I Told My Husband He Could Cheat Just Not Close To Us And He Still Did, He Abused Me Soo Much

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 224

  • @molatelochokoe1867
    @molatelochokoe1867 2 місяці тому +124

    She keeps saying “that man loved me”, Nooo he did not love you sis

  • @wilhelminashaningwa4612
    @wilhelminashaningwa4612 2 місяці тому +20

    Proper or broken English, we are okay and I thank you Owamie for using English on your podcast because you are accommodating all of us from different countries. I salute you queen nija😊

  • @bossnation9595
    @bossnation9595 2 місяці тому +118

    We listen , we don’t judge 😂

  • @ntandomatini9088
    @ntandomatini9088 2 місяці тому +23

    sometimes they say "you cant say it could never be you" but some things could literally never be me bawo.

  • @msngema1380
    @msngema1380 2 місяці тому +31

    I am no better umjolo uyanginyisa, listening to this story I see so many gabs where I would have found a reason to leave. A year is too long for me to give to a man to waste…:
    Now I know why I am single, I can’t bekezel to save my life

  • @nonoliciousnoah115
    @nonoliciousnoah115 2 місяці тому +72

    Thank u owami for using English on yr podcast,u cater for everyone in every corner of the world, subtitles is just boring ❤

  • @sibongilemthunzi3857
    @sibongilemthunzi3857 2 місяці тому +52

    The lesson to be learned here is , you cant love someone into loving you

  • @vickyitenyo.
    @vickyitenyo. 2 місяці тому +54

    Thank you for catering to your Kenyan audience ninja!We appreciate it.

  • @pulanemolotsi6998
    @pulanemolotsi6998 2 місяці тому +19

    This lady knows her story hey, she's such a go getter, she is an alchemist powerhouse

    • @msngema1380
      @msngema1380 2 місяці тому +6

      Neh, imagine where she would have been if she was by herself

    • @pulanemolotsi6998
      @pulanemolotsi6998 2 місяці тому

      @@msngema1380 yooooh sis!

  • @palesamotsoeneng322
    @palesamotsoeneng322 2 місяці тому +15

    We watch and we judge! Yoh chomi you need brother Enigmas prayers

  • @mizko1407
    @mizko1407 2 місяці тому +40

    Owami's facial expressions are honestly the best😂. You make the story interesting.

    • @siphokaziluzipho4197
      @siphokaziluzipho4197 2 місяці тому +3

      She always try not to judge, but she does, and so do I. When Owami says chomie, she is shocked.

  • @jeanethmabaso6367
    @jeanethmabaso6367 2 місяці тому +6

    Listening skills unlocked😂😂😂if u don't pay attention u won't understand what's happening. You handled this interview like a queen miss Owami❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @VictoriousVee.
    @VictoriousVee. 2 місяці тому +14

    Some stories should only be shared with best friends,

    • @rejoicedongonda2060
      @rejoicedongonda2060 2 місяці тому +1

      Right!!😂😂😂

    • @Nthabeleng507
      @Nthabeleng507 27 днів тому

      Then the best friend is stressed alone. 😂

    • @VictoriousVee.
      @VictoriousVee. 27 днів тому

      @ I’m more concerned about exposing yourself publicly. Get a therapist and a best friend to help you out.😂😂😂😂

    • @SamukelisiweMthembu-h5m
      @SamukelisiweMthembu-h5m 10 днів тому

      These stories are eye-opening and they are saving many women from making the same mistakes or tolerating nonsense. We thank God for the internet!

  • @AlexisBrown-om8gz
    @AlexisBrown-om8gz 2 місяці тому +16

    She is beautiful they both are❤

  • @pulengtsotetsi3795
    @pulengtsotetsi3795 Місяць тому +1

    The way she keeps saying th man loved me and we were happy😂😂😂 ka nako eo he's been cheating through out

  • @gressildamoyo8697
    @gressildamoyo8697 2 місяці тому +13

    We listen and we wont judge❤

  • @MissPickles22
    @MissPickles22 2 місяці тому +19

    She has a fear of being alone

  • @amahlemaria4802
    @amahlemaria4802 2 місяці тому +35

    I like her but her story was a bit all over the place. The timeline was a bit confusing.

  • @ntombisepeng8519
    @ntombisepeng8519 2 місяці тому +1

    It's so sad, Owami. That's how we think it's love. So sorry, my sister. You're not the only woman who gets crushed by love 💔 ❤️

  • @LimdaHoho
    @LimdaHoho 2 місяці тому +15

    I'm actually angry on yo behalf, ur too kind cc, he slowed yo progress, this was just 2 much.

  • @pulanemolotsi6998
    @pulanemolotsi6998 2 місяці тому +30

    Owam said "your criminal" lmfaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mizko1407
      @mizko1407 2 місяці тому +1

      That finished me 😂

    • @siphokaziluzipho4197
      @siphokaziluzipho4197 2 місяці тому +1

      That killed me. Tjoe I laughed.... Such a beautiful lady. Irresponsible in dating. But we don't judge, we listen.

    • @pulanemolotsi6998
      @pulanemolotsi6998 2 місяці тому

      @@mizko1407 it came out so unexpectedly even she was shocked lmfaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaao

    • @pulanemolotsi6998
      @pulanemolotsi6998 2 місяці тому

      @@siphokaziluzipho4197 yaz sis!

    • @msngema1380
      @msngema1380 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂the way I laughed

  • @tedtlyhlatswayo403
    @tedtlyhlatswayo403 Місяць тому +1

    One good example of 'we listen & we don't judge' 🤦‍♀️

  • @MissPearlyWinter
    @MissPearlyWinter 2 місяці тому +5

    May this level of Mjolo/love never locate me. May a man that requires me to provide never locate my existence!! Yho!

    • @DKs_Journey1
      @DKs_Journey1 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you just killed me

  • @mizko1407
    @mizko1407 2 місяці тому +7

    My takeaway from this is one of Owami's favourite sayings 'you can't build a man'. This man had it gooooooood, but he still couldn't get in line and behave for her or make anything proper of herself.

  • @musonyanakedibone3896
    @musonyanakedibone3896 2 місяці тому +4

    I will never introduce my boyfriend to my child, my son is 12 and the only man he has seen me with is my father, I know so many woman who introduce every man they date to their children, they don't learn if you introduce your child to 2 men and the relationship doesn't work why still introduce the child step father no 3?

    • @shironjuguna5853
      @shironjuguna5853 25 днів тому

      Well done! As a single mom, my son turned 18 last October. Never introduced him to any man except that he grew up visiting with his dad! We need to protect their childhoods at all expenses.

  • @molatelochokoe1867
    @molatelochokoe1867 2 місяці тому +5

    “We listen and we don’t judge”

  • @princessdiana9742
    @princessdiana9742 2 місяці тому +6

    What am I without these doses ?????💊💊💊 We really need these episodes on a daily shame😮😮😢
    A beautiful intro, the compliments, Our queen excells in that!

  • @lynnemtare-ro4oz
    @lynnemtare-ro4oz 2 місяці тому +3

    Some of us might as well not be able to watch anymore because i listen while working using air-pods i dont actually watch videos but i listen to them and i love your shows Owamie and am Shona 😊

  • @ncisept5900
    @ncisept5900 2 місяці тому +12

    We need to really have a consensus on what love is.....
    There, you can find it's characteristics on 1 Corinthians 13.
    This we loved each other is not it.

  • @halacele8571
    @halacele8571 2 місяці тому +7

    So he last went to his home when she met him right, jikijiki they moved to his home staying in his back room and now it’s a funeral and he must go home🙆‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️I’m just confused

    • @pheladinare2876
      @pheladinare2876 2 місяці тому

      Eish she is a good story teller but also all over and can't tell the story in sequence order. Even Owamie is confused she kept going back for clarity.

  • @thabisaningiza6926
    @thabisaningiza6926 2 місяці тому +7

    Yuooo shame this lady just made my day ,,,I thought ndiya gowa with my own stress but yhooo this lady made me feel better 😂😂😂😂. Pastor ,,criminal then jikijiki the walls are falling ,,☄️🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣

  • @lindaabraham5365
    @lindaabraham5365 2 місяці тому +4

    Don't settle for less; he envied your achievements and aimed to put you down to his level

  • @Theincredibleme-98
    @Theincredibleme-98 2 місяці тому +2

    Your studio is soo beautiful and quality is top notch ❤❤❤❤

  • @nomfunekonosilela3895
    @nomfunekonosilela3895 2 місяці тому +21

    Owamie :" Your criminal". I wasn't ready for that

  • @mizko1407
    @mizko1407 2 місяці тому +9

    What kind of patience did God instil in this woman's heart? O can't even laugh i just feel sorry. He delayed your progress.

  • @dimphoramodula2174
    @dimphoramodula2174 2 місяці тому +26

    lol, I don’t trust this one… she’s going to take him back 😢

    • @zeemali4369
      @zeemali4369 2 місяці тому +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣We listen , we don’t judge. Having said that, I think he’ll take him back too🙈

  • @patiencegoliath5645
    @patiencegoliath5645 2 місяці тому +20

    This is mixed up a bit..she met the guy from pic n pay already staying with the guy waking her up to go to prison. I'm not sure I understand

    • @lulufierce01
      @lulufierce01 2 місяці тому +1

      I also missed that part. Hopefully i gain clarity as the story goes

  • @mamolewamodiba9159
    @mamolewamodiba9159 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh that’s how pastors treat people from humble backgrounds! Charismatic churches 🥺🥺🥺

  • @noctanal9269
    @noctanal9269 2 місяці тому +8

    she is so pretty, reminds me of moozlie

    • @Zeei490
      @Zeei490 2 місяці тому

      She looks like her!

  • @liyachumaakhumzi2470
    @liyachumaakhumzi2470 2 місяці тому

    Yoh hhayi sisi love yourself and choose yourself first. You're too beautiful to be this desperate.

  • @halacele8571
    @halacele8571 2 місяці тому +4

    Owami you were not directing the interview. It’s all over the place. She is talking about this man not loving the kids? Which kids? She mentioned one child that she gave birth to in high school. Did they get married at some point? He doesn’t go home so is she just a girlfriend all along? What happened to a girl that was pregnant when they started dating? I’m confused

  • @ThandekaNyandeni-r9t
    @ThandekaNyandeni-r9t 2 місяці тому +4

    Aii Ninjah!!!!!we listen we Don't Judge crc😂😂😂

  • @theglen85
    @theglen85 2 місяці тому +9

    Lol I did the" undideable"😂😂😂

  • @BusisiweRutana
    @BusisiweRutana 2 місяці тому +1

    This girl is beautiful

  • @sthampala
    @sthampala 2 місяці тому +10

    I didn’t hear anything about a wedding is she even married

  • @Imogene_Joyce
    @Imogene_Joyce 2 місяці тому +27

    I’m not a psychologist so I will not comment on what I’m picking up here.

  • @mslettiemathibe71
    @mslettiemathibe71 2 місяці тому +1

    If moving on was a person 😅
    Shuuuuu... what a strory and that time she's still going?? With two kids? I need to do better😊 im motivated

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 місяці тому +1

    People understand. What is their problem with people’s English? It’s giving self hate.

  • @Nomathemba_7006
    @Nomathemba_7006 2 місяці тому +6

    She's so beautiful and eloquent but seems to suffer from low self-esteem. Not judging, been there, but the insistent giggling seems like a facade. I wish her abundant self-love ❤

  • @tshiwelatshivhase6888
    @tshiwelatshivhase6888 2 місяці тому +10

    Ok I've listened to this lady what did we learn exactly I'm comfused

  • @nefefefulu9760
    @nefefefulu9760 2 місяці тому +2

    Some churches are understanding staying with someone without being married and get another one pregnant amd you still continue to be called a pastor.. and the girl is so sure that she was loved

  • @kheswa19
    @kheswa19 2 місяці тому

    For sure, you love a lot sisi.

  • @Tee-mz9nu
    @Tee-mz9nu 2 місяці тому +6

    I listen and judge shame😂😂😂

  • @lulufierce01
    @lulufierce01 2 місяці тому +6

    Ive always wondered who are these women thag bekezela, that feed men and and and... Finally i have met one. Sis, no.. You need a break. That man abused you 😮

  • @lebogangkgatle3578
    @lebogangkgatle3578 2 місяці тому +16

    Let's listen and not judge.....😅

  • @sindiswahlela197
    @sindiswahlela197 2 місяці тому

    The wall building has me in stiches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 2 місяці тому +2

    She is soo beautyfull

  • @kheswa19
    @kheswa19 2 місяці тому +2

    I guess you were buying the prisoner airtime sisi.

  • @brendangonyama
    @brendangonyama 2 місяці тому

    Girl, I know about when a man decides to quit, it is painful

  • @kheswa19
    @kheswa19 2 місяці тому +1

    Sisi, you just lies to yourself by thinking the former prisoner didn't heal from your actions.
    In reality he didn't even care.
    You are the one who had it in your mind.

  • @NitroMandyyt
    @NitroMandyyt 2 місяці тому +1

    Come with them Queen ❤

  • @puritykurgat1766
    @puritykurgat1766 2 місяці тому +4

    My situation at the moment 😢😢😢thinking of quitting soon

    • @NdimaMakushu
      @NdimaMakushu 2 місяці тому

      You shall not do that for your situation is not terminal but temporary....there's greater satisfaction in winning the most difficult situation..just trust God he is good❤

  • @tiffanytembo8293
    @tiffanytembo8293 2 місяці тому

    The minute I heard "my friend is selling a car, it's a good deal" I knew it was down hill henceforth 😂😂😂.

  • @sherrieginger9693
    @sherrieginger9693 Місяць тому +1

    How did you have your first child for someone yet yiu had given your life to Christ…l 😢 the story is confusing you were both just fast and these single mothers clinging to man with no children ….

  • @Nthabeleng507
    @Nthabeleng507 27 днів тому

    She is my sister. My sister is her. 😅😂 that girl does not have self-love at all!

  • @Masthape.9
    @Masthape.9 2 місяці тому +1

    That wow from Owami😂

  • @pheladitau6762
    @pheladitau6762 2 місяці тому +1

    Ijoo it always about pastors....what is it with this men of God kanti😮😮😮

    • @blackwoman_015
      @blackwoman_015 2 місяці тому

      You could ask that again !!

    • @liyachumaakhumzi2470
      @liyachumaakhumzi2470 2 місяці тому

      Being a pastor is a career for most, doesn't mean they aren't criminals/sinners.

  • @goitseonebeja6752
    @goitseonebeja6752 2 місяці тому +1

    Was this a boyfriend or husband?i haven't heard her saying that they got married

  • @MargieMoyake
    @MargieMoyake 2 місяці тому

    Girl did the undidable 😂😂😂 yessss wena honey 😅😅😅

  • @MmapiElizabeth
    @MmapiElizabeth 2 місяці тому

    For that one of dating a prisoner you are very brave 😂😂😂😅😅

  • @pulengrosemofokeng8367
    @pulengrosemofokeng8367 2 місяці тому +1

    Eish I hope she doesn't go back to him again maan😢

  • @pulanemolotsi6998
    @pulanemolotsi6998 2 місяці тому +2

    The title of the video tells me to judge from the beginning💀💀💀gare kweng

  • @ndemathabi5508
    @ndemathabi5508 2 місяці тому

    We need part 2 please

  • @thandigloria8710
    @thandigloria8710 2 місяці тому +2

    Tired of working & stop working? Wow!

  • @silindiledlamini-b4q
    @silindiledlamini-b4q 2 місяці тому

    There was a problem from the beginning, she decided to stick with it.

  • @koketjorkekana5165
    @koketjorkekana5165 2 місяці тому +1

    Is there a part two?

  • @komatsu8169
    @komatsu8169 2 місяці тому +1

    A narcissist is a child- Sam Vaknin

  • @rudzanikharivhe6294
    @rudzanikharivhe6294 2 місяці тому

    Dont worry love, we are watching you today..

  • @noluthandokwinana1743
    @noluthandokwinana1743 2 місяці тому

    Revenge is sweet

  • @MamoelaseMeriam
    @MamoelaseMeriam 2 місяці тому +1

    Ekare ke Teboho wa mvhango 👌

  • @alletahlaboso6926
    @alletahlaboso6926 2 місяці тому +1

    Yarr nor marn we listen and we do not judge

  • @blackwoman_015
    @blackwoman_015 2 місяці тому

    Kgane ge le re “ Di ups & downs “ le ra bofebe bja banna dichomi tsaka??

  • @koketsipohotona8210
    @koketsipohotona8210 2 місяці тому +4

    I am also here for the comments

  • @PractitionerIk
    @PractitionerIk 2 місяці тому +9

    I have finished reading all the comments already, ninjas say something 😂

    • @SibsM93
      @SibsM93 2 місяці тому +1

      We listen, we don't judge 😌

  • @pulanemolotsi6998
    @pulanemolotsi6998 2 місяці тому +1

    I feel like my sister could have eased us into the prison bombshell she dropped😂😂😂😂😂haiiiboooo

  • @queenm2723
    @queenm2723 2 місяці тому +3

    38:52 😂😂😂😂😂 and I agree, good sis 🥂

  • @dorahnotani4316
    @dorahnotani4316 2 місяці тому +41

    I'm too early, I wanted to read comments 😂

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 2 місяці тому +1

    Jail guys 🙉🙉🙉 been there done that. I was nice and ended in tears 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MargieMoyake
    @MargieMoyake 2 місяці тому +1

    Lemme sit down watch this 😊

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 2 місяці тому +3

    When do we start judging?

  • @daphneynukeri7447
    @daphneynukeri7447 Місяць тому

    Your criminal 😂😂😂

  • @Kokiemotaung
    @Kokiemotaung 2 місяці тому

    “Whenever I was cleaning I would listen to your podcast” that’s literally what I’m doing now🥹❤️

  • @thatomothoagae7939
    @thatomothoagae7939 2 місяці тому +4

    Lol😂😂😂😂 this episode

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 2 місяці тому +6

    Your criminal, Owami hahahahaha.
    Honestly there are lots of Nandipha and Thabo moss. This lady is beautiful.
    Imagine attending prisoners graduation.

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 2 місяці тому +1

    They were not. Married?
    Were they cohibiting?

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 2 місяці тому

    29:00 yoh he's tired working
    He knew u gonna make means moss, he won't suffer

  • @yaneliswakhoza5901
    @yaneliswakhoza5901 2 місяці тому

    29:07 😂😂😂😂 Aibo I'm killed iytina for the wall yoh 😂😂😂😂

  • @MosidiLekoto
    @MosidiLekoto 2 місяці тому

    The story is all over the place...I kept on fast forwarding until I stop watching

  • @NkeleManana-k8b
    @NkeleManana-k8b 2 місяці тому +5

    I don't get the motivation of the story here. Story is all over the place, PASTOR, criminal, this, this, cheating, stolen car, sending money, hayi kuningi

  • @dikembeafrika8918
    @dikembeafrika8918 2 місяці тому

    This woman was used by men in so many ways. What happened to the father of the first child. Hayibo lady - love yourself first before you love someone else. You were cheated on, disrespected, trashed for that long and still took this nonsense