Signs a Woman Wants to Sleep With You BEFORE & DURING a Date

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    Looking for the top signs a woman wants to sleep with you BEFORE and DURING a date? And should you sleep with a woman on a first date if you view her as GF material?
    If you're not sure when to make a move, there are many signals women use to clue you in. They can range from being straight up or pretty secretive. What are those signs you might ask? Well, stay tuned and I'll show you 9 signs she wants to sleep with you, BUT when you actually should.
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  • @emlovz
    @emlovz  3 роки тому +40

    What sign did the woman you're dating give you....... to make you think she wants to sleep with you?

    • @bigcurt011
      @bigcurt011 2 роки тому +9

      I was invited to her house to her house twice and all we did was watch movies while we cuddled on her couch ..but that was about it what do you think about that?

    • @glitteringsunshine4306
      @glitteringsunshine4306 2 роки тому +12

      C'mon, lady, this is really bad advice coming from a woman. Where do you get this stuff? ... If you are a man looking for signs from a woman, you had better act on them fast by continually escalating. If you don't escalate, you will make the woman feel foolish and unattractive. And, men: NEVER, EVER follow any stupid rules when you are trying to be a spontaneous, fun, passionate lover (except protection, which is not really a stupid rule).

    • @Ventcis
      @Ventcis 2 роки тому +10

      @@bigcurt011 If you did hold her hand and looked her straight in her eyes, without flinching, for at least a minute - you wouldn't ask this question now

    • @NookTommy
      @NookTommy 2 роки тому +2

      she teased about going vacation and share room

    • @frankjimenez4239
      @frankjimenez4239 Рік тому +1

      @@Ventcis no

  • @tonycrouse6544
    @tonycrouse6544 Рік тому +106

    A while back in my mid 20's I went for an eye exam for contact lenses. The optometrist was a young attractive lady who took me back to the exam room. We were sitting across from each other face to face with the exam machine between us. She told me to sit closer and put her ankles around mine pressing her legs in tightly. Guess she was afraid I might fall out of my seat and took this as a caring gesture. After the exam she demonstrated the proper way of cleaning the lenses. She lean back slightly against the wall and said come closer...no, closer. I was shoulder to shoulder with her. She smiled, and holding the lens, softly said see how I carefully rub this back and forth. It takes just the right touch. Before leaving the exam room she gave me her number in case I had any questions or concerns. Now that's professional service!

    • @KaushikBala333
      @KaushikBala333 Рік тому +3

      Wow

    • @crockpot5194
      @crockpot5194 11 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @engell3707
      @engell3707 11 місяців тому +7

      Cool story bro.

    • @Antares007
      @Antares007 7 місяців тому +3

      Are you sure it was an optometrist's office??? JK 😁 🤪

    • @tyrannywatch974
      @tyrannywatch974 7 місяців тому +1

      Cool story.

  • @ihelpdogs
    @ihelpdogs Рік тому +271

    I've run a dog rescue for many years and a few years back a very attractive 23-year old woman asked if she could come over to meet the dogs. Me being a naive older (40's) guy said sure, thinking she just liked dogs. She did like dogs, but she definitely liked older guys better. We broke up three years later...

    • @floridaroadways
      @floridaroadways Рік тому +20

      She wasn’t really into you. I think she wanted your money. I don’t think she like older guys. She probably just wanted a damn favor from you and lied about it which is what some women are.

    • @RabidPrimeape
      @RabidPrimeape Рік тому +6

      Sounds about right

    • @koikoivison4753
      @koikoivison4753 Рік тому +45

      she just liked doggie style

    • @buicklincoln
      @buicklincoln Рік тому +30

      @@floridaroadways He got laid for 3 years. She got what she wanted, money or not for 3 years. No problem here. Two people the same age can have the same relationship.

    • @floridaroadways
      @floridaroadways Рік тому

      @@buicklincoln most men don’t and can’t get laid cause most women are too picky. Most women prefer women over men including bi-sexual women.

  • @TheFame5000
    @TheFame5000 9 місяців тому +84

    It’s never confusing when a woman wants to sleep with you. It’s only confusing when she doesn’t.

    • @petergriffin383
      @petergriffin383 2 місяці тому +1

      This☝️

    • @spankyharland9845
      @spankyharland9845 Місяць тому +1

      yes, it is also confusing when you can't negotiate a proper price for services rendered.

    • @TheRobdarling
      @TheRobdarling 17 днів тому

      ​@spankyharland9845 If she has ethical standards she'll be upfront, if she doesn't, she wants everything you have and all you can earn for the rest of your life.

  • @HateDietPepsi
    @HateDietPepsi Рік тому +47

    3rd date is the woman's favorite for the relationship guy. For non-relationship guy she will just show up at your place; all you need is a tidy place and a bottle of wine and she is yours.

    • @sihyunglee4220
      @sihyunglee4220 Рік тому +1

      You mean one night stand ?

    • @the_dark_one6052
      @the_dark_one6052 Рік тому +6

      I always get confused what to do with the wine? Drink it or hit her over the head with it. Second option is quicker.

  • @MalaysiaPhilip
    @MalaysiaPhilip Рік тому +138

    43 here and been single, involved, serious, engaged, casual with probably way too many women for over 25 years. I am at the age now and guys in my position will agree that it's just not worth the hassle anymore. The twisted irony is, the less you care means the vibes you give off really do attract not only more women than when you were at the age where you would chase any girl, but the standard and quality is also significantly better. It's a very true but rather annoying quirk.

    • @andersnielsen6044
      @andersnielsen6044 Рік тому +8

      45 here - and can confirm every single word ;)

    • @ryan7864
      @ryan7864 Рік тому +5

      46... what's your secret? Because I couldn't attract a cold.

    • @MelModica
      @MelModica Рік тому +5

      42 year old woman here and its the same for me, when I show little interest and seem hard to get men chase me! I noticed over the years when I let a man know Im all about him they seem to lose interest! I have so many men showing interest in me its crazy and I truly believe my cool and casual vibe is a huge part of it!

    • @semenivanoff8615
      @semenivanoff8615 Рік тому

      Ha ha, after 35 there is no life.
      Women who interested in 42 yo, are not the ones whom 42 yo is interested in.
      So all these stories are just blah blah. Being at 42 we should focus on money and power not women.

    • @litjellyfish
      @litjellyfish Рік тому

      @@semenivanoff8615oh so how are the women who wants a 42y old man and why would a 42y old man not want them? Please elaborate so we get your pov

  • @Silver_Charm_1
    @Silver_Charm_1 Рік тому +138

    In my 20s I was sleeping with a lot of women and sometimes 2 at a time. It was getting old believe it or not. One day I meet a young woman about my age and realised she had a lot of the values I admired in a mate. I decided that I wanted to make sure that we had a connection that was real and wasn't based on sex. We were so drawn to one another that we spent most of our free time together. After about the 3rd night that she slept over at my house and I didn't make a move she asked if I was attracted to her sexually. I explained my reasoning for abstaining and it blew her mind. It wasn't until about after 3 weeks from our first date until I decided to have that experience with her. See the relationship was formed on character, common interest, attraction, work ethic goals, etc. A lot of relationships are started with attraction and sex and then people settle on the rest. That is setting up for failure. We actually got married, had a son and he just graduated from college last week. We have talked about what I did through the years and she has said it made her respect me and want me more.

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 Рік тому +3

      What was your secret to getting so many women?

    • @ruego-qj7bt
      @ruego-qj7bt Рік тому +8

      So, she was _'drawn'_ to a promiscuous mate and/or a liar.

    • @gerryreihsen5084
      @gerryreihsen5084 Рік тому +2

      That was exactly my history! Now been married almost 40 years, three sons, two grandchildren.

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 Рік тому +2

      @@gerryreihsen5084 Excellent!

    • @diggernash1
      @diggernash1 Рік тому

      You formed a relationship in 3 weeks?

  • @gordonlawrence1448
    @gordonlawrence1448 Рік тому +59

    The sign I really want to spot is the "I'm going to change my mind tomorrow and report it to the police" sign.

    • @jeffersoncosgrove1910
      @jeffersoncosgrove1910 4 місяці тому

      That's a different sign to watch for altogether. If she brags about being interested in "activism," run away fast and forever. 🤣

    • @justthatsimpleamerika5256
      @justthatsimpleamerika5256 3 місяці тому

      😂what, u a creep or something, jp but fr I don't get the scenario that question fits in

    • @JowellRivera
      @JowellRivera 2 місяці тому

      Freakin funny

  • @bigd1223
    @bigd1223 Рік тому +28

    The BIGGEST and most classic giveaway that she wants to get some is she tries to set up a situation where the two of you are alone at either her house or yours.

    • @TheCoachRC
      @TheCoachRC 3 місяці тому +2

      Exactly!! It happened to me 28 years ago with a co-worker of mine who spent the evening with me after going out on our second date. Note: This woman was an older woman--23 years older than me. Talk about a cougar!! She really did like me. Since then, we moved on and I found out she had passed away.

  • @Syrin23
    @Syrin23 11 місяців тому +18

    On the flip side, a woman trying to sleep with you on a first date has devalued herself possibly to the point of not being relationship material

    • @Arvidje
      @Arvidje 8 місяців тому

      its nonsense.. the problem most guys has no clue how to court woman properly.. more important is how to deal with a woman after an hookup... everything begins with sexual attraction, dont hold back.. how hotter u are, how more comfort and save she feel the faster she want u in her bed..

    • @vdcg2010
      @vdcg2010 2 місяці тому +1

      Agreed 💯

    • @popsmoke99
      @popsmoke99 Місяць тому

      just steamy, hot meaningless sex.... sucks

  • @ricfax
    @ricfax Рік тому +22

    Signs she's been run through and ready to get run through again. Got it.

  • @johnwhauserman
    @johnwhauserman Рік тому +18

    And the one that Em forgot. If your out Riding your motorcycle and a woman asks for a ride You need to ask if she's talking about you or the motorcycle. You'll be shocked at how may say Both.

  • @JRooSF
    @JRooSF 3 роки тому +63

    When -- after a couple of dates -- she invites me to to come to her place so she can make me dinner. I generally think, "Tonight's the night!"

    • @theworldisimmense
      @theworldisimmense 2 роки тому +13

      Men that’s a good feeling when she invited to to HER place. I don’t usually like bringing girls to my place or else she will know where I live and it can get nasty.

    • @sihyunglee4220
      @sihyunglee4220 Рік тому

      A couple of ... How many ...? So risky kkk

    • @fml5910
      @fml5910 4 місяці тому

      @@theworldisimmenseShow up all hours of the day/night unannounced, don't call or text you.

    • @RedClover1987
      @RedClover1987 2 місяці тому

      My first date with now ex was at her parents home. Just us. She made me a home cooked meal, Creamette Ravoli. Best ever. We didn’t fool around until the 3rd date.

  • @spankyharland9845
    @spankyharland9845 3 місяці тому +15

    another sign is when you are sitting in her living room and she says she would like to slip into something more comfortable and she reappears naked- that could be a hint too. As a proper gentleman, I usually ask if she is cold and if she needs a coat or a cup of hot tea.

    • @RedClover1987
      @RedClover1987 2 місяці тому

      Blazing Saddles. Another Schnitzengruben? Baby, 13 is my limit

    • @osvaldoruiz3826
      @osvaldoruiz3826 2 місяці тому

      ,,😂😂😂😂

    • @wellardme
      @wellardme Місяць тому

      😂😂😂 "could be a hint."

  • @bwghall1
    @bwghall1 5 місяців тому +1

    eye talk is the knowing way, never fails. it`s worked for all my life. both know when the time is right.

  • @johnroger8563
    @johnroger8563 Рік тому +1

    You are really good and knowledgeable. Great deliver and information. Appreciate you.

  • @thomas_emlovz
    @thomas_emlovz Рік тому +1

    Great video Em!

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому

      Thanks my love

  • @Ray-ms5vo
    @Ray-ms5vo Рік тому +38

    I may be getting ahead of myself watching this video but I've never been in this situation before. So it comes with confidence, practice and consent. This video is good to know when I get that chance. Thanks Em!

    • @tonyanthony5105
      @tonyanthony5105 Рік тому +6

      There is no knowledge that is not power. Preparation is for the wise bro.

    • @x-man5056
      @x-man5056 Рік тому +4

      The confidence will come with "practice" because you will get better at interfacing with women quickly if you are regularly challenging yourself.
      You don't say how old you are but if you are in high school...go to the dances, and dance with them. Fake it if you don't how. Girls love it and much of your competition just won't do it. You get credit just for being out there...like nobody's looking.

  • @ibeonu913
    @ibeonu913 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the tip.

  • @TheGilbalfas
    @TheGilbalfas Рік тому +1

    Your videos are great. Straight to the content

  • @robdunham7398
    @robdunham7398 Рік тому +12

    I had moved into a new home several months before but had not met some of the neighbors. I was walking down the street to collect my mail when a VERY attractive neighbor was standing in her driveway. I stopped and introduced myself and we started chatting. After a few minutes I indicated I needed to go on my way when she said;
    “My husband will be out of town for the rest of the week.”
    I sure thought about it, but…not with a new neighbor’s wife.
    Aaah, what could have been. 😊

    • @doug307
      @doug307 Рік тому +7

      Please, read all chapter 7 in Proverbs:
      Prov 7:19-27: "For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey: He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed. With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him. He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks; Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life. Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth. Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death."

  • @bluesdoggg
    @bluesdoggg Рік тому +5

    Lol, I took the bait on the second date, and we celebrate our 20th anniversary next April 😎

  • @MichaelThompson-iu5fl
    @MichaelThompson-iu5fl Місяць тому

    Very interesting and good video,

  • @rise4329
    @rise4329 4 місяці тому

    Thank you! Helpful!!!

  • @turbo7757
    @turbo7757 Рік тому

    Very good info and great job.

  • @Cbt1111
    @Cbt1111 11 місяців тому

    Awesome thank you… definitely helps.

  • @lawrprry1
    @lawrprry1 Рік тому

    Good advise.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @jamesrussell1979
    @jamesrussell1979 Рік тому +1

    Very interesting

  • @darrelstevens9707
    @darrelstevens9707 2 місяці тому +2

    Friends with benefits is the best case scenario.

  • @colsartech9261
    @colsartech9261 Рік тому +1

    Very good video 👏👏👏 hope u take in person classes. That would be more intense to learn from.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому

      emlovz.com/masterclass

  • @MichaelMitchell-ks5it
    @MichaelMitchell-ks5it 10 місяців тому

    Very very good info from lady point that is spot on for me

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 Рік тому +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @GeneraIG
    @GeneraIG 2 роки тому

    Thanks for the advice 😘❤

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 роки тому

      No problem. Check out my free FB group here…facebook.com/groups/thedatingformula/

  • @jonathanmoore1868
    @jonathanmoore1868 Рік тому +1

    Yes, helpful indeed. Thank you. I have missed the signs many times it seems...

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +1

      You’re welcome

    • @chucklombardo8167
      @chucklombardo8167 2 місяці тому

      ​@@emlovzI love woman who wear black thongs

  • @ericfreshcorn3590
    @ericfreshcorn3590 Рік тому

    I Love You Emlovz

  • @jaykal3716
    @jaykal3716 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank You

  • @x-man5056
    @x-man5056 Рік тому +9

    I've never had a women ask me to pick what she wears. Most of the women (easily more than half) I've dated, I slept with the first night. Both of my Exes I slept with the first night. So it my be true that women wouldn't ask you unless they wanted to sleep with you, but if they don't ask, it doesn't mean they won't.

  • @joemanco-no4jy
    @joemanco-no4jy 11 місяців тому +2

    No woman ever asked me these questions.

  • @himanshubihani6859
    @himanshubihani6859 Рік тому

    Thanks u mam 🙏 for information

  • @satyatathya5176
    @satyatathya5176 2 роки тому

    Excellent

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 роки тому

      Thank you vm

  • @ronniesumler4174
    @ronniesumler4174 11 місяців тому

    Cool video chat 🎉😮

  • @RhapsodeMEDIA
    @RhapsodeMEDIA 3 місяці тому

    Loved ❤

  • @jessebreakspear6656
    @jessebreakspear6656 Рік тому

    These kinds of videos really are doing a great service! Cupid's arrows should be allowed to hit their mark, it's what nature and god intended!

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому

      Love it. Absolutely! ❤️

  • @paulbrooks2024
    @paulbrooks2024 Рік тому +10

    Last time, she wanted to meet my dog ,she sleeps with the dog .

  • @tobiasthederp
    @tobiasthederp 2 роки тому +11

    If you don’t sleep with a woman and she wants you to… that’s friend zone type of shit women like you try and program into men. That’s why dating nowadays is so damn difficult.

  • @Bob-ex9qi
    @Bob-ex9qi Рік тому

    Unbelievable list of events!
    Never found a touch on the arm as a friendly gesture only!
    Dream on!

  • @jerrysorrell7775
    @jerrysorrell7775 3 місяці тому +1

    Dang, I’ve been missing those signs all those years.

  • @hdvisualartsprojects6759
    @hdvisualartsprojects6759 Рік тому +2

    The waiting is good one. Sometimes I just go for it. Depends how I feel and it still keeps the spark alive amd she loves the chase

  • @CharlieCheerful
    @CharlieCheerful Рік тому +8

    She freaked me out and said two things. "I haven't had sex in 4 months" and ,'I get real friendly after a few drinks." I declined.

  • @Reaper_thecreaper
    @Reaper_thecreaper Рік тому

    Brilliant

  • @rmendoza5953
    @rmendoza5953 Рік тому

    A woman did once have me come over to fix something and it could have developed into something but I had a girlfriend. My girlfriend, the woman and myself all worked at the same place.

  • @monaural2.988
    @monaural2.988 Рік тому +3

    Well, here’s a fun one. A video on a topic that soooo many men will never experience.

  • @TheCoachRC
    @TheCoachRC 3 місяці тому +1

    Excellent job, Emyli. [Note: I noticed your name is spelled just the opposite of most Emilys I know.] As for those dates you mentioned, sounds like the THIRD DATE is the critical one. Either the man can make it happen (score) or not.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 місяці тому

      The first 3 dates are all critical

  • @bluetoast8584
    @bluetoast8584 Рік тому +1

    you're awesome

  • @chrism5732
    @chrism5732 8 місяців тому

    I get all these signs and more. She’s fresh out of a relationship and says she needs time before dating. Not sure when I should make any of these moves lol

  • @chxwv
    @chxwv Рік тому +2

    Omg , I have literally heard these things and I was so naive to ….

  • @Ch2.0ris
    @Ch2.0ris Рік тому +2

    Smart..

  • @a320nick
    @a320nick 9 місяців тому

    They just come straight out and ask.

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 8 місяців тому

    I watched this for future reference if dating and a relationship does start and not just friend zone !!! 🤔 🤔 !!!

  • @hamletthaus3046
    @hamletthaus3046 Рік тому +14

    I had that first date backfire once. Being hard to get after the clothes came off I declined. Never heard from her again. Was in my 20’s just learning the ropes. What I learned that night is sometimes you just have to go all afterburner mode and don’t look back.

    • @elliotmyers9071
      @elliotmyers9071 Рік тому +10

      You should have stopped before the cloths came off. Lmfao

    • @butler782
      @butler782 Рік тому

      I agree, most women will ghost u after this...they will think u are either not interested, gay or something is wrong with u...if a woman is trying to sleep with u and she is the aggressor, u already got her, there is nothing else to prove...so I say go in for the kill if she want it

    • @koikoivison4753
      @koikoivison4753 Рік тому +2

      always tapand scrap

    • @Giorg189
      @Giorg189 Рік тому +6

      Be thankful you're not paying for child support now.

    • @mationinfo
      @mationinfo Рік тому

      @@Giorg189check out Rich Cooper

  • @ZZstaff
    @ZZstaff Рік тому +3

    How many people have I slept with? One, my wife of 53 years before dying of cancer. What is wrong with dating without sex for an extended period, up to a year and the big question, what is wrong with marriage? Having fun experiencing life together without initial sex involved is an enjoyable experience. How many woman find a man, have hot sex and afterword dumps him for someone else, rinse and repeat ad nauseam. After having sex with 20 to 50+ men how many women find themselves not being able to find a good man to marry?

  • @doughooper9918
    @doughooper9918 Рік тому +1

    Not a fun problem to have.

  • @TopViralMiX
    @TopViralMiX Рік тому +1

    this girl told me she would walk me to my hotel at a foreign country to make sure i got back where i was suppose to and told me she would go home soon. and it happened but i was drunk and don’t remember it but she took pictures of us doing it and sent it to me the next day

  • @racassiusmatohson5244
    @racassiusmatohson5244 2 роки тому +10

    That's good of you. You're a great coach and I hope you will compile another thoughts as to why devoice resonates in early marriage and ways to avoid it.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 роки тому

      Will do. Here’s an article I published on a somewhat similar topic: www.emlovz.com/dating-after-divorce-for-men/

    • @bobjones2460
      @bobjones2460 11 місяців тому

      @@emlovz How about if a woman you're just talking to on the phone brings up sex a lot, uses the F word, tells jokes about sex, etc. I'm feeling she's being very flirty and I just laugh, but being the man I don't bring up sex as yet.

  • @herupurwanto7637
    @herupurwanto7637 Рік тому

    hello Emlovz.. nice to see you beautiful 👍😘.

  • @ordellrobbie2460
    @ordellrobbie2460 Рік тому +14

    Good video. I'm an older guy now. But I've had many signs. Mostly obvious. Still get some.
    One young woman I met a couple of times told me she needed help putting her water bed together. Yeah, that's a few years back, lol. I almost chuckled but kept cool and responded with, "Oh yeah. I can help you with that."
    While eating alone in a restaurant, a woman approached me from across the room to tell me I looked like a famous actor, but she couldn't remember his name, then figured it out to be Nicolas Cage. I don't know about that, but it was her saying, "Ask me for my number."
    Another woman, on another night, apparently watching me dance with a couple of other ladies, came and sat on my lap out of the blue. I sat her down in the chair next to me and kindly introduced her to my cousin.
    I did pass on one date's offer to go up to her room on the 1st date. I just said I had to work early the next day, which was true. On my way out, I asked if she would like to go out again, and she said yes. On the 2nd date, we had a lot of fun and made it upstairs.
    But my favorite and most important sign, and I never asked, but I think it was a sign - came from the kindest, sweetest, most generous woman. And with the most beautiful smile. She was standing with a couple of guys. One like giant cardboard cutout, looking like they didn't know what to do. She did the classic flip of her long, beautiful hair foraward and back. I was sitting at a table about 10 feet away. I got up and walked in between them to ask her to dance. She said yes with a big smile but said she had the next dance with another gentleman. While we danced to great Beatles song, I asked if she'd like to go out sometime. She said yes. I told her to whisper her number in my ear and that I would remember it. lol...that's all that went through my head the rest of the evening and on my way home, that phone number..... No! I never told her that. Keep it cool.
    Thanks for reading. I hope this wasn't too boring.

  • @1badz239
    @1badz239 Рік тому +1

    Is that what all these things mean?
    I blew it.!

  • @steveisgood2go
    @steveisgood2go 11 місяців тому +2

    The problem of not sleeping with a woman who wants sex is that they will find another guy the next day who will. Woman feel wanted when they are being chased. Double edged sword messing with their head.

  • @dustinkirby7874
    @dustinkirby7874 2 роки тому +11

    1. If you and your date both communicated about what you want from a relationship then don’t turn down their advances. That’s a good way to lose respect from that person.

    • @kakeetomark
      @kakeetomark Рік тому

      Hey thanks

    • @nathan2813
      @nathan2813 Рік тому +2

      Turning down an advamce isn't going to cause you to lose respect. If the person's smart, such will GARNER their respect. If they lose interest for that, it will demonstrate their only interest in you was as a piece of meat.

  • @tomcumby9045
    @tomcumby9045 Рік тому

    how many times have you been married? how long do your relationships last?

  • @erichayes2890
    @erichayes2890 Рік тому

    Never had this situation before ever, but feel that it is, as Emily says,...considered a"high-value man", that waits untill at least the third date, to sleep with a woman, he just met.

  • @ozzhass5683
    @ozzhass5683 Місяць тому

    First date, if not the night after. Done and she accepts intimacy

  • @jerryleonard4705
    @jerryleonard4705 Місяць тому

    Thank you for making me understand lips sustaining from having sex with any woman that wants sex. It’s most important because just having sex is not really what anybody wants. Everybody wants to be loved and having sex with somebody is just a benefit of being in love. Which in my mind is just a full looking to fall into the well and drowned, thanks again for your wonderful insight

  • @thomasherzig174
    @thomasherzig174 2 місяці тому

    Cudling a dog or a cat together is a good way to tough each others hands as well, and that way find out out the physical connection feels

  • @henryyunick3433
    @henryyunick3433 Рік тому +1

    Your welcome !,, In all seriousness here. I have watched 3 of your videos, all good advice. I am 62 now, been married, and in 2 long term relationships. I have also done plenty of bed hopping in my day... I am now looking to settle down with a younger woman of good old fashioned skills and values, i want more kids. The problem i find is many gals are a product of our modern times, and that is bad. I am looking into young women of other countries, mostly Europe. I want a wife, good mother , life partner. I will put my time into that hunt, dont have time to waste anymore... Thank you for your spot on advice, because as a Man, we always fail on how women think.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому

      Love it! Check out my masterclass for more tips! emlovz.com/masterclass

    • @bearclaw5115
      @bearclaw5115 Рік тому

      Get a clue. These European women you seek come with all of the same problems as western girls and if they don't they will 'learn' fast.

  • @kojakch2733
    @kojakch2733 9 місяців тому

    It's as useful as advices what to do if I hit the lottery jackpot. That even might hlappen before I hear such questions or experience what is told here (but for sure I will afterwards!!). The warnings are also funny, as it is very dangerous today for guys dating a woman.

  • @davehygaard2
    @davehygaard2 2 місяці тому +1

    Oh my God, the games people play so glad I'm remaining single. Until I meet Mary Poppins.

  • @davidnhodges9876
    @davidnhodges9876 Рік тому +1

    Hello you look like a wonderful Angel lady I appreciate being on your channel you're very intelligent and very beautiful

  • @no59do56
    @no59do56 Рік тому +1

    Hmmmmm 9 signs.

  • @fatherson6022
    @fatherson6022 Рік тому

    Oh no

  • @cephalopod7937
    @cephalopod7937 2 роки тому +37

    I disagree. If a guy turns down sex then I'd just think he isn't attracted to me and not see him as a boyfriend material lol and yes spontaneous sex is the best.

    • @nathan2813
      @nathan2813 Рік тому +7

      Some men (smart men) don't go for sex based purely on physical attraction. Like women, they want an emotional connection as well. That's not likely to happen after just one date.

    • @JamesBrannon-wq6wr
      @JamesBrannon-wq6wr Рік тому +1

      Love ya i miss you

    • @michaelpinholt6039
      @michaelpinholt6039 Рік тому

      If a girl reacts that way to me turning down sex on first date, I would think that she probably has low self-worth and that I dodged a bullet!

    • @Omar_Zazzle
      @Omar_Zazzle Рік тому

      If that is how you think, you are in the slut zone and you will never marry a real man.

    • @agxec2932
      @agxec2932 Рік тому

      That's the truth

  • @mikechapman7501
    @mikechapman7501 Рік тому +5

    I knew a girl that would send me email jokes that were very suggestive in the way of body parts. She and I worked together, and I really just wanted to keep it friendly because I knew if we took it out of work fireworks would happen. Well, we did take out of work and the fireworks did happen. She said to me later that she was trying to send me a signal that she was hot for me. And she was hoping the sexy jokes would work in getting interested in her.

  • @stevo728822
    @stevo728822 Рік тому

    No knickers is usually a strong clue.

  • @sebastianwrites
    @sebastianwrites Рік тому +1

    So much for this advice... I've done what with a few girls who wanted to sleep with me, and they instead lose interest instead of waiting?

  • @TheBartostock
    @TheBartostock Рік тому +1

    What if she lets you know out of the blue that her computer is broken and she knows you can fix computers? She doesn’t flat out ask you to come over but she says she might take it to the store to get it fixed.

  • @alfredeneuman6966
    @alfredeneuman6966 2 місяці тому

    I was with my wife for 43 years. She passed away unfortunately. I am dating again. I find women more forward than they were back in my youth. It takes a bit of getting used to. The conversations can quickly get interesting.

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  2 місяці тому

      This might help: emlovz.com/masterclass

  • @TrollMeister_
    @TrollMeister_ Рік тому +5

    6:58 He realized he didn’t have a condom on him and couldn’t trust she would have one at her place, and very wisely decided to put his health first.

  • @richardclough5971
    @richardclough5971 Рік тому +1

    Wow your very nice your self

    • @emlovz
      @emlovz  Рік тому +1

      Thank you 😄

    • @richardclough5971
      @richardclough5971 Рік тому

      @@emlovz Gee your attractive can I pls have your email , I would like to chat with you Richard

  • @whiteybaxter
    @whiteybaxter Рік тому

    youre helpful Thanks

  • @JamesPardee-pr4ny
    @JamesPardee-pr4ny 2 місяці тому

    I don't know about the first, but with me the second will be a look that hurts worse than a slap.

  • @manuelalejandrogutierrezro3076
    @manuelalejandrogutierrezro3076 Рік тому +32

    Thank you for letting us know that the women will value us more if we reject their sexual advances until at least the third date. I think that that would also help us deter all of the Toxic Females. Right?

    • @seriousjan5655
      @seriousjan5655 Рік тому

      No, she would go somewhere else, as she was doing untinl now, most probably. Woman initiating on first date is HUUUUGE red flag. She is most probably to cheat on you for 2 shots of vodka in first month of relationship.

    • @DouglasHall-pb6qo
      @DouglasHall-pb6qo Рік тому +3

      I don't think I'll ever run into that problem.

    • @Omar_Zazzle
      @Omar_Zazzle Рік тому

  • @guntertorfs6486
    @guntertorfs6486 Рік тому +36

    A woman pushing you to sleep with her on the first date , instead of her pretending she's the one who has to put the breaks on ? I must be living in an alternate universe !

    • @nathan2813
      @nathan2813 Рік тому +4

      Some women - especially those you meet in bars - are just looking for a one-night stand that they're hoping they'll never see again.

    • @guntertorfs6486
      @guntertorfs6486 Рік тому +3

      @@nathan2813 They still will put the brunt of the seduction on the man"s shoulders.

    • @koikoivison4753
      @koikoivison4753 Рік тому +2

      they are everywhere to tap and scrap

    • @JohnSmith-rg3mp
      @JohnSmith-rg3mp Рік тому +1

      Hmmmm, Mmmmm make it so Simple, just try to get that first date for a ltr for what so ever reason keep on attracting the wrong Gals. don't anyone believe in ltr any more????

    • @williamclayton9566
      @williamclayton9566 Рік тому +1

      You clearly don't know how to get a woman all hot and bothered. It's a skill. Learn it.

  • @firestream93
    @firestream93 3 місяці тому

    If a woman gives me any kind of hint. It's going to hit light speed as it goes right over my head.

  • @elektrovert
    @elektrovert 3 місяці тому

    Regarding not sleeping together on the third date, what if you've known her already for some time?

  • @bjorkstrand7773
    @bjorkstrand7773 2 місяці тому

    run

  • @donaldperrotta8514
    @donaldperrotta8514 6 місяців тому

    I tried the “let’s call it a night , next time “ line …. and never got another invite back to her house.

  • @frankharris3380
    @frankharris3380 Рік тому +1

    That's fine, but more importantly, how can we screen out personality disorders at this stage?

  • @user-tm2rb7dc4c
    @user-tm2rb7dc4c 2 місяці тому +1

    Hello I'm Steve😮

  • @kebman
    @kebman Рік тому

    Girl just wanted to see my dog. Then she was really annoyed afterwards. How rude. My dog is, like, super cute!

  • @ClellBiggs
    @ClellBiggs Рік тому +1

    I have absolutely messed up on a lot of these, and when that happens you are done. Either she assumes you understood what she meant and were turning her down or thinks you were too thick to understand it. Whichever is the cause she loses interest instantly.

    • @anniel1193
      @anniel1193 Рік тому

      Or maybe she thinks your gay lol