Cruise is not someone I would consider an alpha, by any stretch of the imagination. He's a very insecure man and does everything he can to hide those insecurities but if you're watching closely, he doesn't do that good of a job. He's made of a career of pretending to be a macho, unstoppable hero. None of which, he is. (Macho, maybe but that is a sign of insecurity). A shining example, his finding "meaning" in the "church" of Scientology.
1. congruent nodding 2. reassuring touch 3. claim space 4. body openness 5. invites others to participate 6. use a variable tone of voice 7. gaze more especially at the end of a statement 8. more hand gestures
Thank you SO much Vanessa for dedicating your life to learn about the human communication, interactions and teaching us!! you’re literally making a big impact in the world by making us better communicaters 💯
An alpha male is someone who's self sustaining, doesn't rely on others. Has a PURPOSE in life that he puts above others and especially women. He doesn't go around chasing a$$ like some desperate beta. Has his money right and plenty of options. He doesn't tolerate disrespect and has NO PROBLEM discarding you quickly. Even demoting you. Negativity and complaining all the time is around quick way to get you X out of his life. Always moving forward. Each day he's improved himself even 1% in some way. He will NOT stay with a disrespectful woman out of fear of being alone. You are competing against his solitude and peace of mind. Can u bring him peace, or are you going to annoy him? It's one thing for a woman to describe what she thinks is an alpha, or qualities she may like in alpha guy or wishes to have in a dream guy. But it's another to actually live as one.
Fyi just because a guy has A LOT of money does NOT mean he's an alpha. There are plenty of rich guys who are NOT successful with women, nor others. They actually lead very boring and depressive lives, because they thought the money would do it FOR them. Money is an enhancer. It enhances what you already are. It's a magnafying glass. If you're a dork, and u come across money. Now you're a super dork. If you're the man BEFORE money, and you got quite a lot of women before being rich, it enhances what you already are. You'll get BETTER women and better LOOKING women now that you've earned your way to the top 10% most women want. Alpha is what got you there. Being a nice guy is what keeps you broke and down there sadly.
5:00 Reassurance touch 11:00 Open body 13:00 Controlling flow of conservation 16:30 Variable tone of voice 19:50 Quiet alpha 21:10 Gaze more 23:30 More hand gestures
The more we work on our own selves, the more our circumstances and overall lives change. The more we grow and invest into ourselves, the more we will see a transformation, especially how we better communicate with others. You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, and your future! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️
So interesting, Vanessa!! Maybe you've already made this video, but have you identified any female alphas to run the same analysis on? That would be fascinating! I did my undergrad capstone on the top traits of female leaders and how they affected people's perception of them. These traits set them apart from other women. Since the intensity of most pronounced traits were not traditionally within stereotyped gender roles, people perceived them as less likable and therefore affected how people worked with them. These same traits in men made them highly likable, respected, and seem competent. The second half of the lit review covered behaviors that would balance those stronger leadership traits. Two traits I remember were that women leaders are highly agentic and less communal in nature. Right there, you have a recipe for an unlikable woman if you expect a woman to be agreeable and social. Thoughts?
Oh very interesting!! We don't have a video on alpha females yet, but we do have an article on it if you're interested! www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
An excellent presentation of useful data by a brilliant, bold & beautiful lady; quite helpful & fun to watch as always. Thank You Vanessa, You're the best at what You do!!
Great video Vanessa, but isn’t Tom the first one to touch Rebecca in the clip you showed? Right after the clip begins it looks like he’s the first to engage…looks like he couldn’t wait to reassure her 👍🏽
I know an alpha make, however he lives life on his terms. Not society terms. He cares very little about making a lot of money . Instead he values spiritual life. Not religious. One of a kind person I’ve ever met.
I don’t usually like the term alpha male because it came into the spot light from a unfounded study of wolf relations and is co-opted by people who want a reason to mistreat women and act like jerks…but I liked this video so cool
This may be applicable to the office environment, but not real life. I have several friends who are CEO’s, all my friends who I grew up with are more financially successful than I, but it is very clear and apparent that I am the leader and alpha male. I was so since childhood. I don’t “act” like an alpha either or ever claim to be one. But over the years, contemplating on my life, I came to realize nature imbued something in me, something inherent to me which distinguishes me from the rest of my cousins, colleagues, friends and so on. The true alpha is something chosen by by race, biology and archetypes. This is a very large topic. In essence, the alpha can be compared to the most beautiful, strongest and magnetic fruit of a tree, known as the fruit pleroma. Families and communities are like trees. Some are born with more nature in them than others, more ancestral “light” or “mind”, more biological raw power. I was always the most intelligent, charismatic, strongest, social, attractive of my colleges and cousins. As I grew older in life, and learnt the knowledge of ancient sages, my traits and characteristics became even more pronounced. I learnt to meditate and found pleasure in asceticism. I am a mere farmer and meditator, but the women of my community all beg for my attention and desire my companionship, meanwhile my much wealthier cousins and friends must simp and chase for women, and are most often treated like garbage. You can not become an alpha male, you are either chosen by nature or not
Really loved the video! I did not know that I did that more than once, and thank God I am not overthinking it lol. Question to you, Vanessa, besides getting better at interpreting cues and communicating effectively, is there any other to learn more about cues? Maybe one day, I'll take your course, and I will add fuel to my overthink fire, lol.
There already is one. It's also good in that it doesn't use social stereotypes of what an alpha female is (much like this one.) Alpha females take charge but not so much in a controlling sense, more so in the sense of being the social lubricant. She keeps everything running smoothly, has initiative, takes care of people, can lead a conversation well (much as explained for the men here), also incredible listener. Stuff like that.
How about Alpha females? I would like to identify those kinds of traits... I mean I assume that there is such thing as an alpha female... And do alpha males end up with Alpha females? I would assume yes... but maybe not...
I'm nodding head with a BIG YES at how fantastic and valuable your work is Vanessa. Thanking you so very much. Also I noticed You have map of the world behind you .Your claimin it! Go Girl lol
Wow, I had seen that prank on Tom Cruise before, but I hadn't thought about it like that. The way he handled it kinda came from a place of love. He wanted to understand why the person would do that and wanted to help him be a better person.
Vanessa, I enjoy your work and appreciate your insights. What does the research say about alpha's and aggression? As a man I read the situation between Cruise and the reporter as such: Cruise looked angry, but tamed his aggression. That's why the moment was so intense. Cruise's underlying aggression made it tense. At first he was shocked and gave a smile. Then it dawned on him what had happened. His smile then vanished and he became angrier as the seconds ticked by. By grabbing the reporters hand he was not inviting him into anything: he was dominating him. His line of questioning was rhetorical. he did not really expect an answer. It was another way of asserting himself over the reporter. The fact that the reporter did not pull his hand out of Cruise's grasp was an act of submission. Cruise was signalling "I will control you" and the reporter signalled back "I submit to your control."
Keep in mind the needless dominance asserting is insecure. Cruise has a lot of money and his time is valuable, so spending it with some reporter that makes 1 % of what he does is stupid and pleasure-seeking. Alphas are best known for not giving a damn about small things. The reporter is a nobody and there is nothing to gain from dealing with him, so his priority should have been to quickly move on from the situation. He could have said something like "touch me again without my permission and my lawyers will have a field day suing your sorry ass to stone age." A desperate need for first-hand control is very low-quality alpha if not beta. Such people waste energy and fail to be charismatic.
I think many of these traits are a great example of masculinity/ alpha. Although with the exception of touching others. Affection is more so a nurture trait not a learned. My parents showed little to no affection. Taking initiative, assertiveness, and setting the tone in different environments are a great way to tell if a person has alpha traits. Another one I think could be mentioned is problem solving. I would imagine they are stubborn, but value loyality. Alpha is a very new concept to me but it does make sense.
I *loved* this video! Seeing the examples of exactly what you’re talking about is so helpful- thank you! Question: would the same cues apply to women? If women have different cues, can you do a video on that, too?
Your contact is amazing your delivery is amazing the examples you use -- I want to say amazing I was like OK now I can do better the examples used are really creative appropriate and wonderfully illustrative of your point and your outfit is cute awesome thank you for this information. Happy September🙏🏾
I've never used the term alpha male in a positive way. Seems like they're always the men who try to dominate both men and women to establish control, or borderline bullying. This is a good presentation on how it can be a positive attribute that shows confident while still being compassionate.
Love this video! And also love that fact that I recently discovered this channel. I've been binging these videos and I'm really excited to put some of this stuff to practice. One question for you re Alpha Males: do you think being an Alpha is something that only comes natural or can it developed. I definitely know that I do some of these things when I'm in a great mood and feeling comfortable but I definitely do the opposite of some of these when I'm not in a good mood or when I'm timid and uncomfortable.
@@ScienceOfPeople Yes I'm loving it!! It's incredible how big of an influence body language has on everyday life, I've been using nodding and fronting with clients at my real estate agency and it has worked wonders, everybody is so friendly when your body language is on point. We really are still apes at the end.Thank you Vanessa, all the best!
This was so great! I would love to know what are the difference between alpha males and alpha females? How many of the cues are the same or is it different when a woman exhibits the same gestures?
There is no such thing as Alpha Females! Only Alpha Males! Alpha Females are i.e. Feminist aka "Masculine-Energy filled females! Females wanting to put themselves on equal footing with males. Typically females demonstrating these behaviors usually end up old and alone. They can only be in relationships with men they can control i.e. emasculated males (Beta Males). Alpha Males won't put up with supposed Alpha Female's nonsense because there can only be one Alpha in the room and that's truly going to be the male! Only Alpha Males are supposed to exude true Masculine-Energy! Females by nature as supposed to be feminine not masculine! Doth not nature teach you anything? Mankind in it's original state i.e. (Adam and Eve) shows exactly what I'm talking about as proof of when nasculine-energy filled females mess up the order of stuff! Hence everyone suffers, Adam acted like Beta Male only in that moment of time for listening to Eve and GOD punished them both because the gender order was out of whack! The animal kingdom also teaches the difference between males and females in gender roles! All in all no such thing as Alpha Females, submission is a female's true power! When they don't activate that true power they (females) are in chaos with themselves and their own existence!
Good stuff. Question: What are you when you have the awareness to show characteristics of both alpha and beta traits, depending on mood, situations, or for the fun of showing different vibes? Probably just human. idk Edit: ENTP personality
I'm an ENTP myself and from a personal view, ENTP range from Sigma to Alpha archetype. An ENTP wouldn't submit or conform easily (which is a beta characteristic) but in some situations, wouldn't be bothered if something doesn't directly concern him.
I would suggest to learn and apply more of Alpha male behaviors and just do your best to Stop or doing less often the beta ones . We all have flaws but we always try to get better . .
@@letsimprove8991 beta and alpha ques are yin n yang of body communications. Im devolved enough to be aware of them and mosty let my subconscious handle it now. My question was what is someone valled who projects both ques? The question was simply to make ppl think
I’d love to see an Alpha female video. I found this very interesting and I learned more about my husband and other men in my life. I have always been drawn to an Alpha male. ENFP
Vanessa did make one before, but i couldnt find it again to share here; might be unlisted. The video was more focused on women in group settings. I dont want to share exact points at the risk of sounding sexist or offensive, but i would say it's pretty similar to this, except for the "taking up space" thing she mentioned. I dont recall her mentioning that in the other video
This was such a good episode, love it! I must check out Dax Shepard's show. Never viewed him as an alpha but I will be looking at him closely from now on. Have always thought Tony Robins to be quite alpha and a turn-on to me hahaha. The Rock I find very charming. What about Chris Evans? Is he considered an Alpha Male? I found that depending on who he is talking to is when Chris Evans really flexes the alpha. I've seen interviews with him and Robert Downey Junior and Chris Evans is respectful of RDJ and I notice that he makes himself smaller. Then when Chris Evans is talking about politics regarding his new site called a starting point and he's interviewing with others, the Alpha in him shows.
But i noticed when tom cruise was talking with interviewer he crossed his arms,and bruce lee put his crossed his hands on each other at the end of video.i think you are not a very smart viewer,sorry
Ok, I have a question for you Vanessa. Several times throughout history, many people seen by others as wise/smart have said in one way or another "The best people to choose to rule, or those best suited to rule, are often those who are resistant to the idea, if not outright opposed to the opportunity". So, given that you claim that alphas are men who like to be in charge, even NEED to be in charge, how do you explain this sentiment? Would you say that some alphas actually don't wish to be in charge? If so, how and why is there a difference between the two? Or would you say that such men who are resistant to rule are the much rarer type of man called a Sigma? Is that type of man something you ascribe to? Or would you have another response entirely? I'm very curious to hear what you have to say about this. Hopefully you'll see this. Thank you in advance, should you deem this comment worth your time and attention.
Alpha male and beta male, or simply put alpha and beta, are pseudoscientific terms for men derived from the designation for alpha and beta animals in ethology. They may also be used with other genders, such as women, or additionally use other letters of the Greek alphabet (such as sigma). The popularization of these terms to describe humans has been widely criticized by scientists. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpha_and_beta_male
I enjoyed the video and it gave lots of examples of how to engage with people in a positive way. However if someone had these ‘gifts’ but used them manipulatively I would consider that to disqualify them as alpha-males immediately.
This is not what I was expecting. Very interesting, I had to change my understanding of an alpha. To me, an alpha commands the room with their presence, no talking needed. I was not thinking they were just, really charming and good communicators. I really only know one alpha then.😂
Learn more about the alpha male in the full article!: www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-male/
@Steve A I agree.
Cruise is not someone I would consider an alpha, by any stretch of the imagination. He's a very insecure man and does everything he can to hide those insecurities but if you're watching closely, he doesn't do that good of a job. He's made of a career of pretending to be a macho, unstoppable hero. None of which, he is. (Macho, maybe but that is a sign of insecurity). A shining example, his finding "meaning" in the "church" of Scientology.
One on beta males
1. congruent nodding
2. reassuring touch
3. claim space
4. body openness
5. invites others to participate
6. use a variable tone of voice
7. gaze more especially at the end of a statement
8. more hand gestures
Or just do it all simultaneously
That's not alpha That's what you think an alpha looks like
@@givdb5513 ??? Im summarizing the video bro
@@givdb5513 i agree 💯
@@nova12332 Why are you here in the first place summarizing something that you don't believe?🤔
Thank you SO much Vanessa for dedicating your life to learn about the human communication, interactions and teaching us!! you’re literally making a big impact in the world by making us better communicaters 💯
Wow thanks a lot for that amazing lesson! 💯 🙌 A follow up on alpha females would be so awesome!
My pleasure! We actually have a whole article on alpha females :) www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
An alpha male is someone who's self sustaining, doesn't rely on others. Has a PURPOSE in life that he puts above others and especially women. He doesn't go around chasing a$$ like some desperate beta. Has his money right and plenty of options. He doesn't tolerate disrespect and has NO PROBLEM discarding you quickly. Even demoting you. Negativity and complaining all the time is around quick way to get you X out of his life. Always moving forward. Each day he's improved himself even 1% in some way.
He will NOT stay with a disrespectful woman out of fear of being alone. You are competing against his solitude and peace of mind. Can u bring him peace, or are you going to annoy him?
It's one thing for a woman to describe what she thinks is an alpha, or qualities she may like in alpha guy or wishes to have in a dream guy. But it's another to actually live as one.
Fyi just because a guy has A LOT of money does NOT mean he's an alpha. There are plenty of rich guys who are NOT successful with women, nor others. They actually lead very boring and depressive lives, because they thought the money would do it FOR them.
Money is an enhancer. It enhances what you already are. It's a magnafying glass. If you're a dork, and u come across money. Now you're a super dork.
If you're the man BEFORE money, and you got quite a lot of women before being rich, it enhances what you already are. You'll get BETTER women and better LOOKING women now that you've earned your way to the top 10% most women want. Alpha is what got you there. Being a nice guy is what keeps you broke and down there sadly.
So, do you disagree with her assessment?
Nice video Vanessa. Would you be able to do a video comparing Beta to Alpha? I’d also love to see body language from other animal species as well.
I think extrovert vs introvert alpha is be more interesting which Vanessa already tackled.
5:00 Reassurance touch
11:00 Open body
13:00 Controlling flow of conservation
16:30 Variable tone of voice
19:50 Quiet alpha
21:10 Gaze more
23:30 More hand gestures
Tom Cruise is the ultimate alpha male - never seen an alpha male of his magnitude before
The more we work on our own selves, the more our circumstances and overall lives change. The more we grow and invest into ourselves, the more we will see a transformation, especially how we better communicate with others. You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, and your future! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️
So interesting, Vanessa!! Maybe you've already made this video, but have you identified any female alphas to run the same analysis on? That would be fascinating! I did my undergrad capstone on the top traits of female leaders and how they affected people's perception of them. These traits set them apart from other women. Since the intensity of most pronounced traits were not traditionally within stereotyped gender roles, people perceived them as less likable and therefore affected how people worked with them. These same traits in men made them highly likable, respected, and seem competent. The second half of the lit review covered behaviors that would balance those stronger leadership traits. Two traits I remember were that women leaders are highly agentic and less communal in nature. Right there, you have a recipe for an unlikable woman if you expect a woman to be agreeable and social. Thoughts?
Oh very interesting!! We don't have a video on alpha females yet, but we do have an article on it if you're interested! www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
I had the same question!
An excellent presentation of useful data by a brilliant, bold & beautiful lady; quite helpful & fun to watch as always. Thank You Vanessa, You're the best at what You do!!
Your videos are so intriguing! Thank you for this great information
Would love to see a video on alpha females? I know some of the cues translate, but my suspicion is that alpha females are even more dynamic.
Yes!!!
Cristiano Ronaldo, Andrew Tate, Tony Robbins, Tom Cruise, Arnold... These guys are the epitome of alpha males.
u are a real discovery! i m just goin through all ur videos and ur content! This is SO MUCH INTERESTING adn awakaning!
I'm so glad to know you are loving the content! Enjoy!!
-to your success
Great video Vanessa, but isn’t Tom the first one to touch Rebecca in the clip you showed? Right after the clip begins it looks like he’s the first to engage…looks like he couldn’t wait to reassure her 👍🏽
I have a terrible time sitting still anywhere I’m not comfortable.
I know an alpha make, however he lives life on his terms. Not society terms. He cares very little about making a lot of money . Instead he values spiritual life. Not religious. One of a kind person I’ve ever met.
Would love to see alpha female cues ❤
We actually have a whole article on that! ❤ www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
Tom was just passive aggressive 😂
so I thought as well lol.
Thanks for the Alpha cues.
Please Do one on SIGMAS 💪
I don’t usually like the term alpha male because it came into the spot light from a unfounded study of wolf relations and is co-opted by people who want a reason to mistreat women and act like jerks…but I liked this video so cool
This may be applicable to the office environment, but not real life. I have several friends who are CEO’s, all my friends who I grew up with are more financially successful than I, but it is very clear and apparent that I am the leader and alpha male. I was so since childhood. I don’t “act” like an alpha either or ever claim to be one. But over the years, contemplating on my life, I came to realize nature imbued something in me, something inherent to me which distinguishes me from the rest of my cousins, colleagues, friends and so on. The true alpha is something chosen by by race, biology and archetypes. This is a very large topic. In essence, the alpha can be compared to the most beautiful, strongest and magnetic fruit of a tree, known as the fruit pleroma.
Families and communities are like trees. Some are born with more nature in them than others, more ancestral “light” or “mind”, more biological raw power. I was always the most intelligent, charismatic, strongest, social, attractive of my colleges and cousins. As I grew older in life, and learnt the knowledge of ancient sages, my traits and characteristics became even more pronounced. I learnt to meditate and found pleasure in asceticism. I am a mere farmer and meditator, but the women of my community all beg for my attention and desire my companionship, meanwhile my much wealthier cousins and friends must simp and chase for women, and are most often treated like garbage. You can not become an alpha male, you are either chosen by nature or not
LOLLLLL
Angelina Jolie was the dominant one in Brad pits marriage so I don't really consider him an Alpha male even with his good looks...
Really loved the video! I did not know that I did that more than once, and thank God I am not overthinking it lol. Question to you, Vanessa, besides getting better at interpreting cues and communicating effectively, is there any other to learn more about cues?
Maybe one day, I'll take your course, and I will add fuel to my overthink fire, lol.
Love the video! I would love to see one on alpha FEMALES! 💪🏻
There already is one. It's also good in that it doesn't use social stereotypes of what an alpha female is (much like this one.) Alpha females take charge but not so much in a controlling sense, more so in the sense of being the social lubricant. She keeps everything running smoothly, has initiative, takes care of people, can lead a conversation well (much as explained for the men here), also incredible listener. Stuff like that.
@@lauraelizabethbrown is this the one from 4 years ago?
No such thing. An "alpha female" is just woman taking on traditionally male characteristics.
There’s no such thing..
I love you Vanessa, you are sending a beautiful positive Cues in every single video, hope to see you in person here in UAE soon. Keep up the good work
Thank you so much! ️❤️
That Marlon Brando movie... was epic! I want to see it again.
These videos of analysis are so awesome 👍
How about Alpha females?
I would like to identify those kinds of traits... I mean I assume that there is such thing as an alpha female...
And do alpha males end up with Alpha females? I would assume yes...
but maybe not...
www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
I love that map behind you. Amazing topic content. Thank you!
Hello!! just found your channel, this has taught me SO much. really appreciate it 👍🏻
So glad to hear it! Thank you!
I'm nodding head with a BIG YES at how fantastic and valuable your work is Vanessa.
Thanking you so very much.
Also I noticed You have map of the world behind you .Your claimin it! Go Girl lol
Thank you so much! Very happy to hear this :)
@@ScienceOfPeople Glad to hear🌞
This was a good one! Thank you
I LOVE this channel! Vanessa is just awesome. So charismatic and explains things in a way that I can easily remember!
Wow, I had seen that prank on Tom Cruise before, but I hadn't thought about it like that. The way he handled it kinda came from a place of love. He wanted to understand why the person would do that and wanted to help him be a better person.
Nah he dominated him that was a rhetorical question he gave him lol.
Great content 👌 Vanessa
Wonderful and fun episode 🙏🏻❤️🩹✨🌹
Thanks! asi watched this ive learned that i am definitely a alpha male and grateful to hold all the specific traits of an Alpha male
please dont TRY to be one, i just did this to see if I could figure out if I was one or not
Vanessa, I enjoy your work and appreciate your insights. What does the research say about alpha's and aggression? As a man I read the situation between Cruise and the reporter as such: Cruise looked angry, but tamed his aggression. That's why the moment was so intense. Cruise's underlying aggression made it tense. At first he was shocked and gave a smile. Then it dawned on him what had happened. His smile then vanished and he became angrier as the seconds ticked by. By grabbing the reporters hand he was not inviting him into anything: he was dominating him. His line of questioning was rhetorical. he did not really expect an answer. It was another way of asserting himself over the reporter. The fact that the reporter did not pull his hand out of Cruise's grasp was an act of submission. Cruise was signalling "I will control you" and the reporter signalled back "I submit to your control."
Yes you hit the nail on the head.
Keep in mind the needless dominance asserting is insecure. Cruise has a lot of money and his time is valuable, so spending it with some reporter that makes 1 % of what he does is stupid and pleasure-seeking. Alphas are best known for not giving a damn about small things. The reporter is a nobody and there is nothing to gain from dealing with him, so his priority should have been to quickly move on from the situation. He could have said something like "touch me again without my permission and my lawyers will have a field day suing your sorry ass to stone age." A desperate need for first-hand control is very low-quality alpha if not beta. Such people waste energy and fail to be charismatic.
I think many of these traits are a great example of masculinity/ alpha. Although with the exception of touching others. Affection is more so a nurture trait not a learned. My parents showed little to no affection. Taking initiative, assertiveness, and setting the tone in different environments are a great way to tell if a person has alpha traits. Another one I think could be mentioned is problem solving. I would imagine they are stubborn, but value loyality. Alpha is a very new concept to me but it does make sense.
I feel like I became more of an alpha after watching this. So fun and useful! Excited to practice.)
I'm glad you enjoyed it, thank you!
thats not how it works bro
I love your analysis, great work!
Thank you Vanessa! Loved your dedicated words towards human interactions!
You're welcome! Thank you for your support!!
So many good looking men!! Great video : informative and enjoyable eye candy 😍
I *loved* this video! Seeing the examples of exactly what you’re talking about is so helpful- thank you! Question: would the same cues apply to women? If women have different cues, can you do a video on that, too?
With the caveat being that women are conditioned to not do these things, crossing legs, hands on legs, being small etc etc 🙄
True be interesting!
Here is an article we have about the Alpha Female =) www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
@@ScienceOfPeople Thank you!
Thanks for sharing this
Your contact is amazing your delivery is amazing the examples you use -- I want to say amazing I was like OK now I can do better the examples used are really creative appropriate and wonderfully illustrative of your point and your outfit is cute awesome thank you for this information. Happy September🙏🏾
"They claim space." Oh? You mean they MANSPREAD!? Lol.
Wow you are Brilliant Vanesa keep up the good work love ❤ your work
Incredible video #Vanessa ! I want you and your team to make more videos on the theme of #Alpha Male😉
Vanessa, you do these cues… 😉 which is why you are so captivating. ALPHA! 😎I’m reading Cues right now. Thanks for all you do to educate us!
It's my pleasure!! I hope you're enjoying Cues so far :)
I’m noticing sooo much! 😎
Great video! Love the examples.
I'd love to see a video about female Alphas!
A submissive, supporting female of an alpha male. The only alpha move women need to make is to pick an alpha man for themselves and learn to keep him.
The host in the Hugh Jackman clip claimed the most space
Psssst…. They’re actors, not Alpha males.
Psssst.... They are actors with an Alpha personality
I've never used the term alpha male in a positive way. Seems like they're always the men who try to dominate both men and women to establish control, or borderline bullying. This is a good presentation on how it can be a positive attribute that shows confident while still being compassionate.
if you don't feel comfortable and protected around him, or her, their not an alpha
Love this video! And also love that fact that I recently discovered this channel. I've been binging these videos and I'm really excited to put some of this stuff to practice.
One question for you re Alpha Males: do you think being an Alpha is something that only comes natural or can it developed. I definitely know that I do some of these things when I'm in a great mood and feeling comfortable but I definitely do the opposite of some of these when I'm not in a good mood or when I'm timid and uncomfortable.
Anything artificial is not real and long lasting, natural things are always the best
I do the same. I think it has to do with how you relate to yourself, that transpires on your interactions with others
hey vanessa, something on colour psychology, please?
www.scienceofpeople.com/color-psychology/ (:
Always a great pleasure to learn from your Video besides reading your new Book - Really Appreciate it Thank You
My pleasure!
Love the breakdown and summary of each tips in this video. I found it to be very organized and easy to watch. Thanks Vanessa !
Do one for Sigma too :)
Thanks Vanessa, I've learned lot about alpha.
Great job Vanessa
Thank you!!
You have a very nice smile, Vanessa
Loved it!
Happy to hear that! Thanks for watching ❤️
Awesone video, will buy the book, Thank you Vanessa:D
Thank you so much! I hope you love it =)
@@ScienceOfPeople Yes I'm loving it!! It's incredible how big of an influence body language has on everyday life, I've been using nodding and fronting with clients at my real estate agency and it has worked wonders, everybody is so friendly when your body language is on point. We really are still apes at the end.Thank you Vanessa, all the best!
@@johnmarston130 This is so awesome!! I'm happy to hear you've been able to apply cues in real life! How exciting, to your success, John!
You’re great Vanessa. I love the work you do 🙏🏼 thank you
Thank you for being here!
This was so great!
I would love to know what are the difference between alpha males and alpha females?
How many of the cues are the same or is it different when a woman exhibits the same gestures?
www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/ Here is an article we have about alpha females!
There is no such thing as Alpha Females! Only Alpha Males! Alpha Females are i.e. Feminist aka "Masculine-Energy filled females! Females wanting to put themselves on equal footing with males. Typically females demonstrating these behaviors usually end up old and alone. They can only be in relationships with men they can control i.e. emasculated males (Beta Males). Alpha Males won't put up with supposed Alpha Female's nonsense because there can only be one Alpha in the room and that's truly going to be the male! Only Alpha Males are supposed to exude true Masculine-Energy! Females by nature as supposed to be feminine not masculine! Doth not nature teach you anything? Mankind in it's original state i.e. (Adam and Eve) shows exactly what I'm talking about as proof of when nasculine-energy filled females mess up the order of stuff! Hence everyone suffers, Adam acted like Beta Male only in that moment of time for listening to Eve and GOD punished them both because the gender order was out of whack! The animal kingdom also teaches the difference between males and females in gender roles! All in all no such thing as Alpha Females, submission is a female's true power! When they don't activate that true power they (females) are in chaos with themselves and their own existence!
Is it weird if your wife calls another man an Alpha Male?
So look for the dude in charge, seems pretty straightforward.
Good stuff. Question: What are you when you have the awareness to show characteristics of both alpha and beta traits, depending on mood, situations, or for the fun of showing different vibes? Probably just human. idk
Edit: ENTP personality
I'm an ENTP myself and from a personal view, ENTP range from Sigma to Alpha archetype.
An ENTP wouldn't submit or conform easily (which is a beta characteristic) but in some situations, wouldn't be bothered if something doesn't directly concern him.
I would suggest to learn and apply more of Alpha male behaviors and just do your best to Stop or doing less often the beta ones . We all have flaws but we always try to get better . .
@@letsimprove8991 beta and alpha ques are yin n yang of body communications. Im devolved enough to be aware of them and mosty let my subconscious handle it now. My question was what is someone valled who projects both ques? The question was simply to make ppl think
Robbins his more of vocal and commanding which makes him an alpha, but Tom he has more commanding power without trying which makes him a sigma.
I’d love to see an Alpha female video. I found this very interesting and I learned more about my husband and other men in my life. I have always been drawn to an Alpha male.
ENFP
Vanessa did make one before, but i couldnt find it again to share here; might be unlisted.
The video was more focused on women in group settings. I dont want to share exact points at the risk of sounding sexist or offensive, but i would say it's pretty similar to this, except for the "taking up space" thing she mentioned. I dont recall her mentioning that in the other video
A woman trying to be man.
www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
Tony, Hugh, Tom, and Leo are the alpha of alphas!
thank you sharing such great cues.
This was such a good episode, love it! I must check out Dax Shepard's show. Never viewed him as an alpha but I will be looking at him closely from now on. Have always thought Tony Robins to be quite alpha and a turn-on to me hahaha. The Rock I find very charming. What about Chris Evans? Is he considered an Alpha Male? I found that depending on who he is talking to is when Chris Evans really flexes the alpha. I've seen interviews with him and Robert Downey Junior and Chris Evans is respectful of RDJ and I notice that he makes himself smaller. Then when Chris Evans is talking about politics regarding his new site called a starting point and he's interviewing with others, the Alpha in him shows.
Evans is not Alpha. You cannot spew hatred politically the way he does and take an anti American stance and be alpha.
But i noticed when tom cruise was talking with interviewer he crossed his arms,and bruce lee put his crossed his hands on each other at the end of video.i think you are not a very smart viewer,sorry
The more we try to comprehend how alpha males behave. That really helps to develop our selves to become better than who we are before.
absolutely brilliant video I learnt so much
We're so glad to hear! Thank you for this feedback. :)
Vanessa mimicking Leo's gaze, as Leo gazes at Ellen ☺️😂🍻
Got your book. Excited to read it... but got like few on the go. Way of the wolf, etc, and also in that part where I’m just taking action haha
Just curious do we have female alphas?
No
www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
hah with the example of variable voice tones I thought of Roger of Cracked's "If ... were hones" series. I just learned why he's so captivating!
Ok, I have a question for you Vanessa. Several times throughout history, many people seen by others as wise/smart have said in one way or another "The best people to choose to rule, or those best suited to rule, are often those who are resistant to the idea, if not outright opposed to the opportunity". So, given that you claim that alphas are men who like to be in charge, even NEED to be in charge, how do you explain this sentiment? Would you say that some alphas actually don't wish to be in charge? If so, how and why is there a difference between the two? Or would you say that such men who are resistant to rule are the much rarer type of man called a Sigma? Is that type of man something you ascribe to? Or would you have another response entirely? I'm very curious to hear what you have to say about this. Hopefully you'll see this. Thank you in advance, should you deem this comment worth your time and attention.
Thank you
Loved this video!! 💯💯
Alpha male and beta male, or simply put alpha and beta, are pseudoscientific terms for men derived from the designation for alpha and beta animals in ethology. They may also be used with other genders, such as women, or additionally use other letters of the Greek alphabet (such as sigma). The popularization of these terms to describe humans has been widely criticized by scientists.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpha_and_beta_male
This is the internet's version of a alpha male.
What's your version of an Alpha male?
And Tom Cruz crossed his arms
For some reason I just pictured Tony Robbins picking up Kevin H. And “burping” him!!!
Interesting very good research as well.
It's actually pretty terrible research because the theory of alpha male was disproved by the guy who came up with it.
I enjoyed the video and it gave lots of examples of how to engage with people in a positive way. However if someone had these ‘gifts’ but used them manipulatively I would consider that to disqualify them as alpha-males immediately.
This is not what I was expecting. Very interesting, I had to change my understanding of an alpha. To me, an alpha commands the room with their presence, no talking needed. I was not thinking they were just, really charming and good communicators. I really only know one alpha then.😂
You learn something new every day!
Brad seemed uncomfortable to me. The least alpha in this whole video but he can sure play one.
3:45 hey, but they both nodded at the same time, so that female is also alpha?
I wonder if you could do a video on alpha females?
We actually have a whole article on alpha females! Here's the link :) www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
Thanks! Reading!!
Do these cues also apply to alpha females?
www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha-female/
Jason Statham - thanks !
Bought your book ! Love it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻🌹✨
Well done
Thank you!
Thank you for the breakdown. I did meet an alpha male but he needed to control everything including the money kids with 2 divorces. I ran.
Welcome to narcissism Central.
Anyone who calls themselves "Alpha" is just covering some crazy or insecure shiz
A control freak is not an alpha male. Its called a narcissist. They’re good at faking it