Seth Andrews - On Recovering his Humanity

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  • @lprosser5841
    @lprosser5841 2 роки тому +21

    Favorite! Thank you for this discussion. So many great things to ponder, but also, both of you have such a calming and soothing voice, it was relaxing. Some discussions out there are just a lot of yelling and talking over one another. Thank you :)

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      I'm so glad you enjoyed our podcast chat! Thanks for the encouragement.

    • @lprosser5841
      @lprosser5841 2 роки тому +2

      @@ComeToCORT Awww, the honor of being a pinned comment! :) Thank you!

    • @ilovethe80sNW
      @ilovethe80sNW 6 місяців тому

      Thanks Janice! Great interview! And yes Seth is right! 80s music was music of my young adulthood as well! 80s New Wave for me!!!!

  • @tinyshepherdess7710
    @tinyshepherdess7710 Рік тому +9

    Wow, what a first guest! Can't get enough of Seth Andrews.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +1

      I know, I was surprised, too! He is a great guest and a thoughtful speaker.

  • @juba9575
    @juba9575 Рік тому +10

    Seth is my all-time favourite Athiest. His speech titled " The God of Cancer " did it for me.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +3

      Yes, he is fantastic. Thanks for watching.

  • @DLB-m3g
    @DLB-m3g 8 місяців тому +4

    I'm so grateful to have met these two beautiful people at a time in my life when I was ready to really lean in to the truth.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  8 місяців тому

      How wonderful! Thank you for watching and commenting.

  • @panpsychism_
    @panpsychism_ Рік тому +5

    Seth Andrews- what a radio voice!

  • @bettybrodnan850
    @bettybrodnan850 6 місяців тому +4

    Wow.. you’re telling my story

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  6 місяців тому +1

      Sorry you can relate, glad you got out.

  • @GB-ez6ge
    @GB-ez6ge Рік тому +7

    I'm from the middle-American Boston area with very religious but not evangelical parents, I became an atheist at age 11, and I've met many dozens of atheists in the fifty years since. What I haven't encountered is this "losing my religion" trauma that is common on UA-cam, Fortunately, my parents are still alive and my atheism has never caused any trouble within the family, but it isn't just me, I have never known an atheist to suffer this "big emotional trauma". Have I been oblivious to the obvious?

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +5

      Possibly, yes. We don't know unless others disclose their own experiences to us. Many atheists grew up in fundamentalist homes and bear the scars.

  • @rasberries566
    @rasberries566 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for making this channel. I had a difficult day feeling lonely in family while I destruct my faith. I appreciate everything that was shared here💚

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  7 місяців тому +1

      You're very welcome! I also host an online support group. Visit my website to learn more: www.divorcing-religion.com

  • @Bryan198026
    @Bryan198026 Рік тому +6

    I enjoyed all of Seth's books and I love his podcast. I've actually managed to get on three episodes as a caller, most recently the show about purity culture. I was thankfully raised without religion, a conscious decision by my Catholic-raised folks, but my very first girlfriend, already sheltered because of having a visual impairment (we met at a school for the blind), was definitely also indoctrinated into purity culture. She was and is a devout Christian, already a bone of contention in our relationship, and the fact that my parents were more easygoing than hers in the matter of their children's dating lives also caused some problems for us. So when Seth did the purity culture episode a few months back I called in to share a story that pertained to it.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +1

      Seth is terrific! Thanks for watching and commenting. Religion definitely complicates relationships.

  • @tulpas93
    @tulpas93 Рік тому +4

    What a coincidence - I just watched Seth's Blood Cult video yesterday!
    Thank you for posting all of this amazing material. ❤❤❤

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +1

      Seth is terrific. Thank you for watching and taking the time to comment.

  • @adamc1966
    @adamc1966 Рік тому +7

    Wow. Seth has a great channel and I can personally relate to what he deals with in his family.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +1

      Yes, he is terrific. Glad you subscribe to his channel!

  • @joycesky5041
    @joycesky5041 2 роки тому +15

    I call it a BLOOD SACRIFICE DEATH CULT. I love Seth…he’s helped me a lot with his channel. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
    It’s a good thing that we can’t un-see things that we’ve seen about the Bible and Christianity.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      I agree - Seth is a real gem! Thanks for watching and commenting.

  • @K_Rae_Bee
    @K_Rae_Bee Рік тому +3

    Amazing first guest!! ❤

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +1

      I agree! Seth is a fan favourite, for sure. And that dreamy voice... 😏Thanks for watching.

  • @hamitupagain
    @hamitupagain 2 роки тому +6

    More like this please

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому

      I'll sure try! Thanks for watching.

  • @Scorned405
    @Scorned405 2 роки тому +8

    Seth is so cool. I come from a similar background.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      He sure is! I am glad that you also found your way out!

  • @Godlessmom
    @Godlessmom 2 роки тому +12

    Amazing! What a fantastic first guest. Congratulations on your new podcast!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you very much! We are so pleased!

  • @dawnpham8394
    @dawnpham8394 2 роки тому +8

    Great show! Always like " the thinking Atheist " host Seth Andrews. Thank you

    • @Godlessmom
      @Godlessmom 2 роки тому +1

      He's so enjoyable to listen to and it's not just his awesome voice.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому

      Thanks, Dawn! I really enjoyed interviewing Seth.

  • @coryg7051
    @coryg7051 2 роки тому +6

    Seth is a huge guest for you to land for your inaugural episode. Congrats! Love the 2 episodes so far. Keep it up. From Victoria BC.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks for the encouragement!

  • @avagomez7448
    @avagomez7448 2 роки тому +5

    Beautiful discussion. Lots of great insights. Very refreshing. One of the best videos i listened on religious deconversion. Fully resonate. Keep on doing what you do. Thank you very much.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! Seth is a very thoughtful human and great to interview on such topics.

  • @stevesingkofer8879
    @stevesingkofer8879 2 роки тому +5

    I listened to an interesting conversation on another atheistic podcast today. The young, teenaged children of the caller to the show had encouraged the call. The caller insisted that he continued to believe in a deity, despite all lack of evidence for that deity. The reason I'm commenting here is because the teenaged children were apparently atheists or on their way to becoming atheists, and were encouraging their father to "come to the light", as it were. A different dynamic than that which so many people think of.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      Very interesting! I hope the caller was open to a new perspective. Thanks for commenting!

  • @enigmatist666
    @enigmatist666 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you both. This is the perfect video to introduce Seth (whom we've been following for over 18 months) to our friends. :) And looking forward to finding out more about Janice and her work. :)

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      I'm so glad you enjoyed it. Thaks for sharing it - and thanks for the encouragement!

  • @reneelindemann5542
    @reneelindemann5542 2 роки тому +6

    So good. The words “rebellious” and “embarrassment” and other experiences resonated strong with me.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      Yes, those words hit home.

  • @jackmyers2359
    @jackmyers2359 2 роки тому +5

    I hope to hear much more from you Janice, you couldn't have started with a better guest! Welcome to the community!💙💙

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much, Jack! It was an honor to interview Seth. I hope many people find Divorcing Religion to be an interesting and helpful podcast.

  • @malkneil
    @malkneil 2 роки тому +8

    Seth is a powerhouse...glad to see him on your channel. Thankfully I was raised by Catholic atheists so I never had to contend with freeing myself from religion. That said, my family hasn't escaped entirely unscathed on account of Jehovah Witnesses-ism infecting a large part of my family. Growing up around this family schism has always made me acutely aware of the very real harm fundamental religion can pose to people themselves as well as those they care about. Good luck with the channel.
    Shout out to Seth, Christopher Hitchens and Lloyd Evans.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for the encouragement! Glad your folks were nonbelievers and raised you to eschew fundamentalism.

  • @rationalist8805
    @rationalist8805 2 роки тому +7

    @32:00 "when I busted out of that religious corset"... excellent analogy. Also "fundamentalism would have us starve to death at a buffet table." The god believer is afraid us atheists will approach the buffet table and eat until we are sick, leaving nothing for others. They fear that without god we will live completely unrestrained. Some fear themselves - how they think they would behave without a god belief. But atheists follow secular laws just like theists. And secular humanists are generally self restrained because it is the right thing to do.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      Excellent point! Thanks for watching.

  • @barbseewald5772
    @barbseewald5772 2 роки тому +9

    Amazing! Congrats on this much needed podcast. 💖

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks, Barb! It's rewarding to see it come to fruition. I hope folks feel encouraged to embrace secular life, making the most of every moment.

  • @ruthokelley5833
    @ruthokelley5833 2 роки тому +4

    You all made me realize that my journey matches up with all that you all report…and the hardest part was being with the anxiety and the uncomfortable relating until i felt grounded in my true nature…a non-believer!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому

      Well done reconnecting with your true nature! Glad you enjoyed our chat.

  • @bobbart4198
    @bobbart4198 Рік тому +3

    ... I had the good fortune of being raised by a moderate Anglican mother and a rebellious ex Catholic father. My Dad accompanied my Mom with the kids to a nice neutral-feeling Protestant Church (when we kids were quite young - mostly to keep Mom happy.
    Dad's rebellion was born of mistreatment by Teacher/Nuns in a small Country Town in the 1920's (he was born in 1916), Mom's experience was far more pleasant.
    In 1976, I married my high school sweetheart and we're still together. She was a moderate Protestant, and I a burgeoning Agnostic, destined to become an Atheist. At 16, my young lady was Christened into the Mormon Church - Jesus Christ of the Latter Day Saints. I was not exactly happy about this, but it WAS her right to decide this, not mine.
    Over time, my (by then) wife came to doubt many of the Mormon teachings, possibly due to MY lack of faith (which had faded pretty much into nothing by then), but I had never made any effort to disabuse her of her beliefs.
    Once we had kids, we pretty much repeated my own Parents route - she wanting to get our kids Christened (as nice neutral-feeling Protestants), and I - not wishing to push my feelings on my family, reenacted my Dad's routine. I didn't join in the Prayers or the Singing, I just had my head bowed respectfully and my eyes open - not a hypocrite just a respectful observer.
    Now, at 69 years of age, (my wife is 67), I am still an Atheist, although a far more vocal one, and my Wife is still a Christian - though no longer a Mormon. My 34 year old Son is an Atheist (having come by that position based upon his OWN experiences in life) and my 39 year old Daughter is a Lutheran - having married a German from Northern Ontario ...
    Everybody's happy and there is little discussion of Religion in our family, not because it is a hot-button issue, but because we all feel free to believe the things we believe ... ☮

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +1

      What a wonderful story! Thanks for watching and sharing!

    • @bobbart4198
      @bobbart4198 Рік тому +2

      @@ComeToCORT ... Actually, I suspect it's a very common story, but Thanks !

  • @kandrie9320
    @kandrie9320 2 роки тому +5

    Very great episode. Highly recommended!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! I appreciate the recommendation.

  • @chrisgreen8803
    @chrisgreen8803 2 роки тому +7

    Comment for the UA-cam algorithm

  • @ravenna9969
    @ravenna9969 2 роки тому +4

    New sub great interview. Can’t wait to binge watch the rest

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 Місяць тому +1

    Excellent thanks very much 😅

  • @BiddyLove
    @BiddyLove 2 роки тому +2

    Watching now.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      Wonderful! Thanks for tuning in!

    • @BiddyLove
      @BiddyLove 2 роки тому

      My pleasure, it was what I needed reminding of yesterday, thank you for having Seth on 😄

  • @shawnesseyandbettyboop
    @shawnesseyandbettyboop 2 роки тому +3

    Fantastic, my friend xo Heather

  • @neilforbes416
    @neilforbes416 2 роки тому +8

    Okay, now chase up Aron Ra, Dan Barker, Andrew Seidel for future videos.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      Aron Ra and Dan Barker are both on deck! I'd love to interview Andrew Seidel, too.

    • @eddieclark9802
      @eddieclark9802 2 роки тому

      Please don't interrupt your guest with any little vocal sounds, i.e. yeah, wow, okay, yes, anything like that. Thx.
      Be a pro. 😁

    • @eddieclark9802
      @eddieclark9802 2 роки тому

      And never say it was a good answer and thank them for it.

    • @neilforbes416
      @neilforbes416 2 роки тому +2

      @@eddieclark9802 TGhe presenter is only starting out. This was her first presentation.

  • @Z3NBEAT
    @Z3NBEAT 2 роки тому +3

    Greetings from México.

  • @katalytically
    @katalytically 9 місяців тому +1

    "God is just"
    Translation: "God is vengeful"

  • @Ronnymikkonen2686
    @Ronnymikkonen2686 2 роки тому +4

    I like to listen to your speak. I was in the religion for many years. But I was never comfortable with it! Sometimes it was fun. My economy was good. But then I got tired? It's a abuse! And I read 1000 Cristian books! I was in. But I had always some bad feeling! I got so tired! And I was evangelist for 30 years!? I'm to tired to explain to people? I don't care anymore. I'm better off now without religion!?

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      It sounds like you were very committed to doing work that you felt you had to do. I'm glad you've been able to step back from it and engage in questioning those religious beliefs. Being freed from religious burdens is wonderful. You don't have to explain your choices to anyone! I hope you enjoy your freedom.

    • @Ronnymikkonen2686
      @Ronnymikkonen2686 2 роки тому +1

      @@ComeToCORT i do ! I respect people,,! And I haven't to lure them to Christianity? I'm better off now without religion.

  • @geetagill9243
    @geetagill9243 2 роки тому +5

    I HATE anything fear based!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      Agreed - fear is not a good basis on which to build a life!

  • @victorjvanderwoude3102
    @victorjvanderwoude3102 2 роки тому +3

    Does he really mean discovering Humanism rather that his humanity? If so that's a different discussion with different frameworks. Humanism as a sub group within atheism while discovering your humanity being a connection with others on a personal level (rather than in philosophically terms). You can connect with people without embracing atheism and Humanism. I realize some people may not get there's a difference.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +2

      I know some Jewish people (Reform) who are humanists, as well. However, this discussion was largely about him reconnecting to his own humanity, as the title implies.

  • @tklyte
    @tklyte Рік тому +1

    Seth, If I'm actually going to hell, I'm so glad you'll be there with me. Can we hang out once in a while?

  • @ponyboygarfunkel1675
    @ponyboygarfunkel1675 2 роки тому +4

    I don't find those hopeful secular fairytales, as expressed at the end of this piece, to offer much hope. Take a long view of humankind. Our struggles will continue, in much the same way. Sadly, we humans have been dealt an unplayable hand.
    Endeavor to define and practice decency. That's often the best one can do.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +1

      The world would surely be a better place if we all did so. Thanks for commenting.

  • @rubenchoychoo8551
    @rubenchoychoo8551 Рік тому +1

    58m
    There must be a design behind..

  • @Licencetochill-c2p
    @Licencetochill-c2p 10 місяців тому

    JESUS IS NOT RELIGION.......he went against religion !!

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  10 місяців тому

      Thanks for watching.

  • @joshuamartinpryce1237
    @joshuamartinpryce1237 2 роки тому +2

    Human thinking is a natural thought, spiritual thinking is a divine thought. Spirituality adds to the natural man making him complete. There is no trauma for faith in Christ unless you are not fully engaged and transformed by the renewing of the mind in Jesus. Bad thoughts come from people not God. God loves us enough to die for us and collect us into His fold. You need to focus on God and do what God says, hell is not trauma for the righteous. Hell is trauma for those who do not believe in Christ. people wonder why God doesnt literally show up to everyone all over the world. The answer is religious trauma.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  2 роки тому +6

      Sorry, but you are speaking as one who remains indoctrinated.

    • @shawnesseyandbettyboop
      @shawnesseyandbettyboop 2 роки тому +3

      well now, someone's been living under a rock

    • @jajkat
      @jajkat 2 роки тому

      Wheres hell? Never been there

    • @joshuamartinpryce1237
      @joshuamartinpryce1237 2 роки тому +1

      @@jajkat Neither have i, but i have interacted with demons, and seen the aura of angels. These are literal things. But my experiences are worthless to you. With great sacrifice comes great responsibility.

    • @curbroadshow
      @curbroadshow 2 роки тому +1

      @@joshuamartinpryce1237 There’s no trauma at all if you don’t get taken in by religious BS
      Their religion convinced you that you need saving from their Jesus/god/not god, and only their religion can save you.
      Ever felt like you’ve been conned?

  • @brynpookc1127
    @brynpookc1127 Рік тому

    Good work, Joyce, but too much mhmm… mmhm… umnhn. Just quit the subvocalizations until you actually have something to say. It was the same with Matt. There is an expectation that women need to always be supportive to every word. Umhum said between every word the other person is saying is just distracting.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +2

      My name is Janice, but thanks for your thoughts.

    • @MorTheGrim
      @MorTheGrim Рік тому +3

      @@ComeToCORT I didn’t find it distracting at all, Janice. I thought your responses were on-point.

    • @ComeToCORT
      @ComeToCORT  Рік тому +1

      @@MorTheGrim Thank you.

    • @tulpas93
      @tulpas93 Рік тому

      It's really incredible how polished people expect free content to be! 😮
      Thanks for your time and effort in creating these videos, and I appreciate your keeping it real with all of the pauses and subvocalizations included. To me, it makes you work all the more approachable and inspiring! ❤