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  • @OdachiRain
    @OdachiRain 10 місяців тому +1848

    all these people living rent free bill free in HER HOUSE and they have the nerve to say SHES THE PROBLEM

    • @Mimi-eb3sq
      @Mimi-eb3sq 10 місяців тому +41

      Exactly that part

    • @JLPerryTV
      @JLPerryTV 10 місяців тому +18

      Well that doesn’t negate her being rude to them. Yeah we could argue that if they don’t like it, they can leave but still…

    • @torry24
      @torry24 10 місяців тому +153

      @@JLPerryTVif they don’t like her being rude they can move they grown a**** out! I don’t like living with my people, guess what I did…moved the hell out!

    • @LadyDae
      @LadyDae 10 місяців тому +69

      The ENTITLEMENT! SMH!!

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 10 місяців тому +70

      @@JLPerryTVit’s her house. If she’s rude to them they should probably leave.

  • @Bema12699
    @Bema12699 10 місяців тому +787

    Mac refusing to continue the healing process after he got called out by Iyanla for not standing up for his mother when the other people were disrespecting her is bs. Sir you’re not upset, you’re ashamed. You know you were wrong and that’s that!

    • @WBrown-cg6kd
      @WBrown-cg6kd 10 місяців тому +32

      That parttttttttt!!!!

    • @shelbyjohnson4802
      @shelbyjohnson4802 10 місяців тому +44

      And he reiterated that point by not participating in his mother’s healing. Very shameful if you ask me

    • @yesimemoin0935
      @yesimemoin0935 10 місяців тому +30

      I give him a little credit for addressing the real source of conflict by moving out. His mom's issues predate the houseguests and none of them really care about her feelings. They just wanted Iyanla to placate her so she wouldn't pull rank and force them out. Now they can mooch in peace.

    • @DawnRoache-y9n
      @DawnRoache-y9n 10 місяців тому +18

      Exactly because they Father is a Punk and he is upset because he is one as well!

    • @JeremiahWalton
      @JeremiahWalton 10 місяців тому +7

      Just my thinking from watching too many scary movies lol
      You know how at the end of some scary movies they show a scene that the "scary thing" hasn't died yet hinting to their being another movie.
      Well since Mac moved out. And he wasn't there during the healing process.
      It's kinda like Mac taking that toxic pathology with him to spread to his new family (if he creates one)
      So there might be a sequel of what the family went through before Iyanla came but through Mac's lineage.

  • @Bema12699
    @Bema12699 10 місяців тому +1178

    Why was Jamal upset when Iyanla called it Her house?? Sir it is HER HOUSE. You’re saying all this respect me respect me but you can actually leave HER house and not be disrespected

    • @monaleataknowles3267
      @monaleataknowles3267 10 місяців тому +43

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @lutishahill1393
      @lutishahill1393 10 місяців тому

      He needs a swift kick of reality and put on the streets

    • @GeminiPrincess92
      @GeminiPrincess92 10 місяців тому +71

      Because he feels like it's his uncle's home since he's the "man of the house".

    • @WBrown-cg6kd
      @WBrown-cg6kd 10 місяців тому +20

      That part!! TF!

    • @ReadyNowStayReady
      @ReadyNowStayReady 10 місяців тому +14

      Facts‼️🎯

  • @SweetBeeNatural
    @SweetBeeNatural 10 місяців тому +907

    Her husband was the ringleader of disrespect. All those people in there and she was living all alone.

    • @Maya-ln1os
      @Maya-ln1os 10 місяців тому +23

      FACTS!!!

    • @miarobinson847
      @miarobinson847 10 місяців тому +4

      @@Maya-ln1osfacts

    • @JuMiMi86
      @JuMiMi86 9 місяців тому +10

      Def understand why she was ready to leave him, smh

    • @vaclinciapounds8859
      @vaclinciapounds8859 8 місяців тому

      Exactly

    • @blessedbygodirby4014
      @blessedbygodirby4014 8 місяців тому +6

      Yeah he is . He is allowing his wife to be talk about like she the devil or something

  • @tamarabello
    @tamarabello 10 місяців тому +1338

    This episode bothered me so much because they were the problem, not the mum.

    • @angelabarton5146
      @angelabarton5146 10 місяців тому +117

      ALL those people expecting HER to accommodate for them. In HER house. The audacity is astounding

    • @teekhudson4262
      @teekhudson4262 10 місяців тому +59

      I feel you, not even 5 min in & I'm pissed! I may not be able to finish this.

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 місяців тому +1

      And she is so broken. It absolutely kills my soul.

    • @millicentthomas870
      @millicentthomas870 10 місяців тому +10

      Exactly

    • @larhondamickles3976
      @larhondamickles3976 10 місяців тому +7

      Exactly

  • @Lenahh-go3io
    @Lenahh-go3io 10 місяців тому +981

    But she isn’t mean enough for y’all to get tf out

  • @ukokaluuko4649
    @ukokaluuko4649 10 місяців тому +558

    I was so disgusted with this episode, especially her 2 children who sat there and participated in calling their mum a witch, after her home was invaded by 14 ungrateful strangers.

    • @Queenalika85
      @Queenalika85 6 місяців тому +10

      Exactly

    • @Edward_Strong1982
      @Edward_Strong1982 5 місяців тому +15

      Makes it even worse that her son KNOWS what the issue is with his mother and still continued to let people disrespect her. I could never allow that

  • @ToyaSooooDope
    @ToyaSooooDope 10 місяців тому +829

    They all up in her house invading her space and no privacy .They drove that lady to drinking and then had to nerve to wonder why she was angry.

    • @lutishahill1393
      @lutishahill1393 10 місяців тому +66

      Yeah, but oh boy the husband was the main problem. He should have respected his wife and told family NO

    • @ToyaSooooDope
      @ToyaSooooDope 10 місяців тому +37

      @@lutishahill1393 he was the main contributor to this woman’s pain and I am so disappointed in his behavior as a husband. It seems like he did it intentionally to hurt her

    • @angelagray736
      @angelagray736 10 місяців тому +7

      Exactly

    • @nycgirltee
      @nycgirltee 10 місяців тому +3

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @rnopes21
      @rnopes21 10 місяців тому +7

      Agreed. And the husband allowed all of it, painting a picture that's making it all her fault. No wonder things spiraled out of control.

  • @OdachiRain
    @OdachiRain 10 місяців тому +337

    i've never seen Iyanla weep like that in an episode, you can tell she deeply understands the wife's pain and shes being attacked by his family on top of grieving for her deceased child

    • @michellewilliams2377
      @michellewilliams2377 7 місяців тому +3

      I was crying because I couldn’t believe them. In the beginning it had me hot! Sad yelling at the TV especially the cousin man as a husband and as siblings he and his mom if that’s his mom need to get out

    • @michellewilliams2377
      @michellewilliams2377 7 місяців тому +1

      But that’s sad she lost a week old baby and all these kids I’m watching grow up and my kids grown and they don’t understand that

  • @rymndry
    @rymndry 10 місяців тому +345

    The mom is drinking to cope because she feels disrespected and disregarded in her own home. She feels betrayed by her husband because he failed to advocate and defend her. Her lashing out is her manifestation of pain.

    • @torry24
      @torry24 10 місяців тому +11

      That’s probably the only time she feels any bit of happiness

    • @harlem4653
      @harlem4653 10 місяців тому +5

      So perfectly stated 👌🏻🎯💯

    • @Erikay80
      @Erikay80 10 місяців тому +1

      Perfect! Plus I reallyyyyyy understand how she feels.

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 10 місяців тому

      True

    • @tanishamcnair9283
      @tanishamcnair9283 10 місяців тому

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  • @dlovely22
    @dlovely22 10 місяців тому +455

    When that lady cried in Iyanlas arms that touched my soul. I felt her pain

    • @Belovednne
      @Belovednne 10 місяців тому +7

      Definitely felt the same!

    • @immaculatenjeri6603
      @immaculatenjeri6603 10 місяців тому +3

      That hits really deep😭😭

    • @sheenamccarthy24
      @sheenamccarthy24 10 місяців тому +1

      Me too.

    • @chocolatebeaute
      @chocolatebeaute 10 місяців тому +7

      The need to get out of her damn house! Period

    • @ShortNSweetTay
      @ShortNSweetTay 10 місяців тому +14

      Yes! She let go and let her heart break. She felt safe in Iyanla’s arms. 😭😭😭

  • @jjoh158
    @jjoh158 10 місяців тому +470

    I’m only 15 minutes in and I’m pissed for Carrie. The nephew has a lot of nerve to get upset with her in a house he is living in for FREE!

    • @salenachannel769
      @salenachannel769 10 місяців тому +7

      I could tell they had a different relationship. He was hurt by the abandonment from her that he needed. She had it to give once she was safe in her husband arms

    • @DawnRoache-y9n
      @DawnRoache-y9n 10 місяців тому

      Like most Gay men he wants to be the "Lady" of the house, and he needs to be a man first and get his OWN Apartment

    • @thewhistlingkettle8525
      @thewhistlingkettle8525 9 місяців тому +10

      It's time for all guest to leave the house. Bye

    • @vickyserr
      @vickyserr 7 місяців тому +6

      I don’t know how the mum put up with his family . Absolutely not!!!

  • @ldwhite05
    @ldwhite05 10 місяців тому +558

    "Let me just go in the bush and weep." Ms. Iyanla is funny for no reason.

  • @ElaynaAlexander-z5r
    @ElaynaAlexander-z5r 10 місяців тому +275

    When Iyanla said this was her ministry not a TV show, she never told a lie
    ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @JLPerryTV
      @JLPerryTV 10 місяців тому +13

      It’s amazing how she was unsure if she could help them that she cried. But then God worked through her

    • @ElaynaAlexander-z5r
      @ElaynaAlexander-z5r 10 місяців тому +4

      @JLPerryTV yes, it was beautiful to see the healing in that family

    • @can8385
      @can8385 10 місяців тому +6

      You can see how much of herself she puts into each show. It wasn't sustainable for her human body, but she has left a legacy for others to benefit from learning, growing and healing. These shows are her pyramids which stand the test of time. Thank you so much, Iyanla, for allowing God's healing work through you 💜🙏🏾.

  • @here2laff397
    @here2laff397 10 місяців тому +1329

    That GROWN one with FOUR children ???? She would need to go IMMEDIATELY ✌🏾😒

    • @delivertus4romnesha328
      @delivertus4romnesha328 10 місяців тому +109

      IMMEDIATELY!!

    • @ShesAbsurd
      @ShesAbsurd 10 місяців тому +116

      IMMEDIATELY !!!! I’m yelling as I type this 😂😂😂

    • @pinkpetals601
      @pinkpetals601 10 місяців тому +54

      Immediately!!!

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 місяців тому

      And build a mote.

    • @Nole_Girl
      @Nole_Girl 10 місяців тому +117

      Right, and you noticed after the show she got those kids in school. When Iyanla asked about the kids school curriculum you can clearly tell from her expression that she was lying!

  • @Bronx_dweller
    @Bronx_dweller 10 місяців тому +359

    My mother raised me with….”if you don’t like it in here then, LEAVE”….guess this family never got the memo.

    • @gabbanabeauchamp5707
      @gabbanabeauchamp5707 10 місяців тому +7

      Same but my mother won’t take the same approach with my nephews

    • @PChantel
      @PChantel 10 місяців тому +3

      💯

  • @LADYBEYWEST
    @LADYBEYWEST 10 місяців тому +270

    This was episode is where we seen iyanla affected the most. I never seen her cry. Plus my favorite line "let me weep in the bushes"

    • @dlovely22
      @dlovely22 10 місяців тому +9

      I love that part too

  • @D-Will2k
    @D-Will2k 10 місяців тому +351

    This is the reason I don’t want to live with family members. I like being alone and in peace.

  • @Bee-lieve623
    @Bee-lieve623 10 місяців тому +699

    14 ppl?! 9 children?! That's a school! I would sleep in my car!

    • @shabraya1
      @shabraya1 10 місяців тому +24

      That part 😂😂

    • @here2laff397
      @here2laff397 10 місяців тому +62

      Like are they really surprised?? I’d be slamming doors & disassociating as well !

    • @foreignjacc
      @foreignjacc 10 місяців тому +3

      @@africansister 💯💯

    • @WBrown-cg6kd
      @WBrown-cg6kd 10 місяців тому

      That part. Off this whole scene

    • @sherry3301
      @sherry3301 10 місяців тому +13

      No, school is OUT FOR SUMMER!! They’ve got to go!😂😂😂

  • @Kay-zv7vs
    @Kay-zv7vs 10 місяців тому +235

    I was hoping her husband would say... Y'ALL GOT 30 DAYS to find a place!

    • @kinshasaharris4758
      @kinshasaharris4758 8 місяців тому +14

      30 days is too much

    • @Daizy10231023
      @Daizy10231023 5 місяців тому +1

      Yeah I've seen iyanla have enabling parents offer a move out date. I'm thinking she didn't do that this time because of the sheer circumstance of the family. There probably too much going on for them to be able to just move.

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Daizy10231023Tough. Time to grow up. Sink or swim.

    • @Pjsixty60
      @Pjsixty60 4 місяці тому +1

      Her husband acts like the "weakest link".

  • @adm205
    @adm205 10 місяців тому +172

    Whew I can tell she needed that hug from Iyanla in the hotel room❤

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 місяців тому

      I can feel those types of hugs from my couch when i see Iyanla give them.

    • @Nanna-is5sg
      @Nanna-is5sg 10 місяців тому +18

      The way she cried😢😢😢! I bet aunty Iyanla gives the best hugs

    • @harlem4653
      @harlem4653 10 місяців тому +12

      Omg yes... Iyanla gives the best hugs♥️

    • @CrunchyGreenWater
      @CrunchyGreenWater 10 місяців тому +13

      She probably needs to cry and grieve and process her feelings and she doesn't even have the privacy in her own home to just let it out. 😢

  • @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198
    @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198 10 місяців тому +192

    Nothing hurts as much as disregard from your own husband
    Having to bite your tongue because it's his family, coming after everyone else. My heart weeps for her as it weeps for me.

    • @kilaa3417
      @kilaa3417 10 місяців тому +7

      May you be blessed and live the life of your dreams that you truly deserve ❤

    • @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198
      @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198 10 місяців тому +3

      @@kilaa3417 Thanks sis.. that means a lot❤️

    • @kilaa3417
      @kilaa3417 10 місяців тому +1

      @@mbalenhlebuthelezi3198 You're welcome love, I'm very sorry for what you're going through. just know God didn't put you on this earth to be disregarded -- Hope you do little things every day that make you happy, and that you pray for this to be resolved - I'll send a prayer for you too

    • @TheeCookingChannel
      @TheeCookingChannel 9 місяців тому +1

      Iyanla helped him lie. He originally said he hoped his wife would leave on her own. Because she don’t pay any bills, he doesn’t respect her or her opinions.

  • @delivertus4romnesha328
    @delivertus4romnesha328 10 місяців тому +186

    I would be overwhelmed overstimulated and on edge. I don’t blame the mom at all!!

  • @cindyharris5442
    @cindyharris5442 10 місяців тому +523

    Step 1- Get OUT OF MY HOUSE.

    • @tianacameron9456
      @tianacameron9456 10 місяців тому +28

      Right! That’s it. That’s the whole process 😅

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 10 місяців тому

      Shiiiid, step 1 should have been you're not coming in my house, not with all that entitled garbage mentality!

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 10 місяців тому +6

      Yes indeed

    • @raycurry4168
      @raycurry4168 10 місяців тому +29

      Step 2...go upstairs ansd pack your husband's bags too....

    • @marpace8837
      @marpace8837 10 місяців тому +6

      Please say it louder. So the people in the back can hear that get out.

  • @reahraine
    @reahraine 10 місяців тому +179

    Ive never seen Auntie Iyanla break down like that😢

  • @cocowiggy85
    @cocowiggy85 10 місяців тому +256

    I remember this episode because it bothered me how everyone was blaming the mom for her behavior when it was because of them all along. Grown a** people (w/ children) living in HER house and she's the problem?!?!?!

    • @cocowiggy85
      @cocowiggy85 10 місяців тому +18

      And not just because of them but also the unfortunate loss of her newborn child 🥺

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 10 місяців тому +25

      RIGHT!!! THE NEPHEW IS A WHOLE MESS HE CAN GO! AND THE HUSBAND LIKE YO YOU CHOSE HER AS WIFE AND YET YOU'RE NOT PROTECTING!!

    • @monaleataknowles3267
      @monaleataknowles3267 10 місяців тому +7

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @DominiqueSpeaks
    @DominiqueSpeaks 10 місяців тому +127

    People ran Iyanla off T.V and she was healing people for real. To see Iyanla cry was gut wrenching. She put her heart and soul in these episodes. People criticized her, made fun of her, and she said she will never return. Imagine how much of Gods work she could have done.

    • @nadieralacey8494
      @nadieralacey8494 8 місяців тому +4

      Yes 😢❤

    • @GoldenGraham25
      @GoldenGraham25 8 місяців тому +17

      The crazy thing is: the demographic to watch this show are the ones who bullied her because THEY weren’t ready to see themselves. It’s really quite pathetic 😢

  • @Aaamyiah
    @Aaamyiah 9 місяців тому +252

    IDC how many hugs were given, I STILL want them people out of MS.CARRIES house!!!!!!!!!!! ✌✌✌✌✌

  • @krisleshiba3390
    @krisleshiba3390 10 місяців тому +78

    The way she cried in that hug you could see she been hurting for a long time and never got a hug

  • @DaOneDeeMoney
    @DaOneDeeMoney 10 місяців тому +199

    The son Mac is soft for allowing his cousin to disrespect his Mom and that’s why he got upset when Iylanla said something to him about it

    • @mississippi821
      @mississippi821 10 місяців тому

      I would've had my cousin face leaking blood

    • @alanne1.17.77
      @alanne1.17.77 9 місяців тому

      Scurried off like the rat he was. How do you allow someone to talk about your mother like that???? Just shameful.

    • @AndreBarnes-ev7of
      @AndreBarnes-ev7of 6 місяців тому +10

      That Queen(The Nephew) got to go. 😂 💃🏽

    • @usereEyez8890
      @usereEyez8890 5 місяців тому

      He’s a punk, like his Father Uncle punk-in.

  • @Augmented--
    @Augmented-- 10 місяців тому +359

    I am extremely nice! But if all these people were in my house I would be a PSYCHO

    • @loveg1463
      @loveg1463 10 місяців тому +11

      that's too many people right. looks like chaos. ditto the psycho bit.

    • @dorahmulinge3800
      @dorahmulinge3800 10 місяців тому +10

      Saaaame😂😂,, you can't talk to and about me like that!
      Not in my house

    • @salenachannel769
      @salenachannel769 10 місяців тому +11

      I can't imagine that many families under one roof

    • @Poopiepies
      @Poopiepies 10 місяців тому +8

      Right?? Reactive abuse is real. Then the antagonizing abusers sit there and play victim like this whole family did.

    • @sapphireemerald5636
      @sapphireemerald5636 10 місяців тому +3

      Me too... I would have left after a week

  • @JLPerryTV
    @JLPerryTV 10 місяців тому +104

    23:06 The way she threw that fish on his desk and the *thud* sound it made 😂😂😂😂

    • @harlem4653
      @harlem4653 10 місяців тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @jazminerenee4077
      @jazminerenee4077 10 місяців тому +8

      😂😂😂😂 cracks me up every time 😂

    • @tai4short
      @tai4short 10 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 THANKS FOR THE TIME STAMP?!!!

    • @LadyLunicorn
      @LadyLunicorn 9 місяців тому +5

      I thought she was going to go into a metaphor about having bigger fish to fry 😂😂😂

    • @andreasmith8509
      @andreasmith8509 4 місяці тому +1

      He said ummm huuuh

  • @quiver3456
    @quiver3456 9 місяців тому +28

    "And imma flip right on out the door." Whew! I felt that😢

  • @millicentstollenwerck5239
    @millicentstollenwerck5239 10 місяців тому +188

    The problem is too many people living in her house. I believe she would be better if she had her privacy.

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 10 місяців тому +194

    The entitlement is astounding.
    I feel so bad for Carrie that she’s the scapegoat

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 10 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @helpkelp3595
      @helpkelp3595 9 місяців тому +11

      It made me sick. It's obvious they were trying to push her out so they can continue to leech in peace

  • @froonamission1013
    @froonamission1013 10 місяців тому +163

    I knew that mom wasn't the problem after the first ninety seconds... How can people be so entitled?

  • @binibini7975
    @binibini7975 10 місяців тому +72

    The husband set the tone for the disrespect to his wife. She apologized way too much in their own home. Wow!

  • @Chyna43
    @Chyna43 10 місяців тому +226

    And why is a niece and nephew there?? Kick them out to THEIR parents

    • @keyanasteen3409
      @keyanasteen3409 10 місяців тому +9

      I thought those were his sister children that was also living there

    • @keyanasteen3409
      @keyanasteen3409 10 місяців тому +5

      And I believe her cousin told her how things were going the day before and she was already on like 8 with her. 38:58

    • @carriemtsh9648
      @carriemtsh9648 8 місяців тому +9

      And the one with 4 kids she keeps reproducing and no taking responsibility 😮

    • @MsJamillah2
      @MsJamillah2 6 місяців тому

      The mama of the niece (not sure about the nephew) is unc’s sister who is also living there. I want to know who the parents of the other 5 kids are!

  • @Jasmineekirdy
    @Jasmineekirdy 10 місяців тому +55

    This is one of those families where we need a part 2 and 3

  • @W.U.A.R.U
    @W.U.A.R.U 10 місяців тому +145

    14 people living in HER HOME! There is no peace or sanctuary. They are not making any attempt to move out on their own. The entitlement is unreal.
    The husband totally disregarded her and allowed them to move in. I hope this woman was able to move on and start healing.

    • @Qeqezwisdom
      @Qeqezwisdom 10 місяців тому +10

      With 9 children too. That’s nothing more than a hostel atp

    • @W.U.A.R.U
      @W.U.A.R.U 10 місяців тому +2

      Wow! I thought the the 9 kids were included in the head count of 14. God Bless her. Can't even turn around with that many people living there.

    • @Qeqezwisdom
      @Qeqezwisdom 10 місяців тому +1

      Oh yeah they are! Sorry 9 kids+5 adults. My bad

  • @d.cooley1819
    @d.cooley1819 10 місяців тому +66

    This is beautiful. The breakthrough between the husband and wife. They’ll be okay. Now get those people out of your house. Iyanla we need you back.

    • @UnpopularAdvisor
      @UnpopularAdvisor 10 місяців тому

      Agree 🌷🤎

    • @alvinaedwards9280
      @alvinaedwards9280 9 місяців тому +7

      I hope it lasts and gets stronger. But, the husband saying he didn't care and how he hoped that she would leave was heartbreaking.

  • @kimberlygarland8661
    @kimberlygarland8661 9 місяців тому +52

    Divorce him and fight for whatever percentage of the business you're entitled to. He chose his relatives over you.

  • @SentamuPrince
    @SentamuPrince 9 місяців тому +47

    I would not let my mom be degraded like that. It is her house. She worked for it

  • @WhenSpiritSpeaks
    @WhenSpiritSpeaks 10 місяців тому +135

    None of them realized how much pain and trauma she was dealing with. Just having those small children living there in the house with her could have been so triggering. Im truly praying for her.

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 10 місяців тому +5

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @SheSells_StLouis
      @SheSells_StLouis 10 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely agree!!

    • @keyairab1002
      @keyairab1002 8 місяців тому +6

      Wow didn’t think of the kids being a trigger that’s why she isolates

    • @WhenSpiritSpeaks
      @WhenSpiritSpeaks 8 місяців тому +3

      @keyairab1002 right! Being that she has traumatic pain with her on past of small children I bet non of them really took in consideration that seeing them daily could trigger pain of what could have been with the children that she lost.

  • @leebee8544
    @leebee8544 10 місяців тому +55

    After the Lady of the house announcing, all smiles left the faces.

  • @faraboverubies98
    @faraboverubies98 10 місяців тому +156

    That lil nephew would not be in my house. As a matter of fact not any of them would be there. I would give each and everyone of them a hard deadline. Period.

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 10 місяців тому +29

      Yes. Y’all got 45 minutes to gtfo my house.

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 10 місяців тому +11

      ​@@Mrs.Adrian45 mins😂😂😂For real tho

    • @joyceotimnape4956
      @joyceotimnape4956 10 місяців тому +9

      Good lesson from here. Never be too accommodative. the wife is too good to all those people.

    • @helpkelp3595
      @helpkelp3595 9 місяців тому +2

      Especially the one with four kids. She is very lazy. Your kids aren't even in school?! Who are you to talk? And what stuff does she need to get done? She ain't paying rent. Just making babies

    • @YB882
      @YB882 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Mrs.AdrianYou alright w me! Get your 🤬 and beat it!!!😂😂😂

  • @dotmax7122
    @dotmax7122 10 місяців тому +254

    That lady and her 4 kids would have 30 days to move

    • @alysiataylor4048
      @alysiataylor4048 10 місяців тому +35

      2 weeks and 1 day would be all i give her lol

    • @Poisondime16
      @Poisondime16 10 місяців тому +21

      That was the party I was waiting for. When are they all moving out?

    • @oolalatoyamanasa5130
      @oolalatoyamanasa5130 10 місяців тому

      She looks like a darn junkie to me

    • @tiarataylor6792
      @tiarataylor6792 10 місяців тому +17

      Mr. Respect me, would have to hit the door too

    • @mljm_mljm
      @mljm_mljm 10 місяців тому +5

      All of this 🥹 these people have got some cheek!

  • @quichequiche4274
    @quichequiche4274 10 місяців тому +99

    They could just LEAVE her house! Problem solved.

  • @umadox41
    @umadox41 10 місяців тому +113

    Oooooooh, Ms Ki'la would not be permitted to remain in my house with that kind of disrespect. The way she responded to Iyanla after being missing from the process and called it bull cr*p! No way mam! To the left 👈🏾.

    • @pinkpetals601
      @pinkpetals601 10 місяців тому +28

      Exactly!! How you gone homeschool yours kids in somebody else house lol that’s crazy

    • @dememurphy7859
      @dememurphy7859 10 місяців тому +24

      ​@@pinkpetals601I was thinking who or what is she teaching exactly?!! Not to judge a book by it's cover but her attitude & patience is thin so I can't see her taking time on any curriculum!!

    • @pinkpetals601
      @pinkpetals601 10 місяців тому +20

      @@dememurphy7859 exactly!! I’m like no ma’am put them kids in school please. Her attitude was so nasty to be living in somebody else house smh

    • @TierneyWashington1983
      @TierneyWashington1983 10 місяців тому +10

      I feel sorry for the kids if she is homeschooling them smh

    • @dememurphy7859
      @dememurphy7859 10 місяців тому +13

      @@TierneyWashington1983 They're probably grown now these episodes are old but I hope they turned out well... They said she enrolled them in school at end of show

  • @livia8227
    @livia8227 10 місяців тому +42

    My mother in law was at my house for 11 months after I had my baby, and I almost lost my MIND. I could not IMAGINE. My Lord

  • @Jai64life
    @Jai64life 10 місяців тому +79

    I believe that the big house makes family run to them first. The extra space for empty nesters does not mean that the rooms are for family.

  • @mrsa2you365
    @mrsa2you365 8 місяців тому +34

    Baby when Iyanla said she would've choked that disrespectful nephew with his imaginary pearls I gagged! Because that was exactly what he needed to hear! He was out of line!
    The niece's drug addiction is something else being swept under the rug! And why the children are there and she's not. And why they're not attending school.

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 8 місяців тому

      😮😮

    • @speakintothemicb
      @speakintothemicb 8 місяців тому +2

      I laughed so hard about the pearls attack lol😅

  • @destaneehoward
    @destaneehoward 10 місяців тому +18

    I cried when I seen her break down in iyanla arms like that . She needed that hug

  • @nicolemcintosh2403
    @nicolemcintosh2403 10 місяців тому +75

    LaKilla???? Oh she gotta go and take that name with her 😂

  • @VictoriaNewsom-b9x
    @VictoriaNewsom-b9x 10 місяців тому +50

    At the end he should’ve told everybody that they have 30-45 days to find new living arrangements, period.

  • @renee560
    @renee560 8 місяців тому +15

    Iyanla: “Let me clutch my pearls…. If you were in my house I’d choke with them” 😂😂😂😂😂
    Dang I miss this woman.

  • @j.g.3719
    @j.g.3719 10 місяців тому +72

    This is one the most upsetting episodes of Iyanla because the audacity of this man's family was ASTOUNDING. Also, hopefully CPS was called about those kids not being in school because the mother didn’t care at all.

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 10 місяців тому +15

      That woman was a whole mess! I could tell there was something very off about her with the way she was so disrespectful by walking off like that and giving Iyanla that lip smacking, neck rolling, side eye energy when she asked if she had a home school curriculum. Truth be told, she probably didn't even know what Iyanla was talking about. Clearly, she had her own issues and walking away was easier than accepting healing because in order to do that you have to take responsibility. Would love updates on these shows because it's been ten years and more for them.

    • @raycurry4168
      @raycurry4168 10 місяців тому

      @@DarlingNikki2 Well my guess is that the ghetto girl is till serving time and her kids are living in the same house with THEIR kids, and the "lady of the house" fled the scene of the living hell she endured and Uncle Pumpkin is senile and sitting in a corner somplace.

  • @emilyannsarah
    @emilyannsarah 10 місяців тому +40

    Iyanna is wild for bringing that fish in that house 🤣

  • @carpediem1667
    @carpediem1667 10 місяців тому +24

    Oh Ms. Iyanla got me in tears with this episode. This episode shows how selfish, insensitive and mean humans can be to each other. Every episode helped to be a better person to my children, friends and others. Excellent job Ms. Iyanla!!

  • @FitzyS
    @FitzyS 10 місяців тому +127

    They have a lot of audacity for free loaders!

  • @Iam_Nelisa
    @Iam_Nelisa 10 місяців тому +41

    I was hoping it ends with an eviction notice! I was truly praying they leave.
    Where are they now?

  • @Willahbean
    @Willahbean 10 місяців тому +18

    That man said he didn’t care about her feelings and she felt all of it.
    The way she weeped in his arms 😢

  • @oliviajohnson7649
    @oliviajohnson7649 10 місяців тому +207

    How do you homeschool a child when YOU don't have a home?..

    • @iris-nx1wt
      @iris-nx1wt 10 місяців тому +12

      😂😂😂

    • @Nanna-is5sg
      @Nanna-is5sg 10 місяців тому +7

      🫨🫨😫😭😂😂😂🤣

    • @heyitsmyTeeTa
      @heyitsmyTeeTa 10 місяців тому +7

      Girlllll😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 10 місяців тому +28

      A home school with no home? How dreadful .

    • @iris-nx1wt
      @iris-nx1wt 10 місяців тому +10

      @@Mrs.Adrian 🤣😂 not the Dwight

  • @pinkpetals601
    @pinkpetals601 10 місяців тому +75

    I would be on edge too! Too many grown people and all them kids running around…ain’t no way!!

  • @KiaraWyBradford
    @KiaraWyBradford 10 місяців тому +109

    8 minutes in and I am PISSED! The nephew would’ve BEEN slapped and out!

    • @jelyyung
      @jelyyung 6 місяців тому +5

      To the ground.

    • @TigerLilyEverlasting
      @TigerLilyEverlasting 6 місяців тому

      Him and that thick tongue would’ve been on the first smoking off my property 😅

  • @DB-gu6tf
    @DB-gu6tf 10 місяців тому +14

    “When you leave there you take you with you”. What a profound statement.

  • @KE-pg2uf
    @KE-pg2uf 9 місяців тому +16

    Just the nephew alone pissed me off ... the nerve and audacity wow

  • @marymarybaby
    @marymarybaby 10 місяців тому +62

    Shame on her kids for allowing someone to talk so reckless abt her! She deserves better we need an update ❤

    • @KnowWhat
      @KnowWhat 10 місяців тому +11

      The father allowed it! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @marymarybaby
      @marymarybaby 10 місяців тому +5

      @@KnowWhat your right! He’s wrong just as much as they are

    • @MBCrusin
      @MBCrusin 5 місяців тому +2

      Right! I come from a place that…
      I can talk about my people but YOU can’t!! Even if I agree, you ain’t finna call my mama a witch in front of me without some furniture moving in that place!!!

    • @marymarybaby
      @marymarybaby 5 місяців тому +1

      @@MBCrusin EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!

    • @nakiabruton5319
      @nakiabruton5319 5 місяців тому +1

      Facts NO ONE could ever disrespect my parents like that no way!

  • @here2laff397
    @here2laff397 10 місяців тому +103

    Another upload just in time for my lunch break. Y’all got my auntie crying in the begin ?! Oh hell no !😫

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju 10 місяців тому +8

      Right?!! 👏👏💫💜💞

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 місяців тому +1

      Lunch break is brave! I can only watch these in the evening, when i can take the time to hysterically cry for hours during and after.

    • @ladyroyalsupremest
      @ladyroyalsupremest 10 місяців тому +3

      Girl, let’s jump em! I don’t play about my Auntie. I would’ve packed up all my ish and left the husband there with what he created. A mad house 😂 I would’ve turned my device off and been somewhere sipping a margarita. I wouldn’t spend one red cent in that household.

  • @TheTaurean
    @TheTaurean 10 місяців тому +17

    Imma start using that saying with all the stuff going on in the world. “Let me just go in the bush and weep.” 😆 “I just have to go in the bush and weep.” 😭 OWN keep cranking out these episodes!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @monaejames2764
    @monaejames2764 10 місяців тому +18

    I love iyanla could immediately see through the bs & understand that this woman wasn’t the real problem here

  • @Mimi-eb3sq
    @Mimi-eb3sq 10 місяців тому +57

    When Iyanla walked up and said Good Morning none said anything😢. Just sad I feel this woman’s pain. She can’t even enjoy her own home with all them adults there. She is angry because she wants you all to leave.

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 10 місяців тому +4

      Several adults in the home, all of them working age and not one of them seemingly working?!?! i would be pissed too!!

  • @MindsetOfMarge
    @MindsetOfMarge 10 місяців тому +37

    I love how Iyanla handled this situation. They thought they were going to gang up on her with Iyanla’s help and that clearly didn’t happen. A house full of ppl who don’t want to deal with their own mess

  • @shelbyjohnson4802
    @shelbyjohnson4802 10 місяців тому +124

    14 people?! 9 kids??! Lakilla???!!! This felt like a boondocks episode

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 10 місяців тому +9

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chaneldoll3481
      @chaneldoll3481 10 місяців тому +4

      Lmaoooooo

    • @neomoloi1637
      @neomoloi1637 6 місяців тому +2

      Your comment took me all the way out! 😂😂😂

    • @_BigEllie
      @_BigEllie 6 місяців тому +1

      The way I screamed 😂

    • @Sunshine_757
      @Sunshine_757 6 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂

  • @gracie4200
    @gracie4200 10 місяців тому +33

    First time I've ever seen Iyanla crying 😢

  • @hendihorlings2341
    @hendihorlings2341 10 місяців тому +130

    What a group of entitled people !

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 місяців тому

      So, so disgusting. It makes me feel queesy.

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 10 місяців тому

      😂

    • @UnpopularAdvisor
      @UnpopularAdvisor 10 місяців тому +9

      Their uncle is to blame unfortunately he gave them the grace to be

    • @UnpopularAdvisor
      @UnpopularAdvisor 10 місяців тому +1

      Their uncle is to blame unfortunately he gave them the grace to be

  • @lahxo4593
    @lahxo4593 9 місяців тому +20

    The way it keeps going over their head when she keeps emphasising “IN HER HOUSE” 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @justsymone6318
    @justsymone6318 2 місяці тому +2

    I love how Iyanla keeps saying "The Lady of the House" and "Her House!"

  • @Deshia.1010
    @Deshia.1010 6 місяців тому +10

    Her name being La’killa is literally a great representation of her cause what in the world 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Free Carrie

  • @ArronYouSeeItMalachi
    @ArronYouSeeItMalachi 6 місяців тому +5

    Iyanla be lighting them up without trying or breaking a sweat! I hollered when she put that "no vacancy" sign on thr door! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @singingforshalom8385
    @singingforshalom8385 10 місяців тому +7

    I love Iyanla. She made me deal with myself and heal. I wish she will come back on TV.

  • @ShanellWashington-f3j
    @ShanellWashington-f3j 9 місяців тому +19

    Mama looks so good looks younger than all of them

  • @camdenhunt7565
    @camdenhunt7565 10 місяців тому +10

    Auntie said "UM BUT THOSE ARE HERRR CHILDREN, RIGHT?" LMAOOOO

  • @LadyDiva3
    @LadyDiva3 10 місяців тому +14

    I don't how she even stayed that long living in that situation. The hurt of losing baby is still deep and raw. I hope she continues with Iyanla one-on-one in therapy.

  • @nyleac4389
    @nyleac4389 10 місяців тому +48

    I can’t believe none of them saw the problem

    • @serenasmith5946
      @serenasmith5946 10 місяців тому +5

      Never do when people want things their way

    • @tyraharris2090
      @tyraharris2090 10 місяців тому +2

      Selfish

    • @TaliahNeal-bn6wg
      @TaliahNeal-bn6wg 10 місяців тому +7

      Oh they saw It identified it and all they just didn't give a f!ck 💯

    • @ms.mo2417
      @ms.mo2417 8 місяців тому

      Retards!

  • @dorcasratemo5591
    @dorcasratemo5591 10 місяців тому +78

    Everyone calls her a b including the son and husband. The nephew calls her a witch. What a bunch of evil people.

    • @carriemtsh9648
      @carriemtsh9648 8 місяців тому +3

      I’ll be scared living in that house, I feel for her

  • @msarmstrong410
    @msarmstrong410 10 місяців тому +62

    Well damn... when the husband just out right called her a b****. 🙃

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 10 місяців тому

      He actually the one that's a b*tch

  • @shantelnate
    @shantelnate 10 місяців тому +39

    So La'kila had 4 kids and none if them were in school? How are you home schooling children in someone else's home?

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 10 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @carriemtsh9648
      @carriemtsh9648 8 місяців тому +1

      Where are the daddies, she keeps reproducing with no responsibility 😢, her entitlement is beyond comprehension

  • @cjjuju9100
    @cjjuju9100 10 місяців тому +6

    Ugh 😩…when Will & Carrie hugged. Made me cry. Neither of them had never really broken down with each other.

  • @biancaparedes2619
    @biancaparedes2619 9 місяців тому +8

    🤣 the one with the homeschooled children 😩 what a mess 😩

  • @angelabarton5146
    @angelabarton5146 10 місяців тому +43

    How can NONE of them care about this woman? None. Heartless

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 місяців тому

      Selfish, spoiled jerks!! Unbelievable that they are all so sure they are right.

  • @amaurimangum1907
    @amaurimangum1907 6 місяців тому +5

    Ms.Carrie is a beautiful ,strong and resilient woman. I’m amazed at her!❤

  • @genniejefferson6588
    @genniejefferson6588 10 місяців тому +97

    She might be like that because of too many people. She need peace of mind.

    • @zahramissy4837
      @zahramissy4837 10 місяців тому +5

      Exactly

    • @tiheshakp
      @tiheshakp 10 місяців тому +12

      Right! Hell, I'm mad, and it's not even my situation!

    • @pinkpetals601
      @pinkpetals601 10 місяців тому +6

      @@tiheshakpI swear I’m all frowned up at my phone lol

    • @jekxyla
      @jekxyla 10 місяців тому +7

      Fr though, she’s overstimulated and i dont blame her one bit!!

    • @Pjsixty60
      @Pjsixty60 4 місяці тому

      ​@@jekxylaOverwhelmed from disrespect and clutter sounds more like it.

  • @ravenkeyana
    @ravenkeyana 10 місяців тому +23

    Interesting how much she keeps emphasizing that it’s HER house and the family keeps side stepping that when they’re explaining “the problem” 🥴

  • @puritykm
    @puritykm 10 місяців тому +77

    Is slapping someone like Jamal legal? The entitlement is through the roof 😮. It's her damn house, he needs to get his own house and demand for respect that way. Huh!

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 10 місяців тому

      He needs an ice cold drink thrown in his face. Not the glass, just the ice cold liquid.

    • @msarmstrong410
      @msarmstrong410 10 місяців тому +2

      LMAO! Just plain rude..

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 10 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @dorahmulinge3800
      @dorahmulinge3800 10 місяців тому

      In Africa it is
      Recently, a guy in my country Kenya, a city called Kisumu, was beaten by neighbours for GBV
      We endorsed that 😂😂

    • @ukokaluuko4649
      @ukokaluuko4649 10 місяців тому

      @@dorahmulinge3800what’s that? GBV?

  • @Designinganewme
    @Designinganewme 10 місяців тому +56

    I need an update, whoo Chile!

  • @PaulaScarlett-vc9cq
    @PaulaScarlett-vc9cq 10 місяців тому +22

    I can't believe that you left this lady in the same space with these disrespectful, toxic people

  • @MkCD.
    @MkCD. 10 місяців тому +17

    I always remember the clip where she was laughing/smiling one moment and went in for Iyanla’s hug, and broke into tears 💔 she was so accustomed to appearing “strong.”

  • @andreasmith8509
    @andreasmith8509 10 місяців тому +51

    That nephew 😠