The Perspective Your Autism Gave Me | {THE AND} Chad & Orin

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  • @TheSkinDeep
    @TheSkinDeep  2 роки тому +5

    If you'd like to support Orin please go subscribe to his UA-cam channel: ua-cam.com/channels/ugUnUbc5UzByzidLfEU4Hg.html

  • @meauxjojo
    @meauxjojo 3 роки тому +781

    I love how Chad asked permission to impersonate Orin, really paying attention to his emotions and making sure he wasn’t offended.

    • @cf5tv552
      @cf5tv552 3 роки тому +20

      He is the best Dad!

    • @JuliaPedro
      @JuliaPedro 3 роки тому +3

      @@cf5tv552 The new video of you both now makes a lot sense. He's indeed compassionate and you feel truly secure in him. I love that security and it's all a function of you both.

    • @bellethings5759
      @bellethings5759 3 роки тому +2

      I loved that.

    • @beaulaw
      @beaulaw 3 роки тому +2

      @@cf5tv552 I enjoyed the videos ❤️. And learned something from each of them. I ask this because of the name of your channel and picture , do you guys plan to have channel?

    • @cf5tv552
      @cf5tv552 3 роки тому +2

      @@beaulaw yes, eventually! I just have no idea what kind of content to post about.

  • @Richard-lh3te
    @Richard-lh3te 3 роки тому +700

    I love seeing fathers being tender with their boys. They don’t always need tough love.

    • @megan0591
      @megan0591 3 роки тому +7

      Absolutely. I wouldn’t want it any other way if I’m ever blessed with a son.

    • @ilovesoccerandalba
      @ilovesoccerandalba 3 роки тому +1

      I completely agree Dina !!!

    • @numbernine3436
      @numbernine3436 3 роки тому +1

      Right?!?💙💙💙

  • @hannahparrish1722
    @hannahparrish1722 3 роки тому +294

    When the father said how he worried about his son being mistreated, the tears really started to flow. Just imagining people being cruel to this little boy breaks my heart. He’s precious, gentle, intelligent, and kind. It hurts to see how harsh kids can be and I can only imagine how scary it is to be a parent who worries about their child and how others treat them.

    • @numbernine3436
      @numbernine3436 3 роки тому +7

      Sadly adults are even harsher. Our children are watching the adult bullies treat people exactly how we tell them is wrong.

    • @hannahparrish1722
      @hannahparrish1722 3 роки тому +5

      @@numbernine3436 very true. children are so influenced by adults... especially through media. It’s become such a norm to treat others cruelly without seeing the faults in one’s own actions. It’s hard to educate children when they have just as many or more bad examples to follow than they have good ones.

    • @Be1smaht
      @Be1smaht 3 роки тому +1

      Agreed. Hes so sweet

  • @babyelephant260907
    @babyelephant260907 3 роки тому +357

    Orin is unbelievably precious! He’s so smart, sweet, warm and wise. He’s unique for sure! All credit to his parents for just allowing him to be himself. “More time together, because you’re always working...Less time on our phones” really touched me. Childhood goes by so very quickly and you only get one. I hope that they can find a way. Finally, “Covid going away!” Amen buddy!

    • @cf5tv552
      @cf5tv552 3 роки тому +11

      Thank you 💛 This was filmed before Christmas. Last week for Spring Break we went on an RV adventure, Orin had the best time! He is a great boy!

    • @babyelephant260907
      @babyelephant260907 3 роки тому +3

      @@cf5tv552 I am really happy to hear that you’re getting to enjoy quality time together. Long may it continue. Stay safe!

  • @seshat927
    @seshat927 3 роки тому +233

    THE TEARS. They won't stop. What a precious boy and a wonderful dad.

  • @allisond4916
    @allisond4916 3 роки тому +77

    The way he looks into his son's eyes...and also his wife's...deeply, gently, calmly, solidly.

  • @AaMmack
    @AaMmack 3 роки тому +99

    Chad’s patience, both with his wife and now Orin, is mesmerizing.

  • @JW-mg1sk
    @JW-mg1sk 3 роки тому +109

    So many of us grew up undiagnosed and misunderstood. Seeing this boy and his father renews my hope.

  • @Manganyins
    @Manganyins 3 роки тому +49

    I cried when he said that "he worries how the kids treat you at school - I want everybody to see you how I see"

  • @lindak3030
    @lindak3030 3 роки тому +219

    Oh boy can I relate to "I'm an adult and it's against the law to harm children but..."

    • @meauxjojo
      @meauxjojo 3 роки тому +6

      I felt that!

    • @emunahohr9734
      @emunahohr9734 3 роки тому +2

      Lol

    • @SageOliveira
      @SageOliveira 3 роки тому +13

      I have a friend whose 6.2ft husband got fed up with his son being bullied and went to the school and told the kid if he ever bullied his son again he would bit him up. The father was never allowed in the school again, I think he has to maintain 100 ft away from the school. He got in trouble but his son was never bullied again.

    • @JuliaPedro
      @JuliaPedro 3 роки тому +1

      @@SageOliveira The father would feel proud of himself- he got the result he wanted.

  • @tripplejman24
    @tripplejman24 3 роки тому +163

    Dad: "What makes us family?" (Expecting literal answer)
    Son: "Love."
    Purest moment of the video

  • @Candie4JC
    @Candie4JC 3 роки тому +96

    I think Chad’s question about having Mom and home being enough is a thought many working dads assume to be true. I’m glad he asked that because the answer was probably something he didn’t realize.
    Fathers, children need YOU. Not your money, not your long work hours. They need YOU. Moms and dads are both needed in raising a child. Please don’t assume having your wife or the mother of your child raise the kids is somehow sufficient. Such an eye-opening moment in this video.
    Orin is precious.

    • @virgowriter5591
      @virgowriter5591 3 роки тому +3

      Yesssssss🗣👏🏼

    • @laviki5190
      @laviki5190 2 роки тому +1

      Yes. Just yes.

    • @lpycb42
      @lpycb42 2 роки тому

      I think it’s definitely the culture of men having to be the providers and they put a lot of weight on their shoulders to provide . It’s not just about a kid needing a father, it’s also about a person wanting to spend time with another person they love a lot.

    • @rungupuputherlambang6853
      @rungupuputherlambang6853 2 роки тому

      Easy to say.

  • @amber76OH
    @amber76OH 3 роки тому +75

    "I'm fine with outside I just don't like forests.. and wild environments.."
    I've never felt more understood. Thank you, Orin ,🖤😁

    • @lpycb42
      @lpycb42 2 роки тому

      Yeah same lol

  • @adriannapierzycka9818
    @adriannapierzycka9818 3 роки тому +83

    I love the conversations with children. So often they surprise us with maturity we didn't expect from them. Orin is such a fantastic boy, I'd love my little brother to find a friend as kind as him. And Chad is a great dad :)

  • @mypathunfolding
    @mypathunfolding 3 роки тому +25

    Neurodivergent people bring so much beauty and new perspectives to the world. As a therapist, I hear all of the time that kids truly want to spend more time with their parents, so I'm thankful that Orin told his dad that it's really important to him.

  • @leosworld2
    @leosworld2 3 роки тому +57

    Im crying! My son looks around the same age also with autism. I feel the fathers pain when it comes to other children. Worrying everyday is hard.

    • @abidanielson2747
      @abidanielson2747 3 роки тому +7

      Hi! My brother happens to have autism also however our father is not accepting of that. It’s really hard on my mom she’s sacrificed a lot for my brother so I applaud you because it’s not easy

  • @leleprtk
    @leleprtk 3 роки тому +50

    He is the most precious little boy ever, what a treasure it must be to have him as a son! This was so lovely, I couldn’t help but cry a little

  • @chumabanjwa4662
    @chumabanjwa4662 3 роки тому +56

    Put down your phones mom and dad! This was so beautiful, it broke my heart 😭.

    • @cf5tv552
      @cf5tv552 3 роки тому +11

      Working with The Skin Deep definitely opened our eyes to our kids needs in a way that we didn’t realize we needed. Phones are put down a lot more these days. We are thrilled Orin could be so brave and honest with us. This exercise helped our family, we can’t recommend it enough!

  • @loomonda18
    @loomonda18 3 роки тому +45

    As someone who has a family member with Autism, I can confirm, the biggest thing they want is love and support ❤️

  • @stephanieshelton5813
    @stephanieshelton5813 3 роки тому +31

    Awww Orin is the sweetest, He's so intelligent and adorable

  • @jmcoffeecat7
    @jmcoffeecat7 3 роки тому +10

    I wish I had had a parent who loved me this much and talked to me with so much emotion and honesty. What a blessing for both father and son.

  • @vumashengele2218
    @vumashengele2218 3 роки тому +33

    Smart young man. Such an adorable character. Great son and dad conversation

  • @emilydelaune4980
    @emilydelaune4980 3 роки тому +23

    My goodness even the dad’s responses to his son’s answers!! Omg

  • @jean-nicolasvanderheyden7377
    @jean-nicolasvanderheyden7377 3 роки тому +30

    His honesty is so pure and can't be matched, great video!

  • @taylorortiz9962
    @taylorortiz9962 3 роки тому +33

    This was beautiful. I hope you guys continue to highlight relationships with kids who have disabilities. My little brother is 5 years old with autism and it’s comforting watching things like this. Knowing we are not alone 🤍

  • @alisaben1
    @alisaben1 3 роки тому +14

    Omg...the second question, Orin got so somber...I teared up....I knew he was gonna ask for more time🥺 ...the love he has for his pops words spoken over him 🥰 #sweetchild

  • @DGP653
    @DGP653 3 роки тому +22

    That father/man is so internally beautiful 👍

  • @kathy2888
    @kathy2888 3 роки тому +15

    He seems like an amazing dad, amazing. They are all so lucky to have him.

  • @ThereseDavidson
    @ThereseDavidson 3 роки тому +9

    I like the kid’s honesty. Cool kid. This Made me cry

  • @londonhasfallen7786
    @londonhasfallen7786 3 роки тому +13

    It is so cool to see so many different perspectives throughout Skin Deep. My nephew is 7 and was just diagnosed autistic. He has always been special to me, we both get each other, but I fear when he goes to school, kids won’t see what I see. I totally understand Chad’s fears, but I am incredibly impressed with Orin’s explanations and how patient he seems. He has an incredible future ahead of him.

  • @sierra.montgomery
    @sierra.montgomery 3 роки тому +10

    This is the sweetest little boy and the sweetest dad! Dad’s answers nearly brought me to tears.

  • @charlenewilliams7239
    @charlenewilliams7239 3 роки тому +20

    Thinking of people treating him badly breaks my heart. 🥺🥺

  • @lichi1244eva
    @lichi1244eva 3 роки тому +12

    Orin, you just gained so many new friends! Thank you for sharing this wonderful talk with your father, we enjoyed it so much!! You are a sweet, handsome, smart young man!

  • @MerveilleK
    @MerveilleK 3 роки тому +5

    Omw what a precious little boy, his eyes and innocence yet so articulate with his words

  • @Dahlia_Kaitlyn
    @Dahlia_Kaitlyn 3 роки тому +39

    Orin’s teeth are too cute, reminds me of myself at that age pre braces 🥲

    • @alisaben1
      @alisaben1 3 роки тому +8

      They are...they give him so much character and he looks even sweeter 🥰

    • @Hallelujur
      @Hallelujur 3 роки тому +1

      I know 😍😭 Adorable!!!

  • @lessavocadotoast5927
    @lessavocadotoast5927 3 роки тому +13

    I'm so in love with this family! After watching the parents' conversation is easy to see why he said "love" was what made them a family. Maybe not literal, but very obvious ❤ and the kid - I want him to be friends with mine

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 роки тому +4

      Hi Maria! If you love the family, look out for a video in the future with Abby and Grace--they're Sara and Chad's daughters.

    • @lessavocadotoast5927
      @lessavocadotoast5927 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheSkinDeep looking forward to it!

  • @ST-fj3zy
    @ST-fj3zy 3 роки тому +5

    This man has so much to deal with! He’s a true definition of man!! Big respect to him! This is a perfect example of healthy needed communication between father and son! 👏🏽❤️

  • @dreadrea9222
    @dreadrea9222 3 роки тому +10

    Awwww such Genuine real love.💛 I feel like Chad is definitely raising Orin too be an amazing young man... wishing their family nothing but peace, positivity & blessings!

  • @Butterfly-ex9to
    @Butterfly-ex9to 3 роки тому +11

    Orin is so sweet, his smile and his eyes are everything🥰 love this episode

  • @jaydev536
    @jaydev536 3 роки тому +9

    What a great kid! As someone with a congenital brain disorder with symptoms that overlap with autism, and many good friends with autism, I hope he knows he’s not alone, and just how amazing he is! You can tell he has a big, strong heart, and is creative and intelligent. All of the people on the spectrum I know love and respect animals and other people, are very successful because of their creativity and intelligence, and they make a huge difference in the world every day, just being themselves. It makes me proud to share some of their attributes- even the oversensitivity to sensations and sound (one of the ones that can be the hardest for me to cope with). If Orin has this same challenge, when Covid improves, maybe some places in the community might be up for adjusting their light and sounds and occupancy so Orin can spend more time out doing things with the family. Here, we just got special shopping nights for people with sound, light, and crowd sensitivity. I think these things should be taken into consideration more when designing spaces for accessibility. Often what benefits people with autism as far as accessible design, benefits us all.

    • @jaydev536
      @jaydev536 3 роки тому +6

      And you know, as a kid who was bullied for my differences, the best thing you can do as a family member is be and provide that safe space for that kid to come home to. I never felt that hurt by other kids because I knew I had a whole group of people who were my best friends who never judged me and always truly cared about me at home. The older I got the more I realized the kids bullying me didn’t have what I had, and I felt sorry for them. It’s easier to stand up for yourself and not get as emotionally hurt when you know who you are and what you have are important and you believe in them. It’s also good as adults for us to teach all children that bullying and harassment is not acceptable and to speak up and intervene when we witness kids getting bullied.

    • @abidanielson2747
      @abidanielson2747 3 роки тому +1

      You’re very insightful ❤️

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  3 роки тому +2

      Jennifer ❤️ Thank you so so much for sharing your comments with our community and us. Your words are valued, as are you. Sending you love.

    • @JuliaPedro
      @JuliaPedro 3 роки тому

      @@jaydev536 Brilliant! I love your thought process.

  • @tsitsichiwashira9831
    @tsitsichiwashira9831 3 роки тому +17

    Ohh wow! This is so deep , this young man just touched my heart, super smart. Well done to you the dad and mom for raising a fine young man 🙏🏿

    • @cf5tv552
      @cf5tv552 3 роки тому

      Thank you, Orin is the best!

  • @Zeeee4
    @Zeeee4 3 роки тому +3

    I just watched the video with his wife and now this. This family is beautiful. You can feel the love

  • @numbernine3436
    @numbernine3436 3 роки тому +3

    Lolo he's calling dad out. Its cute how they look just alike🥰🥰🥰

  • @krystalkelley9324
    @krystalkelley9324 3 роки тому +12

    I love how Orin tells his dad that he wants more time with his dad.

  • @PNWboundGator
    @PNWboundGator Рік тому +1

    The hardest thing about being a parent is definitely knowing you can't always protect them and the world can be cruel. I tell myself if we can create a safe space for our sweet kid and show them love and how to love themselves, hopefully it will be like a shield for their spirit that no amount of cruelty can destroy. Sure, things will hurt, times will get tough, we may not always be there, but I hope our love and his love for himself are eternal. I hope, I hope, I hope. I loved this one ❤🥲

  • @jennywinget1144
    @jennywinget1144 3 роки тому +6

    Such a special bond between father and son. Loved this. Thanks.

  • @Rose-ch7pc
    @Rose-ch7pc 3 роки тому +8

    Such a sweet relationship ❤️ I just want to hug him and protect him.

  • @cestmoi5702
    @cestmoi5702 3 роки тому +6

    They are repairing my heart.

  • @aamirkala1352
    @aamirkala1352 3 роки тому +10

    9 minutes of pure love, pure meaningful beautiful love
    God bless you both

  • @lite-ck5mj
    @lite-ck5mj 3 роки тому +5

    When he SAID there is nothing really wrong with our family.... 😭😭😭.. I cried thinking about my own and my big brothers childhood trauma 😭😭... Bless this dad for being such a good man

  • @mickih35
    @mickih35 3 роки тому +14

    My son has autism and he's the best person I know and very smart.

  • @elizabethharttley4073
    @elizabethharttley4073 3 роки тому +4

    Aww the dad is coming along just fine. He's working on his frustration and temper to be a better person. Orin is a wonderful teacher.

  • @gisellevasquez2737
    @gisellevasquez2737 3 роки тому +2

    Love this so much, especially after seeing his and his wife’s video. He’s so tender and loving

  • @StaleCookies
    @StaleCookies 3 роки тому +4

    In tears on my lunch break at work. Thanks a lot👊

  • @KamiliaMosaad
    @KamiliaMosaad 3 роки тому +3

    Loved every bit of this video. As an aspiring pediatrician this was so refreshing. Both of them are smart and loving. Wishing them a forever happy life.

  • @issabout1420
    @issabout1420 3 роки тому +5

    They are so sweet together. Blessings to one another.

  • @kimberlyhill534
    @kimberlyhill534 2 роки тому +1

    Orin’s laugh ❤❤❤❤

  • @alishaharris6407
    @alishaharris6407 3 роки тому +3

    That is the most adorable boy ever! I appreciate this family very much.

  • @lipsohlips97
    @lipsohlips97 3 роки тому +2

    I am one minute in and I can't take the cuteness!! OMG Also he for sure has his dad's eyes :)

  • @maltitibacha2074
    @maltitibacha2074 3 роки тому +3

    I LOVE THIS LOVE! So pure, i had goosebumps.

  • @rylie.2019
    @rylie.2019 3 роки тому +1

    this made me tear up, in a beautiful way and i love the relationship portrayed. God bless them!! x

  • @alicesch7119
    @alicesch7119 2 роки тому +1

    oh man I wished I had a father like Chad , who stands behind me no matter what !!!! Great guys

  • @JN.S.M
    @JN.S.M 3 роки тому +2

    This is my favorite video so far. Just hits different.

  • @SageOliveira
    @SageOliveira 3 роки тому +3

    I would love to have this child as my own. He is so smart, beautiful, funny and caring. With parents like he has he is going to grow up to be such a catch. Love him.

  • @koubrazakaria4508
    @koubrazakaria4508 2 роки тому

    Loving these parent-child conversations of special kids with their parents. Amazing! Love you so much for that, #TheSkinDeepTeam 🙏🏾💜

  • @CrackberryMe
    @CrackberryMe 3 роки тому +6

    Orin is sooo adorable !! Such a wonderful little guy !!

  • @francessaunders3447
    @francessaunders3447 Рік тому +1

    Love this dad already.

  • @PeppermintMAB
    @PeppermintMAB 2 роки тому +1

    Just how attentive is this dad towards everything related to his son.. how he's observing every little detail of information Orin is sending out and how much attention there is on the way he interacts, responds and projects... In a way that's not wanting to cause any stress or harm to the boy it almost makes Chad seem like a robot, but in a way that is born out of love. Not many people have that capability...

  • @mandomoeng764
    @mandomoeng764 3 роки тому +6

    Orin is so bright and amazing.... I love him......

  • @elishamiyahira4301
    @elishamiyahira4301 2 роки тому

    I hve a brother with this diagnosis and it’s apparent that if you are a real man it will test you but then love will defy all odds of obstacles. If you aren’t mature enough as a person you could crumble. This man is wonderful

  • @maatirah6530
    @maatirah6530 3 роки тому +17

    This one I should have not watched around onions. Whew!! 🥰

  • @SheriAnn
    @SheriAnn 3 роки тому +2

    I felt this through and through. It's like a mirror image of my son and I. 💗

  • @libbystwinfreelibby1839
    @libbystwinfreelibby1839 3 роки тому +8

    He is such an adorable little lad 🥺

  • @dyniellekent2127
    @dyniellekent2127 3 роки тому +37

    Such a great conversation. I’m a Mom of 9 years old twins with Autism. I would love to play this game with them, it is so insightful. Much gratitude. ❤️✨

    • @Chev2k3
      @Chev2k3 3 роки тому

      Did your children have speech delays?

    • @dyniellekent2127
      @dyniellekent2127 3 роки тому +2

      @@Chev2k3 yes, and dyslexia. Thankfully, there is support for them and us as a family. How about you?

    • @Chev2k3
      @Chev2k3 3 роки тому +2

      @@dyniellekent2127 my son is almost 3 years old. We are starting speech therapy this week. I just want him to be the best he can be. His social skills are not terrible however.

    • @dyniellekent2127
      @dyniellekent2127 3 роки тому +1

      @@Chev2k3 Good for you, and him. I hope you both enjoy the process.

  • @wombatcube
    @wombatcube 3 роки тому +1

    I love when Orin calls him out on the phone thing. Parents? Lead by example. Take away the phones on the weekend. A lil time apart will open the heart.

  • @kymberliethefreespiritedone
    @kymberliethefreespiritedone 3 роки тому +1

    My favorite videos come from the skin deep. We learn so much about others as well as ourselves...
    It has helped me grow

  • @brittaniibatts2638
    @brittaniibatts2638 3 роки тому +2

    The connection is so beautiful

  • @mediokritet
    @mediokritet 3 роки тому +2

    Such a precious boy and a beautiful relationship with his dad 💕

  • @Truechildofgod
    @Truechildofgod 7 місяців тому

    oh my goodness they are so cute!!! I loved watching this. Very sweet video skin deep bring back these kinds of family videos!!!

  • @glamorousgirl41
    @glamorousgirl41 3 роки тому +7

    I love this so much. You’re both such beautiful souls xo

  • @DeniseSantos-qe5ee
    @DeniseSantos-qe5ee 3 роки тому +1

    I'm crying, this is such a beautiful relationship

  • @kimberlyhill534
    @kimberlyhill534 3 роки тому +2

    This is so precious and heartwarming

  • @theophiluskobla3109
    @theophiluskobla3109 3 роки тому

    This is so beautiful, am even shocked someone had the course to "dislike" it ...

  • @1StewartSarah
    @1StewartSarah 3 роки тому +2

    Such a beautiful moment in time.

  • @lizbetgarcia8986
    @lizbetgarcia8986 2 роки тому

    I’m literally crying 😭 this is beautiful

  • @bright-side-news
    @bright-side-news 2 місяці тому

    Such an emotionally available father is beautiful

  • @deargifty
    @deargifty 2 роки тому

    Came from Instagram, the little clip almost made me cry so I had to come here and cry some more.

  • @jennifermcgrath4892
    @jennifermcgrath4892 3 роки тому +3

    This just warmed my heart!!!!

  • @cgirl241
    @cgirl241 3 роки тому +4

    I'm not crying, YOU ARE

  • @LocKween52
    @LocKween52 3 роки тому +2

    I love this. Oren is too sweet

  • @kriknight
    @kriknight 3 роки тому +6

    "Love.. is what makes a family." I love that.
    My dog's name is also Cash lol!!

    • @cf5tv552
      @cf5tv552 3 роки тому +1

      Cash is our cat, Orin loves him! It’s a great name!

  • @amandamarie5746
    @amandamarie5746 3 роки тому +2

    Chad seems like an amazing father and husband!

  • @RR-kx6xv
    @RR-kx6xv 2 роки тому +1

    Orin is a great kid. I hope he knows it and he is super cute. He is gonne be a super handsome and well raised man, no doubt bout it.

  • @emmyyashi6045
    @emmyyashi6045 3 роки тому +2

    So Heart warming ,,,God Bless the Family

  • @terahenderson8089
    @terahenderson8089 3 роки тому +6

    Lovely father son relationship. And a handsome young man

  • @devinelove6873
    @devinelove6873 3 роки тому +5

    What a good kid . ❤️ he reminds me of my son

  • @nicolecolourflex2021
    @nicolecolourflex2021 3 роки тому +2

    Such a precious bond, wow

  • @shortyisdope9493
    @shortyisdope9493 3 роки тому +4

    This was so cute and wholesome

  • @makeupbykatherine21
    @makeupbykatherine21 3 роки тому +2

    Such a sweet boy and going amazing places!