I tried telling my mum, she showed me a gay pride colored pencil case and I said. Oh it's gay like me, and she said "your not GAAY" she didn't realise I was being honest. She still doesn't realise.
Love is arguably one of the purest feelings you can experience. As long as you are romantically attracted to an adult, it shouldn't matter what gender that person is. Regardless of religion. How can a good feeling be bad?
You’re so wholesome 😄! I’m glad that you feel you can sustain your relationship and live in a spiritual way at the same time. I wish more churches were more accepting, and could see that LGBT+ individuals may want to be religious- though it seems the more progressive sects of Judaism and some Protestant churches are getting there...
I agree that churches should accept anyone in their churches love anyone that walks in. But I dont agree they have to agree and be against God's Will for us. But yeah. Love@@@@ as Christ calls us dont hate because we all sin and need saving.
Thats is my favorite video so far!!!! your mom seems real cool!! dang can you help me out please??? I cant wait to watch your next video, im so glad that you did this video :-) whats your nationality by the way? Love you!
Wow, What an astute, interesting woman. She's young but she's from a different era, she has naturally, effortlessly grabbed the world by the lapels and demanded that the world explains itself, because she needed to know the score, so that she could figure everything out. The world humbly told her what it could, adding that everyone will have a different take on what it said. She then just understood... she knew, she perceived, and she became aware. Who ever is this woman partner, GF or wife... pay attention to her... she's un-losable.
i think you"re so refreshing and inspirational. the LGBTQ community has come along way. Back when I was younger if anyone was anything other than straight. you we disowned ostracized. condemned . gay people had to date opposite genders back then if you wanted to have any social life at all. What a waste of life / we came a long way .. Stay safe, Be careful, and keep on rolling
I would love to see a video about how your faith intersrcts with your queerness/secuality. Personally, I struggle with this and would love to hear your view on things. Also, love the video as always! 👍🏽❤️🏳️🌈
Alexa Bray honestly, I’ve been wanting to make a video on that since I started this channel. I haven’t done it yet because it makes me nervous. Haha. 😅
No not ever is a game you may play with yourself for the next 10 years. You don’t form relationships. Because you’ve not old enough. Because you’re conversation is everything It’s normal that’s normal.
I didn’t know what I was until this video, like I have a girlfriend but I’m only with her cause we were friends for so long and I felt like she was my other half. I thought I was just asexual but I really like her so it didn’t really make sense and I was really confused but this video made me realise that I’m Demi so thank you
my mom accepts me an i told her awhile ago dat i was bisexual but then i said i wasn’t cause every girl i talked to she would say “oh are yall dating” it got annoying an then i didn’t know if i really liked girls til i got with another one but idk if i should tell my mom again
Beat around the bush too much if you're going to come out then just straightforwardly come out. Play around too much and it makes it difficult for anyone to take you seriously. That's my only issue with you
How old are you ? Whose your girlfriend??? You seem like a load of fun .. best to you and your girl .. my mom used to say she would be ok with it . Hell my family knew I was gay before I did . Until reality set .. now I’m about three years without a mom to ever speak to or see again .. ehh
How are you telling yourself and your mother that God is cool with it? According to his word, what you are pursuing with this girl is sin. Romans 1:26-27 “For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.” He also says that it is ok to just be single and not marry anyone! Just because you are not attracted to guys does not mean that you are going to live an unfulfilled life without a spouse. 1 Corinthians 7:26-28 "Because of the present crisis, I think it is good for a man to remain as he is. Are you committed to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you free of commitment? Do not look for a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.…" The world tells you that you NEED to have a partner to be happy. I love you and care about you as a sister. I plead with you to put God's will before your desires or feelings just in the same way as I would tell a sister who is entertaining thoughts of adultery or premarital sex. Do not be deceived. I was totally deceived when I started dating my best friend when we were seniors in high school. I was not turned on by how he looked (or any guy for that matter). It happened when we got really emotionally intimate. I knew in my heart that it was wrong to have sex with him before marriage, but I would scour the bible and try to twist any verse against what I wanted to do and make it mean that God was cool with it. I became a master at lying to myself. Down the road and 7 years into being married, I am full of regret. Our sex life was damaged early on because of what we had done before marriage. Plus, when I realized that I had been in error, and I finally faced my own sin.....it was too late. I had already done it. God had warned me; youth pastors had warned me, but I was just deaf and blind to it because what I wanted and desired became more important. It is not like God does not know what is best for us. As believers we need to pursue righteousness rather than happiness. We need to trust him when he says that something is bad (even if it feels great in the moment). I tell you this in love and not from a place of hate. I genuinely care about you and other people being deceived and on their way to hell. Please don't be one of those people who is headed there. Pray pray pray and read the word. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 "Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God." This is serious. Do not continue to pursue this path of unclean desire. You will be held responsible for all those who you have led astray on judgement day. You have influence over young minds. Please do not continue to seek your identity in your sinful desires. Rather look to the Lord for who you are. He authored you.
Here you go: www.rmnetwork.org/newrmn/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Booklet-about-Homosexuality-and-the-Bible-Sept.-2016.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1Awgs3Sp-qvLh-njjdggxl5Dy-Uy2NyX4ZBRk77cyQjfm8r-1NsgLeyQk
I’m sorry and I love your coming out story but the way you beat around the bush is just hilarious to me - like you keep being like “I don’t think I like guys maybe ever, probably, but I could, but probably not, but maybe people who are not guys-“
Maybe read this dude: www.rmnetwork.org/newrmn/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Booklet-about-Homosexuality-and-the-Bible-Sept.-2016.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1Awgs3Sp-qvLh-njjdggxl5Dy-Uy2NyX4ZBRk77cyQjfm8r-1NsgLeyQk
The Bible is clear. Women shall not lay with women. I grew up attracted to men and women. Even girly men like Korean pop artists snd women who looked boyish. So maybe I was/am pansexual? I've only dated one man and married him. He is the love of my life!!@ when I told him a few years ago I felt the odd urge to kiss my friend (female) he was hurt but understanding. That's how we should be. Yes, its sin to lay with same gender and God makes it clear that our hearts and feelings shouldnt determine our actions as that's dangerous. I pray you stay in the Lord and remember that Gld loves you. When we live in Him, we are made to be more perfect, living according to His Will. Idky we have these feelings but we should live for God and not ourselves. It's tough and God promises to help and never leave us. Love you and God bless!!
Not everybody follows YOUR religion. Stop pushing your views onto other people. If you grew up in a muslim family you would be islam. If you grew up in a non worshipping family you wouldnt be religious. If you grew up in Greece you would believe in the Greek gods. Your beliefs mean nothing to people who do not follow your book. Try to respect that. If you cant stop trying to change people to be how you want them to then shame on you and I feel sorrowful for your children if you have any. My point is that there are hundreds of religions. What makes YOURS the correct one? You only think you're right because you were told you were right from day one. You have no way of knowing that christianity is right compared to islam or anything else so shutup and keep your morals to yourself.
This is for your personal growth: www.rmnetwork.org/newrmn/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Booklet-about-Homosexuality-and-the-Bible-Sept.-2016.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1Awgs3Sp-qvLh-njjdggxl5Dy-Uy2NyX4ZBRk77cyQjfm8r-1NsgLeyQk
you wrong Gods not cool with it are u kidding me GOD didn't made Woman & Woman he made Man & Woman what are u talking about maybe god of this world is cool with it, but not the father who art in heaven he is holy & man will enter to his paradise unless u repent ur sin be straight & turn to Jesus & be holy because God will judge us according to our sins but u have do it while u still here breathing cos if u die in ur sins & unholy it would be too late now is the time to get straight with GOD
God didn't make anything, people were born with different sexualities. Stop forcing your belief on others. It's quite annoying of you christian people.
Awwwwwwww your mum is so cool and understanding :)
She really is. Thanks for watching! =)
I tried telling my mum, she showed me a gay pride colored pencil case and I said. Oh it's gay like me, and she said "your not GAAY" she didn't realise I was being honest. She still doesn't realise.
Niamh Clover man, I hate it when people miss the hints. Haha. 😂
WhySoShayD haha, yeah, all my friends understand, and are really supportive aswell though
Lmao I told my mother I like girls, took her to pride, and bought a pride cape. She thinks I’m straight.
@@booksmusicmovies8862 lol
Niamh Clover that 😭
So happy for you!! :)) Love your channel
I’ll work on it for sure. Thanks for reaching out. 😊
Love is arguably one of the purest feelings you can experience. As long as you are romantically attracted to an adult, it shouldn't matter what gender that person is. Regardless of religion. How can a good feeling be bad?
I think this is really inspiring to others. :) Great story to share. Glad to see your mom reacted in a positive way.
You’re so wholesome 😄! I’m glad that you feel you can sustain your relationship and live in a spiritual way at the same time. I wish more churches were more accepting, and could see that LGBT+ individuals may want to be religious- though it seems the more progressive sects of Judaism and some Protestant churches are getting there...
I agree that churches should accept anyone in their churches love anyone that walks in. But I dont agree they have to agree and be against God's Will for us. But yeah. Love@@@@ as Christ calls us dont hate because we all sin and need saving.
I'm a proud Lesbian! I remember watching your videos when I was in high school (: I'm now 25 and rep pride!
The people who aren't guys hahaha!!!!
Damn your mom seems so chill
So happy to hear things are going well with your mum! You deserve all the happiness in the world.
An ocean of virtual hugs,
Mas
Thats is my favorite video so far!!!! your mom seems real cool!! dang can you help me out please??? I cant wait to watch your next video, im so glad that you did this video :-) whats your nationality by the way? Love you!
Shay is there any way i can private message you on twitter or somewhere? cause i have a question for you.
Yay!! Glad that went well. Can you talk more about how you explained how you fit it all in with your biblical beliefs?
Kushie54321 I certainly will. It might take a little time for me to gather my thoughts though. Thanks for watching! 😊
Wow, What an astute, interesting woman. She's young but she's from a different era, she has naturally, effortlessly grabbed the world by the lapels and demanded that the world explains itself, because she needed to know the score, so that she could figure everything out. The world humbly told her what it could, adding that everyone will have a different take on what it said. She then just understood... she knew, she perceived, and she became aware. Who ever is this woman partner, GF or wife... pay attention to her... she's un-losable.
This is encouraging, I hope my parents react this way when I tell them I’m dating a girl
i think you"re so refreshing and inspirational. the LGBTQ community has come along way. Back when I was younger if anyone was anything other than straight. you we disowned ostracized. condemned . gay people had to date opposite genders back then if you wanted to have any social life at all. What a waste of life / we came a long way .. Stay safe, Be careful, and keep on rolling
I'm demi as well!! Specifically I'm Demi-panromantic and sexual.
I just found this and I’ve literally never seen anyone else who is Demi and homoromantic before! I’m so happy!
I would love to see a video about how your faith intersrcts with your queerness/secuality. Personally, I struggle with this and would love to hear your view on things. Also, love the video as always! 👍🏽❤️🏳️🌈
Alexa Bray honestly, I’ve been wanting to make a video on that since I started this channel. I haven’t done it yet because it makes me nervous. Haha. 😅
@@WhySoShayD well, I hope you do, but if not it's okay!:)
I plan on it, it might just take some time. 😊 thanks for your support!
@@WhySoShayD I was actually looking for a video explaining being lesbian and Christian what are you beliefs surrounding it
My finger:*taps to make 667
Just found you. Love all ur videos!
Your an amazing that's really helpful in my opinion
No not ever is a game you may play with yourself for the next 10 years.
You don’t form relationships. Because you’ve not old enough.
Because you’re conversation is everything It’s normal that’s normal.
You seem like someone i would be interested in.
Me:*looks at like being 666*
I love your mom ❤️❤️❤️
Me too!!!!
"That 'pan' thing" 😂😂
This seems like a big ball of confusion
Hmm your soooo right
I didn’t know what I was until this video, like I have a girlfriend but I’m only with her cause we were friends for so long and I felt like she was my other half. I thought I was just asexual but I really like her so it didn’t really make sense and I was really confused but this video made me realise that I’m Demi so thank you
youre great!
Hot damn wooooooooooooooooow I'm excited
I just subscribe to you guys so much. ❤️❤️
Way to go!!
my mom accepts me an i told her awhile ago dat i was bisexual but then i said i wasn’t cause every girl i talked to she would say “oh are yall dating” it got annoying an then i didn’t know if i really liked girls til i got with another one but idk if i should tell my mom again
Hello there cutie pie 😘
Where you from? Are you from the G. T. A ?
Are they still dating?
You be you 😍😍😍
Aw =)
And your videos
Beat around the bush too much if you're going to come out then just straightforwardly come out. Play around too much and it makes it difficult for anyone to take you seriously. That's my only issue with you
How old are you ? Whose your girlfriend??? You seem like a load of fun .. best to you and your girl .. my mom used to say she would be ok with it . Hell my family knew I was gay before I did . Until reality set .. now I’m about three years without a mom to ever speak to or see again .. ehh
Hmm your just having fun with yourself on camera meanwhile we are all confused with this teenage babble
How are you telling yourself and your mother that God is cool with it? According to his word, what you are pursuing with this girl is sin. Romans 1:26-27 “For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.” He also says that it is ok to just be single and not marry anyone! Just because you are not attracted to guys does not mean that you are going to live an unfulfilled life without a spouse. 1 Corinthians 7:26-28 "Because of the present crisis, I think it is good for a man to remain as he is. Are you committed to a wife? Do not seek to be released. Are you free of commitment? Do not look for a wife. But if you do marry, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.…"
The world tells you that you NEED to have a partner to be happy. I love you and care about you as a sister. I plead with you to put God's will before your desires or feelings just in the same way as I would tell a sister who is entertaining thoughts of adultery or premarital sex. Do not be deceived. I was totally deceived when I started dating my best friend when we were seniors in high school. I was not turned on by how he looked (or any guy for that matter). It happened when we got really emotionally intimate. I knew in my heart that it was wrong to have sex with him before marriage, but I would scour the bible and try to twist any verse against what I wanted to do and make it mean that God was cool with it. I became a master at lying to myself. Down the road and 7 years into being married, I am full of regret. Our sex life was damaged early on because of what we had done before marriage. Plus, when I realized that I had been in error, and I finally faced my own sin.....it was too late. I had already done it. God had warned me; youth pastors had warned me, but I was just deaf and blind to it because what I wanted and desired became more important. It is not like God does not know what is best for us. As believers we need to pursue righteousness rather than happiness. We need to trust him when he says that something is bad (even if it feels great in the moment).
I tell you this in love and not from a place of hate. I genuinely care about you and other people being deceived and on their way to hell. Please don't be one of those people who is headed there. Pray pray pray and read the word. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 "Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God." This is serious. Do not continue to pursue this path of unclean desire. You will be held responsible for all those who you have led astray on judgement day. You have influence over young minds. Please do not continue to seek your identity in your sinful desires. Rather look to the Lord for who you are. He authored you.
Here you go: www.rmnetwork.org/newrmn/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Booklet-about-Homosexuality-and-the-Bible-Sept.-2016.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1Awgs3Sp-qvLh-njjdggxl5Dy-Uy2NyX4ZBRk77cyQjfm8r-1NsgLeyQk
I’m sorry and I love your coming out story but the way you beat around the bush is just hilarious to me - like you keep being like “I don’t think I like guys maybe ever, probably, but I could, but probably not, but maybe people who are not guys-“
What in the hell??? You don't believe in labels but you label yourself demisexual and homoromatic? What ??? Please stop the confusion.
God’s not cool about this lol
And I'm guessing hes told u that? Or maybe u r God!? Wow who knew, I thought God loved everyone... I think that's what the bible says anyway 🤔
Maybe read this dude: www.rmnetwork.org/newrmn/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Booklet-about-Homosexuality-and-the-Bible-Sept.-2016.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1Awgs3Sp-qvLh-njjdggxl5Dy-Uy2NyX4ZBRk77cyQjfm8r-1NsgLeyQk
our purpose on this earth is LOVE!!! BOTTOM LINE GOD IS ALL ABOUT LOVE!!
The Bible is clear. Women shall not lay with women. I grew up attracted to men and women. Even girly men like Korean pop artists snd women who looked boyish. So maybe I was/am pansexual? I've only dated one man and married him. He is the love of my life!!@ when I told him a few years ago I felt the odd urge to kiss my friend (female) he was hurt but understanding. That's how we should be. Yes, its sin to lay with same gender and God makes it clear that our hearts and feelings shouldnt determine our actions as that's dangerous. I pray you stay in the Lord and remember that Gld loves you. When we live in Him, we are made to be more perfect, living according to His Will. Idky we have these feelings but we should live for God and not ourselves. It's tough and God promises to help and never leave us. Love you and God bless!!
Not everybody follows YOUR religion. Stop pushing your views onto other people. If you grew up in a muslim family you would be islam. If you grew up in a non worshipping family you wouldnt be religious. If you grew up in Greece you would believe in the Greek gods. Your beliefs mean nothing to people who do not follow your book. Try to respect that. If you cant stop trying to change people to be how you want them to then shame on you and I feel sorrowful for your children if you have any. My point is that there are hundreds of religions. What makes YOURS the correct one? You only think you're right because you were told you were right from day one. You have no way of knowing that christianity is right compared to islam or anything else so shutup and keep your morals to yourself.
This is for your personal growth:
www.rmnetwork.org/newrmn/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Booklet-about-Homosexuality-and-the-Bible-Sept.-2016.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1Awgs3Sp-qvLh-njjdggxl5Dy-Uy2NyX4ZBRk77cyQjfm8r-1NsgLeyQk
You do realize that people don't have to follow that religion.
It’s more like demi homosexual demi homoromantic
you wrong Gods not cool with it are u kidding me GOD didn't made Woman & Woman he made Man & Woman what are u talking about maybe god of this world is cool with it, but not the father who art in heaven he is holy & man will enter to his paradise unless u repent ur sin be straight & turn to Jesus & be holy because God will judge us according to our sins but u have do it while u still here breathing cos if u die in ur sins & unholy it would be too late now is the time to get straight with GOD
God didn't make anything, people were born with different sexualities. Stop forcing your belief on others. It's quite annoying of you christian people.