaning companies, coming once in a week and stuff. No quarrels ❤❤❤
This is exactly what I trust.
Best thing ever… no drama, once a week.
Can they work everyday or you only do once a week?
@@nandizwane9087 it can be arranged
@nandizwane9087 Cleaning companies that offer housekeeping as one if their services can make an arrangement to clean everyday but you bare I mind that they charge according to hours spent and size of your home. Better to have them deep clean once a month and come in once or twice a week for standard Cleaning. I hope I make sense
Yhoooo I thought I was the only one with helper issues!
2 weeks ago I decided that I won't have a fixed helper anymore. The lady dropped the standard after I increased her money without her even asking and even lied that she scrubbed the shower 😩 I'm never calling her back again shame.
The general rule is that, treat someone who cook and take care of your children well because your well-being is in their hands. I personally like to do everything by myself and I don’t like strangers in my home. My home is my safe nest away from the world. Treat your helpers well and never ever maltreat them. Some can even go to the extent of using muthi on you
@@kwindat.i.3560 this is so true. Most employers have ended up 👉🪦⚰️, because of their helper.
You can be nice and they still do this
True@@LumkaJwara
Believe me no matter how nice you are to someone who is evil, it doesn't matter they will still do evil
If you are being paid by someone to do a job. Please do your job..don't be a nasty person.
ACTIVATED CHARCOAL was a great choice, Good job.
To be honest, live-in helpers are "kinda" better because you have more control because of minimized movements. Helpers that come through daily are a problem, they will steal from you!
Please get yourself Aloe Vera Juice from Dischem. I once had an issue whereby after eating,my tummy would hurt. After taking the aloe vera juice,it healed completely
The fact that she wasn’t remorseful or even civil enough to check on you is alarming and a red flag 🚩 it’s very much leaning toward evil. If it was an accident she would’ve been apologetic if she’s a decent person.
Girrrrrl! I'm experiencing this with nannies... I am getting sooo frustrated... I got 2 coz I have twins.. And I have a hectic job, so does my husband... I am tired of holding meetings for mediocre cleaning and childcare. Like why do we have to pay for such poor behavior/actions. Yoh...bathong can someone do a business of people who are good with childcare and home chores 😢the stress and anxiety of having people in your home with just no intention of doing a job they signed up for right
I'm here and experienced
Take them to daycare. I did that after my good nanny had to go back home. 2nd one that came, would sit watch TV as if, do the bear minimum. So I paid her at the end of that month & said I would call her if I needed her. Have been nanny free for 8 years.
Most helpers are evil it seems as if they are doing us favor or they are helping for free, so sorry cc God have protected you
She's working with the tokoloshe gang😂😂😂😂😂
Her intentions and lack of care is what is VERY SUSPICIOUS!
However, I can understand how she could have poured domestos and sunlight. Domestos changes the formulation and colour of sunlight. They are both thick but I do clean my Stanley straw with them, the openings can be directed straight into the straw. (I always rinse my cup well btw).
Its how she reacted to the whole situation on top of the prior issues. I think its already dangerous to have kept her on when she was now communicating a certain way with you and doing funny things.
Why was she blowing up your phone when it was about her job but not about 'accidental' poisoning? No... bye. She needs to go. Its done.
Taking from this conversation I u sweat and why Owamie is always in such “drama”… guys women feel very intimidated by strong black women who have strict boundaries and does well for themselves. Yoh ha a
Sometimes helpers need to be handled at the same standard of retail casual employees. When they spend half day at work they get half day's pay and get paid by the hour and by how many targets they reach.
I was on my way to watch the 1st video, then saw this one, lemme start here
i also started here
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣My sisters helper once complained that I don't help or assist her with house chores. Guess what my sister called while she was at work and told me that I need to help her around the house. Mind you I took it upon myself that cooking I will or washing the dishes I will do that I did not have an issue doing that. I was pissed. That day I called a meeting when my sister came back from work, I confronted them both about the issue. I then said to both of them I don't mind assisting only if I will also get paid if not then I'm more than welcome to leave and give them their space and peace.
Unless that's yo parents house or unless u help pay for the helper why do u feel like u should not clean
My question too@@nomusadlamini752
You should have taken that to get it tested to know what exactly was in there people can be evil .....glad you are ok.
One sip Owami??? 😂😂😂😂
It's bleach and dishwasher soap. Both highly concentrated, and who knows what else was added. Also, once you know you drank something wrong, it literally makes your body react. Also, whatever you drink or eat, even small quantity, if it's not meant for disgestion, it will affect the stomach. Just like one small pill can affect your whole body. Like, why are you even laughing, as if you said something smart??
One gulp, lol
As I wait for Promise to interview the helper 😂
😂😂Stop it
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Yooo
I didn't c this coming 😂😂😂
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Helpers are not supposed to stay in the house, they must leave after cleaning. They are not your friends!
May I say this and I hope I don’t catch strays 🙏🏽
SOME helpers (and babysitters) are envious and want your life, especially when you (or your partner) are in the same age group as them, or their child’s age group.
They are very quiet but they study you and will find holes in how to fit into your life without over-extending themselves. They will find a way to benefit from you, or have what you have, over and above what you pay them.
I use public transport quite often and nothing beats the taxi rides from Noord to Boulders listening to them openly talk about their work conditions, and how they get back at y’all.
Yes some are treated badly but ke guys… 😢 majority want your life.
I remember one crying to her friend saying her boss makes her handwash towels with 💦🍑🍆 on them. My heart was broken and I was so sympathetic to her UNTIL said she went to get muti to make the husband’s 🍆 not work. WHERE DO THEY DRAW THE LINE?????????
Thus rough
Oboletje nnete samma😢.. Some want our lives.. Envy and Jelousy is a problem with them..
Yoh 💔
Im 63yrs old still working,some bosses are hectic,sometimes you feel not appreciated,lm working in a 13 room house,5 people but not cooking every day cos lm not good in cooking,but a good cleaner,lm also good in ironing,have basic childcare certificate,my problem at the moment,as this is a 13room house,and other rooms/houses when the tenant moves out,l go and clean with no money added to my salary,lm getting less than R3500,the garden boys comes once a week,they ask me to water the big lawn,it's too much,but because of my age,quiting is not the solution,my son is struggling to get a job,and prefer stayin,any advise guys or anything,
This helper should be behind bars for attempted murder
But then what l understand form her point of view is that if u have more people in the house that means more work for her.. were u paying extra or the same?but then she has no right to poison u..she should have just left.
But helpers charge by number of rooms. Not number of people in the house. In the Midrand area, they actually say they charge per number of bedrooms. And most people get visitors from time to time as well
Owamie, that your helper isn’t doing this evil the first time. If possible report her to the authorities to safe other families. That lady is evil. Please make sure you change your apartment code so she doesn’t come back to finish the evil work. I am happy you made it through.
Wish i can hear her side of the story
❤i like your comment
True, I hope she responds somehow
But least O gave us context as to what may have happened prior to the incident.
Most helpers wants to chose where or how they clean your house, once you voice out concerns about her job, they get angry.
Yhooo Hayi guys am side eyeing y’all why would you even think of that question like really
@acconaapryilll.7075 ME too am wondering , let's say she intended to kill her , do we think she'd admit that wow . Ours now is to sympathize with Owamie who nearly lost her life . If you feel different , itbwon't kill you just to keep your opinion to yourself , than being so bitter at someone's sad story . Let humanity not leave us
Also had to let mine go. Felt like i was being robbed. Arriving at 9 and leaving at 11 because of taxis. That time taxis pass by my place, buses too. The cleaning was just another story yho. Got someone else and am happy
Help me understand, are helpers from another planet? The way we talk about helpers 😢
Helpers are very dangerous. I was poisoned by my helper this past year. I had to wait for her to visit her home inorder to let her know I don't need her back. Even then, i still had to flush all the kids liquid multivitamins, panados, everything that wasn't sealed i had to throw away. The kids would experience tummy ache after drinking bio-strath, creche guard, everytime I called her into order _ a week wouldn't pass by without me experiencing food poisoning, fortunately I work in the clinic and my colleague advised me to have an active charcoal in my bag to take it immediately once i experience any stomach ache. For the 1st time, i ended up in hospital and my husband had to come back home and leave me, she started calling me and asking what was happening because she saw us leaving and realised my husband returned alone. Remember we left for the hospital midnight, we never woke her up, how did she see?
Owamie even if you not married do your own bedding please, the way I like doing things for myself I wouldn’t allow a helper to wash my bedding and putting it back. Lazy or not lazy, paying someone or not let’s normalise doing our own bed.
The point of having a cleaner is for them everything not for us to be scared of them doing their job
@ for them everything what?
I think people pay for the convenience. Personally, I wouldn’t want anyone washing my sheets and clothes coz my mom drilled that in me. But other people prefer to pay for those services and that’s okay 😊
My boyfriend fired the cleaner that refused to iron laundry and would leave laundry in the washing machine… he told me he got the helper for me to focus on my career and that the helper is assuming I am her assistant made no sense… I stick to day helpers now who come once a week …
Yoh!!! I'm so sorry owamie 😢
I'm so sorry to hear that happened to you. I'm glad you're okay. Next time go straight to the private hospital. They have an emergency unit.
Your story is ' not make sure'
My room is a no go area for helpers. From the onset of having helpers, I have never allowed them in my room. Many times, they will go into my room when I am not there, and I will find many things that are wrong after returning from work. I then decided to lock my room for peace of mind. Let us be careful. Many of these helpers do not mean well. We trust too easily. Scary stuff...
Thank God you're well Queen Ninja, things could've taken a huge tragic turn. As your people we're asking that she doesn't come back. To all the Ninjas, have boundaries when it comes to Helpers/Nannies, mabasebenze baphume bahambe. There's no need to build relations outside of the work they're being paid for. Don't be mean but have boundaries and limits. 🥺💕