We The People - the surrogacy debate; of motherhood or money?

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  • @rosiezianna1435
    @rosiezianna1435 6 років тому +2

    I believe surrogacy is indeed a blessing. Surrogates are really humble. They should be respected. They should be paid because they are giving you such a happiness. Which in my opinion money can't buy. Motherhood is a pure bond and feeling. Which many infertile are able to get due to surrogates. So proud of all surrogates out here. Stay blessed and keep spreading smiles.

  • @carolinearthur5908
    @carolinearthur5908 6 років тому +1

    It is interesting to see people thinking this way about surrogacy. When discussions are brought to the table things becomes easier to resolve. Surrogacy has been the topic for discussion for a long time. Regardless of how useful it has been, it is bitterly criticised too. This video has a great information to clarify the minds. The things are not as complicated as they seem. I hope you have some more great videos in stock too.

  • @amandajohn1972
    @amandajohn1972 6 років тому +4

    Well, I don't agree with people who say that there should not be any reward for surrogates. Surrogates are doing a very responsible job. And indeed, a tough job. We should definitely pay them something as a source of thank you. So what if it is money. They even need money to live a happy life. Why do we only think about ourselves and not others?

  • @azzieser9349
    @azzieser9349 6 років тому +2

    Hi. I am with all the surrogates out there. I can imagine how difficult it must be to nurture someone inside you only to give him up. We need more people to help the infertile. We need this procedure to be supported. So more people get what they desire. All of us deserve happiness.

  • @angelbirmin8352
    @angelbirmin8352 6 років тому

    A very controversial debate. I think it all depends on how you see the procedure. When I opted for surrogacy from Ukraine. I was really scared to meet the surrogate mainly due to these reasons. However, upon meeting her my views changed about the procedure entirely. She was so nice and down to earth. She clearly told me that she was doing this process to help. I honestly got so emotional on hearing this.

  • @emmastewart4899
    @emmastewart4899 6 років тому +1

    I have seen many videos about surrogacy in India. People have got different views on how surrogacy works. It is still a hot topic in many countries. According to me, it should not be banned. If it allows barren families to have their own baby it should not be banned. It should be made legal. I hope it gets promoted more and more.

  • @linnealopez9593
    @linnealopez9593 6 років тому

    We all know that surrogacy is legal in some countries or in some countries these are legal. So, surrogate is allowed money is given to that women in the shape of gift. Sometimes money will given in shape of help. Surrogacy is a big industry that is on the peek. With the help of this way some surrogacy patients can earn alot of money through it. Keep share this video for those who are not able to know that what is going on in this world.

  • @areebaqamar3220
    @areebaqamar3220 6 років тому +1

    Well, that's a very controversial debate. In order to find a surrogate mother. You can chose IVF. However, more often than not these clinics lack an active database of surrogate mothers.Certain clinics have legal firms attached to them. However, I would recommend that you first compare the range and the cost of the services provided by them with what the agencies that specialize in full support for the surrogacy programs can offer you. Personally, I had surrogacy in Bio tex clinic and they are the one who searched for me the surrogate.

  • @nerdnerd5054
    @nerdnerd5054 6 років тому

    I was thrice pregnant but resulted in miscarriage. Had a number of complications while getting pregnant. So at 43 years i gave up on TTC and thought of other ways to have a baby.Everyone wants a child. I also want a child and i am TTC from last 14 years now. Still i have no luck of having a baby. I researched about the other methods and found surrogacy is the best solution for me to have a baby. Now i will go for surrogacy to have a baby. Good luck to you.

  • @janniferkate6657
    @janniferkate6657 6 років тому

    I am not an Indian. But I think the issue is that there are not suitable laws for this. Surrogacy is an option for infertile women. Surrogate mother must be willing to do so. There must be the limit for a surrogate mother to serve herself. Her health and happiness are also important. It all how you take the process. When my friend opted for the option from Ukraine she was really scared. But after meeting the surrogate mother her views were totally changed. So take it positively and beware of bad clinics.

  • @isabelwilliams1378
    @isabelwilliams1378 6 років тому

    For all those who say that this job should be unpaid, I do not agree with you guys. Many women need money. And they do this job for financial reasons. I believe that this decision of theirs should be respected. I have been a surrogate for 3 children. And I was paid every time. This job is not easy. Those who do not do it, they do not know how hard it is.

  • @semragn4691
    @semragn4691 6 років тому

    In order to find a surrogate mother. You can go to one of the IVF clinics that have surrogacy programs. However, more often than not these clinics lack an active database of surrogate mothers. Who have undergone a complete examination? In most cases medical Centre administrators simply note the phone calls from women. Who offer the surrogacy services? But the clinic does not conduct any pre-screening. Psychological testing and medical examination. Moreover, it is unlikely that you will be given information about the amount of the compensation that will be due to a surrogate mother. Nowadays, in order to simplify the process of a search for a surrogate mother for the patients. Certain clinics have legal firms attached to them. However, I would recommend that you first compare the range and the cost of the services provided by them with what the agencies that specialize in full support for the surrogacy programs can offer you. Personally I had surrogacy in Bio tex clinic and they are the one who searched for me the surrogate.

  • @laurastevens1295
    @laurastevens1295 6 років тому

    There is no debate. Surrogacy is a great process. It's really important to realize that people do it voluntarily, as well. They understand the problem. They realize the difficulties faced by other couples. Money is only a "thanking" factor. It shouldn't be looked at, as something negative.

  • @maximilianajunas82
    @maximilianajunas82 5 років тому +1

    You know, I understand both sides: to care for a child and love him, enduring all the perks and hardships of parenthood is so rewarding. While your friends and family raise children around you it’s depressing to know you cannot have that. But there’s just one problem: you can have that without surrogacy. It’s called adoption. One can argue it’s not the same, because you are not carrying your DNA. For me it sounds really selfish. Is it selfish to say you would rather pay 30K to have a poor Ukrainian woman carry your bionic baby to birth than adopt a child that desperately needs a tender loving home because you want your bloodline to carry on? What implications does that have on the child? When the baby will grow up? Our wombs and body parts are not rented and children are not commodities. What about the poor couples that want a child in their own image? Too bad, only wealthy couples that can afford the process can have surrogates carry grow their seeds. I know that some people prefer cheaper Ukrainian clinics like the Biotexcom but I believe that it is wrong.

  • @hannahgeorge180
    @hannahgeorge180 6 років тому

    Surrogacy is still facing a lot of controversies. I think it should not be controversial anymore. It happens with the mutual consent of the surrogate mother and the couple. There is nothing wrong with it. Many good clinics worldwide offer surrogacy. The success rate is also good. I wish all the best to those who are going for surrogacy.

  • @riazoyer432
    @riazoyer432 6 років тому

    Hope you are fine. Strongly Agreed to you. Worth sharing video. Providing motivation to other infertile women. And it is fact surrogacy is needed in the modern world. Thousands of couples are infertile. And they use surrogacy. I know it’s an emotional time but you have to take careful steps.

  • @samanthacollins5698
    @samanthacollins5698 6 років тому

    A great discussion to ponder upon. Surrogacy is a trending option to have a baby for infertile couples. Every married couple wants to become parents and they deserve to be. It isn't their fault that they're infertile. I believe that poor women in India become surrogate mothers so that they can have a suitable amount of money. Which isn't wrong. They're being a carrier for someone else's baby, this isn;t easy.

  • @ammyalen7633
    @ammyalen7633 6 років тому +1

    Such debates have been just getting on the positive sides. As soon as people have got the positive knowledge of this procedure. I am very sure that many of the individuals would get their hopes back with this surrogacy procedure.

  • @lillygeorge5610
    @lillygeorge5610 6 років тому

    Well, surrogacy is a very sensitive thing. Especially when it comes to the surrogate mothers. I believe that their job is very tough. They carry someone else's child in their womb. They take care of themselves for somebody else. They should be rewarded for this as a nice gesture. They should be paid for it. They deserve to get something for their help.

  • @annataylor4421
    @annataylor4421 6 років тому

    I don't know why people are asking to ban surrogacy. Only those people know the importance of who survived infertility. I think people should make an effort to legalize surrogacy.

  • @ruthstones5628
    @ruthstones5628 6 років тому

    Well, it is a great discussion. Everyone could have their own opinions on this. In many countries, it is still controversial. I think it all depends on how we look at the process. I have been through the process. In Ukraine, you have got the best facilities. The surrogate moms are selfless. They don't only work for money but for completing barren families.

  • @horisam9905
    @horisam9905 6 років тому

    There can be many reasons for someone to go into surrogacy. I cannot speak for everyone, but I can tell you that the biggest reason is to help others. There are many men and women in this world who are suffering from different infertility issues. So that's why there are these amazing people who offer their womb for the benefit of others. I would not like to put it any other way. There are a few cases where someone offers to do it for money only.

  • @talhaiqbal7255
    @talhaiqbal7255 6 років тому

    hey there. I hope you are great. it was such an amazing video.surrogacy is ana amazing process. and I like that people are coming out. to support it. it is really good to see them support surrogacy.

  • @riachaudhary4626
    @riachaudhary4626 8 років тому +1

    Government haven't made it compulsory for the reltaive to provide surrogacy, my relatives are not bound by any law to serve as surrogate to me and my wife, than why are we (me my wife) are bound to get help out only through our close relatives, while there is no promise by government, by law, that our relatives have to help us out, this is snating of our right to equility, as the right to equility is already snatched via god by making me and my wife unfertile, this is even more cruel that our govt can not get it.

  • @irinaklaus277
    @irinaklaus277 6 років тому

    I don't understand the "debate". Of course, surrogates deserve to get paid. They deserve the money they get. Money doesn't mean that the job they are doing isn't something big. It's still important all the same. They are serving humanity. It's a fabulous procedure and countries should NOT be banning it.

  • @anilajoe948
    @anilajoe948 6 років тому

    I think surrogacy should be legalized in all countries so people don't have to travel to international clinics. I went to a clinic in Ukraine for my surrogacy and I don't regret that decision one bit. I stand with surrogacy.

  • @briannaandrews989
    @briannaandrews989 7 років тому

    As I can see these debates about pros and contras of the surrogacy motherhood take ages! I mean that I heard a lot of discussions about this subject. But to mind, the advantages massively outweigh the disadvantages. First of all, of course, I am talking here about the opportunity to make a free choice. A lot of people nowadays have some fertility problems and it is really important for them to make the right decision. If they want to have a biological connection with the child let them get it! That is why some people prefer to use the help of the surrogate mothers. The second important thing is money. India is a quite poor country and people there also need an opportunity to get more opportunities to increase their income. So the surrogacy can be an opportunity for a better life of the future surrogate mother! While government bans the surrogate motherhood they also definitely cut off the number of people who came to India for medical tourism! I just wanted to say that nowadays there are a lot of modern reproductive clinics around the world. Even in some not so highly developed countries! For example, I know one pretty good Center for Human Reproduction in Kiev, where the whole program costs like for 30k euro. Not as much as could, actually. I think that it is normal and quite acceptable to get some help at such centers. At this way Ukrainian clinic helps couples to get their happiness!

  • @nancyben9398
    @nancyben9398 6 років тому

    Hi, how are you? Surrogacy is the most controversial topic. Many people are against it. Surrogacy is a blessing for infertile women. We should support them. They need motivation. Stay strong. Hope for the best. Good wishes

  • @amandadaniel833
    @amandadaniel833 6 років тому

    I can't believe this. Is it really true? I am actually new to all this. We have been searching for different treatments. And we decided to have Surrogacy. But this video is saying that we must be alert. I think we are gonna take a while to decide now. Wish us luck for this.

  • @petramorelle8790
    @petramorelle8790 6 років тому

    I can’t believe in that. It sounds insane! It seems that this person just can’t even imagine what can feel an infertile couple. I think that this minister is lucky to have a great family with own kids. But not all of us can have the same life. We are infertile. That is why we asked for some help at the Ukrainian clinic. The prices for the surrogacy are awesome there! We were hoping to start our program in a couple of weeks. Unfortunately, a few days ago we were informed that these days Ukrainian government is considering a new law. And nobody knows what will be with the surrogacy there in future. We are desperate now! So I just can’t even imagine how someone can ban this issue. Let people have a choice!

  • @irisgordon1660
    @irisgordon1660 6 років тому

    Surrogacy is rather popular nowadays. It can be seen in many countries. And it is fact surrogacy is needed in the modern world. Thousands of couples are infertile. And they use surrogacy. Therefore of course surrogacy issues must be thought out in details. All possible situations and conditions must be written in the appropriate contract. And for sure there must be a law. Anyway very often we can read such articles when surrogacy program’s participants have certain misunderstandings. I guess surrogacy cannot be banned everywhere. In any case there will be palaces where it will be allowed. Thus it is needed to have detailed rules and norms. It is in order to avoid difficulties. And of course there must be human’s understanding. People must always stay humans.

  • @bellaedison162
    @bellaedison162 6 років тому

    Hi there. Hope you are doing well. Surrogacy should not be banned. I don't understand why they ban it. I mean it does not harm anyone. It's spreading happiness. I wish all of us coulg get enlightened. Good fortunes.

  • @jeneliasmith9464
    @jeneliasmith9464 6 років тому

    Well, I don't think it should be an unpaid job. The surrogates do this job for a reason. They should be given a reward for this job. They have a right to live a happy life. Hence, they should be helped for doing this. What they do is not done by everyone. Not everyone has a big heart.

  • @acesofgambit
    @acesofgambit 7 років тому +1

    I'm not an Indian. one big problem in India I think is everything you do there's a middleman. they are the corrupt people. and not all your government.
    I think middle man should be ban. and have a regulation that every surrogate mothers has a limit of giving births for others. and also everyone has the right to be happy. having a child is a blessing. I think there's no wrong about surrogacy only your rules 😁

  • @pheobe1237
    @pheobe1237 6 років тому

    I always said. It's good for everyone. Everything is going to be great for us. It's going to be alright. We should take good care of ourselves. It could happen to anyone. We must think about it. It's becoming very common to dislike it. We must never do it.

  • @stephaniestallin635
    @stephaniestallin635 6 років тому

    It is a tough a time you are going through. You should visit a good clinic that will help you solve your problems. I wish you all the best for your future. I will be looking forward to it.

  • @appletime4144
    @appletime4144 8 років тому

    What I want to say is that price is also important. If it is too much high people don’t try
    the program. The prices in USA seem to be unaffordable. Only wealth people
    could afford it. In many clinics you have to pay for every visit, every
    consultation with doctor. The clinics of USA also offer packages for same sex
    couples. So this fact makes it more attractive for such couples. You know that is only permitted in two or three counties. And in the end sum can be very surprising. People have to take loan to pay for treatment. USA is the most expensive in medical field. But of course it has excellent service. The personnel would smile to you and would be very
    nice and attentive. But you see the Americans themselves are searching for
    cheaper options. Lots of them traveled to Mexico because it was not far away.
    Lots of them travel to Thailand. Or it would better to say “travelled. But not
    only rich people must have a chance to have children. Everybody must have it.
    The crucial point is that they must be good parents. I don’t know what is
    better to pay 200 000 dollars in USA but get reliable service whether to do
    surrogacy, for example, in Mexico for 25 000 dollars and take a risk. Where
    about you go you don’t know what would be the result. For example, you don’t
    have guarantee even in USA. The service can be brilliant but the result can be
    negative. Everywhere you can find pros and cons. I didn’t go to USA for two reasons. These reasons seem to be the most considerable. The first one I have already
    mentioned. It’s a price. The second reason is that the children get citizenship
    of USA aft r their birth. For some people it can me convenient even desirable.
    I know that many wealthy Chinese try to do surrogacy in USA. But as for me it’s
    a big drawback. I wanted my child be citizen of my country, but not USA.
    Changing citizenship is a long termed process. So after birth I would need to
    hire an advocate. That by the way also costs a lot in USA. Oh I could hardly
    imagine that horrors. But about Mexico I didn’t expect it. I knew that Mexico
    didn’t have the best service but surrogate mother and donors are carriers of
    diseases. This isn't good enough. It is really like in Asian countries. I also
    didn’t think about adoption. I couldn’t admit it. Of course, I am inclined to
    believe that adoption is a very noble thing. But adoption can take even six o seven years. And we would like to have a baby. Moreover, for me was important that our baby would be part of us, have our genes. But, yes, it is not an easy way.

    • @melissaclinton5775
      @melissaclinton5775 8 років тому +1

      US prices are the major reason people are going abroad for a surrogacy of even UVF treatment. They can not afford that in US esp when their insurance do not compensate in at all. What a joke! In Ukrainian clinic you pay 50 000 euro for everything and it is not the most cheap contract. I mean, even with plane tickets and other considerably small expenses Ukraine still amazes me.

  • @carolinefinch9419
    @carolinefinch9419 7 років тому

    Surrogate motherhood has already become very popular. It’s already well-known procedure. People understand what it is. Anyway in such issue the main thing I guess is these women to be taking care properly. Usually they even have no education! I heard and read stories when Indian surrogates for example even don’t know how to read and write. They have big families. Women face with difficult situation. These are expensive education for children, absence of normal living conditions or even absence of house sometimes! And of course commercial surrogacy is a chance for such women. In general, during these nine months of pregnancy they can earn money and buy house. Of course due to the lack of education they cannot earn money in another way. Participating in the surrogacy program they need not to conduct difficult economic or mathematical operations. They just use their natural possibility and carry child for others. Unfortunately very often such women are used for own aims. I mean women receive not all money or are treated in bad conditions. In addition clinic or agents do not pay in the case of any complications.

  • @monikadavid3915
    @monikadavid3915 6 років тому

    I have watched numerous videos. Both from the perspective of a surrogate and an IP. In these videos surrogates always mention that they are trying to help the ones who cant conceive otherwise. I think that is how everyone should be looking at things as well. People shouldn't spread hate about the process. I have also opted for the clinic in Ukraine for my surrogacy. Even there the surrogate mothers are sweet and down to earth. So be positive and stop hating over a process.

  • @jessicajones4127
    @jessicajones4127 6 років тому

    Oh great its a very good discussion. Surrogacy is really good for motherhood. We should appreciate surrogates as they help surrogacy peoples. They should have to be paid for this. Women face some difficulties in it. But surrogates help those women. My prayers are with all surrogates and surrogacy women.

  • @listencarefully3891
    @listencarefully3891 8 років тому +3

    Prof Mohan Rao looks very insensitive, not good arguments/points

    • @TheNitesh291087
      @TheNitesh291087 8 років тому +2

      these scholars are always in their own fantasy world, doing research but yet be ridiculous

  • @vrikshk5658
    @vrikshk5658 5 років тому

    These politicians need to be replaced with sensible educated youngsters....!

  • @haileybrown1557
    @haileybrown1557 6 років тому

    Interesting debate. This handles a lot of the concerns that people have. I think it depends purely on the need. There are so many infertile people who need this. There are a lot of women who need the money and opt to become surrogate mothers. Many times it makes themselves feel good as well. I think it's best to go to a good clinic. I went with BioTexCom in Ukraine.

  • @HiteshPatial
    @HiteshPatial Рік тому

    2023 - please make it legal again ... for single man also ...

  • @georgedmello6028
    @georgedmello6028 8 років тому

    another ban this time on a woman. pls explain about the dalit women who is oppressed in india, ive watched documentaries on this pls do something about their rights and equality.

  • @amirahariana5136
    @amirahariana5136 5 років тому

    Help the couples. ....

  • @Shyam8468
    @Shyam8468 8 років тому +1

    very good discussion . Once again proof here if you have money you can buy any think . intelligent and educated people like here they will support you. In India thousand of children in Orphanage and lakhs of children in street without any parents.
    But if you have money power you can do any think , those people who don't want to adopt other person children they are ready to buy other person womb?????? is no emotion , no logic is only business , and mostly come from same background who can expend RS 10000 on his dog but they will pay only 3000 rs to his hoousemaid.
    Intelligent and educated people already decided , and money power can make any think , let we have more open and give Equal right to men and women both , where women can give womb on rent man also have to right to sold his one eyes , one kidney and other body part , let open one more door for poor people from they can earn money .

    • @bridgittjones9074
      @bridgittjones9074 8 років тому

      They don't even respect each other enough to talk one at a time. One more thing you cant pay an Indian woman to do... To keep her big mouth closed.
      No one is that stupid to believe to use your body as a baby making machine is not prostitution. IDIOTS!!!

  • @flyupp
    @flyupp 7 років тому

    Social Work.. Lol.. Like this even sex worker are also doing social work they are giving their body to a needy person..

    • @amitkumar-bm5uv
      @amitkumar-bm5uv 6 років тому

      Absoulety ur correct .the whole discussion is elogical

  • @zarnaabaswad7617
    @zarnaabaswad7617 8 років тому

    Disgusting, insensitive.

  • @katedaniels1110
    @katedaniels1110 6 років тому

    There can be many reasons for someone to go into surrogacy. I cannot speak for everyone, but I can tell you that the biggest reason is to help others. There are many men and women in this world who are suffering from different infertility issues. So that's why there are these amazing people who offer their womb for the benefit of others. I would not like to put it any other way. There are a few cases where someone offers to do it for money only.