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I've dated some beautiful women in my time and the one thing they all had in common is that they were so much more insecure than less attractive women. I've found that a woman with personality and sense of humor is SO MUCH MORE attractive than the "look at me women." Guys, if you want to be happy with a woman, learn the concept of "beauty is only skin deep." Some of the most beautiful women l know are women l got to know for reasons other than physical attraction...
I agree. A woman that's less pretty but has some depth to her personality, is far more desirable than a woman that is a 10/10 for looks. Although she'd have to be at least a 6 in order for this to work.
Why do people always think beautiful women don´t have a personality and a sense of humour??? This is so absurd! We can all be either boring or fascinating people regardless of our physique. I´ve known plenty of less attractive women who, without even knowing me, treated me like trash just for being beautiful. Was that not due to their own insecurity?
You have to first be physically attracted to someone in order to want to get to know them on a deeper level and learn more about their character and personality. Who has ever looked at someone and said to themselves "I don't find that person attractive but I still wanna pursue them"?
@@scottb7539 Hey, wazzup Cool. I had to check back on this one. So, did she get it last week? I'll bet she did! I haven't seen a post yet on "If ya like her, here's how to take her home" post yet. They used clubs on the Flintstones. But, this is 'modern man' so we use "high tech" now - electro shock therapy!
Also the ones you want, try to purposely hide these traits so not to be so obvious. It's hard as what. It's like you find out from a friend, after she gets with another dude, that she liked you.. But she was pokerface the whole time
@@RetroCaptain Yeah I couldn't deal with the idea of pursuing girls that friends would get involved, be like you fancy her don't you. For the first time I feel like I can approach girls without people wanting to know my/their intentions via Chinese whispers.
Great video! A great message to encourage women to engage in the process and let a guy know when she’s interested. Guy’s don’t mind pursuing, as you stated it’s in our nature. But, there’s a fine line between pursuing and chasing. If a guy doesn’t get signals from a woman that she’s interested (some of which you pointed out in the video), he many times will not pursue further. Pursuing when there is no reciprocal interest shown by the woman is chasing...and that’s a no no😊.
Carefull little buddy. Theres a fine line between a romantic gaze accross a crowded room and the piercing stare of a psychopath. Lol. Lol. God bless and thanks again for the valuable information
@coach Melannie really impressed and enjoy watching when you act it out to emphasize how it looks like when a girl is pursuing you ( like when you said " hey, come talk to me and overcome with shyness " , You are marvellous. 👍🏾✌🏾😘
@@lemonacidrounds7293 Dear clairvoyant, assuming you are calling yourself this, because you are one, could you concentrate on someone calling himself @arachnophobia for me, who told me my family sounds similar to his one, calling himself Bayl? Unless the rest of his sentence was cut off. I told him I was related to the Welsh Hannah Rees tartan, so would any psychic powers that you have, be able to tell me if he is my long lost Welsh cousin from Australia called Peter, with a sister called Alison, who had the parents Larry and Betty Bayliss, having also a Larry that used to be Larry Farthing?
I am happy that I came across this video. I am totally lost with these women in regards to knowing if someone likes me. Now I'm equipped with a clue they drive me crazy. Thanks Melannie I usually crack a joke, but not today.
She does all these things for me and more but I think she is afraid to commit because she went through a bad divorce, but I will always be here for her when she needs me! Lately I have needed her and she has always been here for me! I couldn't be happier!
Best way to know if someone likes you is if their body is positioned facing you. I normally watch out for the feet position, a high indicator is if their feet is facing you. This body language cue never fails me .
I’ve only seen women pursue guys who were either Bad Boys, Robert Pattinson types, male models, body builders etc not common ordinary joes like myself. Great video with awesome information! Keep up the great work! Count me in on FLIRT😎❤️👍🏻
I only wish I had discovered you about 10-20yrs ago. A lot of females were interested in me and I completely missed the signs. Plus you're a Christian and have Christian views. That helps alot!!! Thx Coach time to get back in the game and win.
Thank you for the informative video Coach Melannie. A shame that I am sort of a shy guy because females have been doing some of these things around me. I never really noticed any of them because of my lack of experience with women. Also please do the video of Signs she is flirting with you, thank you.
Glad it was helpful! Here are some videos on flirting! ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XsyVNxjH6S9-iRe-S5q4rO.html Let me know if you have any questions! God bless 🙏
Im a switcher truck driver and the woman im interested in is another driver, whenever we have downtime she always to me exclusively and wants to talk. Whenever she sees me she waves at me. She has revealed all her personal information to me about her 5 failed, abusive marriages and says she will never have another relationship, yet when I compliment her, her eyes absolutely glow. I'm becoming absolutely crazy about this woman and I could see us together for the rest of my life. Yesterday I bought her a couple of small gifts and she loved them and commented no one has ever done this for her before. She said she has never been loved and my job now is to break through her barriers and prove to her im different and would love her like she's never dreamed for the rest of her life! She's got some health issues, but that doesn't matter to me, I'm crazy about her!
I’m not a professional and I am not saying this is your situation BuT be careful. This sounds identical to my x wife. She only had 2 failed marriages tho. My x is a sociopath with borderline personality disorder. Not a good time. I saw a couple red flags before saying I do but she seemed so great, so amazing. In her stories she was ALWAYS the victim. She did everything she could to make things work, never been loved, never got flowers etc. I’m just putting it out there because you sound just like I did 5 years ago. I see your post is a year old. I hope your situation wasn’t like mine
FLIRT. Did it surprise me to learn that women pursue too ? No. Only because I have been pursued before. Yet, the relationship did not last very long between her and I due to her being quite toxic. Yet, I recovered well, and it was a lesson learned. I do know there are some quality ladies out there that pursue and flirt. Maybe I'll meet one of them. Thanks for another good video Melannie. God bless you.
This week my work crush was blatantly obvious with her signs this week with me. While I stood in the office, she walked in, and then fixed her hair and clothes while looking at me, and I looked at her too. Then on Tuesday, she sat in the office, pointed herself at me, knowing full well I was gonna react and talk to her. On top of her body language signals, which I get plenty of. I'm gonna ask her out again soon.
From what you’ve been saying looks like I’m on the right track just like I thought. Thanks for reconfirming mine own observations, she’s also Christian gods family ties etc everything good. Fantastic person. I even go to church with her regular first time in over 15 years. And I love it.
Agree with the underlying message. The problem these days though is that with a number of women displaying masculine traits, men are becoming detached from the underlying body language.
I once liked a woman and we became best friends and I would visit her at her work from time to time and laugh always happy to see each other. Then I thought she likes me she really likes me. So I asked for her phone number . She said, I don't give out my number. Big let down. We are still friends.
One that I’m a little perplexed about. A new coworker, that I noticed immediately, approached me after about a week of me always saying hello and making brief conversation. Introduced herself, got my name and said she liked me, that I had good energy. We work shifts that overlap so we never have much time. It’s always positive though. She’ll stop what she’s doing, stands facing me with a smile when we talk. We’re playful too. Ex. I threw some paper on the floor by her and said she needed to clean her area. Laughing she said I’ll get you back and she did. It’s a month or so later now and last week I asked her about seeing a movie. We don’t really know each other and I’m 14 years older than her. As I’m talking and about to ask this was on my mind and I got nervous. It came out like a friend request 🙄. She said she always just waited to stream movies but thanks for the offer. Nothing has changed with us and today I asked a favor. After she did it I thanked her then she said she only did it because I’m her favorite. As she walked away and around a corner I said, I like you too….more than most. She looked back around the corner with a big smile then left. Did I “friend zone” myself or was I already there?
You almost there, keep playful and start on emotional connection, talk about deeper subject with her (childhood, family, animals, passion and future), don’t expose your emotion too soon, playful and light flirt is key, and keep elevate the favor you ask her, like borrow her favourite books, ask her help you buy a coffee,… and return her some favor. Keep observing her reaction on small favors you asked her, you will get what she thinks about you.
Some of the tips in the video are very straightforward but some of them are not as clear as they seem to be (By no fault of yours Coach Mel). Examples that are clear: She makes eye contact with you and then bashfully looks away. Noted. Got it. Positioning her body towards you. Not a surefire sign but in tandem with others. Definitely Brushing up against you and bumping into you. Yes. I've noticed (usually younger) have tried that approach with me Examples that are unclear to men: You can tell that she likes you if she "flirts" with you. LOL. -Many men wouldn't be accurately able to tell if she is flirting out of romantic interest, or if she just has a bubbly personality. Also, oftentimes we interact with that woman we may like in a group setting so it's also difficult to identify if YOU SPECIFICALLY are the one she is being bubbly for. From her perspective she's like I was TOTALLY flirting with him but to us it looks like you were just being personable to everyone in the group lol. Women, also often ignore us when they like us so they may be super bubbly but on the other side of the group and then go back to their friends like "HE DIDN'T APPROACH ME I GAVE HIM EVERY SIGN AND HE DIDN'T PURSUE ME. uh yeah. we had no clue. Some women get closer and some stay away. It's impossible to tell lol. Another seemingly clear example that is unclear is: If she engages in conversation with you. If you're a poor conversationalist, then sure, if she's engaging with you, and not even your mom wants to sit down and talk to you, then this imaginary woman is probably engaging because she likes you, but for anyone who is a social butterfly and a good conversationalist, it's quite normal to have engaging conversation with guys and girls alike. I would have literal zero clue if a woman was engaging because she liked me romantically as opposed to engaging with me because she simply liked conversing with me. On her end, she would equally have zero clue if I was engaging with her for the joy of the conversation rather than romantic interest because I enjoy thought-provoking dialogue so that's what 90% of all my conversations look like regardless of who I'm speaking to or what they look like. An example from the woman's perspective would be eye contact. You could tell ladies, that if a man makes direct eye contact then he is likely interested, but I was raised to make EVERYONE i speak to feel heard in conversation. So my goal in conversation is to have them feel like, for the duration of our conversation, they are the only one that exists to me. And PEOPLE, both guys and girls alike are not used to experiencing that and misconstrue it as romantic interest when it's not. Everyone receives the same level of focus in discussion. Another unclear example: She will laugh louder around you. Bruh. What. That's one of those tips that makes perfect sense from the woman's perspective but zero from the man's perspective. Of course this is an obvious sign to the woman, because she already KNOWS her own laugh. She understands the volume she normally laughs at and what her "real" laugh sounds like etc so she can easily make it louder for the guy she likes but he's not operating from the same baseline as her. From his perspective, it's just a laugh so she walks away like wow I was laughing extra hard at his jokes (to signal that I like him) and he's walking away like "LOL I am freaking funny." If he's cracking jokes, he probably believes he is funny so her laughing is not out of the ordinary. People usually laugh at his jokes so her laughing in no way signals to him that she is laughing because she likes him. - Wrote this comment because I sincerely find it so fascinating how men / women so often miss the mark in conversation LOL!!! Would love to hear everyone else's thoughts :)
I’ve noticed the woman I’m dating doing some of the things you mentioned which are really attractive to me, but I never thought of them as her pursuing me. Now that I see her as pursuing me in a feminine way, I’m even more attracted to her!
Well, okay, thank you for the tips. Now wondering if a couple of the ladies at work might be interested. Wasn't really looking, but also not 'not looking' either. FLIRT Keep the content coming. You rock! 🎸
Very interesting points mentioned in this video. What I've been thinking is now confirmed, and that is that I have never been pursued by a woman. Maybe in the next life!
Awesome message this girl is doing everything that you said. ❤ the issue is she is very shy. I'm praying for God's will to be done. It must be his will. I'm praying for marriage 💑
I’ve watched a few videos pertains to work but I need more videos from a work environment perspectives. It’s difficult to flirt on a professional environment. My mindset don’t just go to flirt mode when I’m at work. I tried to sneak a few lines here and there to tease ladies at work but I don’t feel comfortable flirting cause it’s a bit unprofessional. What’s a professional way to flirt?
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Love your vids. What if she put me in the friend zone from beginning but about 1 year later, she starts showing these signs a little ??? Btw, she’s a co-worker.
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Surprised! I only recently stumbled on a couple of these signs at a recent gathering. So I started to research this further and discovered your videos that revealed even more signs. Now every time I see her I notice more...but if it wasn't for your videos I would have missed everything 😀
It can be. That's why it is so very important that you see signs that she is interested before you pursue. These videos will help. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html
It's this simple women are subtle, even when pursuing. Unfortunately most men DON'T DO SUBTLETY. We start to catch the hint when they just tell us what they want.
As it should , you should just say what the hell you want period. Nobody is a mind reader and will know what you want. Plus there’s plenty of women who does this body language signs crap, just to have guys come up to them so they can reject them for some ego boost. SMH that’s why modern men don’t approach. And to be honest , men that YOU want will barely approach because attractive men get approach by girls often. So you should come up to the guy you want and just say hi. Then the guy will take care of the rest. You don’t have to approach or say something cool, just say HI
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Flirt.
No it didn’t surprise me that woman pursue as well.
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I've dated some beautiful women in my time and the one thing they all had in common is that they were so much more insecure than less attractive women. I've found that a woman with personality and sense of humor is SO MUCH MORE attractive than the "look at me women." Guys, if you want to be happy with a woman, learn the concept of "beauty is only skin deep." Some of the most beautiful women l know are women l got to know for reasons other than physical attraction...
I agree. A woman that's less pretty but has some depth to her personality, is far more desirable than a woman that is a 10/10 for looks. Although she'd have to be at least a 6 in order for this to work.
A fact
Why do people always think beautiful women don´t have a personality and a sense of humour??? This is so absurd! We can all be either boring or fascinating people regardless of our physique. I´ve known plenty of less attractive women who, without even knowing me, treated me like trash just for being beautiful. Was that not due to their own insecurity?
You have to first be physically attracted to someone in order to want to get to know them on a deeper level and learn more about their character and personality. Who has ever looked at someone and said to themselves "I don't find that person attractive but I still wanna pursue them"?
@@aodh5966 Maybe a 7. Hoping for an 8.
She shows her love for me with pepper spray.
That's sweet 😍
Nothin' like a little SPICE in your relationship, huh?
@@newenglandball8789 you know it.🤣
@@duanemcclure8324 plenty of it too😂 next week she is buying a taser to keep the old electricity alive🤣
@@scottb7539 Hey, wazzup Cool. I had to check back on this one. So, did she get it last week? I'll bet she did! I haven't seen a post yet on "If ya like her, here's how to take her home" post yet. They used clubs on the Flintstones. But, this is 'modern man' so we use "high tech" now - electro shock therapy!
The main ones who pursue me are either really old, have alot of kids or really overweight. The struggle is real😬
Your singing to the choir my man !
Also the ones you want, try to purposely hide these traits so not to be so obvious. It's hard as what. It's like you find out from a friend, after she gets with another dude, that she liked you.. But she was pokerface the whole time
@@LIL-MAN-THE-OG Been there...a few times..&.. what's worse..all her friends know, & keep it secret. Found that out in person.
@@RetroCaptain Yeah I couldn't deal with the idea of pursuing girls that friends would get involved, be like you fancy her don't you. For the first time I feel like I can approach girls without people wanting to know my/their intentions via Chinese whispers.
Heavy ones won't run away from you, date a heavy chick lol
Someone once said " Dont try to understand women, only women understand women and they hate each other "
Al bundy was a true hero
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Great video! A great message to encourage women to engage in the process and let a guy know when she’s interested. Guy’s don’t mind pursuing, as you stated it’s in our nature. But, there’s a fine line between pursuing and chasing. If a guy doesn’t get signals from a woman that she’s interested (some of which you pointed out in the video), he many times will not pursue further. Pursuing when there is no reciprocal interest shown by the woman is chasing...and that’s a no no😊.
Well said! Thanks for watching!
The dream eventually becomes a nightmare.
EXACTLY RIGHT 😂👍💯%
It was so painful when i didn't know how different women pursue from men!! But thanks to you coach now i know.
Happy to help! Have a happy day! 😀
I’m keeping my masculinity Coach Melannie I’ve grown rather attached to it.
Carefull little buddy. Theres a fine line between a romantic gaze accross a crowded room and the piercing stare of a psychopath. Lol. Lol. God bless and thanks again for the valuable information
I learned something new Melannie: Women are feminine. 😂 That made my day.
I’m happy it helped you!😀
@Esoterique That's what I was going to say. Quite a lot of woman today behave like men.
@coach Melannie really impressed and enjoy watching when you act it out to emphasize how it looks like when a girl is pursuing you ( like when you said " hey, come talk to me and overcome with shyness " , You are marvellous. 👍🏾✌🏾😘
Great! I finally know the meaning behind the signals I've never received.
Let's fix that! Have a great day 😀
@@CoachMelannie I liked your jacket in this video, Melannie.
@@timbayliss4153 A snake jacket!! But I keep listening her advices :D
@@lemonacidrounds7293 Dear clairvoyant, assuming you are calling yourself this, because you are one, could you concentrate on someone calling himself @arachnophobia for me, who told me my family sounds similar to his one, calling himself Bayl? Unless the rest of his sentence was cut off. I told him I was related to the Welsh Hannah Rees tartan, so would any psychic powers that you have, be able to tell me if he is my long lost Welsh cousin from Australia called Peter, with a sister called Alison, who had the parents Larry and Betty Bayliss, having also a Larry that used to be Larry Farthing?
Thanks for all the hardwork u put into ur videos. I really enjoy them.
I am happy that I came across this video. I am totally lost with these women in regards to knowing if someone likes me. Now I'm equipped with a clue they drive me crazy. Thanks Melannie I usually crack a joke, but not today.
I'm so happy it helped! God bless 🙏
She does all these things for me and more but I think she is afraid to commit because she went through a bad divorce, but I will always be here for her when she needs me! Lately I have needed her and she has always been here for me! I couldn't be happier!
She makes herself available and its very cool when she likes you.
I really enjoy your clips both visually and audibly, especially since I learn a lot from them. many thanks for these remarkable clips.👏👏👏
So very kind of you to say! Thank you! God bless 🙏
Omg she likes me 🥺💜I like her too she is my crush thankyou so much sis it's help alot ☺️☺️
Best way to know if someone likes you is if their body is positioned facing you. I normally watch out for the feet position, a high indicator is if their feet is facing you. This body language cue never fails me .
Interesting! Who taught you that? What are some other things you noticed,
I’m not Wylie Coyote pursuing the Road Runner here Coach Melannie.
Thanks Melannie for the video. I'm terrible at interpreting body language, the video has helped me know what to look out for 👏👏
*FLIRT*
I’ve only seen women pursue guys who were either Bad Boys, Robert Pattinson types, male models, body builders etc not common ordinary joes like myself. Great video with awesome information! Keep up the great work! Count me in on FLIRT😎❤️👍🏻
When women flirt, it can be aggressively subtle... if that makes sense.
I only wish I had discovered you about 10-20yrs ago. A lot of females were interested in me and I completely missed the signs. Plus you're a Christian and have Christian views. That helps alot!!! Thx Coach time to get back in the game and win.
Thank you for the informative video Coach Melannie. A shame that I am sort of a shy guy because females have been doing some of these things around me. I never really noticed any of them because of my lack of experience with women.
Also please do the video of Signs she is flirting with you, thank you.
Glad it was helpful! Here are some videos on flirting! ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XsyVNxjH6S9-iRe-S5q4rO.html Let me know if you have any questions! God bless 🙏
The struggle is real my man. Thankfully I've found a wonderful woman who I'm pursuing with fruitful results!
SURPRISED! FLIRT!
This is such awesome info. Thanks Melanie.
Most of these things I just never knew before.
I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏
I like how you come across. I'm really learning a lot. I've slowly went from Dog to Gentleman. Thank you for your science based facts ❤️
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Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏
Wise words from “Big Daddy Long Stroke” the “gentleman”. Lol
Im so glad you did this video. There’s someone I think likes me but I’m not sure if she is pursuing
That’s great!😀
These tips aren't too surprising to me cause you've taught is these things before. Flirt!
I'll make some on flirting soon.😀
Thanks! Keep 'em coming! Oh yeah..."Flirt". Even if we are familiar with the signs it's still good to be reminded.
Exactly! Thanks for watching!
Honestly,these days when asking a woman for a date twice constitutes stalking,forget pursuit,and take up collecting oatmeal.
and washing cats, and doing electrical connections hot while standing in salt water!
Im a switcher truck driver and the woman im interested in is another driver, whenever we have downtime she always to me exclusively and wants to talk. Whenever she sees me she waves at me. She has revealed all her personal information to me about her 5 failed, abusive marriages and says she will never have another relationship, yet when I compliment her, her eyes absolutely glow. I'm becoming absolutely crazy about this woman and I could see us together for the rest of my life. Yesterday I bought her a couple of small gifts and she loved them and commented no one has ever done this for her before. She said she has never been loved and my job now is to break through her barriers and prove to her im different and would love her like she's never dreamed for the rest of her life! She's got some health issues, but that doesn't matter to me, I'm crazy about her!
I’m not a professional and I am not saying this is your situation BuT be careful. This sounds identical to my x wife. She only had 2 failed marriages tho. My x is a sociopath with borderline personality disorder. Not a good time. I saw a couple red flags before saying I do but she seemed so great, so amazing. In her stories she was ALWAYS the victim. She did everything she could to make things work, never been loved, never got flowers etc. I’m just putting it out there because you sound just like I did 5 years ago. I see your post is a year old. I hope your situation wasn’t like mine
I like your videos, and I like that you’re Christian. You make the flirting/ dating game sound fun and exciting like it should be
"Flirt."
Sweet! More coming soon! 😀
More relevant today than ever.
brilliant as always, very educational , you are the best in business, no doubt about it. God Bless.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏 Have a happy day!
FLIRT. Did it surprise me to learn that women pursue too ? No. Only because I have been pursued before. Yet, the relationship did not last very long between her and I due to her being quite toxic. Yet, I recovered well, and it was a lesson learned. I do know there are some quality ladies out there that pursue and flirt. Maybe I'll meet one of them. Thanks for another good video Melannie. God bless you.
Good for you for getting out of that! There really are good women out there and one of them will be so happy you found her! God bless! 😀
This week my work crush was blatantly obvious with her signs this week with me. While I stood in the office, she walked in, and then fixed her hair and clothes while looking at me, and I looked at her too. Then on Tuesday, she sat in the office, pointed herself at me, knowing full well I was gonna react and talk to her. On top of her body language signals, which I get plenty of. I'm gonna ask her out again soon.
Not surprised at all that women flirt, I've noticed it many times.
I love your comments😊
From what you’ve been saying looks like I’m on the right track just like I thought. Thanks for reconfirming mine own observations, she’s also Christian gods family ties etc everything good. Fantastic person. I even go to church with her regular first time in over 15 years. And I love it.
I’m so happy to hear that!👍
@@CoachMelannie thank you for your videos it’s definitely a morale boost reconfirming my thoughts in a positive way. Good job, don’t stop.
Agree with the underlying message. The problem these days though is that with a number of women displaying masculine traits, men are becoming detached from the underlying body language.
Sadly, that does happen. However, high quality women will still have feminine body language. I hope that helps! Have a fantastic day! 😊
I once liked a woman and we became best friends and I would visit her at her work from time to time and laugh always happy to see each other. Then I thought she likes me she really likes me. So I asked for her phone number . She said, I don't give out my number. Big let down. We are still friends.
Lots of great 👍 👌 tips, I have experienced many of them, thank you.
One that I’m a little perplexed about. A new coworker, that I noticed immediately, approached me after about a week of me always saying hello and making brief conversation. Introduced herself, got my name and said she liked me, that I had good energy. We work shifts that overlap so we never have much time. It’s always positive though. She’ll stop what she’s doing, stands facing me with a smile when we talk. We’re playful too. Ex. I threw some paper on the floor by her and said she needed to clean her area. Laughing she said I’ll get you back and she did. It’s a month or so later now and last week I asked her about seeing a movie. We don’t really know each other and I’m 14 years older than her. As I’m talking and about to ask this was on my mind and I got nervous. It came out like a friend request 🙄. She said she always just waited to stream movies but thanks for the offer. Nothing has changed with us and today I asked a favor. After she did it I thanked her then she said she only did it because I’m her favorite. As she walked away and around a corner I said, I like you too….more than most. She looked back around the corner with a big smile then left. Did I “friend zone” myself or was I already there?
You almost there, keep playful and start on emotional connection, talk about deeper subject with her (childhood, family, animals, passion and future), don’t expose your emotion too soon, playful and light flirt is key, and keep elevate the favor you ask her, like borrow her favourite books, ask her help you buy a coffee,… and return her some favor. Keep observing her reaction on small favors you asked her, you will get what she thinks about you.
Yeah dude, you friend-zoned yourself. But it's probably for the best, romance in the work place is a disaster waiting to happen.
Very good information! Never had thought of it like you explained it.
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for your kind comment!😀
Some of the tips in the video are very straightforward but some of them are not as clear as they seem to be (By no fault of yours Coach Mel).
Examples that are clear:
She makes eye contact with you and then bashfully looks away. Noted. Got it.
Positioning her body towards you. Not a surefire sign but in tandem with others. Definitely
Brushing up against you and bumping into you. Yes. I've noticed (usually younger) have tried that approach with me
Examples that are unclear to men: You can tell that she likes you if she "flirts" with you. LOL.
-Many men wouldn't be accurately able to tell if she is flirting out of romantic interest, or if she just has a bubbly personality. Also, oftentimes we interact with that woman we may like in a group setting so it's also difficult to identify if YOU SPECIFICALLY are the one she is being bubbly for. From her perspective she's like I was TOTALLY flirting with him but to us it looks like you were just being personable to everyone in the group lol. Women, also often ignore us when they like us so they may be super bubbly but on the other side of the group and then go back to their friends like "HE DIDN'T APPROACH ME I GAVE HIM EVERY SIGN AND HE DIDN'T PURSUE ME. uh yeah. we had no clue. Some women get closer and some stay away. It's impossible to tell lol.
Another seemingly clear example that is unclear is: If she engages in conversation with you. If you're a poor conversationalist, then sure, if she's engaging with you, and not even your mom wants to sit down and talk to you, then this imaginary woman is probably engaging because she likes you, but for anyone who is a social butterfly and a good conversationalist, it's quite normal to have engaging conversation with guys and girls alike. I would have literal zero clue if a woman was engaging because she liked me romantically as opposed to engaging with me because she simply liked conversing with me. On her end, she would equally have zero clue if I was engaging with her for the joy of the conversation rather than romantic interest because I enjoy thought-provoking dialogue so that's what 90% of all my conversations look like regardless of who I'm speaking to or what they look like.
An example from the woman's perspective would be eye contact. You could tell ladies, that if a man makes direct eye contact then he is likely interested, but I was raised to make EVERYONE i speak to feel heard in conversation. So my goal in conversation is to have them feel like, for the duration of our conversation, they are the only one that exists to me. And PEOPLE, both guys and girls alike are not used to experiencing that and misconstrue it as romantic interest when it's not. Everyone receives the same level of focus in discussion.
Another unclear example: She will laugh louder around you. Bruh. What. That's one of those tips that makes perfect sense from the woman's perspective but zero from the man's perspective. Of course this is an obvious sign to the woman, because she already KNOWS her own laugh. She understands the volume she normally laughs at and what her "real" laugh sounds like etc so she can easily make it louder for the guy she likes but he's not operating from the same baseline as her. From his perspective, it's just a laugh so she walks away like wow I was laughing extra hard at his jokes (to signal that I like him) and he's walking away like "LOL I am freaking funny." If he's cracking jokes, he probably believes he is funny so her laughing is not out of the ordinary. People usually laugh at his jokes so her laughing in no way signals to him that she is laughing because she likes him.
- Wrote this comment because I sincerely find it so fascinating how men / women so often miss the mark in conversation LOL!!! Would love to hear everyone else's thoughts :)
I’ve noticed the woman I’m dating doing some of the things you mentioned which are really attractive to me, but I never thought of them as her pursuing me. Now that I see her as pursuing me in a feminine way, I’m even more attracted to her!
thank you for the info.she asked if i wanted to do a couples massage, now i know it is a good sign
I’m not going to give my masculinity away to a woman who I just met Coach Melannie like some gigolo.
Flirt. Surprise, so I've been pursuing in a feminine way.
I’m happy it helped you!😀 More to come soon.
Well, okay, thank you for the tips. Now wondering if a couple of the ladies at work might be interested. Wasn't really looking, but also not 'not looking' either.
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Keep the content coming. You rock! 🎸
Thanks for your kind comment!🙏 I'm happy this was helpful!
Very interesting points mentioned in this video. What I've been thinking is now confirmed, and that is that I have never been pursued by a woman. Maybe in the next life!
You can turn that around! Have a great day 😀
You need to do one online since that’s how us young people meet now
love it😊 how they pursue men now i know.ty Maam u save me😊
Happy to help! God bless 🙏
Watching you talking definitely makes my little heart melting 🤤
In my opinion when a girl goes out of her way to hug you thats a good sign she really likes you. Great video Melannie! Flirt
That is a good sign! 😀Thanks for watching!
The more you like someone the closer you want to be. Some people I could hug all day and others I couldn't be in the same room with.
@@dallasstiles118 An obvious yet very GOOD POINT!
@@davidpaulplanchard3104 sometimes people don't observe the obvious. To me communication underlies everything.
Only if a woman hugs you and your wallet is not missing, then you know that she likes you.
Excellent video Melannie💪 Very well explained👍😃
Thank you! 😀 That is so kind of you to say!
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same
Ur very good lookn Melannie😍🙃
Agreed
Love ur videos ❤️
Does it works?
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Great video. I am surprised. Your a great teacher
Awesome message this girl is doing everything that you said. ❤ the issue is she is very shy. I'm praying for God's will to be done. It must be his will. I'm praying for marriage 💑
I’ve watched a few videos pertains to work but I need more videos from a work environment perspectives. It’s difficult to flirt on a professional environment. My mindset don’t just go to flirt mode when I’m at work. I tried to sneak a few lines here and there to tease ladies at work but I don’t feel comfortable flirting cause it’s a bit unprofessional. What’s a professional way to flirt?
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as soon as i heard "Christian"... SUBSCRIBED! thanks for the video sister!
Thanks for the sub!
Flirt for sure please make this video and use a crayon because us guys need stuff spelled out in crayon lol
More coming soon. Thanks for telling me! 👍
Surprised!
Love your vids. What if she put me in the friend zone from beginning but about 1 year later, she starts showing these signs a little ??? Btw, she’s a co-worker.
Try doing the same little things back, if she responds positively, then slowly increase
Thank u for the knowledge a few liked me in the past more then one 1 to 7
What if women won’t even speak to you or look in your direction? I’m assuming that’s not a good sign...
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She is so adorable! Her boyfriend/husband is a very lucky man!
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Awesome video and thank you for sharing 👍🌷
Well pursuing rather than flirting.😂
Flirt!
8:22 "I'm actually thinking about doing a video on farting" 🤣
you hit the nail on the head!
Thank you, that’s so kind of you to say!🙏
Surprised! I only recently stumbled on a couple of these signs at a recent gathering. So I started to research this further and discovered your videos that revealed even more signs. Now every time I see her I notice more...but if it wasn't for your videos I would have missed everything 😀
I’m happy my videos are helping! 😀
Regarding the pursuer/pursued dynamic you described… these days, if a man pursues its taken the wrong way by most women.
It can be. That's why it is so very important that you see signs that she is interested before you pursue. These videos will help. ua-cam.com/play/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN.html
I find your thumbnails super funny 😂😂 I don't know why !! 😂😂
thanks , i subscribed
Melannie, thank you for the video! If find one day a girl at least 10% of your brains and smile, i get married straight away
I'm 100% oblivious to the signs that a woman is attracted to me. Consequently, I've missed many, many possibilities with some very attractive women 😢
If she starts talking to me and suddenly gives a long breathe out, she's interested! I'm writing this down, Melannie! Great video!
A woman may take a deep breathe because of your cologne.
I’m happy it helped you!😀
She just bored as hell
@@animal79thecat Or maybe she's taking a deep breath before she beat box.
Coach Melannie I Iike you.
SURPRISED !!
Love your voice 😊
Thanks for watching! 🙏
Thank you, Flirt
Flirt n thanks i needed these advises
You have a beautiful smile coach .
Surprised! You are Amazing...
Yes Amen Sister I want to hear a video on flirting,
as always none of these signs have ever happened to me. I truly know I am undesirable
These videos would have helped me so much before I met my first ex-wife.
Another great video! Please keep making more!
Thanks! Will do!
Signs she is flirting!!!
Good job with this video👍🏽
Thank you! 🙂
What about introvert women? Do they still pursue the same?
It's this simple women are subtle, even when pursuing. Unfortunately most men DON'T DO SUBTLETY. We start to catch the hint when they just tell us what they want.
That's why I'm teaching you how to read the signs! Take care! 😀
As it should , you should just say what the hell you want period. Nobody is a mind reader and will know what you want. Plus there’s plenty of women who does this body language signs crap, just to have guys come up to them so they can reject them for some ego boost. SMH that’s why modern men don’t approach. And to be honest , men that YOU want will barely approach because attractive men get approach by girls often. So you should come up to the guy you want and just say hi. Then the guy will take care of the rest. You don’t have to approach or say something cool, just say HI
Flirt. Really enjoyed the vid 👍
Awesome! Thank you! Have a great day!😀