When Toxic Obsession leads to Murder... | The Case of Jasmeen Kaur

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  • @louisecassel2433
    @louisecassel2433 Рік тому +1868

    The fact that his parents lied to defend him is a huge part of the problem. Making excuses and not acknowledging bad behavior encourages more bad behavior.
    These parents helped create this monster.
    😢

    • @ThePinsay
      @ThePinsay Рік тому +52

      They should have the be tortured & punished in jail for the rest of their life!

    • @nikkiidomagala
      @nikkiidomagala Рік тому +11

      Exactly!

    • @nonyabiz9553
      @nonyabiz9553 Рік тому +31

      yup. that's why it's so rare to find these people DON'T have parents that support them. rarely will you find a killer with parents whom condemn them.

    • @redrumtruecrime
      @redrumtruecrime Рік тому +46

      It's always "mummy's best boy's" that grow up to be entitled and lack respect for other women whom they expect to treat like crap because mummy thought no girl was ever going to be good enough for her faultless son! A lot of mothers who are like that often compete with every gf for her son's love and attention, thus the son respects no woman other than his mum. Sick, but I've witnessed this many times throughout my life thus far, and I'm not that old!

    • @RelativeRudy
      @RelativeRudy Рік тому +15

      They should serve time imo

  • @KPatel555
    @KPatel555 Рік тому +887

    His family defending him under these circumstances really is telling. They must have been enabling bad behaviour his entire life, he couldn’t deal with someone saying no to him.

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Рік тому +46

      Yup. It's human nature to immediately defend someone you can't fathom doing something so horrific. But to continue defending that person *after* the evidence was presented and it's clear they're guilty is just despicable.

    • @sterlingarcher857
      @sterlingarcher857 Рік тому +23

      The culture of the demographic

    • @openminds8765
      @openminds8765 Рік тому +15

      Singh Family is delusional and keep designing the monster they raised - shameful.🚫 They should have show their family has some morals and apologize to the Jasmine Kaur's family.⚖.

    • @vikidhillon1884
      @vikidhillon1884 Рік тому +14

      it's a sad fact that in India you are a good person if you score good marks
      parents don't see past your marks

    • @JohnDoe-ly6bt
      @JohnDoe-ly6bt Рік тому

      you underestimate a mother`s love for her child

  • @tkh1231
    @tkh1231 Рік тому +649

    Buried alive has to be one of the most horrific ways to die. Brings a chill down my spine. The suffering this beautiful women went through. He will never get parole.

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Рік тому +26

      I had the same thoughts. It's a true nightmare. Her parents live the nightmare of picturing what their daughter went through. 💔

    • @ThePinsay
      @ThePinsay Рік тому +36

      Especially when she was blindfolded restrained & gagged! Worse than drowning! What an evil evil evil sick disgusting scumbag!!! Soil in her lungs!!?? Stuff of worst nightmares!!!💔 No punishment could be enough!!!
      Hope he is punished & burns for eternity!!!!

    • @trailrunner925
      @trailrunner925 Рік тому +9

      Or another lifer will take care of him....

    • @helenbartoszek243
      @helenbartoszek243 Рік тому +10

      Hate to say it but, this is Australia so he will get parole eventually.

    • @_Y.Not_
      @_Y.Not_ Рік тому +3

      He'll be in his 40's when he is let out on parole.

  • @3lfruler
    @3lfruler Рік тому +197

    Some of the worst people in the world are the parents of abusers. And then the parents still support their abusive child, when there's enough evidence of a crime.
    This is heartbreaking 💔

    • @SerendipityK-d2z
      @SerendipityK-d2z Рік тому

      They create the narc, they think they’re entitled.

    • @Faith_Chi
      @Faith_Chi Рік тому +2

      No doubt, there's a connection, genetic and upbringing.

  • @peggyoconnell2360
    @peggyoconnell2360 Рік тому +2882

    Parents who can’t see the problems with their kids are so frustrating.

    • @frgmented-dreams6140
      @frgmented-dreams6140 Рік тому

      People like the perp make having kids unattractive. A perfect retort for those advocating for more kids.

    • @kairioblivion6544
      @kairioblivion6544 Рік тому +230

      Narcissists raise narcissists

    • @pablodaniel6385
      @pablodaniel6385 Рік тому +61

      It's not that simple.

    • @betsylaughlin8652
      @betsylaughlin8652 Рік тому +160

      IMO, misogyny is often a big role in these types of cases. Women absolutely can and do these awful things, and can match the brutality of men, but never the same numbers. Unfortunately, men kill women in much greater numbers than vice versa. The fact that so many cultures globally have taught men that women are their property, IMO, is a major factor in the entitlement they feel in taking the lives of their partners…the parents can’t fathom their child doing this, and of course their fear what this says about their parenting (and often they worry what their friends/neighbors/coworkers etc will say). Misogyny is bad for everyone, men/women/etc alike😢

    • @PhantomCookie87
      @PhantomCookie87 Рік тому +40

      Apparently you've never had a kid before. Try having a 13 year old daughter and then we can talk.

  • @DodZz666
    @DodZz666 Рік тому +390

    I feel so sad for the mother who feels guilty for sending her daughter to get a good education abroad , while the only one who should feel guilt and pain is the monster who took her life 😢

    • @briannawiebe7111
      @briannawiebe7111 Рік тому +8

      So sad 😢 I bet she’s plagued with guilt

    • @jhavajoe3792
      @jhavajoe3792 Рік тому +9

      True. All these type of murderers forget they are giving surviving families, life sentences.He also disgraced his own family. he could have all the degrees in the world , but for the subject of emotional control, an "F" student at 6th grade level.
      Hope he rots away in prison.

    • @AthyDuGard
      @AthyDuGard Рік тому +10

      It's heartbreaking. My friend's mum had the opposite situation where her daughter left Australia to study in India and was murdered there. Evil lurks everywhere.
      I'm so glad in this situation the killer was caught. I have a feeling if he is ever paroled he will be deported.

    • @DodZz666
      @DodZz666 Рік тому

      @@AthyDuGard it is even sadder if the murderer was not caught .... Hope she is able to carry on

    • @rationalbacon5872
      @rationalbacon5872 Рік тому +1

      ​@@AthyDuGardHere's a thought. Maybe some cultures don't mix. Neither is superior but some differences cannot be breached.

  • @nicolew4877
    @nicolew4877 Рік тому +495

    We’ve all been dumped or rejected at some point. It sucks and it really hurts. But to take your fragile ego to the point of ending someone’s life is just beyond me.

    • @hahahaaha7208
      @hahahaaha7208 Рік тому +28

      Indian culture still needs to change.

    • @Userhdhd-t5l
      @Userhdhd-t5l Рік тому

      ​@@hahahaaha7208it's psychopathy. It has no nationality.

    • @QuadriviumNumbers
      @QuadriviumNumbers Рік тому +28

      @@hahahaaha7208 This happens in all cultures. Despicable!

    • @karangill7637
      @karangill7637 Рік тому +2

      man r very obsessed on things which their need their can't let it go. it happened in every community

    • @HoneyQuint
      @HoneyQuint Рік тому +8

      I take rejection really well. I go to myself not meant to be. Either my fault or nobody's fault. Socks but good to be able to accept it

  • @dreamersleepwalker
    @dreamersleepwalker Рік тому +87

    I’m claustrophobic... One of my biggest fears is being buried alive, I can’t even begin to imagine how she felt. My heart broke for her. 😔

  • @BrandyBeach
    @BrandyBeach Рік тому +29

    So so sad 😢, my only daughter is 25 and I worry about her all the time. People in this world are cold and evil, rip sweet lady ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Akursedtime
    @Akursedtime Рік тому +195

    His family excusing his behavior the entire way and yet he never stopped and thought what he was doing was wrong. And the fact that she was buried ALIVE. How, how can you defend him?
    Rest in peace Jasmeen. Its hard to picture what she went through during her final moments. Just horrifying.

    • @ChenCrystal99
      @ChenCrystal99 Рік тому +8

      Sadly, there are families that will defend children for whatever crimes they commit and let them get away with it (Flores family, Laundrie family, and the mother of Aiden Fucci). If my child committed a crime (I hate to do this) but I have no choice but to turn them into the police.

  • @MsCairo2010
    @MsCairo2010 Рік тому +390

    Love cannot turn into hate, he didn't love her he was a narcissist who wanted to control her.....

    • @kossy140
      @kossy140 Рік тому +7

      Exactly.... how can love turn to hate?

    • @EyeKnowYourRight22
      @EyeKnowYourRight22 Рік тому

      So let me get this straight. He killed somebody by burying them alive now this country is going to pay to close feed and give this guy a warm bed to sleep in for the next 23+ years?? What a fucked up system.
      Why not put him in a black hole where he never sees a person or daylight for the next 23 years while giving him just enough food to slowly die.

    • @maggiemuthu9818
      @maggiemuthu9818 Рік тому

      Yes...no love to begin with....i feel like givin him a good power slap...he's a ba***rd

    • @lean2807
      @lean2807 Рік тому +8

      @@kossy140the point he never loved her but was obsessed with ideas of her nd that’s two different.

    • @robertosan66677
      @robertosan66677 Рік тому +5

      I don’t know where you get your information,,,,but yes ,,,love can definitely turn to hate ,,,as they say it’s a fine line between love and hate ,,,when you love someone you open ur self to the person ,,,your heart / mind / body ect ,,,you get the point ,,now cause your in love so high ,,,when you get betrayed / dumped ,,,your in pain ,,,that pain is then manifested by hateful actions cause you want to show the other person how much pain your in and want them to see it and feel it too ,,,now again everyone is different n some deal with it different,,,we don’t all kill someone who dumps us ,,,,but the question here is can you love someone and then later hate them ??? Definitely yes ,,,

  • @pandy9633
    @pandy9633 Рік тому +779

    It’s an absolute joke and disgrace that he is getting only 23 years for the despicable act of cruelty and premeditated murder.
    Rest in peace Jasmeen ❤

    • @DJ_Sycottic
      @DJ_Sycottic Рік тому +79

      It's a life sentence, 23 years is when he can first apply for parole, he could spend the rest of his life behind bars.... Hopefully he does....

    • @SpeedRebirth
      @SpeedRebirth Рік тому +40

      I think it's mostly Americans who think "xx years to life" actually only means 23y. A lot of countries uses this as the most harsh sentence and it often means 30-40-50-60 years in prison. This dude will probably die in prison.
      Also, there's no point in giving someone 287 years in prison or something stupid like that :)

    • @LadyAngela678
      @LadyAngela678 Рік тому +21

      @@SpeedRebirth Its okay to give people hundreds of years. What they dont pay in this lifetime they will pay in the next.

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Рік тому +8

      He didn't get 23 years. He got life.

    • @Zeno_334
      @Zeno_334 Рік тому +7

      hopefully her relatives will "meet" with him when and if he is deported back to india. punjab, the region, jasmeen and the scumbag hail from is known for family feuds that sometime last generations. you know, like the applachian region in the united states.

  • @ladycookiepuss
    @ladycookiepuss Рік тому +206

    'My precious boy? My angel? Is definitely not guilty, he was provoked...it was self defense!'...Said every mother of an abusive partner, in the same tone she used to utter these words in a playground long time ago....

    • @joeyyalexander92
      @joeyyalexander92 8 місяців тому +13

      For real..I have owned up when I was younger about being verbally abusive, and my mom would try to tell me it wasnt my fault..like..i appreciate it but nah, let me be wrong and accountable for my shitty behavior. Its wild how many parents enable murderers, as Ive learned from this channel

    • @MG-uz5mr
      @MG-uz5mr 4 місяці тому +1

      They're the reason why he went so far. They clearly have never taught him to be accountable for himself

  • @Skinny2Shredded
    @Skinny2Shredded Рік тому +79

    I had a ex who had s*x with another guy while We lived together and she let him record everything. I had to see it all in the middle of the night on Snapchat , going through the phone, no matter how bad a woman or man hurts you, it’s never worth murder, find someone better for you, there always is.

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 Рік тому +23

      I am so very sorry. But on the plus side, it sounds like you dodged a bullet. Anyone who could do that is really cruel, and lacks any kind of moral compass..

    • @guts8770
      @guts8770 11 місяців тому

      Nah that deserves murder to be honest

    • @purpleonart4736
      @purpleonart4736 11 місяців тому +3

      There is not so much thought between them. In India men get offended over nothing and attach like soulmates over a small talk because of lack of any social skill.
      But I am with the boy...jasmine should have married him, given the background this boy was a virgin and you can't say no casually. Jasmine was very very wrong and her family rejecting the match more so .

    • @purpleonart4736
      @purpleonart4736 11 місяців тому +2

      But burying her alive was extremely wrong too !

    • @Lucy-mf5gk
      @Lucy-mf5gk 10 місяців тому +17

      @@purpleonart4736 should have married him..
      Are you kidding.

  • @Nossie00
    @Nossie00 Рік тому +35

    As someone who is an Adelaide native, we have had more than our fair share of disturbing crime. And not just 'typical' murders, but many perplexing and very dark cases. If you do a deep-dive and look up 'the Family murders' and the 'Bodies in the barrels' cases to name just 2 (then there's the the Truro Murders, the Beaumont Children and so many more). Adelaide is not the sleepy, relaxed city people want it to be. It absolutely has a darker under current. It's a beautiful city and the people are in general lovely, but it definitely has it's share of disturbing moments in history.

    • @minh132
      @minh132 11 місяців тому +2

      every city does,but as Australia resembles india more and more by the day,the crime rate will increase

  • @jamesplymire5342
    @jamesplymire5342 Рік тому +1094

    You cannot force someone to like or love you. Just walk away when it's over. It makes me sick how these possessive monsters take the life of innocent people just because THEY have issues with rejection. 😡 He's a total coward!! 😢 RIP Jasmeen

    • @musakui
      @musakui Рік тому +27

      💯

    • @rbwesty5284
      @rbwesty5284 Рік тому +16

      Well said.

    • @turboshazed7370
      @turboshazed7370 Рік тому +9

      Exactly.

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Рік тому +10

      Very easier said then done. Seriously, do you know what it's like when you break up. It litterally feels like you've been shot in the heart but you don't get the sweet release of death. You have to wallow in agony for god knows how long.

    • @ThePinsay
      @ThePinsay Рік тому

      Totally!!👏

  • @chispa7084
    @chispa7084 Рік тому +146

    Monsters like this so-called "man" should be jailed for life WITHOUT the possibility of parole. Does the justice system really think that a man who tortured and buried this woman ALIVE is going to learn to be a decent human being in prison? Seriously? Once he is out, I have no doubt in my mind that he will make another woman as miserable as he did Jasmeen. May she RIP.

    • @susanhitchler1881
      @susanhitchler1881 Рік тому +8

      Yeah they’ll find him some woman from India who has no idea what he did.

    • @lean2807
      @lean2807 Рік тому +7

      Those monsters get away with a lot of bullshit nd innocent people get blamed 😭🥺 hell is a place for those monsters imagine being buried alive 💔😔she didn’t deserve that 😭 those monsters don’t deserve happiness 😣 karma is bitch nd I hope he going to the most painful thing anyone can go through this world . They don’t deserve love .

    • @Freestyle80
      @Freestyle80 9 місяців тому

      why would Australia house him for life, he can piss off back to his shite country with a criminal record

    • @katattack907
      @katattack907 8 місяців тому +1

      Yeah, I can't imagine he's going to come out of prison and not be just as dangerous. Probably much more dangerous.

    • @chispa7084
      @chispa7084 8 місяців тому

      Exactly. This AH is beyond ANY remorse. I mean, he burry this poor woman ALIVE FFS. I still feel so bad for her family knowing that someday the AH will be walking free. YUCK!@@katattack907

  • @rosariccardo3529
    @rosariccardo3529 Рік тому +132

    When you mentioned that Jasmeen had wanted to go into one of the caring professions so she could help her mother in her frail old age, it nearly broke my heart. That man should never see the light of day again. 💔

  • @jellyrollderp3193
    @jellyrollderp3193 Рік тому +35

    One thing I love about CoffeeHouseCrimes is that amount of care and value he puts on the victims. Most creators just talks about the victims to get the story out but something important to remember is that they were real people! People who wanted to live and had dreams just like you and I.

  • @D2attemp
    @D2attemp Рік тому +48

    I never understood guys who wouldn’t let their girlfriends go out with her own friends. It’s means you get alone time to play video games with your online buddies or work out or catch up on your own hobbies. To me it’s always so baffling and confusing why people so restrictive and controlling to their partners.

    • @karangill7637
      @karangill7637 Рік тому +5

      yes most of the Asian man do that esp indian

    • @leviosa5405
      @leviosa5405 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@karangill7637 yup, if this happened in India a lot of comments would slut shame the victim for walking out of the relationship and even having a relationship before marriage.😑

    • @TheLucidSpecter
      @TheLucidSpecter 7 місяців тому

      Ikr why can’t we just smash n dash and forget about relationships. They don’t work now anyways lol

    • @SlLV3RWOLF
      @SlLV3RWOLF 6 місяців тому

      He likely was getting all of his joy from being with her, and wouldn’t have gotten anything out of things normal people would. Due to his mental/emotional issues

    • @LittleImpaler
      @LittleImpaler 4 місяці тому

      It's insecurities.

  • @DameWhoGames.
    @DameWhoGames. Рік тому +126

    As soon as I hear that someone has gone to the police for help and something like this still happens, my heart breaks even more. It’s so wrong. Rest in peace Jasmeen 💜

    • @gartheobreeding5475
      @gartheobreeding5475 Рік тому +5

      It's unfortunate that the police aren't more concerned. I've heard too many sad stories because of that.

    • @DameWhoGames.
      @DameWhoGames. Рік тому +1

      I’d have to agree, it’s extremely disheartening.

    • @drexyspivey
      @drexyspivey 10 місяців тому

      Yes! It’s so frustrating that people have to die (usually women) before police can do anything to stop stalkers.

  • @bec5250
    @bec5250 Рік тому +206

    This made me so incredibly angry when it hit the news. This is the perfect example of a controlling, entitled man who should never be allowed out of jail. The cruelty of his actions is beyond belief.

    • @SugarandSarcasm
      @SugarandSarcasm Рік тому +19

      And the way he tried to cover up what he was doing- he KNEW it was wrong.

    • @Tomacawc
      @Tomacawc Рік тому +8

      Throw away the mf key

    • @euphorbia1581
      @euphorbia1581 Рік тому +10

      And it's incredible that they still use the " crime of passion" BS

    • @gijane2cantwaittoseeyou203
      @gijane2cantwaittoseeyou203 Рік тому +1

      So the girl bears no responsibility? She uses him for company and sex and decides to throw him away like dirt when he's down and it's okay?

    • @curleysioux5612
      @curleysioux5612 Рік тому +14

      ​@@gijane2cantwaittoseeyou203It doesn't justify MURDER.

  • @persimmons5390
    @persimmons5390 Рік тому +207

    I get so unimaginably sad whenever I hear about these cases. Rest in peace, Jasmeen.
    Thank you for covering these cases, Adrian - you do it so respectfully.

    • @PixxieHaxx
      @PixxieHaxx Рік тому +6

      ❤ thank you so much for what you do Adrian really appreciate you

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Рік тому +1

      If you do, it would be good for your own peace of mind to stay away from true crime anything and daily news.

  • @asmokeus
    @asmokeus Рік тому +21

    generational trauma is one hell of a vicious vice. nobody turns out like that on accident; his parents have exactly the son they raised. may jasmeen rest in peace

  • @karabomoalusi8810
    @karabomoalusi8810 Рік тому +25

    You know you have attracted a very toxic family when their child kills you and they still defend him... Rest well girl ❤.

  • @Mama24loves
    @Mama24loves Рік тому +143

    You are a wonderful storyteller. You really bring these stories to life. RIP Jasmeen

  • @lau4545
    @lau4545 Рік тому +142

    These cases always shock me so much. Like, how important can you think you are, or how insane does your ego have to be, to go to these lengths just because someone broke up with you?! Also it's always so scary when victims did go to the police and it seems like this doesn't end up protecting them in the least from their stalker...

    • @favoriteanony7252
      @favoriteanony7252 Рік тому +24

      Especially when the stalking is aggressive. You have to wait for physical damage? Honestly, stalking should have a similar charge to abuse, since that's what the person is doing. Stalking is definitely NOT a victimless crime 😢

    • @laleona776
      @laleona776 Рік тому

      ​@@lindyt3942Great DAD!! That's how you have to do it these days, since the IN'JUSTICE SYSTEM' won't do anything until YOU'RE DEAD!
      In certain states (usually blue), if you shoot someone who broke into your home(afraid for your life)- if they live, they can turn around and SUE YOU; if you kill them the state will charge YOU for MURDER! Our 'Justice' system is a JOKE!😂

    • @WolfDreamer101
      @WolfDreamer101 Рік тому +9

      @@lindyt3942it’s sad the dad had to go to those lengths to take matters into his own hands, but good on him for doing so!

    • @barbarapaige
      @barbarapaige Рік тому +3

      @@lindyt3942 Wow, what a story, and what a wonderfully protective Dad!

    • @azazello1784
      @azazello1784 Рік тому

      Yes, there are so many girls... What is the deal?

  • @ladymallowyt
    @ladymallowyt Рік тому +30

    She was living her best life. She was so young and had so much to look forward to in her life. I hope her mother still does not blame herself. Like every parent, she wanted the best for her beautiful daughter

  • @mercedesmaguire1413
    @mercedesmaguire1413 Рік тому +14

    I absolutely LOVE that you cover cases no one else does. I'm tired of everyone covering the same cases.

  • @UK-sm4co
    @UK-sm4co Рік тому +159

    RIP Jasmeen
    Ladies and gentlemen, please get used to accepting rejection in relationships. It is a normal part of life/growing up especially as a teenager

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Рік тому

      How is it normal. We wern't realy to expect it, we don't know how to react. How are we supposted to accept the break up?

    • @MuskanKumari-eg7xo
      @MuskanKumari-eg7xo Рік тому +19

      ​@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307like how normal human accept

    • @DeadPiixxel
      @DeadPiixxel Рік тому

      @@MuskanKumari-eg7xo how do normal human accept?

    • @MuskanKumari-eg7xo
      @MuskanKumari-eg7xo Рік тому +16

      @@DeadPiixxel by not stalking and murdering your ex and by living a life peaceful without them I guess.thats the way of normal of humans

    • @MaryGj
      @MaryGj Рік тому +6

      Yea we have to accept the rejection … is nothing wrong … it means he /she is not for you … someone else will come .. omggggg scary to meet someone ..

  • @jenolafson
    @jenolafson Рік тому +223

    I have never been a true crime girly, but you have certainly gotten me to listen to all your vids in the last two weeks. 😅 The way you are always so respectful of the victims and families is probably why. Plus your voice is very soothing. Thanks for making my days go by a little faster.

    • @CoffeehouseCrime
      @CoffeehouseCrime  Рік тому +52

      Thank you! I’ve got a bunch of other interesting stories coming soon too :)

    • @Sshhaannddaa
      @Sshhaannddaa Рік тому +27

      He’s one of my favs!!!! And Mr. Ballen.

    • @deeriche
      @deeriche Рік тому +9

      My 2 favs too!

    • @gingerbee98
      @gingerbee98 Рік тому +9

      ​@@CoffeehouseCrimeThank you for mentioning our first nations peoples in your opening history 🙏😊

    • @creativelygrowingcreativity
      @creativelygrowingcreativity Рік тому +5

      Definitely #1 on my play list!

  • @LindyHunter-c3y
    @LindyHunter-c3y Рік тому +76

    As an Aussie and true crime fan, I'm surprised I've never heard this story before ! Thanks Adrian brilliant as always. RIP Jasmeen

    • @river9994
      @river9994 Рік тому +4

      Likewise

    • @jethroli8366
      @jethroli8366 Рік тому +2

      Same here!

    • @blondspaghettie2613
      @blondspaghettie2613 Рік тому

      Same here I think the news just likes to hide the sad story's bc they don't matter to them only the depraved ones do especially on gwn7 and current affair

    • @kevwills858
      @kevwills858 Рік тому

      Me neither (fr Syd) ... What is our Justice system hiding ?
      Or is it hidden to support Scomos Tourism campaign "Where the bloody hell are ya" ??

    • @HoneyQuint
      @HoneyQuint Рік тому

      What a tragedy

  • @jenniferthompson6280
    @jenniferthompson6280 8 місяців тому +8

    My teenage daughters first new bf told her he would need to approve of any selfies she might post, she immediately told me and we discussed how to address it .she sent him a message that told him that his comment concerns her as she needs no ones approval for anything, she is her own person and not property . If he couldn't agree then they would need to break up .im so proud of her, shes much stronger and smarter than iever was at her age . He apologized to her saying he understood..i still have my eye on him though ..you teach your bf how to treat you by setting boundaries in the beginning.

  • @kristagreen5961
    @kristagreen5961 Рік тому +13

    I can’t even begin to imagine what Jasmeen went through in the last moments of her life. Poor, poor young woman 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @SaintMichaelOfficial
    @SaintMichaelOfficial Рік тому +193

    My most surreal experience with this channel actually has nothing to do with the stories themselves.
    It was finding out that my mother of all people was subbed separately due to her hearing me listening to it in the gym.
    Wild.

    • @CoffeehouseCrime
      @CoffeehouseCrime  Рік тому +35

      Thanks to you both! 🎉

    • @58DeBe
      @58DeBe Рік тому +10

      I do not think that he got enough time behind bars and I feel that he should be sent back. We also have to realize that he came from a country that still practises honour killing. He was very proud and she was just a female. My heart breaks from this case. Thank you Adrien again for bringing out her life story and reflecting what a lively person she was. He should have gotten life without parole 😢

    • @trayccox8223
      @trayccox8223 Рік тому +5

      Completely agree..so sad a beautiful soul taken by a narcissist 😢

    • @wizzardofpaws2420
      @wizzardofpaws2420 Рік тому +6

      HAHA!! When I'm playing Adrien, the kids come around to listen. I actually want them to. They LEARN from these videos.

    • @courtneyriley185
      @courtneyriley185 Рік тому +4

      Very cool. Hi mom! Haha

  • @DeepThought420
    @DeepThought420 Рік тому +86

    I've said it before and will say it again the respect you show the victim is unmatched thank you so much for that! ❤❤

  • @carlaemerson1195
    @carlaemerson1195 Рік тому +46

    I can't even imagine that poor girls horror at what she was facing but the evilness , shear lack of humanity astounds me. Thank you Adrian

  • @meganwilliams7042
    @meganwilliams7042 Рік тому +20

    As someone who was born in Adelaide and lived here for most of my life we sadly have had a lot of awful murders here. The Truro Murders, the Family Murders, Bodies in the Barrels, Megumi Suzuki and Maya Jakic, Carly Ryan and The Rowe Family. I live living here but we have had some truly awful murders here. But it still feels like a fairly safe city to live in and raise a family in. Thank you for covering this case. I hadn’t heard some of the details you shared. Truly horrific

    • @disabledbabe
      @disabledbabe Рік тому +2

      Most of them were killed by people they know so if you don't have deranged family members, friends, former and present aquitances, you are probably safe.

    • @secretidiotpotato
      @secretidiotpotato 11 місяців тому

      The Rowe family one happened in my home town, the complete horror that swept the community when the news came out is something I'll never forget. I had a few mutual friends with Chantelle, they are still struggling with her horrible death. Very few true crime YT channels have explored the case, I'm not sure it's a good thing or not.

    • @jenniferthompson6280
      @jenniferthompson6280 8 місяців тому +1

      Sounds like here in the US, I suppose angry males are everywhere

  • @QueenPea
    @QueenPea Рік тому +22

    RIP Jasmeen! Your time here on earth was short, but you will always be remembered by your family and love ones! 🙏

  • @nina-ls4wc
    @nina-ls4wc Рік тому +37

    I'm a Victorian and I'd like to think I keep up with the news especially true crime given my interest. But you consistently cover stories I've never heard of or in detail that I've never heard from the media before. Its really appreciated as an Australian the love and value you have for our nation.

    • @rationalbacon5872
      @rationalbacon5872 Рік тому

      Well... the media only covers crime if it suits their narrative and they don't want to cover imported crime.

    • @kevwills858
      @kevwills858 Рік тому

      This has been hidden from A Nation .. during Covid ... WHY?!

  • @mistresscalytrix
    @mistresscalytrix Рік тому +45

    As a former barista it makes me happy hearing you acknowledge that Australia has brilliant coffee! And as an Aussie, it fills my heart with so much joy when I hear you speak about Australia. It makes me more appreciative of this beautiful land I call home and it makes me want to explore it even more. I’m glad you fell in love with Australia!

    • @elishh8173
      @elishh8173 Рік тому +3

      Hi! I'm from Sweden and have never been outside of Europe.
      I so much wish I could visit Australia, it seems so so different dröm all other continents.
      The people seem so nice too, and I want to see all the interesting animals you have.
      Greetings from sweden

    • @mistresscalytrix
      @mistresscalytrix Рік тому +3

      @@elishh8173hello! you are always welcome down under!!! The animals are beautiful and they aren’t as dangerous as everyone makes them out to be, just don’t pet them hahah.
      I also haven’t been out of Australia and personally have always wanted to visit Sweden myself! It looks so beautiful there, the people seem wonderful too and the landscape looks incredible!

    • @Celinestu333
      @Celinestu333 Рік тому +1

      Hey mate I've never been to Australia
      But it's my dream destination to live in just because of the people and music!
      Cheers from Nagaland!

    • @VeeAmericanEagle
      @VeeAmericanEagle Рік тому

      I’ve never been outside of the US. Love love to travel to Sweden & Australia one day!

    • @cerebralmaster
      @cerebralmaster Рік тому

      I am Australian and I have never been to Europe! I would love to visit Sweden.@@elishh8173

  • @Exxy6965
    @Exxy6965 Рік тому +56

    Time and again these stories revolve around a partner who was controlling and manipulative. That's exactly who I dated for 3 years and each time I see a story like this, it frightens me so much because it could have ended in a bad way for me too. Ladies, escape as fast as you can, as far as you can. It is hard considering manipulation but it might just save your life.

    • @tinacollins9213
      @tinacollins9213 Рік тому

      I was with a guy when I was 24 like this to I moved out got a new flat a new life , he beat my for 4 years I left him couldn’t take it , he broke in to my flat late one night and smashed something hard across back 5 times he broke two vertebrae in my spine my life has been terrible since then

    • @Exxy6965
      @Exxy6965 Рік тому

      @@tinacollins9213 oh my god. I am so sorry you had to deal with this. I hope he's in jail now? At least my ex was not bad enough to beat me, apart from physically taking my phone and things like that.

  • @rosella1919
    @rosella1919 Рік тому +4

    I live in Adelaide and remember that terrible event. I always feel devastated when a young person travels to Australia only to be murdered, and in such a cruel way. It happens far too often. As the mother of a daughter who lives overseas I’m always worried about her well-being. May Jasmine rest in peace.

  • @reginagilby1101
    @reginagilby1101 9 місяців тому +2

    I love that you don’t have those silly reenactment scenes 💙

  • @amylynn7881
    @amylynn7881 Рік тому +51

    You can just see the kindness of her heart thru her photos. And to die so horribly…. To be buried alive… I just… my mind can’t begin to grasp how horrific that had to be for her. Just… heartbreaking…

  • @tabathacattle6898
    @tabathacattle6898 Рік тому +37

    It really baffles me how people get so obsessed with their partners or ex-partners, in any relationship a partner should compliment your life not be your life. I hope the beautiful young lady is at peace and her parents find the strength to carry such an awful burden I hope everyone says a small prayer for them. Thank you for your caring presentation of this case Adrian you really are a wonderful person ❤

  • @ZoeAlleyne
    @ZoeAlleyne Рік тому +33

    I always imagine their last moment, looking into his face. Did she think about the first time she saw his face? The spark of interest, noticing his dark eyes, his smile, all the excitement she would have felt....now staring into these same eyes, reflecting back all that love with hatred. To think you could smile in the face of someone who would kill you so callously is heartbreaking.
    May Jasmeen's memory be a blessing.

  • @selimona2816
    @selimona2816 Рік тому +2

    I'm a South African and a big fan of your channel. I love the way you calmy narrate these stories. I hope your channel grows bigger and bigger.

  • @joycehahnert4901
    @joycehahnert4901 Рік тому +78

    I don't feel that he loved her as much as rather she was his possession. I really appreciate your bringing these cases to us. You tell these tales in a sensitive and respectful way. Thank you.

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Рік тому +9

      People like that don't understand that love is not about possession. And honestly there are a scary enough number of people who don't understand that a healthy relationship doesn't involve possessiveness.

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Рік тому

      Well then how do you teach yourself that love isn't about posession. To me l, i don't know what love really is.

    • @ijustneedmyself
      @ijustneedmyself Рік тому +6

      ​@@thedesensitizedsympathizer5307It's like learning 2+2=4. Once you learn that, you can't unlearn it. Love is different things to different people, but love should not be harmful. If any aspect of your love for someone is harming that person or even yourself then you have to reassess things and take a step back.
      To me, love means wanting the best for someone, being there when they need you, wanting them to be happy, and feeling good when they're around. That's putting it very simply, but I'd say that sums it up well enough *for me*.

    • @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307
      @thedesensitizedsympathizer5307 Рік тому

      @@ijustneedmyself Well to me, That version of love isn't love. It's "Friendship".
      To me, love is you're always together, intimattely, you can always ALWAYS rely on them, you treat each other like maid and buttler. As long as you are given gifts and sex, you can live together happilly.

    • @SynthoidSounds
      @SynthoidSounds Рік тому +12

      My thoughts exactly. This is a culture in which "honor killings" are still "acceptable" in the minds of some. She dared to break away, and proceed with her own life. In his mind, she had to "pay" for this insult, and buried her alive. His parents seem to be in complete denial (or even quiet approval), they haven't quite grasped the concept that this is the 21st century, not the 12th century.

  • @boricua536
    @boricua536 Рік тому +23

    I honestly found you by accident when listening to Court Cam and other crime based channels during work, and I must admit, I view your content more often then those channels now. Your charismatic and sympathetic approach to the stories involved is a fresh perspective to this genre. Keep up the good work!

  • @notsorrymomo7096
    @notsorrymomo7096 Рік тому +76

    Yet another beautiful, intelligent, young, innocent woman taken way too soon by some selfish SOB… So heartbreaking, she seems so sweet and genuine. I’m so sorry for her family’s loss. May Jasmeen rest in eternal peace 😢❤

  • @GabbySimoneMusic
    @GabbySimoneMusic 8 місяців тому +4

    Everyone please listen, despite how adrian framed it, if you love someone you would never dream of killing them... whether they end a relationship or not... this is not love. Ever. ... obsession maybe, narcissism yea, sociopathic possessiveness... but NEVER love!

  • @cynhwon
    @cynhwon Рік тому +1

    As many of your subscribers say, I absolutely appreciate that you always remain so respectful toward the victims in all your videos and simply laying out facts. Love your work!

  • @jessthegardener
    @jessthegardener Рік тому +19

    As someone who hates gore and needless suffering - my husband finds it so fascinating that I watch your videos. While the terrible details make me sad/uncomfortable, I truly think it's that you are so compassionate for the victims (and your wonderful, random shade comments that make me belly laugh). Thank you for getting me into a new genre of videos!

  • @poisonpetitfour
    @poisonpetitfour Рік тому +26

    It's hard to imagine how terrifying it must have been for her to be buried alive.
    She seems like such a lovely caring person. I feel so bad for her family

  • @rickseiden1
    @rickseiden1 Рік тому +28

    For some reason, hearing about her inhaling the soil makes me think of a Star Trek episode where they use the victim's memories to make the perpetrator experience the crime from the victim's point of view. Tarikjot would be forced to live through being buried alive while looking up at himself.

  • @faithtaban2814
    @faithtaban2814 Рік тому +4

    I’m from Adelaide. Thanks for covering this case. There are a few scary cases in South Australia.

  • @linahfinegirl
    @linahfinegirl Рік тому +1

    My favorite true crime channel,I love how this guy respects the victims and how soothing his voice is

  • @wezzielongwe6650
    @wezzielongwe6650 Рік тому +80

    My favorite true crime channel 😊, however its sad to learn that people can be so evil in this world

    • @elishh8173
      @elishh8173 Рік тому

      I agree. I'm starting to think people are born inherently evil.
      When they're babies they have a behaviour that makes adults want to take care of them, but it's more like a parasite.
      As they get older you see they have no moral or real kindness.
      Then they grow up to the everyday evil people we see every day.
      And you might say "but not all people are evil!!"
      Yes the majority are. They only care about themselves and very very few have a truly kind innocent heart.
      I'm sick of humans and I'm considering unaliving myself.
      I guess I'm just a pussy who's too scared otherwise I'd already done it along time ago.
      Also many men think women have some kind of advantages in life.
      That's so not true.
      Except I've been raped by one man and gang raped by many men. And I'm a woman.
      I've had enough of this evil devil's playground we call earth.
      It's so painful because I can't even find a religion that would help me because all religions are for men and are misogynistic aka hating women.
      Anyway I had enough and I'm not scared of unaliving myself. I will do it.
      Love and greetings from someone who has seen what reality really is. (I hope you NEVER do)

  • @mystasdogbowl7456
    @mystasdogbowl7456 Рік тому +13

    Despite how mental and morbid the topics are, it never ceases to amaze me how respectful and courteous adrian is towards the case. He handles and understand the seriousness and the depravity that comes from the subject matter and doesn't dramatise things for no reason. I honestly recommended CHC to my older sister and friends that also are interested in true crime. Great work as always, Adrian ^^

  • @shinyrobotblues
    @shinyrobotblues Рік тому +18

    Hi Adrian! I love your compassion and attention to detail. Thanks for being a kind soul in this dark world.

  • @beck86
    @beck86 Рік тому +3

    As an aussie, I think it's really sad that the mothers view of Australia is forever tainted, even though it was someone from her own country that murdered her daughter.
    I hope that sicko never gets out or if he does, goes straight back to where he came from.

  • @amityislandchum
    @amityislandchum Рік тому +4

    So, SO many women would be alive today if police actually took stalking seriously. They don't care. They refuse to intervene until after men have committed the murder.

  • @kimberleygaleano8044
    @kimberleygaleano8044 Рік тому +21

    Thank you for providing True Crime Groupies with amazingly accurate stories. You have a true storytelling gift. ❤😊
    My sincerest condolences to the family for their loss 😢😔

  • @cyndeezcha2662
    @cyndeezcha2662 Рік тому +12

    Saw the notification and rushed over only to find out it’s from adelaide! Thank you for covering a case from here. Another great and respectful video! May Jasmeen rest in peace, such a beautiful soul.

  • @daniroxy
    @daniroxy Рік тому +7

    Just what I needed while drinking my morning coffee! Hello from Vancouver, Canada!!

  • @MothmanBePraised
    @MothmanBePraised Рік тому

    No matter how often I ask the algorithm to not recommend this channel it keeps doing it. Awesome.

  • @easygoer1234
    @easygoer1234 9 місяців тому

    I can't imagine how much research you have to do to go into the detail you you never fail to give in your videos. Also your getting close to 2 mil now. Congrats Adrian.

  • @RizztrainingOrder
    @RizztrainingOrder Рік тому +19

    Infinitely interesting topics satiating my borderline problematic true crime obsession! Thanks! I pray that this message finds you well!

  • @johnsonof1eye
    @johnsonof1eye Рік тому +10

    Hello from Ireland. Another excellent video, Adrian. I find your focus on the victims so refreshing in comparison to some other creator's. Thank you for the time you spend researching all your videos. I have recommended your channel to my friends and family and I enjoy seeing the number of subscribers rising steadily as I wish you all the best for the future.

  • @deemos232
    @deemos232 Рік тому +14

    Hi Adrian! Thank you for always covering these stories with such detail & respect towards the victims. May Jasmine rest in peace. ❤

  • @midnightmadness5307
    @midnightmadness5307 11 місяців тому +2

    Before I watch this one I'd just like to say that you are awesome Adrian, your voice, narration, your etiquette and especially your incredible empathy are what made me tune into your channel well over a year ago. I think you 'rock'. I wanted to simply express how grateful I am for the manner in which you fill us all in on tragic and sad stories, you take your time to involve us without the 'horror show' of brutal and vicious photos, online clickbait, etc.....thank you for being you, you are amazing and I'd love one day to be able to seriously sit, chat and have a java with you~!👍👍👍

  • @existentialcrisis5413
    @existentialcrisis5413 Рік тому +3

    i love this channel because i feel like i get to honor the victim’s lives. most true crime channels like to focus solely on the perpetrators. when i watch this channel it feels like i’m sympathizing with the victim the entire time, and learning a piece of their story. thanks for being so sensitive to what these people had to endure in their final moments, and reminding us that they too were real people just living their lives.

  • @betsylaughlin8652
    @betsylaughlin8652 Рік тому +15

    I feel so sad listening to this-Jasmeen was so excited to have a wonderful adventure, and she had a powerful loving heart, devoting herself to caring for others as a nurse. She deserved so much better. Thank you for sharing this story in a way that allows us to see Jasmeen as more than a victim. It’s important that she is remembered for who she was, and that the tragic circumstances of her death do not completely overshadow the rest of her life. The way she died should not be the only thing the public knows about her-she should not be reduced to the actions of a depraved mind against her. She was a beautiful young woman who had a living family, and great career, and many prospects in life.🙏💔💕

  • @LillianStaats-vn5ff
    @LillianStaats-vn5ff Рік тому +7

    Thank you Adrian, for another compelling video! I'd get up early every time for your stories!
    Rest in peace, dear Jasmeen...

  • @lulucolby8882
    @lulucolby8882 Рік тому +9

    You are so good at what you do. Coffeehouse Crime is well written and the story is well told. Thank you Adrian.

  • @sonsiehollingsworth5342
    @sonsiehollingsworth5342 Рік тому +7

    I'm always stunned by how cruel and evil some humans can be to each other 😢 Especially when they confess to loving them 🫣 Thank you for sharing your channel with us; it is so appreciated. Your hard work shows. ❤

  • @rbevans2393
    @rbevans2393 Рік тому +2

    I find it totally mind blowing that a "life sentence " means ONLY 25 YEARS incarcerated in numerous countries, states, etc. around the world. WTF ?!?!?!If the sentence ends after 25 years why not simply call it what it is- a 25 year sentence 🤔🤔 : A life lives if there is breathing and a heart beat and its (sentence) ends upon death. Death is when life is not breathing, no pulse, and no heart beat. A life sentence MEANS YOU NEVER LEAVE - YOU STAY UNTIL YOU DIE

  • @rerockinmysock
    @rerockinmysock Рік тому +12

    its so heartbreaking how many relationships end this way my heart goes out to all victims of domestic violence

  • @iiTzDrip
    @iiTzDrip Рік тому +8

    Bro i don't get it. How are you so consistent with uploading literally every 3-4 days. And every single video is a true banger! Not a single video has any flaws.
    Keep up the great work. Me as well as not even hundreds of thousands, but millions of people enjoy your videos! Much love, and highly appreciated! Can't wait for the next video already

  • @cassieleonard6522
    @cassieleonard6522 Рік тому +4

    Thank you for all your extensive research and hard work. Ive been here since you were at 3k followers and it brings me joy to see how quickly the channel spread. You are a treat to listen to as I go about my day. I pray you keep moving up and everything you hoped for comes true for you and your family.

  • @alisong2328
    @alisong2328 Рік тому

    Thank you for always taking time to talk about the victims and not just their killers.

  • @dee9751
    @dee9751 Рік тому +1

    From Australia 🦘 and thx for the content you create it's awesome & very informative! As a Aboriginal person another thx for giving the Aboriginal name of the land this giving much respect to our ppl! Bless you 🇦🇺🙏🏽

  • @missm10
    @missm10 Рік тому +6

    RIP Jasmeen. Thank you for your respectful coverage Adrian.

  • @GoFawwkOff
    @GoFawwkOff Рік тому +9

    I'm so excited for another video. Thank you for all of your hard work. You are doing an amazing job!!

  • @Boertje247
    @Boertje247 Рік тому +9

    Your respectful and deep research, along with your great delivery makes your crime investigations my top favorite with Joe Kenda. Thanks for honoring the victims and explaining how the crimes occurred. Many thanks!

    • @stephendacey8761
      @stephendacey8761 Рік тому

      Joe Kenda has a show on the ID channel. I believe he was a homicide detective in the 80's and 90's, and it's nice to see him solve cases w/o today's advancements in DNA. Just old fashioned detective work. I used to watch the ID network until they kept showing reruns.

  • @timothyabbott8537
    @timothyabbott8537 Рік тому +1

    I'm from Adelaide, thank you for covering this story

  • @hannahriley8085
    @hannahriley8085 Рік тому

    incredibly sad , she looked so sweet. I love that you cover cases that aren't as well known.

  • @twitchwitch
    @twitchwitch Рік тому +11

    So awesome that you mentioned the indigenous history of Adelaide :) not even Australians do that. I think it's very respectful and brings awareness

    • @cdes1776
      @cdes1776 Рік тому

      I enjoyed that as well; the photos are so interesting!

  • @g3rtyy216
    @g3rtyy216 Рік тому +13

    Here's to Coffeehouse! Nothing like drinking my coffee, doing reports at work and having these on to keep me occupied! Thanks for bringing these cases to light!

  • @bballfansross6466
    @bballfansross6466 Рік тому +4

    I'm Soo addicted too your channel. Thankyou

  • @secretidiotpotato
    @secretidiotpotato 11 місяців тому +2

    The worst part of this is she is just one of many women killed by a partner or ex. Over 50 this year. I remember this case well, I used to work where she did although years before she did. The horror she experienced is unfathomable, it breaks my heart that her family has to suffer from her senseless death.

  • @EnfvntTerrible
    @EnfvntTerrible Рік тому +1

    I recently read the sentencing remarks and outcome of this case not even a few weeks ago, glad you covered this case Adrian.
    Had another case here where a guy i went to high school with and his associates beat another ex classmate to death in our old high school car park. Adelaide is a small place and it hits close to home when dark things happen right around the corner.

  • @moondancer4660
    @moondancer4660 Рік тому +15

    She was a very beautiful woman and I'm sorry for what she had to go through. To her family, I'm very sorry for your loss and I hope God brings you comfort.

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 Рік тому +6

    You are such a wonderful mix of sarcasm & respect. You, Mike, & Bailey are like the Holy Trinity of True Crime ❤

    • @glow1815
      @glow1815 Рік тому +1

      Adrian and Mike( next Chapter) should do duets they're are both very good at what they do! Haven't watch Bailey in a long time.

  • @kennethweser
    @kennethweser Рік тому +6

    Excellent video Adrian, as always. I love your narration and your compassion for the victims and their families. That's got to be one of the worst ways to die.😢 I hope his time in prison is extremely harsh.

  • @fandanglejr
    @fandanglejr Рік тому

    You are so respectful of the victims and families, it is clear in your words and tone. Thank you

  • @ericastapleton7042
    @ericastapleton7042 Рік тому

    A case from my hometown. Thank you for explaining everything as the nightly news doesn't go into the finer details of cases. Have a great weekend Adrian ✳️

  • @zmilla1974
    @zmilla1974 Рік тому +6

    I SOOOOOO love your videos, your voice makes them stories 10 times more heartfelt! Your compassion for the voice of the victims is respectable and commendable! PLEASE NEVER STOP!!!!!

  • @mandananely6860
    @mandananely6860 Рік тому +5

    It's a great day when Adrian posts ❤️💙👌