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  • @OdachiRain
    @OdachiRain 8 місяців тому +1800

    all these people living rent free bill free in HER HOUSE and they have the nerve to say SHES THE PROBLEM

    • @Mimi-eb3sq
      @Mimi-eb3sq 8 місяців тому +41

      Exactly that part

    • @JLPerryTV
      @JLPerryTV 8 місяців тому +17

      Well that doesn’t negate her being rude to them. Yeah we could argue that if they don’t like it, they can leave but still…

    • @torry24
      @torry24 8 місяців тому +150

      @@JLPerryTVif they don’t like her being rude they can move they grown a**** out! I don’t like living with my people, guess what I did…moved the hell out!

    • @LadyDae
      @LadyDae 8 місяців тому +68

      The ENTITLEMENT! SMH!!

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 8 місяців тому +70

      @@JLPerryTVit’s her house. If she’s rude to them they should probably leave.

  • @Lenahh-go3io
    @Lenahh-go3io 8 місяців тому +933

    But she isn’t mean enough for y’all to get tf out

  • @Bema12699
    @Bema12699 8 місяців тому +764

    Mac refusing to continue the healing process after he got called out by Iyanla for not standing up for his mother when the other people were disrespecting her is bs. Sir you’re not upset, you’re ashamed. You know you were wrong and that’s that!

    • @WBrown-cg6kd
      @WBrown-cg6kd 8 місяців тому +32

      That parttttttttt!!!!

    • @shelbyjohnson4802
      @shelbyjohnson4802 8 місяців тому +44

      And he reiterated that point by not participating in his mother’s healing. Very shameful if you ask me

    • @yesimemoin0935
      @yesimemoin0935 8 місяців тому +28

      I give him a little credit for addressing the real source of conflict by moving out. His mom's issues predate the houseguests and none of them really care about her feelings. They just wanted Iyanla to placate her so she wouldn't pull rank and force them out. Now they can mooch in peace.

    • @DawnRoache-y9n
      @DawnRoache-y9n 8 місяців тому +18

      Exactly because they Father is a Punk and he is upset because he is one as well!

    • @JeremiahWalton
      @JeremiahWalton 8 місяців тому +7

      Just my thinking from watching too many scary movies lol
      You know how at the end of some scary movies they show a scene that the "scary thing" hasn't died yet hinting to their being another movie.
      Well since Mac moved out. And he wasn't there during the healing process.
      It's kinda like Mac taking that toxic pathology with him to spread to his new family (if he creates one)
      So there might be a sequel of what the family went through before Iyanla came but through Mac's lineage.

  • @Bema12699
    @Bema12699 8 місяців тому +1142

    Why was Jamal upset when Iyanla called it Her house?? Sir it is HER HOUSE. You’re saying all this respect me respect me but you can actually leave HER house and not be disrespected

    • @monaleataknowles3267
      @monaleataknowles3267 8 місяців тому +43

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @lutishahill1393
      @lutishahill1393 8 місяців тому

      He needs a swift kick of reality and put on the streets

    • @GeminiPrincess92
      @GeminiPrincess92 8 місяців тому +70

      Because he feels like it's his uncle's home since he's the "man of the house".

    • @WBrown-cg6kd
      @WBrown-cg6kd 8 місяців тому +20

      That part!! TF!

    • @ReadyNowStayReady
      @ReadyNowStayReady 8 місяців тому +14

      Facts‼️🎯

  • @tamarabello
    @tamarabello 8 місяців тому +1306

    This episode bothered me so much because they were the problem, not the mum.

    • @angelabarton5146
      @angelabarton5146 8 місяців тому +114

      ALL those people expecting HER to accommodate for them. In HER house. The audacity is astounding

    • @teekhudson4262
      @teekhudson4262 8 місяців тому +59

      I feel you, not even 5 min in & I'm pissed! I may not be able to finish this.

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 8 місяців тому +1

      And she is so broken. It absolutely kills my soul.

    • @millicentthomas870
      @millicentthomas870 8 місяців тому +10

      Exactly

    • @larhondamickles3976
      @larhondamickles3976 8 місяців тому +7

      Exactly

  • @ukokaluuko4649
    @ukokaluuko4649 8 місяців тому +523

    I was so disgusted with this episode, especially her 2 children who sat there and participated in calling their mum a witch, after her home was invaded by 14 ungrateful strangers.

    • @Queenalika85
      @Queenalika85 4 місяці тому +10

      Exactly

    • @Edward_Strong1982
      @Edward_Strong1982 4 місяці тому +14

      Makes it even worse that her son KNOWS what the issue is with his mother and still continued to let people disrespect her. I could never allow that

  • @SweetBeeNatural
    @SweetBeeNatural 8 місяців тому +879

    Her husband was the ringleader of disrespect. All those people in there and she was living all alone.

    • @Maya-ln1os
      @Maya-ln1os 8 місяців тому +23

      FACTS!!!

    • @miarobinson847
      @miarobinson847 8 місяців тому +4

      @@Maya-ln1osfacts

    • @JuMiMi86
      @JuMiMi86 8 місяців тому +10

      Def understand why she was ready to leave him, smh

    • @vaclinciapounds8859
      @vaclinciapounds8859 6 місяців тому

      Exactly

    • @blessedbygodirby4014
      @blessedbygodirby4014 6 місяців тому +6

      Yeah he is . He is allowing his wife to be talk about like she the devil or something

  • @ToyaSooooDope
    @ToyaSooooDope 8 місяців тому +805

    They all up in her house invading her space and no privacy .They drove that lady to drinking and then had to nerve to wonder why she was angry.

    • @lutishahill1393
      @lutishahill1393 8 місяців тому +66

      Yeah, but oh boy the husband was the main problem. He should have respected his wife and told family NO

    • @ToyaSooooDope
      @ToyaSooooDope 8 місяців тому +37

      @@lutishahill1393 he was the main contributor to this woman’s pain and I am so disappointed in his behavior as a husband. It seems like he did it intentionally to hurt her

    • @angelagray736
      @angelagray736 8 місяців тому +7

      Exactly

    • @nycgirltee
      @nycgirltee 8 місяців тому +3

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @rnopes21
      @rnopes21 8 місяців тому +7

      Agreed. And the husband allowed all of it, painting a picture that's making it all her fault. No wonder things spiraled out of control.

  • @dlovely22
    @dlovely22 8 місяців тому +446

    When that lady cried in Iyanlas arms that touched my soul. I felt her pain

    • @nneoma6106
      @nneoma6106 8 місяців тому +7

      Definitely felt the same!

    • @immaculatenjeri6603
      @immaculatenjeri6603 8 місяців тому +3

      That hits really deep😭😭

    • @sheenamccarthy24
      @sheenamccarthy24 8 місяців тому +1

      Me too.

    • @chocolatebeaute
      @chocolatebeaute 8 місяців тому +7

      The need to get out of her damn house! Period

    • @ShortNSweetTay
      @ShortNSweetTay 8 місяців тому +13

      Yes! She let go and let her heart break. She felt safe in Iyanla’s arms. 😭😭😭

  • @rymndry
    @rymndry 8 місяців тому +335

    The mom is drinking to cope because she feels disrespected and disregarded in her own home. She feels betrayed by her husband because he failed to advocate and defend her. Her lashing out is her manifestation of pain.

    • @torry24
      @torry24 8 місяців тому +11

      That’s probably the only time she feels any bit of happiness

    • @harlem4653
      @harlem4653 8 місяців тому +5

      So perfectly stated 👌🏻🎯💯

    • @Erikay80
      @Erikay80 8 місяців тому +1

      Perfect! Plus I reallyyyyyy understand how she feels.

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 8 місяців тому

      True

    • @tanishamcnair9283
      @tanishamcnair9283 8 місяців тому

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  • @jjoh158
    @jjoh158 8 місяців тому +457

    I’m only 15 minutes in and I’m pissed for Carrie. The nephew has a lot of nerve to get upset with her in a house he is living in for FREE!

    • @salenachannel769
      @salenachannel769 8 місяців тому +7

      I could tell they had a different relationship. He was hurt by the abandonment from her that he needed. She had it to give once she was safe in her husband arms

    • @DawnRoache-y9n
      @DawnRoache-y9n 8 місяців тому

      Like most Gay men he wants to be the "Lady" of the house, and he needs to be a man first and get his OWN Apartment

    • @thewhistlingkettle8525
      @thewhistlingkettle8525 7 місяців тому +9

      It's time for all guest to leave the house. Bye

    • @vickyserr
      @vickyserr 5 місяців тому +6

      I don’t know how the mum put up with his family . Absolutely not!!!

  • @OdachiRain
    @OdachiRain 8 місяців тому +323

    i've never seen Iyanla weep like that in an episode, you can tell she deeply understands the wife's pain and shes being attacked by his family on top of grieving for her deceased child

    • @michellewilliams2377
      @michellewilliams2377 5 місяців тому +3

      I was crying because I couldn’t believe them. In the beginning it had me hot! Sad yelling at the TV especially the cousin man as a husband and as siblings he and his mom if that’s his mom need to get out

    • @michellewilliams2377
      @michellewilliams2377 5 місяців тому +1

      But that’s sad she lost a week old baby and all these kids I’m watching grow up and my kids grown and they don’t understand that

  • @ElaynaAlexander-z5r
    @ElaynaAlexander-z5r 8 місяців тому +268

    When Iyanla said this was her ministry not a TV show, she never told a lie
    ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @JLPerryTV
      @JLPerryTV 8 місяців тому +13

      It’s amazing how she was unsure if she could help them that she cried. But then God worked through her

    • @ElaynaAlexander-z5r
      @ElaynaAlexander-z5r 8 місяців тому +4

      @JLPerryTV yes, it was beautiful to see the healing in that family

    • @can8385
      @can8385 8 місяців тому +6

      You can see how much of herself she puts into each show. It wasn't sustainable for her human body, but she has left a legacy for others to benefit from learning, growing and healing. These shows are her pyramids which stand the test of time. Thank you so much, Iyanla, for allowing God's healing work through you 💜🙏🏾.

  • @D-Will2k
    @D-Will2k 8 місяців тому +334

    This is the reason I don’t want to live with family members. I like being alone and in peace.

  • @LADYBEYWEST
    @LADYBEYWEST 8 місяців тому +269

    This was episode is where we seen iyanla affected the most. I never seen her cry. Plus my favorite line "let me weep in the bushes"

    • @dlovely22
      @dlovely22 8 місяців тому +9

      I love that part too

  • @ldwhite05
    @ldwhite05 8 місяців тому +551

    "Let me just go in the bush and weep." Ms. Iyanla is funny for no reason.

  • @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198
    @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198 8 місяців тому +190

    Nothing hurts as much as disregard from your own husband
    Having to bite your tongue because it's his family, coming after everyone else. My heart weeps for her as it weeps for me.

    • @kilaa3417
      @kilaa3417 8 місяців тому +7

      May you be blessed and live the life of your dreams that you truly deserve ❤

    • @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198
      @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198 8 місяців тому +3

      @@kilaa3417 Thanks sis.. that means a lot❤️

    • @kilaa3417
      @kilaa3417 8 місяців тому +1

      @@mbalenhlebuthelezi3198 You're welcome love, I'm very sorry for what you're going through. just know God didn't put you on this earth to be disregarded -- Hope you do little things every day that make you happy, and that you pray for this to be resolved - I'll send a prayer for you too

    • @TheeCookingChannel
      @TheeCookingChannel 7 місяців тому +1

      Iyanla helped him lie. He originally said he hoped his wife would leave on her own. Because she don’t pay any bills, he doesn’t respect her or her opinions.

  • @Bronx_dweller
    @Bronx_dweller 8 місяців тому +350

    My mother raised me with….”if you don’t like it in here then, LEAVE”….guess this family never got the memo.

    • @gabbanabeauchamp5707
      @gabbanabeauchamp5707 8 місяців тому +7

      Same but my mother won’t take the same approach with my nephews

    • @PChantel
      @PChantel 8 місяців тому +3

      💯

  • @here2laff397
    @here2laff397 8 місяців тому +1307

    That GROWN one with FOUR children ???? She would need to go IMMEDIATELY ✌🏾😒

    • @delivertus4romnesha328
      @delivertus4romnesha328 8 місяців тому +108

      IMMEDIATELY!!

    • @ShesAbsurd
      @ShesAbsurd 8 місяців тому +116

      IMMEDIATELY !!!! I’m yelling as I type this 😂😂😂

    • @pinkpetals601
      @pinkpetals601 8 місяців тому +54

      Immediately!!!

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 8 місяців тому

      And build a mote.

    • @Nole_Girl
      @Nole_Girl 8 місяців тому +115

      Right, and you noticed after the show she got those kids in school. When Iyanla asked about the kids school curriculum you can clearly tell from her expression that she was lying!

  • @reahraine
    @reahraine 8 місяців тому +178

    Ive never seen Auntie Iyanla break down like that😢

  • @adm205
    @adm205 8 місяців тому +170

    Whew I can tell she needed that hug from Iyanla in the hotel room❤

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 8 місяців тому

      I can feel those types of hugs from my couch when i see Iyanla give them.

    • @Nanna-is5sg
      @Nanna-is5sg 8 місяців тому +18

      The way she cried😢😢😢! I bet aunty Iyanla gives the best hugs

    • @harlem4653
      @harlem4653 8 місяців тому +12

      Omg yes... Iyanla gives the best hugs♥️

    • @CrunchyGreenWater
      @CrunchyGreenWater 8 місяців тому +13

      She probably needs to cry and grieve and process her feelings and she doesn't even have the privacy in her own home to just let it out. 😢

  • @krisleshiba3390
    @krisleshiba3390 8 місяців тому +76

    The way she cried in that hug you could see she been hurting for a long time and never got a hug

  • @Kay-zv7vs
    @Kay-zv7vs 8 місяців тому +221

    I was hoping her husband would say... Y'ALL GOT 30 DAYS to find a place!

    • @kinshasaharris4758
      @kinshasaharris4758 6 місяців тому +14

      30 days is too much

    • @Daizy10231023
      @Daizy10231023 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah I've seen iyanla have enabling parents offer a move out date. I'm thinking she didn't do that this time because of the sheer circumstance of the family. There probably too much going on for them to be able to just move.

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@Daizy10231023Tough. Time to grow up. Sink or swim.

    • @Pjsixty60
      @Pjsixty60 2 місяці тому +1

      Her husband acts like the "weakest link".

  • @DaOneDeeMoney
    @DaOneDeeMoney 8 місяців тому +191

    The son Mac is soft for allowing his cousin to disrespect his Mom and that’s why he got upset when Iylanla said something to him about it

    • @mississippi821
      @mississippi821 8 місяців тому

      I would've had my cousin face leaking blood

    • @alanne1.17.77
      @alanne1.17.77 7 місяців тому

      Scurried off like the rat he was. How do you allow someone to talk about your mother like that???? Just shameful.

    • @AndreBarnes-ev7of
      @AndreBarnes-ev7of 4 місяці тому +8

      That Queen(The Nephew) got to go. 😂 💃🏽

    • @usereEyez8890
      @usereEyez8890 4 місяці тому

      He’s a punk, like his Father Uncle punk-in.

  • @Bee-lieve623
    @Bee-lieve623 8 місяців тому +685

    14 ppl?! 9 children?! That's a school! I would sleep in my car!

    • @shabraya1
      @shabraya1 8 місяців тому +24

      That part 😂😂

    • @here2laff397
      @here2laff397 8 місяців тому +62

      Like are they really surprised?? I’d be slamming doors & disassociating as well !

    • @foreignjacc
      @foreignjacc 8 місяців тому +3

      @@africansister 💯💯

    • @WBrown-cg6kd
      @WBrown-cg6kd 8 місяців тому

      That part. Off this whole scene

    • @sherry3301
      @sherry3301 8 місяців тому +13

      No, school is OUT FOR SUMMER!! They’ve got to go!😂😂😂

  • @Aaamyiah
    @Aaamyiah 8 місяців тому +242

    IDC how many hugs were given, I STILL want them people out of MS.CARRIES house!!!!!!!!!!! ✌✌✌✌✌

  • @DominiqueSpeaks
    @DominiqueSpeaks 8 місяців тому +122

    People ran Iyanla off T.V and she was healing people for real. To see Iyanla cry was gut wrenching. She put her heart and soul in these episodes. People criticized her, made fun of her, and she said she will never return. Imagine how much of Gods work she could have done.

    • @nadieralacey8494
      @nadieralacey8494 6 місяців тому +4

      Yes 😢❤

    • @GoldenGraham25
      @GoldenGraham25 6 місяців тому +15

      The crazy thing is: the demographic to watch this show are the ones who bullied her because THEY weren’t ready to see themselves. It’s really quite pathetic 😢

  • @delivertus4romnesha328
    @delivertus4romnesha328 8 місяців тому +182

    I would be overwhelmed overstimulated and on edge. I don’t blame the mom at all!!

  • @millicentstollenwerck5239
    @millicentstollenwerck5239 8 місяців тому +184

    The problem is too many people living in her house. I believe she would be better if she had her privacy.

  • @froonamission1013
    @froonamission1013 8 місяців тому +156

    I knew that mom wasn't the problem after the first ninety seconds... How can people be so entitled?

  • @Chyna43
    @Chyna43 8 місяців тому +220

    And why is a niece and nephew there?? Kick them out to THEIR parents

    • @keyanasteen3409
      @keyanasteen3409 8 місяців тому +8

      I thought those were his sister children that was also living there

    • @keyanasteen3409
      @keyanasteen3409 8 місяців тому +5

      And I believe her cousin told her how things were going the day before and she was already on like 8 with her. 38:58

    • @carriemtsh9648
      @carriemtsh9648 6 місяців тому +8

      And the one with 4 kids she keeps reproducing and no taking responsibility 😮

    • @MsJamillah2
      @MsJamillah2 4 місяці тому

      The mama of the niece (not sure about the nephew) is unc’s sister who is also living there. I want to know who the parents of the other 5 kids are!

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 8 місяців тому +185

    The entitlement is astounding.
    I feel so bad for Carrie that she’s the scapegoat

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 8 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @helpkelp3595
      @helpkelp3595 7 місяців тому +10

      It made me sick. It's obvious they were trying to push her out so they can continue to leech in peace

  • @cocowiggy85
    @cocowiggy85 8 місяців тому +252

    I remember this episode because it bothered me how everyone was blaming the mom for her behavior when it was because of them all along. Grown a** people (w/ children) living in HER house and she's the problem?!?!?!

    • @cocowiggy85
      @cocowiggy85 8 місяців тому +18

      And not just because of them but also the unfortunate loss of her newborn child 🥺

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 8 місяців тому +25

      RIGHT!!! THE NEPHEW IS A WHOLE MESS HE CAN GO! AND THE HUSBAND LIKE YO YOU CHOSE HER AS WIFE AND YET YOU'RE NOT PROTECTING!!

    • @monaleataknowles3267
      @monaleataknowles3267 8 місяців тому +7

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @dotmax7122
    @dotmax7122 8 місяців тому +245

    That lady and her 4 kids would have 30 days to move

    • @alysiataylor4048
      @alysiataylor4048 8 місяців тому +35

      2 weeks and 1 day would be all i give her lol

    • @Poisondime16
      @Poisondime16 8 місяців тому +20

      That was the party I was waiting for. When are they all moving out?

    • @oolalatoyamanasa5130
      @oolalatoyamanasa5130 8 місяців тому

      She looks like a darn junkie to me

    • @tiarataylor6792
      @tiarataylor6792 8 місяців тому +16

      Mr. Respect me, would have to hit the door too

    • @mljm_mljm
      @mljm_mljm 8 місяців тому +5

      All of this 🥹 these people have got some cheek!

  • @Augmented--
    @Augmented-- 8 місяців тому +351

    I am extremely nice! But if all these people were in my house I would be a PSYCHO

    • @loveg1463
      @loveg1463 8 місяців тому +11

      that's too many people right. looks like chaos. ditto the psycho bit.

    • @dorahmulinge3800
      @dorahmulinge3800 8 місяців тому +10

      Saaaame😂😂,, you can't talk to and about me like that!
      Not in my house

    • @salenachannel769
      @salenachannel769 8 місяців тому +11

      I can't imagine that many families under one roof

    • @Poopiepies
      @Poopiepies 8 місяців тому +8

      Right?? Reactive abuse is real. Then the antagonizing abusers sit there and play victim like this whole family did.

    • @sapphireemerald5636
      @sapphireemerald5636 8 місяців тому +3

      Me too... I would have left after a week

  • @cindyharris5442
    @cindyharris5442 8 місяців тому +509

    Step 1- Get OUT OF MY HOUSE.

    • @tianacameron9456
      @tianacameron9456 8 місяців тому +27

      Right! That’s it. That’s the whole process 😅

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 8 місяців тому

      Shiiiid, step 1 should have been you're not coming in my house, not with all that entitled garbage mentality!

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 8 місяців тому +6

      Yes indeed

    • @raycurry4168
      @raycurry4168 8 місяців тому +28

      Step 2...go upstairs ansd pack your husband's bags too....

    • @marpace8837
      @marpace8837 8 місяців тому +6

      Please say it louder. So the people in the back can hear that get out.

  • @faraboverubies98
    @faraboverubies98 8 місяців тому +151

    That lil nephew would not be in my house. As a matter of fact not any of them would be there. I would give each and everyone of them a hard deadline. Period.

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 8 місяців тому +29

      Yes. Y’all got 45 minutes to gtfo my house.

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 8 місяців тому +11

      ​@@Mrs.Adrian45 mins😂😂😂For real tho

    • @joyceotimnape4956
      @joyceotimnape4956 8 місяців тому +9

      Good lesson from here. Never be too accommodative. the wife is too good to all those people.

    • @helpkelp3595
      @helpkelp3595 7 місяців тому +2

      Especially the one with four kids. She is very lazy. Your kids aren't even in school?! Who are you to talk? And what stuff does she need to get done? She ain't paying rent. Just making babies

    • @YB882
      @YB882 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Mrs.AdrianYou alright w me! Get your 🤬 and beat it!!!😂😂😂

  • @leebee8544
    @leebee8544 8 місяців тому +52

    After the Lady of the house announcing, all smiles left the faces.

  • @kimberlygarland8661
    @kimberlygarland8661 7 місяців тому +49

    Divorce him and fight for whatever percentage of the business you're entitled to. He chose his relatives over you.

  • @FitzyS
    @FitzyS 8 місяців тому +126

    They have a lot of audacity for free loaders!

  • @quiver3456
    @quiver3456 7 місяців тому +23

    "And imma flip right on out the door." Whew! I felt that😢

  • @Jasmineekirdy
    @Jasmineekirdy 8 місяців тому +53

    This is one of those families where we need a part 2 and 3

  • @binibini7975
    @binibini7975 8 місяців тому +69

    The husband set the tone for the disrespect to his wife. She apologized way too much in their own home. Wow!

  • @d.cooley1819
    @d.cooley1819 8 місяців тому +64

    This is beautiful. The breakthrough between the husband and wife. They’ll be okay. Now get those people out of your house. Iyanla we need you back.

    • @UnpopularAdvisor
      @UnpopularAdvisor 8 місяців тому

      Agree 🌷🤎

    • @alvinaedwards9280
      @alvinaedwards9280 7 місяців тому +5

      I hope it lasts and gets stronger. But, the husband saying he didn't care and how he hoped that she would leave was heartbreaking.

  • @SentamuPrince
    @SentamuPrince 7 місяців тому +41

    I would not let my mom be degraded like that. It is her house. She worked for it

  • @JLPerryTV
    @JLPerryTV 8 місяців тому +101

    23:06 The way she threw that fish on his desk and the *thud* sound it made 😂😂😂😂

    • @harlem4653
      @harlem4653 8 місяців тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @jazminerenee4077
      @jazminerenee4077 8 місяців тому +8

      😂😂😂😂 cracks me up every time 😂

    • @tai4short
      @tai4short 8 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 THANKS FOR THE TIME STAMP?!!!

    • @LadyLunicorn
      @LadyLunicorn 7 місяців тому +5

      I thought she was going to go into a metaphor about having bigger fish to fry 😂😂😂

    • @andreasmith8509
      @andreasmith8509 2 місяці тому +1

      He said ummm huuuh

  • @quichequiche4274
    @quichequiche4274 8 місяців тому +98

    They could just LEAVE her house! Problem solved.

  • @Jai64life
    @Jai64life 8 місяців тому +77

    I believe that the big house makes family run to them first. The extra space for empty nesters does not mean that the rooms are for family.

  • @livia8227
    @livia8227 8 місяців тому +41

    My mother in law was at my house for 11 months after I had my baby, and I almost lost my MIND. I could not IMAGINE. My Lord

  • @destaneehoward
    @destaneehoward 8 місяців тому +17

    I cried when I seen her break down in iyanla arms like that . She needed that hug

  • @Iam_Nelisa
    @Iam_Nelisa 8 місяців тому +40

    I was hoping it ends with an eviction notice! I was truly praying they leave.
    Where are they now?

  • @Willahbean
    @Willahbean 8 місяців тому +18

    That man said he didn’t care about her feelings and she felt all of it.
    The way she weeped in his arms 😢

  • @W.U.A.R.U
    @W.U.A.R.U 8 місяців тому +141

    14 people living in HER HOME! There is no peace or sanctuary. They are not making any attempt to move out on their own. The entitlement is unreal.
    The husband totally disregarded her and allowed them to move in. I hope this woman was able to move on and start healing.

    • @Qeqezwisdom
      @Qeqezwisdom 8 місяців тому +10

      With 9 children too. That’s nothing more than a hostel atp

    • @W.U.A.R.U
      @W.U.A.R.U 8 місяців тому +2

      Wow! I thought the the 9 kids were included in the head count of 14. God Bless her. Can't even turn around with that many people living there.

    • @Qeqezwisdom
      @Qeqezwisdom 8 місяців тому +1

      Oh yeah they are! Sorry 9 kids+5 adults. My bad

  • @DB-gu6tf
    @DB-gu6tf 8 місяців тому +13

    “When you leave there you take you with you”. What a profound statement.

  • @hendihorlings2341
    @hendihorlings2341 8 місяців тому +128

    What a group of entitled people !

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 8 місяців тому

      So, so disgusting. It makes me feel queesy.

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 8 місяців тому

      😂

    • @UnpopularAdvisor
      @UnpopularAdvisor 8 місяців тому +9

      Their uncle is to blame unfortunately he gave them the grace to be

    • @UnpopularAdvisor
      @UnpopularAdvisor 8 місяців тому +1

      Their uncle is to blame unfortunately he gave them the grace to be

  • @oliviajohnson7649
    @oliviajohnson7649 8 місяців тому +199

    How do you homeschool a child when YOU don't have a home?..

    • @iris-nx1wt
      @iris-nx1wt 8 місяців тому +12

      😂😂😂

    • @Nanna-is5sg
      @Nanna-is5sg 8 місяців тому +7

      🫨🫨😫😭😂😂😂🤣

    • @heyitsmyTeeTa
      @heyitsmyTeeTa 8 місяців тому +7

      Girlllll😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 8 місяців тому +28

      A home school with no home? How dreadful .

    • @iris-nx1wt
      @iris-nx1wt 8 місяців тому +10

      @@Mrs.Adrian 🤣😂 not the Dwight

  • @umadox41
    @umadox41 8 місяців тому +109

    Oooooooh, Ms Ki'la would not be permitted to remain in my house with that kind of disrespect. The way she responded to Iyanla after being missing from the process and called it bull cr*p! No way mam! To the left 👈🏾.

    • @pinkpetals601
      @pinkpetals601 8 місяців тому +26

      Exactly!! How you gone homeschool yours kids in somebody else house lol that’s crazy

    • @dememurphy7859
      @dememurphy7859 8 місяців тому +23

      ​@@pinkpetals601I was thinking who or what is she teaching exactly?!! Not to judge a book by it's cover but her attitude & patience is thin so I can't see her taking time on any curriculum!!

    • @pinkpetals601
      @pinkpetals601 8 місяців тому +19

      @@dememurphy7859 exactly!! I’m like no ma’am put them kids in school please. Her attitude was so nasty to be living in somebody else house smh

    • @TierneyWashington1983
      @TierneyWashington1983 8 місяців тому +9

      I feel sorry for the kids if she is homeschooling them smh

    • @dememurphy7859
      @dememurphy7859 8 місяців тому +12

      @@TierneyWashington1983 They're probably grown now these episodes are old but I hope they turned out well... They said she enrolled them in school at end of show

  • @WhenSpiritSpeaks
    @WhenSpiritSpeaks 8 місяців тому +131

    None of them realized how much pain and trauma she was dealing with. Just having those small children living there in the house with her could have been so triggering. Im truly praying for her.

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 8 місяців тому +5

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @SheSells_StLouis
      @SheSells_StLouis 8 місяців тому +3

      Absolutely agree!!

    • @keyairab1002
      @keyairab1002 6 місяців тому +5

      Wow didn’t think of the kids being a trigger that’s why she isolates

    • @WhenSpiritSpeaks
      @WhenSpiritSpeaks 6 місяців тому +3

      @keyairab1002 right! Being that she has traumatic pain with her on past of small children I bet non of them really took in consideration that seeing them daily could trigger pain of what could have been with the children that she lost.

  • @VictoriaNewsom-b9x
    @VictoriaNewsom-b9x 8 місяців тому +47

    At the end he should’ve told everybody that they have 30-45 days to find new living arrangements, period.

  • @j.g.3719
    @j.g.3719 8 місяців тому +71

    This is one the most upsetting episodes of Iyanla because the audacity of this man's family was ASTOUNDING. Also, hopefully CPS was called about those kids not being in school because the mother didn’t care at all.

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 8 місяців тому +15

      That woman was a whole mess! I could tell there was something very off about her with the way she was so disrespectful by walking off like that and giving Iyanla that lip smacking, neck rolling, side eye energy when she asked if she had a home school curriculum. Truth be told, she probably didn't even know what Iyanla was talking about. Clearly, she had her own issues and walking away was easier than accepting healing because in order to do that you have to take responsibility. Would love updates on these shows because it's been ten years and more for them.

    • @raycurry4168
      @raycurry4168 8 місяців тому

      @@DarlingNikki2 Well my guess is that the ghetto girl is till serving time and her kids are living in the same house with THEIR kids, and the "lady of the house" fled the scene of the living hell she endured and Uncle Pumpkin is senile and sitting in a corner somplace.

  • @gracie4200
    @gracie4200 8 місяців тому +33

    First time I've ever seen Iyanla crying 😢

  • @carpediem1667
    @carpediem1667 8 місяців тому +24

    Oh Ms. Iyanla got me in tears with this episode. This episode shows how selfish, insensitive and mean humans can be to each other. Every episode helped to be a better person to my children, friends and others. Excellent job Ms. Iyanla!!

  • @MindsetOfMarge
    @MindsetOfMarge 8 місяців тому +35

    I love how Iyanla handled this situation. They thought they were going to gang up on her with Iyanla’s help and that clearly didn’t happen. A house full of ppl who don’t want to deal with their own mess

  • @monaejames2764
    @monaejames2764 8 місяців тому +17

    I love iyanla could immediately see through the bs & understand that this woman wasn’t the real problem here

  • @singingforshalom8385
    @singingforshalom8385 8 місяців тому +7

    I love Iyanla. She made me deal with myself and heal. I wish she will come back on TV.

  • @pinkpetals601
    @pinkpetals601 8 місяців тому +74

    I would be on edge too! Too many grown people and all them kids running around…ain’t no way!!

  • @KiaraWyBradford
    @KiaraWyBradford 8 місяців тому +101

    8 minutes in and I am PISSED! The nephew would’ve BEEN slapped and out!

    • @jelyyung
      @jelyyung 4 місяці тому +4

      To the ground.

    • @TigerLilyEverlasting
      @TigerLilyEverlasting 4 місяці тому

      Him and that thick tongue would’ve been on the first smoking off my property 😅

  • @Mimi-eb3sq
    @Mimi-eb3sq 8 місяців тому +56

    When Iyanla walked up and said Good Morning none said anything😢. Just sad I feel this woman’s pain. She can’t even enjoy her own home with all them adults there. She is angry because she wants you all to leave.

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 8 місяців тому +4

      Several adults in the home, all of them working age and not one of them seemingly working?!?! i would be pissed too!!

  • @shelbyjohnson4802
    @shelbyjohnson4802 8 місяців тому +119

    14 people?! 9 kids??! Lakilla???!!! This felt like a boondocks episode

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 8 місяців тому +8

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chaneldoll3481
      @chaneldoll3481 8 місяців тому +3

      Lmaoooooo

    • @neomoloi1637
      @neomoloi1637 4 місяці тому +1

      Your comment took me all the way out! 😂😂😂

    • @_BigEllie
      @_BigEllie 4 місяці тому

      The way I screamed 😂

    • @Sunshine_757
      @Sunshine_757 4 місяці тому

      😂😂😂

  • @marymarybaby
    @marymarybaby 8 місяців тому +60

    Shame on her kids for allowing someone to talk so reckless abt her! She deserves better we need an update ❤

    • @KnowWhat
      @KnowWhat 8 місяців тому +11

      The father allowed it! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @marymarybaby
      @marymarybaby 8 місяців тому +5

      @@KnowWhat your right! He’s wrong just as much as they are

    • @MBCrusin
      @MBCrusin 3 місяці тому +2

      Right! I come from a place that…
      I can talk about my people but YOU can’t!! Even if I agree, you ain’t finna call my mama a witch in front of me without some furniture moving in that place!!!

    • @marymarybaby
      @marymarybaby 3 місяці тому +1

      @@MBCrusin EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!

    • @nakiabruton5319
      @nakiabruton5319 3 місяці тому +1

      Facts NO ONE could ever disrespect my parents like that no way!

  • @mrsa2you365
    @mrsa2you365 6 місяців тому +30

    Baby when Iyanla said she would've choked that disrespectful nephew with his imaginary pearls I gagged! Because that was exactly what he needed to hear! He was out of line!
    The niece's drug addiction is something else being swept under the rug! And why the children are there and she's not. And why they're not attending school.

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 6 місяців тому

      😮😮

    • @speakintothemicb
      @speakintothemicb 6 місяців тому +2

      I laughed so hard about the pearls attack lol😅

  • @dorcasratemo5591
    @dorcasratemo5591 8 місяців тому +73

    Everyone calls her a b including the son and husband. The nephew calls her a witch. What a bunch of evil people.

    • @carriemtsh9648
      @carriemtsh9648 6 місяців тому +2

      I’ll be scared living in that house, I feel for her

  • @here2laff397
    @here2laff397 8 місяців тому +102

    Another upload just in time for my lunch break. Y’all got my auntie crying in the begin ?! Oh hell no !😫

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju 8 місяців тому +8

      Right?!! 👏👏💫💜💞

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 8 місяців тому +1

      Lunch break is brave! I can only watch these in the evening, when i can take the time to hysterically cry for hours during and after.

    • @ladyroyalsupremest
      @ladyroyalsupremest 8 місяців тому +3

      Girl, let’s jump em! I don’t play about my Auntie. I would’ve packed up all my ish and left the husband there with what he created. A mad house 😂 I would’ve turned my device off and been somewhere sipping a margarita. I wouldn’t spend one red cent in that household.

  • @nyleac4389
    @nyleac4389 8 місяців тому +47

    I can’t believe none of them saw the problem

    • @serenasmith5946
      @serenasmith5946 8 місяців тому +5

      Never do when people want things their way

    • @tyraharris2090
      @tyraharris2090 8 місяців тому +2

      Selfish

    • @TaliahNeal-bn6wg
      @TaliahNeal-bn6wg 8 місяців тому +7

      Oh they saw It identified it and all they just didn't give a f!ck 💯

    • @ms.mo2417
      @ms.mo2417 6 місяців тому

      Retards!

  • @angelabarton5146
    @angelabarton5146 8 місяців тому +41

    How can NONE of them care about this woman? None. Heartless

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 8 місяців тому

      Selfish, spoiled jerks!! Unbelievable that they are all so sure they are right.

  • @dorisnamondo97
    @dorisnamondo97 8 місяців тому +13

    I don't how she even stayed that long living in that situation. The hurt of losing baby is still deep and raw. I hope she continues with Iyanla one-on-one in therapy.

  • @emilyannsarah
    @emilyannsarah 8 місяців тому +39

    Iyanna is wild for bringing that fish in that house 🤣

  • @shantelnate
    @shantelnate 8 місяців тому +38

    So La'kila had 4 kids and none if them were in school? How are you home schooling children in someone else's home?

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 8 місяців тому

      😂

    • @carriemtsh9648
      @carriemtsh9648 6 місяців тому +1

      Where are the daddies, she keeps reproducing with no responsibility 😢, her entitlement is beyond comprehension

  • @ShanellWashington-f3j
    @ShanellWashington-f3j 8 місяців тому +19

    Mama looks so good looks younger than all of them

  • @MkCD.
    @MkCD. 8 місяців тому +17

    I always remember the clip where she was laughing/smiling one moment and went in for Iyanla’s hug, and broke into tears 💔 she was so accustomed to appearing “strong.”

  • @cjjuju9100
    @cjjuju9100 8 місяців тому +5

    Ugh 😩…when Will & Carrie hugged. Made me cry. Neither of them had never really broken down with each other.

  • @Designinganewme
    @Designinganewme 8 місяців тому +55

    I need an update, whoo Chile!

  • @PaulaScarlett-vc9cq
    @PaulaScarlett-vc9cq 8 місяців тому +22

    I can't believe that you left this lady in the same space with these disrespectful, toxic people

  • @nicolemcintosh2403
    @nicolemcintosh2403 8 місяців тому +70

    LaKilla???? Oh she gotta go and take that name with her 😂

  • @TheTaurean
    @TheTaurean 8 місяців тому +17

    Imma start using that saying with all the stuff going on in the world. “Let me just go in the bush and weep.” 😆 “I just have to go in the bush and weep.” 😭 OWN keep cranking out these episodes!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ArronYouSeeItMalachi
    @ArronYouSeeItMalachi 4 місяці тому +4

    Iyanla be lighting them up without trying or breaking a sweat! I hollered when she put that "no vacancy" sign on thr door! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @TierneyWashington1983
    @TierneyWashington1983 8 місяців тому +51

    14 people and they wonder why that lady mean and drink a lot?

  • @puritykm
    @puritykm 8 місяців тому +76

    Is slapping someone like Jamal legal? The entitlement is through the roof 😮. It's her damn house, he needs to get his own house and demand for respect that way. Huh!

    • @forallthestupidshit3550
      @forallthestupidshit3550 8 місяців тому

      He needs an ice cold drink thrown in his face. Not the glass, just the ice cold liquid.

    • @msarmstrong410
      @msarmstrong410 8 місяців тому +2

      LMAO! Just plain rude..

    • @D-Will2k
      @D-Will2k 8 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @dorahmulinge3800
      @dorahmulinge3800 8 місяців тому

      In Africa it is
      Recently, a guy in my country Kenya, a city called Kisumu, was beaten by neighbours for GBV
      We endorsed that 😂😂

    • @ukokaluuko4649
      @ukokaluuko4649 8 місяців тому

      @@dorahmulinge3800what’s that? GBV?

  • @andreasmith8509
    @andreasmith8509 8 місяців тому +50

    That nephew 😠

  • @renee560
    @renee560 6 місяців тому +13

    Iyanla: “Let me clutch my pearls…. If you were in my house I’d choke with them” 😂😂😂😂😂
    Dang I miss this woman.

  • @miraclesblessings5044
    @miraclesblessings5044 8 місяців тому +76

    These entitled clowns are ridiculous!!!i would love to see sn update on this family

    • @raycurry4168
      @raycurry4168 8 місяців тому +5

      Update= they STILL there...not contributing in any way.

    • @UnpopularAdvisor
      @UnpopularAdvisor 8 місяців тому +7

      @@raycurry4168you know what 😂 I hope that’s not true , that would be a hot mess

  • @lahxo4593
    @lahxo4593 7 місяців тому +20

    The way it keeps going over their head when she keeps emphasising “IN HER HOUSE” 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @msarmstrong410
    @msarmstrong410 8 місяців тому +60

    Well damn... when the husband just out right called her a b****. 🙃

    • @NBid-rp9ch
      @NBid-rp9ch 8 місяців тому

      He actually the one that's a b*tch

  • @genniejefferson6588
    @genniejefferson6588 8 місяців тому +97

    She might be like that because of too many people. She need peace of mind.

    • @zahramissy4837
      @zahramissy4837 8 місяців тому +5

      Exactly

    • @tiheshakp
      @tiheshakp 8 місяців тому +12

      Right! Hell, I'm mad, and it's not even my situation!

    • @pinkpetals601
      @pinkpetals601 8 місяців тому +6

      @@tiheshakpI swear I’m all frowned up at my phone lol

    • @jekxyla
      @jekxyla 8 місяців тому +7

      Fr though, she’s overstimulated and i dont blame her one bit!!

    • @Pjsixty60
      @Pjsixty60 2 місяці тому

      ​@@jekxylaOverwhelmed from disrespect and clutter sounds more like it.

  • @marathonbleu
    @marathonbleu 8 місяців тому +8

    Bring this show back!!!! It’s literally needed

  • @amaurimangum1907
    @amaurimangum1907 4 місяці тому +4

    Ms.Carrie is a beautiful ,strong and resilient woman. I’m amazed at her!❤

  • @kj1443
    @kj1443 8 місяців тому +3

    "Let me just clutch my pearls"....
    I'm so glad that OWN is sharing these episodes. So much to learn from Iyanla. And also the families. 11 years on I hope the family in this episode have found peace and a better way to live.

  • @KE-pg2uf
    @KE-pg2uf 7 місяців тому +11

    Just the nephew alone pissed me off ... the nerve and audacity wow

  • @Linwood570
    @Linwood570 8 місяців тому +11

    Carrie was very open! I love that for her ❤